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This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Nicole Rodriguez as they continue their series on divorce. Nicole’s parents divorced when she was 11 years old & the trauma she experienced affected her through childhood and into her marriage. In the episode, she shares how her marriage suffered because of these wounds as well as the healing she has received through her relationship with the Lord, her spiritual parents & her husband’s willingness to walk alongside her.

• The impact divorce has on childhood & marriage.

• Children have a deep need for their parents. 

• How to process the pain of divorce. 

• The role spiritual parents have for children of divorce. 

• Bring divorce wounds to Jesus in adoration. 

• Undone Retreat (virtual or in person)

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This week, Jake and Bob are joined by Joey Pontarelli, the founder and president of the ministry “Restored”. After finding a lack of help after his parents’ divorce, Joey decided to begin ministry with “Restored” to offer practical guidance and support for teens and young adults from broken families. Jake, Bob, and Joey discuss the wounds that come from divorce, their personal experiences, and practical advice on how to respond to this woundedness. 

• If there isn’t any transformation in the wounds, then the sins we fall into, as a remedy, make sense. They don’t work, but they make sense. 

• We often don’t want to face these wounds, so we try to outrun them. But we can’t outrun our wounds. We’re made for more than that.

• The Lord understands why you struggle with each particular sin. It doesn’t surprise or scandalize Him. And He loves you where you are. 

• Divorce is a wound of broken love. So the medicine can only work when you reach the wound. Love is what heals. 

• Relationship with God is the primary healing element and agent. Give God your attention, quality time, and trust Him. 

• Consume great content that involves trauma and healing. Seek out coaching - a therapist, spiritual director, or mentor. Have a good community and deep relationships.

• For a healthy marriage - spend time with a couple who has a healthy marriage. 

• The temptation in marriage is to harden your heart and to close yourself off. But instead, we are called to tenderness and vulnerability.

• Restored Ministry Website 

• RTG Anatomy of a Wound Series

• Adam Young’s Podcast: The Place We Find Ourselves

• Restored Ministry Podcast

• Restored Ministry Podcast with Sr. Miriam 

• It’s not Your Fault (Book by Joey)

• Restored Ministry courses  

• 5 tips to navigate the holidays in a broken family guide

• Jay Stringer

• Jason Evert

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Happy New Year! Jake & Bob kick off the year by answering YOUR questions. They field listener submitted questions on topics including parenting, loneliness, anxiety, scrupulosity & maturity.

• Cultivating an environment of unconditional love as parents

• Our kids are observing and modeling our behavior more than we realize

• How to handle loneliness when it pops up in our lives

• Dealing with anxiety & scrupulosity 

• The similarities & differences between healing & maturing

• Fr. Boniface on Matt Fradd’s Podcast

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Merry Christmas from Jake & Bob! This week, they discuss the healing power of Jesus' infancy narrative. They recognize that this time of year can be difficult for many people and offer some solutions. Jake shares some of his triggers & wounds around the Christmas season so Bob leads him through a deep prayer and meditation. It’s a beautiful insight into the work that they both do. We hope you all have a very blessed Christmas. 

• The healing power of the Christmas story & Jesus’ infancy narrative

• Dealing with difficult feelings and triggers during the holidays

• Bob leads Jake (and us) in a prayer through the difficult parts of the Christmas season.

• The role animals can play in our attachment healing

• Life Restoration Website

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Sr. Miriam James Heidland shares her experience of being adopted. Jake, Bob & Sister have worked together for years and start the conversation off by discussing her impactful ministry, finding identity in Christ & her healing journey. She then shares about finding out she was adopted & the struggles & graces experienced along the way. 

• Getting to a place where you are secure in your own identity that people’s reaction to you doesn’t affect you.

• A discussion exploring why Sr. Miriam’s ministry connects so well with people. 

• “The man who loves to walk will go further than the man who loves the destination.”

• We are all adopted sons & daughters of God.

• What it means to truly belong.

• Sister shares her experience of finding out that she was adopted.

• Experiencing the kindness of the Lord that doesn’t pull away or act harshly.

• Sister shares the struggles and graces during her healing process.

• Sr. Miriam’s Podcast Abiding Together

• Sr. Miriam’s Books

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Chris & Michelle Benzinger share their story of adopting two children from Haiti after a hurricane devastated the country. They share with Jake & Bob how they weren’t planning to adopt until the Lord put it on their heart. They discuss how they navigated integrating these children into their family & how there was joint restoration for everyone involved. Michelle also talks about her experience with Safe & Sound protocol & it’s role in her healing journey.

• Before adoption, the call from the Lord was “Will you welcome them into your heart?”

• How Chris & Michelle’s community helped to welcome their new children.

• The disorientation of the kids coming to a new place, with new people and they don’t understand the language.

• Joint restoration for everyone involved. Healing of attachment wounds for Chris & Michelle as well as their kids.

• The importance of listening to your body in healing & a discussion of somatic methods.

• Our minds and body are so connected that healing in one helps the other.

• Safe & Sound Protocol explanation & it’s usefulness in our own healing and especially in our parenting.

• Chris’ Website

• Michelle’s Podcast Abiding Together

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This may be the most special episode of the podcast yet! Jake & Bob are joined by Bob’s sister, her husband and his 48 year old nephew Brian that Bob just met for the first time this year! They gave up their son for adoption after a teenage pregnancy and the wounds were still there for everybody after over 40 years. Then, by nothing short of a miracle, the family was reconnected! It’s a beautiful story of grace, healing, reconciliation and God’s abundant love.

• Nick & Kathy the experience of giving up their son for adoption after a teenage pregnancy.

• Brian shares his story of finding out he was adopted and his experiences with both families.

• “In my deepest wound, I saw Your glory and it dazzled me.”  -St. Augustine

• The beauty of the reunion of the family after many years apart.

• Offering support and encouragement to other parents who gave babies up for adoption.

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Jake & Bob kick off a new series on adoption. We have all been impacted by adoption, whether through family situations or spiritually since we are all adopted as sons and daughters of God. Jake & Bob tackle heart dynamics of adoption, separation anxiety & ruptures of primary relationships along with defining dissociation & attachment trauma. This series will have something for everyone!

• We have all been impacted by adoption, whether through family situations or spiritually. We are all adopted as sons and daughters of God.

• The heart dynamics of adoption, separation anxiety & ruptures of primary relationships.

• Attachment & attachment trauma is a popular topic in pop psychology. 

• Healthy attachments are formed between the mother and child in the womb.

• An explanation of the different types of memory.

• Nothing is beyond the scope & capacity of God to heal.

• Dissociation is a God-given dynamic where we self-protect but it’s not meant to be permanent.

• The Places we Find Ourselves Podcast by Adam Young

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Trust is vitally important to the healing process. Jake & Bob discuss broken trust, healing relationships where trust has been broken and the barriers we put up that prevent us from building trust in our relationships. They share about how trust issues can affect our relationship with God,  those closest to us & how we can rebuild that trust.

• Trust is vitally important to the healing process

• Gen 3:10 “I was afraid because I was naked so I hid.” This verse is foundational to the human experience and a barrier in our relationship with God and others

• Wrestling with trust issues in marriage

• The first attack the enemy made in the garden was against trust

• Jesus still had wounds after His resurrection, but they were healed and became signs of glory as opposed to wounds of death

• Working through beliefs and vows that affect our ability to trust

• Chastity & the Refusal to Grasp article

• Dr. Karl’s Lehman’s Website https://www.kclehman.com/ 

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Dr. Karl Lehman joins Jake & Bob to discuss his Immanuel Approach to healing. He shares from his years of training and extensive therapy work on how to use this approach to bring people to deeper healing. Dr. Karl has been a leader in the field for decades and we are overjoyed to share this conversation with you.

• Dr. Karl explains the Immanuel Approach to therapy. He shares from his years of training and extensive work with people on how to use this approach to bring people to a place of healing.

• Encountering Jesus in both positive and negative memories. 

• Dr. Karl shares how he has trained other professionals and volunteers to use this approach and the results it has gotten in people finding healing, particularly in 3rd world countries.

• Dr. Karl shares his personal experience with healing ministry and common blockages in people’s minds and spirits.

• Finding healing in the the presence of the Eucharist

• How to know when we are truly encountering Jesus

• Dr. Karl’s Website https://www.kclehman.com/ 

• The Immanuel Approach Book https://www.immanuelapproach.com/

• Fr. Basil’s Immanuel Approach in Catholic Theology

• Outsmarting Yourself Website https://outsmartingyourself.org/

• Mind and Brain Book https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Brain-Separate-but-Integrated-ebook/dp/B0CC17X3X7

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We’re back! Jake & Bob return after a summer break tan & ready to dive deep into the topic of what healing really is. They also share insight into the problem of suffering, how to shift mindsets when it seems like healing isn’t coming & a consistent reminder that God is always up to something good.

• Healing is an essential part of the Church’s mission as our mission is Jesus’ mission & healing was an important part of His ministry.

• Healing is more than just physical. 

• Suffering is an essential dimension of redemption

• “Healing is the restoration of our God-given glory” -Jake Khym

• God is always up to something good, even it we can’t see it at the moment

• Healing is bringing about a greater good from whatever is experienced

• The dangers of disassociation 

• Suffering is the door into healing, not the absence of healing 

• Pope Benedict’s Book “Jesus of Nazareth”

• “Be Healed” by Bob Schuchts

• Catechism of the Catholic Church

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This week, Jake and Bob talk about what it means to “process your emotions” and give ways to practically do that. They share that the steps to regulate emotions include awareness, feeling the emotion, naming the emotion, and relationships. They create a scenario where they navigate someone through a lot of intense emotion and bring it back to a wound. Through this scenario, they share the importance of uncovering a wound in order to bring about healing.

• The steps to regulating your emotions include: Awareness, feeling the emotion, naming the emotion, & relationship.

• How parents respond to their emotions affect their children’s emotions & how to be aware of this as adults.

• They walk through a counseling scenario to recognize the root wound behind specific emotions.

• They discuss praying against, breaking, renouncing, & discovering any lies surrounding a vow.

• What “bodily anchor” means & how the nervous system has feeling sensors across the body that can be labeled as a specific emotion

• Dr Daniel Siegel presenting a Hand Model of the Brain

• The Limbic System

• 4 Year Old Mic'd up at Hockey

• Flowers for Algernon by Daniel Keyes

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This week, Jake and Bob dive deeper into their series on emotions. They discuss how the Church often seems to deemphasize our emotions and the culture overemphasizes them which can leave us confused about the role emotions play in our lives. They discuss how having emotions is natural and good and how we can best integrate them into a holy lifestyle. They also make the important distinction between an emotion, a wound, and a spirit.

• What is an emotion and why is it there?

• Holiness does not mean getting rid of emotion

• Jesus as the model for how to have emotions

• Understanding the emotion of anger

• Distinction between an emotion, a wound, and a spirit

• How to process our emotions in a healthy way

• Feeling & Healing Your Emotions by Conrad Baars

• Life Model Works YouTube channel

• Eph 4:26-27

• RTG Anatomy of a Wound Series

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Bob and Jake introduce a new series on emotions. Bob shares some personal exciting news to kick off the conversation & then he and Jake discuss what emotions are, where they come from & how we regulate them.

• What are emotions, where do they come from & how do we regulate them?

• Some exciting personal news for Bob!

• How to deal with your feelings maturely

• How emotions have caused the breakdown of many families

• Social Media battling for your attention & its impact on your emotions

• St. Thomas Aquinas on dealing with emotions/passions

• Lessons from negative emotions & where they stem from

• How emotions & love are connected

• The distinction between emotions & feelings

• “The A.I. Dilemma” Video

• Feeling & Healing Your Emotions by Conrad Baars

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Jake and Bob answer questions submitted from the audience. They take time to diligently answer questions about spirituality & healing that Jake and Bob are able to answer based on experiences within their extensive careers in psychology. The questions range from what type of media we should be consuming, dealing with intrusive thoughts, working through vows & finding a spiritual director. 

• How to discern whether or not you should watch movies with sinful actions in them. Art vs. Morality

• Dealing with intrusive thoughts. Should we focus on them or let them pass?

• Working through unhealthy vows

• Discussion of the future series topic, transgenderism

• Finding a spiritual director

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• JPII Healing Center

• Life Restoration Ministries

• Jason Evert on the Matt Fradd Show

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This is the final installment in our series on "Healing Our Primary Relationships." Jake & Bob close this series by discussing how we can love others better. They open up about areas of struggle that can arise in relationships and the various avenues available for coming towards solutions with your spouse, friends & coworkers. Jake and Bob also pull important lessons from the teachings and lives of prominent Catholic role models like St. Mother Teresa and Pope St. John Paul II.

• Living out the greatest commandment

• We can better share the love of God with others when we have received His love first

• The importance of maturity in relationships, especially marriage 

• An explanation of the “art” of loving: caring, respecting, responding & knowing

• Understanding the intentions of your partner & the importance of listening in loving

• Practical tips on how to love others more fully

• Stepping into love and vulnerability & sharing growth areas

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Jake and Bob break open the conversation they had in the previous episode with Dr. Peter Malinoski and dive deeper into the key points from that episode. This leads to a discussion where Jake and Bob talk about their own struggles with feelings of rejection and how to process that. The guys also talk about forgiving and loving our past selves, dealing with anxiety & the dangers of self-reliance.

• Were there “parts” before the fall? 

• A deeper discussion into how “parts” play a role in our personal lives.

• Inviting Jesus into tough situations.

• Forgiving and loving our past selves. 

• Confession is approaching a merciful God who loves us, not just temporarily removing his hatred towards us.

• How to deal with anxiety.

• The dangers of self-reliance. We can’t fight pride with more pride.

• Examining the areas of self-hatred in our lives. Ask the Father how He sees you there.

• RTG Episode 79

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Jake and Bob bring on fellow podcast host & Catholic psychology leader, Dr. Peter Malinoski. Dr. Malinoski is a clinical psychologist and the president and co-founder of Souls and Hearts. In this episode, Dr. Malinoski talks about the different “parts” of ourselves and the process of getting those parts into a more perfect unity. This process will help us to live the Greatest Commandment more fully because when we love ourselves, we can love our neighbor more fully.

• In order to fulfill the greatest commandment, we must also love ourselves

• We have many different “parts” of ourselves that we need to try to bring in to more perfect unity

• Sin fragments us

• The role of a therapist in helping us become more unified

• Turning to love in the face of challenges

• The process of integrating a “part” of ourselves  into the whole

• Building a better relationship with our self

• Working through self-hatred 

• Souls and Hearts Website. Dr. Peter’s work that grounds psychology and human formation in a Catholic understanding of the human person

• Dr. Malinowski’s Podcast “Interior Integration for Catholics” Particularly Eps 71 & 73, 93, 100, 102 & 104. The show is a long-form solo podcast focused on helping Catholics come to embrace their identities as beloved, cherished little sons and daughters of God the Father and Mary our Mother.

• CCC 330 - http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/330.htm

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Following up on their series about healing and deliverance, Jake & Bob move into a conversation about healing our primary relationships with God, ourselves and with others. This stems from a recent talk that Bob gave with the assistance of his new book “Do You Want to be Healed.” Bob shares his own story of healing and how some key stories in the Gospels aided in his journey.

• Theology and anthropology go hand in hand for healing

• Dealing with anger without shifting to timidity

• How to understand the balance between the justice of God and the mercy of God

• Bob shares from his own personal experience about finding healing from trauma through the compassion of another person.

• How Jesus interacted with broken people in the Gospels like the woman at the well.

• The idols that we put in front of our relationship with God.

• “Jesus' desire for us precedes our desire for Him.” -Bob

• Jesus changes the woman at the well’s relationship with Him, herself and her community.

• “Worshiping the true God is the only integrating factor in our life.” -Bob paraphrasing the Catechism

• “Do You Want to be Healed” Bob’s new 10-day retreat book with 10 Scriptures about healing that lead to prayer & action. 

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In this episode, Bob and Jake reflect on all of the great conversations that have happened with their guests through the course of the season. They share their favorite insights that they gleaned from their guests and share their own final thoughts on discernment & deliverance.

• The Spiritual & Human components of our nature

• Renouncement of the lies of the enemy

• The different doorways we create that can allow the enemy to come into our lives

• Why deliverance ministry matters

• A review of the 5 Keys

• Closing thoughts on the discernment of spirits

• Summary of The Rules for Discernment

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In this episode, Jake and Bob sit down with Fr. Boniface Hicks, the director of The Institute for Ministry Formation at St Vincent Seminary in Latrobe, Pennsylvania. They discuss the role that spirituality plays in the healing of trauma and the numerous ways that opportunities for healing reveal themselves. There are several instances in this episode in which the hosts discuss the ways that Father Boniface's advice has led to healing within their own lives.

• Ways to distinguish between our own inner voice and God's voice

• How a soul may find change

• A discussion about some of the things that may bring about transformation

• How the formation of our thoughts and feelings are linked

• How a spiritual director's duty includes helping relationships grow

• Why spiritual direction is different than counseling

• Attunement and why it is necessary for healing

• The Institute for Ministry Formation

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Jake & Bob are joined by their friends from Unbound Ministry, Neal and Matt Lozano. The conversation takes us through the journey of lifelong faith and how to spot the tactics used by the enemy in attempts to shake our foundations set in Christ. Neal and Matt share experiences from their relationships with Christ and their interpersonal relationships. They also share their system called the 5 Keys to Freedom, that helps to re-aim our sights back to the Father in times of trauma which leads to deeper healing.

• Discussion on the tactics used by the enemy & how evil spirits work primarily with deception.
• Acts of faith, such as renouncement, take away the weight of thoughts brought on by the enemy because of our inherent identity in Christ.
• Being able to identify the schemes of the devil are an essential part in implementing the 5 Keys to Freedom.
• The explanation of what it means to obtain deliverance.
• Working through the 5 Keys help to release you from the bondage in your life and to more fully see how Jesus is at work in you.
• Discussing how to seek God for revelation instead of blaming God for trauma and how that simple adjustment can contribute a great deal towards healing.
• The power that resentment has to control someone's life and how to break that connection through forgiveness.

• Matt and Neal’s Podcast - Open Doors: Conversations with Heart of the Father
• “Unbound” by Neal Lozano
• Heart of the Father Website

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Jake & Bob are joined by Fr. Justin Brady who leads the Office of Healing, Deliverance and Exorcism in the Diocese of Boise and has a long history of connection to our hosts. They continue the conversation on discernment and deliverance that began last week with Fr. Tim Gallagher. Fr. Justin shares insights from his work in deliverance ministry on how we can be brought back into right relationship with God, ourselves and our neighbors. 

• Fr. Justin shares his conversion story and how he got involved in his faith and his current work as a priest.
• Embracing the fullness of Catholicism but uniting the tradition of the faith with movements of the Holy Spirit today through things like the charismatic renewal.
• Exorcisms are reunifying a person into right relationship with themselves and with God.
• True Religion is living charity: loving God and our neighbor as ourselves.
• “God desires your healing” -Fr. Justin
• The power of combining spiritual work like deliverance prayer with professional counseling.
• A walk through of healing/deliverance prayer and an idea of how exorcisms work.
• A lie is a lie that needs to be healed, no matter whether the lie comes from myself or a demon.

• Previous Episode with Fr. Tim Gallagher
• Fr. Tim’s book “The Discernment of Spirits”

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Jake & Bob are joined by Fr. Timothy Gallagher for a discussion on how discernment and healing go hand in hand. Fr. Tim is the author of the incredible book “The Discernment of Spirits” that teaches us how to utilize St. Ignatius’ rules of discernment. He shares the process of discernment while Jake & Bob combine his knowledge with their expertise on healing. The process of healing and discerning God’s will for us work beautifully together.

• Discerning what is from the voice of the Holy Spirit and what is from the voice of the evil one.
• The rules of St. Ignatius are an invitation to hope.
• “The more healing that can happen on both the physical and psychological levels, the harder the enemy’s task becomes.” -Fr. Tim 
• The first step in discernment is to notice any movements, thoughts or stirrings of the heart. Identify whether it is from the good spirit or the bad spirit and then take the appropriate action. If it is from the good spirit, take it in and be guided by it. If it is from the enemy, reject it.
• The discernment process happens repeatedly throughout the healing process. It is continual and helps you know how to move forward.
• Our parents/guardians are the first representatives of God to us. We may often hear God’s voice as our parent’s voices which can either be positive or negative. If we believe lies about ourselves from our parents, we need to work through those so that we don’t hear those lies coming from God’s voice in our hearts. We need to invite Jesus’ to speak His truth in our hearts.
• In times of desolation, never make a change.
• Renouncement prayer is a way to practically renounce lies and accept the opposing truths.

• Fr. Tim’s book “The Discernment of Spirits”
• Fr. Tim’s Discerning Hearts Podcast
• Free Discerning Hearts App
• Fr. Tim’s website

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Jake and Bob continue their series on working through hopelessness to find hope. When we feel hopeless, we often avoid God because we feel ashamed, guilty or unloved. In these times we only see God as a judge, pointing out our failings. But God is also our Savior who loves us even in the places we feel unloveable. We can try to find hope through things or people but this will let us down. God is the only one who can provide us with the hope we desire. Our hosts walk us through how to find hope again through an Encounter with the God who loves us.

• Hopelessness closes our hearts to the Encounter with God.
• When the sickness of our lives becomes evident to us, we often only see God as Judge and not as Savior.
• Jesus loves us in the places we feel unloveable. 
• Healing is a real encounter that brings us into wholeness, truth and communion.
• If you lose sight of the Savior, Christianity is meaningless.
• When we put hope in things or people that aren’t God, they become idols, and idols will always disappoint us.

Spe Salve by Pope Benedict XVI (Encyclical)

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The season of Advent is a time of hope and waiting: preparing for the birth of Christ and welcoming Him into our hearts in a new way. But a season focused on hope can often reveal the places in our hearts that are hopeless. Jake and Bob kick off a new series on how to move from hopelessness to hope. They discuss how a lack of hope can often stem from a lack of trust, patience and intimacy with the Lord. Listen as they share some helpful shifts in mindset to grow in the virtue of hope this Advent season.

“The person who loves intimacy with Jesus will get farther in the healing journey than the person who just wants to be healed.” -Jake Khym

• How the holidays and the Advent focus on hope can often reveal where we feel hopeless

• We need to desire relationship with Jesus even more than the healing He can give us. He wants to give us good gifts but desires our hearts more than all.

• A lack of hope can often come from a lack of intimacy and trust.

• Trust is the currency in the economy of relationship.

• “Gratitude is an antidote to hopelessness.” -Bob Schuchts

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The seasons of Advent and Christmas can bring up difficult family dynamics in our hearts, as well as a deep desire for a more whole and holy family. In today’s episode, Jake and Dr. Bob welcome Sr. Miriam James Heidland onto the podcast to talk about her new Advent devotional, “Behold” which touches on these dynamics through relationship with the Holy Family. The Holy Family provides a healing lens for us to discover new depths and completeness in our understanding of motherhood, fatherhood, childhood and our own family life. Links to the Behold weekly videos can be found in the resources section below. 

Key Quote:

The hidden life at Nazareth allows everyone to enter into fellowship with Jesus by the most ordinary events of daily life - CCC 533

Key Points:

• Why Sister loves speaking about healing
• Family dynamics around Advent and the Christmas season
• Sister’s new Advent book and how it draws us into relationship with the Holy Family and our own family relationships
• Reflections on Mary’s motherhood
• Ideas on how to tangibly connect with the Holy Family
• The analogy of radio waves and how we can tune into the Lord’s kindness and tenderness
• Jake, Bob and Sister share about sculpting the Holy Family and the safety that it creates
• The importance of receiving our identity in different stages of life (ie. husband, wife, parent) before giving from it
• The difference between someone who is simply giving to give, and someone who is giving in order to receive
• How can we embody the Holy Family for one another?

Practical Application/ Reflection Questions:

1. Which member of the Holy Family are you most drawn to? 
2. Allow yourself to be loved by the Holy Family this Advent, especially inviting Mary to mother you and St. Joseph to father you.
3. Pray about how you can embody the Holy Family for others in your family this coming Christmas season.

Resources: 

• Behold: A Guided Advent Journal for Prayer and Meditation, Sr. Miriam James Heidland (book)
• Trailer for Behold Advent series (video)
• Behold: Introduction (video)

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Episode 69: Forgiveness (Part 2)

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Show Notes:

In this incredibly practical and reflective episode, Jake and Bob walk listeners through a thirteen step process of forgiveness, offering guiding insights along the way. You may wish to find a quiet, prayerful place to listen to this episode in order to apply the exercises. We are praying for you!

Key Quote:

For with the judgment you make you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get. - Matthew 7:2

Key Points:

• Surrender as part of the Christian approach to forgiveness
• Thirteen steps to forgiveness:
• Step 1: Ask the Holy Spirit to show you who you need to forgive.
• Step 2: Picture the person in front of you and pay attention to how you feel.
• Step 3: Make an account of the debt they owe you.
• Step 4: Imagine yourself telling them what they did to hurt you and how it has affected you. If you can, notice that this is not the person they were designed to be. Separate their dignity from the evil they have done.  
• Step 5: Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you what you believe about yourself based on that incident.
• Step 6: Renounce the identity lies.
• Step 7: Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal the judgements towards the person who hurt you.
• Step 8: Renounce those judgements.
• Step 9: Ask Jesus to forgive the person. Invite the person to stand at the cross with you.
• Step 10: Forgive the person.
• Step 11: Pray a prayer of blessing over that person, ask God to bless them in the opposite way they hurt you.
• Step 12: Ask Jesus to seal his forgiveness and heal the wounds.
• Step 13: Thank God for his healing. 

Resources: 

• Forgiveness Meditation with Sister Miriam James Heidland
• Episode 12: Anatomy of a Wound (Part 1)
• Episode 66: Judgment, Mercy and Healing (Part 1)

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Forgiveness is not an easy topic. It’s intimately connected to our hurts and areas that need healing. But forgiveness is also misunderstood. Building off the previous series on right judgment, mercy and healing, Jake and Dr. Bob begin a two-part series on forgiveness, diving into the etymology of the word, addressing our misinterpretations, and challenging us to look at how Jesus models forgiveness. They look at how forgiveness is the perfect marriage between right judgment and mercy, and go deep into the Catechism to unpack the spiritual and human reality of this virtue. Be prepared to pause, rewind and listen to this episode again and again. 

Key Quote:

It is there, in fact, "in the depths of the heart," that everything is bound and loosed. It is not in our power not to feel or to forget an offense; but the heart that offers itself to the Holy Spirit turns injury into compassion and purifies the memory in transforming the hurt into intercession. - CCC 2843

Key Points:

• How right judgment and mercy combined equal true forgiveness
• Why dividing right judgment and mercy creates an awful reality 
• The etymology of the word ‘forgive’
• Why we hold on to unforgiveness 
• Misinterpretations of what forgiveness is
• Reconciliation and restitution
• The pain and shame on both sides of hurt that can become identity lies 
• Two powerful paragraphs from Catechism of the Catholic Church on forgiveness
• Forgiveness will not always be followed by restoration of the relationship
• The places we’re not willing to forgive may be places where we’ve created idols in our lives
• Forgiveness and the connection with trust and surrender to God
• How forgiveness didn’t diminish Jesus’s dignity
• Applying what’s been discussed to the sex abuse crisis in the Church 

Resources: 

• Catechism of the Catholic Church, para 2840
• Catechism of the Catholic Church, para 2843
• Episode 66: Right Judgment
• Episode 67: Mercy 

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When we understand and exercise right judgement then we can offer and receive mercy, which leads to healing. Jake and Bob break down the role of mercy with helpful analogies and discussion to draw a more complete picture of healing. They also take a look at what happens when we get judgement wrong.

Key Quote:

Without the presence of the merciful Father, we are delivered up to our faults, without any possible remedy.  There would be no forgiveness of error or sin.  No place for weakness, frailty, or failure, all of which are nonetheless a part of our lives. - Fr. Jacques Philippe, Priestly Fatherhood

Key Points:

• Bob illustrates with examples how mercy cannot exist without right judgement 
• The opposite of wrong judgement leads to false or cheap mercy
• Mercy is the what leads to healing
• A sound anthropology is needed for real healing
• Mercy is a combination of truth and love
• Hesed = an Old Testament word for God’s mercy and love toward his people, an undeserved kindness and generosity
• Misericordia = a heart for our misery
• Jake and Bob share personal experiences of experiencing hesed and misericordia
• The importance of remembering our encounters with God’s mercy
• Notice what captivates you, and notice what challenges you

Resources: 

• Episode 66: Judgement, Mercy & Healing (Part 1) - Right Judgement
• Episode 14: Anatomy of a Wound (Part 3)
• Priestly Fatherhood, Fr. Jacques Philippe (book)

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In response to the previous series on same-sex attraction, Jake and Bob begin a new series on Judgement, Mercy and Healing from a Catholic lens. The first topic on the table is Right Judgement as they address the tension between ‘we have to judge’ and ‘we can’t judge’.

Key Quote:

Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us - Matt 6:12

Key Points:

• Jake and Bob revisit some feedback from the series on same-sex attraction 
• The umbrella of truth that underpins the entire podcast 
• Catholic anthropology is the basis of good therapy
• Subjectivity as defined by JPII
• How the parable of the prodigal son illustrates Bob and Jake’s approach to the podcast
• Defining right judgement and false judgement
• The tension between “we have to judge” based on objective truth and “we can’t judge” because justice belongs to the Lord
• The important distinction between sharing truth and the way in which it’s shared
• The backlash against judgement has manifested in the woke community
• Cancel culture
• What Scripture says about judgement

Resources: 

• Anatomy of a Wound series

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Jake and Bob take time to debrief the series on Same Sex Attraction and address feedback from listeners.

Key Quote:

For our struggle is not with flesh and blood but with the principalities, with the powers, with the world rulers of this present darkness, with the evil spirits in the heavens. - Ephesians 6:12

Key Points:

• Jake and Bob address some listener feedback about the series
• The distinction between a pastoral approach and a philosophical or theological approach to the conversation
• Can heterosexual and homosexual sins be weighted the same? 
• The denial of truth that’s pervasive in our current culture
• Why it’s problematic to apply the term ‘conversion therapy’ too broadly
• Bad therapy vs good therapy
• The difference between being ‘value neutral’, imposing an ideology or respecting a client’s freedom in therapy
• Defining healing and the healing process
• Jake and Bob close with their hopes for this past season and a reveal of what’s coming next

Practical Application/ Reflection Questions:

1. Did you experience a reaction of grief during any episodes in this series? Note when and why and spend some time in prayerful reflection.
2. Consider the distinctions presented between a pastoral approach vs a philosophical or theological approach to this topic. How do you find yourself more inclined to respond to others? Where might you need to adjust your approach to bringing more truth or more love to the conversation?
3. What’s your response to Jake and Bob’s distinction between ‘good therapy’ and ‘bad therapy’? 
4. Which guest did you appreciate hearing from the most and why?

Resources: 

• Begin our series on Same-Sex Attraction here
• Living the Truth in Love: Pastoral Approaches to Same Sex Attraction, Janet Smith & Fr. Paul Check (book)

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In this extended episode, Jake and Bob sit down with Christopher Dowling for a deeply nuanced conversation examining the the Catechism of the Catholic Church, ‘camps’ that exist around the Church’s teaching on homosexuality, and how we can love one another while fundamentally disagreeing on how to approach same-sex relationships. Christopher came out as gay in 2018 and is currently engaged to be married to another man. He and Bob know one another from their time in shared ministry, and for the first time revisit how the events of 2018 affected them individually. This is a powerful conversation that we hope is one small step towards healing and relationship as we respectfully dialogue about grief and hope, doubt and faith, sadness and love. 

Key Quote:

We stand in different camps, but where we can be united is in reverencing each other, and wanting to understand each other’s heart. - Jake Khym

Key Points:

• Christopher shares his background in the Church, including several major ministries that he’s worked for or spent time with
• Jake and Christopher define what sort of ‘camps’ they see emerging in the conversation around Church teaching and homosexuality
• Christopher shares his experience of ‘coming out’ and choosing to pursue relationships with men
• Jake pauses the conversation to assess how people may interpret the questions that he and Bob are posing to Christopher 
• Christopher and Bob speak for the first time about how they both felt when Christopher came out in 2018
• The men take time to address the personal and unique grief and hurt that is at the heart of much conversation around homosexuality and the Church, and how we can do better to listen to one another
• Christopher answers the common question, ‘How can I love you without compromising my beliefs?’
• Christopher speaks to the difference between accepting vs affirming
• The men unpack how the pastoral tone changes around this topic when we’re in relationship with each other and truly ‘sitting across the table’ instead of in a faceless forum
• A discussion ensues about paragraph 2357 in the Catechism of the Catholic Church that references the unexplained ‘psychological genesis’ of same-sex attraction and the ‘great variety of forms’ it has taken throughout history
• The episode concludes, as Christopher puts it, with lingering feelings of doubt, grief and sadness, but simultaneously faith, hope and love

Practical Application:

1. Do you find it difficult to listen to and receive someone who has an opinion or lifestyle that’s different from yours? Practice having a conversation with someone you love without interrupting them to share your own opinion right away.
2. Pay attention to how you feel throughout the episode. What emotions come up for you? Do you feel defensive or grieved by anything that is said? Do you feel encouraged? Consider your involuntary feelings and allow yourself to feel these things without jumping to immediate conclusions. 

Resources: 

• Catechism of the Catholic Church para 2357

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Jake and Bob sit down for an honest conversation with Hilde, a woman who would have once called herself a ‘gay Catholic.’ Hilde’s lifelong attraction to the truth made her feel intensely divided between the Catholic faith she was raised with and a lifestyle of same-sex relationships. Then, a spontaneous trip to Medjugorje changed everything. Now, Hilde defines herself more through her identity as a daughter of God than her sexual desires. Hilde’s unflinching retelling of her story is a beautiful example of how God always pursues us. 

Key Quote:

Being Christian is not the result of an ethical choice or a lofty idea, but the encounter with an event, a person, which gives life a new horizon and a decisive direction. - Deus Caritas Est (Benedict XVI)

Key Points:

• While wrestling with some deep questions, Hilde found a copy of ‘Be Healed’ on campus and ended up connecting with Bob for the first time
• Through her friendship and conversation with Bob, Hilde slowly grew trust and encountered inner healing
• Hilde shares her upbringing as the youngest in a large, orthodox Catholic family
• During a time of difficulty in her relationship with her mom, Hilde was innocently drawn into a relationship with an older woman which became sexual
• Hilde wrestled with questions of her identity and conscience while entertaining same-sex relationships, and some poor spiritual advice furthered her exploration
• In a moment of turmoil and prayer, Hilde felt drawn to go to Medjugorje and it was a transformative experience
• Hilde exhorts priests and spiritual leaders to share the truth in love about the Church’s teaching, beginning with finding our identity as sons and daughters rather than focussing on our attractions
• Hilde continues her story, sharing what happened after Medjugorje and how she feels a strong new desire to become a saint, but doesn’t feel called to marriage
• Each layer of healing comes with facing different shame but also experiencing deeper relationship with Jesus and new freedom

Practical Application:

1. Listen to this episode with a pen and paper in hand. What stands out to you? Make notes about key ideas that stand out to you. Reflect on why you highlighted those particular themes.

Resources: 

• Be Healed, Dr Bob Schuchts (book)
• Redeeming Love, Francine Rivers (book)

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This episode, Jake and Bob sit down with AJ Benjamin, the author of “When the Son Frees You.” They discuss his journey of healing that led to his writing a book. AJ discusses his childhood wounds, the pathway of his healing and how it led to a fulfilled life with his wife. 

Key Quote:

“The purification of our hearts has to do with paternal or maternal images, stemming from our personal and cultural history, and influencing our relationship with God.” (CCC 2779)

Key Points:

-AJ’s journey of same-sex attraction.

-His insistence on not labelling people as gay or straight because in his mind labels box people in and people are more than their sexual orientation.

-A discussion of gender/sexual fluidity

-Working through wounds from childhood to find healing

Practical Application:

1. Look into the work of Desert Stream Ministries and Living Waters small groups. 
2. Reflect on your own relationship with your mother and father and how it influenced your view of God and your experience your sexuality. 
3. Explore one of the resources below.

Resources: 

• When the Son Frees You: A Catholic Man's Journey of Healing From Same-Sex Attraction (Book by A.J. Benjamin) 
• Desert Stream Living Waters 
• Theology of the Body, Pope John Paull II (writings)
• Theology of the Body Institute (ministry from Christopher West)

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This week in our series on same-sex attraction, Jake and Bob speak with Andrew Comiskey, founder of Desert Stream Ministries. Desert Stream helps people of all every sexual orientation begin to heal areas of sexual brokenness. Andrew brings his humor, passion, faith and care to this conversation. Andrew desires to offer a safe space within the Church to those who are seeking integration, wholeness and healing in areas of sexuality and we hope you experience the Father’s merciful heart through him in this episode.

Key Quote:

The heart is our hidden center, beyond the grasp of our reason and of others; only the Spirit of God can fathom the human heart and know it fully. - CCC 2563

Key Points:

• Andrew introduces himself and his ministry
• The common ground of sexual healing no matter your sexual orientation and/or brokenness
• Why small groups at Living Waters are made up of women and men working through a variety of brokenness toward greater integration
• Andrew expresses his desire to see the Church be known for being a place that is safe, merciful and healing
• Andrew shares his testimony of experiencing same-sex attraction and encountering evangelical Christianity in his youth which set him on a path to reconcile his desires to Christ
• Andrew and Bob discuss some formative writings on this subject, especially those of Leanne Payne - they address why she’s sometimes seen as controversial
• Andrew addresses some cultural shifts that have occurred in our view of homosexuality as well as enduring truths
• Jake and Bob summarize their conversation with Andrew and offer further clarification and explanation of what was discussed

Practical Application:

1. Look into the work of Desert Stream Ministries and Living Waters small groups. 
2. Reflect on your own relationship with your masculinity or femininity. 
3. Explore one of the resources below.

Resources: 

• Andrew Comiskey 
• Desert Stream Living Waters 
• Theology of the Body, Pope John Paull II (writings)
• Theology of the Body Institute (ministry from Christopher West)
• Leanne Payne
• Crisis in Masculinity, Leanne Payne (book)
• Broken Image, Leanne Payne (book)
• The Healing Presence, Leanne Payne (book)
• Restoring the Christian Soul, Leanne Payne (book)

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Jake and Bob begin a series on same-sex attraction with the desire to bring hope, clarity and understanding to this topic and the Church. Why this series? We have seen this topic impact many people who are trying to navigate this conversation well. As we move forward, we want to be sensitive and use great reverence toward the people that this directly affects, including our listeners. We believe that love and charity are essential in this discussion, as well as humility in the pursuit of truth. The depths of the human heart are holy ground.

Key Quote:

The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God's will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord's Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition. - CCC 2358

Key Points:

• Jake and Bob introduce the topic, acknowledging that it is sensitive and may bring up many feelings for people
• We believe that the Church teaches infallibly what is true, and we also believe that this topic can be discussed in the Church with greater charity and humility
• Desires themselves are not inherently wrong, and disordered desires extend beyond same-sex attraction
• We define what is meant by ‘psychological genesis’ and why the Catechism of the Catholic Church does not attempt to explain a psychological genesis for same-sex attraction
• How to simultaneously honor the objective reality of who we are and the subjective reality of what we experience in our sexuality
• Trauma is inflicted on those who experience homosexuality when they are not treated with dignity
• Behind every disordered desire is a search for something good, for love
• Jake and Bob acknowledge the mystery and the unknown behind several dimensions of this topic 

Practical Application:

1. Read and reflect on the section of the Catechism of the Catholic Church regarding the Sixth Commandment. 

Resources: 

• Catechism of the Catholic Church paragraphs 2331-2359
• Episode 41: Sexual Healing (Part 5)

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In this episode, Jake and Bob speak with Renee Lemire, a podcast listener who used Dr. Bob’s book, “Be Restored” as a guide for a personal healing retreat that led to tremendous healing. Her story has aspects that are common to us all, and we pray that this gives you hope that healing in your own life is possible and doesn’t need to be costly or complicated.

Key Quote:

“And they implored Him that they might just touch the fringe of His cloak; and as many as touched it were cured.” - Matthew 14:36

Key Points:

• Renee shares how she went from a destructive party lifestyle in highschool to finding comfort in the Church and ultimately experiencing an encounter with Jesus at Florida State University that changed her life
• After the initial conversion of her heart, Renee experienced a feeling of disintegration that she needed healing in other areas of her life
• “Be Restored” gave Renee words to understand her wounds and what needed to be healed
• Renee shares the origin of the wounds in her identity as a daughter
• Renee recounts her experience of going on a personal retreat and using Dr. Bob’s book as a guide to healing
• Renee shares insight into what she tangibly did during her retreat and how she let the Holy Spirit lead

Practical Application:

1. Ask the Holy Spirit to be your guide in the healing process.
2. Consider taking time out of the year ahead to use “Be Restored” as a guide for personal healing. 
3. If you can’t take a day of time to conduct a personal retreat, simply read through “Be Restored” at home. 

Resources: 

• St. Paul’s Outreach (SPO)
• Brotherhood of Hope  
• Be Restored, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book)
• Episodes 57 & 58: The Healing Process, Restore the Glory
• Florida State University - Catholic Student Union

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Jake and Bob walk step-by-step through the practicals of the healing process using the Immanuel Approach. This episode is packed with practical content that you’ll want to revisit again and again. 

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Key Quote:

[In the Immanuel process], the goal of healing is connection with God - Jake

Key Points:

• The disposition of our hearts and receptivity to grace
• How self awareness helps us respect the process
• Our interpretation of events matter - do we fear our triggers or see them as God wanting to heal us?
• A complete walk-through of the steps in the healing process, based on the Immanuel Approach (see the practical application)
• We can have pre-verbal memories that are attached to wounds
• Types of barriers: vows, judgements, lack of forgiveness, unconfessed sin
• Renunciation of vows and the announcing of God’s truth/ blessing

Practical Application:

1. Draw your attention to God. Recall a positive memory of connection with God or others and allow it to overflow in an expression of gratitude to Him. This is called the ‘Immanuel Moment.’
2. Now, bring to mind a moment of recent distress or disconnection. What is it that you’re feeling in that moment? What are you ‘believing in the feelings’?  
3. Ask Jesus to show you the root of the distress; don’t try to figure it out yourself.
4. Identify the painful experience and corresponding belief.
5. Ask the Lord to reveal what He desires for you to know. 
6. If you begin to feel ‘stuck’ in the process, there is likely a barrier present. Address the barrier using a corresponding technique such as renunciation.
7. Test the fruit: go back to the original memory and original distress and sense if there is peace. If difficult emotion is still present, go back and repeat the relevant steps.  

Resources: 

• The Immanuel Approach
• Anatomy of a Wound (Restore the Glory series)
• Be Healed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book) and the seven signs of healing
• Be Restored, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book) and appendix with healing prayer scripts
• Be Transformed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book) 
• Healing content on the Hallow App with Dr. Bob Schuchts and Sr. Miriam James Heidland, SOLT
• Healing the Whole Person (retreat)  

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Jake and Dr. Bob get practical about the healing process and provide examples of what it looks like to allow Christ to be the Healer. 

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Key Points:

• Examples of inner healing happen throughout Scripture
• The pattern of healing through Christ looks like this:
• Always begins with an encounter with Jesus, Him seeing the person and their true dignity
• Jesus speaks the truth with hope and love
• Jesus offers himself as a remedy
• The Raising of Lazarus is a great analogy of our woundedness and healing through Christ
• There has to be awareness and desire for healing to take place. This takes humility.
• We have to understand what what it means to be human in order to enter into healing
• Begin the process of healing by deepening self-awareness and identifying where you are currently struggling
• Let Jesus be the Healer, rather than worshiping the process
• Some insights and specific examples modeling prayer ministry as part of the healing process
• Examples of internal barriers to healing

Practical Application:

Begin your healing journey by praying about questions that Dr. Bob posed: 

1. Where am I struggling in my relationships? 
2. Where are the areas of habitual sin? 
3. Where are the desires that are disordered in my life, even if I’m not acting on them? 
4. Where am I struggling emotionally in situations?

Resources: 

• Episode 55: Security, Maturity, Purity (Part 3)

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Jake and Dr. Bob are joined by two special guests: Fr. Burke Masters and Dr. Tom Nelson. As experts in their respective fields, the four men discuss integrated healing of the whole person: body, soul and spirit. They draw on their experience of working together at healing retreats through the JPII Healing Center and share how integrated healing has changed the way they minister. We hope this blesses you!

Key Points:

• Healing has to do with wholeness and communion - no matter what angle you’re approaching healing from (body, soul, spirit), it’s important to keep the whole person in mind
• Sculpting, ‘Visio Divina’ and the power of touch for integrated healing
• Dr. Tom and Fr. Burke’s experience with leading healing retreats based on Dr. Bob’s model
• Dr. Tom discovered integrated healing as a skeptic who attended a retreat from Dr. Bob
• Fr. Burke also discovered integrated healing Dr. Bob’s and his book ‘Be Healed’
• Dr. Tom and Fr. Burke share how practicing integrated healing has brought them joy in their fields

Practical Application:

1. Consider whether you give weight to one area of healing over the others: body, soul and spirit (mind). How could you approach your own healing or the journeys of those around you in a more integrated way?
2. Explore a new method of prayer using Visio Divina.

Resources: 

• Be Healed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book)
• Visio Divina

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Jake and Bob conclude the series on Security, Maturity, Purity, by talking about Purity. The development of this area is about much more than sexuality. Purity begins when we orient ourselves towards love by both seeing God and seeing like God. This episode challenges us to see ourselves and others more through God’s eyes with the healing gaze of love.

Guiding Quote:

Blessed are the pure of heart, for they shall see God. - Matthew 5:8

Key Points:

• How the Gospel story of the Healing of the Blind Man of Bethsaida illustrates Security, Maturity and Purity
• Purity of heart means seeing God and seeing like Him.
• Seeing like God means not just seeing someone’s brokenness but seeing them in their wholeness… this includes ourselves
• When we talk about purity, we need to look at the heart not just actions
• We must encounter God in his fullness through security and maturity before we can truly embrace the wholeness of God’s love for us
• At the root of an addiction or impurity is an absence of love. When we invite God (love) into our impurity there can be healing. Do we trust him enough for this?
• It’s inadequate to simply talk about ‘right or wrong’ in the Church
• An indicator of purity is the quality of relationship we offer to others: being able to admonish another and at the same time love them through a problem they have
• Impurity is any deviation from love
• The power of the healing gaze of Jesus

Practical Application:

1. Where is there addiction or impurity in my life? Where am I not living in freedom, and what does it mean to hold Jesus’s hand in that area?
2. What does it look like to admonish others and be ready to love them through their struggles?

Resources: 

• None this week

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Jake and Bob continue their series on Security, Maturity and Purity by looking at the difference between false maturity vs maturing into our true selves through yoking ourselves to Christ. 

Guiding Quote:

The real Son of God is at your side.  He is beginning to turn you into the same kind of thing as Himself. He is beginning, so to speak, to "inject" His kind of life and thought into you; beginning to turn the tin soldier into a live man. The part of you that does not like it is the part that is still tin. - CS Lewis, Mere Christianity

Key Points:

• Why Maturity comes after Security in the order of healing
• The true purpose of healing is to help us love well, rather than to make life easier
• We find ourselves when we make a gift of ourselves, and this sacrifice requires maturity
• False maturity can come from woundedness. We want to mature past the false self into our true selves.
• Jake breaks open the analogy of Jesus’s yoke which helps us understand submission to Christ as a path to maturity
• Jake and Bob each share from their stories about their personal journeys to maturity

Practical Application:

1. If you haven’t listened to Part 1 on Security, go back and begin with that as the foundational episode of the series. 
2. Consider the analogy of the yoke. How might your frustrations in the Christian life or healing journey point toward an area of your life in need of maturity? 
3. Pray for Godly mentors (or ask someone you know for wisdom and guidance) who can help you mature in areas of false maturity. 

Resources: 

• Security, Maturity Purity (Part 1)

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Join Jake and Bob as they begin a new series discussing Security, Maturity and Purity. These three things are not only foundational to our healing, but are essential to the entire Christian life. In this first episode, Jake and Bob spend time unpacking what they mean by Security, including the role our parents play in shaping this for us, and how to begin healing in this area. Bookmark this series because you’re going to want to keep coming back. 

Guiding Quote:

The language of faith thus draws on the human experience of parents, who are in a way the first representatives of God for man. [But] no one is father as God is Father. - CCC 239

Key Points:

• Bob shares the story of his eight-day retreat and where the concept of “security, maturity, purity” originated
• RIM (Relationship, Identity, Mission) fits directly into Security, Maturity, Purity
• Security is founded in trust and love
• There’s a direct link between our relationship with our parents and our relationship with God
• Security is foundational to our relationship with Jesus and God the Father
• Some helpful ways to begin healing in the area of security

Practical Application:

1. Be curious about your life story. Ask the Holy Spirit to accompany you as you take an honest look at how you’ve been loved or not loved well throughout your life.
2. What are key moments of security or insecurity in your past? Invite the Holy Spirit to reveal these memories with gentleness and tenderness.
3. Ask, how have you grown in trust in different areas of your life?

Resources: 

• The Immanuel Approach

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After an incredible series on Healing and Leadership, Jake and Bob sit down for one final episode with renowned leadership expert Patrick Lencioni. Lencioni is founder of the Table Group, a consulting firm which has helped businesses across the globe in their quest for organizational health. He is a practicing Catholic and a force behind the Amazing Parish project. Pat opens up about his short fuse (and new peace he's discovered), why people-pleasing is so deadly, and why the only kind of leadership is servant leadership. We hope you enjoy this conversation as much as we did!

Guiding Quote:

Do I want to be a leader because of what it does for me, or do I want to be a leader because it’s a huge responsibility to love and serve others? - Patrick Lencioni

Key Points:

• Pat shares how he met Dr. Bob, began to dive deeper into healing, and how that’s impacted his leadership
• What we might be missing in the story of St. Paul’s conversion
• Why agreeableness is not a healthy position for a leader
• The difference between ‘niceness’ and kindness and love
• What a lack of conflict indicates
• Lencioni’s 5 healthy functions of an organization
• Vulnerability-based trust
• Healthy conflict
• Commitment
• Accountability
• Collective Results
• Why all leadership is servant leadership
• The difference between head level knowledge of faith and heart level relationship with Jesus, truly believing that God loves us uniquely and unconditionally
• Pat demystifies what leaders are like in the business world and and why it’s not as scary as we might think to bring faith into the workplace
• Pat’s advice to leaders: purify your intentions, get healthy (work towards wholeness and integrity), and shepherd the people closest to you

Practical Application:

1. The next time you catch yourself being ‘agreeable’ when you have a different perspective, speak up instead. 
2. Is your faith something that you believe with your head or a person you’ve encountered in your heart? Don’t be afraid to go to God in prayer with the truthful answer. Be honest with him about any areas of doubt in his goodness and love. 
3. Take some time to identify who those 'closest to you' are, who you may be called to invest more of your leadership efforts into and shepherd well.
4. Choose one of the resources to explore more with your team at work or in a small group in your church community.

Resources: 

• Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Pat Lencioni (book)
• The Motive, Pat Lencioni (book)
• The Advantage, Pat Lencioni (book)
• The Working Genius Assessment (online assessment)
• The Simple Reminder (podcast)
• At the Table (podcast)
• The Working Genius Podcast
• The Table Group
• The Amazing Parish
• Be Healed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book)

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Guiding Quote:

I will lead the blind by a road they do not know, by paths they have not known I will guide them. I will turn the darkness before them into light, the rough places into level ground. These are the things I will do, and I will not forsake them. - Isaiah 42:16

Key Points:

• How the Sisters came into contact with Dr. Bob’s work
• None of us pass through childhood without some need for healing because it is such a vulnerable time in our lives
• Sr. Regina Marie shares about a family tragedy that occured in her teenage years and how she found healing when Jesus came into the memory
• Sister reveals how unhealed trauma affected her leadership with the Carmelite Sisters
• What artificial harmony is and how that impacts relationships in a community
• A brief history of the traumatic events which shaped the history of the Carmelite Sisters of the Most Sacred Heart
• What the Carmelite community looks like now that they’ve been through the ‘Healing the Whole Person’ program
• A word to other religious communities who may find themselves in need of healing

Practical Application:

1. Do you find yourself living out ‘artificial harmony’? How might you take the first step to become more integrated in spaces where you tend to do this?
2. In prayer, ask Jesus where he has been in your story. Ask him to show how he has been with you through hard things, even if you didn’t feel his presence at the time. 
3. Invite Jesus into any specific memories which you may find yourself revisiting. Ask him to reveal himself in the scene and to be with you there. 

Resources: 

• Carmelite Sisters of the Most Sacred Heart of Los Angeles (website)
• Carmelite Sisters of the Most Sacred Heart on Facebook
• Carmelite Sisters of the Most Sacred Heart on Twitter
• The Interior Castle, St. Teresa of Avila (book)
• The Collected Works of St. John of the Cross (book)
• Be Healed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book)
• Healing the Whole Person (retreat)
• The 4 Disciplines of a Healthy Organization (video)

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In this episode, Jake and Bob host Brett Powell on the podcast. Brett is co-host with Jake on Way of the Heart Podcast, a conversion for men about journeying through life with a heart fully alive. Brett has extensive experience in leadership within the church and a passion for men’s ministry and fatherhood. Brett gets real about the heart of leadership: relationship with others and relationship with God, and why our relationships at home matter more than anything else as leaders. Thank you, Brett, for the gentle reminder to re-evaluate what we’re prioritizing in light of what’s most important! 

Quote:

We are not the sum of our weaknesses and failures, we are the sum of the Father's love for us and our real capacity to become the image of His Son Jesus. - St. John Paul II

Key points:

• Work is an easy place to go for affirmation, but parenthood is where our true selves show
• How leadership manifests in fatherhood
• How performance orientation can get in the way of unconditional love
• What does ‘freedom to fail’ mean and look like?
• The importance of desiring good for the people you lead
• The heart multiplies itself into the people it leads
• The yoke of Christ vs the yoke we put on others
• The impact of shame and an unhealed heart in leadership
• Why prioritizing relationships in the home matters more than anything else
• The currency of trust is foundational in organizations

Practical Application:

1. Assess: where are you currently putting your resources either in your business or your family life? What does this communicate about your priorities?
2. Read Fr. Jacques Philippe’s article on Fatherhood (below in the shownotes).
3. Choose to do one thing this week to build trust in a family relationship, work relationship and/or a friendship. 
4. Take time to reflect on where you might be living out of a performance orientation. How might this be affecting your relationships and what’s one thing you can do this week to work on that?

Resources: 

• Brett and Jake’s podcast for men: Way of the Heart Podcast
• 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (book)
• Ordering Your Private World (book)
• The Urgent Need for Fatherhood, Fr. Jacques Philippe (article)
• Jason Wilson karate video: There's A Time for Tough Love... Just Not All The Time!
• Cinderella Man scene (video)

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Today, we welcome Peter Herbeck from Renewal Ministries onto the show. Peter would describe his younger self as a troublemaker and rule breaker, acting out because of an alcoholic father. But, when his father miraculously and voluntarily turned himself in for treatment after his sister called on the family to pray, Peter was introduced to healing: clinically and through Christ. It was a step in the right direction, but his healing journey was far from over. Join our conversation as Peter shares how his understanding of ‘healing the whole person’ shifted in his fifties and how this has impacted his leadership forever.   

Key points:

• Peter’s early life was heavily influenced by his father, a war vet who was successful but an alcoholic
• Healing began in Peter’s father’s life with Jesus and then led to healing in the family
• Peter was introduced to counseling during treatment for his father
• Well into his fifties, Peter didn’t address his healing head on, but simply tried to ‘trust God’ more
• Dr. Bob’s book, “Healing the Whole Person” was transformational for Peter and catalyzed his adult journey of healing
• Wounds from Peter’s early life around public failure led to beliefs and vows
• Even though there was grace and no deep sin in Peter’s life, he was experiencing brokenness as an adult because of unresolved trauma
• Healing allows you to walk in the joy of the Lord 
• Acknowledging our brokenness and leaning into Jesus is necessary for leaders

Practical Application:

1. If you are in ministry, ask yourself if you feel pressure to be ‘perfect’ all the time. Find a trusted friend or ministry colleague who you can share honestly with about your shortcomings. 
2. Take the time to ask yourself, “What do I really want or desire?” What is in your heart once you cut past any sin or fear of failure? Journal what comes up. 
3. If you have unresolved trauma in your life, seek support. 

Resources: 

• Peter Herbeck’s blog posts
• Renewal Ministries
• Renewal Ministries on YouTube

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Jake and Bob sit down for a practical and rich conversation with Jackie Mulligan, the Foundress and CEO of Reform Wellness, a functional and holistic wellness practice rooted in Christ. As a successful young woman, Jackie seemed like she had it all together while internally, her striving and performance-oriented attitude was steadily leading her to a place of dysregulation and illness. Jackie began her healing journey in the adoration chapel where she recognized her need to reform her life by placing Christ at the center of everything from her meals to movement to thought patterns. Now, Jackie is leading others to wholeness in Christ by addressing all aspects of their lives through her groundbreaking program: Reform Online. Space is still available in the Lent 2022 intake. 

Guiding Quote: 

“Take care of your body as if you were going to live forever, and take care of your soul as if you were going to die tomorrow.” - St. Augustine

Key points:

• Reform Wellness is both/and a business and a ministry
• Jackie’s journey from high performance to getting Lyme disease to reforming her life to invite Christ to be at the center of everything in her life.
• The foundations of Reform Wellness
• The temptation toward striving, success and the appearance of having it all together
• How Mary’s fiat is the antidote to striving
• What the Reform program looks like and why it’s an investment for anyone: priests, bishops or lay people
• The pillars of Reform Wellness and how Reform defines health
• Jackie provides one practical tip for each of the Reform pillars

Practical Application:

1. What are you allowing to form or deform you?
2. Take some time to pray about how Mary’s fiat can help orient you toward a life reformed in Christ.
3. Which of the wellness tips that Jackie mentions can you begin to implement this week?

Resources: 

• Reform Wellness: reformwellness.co
• Reform Online this Lent
• Reform Wellness on Instagram: @reform_wellness
• Jackie Mulligan’s Instagram: jackie_mulligan

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Jake and Bob welcome a very special guest onto the podcast from Portland, OR: Archbishop Alexander Sample. Appointed a Bishop at the young age of 45, Archbishop Sample has served over 15 years in the episcopate and has recently embarked on a journey of healing that has totally transformed his approach to spiritual fatherhood of priests. Together with Jake and Bob, Archbishop Sample shares some key childhood wounds and healing in parts of his story, demonstrating how healing helps unite us to Christ and those we lead.

Guiding Quote: It’s not the critic who counts… The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood. - Theodore Roosevelt

Key points:

• How the Archbishop began his healing journey about two years ago
• The Archbishop shares vulnerably about father wounds and bullying he experienced as a young boy
• Jake affirms strength in vulnerability and the safety it creates
• How brokenness has affected Archbishop Sample and his leadership, particularly in his relationship as a spiritual father to his priests
• How healing has impacted the Archbishop’s spiritual fatherhood and relationship with the priests in his Archdiocese
• The importance of having people in your life who are instruments of healing
• How a leader’s healing and transparency can lead to healing in the people he leads 

Practical Application:

1. Ask yourself, “Am I willing to do what I ask of others?”
2. What are some parts of your story that you aren’t ready to tell yet? Might you need more healing in these areas? 
3. Write an encouraging letter to a priest or bishop in your diocese. We often only reach out to them when we have a bone to pick! 

Resources: 

• Archbishop Sample’s bio with the Archdiocese of Portland, OR
• Archbishop Sample’s Twitter: @ArchbishpSample
• Forty Weeks to Healing and Transformation for Priests (book)
• Be Healed (book)
• Man in the Arena quote from Theodore Roosevelt

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Today we're excited to launch a brand new, multi-part series on leadership, a topic that impacts everyone. Who is a leader and what is leadership? Why does healing matter for leaders? How can leaders bring healing to others? All these questions and more will be addressed in the weeks ahead as we hear from Jake, Bob and loads of special guests. In part one, Jake and Bob share parts of their own stories as they explore why ongoing healing is essential for anyone who takes leadership seriously.  

Guiding Quote:

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.” (Luke 16:10)

Key points:

• Leadership is everywhere 
• We’re all called to be leaders
• Jesus treats leaders differently and the Bible addresses leadership often
• Character is amplified in leadership
• Leadership is about self-sacrifice even unto death
• How secrecy and avoiding healing affects leadership
• The Holy Spirit is not condemning
• What it looks like to operate out of a place of sonship rather than as an orphan
• Healing is an ongoing process

Practical Application:

1. Reflect on who you are influencing. How are you a leader in ways that go beyond your position at work?
2. Ask yourself the following questions:
   1. How has brokenness affected your leadership?
   2. How has healing affected your leadership?
   3. How are you bringing healing to others?
   4. How do you see the role of healing in leadership?

Resources: 

• Restore the Glory Episodes 12-16: Anatomy of a Wound
• Restore the Glory Episodes 17-22: The Life of Peter

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Bob and Jake continue to answer your burning questions about therapy. Much of this episode is dedicated to clinicians and those studying clinical psychology. Bob and Jake explore more therapeutic and healing prayer methods that contribute to good integrated psychological practice. They also address why your emotional and relational health matters as the therapist in the room. They conclude with some simple advice for aspiring therapists and those seeking therapy, most importantly that Jesus is the ultimate healer and therapists simply facilitate that healing. We hope this episode blesses you!   Key points:

• Recommended areas of formation
• What is EMDR? 
• The overlap between EMDR and inner healing prayer (such as Transformation Prayer Ministry)
• How do you pray in a session and is it okay to pray?
• How do you choose a good therapist and how do you know if it’s a good fit once you start?
• Things to watch out for and avoid in a therapist
• Healthy therapist-client boundaries 
• How attachment can happen and how to navigate that as a therapist
• A few pieces of advice from Jake and Bob for therapists and anyone seeking therapy

Practical Application for therapists:

1. How can I allow Christ to live and work through me in therapy? 
2. How can I continue to grow as a therapist both professionally, spiritually and personally so that I can be a knowledgeable, faithful and healthy therapist?

Resources: 

Recommended areas of formation

• Trauma-focused Therapy such as EMDR
• Emotion-focused Therapy (EFT)
• Play Therapy
• Internal Family Systems Therapy
• Interpersonal Process Therapy
• AEDP
• Family Reconstruction

Integrated methods of formation:

• HeartSync Ministries
• Transformation Prayer Ministry
• Immanuel Prayer

Other resources:

• Intuitus Group Counselling Centre
• Catholic Psychotherapy Association
• American Association of Christian Counselors

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We receive a lot of questions about therapy on the show, naturally. In this first of a two part series, Jake and Bob begin to tackle your burning questions about faith and therapy, whether you're an aspiring therapist or seeking therapy. They cover everything from the client-therapist relationship, to the professionals they have studied and model, to what it looks like to have faith inform your work in an integrated approach to therapy. This episode is packed with suggested resources, so be sure to check out that section below. 

Guiding Quote: 

“Understanding is the basis of care. What you would take care of you must first understand, whether it be a petunia or a nation.” - Dallas Willard

Key points:

• Why therapy is becoming increasingly popular and how it fills a need in our culture
• Thoughts about the ideals and limitations of the client-therapist relationship
• The important link between understanding and care
• Theology of the Body providing a foundational understanding of the human person
• An explanation of integrated therapy, where personal faith complements therapy practice
• Therapists who have informed Jake and Bob’s work
• Suggested resources
• Suggested universities with schools of psychology
• Answering the question: is it better to begin in public or private practice after graduating?

Resources: 

• The Place We Find Ourselves by Adam Young (podcast)
• The Divine Conspiracy, Dallas Willard (book)
• Be Healed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book)
• Healing & Wholeness Catholic Psychotherapist Conference (registration opens January 10)
• Theology of the Body & Healing (Part 1 - Introduction), Restore the Glory series
• Jesus and the Scriptures

Individuals who have impacted Jake and Bob:

• Conrad Baars (Catholic psychiatrist and author)
• John Eldredge and Wild at Heart (Christian therapist, author and writer)
• Dr. Larry Crabb and Larger Story (Christian psychologist)
• Leanne Payne (Founder of Ministries of Pastoral Care)
• Dr. Jim Wilder and Life Model Works (Christian psychologist)
• Dr. Dan Allender (Christian psychologist, speaker, professor)
• Dr. Karl Lehman and Immanuel Healing Prayer
• Henri Nouwen (Catholic priest and author)

Recommended Schools of Psychology:

• Divine Mercy University, Virginia
• Franciscan University of Steubenville, Ohio (Undergrad only)
• Trinity Western University, Vancouver

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Jake and Bob continue their conversation with Christopher West. If you haven’t heard part one, click here to listen because it’s essential for understanding the content of today's episode. 

Join Jake, Bob and Christopher as they take a deep ‘excavating’ look at the transformation and healing of identity through the power of an honest and loving spouse. Sexual healing is more than just the healing of sexual things, it’s a deeper healing of our identity as men and women made in the image of God. Overtime, within the safety of a loving marriage, each man has discovered areas of their hearts that are in need of redemption. Humility before God and our spouses, and a willingness to invite the Lord into our wounds leads to powerful healing and wholeness.  

Guiding Quote: 

“It is not in our power to not feel or to forget an offense; but the heart that offers itself to the Holy Spirit turns injury into compassion and purifies the memory in transforming hurt into intercession.” (CCC 2843)

Key points:

• Sexual healing is more than a healing of sexual things, it’s a healing of our masculinity and femininity
• How the excavation/ archaeological process is a rich analogy for the cooperative healing that can happen between God and ourselves
• The importance of where we find our identity
• The power of an honest spouse in sexual healing
• If we’re not living out our commitment of marriage in love for our spouse, then we’re also not honouring God
• God is the ultimate healer, because there are things that are beyond our human capacity to transform
• The enemy distorts and sets up idols that prevent us from seeing the God’s goodness in world as he intended it
• Breaking open an analogy of self-condemnation: coming ‘face to face with the hunchback in the woods’

Practical Application:

1. Where do I find my identity: in what others think or in how God sees me?
2. What in my life have I turned into an idol, and how might that get in the way of loving my spouse well?
3. How would my perspective shift if I saw the idols in my life as icons providing a window to God?
4. Where have I made agreements with the opinions of others that has led to self-condemnation? Go to the Lord in prayer and ask him to love you back to wholeness in those places. 

References: 

• Theology of the Body Institute from Christopher West
• The Good News about Sex and Marriage, Christopher West (book)
• Christopher West on Pints with Aquinas (podcast)

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This week, Jake and Bob spend time with an old friend, Christopher West. They reminisce about their spiritual history with each other, and Christopher gets real about his own journey of healing from rejection wounds. Christopher is well known as ‘the Theology of the Body guy,’ but after nine years of hiding his own brokenness behind masks in his marriage, he was confronted with the reality that he was living out his brokenness with his wife. Christopher walks us through his testimony of learning to take off the masks to let God love him.  

Guiding Quote: 

“For Christ did not send me to baptize, but to preach the gospel—not with wisdom and eloquence, lest the cross of Christ be emptied of its power.” - 1 Cor 1:17

Key points:

• Christopher, Jake and Bob talk about their friendship and how they first met
• How Christopher’s wounds of rejection created a blindspot that prevented him from loving his wife well in their first decade of marriage
• How wounds of rejection can affect identity
• We have to go into our family history to understanding our wounds 
• The ‘archaeological dig’ into our own wounds must be done with Christ
• Our wounds play out in the marriage bed
• We can show up as we are because we’re loved by God

Practical Application:

1. What is your spiritual legacy? Who has shared the faith with you and is your spiritual father or grandfather? 
2. Where have you experienced rejection wounds? Pray over those areas to ask God to heal those wounds. 
3. Reflect on how God has worked in your history to bring you to where you are today.

References: 

• Theology of the Body Institute from Christopher West
• The Good News about Sex and Marriage, Christopher West (book)
• Christopher West on Pints with Aquinas (podcast)

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This week, Jake and Bob reflect on the last episode conversation with Matt Fradd. They discuss the link between shame and compulsion, the addiction cycle and how to truly find healing from sexual sin.

Guiding Quote: “Take heart!” - John 16:33

Key points

• The link between shame and compulsion
• Pornography blurs the lines of fantasy and reality
• A fresh perspective on deeper, long-lasting healing
• Explanation of the addiction cycle
• How our attitude toward our wounds and our sin affects our spiritual lives
• Practical advice about the process and next steps in the healing journey
• The role of grace in the healing process

Practical Application:

1. Where have you not experienced love that there might be a shame response?
2. Pray about what might be your ‘holy desire’ (for God, connection, love, etc) behind areas of shame, and what might be your unholy desires?
3. Every morning, reflect on your wedding vows and recommit to them.

References: 

• Sexual Healing (Part 4) - Battling Pornography with Matt Fradd, Restore the Glory Podcast
• Unwanted, Jay Stringer (book) 
• Be Transformed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book) 
• Be Restored, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book)
• Be Healed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book)
• Breaking Free From Pornography w/ Fr. Sean Kilcawley, Pints with Aquinas Podcast

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Renowned expert Matt Fradd joins the conversation for our fourth episode in the series on Sexual Healing. Matt shares about ongoing journey to freedom from a pornography addiction that began at a young age. Matt, Jake and Bob discuss compulsions towards porn, how to avoid temptation and overcome addictions over time with the help of God and His people. If you or someone you know is battling a porn addiction, we hope you find this episode and the resources below helpful. 

Guiding Quote: “But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." - 2 Corinthians 12:9

Key points

- Dealing with the fallout from a porn addiction in childhood- Desire and compulsions that come in response to unmet desire- How to find recovery from porn addiction- The lie that there is a ‘silver bullet’ to healing. Rather, it’s a consistent effort to break free from addictions- Why it’s often hard to talk about these things in the church - God loves us in our weakness and failures- Overcoming shame - The importance of compassion and exhortation 

Resources:

- Treating Pornography Addiction: The Essential Tools for Recovery, Dr. Kevin Skinner (book) - The Porn Myth, Matt Fradd (book)- Matt Fradd’s Podcast, Pints With Aquinas (podcast)- Strive: 21-Day Porn Detox (for men)- Magdala Ministries for women struggling with sexual addiction- Forged: 33 Days Toward Freedom, Jason Evert & Matt Fradd (book)- Integrity Restored: resources for overcoming porn addiction

Practical Application:

1. Find a trusted person to share honestly about your struggle, if you find yourself battling pornography use. 
2. Thank God for the opportunities he has given you to show you his power through your weakness. 
3. Explore one of the resources on our list to find new ways to support a loved one or overcome your own struggles.

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As they continue the series on Sexual Healing, Jake and Bob share their takeaways and insights from last episode’s conversion with Sr. Miriam James Heidland. If you missed that powerful episode, please go back and listen! Jake and Bob revisit some core aspects of Theology of the Body, how Sister’s story illustrates these principles, and how we can find healing and help others do the same.

Key points

• What stood out to Jake and Bob from last episode’s conversation with Sr. Miriam James Heidland
• Revisiting insights from Theology of the Body as applied to healing journey
• Where to begin in our own healing journey
• Healing of our identity and how we see God’s identity
• Understanding the importance of the healing of trust in our relationship with God and others
• The role of shame and how to find freedom from shame
• We’ve all experienced disorder in our sexuality by virtue of living in a fallen world

Resources: 

• Theology of the Body Series: Episodes 3-8 from Restore the Glory (podcast)
• The Wounded Heart by Dan Allender (book) 
• Be Restored by Bob Schuchts (book) 
• Unwanted by Jay Stringer (book) 

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Show Notes

It’s a joy to welcome our dear friend and special guest, Sr. Miriam James Heidland, onto the podcast. Continuing the series on Sexual Healing, Sr. Miriam teaches us how to have a disposition of tenderness and reverence toward our own stories, what she calls holy ground. Jake, Bob and Sr. Miriam regularly work alongside each other leading healing events, so this conversation is familiar territory. We are grateful for her vulnerability. Content warning: sexual abuse and the impacts of childhood abuse are discussed within this episode.

References: 

• Abiding Together Podcast 
• Sr. Miriam’s Twitter
• Loved As I Am, book by Sr. Miriam 
• JPII Healing Center
• Society of Our Lady of the Most Holy Trinity (SOLT Sisters)

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In this episode, Jake and Bob lay the groundwork for a new series on sexual healing. Sexual woundedness affects almost everyone on some level. Jake and Bob offer their professional perspective on healing in this important area and share why it's important to let the Holy Spirit lead us when it comes to addressing wounds. Please note: specific examples of trauma and disordered sexuality are discussed within this episode. Listen with discretion. 

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We all bring brokenness into marriage and by God’s grace, we also get to participate in our spouse's healing journey. In part three of the Healing in Marriage series based on Dr. Bob’s book, “Be Devoted,” Jake and Bob discuss how to restore trust in broken areas of a marriage. They give practicals on how to navigate this often difficult journey, and show us how reconciliation is possible for anyone who is willing.

This week kicks off a new series on “Healing in Marriage.” If you’re struggling in marriage, you are not alone. How can you find healing in difficult situations with your spouse? This episode addresses the presence of conflict in marriage, and how to honor your spouse. Jake and Dr. Bob draw on stories from their marriages as well as experience from their practice in professional counseling to shed light on this reality in relationships.

Sexual intimacy is the final area covered in this series on unity in marriage, since this form of unity flows from all the others (Spiritual, Emotional, Companionship, Teamwork). In the episode, Jake and Dr. Bob share how sexual desire and self-gift are made to become integrated in marriage through the Holy Spirit, making a way for healing and deep intimacy. 

Part four of the series on Unity in Marriage explores the joy of companionship and teamwork. Jake and Dr. Bob flesh out what it means to become one of mind and heart, and share personal examples of how they’ve had to tackle self-focus in order to move toward deeper connection through selflessness in their marriages. They also address the question, “How do we honor one another’s strengths and complement in a way that builds teamwork instead of moving in opposite directions?”

Jake & Dr. Bob discuss emotional intimacy in this next episode in their series on unity in marriage. Generally, this type of intimacy is more difficult for men, while it's one of the deepest desires of women. Our hosts share stories of how they have grown in emotional intimacy through their own marriages, and provide practical tips on how to develop deeper emotional intimacy in your own relationship.

This week kicks off a new series on finding unity in marriage. Jake and Bob will share what they’ve learned through their own marriages and their professional work with married couples. In this episode, they discuss how marriage is a union of two broken people, but by inviting in the love of God, growing together in unity is made possible. A couple can grow and heal together during the journey of their marriage. Our hosts set the stage for a great series and share tips that will help a marriage become stronger.

Jake and Bob continue their series on the Healing of the Family and dive into marriage/family wounds. The family is the primary way children learn how to give and receive love, treat other people, & find their identity. As adults, we can look back at our upbringing and see how we were formed in healthy ways and ways that caused us to struggle. Jake and Bob offer suggestions on how to find healing from our family/marriage trauma and how our families can create a loving culture where our children can thrive.

Dr. Bob and Jake discuss the power of a father’s love and his capacity to wound. Fathers plant deep seeds in their children’s hearts with what they said or didn’t say and what they did or didn’t do. The restoration of wounds from our fathers is life-changing.

After recapping how Peter’s pride, shame, and false self have been stripped away, Dr. Bob and Jake discuss the amazing transformation in Peter after his healing encounter with Jesus and being filled with the Holy Spirit. The series concludes with reflections on how each of us can find ourselves in Peter’s story and experience a similar transformation.

After explaining the meaning and power of shame, Dr. Bob and Jake reflect on the restorative encounter between Jesus and Peter on the shores of the Sea of Galilee. We can all resonate with Peter’s experience of denying Jesus and the resulting shame. Our hearts long to be healed and restored. Jesus comes to Peter, not to further shame him, but to heal him.

This week’s episode goes deeper into the life of St. Peter. Through personal stories and experiences, Bob and Jake help us appreciate the value of seeing ourselves as we truly are because in vulnerability, as we carry the cross, our hearts move deeper through the journey of healing. How we respond at these times brings us along the path of either Peter (hope) or Judas (despair).

Bob and Jake continue the series on healing as seen through the life of St. Peter. Identity is the core of who we are and something that God wants to assure and clarify in us. Jesus changes Simon’s name to Peter signifying a deepening of his identity. God sees truly and clearly. He sees who we are meant to be. Our search for identity and validation is most perfectly rooted in our relationship with Him.

Bob and Jake continue the series on healing as seen through the life of St. Peter. In the healing process, we can be focused on a dynamic that is important but not as deep or far reaching as what Jesus is addressing. Trusting Jesus and interpreting our journey in trust and goodness is best because we move beyond control.

Bob and Jake start a new series on how the life of St. Peter reveals important lessons for the healing journey. In Part 1, the impact of shame and the value of keeping our eyes on Jesus are discussed.

Bob and Jake finish the series on the anatomy of a wound and discuss vows which are inner resolutions that we make in response to wounds and beliefs. We make these resolutions in an attempt to avoid the original pain we experienced in a wound. Vows can significantly affect the way we do life and can go unnoticed since we often perceive them as normal and necessary.

Bob and Jake continue the series on the anatomy of a wound and discuss judgements which are a type of belief that distort our perceptions of others and become a barrier to love. 

Bob and Jake continue the series on the anatomy of a wound and discuss beliefs. Our lives are filled with experiences and we interpret these experiences and put meaning to them. We then agree with the beliefs that are either truths or lies.

Bob and Jake continue the series on the anatomy of a wound and discuss Type A and Type B wounds as well as seven categories of woundedness called the seven deadly wounds. 

Bob and Jake start a new series about the components of a wound. Wounds, beliefs, and vows are critical aspects that, when noticed and addressed, lead to healing and freedom. 

Bob and Jake conclude the series on faith or fear by explaining how our fears form a false self. Jesus invites us to deny our false self, come to Him, learn from Him, and look into His eyes of mercy.

Bob and Jake continue the series on faith or fear and discuss seven deadly wounds and their impact on our lives. We have dynamics in our hearts that are below the surface and, although they are unseen, impact our peace, love, and joy.

Bob and Jake start a new series about faith and fear. Understanding our heart’s reaction to life and why we become afraid leads us to name our fear before God and invite Him to love us, heal us, and set us free.

Bob and Jake finish their series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) and healing by focusing on God’s design for humans to be unashamed. We were designed to bear God’s image, see as He sees, and love as He loves. Our healing journey requires us to bring the depths of our shame into the light and love of God so we can live our lives to the full.

Bob and Jake continue the series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) and healing by focusing on the idea of “original unity” and how the relationship between men and women was intended, how it’s wounded, and how it’s restored.  

Bob and Jake continue the series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) and healing by focusing on how females uniquely reveal God's glory, how they are wounded, and how they are healed.

Bob and Jake continue the series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) and healing by focusing on how males uniquely reveal God's glory, how they are wounded, and how they are healed.

Bob and Jake continue the series on the Theology of the Body and healing by talking about how our identity is found in God. God gives us our identity but it’s possible we have a skewed image of God that affects our identity and peace. It’s important that we are aware of where we are bringing the deep questions of our hearts because if we lose God’s identity, we lose our identity.

Bob and Jake start a series on the Theology of the Body (TOB) by sharing stories of how the TOB has brought healing into people’s lives. They discuss various aspects that are essential to the healing process and ground TOB as an essential background for healing.

Bob and Jake discuss how their (and our) life story is the critical backdrop to our healing journey.

Bob and Jake share some stories about their personal restoration and how important honest and openness are in the healing journey.

We are two Catholic therapists with over 50 years combined experience who now lead healing ministries. We are excited to share what we've learned and experienced to help you have greater freedom.