277 avsnitt • Längd: 55 min • Veckovis: Tisdag
Strictly Stalking is a weekly true crime podcast exploring true stalking stories from survivors — in their own words. Every Tuesday, hosts Jaimie Beebe and Jake Deptula cover a unique stalking case by interviewing stalking survivors, advocates, and experts.
The podcast Strictly Stalking is created by PodcastOne. The podcast and the artwork on this page are embedded on this page using the public podcast feed (RSS).
Kaitlyn is currently being stalked by a man she briefly dated.
After Kaitlyn ended the relationship, the man broke into her house multiple times, followed her, harassed her at work, and even had her falsely arrested. When she reported these incidents to the police, they did not take her seriously, and she suspects this is because they know him. Fearing for her life, Kaitlyn left the country for several months to escape him.
HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING?
LET US KNOW: [email protected]
OUR SPONSORS:
Delete Me
Today get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout.
Love2Play
Promocode: STALKING
Link: https://bit.ly/joinwithSTALKING
50 Free spins with $50 minimum deposit
Progressive Insurance
Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.
HOSTS OTHER PODCASTS:
lovelustfear | hosted by Jake Deptula
Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4
Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec
Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748
Samantha was abducted and imprisoned by her stalker.
After they met in college, Samantha realized a man had an unhealthy obsession with her when he started following her around and leaving her unwanted gifts. In 2014, when he pursued her across state lines, Samatha secured a six-year restraining order against him. Upon returning to her hometown six years later, she noticed his presence, but he kept his distance and remained silent. However, the eerie calm shattered one fateful night in October 2022 when he forcibly entered her home and abducted her, imprisoning her in a homemade cage; getting the idea from the TV Show "You." Samantha is bravely sharing her story of survival and unimaginable trauma.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphics depictions of physical violence, abduction, torture, and sexual assualt. Please listen with caution.**
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
OUR SPONSORS:
Delete Me
Today get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout.
Shopify
Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify,com/strictlystalking to take your retail business to the next level.
Progressive Insurance
Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.
Abby Furness made a recent appearance in the Netflix documentary titled "Can I Tell You A Secret?"
The documentary sheds light on the victims of Matthew Hardy, who systematically harassed more than sixty women by fabricating falsehoods about them on social media through fake accounts. Abby joins us today to recount her experiences with Matthew and delve into aspects of her story that were not covered in the documentary.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
OUR SPONSORS:
Delete Me
Toda y get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to Join DeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code S TALKING at checkout.
Progressive Insurance
Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.
lovelustfear
Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4
Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec
Am azon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/
Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform .com/lovelustfear
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.in stagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-M AIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
@strictlystalkingpod
@feathergirl77
@jaked3000
In 2022, Jaimie and I spoke with Abby Furness, who was stalked by an obsessed OnlyFans subscriber. After this ordeal, Abby became the target of another stalker, as detailed in the Netflix True Crime Documentary, “Can I Tell You A Secret?” We present an encore of OnlyFans Stalker, and on April 9th, 2024, we’re releasing a new episode with Abby Furness to discuss her experience dealing with another stalker. If there’s a guest whose story we’ve featured in a past episode that you’d like us to revisit, email [email protected] or DM us on Instagram at strictlystalkingpod. We appreciate your listening and ongoing support for the survivors we’ve featured. Thank you!
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
The Last Trip - Podcast
List en & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.in stagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E- MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
@strictlystalkingpod
@feathergirl77
@jaked3000
Katie was cyberstalked after accepting a Facebook friend request from a woman she had never met in person. Initially, their messages were amicable, but they soon dove into personal topics, including emotional and mental struggles. Tension escalated when Katie started receiving messages from the woman’s boyfriend, expressing concerns about their relationship. When Katie advised him to leave if he felt it was toxic, she triggered the woman’s retaliation. This included menacing social media posts, fake reviews on Katie’s business page, and messages sent to her friends. Katie now aims to share her experience of cyberstalking to raise awareness about online safety.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
PROMO LINKS:
Multitask righ t now. Quote your car insurance at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.in stagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E- MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Sasha is being stalked by her child’s father.
After a life-altering accident altered his personality, Sasha severed ties with him. However, this decision only seemed to exacerbate is obsession with her. His stalking behavior escalate to the point where he brazenly trespassed onto her property, issuing threats directed not only at Sasha, but also at her new partner. Seeking legal protection, Sasha sought a restraining order, only to face a retaliatory move as her stalker filed one against her. In an effort to shed light on the tactics stalkers use through the legal system, Sasha is sharing her story and urging others to continue fighting for justice.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
SPONSOR LINKS:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last
Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Kaitlynn was stalked by her abusive ex boyfriend.
What began as a college romance turned into a nightmare astheir relationship spiraled into toxicity. His possessiveness and controlling behavior was out of control, and he even moved into the apartment next door to maintain constant surveillance. The situation reached a terrifying climax when he physically assaulted Kaitlynn several months into their relationship. Despite her fear, she found the courage to leave him. However, her escape only fueled his obsession. He relentlessly pursued her with incessant phone calls and text messages, leaving threatening notes on her car, lurking outside her residence, and attempting to break in through her bedroom window.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
SPONSOR LINKS: Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at
Noom.com
PROMO LINKS:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify
| https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon
Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions
| https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear The
Last Trip - Podcast Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow
The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And
Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E- MAIL US [email protected] Instagram:
@strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
Lady J was stalked by her ex-boyfriend.
What started as a seemingly ordinary relationship turned toxic within six months; he was possessive, accused her of cheating, and was emotionally abusive.
She attempted to break from the abusive cycle, but he resorted to manipulation tactics, including threats and even a suicide attempt, to coerce her into staying. Despite her efforts to seek help from the police, she found little assistance. When he escalated into stalking, she had no choice but to abandon her business and go into hiding. Lady J lives in constant fear due to her stalker’s relentless pursuit. She has channeled her experiences into something positive by establishing an online community for other survivors of similar situations.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
GUEST LINKS:
Lady J
https://www.instagram.com/stopyourstalker/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Delete Me - Go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING for 20% off
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
Libby found herself in a distressing situation when she joined a neighborhood Facebook group, and one of the members began stalking her.
After meeting this woman one evening for drinks, Libby sensed warning signs and attempted to maintain an online-only relationship. However, as their friendship progressed, it became evident that toxicity had infiltrated even their virtual exchanges. Taking measures to protect herself, Libby chose to block the individual. But this triggered a series of troubling behaviors, from sending inappropriate emails to reaching out to Libby's acquaintances and spreading falsehoods online; the situation quickly escalated into stalking. The stalker resorted to legal harassment, filing baseless reports with Child Protective Services and even accusing Libby of being the one stalking her. In response, Libby took the necessary steps to involve the authorities, initiating an investigation into her stalker.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Delete Me - Go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING for 20% off
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/strictlystalking and take your retail business to the next level today!
We’ve revamped our Patreon and are excited for everyone to join our new community! You’ll find access to exclusive chats and live stream Q&A’s, merchandise, ad-free episodes, and bonus episodes that you can ONLY find on Patreon!
Mimi's life took a significant turn in the 1970s when she crossed paths with the man who would become her stalker.
Mimi met her ex husband while bartending at a club and they got married, but unfortunately, the relationship ended in divorce, unleashing a nightmare as her ex-husband struggled to accept the separation. What followed was a descent into darkness as he not only refused to acknowledge the divorce but also subjected Mimi to physical abuse and menacing threats. Even as she attempted to move forward and explore new relationships, he relentlessly tracked her down, harassing both her and her partners. Despite seeking assistance from the authorities, Mimi found little relief. In response to the escalating danger, she made the difficult decision to arm herself with a firearm for protection. Today, Mimi bravely shares her harrowing journey of survival, transforming her experience of abuse and stalking into a crusade to empower fellow women to stand up and fight back against such injustices.
GUEST LINKS:
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/strictlystalking and take your retail business to the next level today!
Love, Murder - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to Love Murder - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-murder/id1522372858
Follow Love Murder on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lovemurderpod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.lovemurder.love/patreon
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
Gigi was stalked by a man she met on Tinder. Their relationship progressed, yet due to Gigi being transgender, he insisted on keeping it concealed. One fateful night, the situation turned violent, prompting Gigi to flee and end the relationship.
He began a campaign of harassment, stalking her relentlessly, issuing threats, contacting her workplace, reaching out to her family, and resorting to blackmail by threatening to distribute intimate images.
The intensity of the stalking escalated when he fabricated details to obtain her flight information, intending to confront her in person.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Delete Me - Go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING for 20% off
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
Charlotte is a single mom who was stalked by her child’s father.
Despite noticing warning signs in the relationship, the couple moved in together when she found out she was pregnant. The relationship was toxic and the abuse escalated to the point Charlotte knew the relationship was not salvageable. When she ended things, her ex started stalking her. He sent harassing messages to her friends and family and persistently followed her around town, all while she was still pregnant. Things became violent during a road rage incident, and law enforcement urged Charlotte to seek immediate protection with a restraining order.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
In 2020, Jaimie and I spoke with Dave Kroupa, who was stalked for over four years by a woman who was impersonating his ex, Cari Farver, to cover up her murder.
In light of Dave’s story featured in the new Netflix True Crime Documentary, "Lover, Stalker, Killer", we present an encore of Too Close To Home: Stalking Dave Kroupa. If there’s a guest whose story we’ve featured in a past episode that you’d like us to revisit, email [email protected] or DM us on Instagram at strictlystalkingpod.
We appreciate your listening and ongoing support for the survivors we’ve featured. Thank you!
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Sam was stalked by her ex-boyfriend.
Following high school, Sam started dating a soldier a few years older than her, but soon moved out of the area. Despite the geographical distance after her relocation, they maintained their relationship from afar. During their time together, he closely monitored her every move, demanded frequent video chats, incessantly texted her, and accused her of cheating. Eventually, he managed to infiltrate all her social media and bank accounts. Recognizing the toxicity of the relationship, Sam's family urged her to end it, triggering an escalation in his stalking behavior.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Thrive Market - Go to ThriveMarket.com/strictly for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift!
Minds of Madness (Promo)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-minds-of-madness-true-crime-stories/id1191274361
https://open.spotify.com/show/4RKwfnVZfoHZcWeU0BHz9X
https://www.instagram.com/themindsofmadness/
https://mindsofmadnesspodcast.com/
Check us out on Patreon here:
Helena has become the target of a relentless stalker who obtained her social media handle.
Upon connecting online, he inundated her with disturbing messages. She told him to never contact her again and blocked him. Despite her warnings, he created fake accounts, subjecting Helena to harassment, terrorizing her, and issuing threats of violence, including threats to kill her and set her house ablaze. Fearing for her safety, Helena reached out to the police, but the stalking persisted. Eventually, the situation became so dire that she had no choice but to relocate from her neighborhood to escape the ongoing threat.
GUEST LINKS:
Helena aka helhathfury
TikTok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@helhathfury
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/helhathfury/
Twitch:
https://twitch.tv/helhathfurytv
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
SPONSOR LINKS:
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Cara was targeted and stalked by a man she had encountered on the internet, with their interactions being solely online and over the phone.
After a few conversations, Cara told the man she was no longer interested and blocked him. Frustrated by his inability to reach Cara, the stalker impersonated law enforcement. Through this ruse, he obtained Cara's personal information from her wireless phone service provider.
Armed with this data and her personal information, he continued to harass Cara, as well as her family, coworkers, and friends. He sent them inappropriate photos of her, issued death threats, and even drove across state lines to show up at her house.
CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive - Progressive.com
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/
Robert Bigaouette faced relentless stalking from his ex-girlfriend, prompting him to obtain multiple restraining orders against her.
Following their breakup, Robert's former girlfriend escalated her behavior by stalking him and leaving menacing messages on his answering machine. Determined to put an end to the harassment, he sought help from the police and successfully filed two distinct orders of protection.
Drawing inspiration from his own ordeal, Robert transformed his experiences into a fictional novel titled "Twisted Love." Today, he is here to shed light on the real-life events that inspired the fiction in his book.
GUEST LINKS:
Robert Bigaouette / “Twisted Love”
Website
https://www.blueeyedsquirrelentertainment.com/
Book Link (Amazon)
https://www.amazon.com/Twisted-Love-Robert-Bigaouette/dp/1665741171
Book Link (Barnes & Noble)
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/twisted-love-robert-bigaouette/1144209691
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive - Progressive.com
Thrive Market - Go to ThriveMarket.com/strictly for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift!
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/
Debbie Riddle is an Anti-Stalking Advocate whose sister Peggy Klinke was stalked and murdered by her ex-boyfriend.
After Peggy’s death, Debbie refused to remain silent about the extreme failures in our criminal justice system and set out on a mission to get the system fixed and began telling Peggy’s story to anyone that would listen.
She caught the attention of Tracy Bahm, the Director of the Stalking Resource Center and they took Peggy’s story to Washington D.C. where they testified at a congressional briefing and declared January, “National Stalking Awareness Month” in honor of Peggy.
Debbie has spoken throughout the US, at law enforcement trainings, advocate trainings and college campuses and has worked with then Senator Joe Biden, Advocate Erin Brockovich, and Lifetime Television to continue to spread awareness about the dangers of stalking.
Also joining us is Dana Fleitman, the Associate Advisor at the Stalking Prevention, Awareness, & Resource Center (known as SPARC) a project of AEquitas funded by the DOJ Office on Violence Against Women.
GUEST LINKS:
SPARC
Website
https://www.stalkingawareness.org/
https://www.instagram.com/followuslegally?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==
NSAM Day of Action - January 18tb
https://www.stalkingawareness.org/day-of-action-2024/
Victim Connect Resource Center
SPONSOR LINKS:
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon -https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
Instagram:
Julia Cowley is a seasoned retired FBI agent and profiler with an impressive 22-year career. During her tenure with the FBI, Julia specialized in investigating a wide range of cases, including violent crime, white-collar crime, public corruption, civil rights, and stalking.
Her investigative work involved interviewing both victims and perpetrators, providing her with invaluable insights into criminal behavior.
Now, Julia brings her wealth of experience to the forefront in her new podcast, "The Consult: Real FBI Profilers," where she shares her journey of battling crime and delves into the intricate analysis of criminal behavior.
GUEST LINKS:
Julia Cowley / The Consult Podcast
www.Instagram.com/theconsultpod
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-consult-real-fbi-profilers/id1586909557
https://open.spotify.com/show/4BRyHb1KZjdGYrMfu2zMeM?si=XRiI2gxlQDG7FLEdeQ_n_g
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/
Lana McAra faced persistent stalking from her former boyfriend following their breakup.
In a series of unsettling incidents, he repeatedly slashed her tires, attempted to break into her residence, and confronted her in public. Despite her efforts to seek justice through the legal system, it proved elusive. To facilitate her healing process, Lana decided to relocate to another state. Eventually, she channeled her strength into writing a book titled "Shaken But Not Stirred," recounting her harrowing experience and the journey toward recovery.
GUEST LINKS:
Lana McAra
http://FictionWritersPodcast.com
http://HowToWriteANovelThatSells.com
Novel
https://www.amazon.com/Englewood-Medium-Shaken-But-Stirred/dp/1804393088
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
Teresa L'Heureux, a dedicated powerlifter and bodybuilder, was stalked by her ex-partner.
In a chilling incident, he followed her home one night, launching a violent attack and holding a knife to her throat when the police intervened to apprehend him. After breaking free from this traumatic relationship, Teresa channeled her strength into writing her book, "My Rock My Hard Place," narrating her survival through domestic violence. Driven by her own ordeal, Teresa went on to establish Survive Rise To Thrive, an organization committed to offering services and education to fellow abuse survivors. The organization's mission is to empower individuals to cultivate a resilient mindset and build a better life beyond the shadows of abuse.
GUEST LINKS:
Teresa L'Heureux
https://myrockmyhardplace.com/
https://www.instagram.com/surviverisetothrive/
https://www.tiktok.com/@surviverisetothrive
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
John-Michael Lander, a former Olympic contender, was stalked by a college classmate.
During college, he was relentlessly followed around campus, receiving increasingly explicit notes from an obsessed stalker. One night, the situation escalated tragically as John-Michael was drugged, sexually assaulted, and left unconscious by his tormentor. In his compelling book, “An Athlete’s Silence,” John-Michael courageously shares the painful narrative of his experiences, detailing the trauma of sexual abuse and his survival through sex trafficking. Through his advocacy work, John-Michael seeks to empower others to speak out against abuse and contribute to the broader conversation about creating a safer environment in sports and beyond.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including childhood abuse, sexual assault, sex trafficking, grooming, and attempted suicide. Listener discretion is advised.**
GUEST LINKS:
John-Michael Lander
Instagram: johnmichaellander; https://www.instagram.com/johnmichaellander/?hl=en
Facebook: John-Michael Lander; https://www.facebook.com/lucas.lander.14
John-Michael Lander Website: https://johnmichaellander.com/
An Athlete’s Silence Website: anathletessilence.com
An Athlete’s Silence: https://www.facebook.com/johnmichaellander1214
Media Page: Media Page (anathletessilence.com)
YouTube: John-Michael Lander https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-oLvS3fcGg-VTffXP89q-Q
TedTalk: An Athlete's Silence | John-Michael Lander | TEDxDayton - YouTube
YouTube: John-Michael Lander https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-oLvS3fcGg-VTffXP89q-Q
TikTok: @lucas27land;
Twitter: @jm27land
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnmichaellander-31131075/
The Self-Talk Institute, http://www.selftalkstore.com/
The Self-Talk Plus App, https://www.selftalkplus.com?utm_refer=Jmla
SurvivorSpace: https://survivorspace.org/
SPONSOR LINKS:
The Last Trip - Podcast
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Lili Greer believes a stalker murdered her missing mother.
After leaving an abusive relationship, Lili's mother, Tina, moved them into a new house that was soon broken into and vandalized. They assumed it was Tina's ex watching them, frightening them, and making his presence known. Tina agreed to meet him and was never seen or heard from again. Lili was thirteen when her mother went missing, and since then, she has fought to prove that her mother was murdered by her stalker. Lili joins us today to raise awareness about her mother's case and warn others about the dangers of domestic violence and stalking.
PODCAST LINKS:
Lili Greer (Guest)
Instagram (The Tina Greer Project)
Missing Person’s Advocacy Network
Queensland Homicide Victims’ Support Group
National Domestic, Family and Sexual Violence Counselling Service.
Shasta found herself entangled in a tumultuous web when two men, with whom she shared a polyamorous relationship, took their obsession to alarming heights.
Shasta made the bold decision to leave her past behind and relocate to a new town. The two men she left behind spiraled into a dangerous cycle of stalking – not only fixating on Shasta but also turning their obsession towards each other. The situation reached dangerous heights when both men confronted Shasta, and one of them brought a gun.
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
Nicole was stalked by a man she briefly dated. When she unmasked a web of lies about his job, marriage, and true identity, she bravely ended it.
He relentlessly inundates her with over 100 texts daily and even resorts to lurking outside her house. Nicole took matters into her own hands, and a comprehensive background check unveiled even more chilling revelations about her stalker. Nicole harnessed the power of TikTok to share her harrowing journey, and now she helps others see the true colors of the people they’re dating.
GUEST LINKS (NICOLE):
TikTok
https://www.tiktok.com/@twotrick_pony
https://www.facebook.com/twotrickpony1496
Background Check Website
https://www.tiktokbackgroundcheck.com/
Linktree
??https://linktr.ee/twotrickpony
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
Jessica was stalked by a man she met in Alcoholics Anonymous.
While attending AA, Jessica met a man who offered to be her sober companion, and soon they started dating. She realized the relationship was toxic and ended it, but the man stalked and harassed her. Jessica’s here to tell her story of growth, staying sober, and surviving her stalker.
GUEST LINKS:
Facebook Group Link To Strongass Women
https://www.facebook.com/groups/2064004917150605/
TikTok
https://www.tiktok.com/@jessicadsaw
Link To The Book On Apple Books
https://books.apple.com/ca/book/the-addiction-trauma-workbook/id6443352960
Link To The Book On Amazon
https://www.amazon.ca/Addiction-Trauma-Workbook-Personal-Recovery/dp/1778045804
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive - Progressive.com
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
Karter is being stalked by her daughter’s father.
When they separated, her ex became obsessed with her and the men she had in her life, even changing careers to match her new husband. Her ex broke into her house and stole her jewelry, harassed her at work, and sent her constant texts containing conspiracy theories, cryptic photos, and bizarre messages. Karter is afraid for her life because he continues to stalk her after he was released from a psychiatric hospital.
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Loft - Go to Loft.com and use code STALKING at checkout for 25% off
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
THE LAST TRIP - PODCAST
Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
The Last Trip is a true crime & travel podcast exclusively investigating missing and murdered victims that were living their best lives… on vacation.
Jaimie Beebe, co-host of the popular True Crime podcast “Strictly Stalking”, brings together the two things she’s most passionate about: True Crime & Travel. Through her own solo travels around the world she has a unique perspective on staying alive in paradise. Join Jaimie every Thursday, as she recreates someone’s last days in paradise on The Last Trip.
Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip
Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/
And join our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast
Kristen Pratt aka Kaypee was stalked by a deranged former high school classmate obsessed with proving his love for her. After sending Kaypee a series of bizarre and demented YouTube videos, her stalker shows up on her college campus and at her workplace to torment her.
Harriett was stalked by a car salesman after purchasing a new car.
When Harriett bought a new car, she gave her personal information to the car salesman, who used it to stalk her. He commented on her Instagram, texted and called her repeatedly, and even showed up at her house and events she attended. She complained to the dealership and went to the police, but now her stalker is on the run.
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Loft - Go to Loft.com and use code STALKING at checkout for 25% off
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
In order to save her own life, Dasia shot the man who was stalking her.
After two dates with a man, Dasia told him she didn’t want to see him again. He called her repeatedly from blocked numbers, threatened her on social media, and sent people to her house to talk to her. Dasia moved several times and got a restraining order, but the stalker continued to escalate. When the stalker broke into her house, she fought back.
GUEST LINKS:
Dasia Washington
Links: https://stan.store/Dasiadoesit
IG: https://www.instagram.com/Dasiadoesit/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dasiadoesit
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Isla Traquair was stalked by her neighbor, who was so destructive to her life that she had to move out of her house and even left the country. Isla is also a TV Host and True Crime Investigator and has recently released a new true crime podcast series called “The Storyteller: Naked Villainy”. Isla is here to share her story and describe the lengths she’s had to go through to try to get justice.
GUEST LINKS:
Isla Traquair
IG: https://instagram.com/islatraquair
Podcast - “The Storyteller: Naked Villiany”
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-storyteller-naked-villainy/id1482159580
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive - Progressive.com
Chanel has been stalked for over twenty years by a boy she met in junior high.
During college, Chanel reached out to him when his father died. They renewed their friendship, but when his behavior became erratic. she learned that he had been diagnosed with schizophrenia. He was obsessed with Chanel, becoming upset if she didn’t answer his calls, constantly trying to contact her, following her, and carrying wedding rings around so he could propose to her. Chanel got multiple restraining orders across several states, and her stalker was arrested, but she continues to live in fear.
SPONSOR LINKS:
Loft
Use code STALKING at www.Loft.com to get $25 off your full price purchase.
Noom
Start your free trial today at www.noom.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Jaime was stalked by a homophobic stranger in college.
After coming out in college, Jaime started getting strange messages from an AOL account pretending to be her girlfriend The messages told her what she was wearing and where she was going, and soon became violent and threatening. Jamie and her girlfriend told school officials, but the stalking didn’t stop.
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive - Progressive.com
Shelly is currently being stalked by an ex-boyfriend.
After they broke up, he used an extra set of keys to enter her flat and place things around that would remind her of him. He also left lights on, ate her food, moved stuff in the cupboards, and stole her mail. Shelly saw her stalker regularly driving the opposite way on the road she took to work. She changed the locks on her flat, but he continued to break in. After months of being stalked, Shelly went to the police with evidence, and a trainee officer was assigned to help her. Her stalker was arrested, but when he was released, things escalated. Shelly moved from her flat and is hiding for her safety.
PODCAST LINKS:
Shelly Palmer (Guest)
https://instagram.com/shellyvpalmer?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
SPONSOR LINKS:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
Instagram:
Hannah was stalked by a Facebook follower.
The stalker mimicked Hannah’s life, dressing like her, changing hairstyles to match, taking & posting similar photos on social media, and even dating her ex-husband. Hannah was granted an emergency protective order, but the cyberstalking only escalated.
GUEST LINKS:
Hannah
https://instagram.com/hannah.hex
https://www.tiktok.com/@hannahhex13
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Charlotte was stalked by a man who had been a patient at the rehab clinic where she worked.
Years later, Charlotte saw the man around town, and he asked to meet her for coffee. They became friends and dated briefly, but she immediately noticed a lot of red flags and ended the relationship. He stalked her, and she filed for a protective order, but it only made his stalking intensify. Her stalker caused her to lose her apartment and her job and ultimately forced her to leave the state.
GUEST LINKS:
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Patti Stewart was stalked by a man she met online.
After briefly dating, she reported him to his Air Force chain of command, but no action was taken. Being stalked destroyed Patti’s business, and her mental health suffered, so she took matters into her own hands and rebounded by helping other women through self-defense training and private investigative services. Patti continues to share her story of healing, as well as tips and advice on staying safe.
GUEST LINKS:
Patti Stewart / Defense In Heels
Defense In Heels - Website
https://www.defenseinheels.com/
Defense In Heels - Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/defenseinheels/
Defense In Heels - Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc8KjzXcAa9xcpO_OHcuSzw
A Woman's Guide to Self-Defense: 5 steps to staying safe forever
https://www.amazon.com/Womans-Guide-Self-Defense-self-defense-confidence/dp/B0C7TCPD27
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Danesh, AKA @thatdaneshguy throughout social media, is being stalked by someone who didn't like what he posted.
Danesh posts content that helps victims hold perpetrators accountable and has amassed millions of followers. In those, millions of followers are enemies who are obsessed with harming him, his family, and his platform. Danesh is here to talk about his stalking case, the steps he's taking to fight back and share stories about the others he's helped through social media.
GUEST LINKS:
Danesh
https://www.instagram.com/thatdaneshguy/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Caitlyn was stalked by her ex-boyfriend.
After matching on Tinder, they started dating and moved in together, but it didn’t last. When Caitlyn asked him to move out, he stalked her by showing up at her job, threatening her, and becoming extremely violent.Caitlyn was dating a new man and even went to the police, but that only made her stalker escalate by threatening to kill her new boyfriend and himself.
GUEST LINKS:
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
Shanetta was stalked by a man attempting to take control of her house.
After purchasing her first home, Shanetta received disturbing letters in the mail from someone claiming ownership of the land on which the property was built.
Soon after, she discovered that her house had been broken into and the locks were changed. She was then confronted by the person who was responsible for the letters.
The stalker was arrested, charged with burglary, then released only to break in again prompting a standoff with the police department and SWAT team.
Shanetta recently uncovered a series of podcasts that the stalker created revealing details about Shanetta, her house, and his history of stalking others.
Check Out Our Patreon:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod
Jaimie Beebe
https://www.instagram.com/feathergirl77
Jake Deptula
https://www.instagram.com/jaked3000
Jennifer was stalked by a high school classmate.
When Jennifer was fourteen, a classmate sent her notes in class, walked to her house after school, followed her, and called her regularly - but she ignored him. She told her parents and school counselors, but the stalking continued until she moved away. Decades passed, and he suddenly started sending her thousands of messages. She blocked him, but it didn’t help. He blamed Jennifer for his wife leaving him and even came to her city, following her through a grocery store and to her house because his magic eight ball told him to. Jennifer called the police, and before they could arrest him, he had already sent over forty thousand messages to her in seven months.
GUEST LINKS:
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Emma was stalked by a man she met online dating.
After starting a relationship, he told her his friends were watching and he could trace her internet searches. When she broke up with him, he texted, called, and sent unwanted gifts. When Emma ignored him, he moved to her neighborhood and struck up a friendship with her mom’s partner to stay in her life. Emma went to the police, but it didn’t help, and he continued to stalk her.
GUEST LINKS:
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Kylan was stalked by her ex-boyfriend.
When the relationship turned toxic, and Kylan ended it, he broke into her house, threatened her, called from fake numbers, stood in her neighborhood holding a sign, and hid disturbing letters around her house. Kylan went to the police, and when they failed to help her, she hired a lawyer, but things continued to escalate. She posted her story on social media, and it went viral, finally getting the attention of the police.
GUEST LINKS:
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive - Progressive.com
Caitlin Mathis was stalked by an ex-boyfriend she dated for a few months.
After breaking up, he stalked Caitlin at her University and was banned, but that didn’t stop him, and when he showed up again, she called 911. The stalker was arrested, but soon after being released, he was charged with murder. Caitlin is sharing her story and her path toward healing and advocating for other survivors.
GUEST LINKS:
Stalking Prevention, Awareness, & Resource Center
https://www.stalkingawareness.org/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
After quitting her job and moving to a new town, Skylar began receiving a series of anonymous emails.
The e-mails became vulgar and explicit, asking her to hook up and describing the fantasy of breaking into her house and raping her.
When Skylar didn't reply the sender made threats claiming they would get what they wanted and take their own pics of her moaning and screaming - but that she "probably wouldn't like it."
Skylar discovered that the person responsible was someone she knew well - who also happened to be an Arkansas State Police Officer.
She reveals details of her horrific ordeal and heroic battle to get police to put one of their own behind bars in her new book called Thrillsought: The True Story of the Woman Stalked by Arkansas State Police Officer, Mark Holland.
Check Out Our Patreon:
www.patreon.com/strictlystalking
Instagram:Strictly Stalking
https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod
Jaimie Beebe
https://www.instagram.com/feathergirl77
Jake Deptula
Angela was stalked by a man she barely knew.
After exchanging contact information with a security guard in her neighborhood, the man started sending her bizarre messages that she ignored, and neighbors mentioned he was acting strangely. Soon after, Angela found the man’s phone on her property and realized her electric gate’s control box had been tampered with so she called the police, but they couldn’t find him and only took a report. Angela was working from home with her daughter when she saw the stalker on her property and screamed for her husband. The man charged at Angela, and things turned violent quickly.
PROMO LINKS:
Near Death (Podcast)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/near-death/id1689779166
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive: Progressive.com
Samantha is being stalked by her husband’s ex-girlfriend.
After Samantha found out she was pregnant, her husband told her his ex-girlfriend had been stalking him, his friends, and his family. His stalker constantly blew up his phone, spreading lies about him and making cryptic threats on her social media accounts and blogs. When Samantha’s daughter was born, the stalking escalated, so they went to the police, but that didn’t help. Samantha asked his ex to stop contacting them, which only ramped up her obsession over the next ten years. Samantha and her husband live in fear of what their stalker will do next, and have been fighting for years in court to get justice.
GUEST LINKS:
Samantha Halsey
TIkTok User Name: samanthahalsey
https://www.tiktok.com/@samanthahalsey
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Near Death (Podcast)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/near-death/id1689779166
Dying For Sex (Podcast)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dying-for-sex/id1495392900
https://open.spotify.com/show/5NIQRzFzGbwhoxEOFVRKQQ
Nikki Boyer (Host)
https://www.instagram.com/nikkiboyer/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
Nikki Boyer is the creator and host of the podcast "Dying for Sex" and her new series, "Near Death".
Nikki is here to tell us about her scary encounter with a Peeping Tom and discuss the differences and similarities between Voyeurism and stalking. Because stalking and Voyeurism are often related offenses involving unwanted attention, we'll also take a dive into similar cases.
GUEST LINKS:
Nikki Boyer
https://www.instagram.com/nikkiboyer/
Near Death (Podcast)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/near-death/id1689779166
Dying For Sex (Podcast)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dying-for-sex/id1495392900
https://open.spotify.com/show/5NIQRzFzGbwhoxEOFVRKQQ
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Crime Lines (Podcast)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crimelines-true-crime/id1112004494
https://open.spotify.com/show/62jTy4kkN8C9aNhJeLJy3z
https://www.instagram.com/crimelines_true_crime/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Heyda was stalked by a man she met on a dating app.
Heyda was doing a live video on TikTok when she was harassed by a user who called her crazy and revealed her parent's address. The harassment continued through TikTok until her stalker eventually revealed themself. Hedya went to the police and hired a lawyer, but it turned into an overwhelming nightmare where she felt re-victimized. Now she is here to share her perspective on surviving a stalker and the emotional, physical, and financial hardships she’s had to manage.
GUEST LINKS:
Hedya
https://www.tiktok.com/@healingwithhedya
https://www.instagram.com/healingwithhedya/
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Check the Locks
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/check-the-locks-a-true-crime-podcast/id1618014949
https://open.spotify.com/show/54gxLZcvjrVldgV9BV9MEu
https://www.instagram.com/checkthelockspod/
https://www.checkthelockspod.com/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
Progressive: Progressive.com
Alona was stalked by a TikTok user.
After Alona commented on an influencer’s tik tok video, several accounts began harassing her and fake accounts were created using her name.
The stalker made outrageous accusations about Alona and her family online, causing issues in her real life.
Alona went to the police, but they told her they could do nothing. When the stalker escalated, the police finally got involved, and the truth shocked them all.
GUEST LINKS:
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Noom - Sign up for your free trial today at Noom.com
April was stalked in her teens by a girl she met in high school.
After breaking up with her boyfriend, April was threatened by a girl who was also stalking her ex. The stalking escalated when the girl started rumors at school, drove by her job, and started fights with her friends. April and her parents went to the police, but because they were minors no action was taken.
Since meeting her stalker in high school, April has been stalked for over 20 years.
GUEST LINKS:
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive: Progressive.com
Meagan was stalked by a coworker she dated in her twenties
When they broke up, he tried to break into her house, wore disguises to follow her, hacked into her accounts, reached out constantly, and blackmailed her into talking to him. The stalking was so terrifying that Meagan moved into a domestic violence shelter with her daughter to hide from him. Even after her stalker was charged and received a suspended one-year probation, it did not stop him from continuing to stalk her. Meagan used her own experiences to build a non-profit that helps victims of stalking.
GUEST LINKS:
Meagan’s Organization
The Fight 4 Light Foundation
https://www.facebook.com/Fight4LightFoundation
https://www.thefight4light.org/
Sharp Risk Assessment
https://www.stalkingawareness.org/sharp/
SPONSOR LINKS:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive: Progressive.com
Brittany was stalked by someone she met on a dating app.
During the relationship this person abused drugs, became controlling, went through Brittany’s phone, monitored her social media, called constantly, and hid her keys so she couldn’t leave.
This person slept outside Brittany’s apartment and removed the locks on her windows to break in at night.
When they broke up, the stalking continued until they showed up at Brittany’s house with a gun leading to a standoff with police.
GUEST LINKS:
Brittany Edwards
https://www.tiktok.com/@this_girlbae
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive: Progressive.com
Madeleine Heather was stalked by a co-worker when she was fourteen years old.
They started dating, and he became possessive and needy. When their relationship ended, she started getting calls from private numbers; she thought she was being followed, and strange cars were driving by her house. With the help of the police, they discovered her ex was stalking her to create fear.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic depictions of the sexual assault of a minor. Listener discretion is advised.**
GUEST LINKS:
Madeline Heather
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/ReclaimMe
Personal Insta: https://www.instagram.com/madheat_/?hl=en
Personal Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@madheat_
Reclaim Me Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/reclaim-me/id1553022744
Reclaim Me Insta: https://www.instagram.com/reclaimmepod/
Reclaim Me Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/Reclaim-Me-105249598131977
Reclaim Me Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimmepod
Survivor Support Network: https://www.facebook.com/groups/833427647212411
SPONSOR LINKS:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Nicole Madigan was stalked for over three years by a woman who was obsessed with her.
Working as a journalist, Nicole turned her ordeal into a memoir. Part investigation and part expert analysis, Nicole used her own story to examine the psychology behind stalking behaviors and their impact on victims and survivors.
LINKS & SUPPORT:
Nicole Madigan
https://nicolemadigan.com/obsession-book/
https://www.instagram.com/bynicolemadigan/
https://www.panterapress.com.au/product/obsession/
The Love Fix - Featured Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-love-fix/id1551411428
https://www.instagram.com/thelovefixpodcast/?hl=en
SPONSOR LINKS:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
Tara was stalked by a Facebook follower.
Tara's fiance started getting messages on Facebook from someone she didn't know, and soon after, they started getting numerous texts from various numbers. They changed their numbers, but the texts only escalated, becoming more personal and threatening, including photos of Tara's house. One night their house was broken into, and they found a dead cat in their mailbox. The situation escalated even further when the stalker called DHS and made false accusations about Tara's son.
LINKS & SUPPORT:
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive: Progressive.com
Jazmin was stalked by a man from her college.
Jazmin befriended an awkward student in high school and spent time together when they ended up attending the same college. When their friendship started going downhill, she ended it, and he began stalking her because he thought they were in a relationship. Jazmin moved out of her apartment to escape him, but then he moved a block away from her new place and continued stalking her. Jazmin fought back to keep him away from her and off campus through a Title IX hearing. Now, she is advocating for House Bill 1715, which would provide comprehensive protections for victims of domestic violence and other violence involving family members or intimate partners.
LINKS & SUPPORT:
Jazmin’s Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/thenetworkerrrr/
VineLink (Victim Notification System About Criminals)
https://www.vinelink.com/#state-selection
A Non-Profit Resource Center For King County Washington
N.A.R.C. Troopers
https://www.instagram.com/narctroopers/
SPONSOR LINKS:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Jillian was fifteen when she met her stalker.
They dated, but the relationship was toxic and abusive. When she broke up with him, he tracked her down in public and created scenes, showed up outside her school, forced her to drive him home, and showed up at her house. Jillian eventually called the police, and they found a cache of guns at his house. He was forced to take anger management and domestic violence classes, but it didn’t stop him from stalking her and threatening to follow her to a new city.
LINKS & SUPPORT:
Survivor Squad
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-survivor-squad/id1684990477
https://www.instagram.com/thesurvivorsquadpod/
https://www.thesurvivorsquad.com/
When Dating Hurts
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-dating-hurts/id1542478530
https://www.whendatinghurts.com/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Olivia was stalked by her ex-fiance.
After meeting at a networking event, Olivia started dating a charming, funny, and successful man. But she mistook red flags for devotion when he tracked her movements, called her obsessively, and showed up uninvited when she went out. They moved in together, and things escalated into abuse as he continued to stalk her and threatened to kill her. When Olivia left her stalker, she got a restraining order, but he hacked her emails and social media anyway and monitored her messages from the District Attorney, police, and attorneys.
LINKS & SUPPORT:
Olivia Engstrom
https://www.tiktok.com/@olivia.engstrom
https://instagram.com/liv_engstrom
CU SAFE Program
https://cusol.org/cu-safe-lending-initiative/
Crime Over Cocktails
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crime-over-cocktails/id1527939841
https://instagram.com/crimeovercocktails
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive: Progressive.com
Kayla was stalked by a man she met in high school who she dated for three years.
The relationship was extremely toxic, and Kayla’s boyfriend was controlling, accused her of cheating, abused her, and threatened suicide if they broke up. When Kayla finally left the relationship, his stalking escalated. He called her constantly, followed her, created social media accounts to harass and cyberstalk her, and begged her to take him back.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including domestic abuse and sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised.**
LINKS & SUPPORT:
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Website: https://www.thehotline.org/
Crime Over Cocktails
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crime-over-cocktails/id1527939841
https://www.crimeovercocktails.com/
https://www.facebook.com/CrimeOverCocktailss
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
Music producer Cara Buckley is being stalked by a former band member.
When Cara and her husband let a new backup singer into their band, they soon regretted it when he struggled to learn the songs, drank too much at shows, and harassed other band members. Once they decided it wasn’t a good fit, they let him go from the band. After leaving the group, he sent numerous unwanted texts and emails, showed up at their gigs, and became threatening toward the rest of the band. Things escalated when he spread rumors online that the band had wronged him, and reached out to venues the band performed at in hopes of causing more trouble.
GUEST LINKS (Cara Buckley):
https://www.threadoftruth.com/
https://www.facebook.com/threadoftruth
https://www.instagram.com/carabbuckley/
https://www.instagram.com/truthfulthread/
https://twitter.com/TruthfulThread
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCayzxdDXG7wedsoNXRMYysA
PODCAST LINKS:
Missing In The Carolinas
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/missing-in-the-carolinas/id1511309373
https://missinginthecarolinas.com/
https://www.instagram.com/missinginthecarolinas/
Narcissist Apocolypse
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/narcissist-apocalypse/id1452117002
https://narcissistapocalypse.com/
https://www.facebook.com/narcissistapocalypse
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Renee met her stalker during her Sophomore year in college.
They were acquaintances, and she mentioned the vacant apartment across from hers. So he moved in immediately, and she often found him staring at her intensely. He also changed his class schedule to match hers, knocked on her door constantly, yelled outside her door when he knew she was home, and followed her when she left her apartment. One night Renee called campus security when he wouldn't leave her alone, but they said they couldn't do anything because she didn't have a restraining order.
PODCAST LINKS:
Missing In The Carolinas (Renee’s Podcast)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/missing-in-the-carolinas/id1511309373
https://missinginthecarolinas.com/
https://www.instagram.com/missinginthecarolinas/
Empath and The Narcissist Podcast
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Yhutf8nS63p7ulLjC1PvS?si=cd508dbbde7b4ee8&nd=1
https://www.instagram.com/ravenscottshow/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
The Boyfriend Bikini:
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive: Progressive.com
Sarah was stalked by a woman she met through social media.
A follower commented on Sarah’s Facebook post asking to meet, and because she was female, Sarah didn’t see any red flags. They became friends, but things quickly turned toxic and escalated when she tried to poison Sarah and sabotage her new music tour. When she was confronted, her friend blocked Sarah and posted lies about her on social media. Sarah went no contact for a year, but her stalker continuously messaged her asking for forgiveness until Sarah decided to give her another chance. This backfired when her stalker continued to spread lies about her and stalk her online. The stalker stepped up her antics when she even showed up at Sarah’s children’s school.
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to BetterHelp.Com/Stalking today to get 10% off your first month
The Boyfriend Bikini:
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Progressive: Progressive.com
Prose: Get your free in-depth hair consultation and 15% off at Prose.com/strictly
Melody is a single mom who met her stalker on an online dating site.
After quickly starting a relationship, she noticed red flags like love bombing, control issues, and jealousy. They moved in together, and Melody discovered he knew details of her private phone conversations and where she went throughout the day. He accused Melody of cheating, showed up at her job, and the relationship became toxic and abusive. Melody tried to kick him out of her house, but he threatened her and wouldn’t leave. When she got the police involved, Melody learned about his past stalking and violent behavior with other women.
PODCAST LINKS:
Code Name Siren:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/code-name-siren/id1663966966
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com
The Boyfriend Bikini
Nina Hobson is a former UK police detective who became the target of a man she had arrested for stalking another victim.
After his arrest, he turned his obsession to Nina, sending letters of his fantasies to murder her. Nina left the police force in the early 2000s after she became part of the investigative series, Dispatches: Undercover Copper, where she exposed sexism, apathy, and neglect in the police force. She now runs one of the only female-led investigative firms in the US, and hosts her podcast Code Name: Siren, where she discusses some of the heinous crimes she’s investigated. Nina is here to tell us her story of being stalked by a known predator, and discuss some of the stalking cases she’s dealt with since.
PODCAST LINKS:
Code Name Siren:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/code-name-siren/id1663966966
https://open.spotify.com/show/32JCcN8x8TrsfJHWcSMvAt
https://omny.fm/shows/code-name-siren
https://www.storicmedia.com/CodeNameSiren
CHARITY LINKS:
Save The Rhino
We are incredibly grateful to be part of a network of people that is passionate about saving rhinos and we continue to accomplish rhino conservation milestones, targets, and goals.
Operation Shadow
A non-profit, humanitarian organization resolute in an unwavering mission of direct-action intervention and rescue of the many marginalized victims of sex trafficking.
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to BetterHelp.Com/Stalking today to get 10% off your first month
The Boyfriend Bikini:
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
Factor: Head to FactorMeals.com/Strictly50 and use code strictly50 to get 50% off your first box
Prose: Get your free in-depth hair consultation and 15% off at Prose.com/strictly
Wonder - This Is Actually Happening: Follow This Is Actually Happening wherever you listen to podcasts.
Melanie was stalked by a man she met in a Facebook group for foragers and mushroom hunters.
They chatted and video-called for a year before meeting in person. After the meeting, Melanie saw red flags and ended things. But he wouldn’t take no for an answer and showed up at her job, her house, stole her keys, and even kidnapped her. Melanie called the police multiple times, but even after he was arrested and charged with stalking, he continued to break the restraining order.
PODCAST LINKS:
Podcast By Proxy - Canadian True Crime
https://linktr.ee/podcastbyproxy
https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/podcast-by-proxy-canadian-true-crime/id1547505890
https://www.instagram.com/podcastbyproxy/
Cults, Crimes, & Cabernet
http://www.cultscrimescabernet.com/
https://www.instagram.com/cultscrimescab/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cults-crimes-cabernet/id1532438222
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Wonder - This Is Actually Happening: Follow This Is Actually Happening wherever you listen to podcasts.
Amber and Athena were stalked by the same man – their ex-husband.
Both women separately met and married a man who lied about who he was and then stalked them when they
left him. Athena met and married the man first, and when the relationship turned toxic, she left him, but he continued to stalk her even after he met his new wife, Amber. When Amber discovered he was not who she thought he was, she also left him and was stalked. Athena and Amber became friends and teamed up to
fight back, and they will soon face him in court for his stalking crimes. They started "Ex-Wives Undercover," a Podcast to help others learn about dangerous and toxic relationship behaviors.
PODCAST LINKS:
EX-WIVES UNDERCOVER
Website: https://www.exwivesundercover.com
Podcast (Apple): https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-trail-went-cold/id1084020770
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN
STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to BetterHelp.com/Stalking today to get 10% off your first month
Jerry was stalked by a woman he met during an acting class.
They were casual friends, but the woman started texting him non-stop and showing up at events where his band was playing. He cut ties with her because she made him uncomfortable, but she was aggressive, impatient, and angry when he didn’t respond to her texts. After thousands of texts, calls, letters, and voicemails, Jerry quit attending the acting class and isolated himself to avoid her. While Jerry barely knows his stalker, according to her texts, she believes they are in a relationship. Jerry got a temporary restraining order, but it hasn’t stopped her from contacting him. She recently posted on social media that he has been sexually abusing and manipulating her, although he has had no contact with her for years.
PODCAST LINKS:
The Trail Went Cold
Website: https://www.trailwentcold.com/
Podcast (Apple): https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-trail-went-cold/id1084020770
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thetrailwentcold/
Did Not Need To Know
Podcast (Apple): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-not-need-to-know/id1595369766
Website: https://www.didnotneedtoknow.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/didnotneedtoknow/
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Maggie was stalked by an older man she met on a dating app.
After they began dating, Maggie discovered his anger issues and controlling behavior. When they broke up, he sent texts, followed her, and sent unwanted gifts. Maggie went to the police when her stalker threatened her new fiancé, but when the police reached out to him, he showed up at her parent's house to confront them. He continued to stalk the new couple, even having Maggie's fiancé banned from the Brazilian Ju Jitsu academy he trained at. Maggie found out that her stalker also stalked his other exes and even had an order of protection against him from his ex-wife, so she decided to go public with her story to warn other women.
PODCAST LINKS:
The Boyfriend Bikini
www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to BetterHelp.Com/Stalking today to get 10% off your first month
Progressive: Progressive.com
Sarah is being stalked by her ex-boyfriend, who shared their private sexual messages with her parents.
After dating for eight years, Sarah ended her toxic relationship and moved to a new city for a fresh start. But her ex became obsessed and followed her. He confronted her friend when she stayed at his house, followed her to work, and texted her non-stop. Sarah even worried he would steal her puppy. When Sarah attended a holiday work party, her stalker left a note on her friend’s car and sent emails detailing what she was wearing, what bag she brought, and who else attended the party. Sarah refused to get back together with him, so he continued to email and call from different numbers, even using an app to make it look like her mom was calling. Sarah obtained a protective order, but even after multiple violations, he continues to stalk her.
PODCAST LINKS:
Sarah (Guest)
Tiktok/Instagram @sarahsurvivesstalking
Body to Burial
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
BetterHelp: Head to BetterHelp.Com/Stalking today to get 10% off your first month
Progressive: Progressive.com
Nicolette is being stalked by someone who is trying to destroy her and her family.
When Nicolette's high school friend met her brother, they were soon inseparable. They married and had a child during her senior year of high school, but the couple became volatile toward family members over the next few years. After Nicolette was cut out of her brother and sister-in-law's lives, she and others in the family started getting anonymous threatening letters and phone calls. As things escalated, Nicolette went to the police and even hired a private investigator but continues to suffer at the hands of the stalker.
PODCAST LINKS:
Support
Website: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/988
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Factor: Head to FactorMeals.com/Strictly50 and use code strictly50 to get 50% off your first box
Progressive: Progressive.com
Prose: Get your free in-depth hair consultation and 15% off at Prose.com/strictly
Amber was stalked by an obsessed coworker.
Amber's female coworker took a romantic interest in her, showing up at places she would be and even befriending her grandmother. Amber made it clear that she didn't want her coworker to contact her or anyone in her family, but she didn't stop. The coworker sent hundreds of texts, took photos of her parked car, and left gifts at Amber’s house. Things became violent when Amber was threatened and sexually assaulted at knifepoint. Amber escaped and went to the police, who told her to turn the tables and stalk the stalker.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including domestic abuse. Listener discretion is advised.**
PODCAST LINKS:
The Jordan Harbinger Show
Website: https://www.jordanharbinger.com/podcasts/
Featured Episodes for “Strictly Stalking” Listeners
742: Dr. Ramani | How to Protect Yourself from a Narcissist Part One
743: Dr. Ramani | How to Protect Yourself from a Narcissist Part Two
782: Death of Mother Could Trigger Ballistic Brother | Feedback Friday
Least of These
Abigail found a new friend in high school who introduced her to drugs, alcohol, cutting, and self-harm.
The relationship became more toxic when Abigail was sexually abused, body-shamed, and emotionally tormented. When Abigail tried to pull away, her friend attempted suicide and was admitted to a mental hospital. After she was released from the hospital, the girls re-established their friendship briefly but went separate ways after high school. Years later, the friend reached out to Abigail, who soon discovered she was being stalked by this friend. Abigail tried to sever all ties again, but the behavior escalated.
** The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including sexual abuse of a minor and suicide. Listener discretion is advised.**
PODCAST LINKS:
Support
Website: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/988
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Factor: Head to Factor75.com/strictly60 and use code strictly60 to get 60% off your first box
Progressive: Progressive.com
Danielle was stalked by an ex-boyfriend, which drove her to quit high school.
In school, Danielle was bullied and mistreated by her classmates but thought things would change for the better when she began seeing a boy in her class. The relationship quickly went downhill because he was abusive and sexually assaulted Danielle. When she broke up with him and ignored him, he started rumors, followed her to and from school, and she received threatening notes from other students. There was a confrontation at the school, and Danielle was attacked by other students, but the school did nothing to help - until her mom intervened. Danielle is now an author and speaker, helping to raise awareness for teens dealing with the dangers of dating and domestic violence.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic depictions of the sexual assault of a minor. Listener discretion is advised.**
PODCAST LINKS:
Danielle Gray
Youtube Channel
https://youtube.com/channel/UCfDfjNqL123m3b5sSq9INJw
Anchor FM Podcast
https://anchor.fm/danielle-gray76
https://instagram.com/imdanielleegray?igshid=ZmVmZTY5ZGE
Patreon
https://www.patreon.com/user?u=80220371c
Tiktok
https://www.tiktok.com/@imdanielleegray?_t=8Yz96zvjkeM&_r=1
Podcast Instagram
https://instagram.com/onairwithdaniellegray?igshid=Yzg5MTU1MDY=
Support
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Website: https://www.thehotline.org/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Hello Fresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/Stalking and use code STALKING for 21 free meals plus free shipping
Progressive: Progressive.com
Wondery - Suspect: Check out the Second season of SUSPECT now
Leigh-Anne was stalked by an ex-boyfriend after the relationship went from love bombing to abusive.
After the break-up, he hacked her social media and stalked her, called her repeatedly, harassed her friends, sat outside her house, and followed her to work. He also threatened to rape her, attack her family with acid, and even found others willing to help him harass her. After changing her phone number multiple times, Leigh-Anne went to the police, who advised her to move away and change her legal name. Leigh-Anne did not give up the fight for justice and eventually got her day in court.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including domestic abuse. Listener discretion is advised.**
PODCAST LINKS:
Support
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Website: https://www.thehotline.org/
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Prose: Get your free in-depth hair consultation and 15% off at Prose.com/strictly
Wondery - Suspect: Check out the Second season of SUSPECT now
Alex was stalked for over a decade by an acquaintance she met through an ex-boyfriend when she was seventeen.
Ten years later, he reached out on social media after her divorce, and they met up, but there were too many red flags, so Alex ended things immediately. She then found out he had been collecting photos of her through the years from social media and using them as screen savers on his computer. Alex also discovered he was behind anonymous threatening emails to her husband while they were married. He continuously called and texted, telling her he was waiting for her to realize they were meant to be together. After Alex blocked him, he waited at her neighborhood bar for her, showed up at her job, and created fake social media accounts to stalk her.
** The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including suicide. Listener discretion is advised.**
PODCAST LINKS:
Support
Website: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/988
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Patrick Brady is a criminologist and university professor who studies stalking behavior and its impact on victims.
We discuss some cases he's worked on, types of technology used by stalkers, common stalking behaviors, and how the justice system responds to stalking. Along with his research, he has conducted interviews with officers, prosecutors, advocates, and survivors to understand the crime of stalking thoroughly. Patrick highlights why it's often difficult to prosecute a stalking case and how we can work with law enforcement to hold stalkers accountable.
PODCAST LINKS:
Patrick Brady
Website: https://www.unco.edu/hss/criminology-criminal-justice/about/faculty/patrick-brady.aspx
Twitter: https://twitter.com/Patrickology_
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Elaine Parker was stalked by a man she met on a dating app.
The relationship moved quickly, and right after they were engaged, Elaine endured domestic abuse, sexual assault, and rape. She finally got him out of the house and turned to the police, who arrested him multiple times when he began stalking her, threatening her, and trying to break into her home. As his stalking continued, Elaine found out he was still online dating and bragged about it on social media. While Elaine’s stalker is currently in prison, she has made it her mission to help others by creating Safer Date - a dating app that puts safety first. New members must pass mandatory ID checks, global criminal background checks, insolvency checks, and even addict register checks for added peace of mind. Elaine is here to talk about her fight for justice and how she’s become a survivor and an advocate for other women.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains depictions of domestic violence, sexual assault, and harm to animals. Listener discretion is advised.**
PODCAST LINKS:
Safer Date
Website: https://saferdate.co.uk/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saferdateltd/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/elaineparker101
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Jess is being stalked by her ex-boyfriend.
When Jess became too busy with work, she had to put her relationship on the back burner, but her boyfriend couldn’t accept it. He became jealous and insecure, questioned her about their relationship, went through her phone, and stopped her from talking to her male friends. Jess ended the relationship, and he tried desperately to win her back. When she didn’t respond, he threatened suicide. She called the police, but they determined he was not a threat to himself, and he guilted her into taking him back. When things didn’t change, Jess ended it for good, and the stalking began. Her ex showed up at her house, called and texted nonstop, and spammed her online. His friend told Jess that he was manic, on steroids, had access to weapons, and was dangerous. Jess called the police when he showed up at her house, and he was arrested for domestic violence and stalking, but that hasn’t stopped him from continuing to stalk her.
PODCAST LINKS:
Jess (Guest)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
NextEvo: NextEvo.com Use code STALKING for 25% off subscription orders of $40 or more
Progressive: Progressive.com
Ashlee Levitch was in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, who later stalked her.
Her ex-boyfriend used abusive tactics like trauma bonding, devaluing, bread-crumbing, dog-whistling, and future faking. Once she left him and began to heal, she could see the full impact of the trauma she had experienced. Her new podcast, "The Narc and Me," explores the effects of being with a narcissistic partner and how you can heal in the aftermath.
PODCAST LINKS:
Ashlee Levitch (Guest)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
NextEvo: NextEvo.com Use code STALKING for 25% off subscription orders of $50 or more
Progressive: Progressive.com
Kalie is being stalked by her ex-boyfriend, who impersonated a medical professional to try and kidnap her daughter.
After Kalie and her boyfriend broke up, she married a man in the military the following year. Her ex, also in the military, impersonated a medical professional to get her and her new husband's contact information. When her ex found them, he threatened to kidnap Kalie's child and do DNA testing to see if the child was his. She was able to keep him away from her child, but her ex called nonstop and had people follow her and drive past her house. Kalie was eventually granted a restraining order by the military police but continues to live in fear over her ex's access to weapons and his history of unstable behavior.
PODCAST LINKS:
PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION:
Petition Link (Inquest into the murder of Tina Greer)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Megan Bruce was stalked by a man after one date.
Megan wasn’t interested in a second date, but he wouldn’t take no for an answer. He followed her to her usual hangouts and constantly contacted her. When she stopped responding to him, he broke into her house. Megan had little support from friends and family and felt her life starting to unravel. She attempted suicide believing her son would be safer without her. Megan fought to survive and spent years working on her recovery, and now helps other women who are victims of violence and abuse.
** The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic depictions of sexual assault and topics including suicide and drug abuse. Listener discretion is advised.**
PODCAST LINKS:
PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION:
Petition Link (Inquest into the murder of Tina Greer)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Shelly is currently being stalked by an ex-boyfriend.
After they broke up, he used an extra set of keys to enter her flat and place things around that would remind her of him. He also left lights on, ate her food, moved stuff in the cupboards, and stole her mail. Shelly saw her stalker regularly driving the opposite way on the road she took to work. She changed the locks on her flat, but he continued to break in. After months of being stalked, Shelly went to the police with evidence, and a trainee officer was assigned to help her. Her stalker was arrested, but when he was released, things escalated. Shelly moved from her flat and is hiding for her safety.
PODCAST LINKS:
Shelly Palmer (Guest)
Minds of Madness (Promo)
PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION:
Petition Link (Inquest into the murder of Tina Greer)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Lucy Walsh is being stalked by a stranger who hitchhiked from Minnesota to Los Angeles to marry her.
He showed up at her father's house first, but when that didn't work, he found her address online and showed up there. When he couldn't break in, he built a shrine to Lucy in her front yard and left a note saying he'd be back. After Lucy alerted her family's security, they sent her to a hotel where she was placed under 24/7 surveillance. The stalker repeatedly showed up at her home, snuck through her security gate, wrote her name on cardboard signs, threw things onto her balcony, and created more shrines on her property. The police department told her they couldn't do anything unless he physically hurt her, so Lucy hired a Private Investigator. When he was finally caught and arrested, the police found weapons in his backpack, and Lucy knew things could've turned out much worse.
PODCAST LINKS:
Lucy Walsh (Guest)
The Lucy and Annabel Show (Podcast)
The Lucy and Annabel Show (Website)
Gone Cold (Promo)
PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION:
Petition Link (Inquest into the murder of Tina Greer)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Ty James was stalked by a woman who refused to take no for an answer.
Ty is a single dad and social media content creator who met a woman through an online dating app. After a few dates, he ended things, but she couldn't accept it and sent him hundreds of messages and called him nonstop until he blocked her. She then began sending packages to his house, both hand delivered and online orders. He also found a decapitated squirrel's head and an apple air tag tucked under the rear bumper of one of his vehicles. Fearing for his and his children's safety, he turned to the police and was granted a restraining order. He has since gone public with his stalking story to increase awareness and uses his social media presence to warn others about the dangers of stalking.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic depictions of animal cruelty. Listener discretion is advised.**
PODCAST LINKS:
Ty James (Guest)
True Crimecast (Promo)
PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION:
Petition Link (Inquest into the murder of Tina Greer)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
NextEvo: NextEvo.com Use code STALKING for 25% off subscription orders of $50 or more
Progressive: Progressive.com
Lili Greer believes a stalker murdered her missing mother.
After leaving an abusive relationship, Lili's mother, Tina, moved them into a new house that was soon broken into and vandalized. They assumed it was Tina's ex watching them, frightening them, and making his presence known. Tina agreed to meet him and was never seen or heard from again. Lili was thirteen when her mother went missing, and since then, she has fought to prove that her mother was murdered by her stalker. Lili joins us today to raise awareness about her mother's case and warn others about the dangers of domestic violence and stalking.
PODCAST LINKS:
Lili Greer (Guest)
Instagram (The Tina Greer Project)
Missing Person’s Advocacy Network
Queensland Homicide Victims’ Support Group
National Domestic, Family and Sexual Violence Counselling Service.
https://www.1800respect.org.au
PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION:
Petition Link (Inquest into the murder of Tina Greer)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
[email protected]
Instagram:
SPONSORED BY:
Perkie Prints:
PerkiePrints.com Use Code STALKING for 10% off your order
Progressive:
Wondery - Against the Odds:
Clara was stalked in college by a student who catfished her.
Clara befriended a student who lived down the hall in her dorm who told her that her guy friend from back home was interested in meeting. This guy friend and Clara started texting, but she noticed the guy would never respond when her friend wasn’t around, and things didn’t add up. Searching on Facebook, Clara found the guy and reached out to him, soon finding out her friend had been impersonating him. He knew of Clara’s friend and was disturbed that she told Clara private details about his life and that she had been stalking him and impersonating him. Clara told her dorm RA, which led to a dramatic confrontation and resulted in the other girl having to move. Years later, Clara made a Tik Tok about her story and discovered even more disturbing facts, including other victims and another perpetrator.
PODCAST LINKS:
Clara Berghaus (Guest)
Generation Why
Body to Burial
Instagram:
Progressive: Progressive.com
Shirley and her daughter Sarah were terrorized by a stalker who continually entered their home.
During a sleepover, Sarah and her friends saw a man staring at them through the bedroom window. Shirley checked the house but found nothing and dismissed it, thinking the children were trying to scare each other. Months later, Sarah woke up and said she saw the same man…but this time he was in her bedroom watching her sleep.
Shirley called the police, but they were dismissive after finding out Shirley and her husband are blind and told them it was just their kids playing pranks on them. Then, over the next three years, the stalker broke into their house numerous times and stole their daughter’s clothes, family photos, and mail.
After their dog attacked the stalker, Shirley called the police again, but they refused to show up, instead blaming the children again for the mess. Finally, a neighbor saw their stalker peeping in the windows and spoke up, but the stalking only escalated, and the break-ins continued.
** The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic depictions of the sexual abuse of a minor and animal cruelty. Listener discretion is advised.**
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
True Crime Bnb
Love and Murder
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
SPONSORED BY:
NextEvo: NextEvo.com Use code STALKING for 25% off subscription orders of $50 or more
Progressive: Progressive.com
KD was stalked by her high school ex-boyfriend while attending college.
After graduating from a Christian high school, KD broke up with her boyfriend, who then decided to attend the same college. Once their first semester began, he obtained her schedule and followed her to class, the dining hall, and her dorm room. KD was overwhelmed by his obsession and the intense stress from constantly being under his surveillance. Now she’s speaking out about how her intensely religious culture created a devastating impact on how she dealt with the stalker.
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Reverie True Crime
Reverie True Crime (Instagram)
Check the Locks
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
SPONSORED...
Jodi was stalked by her violent ex-husband.
While in her early 20s, Jodi started dating a man she met while out with friends. After they moved in together, he began to isolate her, forced her to drop out of college, and became physically abusive. He locked her in a closet, broke her nose, and left bruises all over her body. Jodi left him, fearing for her life, but he couldn’t let her go and started stalking her. He followed her, called nonstop, vandalized her car, broke into her apartment, and left threatening notes. When he called Jodi to say he wanted to talk one last time, she called the police, and the situation turned violent.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphics depictions of domestic violence. Listener discretion is advised.**
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Killer Destinations Podcast
True Crime South Africa
True Crime South Africa (Website)
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Rosemary was stalked by a man while playing a tabletop role-playing game.
After moving to a new town, Rosemary joined a local Table Top Role Playing Game, also known as the TTRPG Community, and soon met another new player who took an interest in her. She turned him down when he asked her, letting him know she was a lesbian and already in a relationship. The man started a new role-playing game about a woman stalked by another character who refused to take no for an answer, and the game soon mirrored her real-life stalking nightmare. Rosemary’s stalker cyber-stalked her, followed her, and threatened her and her friends. She went to the police and informed her job, friends, and landlord to get help. When her stalker was outed to the TTRPG community, she found out she was not his only victim.
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Something Sinister Podcast
Something Sinister (Instagram)
Bizarre Buffett Podcast
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Tara was stalked by her abusive ex-boyfriend.
While online dating, Tara formed a quick friendship with a man she met. He needed a place to stay, so she offered him a spare room in her house, leading to a romantic relationship. Shortly after moving in together, he became abusive. He drugged Tara, cut her water and electric lines, tried to set her house on fire, and smashed her stove and TV with a baseball bat. She kicked him out, but he called repeatedly, broke into her home, and sent death threats detailing how he would kill her. One of Tara’s Facebook friends, Nikki, reached out to Tara after she realized they had both dated the same man. Together they discovered several other women he had stalked. Nikki also joins us on this episode and previously revealed her own story on Strictly Stalking Episode 123, “Under His Influence.”
EPISODE 123 - “UNDER HIS INFLUENCE” (LINK)
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS:
Progressive: Progressive.com
SimpliSafe: SimpliSafe.com/STALKING
Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth are cult survivors who turned their harrowing experiences into a true crime podcast.
As a child, Lola and her mother fell prey to a charismatic “prophet,” who turned out to be a cult leader. Meagan was raised in a high control Christian group known as the Two by Twos aka "The Truth" or "The Way.” Together, Lola & Meagan co-host the podcast Trust Me: Cults, Extreme Belief, and Manipulation, where they share their experiences with seductive cult leaders, the dangers of groupthink, and abuse of power through religion. Today they’re joining us to share their own stalking experiences, discuss cult leaders who stalk, and reveal the similarities between cult leaders and stalkers.
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS:
Progressive: Progressive.com
SimpliSafe: SimpliSafe.com/STALKING
Lindsey was stalked by the worship leader from her church.
After a break up, Lindsay moved back to her hometown and began a new relationship with the worship leader from her church. He was controlling, went through her phone, obsessed over her social media, got mad when she went places without him, and was abusive.
As Lindsey was breaking things off with him, coincidentally, the police served a warrant for his arrest for the alleged sexual assault of a minor. He went on the run, only communicating through Lindsey until she convinced him to turn himself in, but he quickly posted bail.
While on bail he began stalking Lindsay, texting her, love bombing her, sending gifts, and even followed her out of town. Due to his threats and access to firearms, Lindsey went into hiding in order to stay alive.
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Morbidology
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/morbidology/id1463979546
https://open.spotify.com/show/69LQv3VWf6wodCBqvVmfZG
https://www.instagram.com/morbidology
Two Girls One Ghost
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-girls-one-ghost/id1271249164
https://open.spotify.com/show/4aFNuODLKP1NvhQb7P3Kbn
https://www.instagram.com/twogirlsoneghost/
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Rhonda was stalked by a man she moved into her apartment.
While living in NYC, Rhonda was on the search for a new roommate when the man she had been briefly dating offered to move in with her. Immediately after he moved in, he became controlling, paranoid, and angry. He kept tabs on Rhonda, told her not to hang out with friends, accused her of lying, and often got into violent fights with other men.
As the relationship unraveled, she discovered he stole money from her, lied to her, and cheated on her. Frightened by his behavior, Rhonda told him to leave because she didn’t feel safe. But, after he left, she discovered a phone her stalker had left behind to record her conversations.
His stalking continued to escalate after she broke it off, begging her to take him back and messaging her with fake numbers. When Rhonda cut off all contact, her stalker started showing up at her job and apartment, causing her to fear for her life.
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Military Murder Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/military-murder/id1485570562
The Trail Went Cold
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-trail-went-cold/id1084020770
Golden Age of Murder
https://open.spotify.com/show/1BDtZLHwhr3PUVT4UA49XM
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Jillian Hamilton is the Creator and Host of the Podcast "Cheating: When Love Lies."
While in high school, a stranger started sending Jillian gifts and notes, which she ignored at first.
She figured out who her "secret admirer" was when he showed up unannounced at her parent's house, a boy in her grade that she wasn't friends with and didn't know well.
Jillian continued to ignore the letters and gifts, eventually moving away to college. While at college, she received a final note telling her that her stalker had been thinking about her all this time and would always continue to follow her.
Jillian is a relationship expert and shares her experience and the research she's done to explore and understand complex relationships.
We examine relationship red flags, dive into the psychology behind intimate partner stalking, and get Jillian's advice on what you can do when stalking behavior starts.
Jillian Hamilton - Guest
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cheating-when-love-lies/id1575403464
https://open.spotify.com/show/51sjxVIFw6QhbtuwIg8166
https://www.jillianhamilton.online/
https://www.jillianhamilton.online/about-podcast-cheating-when-love-lies
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
The Cult Vault
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cult-vault/id1514656568
https://open.spotify.com/show/5jj1sbs9YQFTbBn0w8AP0L
https://www.instagram.com/cultvaultpod/
Maisie was stalked by her driving instructor after taking lessons from him.
While learning to drive, Maisie's teacher seemed professional and friendly at first, but then she started feeling uncomfortable around him.
She turned him down when he asked her out for a drink for her 18th birthday, and he responded by creating a Tik Tok for her with driving tips, but he added a heart and called her his "favorite."
Because he was almost 40 years older than her, Maisie initially thought he was just a sad man with a crush. Things spiraled when he created an IG account, counting down the days until he saw her again, sent her gifts, texted her confessing his love, and joined her WhatsApp group chat.
Not stopping there, her stalker also paid someone from the dark web to hack into her Instagram, which is when Maisie first reported him to the police.
He was caught and placed on bail after driving to her dorm to try to see her but immediately broke bail by requesting to follow her on Instagram.
After being found guilty at trial, he sent Maisie a message saying, "you have just killed me," and then went missing for 48 hours.
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Murder Me On Monday
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/murder-me-on-monday/id1546597159
https://open.spotify.com/show/7dIp2xEGd2FkTOu2N85nSY
https://murdermeonmonday.buzzsprout.com/
Moving Past Murder
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moving-past-murder-with-collier-landry/id1551076031
Jeanette was stalked in college by a classmate she befriended from her wilderness class.
During the class trip, they got to know each other as friends, and afterward, he texted her, asking her to be his girlfriend and saying he loved her.
She turned him down, but he continued to reach out excessively, eventually showing up in class with a bouquet, causing them embarrassment when she again turned him down.
He continued to follow her around campus and even threatened suicide.
Jeanette went to the campus police as his threats turned from self-harm to harming her, even posting a message on Facebook offering money to anyone willing to strip her naked in public.
LINKS:
Jeanette Opheim - Guest
https://www.facebook.com/thewriterjo/
https://www.tiktok.com/@thewriterjo?_t=8USLWNf2ZER&_r=1
https://bookshop.org/books/annie-and-khalil/9798595162418
https://www.amazon.com/Annie-Khalil-Jeanette-Opheim/dp/B09MDTHFYF/
https://www.amazon.com/Jeanette-Opheim/e/B08WR9KDKC
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Murderific
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/murderific-true-crime-podcast/id1366667764
Melanie was stalked by her ex-husband after meeting and connecting with him online.
When he told her about his criminal past, she felt they should just remain friends, but he won her over and they were quickly married.
Melanie’s new husband was immediately abusive, and she barely made it out of the marriage alive. After a horrible beating she filed for divorce and pressed charges. Her abuser only served five months in jail.
After his release, he hacked Melanie’s social media to get access to her photos and messages. He created fake social media accounts, posted her information online, and told her he would commit a murder-suicide.
He constantly threatened Melanie, telling her how he wanted to torture and murder her. Things culminated in a high-speed chase and when law enforcement finally arrested him, they found large quantities of ammo, weapons, and body armor, confirming his threats to murder Melanie.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic descriptions of domestic violence. Listener discretion is advised.**
LINKS
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Jill was stalked by an older high school foreign exchange student who became obsessed with her.
He constantly stood in front of her locker and would move aside when she needed to use it, but continued to stare without speaking to her.
As his behavior escalated, he followed her around school, waited outside the bathroom for her, and offered her gifts.
Jill told the school counselor about this, and found out he had also been stalking other students.
The counselor told Jill to try to be sympathetic because of cultural differences and suggested Jill befriend her stalker; giving the stalker the same advice.
When her stalker approached her again, she told him to leave her alone, but that only escalated his stalking behavior.
When Jill's mother found out what was happening, she called the school and threatened to call the police.
After that, Jill's stalker turned his attention to another girl at school, but took it a step further and followed her home.
LINKS
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Paula was stalked by an ex-boyfriend from high school.
When Paula broke up with him, his behavior became disturbing, and he attempted suicide to try to get her back.
She gave in but only stayed long enough to help him survive the suicide attempt.
When she left him again, he followed her to a hotel room she was at with friends and threatened them with a gun.
Paula was again afraid for her life when she was riding in his car, and he started driving erratically, threatening to kill them both.
Things got worse when Paula’s stalker was caught hiding in the bushes outside her house, jumping out to punch her in the face and force his way into her home.
Paula went to the authorities, but they told her she would need to prove he physically harmed her for them to take action.
LINKS
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Liz Hickox was stalked by a woman who faked illnesses for financial support and sympathy.
While volunteering at a breast cancer charity, Liz met and became friends with Sarah, who told Liz she had terminal cancer.
Sarah soon became obsessed with Liz, messaging up to 200 times a day, showing up for unannounced visits, and even moving in with Liz’s parents at one point.
When Liz and her husband Brian began to unravel Sarah’s lies they realized they were being stalked.
Liz brought Sarah on the Dr. Phil show to make sense of things and get Sarah help, but it raised controversial issues concerning mental health.
This story caught the attention of Laura Beil, who now hosts a six-part podcast series called Sympathy Pains about Liz and Sarah and the many other victims Sarah scammed and stalked over the years.
LINKS
Sympathy Pains (Podcast) - Episode 3: Liz
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-3-liz/id1617326066?i=1000557461238
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic descriptions of domestic violence and animal abuse. Listener discretion is advised.**
MT is being stalked by a man she met at church.
After church one day MT received a Facebook friend request with an odd message containing religious conspiracy theories, but accepted it anyway, believing it was her duty as a Christian to help him.
He started following her around, taking non-consensual photos, told people they were dating, and even showed up on her dates with other men.
MT was concerned and turned to the church for help...but the church elder said the solution was to marry her stalker.
Growing up as a strict Hmong American Christian, she felt she couldn’t turn her back on the church, so she agreed and moved in with her stalker.
After suffering years of domestic abuse, MT finally escaped. She’s speaking out to to encourage others within the Hmong American community to step forward as well.
LINKS
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including sexual abuse of a minor and domestic violence. Listener discretion is advised.**
Keila was six years old when her stepfather started stalking and abusing her.
Within three months of moving in with her stepfather in Brazil, Keila discovered he was watching her while she slept and showered.
Keila’s stepfather started physically and sexually abusing her, but when she told her mother, Keila was the one blamed for it.
She found holes her stepfather made in the walls of their house to watch her in every room, and he started following her when she left the house.
After years of constant stalking and abuse, Keila was brutally attacked by her mother and stepfather. She escaped, fled the country, and went into hiding at the age of only fourteen.
Keila is coming forward today to let people know that stalking can come in any form, even parents.
LINKS
Organizations for Adult Survivors of Abuse
Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline
Text: 18004224453
Call: 18004224453
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Lily Baldwin was stalked for over thirteen years by a man who became obsessed with her while she toured as a backup dancer.
It started with emails, then calls, notes, and gifts in the mail - until he came to the United States looking for her.
Lily hired a legal firm and sent him a cease and desist letter to stop contacting her, but it was ignored.
As the stalking continued, Lily was able to get the Manhattan special victims unit involved, but there was little they could do when her stalker left the US.
When the stalking escalated, Lily moved to Los Angeles and went into hiding, afraid for her life.
Lily fought back and created “Stories of the Stalked,” a six-episode true-crime podcast series detailing her stalking experience.
She also started a non-profit organization, “Stop Stalking Us” creating awareness and support for stalking victims.
LINKS
Lily Baldwin (Work)
https://www.lilybaldwin.com/work
Stories of the Stalked (Podcast)
https://www.audible.com/pd/Stories-of-the-Stalked-Podcast/B09VM32RSL
https://www.lilybaldwin.com/portfolio/stories-of-the-stalked
Stop Stalking Us (Charity)
https://www.lilybaldwin.com/portfolio/stop-stalking-us
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
Nicola was stalked by a coworker she dated.
Nicola had just left an abusive partner and was living in a woman’s shelter when she met her coworker.
She began to notice him outside of work at places she frequented, so they became friends and then started dating.
After Nicola told him she wanted to start a family, he pulled away, so she decided to end the relationship.
When Nicola moved out of the shelter to continue rebuilding her life, her ex began following her and texted her non-stop.
The situation escalated when he showed up at her house at all hours and threatened her friends. She finally confided in her coworkers, who advised her to call the police.
With the help of law enforcement, Nicola fought back against her stalker and took him to court.
RESOURCES
Mind (Support for any type of abuse – based in the UK)
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/abuse/
Refuge (Provides specialist services to survivors of domestic abuse – based in the UK)
Freephone 24 Hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline
0808 2000 247
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Daniel is being stalked by a man he met on the dating app, Grindr.
Although there was no romantic chemistry, they decided to remain friends. When Daniel was having financial problems, his new friend offered to help him out, even letting Daniel live with him to help him save money.
After he moved in, Daniel was regularly questioned about his whereabouts, and his friend started drama within Daniel’s friend group to isolate him. As the situation escalated, Daniel was sexually propositioned in person, over text, and through social media by his friend turned stalker.
His stalker exposed himself to Daniel and played loud pornography from his room. When Daniel confronted him, he invited multiple men over and made sure Daniel could hear them having sex. Daniel left the apartment and sought support as a victim of stalking and sexual harassment.
Daniel faced his stalker in court during a protection order hearing and discovered that his stalker also crossed sexual boundaries with some of his friends.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains depictions of graphic sexual situations and pornography. Listener discretion is advised.**
Support
RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country.
If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, help is available.
National Sexual Assault Hotline
1-800-656-4673
The LGBT National Help Center is a national resource that provides LGBTQ+ community with free & confidential support and referral resources via phone, text, and chat.
www.glbtnationalhelpcenter.org
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Nikki was seventeen when she met the man she would later date, have a child with, and would eventually become her stalker.
During the relationship, he was controlling and abusive. Every time Nikki tried to leave, he lured her back with promises that things would get better.
When she became pregnant with their child, the abuse escalated to the point that Nikki was held captive and tortured.
When she was able to get help, her stalker was arrested. Nikki moved over 3000 miles away, but when he was released from jail, he found her, threatened her, and continued to stalk her.
He called her work, harassed her boss, and made constant threats against her and her family. Her friends alerted Nikki that he had found the address of where she was staying, and Nikki believes he had every intention of murdering her.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains depictions of domestic violence, sexual assault, and harm to animals. Listener discretion is advised.**
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Francesca is a former bikini model who has been cyberstalked for almost twenty years.
After gaining international recognition through televised bikini modeling competitions and photo shoots, an obsessed fan pretended to be Francesca to acquire candidly explicit unpublished material from her photographers.
Then the fan leaked the nude photos and videos to porn websites and created fake social media profiles sending the explicit pictures and videos to Francesca's friends and family.
She filed a police report against the photographer who sold her stalker the videos, but they told her this was out of their jurisdiction and refused to help.
After contacting numerous attorneys with no strong results, she connected with Joey Ortega, a cyberstalking expert who began meticulously investigating, documenting, and organizing the information to build Francesca's case.
Joey Ortega also joins us to reveal how he hunted down Francesca's stalking ring and set her on the path to justice.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains explicit language and sexual themes. Listener discretion is advised.**
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Darian was stalked by a stranger he met through a random act of violence.
When Darian's female friend was sexually assaulted during a night out, they left the scene, but the perpetrator followed and physically assaulted Darian. Days later, a friend of the perpetrator confronted them, saying they should die because they called the police.
The man started showing up in places Darian frequented, physically and verbally attacking Darian. He did not know the identity of this man but was finally able to get a clear photo during one of his attacks, and the police were able to identify him.
At first, Darian believed these were random crimes due to being in the wrong place at the wrong time, but now sees that this person was using stalking to commit hate crimes against him.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including sexual assualt and physical violence. Listener discretion is advised.**
For assistance with hate crimes in Saxony (Germany)
For LGBTQI+ support in Saxony (Germany)
https://www.gerede-dresden.de/index.php/home.html
For reporting homophobic hate crimes in Berlin (Germany)
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Collier Landry is being stalked by a woman obsessed with his past.
As a child, Collier testified against his father in the brutal murder of his mother. Collier channeled his tragedy into the ID documentary “A Murder in Mansfield,” revealing intimate details about his childhood and the loss of his mother.
A fan of the documentary reached out to Collier wanting to collaborate on another documentary together. Collier was open to the idea until she began conflicting with his girlfriend at the time.
After Collier departed from the project, this person reached out to his friends and family, trying to establish relationships with them. He blocked her online, but she continued to not only reach out to him but also his incarcerated father.
In his efforts to stop his stalker, Collier, he went public about the situation on his true crime podcast, “Moving Past Murder,” where he shares his unique perspective on surviving crime and moving on.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including murder. Listener discretion is advised.**
Moving Past Murder With Collier Landry - Podcast Links
Apple
https://podcasts.apple.com/my/podcast/moving-past-murder-with-collier-landry/id1551076031
Spotify
https://open.spotify.com/show/465s4vsFcogvKIynNRcvGf?si=46cd2146dc9248d0
Collier Landry - Links
Website
https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=/collierlandry/
https://twitter.com/collierlandry
Patreon
https://www.patreon.com/collierlandry
TEDxMansfield Talk
https://www.ted.com/talks/collier_landry_what_happens_when_the_answers_we_seek_are_not_what_we_find
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Isis was stalked by a boyfriend she met when she was eighteen years old.
Their relationship was great at first, but he became insecure and manipulated her into spending all her time with him.
He threatened her, physically abused her, called her job, followed her to work, and even told her boss that he would set the store on fire.
After his threats got her fired from her job, he followed her to her new one and repeated the same pattern of stalking. He even smashed the storefront window with a rock and a note saying, “it’s all her fault.”
He sent roses, balloons, and threatening messages and told random men to approach and harass her.
Isis filed a harassment report with the police only to face her stalker at the police station because he was also filing a report against her.
**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including domestic violence. Listener discretion is advised.**
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Faye is being stalked by an ex-boyfriend who is obsessed with Asian women.
While working out at the gym, Faye met an employee who found her personal information in the company database and sent her a Facebook friend request.
Their friendship became romantic, but when she wanted to become exclusive, he ghosted her, and it turned into an on and off-again relationship.
After Faye started dating a new man, her stalker repeatedly showed up at her apartment, threw water bottles at her windows, and called her non-stop for over a year.
She blocked him on social media, but he created fake profiles to reach out, followed her friends and family, made cruel comments on posts, and sent her sexually explicit messages.
He showed up in public places and approached Faye, so she obtained a restraining order, but it has not prevented him from continuing to stalk her.
Faye is coming forward to share her story to amplify resources and shed light on hate crimes against AAPI (Asian Americans and Pacific Islander) women.
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
LINKS:
AAPI Women Lead
https://www.imreadymovement.org/
Stop Asian Hate
Instagram:
Strictly Stalking
Jaimie Beebe
Jake Deptula
Jeska Bailey Forsyth is a musician and model whose stalker is using revenge porn to cause her harm.
Before boarding a plane to Paris to meet up with her boyfriend, Jeksa received a screenshot from one of her friends who found an explicit photo online that she had posed for privately. Jeska contacted the website where it was posted, and they removed it. Later, another friend discovered more explicit photos of Jeska online, this time it included her contact information.
She attempted to have the photos and information removed, contacting the website over 1000 times, but they would not take it down. Feeling humiliated, Jeksa suspected an intimate partner from her past was behind the revenge porn.
Jeska finally got the police to launch an investigation, including serving search warrants to acquire IP addresses. But she still continues to deal with her unknown stalker.
DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US
RATE US
As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083
LINKS:
Jeska Bailey Forsyth
https://www.instagram.com/jeska_bailey_forsyth
PROMO PODCAST LINKS:
Least of These
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/least-of-these/id1551568238
https://open.spotify.com/show/7wz1JaEUP1SzVO82IWF8mP
https://www.instagram.com/least_ofthese
https://www.facebook.com/leastofthesepodcast/
En liten tjänst av I'm With Friends. Finns även på engelska.