The Queer Family Podcast

Host Jaimie sits down with Tom Tracy, an award-winning author and proud gay dad, to explore his inspiring journey to parenthood through adoption. Together, they delve into the joys and challenges of raising children, drawing from Tom's experiences that have inspired his acclaimed book series, Scoochie and Skiddles. Tom's work aims to normalize LGBTQIA+ families by portraying them in everyday life, showcasing the ordinary yet extraordinary moments. The episode emphasizes the importance of representation in media and literature, offering a heartfelt discussion on the significance of diversity and inclusion. Plus, don't miss a special guest appearance by Jaimie's 10-year-old daughter, Rose, as they discuss the importance of starting conversations about origin stories early on.

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????Key Takeaways:???? 

*Tom Tracy's family-building journey through adoption defied common narratives of complications in LGBTQIA+ adoption, offering an unexpectedly smooth experience.

*His children's books aim to normalize queer families by portraying them in familiar, everyday scenarios.

*Tom shares an emotionally charged, authentic moment when his daughter proudly explained her adoption story to a new friend, illustrating the importance of open discussions about family diversity with children.

*The "drop the seed theory" is mentioned, highlighting the importance of talking to children about their origin stories from a young age, planting informative seeds for later understanding.

*The episode underlines the significance of representation in children's literature and the need for more stories that include diverse family structures.

????Quotes:????

"The stories are incidentally gay... This is really a story about a family." Tom

????About The Guest(s)????

Tom Tracy is a dedicated father, author, and social worker. His book series, Scoochie and Skittles, is inspired by his family's adventures and aims to normalize LGBTQIA+ families by showcasing them in everyday life. He is also a passionate advocate for the queer community and gives voice to underrepresented families through his literature, earning several book awards for his work.

????Resources mentioned in the episode: 

*tomtracybooks.com , scoochieandskittles.com *Find Tom on  Facebook and Instagram.

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?? Episode Chapters:

0:00:00 Introduction and sponsorship message from Pregnant Together

0:03:07 Importance of normalizing LGBTQ+ families and discussing origin stories

0:08:57 Interviewing Tom Tracy about his book series and mission to normalize LGBTQ+ families

0:13:12 Jaimie and Tom discuss the importance of telling LGBTQIA+ family stories and normalizing them

0:17:06 Tom shares how his own family inspired him to write children's books that reflect families like his own

0:20:48 Tom explains their decision to pursue private domestic adoption instead of surrogacy, and their intention to support a child who needed a family

l S15 EP4 l Heidi and Trine, lactation consultants and friends, join host Jaimie to discuss feeding babies in the queer community. They explore induced lactation, chest feeding, and inclusive feeding practices. Sharing their own queer journeys, they provide valuable insights into the challenges and possibilities of feeding babies in the queer community. They emphasize the importance of seeking help and finding the right lactation consultant. Don't miss this informative and inclusive conversation.

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????Key Takeaways:???? 

Diverse Family Feeding: Insight into lactation consultancy for LGBTQIA+ families, including chest feeding and induced lactation.

Personal Journeys: Heidi and Trina share their coming-out narratives and their paths to becoming lactation consultants.

Heidi candidly shares her emotional journey through stillbirth, underscoring the importance of milk management after loss?an area often uncharted in lactation support.

D-MER Awareness: Bringing attention to dysphoric milk ejection reflex, offering solace to those who may be affected during their lactation journey.

Feeding Preparedness: Stressing the importance of early consultation to set realistic expectations and better prepare for potential challenges in breastfeeding.

Insurance Coverage: The revelation that lactation consultancy services may often be covered by insurance, making them more accessible to a wider audience.

????Quotes:????

"Feeding your baby at breast or at chest is natural and normal, but so is walking; you're going to have to practice." - Trine

" Parenthood isn't meant to be done alone. Reach out to your community." - Heidi

????About The Guest(s)????

Heidi Kim and Trine Bradshaw are both seasoned lactation consultants and work together at their agency, Breast for Baby. They specialize in a gamut of feeding methods and techniques, from traditional breastfeeding or chestfeeding to induced lactation and milk management, catering to a diverse array of family structures, including LGBTQIA+ families. With their own queer stories, Heidi and Trine bring not only expertise to the table but also rich, personal experiences that shape their inclusive practice.

????Resources mentioned in the episode: 

Breast for Baby: Heidi and Trina work together as lactation consultants at Breast for Baby. **Mention the Queer Family Podcast in your intake form, for a discount!

Newman-Goldfarb Protocol: A commonly referenced guide for induced lactation.

Breastfeeding Outside the Box Podcast: Recommended for further insights into non-traditional breastfeeding scenarios.

Breast for Baby on Social Media: Follow them on Instagram and Facebook @breastforbaby.

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l S15 EP3 l Wendy Cole transitioned genders at the age of 67, even though she was convinced from the age of 5 that her ?male facsimile? was not her true authentic self. A life of suppression and maintaining a heteronormative identity took a tremendous toll on her well-being, and caused strained relationships within her family, leading to a powerful transformation later in life. Now, finally living her truth, she works as a transition coach for anyone going through a difficult life transition. Wendy's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to be your true authentic self. Moreover, it underscores the crucial importance of acceptance and inclusion in our society. ?Let my life be an example of what not to do.? Wendy

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????Key Takeaways:???? 

*It's never too late to embrace your authentic self, as evidenced by Wendy who transitioned at 67, demonstrating the power of resilience and hope.

*Gender identity is more about self-perception and one's internal understanding rather than physical attributes; it is what is "between the ears," as Wendy puts it.

*Society often imposes repressive norms that make it difficult for individuals to express their true gender identity, leading to long-standing emotional and mental health challenges.

*Accepting major life transitions often require rewriting internal narratives, fostering self-awareness, and creating supportive environments, a concept Wendy now passionately shares through her work.

*Families of transgender individuals can benefit from understanding and support, recognizing that their loved one's journey to authenticity doesn't diminish the person they've always been.

????Resources mentioned in the episode: 

*Wendy Cole's professional website for coaching and transition mentorship: meetwendycole.com

????Quotes:????

*"I knew at age three there was something very different about me." Wendy

*? Gender is between your ears, not between your legs." Wendy

*? It's less about transitioning and more about correcting a condition you're born with so you can be who you've always been." Wendy

*? I?m just being for the first time after 67 years." Wendy

*? All life changes begin and are between your ears. 80% between your ears." Wendy

????About The Guest(s)????

Wendy Cole is a transition coach, a role she embodies to assist others in navigating complex life challenges, drawing from her own profound personal journey. With her firsthand experience, Wendy serves as a beacon of hope and resilience, proving that it's never too late to redefine one's life and embrace authenticity.

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l S15 EP2 l Jaimie sits down with Roberto Concepción to chat about his journey to solo parenthood as a gay dad through surrogacy. After his daughter?s birth, he noticed a severe gap in representation for families like his, and so, in true badass style, he decided to change that. He wrote and self-published a children's book called "More Than a Crown" to show his daughter a family like hers in the pages. It's all about embracing different family setups and encouraging kids to shake up old-school expectations.

Jaimie ropes in her non-queer bud, Shephathia, to help kick the episode and dive into the main theme. Together, they stress the importance of addressing "stigmatized" issues, such as Shephathia's experience with her child on the autism spectrum. The conversation highlights the need for diverse and inclusive storytelling and the normalization that occurs from empowering individuals and families from all walks of life.

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????Key Takeaways:???? *Roberto Concepción is an advocate for diversity, equity, and inclusion, as well as a proud single gay dad who became a parent through surrogacy.*The episode delves into the importance of representation for children, signifying the need for inclusive and empowering books.*?More Than a Crown," Roberto's children's book, challenges traditional narratives and promotes female empowerment across diverse cultures and family structures.

????Resources mentioned in the episode: *Roberto Concepción's Instagram for the book: @morethanacrownbook *Purchase "More Than a Crown" on Amazon Prime

????Quotes:????*? Less than 2% of children's books are written by someone that's Latinx and similarly, less than 2% of children's books have LGBTQIA plus representation.? Roberto 

*?I hope that this book is one small step in really making sure that the stories we're reading are by us, and for us." Roberto

????About The Guest(s)????*Roberto Concepción is an in-house employment attorney, children?s book author, and father, whose life is rooted in advocacy for diversity, equity, and inclusion.

*Shephathiah Townsend is a mother, an advocate, an ally, and an all-around badass whom Jaimie adores. 

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It?s the Season 15 premiere, y?all! Jaimie is joined by the one and only Mama Sue to introduce this fantastic episode with special guests, MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy. These trailblazing influencers share their journey as a queer black family, including challenges and triumphs with family acceptance, co-parenting in a blended family, using the tried and true ?turkey baster?? method with a known donor, and navigating parenthood with a child on the autism spectrum. The episode highlights the importance of representation and the power of love in creating a beautiful blended family. Tune in to hear their inspiring story of overcoming obstacles and embracing the undeniable strength that comes from forging one's own path in the face of adversity. 

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????Key Takeaways:???? 

*MyLin and SK met during a time when both were wrestling with their queer identities in the context of religion and family expectations.

*The couple experienced challenges in their journey, including confronting unsupportive family members and navigating difficulties around having children.

*They emphasize the importance of representation for black queer love and families on their social media platforms, offering guidance and a sense of community to others.

*MyLin and SK candidly discuss parenting a child on the autism spectrum and the unique experiences it brings to their family life.

*The couple maintains a strong, private relationship with their known donor, keeping this aspect of their lives discreet even among close friends and family.

*MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy are an inspirational couple who stand as a beacon of representation for LGBTQiA+ families.

????Resources mentioned in the episode: 

*MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy's Instagram: @StokesKennedy

*MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy's TikTok: @StokesKennedy

*MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy on YouTube

*?Being loud about being black and queer is already one thing, but when you add parenthood to it, it really shakes the table for a lot of people.? SK

*?This show has been around six years... This is huge." - Jaimie, highlighting the significance of the podcast's impact and longevity.

*?Representation matters. That's what you have taught me so well." - Mama Sue to Jaimie, emphasizing the importance of representation for the LGBTQiA+ community.

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?? Episode Highlights:

0:00:00 Introduction to the Queer Family podcast

0:01:07 Special guest co-host, Mama Sue, introduced

0:14:00 Introduction to the interview with MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy

0:17:00 MyLin had a two-year-old child from a previous relationship.

0:21:27 Dealing with family disapproval

0:28:51 The challenges of blending their families

0:34:28 The couple found a known donor who was willing to help them conceive.

0:44:16 MyLin and SK discuss parenting a child on the spectrum.

0:50:04 The impact of being a black and queer family

0:53:05 Reuniting with MyLin's father

0:57:03 Wrapping up and thanking the guests

Jaimie is joined by her wife, Anne in this bonus episode. Tune in for a heartwarming and sometimes hilarious foray into the daily life of a queer family managing sickness, parenting challenges, and the tenacity of a ten-year-old with big dreams. Jamie also gives a sneak peek of the upcoming season, featuring interviews with LGBTQIA+ families, including gay dads, gay moms, trans parents, and families navigating tragic situations. Jamie also recommends the "My Donor Story" book series for donor-conceived families. Tune in for a fun and informative episode before the new season begins.

Stay tuned for more episodes of the Queer Family Podcast and immerse yourself in more enlightening and affirming content.

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????Key Takeaways:???? 

*Upcoming season 15 of the Queer Family Podcast promises a range of inspiring stories across the LGBTQIA+ spectrum.

*A new chore chart is introduced into their home, encouraging their daughter to earn an allowance through responsibility.

*Jamie recommends the 'My Donor Story' book series, valuing its inclusivity and representation for donor-conceived children.

*The episode underscores the importance of resource-sharing and storytelling within the queer family community.

????Resources mentioned in the episode: 

*My Donor Story' book series by ?Sharon Leya?, available on ?Amazon?.

*Instagram page for 'My Donor Story': ?@mydonorstory?

*Website for 'My Donor Story': ?www.mydonorstory.com

????Quotes:????

*We need more representation and our children need to be able to see themselves." - Jamie, about the 'My Donor Story' books.

????About The Guest(s)????

*Anne Patricia Woods is the featured guest on this episode of the Queer Family Podcast. Anne is the wife of the host, Jaimie. Her presence brings a personal and authentic perspective to the conversation. The couple shares their experiences and stories with listeners, including dealing with COVID-19 in their household and their strategies for parenting their ten-year-old child.

????If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on? Patreon ?for as low as $2/month!

????We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ?thequeerfamilypodcast.com? [email protected]? ?IG?/?Twitter?/?FB?/?TikTok?/?YouTube?: @thequeerfamilypodcast

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????Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ?Amazon?, ?IndieBound?, ?Audible?.

????Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ?Tiffany Topol?\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

????Buy our merch ?here.?

????For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ?website

?? Episode Highlights:

*0:00:00 Introduction to the Queer Family podcast

*0:00:51 Special guest introduction: Anne Patricia Woods

*0:01:21 Anne's restlessness due to having Covid

*0:03:19 Preview of upcoming episodes for season 15

*0:07:00 Discussion about the show's longevity and 6-year anniversary

*0:08:08 Parenting challenges with their daughter's travel plans

*0:09:35 Introduction of a new chore system in the household

*0:10:06 Speculation on how long the new chore system will last

*0:11:07 Jamie recommends a book series for queer parents with donor-conceived kids

*0:12:56 Jamie provides information about the author and where to find the books

*0:13:28 Jamie mentions an Instagram page and website as additional resource

*0:14:05 Jamie promotes the video version of the podcast on Spotify

*0:14:49 Jamie encourages listeners to support the show on Patreon

*0:15:32 Jamie concludes the episode and thanks listeners

Host Jaimie Kelton is interviewed by Gavin and David from the ?Gaytriarchs? podcast in this bonus episode of The Queer Family Podcast. They discuss the challenges and joys of parenting as queer individuals, including Jaimie's personal journey to motherhood as a lesbian mom. They touch on the stereotypes that can come with being a gay dad or lesbian mom and the complexities of raising a son. Jaimie also shares her frustrations with PR agents trying to exploit her audience for free advertising. Tune in for a fun and insightful conversation about queer parenting and the unique experiences that come with it.

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????Key Takeaways:???? 

*Jaimie Kelton's commitment to storytelling and representation sheds light on the unique experiences of LGBTQIA+ families.

*The struggle for finding genuine sponsorships highlights the broader challenges facing queer content creators.

*Gender dynamics within queer families are a focal point, addressed with both humor and acuity.

*Personal anecdotes add a rich, relatable layer to the discussion on parenting styles and identity.

*The importance of standing by one's values when it comes to content creation and guest engagement is underlined.

????Quotes:????

*"My daughter knows 32 flavors. She can sing it. Yeah, a little, Ani. A little. Because I'm a 90s lesbian. Indigo." Jaimie

*"We were on the way home from school. He was in pre-K, and he gave me this look, and I'm pretty sure there was poop involved, too.? Jaimie

????About The Guest(s)????

*David F.M. Vaughn is an award-winning actor, director, composer, and writer.

*Gavin Lodge is? not an award-winning anything, but a champion adventure seeker and career changer. He is an actor, activist, recovering PTA president, and entrepreneur.

????Resources mentioned in the episode: *Listen to Gaytriarchs

????If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on? Patreon ?for as low as $2/month!

????We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840

thequeerfamilypodcast.com? / [email protected]? ?IG?/?Twitter?/?FB?/?TikTok?/?YouTube?: @thequeerfamilypodcast

????Watch Video Episodes right now on ?YouTube? and on ?Spotify?

????Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ?Amazon?, ?IndieBound?, ?Audible?.

????Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ?Tiffany Topol?\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

????Buy our merch ?here.?

????For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ?website

Chapters:

?? Episode Highlights:

*0:00:00 Introduction to the Queer Family podcast and sponsorship announcement

*0:01:24 Frustration with the lack of real sponsorships for the show

*0:03:41 Annoyance with companies wanting free advertising

*0:06:09 Sponsorship code for California Cryobank

*0:08:14 Introduction to the Gaytriarchs podcast

A Mic for the LGBTQIA+ Community: The Queer Family Podcast. Join Jaimie in this Bonus Episode as she guests on ?This ?Is Infertility? with Dan Bulger. 

Almost three years ago, we published a list of our Top 17 Favorite Fertility Podcasts. Topping that list was a podcast called ?If These Ovaries Could Talk,? a show centered around the lesbian experience of fertility and family building. Today?s guest, Jaimie Kelton, created this podcast after going through the journey to build her family and struggling to find relatable content and education for queer identities. As her following has grown, so has her podcast. Jaimie explains how her show has now evolved into ?The Queer Family Podcast,? a podcast for diverse identities, and all LGBTQIA+ stories alike. She dives deep into her story, the evolution of the podcast, and the reality of family-building in the LGBTQIA+ community. 

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????Key Takeaways:????

*Despite being a primary supporter of fertility care, the LGBTQIA+ community is often treated as an afterthought, facing challenges in accessing fair and comprehensive family-building options.

*The podcast has built a supportive and vocal community around it, showcasing the need for connection and chosen family within the queer community. 

*The LGBTQIA+ community faces financial challenges in family-building, with many individuals paying out of pocket for fertility care. Progyny is mentioned as an insurance provider addressing inclusive coverage for the community.

????Quotes:????

*?For the most part, the LGBTQIA+ community is an afterthought when it comes to fertility care, which is funny, because we are the main supporter of fertility care, because most of us need help to make our families.? - Jaimie Kelton

*"I didn't hear any queer stories at all. So I thought, well, somebody needs to create this. And so, I just ended up creating it" - Jaimie Kelton

????Resources mentioned in the episode: *Listen to This Is Infertility

????If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!

????We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840

thequeerfamilypodcast.com / [email protected] IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast

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l BONUS l Jaimie has some exciting news to share y?all! You can now watch video episodes on Spotify! 

A brief introduction to The Queer Family Podcast and Jaimie?s personal journey of building a family as a gay mom. She talks about her experience with infertility and the lack of representation for LGBTQIA+ families in the fertility space. Jaimie also announces that the podcast is now available in video format on Spotify and encourages listeners to watch the episodes there. She concludes by promoting California Cryobank, the sponsor of the season, and invites listeners to share their own family stories.

????Thanks to ?California Cryobank? (code QUEERFAM),  ?Our Shelves? (code QUEERFAM) and our ?Patreon? supporters.

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????Key Takeaways:???? 

*Jaimie started the Queer Family podcast to shine a spotlight on and normalize LGBTQIA+ families.

*The podcast features interviews with different individuals, couples, and families about their family-building journeys.

*Jaimie?s personal journey involved fertility treatments and a long struggle with unexplained infertility.

*LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples often get excluded from conversations about fertility benefits and insurance.

*Great news ? the podcast is now available in video format on Spotify, so you can watch the episodes.

*Our season sponsor, California Cryobank, offers a diverse selection of sperm donors for LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples.

????Quotes:????

*?This show needed to happen. It is six years old as we speak, and there is not a shortage of folks who want to come on here and tell their beautiful, beautiful stories." - Jaimie

*?I tried my best to shed a little light on [the lack of inclusion for LGBTQIA+ folks in fertility benefits], and I hope you do enjoy that episode." - Jaimie

*?Go make those babies, y'all. And then come tell me about it. Go make them. Go ahead. Love is love." - Jaimie

????About The Guest(s)????

*Hey there, I'm Jaimie, the host of The Queer Family Podcast, and I'm a proud gay mom of two awesome kids. My wife, Anne, and I went on quite a journey to build our family. That?s why The Queer Family Podcast exists. It?s a show all about sharing and celebrating LGBTQIA+ family stories.

????Resources mentioned in the episode: *Listen to ?This Is Infertility?

????If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on? Patreon ?for as low as $2/month!

????We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840

?thequeerfamilypodcast.com? / [email protected]? ?IG?/?Twitter?/?FB?/?TikTok?/?YouTube?: @thequeerfamilypodcast

????Watch Video Episodes right now on ?YouTube? and on ?Spotify?

????Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ?Amazon?, ?IndieBound?, ?Audible?.

????Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ?Tiffany Topol?\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

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S14 EP15 BONUS | Join Jaimie in this Holiday Bonus Episode as she guests on 'Lost Spaces' with K Anderson! Jaimie shares her experience growing up in San Francisco surrounded by queer culture but struggling to recognize her own queerness. She discusses the male-dominated gay world she witnessed in the 80s and 90s and the lack of representation of gay women. Jaimie reflects on her journey of self-discovery, including experimenting with women and eventually embracing her identity as a lesbian. She also discusses the challenges of coming out to her parents and the stereotypes surrounding "U-Haul lesbians." Throughout her story, Jaimie emphasizes the importance of embracing one's differences and shedding the need for perfectionism. Dive into this special episode with a personal touch from Jaimie.

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????Key Takeaways:????

Growing up in a queer-friendly environment does not guarantee immediate self-recognition of one's own queerness. Representation and exposure to diverse queer experiences are crucial in understanding and accepting one's own sexuality. Coming out can be a complex and ongoing process, with individuals gradually embracing and fully owning their identities. The queer community can provide support and a sense of belonging during the process of self-discovery. Losing perfection means letting go of the need to control others' perception of you.

????Quotes:????

"I think everybody has a little bit of gay in them and they just haven't found it yet." - Jaimie Kelton "I knew there was community. I knew I would not be alone if I decided to come out.? - Jaimie Kelton ?I feel like I touched my toe real slowly into this gay water." - Jaimie Kelton

????Resources mentioned in the episode:

Listen to Lost Spaces

????If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!

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S14 EP14 BONUS | We interrupt our regular content to bring you Holiday Bonus Episodes of podcasts that Jaimie loves and has guested on! Listen to the intro to hear an update and funny story from Jaimie before diving into an episode of ?Who?s Your Daddy? with Michael and Matt. Jaimie and the fellas go deep into her personal story of struggling through unexplained infertility and over 3 years (!!) of trying to have a baby through IVF and IUI. She also shares some very exciting news that came to be a pretty big surprise!

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????Quotes:????

 "We always thought I would be the one to carry, but my wife surprised me by expressing her desire to carry. We had to go back to the drawing board and adjust our plans accordingly." Jaimie  "I always felt slightly off about our fertility doctor. I never felt like he was right for me. Finally, after all of that, I said, 'You know what? Switch the formula. I'm getting a new doctor.'" Jaimie "We took out another loan against my wife's retirement. Thank God we were privileged enough for my wife to have a retirement to even take out of. We went for the IVF, and it didn't work." Jaimie

????Key Takeaways:????

Trust your gut and find a doctor who is the right fit for your fertility journey. Taking supplements and making lifestyle changes can improve egg health and increase the chances of pregnancy. The financial cost of fertility treatments can be significant, and it's important to plan and budget accordingly. Open and honest communication with children about their donor origins is crucial, but it's important to consider age-appropriate explanations and potential confusion.

????Resources mentioned in the episode:

Listen to Who?s Your Daddy Follow Michael and Matt Email them at [email protected]

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S14 BONUS | In this bonus holiday episode, Jaimie sits down with Robin and Anna, the creators of the short film "Pivot." They discuss the inspiration behind the film and its powerful message. The film tells the story of a young girl who rebels against societal expectations and fights against wearing a dress. The film explores themes of self-acceptance, identity, and the importance of allowing children to be true to themselves. "Pivot" has been well-received in film festivals and is currently being considered for an Oscar nomination. The creators encourage everyone to watch and share the film to promote inclusivity and understanding.

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????About The Guest(s)????

Robin Campbell is a Canadian screenwriter and filmmaker. She is the creator of the short film "Pivot," which explores the journey of a young girl who doesn't fit the traditional gender norms imposed by her mother. The film is based on Robin's own experiences with bisexuality and the fear of not fitting into societal expectations. Anna Gusson is a working director in the animation industry based in Vancouver. She directed "Pivot" and was responsible for translating Robin's story into visual images. Anna's role was to bring the words to life and create a visual representation of the emotional journey depicted in the film.

????Key Takeaways:????

The film "Pivot" addresses the emotional journey of a young girl who doesn't fit traditional gender norms and the fear of not being accepted for who she truly is. The film highlights the importance of self-acceptance and standing up for one's true identity, even in the face of societal expectations. "Pivot" is a universal story that resonates with people from different cultures and backgrounds, as it explores the common experience of feeling misunderstood or pressured to conform. The film aims to bridge conversations between children and parents, encouraging open dialogue and understanding. The team behind "Pivot" wanted to create a film that empowers children to be the heroes of their own stories and encourages parents to see and value their children for who they truly are.

????Quotes:????

"The film is about a young girl who doesn't fit the image that her mom has for her... It's my journey of my bisexuality." - Robin Campbell "We made the film to bridge conversations and to make sure everyone gets a little bit out of it." - Anna Gusson

????Resources mentioned in the episode:

Watch Pivot: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJu0xRbNOXo

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S14 EP12 | Dr. Lulu, a Nigerian-born pediatrician and advocate, shares her personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a queer person. Growing up in a homophobic and religious society, she struggled with internalized homophobia and rejected her own child when they showed signs of being feminine. However, after her child revealed themselves as transgender, Dr. Lulu had a change of heart and became an advocate for LGBTQIA+ youth. She emphasizes the importance of unlearning societal norms and accepting and affirming our children for who they truly are. Dr. Lulu also discusses her new gender-affirming family coaching practice and the importance of supporting siblings in the transition process.

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????About The Guest(s)???? Dr. Lulu is a pediatrician, advocate, and speaker. She is Nigerian-born and has a passion for supporting LGBTQIA+ youth and their families. Dr. Lulu has recently opened a gender-affirming family coaching practice where she helps parents and families navigate the process of gender affirmation.

????Key Takeaways:????

Self-awareness is crucial in understanding our reactions and beliefs about gender. Exploring the underlying emotions and beliefs behind our reactions can lead to personal growth and understanding. Gender affirmation goes beyond hormones and surgery and includes respecting a person's chosen name, pronouns, and clothing. Supporting and affirming LGBTQIA+ children requires unlearning societal norms and taking responsibility for our own biases.

????Quotes:????

"The truth will set you free. Spend enough time getting curious and asking yourself why you felt this way." - Dr. Lulu "Embarrassment is an emotion that can reveal deeper beliefs and patterns in our lives." - Dr. Lulu "Gender affirmation starts at a young age and includes respecting a person's chosen name and pronouns." - Dr. Lulu "Parents must let go of the belief that they did something wrong and accept their child's gender identity." - Dr. Lulu

????Resources:

The Trevor Project Lifeline 1-888-488-7386 It Gets Better: Watch Videos of Support The National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1800-273-TALK (8255) The GLGT National Help Center: 1-888-THE_GLNH (888-843-4564) Youth Talkline: 1-800-245-PRIDE (800-246-7743)

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S14 EP11 | Moe Ari and Tiffany, hosts of the Be Your Own Love Goals podcast, share their journey as a queer couple. They met in college, became friends, and eventually fell in love. Moe Ari later came out as transgender, and they decided to start a family through reciprocal IVF. They faced challenges with their families' acceptance and had difficult conversations about their donor choice. Despite the obstacles, their families have come around and are now obsessed with their daughter, Nova. The couple emphasizes the importance of being your own ?love goals? and creating your own authentic journey of partnership.

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????About The Guest(s)????

Moe Ari and Tiffany are the hosts of the Be Your Own Love Goals podcast. They met in college and have been together for a decade. Moe Ari is transgender and went through a gender transition during their relationship. They used reciprocal IVF to have their daughter, Nova.

?????Key Takeaways:????

Nova's birth helped solidify Moe Ari's gender transition and their identity as a father. The couple chose a donor based on shared values and personality traits, rather than physical appearance. Moe Ari's family was accepting of his coming out & transition, while Tiffany faced more challenges with her family's acceptance. Becoming parents has brought healing and growth to both Moe Ari and Tiffany.

????Quotes:????

"Hearing her call me Daddy for the first time was like, I am a dude. I am a dad." - Moe Ari "We wanted to feel connected to the donor in a way that transcended the physical." - Moe Ari "Having Nova was the first time I had the confidence to really allow myself to be seen." - Tiffany

????Resources mentioned in the episode:

We Are The Rainbow

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S14 EP10 | Freya Lyon, a queer mom and donor-conceived child, shares her journey of finding her "bio dad" and connecting with her donor-conceived siblings. She discusses her experience growing up with queer moms, her own journey of becoming a parent, and the importance of open communication and honesty in donor-conceived families. Freya emphasizes the significance of answering the questions of donor-conceived children and providing them with the option to connect with their donors or half-siblings.

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????Key Takeaways:????

Freya had a positive experience growing up as a donor-conceived child and always felt comfortable discussing her origins. She recently found her biological father and has formed a close relationship with him and her donor-conceived siblings. Freya's children have multiple half-siblings from the same donor, and they have the option to connect with them in the future. Open communication and honesty are crucial in donor-conceived families to ensure that children have a clear understanding of their origins and can make informed decisions about connecting with their donors or half-siblings.

????Quotes:????

"I've always wondered if I would have inherited something [from my biological father]." - Freya Lyon "Our family is completed, we're not having anymore. I want to be able to do this for someone." - Freya Lyon "That level of contact was really all I wanted as a kid. I just wanted the odd question answered. I didn't need that relationship growing up. It's just a bonus now." - Freya Lyon

????Resources mentioned in the episode:

Fertility Matters @Work Surrogacy UK Helen?s Blog

????About The Guest(s)????

Freya Lyon is a queer mom and donor-conceived child. She has two children with her wife using a sperm donor and has recently connected with her biological father. Freya shares her journey of finding her biological father and forming relationships with her donor-conceived siblings.

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S14 EP9 | Eddie and Aurelio discuss their journey of adopting in the UK and becoming parents to twin toddlers during the pandemic. They emphasize the need for a support network and resources during the adoption process, and how the COVID-19 pandemic added both challenges and opportunities for bonding with their children. They now provide representation and support for other same-sex couples and adoptive parents through their popular social media platforms.

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????About The Guest(s)????

Eddie and Aurelio, also known as @fortunatedads, are adoptive parents who share their journey of adopting twin boys on their social media platforms. They provide representation and support for other same-sex couples and adoptive parents.

????Key Takeaways:????

Adoption involves extensive paperwork, interviews, and assessments, making it a complex and emotional process. The adoption system has a high number of children in need of loving families. Having a support network and resources in place is crucial during the adoption process. The COVID-19 pandemic presented additional challenges, but also provided an opportunity for bonding and quality time with the children.

????Quotes:????

"We wanted to be a family and adoption felt like the right path for us." -             Eddie and Aurelio "There is no feeling like it. You just feel whole." - Eddie "Representation matters. It's important for our children to see other same-sex couples and know that it's normal." - Aurelio

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S14 EP8 | Emme Reynolds, a transgender parent to two children in a newly blended family, shares their journey of self-discovery and transition. She discusses the importance of listening to each other's stories and understanding the challenges and complexities of transitioning. Emme emphasizes that transition is not a one-time event but an ongoing process, and highlights the difficulties faced by the LGBTQIA+ community in the current political climate. She also touches on the support she has received from her family and the importance of visibility and representation. Overall, Emme encourages open and honest conversations about gender identity and the experiences of trans individuals.

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????About The Guest(s)????

Emme Reynolds is a transgender parent to two children in a blended family. They are also the host of the podcast "A Second Puberty."

????Key Takeaways:????

Transitioning is a complex and ongoing process, and it is important to understand that it is not always easy or straightforward. It is crucial to listen to and understand each other's stories within the LGBTQ+ community. The support and acceptance of family and friends can make a significant difference in the well-being and happiness of a trans individual.

????Quotes:????

"Transition can be hard and difficult, but it is also beautiful and valid." Emme "No one is trying to turn your straight kid trans. We're trying to keep trans kids alive." Emme "It is important to have access to gender-affirming healthcare and medications." Emme

????Resources mentioned in the episode:

Article about centering disability visibility in reproductive healthcare: 

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S14 EP7 | Liz Glazer, an award-winning stand-up comedian and queer mom, shares her journey to parenthood and the stillbirth of her first daughter, Leo Pearl. She discusses the struggles and grief associated with pregnancy loss, emphasizing that all forms of loss are equally difficult. Liz also talks about her wife's decision to freeze her eggs and their experience using a sperm bank. Despite the tragedy, Liz and her wife decided to try again and successfully welcomed their daughter, Eloise. Liz highlights the importance of being there for someone experiencing grief and offers insights into the unique nature of grieving for a child who never lived.

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????About The Guest(s)????

Liz Glazer is an award-winning stand-up comedian and queer mom. She is known for her debut stand-up comedy and storytelling album, "A Very Particular Experience," which explores the stillbirth of her first daughter, Leo Pearl. Liz is also a former tenured law professor and has been doing stand-up for 10 years.

????Key Takeaways:????

Liz and her wife, Karen, decided to have children, and Karen had frozen her eggs before they started trying. Liz and Karen used a sperm bank for the embryo transfer, and the first transfer was successful. Liz emphasizes that there is no hierarchy of grief and that all forms of pregnancy loss are difficult. Liz and Karen joined a bereavement group called Pockets of Light, which provided support during their grieving process. Liz shares the strangeness of grieving for someone who never lived and the abstract nature of the grief.

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????Quotes:?????

"I think that being willing to be the person who is there, who's emailing, who's calling, who's reaching out, that's really helpful." - Liz Glazer "Grief is such a personal journey and nightmare in so many ways." - Liz Glazer "There's no grief Olympics, all of it sucks because all of it is." - Liz Glazer

????Resources mentioned in the episode:

Pockets of Light

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 | S14 EP6 | Dr. Mark Leondires and Lisa Schuman discuss the importance of disclosure and open communication when parenting donor-conceived children. They emphasize the need to drop seeds of information from an early age, allowing children to gradually understand their unique family story. The guests also highlight the significance of language and terminology when discussing donors. The conversation touches on the challenges of managing expectations and the potential impact of meeting donor siblings or the donor themselves. The guests introduce their new book, "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception," which provides guidance and support for individuals and couples navigating the donor conception process.

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????About The Guest(s)????

The guests on this episode are Lisa Schuman, a therapist,  and Dr. Mark Leondires, a medical director at Illume Fertility.?

????Key Takeaways:?????

In this episode of The Queer Family Podcast, Jamie interviews Lisa and Dr. Mark Leondires about donor conception and parenting donor-conceived children. They discuss the importance of open donor programs and the need for disclosure and communication with children about their donor conception. The guests emphasize the importance of dropping seeds and having ongoing conversations with children about their donor conception from a young age. They also address the concerns and challenges faced by donor-conceived individuals and the need for support and understanding from parents. The guests talk about their new book, "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception," which provides guidance and support for individuals and couples on their donor conception journey.

????Quotes:????

"Children are most unhappy under two circumstances, one accidental disclosure and second, late disclosure." - Dr. Mark Leondires "If you tell them when your kids are 10, 11, or 12, they're going to see you sweat. If you've been telling them all along, they're like, 'Oh, shut up, dad.'" - Dr. Mark Leondires "Our kids have to get through this identity formation on their own and try to figure out who they are in relationship to their parents and then to another set of genetics that they don't really know that well." - Lisa Schuman

????Resources mentioned in the episode

?Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception? Donor Conception Conversations Podcast The Center for Family Building Illume Fertility Gay Parents To Be

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S14 EP4 | In the first part of this 2-part episode, we're diving deep into that Search for The Superhuman, y'all! Lisa Schuman and Dr. Mark Leondires, co-authors of "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception," share insights on choosing the right donor and explore the unique perspectives and experiences LGBTQIA+ individuals bring to this exciting and complex family-building journey. Stay tuned for part 2, which will be released next Monday. OR catch it right now on our Patreon channel, where we'll delve into how the heck you navigate parenting and life as a donor-conceived family.

????About The Guest(s)????

Lisa Schuman is a therapist with almost 30 years of experience in reproductive medicine. She is the host of the Donor Conception Conversations Podcast and runs the Center for Family Building, a one-stop shop for resources and support for family-building journeys. Lisa is also the co-author of the book "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception."?

Dr. Mark Leondires is the medical director at Illume Fertility and the founder of Gay Parents to Be. He has personal experience with donor conception, having built his own family through egg donation and surrogacy. Dr. Mark is passionate about helping LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples navigate the family-building process and is dedicated to providing quality care and support.

????Key Takeaways:????

1. Donor conception involves choosing a donor whose genetics and health history align with your values and priorities.

2. It's important to prioritize health and genetics when selecting a donor, rather than focusing solely on personal preferences or characteristics.

3. Psychological screening and testing can help ensure that donors are honest and mentally healthy.

4. Open and honest communication with children about their donor conception story is crucial for their emotional well-being and understanding of their identity.

5. Queer parents often have a unique perspective on donor conception, as they have already navigated the process of accepting their own identities and building their families.

????Quotes:????

- "Remember, you're not getting that person. You're getting their past three to five generations." - Dr. Mark Leondires

- "Choosing your donor should be a head decision, but it really starts in your heart." - Lisa Schuman

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????Resources mentioned in the episode

?Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception? Donor Conception Conversations Podcast The Center for Family Building Illume Fertility Gay Parents To Be

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| S14 EP4 | Gavin and David, hosts of the podcast "Gaytriarchs," discuss their experiences with surrogacy and parenting as gay men. They share their journeys of finding egg donors and surrogate carriers, and the decisions they made along the way. The hosts also touch on the unique aspects of gay parenting and the need for constant conversations and decision-making, as well as the importance of authenticity and laughter in navigating the challenges and joys of queer parenting.

????About The Guest(s)????

- Gavin Lodge and David F.M. Vaughn are the co-hosts of the podcast "Gaytriarchs" and are both gay fathers. Gavin has two children and David has two children, all through surrogacy. They have a background in musical theater and share a passion for creating a podcast that brings humor and realness to the gay parenting world.

????Key Takeaways:????

The podcast "Gaytriarchs" aims to provide a space for gay dads to laugh, share stories, and find support. Balancing parenthood and personal interests can be challenging, but it's important to prioritize self-care and maintain a sense of individuality. The hosts emphasize the need for authenticity and realness in the gay parenting community, rather than just portraying an idealized version of family life.

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Timestamp Summary 0:00:00 Introduction to the Queer Family Podcast and sponsor mention 0:00:30 Discussion on the unique challenges of gay families 0:02:07 Announcement of the Queer Family Podcast winning two Signal Awards 0:04:00 Shoutout to a listener and their upcoming surrogacy journey 0:05:22 Encouragement for listeners to reach out and connect 0:06:19 Introduction to Gavin and David, hosts of Gaytriarchs 0:06:43 David's 32-second elevator pitch about being a gay dad 0:08:21 Gavin's 32-second elevator pitch about being a gay dad 0:09:31 Playful discussion about who won the elevator pitch competition 0:10:09 Mention of upcoming topic on guns for their podcast episode 0:10:08 Introduction: Gavin and David talk about guns. 0:10:48 David's decision to pursue surrogacy and his sister-in-law's offer. 0:13:46 David's sister-in-law agrees to be their surrogate. 0:15:31 Finding a second surrogate through a Facebook group during COVID. 0:16:54 Gavin's conventional route to surrogacy through an agency. 0:17:19 Gavin's experience of flying to Pasadena for sperm donation. 0:18:28 The issue of lost sperm during the egg donor process. 0:19:25 Agency's mishap with the number of viable eggs from the donor. 0:19:28 Discussing the mishap in the surrogacy process. 0:20:13 Debate on using the term "vagina" versus "vulva". 0:21:13 Gavin's experience with surrogacy and the cost involved. 0:22:16 Gavin's desire to have kids and his partner's concerns. 0:24:08 Parenthood as a lesson in selflessness. 0:25:08 Advice on becoming a parent and maintaining self-identity. 0:26:06 Promo for California Cryobank and sperm donor selection. 0:26:58 Decision-making process on who would be the gestational parent. 0:27:39 Possibility of having twins with each partner's biological connection. 0:28:26 Anecdote of military dads with two surrogates and multiple babies. 0:28:25 Discussion about multiple pregnancies and babies 0:29:24 Gavin shares his experience of driving the baby train 0:30:10 Egg donor went MIA during the process 0:32:00 Different approaches to giving children last names 0:33:31 Overthinking decisions about last names 0:35:31 The search for an egg donor and the challenges involved 0:36:47 Biases and parameters in choosing an egg donor 0:37:15 Reflections on the influence of the egg donor 0:37:15 Reflections on the influence of the egg donor 0:37:15 David's view on his kids' behavior and genetics. 0:37:33 Gavin's experience with selecting an egg donor based on appearance. 0:38:18 Gavin asks David about watching videos of potential donors. 0:38:33 David and Gavin discuss selecting donors who resemble them. 0:39:23 David and Gavin talk about choosing average-looking donors. 0:40:23 David mentions not thinking about the donor anymore. 0:40:49 Jamie expresses surprise that closed donations still exist. 0:41:22 Jamie shares her thoughts on seeing the donor in her daughter. 0:42:31 David fears the donor might disappoint him if they meet. 0:43:53 Gavin and David talk about their children's ages. 0:47:22 Introduction to the podcast and how it started 0:47:43 Discussion about the need for a podcast on gay dads 0:48:16 Creating a diaper bag for gay dads 0:49:05 Fear of taking artistic leap and vulnerability 0:50:23 Challenges of remote recording and growing as a team 0:51:09 Humor and light-heartedness in the podcast 0:51:49 Importance of representation and inclusion in podcasts 0:52:05 Musical theater energy and laughter in the show 0:53:27 Appreciation for paving the way for other podcasts 0:53:59 Closing remarks and thanks to the guest

| S14 EP3 | Nat Vikitsreth is a licensed clinical psychotherapist and child development specialist, and host of the Come Back to Care Podcast. She shares her personal journey, growing up in Bangkok, Thailand, and embracing her identity as a trans woman. Nat's work goes beyond therapy; she offers vital support to the queer community by being the "trans auntie of the village, loving up on other parents, especially queer parents." She discusses the importance of self-awareness and being present with our children. Her message reminds parents (especially Jaimie ?) to give themselves grace as they navigate the complexities of parenting.

"Queer Parents. We got this." - Nat

Key Takeaways:

Balancing the pressure to protect and prepare our children with the need to be present and connected. Self-awareness and recognizing our own patterns and reactions is crucial in being present with our children. Slowing down, pausing, and taking a breath can help us respond to our children's needs in a more present and connected way. Give yourself grace as a parent and acknowledge that you are doing your best.

Quotes:

"We tend to put our parenting values in the backseat when worries and fears take over." - Nat "The threats are real, but we need to balance being present with our children so that they feel seen, heard, and loved for who they are." - Nat "If we're not soothed, we can't soothe our child." - Nat "All you parents out there who are doing your damn best. Give yourself grace. We all fuck up." - Jamie "That one thing in a day is so important." - Nat

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Chapters:

[0:00:00] Introduction and sponsor announcement

[0:00:12] Nat's desire to be a trans auntie and work with queer parents

[0:01:47] Jamie's introduction and background on previous parenting coaching session

[0:03:19] Nat's email expressing hope to affirm, validate, and uplift listeners

[0:04:12] Recommendation for the "Gaytriarchs" podcast

[0:05:17] Listener message from Dana in Wisconsin

[0:06:48] Jamie's gratitude and call for more listener messages

[0:08:08] Introduction of Nat and conversation begins

[0:08:42] Nat's elevator pitch and focus on love and boundaries

[0:10:42] Nat's work as a decolonized therapist and supporting social justice parenting

[0:11:28] Discussion of Nat's childhood and realization of being trans

[0:12:05] Nat's struggle with understanding and expressing their gender identity

[0:12:52] Nat talks about finding a community at their Catholic all boys school

[0:14:15] Nat tells their parents they think they are a woman

[0:15:06] Nat's parents already knew and accepted their identity

[0:16:12] Nat moves to a different province to finish high school

[0:17:05] Nat finds a chosen family in the sex worker community

[0:18:26] Nat starts transitioning in their first year of college

[0:19:14] Nat gets involved with the sex worker community

[0:21:06] Nat talks about the emotional connection with clients as a sex worker

[0:23:20] Nat and their chosen family do organizing work for safety

[0:24:59] Nat's parents seek therapy to understand and accept their transition

[0:25:44] Nat discusses their parents' education on their journey.

[0:26:23] Nat mentions seeing multiple psychiatrists as a requirement for transitioning.

[0:27:13] Nat talks about initially wanting a traditional family but later changing their mind.

[0:28:09] Nat expresses a desire to be the "trans auntie" and support queer families.

[0:29:21] Nat discusses the influence of patriarchy on their perception of womanhood.

[0:30:46] Jamie introduces the topic of parenting in the current anti-trans climate.

[0:32:00] Nat shares their journey of moving to the US and working with families.

[0:32:51] Nat discusses the challenges of parenting in a hostile world.

[0:34:24] Nat emphasizes the importance of being present with children despite challenges.

[0:36:19] Nat suggests balancing teaching and preparing with being present with children.

[0:38:32] Difficulty of being present with a child's hurt

[0:39:23] Using the SIFT acronym to slow down and pause

[0:39:56] Mama bear instinct to protect child

[0:40:49] Using the SIFT acronym to notice bodily cues

[0:42:40] Sensations may be too overwhelming for some parents

[0:43:18] Noticing thoughts before going into teaching mode

[0:44:27] Checking in with child's feelings and experiences

[0:45:39] Pausing before reacting and breaking the pattern

[0:46:44] Giving oneself grace and apologizing for losing temper

[0:49:20] Sharing alternative actions and modeling emotional resilience

[0:51:27] Research on mothers' ability to meet their babies' needs

[0:53:16] Babies as young as three months can cope with stress

[0:54:08] Different ways to self-soothe and model for children

[0:55:15] Importance of teaching emotional skills to navigate difficult emotions

[0:56:26] Recognizing the need to slow down and pay attention

[0:58:06] Personalizing self-soothing techniques for children

[0:59:29] Core regulation and sitting with children in their emotions

[1:00:57] Being transparent about one's own capacity for regulation

[1:01:51] Giving parents grace and acknowledging their efforts

[1:02:50] Queer parents and allies are doing a great job

[1:03:48] Introduction to Nat and their podcast

[1:04:25] Thank you and closing remarks

[1:05:00] Merchandise and conclusion

Mohsin, Matthew, and Dahlia are best friends and hosts of the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions,? where they explore in depth the possibility of Dahlia becoming a surrogate for Mohsin and Matthew. They sat down with Jaimie to discuss the questions they?ve grappled with in the decision-making process, including the impact on their friendship, the legal and emotional aspects of surrogacy in the UK, and how their cultural and religious backgrounds play into all of it. They also delve into the importance of having strong female role models in their children's lives and the potential long-term relationship between Dahlia and the child. We get deep and personal on the intricacies of surrogacy and also delve into the complexities of friendship, family, and personal identity with these candid and fun BFFs.

"Surrogacy with a close friend adds new layers and complexities to the process." - Matthew

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Chapters:

| 0:00:00 | Introduction to the podcast and sponsors. |

| 0:00:30 | Mohsin discusses the challenges of being gay in a religious and cultural family. |

| 0:01:40 | Introduction to the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions" and its premise. |

| 0:02:47 | Behind the scenes info about Mohsin and Dahlia's friendship and Mohsin and Matthew's relationship. |

| 0:04:13 | Ally voicemail from Shephathia asking about a term for children of LGBTQ parents. |

| 0:05:43 | Answering Shephathia?s question about the term "queer spawn" for children of LGBTQ parents. |

| 0:07:09 | Request for listeners to reach out and share their thoughts and stories. |

| 0:08:19 | Introduction of the podcast hosts and their backgrounds. |

| 0:09:46 | Summary of the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions" and its exploration of surrogacy. |

| 0:10:37 | Discussion about the relevance of Dahlia's work as a medical anthropologist. |

| 0:11:05 | Introduction and background of the friendship between Mohsin and Dahlia |

| 0:12:27 | Mohsin's coming out story and how Dahlia was the first person he told |

| 0:14:06 | Dahlia's reaction to Mohsin's coming out |

| 0:16:06 | Mohsin's inner turmoil and struggles with faith, culture, and family |

| 0:18:27 | Matthew's coming out experience in a small town in Ireland |

| 0:19:03 | Dahlia's observation of Mohsin's transformation after coming out |

| 0:19:32 | Mohsin and Matthew's meeting and marriage |

| 0:20:08 | Discussions about family building in their relationship |

| 0:20:35 | Comparing their backgrounds and the sense of community from big families |

| 0:20:35 | Age difference and discussions about having kids |

| 0:21:09 | Importance of discussing family building intentions early on |

| 0:21:41 | Considerations and challenges of LGBTQ+ family building |

| 0:22:39 | Dahlia offers to be a surrogate as a joke |

| 0:23:23 | Dahlia's proposal is taken seriously and discussed further |

| 0:24:13 | Excitement and research about surrogacy options |

| 0:25:34 | Decision to focus on surrogacy before exploring other options |

| 0:26:10 | Podcast idea to have dedicated discussions and do research |

| 0:27:46 | Structured conversations with experts and disciplined approach |

| 0:29:33 | Dahlia's husband supports her decision without involvement in discussions |

| 0:30:52 | Surrogacy in the UK and differences from the US |

| 0:31:08 | Introduction to surrogacy in the UK |

| 0:31:24 | Differences between UK and US surrogacy laws and costs |

| 0:32:14 | Legal differences between UK and US surrogacy |

| 0:33:19 | Discussion on the process and agreements in UK surrogacy |

| 0:34:51 | Challenges of being friends and surrogacy |

| 0:36:16 | Importance of sharing real-time experiences and negotiations |

| 0:36:56 | Complexities of long-term relationship with the child |

| 0:38:11 | Importance of strong female role models in their children's lives |

| 0:39:34 | Plan in case the answer is no revealed in episode 7 |

| 0:40:32 | Where to find the podcast and social media handles |

| 0:41:35 | Thanking sponsor California Cryobank |

| 0:41:56 | Matthew: Love is love |

| 0:41:58 | Jamie: Enjoyed the episode, listen/watch another |

| 0:42:23 | Jamie: Support show on Patreon, bonus content, love and adoration |

Mia Cooley, founder of xHood, joins Jaimie to discuss her journey as a queer parent and the work she is doing to support black and brown parents and intended parents. Mia shares her experience of having her first child with a previous partner and navigating co-parenting, as well as her journey to having a baby with her current partner. She also discusses the importance of representation and community support for queer families and highlights the work of Exhood in providing resources and events for black queer parents.

"We provide family building and nurturing support to black and brown parents and intended parents." - Mia Cooley

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP12 | Ed Center is a husband and father who humorously quips that, as two Filipino men, he and his husband defied convention in their journey to parenthood by adopting two wonderful white children. After their eldest child faced a profound mental health challenge during the pandemic, Ed embraced a more inclusive and mindful approach to parenting and learned better ways to support his children. Inspired by his learnings, Ed founded Village Well Parenting, whose mission is to empower and enlighten parents like himself, providing them with the tools and support they need to build strong and resilient families.

"Doing the inner work and addressing one's own wounds and triggers is crucial for effective parenting." Ed Center

"Queer parents often have a unique perspective and approach to parenting that can be valuable in creating a supportive and inclusive environment for their children." Ed Center

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP11 | Cara Cochrane, also known as caras_atl on social media, discusses her late-life coming out, forming a blended family, and how the challenges she faced in finding her identity prompted her to become the representation she so lacked during her Southern upbringing.  She also speaks about the media's lack of diversity, the intricacies of raising a child in a two-mom family in the American South, and the importance of recognizing and validating all parents within a family unit, regardless of DNA or gender.

"Representation matters because it shows kids that there are different types of families and that they are valid and loved." - Cara Cochrane

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP10 | Chelsea and Megan share their journey to parenthood as a trans woman and cis woman couple. They met online, u-hauled it (in true lesbian fashion), and quickly began their queer baby-making process. After trying the ?natural? way for quite some time, they decided to switch to fertility treatments. After a long journey filled with insurance drama, unfair BMI biases, and body dysmorphia they finally successfully conceived their son, Jameson through IVF. They discuss their emotional pregnancy, including Chelsea?s process of transcending her yearning to experience pregnancy and childbirth by embarking on the path of inducing lactation. Their resilience and determination in the face of adversity serve as a walking, breathing testament to the intentionality and love that drive queer parents everywhere, proving that love is love, and the kids are truly going to be all right.

"We met online prior to Chelsea's transition. She told me on our third date." - Megan

?So they said I was going to have to lose about at least 20 pounds to qualify for their loophole process, which was to go to another state to do the egg retrieval.? Megan

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP9 | Trigger Warning: Miscarriage is mentioned in this episode. Sam and Brook, a married couple from Canada, share their unique journey of love, family, and fertility. They met through a mutual friend and reconnected after the friend's passing. Brook, who is transgender, and Sam, who identifies as AFAB pansexual, navigated their relationship while raising Sam?s three children from previous relationships. They decided to expand their family through RIVF, going through the challenges of fertility treatments and the emotional rollercoaster of a miscarriage. Despite the obstacles, they remain hopeful and determined to have a child together. Their story highlights the complexities and joys of blended families and the resilience of love.

"I'm still coming out all the time. And it's hard because there's some sort of level of shame that you have, that the new generation just doesn't have, they're just like, ?This is who I am. And this is me, take it or leave it.? But, our generation? there's still some shame behind it, so it's hard." - Brook

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP7 | Bethany Grace Howe transitioned at the age of 47, after seeing an image of Kaitlyn Jenner on the cover of a magazine and realizing that she too, was trans. Suddenly and somewhat out of the blue, Bethany's true identity was painfully clear, and hiding it was not an option. Now she and her 13-year-old daughter Nola are here to talk about their experience as a family together.

"Bravery is running into a burning building. I ran out of it." Bethany

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP7 | To live as his authentic self in his native Transylvania, Stefan would have been forced into bottom surgery and a hysterectomy, rendering him sterile. So like most trans guys in his country, he got his testosterone on the black market and lived on the DL. Now he lives in the US with his wife, and while the country is not nearly as inclusive as he was led to believe, he at least has had the opportunity to begin the family-building process with his wife. After nearly a decade on testosterone, Stefan recently froze his eggs. He wanted to share his story in the hopes of opening up new possibilities for others like him and to challenge commonly held beliefs about the impact of testosterone on fertility.

"If you want to change your name to match your gender, you have to sue the government and go through a medical panel. And you have to have bottom surgery and a hysterectomy and remove your ovaries. That is required for you to change your name." Stefan From Transylvania

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 E6 BONUS | Michael and Matt have been in the process of creating their 2-dad family for quite some time and they're chronicling that process on their new podcast "Who's Your Daddy."  They sat down with Jaimie to explore their path from an initial foster-to-adopt plan to the world of surrogacy with an egg donor, and how they?ve tackled the many difficult decisions that go along with it: Should they work with an agency or pursue an independent route? How far are they willing to travel for their surrogate? How will they navigate the emotional implications if one of them ends up without a biological connection when they both really want one? How will they afford this? And WHO on earth will their surrogate be? So many questions, so many decisions to make, and they?re still very much on this rollercoaster we call queer family building. 

?We ended up with 4 embryo?s on my end and 1 on Michael?s end. We?re hoping to each have a biological child but you can?t control nature.? Matt

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 5 | TW: This episode covers sensitive topics including sexual abuse, self-harm, and addiction. Please proceed with caution and consider your emotional well-being before listening. If you or someone you know is struggling with these issues, please seek help from a trusted professional or support organization. Your mental health matters.

Danny tells us how falling pregnant while in the throws of addiction turned out to be the catalyst for an ultimate transformation; becoming a sober and healed parent to 2-year-old Wilder, proving that sometimes life's most unexpected twists lead to the most profound blessings. We also explore Danny's journey towards self-realization as a transmasculine non-binary individual and the reasons behind Danny's mission to redefine masculinity.

"I relapsed in my sex addiction, and I ended up with the biggest blessing of my entire life, unexpectedly" Danny

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Digging deep into the "A" in LGBTQI"A". Aline Mayard is a single parent who happens to be asexual, aromantic, and nonbinary. They also host the Tribeca Award Winning podcast, "Free From Desire: Asexual In The City Of Love." Aline talks about their difficult path to accepting their Ace and Aro identity, challenges us to rethink what intimacy is, and to question why we're so obsessed with sex as a society.

"I don't see myself in a romantic or a sexual relationship, but there are other, what I call, physical relationships." Aline

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 The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 3 | Kate Brooks is the author of "Transister, Raising Twins In A Gender-Bending World," an affirming and honest account of her young daughter's transition. Kate gives us a candid, straight, cis-gendered mother's perspective on what it was like for her to go from having what she thought were twin "boys" to ultimately having a son and a daughter who are both happy, healthy, kind - and thankfully, alive. This family's journey is one of discovery, celebration, and love. 

"He said to me, "Mama, when I was in your tummy, it was a mistake. I was supposed to come out a girl." Kate Brooks

"In order to be counted you have to be part of the conversation, or it's like you don't exist." Kate Brooks

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 2 | Peggy Gillespie is the co-director of Family Diversity Projects, a non-profit that has created 10 different photo/text exhibits celebrating underrepresented folks over the years, the author of Authentic Selves, a mom to a nonbinary kiddo, and a self-described queer hippie from the 60s. When we tell you that this changemaker has been pushing boundaries and making a difference her whole life, we're not kidding.

"A child should wear what they feel comfortable in." Peggy Gillespie

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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 1 |  Lamalani and Laracarina 100% knew they didn?t want kids- until Lamalani came home one day and changed her mind. What followed was a wild fertility journey during Covid that included a tumor surgery, a difficult donor search, RIVF, IVF, a pregnancy that lasted way too long, a difficult birth, and a random and altruistic decision to pay it forward and do it all again as a surrogate for their gay male friends.  

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 13 | What does Pride mean to you? Because we are all unique individuals, Pride means something different to each of us, so for this special PRIDE EXTRAVAGANZA Grand Finale, we've gathered a little medley of responses to this question from all of our Extravaganza guests. These answers will give you all the feels, y'all. Let them serve as a reminder that LOVE is LOVE, YOU are loved, and PRIDE is EVERY DAY. Happy Pride to all. 

?I think of Pride like rays of sunshine. Pride is being a light, not only for yourself but also for other people who may be in the dark. It?s being a voice for others, and standing up in your truth to make it easier for somebody after you to do the same.? Alec Mazelin

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 12 | Eric and Tony Vaughn-Trainor?s (aka @mrvaughntrainor) path to becoming a family of four was marked by a challenging adoption journey and failed connections, leading them to switch to surrogacy. Through sharing their struggles on social media, they eventually found a surrogate who helped bring their twin daughters into the world, despite facing further hardships during the pregnancy and a long NICU stay. Their inspiring story showcases the resilience and dedication of LGBTQ individuals in building and parenting our families and is a testament to the intentionality and determination that goes into every journey.   ?We wanted to be a mirror for anybody out there who aspires to have the family of their dreams, the life of their dreams? because we didn?t have a mirror. You can have it. You just might have to jump through some hurdles to get there.? Eric Vaughn-Trainor   If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!   A special thanks to all of our sponsors for The Pride Extravaganza! Mosie Baby (code: family), Fairfax Surrogacy, Cryobank America, Mombian, Family Equality, The Center for Family Building, The Gender Cool Project, The National LGBTQ Task Force, and our Patreon supporters!   Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube!   thequeerfamilypodcast.com / [email protected] IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast   Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible.   Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.   We want to hear from you! Email us at [email protected]   Buy our merch here.   Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here.   Follow The Vaughn-Trainors  

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 11 | Claire Wasserman (aka @clairegetspaid) sat down with Jaimie while in the midst of her queer family-building journey and spoke candidly about coming out after a straight marriage, finding true love, discovering her feminist side, and embarking on the roller coaster of queer baby-making with her wife. They delve into the details of her recent sperm donor search, the inseminations, the costs involved, and the fears that arise with this unpredictable path to parenthood. 

As an educator and author, Claire is passionate about helping women earn more and live better, and she leverages her platform and global community, Ladies Get Paid, to achieve that goal. Additionally, she shares her personal journey in real-time with her followers, from getting straight divorced to getting gay married, and to now embarking on the exciting journey of becoming a queer mama. Claire is living her truth, being visible, and making a difference.

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?This is friggin? expensive. You can?t just get knocked up. You have to buy sperm, you have to pay for the insemination. The costs involved are not cool.? Claire Wasserman

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 10 | Erik and Adam (aka the @mchusbands) shifted their family-building plan from adoption to surrogacy when their sister-in-law offered to carry for them. In another turn of good fortune, their best friend selflessly agreed to be their egg donor, and their twin baby girls were created. Realizing the lack of representation for gay dads like themselves in the realm of family building, Erik and Adam embarked on a mission to document their journey on social media. Little did they know that their decision to share their story would significantly impact countless others seeking guidance and support.

Fast forward seven years and Erik and Adam remain dedicated to their visibility, proudly showcasing the extraordinary joys and challenges of being a two-dad family, defying stereotypes, and shattering misconceptions along the way.

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?It was all kept in the family. We had our best friend as our egg donor and our sister-in-law was our surrogate ? Adam McEwen

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 9 |Brit and Sydney Sharon (aka @thesharonmoms) share their inspiring journey as Jewish queer moms who built their family through IUI and reciprocal IVF. They also reveal a surprising discovery about Sydney's dad being a sperm donor in his youth, leading them to connect with six donor siblings. The couple discusses the profound impact of their Jewish faith and the joy they experienced in establishing relationships with their newfound biological siblings. Through their story, they serve as a shining example of the beauty and strength of queer families when faced with minimal complications. Using their platform, Brit and Sydney aim to increase visibility, challenge misconceptions about biological connections in families, redefine womanhood, and redefine traditional roles and rituals within marriage.

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"We definitely need to be safe, and now that we have kids we take it even further. We need to make sure that we're all safe. We're not just a same sex couple, we're a same sex Jewish couple, and the antisemitism that's been on the rise these last couple of years is scary." Sydney Sharon

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 8 |Richard and Carlos, (aka @therealdadsofnewyork) are proud black, Jamaican dads who built their family through adoption and foster-to-adopt. Through their active presence on social media,  they have become a beacon of visibility, addressing the lack of representation they experienced growing up. Their powerful presence allows them to educate others and challenge stereotypes, demonstrating the incredible beauty and strength that a family like theirs possesses. Through their inspiring journey, Richard and Carlos are making a lasting impact and reshaping perceptions of what a family can be.

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?We?re busting the myths, we?re busting the stereotypes and we?re showing this is what this is, and this is only one version of what this is, and there is beauty in all the versions.? Richard Seigler-Carter 

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 7 | Bret and Stephen (aka @broadwayhusbands) met in 2006 and began documenting their lives together on social media shortly after getting married. When they decided to go down the surrogacy path to make their family, they remained visible on their platforms as a way to inform others about the challenges and joys along the way. Taking it step by step, they saved up and paid for each stage of the process individually, making a notoriously expensive route manageable. After 4 years, a lost surrogate, a miscarriage, and a friend divinely stepping in to carry their child, they finally became dads. They continue to share their journey and showcase their adorable son, using their visibility to educate and inspire others in similar situations.

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"We kept trying and we just weren't getting pregnant." Stephen Hana

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 6 | Whitney and Megan (aka @whatwegandidnext) met on MySpace and started blogging about their lives together in 2009. What began as an effort to create a personal scrapbook of memories soon became a mission to provide the visibility they felt was lacking in mainstream media for LGBTQIA+ relationships. Fast forward 15 years, and Whitney and Megan are now happily married content creators embarking on their path to becoming two mommies. Not only do they use their lives to challenge the status quo on what love and relationships look like, but they are also now utilizing their platforms to raise awareness and drive change regarding the inequality faced by same-sex couples in accessing fertility care in the UK.

Through their activism, they're shedding light on the challenges and barriers that LGBTQIA+ individuals encounter when starting a family. Their goal is to create a more inclusive and equitable landscape for all couples, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. These two badasses are working hard to foster positive change in the LGBTQIA+ community.

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?If we saw this kind of love growing up we would have come to the realization of who we are as people so much earlier than we actually did. It took me 30 years to come out to my mother.? Alec Tomlin-Mazelin

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 5 | Brian and Alec Mazelin (aka @meetthemazelins) share their journey as a couple, starting with their online meeting during the pandemic and quick connection, leading Alec to leave Jamaica and move to Florida, where Brian and his son lived. They publicly came out to their families through a heartfelt engagement post on social media, receiving overwhelming support from countless individuals. Motivated by this love, they embraced the importance of representation and remained visible, documenting their lives together and inspiring those struggling to embrace their true selves. Amidst growing anti-LGBTQ rhetoric across both Florida and Jamaica, these two serve as a beacon of hope to many. 

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?If we saw this kind of love growing up we would have come to the realization of who we are as people so much earlier than we actually did. It took me 30 years to come out to my mother.? Alec Tomlin-Mazelin

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 4 | Meet Kayde Mason, a mother of three, whose experiences as an egg donor and gestational surrogate led her to become a passionate surrogacy professional and advocate. Kayde shares her inspiring story, highlighting her transformative journey from being a surrogate for her gay friends to becoming an advocate and educator for surrogacy, with a specific focus on its importance within the LGBTQIA+ community.

As a surrogacy professional, Kayde leverages her personal experiences and expertise to empower others who are considering or involved in surrogacy. She utilizes her social media platform as a powerful tool to advocate for surrogacy, breaking down misconceptions and promoting understanding, particularly in relation to the LGBTQIA+ community. Kayde's dedication to education helps to dispel myths and prejudices surrounding surrogacy, while also highlighting its potential to create loving families, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.

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?What?s important for kids is to have people who love you. It doesn?t matter if that?s 1 mom, 2 dads, 2 moms? it?s about that intention. It?s about being there for your kids.? Kayde Mason

?This is not my baby. This is for them. There was never a confusion in my body.? Kayde Mason

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 3 | Today we?re diving into the remarkable story of José Rolón, aka NYC Gay Dad. To expand their family, José and his husband, Tim, opted for surrogacy with egg donation. After a tragic event during their second pregnancy threatened to derail their dreams, José showed immense strength and resilience, and with a little help from his chosen family, he ultimately became a proud single gay dad to three fabulous children.

Through the power of social media, José has chosen to share his family's experiences with the world. We explore how he uses these platforms to showcase the love, joy, and everyday moments that make queer families truly extraordinary. Join us as we witness José's unwavering determination to challenge stereotypes and demonstrate the incredible awesomeness of queer families.

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?Who am I to raise three kids on my own?? José Rolón, NYC Gay Dad

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 2 | We?re kicking off Pride 2023 with Stacey Stevenson, the remarkable CEO of Family Equality! Stacey's journey is a testament to resilience and determination, including navigating through a difficult coming out process that led to dropping out of high school, battling diversity and bias as they built their family through adoption, and the difficult decision they made to leave Texas due to safety concerns, a poignant reminder of the lengths we go to protect our loved ones.

But that's not all?Stacey's advocacy work has been truly impactful. We'll delve into the initiatives they've undertaken to address the challenges faced by queer families, shining a light on the realities we encounter. 

This inspiring episode is a reminder of the strength and love within the LGBTQ+ community and a perfect way to kick off Pride Month and set the stage for our Pride Extravaganza! #LGBTQ+Advocate #CreatingChange #PrideMonth

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?We have not seen the level of attacks on our families like this since the ?70s. We?ve literally gone back in time.? Stacey Stevenson, CEO of Family Equality

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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza!| S12 Ep 1 | Dana (AKA Mombian) and her wife Helen join us to discuss their road to motherhood via RIVF, why Dana created her Award Winning LGBTQ parenting blog, Mombian, and what it's like as empty nesters when the kid leaves home.

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?I thought we?d never have kids or be married, but I was happy with her and that would have to be enough. But instead, I am so grateful to the straight people of our nation who went along with letting us marry and being more open. It?s been a wonderful change in our lifetimes. I?m just astounded really, in retrospect? Helen

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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 16 | Blu Nyle is an artist, author, healer, newlywed, and bonus mom in a new traditional family that was created by queer BFFs and former TQFP guests, Brandi J. Andrews and Lawrence Carol. Blu talks about learning how to "family,? approaching co-parenting from a place of healing and finding the many blessings that come from stepping in as a bonus mom. 

Jaimie's amazing interns Nicole Jeter and Addie Griffin join Jaimie to introduce the interview and help Jaimie make some BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS that are coming up on the show. 

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?As queer folks in America, we?re set up for a lot of challenges, and I have to be able to help my wife process, help my son process, help baby daddy process, and most importantly keep myself sane. So that mental health, that mental wealth, is so important.? Blu

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