Season 2 is here, and we’re starting off strong with a conversation that hits home.
Mona and Jeanette from Awf The Record sit down to talk about what it’s really like moving back to the city after life in the suburbs—and trust us, it’s deeper than just location.
Mona shares why city life feels like the right move for her, from the energy and convenience to the way it keeps her socially connected. Meanwhile, Jeanette gets real about the unexpected struggles of suburban living—long commutes, loneliness, and the challenge of staying connected to friends.
But this convo goes beyond just where you live. Tune in as your hosts also dive into the friendships that fade (and the ones that survive) after a big move, how social media shapes our real-life connections, the unspoken power dynamics in apologies, and why some friendships can’t handle conflict (and how to fix it).
Life changes, friendships evolve, and sometimes, moving back feels like moving forward. Tap in for a raw and relatable discussion on transitions, friendships, and the reality of maintaining social connections.
KEY POINTS
- The decision to move back to the city
- Challenges experienced from living in the suburbs
- City life: Youth and sense of freedom
- Navigating the pros and cons of living in the city
- The importance of being present and maintaining friendships
- Communication on maintaining a healthy relationship
- On handling conflicts with friends
- The importance of balancing social and personal life
- Jeanette and Mona’s plans and goals
QUOTES
"I'm pretty low maintenance. I kind of treat people and friendships the way I'm fine with being treated. I don't require a lot. But's also like - why not cater to the way someone wants to be treated and what they like and what their preferences are?” - Jeanette Reyes
“I can sense problematic people, and that's when I distance myself in the beginning, particularly if you're displaying or if you keep talking about issues that you have with other people.” - Mona Kosar Abdi
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