Ego based reactivity, hyper control, and right fighting won't get you to where you want to be. Being honest in how you feel and taking the space to recalibrate yourself into balance and centeredness invokes more long term vision and diplomatic solutions. Be willing to release your grip on anything that clearly is no longer viable going into the future, including the stories of how you thought life was going to be. Safety is in the the unfolding you being in integrity with your highest frequency in response to the unknown.