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We’re all becoming something. What are you becoming? It’s our goal for you to intentionally become the person God has called you to be. We’ll release an episode each week with answers to real questions that college students and young adults are asking us. Listen in as Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson help you navigate life in your 20’s and 30’s!
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What would Jesus flip tables over in church's today? We talk about all of this and more in the second recording from BeSo Live 2025.
How important is our physical health? And when can it become an obsession about appearance? We talk about all of that and more in this first recording from BeSo Live 2025!
Since there is no perfect person, there is no perfect marriage. There are plenty of ways for division to arise in a marriage, but fighting for unity is possible. On this episode we talk to Gabe and Rebekah Lyons about their new book “The Fight for Us”. Pick it up here: https://a.co/d/fJhSeD5
You can really have a vibrant relationship with Jesus! A stale religion can be replaced with an intimate knowledge of who Jesus is. Buy John’s new book “Experience Jesus. Really” here: https://a.co/d/iT62iFJ
It’s so easy to live for the approval of people, but it’s an exhausting life! In this episode we talk about how you can find freedom from people pleasing.
What do you do if you’ve found someone you want to date, but you’re not physically attracted to them? In this episode we talk about the importance of physical attraction in dating and marriage. If you’re looking for who to marry, this episode is for you!
Making big decisions can be stressful because we don’t want to disobey what God’s plan for our life may be. In this episode we talk about God’s call for our life and if it’s possible to miss it.
Many of us know people who are Catholics, but aren’t sure what they believe. What are the differences and similarities between Protestants and Catholics? Are both groups Christians?
Is God always listening and responding when I’m praying? The answer may surprise you! If you want to know what happens when you pray, this episode is for you!
How can two Christians be convicted about different things? Would the Holy Spirit be telling them two different things? We address that and more on this episode!
If you’re looking for better friendships, the first step is to be a better friend! In this episode we talk about maintaining and sustaining relationships. Rather than just looking for other people to be better friends, you should take the first step!
What should we do when we doubt an aspect of God? Is it even ok to admit that we have doubts? In this episode we talk to pastor and author, Craig Groeschel, about how our doubts can bring us closer to God! Check out more by purchasing his new book here: https://a.co/d/diJBWJ9
Our phones are costing us. They provide a constant distraction that will interrupt and interfere with our relationship with Jesus. Don’t let your addiction to your phone keep you from an intimate relationship with God!
This week we get to talk with Ben Stuart about the updated version of his book “Single, Dating, Engaged, Married”. He has helpful teaching on whatever relationship status you find yourself in. We also talk about his has added material on how to break up! Get his book here: https://a.co/d/2ZaUPZo
In this episode we get to talk to JP about his brand new book, “Your Story Has a Villain”! Scripture says we have an enemy that wants to steal, kill, and destroy. How can we fight back against Satan’s attacks? To buy JP’s book follow this link: https://a.co/d/15OaDXo
Why does God allow bad things to happen to seemingly good people? It doesn’t seem fair that some people have an easy life, while others have a lot of difficulties. How can we trust a God that allows hurt and pain?
In this week’s episode we talk about how to handle your fears and anxieties about the future. Is it ok to be afraid, or does that mean you lack faith? Anxiety isn’t a sin, but what you do with it can be. Check out this episode for how to handle your fears!
What should you do after you’ve crossed sexual boundaries in a dating relationship? Once you’ve crossed lines, is there any use in going back? Should you break up? We talk about all of that and more in this week’s episode!
In this week’s episode we talk about what a calling is and what it means for us, as Christians. Do only certain people have callings from God, or is it everyone? If you’re looking for more purpose in your life check out this episode!
A few weeks ago we did an episode called “Where are the Godly Guys?” and we heard from many of you guys! You told us that you actually have that question for the girls! We talk about where the godly girls are and how to be a godly woman!
Jesus teaches that we should be familiar with fasting. We should go without so that we can subdue our urges and connect with our Father. In fact, Jesus even promises that there is a promised reward from fasting. To hear more check out this episode!
This week we continue our conversation with Brenna Blain, the author of the book "Can I Say That?" Brenna speaks about her book and her journey through trauma, same-sex attraction and mental health. We hope you are challenged and encouraged by Brenna's story like we were!
This week we speak with Brenna Blain, the author of the book "Can I Say That?" Brenna speaks about her book and her journey through trauma, same-sex attraction and mental health. Our time with Brenna was so good, we had to break it up into TWO episodes, so be sure to tune in next week for part 2!
Sharing the gospel can be intimidating if you don’t know how to start. Remember, that the gospel is the best news you could ever share. In the episode we give clarity on how to share and why to share!
This week we speak with Dallas Jenkins, the creator of “The Chosen” and the new movie “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever”. Dallas speaks about how to create in the midst of cynics, how to glorify God with your creativity, and how to recover from failure. You don’t want to miss this one!
If Jesus is coming back soon, what does that mean? Should we be scared? Excited? How can we prepare for Him to come back?
This week we talk with Pastor Chad Veach about his new book “I bet you think this book is about you”. It’s a book about the joy that comes with humility and how to become a more humble person. Pick up his book here: https://a.co/d/gyew5Ss
If the Bible is so important to our faith, how can we know we can actually trust it? In this episode we talk about the validity of the Bible. The Bible isn’t just a collection of stories, it’s the inspired Word of God!
As Christians, how do we know what news to consume and how much to consume? With an upcoming election we want to be wise with what we listen to (and what we don’t listen to!). We talk to the founder of The Pour Over to hear how to navigate the news!
This week we talk with the President of Mission of Hope, Brad Johnson, about how he was called into missions. Brad shares stories of how God has used his “yes” to help impact thousands of lives in Haiti and the Dominican Republic. All of us have a role to play in reaching the lost and needy, this episode will help give you vision for what you can do!
In this episode we talk with podcaster, Tim Ross, about his story of following Jesus. He has courageously followed God’s call on his life which has lead him to some amazing opportunities. If you want to be inspired to take a step of faith, don’t miss this episode!
Can you control thoughts that feel uncontrollable? There are times when all of us have thoughts we just don’t want to have. This episode we talk about our thoughts and how we can learn to think better!
What do you do when your friend is in sin? Is it your job to call them out, or should you leave it to God to convict them? The good news is God tells us in Scripture what our role is!
Is it a problem to want what other people have? In this episode we talk about why God takes jealousy so seriously and why we should too. The warnings against jealousy are a part of His commands because it wants to steal from the life He offers!
One of the things we hear from young adult women is that it's so hard to date because it's so hard to find a godly guy. In this episode we give advice to the girls and some encouragement to the guys!
We live in the midst of the supernatural, and sometimes that can be rather scary. The good news of Scripture is we don’t have to fear the spiritual battle, because we have the power to win it. While there is an enemy trying to defeat us, we know that Jesus has already defeated him!
Life can be really hard for young adults today. Things like college debt and housing costs have created a negative vibe around an entire generation. In this episode we talk through how to handle these difficult life situations!
Forrest Frank has just released a massively successful album called “Child Of God”. In the midst of that success, he’s been able to remain humble. We talk with him about the need for humility and how to keep it!
Modesty is maybe a word you’ve heard in Christian circles, but what does it even mean? Is “modesty” an out of date idea, or does it matter for our life today? Before you think about what to wear, watch this episode!
When Jesus said "I did not come to bring peace, but a sword," what did He mean? Should we always seek unity or is division sometimes justified? We talk through all of that and more in this episode!
Where do Christians belong in culture? How should we as believers interact with the things of the world and the people of the world? In this episode, JP answers burning questions from Becoming Something viewers on some of the hottest topics of the day.
How important is it to actually follow through on what you said you were going to do? Sometimes flaking out, is easier than keeping a commitment. In this episode we talk about the necessity of being a person of your word!
While many of us want to live for Jesus, some of our lives don’t reflect that. It’s easier to live partially surrendered than fully surrendered. In this episode we talk about how you can leverage your life fully for the gospel!
In this episode, we talk with Magician Drew Worsham about how we shouldn’t be afraid to be curious with our faith. Instead of allowing doubt to drive us away, being curious can drive us towards God. Not having all the answers can actually grow your faith!
In this week’s episode we talk about our need for revival and how we can prepare for revival. If we want our world to know Jesus, we need to help put in the work to make it happen! While we can’t force revival, we can certainly play a role!
In this episode we talk to song writer and worship leader, Brett Younker, about the heart behind the song “The Lord Will Provide”. God has promised us that He’ll care for us, but how can we learn to trust Him? Brett shares about how and why the song has impacted young adults all over the world.
In this episode we talk through all you need to find out before you say “I do”. How can you determine if your boyfriend or girlfriend is really the one you should spend the rest of your life with? If you need help discerning, don’t miss this episode!”
On this episode we get to talk to the author of “Becoming Happy & Healthy”, Jeanine Amapola. She shares about times in her life where she didn’t have healthy habits, and what allowed her to find better ones. If you want to take a step into the abundant life has for you, check out this episode and pick up her book here: https://a.co/d/fvsbGvq
This week, we talk with Willie Robertson about the joy of sharing the gospel. Talking about Jesus doesn’t have to feel difficult! Willie gives us motivation to share about the most important thing in our life! Pick up his book “Gospeler” here: https://www.amazon.com/Gospeler-Turning-Darkness-Light-Conversation/dp/1400338484
Maybe you’ve heard someone say that they “heard from God”. What does that mean? And is that even possible? Today we talk with our friend Grant Troutt on how to tune your ears to hear God’s voice!
In this episode, we hop on the phone with Joshua Ryan Butler to talk about sex, and how we can trust that the Maker of sex has told us how to have the best sex. It doesn’t start from following your emotions, but from seeking to serve. God has given us instructions and insight about sex that we should be eager to follow!
How can you honor your parents when they disagree with decisions you make as an adult? Should we are frustrated by their feedback? In this episode, we talk about how to communicate in a way that will strengthen your relationship with them?
All of us likely have friends and family that go to church on Sunday but don't live like Christians outside of church. How can we live as an example to them and help them follow Jesus?
At BeSo Live, we took random questions from the audience and JP responded on the spot. We covered a lot of ground in this episode, and we're sure there's a question and answer that will help you!
Episode Timestamps:
3:04 - How do you deal with burnout?
7:25 - How do you discern the difference between God's will and your will?
11:33 - What are the pitfalls of working in ministry?
21:03 - How do you witness to former believers?
24:09 - Can you explain how Godly leadership is service?
27:56 - What are your thoughts on predestination?
30:31 - Where is the line between showing grace and stepping away from a relationship?
34:45 - Doing all the "right" things but I'm still single, what am I doing wrong?
41:27 - How to break traditions in the church that are unnecessary?
43:40 - How to relight the fire when you're in a spiritual lull?
At BeSo Live 2024, the audience gets to choose what we talk about. Their number one choice was about standards for who they should marry. How can you know if you are expecting too much? We cover all that and more in this episode!
Should all Christians be hospitable, or only those with the gift of hospitality? Hospitality can be one of the best ways to show the love of Christ to whoever is in your sphere of influence. Today our guest, David Nasser, talks us through how we should use hospitality to share the gospel. Making people feel welcome can display how Christ has first welcomed you home!
Sports betting has taken off in recent years, but the question is should Christians participate? If gambling is legal, then is there a problem with participating? And if I currently do gamble, how do I know if it’s turned into an addiction? For all that and more, check out this episode!
In this week's episode, we tackle the topic of Christian apologetics. Why should we believe in a God? And why should we believe in Jesus specifically? This episode will build your faith!
Sin always wants to steal, kill, and destroy and this is exactly what porn will do to your life. While it promises to give you pleasure, it will ultimately take from you. In the episode, we talk to our friend Joshua Broome about how a porn addiction impacts your life for the worse.
This week we talk through a real-life example with Nate and Kathy about how to know when to speak up, and when to sit on your hands. When you notice your friend might be in sin, when is it your responsibility to say something? And how can you communicate clearly, kindly, and patiently with your brother or sister in Christ? We tackle all of that and more in this week’s episode!
We’re joined by our friend, Joel Muddamalle, to tackle what the New Testament says about speaking in tongues. Joel serves as the Director of Theology and Research at Proverbs 31 Ministries. He’s also written a brand new book called “The Hidden Peace”. You can pick up his book here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400335329?tag=wpublishing-20
This week is the start of a two part theology series with our friend, Dr. Joel Muddamalle. We do our best to answer what roles the New Testament allows women to have in ministry. Joel serves as the Director of Theology and Research at Proverbs 31 Ministries. He’s also written a brand new book called “The Hidden Peace”. You can pick up his book here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400335329?tag=wpublishing-20
In this week’s episode we talk about JP’s recent experience at a theme park and how that made him aware of our spiritual battle. We live in a spiritual world, and we need to make sure we’re equipped to fight back against the forces of darkness. We don’t need to live scared, but we do need to be mindful!
We make thousands of decisions each day, but not all of them are good ones! In this episode, we talk with pastor and author, Craig Groeschel, about how we can learn to make better decisions. You can pick up his new book “Think Ahead” here: https://www.amazon.com/Think-Ahead-Decisions-God-Honoring-Tomorrow/dp/0310366569/ref=sxts_entity_rec_bsx_s_def_r00_t_aufl?content-id=amzn1.sym.a36c3969-f821-4d5b-a8e8-be129cf4aa4a%3Aamzn1.sym.a36c3969-f821-4d5b-a8e8-be129cf4aa4a&crid=3VCIT7XNS8KRR&cv_ct_cx=craig+groeschel&keywords=craig+groeschel&pd_rd_i=0310366569&pd_rd_r=0fe86884-cb92-4958-9ae6-4cfd4727d116&pd_rd_w=6NtFV&pd_rd_wg=YcodW&pf_rd_p=a36c3969-f821-4d5b-a8e8-be129cf4aa4a&pf_rd_r=S0CYS3C6Z6WS5MEWX33Z&qid=1706807162&s=books&sprefix=craig+gr%2Cstripbooks%2C354&sr=1-3-ef9bfdb7-b507-43a0-b887-27e2a8414df0
All of us have emotions, but not all of us know what to do with them. In this episode we talk to speaker and author, Jennie Allen, on how we can learn from our emotions, while not letting our emotions rule over us! Pick up her new book “Untangle Your Emotions” here: https://www.amazon.com/Untangle-Your-Emotions-Naming-Knowing/dp/0593193415
Friday Q&A with JP is one of our favorite things, so we wanted to bring a piece of it to the podcast! We get questions from listeners all the time and aren’t always able to answer them. On this episode we try to rapid fire ask the questions that you want answered!
Some of us have been carrying around sin for years all the while promising that this time will be the last time. In this episode we talk about how to truly kill sin. Your sin isn’t providing you a full life, it’s keeping you from it!
This past year we have seen some amazing moves of God within the lives of college students. From Asbury to Passion, it feels like God is doing a new thing in the next generation. In this episode we talk about revival and how we can play a role in it happening!
John Mark has written a new book called “Practicing the Way” about how we can live with Jesus and live in the ways of Jesus. Jesus has shown us how to live, now we have to actually follow Him. You can buy his new book here: https://www.amazon.com/Practicing-Way-Jesus-Become-like/dp/0593193822?nodl=1&dplnkId=201b9d35-dcd6-4d79-84ff-a88b290b783a
This week we talk with former country music artist turned pastor Granger Smith about his new book “Like a River”. Granger lost his son in a tragic accident and that moment changed the trajectory of Granger’s life. Hear how God has used that tragedy in the episode and buy the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Like-River-Finding-Strength-Heartache/dp/1400334365/ref=asc_df_1400334365?nodl=1&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=642135968839&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=6741300544594585172&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9027505&hvtargid=pla-1936846904788&psc=1&mcid=7aec04faf92a345b97e66adc00ad5632&dplnkId=498a464d-46d1-421b-aa0f-86f60004cd25
Each New Year, many of us are resolved to be better. In this episode we talk about what resolutions to make and how to
Sometimes being home for Christmas can feel magical…sometimes it doesn’t. There can be conflict with family or a tendency to fall back into sin. In this episode we help you prepare to do well at home no matter your situation
When does following the rules become problematic for your heart? In Scripture we see people like the Pharisees who learned to love rules more than they loved God. How can we make sure we aren’t too legalistic while maintaining a desire to live righteously?
In this week’s episode, JP sits down with our friends from the Heart of Dating Podcast! They have a wide ranging conversation on all things dating. If you’re single or dating, you don’t want to miss this episode!
Since we live in a broken world, suffering is inevitable. What is not inevitable is suffering without hope. Because of the gospel we have directions on how to suffer and how to help others when they are suffering.
This week we have an honest and insightful conversation with musical artist and author KB. KB has written songs with deep meaning and here we get to know the man behind the songs!
What’s the problem with having too much of something? In this episode we talk about gluttony and how it has a sneaky impact on our life. Our culture typically celebrates having more when it may actually be a sin.
We will spend a large percentage of our life at work. If that’s the case, we better learn how to work well! In this episode we talk about how you can stand out at work and why the Lord is honored by it!
There are wars, rumors of wars, famines, and many other hardships. It certainly feels like the times Scripture describes about Jesus’ return! In this episode we talk about if Jesus is returning soon and how we can prepare for it.
How can Scripture say that God is love and that we should approach Him with fear? In this episode we talk to author and pastor, John Bevere about how we can approach God and hear from God. He’s written a book called “The Awe of God” you can buy here: https://a.co/d/1Q6fvW6
Can you desire to have great sex as a Christian? In this episode we talk about how you can have great sex and how it’s different from how the world views it. Sex is created by God and it should be enjoyed!
If you desire to be married, you’ve maybe been told to pray for your future spouse. Author and pastor Scott Kedersha has put together an amazing resource that will help you know what to pray for! If you are dating or engaged, these are great prayers for your relationship!
Many of us think if we just had a little bit more money we’d be happier. This week we talk to John Rinehart about why that isn’t the case! A rich life isn’t necessarily a wealthy life! Pick up his book “Gospel Patrons” here: https://www.gospelpatrons.org/books/gospel-patrons
In the middle of all of your worries and pain and loneliness, you’re not alone! Lisa Whittle has written a book called “God Knows” about how God is with you through it all. You don’t need to fix your life on your own because God is with you and for you! You can find Lisa’s book here:
https://www.lisawhittle.com/godknows
If you’ve been in church, you’ve probably seen baptisms and you maybe even have been baptized. But what does baptism mean? Do we need it to be saved? If not, why would we even be baptized? We answer those questions and more on this week’s episode!
Most people are looking for love, they just don’t really know where to find it. In this episode we talk with author Madison Prewett Troutt about her experience with finding love. You can read more in her brand new book “The Love Everybody Wants”! Find it here: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Everybody-Wants-Looking-Already/dp/0593445244?nodl=1&dplnkId=87a6c492-6c6a-46e6-99d7-21b8fdd57776
Are angels and demons actually involved in our life? This week we talk through spiritual warfare and how to make sure you’re not losing the battle. We need not fear because the battle has been won!
Does conflict mean that your relationships are healthy or unhealthy? Conflict is always an opportunity for restoration. In this episode we talk how to conflict well!
We’re not getting better at disagreeing. While we’re called to be ministers of reconciliation, sometimes the Church is better known for our division. In this episode we talk to Mike Donehey about disagreement, forgiveness, and God’s grace.
You can check out his book “Grace in the Gray” here: https://www.amazon.com/Grace-Gray-More-Loving-Disagree/dp/0593194187?nodl=1&dplnkId=31651a00-4c0a-4180-b3c2-ff2dd1eec060
Many of us struggle to have an active and thriving prayer life. This week we talk with Addison Bevere about why we should love to pray! You can check out his book “Words with God” here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0800737016/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=&sr=
Many people see singleness as a waiting period for the next stage of life. We talk to Tara-Leigh Cobble about why you don’t have to wait to get out of singleness. You can want a spouse, and also have a blast for the glory of God in singleness!
Tara-Leigh Cobble has helped millions of people love the Bible, and we get to talk to her about her own journey with Scripture. While she hasn’t always loved the Bible, her struggles with Scripture actually made her love it more.
There’s a lot of changing opinions on kids today. Should you have them? How many do you need to have? How long should you wait? We try to answer all of those on this weeks episode!
Many of us have learned a type of Christianity that isn’t true Christianity. We’ve been taught to go to church on Sunday, live like the world Monday-Saturday, and then do it all over again. It doesn’t have to be that way! In this episode we talk about how you can follow Jesus with ALL of your life!
The Bible says hundreds of times that we should not fear. But it also tells us that we are to fear God. So how are both of those things true? And does fearing God mean being afraid of Him? Find out that and more in this episode!
What if my friends claim to be Christian, but aren’t living like it? The Bible actually gives us guidelines on how to handle these relationships. Do we confront them or let them be? Find out in this episode!
God doesn’t always do what we ask Him to do. In those moments, it’s easy to run away from Him rather than towards Him. We talk to pastor Albert Tate about how to wrestle well with God!
Is there a line between being nice and being flirty? In this episode we talk about how to be clear with your intentions and kind with your actions! You can show the fruits of the spirit without showing mixed messages!
We get to talk to author and professional counselor, Dr. Debra Fileta about how we can develop healthier mental habits. All of us have experienced some sort of trauma, and Dr. Fileta helps us find tools to work through these hang ups. This is an episode for anyone and everyone!
In this episode we talk about the assurance of salvation. You can know whether or not you are saved! We talk about how you are saved, and how to help others know they are too!
All of us have the opportunity for leadership, and the Bible gives us a great outline to grow in our leadership. This week we talk about when we can lead, how we should lead, and how to grow in the way we lead.
This week we get to talk to a legend in the music industry. Scott Brickell has likely been behind the scenes of some of your favorite music. We talk about what makes a musician successful and what he’s learned in his time in the industry!
Your young adult years are supposed to be filled with friends and parties and community. But what if that’s not what it feels like? What if instead it’s filled with a deep or dull loneliness? In this episode we give you the steps to take to walk out of your loneliness!
Engagement can be a really scary and really exciting thought at the same time. In this episode we make sure you know what you need to know before you get engaged! Stick around for a bonus conversation on how we handle our phones!
We all love JP’s Friday Q&A on Instagram, now you get to see it happen in real time! JP answers questions on the spot on a wide range of topics. These questions were randomly selected and not given to JP in advance.
How can we be people who speak both courageously and thoughtfully? When our beliefs don’t line up with our co-worker’s, family member’s, or friend’s, what can we do to address those differences? If you’re looking for some help with the way you communicate don’t miss this episode!
This week we get to talk to Josh Howerton who is the pastor of Lakepointe Church. We discuss what role the Church has played and should play in society. If you want to know what role you should play in the church, don’t miss this episode!
We talked to Jennifer Hart to hear about her journey in the music industry and how music has impacted her mental health. Music can be a powerful force for both good and bad in the way you think. Listen to this and think about what you listen to!
Bob Goff is well known for his books of his wildly whimsical life. Bob has inspired many people to live better stories. We got to have a fun conversation about what he’s up to today!
The phrase "spiritual boundaries" is common in the dating process, but what does that mean? When you are dating are you allowed to pray together or not? In this episode we talk about how to make sure you honor God in the way that you date and pray!
In the process of dating, you’ll eventually be introduced to your potential in-laws. In-laws are a source of conflict for many marriages, and we want to help you start off on the right note! How can you manage honoring your in-laws when either they don’t seem to like you, or you don’t seem to like them?
We’ve all heard of Christian leaders who have used their power and influence to bring harm on people within their church. In this conversation, we talk with Katelyn Beaty about how we can avoid that from continuing to happen in the church. How can we maintain we’re all about Jesus instead of all about ourselves?
Check out her book here: https://amzn.to/3ZKV7x8
If you are sick of being stuck in sin, we have a new resource for you! JP has written a book helping you identify your vices so that you can replace them with life giving virtues. You don’t have to be bogged down by sin, you can find freedom.
Buy the book here: https://www.jonathanpokluda.com
In this episode, we talk about how Joshua Broome broke free from the p*rn industry and how God rewrote his story. If you are stuck in an addiction to p*rn, God can change your desires! If you're looking for a story of hope, you're going to love this episode.
In this episode, we sit down with Joshua Broome and hear about his experience in the p*rn industry. Joshua shares details of just how broken the industry is, and what it did to him. Before you consume p*rn, you need to know what industry you're keeping alive!
Everything you do flows from what's in your heart. If we want to live differently, we need to change what we are feeding our hearts. We aren't meant to follow our hearts but to inform them!
February can be a really hard month if you're single and don't want to be. In this episode, we talk about how to prepare for marriage, but also to get the most out of your singleness. You aren't just in a season of waiting, you can experience God's best now!
Whether you realize it or not, all of us have influence. In this episode we talk about how to use our influence well so that we make Jesus more famous, not ourselves!
In this week's episode we talk to author (and one of the most encouraging people we know), Carlos Whittaker. He gives us insight into what he's learned about how we're made to live. If you're looking for joy, don't miss this episode!
Christians have a wide variety of beliefs about alcohol. Is it something that should be totally avoided? Or should we embrace it? In this episode, we talk about how to view alcohol in a way that honors God and is best for you.
Our goal each year should be to look more like Jesus at the end of it. To help with that process, each year our staff gives up one thing and decides a word they want to live out. This helps give direction to a year of following Jesus!
Sometimes it’s hard to know if someone is truly following Jesus or if they just claim to be a Christian. In this episode we talk about the qualities you want to see in someone if you are to date them. Don’t get caught in a relationship that will pull you from Jesus!
Holiness can be seen as a burden that we can’t live up to. In this episode we talk about how holiness actually benefits your life. You can look more like Jesus in 2023!
For many of us, confession to anyone other than God feels like a scary idea. In this episode we talk about how confession to others is actually beneficial to you. If you want to take a new step on your faith, check out this episode!
Around the holidays you’ll likely spend lots of time with family, many of whom may not know Jesus. In this episode we talk about how and when to share your faith with your family. We want to help you start conversations that matter!
All of us have to work, but what if we feel like our work doesn't have eternal significance? In this episode we talk to Jordan Raynor about how every job can have a purpose for eternity. Whether you're a pastor or a barista, this episode will help you do your job with a mission in mind! But Jordan's new devotional "The Word Before Work" here: The Word Before Work: A Monday-Through-Friday Devotional to Help You Find Eternal Purpose in Your Daily Work - Kindle edition by Raynor, Jordan. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
Politics is likely either the first thing or the last thing you want to talk about with family. In this episode we discuss how to process politics through the lens of a believer. It’s important but it’s not ultimate!
While money isn’t evil, it is a root of all kinds of evil. In this episode we talk about the dangers of wanting to be rich. If money has your heart, God does not!
Many of us are running at such a fast pace that we’re desperate for rest. In this episode we talk about the things that will actually restore your soul. There’s a difference between self-care and soul care, it’s important to know the difference!
The world’s way of dating simply isn’t the best way to date. We’ve all been fed lies about what is the ideal dating relationship. In this episode Tovares Grey walks us through how his life experience has proven the promises of Scripture to be true! Buy his new book here:
https://www.amazon.com/Godly-Dating-101-Discovering-Relationships/dp/0785293019
What do we do when things are happening around us that we don’t agree with? Many of us have only known two options: loud and unloving disagreement, or apathy. In this episode we talk about how to be salt and light in a winsome way. We’re called to be both courageous and kind!
We all have varying degrees of hurts in our past, many of us just don’t know what to do with them. In this week’s episode, we talk to author Toni Collier about how God can restore and redeem hurts and trauma from our past. We may have pain, it just doesn’t have to stay permanent! To hear more, buy her new book “Brave Enough To Be Broken” here:
https://www.amazon.com/Brave-Enough-Be-Broken-Discover/dp/1400233356
One of the hardest parts about your young adult years can be finding genuine community. You may have friends you hang out with, all the while not feeling truly known by anyone. In this episode we talk about the ingredients of community and how you can help create it wherever you’re at!
One of the hardest things about dating is that there is just so much pressure. Everyone seems to have an opinion and it takes the fun out of the process. In this episode we talk about how rules can be hurtful because each person is different.
We know that we’re supposed to read the Bible, many of us just don’t actually know how to. In this episode we talk about how to study the Scriptures and how to apply it to your life. If you want to love to read the Bible, this episode is for you!
One of the lies the enemy will try to get you to believe is that you aren’t good enough for God. When we sin, the worst thing you can do is stay where you are. God always wants you to come near and he’s eager to free you from shame.
Saying the thing you know you need to say can be really really hard. In this episode we talk about the importance of honesty and how to communicate the truth in love. If you’re looking for deeper, more authentic relationships this episode is for you!
We all have a soundtrack in our head of the things we tell ourselves. It’s vital for us to realize whether the soundtrack in our mind is giving us the truth or feeding us lies. In Jon’s new book he helps us remove and replace lies with the truth! Order his new book here:
https://acuff.me/playlist/
In this week’s episode we talk to legendary Christian artist, Matthew West. We discuss what he’s learned about God’s character through some of the hardest moments of his life. We also talk about the balance of performing for a living, while never wanting your life with Jesus to feel like a “performance”. Grab Matthew’s new book “The God Who Stays” here: https://www.amazon.com/God-Who-Stays-Looks-Different/dp/0785291628
The more you follow Jesus, the easier it can be to feel like you have it figured out. I mean what does it really matter if we miss a day or two (or a week) in the Bible or prayer? In this episode we talk about the necessity of time with Jesus and what it can look like. It’s essential for both for the new follower of Jesus and for the one who has known Him their whole life!
Your young adult years are filled with decisions that feel overwhelming. Everything from who should I marry, to where should I live, to what should I pursue as a career. Sometimes making a decision just feels crippling. In this episode we talk through fear of commitment and how to be more decisive!
Nate Hilgenkamp:
We know that Jesus calls us to forgive, but sometimes forgiveness can be really really hard. In this episode we talk through the process of forgiveness and how you can begin to take steps forward. We also talk through appropriate boundaries after forgiveness has taken place.
The songs you listen to and the shows you watch affect you more than you realize. That’s why it’s so important for us to pay attention to what we pay attention to. In this episode we talk about what you should or shouldn’t consume in regards to media.
Our greatest disappointments in life come from our miss expectations. The problem for many young adults is that their life doesn't go how they expected. In this episode we talk about the life you should want to live, and how to find contentment in any circumstance.
What should you do when the people around you only seem to make you worse? Is it ok to ever cut off a relationship? In this episode we help you make hard decisions and enter into hard conversations. If you’re looking for how to handle a tough friendship this episode is for you!
We’ve heard a lot of you ask about things like manifestation and crystals. In this episode we talk about what they are, and if believers in Jesus should participate. If you’ve ever wondered if these things have power, check out this episode!
In this episode we tackle one of the most asked questions on dating. How important is physical attraction? If you’re looking for a spouse we talk about the role of attraction in marriage and how important it should be in your search!
Since the pandemic have you been feeling more irritable? Tired? Angry? It’s because we’ve all been through a lot! In this episode, we talk to author John Eldredge about how to build up our reserves so we can become more resilient. To get his new book follow this link:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09N8XS7Y4/ref=dbs_a_def_awm_bibl_vppi_i0
If God is good, why should I fear him? In this episode we talk about why Scripture says we should fear Him, and why it’s actually for our good. If you e ever struggled with this question, this episode is for you!
We live in a culture where absolute truth is absolutely evaporating. It is widely accepted that everyone has their own truth based on their life experiences. In this episode we talk about what Scripture has to say and how we can know what really is true.
Andy Crouch is an author and commentator on our culture through the lens of a Jesus follower. He specifically has written a game changing book called “The Tech Wise Family”, and we’re confident this book will have a similar impact. In this episode we talk about the importance of community and how technology has changed our relationships. To order Andy’s new book, click here:
https://www.amazon.com/Life-Were-Looking-Relationship-Technological/dp/059323734X/ref=asc_df_059323734X_nodl?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=533224334354&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=12889298266385288890&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9027505&hvtargid=pla-1467486165035&psc=1&dplnkId=586e9918-a9c6-4587-9596-9eee6dc80e6e
Is God mad at you every time you sin? Many of us feel like God puts up with us rather than actually loving us. In this episode we do our best to clarify who God is and what his intentions are towards you!
How can you tell if you are hearing from God or if it’s just a voice in your head? Is he telling you who to date and you just can’t hear him? Is he telling you where to live but you’re ignoring him? If you’re looking to discern the voice of God in your life, check out this episode!
What’s the right thing to do once you’ve been cheated on? Should you extend grace or immediately break things off? We talk through what it means to be cheated on, and how you can best respond. If you’ve been cheated on, or are looking to help a friend in this situation, this podcast will be helpful for you!
In this week’s episode we talk to Scott Harrison, author and founder of charity: water. Scott is an amazing example of how Jesus can take your mess and turn it into a ministry. He went from nightclub promoter, to the founder of one of the most well known charities in America. To hear more, check out this episode or buy Scott’s book at this link:
https://www.amazon.com/Thirst-Story-Redemption-Compassion-Mission/dp/1524762849/ref=asc_df_1524762849/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312143020546&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4836135109016590742&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-526985540295&psc=1
In this episode we talk to New York Times Best Selling author, Lisa Bevere about how her perception of God has changed over the course of her life. We discuss how our perception of God affects how we live our lives. We also talk about how to hear from God. To pick up her new book “Fiercely Loved” follow this link:
https://www.amazon.com/Fiercely-Loved-Gods-Thoughts-about/dp/0800741706
We asked our audience at BeSo Live what topic they wanted to hear and this is what the voted on for session 2! In this episode we talk about how to break the cycle of sin in your family. If you’re looking to start fresh from hurts/sins in your family’s past, check out this episode!
Many of you follow JP's Friday Q&A on Instagram but our BeSo Live participants got to ask him questions in person! In this episode, JP covers a wide range of topics and answers the questions that young adults are asking. We hope you enjoyed this as much as we did!
This week’s episode was our first recording from Becoming Something Live in Waco, TX. We let the audience decide what they wanted to hear and they chose contentment. In this episode we cover what it means to be content in your young adult years. If you’re struggling in your career, finances, singleness, or anything else this episode is for you!
One of the most uncomfortable conversations in a dating relationship is when your significant other asks about your past. In this episode we help you think through what to say and how to say it. We also try to help you figure out what you should know from your boyfriend or girlfriend before you marry them. We hope this will help you!
Do you know that Jesus said not all sins can be forgiven? There is one sin that actually cannot be forgiven. In this episode we help you figure out if you’ve committed it. Check out this episode for an in depth explanation!
Don't like your job? You're not alone! Many of us have a job, but don't know why we do it other than to get a paycheck. In this episode we talk about why we work, and how to find purpose in your work. You've got a job to do, so let us help you enjoy it!
When it comes to work, your attitude is everything. In this episode we do our best to give you a biblical perspective on work. You’ve got a purpose whether you’re scooping ice cream or preaching to thousands!
One of the most frequent questions on JP’s Friday Q&A is about masturbation. Is it a sin? And if so, what’s the big deal about it? Why does masturbation affect your relationships? And how can you stop? We cover all of that and more in this week’s episode!
So often in the church world, we form our own Christian bubbles where we don’t have to talk with anyone we disagree with. In this episode, we talk with the founder of The New Evangelicals who recently publicly disagreed with one of our previous podcasts. We reached out to him to have a conversation to show how we can talk through our disagreements.
Our conversation went a little longer than normal so we trimmed this episode for time. To listen to the full un-edited version visit our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz85jke2lw0mZrI4e7vjg3g
You may not even realize it, but you act as your own brand manager. What that means is you’re in charge of what other people think about you! For many of us, this is crippling because we care deeply about what other people think of us. In this episode we talk about how you can be freed from your need to be perceived a certain way!
One of JP’s all time favorite quotes is, “If dependence is the goal, then weakness is the advantage.” On this week’s episode we talk about why dependence is the goal of our faith and what it practically looks like to be dependent. Don’t let your self-reliance get in the way of a growing faith!
In this week's episode we talk to Jennie Allen, New York Times bestselling author and founder of IF:Gathering, about our need for community. So many of feeling lonely and without community. In Jennie's new book "Find Your People", she explains why community is so important and how you can find your own. This was such a helpful conversation! To order "Find Your People", follow this link: https://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-People-Building-Community/dp/0593193385/ref=asc_df_0593193385/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=532476049386&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=761845783548781472&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-1459058127287&psc=1
The way we date isn’t working. People are getting married later and getting divorced more often. In this episode we talk about some improvements we can make to the way we date that will impact the health of our relationships. If you’re looking for dating help, look no further!
In this week's episode we talk about the margin in our lives and the busyness of our schedule. We often hide behind our busyness while putting our faith on pause. To hear how that might impact your life, take a listen to this episode!
“Deconstruction” is a buzzword in many Christian circles and we’re here to tell you the potential opportunities and dangers that can be found in deconstruction. If you’re going through a season of doubt or questioning, check out this podcast for a helpful resource!
Helpful resources mentioned in this weeks episode:
becomingsomething.com
gotquestions.org
carm.org
probe.org
bibleproject.org
In this week's episode we talk about the mathematics of following Jesus. What does that mean you ask? Every year, JP subtracts something from his life so that it might add to his faith. To hear how that might impact your life, take a listen to this episode!
Every single day of your life there is a battle for your mind, and we want to make sure you win it. The narrative that the media and social media gives you is rarely the good or godly narrative. In this episode, we do our best to equip you with the tools needed to keep yourself from conforming to the thoughts of this world.
This week we talk to Kyle Idleman who is the Senior Pastor at Southeast Christian Church. We talk with him about what it actually means to influence people. He just released a brand new book called "One at a Time". Pick up the book here: https://www.amazon.com/One-Time-Unexpected-Wants-Change-ebook/dp/B09B2PLJRZ
In this week's episode we compile a lot of listener's questions on sex and give you our answers! If you're looking for an honest conversation on what to expect with sex, check out this episode!
In this week's episode we talk to the one and only Jackie Hill Perry about the topic of holiness. She wrote a brand new book on this topic and we had a great conversation about the character of God, the importance of Scripture, and how holiness is a better way to live. Get her book "Holier Than Thou" here: https://www.amazon.com/Holier-Than-Thou-Holiness-Helps/dp/1535975717/ref=asc_df_1535975717/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=509467422400&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=1380342126140334084&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-1249227234888&psc=1
This episode comes out the week of Christmas, and for many listeners Christmas means lots and lots of family time. We address what that time should look like when family time typically means conflict. We discuss forgiveness, boundaries, and making the most of time with family.
In this week's episode we talk about whether or not Christians can or should drink alcohol. Is it a sin to be tipsy? Is it a sin to drink around non-Christians? Find out the answers on this episode! (disclaimer: we exchanged gifts at the beginning. If you are just looking for the content on this topic skip ahead to 15:30)
In this episode we talk about how eternity changes your today. If you're a believer in Jesus, you know you're going to Heaven, but what difference does that make on your life right now? Listen to find out!
If you're a guy who is single or dating, we're here to help you lookout for RED FLAGS from any girl you might be interested in. We talk about traits in girls that should make you pause (or even break up). Girls...check out this episode to know the type of woman godly guys are looking for!
If you're a girl who is single or dating, we're here to help you lookout for RED FLAGS from any guy you might be interested in. We talk about traits in guys that should make you pause (or even break up). Guys...check out this episode to know the type of man godly women are looking for!
We're joined by author and podcaster, Jamie Ivey, this week to talk all things identity. We discuss how to get over comparison, how to know your gifts, and how to actually like your gifts. You're going to love hearing from the gift that is Jamie Ivey! You can listen to her podcast "The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey" or order her books here: https://www.jamieivey.com
Faith is a word that is thrown around in Christian circles, but what does it really mean? What does it mean to have faith? What does it take to grow your faith? And what does faith look like in real life? We answer all of those questions and more on this episode!
Whether it's choosing to leave a job, date a girl, move cities, we'll face a lot of decisions as young adults. In this episode we help you create a plan to help make your decisions better! Check out this episode to protect your decisions from YOU!
In this episode we talk about talking to God. Why should we pray? What does prayer accomplish? We ask all those questions and more to Derwin Gray, who just wrote a fantastic book on prayer called "God, do you hear me?". Pick up the book here: https://www.amazon.com/God-Do-You-Hear-Me/dp/B09HSTP7QS/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=Derwin+gray&qid=1634764557&qsid=147-7132712-8088650&sr=8-2&sres=1535995734%2C1400230489%2C1535995718%2CB00DTX1T1E%2C1535994894%2CB01FGL3ZQI%2CB00QL9LFAS%2CB08ZMBCM7R%2C1535994908%2CB0170ZFFOI%2CB07N96XQ78%2C108775920X%2C0802419755%2C1400221765%2C1400216559%2C1587434709&srpt=ABIS_BOOK
On this weeks episode we cover A LOT of ground on the topic of singleness and dating. Lisa Anderson, who is the director of Boundless at Focus on the Family, joins us to help answer questions y'all have been sending our way. To buy Lisa's book "The Dating Manifesto" click here: https://family.christianbook.com/dating-manifesto-drama-pursuing-marriage-purpose/lisa-anderson/9781434708878/pd/708872?p=1159433&event=ORC
In this episode we talk all things envy and jealousy. How can you combat the desire to have what other people have? How can you learn to celebrate other's successes rather than resent them for it? We address all of that and more on this week's episode!
In this week's episode, we're joined by David Marvin who is the author of the new book "We're All Freaking Out (and why we don't need to)". We have a discussion on anxiety and its' impact on our generation. If you want to pick up a copy of David's book click here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08PYJSTLZ/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
In this week's episode we talk about how authoritative the Bible should be in our walk with Jesus. Can we trust it? How can we interpret something written thousands of years ago? We answer those questions and more!
The most questions we get from y'all are BY FAR on the topic of dating. We took a few of them and packed them into this podcast. We cover things like DTR's, expectations, dating the wrong person, and more.
This week we talk about the role of the megachurch in the modern church landscape. We've seen many megachurches fall because of leadership that isn't submitted to Jesus. Does that mean megachurches are bad? What makes a church biblical? We talk about all of this and more on this week's episode!
In this week's episode we talk about how feelings and faith interact. Can we trust our feelings? Should we make decisions based off of our feelings? We talk about all of that and more!
In this week's episode we talk about the rise of cynicism within Christianity and if it is at odds with the gospel. How can we be optimistic when things in the world look so grim?
In the Great Commission, Jesus gave us the command to go and make disciples. In this episode we talk about what that practically looks like. What does it mean to make disciples? What does it mean to be discipled? If you want to grow in your faith and help others grow in their faith, check out this episode!
Are you feeling lukewarm in your faith but don't want to be? This episode is for you! Here we describe the characteristics of a lukewarm faith and how to get out of it. We also talk about how to challenge believers in our life who seem to be lukewarm in their walk with Christ.
Whether you've moved to a new city and are looking for a church or are unsatisfied with your current church, we are here to help! In this episode we talk about the characteristics of a healthy church and the things you should keep in mind as you are looking. We also talk about whether streaming services online can count as your church.
Our world is quick to take sides and call names, all the while without actually taking time to listen. In this episode we talk about the term "gaslighting" and how we see it take place in our culture. We also discuss how Christians can respond differently to areas of disagreement.
Shane and Shane!!! We're joined by two legends who talk with us about how they got into leading worship, the meaning of their new album, and why Shane and Shane sing Scripture. Check out their new album, "Psalms, Hymns, and Spiritual Songs" wherever you listen to music!
The workplace is a very different place than it used to be just a decade ago. Working from home and casual workspaces are far more prevalent than ever. In this episode we talk about why professionalism still matters, even in different working environments. JP talks through why professionalism can honor God and love others well. If you have a job, or ever plan to have a job, check out this episode!
In this episode we promise to help make your wedding the most EPIC and INSTAGRAMABLE wedding of the year! Ok...maybe not. But we do try to help you prepare a wedding that will honor God and encourage those around you. We talk everything from budget, to invite list, to what we'd do over for our own weddings. Before you say "I do", check out this episode!
Breakups are never fun, but we are here to try to make it easier on everyone. In this episode we talk about what you need to say during a breakup, and how to know when you should or shouldn't get back together with your ex. This episode will help you when you need it most!
Are we playing harps on a cloud? Will there be golf? Is Heaven in outer space? We talk about all these questions and more on this episode as we discuss what Heaven will be like!
Sometimes you just feel like you've hit a wall when it comes to school, your job, or even a relationship. In this episode, JP talks about how to prevent burnout, and what to do if you're experiencing it. Check out this episode for some fresh perspective on why you do what you do!
In this episode we are joined by special guest to discuss how to follow Jesus in the workplace. John Houston has used his work as a homebuilder as a ministry. We talk about what it looks like to be used by God no matter your choice of career. As Christians we're all in ministry, it just depends on where we do it!
In this episode we discuss the role that fun has in our relationship with Jesus. Many of us have grown up thinking that following Jesus will actually keep us from fun. All we know is a list of rules that tell us to not drink, smoke, or have sex. Is there more to Christianity than that? Check out this episode as we talk about whether living with Jesus makes our life more fun.
In this episode we talk about why we need to be talking about Jesus. For many of us, we feel uncomfortable about sharing our faith and don't even know where to begin. JP gives us step by step instructions on how to ask about faith, how to share your faith, and what to do when it doesn't go well.
Have you ever heard the phrase, "Pride comes before the fall"? Well, it's true! (And biblical: Proverbs 16:18). In this episode we talk about the dangers of pride and how to catch it before it overtakes you. We also discuss how to have humility and why it makes you (and everyone around you!) better.
In this episode we talk with Debra Fileta, who is a licensed professional counselor, about struggling with mental health as a follower of Jesus. We discuss things like how to know when you need help, and steps you can take to find healing. If you or someone you knows struggles with mental health, this episode will be a helpful resource for you!
We all know the commandment "Honor Your Father and Mother", but does that ever expire? What does it look like to honor your parents when you step into adulthood? What if you have really difficult parents? We cover all of that and more on this episode. (And with a surprise appearance from contest winner, Briggs Webster!)
If you're in community with other believers, you'll often be asked to give advice on what to do in a certain situation. In this episode we talk about what it takes to be able to give wise, biblical counsel to those in your life. If you want to grow as a friend, make sure to listen to this episode!
Who goes to Heaven? It's one of the most important questions you'll ever ask! In this episode we talk about how we are saved, and how we can have assurance in our salvation. This podcast is one you'll want to share!
Nate is about to be a Dad and asks JP for some help! So in this episode JP talks about how parenting has helped him understand the love of his Heavenly Father. JP also gives a realistic picture of parenting and why it helps make us more like Jesus. If you are a parent, want to be a parent, or even don't want to be a parent, check out this episode!
What is the line between justice and grace? Is cancel culture biblical? What does reconciliation look like with someone who has hurt you? We talk about those questions and more on this episode!
In this episode we talk about what grit means, and why so many young adults don't have it. Grit is the key to growth in any area of you life. Because of this, we want you to have a gritty faith! To figure out how to have grit, check out this episode!
Food can be such an enjoyable part of life, but that isn't everyone's experience. Some people struggle with eating too much, while others struggle with eating too little. In this episode we talk about things like eating disorders and what it means to glorify God when we eat.
In this episode we talk with author and podcast host, Kait Warman, on how to handle a breakup. When can breakups be good for you? How do you know you are over your ex? We talk about all of that and more on this episode!
Being a young adult can feel like a fragile season of life. When things don't go our way, we are prone to believe lies about our identity and our purpose. In this episode we are joined by Paul Angone who will speak some truth into the lives of young adults.
If you want to buy his book "25 Lies Twentysomethings Need to Stop Believing" click here: https://www.amazon.com/Lies-Twentysomethings-Need-Stop-Believing/dp/1540900703
When JP announced the release of his book "Outdated" he also announced an "arranged marriage" contest. We talk about what that means and why community is so necessary in dating relationships. If you're looking to re-thinking dating, check out this episode!
Outdated releases on March 2nd, and in this episode JP gives us some of the best secrets that he's learned on dating. After being in ministry for over a decade and observing thousands of relationships, JP shares biblical advice on how to date better. If you want to hear a few sneak peaks from his book, check out this episode!
Order Outdated on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Outdated-Find-Lasts-Dating-Changed/dp/080109495X
Should Christians try online dating? What are the pros and cons to all of the new apps available for dating? We talk about that and more on this episode!
Buy JP's book "Outdated" here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/080109495X?pf_rd_r=TZAC33T3Z9REFM14GTF9&pf_rd_p=5ae2c7f8-e0c6-4f35-9071-dc3240e894a8&pd_rd_r=b558e5cf-f579-463e-82ec-157e08073057&pd_rd_w=dBPsa&pd_rd_wg=IoAOj&ref_=pd_gw_unk
How can you know when you're ready to date? You may be coming off of a breakup or out of a season of singleness and wondering when you are ready. We're here to help! JP gives you 5 questions to ask yourself to know when you're ready to date again.
Buy JP's book "Outdated" here: https://www.amazon.com/Outdated-Find-Lasts-Dating-Changed/dp/080109495X/ref=sr_1_2?crid=HQFW5ZYY102V&dchild=1&keywords=outdated+jonathan+pokluda&qid=1613070052&sprefix=outdated%2Caps%2C190&sr=8-2
Are you stuck in sin? If not you, surely someone you know who is. John Elmore leads one of the largest recovery ministries in the nation and he drops some WISDOM on this podcast! If you're looking for freedom, John will help lead you to the place where you can find it.
Buy his book "Freedom Starts Today" here: https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Starts-Today-Overcoming-Addictions/dp/1540900622
We frequently get e-mails from listeners about the topic of video games. Oftentimes, it's girlfriends asking if their boyfriend plays too much. In this episode we talk about if video games are ok to play, and some ideas with how to spend your time more wisely!
Modesty is a word that is often thrown around in church, but a lot of us don't know what it means or why it matters. In this episode we talk about the meaning of modesty and what it looks like for us today.
When it feels like everyone else is dating, it can be difficult to remain content when you are single. In this episode we talk about what to do when you don't enjoy being single, but are. If singleness (or the idea of it) is difficult for you, check out this episode!
How much stuff is too much? How do I know if I struggle with materialism? What are the dangers of materialism? We cover those questions and more on this week's episode!
We are SURE that none of you accomplished your resolutions for 2020. With that crazy year behind us, we're excited for what's in store for 2021. In this episode we talk about our resolutions for this year and what yours should be!
In dating, you're trying to find "the one". This magical person that you were destined to marry since they moment you were born. In this episode we talk about that idea, and if it lines up with Scripture. If you're looking for a husband/wife, we want to help you!
This week we talk about the topic of Spiritual Gifts. Does everyone have them? What are they? How do we use them? We tackle those questions and more on this episode!
On JP's Friday Q&A on Instagram, one of the most frequent questions he's been getting is how to break a soul tie. We use this episode to go more in depth on this topic and discuss if it's even a real thing. We'll also help you know the steps to take to recover from a past relationship.
In this episode we talk to a podcast superstar! Tara-Leigh Cobble has helped thousands of people fall in love with the Bible, and she has released a book called "The Bible Recap" to help you do the same. If you want to grow in your understanding and appreciation of Scripture, this podcast is for you!
Long distance isn't fun, but sometimes it's necessary in a relationship. In this episode we talk about how to grow your relationship even when you're not together. We also discuss potential dangers of long distance, and how to wrestle through not trusting your boyfriend/girlfriend. If you're in a long distance relationship (or might be!) this episode is for you!
What role does our faith play in our own mental health? Does struggling with mental health mean you're not a "good Christian"? We tackle these topics and more on this episode!
In a culture of comparison it's easy to struggle with insecurity. It can seem like everyone is more talented, has more friends, and has more fun. But in this podcast we give you tools to help you fight this battle and find freedom from insecurity!
Many of us struggle finding time to pray, staying attentive in prayer, and even knowing what to say when we pray. We talk about all of that and more in this episode. If you want to grow in your prayer life check this episode out!
Ken Costa, in the words of JP, might be the most successful person you'll ever listen to. He's done a tremendous amount in the business world, but has also chosen to invest much of his life into ministry. Check out this episode to hear how he and JP met (there were tears involved!), and what Ken is learning about the future of the Church.
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Some Christians are having a hard time this year figuring out which candidate should get their vote. In this episode JP and Nate discuss some of the hot button issues and attempt to give you a framework for how you should think about voting. Before you vote, check out this episode!
Is it ok to be just friends with the opposite sex? Should you hang out 1 on 1 with someone who isn't your girlfriend/boyfriend? Those questions and more on this episode of Becoming Something!
We all have goals and aspirations in life, but what should be our most important one? In this episode, JP breaks down why our highest aspiration in life should be to be holy. Find out why by taking a listen!
As Christians we know that the Holy Spirit is supposed to be important, but what does He really do? Does the Holy Spirit only help with things like miracles and speaking in tongues, or can we access Him on a daily basis as well? If you've ever wondered these questions, this episode is for you!
In this episode we talk with influencer Jeanine Amapola. She gives us the Christian perspective of how to follow Jesus, while also trying to influence people. Jeanine shares that she's found that joy comes from Jesus, not from everything this world has to offer. Check out this episode to hear her story!
Young adults were lonely. And that was before 2020 happened! What can young adults do when they feel stuck in a season of loneliness. Listen to this episode to find out!
To drink, or not to drink? In this episode we break down when Christians can and cannot drink. If you've got questions about alcohol, this podcast is for you!
Our country is as divided as we've ever seen it. In such a hostile culture, what can Christians do to pursue unity? In this episode we talk about our role as peace makers and how to confront conflict head on!
When you're trying to follow God before marriage it can feel like He is keeping you from something. In this episode we talk physical boundaries: what they are and why God made them. If you're single, dating, or engaged, this episode is for you!
Kathy is officially on maternity leave, so JP and Nate start their nationwide search to find her replacement. They interview people from Canada, to New York, to Michigan. See how the search played out!
There are only two routes in a dating relationship: you either get married, or you break up. In this episode we answer the most common questions sent in to us about breakups. If you're dating someone and you're on fence (or just looking for the person you shouldn't breakup with), this episode is a must listen!
Everybody seems to have an opinion these days about everything! What happens when we disagree? If you want to grow in your ability to have a disagreement, check out this episode!
The Enneagram is one of the hottest topics in Christianity. Does it line up with Scripture? Can it help us follow Jesus? Listen to this episode to find out!
This week we give you an update on JP's life and the importance of his relationship with Jesus. If you are going through a season of grief, or helping someone through their own season of grief, this podcast is for you.
In this weeks episode we talk about all things stewardship. Even though stewardship is a lame word, it's also a biblical one. If we want to be godly stewards of our lives, we first have to know what it means!
You say thousands of words every day...are you using them well? In this episode we talk about sarcasm, jokes, and intentional conversations. If you want to get better with your words, don't miss this episode!
We all know we should, but not many of us actually do! In this episode we want to help you become a person of prayer. If you struggle with making time to pray or knowing what to pray for, you won't want to miss this episode!
On this week's episode we talk about how to live an authentic life. We want to keep you from a life of regret and shame, and authenticity is one of the steps to get there. If you want to live in freedom, check out this episode!
How in the world does JP have so much Scripture memorized? In this episode, we pick his brain and see if he has any tips on how to internalize Scripture. If you're looking to grow in your understanding of the Bible, don't miss this episode!
In this week's episode, we talk about talking behind people's backs! We discuss what the the problem is with it and how we can change. Don't miss this podcast!
Costi Hinn, the nephew of famous televangelist Benny Hinn, comes on the pod to share his history with the prosperity gospel. Costi also appeared on the documentary "American Gospel" and shares his thoughts on the current state of the Church in America.
How has COVID changed the church? In this episode we talk about whether or not church attendance has shifted forever, and whether or not you need to be a member in a local body. Don't miss this episode!
What will our interactions with technology be like after COVID-19 has passed us? Should we utilize the way that tech/social media has helped our lives, or should we have some resistance?
In this episode, we catch up with a Bachelor legend! Ben Higgins joins us to discuss his journey of faith, how he's using his platform, and the importance of coffee. Take a listen!
We call Bryan Carter who is the Senior Pastor of Concord Church in Dallas, Texas. Bryan has held that role for 15 years and also sits on the board of a number of high impact organizations. Take a listen!
Propaganda is an author, spoken word artist, and deep thinker. We get to hear about what he's up to, and how he's processing our current reality. Give it a listen!
Brad Jones is one of the pastors at Passion City Church in Atlanta, GA. Brad has been on the forefront of the Passion movement, and we get to hear about how their church is mobilizing in this season!
We catch up with the legendary Michael Todd! He just released a new book called "Relationship Goals" and he gives a sneak peak of what he's written. Don't miss this episode!
In this episode we talk to Dallas Jenkins who is the director of the hit series called "The Chosen". This series details the life of Jesus and it will be a game changer for your faith! Take a listen to hear the behind the scenes story of how it came to be.
In this episode of Becoming Something, JP interviews Clayton King, author and founder of Clayton King Ministries. They talk all things dating and also discuss why Clayton is so excited about his new book, Reborn. Take a listen!
In this season it's so easy for us to become apathetic. Since we've got nowhere to go and nothing to do, we can fall into watching Netflix for hours. In this episode we discuss how to discipline yourself for godliness and give you the second part of our conversation with Micah Tyler!
Micah Tyler is one of the leading artists within Christian music. His songs have millions of plays on Spotify and can be heard on the radio all across the country. We ask him about his journey and what he's learned along his (very unusual!) path.
Sean Lowe is a former contestant on The Bachelor who was famously known for his love for Jesus. We ask him what advice he has for singles in this season, what Chris Harrison is really like, and more!
Jason Castro is a former contestant on American Idol (4th place finish!). He's also a believer in Jesus and we catch up on how he's processing this season of life.
Scott Drew is the longtime head coach of the Baylor Bears basketball team. He led them to a number 1 ranking this past year and we ask him how he's coping with their season being cut short. You'll be encouraged by his optimism!
Tara-Leigh Cobble is the founder of D-Group and writer and host of The Bible Recap Podcast. She has helped thousands of people grow in their love for Scripture, and we get to hear how it all happened!
Christian Huff and his wife Sadie Robertson Huff are young adults leading other young adults to Jesus. They just completed their 2020 College Tour where they shared the gospel at campuses all across the United States.
Clayton King is the teaching pastor at NewSpring Church and the president of Clayton King Ministries. His new book "Reborn" releases on May 5th!
Adam Tarnow is the Director at Watermark Community Church. Adam is a leading thinker on communication in the Church. We had him on to discuss how COVID-19 is changing the landscape for churches across the country.
Shane Barnard is one of the Shanes from Shane & Shane. Churches all across the country have benefited from Shane Barnard's music for nearly two decades. We caught him as he was writing a brand new song!
Matt Chandler is the lead pastor of The Village Church and the president of the Acts 29 network. Matt is the author of The Explicit Gospel and is one of the most listened to pastors in America.
Jamie Ivey is the host of The Happy Hour podcast and the author of multiple books. She and her husband Aaron Ivey live in Austin, Texas. We check in on how she's doing in this season!
Tedashii is one of the leading Christian rappers in America. His music has millions of listens on Spotify and has impacted a generation. We check in on what Tedashii is up to!
In this week's episode we talk about how the internet has changed the dating game. Is DM'ing someone ok? What about ghosting? We address those issues and more!
Jennie Allen is the founder of IF: Gathering, author of "Get Out of Your Head", and host of the "Made for This" podcast. Check out what Jennie had to say about our current situation!
Preach McSneaks is the man behind the instagram account "Preachers N Sneakers". He talks about materialism, criticism, and cynicism. Check out our conversation!
Annie F. Downs is the host of the "That Sounds Fun" podcast and author of multiple books. We call her as she's in the middle of her own quarantine!
David Marvin is the leader of The Porch, the young adults ministry out of Watermark Community Church in Dallas, Texas. The Porch is a weekly gathering of thousands of young adults all across the country. Check out David's thoughts on anxiety in quarantine!
Todd Wagner is the Senior Pastor of Watermark Community Church in Dallas, Texas and author of "Come and See". Check out what he had to say!
Ben Stuart is the pastor of Passion City Church, Washington D.C. Timothy Ateek is the Executive Director of Breakaway Ministries at Texas A&M. Breakaway is one of the largest weekly gatherings of college students in the country. Check out how they are thinking through life in quarantine!
Shane & Shane need no introduction. They have been writing and leading songs for The Church for nearly 20 years. Jefferson Bethke is the author of "To Hell With The Hustle" and co-host of "The Real Life Podcast". Check out how these leaders are handling today's situation!
In this week's episode we're talking all about how to reach the next generation. As people in their 20-30's are leaving the church, we want to change that. JP just released a new book called "Welcoming the Future Church", and we discuss how to impact young adults with the gospel.
Do you feel stuck in singleness or your dating relationship? We're here to help you feel unstuck in whatever situation you're currently in. God has a purpose for every season of your life!
When you're looking for who to date, how important is physical attraction and chemistry? On this episode, we help you find the answers to that question!
When is the last time you thought about what you think about? Many times our thoughts can lead us to a place we don't want to be. This week we are talking about how to remove unhelpful thoughts and replace them with God honoring ones!
"Be strong and courageous" is a theme throughout the Bible, the only question is, how do we do that?? In this episode we talk about how to become more courageous so you can do whatever God has called you to accomplish.
We've all done things that we regret, but does shame have to follow us our whole lives? On this week's episode we talk about how to overcome shame and where we can find freedom from our past.
One of the most important questions for you to answer in your young adult years is "What's my purpose?" If you don't feel like you've got clarity, we're here to help! Check out what the Bible has to say about why you exist and why your life has purpose.
We're talking about money, money, money! How much should we save? How much should we spend? How much should we share? All of those questions are answered on this week's episode!
Most of us just have too many things on our schedules. We're busy and tired and we don't know what to do. Well, we're here to help! Check out this podcast for wisdom on how to simplify your life!
As you get older, you tend to grow less and less optimistic. In this episode, we talk about why that is, and whether or not cynicism is compatible with Christianity. If you feel surrounded by negativity, then check out this episode!
Are you a Christian? Your immediate reaction is probably yes. But some of us have learned the wrong definition of what it means to be a Christian. Check out this episode and we pray it helps you follow Jesus!
In this week's episode, we're talking all about New Year's Resolutions! We discuss what resolutions you should make, why our resolutions fail, and how to maintain discipline. We hope this podcast helps your 2020!
Christmastime is one of the hardest times of the year to be grateful! We're bombarded with so many things we think we need that we lose sight of everything we already have. In this episode we talk about how you can grow in your gratitude.
Many of us have heard the phrase "Choose Joy," but how is that even possible? In this week's episode, we talk about what joy is and where we can go to find it.
With the Christmas season fast approaching, many of us will be spending increasing amounts of time with family. We are here to help! In this episode, we talk about how to make family time more meaningful for you this season.
Many of us are running at a pace of life that simply isn't sustainable. We're always a little tired and always have a little too much on our to-do list. In this week's episode, we're here to help you get a hold of your life and slow things down.
In this week's episode we wanted you to learn the do's and don't's of dating and marriage from people who have been there and done that. JP and Monica spend time unpacking all that God has taught them throughout their years together. Don't miss their story!
In this bonus episode of Becoming Something, we're sharing a live Q&A done at our church. These questions were sent in by young adults who are trying to figure out how to date biblically. JP and Kathy share answers to questions that you're probably asking!
In this episode, we talk about the importance of reading the Bible on our faith. We'll equip you with what to read, when to read, and how to read it. Don't miss this episode!
In this week's episode, we talk about how to get out of a sin you've been struggling with for a long time. If you're tired of where you're at and want to take steps towards freedom, this podcast is for you!
In this week's episode, we address all the issues that come with comparison. We've all heard that comparison is the thief of joy, but how do we overcome it? Check out this episode for some Biblical wisdom on how to quit playing the comparison game!
In this week's episode, we talk about all things related to sex. Why do you have to wait until marriage? What does sex in marriage look like? What creates good sex? We even brought a special guest! Don't miss this episode!
In this week's episode we talk about how to biblically recover from heartbreak. We've all been there...and we all want to help you through this season in your life! If you need some encouragement today, check out this episode!
We hear it over and over again in young adult ministry...girls are frustrated with guys! Guys aren't asking girls out and in this podcast we try to figure out why that is. If you're a guy looking for advice or a girl looking to better understand, check out this episode!
On this week's episode of Becoming Something we admit that many people don't even know what they are looking for. Rather than dating aimlessly, let us help you date with a purpose! This episode will help you know if your bf/gf is the one, or if they've got some work to do! Don't date without listening to this podcast!
In this week's episode, we tackle the ever popular idea of self-care. We take some time debunking culture's idea of self-care, and replace it with things that will actually fill us up. You won't want to miss this episode!
Anxiety is at the highest levels they've ever been among young adults. On this week's episode we talk about why that is, and how to find a fix for it. If you're needing to find some peace of mind, check out this episode!
In this weeks episode we talk about how to start a spiritual conversation with people who don't know, or don't care about Jesus. Evangelism can feel awkward, but JP has some tips that will make it feel normal! If you know someone who doesn't know Jesus, you need to listen to this episode!
On this week's episode we talk about the necessity of mentoring. Do you need a one on one relationship with someone older in order to grow in your faith? We talk about the benefits of mentoring, but also some surprising downsides!
Discipline is something that everybody wants, but it feels like nobody actually has. In this episode we talk about the importance of discipline and how to grow in your love for it. If you're still trying to succeed in your New Year's resolution, this is for you!
School is back in session! With classes starting back up, that means parties will be as well. On this week's episode we talk about what the Bible has to say about partying, alcohol, and how to have fun. Take a listen!
This week we looked at some of the common mistakes that people make in dating. We address what not to look for, what not to do, and how not to pursue. We hope this episode keeps you from making these same mistakes!
Everybody wants it...not everybody finds it. If you're looking for love, we hope this podcast will help you find it. Not some cheap knock-off. But the real thing. Check out this episode if you want to hear more!
In this week's episode we let y'all determine the topics! We answer a number of questions that you have asked us including: Can Christians have tattoos? Predestination or Free Will? Are Catholics Christians? Find the answers to those questions and more on this episode!
This week's episode is all about those four-letter words! JP talks about whether or not Christians can or can't cuss. Don't miss this episode all about ****!
On this week's episode we talk about 10 things that we wish we knew when we were 22. It's our hope that you learn from our mistakes so that you don't have to make the same ones!
On this week's episode we talk all about failure! Most of us are so afraid of failure, even though failure can be one of the greatest tools towards growth. JP talks about how to recover from failure and how it can become a part of your story!
What happens when you don't feel like following Jesus? When reading the Bible just feels like a chore? In this episode we give you some keys to help you break out of your dry season. If you are struggling with your faith right now, or you know someone who is, this episode is for you!
In this week's episode of Becoming Something we talk all about media consumption. From Netflix, to movies, to TV, to instagram, media is all around us. We try to help you set some guidelines of what you should and shouldn't watch. Forget about your Netflix binge and check out this episode!
On this episode we talk about church! As more and more people stop going to church, we try to answer why this might be. We believe that the church is essential for your growth as a Christian because you don't just go to church, you are The Church!
In this week's episode we talk about the importance of friendships and how you can deepen your relationships with those around you. We talk about how to have meaningful community no matter where you're at. If you're struggling to find community, take a listen to this episode!
In this week's podcast we take on a topic that is extremely timely in nature. Our culture is having serious debates about abortion and we think the Church needs to step up and lead in this dialogue. Check out this episode to see how Christians should respond to this issue!
CORRECTION: We sincerely apologize for an incorrect stat given in this episode on when the majority of abortions take place. The majority do not happen after 21 weeks.
In this week's episode of Becoming Something we're talking about people pleasing! When the opinion of other people is what we live for, we'll end up exhausted. We talk about the dangers of people pleasing, what it looks like, and how to free yourself from it. We pray it helps you!
The vast majority of people in life will go through a break-up and they aren't easy! There are tons of questions surrounding break-ups like: How do you break-up with your boyfriend or girlfriend? How do you recover from a break-up? How can you help a friend with their break-up? All of these questions and more are addressed in this week's episode!
On this episode we talk about some of the common problems young adults have when they enter the workplace. What do you do when you have a bad boss? How do you lead up? Is any job a ministry? We talk about all of these questions and more!
On this week's episode we discuss the problems that arise with an incorrect view of Body Image. We believe that a biblical view of your body will help you be healthier in all areas of you life! Even if you don't struggle with body image, we provide tips on how to serve others well in this area!
This week we discuss one of the topics that Jesus talked about the most...money! How should Christians handle money? How can we free ourselves from the love of money? Those questions and more are addressed on this week's episode of Becoming Something!
In this week's episode, we tackle one of the things we spend a lot of our time consuming. JP answers how social media has changed us, and how we can learn to not be overcome by it. Don't miss this episode!
In this episode of Becoming Something we talk about some of the common misconceptions about singleness. JP explains why singleness can actually be a gift, and how it can be one of the best seasons of your life. If you're single, know anyone who is single, or ever have been single, this episode is for you!
Have you ever been trying to make a decision and just wished God made things more clear? Us too! On this episode we try to help you figure out what God's will is for your life so you can be more confident in the decisions you have to make.
In this week's episode we talk about what it is that guys should be looking for in a girl. If you are single or dating, this podcast will be helpful! Girls, make sure to tune in to hear who you should be becoming!
In this episode of Becoming Something we discuss the important characteristics in a guy. If you are a girl, you need to listen to this episode! And if you're a guy, you REALLY need to listen to this episode!
On this episode of "Becoming Something" we talk about the rising amounts of stress in college students and young adults. Is there any way to avoid stress in our hyper-competitive and comparison obsessed world? Tune in to find out!
In this week's episode we ask JP what it looks like to daily grow in our love for Jesus. He says it's far more exciting than how we typically describe it. Check out this episode if you are looking to be challenged in your faith!
In this episode we address everyone's greatest fear...conflict! Even though conflict can be uncomfortable we believe it is a training ground for deeper relationships. Check out this episode for more!
On this week's episode of Becoming Something we talk about the dangers of porn and how to overcome it. Although it is one of the most pervasive problems in our generation, we believe that you can find freedom from this struggle!
A live Q&A on relationships with Jonathan Pokluda. This conversation took place at the Waco Hippodrome Theater on February 10. Since it was recorded in a unique setting, it will be helpful to turn up the volume during the interview!
A preview of what's to come with "Becoming Something."
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