136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational Tension

You might have headed into stepfamily life hoping that close bonds would develop and everyone would enjoy spending time together.  

But, if you're like most of us, that may not have happened as easily or as quickly as you hoped.

Instead, most blending couples are blindsided by the amount of chaos, tension and resistance that pops up around every corner.  You've probably felt frustrated, confused or even hopeless somewhere along the way.

Maybe you've even been at a loss about how to approach bonding when relational tensions are high and the kids are either acting out, or shutting down.

Here's the good news — you're normal!  Most blended families face these challenges — and the really good news is that with the right mindset and strategy you can encourage and enjoy family time, while patiently waiting for bonds to grow.

In this episode, we'll share a strategy for family time that will help as you head into summer and throughout the year!  When you're intentional about how you plan and manage time as a family, you'll be amazed at the difference it can make.

You'll Discover:

• The best approach to bonding and building family connections
• How a strategic approach can lead to positive experiences and family time success — especially when tensions are high
• Some of our blended family's favorite activities

Resources from this Episode:

• Episode 94 - 70 Summer Activities to Create Family Time and Encourage Bonding
• Episode 103 - 4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1)
• Episode 72 - The Best Way to Create Healthy, Bonded Relationships
• Episode 71 - How to Help Kids Cope with Painful Holiday Disappointment 
• Episode 92 - At a Loss and Feel Defeated Because the Kids Stubbornly Refuse to Blend?
• Episode 39 -  How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant Step-Kids
• Book by Gary Chapman and Ron Deal:  Building Love Together in Blended Families 

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