177. Unleash the Power of Friendship This Valentines Day and Beyond

Do you remember that vibrant sense of friendship you had early on in your relationship — the strong connection that created an irresistible longing just to be with each other?

Isn't it crazy how the packed schedules, complex relationships, and differences of perspective, take you from irresistible to irritated in no time flat!  It might leave you feeling more like business partners or roommates these days.  Or worse yet, battling foes rather than friends.

When real life happens, it can rob you of the closeness you once experienced and leave you feeling disconnected or dissatisfied — especially when your deepest needs aren't being met.

In this episode, we'll share some of our journey and what it took to revive our friendship and save our marriage — even when we didn't like each other very much.

The truth is, we all need to experience genuine friendship with our partner — it's a vital aspect of any relationship.

As Valentine's Day approaches, it's time to intentionally grow your friendship and then focus on rekindling genuine connection each and every day beyond…  

You'll Discover:

• Why friendship is so important in marriage
• The deepest needs of men and women that create more passion, intimacy and emotional connection
• The most common 'easy wrong turns' couples make that can dissolve their friendship 
• Practical steps you can take to grow and maintain your friendship — or rekindle it

Resources from this Episode:

• Episode 176. Uncover Your Relationship Style and Gain Hopeful Insights From Our Journey
• Episode 79. 4 Conflict Communication Patterns that are Hurtful and Toxic to Your Relationship
• Episode 98. Is Fear of Being Vulnerable Keeping You From Loving Your Spouse Wholeheartedly
• Episode 122. One Simple Strategy to Conquer "Family Business", Contain Chaos and Stay United 
• Episode 129. What Does It Take to Build and Maintain Trust in Your Relationship
• Episode 155. How to Easily Enjoy Meaningful Conversations and More Connection with Your Spouse
• Episode 123. How to Connect More and Rekindle Romance in Your Relationship - Even If Your Super Busy 
• Episode 78. Cultivating More Passion, Intimacy and Commitment in Your Marriage
• Article from The Gottman Institute:  F is for Friendship
• Book from The Gottman Institute:  Eight Dates

Ready for some extra support?

You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

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