45. How to Cooperate More with Your Spouse's Uncooperative Ex

As a stepmom, you probably want to experience reasonable cooperation with your husband's Ex-wife.  You want to work as a team for the benefit of the kids.  And you might be feeling frustrated if this seems to be impossible — especially when she refuses to acknowledge you or freaks out about your involvement with the kids. 

You might feel like you're being unfairly judged.  Maybe you're even tempted to lash out.  But these emotionally charged dynamics are something to move through — not fight against. 

If you're ready to reduce some of that frustration and build healthier connection and cooperation with your husband's Ex — we've got some good news! 

In this episode, you'll discover how you can intentionally build more cooperation  between the two homes by improving your relationship with your step-kids' bio-mom…

Yes, it CAN be done!  

You'll Discover:

• How to show up well in emotionally charged situations
• Specific ways to connect with your spouse's Ex
• How to manage expectations and boundaries
• How to avoid pitfalls and maintain your unique role
• The 'Big Picture' mindset and how to take the high road
• How to remain secure and confident through the ups and downs 

Resources from this Episode:

• Episode 44 — Why Does My Husband's Ex Think I'm the Enemy?
• Episode 8 — Toxic Exes & Defiant Kids - A Simple Strategy Against Lies and Slander
• Episode 17 — 6 Simple Steps that will Help You Respond to Disrespect 

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