46. How to Focus When Your Stepkids Are Ruining Your Marriage

Do you ever think back to when you and your spouse just started dating?  You know — when you felt really connected and things seemed so much easier.   

But now the reality of busy family life seems to interfere with your marriage, creating disconnection and maybe even conflict.   You're probably frustrated by all the relational challenges — especially around step-kids and parenting issues.

It's tough for any stepparent to admit it, but sometimes they really do feel like their step-kids are ruining their marriage.

We get it! 

Mike has experienced plenty of frustration and even anger because of the impact my daughter has had on our relationship over the years.

Sometimes it's easy to place blame and get stuck there.  But that usually leaves you feeling hopeless because it seems like your step-kids have all the power! 

In this episode, you'll discover some practical strategies to regain your power by moving forward with intention — and how to get your marriage back on track! 

You'll Discover:

• How to stop blaming and start building
• How to "Frame It" rather than "Fight It"
• Simple strategies to meet the needs of everyone in your blended family
• How to separate family 'business' and focus on building more romance
• Practical tips for connecting and safeguarding your marriage  

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