73. 4 Simple Principles for Setting Healthy Boundaries with Kids

You might think that 'boundaries' are just about getting kids to comply and behave — but that really isn't the goal.  

Loving boundaries provide stability, motivation and training so that kids develop self-control, respect, and responsibility for life.

Most of us understand that boundaries are an important focus for every family — but in a blended family, things tend to feel overwhelming and complicated. 

In this episode, we'll share a simple 4-step process that'll help you work as a team to set and uphold healthy, appropriate boundaries.

Plus, you'll find out if you're making some of the most common 'missteps' when it comes to setting healthy parenting boundaries in a blended family.  And we'll share how you can communicate your expectations to the kids in a way that's both firm and loving. 

You'll Discover:

• Why healthy boundaries are necessary in raising responsible, respectful kids
• A specific 4-step process for setting and upholding appropriate boundaries
• How to implement boundaries using an authoritative parenting style that's both loving and firm
• Why appropriate boundaries convey love and care to kids
• 3 tips that'll motivate the kids to respect your home's boundaries

Resources from this Episode:

• Book:  Boundaries with Kids by Drs. Cloud and Townsend
• Book:  Boundaries with Teens by Dr. Cloud and Townsend
• Online Workshop:  Stepfamilies That Make It
• Episode 28:  What If What You Think Is Defiance Is Actually Something Else?
• Episode 4:  Can You Overcome Your Parenting Style Differences?
• Episode 25:  How To Survive Time Alone With Your Step-Kids

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