How to Resolve Conflict

Conflict resolution is an entire field of practice—used from the counselor’s couch to the United Nations. Evidently, conflicts were a problem in early congregations. James, in forceful language, addressed this and told his audience how to fix it. Today we see several steps to resolve conflict. And today, instead of me writing the outline for you, I will let you do the honors.

I. Recognize the Source

II. Realize the Consequence

III. Repent of Your Attitude

IV. Resist the Devil

V. Rest in God

Talk with God: Ask the Lord to reveal areas in your life that you haven’t submitted to His control. Surrender them to Him this week as you “draw near to God” (v. 8).

Talk with others: Do you need to seek resolution or reconciliation with someone in order to “live in peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18, NLT)?

Talk with kids: What are reasons others might not know about Jesus? How can we help them learn about Jesus?