In this episode of the Church Disrupted podcast, host Jeff Cochran and best-selling author and narcissism expert Chelsea Brooke Cole delve into the complexities of narcissism, particularly within church settings. From how forgiveness is weaponized by narcissists to the dangers of DARVO (you need to know what this is,) they talk about how to recognize narcissistic behaviors in church leaders and how you can respond in healthy and effective ways. If you have ever been on the other side of narcissism in the church, this is a must watch episode! Want to support SAI financially? https://donorbox.org/sai-initial-funding-campaign Get Chelsey's book here and find out more about her work here: https://www.chelseybrookecole.com/ THANK YOU to our podcast partner, the East TN Mentorship Association! Find out more information about what they do or connect with them at https://earnyoursanctuary.com/ . TELL THEM WE SENT YOU for a special rate that is ONLY for Church Disrupted Podcast listeners. Find out more about the Spiritual Abuse Institute and the Church Disrupted Podcast at https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/. Join the church disrupted COMMUNITY here: https://discord.gg/nbWwg8Sz6Z Please Subscribe and Share! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Narcissism in the Church 02:54 The Weaponization of Forgiveness 05:47 Understanding DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender 11:51 The Impact of Narcissism on Relationships 18:00 Systemic Responses to Abuse Allegations 23:49 The Role of Churches in Addressing Abuse 29:55 Forgiveness and Boundaries in Healing 41:51 Navigating Forgiveness and Boundaries 49:25 Understanding Narcissistic Behaviors 57:53 Recognizing Projection and Baiting 01:11:42 Addressing Faux Apologies and Fairness 01:16:27 Creating Safe Church Environments