Phoebe chose violence this episode and goes IN on her own people pleasing tendencies. The girls get to the bottom of what people pleasing really encompasses and why it's near impossible not to fall into its trap. The passionate rants continue as the girls expose everything their partners do to grind their gears. Then, in the interest of fairness, they take a guess at what their partners would say if asked what their biggest pet peeves about the girls are. Finally, Maddy absolutely schools Phoebe on why she needs to enter her list era -- immediately!