Dear Horse World

You train hard. You show up. You put in the miles. But when your horse runs out of steam mid-course, struggles to recover, or worse - ends up sore or injured - you start asking yourself: Am I doing this right?

The reality is that most riders don’t have a real fitness plan. They either under-condition, leaving their horse weak and unprepared, or push too hard too soon, risking injury and burnout. And without clear guidance, it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of just “riding more” and hoping for the best.

Laine Ashker is a five-star event rider, Grand Prix dressage competitor, and fitness expert.

 She’s conditioned top-level horses across disciplines and knows exactly what it takes to build strength, stamina, and soundness—without second-guessing every ride.

In this No Stupid Questions episode, you’ll learn:

• The biggest mistakes riders make when conditioning—and how to fix them

• How to tell if your horse is actually fit enough (most aren’t)

• The exact trot and canter sets Lainey uses to build endurance and topline

• How to get your horse fit—even if you don’t have hills, gallop tracks, or ideal facilities

• Why Warmbloods and Thoroughbreds need different approaches—and what that means for your program

Whether you’re training for a competition or just want your horse to feel stronger and more balanced, this episode will give you the confidence and clarity to create a smarter, more effective fitness plan - one that protects your horse’s health while setting you both up for success.

You can follow Laine Ashker on social media: 

• instagram.com/laineyea
• tiktok.com/@laineashker
• www.facebook.com/laineyea

Or head to her website: http://laineashkereventinganddressage.com/

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Winning against the odds.

Every rider dreams of that breakthrough moment - the one that proves all the early mornings, setbacks, and sacrifices were worth it. For Emilie Conter, that moment came in spectacular fashion at the five-star Bainbridge Grand Prix during week nine of WEF.

On International Women’s Day, Emilie didn’t just compete - she beat the best in the world, out-riding top names like Henrik von Eckermann and Harry Charles to claim her first five-star Grand Prix victory.  But this win was about more than just one round. It was the culmination of years of dedication, a deep partnership with her incredible mare Bella, and the guidance of her legendary trainer Helena Stormmans. What you’ll learn:

• How patience, consistency, and the right training transformed a "slow" young mare into a five-star superstar.
• The underrated skill that top riders rely on for success.
• Mental strategies to silence overthinking and step into the ring with confidence.
• The power of an uplifting coach (and how a bet over a horse trailer proved a horse’s potential).
• Inside the legendary Stephex horse empire and what it’s like growing up in a world-class equestrian business.

Whether you’re an aspiring Grand Prix rider or just love hearing how patience, belief, and the right training can triumph, this episode is packed with insights, inspiration, and unforgettable moments. 

You can follow Emilie's journey on social media:  📱instagram.com/emilie_conter 

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If you enjoyed this conversation, don’t forget to subscribe, like, and leave a review - it really helps us grow. You can also check out the rest of the series  @noellefloyd_plus  - just hit the playlist tab for more Dear Horse World episodes. For even more expert-led workshops, in-depth courses, and exclusive lectures designed to elevate your riding and horsemanship, visit NoelleFloydPlus.com and start your 7-day FREE TRIAL today!

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What if the greatest horsemen weren’t defined by their techniques, but by their ability to truly understand the horse?

In this episode of Dear Horse World, we pick up where we left off with Martin Black in part 2, continuing our deep dive into the philosophies of two of the most influential figures in horsemanship - Tom Dorrance and Ray Hunt.

Tom, the quiet observer with an almost instinctive connection to horses, and Ray, the bold and relentless teacher, each left a lasting impact on the horse world.

Through personal stories and reflections, Martin shares what made these men so extraordinary - their ability to read a horse, their understanding of feel and timing, and the lessons they left behind for future generations.

But this episode isn’t just about looking back - it’s about how their wisdom continues to shape horsemanship today. From the balance between tradition and evolution to the role of mentorship and education, Martin offers invaluable insights for anyone looking to deepen their connection with horses.

If you’ve ever wondered what made these legends so impactful—or how their insights can still transform the way we work with horses today—this is an episode you won’t want to miss. 

To learn more from Martin Black, and access a number of links & resources, visit his website:  🌍 https://martinblack.net/ If you'd like to watch the virtual clinic referenced in this episode with Martin Black & Dr. Steve Peters - Evidence-Based Horsemanship: Timing, Rhythm and Synchrony - you can do so here: https://martinblack.net/shop/originally-aired-2-18-25-ebh-timing-rhythm-and-synchrony Or follow him on socials at: 📱 instagram.com/y6martinblack/ 📺  @MartinBlackhorsemanship  -------------------------------------------------------------- Start Your Journey with NOËLLE FLOYD+ Unlock more exclusive content, in-depth training, and behind-the-scenes insights with NOËLLE FLOYD+. Start your journey today with a free trial – join the community and elevate your equestrian knowledge! 🌍 Website: noellefloydplus.com 📲 Instagram: instagram.com/noellefloyd

Make sure you've hit subscribe to Dear Horse World, wherever you get your podcasts, so you don't miss part 2 of our conversation with Martin Black. 

What if the true magic of horsemanship isn’t in perfecting techniques or equipment, but in forming a deeper, intuitive bond with your horse? In this episode, we explore how shifting from rigid methods to a relationship-driven approach can transform not only your training, but your entire partnership with your horse.

We’re joined by Martin Black, a master of traditional horsemanship who blends the time-honored Vaquero methods with modern, evidence-based practices. Martin has shaped countless horses, starting 500 colts a year and learning from legends like Ray Hunt—his former father-in-law—and Tom Dorrance, the godfather of natural horsemanship. Tom’s influence on the world of horsemanship is immense, and in this episode, Martin shares how his teachings have profoundly impacted the way we communicate with horses.

But this isn’t just about history—it’s about rethinking horsemanship itself. Martin reflects on a time when the lines between English and Western disciplines weren’t so clear, when instinct, intuition, and partnership mattered more than labels. What can the English world learn from the cowboys of the Idaho mountains? And what can the Western world take from the English approach? Martin’s insights will change the way you think about discipline and deepen your relationship with your horse.

If you've ever felt frustrated by rigid training methods or yearned for fluidity between disciplines, this episode is the wisdom you’ve been waiting for.

The book referenced at the start of this episode was Evidence-Based Horsemanship by Dr. Stephen Peters & Martin Black.

To learn more from Martin Black, and access a number of links & resources, visit his website:  🌍 https://martinblack.net/ Or follow him on socials at: 📱 instagram.com/y6martinblack/ 📺  @MartinBlackhorsemanship  -------------------------------------------------------------- Start Your Journey with NOËLLE FLOYD+ Unlock more exclusive content, in-depth training, and behind-the-scenes insights with NOËLLE FLOYD+. Start your journey today with a free trial – join the community and elevate your equestrian knowledge! 🌍 Website: noellefloydplus.com 📲 Instagram: instagram.com/noellefloyd

What Is Your Horse’s Behavior Trying to Tell You?

Does your horse’s behavior leave you feeling frustrated or confused? Whether they’re spooky, stubborn, reactive, or distant, every action your horse takes is trying to communicate something important.

In this podcast, Josh Nichol, the founder of Relational Horsemanship, will guide you to decode those behaviors, uncover the root causes, and build a partnership rooted in trust and balance.

You’ll learn how to understand your horse’s relational needs, release stored tension, and create a safe, willing connection. With Josh’s proven techniques like body mapping and energy awareness, you’ll gain the tools and confidence to turn challenges into opportunities for growth.

In this podcast, you’ll discover: 

• What your horse’s behavior is really saying—and how to respond effectively.
• How to address the root causes of tension, resistance, and reactivity. 
• Simple, daily techniques to create trust, balance, and willingness. Imagine a horse that feels safe, willing, and eager to connect.

This podcast will show you how to make that vision a reality. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced rider, this session is your chance to unlock the partnership you’ve always wanted.

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Exclusive NF+ Offer:

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Learn more from Josh Nichols, or follow him on socials:

🌍 Website: joshnichol.com 📺 YouTube:  @JoshNicholAHorsemansPursuit 📲 Instagram: www.instagram.com/joshnicholahorsemanspursuit/ 📲 Facebook: www.facebook.com/AHorsemansPursuit

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Show jumping has a problem—and no one is talking about it. Dangerous course designs are putting horses and riders at unnecessary risk, but the industry’s resistance to change keeps real reform just out of reach. Riders are expected to “tough it out,” officials move slowly, and speaking up could mean jeopardizing sponsorships and career opportunities.

Enter Harry Charles, the 25 year-old Olympic show jumper who’s refusing to stay silent.

In this episode, Harry pulls back the curtain on what’s really happening in course design, why these risks persist, and what needs to change before more serious accidents occur. He shares firsthand insights from his own near-career-ending fall, the backlash and support he's received for speaking out, and what he believes the future of show jumping should look like. 

What You’ll Take Away from This Episode: 

• A New Awareness of Course Safety Risks – Why certain jumps are more dangerous and how they impact riders at all levels.
• Behind-the-Scenes at Elite Show Jumping – Harry’s journey from growing up in an Olympic equestrian family to competing at the highest level.
• How to Advocate for Safer Riding – Practical tips for assessing course risks and making informed decisions in competition.
• The Future of Show Jumping – What’s at stake for the sport’s longevity if safety concerns aren’t addressed.
• Why This Matters to Every Rider - Whether you’re a pro or an amateur, understanding these risks can help keep you and your horse safer. From growing up in an Olympic equestrian family to challenging long-standing traditions, Harry’s story is one of breaking barriers and pushing for progress. 

If you care about the safety, longevity, and evolution of show jumping, this is an episode you don’t want to miss. Listen now and be part of the conversation that could change the sport. 

You can read the full post discussed in this episode on the Heathcroft Farm Facebook page, home of the Charles family's show jumping stables, here: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/15tKduLBht/ And read Harry's interview after the post with Horse and Hound here: https://www.horseandhound.co.uk/news/harry-charles-call-change-after-fall-at-double-883579

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You can follow Harry's journey on social media:

📱instagram.com/harrycharles_1  📱facebook.com/harrycharlesshowjumping  🌎 www.harry-charles.com You can keep up to date with the Charles' Show Jumping stables at Heathcroft Farm: https://www.facebook.com/heathcroftfarm

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If you enjoyed this conversation, don’t forget to subscribe, like, and leave a review - it really helps us grow. You can also check out the rest of the series  @noellefloyd_plus  - just hit the playlist tab for more Dear Horse World episodes.

For even more expert-led workshops, in-depth courses, and exclusive lectures designed to elevate your riding and horsemanship, visit NoelleFloydPlus.com and start your 7-day FREE TRIAL today! 

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What if your horse could teach you more about yourself than any self-help book ever could? Horses have an uncanny ability to reflect our emotions, highlight our blind spots, and help us grow in ways we never imagined. But unlocking that power requires more than just skill in the saddle—it demands a willingness to look inward.

That’s where Duey Freeman comes in. 

Duey is a world-renowned therapist, educator, and equine professional who has spent decades helping people discover the life-changing lessons horses offer. As the co-founder of the Gestalt Equine Institute, he blends psychology, relational horsemanship, and a deep understanding of human development to show riders how their interactions with horses can lead to greater trust, connection, and personal breakthroughs. 

In this episode, we explore how Duey’s unique approach can help equestrians like you:

• Understand your horse’s feedback: Learn how your horse mirrors your emotions and behavior, revealing what’s holding you back.
• Build deeper trust: Use the subtle dynamics of relational horsemanship to create a bond that goes beyond training.
• Foster personal growth: Discover how your relationship with your horse can help you overcome fear, improve communication, and become more present in all areas of life.
• Navigate challenges with clarity: Gain insights into how attachment theory and Gestalt therapy can transform not just your riding but your entire perspective on partnership.

Whether you’re seeking to improve your performance, strengthen your bond, or simply find more meaning in your time with your horse, Duey’s wisdom offers a roadmap for growth—both in and out of the arena. 

This is more than a conversation about horses; it’s a conversation about life, love, and the lessons waiting in every ride.

If you’ve ever felt like your horse sees something in you that you don’t, this episode will show you how to finally understand—and transform—what they’re reflecting back.

Have you ever considered the story your saddle is telling? Throughout history, saddles have symbolized connection, partnership, and the journeys we take. But in your own rides, is your saddle telling a story of trust—or betrayal? We often assume a saddle that looks fine or feels "good enough" must be doing its job. But for countless horses, the effects of poor saddle fit are quietly devastating—causing chronic pain, behavioral issues, and eroding the trust between horse and rider. And for female riders, saddles designed for male anatomy may be holding them back in ways they don’t even realize. In this episode, Noëlle sits down with Jochen Schleese, a Certified Master Saddler and Certified Equine and Saddle Ergonomist and founder of Saddlefit 4 Life®, to uncover the hidden truths about saddle fit. With decades of expertise, Jochen has helped countless horses move pain-free and empowered riders to feel balanced, comfortable, and confident. Together, they explore how an ill-fitting saddle impacts not just the horse’s body, but also the emotional and mental connection you share. You’ll learn to spot the subtle signs of poor fit, understand the overlooked needs of female riders, and discover practical steps to assess and improve your saddle—without breaking the bank. This conversation goes beyond saddle fit. It’s about redefining partnership, choosing compassion over convenience, and showing up for your horse in the most fundamental way: by listening. If your ready to take the next step on your saddle fitting journey book a fitting online or onsite here: https://schleese.com/saddle-fit-evaluation/   Dear Horse World listeners and viewers can also sign up to receive a 5% discount off their saddle purchase via this form:  https://app.smartsheet.com/b/form/61dd1e1842ca4f56a88be60e151c4512 Resources:

• Suffering in Silence: The Saddle Fit Link to Physical and Psychological Trauma in Horses by Jochen Schleese
• Explore Jochen’s work and saddle fitting resources: saddlefit4life.com

In December, a Facebook post of ours sparked a big debate: does the USA put too much emphasis on riding position? Is there room for riders to find more fluidity and freedom in their style? Today, we’re diving into those questions.

 

Your position in the saddle isn’t just about looking pretty for the judge’s panel. It’s about communication, balance, and creating harmony with your horse. But here’s the challenge—so much of what we’re taught about position can feel rigid, exclusive, or even unattainable. And for many riders, it leaves them questioning: Am I good enough? Do I fit in here?

 

You’re not alone in feeling this way, and that’s exactly why today’s episode is a must-listen.

 

We’re joined by Nicole Shahinian-Simpson, a rider who’s lived the highs and lows of equitation and show jumping at the highest levels. Nicki is one of only 11 riders in history to win both the ASPCA Maclay National Championship and the U.S. Medal Finals. She’s competed on the world stage, represented the U.S. in international competition, and has nearly 35 Grand Prix victories to her name.

 

But what sets Nicki apart isn’t just her accolades—it’s her perspective. She knows firsthand how striving for “the perfect position” can create pressure that steals your joy and confidence as a rider. And she’s here to help you rethink what good riding really looks like.

 

In this episode, Nicki dives into the realities behind position—how it impacts your horse, why the American equitation system is both a blessing and a challenge, and how to develop a functional, fluid position that works for you. She also tackles the often-unspoken topic of body image in riding: how the pressure to "look the part" can affect confidence, and why strength, individuality, and skill matter far more than fitting a specific mold.

 

Whether you’re a junior striving to meet the standard, or an amateur who just wants to ride without overthinking, Nicki’s insights will help you cut through the noise and focus on what really matters.

 

If you’ve ever felt like you don’t “fit the mold” of a polished equitation rider, or wondered if the emphasis on position is holding you back, this episode will leave you feeling empowered, seen, and ready to ride your best.

 

Because your position isn’t just about looking the part—it’s about showing up for your horse.

 

Today on Dear Horse World, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of our exclusive NF+ Office Hours sessions - where we connect our community with top experts to gain practical advice and deeper understanding.

In this recorded session, renowned horseman Tik Maynard breaks down the motivational pyramid of horses, a powerful tool to help you better connect with and understand your horse, alongside our NF+ Community Director Kylie, who is also a skilled horsemanship expert and clinical counselor.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

• The five core motivators that drive your horse’s behavior.
• Why safety always comes first and how curiosity shapes learning.
• Practical ways to use comfort, play, and food to build trust.

This is just the tip of the iceberg of all the incredible resources we have available on NF+ so if this episode resonated with you - we'd for you to discover more. 

Start your free trial of NF+ and gain access to a network of world-renowned horse experts and world-class equestrian content, designed to meet you wherever you are - no matter where in the world you’re tuning in from.

Head to noellefloydplus.com today to start your journey. 

Have you ever wondered what your horse is trying to tell you—or if they're trying to tell you anything at all? In this moving episode of No Stupid Questions, host Noelle Floyd sits down with writer, equestrian, and renowned animal communicator, Delaya Diana, to explore the mystical and transformative connection between humans and horses.

Delaya shares her journey from a strict Pentecostal upbringing to becoming a leading voice in equine spirituality, answering the kinds of questions so many horse owners wonder about:

• Why is this something I should consider?

• What does my horse truly want me to know?

• What is the most common reading?

• Can I communicate with my horse myself?

• How do I find a trustworthy animal communicator?

You’ll also learn practical tips on:

• The Power of “No”: Why it’s transformative to give your horse the freedom to say no.

• Artifacts of Connection: How keepsakes can honor your bond with your animals or loved ones.

• Listening Without Bias: Becoming the observer to better understand your horse’s needs.

• Why Mares Matter: The unique emotional and spiritual energy mares bring.

If you’ve ever wanted to connect more deeply with your horse or wondered if there’s more to their behavior than meets the eye, this episode is a must-listen.

Delaya’s insights will help you unlock new ways to communicate, trust, and connect with your equine partner.

Discover more about Delaya via her website: https://www.delayadiana.com/

 

Does the thought of goal-setting make you roll your eyes, freeze with anxiety, or shrink in self-doubt? You’re not alone.

Maybe you’re stuck in your riding, unsure how to move forward, or wondering if goals even apply to you. Perhaps the pressure to succeed makes tracking progress feel unbearable, or you’re bracing for self-criticism if you fall short. 

Here’s the truth: goal-setting isn’t easy.

It’s not just a checklist—it’s intentional work that helps you reflect, shift your mindset, and take purposeful action.

And it’s for everyone, not just competitive riders. Whether you’re riding for joy, growth, or performance, goals provide direction, build confidence, and make every ride meaningful.

Join Noëlle Floyd and Dr. Jenny Susser, an Olympic-level sport psychologist, as they tackle the mental hurdles holding you back. With actionable advice and practical tools, they’ll help you break through barriers, set goals that work, and transform how you ride and think.

What You’ll Take Away:

• Turn Fear into Focus: Get powerful strategies to manage nerves and ride with confidence.
• Set Goals Like a Pro: Learn how to create clear, achievable goals that keep you motivated and on track.
• Master Your Mindset: Discover how to stay present, block out distractions, and embrace the challenges that push you to grow.
• Ride With Purpose: Stop spinning your wheels—every ride can have meaning and direction when you know how to set the right intentions.

Take charge of your riding journey. Whether you're overcoming fear, seeking progress, or building your relationship with your horse, this episode gives you the tools to move forward with confidence and purpose. Don’t stay stuck—tune in and make every ride count. Your transformative year starts now.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

Dr. Jenny’s NF+ masterclasses—How to Control Fear and Anxiety and Performing Under Pressure—are designed to take you even further. These aren’t just lessons; they’re game-changing tools to transform your mindset and unlock your full potential as a rider.

 

You can watch or listen to Dr. Jenny's TEDx Talk here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUsITcRCm2g 

Happy Holidays from all of us at Dear Horse World.

We’re sending our heartfelt thanks to our incredible listeners for joining us on this journey throughout the year. Your support and passion for the equestrian world mean the world to us!

As a token of our appreciation, we’re thrilled to share an exclusive gift just for you: a special discount code for the NOËLLE FLOYD+ platform, because there's never been a better time to explore & learn with our platform. 

Whether you're looking to deepen your knowledge in 2025, get inspired by exclusive content, or simply connect with your passion for horses over the holidays, NF+ has something for everyone.

👉 Use code 'DHW25' at checkout to unlock your holiday discount on annual memberships (offer valid until Dec 31.)

Thank you for being part of our amazing community. We can’t wait to bring you more stories, insights, and inspiration in 2025, so make sure to hit subscribe to never miss an episode. Wishing you a joyful holiday season and a Happy New Year!

When it comes to training horses—or dogs—it’s easy to focus on surface behaviors: bucking or barking, or bolting or biting. But what if the real story lies deeper—in unmet needs, misunderstood communication, or even the emotions we bring into the equation? In this episode, we’re joined by Jerri Scherff, a trainer who doesn’t just work with animals—she transforms relationships.

Though recently making waves with her hilarious Instagram reels, she’s been known for the last decade for her thoughtful, open-minded approach to dog training. In this episode, Jerri shares the tools and insights that have helped her clients break through frustration and create lasting trust.

Here’s what you’ll discover: 

• Barrel Racing Behind the Scenes: Jerri sets the record straight on the realities of barrel racing and shares the lessons it’s taught her and her daughter.
• Dog vs. Horse Training: Surprising connections between these two worlds—and how understanding one can transform your approach to the other. 
• The Power of Empathy: Hear Jerri’s viral story about stepping in during a case of horse abuse, and how she used compassion and crisis understanding to help both the human and the horse.
• Turning Struggles into Growth: Why being “incompatible” can often offer the greatest opportunities for learning and connection.
• Jerri’s Open-Minded Approach: Practical strategies for meeting your animal’s unique needs while also managing your own emotions and expectations.

 

Whether you’re grappling with training challenges, curious about animal behavior, or just looking for inspiration, this conversation is packed with relatable stories, practical advice, and fresh perspectives. Because the best partnerships aren’t built through force or frustration—they’re forged with empathy, patience, and understanding.

 

Tune in to explore how these principles can transform your relationship with your horse, your dog, and even yourself. 

Watch Jerri’s viral video on handing abuse: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_oPAEkyHqG/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D

 

Follow Jerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sailorjerrithedogtrainer/

 

Do tension and resistance keep showing up—not just with your horse, but in your relationships too? Here’s the truth: it’s not about training—it’s about connection, and it starts with you. In this episode, Josh Nichol and Duey Freeman join forces to reveal the secrets to building real, lasting harmony with your horse—and share powerful insights to help you become a more effective and compassionate trainer! What You’ll Learn:

• Why tension in your horse is a clue, not a problem—and how to use it to build trust.
• How your horse reflects your emotional state and helps you heal.
• The power of presence and congruence to transform your horse’s response.
• Why safety is the foundation for breakthroughs and how clinicians can create a protected environment of learning. 
• How to lead with confidence and foster trust and growth.

Josh and Duey bring decades of experience and a unique focus on you—your challenges and the tools you need to succeed. Whether you’re a seasoned trainer or just starting, they’ll guide you to the “aha!” moments that deepen your bond with your horse and transform how you approach challenges. By the end, you’ll feel empowered to:

• Turn resistance into connection.
• Build a relationship rooted in trust and respect.
• Approach every challenge with clarity and calm.

Step into the empowered connection you’ve been searching for—Josh and Duey will show you how. Tune in now!

 

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In this episode of Dear Horse World, we sit down with the legendary horseman, author, and clinician Mark Rashid to explore his groundbreaking approach to horsemanship. Rooted in kindness and inspired by the principles of Aikido, Mark’s work shows riders how to tackle challenges and evolve as partners and people.

 

Mark doesn’t just teach “fixes” for problem horses—he empowers riders to become more aware, present, and in tune with their horse’s energy. If you’ve ever felt confused, frustrated, or disconnected with your horse, this episode is for you. Mark shares transformative insights that include:

 

• Blend Don’t Battle. Mark’s Aikido-inspired approach turns resistance into harmony, so you can create a partnership where you and your horse move as one.
• Slow Down to Connect: Learn how taking your time lets you notice the small signals your horse gives—and how those moments hold the key to solving bigger problems.
• Kindness is the Core: Why a kinder, softer approach to working with horses is more than just effective—it actually feels good for both you and your horse.

 

Horsemanship isn’t about mastering techniques; it’s about mastering yourself. Mark reminds us that the journey toward better riding starts with patience, curiosity, and a willingness to listen—not just to your horse, but to your own instincts.

 

This conversation will leave you inspired to approach your horse—and your life—with more compassion, clarity, and connection. Whether you’re a lifelong rider or just starting out, Mark Rashid’s insights will give you the tools to unlock the magic of true partnership.

 

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Learn more about Mark Rashid

https://www.markrashid.com/

 

Shop Mark Rashid’s Books:

https://www.markrashid.com/shop-3

 

This episode was brought to you by Schleese. If you’re ready to take the next step on your saddle fitting journey, book your free consultation with Schleese at https://go.schleese.com/BookConsult-NoelleFloyd

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This special bonus episode of Dear Horse World brings you all the energy and insight of a live event! Recorded straight from the buzzing NF+ booth at Equine Affaire in Springfield, Massachusetts, we dive into real-life horse questions from our amazing NF+ members.

The goal? To prove that when it comes to our equine partners, there’s no such thing as a stupid question—only steps toward stronger connections and better understanding.

What to Expect

This isn’t your typical Q&A session. It’s a mix of practical advice, eye-opening insights, and relatable stories that’ll make you laugh, nod, and maybe even say, “Why didn’t I think of that?” Here’s a taste:

• Lunging Like a Pro: Struggling with a counter-bending horse? We share how to combine physical technique and mental connection to help your horse find balance and relaxation.
• Turning Pushy into Playful: Got a horse that’s a little extra? Learn how to channel that playful energy into productive, positive behavior (and still have fun).
• Patience for the Spirited Horse: Animated and impatient horses can learn patience—and we show you how, one step at a time.
• Rehabbing with a Topline: Keep your horse’s muscle and topline in check during rehab with simple, biomechanics-focused exercises.
• No More Trailer Loading Drama: Say goodbye to the struggle with a step-by-step approach that builds trust and confidence.
• Calm in Chaos: Help your horse stay focused and connected in new environments through gradual exposure and consistent positive reinforcement.

Why You’ll Love It

This episode blends casual, upbeat vibes with super-informative takeaways. Whether you’re tackling a tricky training challenge or just looking to deepen your connection with your horse, this conversation hits all the right notes. We’re diving beyond the surface to talk about the “why” behind horse behavior, training techniques, and the importance of understanding your horse’s unique needs.

Hit Play Now: Tune in to learn, laugh, and get inspired. Because in the world of horses, curiosity doesn’t just lead to answers—it leads to better partnerships.

Let’s grow together, one question at a time.

Have you ever wondered where you truly belong in the horse world—or worried that you don’t? In this episode, recorded live from Equine Affaire, Noëlle Floyd and Caroline Culbertson share their journeys of navigating uncertainty, embracing vulnerability, and building communities where riders of all backgrounds can feel at home. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How to Find Your Place: Learn how to overcome the fear of not belonging and create a community that aligns with your values and passions.
• The Courage to Be Vulnerable: Discover why admitting what you don’t know can actually open doors to deeper learning and connection.
• Embracing Change as Growth: See how stepping into the unknown—whether in the arena or in life—can lead to your biggest breakthroughs.
• Building Community Through Authenticity: Understand why letting go of perfection can help you foster meaningful relationships and create space for real progress.

If you’ve ever felt unsure of where you stand or how to move forward, this episode will leave you inspired to take ownership of your journey and find the belonging you deserve.

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This episode is proudly brought to you by Schleese. 

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What if your breath and energy hold the key to self-awareness, emotional healing, and a deeper bond with your horse? In this episode, yoga and neuroscience-informed breathwork expert Julia McCabe and relational horsemanship trainer Josh Nichol explore how understanding your inner world transforms your outer relationships—with horses, people, and yourself.

 

What You’ll Learn:

 

• How breathwork heals: Simple breathing techniques to release trauma, calm anxiety, and build resilience.
• What horses teach us: Why your horse reacts to your energy—not your commands—and how they reflect your inner emotional state.
• Real stories of transformation: How riders have overcome emotional blocks and found confidence through relational horsemanship and breathwork.
• Practical tools for connection: Ways to stay present, calm your energy, and create a harmonious relationship with your horse and yourself.

 

Whether you’re looking to improve your relationship with your horse or deepen your understanding of yourself, this episode offers actionable insights and inspiring stories. Discover how breathwork and horsemanship can transform the way you show up—in the saddle, in your relationships, and in life.

 

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TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions on mental health, toxic relationships and emotional abuse.   When Jodie Morton set off on Australia’s National Trail, it wasn’t just about the miles—it was about making a difference. What started as a ride to raise mental health awareness quickly turned into a journey of resilience, loss, and self-discovery.

 

Inspired by the memory of two loved ones lost to depression, Jodie launched Green, Gold, and Blues to bring attention to mental health in underserved areas. Even when drought forced her to abandon the Australian trail, she didn’t stop. Instead, she took her mission to North America’s Continental Divide Trail, driven by a belief that even the hardest paths can lead somewhere meaningful.

 

In this episode, you’ll discover:

 

• Resilience in Action: Jodie’s story is a reminder that, no matter how hard things get, there’s strength to be found. Her journey may inspire you to find that extra push in your own challenges.
• A Red-Headed Mare & Unexpected Bond: Learn the unlikely story behind Jodie’s partnership with Thelma, her half-saddlebred, half-quarter horse companion—and how Thelma became the horse of a lifetime.
• The Impact One Person Can Have: Through Green, Gold, and Blues, Jodie shows how one person’s dedication can bring mental health awareness to places that need it most, turning personal pain into purpose.
• The Freeding in Letting Go: Jodie’s decision to leave a toxic relationship is a powerful reminder that sometimes, the hardest choices bring the most freedom and growth.

 

This isn’t just a story of adventure; it’s an episode packed with insights on courage, healing, and the power of self-belief. If you’ve ever struggled with grief, tough decisions, or finding strength to keep going, Jodie’s journey will inspire you to face your own path with resilience and hope.

 

Learn more about Jodie Morton and Green, Gold and Blues:

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