Inside the Trans Journey & Androgyny of the Soul with Non-Binary Couple Alexander & Ellyana

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Join Erin as she has a beautiful conversation with conscious couple Alexander & Ellyana who identify as Queer and enjoy a non-binary relationship. Get prepared to have all of your questions answered about gender, relationships, and the androgyny of the soul.

Moments not to miss:
1:13 - First realizing that they were experiencing gender differently than the average person
2:42 - Dreams of seeing himself in a masculine body
3:45 - Recognizing that he was in the wrong body at 3 or 4 years old
4:25 - Being attracted to the energy of a person
5:09 - Alexander trying really hard to be a woman before transitioning into a trans man
6:45 - Ellyana begins questioning her identity in her early adult life
7:28 - Ellyana experimenting with her expression and sexuality
8:10 - CIS Hetero Normative culture expectations at birth
9:22 - The Trans Umbrella & questioning gender identity during college
9:56 - the first time Ellyana hears about pronouns
10:10 - Ellyana explains what CIS means - the gender you were assigned at birth
11:13 - stereotypes and social expectation within Trans & LBGTQ culture
11:30 - Ellyana considering herself as being gender non-conforming + fluid
13:33 - Alexander transitioning as a soul choice as opposed to a choice based off of trauma or lack
15:25 - Individuals hopping on the Trans bandwagon and seeing it as a trend
15:53 - still being gender fluid as a Trans man
16:32 - being expected to fit the role of a modern man as a Trans man and still wanting to explore gender fluidity
18:54 - Ellyana explains her initial feelings about dating a Trans man
20:50 - Identifying as a lesbian although she was dating another trans man prior to Alexander
23:41 - Ellyana identifying with the term Queer because of it's inclusivity
24 : 13 - Erin highlights that everyone is still just figuring it out and society not feeling entitled to answers
26:00 - Ellyana shares about being in a state of continual evolution
27:25 - Recognizing that the potential to be sexually or romantically attracted to anyone
28:33 - Alexander shares about how there's no permanent match for anyone
29:09 - Loving the spirit of another unconditionally
30:05 - Questioning organized religion during gender identity discovery
32:56 - Ellyana having a homophobic grandmother
37:14 - Alexander sharing about how he understands the role of religion and doesn't judge it
38:54 - Allow each soul to walk their path
39:22 - being a macho man then becoming the person inside
41:06 - Alexander serving as a spiritual mentor for Ellyana
43:19 - Being a divine union and expanding each other while being individuals
44:52 - The androgyny of the soul ; Alexanders shares about tapping into his feminine energy as a trans man
58:26 - Erin shares about the dynamics in her relationship and how following the lead of the queer community can help alleviate limitations around gender roles and expectations

Alexanders IG : https://instagram.com/lexlyrics?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
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