218. Sex, Female Pleasure and Healthy Communication with Dr. Corey Allen

In this empowering episode, Francie welcomes Dr. Corey Allen, marriage and family therapist, sex therapist, and co-host of the long-running podcast Sexy Marriage Radio. Together, they unpack one of the most crucial, yet often misunderstood topics in Christian marriage: healthy sexual communication.

Dr. Corey brings over 13 years of experience helping couples thrive in intimacy, and today, he shares why reclaiming female sexual agency is vital to experiencing God’s full design for sex. From biological insights to emotional and spiritual reframes, this conversation is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and practical truth.

Whether you’re seeking deeper connection in your marriage, trying to undo cultural messages that minimized your pleasure, or simply want a healthier view of sex that honors both God and your body—this episode is for you.

Discussion Points

Why sex is designed for women too—not just to serve their husbands

The powerful anatomy of female pleasure and what it reveals about God’s heart

How to move from silence or shame into healing and healthy communication

Practical steps to grow intimacy, not just activity, in your marriage

A reframe of female sexuality as a God-given superpower

 

Resources Mentioned:

Sexy Marriage Radio – Dr. Corey Allen’s podcast and resources

Francie’s Pleasure Masterclass & Circle Mentorship (linked below)

Connect with Dr. Corey at smr.fm

 

Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper:

201 Course: Permission for Pleasure, Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm 

This 90-minute masterclass is a deep dive into embracing God’s good design for your body and the gift of intimacy in marriage. Francie Winslow offers practical, faith-based guidance on arousal, pleasure, and connection, equipping you with the knowledge and confidence to fully experience intimacy with joy and freedom. Whether you're navigating challenges or simply want to deepen your connection, this session is an invitation to step into intimacy that is naked, unashamed, and full of joy. Get Access Here.

 

101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well - Claiming a Healthy Vision for Married Sex

To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here.

 

Get Connected Inside the Circle Group Mentorship

Keep learning and get direct access to Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the Circle, we talk practicals and get support to grow. Learn more here:  The Circle

 

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