Violet, age 8: Kids say mean things about a friend’s skin color

Ep. 11 – Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Speaking up for a friend

Violet wonders how to stand up for her friend when other friends make racist comments.

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

- Why do you think it’s important to speak up if you hear someone say something mean about your friend? What would you do if you heard someone say something mean about a kid you don’t know well? What would you do if the mean comments were about a kid you know but don’t like?

- What, if anything, have you learned at school about race and racism? What have you learned about those topics from adult family members?

- Do you think it matters whether someone said a racist comment on purpose, trying to be hurtful, versus saying it without realizing the comment is hurtful? Why or why not?

- How do you know when it’s important to talk to an adult about mean or racist comments versus handling the situation yourself?

Books mentioned in the podcast:

Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to making and Keeping Friends https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-friendships/

Growing Feelings: A Kids' Guide to Dealing with Emotions about Friends and Other Kids https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-feelings/

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