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Join Alana, Kyle, and Tiera as they journey into the mission of uncovering God’s truths and design for sexual freedom within marriage. They’re going to be tackling some big questions. Things like why couples go into marriage feeling ill-equipped about sex, and how couples years into their marriages can find wholesome ways to spice things up.
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Please keep in mind that this episode deals with some raw, honest moments within the porn industry and may not be suitable for everyone to listen to. If in doubt, pray about it and consider listening to the episode together with your spouse.
Alana and Tiera had the pleasure of interviewing ex-porn star Brittni De La Mora whose incredible testimony is changing lives! Tune in now!
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Kyle and Tiera had the privilege of interviewing Dr. Dave Currie, a certified Sexual Recovery Therapist and a registered clinician with the American Association of Sexual Addiction Therapy! You won't want to miss it!
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Huge thank you to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this upcoming pornography series! Whether porn is in your story or not, this series is going to be beneficial for you to listen to!
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Tune into this incredible PART TWO episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.
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Question Time Stamps:
1:20 - Is there a place for me to be a pastor if I had sex before marriage?
5:25 - Is it okay to separate or leave my spouse because of porn/erotica usage?
12:17 - How to get my spouse to invest more emotionally in our marriage? I’m tired of doing it all
17:18 - Lots of questions about why churches don’t talk about sex in a healthy way but more in a fear mongering/purity culture way. How do you think churches should handle speaking about sex?
33:45 - Why is monogamy the norm when in reality it’s a new concept?
39:15 - How to create mentorship/discipleship opportunities for couples?
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Tune into this incredible PART ONE episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.
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10:40 - How to balance marriage, job, kids, work. We have little desire left at the end of the day for each other
16:27 - Why do I need to have sex if I’m married?
22:06 - Sex seems like yet another item on the list of things that given to men and not women. What are your thoughts on that?
24:50 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are not biblical (ie. threesome, etc)?
30:58 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are biblical but I’m hesitant?
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Can being mindful of your body and surroundings lead to a better sex life?? Tune in to hear Dr. Lori Brotto share how you can connect better with your intimate life!
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"What was a time in your guys’ marriages when sex felt like a chore?" You'll hear the KS team answer that question and MORE when it comes to turning sex from mundane to magical.
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Today's episode is full of incredible wisdom from Mark and Jill Savage. The testimony they share is so powerful- full of wisdom and insight on what it looks like to wait well in a hard season. Tune in and hear how God moved and turned their tragedy into testimony!
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Episode 200 is here! Whether you've been listening to the podcast since the beginning, or if this is the first episode of ours you've listened to- we're so grateful you're here!
Tune into this episode where Dan Purcell, from Get Your Marriage On! interviews Alana about what it means to cherish your spouse.
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Today's episode is another classic Q&A episode where we take questions you guys have sent us and we discuss our answers. You won't want to miss this spicy episode!
2:00 How do I help my wife be more confident to initiate more?
8:40 How do you maintain intimacy through stressful times?
11:10 How do I help my wife get out of her head during sex?
14:55 How to not be grossed out by bodily fluids in mouth during oral sex?
19:07 How soon can/should sex be re-introduced postpartum?
20:02 We struggle to communicate what we need/want. Any tips?
25:50 How do I talk to my spouse about doing something new?
28:43 Is filming sex with my spouse okay?
31:37 How to keep sex fresh when TTC for 2 years?
35:16 Advice for a husband and wife that want to finish together?
40:16 How do you know if you’re orgasming?
42:41 Our “long sex” is great but we don’t always have time, how to have good <30min sex w/o warmup?
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Tune into this fun Q&A where the Kingdom Sexuality team asks each other some surprise questions they've always wanted to ask each other. Plus, the answer questions followers on Instagram sent in about the future of KS!
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What role, if any, does masturbation play in marriage? Does the Bible talk about this topic? You won't want to miss this one!
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Have a second? We'd love your feedback on our podcast!
Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram!
QUESTION TIME STAMPS:
4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn’t like lingerie/games/toys/etc?”
7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?”
9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can’t- advice?”
16:00 “I’ve been married for a month and I haven’t had a climax, any advice?”
17:36 “My husband hasn’t finished in over a month now, what do I do?”
19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?”
23:00 “Why don’t I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.”
24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?”
27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.”
29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won’t be able to relax enough.”
31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?”
32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don’t want to just lay there”
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Is it time to do a "mindset reset" around sex? Let's make the second half of this year incredible for our marriages and intimate lives as we reflect and introspect on our thought life.
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Ever wonder what the top three sex positions are? And some unique techniques to take them to the next level?? Then you're not going to want to miss this one!
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The KS team is joined by Sofia Friesen, Canadian Program Director of Ally Global, and she chats with the KS team about the incredible work that Ally is doing to prevent human trafficking, how it actually happens, and how you can keep your family safe from it.
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Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online, is BACK in another incredible episode with Alana and Tiera where he unpacks sexual disorders and dysfunctions. You don’t want to miss it!
Vaginismus: 8:45
Sexual Aversion: 10:12
Orgasms: 12:08
Orgasm Disorder: 30:15
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Tune in as the KS team tackles the big question: is sex a need? Kyle, Tiera, and Alana each had their own thoughts and kept their notes to themselves until they hit record!
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In a season where intercourse isn't an option? Not sure what to do? Or, do you want to learn how to add other intimacy options to your repertoire? Tune in as the KS team chats about some options!
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Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly!
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Continuing on with the premarital conversation from a few weeks ago but in a new light: "what if we've already had sex?" Today's guest and former KS host, Rusti, talks us through her story and journey to finding healing from the shame of her past.
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The Purity Culture conversation continues! This time Alana and Tiera are joined by Hanna from the 'Say What?' podcast! They chat purity culture, vaginismus, pleasure, orgasms, and more!
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So many of us enter into marriage only to then realize that how sex was taught to us- impacted us! Is pleasure possible after purity culture? Tune in to find out!
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The newlywed season is such a sweet season in life! We get this precious time to learn so much about each other. But how do we navigate the difficulties well? Tune in to find out!
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There can be so much excitement when it comes to the wedding night but alongside the joy and eagerness, anxiety and fear of the unknown can creep in. Join the KS team as they answer questions engaged couples sent in when it comes to the wedding night!
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Are you engaged and wondering how to make your future marriage one that is set up for success? This episode is for you! Plus, check out the resource the KS team just released! Get the guides individually for $47 or the bundle of all three for $97!
The first 10 people to order the bundle using the code LIFETOGETHER3 will get all 3 bundles for the price of one!
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Ever feel like you're drowning trying to do it all? Drink enough water, get exercise, be a good wife and mother, and still get some sleep? Join the KS team as they unpack whether or not you have to try to get it all done!
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Whether we're aware of it or not, what we do forms us. For better or worse. So what habits are forming you? Tune in to hear the KS team share some healthy habits you can implement TODAY! Links from today’s episode: Practicing The Way Join Unite & Ignite
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After being freshly pregnant and now in the postpartum season Alana, and the KS team, answer YOUR questions on pregnancy and postpartum! Links from today’s episode:
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
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Get ready for a spicy conversation where Rachel & Zach interviewed the KS team about intimacy in marriage and what the word of God has to say about sex! Time to experience the fullness of God's design for marriage and intimacy!
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The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing pastor Ben Hilson in today's episode! We had compiled a list of questions you guys had sent us and we bombarded him with them all!
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Does your desire for sex happen suddenly, or does it take your body a bit of time to warm up to the idea? It turns out both are normal! Tune in to hear more!!
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Does modesty look difference once we're married? Do boundaries and rules we had while we were dating/engaged still stand? Tune in to find out!
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Is there a type of sex you'd like to try but you're not sure how to go about asking your spouse for it? Maybe you'd like to try something a bit more rough or passionate, or slow and sensual- what does that conversation look like?? Tune in to find out!
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Ever wondered what types of sex are out there? Slow sex, quickies, passionate sex, and more- the KS team chats through what each kind is and how to initiate that type of sex! Links from today’s episode: Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Rundown Scheduled vs Spontaneous Sex episode Intimacy Without Intercourse Foreplay Episode Awaken Love book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!
Join the KS team as they answer questions rapid fire as they come in on Instagram! They cover topics like "how do i get my wife to swallow?", "how do i increase my desire for sex as a busy mom?", and more!
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Ever wonder what should be done with your hair... down there?? Tune into this highly requested episode where the KS team chats through: what you can do with your pubic hair, do you have to do anything with it, and can going bare be linked to watching porn?
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Struggle to know how to have those conversations with your kiddos? The KS team got to sit down with Mary Flo and Megan, owners of the company Birds & Bees, which is an online course all about equipping you as a parent to tackle the talk of the birds and bees! If you have kiddos, you need to tune in!
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Ready to spice up your Valentine's Day?? We, the KS team, have just the thing to help! With the sex challenge beginning on Valentine's Day, our desire is to bring fun, exploration, and pleasure to new heights as you journey through these 14 days of turning up the heat!
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There are times when our spouse does something small and simple and it means the WORLD to us. Likewise, sometimes little things can be a big thing in a negative way! Tune in as the KS team shares both sides AND some intimacy examples as well!
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Join the KS team as they tackle a big topic: period sex. Do you have questions around the topic of sex while the woman is on her menstrual cycle? The team answers questions like: doesn't the Bible say period sex is bad? How do you keep things less messy? Are there risks to it?
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Buckle up for this incredibly insightful episode where Tiera takes the lead and gives us the run down of numerous birth control options! If you're in the process of deciding what's right for you- hopefully this will help!
*disclaimer: we are not medical professionals, you should consult your doctor for more information*
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Struggle to initiate sex in your marriage? Or are you the spouse that is always initiating?? Tune in to hear Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about some practical ways you can learn to initiate and what ways women vs men prefer when it comes to this! Links from today's episode: Awaken Love The Flirtation Experiment Better Help: Counseling Get on the waitlist for February’s Unite & Ignite membership!!
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You're not going to miss this incredible interview Alana and Tiera had with Francie Winslow. She get's vulnerable and shares her journey towards healing from purity culture, how husbands can help their wives desire intimacy, and how we can experience pleasure everywhere.
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Is it time to do a check-in on your communication? Wanting to take your communication to the next level? Tune into this episode and start the new year off with some killer skills in this area!
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Merry Christmas from all of us on the Kingdom Sexuality team! Tune in as we chat all things giving and receiving! Are you a cheerful giver? Do you receive gifts well? Or compliments?? Listen to the episode to hear more!
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Join the KS team as they chat all things making out. What if my spouse doesn't like making out? Is it possible for making out to not lead to sex? What if my spouse has bad oral hygiene? They tackle those questions and MORE!
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The KS team is so excited to bring you another sex challenge episode!! This is the 2nd Sexmas episode, but this one comes with an exciting resource and a special discount for you!! The 12 Days Of Sexmas: use the code HOLLY for 50% off!! (discount expires Dec 15)
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Not sure what to do when it comes to foreplay? Wondering questions like: "What can/can't we do?" or "How long should we do foreplay for?" and "What do our spouses even want us to do??" Tune in and the KS team will answer those questions for you!
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The KS Team did something new this week- you might have seen it on Instagram! During the episode, the created an Instagram story asking for questions that they would be answering LIVE during the recording episode! Nothing pre-planned, they just answered whatever questions came at them... and they were spicy ones!
*the foreplay episode mentioned is going to be releasing next week!
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How do we navigate the seasons of our life when we're not feeling our best? Whether it's due to stress, weight gain, hair loss, or if you're in a time of postpartum healing- we all struggle with this at times. Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about ways to combat these feelings when they come! Want to join Unite & Ignite? The month of December is all about Sexual Intimacy! Don't wait!!
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You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana and Tiera did with author of Awaken Love, Ruth Beuzis! They tackle topics of duty sex, sex as a need vs want, and more!
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Special thanks to today's podcast sponsor: Mentionables! Use the code KINGDOM20 to get 20% off!! Have questions around the topic of lingerie and boudoir photography? Prepare to have them answered in this hilarious and casual chat with Alana, Kyle, and Tiera!
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Keeping in with the Spiritual Intimacy theme, Alana had the pleasure of interviewing Aaron and Jennifer Smith! Authors of The Marriage Gift, Aaron and Jennifer chat about their journey of spiritual intimacy and prayer and how intimate but necessary it is.
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A successful marriage involves more than just two individuals; it’s a partnership with each other and with God. This partnership is fortified through prayer! So join Alana, Tiera, and Kyle as they discuss the importance of prayer in a Christian marriage!
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Attending church together is a priority for many couples, and is an important one. But how else can you up your spiritual intimacy? Join the KS Team as they dive into really practical ways that you can have more spiritual intimacy in your marriage!
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Spiritual intimacy is one of the most important, yet least talked about, aspects of marital health! Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what spiritual intimacy is, what is a Christ-centered marriage, and what roadblocks try to keep couples from cultivating this in their marriage.
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Trigger warning: the KS team talks about miscarriage during this episode and wanted to disclose that and send love to those who have experienced loss or those currently going through it.
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You asked and they answered!! Alana, Tiera, and Kyle answer an assortment of questions sent in by YOU, their listeners and followers! You won't want to miss it!
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Been itching to hear more of our thoughts on the topic of sex toys?? Then this is the episode for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the topic more in depth and build off of last weeks episode.
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The KS Team is going through the Do's and Don'ts of Sex Toys in this part 1 of the 2 part series! The goal of this series is not to persuade you to use toys, or shame you out of using them, but rather to educate on both sides!
Links from today's episode:
Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
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Flirting seems to be so important at the beginning of a relationship- pursuing one another, heightened excitement, and so much passion! But once we get married some of that starts to change, tune into the episode to hear why and how to get the fun and passion back! Links from today's episode: The Flirtation Experiment Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out!
Want to get to know the KS Team better? They put a questions box over on Instagram asking "what are some things you assume about us, individually and as a team?". So in this hilarious episode Kyle's wife, Samantha, presents the assumptions to each team member and they share whether or not it's accurate or not! This episode is a hoot, so tune in!
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Is pain during sex normal? What is vaginismus? How can husbands support their wives in this journey? Alana and Tiera chat with Jessica Seitz and they blast through those those questions and more in this incredible interview!
Jessica's Instagram: @painfree.intimacy
Jessica's website: painfreeintimacy.com
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Ever wondered how to go about sending spicy text messages to your spouse?? Curious what to say, or if there's a secure place to even do that? Tune into the episode to find out!!
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As Christians we can sometimes find it difficult to navigate certain things in our marriage. We see things in the movies but wonder "is this okay for our marriage?". So if you've ever wondered that when it comes to "talking dirty" in the bedroom, you're going to want to tune into this episode!
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We all seem to do it sometimes... so let's talk about keeping score. Is there any benefit to this in a marriage? Is it a useful tool? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat all about it- tune in now!
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The great debate is finally happening. The Kingdom Sexuality Team finally discusses the pros and cons of scheduling sex vs keeping sex spontaneous! You won't want to miss it!!
Links from today's episode:
Episode 133: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids
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Ladies, do you notice your energy or mood change throughout your cycle? Did you know there are certain times in your cycle your body is more "ready" to be intimate?? Tune into this casual chat with Alana and Tiera as Tiera guides us through the female cycle and how it impacts pleasure! Links from today's episode: - Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book - Beloved Fertility use the code KSFOLLOWER to get $50 off any package! - TempDrop Fertility Tracker Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more? Come hang out with us!
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You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, there are common issues like a lack of intimacy and communication and that being "sexually active" isn't the same as being "sexually intimate." Juli explains how, to build intimacy, couples can talk openly and seek help if needed. And how, in a Christian marriage, it's about finding a balance of passion and pleasure, not just ticking off "marital duty" boxes. God cares about our sexual growth and maturity, focusing on respect, understanding, and having fun along the way! You won't want to miss this one!
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Juli Slattery's website: authenticintimacy.com
Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
You're not going to want to miss this incredible interview Alana did with Kim and Darlene Unrau. Combining all of the training these two have creates this incredible Jesus-loving, marriage-equipping, and very wise couple! So tune in and enjoy the wealth of knowledge that Kim and Darlene bring!
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Books mentioned on today's episode:
The 5 Love Needs of Men & Women
Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! In this Dr. Josh Kruse, a Registered Psychologist at Dr. Josh Kruse & Associates Counselling & Consulting, and Pastor at Village Church (@thisisvillagechurch) in Surrey, Canada, answers all of these questions and more! Kyle and Alana bring the questions that YOU asked over on Instagram. Dr. Josh is a wealth of knowledge, you're not going to want to miss this one!! - What is counseling actually like? (5:30) - When to go to counseling? (8:00) - What if one spouse wants to go and the other refuses? (9:20) - What should/does premarital counseling look like? (14:00) - How to set up the wedding night for sexual success? (17:40) - What to do when one of the couple has previous sexual experience and the other doesn’t? How much to disclose to your spouse about your sexual past? (20:40) - If my marriage is in a good place, what purpose does it serve to see a counselor? (24:55) - How to rebuild connection when I feel like it’s gone? (28:40) - How to manage emotions and stay present during conflict/tough conversations? (31:15) - How to be a supportive wife when I feel like his work and projects take up all his time? (35:55) - How to get over resentment towards my spouse from unmet expectations? (38:35) - What to do when you feel like you can’t bounce back after an argument? Or when neither person will back down and it’s a stalemate? (40:45) - How to maintain the marriage when your spouse is battling depression? (45:00) - How to feel loved when my spouse won’t love me by my love language? (47:35) - What is the biggest difference you see between couples that are doing great vs those that are struggling? (51:15) - How to handle when one spouse wants something but the other doesn’t? (54:00) - How to manage when one spouse has a much higher sex drive than the other? Or when it seems like one spouse is apathetic towards sex? (58:55) - How can women turn their mind off and just enjoy sex? (1:02:25) - How to talk about past sexual trauma with my spouse? (1:06:25) Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Links from today’s episode: Dr. Josh Kruse: Website Instagram Podcast
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In this episode, Alana, Tiera, and Kyle explore ways to maintain intimacy when you have young kids. From feeling "touched out" to co-sleeping dilemmas, they've got you covered. Discover whether it's acceptable to have a romantic encounter while the little ones are in the room and learn how to spark desire even when you're utterly exhausted. They also tackle the awkward scenario of kids walking in at the wrong moment and how much PDA is acceptable around your kids! With practical advice like scheduling date nights, flirty texts, shared hobbies, and creative use of spaces, you'll find plenty of inspiration to keep the romance alive amidst the chaos of parenting.
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Birds & Bee's (use the code KINGDOM for 20% off the course!)
Engagement is an exciting time, but it can also be stressful and confusing. Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about advice they DID receive during their own seasons of engagement and advice they WISH they had gotten while they were engaged. Some tips they shared were; when it comes to sex, take your time and learn each other's anatomy, find trusted mentors to help keep you accountable during dating and engagement, have conversations about "sexpectations" before AND after the wedding, get good premarital counseling, and be explicit with each other about your needs and wants. These tips can help make your engagement easier and more enjoyable. And remember, the wedding is just the beginning of your journey together!!
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
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In this episode, the KS Team has some very special guests: Kait and JJ Tomlin from Heart of Dating!! They discuss the challenges and joys of singleness and dating in today's world, particularly from a Christian perspective. Kait and JJ share their own experiences and insights on a variety of topics, including:
You can find Kait and JJ's stuff on their website: www.heartofdating.com or on Instagram!
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Listened to our other orgasm series episodes but still had questions? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go through questions that you guys, those who did the Orgasm Survey, asked! They answer questions like: How do I tell my husband when I didn't have an orgasm? What's the best way to learn to orgasm the same time as my wife? Why do some orgasms feel better than others? Can some only orgasm with a vibrator?
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
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If you're looking for a sure fire way to have multiple orgasms every time you're intimate with your spouse... the KS Team is sorry to disappoint. In this episode, Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about the mythical creature of multiple orgasms and whether it's really possible to achieve. They reveal the results of a survey they conducted and they also talk about the role of cervical position and cycle in women's ability to have multiple orgasms, and the different types of multiple orgasms in men. The KS Team also give some tips for trying to achieve multiple orgasms, such as trying different types of stimulation and not pushing yourself too hard. So, if you're curious about the elusive multiple orgasm, give this podcast episode a listen!
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today’s episode:
TempDrop use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
Married Dance use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!
Kyle’s articles:
-https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4896089/
-https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.09.010
-https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499.2020.1743224
Have you listened to part one of the Orgasm Series yet?? If not, the team highly recommends you check it out before listening to this one! In this episode Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about many of things they skipped over in the first episode. Things like, practically, what are the first steps when it comes to having an orgasm? Does using toys have an impact on my ability to orgasm with my spouse? And they also go through what YOU, those who did the orgasm survey, found helpful when it came to finally achieving an orgasm!
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Married Dance (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)
Covenant Eyes (use the code KS30 for 30 days free!)
*again, Alana's audio isn't the best! sorry about that!!*
*unfortunately Alana's audio isn't great in this episode, we're sorry about that!!*
It's the series that SO many of you have been waiting for! Alana, Kyle, & Tiera go in depth into what an orgasm is, some of the statistics from our orgasm survey, what kind of orgasms there are, and what YOU say they feel like! This is the first part of our series, so if there are things we didn't cover in this episode, just wait! It might be coming!!
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Birds and Bee's sex ed course (Use code KINGDOM20 for 20% off the course)
Brandi Harris' sex ed course (Use code KINGS23 for at 10% discount!)
It seems like couples are either very pro shower sex, or anti-shower sex, which one are you?? Tune into this hilarious episode as Alana, Tiera, and Kyle share the pros and cons of shower sex, what lube to use, and positions that make it easier!! If you and your spouse don't actually shower together yet, that's a great place to start when it comes to this! Schedule a time to just be in the shower together! Then, as you get more comfortable, try something new! Shower sex can be a really fun way to spice things up.
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
YES! Oil Based Lube (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for a discount!)
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The KS team has a question for you: Have you ever thought about NOT sleeping in pjs? It's an interesting thing to think about if that's what you've always done, but it's something to consider! There are pro's and con's to sleeping naked, or with less clothes on, but one thing is certain- according to research the team did- those who sleep with less clothes have more sex!! So might be worth a conversation! Tune in as Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about why you should consider sleeping naked tonight!!
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The media shows us, when it comes to cleaning up after sex, that you can just kiss your partner and roll over for snuggles and snoozing. But alas. If you've been married for any length of time you'll know that there's a bit more to it than that. Or, if you're engaged and no one has ever told you what it looks like to "clean up" after being intimate- this episode is for you. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle really casually and practically go through what it looks like to properly clean up after intercourse. They also share how YOU, their followers on Instagram, clean up after sex! Excited for you to take a listen!
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
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Time to talk expectations... but around sex. Did you go into your marriage with set expectations when it came to sex? How did you find navigating it? Do you and your spouse talk about expectations now? Expectations not shared are usually expectations unmet. So how can we navigate having these conversations well? Tune in as Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about healthy "sex-pectations".
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
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It's time to get to know the newest member of the Kingdom Sexuality team! Tiera!! In this episode she shares her journey, specifically in the area of intimacy, and how she's grown in those areas. She is going to bring such a wealth of knowledge to the team, specifically in the areas of trying to conceive, fertility, and women's sexual health. Alana and Kyle are absolutely thrilled to have her along during this wild ride. The Lord brought her along at such an amazing time and there's no doubt she's the perfect fit for Kingdom Sexuality.
If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
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Do you ever struggle with your thoughts during sex? Thinking about a past relationship experience, something you saw in porn, or even just your mind is wandering thinking about what's for dinner tomorrow?? This episode is for you!
Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what we do when/if we struggle with wrong thoughts during sex or if our mind wanders during intimacy. They also share some tips and things you can do to get your mind back in the zone during sex! The team gets really practical here, sharing simple tips like: make eye contact, be aware of your senses, and how "mindfulness" could also be a big help!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
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This is an episode you won't want to miss! Alana sits down with Brandi K. Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT. Brandi is a professional counsellor, author, speaker, teacher, and coach and her and Alana dive into all sorts of really good topics. They chat sexual education, when to have "those talks" with your kids, the science behind sexual desire, how to reignite the spark in your marriage, and so much more!! Brandi does a beautiful job of explaining arousal and desire and how these are actually two different things. You can find more of Brandi on Instagram @brandikharris, or check out her website!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Journal of Adolesence
Along with being a great episode on the when's and if's of family planning- it's also an exciting episode where Alana and Kyle get to introduce Kingdom Sexuality's NEWEST MEMBER!! Tiera is a wealth of knowledge when it comes to the topic of fertility and women's health and KS is absolutely thrilled to have her apart of the team! Her sextimony will be coming in a few weeks, so this episode doesn't go too in depth into who Tiera is- instead it's an episode where the team chats about "how do you know when you're ready to have kids?" and "how do you know when to be done growing your family?". Questions that KS gets often from followers.
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Kyle and I are SO excited to have Tiera join us on the team. God has brought her to us at the perfect time and we feel so confident that she's the exact person we needed to come alongside us on this beautiful journey. We can't wait for you guys to get to know her better! -Alana
In case you were unaware... Valentine's Day is fast approaching! So with that in mind, Alana and Kyle thought it would be a fun idea to share some date night ideas! There's something for those of you who want to stay in, those who want to go out, and those of you who want something spicy. But they don't just end it there, they also touch on something that might be prevalent in your life around this time in February... what if your spouse just isn't into Valentine's Day? How do you navigate that? Where does there need to be compromise and heart inspection? Tune in!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)
The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!!
The KS Team put a questions box up on Instagram asking women who follow us "what do you wish men knew about sex?" and this episode is all of those responses!! (Ladies, share this with your man!) From vocalizing things in the bedroom, go slow and soft, to "when we say keep going- KEEP GOING- don't change speed!" This episode has it all!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Episode 98: Emotional Intimacy with One Extraordinary Marriage
Kyle and Alana put a lot of work into this Oral Sex Series finale so that it wouldn't blow... (pun intended). But in all seriousness, these oral sex episodes have had so much thought, research, and data behind them. So in this weeks finale oral sex episode they talk about fellatio (aka: oral sex being done on a man, a blow job, or BJ). Alana and Kyle discuss some of the statistics from the survey's they put out over the past few weeks, why many women have a difficult time giving oral sex on their husband, some tips to help, how to go about bringing up the subject of oral sex with your spouse, and so much more!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links we mentioned in today's episode:
Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)
Well, we said this episode is coming and here it is! You wanted to hear more information about cunnilingus? Listen in! It's a longer episode but Alana and Kyle tackle SO much really valuable information. Things like: how do you even begin to start talking about oral sex with your spouse? and why do some women struggle when it comes to receiving oral sex?
Kyle and Alana also ran a big survey before doing this series and gathered a bunch of data. You’ll hear it woven in throughout this episode and NEXT week’s episode as well. They got almost 4,500 responses, so the data is from a decent-sized sample and data set! Also, if you haven't listen to episode 112: Deep Dive Into Anatomy it's recommended to go listen to that one first, as there's quite a bit of anatomy talk in this episode and the one to come.
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks!
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She Comes First
- US Link
The highly anticipated, long awaited oral sex episode is here! Alana and Kyle will be doing more in depth episodes on fellatio and cunnilingus in the coming episodes but Seth and Melanie Studley did a FANTASTIC job starting off this series. You're not going to want to miss this one. They chat about questions like: How would a couple, who’s struggled with the idea of oral sex, introduce it into their marriage? What should the conversations look like? What considerations should be given to hygiene prior to oral? How does a woman work on getting her mind in the zone for oral sex? We're excited for you to tune in!
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And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks!
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David Schnarch: Passionate Marriage
So many of these "this is the newly discovered 6 love language!" have been coming out, are they valid? Is there a love language that's missing? Tune in as Alana and Kyle chat about the supposed 6th love language: feeling seen/known. Is feeling seen or feeling known its own love language? Is it a combination of a few? Do you feel seen when your spouse speaks your love language? We'd love to know your thoughts! Shoot us a DM or an email sharing your thoughts!!
Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at [email protected]!
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Ho Ho HOLD UP, you can still be intimate when you're around family this Christmas?? Yep! Listen in as Kyle and Alana chat about some ways you can make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! They discuss some other times of day you can have sex when you're around family, different locations, and how removing as much stress as possible will help increase both your libido and energy!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team. Praying this Christmas is filled with so much love, joy, and Jesus.
Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at [email protected]!
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Come As You Are (US link)
Come As You Are (Canadian link)
Prepare to have a very jolly Christmas, because Alana and Kyle are giving you Kingdom Sexuality's very first SEX CHALLENGE!! Not sure what a sex challenge is? Basically, it's committing to being intimate for a set number of days in a row. In this episode they go through a bunch of FAQ's when it comes to sex challenges. Questions like: Does it HAVE to be sex every day? How do I bring up the idea of a sex challenge to my spouse? What happens if I'm not in the mood one of the days? And so much more!! If you join the 12 Days of Christmas sex challenge we would LOVE to hear how it went for you! So be sure to join our Facebook group: Kingdom Sexuality Community and share how it's impacted your marriage!
Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality, that's where you'll find even more of our content! Weekly sex positions, content specific to men, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or shoot us an email at [email protected]! And be sure to leave us a review and you might just hear it in the next episode.
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We all know that this time of the year can be a busy time. Typically well meaningly so, but things can get real busy real quick. So how can we be proactive about this and protect our connection when the craziness of the holidays come around? What are some practical ways to make space for connection during busy times? Alana and Kyle chat through those questions and so much more! They mentioned this quote in the episode: "If you let it, the busyness of life will kill your marriage." So it’s up to you and your spouse to start now. Decide together that this Christmas will be a Christmas of connection instead of one filled with hurry and busyness.
Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We share weekly sex positions, couples challenges, content for men, and so much more! And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and you might just hear it at the start of our next episode!
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Today on the KS podcast Alana and Kyle have a couple of very special guests with us to help us close out our opposites series. Abe and Elaine Romero join in today to chat about what it looks like for them to have a commuter marriage! Living in different states how can they stay connected emotionally? Sexually?? What advice do they have for other long distance marriages? How can couples be cultivating connection when they're in different locations? They chat through this, and more! You won't want to miss it. Check out Abe and Elaine's IG pages: @commutermarriagesupport and @marriage.isajoke!
Make sure you follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see all of our content! We share weekly sex positions, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!
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-Ultimate Intimacy
-Intimately Us
Whether it’s differences in where you want to live, what you want to do in the bedroom, or if you even WANT each other in the bedroom (meaning more drive related). I feel like at some point in time we’ve all had these sorts of opposites come up in our marriages. So how do you navigate this? When you and your spouse want different things? Alana and Kyle dive into this and so much more in this episode, so listen up!
Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, content specific to men, couples challenges, connect questions, discounts, and so much more!
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Do you have a time of day preference when it comes to sex? Does your spouse? And are they the same? Alana and Kyle tackle the age old debate of morning sex vs. evening sex! (Don't worry, they don't forget about afternoon delights!) But more seriously, how do you navigate this if you're not a night owl but your spouse would rather stay up super late- when do you incorporate your intimacy? Tune in, and maybe if you've never thought about what time of day you prefer you and your spouse can have that conversation!
If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! That's where you'll see more of our content: weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Plus we even have a day dedicated to the men! Have a topic suggestion for us? Shoot us an email at [email protected].
Are you and your spouse different sizes height-wise or weight-wise? Then this is the episode for you! Kyle and Alana chat about how to navigate this and what positions are ideal for you guys! If you and your spouse are different sizes, please know that you can still have a beautiful, sexy, and flourishing sex life! It may take a bit more patience as you attempt different positions, but it will be so worth it!
Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We post weekly "hump day" positions, content specific to men, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Or something you'd add to today's episode? Feel free to send us a DM or an email at [email protected]!
Odds are good that you and your spouse feel loved in different ways. In this episode, Alana and Kyle chat about the 5 love languages and how to navigate it when you and your spouse's love languages aren't the same. Like, what do you do when your spouse's love language is gifts but you have zero interest in buying gifts? Or if your love language is acts of service but you're left frustrated waiting for your spouse to take out the garbage? Or your spouse loves to touch you, but the thought of PDA makes you uncomfortable? Alana and Kyle are going to chat all about that today.
If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly couples challenges, connect questions, "hump day" sex positions, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for us? Shoot us an email at [email protected]
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Wow, we've made it to an exciting milestone: Episode 100! In this bonus episode, Kyle interviews Alana about what these first 100 episodes have been like, how they've grown her, and how this whole podcast even began! Oh, and make sure you listen to the end to hear about the exciting 100th episode giveaway that's they'll be releasing on Instagram @kingdomsexuality!
Thank you so much for listening to our episodes and following along with us over the years. We appreciate the likes, shares, reviews, and messages so much- you guys are seriously such a blessing to the entire KS team. We can't wait to see where the next 100 episodes take us, and we're excited to see what God has in store for this little ministry!!
Today Kyle and Alana have the pleasure of chatting with Tony and Alisa Dilorenzo, hosts of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and authors of an amazing marriage book called 6 Pillars of Intimacy! They discuss emotional intimacy in depth; how emotional intimacy is connected to sexual intimacy, and what to do if only one of the couple in the marriage is putting in the word to cultivate it. They touch on scheduling sex, doing sex challenges, and how sexual intimacy can be a barometer for the rest of your marriage! You're not going to want to miss this one.
Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We post weekly couples challenges, have Wednesday "Hump Day's", and even a day of the week devoted to the men!
You can check out Tony and Alisa's content here!
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Here's part two of our episode with Samantha Enns, Kyle's lovely wife! Alana asked her the questions that our followers sent over on Instagram. Sam tackles some big questions like "Did you struggle with comparison, knowing what he'd seen?" and "Did his addiction impact your sex life? How?". Again, we are so sorry for those of you who are going through this. We're praying that Sam's vulnerability and Kyle's testimony will encourage you.
Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly "hump day" sex positions, content for the men on Thursdays, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!
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If you haven't listened to Kyle's Sextimony episode we would highly recommend you do that before listening to this one! In this episode Alana interviews Kyle's wife, Samantha, asking her the questions that our followers sent over on Instagram. Sam tackles some big questions like "How do I check in without accusing him/prying too much?" and "How can you trust him after his struggles with porn?". We are so sorry for those of you who are going through this. Emotions are raw and it’s extremely difficult. But there is so much hope for you! We trust that Sam's vulnerability and Kyle's testimony will encourage you. This will be a two part series with the next segment coming out next week, so stay tuned for more! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly "hump day" sex positions, content for the men on Thursdays, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes use the code: KS30 for 30 days free!
Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out Covenant Eyes! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free!
Let's get to know the latest KS team member, shall we? In this episode, Alana chats with Kyle and he shares his journey of overcoming a pornography addiction. Kyle goes into detail explaining his struggles, when he realized he needed to seek professional help, and gives really practical tips to overcome a pornography addiction. Have any porn related questions you'd like answered? Feel free to direct your messages to Kyle on the Kingdom Sexuality Instagram account @kingdomsexuality or shoot him a DM on his personal account @kyleenns. And if you're not following the KS team already, go check out the Instagram account! That's where they'll share latest episodes, Wednesday "Hump Day" positions, connect questions, Thursday's "for the men", and so much more! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free!) 30 Prayers For Your Husband Ebook 30 Prayers For Your Wife Ebook
There's seasons of life where sex is NOT an option, so how do we navigate these seasons while still actively guarding, blessing, & pouring intention over intimacy in our marriages? Paris & Alana share everything from positions & techniques, both sensual & sexual (but not intercourse!), to mindset & scripture on the subject to encourage & empower you in seasons of abstinence.
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