Hindsight is 20/20. And nothing could be more accurate about the postpartum period. I was worried about postpartum because of my son’s diagnosis. So I feel like I planned more than the average woman. Even still, I found that there were still things I would do differently. First, I wish I had made more of a routine out of going on walks and getting out of the house. I got into a routine of sitting. Mainly because I was healing, but I wish I had made more of an effort to get out to see the sun. Second, I wish I had done more core work after my c-section earlier. I wish I had prioritized scheduling friends to come over before my baby got here, as it was too much for me to handle after my son got here. I would love to get more time before my son goes into treatment for clubfoot. I wish I had created a plan to get back into a normal eating pattern after battling gestational diabetes.
I live on the 5th floor of my apartment complex. So this was so hard for me to commit to doing during postpartum. But I wish I would take the time to get outside and work out more.
Topic #2 [3:46] - Delay clubfoot treatment
This is one I have mixed feelings about. I felt so much pressure to get his clubfoot treatment started. And I am not sure it would have been better for me or worse to delay his treatment. But I wish I had more time with those cute feet and his snuggly self. I wish I had more time, and looking back, I think I would have delayed his treatment until he was four weeks, even though people were advising me otherwise.
I still have a postpartum belly. My core is still weak. And as a result, I have back pain, and the scar tissues from my C-section are still sore. I wish I had taken more time to work on my core sooner. It’s not fun. It is not sexy. But it is so healthy.
Topic #4 [6:10] - Focus more on my diet.
I had gestational diabetes. And it was so hard to stop myself from eating all the carbs as soon as my baby was here and safe. I had to restrict my diet so much during pregnancy. But I wish I had started creating habits early in my child life to have those already established.
I had a lot of doctor's office visits with my son's treatment, and my struggle with nursing those first two weeks. Because of that, I did not make plans to have people over, and I wish I could have more human contact in this isolating time.
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