On Purpose with Jay Shetty

How do you define success beyond money and career?

Do you think wealth should come with a responsibility to give back?

Today,  Jay Shetty sits down with one of the most influential innovators of our time, Bill Gates, to explore the intersection of personal growth, technological innovation, and philanthropy. Bill reflects on his journey from a curious child fascinated by computers to building Microsoft and becoming a global force for change.

Bill shares candid stories about his upbringing, his parents’ profound influence, and the lessons he learned from their high expectations and encouragement. He also talks about his career-long passion for innovation and his views on climate change, the promise of AI, and the Gates Foundation’s life-saving work, such as developing vaccines and tackling malnutrition. His insights are not just about the cutting edge of technology but also about humanity’s moral responsibility to harness it for good.

A deeply reflective portion of the episode focuses on grief, as Gates discusses the loss of close friends like Paul Allen and Kent Evans, and how their influence continues to guide his mission. Jay and Bill share thoughts on how service and philanthropy can redefine success and leave a lasting legacy, with Bill underscoring the importance of giving back and the moral imperative for the wealthy to use their resources to create equity.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Innovate with Purpose and Impact

How to Lead with Empathy and Collaboration

How to Turn Failure into a Learning Opportunity

How to Use AI to Solve Global Challenges

How to Honor the Legacy of Mentors and Loved Ones

How to Find Joy in Lifelong Learning

Whether it’s pushing the boundaries of innovation, building meaningful relationships, or giving back to make the world a better place, we all have the capacity to create positive change.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:27 Early Exposure to Computers

04:18 Different But Exceptional

06:27 Pressure to Live Up to Parents Expectations

08:15 Genuine Parental Support and Connection

14:09 Growing Up with a Supportive Father

22:58 Are Schools Failing Children?

27:33 Motivate Your Kids Right

29:57 Undiagnosed ADHD and ASD

33:18 How Do You Deal with Grief?

40:21 Working with Steve Jobs

45:31 Healthy Competition in Business

49:46 Turning to a Life of Service and Giving Back

56:11 Politics and Humanitarian Effort

59:27 The Importance of AI Policies

01:04:14 Innovation Against Human Limitation

01:09:11 Tough Form of Self Love

01:11:37 Bill on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Bill Gates | Website

Bill Gates | Facebook

Bill Gates | Instagram 

Bill Gates | Youtube

Gates Foundation

Source Code: My Beginnings

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What’s one habit you think is draining your energy daily?

Do you ever feel exhausted after certain conversations?

Today, Jay will break down the hidden habits that are silently draining your energy and preventing you from living your best life in 2025. If you feel like you're constantly exhausted, unmotivated, or stuck in negative cycles, this episode is a wake-up call.

Jay reveals three powerful habits that will help you reclaim your time, mental clarity, and emotional well-being. He challenges the everyday energy leaks we often overlook—like engaging in gossip, absorbing unsolicited opinions, and surrounding ourselves with people who only talk about themselves. By cutting these out, you’ll unlock 52 minutes of your day to reinvest in your dreams, passions, and meaningful connections.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Avoid Unsolicited Advice and Protect Your Peace

How to Break Free from Toxic Conversations

How to Stay Focused on Your Own Growth

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

How to Make 2025 the Year You Protect Your Energy

Your energy is one of the most valuable things you have, don’t waste it on negativity, distractions, or people who drain your power.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Why Do We Miss Out on Our Goals?

04:55 #1: Stop Talking About Other People

10:31 People with Superiority Complex Often Comes as Arrogant

12:28 You Can’t Empathize If You Haven’t Experienced It

16:47 Hidden Deep-Seated Feelings of Inadequacy

21:38 #2: Stop Giving Unsolicited Views, Opinions, and Feedback

26:16 #3: Stop Talking Just About Yourself

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What’s one goal you want to manifest?

Have you tried visualization before?

Today, Jay welcomes neuroscientist, executive advisor, and bestselling author Dr. Tara Swart for a deeply engaging discussion on the intersection of ancient wisdom and modern neuroscience. Tara, author of The Source: The Secrets of the Universe, the Science of the Brain, shares her journey from a dual-cultural upbringing in North London to becoming a leading expert in neuroplasticity, manifestation, and the science of purpose.

Tara explains how rewiring the brain through neuroplasticity can help us shift our mindset and align with our goals. She introduces the concept of "magnetic desire," the alignment of one’s head, heart, and gut to pursue authentic and meaningful aspirations. The conversation explores the importance of moving beyond societal noise and external expectations to create a life of abundance, gratitude, and love. 

Jay and Tara discuss how ancient practices such as chanting, drumming, and spending time in nature have been essential to human well-being for centuries and are increasingly validated by neuroscience today. Together, they unpack how practices like visualization, mindfulness, and connecting with nature are more than philosophical ideas—they are scientifically proven tools for personal growth and transformation.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Rewire Your Brain for Success

How to Use Visualization to Achieve Goals

How to Balance Ancient Wisdom with Modern Science

How to Transform Negative Thoughts into Positive Actions

How to Build an Action Board for Manifestation

How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs and Self-Doubt

How to Create Lasting Change with Neuroplasticity

Whether it’s through cultivating gratitude, spending time in nature, or embracing the power of visualization, every small step brings us closer to the life we envision.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:38 Parallels Between Modern Science and Ancient Wisdom

07:44 The Power of Possibility

09:37 Extrinsic and Intrinsic Motivators 

12:25 Six Themes of the 12 Laws of Attraction

19:43 Does Every Thought Count?

24:19 4 Steps to Practice Belief Change

29:08 How to Stop Criticising Yourself

33:30 Reconnect with Your Childhood Dream

35:15 Access Your Inner Self Through Nature

40:49 The Nature of Consciousness

45:39 Use Creativity to Open Up Your Consciousness

54:41 The Neurological Impact of Chanting

57:06 Well-Bonded Couples Calm Each Other

59:08 Infusing Stressful Situations with Love  

01:01:40 The Mental Prison We Create

01:03:14 Living Life to the Fullest

01:08:35 Digital Detox

01:13:19 Does God Truly Exist?

01:16:46 Tara on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Tara Swart | Website

Tara Swart | X

Tara Swart | Instagram 

Tara Swart | LinkedIn

Tara Swart | Books

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How long can you stay focused on one task?

What distracts you the most when you’re trying to focus?

Today, Jay chats with neuroscientist and author TJ Power to uncover the science behind our brain’s chemistry and how it shapes our emotions, habits, and overall well-being. TJ, known for his expertise in optimizing dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins (the "DOSE" chemicals), explains how modern lifestyles can disrupt our brain’s natural balance and offers practical strategies to realign it for a happier, healthier life.

TJ and Jay begin the discussion with the brain’s evolutionary design and its mismatch with the modern digital age. TJ explains how our ancestors earned dopamine through hard work and perseverance, but today’s quick-fix solutions like social media, instant gratification, and other overstimulating activities lead to addiction, low motivation, and even burnout. 

They shift into actionable steps to break free from these patterns. From implementing a simple morning routine, such as resisting the urge to check your phone first thing, to engaging in cold water therapy, TJ emphasizes the importance of earning dopamine through effort rather than shortcuts. He also shares the groundbreaking idea of "phone fasting" and how small, consistent breaks from screens can reset your brain chemistry, improve focus, and enhance productivity.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Start Your Day with Action

How to Detox from Your Phone in the Morning

How to Earn Dopamine Naturally

How to Improve Sleep by Cutting Sugar and Screens

How to Practice Gratitude Daily

How to Reset Your Mind in Nature

Small changes, like starting your day with action, spending less time on your phone, and practicing gratitude, can have a profound impact on your mental well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

Visit https://jayshettyshop.com - 100% of Proceeds are donated to National Alliance on Mental Illness. NAMI is the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness. 

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:19 What is DOSE?

05:13 Social Media Triggers Rapid Rise in Dopamine

07:40 The 30-Minute Window Discipline

09:32 The Benefits of Phone-Fasting 

12:42 Take Action as Soon as You Wake

14:36 How to Start the Day Phone-Free

19:16 Fast Release Leads to Low Motivation

21:06 Build Healthy Dopamine

26:25 How to Motivate Yourself to Keep Going

27:47 Pornography Addiction

34:25 Destressing Through Orgasm

36:04 Optimizing Dopamine

37:29 Slow Pleasure for Better Relationship

39:09 Dopamine and Flow State

42:53 Staying Focused and Improving Concentration

45:23 How to Improve Your Sleep Quality

47:39 Dealing with Boredom While Phone-Fasting

51:13 Positive Reinforcement of Dopamine at Home

52:58 How Oxytocin Affects Your Day

56:19 Grateful Thinking Works

58:46 Difference Between Procrastination and Overthinking

01:00:04 Focus on What You Can Do

01:02:42 High Stress and Burnout

01:04:42 Phone Detox is Necessary

01:07:13 Spend More Time in Nature

01:08:16 TJ on Final Five   

Episode Resources:

TJ Power | Instagram

TJ Power | X

TJ Power | LinkedIn

The DOSE Lab

The DOSE Effect

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What’s your biggest challenge with sticking to a fitness plan?

What motivates you to stay consistent with workouts?

Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Andy Galpin, a leading expert in human performance science, muscle physiology, and strength training, to guide you toward a healthier and more fulfilling life. Dr. Galpin shares practical insights grounded in science and years of experience training elite athletes, from Olympians to professional sports stars, offering advice that anyone can apply.

Andy talks in-depth about the fitness fundamentals, starting with the importance of consistency and personalized routines over rigid approaches. Andy emphasizes the key pillars of fitness: looking good, feeling good, and performing well, tailoring these goals to individual needs and life circumstances. He explains how simple adjustments in routines, like incorporating progressive overload and balancing structured cardiovascular training with strength training, can yield transformative results.

Andy and Jay provide actionable strategies for improving recovery, enhancing brain health, and battling common challenges like brain fog and stubborn fat; and breaks down the science of hydration, sleep, and nutrition while busting myths about intermittent fasting, the anabolic window, and the role of cardio. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Set Fitness Goals You’ll Actually Stick To

How to Build Muscle Without Spending Hours at the Gym

How to Balance Strength Training with Cardiovascular Exercise

How to Improve Recovery with Better Sleep and Nutrition

How to Prevent Burnout with Smarter Workouts

How to Use Strength Training to Boost Longevity

There’s no one-size-fits-all solution, and the key to success lies in finding what works for you, whether it’s starting with just one workout a week, improving your sleep habits, or focusing on better nutrition. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:56 The Best Routine to Gain Muscles

06:34 What’s Your Fitness Goal?

14:39 Bad versus Good Fitness Coaching

20:50 What is the Pursuit of Fitness?

23:53 The Real Strength Training Process

32:17 Walking or Running?

42:09 Realistic Fitness Goal    

43:42 Varying Recovery Requirements

48:29 Ideal Protein Intake

54:12 Post Exercise Anabolic Window

01:02:28 How Important is Proper Hydration?

01:08:55 How to Deal with Brain Fog

01:11:36 What’s Andy’s Schedule Like?

01:18:52 Is Evening Workout Effective?

01:23:17 Ideal Workout for PCOS and Menopause

01:29:26 Andy on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Andy Galpin | Website

Andy Galpin | X

Andy Galpin | Instagram 

Andy Galpin | Youtube

Perform Podcast

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What makes you feel stuck right now?

How do you tackle time-consuming tasks?

Today, Jay sits down with Grammy-nominated rapper, multi-platinum artist, and first-time author, Big Sean. This special episode marks Sean’s third appearance on the show, but this time, he’s here to share deeper insights into mental health, purpose, and his debut book, Go Higher, set to release in January 2025.

During the conversation, Big Sean reflects on his personal battles with anxiety, depression, and letting go of control. He shares the transformative role of spiritual practices in his life and how they inspired him to write a book that offers tools for self-care, growth, and purpose. Sean opens up about one of the toughest lessons he's ever had to learn — accepting the things he can't change — and how that acceptance became his pathway to peace and clarity.

Jay and Sean also explore the power of "separating self from success," where Sean explains why money isn’t the true measure of success. Instead, he defines success as the feeling of living in alignment with your purpose and positively impacting others.

In a vulnerable moment, Sean discusses the grief of experiencing a miscarriage and how he and his partner found light in the darkness. He also opens up about his journey with fatherhood, the process of quitting Adderall, and how he manages trauma through intentional strategy and meditation. From music to mindfulness, Sean reflects on his evolution as an artist, a man, and now, an author.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Redefine Success on Your Own Terms

How to Use Radical Acceptance to Overcome Life’s Challenges

How to Separate Self-Worth from Wealth and Achievement

How to Attract Purpose Instead of Chasing It

How to Embrace Spiritual Growth for Mental Clarity and Peace

Every challenge you face holds the seed of transformation. When you accept your reality and stop resisting, you open yourself up to new opportunities for growth. Let Big Sean’s wisdom guide you on your journey to go higher.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:05 Sharing Personal Hardships Through Writing

06:36 Define Your Idea of Success

10:17 The Power of Separation?

12:41 The Kobe Mindset

16:43 Acceptance Isn’t Giving Up

20:07 Attracting Energy versus Chasing Energy

27:09 Learnings From Being a Father

31:39 Living Through Your Kids

33:33 Healing Generational Trauma

35:06 Teach Your Child to Be Confident

38:08 How Do You Become Strategic?

41:42 Effectivity in Being Strategic

45:58 Learn to Set Boundaries

49:35 Respect Your Self

52:55 Don’t Lose Yourself

55:01 Exercising Boundaries

58:00 Affirmations, Gratitude, and Journaling

01:02:44 What’s Your Meditation Practice?

01:07:00 Different Approaches to Therapy

01:08:24 Battling with Addiction and Depression

01:14:26 The Importance of Education 

01:17:32 Giving Up Music

01:18:42 Last Conversation with Kanye

01:23:53 Staying Optimistic After Miscarriage

01:26:18 Finding Hope in Dark Times

01:27:34 Living with Miracles Everyday

Episode Resources:

Big Sean | Website

Big Sean | X

Big Sean | Instagram 

Big Sean | Tiktok 

Big Sean | Youtube

Big Sean | Facebook

Go Higher: Five Practices for Purpose, Success, and Inner Peace

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Do you think one bad night of sleep can really harm your body?

Would you try a routine that could help you reverse aging?

Today, Jay sits down with Bryan Johnson, entrepreneur and founder of Blueprint, who is redefining human health and longevity. Dubbed "the world's most measured human," Bryan shares his extraordinary journey of reversing aging and improving biological performance through science-backed methods and a meticulously designed lifestyle.

Bryan discusses how his $2 million-a-year protocol isn't just about extreme spending but about pioneering a blueprint for everyone. He explains the concept of "don't die," emphasizing the potential for humanity to extend life and improve health at unprecedented levels. From his diet of precision-crafted meals to his groundbreaking work in measuring microplastics and organ health, Bryan's insights challenge conventional norms about aging, health, and longevity.

Together with Jay, Bryan dives deep into actionable takeaways, such as the five pillars of perfect sleep, the importance of building systems over relying on willpower, and how to minimize exposure to environmental toxins like microplastics. Bryan also addresses controversial topics, including the downsides of cheat days and the role of technology in managing health.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Reverse Aging Through Measured Health Metrics

How to Optimize Your Diet for Longevity

How to Manage Stress With Better Sleep

How to Create a System for Healthy Living

How to Rewire Your Taste Buds for Better Nutrition

How to Lower Inflammation With Simple Daily Habits

You don’t need millions of dollars or cutting-edge technology to start—just a commitment to making small, intentional changes. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:31 How Long Can a Person Live?

04:19 The Most Measured Person

06:34 Getting Sustained Hearing Impairment

09:57 Extending Life Before Conception

11:18 How Long Do We Have to Live?

14:22 Every Body I Highly Responsive to Change

16:50 Embryo Selection Through Genetic Markers

18:12 A Generation of Microplastic 

20:42 Simple Ways to Minimize the Influx of Microplastic

23:05 Don’t Drink from Water Bottles

26:01 The Significant Health Threat of Air Pollution

30:11 How Capitalism Affects Health

32:28 5 Ways to Get Better Sleep

40:12 Don’t Miss Your Deep Sleep Window

43:37 The Ill Effects of Poor Sleep

45:48 Invest in Your Health

48:12 What’s Your Protein Intake?

51:22 Bryan’s Perfect Diet

56:11 Eating 3 Meals a Day in 5 Hours

58:21 Rewire Your Taste Buds

59:19 Sensitivity to Air Quality

01:02:36 Are You Scared of Dying?

01:05:58 Prolonging Longevity

01:08:07 Ways to Manage Stress

01:11:00 You Are not Your Thoughts

01:15:37 Health Can Lead to Happiness

01:19:37 Is Reverse Aging Possible?

01:22:25 Bryan on Final Five   

Episode Resources:

Bryan Johnson | Website

Bryan Johnson | X

Bryan Johnson | Instagram 

Bryan Johnson | Tiktok 

Bryan Johnson | Youtube

Bryan Johnson | LinkedIn

Blueprint Protocol

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What’s one goal you want to manifest in 2025?

What small step can you take today toward your goal?

Today, Jay dives into the mindset and practices needed to manifest the life you truly desire in 2025. Picking up where last week’s strategies and habits left off, Jay explores the often-overlooked internal components of goal achievement—your mindset, subconscious programming, and visualization techniques.

He begins by redefining the idea of manifestation, emphasizing the importance of understanding the deeper emotional drivers behind your goals. Whether it's confidence, safety, or self-esteem, Jay explains how aligning with these core desires rather than just material outcomes can unlock true abundance. 

Jay also shares actionable steps for cultivating a manifestation mindset, starting with mastering those subconscious moments just before sleep and upon waking. By integrating affirmations during these times, you can rewire your thought patterns and reinforce your intentions. He introduces the “Rule of Your Most Repeated Thought,” explaining how consistent positive affirmations shape your reality over time.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Rewire Your Mind with Affirmations

How to Visualize the Process, Not Just the Outcome

How to Align Your Energy with Your Goals

How to Avoid Distractions and Stay Focused on Your Target

How to Surround Yourself with Positive Reinforcements

You have everything you need to build the life you envision; it starts with belief and is fueled by consistent effort. Stay focused, stay inspired, and trust in the process—because the life you’re dreaming of is already waiting for you. Keep moving forward; you’ve got this!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:20 Achieving Goals Need the Ability to Visualize

03:20 Step 1: Deeply Know Why You Want What You Want 

05:53 Step 2: Master the Subconscious Moments

10:13 Step 3: You Will Manifest Your Most Repeated Thought

11:52 Step 4: Visualize the Process not the Result

15:08 Vision Boards, Verbal Boards

18:25 What’s Growing in Your Life?

21:07 How to Stop Living a Misaligned Life 

23:15 Keep Books Open in Random Places

25:11 Write Things Down and Post it Around You

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Have you ever let someone just be themselves?

How do you remind yourself what’s in your control?

Today, Jay  sits down with best-selling author and motivational speaker Mel Robbins to discuss her revolutionary “Let Them Theory.” Mel introduces a powerful mindset tool designed to help listeners take control of their thoughts, actions, and emotions while letting go of what they cannot control. This conversation dives into the heart of personal growth, resilience, and building a life centered on peace and purpose.

Mel begins by explaining the core of the “Let Them Theory,” which is about recognizing the limits of control. She emphasizes the importance of letting others be who they are, accepting situations as they unfold, and redirecting focus to what’s within your power. Through vivid examples, Mel demonstrates how this approach can reduce stress, strengthen relationships, and reclaim wasted energy.

Jay and Mel also explore the emotional weight of unmet expectations and the difference between “Let It Go” and “Let Them.” Mel shares how this subtle shift in mindset fosters empowerment rather than passivity. They also discuss the complexities of adult friendships and how they evolve over time. Mel introduces the three pillars of adult friendship—proximity, timing, and energy—and explains how these factors influence the ebb and flow of connections.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Identify What You Can Control

How to Handle Stressful Situations at Work

How to Set Boundaries with Difficult People

How to Let Go of Unmet Expectations

How to Manage Toxic Relationships Effectively

How to Build Meaningful Adult Friendships

How to Reclaim Energy Wasted on Others

Remember, you don’t need to have it all figured out. Start small. Say "let them" to release what’s draining you and "let me" to reclaim your energy and choices.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

• 01:47 What is the “Let Them” Theory

• 04:40 The Significant Difference Between “Let Them” and “Let Me”

• 06:49 Stop Obsessing Over Things You Can’t Control

• 14:03 People Only Change if They Want to

• 21:59 How Do You Let Difficult People Be

• 26:31 Learn to Value Your Time and Energy

• 35:10 Two Things that Truly Define Love

• 42:12 Let People Gossip About It

• 46:34 Don’t Expect Too Much From Others

• 58:22 You Aren’t Unlovable, Let Them

• 01:01:12 Let Them Lie to You, It’s Their Truth

• 01:04:17 Why is Adult Friendship Difficult?

• 01:12:35 The Hardest Way to Practice the “Let Them” Theory

Episode Resources:

• Mel Robbins | Website

• Mel Robbins | Instagram

• Mel Robbins | YouTube

• Mel Robbins | TikTok

• The Mel Robbins Podcast

• The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

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What’s your biggest goal for 2025?

What steps have you planned?

Happy New Year! Today, kicks off 2025 with a powerful message: this is your year to thrive, and the key lies within you. Sharing his proven six-step method, Jay walks listeners through a transformative framework for achieving personal and professional goals. From crafting your goals as compelling stories to prioritizing growth over mere outcomes, he offers a fresh perspective on making progress that truly lasts.

Jay dives deep into practical strategies like identifying the one personal and one professional goal that can redefine your life, understanding the power of small yet prioritized changes, and recognizing the need for community, coaching, and consistency to overcome challenges. He emphasizes the importance of measuring progress daily, weekly, and monthly to stay on track and reminds us to frame the year by understanding whether it’s a time to learn, experiment, perform, struggle, or thrive.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Focus on Small Changes with Big Priorities

How to Build Skills for Achieving Big Goals

How to Decide the Type of Year You Want to Have

How to Use the 80/20 Rule for Maximum Impact

How to Transform Energy into Momentum for Personal Growth

You have the tools within you to make this your most transformative year yet. Embrace the challenges, celebrate the victories, and stay committed to your vision. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:28 Focus on Building an Abundance Mindset

04:04 Step #1: Identify Your Top Personal and Professional Goal

10:09 Step #2: What Do You Need to Grow to Achieve Your Goal

14:44 Step #3: Decide What Type of 2025 It’s Going to Be

19:44 Step #4: Small Changes, Big Priorities

22:14 Step #5: Measure What Matters Daily, Weekly, & Monthly

24:15 Step #6: Coaching, Consistency, Community

26:04 What Are You Excited For This Year?

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What bad habit do you want to break?

What’s a health tip you no longer trust?

Today, Jay welcomes back Dr. Rangan Chatterjee, a UK-based physician, bestselling author, and podcast host, to discuss his latest book, Make Change That Lasts. Known for his holistic approach to health and wellness, Dr. Chatterjee shares nine transformative strategies to foster sustainable change in daily life, offering a blueprint for physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

The conversation explores why many health and lifestyle changes fail to stick, diving into the importance of self-awareness and the power of mindset. Dr. Chatterjee recounts how Western medicine often focuses on treating symptoms rather than promoting vitality, advocating for a harmonious blend of Western science and Eastern wisdom. He emphasizes the role of lifestyle choices—nutrition, movement, sleep, and even mindset—in shaping our health.

Jay and Rangan tap into practical tools and methods for understanding and addressing emotional triggers behind habits. They stress the significance of environment and relationships in fostering or sabotaging personal growth. Dr. Chatterjee also challenges the notion of harsh self-discipline, advocating instead for compassion, curiosity, and self-trust as the cornerstones of lasting change. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build Habits That Stick

How to Create a Supportive Environment for Change

How to Reframe Negative Inner Narratives

How to Trust Yourself Instead of External Advice

How to Manage Stress with Mindset Shifts

How to Take Control of Your Health with Simple Choices

Change doesn’t have to feel like an uphill battle—it can be an act of self-love and empowerment. Trust yourself, listen to your inner wisdom, and approach each step of your journey with patience and grace.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro

• 01:50 Make Change That Truly Last

• 03:18 The Chronic Lifestyle-Driven Illness

• 05:58 Transformative Change Comes From Within

• 10:16 How Do You Break a Bad Habit?

• 16:17 Unbecome Who You’ve Become

• 27:08 What are Your Non-Negotiables?

• 37:31 The Root Cause of Wellness Failure

• 43:34 The Way You Do Things Matter

• 48:13 Do Fitness Trackers Work?

• 53:04 Why Do People Think the Way They Do?

• 01:03:48 You Can Change Yourself 

Episode Resources:

• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Website

• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Instagram

• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | YouTube

• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | TikTok

• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Facebook

• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | X

• Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

• Make Change That Lasts: 9 Simple Ways to Break Free from the Habits That Hold You Back

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What are you leaving behind in 2024?

How do you plan to make more space for growth in 2025?

Today, Jay  reflects on the art of letting go to make space for personal growth in 2025. He shares a transformative framework for self-improvement by identifying ten habits, beliefs, and mindsets to leave behind. Using the Buddha’s analogy of a raft, he emphasizes the importance of releasing old tools that no longer serve us to navigate life’s new challenges more freely.

Jay taps into impactful topics, from overcoming the fear of mistakes to releasing self-consciousness and rethinking the cultural glorification of busyness. He encourages listeners to embrace risk, foster self-compassion, and reframe their relationship with time and perfectionism. Thought-provoking anecdotes, like the role of light and dark in optimizing sleep and the illusion of justice as a universal principle, provide actionable insights for creating a balanced and intentional life.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Let Go of Fear and Embrace Mistakes

How to Balance Self-Criticism and Self-Compassion

How to Stop Waiting for the Perfect Time

How to Make Space for New Habits and Growth

How to Find Silence in a Noisy World

As we prepare to step into a new year, remember that growth doesn’t come from adding more to your plate – it comes from letting go of what no longer serves you. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:29 The Journey Told by the Buddha

04:57 #10: Avoid Making Mistakes 

08:09 #9: Leave Self-Consciousness Behind

10:58 #8: Belief that Busy is Good

14:05 #7: Turn Down the Noise

16:08 #6: Walk Away from Waiting for Justice

18:16 #5: Getting Serious About Light and Dark

20:27 #4: Leave Self Criticism Behind

21:53 #3: Waiting for the Perfect Time

23:40 #2: Mediocrity 

25:48 #1: Stop Fighting Fate

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What stresses you out the most?

Have you noticed stress hurting your health?

Today, Jay sits down with Dan Harris, journalist, meditation advocate, and the author of 10% Happier. If you’ve ever felt like stress and anxiety are running the show in your life, this episode is here to remind you that you’re not alone—and better yet, there’s a way forward.

Dan opens up about the growing levels of anxiety and stress we’re all feeling, thanks to modern life’s endless distractions like social media, political turmoil, and the ripple effects of the pandemic. He unpacks the difference between stress and anxiety and offers some eye-opening perspectives on why we often feel overwhelmed. But this isn’t just a heavy conversation about what’s wrong with the world—it’s packed with solutions. 

Jay and Dan dive into the magic of human connection, the science of mindfulness, and the art of not being so hard on yourself. Dan shares personal stories about grappling with anger, dealing with claustrophobia, and navigating his own inner critic. You’ll hear how meditation has been a game-changer for him, not in making life perfect, but in making it manageable—and even joyful.

They also get into the nitty-gritty of practical tips: How do you set boundaries with your phone? How do you learn to live with discomfort instead of running from it? And how can you reframe that negative self-talk that’s always lurking? Spoiler alert: It’s not about silencing your inner critic; it’s about befriending it.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Differentiate Stress from Anxiety

How to Build Meaningful Connections That Reduce Stress

How to Reframe Negative Self-Talk

How to Identify the Root Cause of Your Anger

How to Embrace Discomfort for Personal Growth

How to Recognize and Change Destructive Habits

You don’t need to have all the answers or fix everything overnight. It’s about showing up, being kind to yourself, and embracing the messy, imperfect journey of personal growth. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro

• 01:08 How Are You Handling Stress?

• 02:51 What is Stressing You Out?

• 07:24 How to Build Deep Relationships

• 11:32 How Develop a Healthy Relationship

• 19:43 The Possibility of Reprogramming Your Inner Dialogue

• 24:16 The Benefits of Meditation

• 26:51 What is “ME”?

• 31:14 How Do You Befriend Your Mind?

• 38:37 There’s a Reason Why You Keep Wanting More

• 40:39 Get More Familiar with Your Thoughts

• 43:39 What is Your Daily Meditation Practice?

• 47:10 The Modular Model of Mind

• 51:49 Healthy Anger Versus Destructive Anger

• 57:07 Are You Defensive or Dismissive?

• 01:00:12 The Power of Having a Sense of Humor

• 01:03:05 Observe Nature to Understand Yourself 

• 01:07:23 Dan on Final Five

Episode Resources:

• Dan Harris | Website

• Dan Harris | TikTok

• Dan Harris | LinkedIn

• Dan Harris | Instagram

• Ten Percent Happier | YouTube

• 10% Happier with Dan Harris

• 10% Happier (10th Anniversary): How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge, and Found Self-Help That Actually Works—A True Story

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Are you tired of dating?

What’s your biggest dating struggle?

Today, Jay talks about the complexities of dating, relationships, and building meaningful connections in today’s fast-paced world. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on trust, emotional maturity, communication, and shared values – traits that truly matter in a partner – while learning to move past surface-level “icks” that can distract us from finding real love.

Through personal anecdotes and insights from Match’s Singles in America study, Jay explores why many of us are chasing outdated ideas of love, trying to recreate the romanticized relationships of our younger selves. Instead, shift your focus to the present, to nurture healthy dynamics built on honesty, respect, and mutual growth.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Build Trust in Relationships

How to Spot the Right Partner Through Their Actions

How to Ask Questions That Reveal True Priorities

How to Balance Patience and Expectations in Relationships

How to Handle Communication Differences Effectively

No matter where you are on your journey –single, dating, or in a long-term relationship – remember that love is a process, not a destination.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:01 Why Dating Has Become Extremely Challenging

06:24 The Core Values Feature

10:28 Questions to Ask on the First Date

12:58 Top Two Turn On with a New Partner

13:55 Are You Being Patient with the Right Person?

17:30 Does Your Partner’s Opinion Bother You?

19:14 Allow Other Forms of Relationships to Grow

21:54 Do You Communicate Properly with Your Partner?

24:01 Most Relationships Has a Healing Problem

25:16 Are You in the Wrong Relationship?

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How do you stay disciplined when life gets busy?

What’s a routine that keeps you on track?

Today, Jay welcomes Alexis Ohanian, tech founder, venture capitalist, and advocate for social change. Known as the co-founder of Reddit and founder of venture firm 776, Alexis shares the profound lessons he's learned from building communities, parenting, and navigating personal and professional challenges.

Alexis shares insights into the evolution of online identities and the surprising dedication of individuals who moderate and foster online spaces; his role as a father, offering a candid glimpse into the delicate balance between introducing his children to the digital world and preserving their innocence. 

The conversation also tackles larger societal issues, such as the importance of role models for young men and the transformative potential of positive male friendships. Alexis doesn’t shy away from discussing the darker sides of technology, including the need for ethical boundaries and his personal experiences advocating for change within Reddit.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Foster a Sense of Community Online

How to Introduce Kids to the Internet Safely

How to Navigate Cultural Differences in Relationships

How to Encourage Grit and Perseverance in Children

How to Lead a Team with Empathy and Vision

How to Prioritize Family While Building a Career

In today’s fast-paced and ever-evolving world, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Yet, the foundation of a fulfilling life lies in embracing challenges, building strong relationships, and staying true to our values.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:40 The Human Mind’s Deep Need for Community

02:59 The Challenges of Moderating Online Communities

05:26 Raising Kids to Navigate the Internet Safely

10:13 Why AI Can’t Replace Human Empathy

17:28 The Power of Optimism in Uncertain Times

21:42 Drawing Ethical Lines in Content Moderation

29:52 Saying No to Risky and Irresponsible Startups

33:05 The Key Milestones Behind Reddit’s Success

35:05 A Family’s Journey of Resilience and Survival

41:46 Coping with Family Tragedy While Moving Forward

52:27 The Joy of Seeing Hard Work Pay Off

01:00:15 Lessons Learned Through Loss and Reflection

01:12:45 Building Greatness with a Strong Partnership

01:19:19 Choosing the Right Partner for Life and Growth

01:27:23 Teaching Kids to Embrace Failure and Grow

01:35:27 Alexis on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Alexis Ohanian | Facebook

Alexis Ohanian | TikTok

Alexis Ohanian | LinkedIn

Alexis Ohanian | Instagram

Alexis Ohanian | YouTube

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How do you unwind after a long day?

What’s your favorite way to relax quickly?

Today, Jay sits down with David Ko, the CEO of Calm and author of the groundbreaking book Recharge. Together, they unravel the complexities of stress, mental health, and how to create a fulfilling life in today’s fast-paced world.

David shares his personal journey, from navigating childhood stress to becoming a leader who champions mental wellness. He introduces the “battery analogy,” a simple yet profound way to gauge our mental and emotional energy levels. Drawing from his book, David explains how understanding and managing our “battery” can transform our approach to stress, productivity, and personal growth.

Jay and David discuss the power of presence, the necessity of balance, and how redefining stress—from harmful to helpful—can lead to resilience and growth. Their conversation dives deep into actionable strategies, such as creating rituals to recharge, fostering vulnerability at work, and redefining leadership to prioritize mental health. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Recognize When You Need to Recharge

How to Foster Vulnerability in Leadership

How to Balance Good Stress and Bad Stress

How to Build a Culture of Gratitude in the Workplace

How to Take Breaks for Better Productivity

How to Identify and Remove Stress-Inducing Triggers

Recharge your mind, body, and spirit—not just to keep going, but to thrive with purpose and joy. Prioritize yourself, because when you’re recharged, you’re unstoppable.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:10 What’s Something You’re not Calm About?

03:31 How's Your Battery?

05:42 The Four Battery Zones

10:59 The Importance of Recharging

14:24 Vulnerability in Leadership

18:37 Good Stress vs Bad Stress

25:25 Mental Health in the Workplace

28:56 Listen and Become More Purposeful

28:57 How to Take Care of Your Team

30:44 Supporting Employees’ Mental Health

38:10 Tools for Managing Burnout

44:19 How Do You Deal with Stress?

52:02 Put Your Focus on Healthy Stress 

53:27 Daily Practices for Recharging

01:01:42 What is a Quality Decision?

01:07:08 David on Final Five

01:14:90 Is Your Battery Full?

Episode Resources:

David Ko | Instagram

David Ko | LinkedIn

Calm | Website

Calm | Instagram

Calm | Facebook

Calm | X

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What in your day makes you happiest?

Where do you see yourself in five years?

Today, Jay sits down with the iconic rapper, multi-platinum artist, and entrepreneur Wiz Khalifa. The episode explores Wiz’s journey from navigating the challenges of his youth in Pittsburgh to becoming one of the most recognizable names in the music industry. Throughout their conversation, Wiz shares profound insights into his personal growth, family values, and the discipline behind his success.

Wiz reflects on his early days, including the loss of a record deal and the resilience it took to rebuild his career. He discusses his evolution as an artist and individual, emphasizing the importance of gratitude, patience, and staying true to oneself. The conversation also dives into the balance between his professional life and personal responsibilities, particularly as a father. Wiz talks about raising his 11-year-old son, Sebastian, and his new daughter, Cadence, shedding light on how fatherhood has deepened his perspective on life and masculinity.

Jay and Wiz also explore deeper topics like handling grief, cultivating self-discipline, and the nuanced concept of masculinity in today’s world. Wiz’s candid anecdotes, whether about quitting alcohol, building financial literacy, or practicing MMA for mental clarity, inspire listeners to live authentically, embrace personal growth, and focus on what truly matters.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Rebuild Confidence After a Setback

How to Balance Personal Life and Career Successfully

How to Find Gratitude in Everyday Moments

How to Stay Calm Under Pressure

How to Teach Discipline and Politeness to Kids

How to Manage Money as a Creative Professional

How to Stay Authentic in the Spotlight

Every setback is an opportunity to rebuild stronger, and every triumph is a chance to inspire others. Prioritize what matters, whether it’s your personal growth, the relationships you cherish, or the values you stand for. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:15 Navigating Fame As A Star

09:18 The Craziest Fan Interactions 

10:07 Family Matters The Most

11:49 Dealing With Grief

13:04 Seeking Family Support 

13:54 Finding Balance In Grief

14:50 Life Before Fame And Success

16:47 What's It Like To Lose A Record Deal?

17:15 Confidence In The Face Adversity 

18:37 Advice To Younger Self

19:22  Driven Goals And Compulsion

20:50 Being Contented With What You Have 

21:30 What's The Hardest Conversation You Have Ever Had?

24:40 Building Connections With Your Audience 

25:50 Ever Caught Anything Crazy On Camera?

26:45 Then VS Now Journey With Other Stars

29:13 Advice For Up And Coming Artists

32:11 How Far Do You Plan Your Goals?

32:49 Best Moves In Money Management 

35:58 Dumbest Thing I Have Ever Bought

36:35 Best Investment I Have Ever Made

38:20 Relationship With God

40:30 Moving Around In My Childhood 

41:58 How My Childhood Experiences Has Impacted Me

44:48 How My Views On Fatherhood Has Changed

50:17 How I Take Control Of My Career As An Artist

54:17 What I Learnt From My Mom

55:31 Something People Should Know About Me

1:00 How Working Out Helped Me

1:02 My Advice For Men Who Want To Get Into Health And Fitness

1:03 My Perspective On Masculinity 

1:08 My Take On MMA And Martial Arts

1:12:09 How I View My New Album And Most Viewed Video

1:16:22 My Motivation To Go Sober From Alcohol 

1:18:01 First Thing I Do Before I Go To Bed

1:18:32 Wiz on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Wiz Khalifa | Website

Wiz Khalifa | Instagram

Wiz Khalifa | TikTok

Wiz Khalifa | YouTube

Wiz Khalifa | Facebook

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What does a "rich life" mean to you?

Do you focus more on what you have or what you lack?

Today, Jay will redefine what it truly means to live a "rich life." While society often equates wealth with material possessions and financial success, Jay challenges this narrow definition and explores how richness can also encompass time, energy, relationships, and inner fulfillment.

Drawing on personal experiences, historical insights, and anecdotes from his conversations with inspiring figures like Kobe Bryant and Tom Hanks, Jay illustrates how people can find peace and purpose by focusing on what genuinely matters. He also addresses the pitfalls of tying happiness solely to financial success, emphasizing that it’s not money itself but our mindset—whether driven by envy, ego, or gratitude—that shapes our sense of abundance.

Jay further unpacks our personal definitions of wealth. Are we in a season of prioritizing career growth, family, love, or personal development? He explores how life’s richness comes from aligning with our true values and fully embracing the priorities that resonate most in each phase of life, without guilt or external judgment.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Define Your Rich Life

How to Shift to an Abundance Mindset

How to Find Purpose Beyond Money

How to Focus Your Energy for Growth

How to Live Authentically and Fully

Richness isn’t about how much you have but how deeply you experience life. Prioritize what matters, invest your energy where it counts, and trust that each step you take toward alignment with your values brings you closer to a truly abundant existence. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:39 How Do You Define Wealth?

06:59 What You Do Becomes Your Identity

10:26 How to Create a Rich, Abundant Mindset?

11:46 The Difference Between Resume and Eulogy Virtues

17:01 How Do You Spend Your Time and Energy?

19:46 Looking at Richness Beyond Money

22:47 The Five Regrets of the Dying

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What’s the first step to making money with no savings?

How do you choose which opportunities to start with?

Today, Jay sits down with Codie Sanchez, author of “Main Street Millionaire”. Codie is a powerhouse entrepreneur, investor, and the mind behind Contrarian Thinking, a platform dedicated to empowering people to build real wealth through unconventional investments and small business ownership. Codie’s journey is anything but typical: she went from a middle-class background to finance jobs at Goldman Sachs and Vanguard, then pivoted into journalism, and finally found her calling by building wealth through owning small businesses.

Codie breaks down the idea that you don’t need groundbreaking ideas or tons of cash to get started, just a willingness to look beyond the obvious. From laundromats to vending machines, she explains how these “boring” businesses can actually be gold mines, offering steady and substantial returns that often get overlooked in today’s flashy, social media-driven vision of success.

Together, Jay and Codie dive into practical steps for starting your journey in business ownership. They discuss the essentials, how to make deals, manage risk, and recognize the right opportunities. Along the way, they debunk the myth that you need to be rich or have a finance degree to succeed. Instead, they focus on the importance of learning the language of money, cultivating grit, and keeping a curious mindset.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Take Control of Your Financial Future

How to Start Building Wealth Without a Big Idea

How to Identify Profitable Small Businesses

How to Build a Strong Relationship with Money

How to Turn Curiosity into Cash

How to Leverage Ownership for Financial Freedom

How to Find Under-the-Radar Investment Opportunities

You have the ability to create meaningful change, not only for yourself but for those around you, by building something that truly matters. Keep moving forward, and believe that financial freedom is within your reach.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:57 What Makes Rich People Rich?

04:40 The Reason Why People Don’t Talk About Money

06:30 Where Are We At Financially?

09:50 Misconceptions About What Makes Money

13:00 4-Step Process to Consistently Make Money

14:47 Academic Skills Don’t Translate to a Stable Career

17:44 Do You Need Money to Make Money?

23:06 The Key to Wealth is Taking Risks

26:48 We Can All Get Rich Together

32:52 Focus on the Foundation, not Tactics

35:28 You’ll Make Less Money if You Think You Will

36:57 Learn To Ask the Right Questions

43:57 The Best Mentorship Advice

49:06 You Can Make Money From Anything

52:33 The Richest People Started Small

54:19 What Core Business Skills You Should Invest In

01:00:16 Recognize Your Value to Get Better Deals

01:10:21 Every Business has a Value

01:13:49 Are You Bad at Math

01:17:47 Codie on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Codie Sanchez | Website

Codie Sanchez | YouTube

Codie Sanchez | Instagram

Codie Sanchez | Facebook

Codie Sanchez | TikTok

Codie Sanchez | LinkedIn

Main Street Millionaire: How to Make Extraordinary Wealth Buying Ordinary Businesses

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What makes you feel confident about yourself?

How do you build your confidence when it’s low?

Today, Jay discusses a topic that's all too familiar - the constant barrage of unrealistic beauty standards. He challenges the notion of a singular "most beautiful woman in the world" and explores how societal expectations and media influence our perception of beauty.

Jay breaks down the historical and cultural factors that shape beauty standards, from the ancient Greek ideals of symmetry and proportion to the modern-day obsession with youth and perfection. He highlights the role of social media in perpetuating unrealistic beauty ideals and encourages listeners to question these norms and embrace their individuality.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Embrace Individuality

How to Build Self-Love

How to Set Boundaries

How to Appreciate Uniqueness

How to Practice Mindfulness

By understanding the forces that shape our perception of beauty and cultivating self-love, we can live authentic, fulfilling lives. Remember, true beauty radiates from within.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:21 Different Ways We Think About Beauty

07:32 Definition of Beauty Through History

13:49 Beauty Standards of the West

16:11 What Do We Believe to be Beautiful About Ourselves?

17:05 3 Ways to Build Self Love

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What triggers envy for you?

How do you turn envy into action?

Today, in this eye-opening episode, Jay Jay sits down with the legendary Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, a psychologist, educator, and bestselling author. This conversation has been in the making for years, and it’s packed with deep insights on human development, identity, and how ancient wisdom ties into today’s challenges.

One of the standout moments is when Jordan talks about his upcoming book, We Who Wrestle With God. He takes listeners through the timeless stories of the Old Testament, explaining how they provide profound lessons on values, integrity, and personal growth. He also talks about the importance of always telling the truth and viewing life as an exploration of what’s possible. 

Jay and Jordan discuss how easy it is for people to get trapped in “false adventures”—chasing immediate gratification or quick fixes that ultimately don’t fulfill. Jordan reminds us that real growth involves shedding old parts of ourselves to move forward and align with bigger, long-term goals.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build a Life of Integrity

How to Turn Failure into Learning Opportunities

How to Stay True to Long-Term Goals

How to Practice Gratitude Daily

How to Recognize and Avoid Short-Sighted Decisions

How to Align Your Actions with Your Purpose

How to Balance Ambition and Ethical Living

This conversation highlights the power of facing challenges, learning from experiences, and staying aligned with long-term goals.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

1:24 How Technology Exacerbates Manipulation

08:13 Escaping A Limited Reality

09:41 Addressing Problems At The Root

13:55 The Effectiveness of Psychotherapy on Psychopaths

18:17 The Mindset of Predatory Psychopaths

21:03 Tips for Women to Protect Themselves from Manipulative People

24:16 PTSD And Its Impact 

27:17 How Stories Shape Our Identity

37:06 Why Self-Consciousness Leads to Misery

40:03 The Difference Between Seeing and Thinking

47:54 The Importance of Long-Term Vision

52:56 The Dangers of Envy

55:28 Strategies to Overcome Envy

59:57 The Role of Pride and Arrogance in Personal Growth

01:05:14 The Art of Understanding Through Listening

01:09:04 Avoiding the Weaponization of Truth

01:10:45 How Short-Term Gratification Derails Progress

01:13:11 Setting Standards With Encouragement 

01:16:31 Sources Of Hope Today

01:26:02 Jordan On Final 5

Episode Resources:

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Website

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | YouTube

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Instagram

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Facebook

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | TikTok

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What drains your energy the most?

How do you deal with toxic behaviors?

Today, Jay tackles a topic we can all relate to – dealing with those challenging family members and coworkers who add a little extra stress to our lives, especially as the holiday season rolls around. If you’re already bracing yourself for gatherings with people who seem to bring more tension than joy, Jay’s got you covered. He dives into why certain people fall into negative or toxic patterns, breaking down types like the pessimist, the complainer, the eternal victim, the energy drainer, and the “just good enough” person. Jay’s perspective sheds light on how these behaviors aren’t really who they are at their core but are often habits born from past hurts or unmet needs.

Jay doesn’t just stop at explaining, though – he shares some really practical, relatable tips on how to navigate these tough dynamics without letting them throw you off balance. He talks about ways to respond with empathy, set emotional boundaries, and even gently redirect conversations when they start to drag you down. 

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Handle Toxic Family Members at Gatherings

How to Protect Your Peace Around Negative People

How to Set Boundaries with Draining Coworkers

How to Turn Negative Conversations Around

How to Recognize Negative Patterns in Loved Ones

How to Stop Taking Toxic Comments Personally

You can’t always change someone else’s behavior, but you can protect your own joy and keep a positive outlook. So, as you head into those family gatherings or work meetings, just remember to stay grounded and prioritize your well-being – you deserve it!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:24 How Do You Deal with Toxic People?

03:26 What Makes a Person Negative or Toxic?

04:34 Type 1: The Pessimist

06:06 Type 2: The Complainer

08:05 Type 3: The Eternal Victim

10:19 Type 4: The “Just Good Enough”

13:19 Some Toxic Behavior is Meant to Protect You

15:13 Tips and Strategies to Deal with Toxicity

17:12 Tip 1: Try to Understand Their Story

19:01 Tip 2: The Negativity Begins with Themselves

22:47 Tip 3: Respond with a Reflective Remark

24:05 Tip 4: Create Distance and Boundaries

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Have you ever felt stuck in a negative relationship cycle?

Have you ever struggled with setting boundaries in your relationships?

Today, Jay welcomes back a community favorite, the renowned psychotherapist, bestselling author, and podcast host Lori Gottlieb, for an insightful chat about love, relationships, and emotional growth. Lori, best known for her book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and as co-host of the popular Dear Therapists podcast, brings her deep wisdom and practical advice that really hits home with listeners.

Lori shares how people often step into love with unrealistic expectations, thanks to social media and pop culture. She reminds us that while the spark of initial chemistry is thrilling, true, long-lasting love thrives on a deeper connection and genuine understanding. One of the highlights is Lori’s take on “idiot compassion” versus “wise compassion.” She breaks down how real compassion means looking at ourselves honestly, recognizing our patterns, and owning our part in the relationship. This is essential for anyone feeling trapped in negative cycles.

As the conversation unfolds, Jay and Lori dive into family dynamics, especially around in-laws and blending families. Lori offers practical tips on how to support your relationship while still showing respect for parents, pointing out that these challenges are usually a couple's issues, not just external ones.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Let Go of Unrealistic Expectations

How to Practice Wise Compassion

How to Break Negative Patterns

How to Handle Pressure to Rush Relationships

How to Prioritize Clear Communication

How to Avoid Pop Culture Relationship Pitfalls

How to Cultivate Emotional Resilience

Remember, true connection flourishes when we commit to growth, communicate openly, and remain empathetic to both ourselves and others. Every step taken toward understanding and compassion brings you closer to creating a life filled with genuine, lasting connections.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:29 What is Everyone Doing at My Age?

05:08 Why Doing Self Work Matters

08:40 Why You Need to Slow Down to Save Time

13:03 How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Relationship

17:03 First Date Impressions Aren’t Always Accurate

21:26 How Do You Define Real Human Connection?

24:33 Do You Fully Understand Your Partner?

28:24 Learn to Communicate Your Desires

31:26 This is What Happens When You Don’t Communicate

35:24 Why We’re Unreliable Narrators of Our Story

37:52 Be Consistent with Your Boundaries

42:36 We All Want to Be Liked

45:46 You’re Not Ready to Marry Yet

49:51 Practice Being Your True Self All the Time

52:36 The Blind Spots of Dating

57:08 The Truth About Future Tripping

01:00:10 How Do You Feel About the Other Person?

01:01:33 The 7-Year Mark of Marriages

01:03:50 Can Having Children Save a Marriage?

01:07:35 In-Law Issues is a Couple Issue

01:12:01 The Concept of Feeling Felt

01:16:50 How Long Can You Tolerate Disrespect from Your Partner? 

Episode Resources:

Lori Gottlieb | YouTube

Lori Gottlieb | Instagram

Lori Gottlieb | Website

Dear Therapists Podcast

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

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Do you ever try focusing on just one thing at a time?

What’s one way you avoid distractions?

Today, Jay’s diving into a struggle we all know too well: distraction. If you’ve ever found yourself scrolling on your phone without even thinking about it, you’re definitely not alone. Jay breaks down why it’s so hard to stay focused in a world full of constant notifications and packed schedules. But this episode isn’t about making us feel guilty—instead, it’s about giving us simple, doable strategies to actually make focus easier.

Jay’s packed this episode with practical tips, like creating “no-phone zones” at home and setting tech-free times during the day to really be present. One of the standout strategies he shares is the Pomodoro Technique—working in short, focused bursts with breaks in between to keep your brain sharp and productive. Jay’s main message? Real productivity isn’t about doing more, faster—it’s about doing things better. He even shares some unique Ayurvedic advice, like chewing each bite 32 times (yes, really!) to emphasize how slowing down can improve our lives.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Slow Down for Better Productivity

How to Stay Present in Conversations

How to Find Calm by Unplugging

How to Build Stronger Focus Habits

How to Reclaim Your Attention

By setting intentional boundaries, slowing down, and practicing mindfulness, we can take back our attention in a way that enhances productivity, deepens our relationships, and brings peace to our daily lives. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:46 Have You Been Feeling More Distracted?

04:03 What Research Says About the Decline in Focus

06:12 Majority of Us Can’t Multitask

09:00 Doing Things Slower Makes Better Progress

11:43 #1: The Pomodoro Technique

13:38 #2: No Tech Zones, No Tech Times

15:56 #3: Go For a Walk, Stay Off Your Phone

20:34 #4: Finish What You Start

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How do you handle negative self-talk?

What helps you overcome self-doubt?

Today, Jay sits down with Grammy Award-winning artist Alicia Keys as she shares her journey of self-discovery, resilience, and holistic living. Alicia founded Keys SoulCare, a skincare line emphasizing holistic well-being, and is a co-founder of the initiative She Is the Music, advocating for gender equality in the music industry. The conversation sheds light into Alicia's evolution from a young girl with dreams to an icon balancing a multifaceted career. Jay and Alicia discuss the highs and lows of fame, navigating self-doubt, and the pressures of public life, providing listeners with valuable insights on managing stress and fostering a positive self-image.

Alicia reflects on her childhood fears and the challenges of finding self-worth, candidly revealing how these experiences shaped her. She emphasizes the importance of staying grounded through practices like affirmations, journaling, and mindful rituals—habits that help her stay true to herself amid a whirlwind career. 

Jay and Alicia then talk about the beauty of affirmations and the importance of letting go of perfectionism, a journey that led Alicia to adopt a more holistic approach to life. In her partnership with husband Swizz Beatz, she finds a harmonious balance of "flow" and "design," where they support each other's growth and freedom. This dynamic extends to their parenting style, where they teach their children gratitude and self-acceptance while instilling a sense of humility and grace.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Embrace Your True Self

How to Overcome Self-Doubt and Fear

How to Find Confidence Within Yourself

How to Turn Negative Thoughts into Positivity

How to Discover Your Inner Strength

How to Set Boundaries for Self-Care

How to Be Kind to Yourself

How to Trust Your Own Choices

The journey through self-doubt, fears, and external pressures highlights the importance of staying grounded, trusting intuition, and letting go of the need to seek others' approval. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:54 What Would You Say to Your Younger Self?

05:34 When You Have the Need to Protect Yourself

09:02 From Being Doubtful to Becoming Curious

13:43 What Is Your Affirmation Today?

15:30 Stop Being Mean to Yourself

19:06 Finding the Will to Love Your Own Skin

26:49 Spend More Time with Yourself

32:14 The Gifts and the Gaps

36:19 What Have You Learned From Your Partner?

38:06 Having Healthy Conflict in Your Relationship

45:53 Finding Balance Between Control and Flow

47:51 The Love for Crystals

51:32 Losing the Ability to Trust Yourself

57:15 What Are Your Go-To Rituals to Feel Better?

01:00:08 Teach Your Children to Practice Gratitude

01:03:45 Allow Other People to Speak and Just Listen

01:05:22 Creating Safe Space for Children

01:09:35 Hell’s Kitchen on Broadway

01:15:19 Be Clear with Your Vision

01:22:12 How Have You Protected Yourself from Fame and Success?

01:26:32 Alicia in Final Five

Episode Resources:

Alicia Keys | Website

Alicia Keys | YouTube

Alicia Keys | Instagram

Alicia Keys | Facebook

Alicia Keys | TikTok

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Are you open to just being friends with an ex?

Do you think they want the same kind of friendship?

Today, Jay’s diving into a question we've all probably wrestled with at some point: can you really stay friends with an ex? He kicks things off by laying down some ground rules, pointing out that not every ex is friendship material, especially if there was any toxicity or harm in the relationship. For those open to trying a platonic bond post-breakup, he highlights the real-life complexities and the level of emotional maturity it takes to make it work.

Jay also brings in some interesting science, sharing that studies show people stay connected with their exes for reasons like security, convenience, keeping things civil, or even unresolved feelings. But each of these reasons can get messy, and Jay explains that often, the urge to stay friends might have more to do with wanting a sense of safety or familiarity than with genuine friendship.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Decide if an Ex Deserves Friendship

How to Set Boundaries with an Ex

How to Manage Shared Friends Post-Breakup

How to Avoid Using Friendship to Win Them Back

How to Avoid Hurting Your Ex Twice

Sometimes, the boldest and most courageous thing you can do is to walk away, taking the lessons with you and leaving the rest behind. Focus on what makes you feel good and helps you build the life you truly want. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:52 Not Every Ex Deserves Friendship

04:36 Four Core Reasons People Stay Friends with Their Exes

09:30 Four Ways to Know Being Friends with an Ex Won’t Work

13:52 How to Start Being Friends with an Ex?

18:33 Friends and Family Can be Casualties of a Breakup

21:41 Establish New Rules of Engagement

22:50 Consider the Welfare of Children

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How do you usually handle stress?

Have you tried hypnosis for stress?

Today, Jay with Dr. David Spiegel, a leading expert in psychiatry and behavioral sciences, to explore the transformative power of hypnotherapy. Dr. Spiegel, with over 45 years of experience in clinical and research fields, shares profound insights into the science behind hypnosis, dispelling myths and misconceptions. He explains how hypnosis is a natural, self-directed process that allows individuals to tap into heightened focus, manage pain, reduce stress, and address deep-seated traumas.

The conversation begins with Dr. Spiegel explaining the foundations of hypnosis, highlighting its ability to narrow one’s focus, similar to a telephoto lens, and create a dissociative state where one can temporarily suspend self-limiting beliefs. This unique focus enables users to challenge habitual thoughts and reframe experiences. Dr. Spiegel shares real-life success stories, such as a war veteran who found peace with traumatic memories and individuals overcoming chronic pain and stress using hypnosis.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Sleep Better Using Hypnosis

How to Improve Focus by Narrowing Attention

How to Process Trauma Safely with Hypnosis

How to Use Visualization to Relieve Stress

How to Focus Your Attention Deeply

How to Filter Out Pain with Hypnosis

By learning how to access a focused, relaxed state, you can reshape your response to pain, manage stress more effectively, and explore emotions or memories that might otherwise feel overwhelming. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:17 What is Hypnosis

05:08 How Beneficial Hypnosis is For You?

09:14 What Happens to Your Brain During Hypnosis

14:40 Can You Control Other People with Hypnosis?

16:13 Is It Possible to Hypnotize Anyone?

26:14 You’re Still in Control of Your Body

31:28 How Can Hypnotherapy After Memory Recall?

38:29 Guided Hypnotherapy at Home is Possible

40:59 Let Your Brain Heal Your Body 

43:34 The Worst Mental Case Under Hypnosis

50:26 We Lose the Hypnotic Ability as We Age

55:39 How Hypnosis Can Help You Focus More

57:38 David on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Reveri | YouTube

Reveri | Instagram

Reveri | Facebook

Reveri | LinkedIn

Reveri | Website

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Have you ever felt like success affected your dating life?

Have you ever felt judged for your level of ambition?

Today, Jay addresses the insecurities some men may feel when partnered with highly driven women, shedding light on societal conditioning and personal growth. discusses how societal expectations traditionally placed men in provider roles, which can lead to an unease when faced with a partner who exemplifies drive and independence.

Jay also delves into recent studies, such as the "Clooney Effect," showing that most men actually value intelligence and confidence in their partners. By examining these narratives, Jay dispels myths that successful women are inherently intimidating to men. Instead, he encourages ambitious women not to diminish their goals but to seek partners who celebrate and complement their journey.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to embrace your ambition without guilt

How to address insecurities in your relationship

How to balance mutual respect and personal ambition

How to seek partners who uplift, not compete

How to identify and avoid unhealthy relationship roles

True partnership means valuing each other's journey, working through insecurities together, and building a foundation where both people can grow freely and authentically.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:49 Are Men Less Attracted to Successful Women?

05:15 Men Have Had to Play the Protective Role

06:48 The Negative Dating Mindset You Should Stop Having

13:04 Have an Understanding of What Both are Pursuing

14:29 Are You Making Your Partner Feel Insecure?

18:29 What Makes You a Healthy Partner?

21:04 Respect Each Other’s Ambitions

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What does a balanced life look like for you?

Are you getting enough time to recharge?

Today, Jay engages in a deeply reflective conversation with legendary actor, filmmaker, and writer Tom Hanks. With a career spanning over four decades, Hanks is renowned for his roles in iconic films like Forrest Gump, Saving Private Ryan, Cast Away, and The Green Mile, earning him two Academy Awards.

Tom opens up about his unconventional childhood, moving frequently and adjusting to new environments, which shaped his adaptability and taught him the art of letting go. As he reflects on his career, he discusses how he continues to find purpose and depth in his work, emphasizing the joy of collaboration and the importance of staying curious.

Together, Jay and Tom discuss how certain locations hold emotional weight, becoming symbols of comfort or life-changing reflection. They also touch on generational wisdom, the role of luck, and finding joy in small, shared experiences. With his characteristic humor and humility, Tom offers listeners a glimpse into his contemplative nature and the lessons he's learned over the years, reminding us all of the power of presence and community.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Find Comfort in Solitude

How to Embrace Life's Unexpected Changes

How to Connect Across Generations

How to Trust Your Instincts and Take Risks

How to Stay Curious at Any Age

How to Discover Purpose in Your Work

How to Show Up Fully in Relationships

How to Find Wisdom in Life’s Challenges

How to Pursue Meaning over Perfection

Life isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about embracing the unknown with openness, honoring the journey, and finding meaning in each moment, each experience, and each relationship. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:17 Early Life Lessons: Childhood, Change, and Resilience

05:37 Mastering the Art of Detachment

10:15 Discovering Theater and Passion in High School

18:56 Can We Create Our Own Luck? 

21:35 Exploring the Sacred Sites of Jerusalem

27:03 Owning Your Mistakes and When to Take Personal Responsibility

30:52 The Third Space: Finding Balance Beyond Work and Home

37:03 Fathers and the Lasting Impact on Their Sons

38:42 Nurturing Kids’ Interests for Genuine Growth

42:59 The Value of Academic Ambition

45:21 Capturing the Present: Finding Magic in Every Moment

52:46 Reflections on Seeing Your Younger Self in the Movie 

55:03 Finding Presence in Everyday Life

58:04 The Freedom of Following Your True Desires

01:04:25 Imagining the Dream Life: Building a Path to Fulfillment

01:07:29 Themes of Time and Place in the Film Here

01:09:01 The Fascination with Reaching the Moon

01:11:04 Unraveling a Deep Fascination with WWII

01:18:01 Becoming America’s Most Trusted Voice

01:21:07 Grateful for the Blessings of Family

01:22:04 Observing Life’s Passing Moments

01:27:42 Honored with Greek Citizenship

01:31:31 Tom on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Tom Hanks | Instagram

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Have you ever regretted not saying something sooner?

Do you think holding in your emotions causes stress?

Today, Jay takes us on a journey through the principles of the Tell Them Method, explaining that whether it's a simple decision like not wanting to attend an event or a deeper emotion like feeling unappreciated, the key is to directly communicate those feelings to the person involved. He highlights that most of us practice what he calls the "Tell Everyone But Them" method—where we vent to others but avoid speaking directly to the person who needs to hear it. This behavior, Jay argues, not only erodes trust and intimacy in relationships but also traps negative emotions within us, leading to stress and even physical discomfort.

Jay uses relatable anecdotes and insights from research to underline the significance of expressing emotions in a healthy way. He discusses how bottled-up emotions can lead to passive-aggressive behavior, overreactions, and even health problems. By directly telling people how we feel—whether it’s disappointment, love, or frustration—Jay believes we open the door to deeper understanding and connection.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Use the Tell Them Method

How to Stop Avoiding Hard Conversations

How to Pick the Best Time to Talk

How to Share Feelings Without Fighting

How to Ask Instead of Accuse

Practicing the "Tell Them Method" approach in everyday life not only improves our relationships but also enhances our emotional well-being, giving us the clarity and peace that comes from being truthful and intentional in our interactions.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:33 What is the Tell Them Method?

06:11 Why it’s Hard to Tell Someone How You Feel

09:29 Underestimate the Value of How Something is Said

16:06 The Three Things That Happen When Emotion is Experienced

18:26 How Trapped Emotions Can Create Trauma

22:52 Figure Out the Best Time to Talk About It

25:57 Don’t Wait for the Last Minute to Tell Them

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Have you ever tried different ways to get rid of belly fat?

Have you ever tried different ways to suppress your appetite?

Today, Jay welcomes women’s health expert, bestselling author, and podcast host Dr. Mindy Pelz to discuss how women can optimize their health, particularly through fasting, hormones, and metabolic health. Dr. Pelz explains the biological differences between men and women and emphasizes the importance of understanding the female body's rhythms and cycles for maintaining health and hormonal balance.

Dr. Pelz begins by discussing common fasting mistakes, highlighting how doing the same fast daily can slow down metabolism. She introduces the concept of "feast-famine cycling," stressing the need for variety in fasting durations and windows, particularly for women. According to her, fasting must be adapted to the individual’s lifestyle and, for women, their menstrual cycle. She also addresses Jay’s personal approach to fasting and offers tailored advice for him, including when to eat before and after workouts.

The conversation then turns to the topic of belly fat and how stress and toxins contribute to weight gain, particularly around the belly area. Dr. Pelz explains that excess cortisol, which is heightened by stress, leads to belly fat, and she provides practical tips to manage cortisol levels, including movement, time in nature, and spending time with positive people.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Start Fasting Gradually

How to Manage Stress with Movement

How to Reduce Belly Fat Naturally

How to Customize Your Eating Schedule

How to Stabilize Blood Sugar with Timing

How to Stay Full Longer with Healthy Fats

How to Lose Weight with Fasting Cycles

How to Align Fasting with Your Menstrual Cycle

The message is clear: everyone has the ability to transform their well-being by taking small, intentional steps toward a healthier lifestyle. With the right mindset and commitment, a vibrant and balanced life is within reach for all. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:59 The Worst Mistake One Can Make While Fasting

04:38 How Do You Fast Properly?

06:22 What’s Your Intention for Your Health?

09:37 What’s the Fastest Way to Lose Belly Fat?

13:42 Common Toxins That Accumulate in the Body

18:00 The Chemicals that Turn Stems Cells to Fat Cells

19:43 Does Counting Calories Matter?  

25:45 How to Have a Better Relationship with Food

29:16 How to Detox from Sugar Cravings

32:47 How Much Protein Should You Eat?

38:19 What is Toxic Fat?

39:50 When is the Best Time to Eat Fat?

43:38 Are You Getting Enough Nutrients for Your Hormones?

46:14 What is the Fasting Cycle?

49:08 The Female’s Hormonal System is Highly Complex

52:52 Should You Reconsider Hormone Replacement Therapy?

55:22 Positive LIfestyle Changes That Could Help You

58:40 Is There Anyone Who SHouldn’t Fast?

59:58 What is a Clean Protein?

01:03:25 How to Empower Your Body

01:04:40 How to Know Your Got Your Meal Right

01:09:09 How Do You Train Yourself to Fast?

01:12:44 Is the Female Body Meant to Have More Fat?

01:17:37 How Do You Manage Fasting and Working Out?

01:20:22 Mindy on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Dr. Mindy Pelz | Website

Dr. Mindy Pelz | Instagram

Dr. Mindy Pelz | Facebook

Dr. Mindy Pelz | YouTube 

Dr. Mindy Pelz | LinkedIn

Eat Like a Girl: 100+ Delicious Recipes to Balance Hormones, Boost Energy, and Burn Fat

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Do you find yourself thinking about your ex often?

What has been the hardest part of moving on for you?

Today, Jay taps into the emotional complexities of getting over an ex and provides actionable steps to move forward. Drawing on insights from neuroscience and psychology, Jay explains why it's entirely normal to struggle with letting go of a past relationship, even if it's been months or years. The emotional pain we experience after a breakup, he explains, is comparable to drug withdrawal, highlighting the deep biological connections we form with our partners.

One of the most impactful ideas Jay shares is that clinging to the past steals energy and time from the future. By ruminating over what could have been, we rob ourselves of the opportunity to build new experiences and relationships. Ultimately, Jay’s message is clear: while it's natural to struggle with letting go, the key to healing lies in breaking old patterns, embracing new habits, and shifting our focus toward growth. If you or someone you know is struggling to move on from a past relationship, this episode offers practical tools and compassionate advice to help start the journey toward healing.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Heal by Changing Your Environment

How to Replace Emotional Attachment After a Breakup

How to Shift Focus from the Past to the Present

How to Build Confidence Without External Validation

How to Move On by Breaking Old Patterns

Trust that with patience and self-compassion, you will find the strength to not only move on, but to thrive in ways you never imagined. You deserve the love and happiness that comes from within—keep moving forward, you're stronger than you know.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:29 What to Do If You’re Still Not Over Your Ex?

04:11 What Research Shows About Breakups

07:20 #1: Change Your Environment

13:26 #2: Identify What You’re Missing: Habit or Emotion

17:18 #5: Focus on Building Your Life

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Have you ever struggled with guilt or shame?

Why do you think self-forgiveness is so hard?

Today, Jay sits down with the incredibly talented and resilient Jelly Roll, a Grammy-nominated Nashville native who has captured hearts with his raw, soulful music. Rising from a troubled past marked by addiction, incarceration, and personal struggles, Jelly Roll has turned his life around through music, earning widespread acclaim for his deeply emotional lyrics and raw storytelling. With a top-three debut on the Billboard 200 and multiple awards to his name, His music resonates with those facing hardship, offering a message of hope, redemption, and healing.

Jelly Roll shares his powerful journey from a turbulent past—marked by addiction, incarceration, and emotional struggles—to becoming one of the most celebrated figures in country music today. Together, they explore topics like the impact of childhood trauma, battling demons, overcoming addiction, and the importance of love and healing in personal transformation.

Jelly Roll opens up about his rise to success, reflecting on how music has been a healing force not only for him but for the countless fans who resonate with his lyrics. From finding solace in Jay Shetty’s book Think Like a Monk during a dark time in his life to creating music that speaks directly to those who feel unseen, Jelly Roll's story is one of redemption, hope, and purpose.

In this interview, you'll learn

How to find purpose in your struggles

How to forgive yourself for past mistakes

How to overcome addiction through accountability

How to turn negative experiences into positive impact

How to create emotional resilience in tough times

How to find peace in moments of darkness

No matter where you are right now, it’s never too late to rewrite your story and create a life filled with meaning and growth. Keep pushing forward, and believe in your ability to rise. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:24 Rediscovering Purpose After Struggles

07:26 Coping with the Loss of a Father

10:34 How His Mother Sparked His Musical Journey

14:48 The Impact of Deep-Rooted Insecurities

17:25 Embracing Accountability for Personal Growth

19:51 The Barriers to Self-Forgiveness

21:08 Reflections on His Fifteen-Year-Old Self

24:26 Life Behind Bars as a Juvenile

28:47 The Fine Line Between Accountability and Self-Sabotage

32:56 Developing Emotional Awareness and Growth

37:21 The Reality of Food Addiction

40:34 Breaking the Chains of Addiction

42:22 Finding Someone Who Sees Your True Worth

49:45 Why Asking for Help Shows Strength, Not Weakness

54:12 Bringing Hope and Uplifting Spirits Through Prison Performances

01:02:13 Addressing Drug Addiction in His Congressional Speech

01:08:50 Understanding the True Victims of Drug Abuse

01:11:31 Breaking Free from Generational Curses

01:18:23 The Profound Impact of Music on His Life

01:25:57 Healing the Inner Child Through Faith

01:31:14 A Heartfelt Letter from His Brother 

01:35:36 Fast Five with Jelly Roll  

Episode Resources:

Jelly Roll | Website

Jelly Roll | Instagram

Jelly Roll | Facebook

Jelly Roll | YouTube

Jelly Roll | TikTok

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Have you ever struggled to change a habit?

Do you think forcing someone to change ever works?

Today, Jay dives deep into one of the most frequently asked questions: Can people really change? Drawing from a mix of personal stories, scientific research, and spiritual wisdom, Jay sheds light on the complexities of human behavior, how change unfolds, and why it can often seem so elusive.

One of the key insights Jay offers is the distinction between acknowledgment and accountability. Many people acknowledge they need to change, but accountability—taking full responsibility for how their actions impact others and making a concrete plan to improve—is much harder to achieve. Without this deeper level of self-awareness and commitment, lasting change remains out of reach.

Jay provides practical advice for those navigating relationships with people who seem resistant to change. He outlines key signs to look for that indicate someone is truly ready to change, including self-awareness, accountability, and a genuine desire to improve. He also stresses the importance of patience and empathy, reminding listeners that change is often a gradual process, filled with setbacks and oscillations between old and new behaviors.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to encourage change without forcing it

How to help someone become self-aware

How to support someone’s change process

How to communicate about change in relationships

How to accept that change must come from within

Patience, empathy, and an understanding of the complexities of human behavior are key to supporting both ourselves and others in the pursuit of meaningful evolution. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:37 Is There Someone In Your Life You Wish Would Change?

04:24 Core Personality Traits Are Difficult to Change

07:46 Signs that Someone is Likely to Change

08:25 #1: They Take Accountability and Has Self-Awareness

10:18 #2: They Must Have the Motivation to Change

14:19 Change Doesn’t Happen Right Away

16:59 Signs that Someone is Changing

18:57 How a Community Can Trigger Change

21:30 How Do You Start a Healthy Conversation with Your Partner?

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Why are you blocking yourself from love?

What’s holding you back from attracting love?

Today, let's welcome once again Jay's good friend Dr Joe Dispenza - a New York Times best-selling author, researcher, lecturer, and corporate consultant, Dr Joe Dispenza has developed a practical formula to help people transform their lives. Dr Joe’s mission unifies complex branches of science in an approachable way – focused on proven research, “Stories of Transformation” testimonials, and the scientific data behind spontaneous remissions. 

Joe discusses his groundbreaking work on how individuals can transform their lives by tapping into the power of their thoughts and emotions. The conversation is centered around how stress, survival instincts, and subconscious beliefs block us from manifesting love and positive changes in our lives, the importance of shifting from a reactive, stress-driven state to a heart-centered, creative one, and “becoming” the person you want to be by aligning thoughts, feelings, and behaviors with the future you desire, rather than the past you want to leave behind. 

Jay and Joe discuss the mechanisms that prevent people from opening their hearts to love, focusing on how the survival mechanisms of the brain and body condition us to relive past traumas and fears. According to Joe, many people are trapped in a cycle of stress that keeps them disconnected from their true potential. He emphasizes the power of daily practices like meditation and emotional regulation to rewire the brain, shift belief systems, and attract the love and life one desires.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to attract love by practicing joy and gratitude

How to rewire your brain by visualizing your desired future

How to heal emotionally with daily meditation

How to manifest change by aligning thoughts, emotions, and behaviors

How to replace resentment with positive emotions through practice

How to stop survival mode by regulating your emotions

By shifting from a state of stress and survival to one of creation and love, we can not only heal from past traumas but also attract the relationships and experiences we truly desire. The key lies in aligning our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors with the future we wish to create. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:35 What’s Really Blocking You from Manifesting Love?

07:42 Why Becoming the Person You Want to Attract Is Key

14:40 How to Reignite Your Belief in Love After Heartbreak

20:08 The Role of Past Experiences in Shaping Your Beliefs

28:40 Healing Starts with Reminding Yourself to Change

33:18 True Transformation Begins When You Believe in Possibility

37:27 The Power of Being Present to Absorb Life-Changing Information

42:04 How Long Does It Really Take to Rewire a Belief?

46:18 How Meditation and Protein Boost Your Immunity

51:18 Science Proves the Limitless Potential of the Human Mind

57:52 How Collective Consciousness Can Transform Your Life

01:08:38 How Stress Disconnects You from Your True Self

Episode Resources:

Dr Joe Dispenza | Website

Dr Joe Dispenza | Instagram

Dr Joe Dispenza | Facebook

Dr Joe Dispenza | YouTube

Dr Joe Dispenza | Books

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How do you usually react when you're angry?

Have you ever regretted saying something in the heat of the moment?

Today, Jay talks about the transformative power of the "90-Second Rule," a life-changing technique that can help you choose your response in moments of intense emotion. Have you ever acted in the heat of the moment and later regretted it? Jay explores how 90 seconds can be the difference between reacting impulsively and responding with intention.

Inspired by Viktor Frankl's quote, "Between stimulus and response, there is a space," Jay unpacks the concept that this small window of time holds the key to our growth, freedom, and ability to create better outcomes in our lives. He shares personal stories, practical tips, and scientific insights to help you harness the power of this technique, including deep breathing exercises, mindfulness practices, and ways to recognize and label your emotions.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to control your emotions in stressful moments

How to apply the 90-second rule to avoid impulsive reactions

How to recognize and label your emotions accurately

How to practice mindfulness in moments of frustration

How to take a 90-second break to reset your mindset

By allowing yourself those 90 seconds to breathe, reflect, and choose your response, you create the space to align with your values and intentions.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:17 It’s About How You Respond to Situations

06:27 The 90-Second Rule

11:55 #1: Set a Timer

13:05 #2: Do an Internal Weather Report

13:47 #3: Check-in with Your Body

18:01 Sadness Last Longer than Other Emotions

20:53 We Repeat What We Reward 

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What part of your past self do you feel most attached to?

What fears are holding you back from embracing who you are now?

On this extremely special episode of On Purpose, Jay sits down with global music sensation and dear friend, Shawn Mendes. Shawn  is a Grammy-nominated singer-songwriter known for his soulful voice and heartfelt lyrics. The two go in deep to Shawn’s newest album ‘Shawn.’ Shawn is an advocate for mental health awareness, openly sharing his personal struggles with anxiety and self-discovery. 

For the first time, Shawn opens up about his struggles with anxiety and the difficult decision to cancel his world tour to focus on his mental health, sharing the weight of that moment and the liberating journey of prioritizing his well-being. He reflects on the challenges of growing up in the spotlight, the pressures of maintaining perfection, and how therapy, friendships, and embracing vulnerability helped him find balance and peace.

Shawn and Jay explore themes of love, relationships, and the intricacies of navigating public life while protecting private emotions. With heartfelt honesty, Shawn shares how he’s learned to diversify his life beyond music and embrace all forms of love, not just romantic, but the love that comes from connection and support from those around him.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to prioritize mental health

How to embrace vulnerability

How to let go of perfectionism

How to accept love and support

How to build emotional resilience

How to be honest in relationships

Remember, the hardest decisions often lead to the most meaningful transformations. Take care of yourself, lean on those around you, and trust that, with time, you will find your way to peace and authenticity.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:54 Clubhouse Studio’s Significance (Where the interview takes place!) 

05:51 The Struggle of Asking for Help When Making Hard Life Decisions 

07:48 Why Shawn Canceled His Tour

12:48 Tough Choices and Growth

15:10 Breakdowns Leading to Breakthroughs

17:09 Finding Shawns Own Authenticity in Music

21:08 The Power of Vulnerability and Expressing Emotional Truth 

23:50 Letting Go of Ego to Heal

26:52 Learning to Accept Yourself Through Therapy

28:42 The Hardest Internal Question to Face

30:47 The Power of Listening Without Judgment

32:51 Learning How to Face Pain Instead of Running From It

38:18 Finding Emotional Balance of Extreme Emotions

40:00 Shawn Opens up About Grief and Guilt Over a Lost Friend

51:10 Healing Through Art and Music

55:26 Questioning ‘Forever’ in Love

59:09 Maintaining Love Under Pressure

01:02:16 The Importance of Over-Communication in Relationships 

01:03:50 Why Partnership is More Than Just Love

01:07:27 How to Be Open to Love that is Not Just Romantic 

01:13:38 How to Avoid Focusing on the Highs

01:15:45 Trusting Your Inner Voice and Learn How to Listen to Your Intuition 

01:18:36 How to Surrender to Life Unfolding Naturally Without Forcing It 

01:21:59 Surprise Note from Shawn’s Sister 

01:33:09 Final Five with Shawn

Episode Resources:

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Shawn Mendes | Instagram

Shawn Mendes | Facebook

Shawn Mendes | TikTok

Shawn Mendes | YouTube 

Shawn Mendes | LinkedIn

Protocols: An Operating Manual for the Human Body

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Who in your life challenges you the most?

Who sees more potential in you than you do?

Today, Jay unpacks the powerful idea that everyone we meet serves a distinct purpose in our lives, acting as mirrors, windows, or doors. Inspired by a concept shared by TikTok creators Kim Peretz and Stale Hope, Jay talks about how different people reflect our flaws, show us glimpses of our potential, and open new pathways to growth.

Jay explores the idea that some people mirror back our darkest and most uncomfortable traits, offering us valuable opportunities for self-awareness and growth. He emphasizes the challenge of accepting lessons from those we may not want to listen to, reminding us that the message is often more important than the messenger.

He introduces the concept of doors and keys—those who open paths and unlock parts of ourselves in the most perfect way. He discusses the importance of gratitude and recognizing the people who have helped us move forward, even if we may have forgotten them.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to accept difficult truths about yourself

How to recognize the people who reflect your potential

How to stay open to advice even when it’s hard to hear

How to appreciate the role others play in your personal journey

How to stay curious about what others see in you

As you navigate your journey, remember that every person you encounter has something to teach you, whether they act as a mirror, window, door, or key. You're not alone on this path.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:12 The Mirror, Window, and Door of Our Life

03:12 People Mirror Back to Us Our Flaws

11:14 People Are Like Windows, They See More Potential in You

18:07 Some People Open a Door or Path for Us

19:33 Some People Are Keys, They Unlock Parts for Us

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How do you usually handle stress in your life?

Have you ever tried anything to boost your dopamine levels?

Today, Jay welcomes back Dr. Andrew Huberman, a neuroscientist and professor at Stanford University, known for his insightful work on brain development, neuroplasticity, and the intricate connection between the brain and body. Together, they discuss the neuroscience of friendship, exploring how our deep-rooted need for safety and acceptance plays a pivotal role in our social interactions. They unravel the paradox of modern society, where people feel emotionally distant despite increasing online connections and followers.

Dr. Huberman highlights how our brain circuitry, which governs social bonding and connectedness, is tightly linked to our need for predictability and safety. He breaks down how these fundamental needs influence our relationships, both in early development and throughout adulthood, and how understanding these mechanisms can help combat the loneliness epidemic many experience today.

Jay and Andrew discuss practical tools like sending a simple daily “good morning” text, which may seem trivial but has profound implications for maintaining connection and combating feelings of isolation. They also explore the value of doing hard things, such as cold plunges and structured routines, which anchor our physiology and create a sense of predictability, crucial for mental resilience and creativity.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build Predictability in Relationships

How to Activate Bonding Circuits in the Brain

How to Build Trust Through Consistency

How to Combat Loneliness with Regular Check-Ins

How to Ask Meaningful Questions to Deepen Relationships

How to Build a Reliable Circle of Friends

How to Balance Stress with Breathing Techniques

By embracing small yet powerful habits, we not only improve our own lives but also create a ripple effect of positive connection in the lives of those around us. Now is the time to prioritize real, human connection—and in doing so, enrich every aspect of your life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:06 Safety and Acceptance

19:12 Healthy Friendships

29:39 Predictability

38:15 Breathing Protocol

51:32 Body Still, Mind Active

01:02:15 Tenacity and Willpower

01:13:06 Walls of Adrenaline

01:18:21 Limiting Cynicism

01:24:54 You Can’t Control Everything

01:34:29 The Human Narrative

01:43:15 Be Yourself 

Episode Resources:

Andrew Huberman | Website

Andrew Huberman | Instagram

Andrew Huberman | Facebook

Andrew Huberman | TikTok

Andrew Huberman | YouTube 

Andrew Huberman | LinkedIn

Protocols: An Operating Manual for the Human Body

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Are you feeling burnt out from dating lately?

Do you feel like you're repeating the same mistakes in dating?

Today, Jay talks about why dating burnout is a common and natural response to repeated disappointments, unmet expectations, and the overwhelming nature of modern dating apps. He notes that most respondents feel disconnected, disillusioned, and emotionally drained, which leads to frustration and reluctance to continue dating.

It is important to accept and acknowledge feelings of burnout. Jay explains that a vital first step in overcoming this is to reframe expectations and approach dating with a healthier mindset. Dating is like applying for a job, where the process may involve multiple attempts and disappointments, but persistence is key. To avoid personalizing every rejection, focus on their self-worth, be kinder to themselves, and build resilience throughout the dating journey.

Jay highlights the importance of identifying and aligning with core values, explaining that these are the foundation for long-term relationship success. 

In this episode you'll learn:

How to Overcome Dating Burnout

How to Spot Red Flags Early

How to Build Resilience in Dating

How to Align with Your Core Values

How to Reframe Rejection Positively

By approaching dating with less pressure, identifying red flags early, and giving second chances, you can create healthier, more meaningful connections while avoiding emotional exhaustion.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:44 Are You Dealing with Dating Burnout?

05:43 Approach Dating with Higher Resilience

08:10 Four Red Flags of Poor Communication

11:39 Attraction is Beyond What You See

13:08 The Pressure to Present Yourself in a Certain Way

18:04 Focus on Having One Conversation at a Time

22:39 Why Do We Get Bored When Dating?

23:54 3 Strategies to Successful Dating

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What would you tell your 14-year-old self?

How do you quiet the “not good enough” voice?

Today, Jay welcomes Ryan Holiday, renowned philosopher, bestselling author, and host of The Daily Stoic. With over 10 million copies of his books sold globally, Ryan returns to the podcast to dive deep into the concepts of personal growth, parenting, and finding purpose in a success-driven world.

Ryan reflects on the journey of becoming a parent and discusses the difference between having kids and truly being a parent. He explains why intentional parenting is a radical shift from simply fulfilling biological or legal roles and explores the transformative impact of parenthood on personal and professional ambitions, emphasizing the importance of being prepared for the changes it brings.

Jay also opens up about his own thoughts on parenthood and the life shifts that accompany major decisions, offering a heartfelt glimpse into the conversations he’s had with his wife about the timing of having children. Throughout the conversation, both Jay and Ryan unpack the struggles of balancing a career with personal life, with Ryan drawing from Stoic philosophy to offer guidance on setting meaningful goals, aligning actions with values, and learning from life's obstacles.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Embrace Parenthood as a Central Life Purpose

How to Set Goals Based on What’s in Your Control

How to Approach Parenting with Intention and Purpose

How to Learn from Life’s Obstacles and Failures

How to Align Your Career with Personal Values

How to Build Emotional Resilience through Parenthood

Whether through parenting, personal growth, or our professional pursuits, the key is to stay rooted in what truly matters—our values, intentions, and the legacy we leave behind.  

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:33 Are You Ready to Become a Parent?

05:43 What Type of Goal Should We Set?

10:54 Love What You’re Doing

18:59 Stuck in Life

22:06 Trust the Process

26:04 Patience

30:18 Process of Accumulating Experiences

33:35 What Difference Are You Making?

35:57 Raise a Reader

40:14 What Are You Struggling With?

45:00 General Parenting Tip

52:56 Unconditional Parental Love

58:50 Do What’s Important to You

01:02:04 What is at Stake?

01:06:03 Comparison Game

01:09:36 Dad Guilt

01:15:30 Fear as a Parent

01:19:11 This Stops with Me     

Episode Resources:

Ryan Holiday | Website

Ryan Holiday | Instagram

Ryan Holiday | Facebook

Ryan Holiday | TikTok

Ryan Holiday | YouTube 

Ryan Holiday | LinkedIn

The Daily Dad: 366 Meditations on Parenting, Love, and Raising Great Kids

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Have you ever thought about taking a solo trip?

What do you think you'd learn about yourself if you traveled alone?

Today, Jay unpacks the unexpected benefits of solo travel. Whether you’re an avid traveler or someone hesitant to step out of your comfort zone, traveling alone, even just once, can be one of the most powerful experiences of your life. 

Jay explains how solo travel helps break free from the “herd mentality”—when we defer to the preferences of those around us—and instead allows us to deeply understand our own desires and needs. You’ll learn how traveling alone can expand your worldview, teach self-reliance, and push you to explore not just new places but new aspects of yourself.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Expand Your Worldview 

How to Boost Self-Reliance

How to Connect with New People and Cultures

How to Build Confidence Through Solo Travel

Whether you're seeking new perspectives or personal growth, traveling alone can be a powerful tool to reconnect with your true self.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:48 Do You Need to Go on a Solo Trip?

04:50 #1: Learn More About Yourself

11:10 #2: Improve Your Confidence

13:43 #3: Expand Your Worldview 

16:53 #4: Develop Self-Reliance

19:49 #5: Master Your Mind

21:54 #6: Beat Boredom and Distraction

23:09 #7: Vigilance

24:55 #8: Get to Know Diverse People

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What are your emotional needs?

How do you communicate them clearly?

Today, Jay welcomes back Dr. Nicole LePera, a holistic psychologist, best-selling author, and founder of the SelfHealers Circle, a global community for self-healing. She is the author of the New York Times bestseller "How to Do the Work," and her latest book, "How to Be the Love You Seek," guides readers on breaking cycles, finding peace, and healing relationships. Dr. LePera is known for her approachable, transformative approach to mental wellness, empowering individuals to heal themselves and live authentically.

Nicole talks about how our earliest experiences shape our adult relationships. She explains the concept of trauma bonds—dysfunctional patterns that often stem from childhood but persist into adulthood, affecting how we connect with others. These bonds can feel familiar and even comforting, but they often prevent us from forming healthy, fulfilling relationships.

Jay and Nicole explore how awareness is the first step toward breaking these patterns. They emphasize the importance of understanding our subconscious beliefs and the roles we play in relationships, often unknowingly repeating cycles of pain and misunderstanding. She talks about the importance of staying present, learning to regulate our emotions, and building healthier habits that align with our true selves, and offers practical advice on how to navigate the complexities of love, whether it's setting boundaries with toxic family members or letting go of unrealistic expectations in romantic relationships.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to recognize trauma bonds

How to break the cycle of reactivity

How to set healthy boundaries

How to cultivate self-awareness

How to develop emotional resilience

How to foster a growth mindset in relationships

Remember, every moment is an opportunity to choose differently, to show up for ourselves with kindness, and to build the relationships we truly deserve.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:44 You Create Change

06:58 Toxic Family Members

11:21 Change is Voluntary

14:33 Deep Rooted Emotions

18:35 Why We Struggle in Relationships

22:58 The Unmet Needs

27:27 We Project What We Think to Others

34:29 Familiarity with Chaos

38:18 Is It Genuine Love?

41:55 Panic Attack

48:54 Chronic Illness

53:54 Countering Beliefs

57:17 Physiological Shifts

01:01:11 What is a Trauma Bond?

01:04:25 Attraction Based on Familiarity

01:06:24 Inner Child Work

01:09:41 The Habit of Showing Up Authentically

Episode Resources:

Nicole LePera | Website

Nicole LePera | Instagram

Nicole LePera | Facebook

Nicole LePera | TikTok

Nicole LePera | YouTube 

Nicole LePera | LinkedIn

How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self

How to Be the Love You Seek: Break Cycles, Find Peace, and Heal Your Relationships

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What lessons have you learned from your past 12 months?

How have your goals evolved over the past months?

Today, Jay reflects on the 12 key lessons he has learned over the past year. He begins by discussing the idea that the seeds we plant—our actions and intentions—manifest as either flowers or weeds, the importance of pursuing meaningful actions for personal fulfillment rather than external validation, and how to distinguish between setting goals and choosing growth, underscoring that genuine progress requires a commitment to personal development rather than simply aiming for outcomes.

The episode highlights the importance of protecting one's purpose from external distractions and maintaining a clear focus on one's path, the challenges we face as opportunities to grow into who we're meant to be, and the concept of defining experiences proactively to shape our own narratives rather than letting circumstances dictate our identities.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to handle envy with love

How to act for fulfillment, not praise

How to focus on growth, not just goals

How to guard your purpose from distractions

How to use challenges to evolve

How to stay open to unexpected help

Stay open to the unexpected, protect your passions, and choose growth over comfort. By doing so, you not only transform your own life but also inspire those around you to do the same.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:29 Lessons Learned in the Past 12 Months

03:50 #1: The seeds you planted in the past will grow into flowers or weeds today.

07:08 #2: Envy will erode your life.

10:27 #3: People forget things quickly, do the right thing and what's meaningful to you.

13:06 #4: Everyone sets goals, not everyone chooses growth.

15:00 #5: Don't let anyone deter you from your purpose.

16:45 #6: Your challenge is designed for you to become who you're meant to become.

18:37 #7: You'll let things define you if you don't define them first.

19:35 #8: Help can come from unlikely sources in unlikely ways.

21:34 #9: Try to see things as an invitation, not an impediment. 

24:07 #10: Sometimes to get to your dreams, you have to take the stairs, the elevator, or come through the roof.

25:17 #11: The people you leave behind will feel left behind no matter what you do.

26:35 #12 Love is not enough.

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Are you struggling to overcome your past trauma?

Are you looking for ways to heal from it?

Today, Jay sits down with renowned reggaeton artist and songwriter Nicky Jam. Nicky's music career took off after a series of successful mixtapes and collaborations with other artists, including Daddy Yankee, with whom he formed the iconic duo Los Cangris. His work has earned him international fame and multiple awards, establishing him as a major influence in the reggaeton and Latin trap genres. 

Nicky recounts his first foray into music, packing groceries and freestyling at a supermarket, which inadvertently launched his career despite his young age and the informal nature of his work. He opens up about the difficulties of his upbringing, including his mother’s struggle with substance abuse and prostitution, shaping his understanding of normalcy and family life. This background set the stage for his initial break into the music industry, where early rejections and setbacks paved the way for his eventual success in the Puerto Rican mixtape scene and beyond.

Together with Jay, Nicky also discusses the challenges of maintaining authenticity and personal happiness amidst fame, expressing discomfort with being seen as a role model and emphasizing the importance of understanding and support for mental health, especially for men in the public eye. Despite ongoing struggles with PTSD, anxiety, and the scars of his traumatic past, Nicky remains hopeful and driven, looking forward to continuing his career and making a positive impact through his work and personal experiences.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to handle early setbacks

How to deal with the pressure of expectations

How to use personal struggles as a source of strength

How to maintain creativity under pressure

How to find redemption through new opportunities

How to help others through your work

Nicky's story demonstrates that with unwavering determination and a genuine approach, it's possible to transform challenging beginnings into legacies of success and enduring influence.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:12 Earliest Childhood Memory

04:06 First Deal

06:44 I Was Happy with the Album

08:15 Life on the Streets

12:06 There’s a Different World Out There

15:22 Looking for Billy

17:20 Simpler or Complicated Life?

19:05 Commands Don’t Work on Me

24:58 Battling Alcohol Addiction

31:06 Drug and Alcohol Problem

34:20 Finding Help

36:40 Feeling Alone

39:18 Almost Dying

42:52 Prison Life

45:59 Moving to Columbia

52:00 My Mom is Different

54:48 Do You Pray a Lot?

58:01 Reconciliation

59:49 Forgiveness

01:05:31 I’m not Retiring

01:09:24 My Album is My Story

01:10:11 Some Misunderstanding People Have

01:12:37 Surgery and Recovery

01:13:46 Talking is Therapy

01:15:12 Nicky on Fast Five

Episode Resources:

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Nicky Jam | Instagram

Nicky Jam | Facebook

Nicky Jam | TikTok

Nicky Jam | YouTube

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Do you feel unproductive?

How can you boost your daily productivity?

Today, Jay talks about how to become productive without feeling burned out. In a world where productivity often leads to burnout, Jay offers practical and transformative strategies to help you achieve more while reducing stress. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by an endless to-do list or struggling to manage your time effectively, this episode provides the tools you need to reclaim your focus and energy. 

Jay shares the importance of creating a workspace that fuels productivity and how subtle changes, like scent and sound, can enhance your environment. He also highlights the significance of workplace trust and how identifying whether an issue is people- or system-related can save you time and energy. He wraps up with insights on "monk mode," a method to achieve deep focus in the midst of distractions, and encourages listeners to experiment with these principles to find what works best for them..

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to focus on one task at a time for better productivity

How to identify key drivers of success 

How to lean into your momentum for maximum output

How to use a 'to start' list instead of a to-do list

Tune in to discover how to be productive without compromising your well-being, and walk away with actionable tips that you can implement immediately. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:29 Burnt Out Already?

04:03 Tip #1: Doing One Thing at a Time

10:10 Tip #2: Clean Your External Space

12:40 Tip #3: Create a To-Start-List

14:17 Tip #4: Give Yourself Positive Validation of Task Completion

18:51 Tip #5: No Email Until 10AM

19:47 Tip #6: Goal of the Day, Goal of the Week

22:03 Tip #7: Know When is Your Most Productive Time

23:41 Tip #8: Create a Space of Workplace Trust

26:21 Tip #9: Focus on What’s Causing Success or Failure

27:42 Tip #10: Lock Into Your Task

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What's a simple negotiation trick you can try today?

How can you get better at persuading others?

Today, Jay welcomes former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator and author of "Never Split the Difference", Chris Voss. He is renowned for his innovative negotiation strategies that emphasize empathy, emotional intelligence, and tactical communication. After retiring from the FBI, Voss founded The Black Swan Group, a consultancy firm that provides negotiation training for businesses and individuals. He is also a popular speaker and has taught negotiation at various business schools.

Chris discusses his journey from being on a SWAT team to becoming a lead FBI negotiator. He shares that his career path changed after a knee injury and his growing interest in crisis response led him to hostage negotiation where he found the work more satisfying than his previous roles, emphasizing the importance of decisive action in crises.

Chris and Jay discuss how human beings are naturally wired to be negative as a survival mechanism, which impacts negotiations. He reframes negotiation as a collaborative process rather than a confrontational one and suggests that effective negotiation often goes unnoticed because it looks like seamless collaboration. They also talk about gender dynamics in negotiation, with Voss providing advice on how women can better negotiate in environments where they might be undervalued.  

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to calm tense talks

How to negotiate with narcissists

How to disarm aggression

How to foster collaboration

How to build rapport

In any situation, effective negotiation is not about winning at all costs but about creating a shared path forward that benefits everyone involved. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:23 Becoming a Lead Negotiator

04:08 Suicide Hotline Conversations

08:03 Labeling the Negative Emotions

09:35 Negotiation Isn’t a Form of Conflict

14:59 How to Get Someone to Collaborate with You?

21:15 How Do You Slow Down?

25:10 How Do You Prepare for a Negotiation?

29:54 Biggest Negotiation Mistakes

31:42 Always Look for the Patterns

40:20 Used and Taken Advantage Of

44:21 The Illusion of Control

46:17 What’s Your Intention?

48:37 How to Negotiate a Better Salary?

50:49 Reward Strategy in the Workplace

53:33 Negotiating Unfulfilled Salary Raise 

58:57 How Can Women Negotiate Better?

01:00:57 Negotiations That Don’t End with a Deal

01:05:03 Work with the ELFs

01:11:05 Polite Boundary Setting

01:16:29 How to Not Be Emotional When Negotiating

01:22:08 Are You in the Right Relationship?

01:25:55 Respecting Other People’s Values

01:30:52 Tactical Empathy Documentary

01:34:01 Chris on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Chris Voss | Website

Chris Voss | Instagram

Chris Voss | LinkedIn

Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It

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How did you realize they weren't the one for you?

How did you cope with the heartbreak?

Today shares a detailed exploration of the emotional journey involved in recognizing and accepting that someone you once believed was "the one" for you, wasn't actually the right person. Often, it’s common for people to convince themselves that someone is the perfect partner, even before that person has committed or shown signs of being a suitable match. This can lead to heartbreak when the relationship fails, but  it’s okay because the person wasn't truly right for them either.

Jay also discusses the importance of understanding whether the person was truly healed from past wounds or whether they were presenting a version of themselves that wasn’t authentic. Consider the idea that sometimes people stay in relationships out of fear of being alone rather than genuine love or connection. And if a partner is unable or unwilling to engage in meaningful conversations, they might not be the right person.

In this episode you'll learn:

How to recognize when someone isn't right for you

How to focus on your partner's reality, not ideals

How to prioritize meaningful conversations

How to stay self-aware after a breakup

How to balance emotions in a relationship

Remember, it's okay if someone wasn't the one for you—what matters most is that you remain true to yourself and continue to seek the love and connection you deserve. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:54 They Weren’t For You and That’s Okay

05:04 #1: When People Show You Who They Are, Believe Them

09:09 #2: They Never Showed Up When It Mattered

10:55 #3: They’re Still Healing

12:41 #4: They Kept Saying We Can’t Do This

16:37 #5: You Were Chasing the Whole Time

18:53 #6: They Made You Feel Detached

19:13 #7: You Are More Scared Of Being Alone Than Be With Them 

20:58 #8: They Couldn’t Open Up in Meaningful Conversations

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How do you help your children build confidence?

How do you teach your kids to be resilient?

Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Aliza Pressman. Aliza is a developmental psychologist with nearly two decades of experience working with families and healthcare providers. She is the host of the Raising Good Humans podcast and an expert in parenting strategies and child development. Dr. Pressman is also the author of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans, where she offers practical advice and insights for parents looking to raise emotionally resilient and well-rounded children. 

Aliza begins by discussing whether everyone should become a parent and emphasizes the importance of being intentional and reflective before making that decision. She suggests that potential parents should think about their own values and how they want to approach parenting. She explains that having a strong, secure bond with a child is crucial for their development and that this bond can evolve over time, even if there have been mistakes along the way. 

Some children are more sensitive and require a specific environment to thrive, while others are more adaptable. She encourages parents to be mindful of their child’s unique needs. The discussion moves on to discipline and encouragement. Dr. Pressman suggests that discipline should focus on teaching rather than punishing, with clear boundaries set for the child’s safety and well-being. When it comes to building confidence, she emphasizes that helping children develop skills (competence) is more effective than simply giving praise.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to handle parenting guilt and shame

How to set boundaries for your child

How to build your child’s confidence

How to discipline effectively

How to foster independence in your child

How to build a secure attachment with your child

By focusing on building secure attachments, setting clear boundaries, and fostering independence, parents can create a nurturing environment where their children can thrive. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:57 Should Everyone Be a Parent?

04:29 How Do We Get to Be Who We Are?

05:50 Secure Attachment Relationship

07:15 Feeling of Guilt and Shame as a Parent

11:07 Tiny Moments to Build Resilience

15:31 The Tendency to Overcorrect

17:03 What is Effective Reflection?

21:44 Learn to Reflect with Your Children

26:31 Failure as a Parent

31:14 Different Forms of Communication with Children

35:10 What is the Right Approach to Discipline?

39:10 Three Parenting Styles 

41:36 Tension and Rejection Can Be a Motivation

45:34 Dealing with a Child Who Doesn’t Want to Open Up

50:12 Your Presence is Important

51:46 How to Have a Social Media Conversation?

57:12 How to Raise a Confident Human?

01:01:40 Allow Kids to Showcase What They Learned

01:05:53 Adults Can Work on Themselves

01:07:23 Aliza on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Dr. Aliza Pressman | Website

Dr. Aliza Pressman | Instagram

Dr. Aliza Pressman | Facebook

Raising Good Humans

The 5 Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans

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How often do you check your phone daily?

Do you feel anxious when you’re away from your phone?

Today, Jay addresses the growing concern of excessive phone and internet usage, exploring its detrimental effects on mental and physical health. He begins by explaining how activities like swiping, liking, and commenting on social media provide our brains with dopamine hits, which can create a cycle of dependency and compulsive behavior. Despite the benefits of technology, such as increased connectivity and access to information, many people feel less connected and more distracted, anxious, and impatient.

Jay elaborates on the neurological aspects of dopamine and its role in pleasure-seeking behaviors, emphasizing that problems arise when we expect constant rewards from our online activities. He draws parallels between the brain's response to food and its response to digital consumption, advocating for a balanced approach that avoids overindulgence in either.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to become more conscious of your internet use

How to have wifi-free meals

How to replace morning phone use with healthier habits

How to stay mindful when using technology

How to engage in a cell phone detox

The ultimate goal is to create a healthier, more intentional relationship with technology, leading to a more fulfilling and balanced life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:46 On Your Phone All the Time?

05:32 Losing Control Over Phone Use

06:19 Six Steps to Phone Detox

07:01 Dopamine

11:23 People Aren’t As Happy As Before

13:39 How Often Do You Check Your Phone?

14:27 Cortisol

17:26 Step 1: Become More Conscious

19:19 Step 2: Wait an Hour Before Going Online

21:18 Step 3: The WiFi-Free Meal

23:45 Step 4: Watch What You Consume Online

24:54 Step 5: Limit Potions

25:48 Step 6: Intermittent Fasting

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How can you start letting your guard down in love?

How can you become more open and vulnerable in your relationships?

Today, let's welcome Alexis Ren and Allie Michelle. Alexis is a model, entrepreneur, and social media influencer with over 18 million followers on Instagram. Known for her advocacy of mental health and self-empowerment, Alexis has leveraged her platform to promote wellness and personal growth. She is also the co-founder of "We Are Warriors," a female-driven wellness community focused on fostering self-love, strength, and growth among women worldwide. 

Allie is a bestselling author, spoken word artist, and certified yoga, breathwork, meditation, Reiki, and craniosacral therapist. She is passionate about holistic health and personal development, which she incorporates into her work. The duo are the co-founders of "We Are Warriors," a female-driven wellness community focused on fostering self-love, strength, and growth among women worldwide. 

Alexis and Allie's friendship began when they were preteens and they share how their relationship has been a cornerstone of their personal growth, providing mutual support through life's challenges. A significant turning point in their friendship occurred when Alexis's mother passed away, leading to Allie’s family adopting Alexis. 

A significant theme throughout the discussion is the balance of masculine and feminine energies, which Alexis and Allie explore in depth. They describe how these energies play out in their lives and work, with Alexis often taking on a more masculine, action-oriented role, while Allie embodies a more feminine, intuitive approach. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and honoring both energies within oneself and in others, as this balance has been crucial in their personal and professional lives.

Alexis and Allie also address the societal pressures that women face, particularly around beauty standards and career expectations. Both women emphasize the importance of breaking free from limiting beliefs and societal expectations to find deeper fulfillment and authenticity.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to support a friend

How to manage criticism

How to build a strong friendship

How to stay authentic

How to handle creative blocks

How to empower others

Embrace the balance of your masculine and feminine energies, break free from societal expectations, and empower each other to thrive on the journey to self-discovery and growth.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:38 Beginning of a Friendship 

08:25 Growing Together Independently

10:21 Going Through Big and Small Changes

15:19 Creative and Emotional Intelligence

18:30 Validating and Complimenting Each Other 

21:59 Types of Archetypes

27:18 What's Holding Women Back?

29:46 Start Embracing Your Feminine Energy

33:38 Why Did It Trigger You?

41:00 How to Prepare for Life

45:23 Living an Internally Peaceful Life

52:44 Balance Between Masculine and Feminine Energy

01:02:25 Dealing with the Imbalance in Your Energy

01:07:00 You Can Do Uncomfortable Things

01:10:16 The Best Journaling Practice

01:14:39 Speak to Your Subconscious

01:16:55 Try Leaning Into the Moment

01:23:27 Relationship Checklist 

01:28:38 Alexis and Allie on Final Five 

01:37:46 Giving Each Other the Grace of Change

Episode Resources:

Alexis Ren | YouTube

Alexis Ren | Instagram

Alexis Ren | Facebook

Alexis Ren | TikTok

Allie Michelle | YouTube

Allie Michelle | Instagram

Allie Michelle | TikTok

Allie Michelle | Books

We Are Warriors

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How does unresolved trauma impact your life?

How can you rewire your brain to overcome trauma?

Today, in the On Purpose podcast, Jay sits down with actress and LGBT advocate, Laverne Cox. Laverne’s groundbreaking performance on "Orange Is the New Black" made her the first openly transgender person to be nominated for a Primetime Emmy Award. In addition to her acting career, Laverne Cox has been involved in various advocacy and awareness campaigns, making her a significant figure in the ongoing struggle for transgender and LGBTQ+ rights. Her work has contributed to greater visibility and acceptance of transgender individuals in the entertainment industry and society at large.

In this episode, Laverne and Jay dive deep into transgender rights, media representation challenges, and how empathy can make a big difference in our divided world. They also discuss how fake news and false information on the internet can be a problem and why learning how to spot them is crucial. 

Laverne also shares personal experiences and insights that shed light on the struggles and triumphs of the transgender community. She also talked about the need for structural change, greater investment in education, and the role of love and empathy in promoting understanding and healing. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

• The power of personal stories in changing perceptions and fostering empathy
• The struggles and rights of transgender individuals in society
• Ways to challenge and correct misconceptions about transgender individuals
• The importance of uncomfortable conversations and understanding why having difficult discussions is essential for growth and progress.

Remember that understanding and empathy can bridge even the widest divides, and it's through collective efforts that we can work toward a more inclusive and compassionate world. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:10 Childhood Memories That Define Who Laverne Is Today
• 10:51 Reparenting Her Inner Child
• 18:27 Why Is Denial Unhealthy?
• 25:05 Try To Let Go Of All Your Thoughts
• 27:43 The Fear and Freedom of Growing Older in Hollywood
• 31:13 Unlearning Transphobia and White Supremacy
• 46:06 Fight for Trans Rights and Mental Wellness
• 59:03 Bridging the Divide Through Thoughtful Conversations

Episode Resources:

• Laverne Cox | Instagram | 
• Laverne Cox | X 
• Laverne Cox | Facebook
• Laverne Cox | TikTok 

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How do you deal with negative people close to you?

How do you stay positive around negative people?

Today, Jay welcomes Robert Greene, known for his bestsellers like "The 48 Laws of Power" and "The Daily Laws." Robert's works draw on historical figures and events to provide insights into the dynamics of power and social influence. His books are often used as guides for personal development, leadership, and understanding the complexities of human interactions. 

Robert shares tips on dealing with negative people, emphasizing the importance of emotional distance and understanding that everyone has their flaws and shares his thoughts on the idea that our sense of self is just a mental construct, and real enlightenment comes from letting go of our egos. He also stresses the importance of questioning your beliefs to truly understand who you are and what you’re meant to do in life. 

Followed by Jay and Robert's discussion on why it's more important to judge people by their character rather than their intelligence or charm, how a strong character is shown by handling criticism well, working well with others, and managing stress. They also talk about how modern life can make us less empathetic and the need to genuinely connect with others. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to deal with negative people

How to develop empathy in modern life

How to question your own beliefs

How to stay true to yourself

How to handle criticism constructively

How to manage stress effectively

By understanding the nature of the self, maintaining emotional distance from negativity, and focusing on genuine connections, we can foster a stronger sense of empathy and authenticity in our lives.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

05:31 How to Deal with Negative People?

09:04 Look Behind the Mask

13:26 Getting Attracted to the Wrong People

15:02 Filling Up the Emptiness

17:23 Surprising Characteristics in Humans

19:10 Our Capacity for Empathy

21:31 What’s Your Most Repeated Thought?

22:34 How Quiet the Mind

24:54 Becoming More Aware

30:20 How We Process What We’re Experiencing

33:42 Who Really Are You?

37:44 How People Think About You

41:00 People’s Perception of You

43:46 The Before and After

46:57 Timeless Knowledge in Books

49:58 What Makes You Excited?

53:16 The Second Self

55:57 The Core of Your Reality

59:21 Limited Language

01:01:41 The Limited Circle of Harmony

01:04:49 Different Thoughts About the World

01:11:04 Slowing Down

01:13:21 Robert on Final Five  

Episode Resources:

Robert Greene | Website

Robert Greene | Instagram

Robert Greene | TikTok

Robert Greene | YouTube

Robert Greene | Books

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What’s blocking you?

What’s holding you back?

Today, Jay talks about the concept of self-sabotage, examining how it manifests in various aspects of our lives and offering strategies for overcoming it. Self-sabotage is defined as behaviors that undermine our own success, happiness, and stated goals. These actions often occur subconsciously, rooted in deep psychological patterns formed during early childhood.

Jay outlines four primary ways people self-sabotage: chronic lateness, procrastination, putting oneself down, and perfectionism. He also discusses the habit of putting oneself down, which can manifest through over-apologizing or refusing to take credit for accomplishments. This behavior is often linked to low self-esteem or an internalized critical voice from childhood.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Recognize Self-Sabotage

How to Stop Putting Yourself Down

How to Change Negative Self-Talk

How to Understand Your Triggers

How to Set Boundaries

By understanding and working through these patterns, you can unlock your full potential and achieve the success and happiness you desire.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:08 What is Self-Sabotage?

05:41 Passive-Aggressive Behavior

08:22 Behavior that Counters What We Tell Ourselves

11:08 What Leads to Self-Sabotage?

14:26 #1: Chronic Lateness

16:22 #2: Procrastination

19:53 #3: Putting Yourself Down

23:15 #4: Perfectionism

27:01 Three Ways to Deal with Your Self-Sabotaging Behavior

28:53 weird noise in the background

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What was your biggest challenge after hitting rock bottom?

How did you manage to overcome your failures?

Today, let's welcome the one and only Fat Joe, a renowned American rapper and music industry executive. He began his music career in the early 1990s and quickly gained recognition with his debut album "Represent" in 1993, featuring the hit single "Flow Joe." Fat Joe has played a crucial role in promoting other artists, notably Big Pun, who achieved significant success before his untimely death. His journey from the streets of the Bronx to international stardom is a testament to his talent, perseverance, and enduring impact on the world of hip hop.

Fat Joe provides an honest look at the gritty realities of his early life, including hustling for money and living through dangerous encounters. He shares how the aggressive nature of hip hop initially required him to hide his true, more personable self behind a tough exterior. However, he credits the genre for saving his life and offering a legitimate path out of the streets.

The conversation takes a turn as Fat Joe talks about the devastating losses he endured, including the deaths of his sister, Big Pun, and his grandfather, all within a short span. These tragedies plunged him into a deep depression, from which he emerged with the help of therapy, highlighting the importance of mental health and seeking help. Despite facing financial mismanagement and betrayals, Fat Joe maintains his integrity and commitment to his values. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to balance career and family

How turn negative experiences into positives

How to build a resilient mindset

How to give back to your community

How to stay true to yourself

Fat Joe's story is a source of inspiration, demonstrating that with determination and support, it is possible to overcome adversity and achieve lasting success and happiness.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

Special thanks to Soho Home at Soho Works 55 Water where the taping took place.

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:04 Earliest Childhood Memory

03:52 Bullying

07:53 Developing resilience 

08:37 Life and Death Choices

09:51 Thug Life

12:42 Ambition to Succeed

16:43 Figure It Out

22:03 Family Tree

27:43 Losing Family Over Addiction

31:57 Loss and Grief

39:21 Sister Love

41:13 Big Pun

46:56 Financial Literacy

50:19 Take Care of Your Parents

52:13 Money and Trust

56:25 Stick Around

57:44 Kids with Special Needs

01:02:30 Channeling Energy Through Music

01:04:30 Interview Gone VIral

01:08:30 Doing Good in Silence

01:11:05 The HipHop Culture

01:13:30 Spiritual and Healing Journey

01:16:34 Hair Care

01:19:47 Weight Loss

01:25:02 Joe on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Fat Joe | Instagram

Fat Joe | TikTok

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What do you look for in a partner?

What do you think makes a relationship interesting?

Today, let's talk about the disparity between what people say they want in a partner — traits like kindness, empathy, and thoughtfulness — and what they often find themselves attracted to, which may be more superficial qualities like physical attractiveness.

Jay references research from the Pew Research Center to highlight that 35% of men value physical attractiveness most in women, while 33% of women value honesty and morality most in men. He discusses how societal pressures and media influence shape these preferences and often lead people to prioritize the wrong traits, which can result in unsatisfying relationships.

Additionally, Jay addresses the issues of men looking for nurturing qualities in women, sometimes in an unhealthy, maternal sense, and the pressure on men to achieve professional and financial success. He also touches on the societal expectations and challenges faced by successful women who feel they need to downplay their achievements to attract partners.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to identify cover values in a partner

How to balance attraction and values

How to avoid common relationship pitfalls

How to build a connection based on values

How to foster a healthy relationship

By focusing on qualities like kindness, empathy, and honesty, we can build deeper, more meaningful connections. True compatibility goes beyond physical attraction and societal expectations, it's rooted in shared values and mutual respect.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:26 What Is More Important to Us in a Partner?

04:44 #1: Physical Attractiveness

05:16 #2: Honesty and Morality

08:37 #3: Empathy, Nurturing, Kindness

15:30 #4: Professional, Financial Success

18:49 #5: Intelligence

23:06 Looking for Love in the Wrong Places

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What’s your go-to nutrition hack?

Is it truly beneficial for your body’s health?

Today, let's welcome Elissa Goodman, a renowned integrative holistic nutritionist known for her expertise in cleansing and nutrition. She has gained recognition for her personal journey of overcoming significant health challenges, including cancer and autoimmune issues, which inspired her to take control of her health and help others do the same. Elissa has developed her own kitchen cleanse program, which delivers nourishing and healing foods directly to people's homes.

Elissa explains the concept of cleansing, which is often misunderstood as deprivation and starvation. Her approach focuses on nourishment and reducing inflammation through a diet rich in a variety of vegetables and plant-based foods. She describes the benefits of her cleanses, which help people reset their bodies, improve digestion, and enhance overall well-being.

Jay and Elissa also significance of habits such as regular blood work, proper sleep, meditation, and journaling for maintaining health. We get to hear practical advice, including tips on how to read supplement and food labels, avoiding additives and fillers, and the benefits of simple, whole foods and maintaining a balanced diet. Always listen to our body and make health decisions based on individual needs. .

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to hydrate properly

How to improve digestion

How to manage stress for better health

How to address emotional well-being

How to understand your body's needs

How to use plant-based proteins

Take the first step towards a healthier you by embracing these holistic approaches, and experience the transformative benefits for yourself.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:23 What is Cleansing?

05:58 Is Cleansing Necessary?

06:48 How Often Should You Cleanse?

08:47 Surviving Cancer

14:39 You Can Heal Cancer

18:05 The Benefits of Juicing

19:54 Celery Juice

25:06 Habit Change

28:00 Muscle Testing Supplements

29:44 The Right Supplements

33:11 Read Product Labels

37:42 Different Types of Cleansing

41:11 How the Digestive Tract Works

42:47 There’s No One Diet for All

46:02 Supplement Misconceptions

49:16 Going Back to Basics

52:37 Tap Into Your Subconscious

55:30 My Plant Medicine Journey

58:07 Releasing Kept Emotions

01:00:28 Takeaways

01:02:06 The Sickly Child

01:05:52 Hypnotism

01:07:32 Programing of Our Subconscious

01:10:33 Forgiveness

01:11:59 Elissa on Final Five

01:14:21 Manifesting Positivity   

Episode Resources:

Elissa Goodman | Website

Elissa Goodman | Instagram

Elissa Goodman | LinkedIn

Elissa Goodman | Facebook

Elissa Goodman | YouTube

Elissa Goodman | TikTok

Cancer Hacks: A Holistic Guide to Overcoming your Fears and Healing Cancer

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Do you have a cause you want to pursue?

How do you give back to your community?

Today's guests are two very purpose-driven women behind the Baby2Baby, a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing basic necessities to children living in poverty across the United States. Let's welcome Baby2Baby Co-CEOs Norah Weinstein and Kelly Sawyer Patricof. Since its inception, Baby2Baby has grown into a $80 million organization serving over 1 million children annually by distributing essential items such as diapers, formula, and clothing.  

Norah and Kelly share their personal motivations and backgrounds, with Norah’s commitment rooted in her childhood and reinforced during her pro bono work as a lawyer, and Kelly’s passion stemming from her volunteer work with children during her modeling career. Their mission is driven by the immediate and tangible needs of the communities they serve, highlighting how even basic items like diapers can make a significant difference in the lives of children and their families.

The duo emphasizes on the importance of listening to the communities they serve to understand their specific needs, and how practical items like diapers are crucial for enabling parents to work and children to attend daycare. The power of celebrity endorsements and corporate partnerships has been pivotal in raising awareness and securing resources for Baby2Baby's mission.  

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to raise public awareness for your cause

How to scale a nonprofit organization

How to run a successful fundraising event

How to nurture a culture of giving back

How to instill the giving back culture to children

Norah and Kelly's incredible journey with Baby2Baby shows us the power of compassion and community. Each one of us has the ability to create meaningful change. Take action today.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:09 The Culture of Giving Back
• 08:19 Pro-Bono Cases
• 09:55 Giving Back Can Be Fun
• 14:00 The First Meeting
• 17:04 Ask the People Who Need Help
• 19:46 Full Time Commitment
• 26:09 Real-Time Challenges
• 27:44 Diaper is a Symbol of Poverty
• 34:36 Pushing Boundaries
• 39:05 Giving Back in an Unhelpful Way
• 44:50 Yes-Days, No-Days
• 53:50 Ambassadors and Partnerships
• 57:32 The Power of Celebrity Moms
• 01:02:29 Maui Wildfires
• 01:05:09 How Can You Help
• 01:10:29 How to Create a Culture of Giving
• 01:16:11 Instill Giving Back in Children Early
• 01:19:42 There’s a Lot More to Be Done
• 01:23:07 Norah and Kelly on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

• Baby2Baby
• Baby2Baby | YouTube
• Baby2Baby | Instagram
• Baby2Baby | Facebook
• Norah Weinstein | LinkedIn
• Norah Weinstein | Instagram
• Kelly Sawyer Patricof | LinkedIn
• Kelly Sawyer Patricof | Instagram

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Do you often remember your dreams?

What was the last dream you can remember?

Today, let's welcome Dr. Rahul Jandial. Rahul is a dual-trained brain surgeon and neuroscientist based at City of Hope in Los Angeles. He leads the Jandial Lab, which explores the intersection of neurobiology and cancer. Beyond his research, Dr. Jandial is dedicated to global health, performing pediatric neurosurgery in charity hospitals across South America and Eastern Europe. He is also the author of the book "This Is Why You Dream," which delves into the science and significance of dreaming.

Jay and Rahul explore the significance of dreams and their impact on our lives, and that the brain is highly active during sleep, generating as much electricity as when awake. This activity suggests that dreaming is not a passive process but an essential function for the brain, helping it process and rehearse experiences, emotions, and creativity.

There are common themes in dreams, such as nightmares, erotic dreams, and motifs like falling or being chased. Rahul highlights that these themes are linked to the brain's imaginative and emotional networks, which are more active during dreaming. Nightmares, for instance, play a crucial role in developing a sense of self and other in children, while in adults, they can indicate unresolved emotional issues or trauma. He also discusses the concept of lucid dreaming, where one becomes aware of dreaming and can exert some control over the dream narrative. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to enhance dream recall

How to induce lucid dreaming

How to utilize dreams for creative problem solving

How to reduce nightmare in children

How to cultivate positive morning thoughts 

How to improve sleep quality for better dreams

Embrace the power of your dreams to boost creativity and emotional well-being. Take the first step tonight for a healthier, more vibrant tomorrow!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:05 Does Everyone Dream?

05:01 Why Do We Dream?

09:01 Dreams in a Scientific Perspective

13:30 Making Sense of a Dream

19:05 Sleep Entry

23:20 Erotic Dreams

29:02 Dreams Should Not be Neglected

32:09 Are We Meaning Makers?

37:02 Recurrent Dreams

38:36 Unwanted Recurrent Dream

42:11 Thoughts, Emotions, and Activities in the Brain Level

48:48 How Do You Explain Nightmares?

54:01 Task On

56:52 Sleep Exit

01:01:39 Cross Section of AI and Dreams

01:04:08 Can Dreams Predict the Future?

01:08:02 Mental Workspace in Uncertainty

01:12:58 Flashbacks vs PTSD

01:17:33 Lucid Dreaming

01:23:33 Can You Practice Lucid Dreaming?

01:25:15 The Right Approach to Understanding Dreams

01:47 The Dreaming Brain

01:33:34 When to Take a Nap

01:35:29 The Feeling of Falling While Asleep

01:37:35 Rahul on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Dr. Rahul Jandial | Instagram

Dr. Rahul Jandial | Facebook

This Is Why You Dream: What Your Sleeping Brain Reveals About Your Waking Life

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Do you believe in "right person, wrong time"?

Do you have realistic expectations about dating?

Today, Jay will discuss the popular notion of the "right person at the wrong time." He explains that this idea often stems from nostalgia, which can distort our memories by emphasizing the positive aspects of past experiences and minimizing the negatives. This romanticized view of the past can prevent us from addressing present realities and hinder our ability to form healthy relationships.

Jay also talks about the various factors that influence relationships, such as a person's relationship status, goals, and healing journey. He argues that a person's current circumstances, such as being newly single or single for a long time, significantly shape who they are and their readiness for a relationship. Furthermore, in a healthy relationship, partners should respect and support each other's goals rather than expecting complete alignment. He also highlights the importance of patience and mutual support in the ongoing process of healing from past traumas.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to align goals in a relationship

How to manage expectations

How to build a healthy relationship

How to embrace new possibilities

By letting go of romanticized notions of the past and embracing the present, we open ourselves to genuine connections. Be open, curious, and positive about dating, we can find meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:00 Right Person, Wrong Time

03:37 Nostalgia Overshadows the Negative Experiences

11:15 Relationship Status

13:34 Goals

15:50 Trauma

18:26 Potential

20:24 Standards

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Are you a perfectionist? 

Do you ever spend time alone in silence? 

Today, Jay sits down with Melinda French Gates, co-chair of the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation and founder of Pivotal Ventures to talk about her journey from studying computer science at Duke University to working at Microsoft, and eventually transitioning into philanthropy.

Melinda highlights the importance of goal setting and quiet reflection, practices instilled in her from a young age; the challenges women and people of color face in achieving equality, emphasizing the need for more inclusive policies and support systems; and the importance of diverse representation in leadership and decision-making roles.

Melinda shared insights into her parenting approach, emphasizing the importance of instilling values of kindness, responsibility, and giving back to society. She also shared her journey of grappling with the decision to publicly support contraceptive access, which conflicted with her Catholic faith. This decision involved deep reflection, discussions with family and friends, and a significant amount of time spent questioning and reconciling her beliefs. 

Later in the conversation, Melinda highlighted several key lessons she learned later in life, such as the realization that the world is not equally accessible to everyone, particularly women and people of color. This understanding fueled her advocacy for creating more inclusive environments and breaking down barriers that prevent these groups from reaching their full potential​. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to embrace change positively

How to spend time alone 

How to set and achieve goals

How to overcome imposter syndrome

How to teach children the value of service

How to build a culture of giving

How to foster kindness and gratitude

Take a moment to reflect, give yourself grace, and celebrate your authentic self. Let’s grow together, one imperfect step at a time.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:58 Takeaways From Dealing with Change

04:26 Positive Mindset on Change

06:54 Where Did Your Dream Start?

10:18 Spending Time in Silence

12:11 Cultivate Relationships with Trusted People

14:12 Lessons Learned as a Parent

16:05 Not Everyone is Given the Same Opportunity

18:20 Equality for All in the Community

20:24 The Demand of Contraceptives Worldwide

24:41 The Imposter Syndrome

27:20 The Beauty in the Imperfections

30:01 Spiritual Group of Different Religions

33:36 Wisdom from Different Age Group

34:59 Addiction to Perfection

37:05 Stop Judging Yourself and Others

40:56 Equating Grace to Guilt

42:53 Finding Grace After Divorce

46:48 Be Kind to Yourself While Processing Pain

48:36 You Will Find Happiness Again

51:13 Empowering Women and People of Color

54:12 Breaking Down Biased Excuses

59:29 Kindness, Talent, and Luck

01:00:54 Children of Famous Parents

01:04:24 Creating a Culture of Giving

01:12:45 Melinda on Final Five  

Episode Resources:

Melinda French Gates | Instagram

Melinda French Gates | Facebook

Melinda French Gates | TikTok

Melinda French Gates | LinkedIn

Melinda French Gates | X

Melinda French Gates | YouTube

The Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Changes the World 

Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation

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Have you been wanting to lose weight? 

Do you want to transform your body with your workouts?

Senada Greca is widely known as Kim Kardashian’s Personal Trainer as well as a renowned fitness and wellness expert. Senada shares her transformative journey from struggling with depression and anxiety to becoming a thought leader in fitness. She is the founder of We Rise, a female empowerment platform focused on health, wellness, and personal development, and Zen toa, a women's athletic apparel brand. Senada has trained high-profile clients such as Miranda Kerr, Bebe Rexha, and Kim Kardashian.

Senada's turning point came when she discovered the mental health benefits of strength training, shifting her focus from aesthetics to holistic well-being. Emphasizing the importance of building consistent fitness habits, she advocates starting small and integrating workouts into daily routines. Senada underscores the myriad benefits of strength training, particularly its role in enhancing bone density, muscle mass, and longevity, and preventing injuries, especially as one ages.

Together with Jay, Senada advises against relying on motivation alone and suggests finding ways to incorporate physical activity into busy schedules. Senada gives tips on the importance of a holistic approach to health, combining physical fitness with mental and emotional well-being practices like meditation, gratitude, and visualization. She also gives easy habits to implement in your daily nutrition. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to start a fitness routine

How to optimize your nutrition

How to use strength training for longevity

How to stay active every day

Remember, motivation isn't just about feeling pumped up every day; it's about building habits that become second nature. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:59 Do You Have a Fitness Goal?

06:06 What Can You Do in 5 Minutes?

09:29 Were You Always Fit?

12:01 The Dangers of Depleting Your Body

13:25 What Workout Works for You

15:03 How Strength Training Affect Longevity

18:20 What Most People Struggle With

23:50 The Right Reward System to Being Fit

25:14 Biggest Misconceptions About Strength Training

26:50 What Should You Eat Before Workout?

28:32 Genetics

30:12 Low Body Fat Percentage

31:13 Cardio

34:05 Practicing for a Marathon

35:17 Nutrition Plan

38:04 Muscle Loss

41:28 Anxiety and Depression

43:40 Do You Workout Everyday?

45:21 Working with Kim

47:13 Are You Serious About Working?

49:43 Managing Nutrition vs. Workout

50:51 Workout without a Trainer

52:26 The Power of the Mind

55:45 Senada on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Senada Greca | YouTube

Senada Greca | Instagram

Senada Greca | Facebook

Senada Greca | TikTok

WeRise

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Why do we always put things off until the last minute?

How can we stop the habit of procrastinating?

Today, let's welcome Rob Dial, host of the Mindset Mentor Podcast and author of "Level Up." Jay and Rob reminisce about their seven-year friendship, sharing how their mutual interests in mindset and Eastern spirituality brought them together. 

The conversation delves into the role of fear in holding people back, with Rob distinguishing between primal fears (like pain and death) and intellectual fears (like failure and rejection). He offers strategies to overcome these fears by focusing on positive outcomes instead of negative possibilities. They also explore the topic of procrastination, with Rob emphasizing the importance of having a strong "why" to drive motivation and action. 

Rob reflects on his spiritual journey and how silence and introspection have helped him find peace and purpose. He also shares the key lesson he has learned: what we seek externally is often something we need to find within ourselves.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to overcome fear

How to connect with your 'WHY'

How to overcome procrastination

How to change negative thought patterns

How to accept and love all part of yourself

Let's continue to seek deeper understanding and connection with themselves, emphasizing the value of inner peace and presence.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:53 Starting a Podcast

04:04 Why Do We Struggle to Focus?

09:17 Dealing with Intellectual Fear

14:44 What’s Your Most Repeated Thought?

18:20 What is Your WHY?

24:49 Overcoming the Fear of the Unknown

30:32 Going for the Things You Aspire

35:39 There Are Different Forms of Addiction

41:53 Our Truth is Always within Us

46:50 Take a Pause to Reconnect with Yourself

50:22 The Duality of What We Value

55:44 How Do You Pick Yourself Up?

59:40 What Life Lesson That Changed You?

01:04:41 Lesson Learned the Hard Way

01:07:48 Rob on Final Five

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Rob Dial | Instagram

Rob Dial | Facebook

Rob Dial | TikTok

Rob Dial | LinkedIn

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Do you and your partner share values?

How do you support each other emotionally?

Today, Jay taps into the  idea that love alone is not sufficient to sustain a healthy relationship. While love is important, other elements such as shared values, emotional maturity, consistent patterns of behavior, and trust are crucial for long-lasting partnerships. Societal norms often romanticize love, leading people to overlook these essential factors.

Jay discusses the significance of understanding and respecting each other's values, as well as recognizing and addressing patterns of behavior. Emotional maturity, which involves managing and expressing emotions healthily, is highlighted as a key component of a stable relationship. Support and partnership are deemed more critical than love alone.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to communicate your value to your partner

How to develop emotional maturity

How to support your partner's emotional growth

How to build trust in your relationship

Remember, love is important, but building a relationship on trust, values, and emotional maturity is key.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:07 Do They Love Me?

04:42 #1: Love Makes Us Forget the Importance of Values

08:56 #2: Love Makes You Forget Patterns of Behaviour

16:09 #3: Love Makes You Forget How They Treat You

19:29 #4: Love Versus Support

21:46 #5: You Forget the Importance of Trust

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How are smartphones linked to anxiety?

What mental health issues are linked to excessive social media use?

Today, let's welcome Jonathan Haidt is a renowned social psychologist, professor at New York University’s Stern School of Business, and a widely published author. He is known for his research on morality, culture, and the psychology of happiness. Jonathan's influential books include "The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion" and "The Coddling of the American Mind." His latest work, "The Anxious Generation," examines the profound impact of social media on young people's mental health.

Jonathan highlights the unprecedented global collapse of mental health among youth, describing it as more significant than the COVID-19 pandemic, with girls being particularly affected by anxiety and depression, and boys showing significant social development issues.

The conversation also addresses the academic debate regarding the root causes of this mental health crisis, with Jonathan presenting compelling data and experimental evidence to support his view that social media is a primary driver. He offers actionable solutions, including delaying smartphone and social media use until later ages, implementing phone-free school policies, increasing outdoor play, and advocating for collective action by parents and communities. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to create a healthier digital environment for kids

How to implement age-appropriate tech usage

How to encourage outdoor play and physical activities

How to talk to children about the risks of social media

How to foster resilience and emotional strength in kids

How to create a supportive community for parents

Together, let's take a comprehensive look into the mental health crisis the youth is facing today and take note of the practical strategies for creating a healthier environment that supports their well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:55 Global Synchronized Collapse of Mental Health

08:12 Social Media is for Adults to Network

10:20 The Science Behind Anxiety

14:51 Variation of Emotions is Necessary for Kids

17:45 Play Helps Kids Learn

19:12 How to Make Playtime More Effective?

22:59 The Effects of Technology on Different Genders

29:24 Going Through Puberty on Social Media

32:08 How Parenting Has Changed with Technology

34:27 Efforts to Regulate Smartphones Use for Children

44:21 Women Are Always Judged for Their Looks

49:26 Verified Social Media Account

56:58 Why Tap Into Our Spirituality

01:03:56 What is Happening to Us?

01:11:31 The Greatest Distraction of Human Value

01:16:23 Jonathan on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Jonathan Haidt | Website

Jonathan Haidt | Instagram

Jonathan Haidt | Facebook

Jonathan Haidt | X

Jonathan Haidt | YouTube

Jonathan Haidt | LinkedIn

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Do you often feel exhausted or burnt out?

Are you struggling to manage your stress levels?

Today, Jay talks about exhaustion, burnout, and stress, highlighting their prevalence with statistics showing that a significant portion of young adults and women report feeling drained. He introduces a practical approach to tackle these challenges, encapsulated in the "triple A" formula—Accept, Action, Attention—which encourages acknowledging negative feelings, taking actionable steps to address them, and paying mindful attention to one's mental state

Jay also introduces the concept of "reset periods," whether it's an hour, half-day, or full day, to allow for complete mental and physical rejuvenation. The importance of self-compassion is also emphasized, encouraging individuals to replace inner criticism with supportive self-talk, which can significantly improve overall well-being.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to break negative thought cycle

How to manage your energy levels

How to use stress strategically

How to practice self-compassion

How to get out of stressful situation

Don’t let exhaustion control your life—take action today and start feeling refreshed and empowered. Listen now and share with someone who needs a boost!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Do You Feel Drained?

03:10 #1: Learn to Break Repetitive Thoughts

06:27 #2: You Don’t Need to Be on Full Energy All the Time

10:20 #3: Learn to Say NO

14:05 #4: Be Strategic with Your Time

17:02 #5: Have a Reset Day

18:35 #6: Be Kind to Yourself

19:59 #7: Allow Yourself to Vent and Let It Out

21:24 #8: Get a Restful Sleep 

23:00 #9: Wash Your Mind the Night Before

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How does gratitude aid during emotional struggles?

How does focusing on positives improve our emotional well-being?

Today, let's welcome supermodel, content creator, actor, and philanthropist Taylor Hill. Discovered at the age of 14, Taylor has worked with fashion houses and luxury brands around the globe and has graced the covers of prestigious fashion magazines, including Vogue. Beyond her modeling career, Taylor is the founder of Tate and Taylor, a media content platform and community inspired by her late Labradoodle, Tate. 

Taylor speaks candidly about her emotional journey with her late Labradoodle, Tate and the profound bond she shared with him,  describing how he was more than just a pet – he was a soulmate and a source of unwavering support. She also opens up about the challenges and triumphs of starting her modeling career as a teenager, highlighting the pressures and responsibilities that came with her rapid rise to fame.

Inspired by her journey with Tate, Taylor founded Tate and Taylor, a media content platform and community for pets and their humans. She explains the mission behind this venture, which aims to support pet owners and raise awareness about animal welfare.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to handle emotional challenges

How to manage early career success

How to stay fit mentally and physically

How to manage grief and loss

How to pursue your purpose

How to find joy and gratitude everyday

Taylor's story is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the healing power of unconditional love, an inspiring message for anyone facing their own struggles and searching for meaning in their experiences. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:50 Earliest Childhood Memory

09:30 Modeling at 14 

12:52 Going to School Wasn’t For Me

15:26 Victoria Secret Model

18:18 Audition Process for Models

20:20 Having the Right Team

24:52 Discipline of a VS Model

33:32 VS Comeback

38:55 Experiencing Burnout

42:12 Losing Tate

51:33 The Signs and Symptoms

01:13:01 Healing From Losing Your Pet

01:19:40 Pregnancy and Miscarriage 

01:44:52 Alone Time While Grieving

01:53:02 Emotional Support From Your Partner

02:04:01 Everyone’s Journey is Different

02:10:39 Building the Tate and Taylor Brand

02:20:52 A Brand for a Cause

02:24:48 Taylor on Final Five

Episode Resources:

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Taylor Hill | Facebook

Taylor Hill | TikTok

Tate & Taylor

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Do you compare your relationship to others?

How can you identify and manage your triggers for comparison?

Today, Jay introduces the concept of social comparison theory, explaining the differences between upward - where we compare ourselves to those we perceive as better off, can lead to feelings of inadequacy if done with envy rather than a mindset of learning, and downward comparisons which involves comparing ourselves to those worse off, which can provide a temporary boost in self-esteem but is ultimately unproductive and unkind.

He shares practical strategies for reducing comparison, such as being mindful of social media usage, identifying personal triggers, and investing in self-improvement. Jay also stresses the importance of understanding the deeper, often hidden aspects of people's lives and why we usually compare our internal struggles with others' external successes, leading to a distorted and unfair self-assessment.

In the episode, you'll learn:

How to identify your goals

How to set mutual goals

How to be mindful of your triggers

How to invest in self-improvement

By seeking deeper connections and understanding the full context of others' lives, we can develop more empathy and reduce the impulse to compare and shift our focus from external comparisons to internal growth and relational strength, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and authentic life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:28 Comparing Ourselves to Other People

04:32 Social Media Makes Unhealthy Comparison

05:27 The Two Social Comparison Theory

12:53 Everyone Has Different Values

14:26 Focus More on the Good You’re Doing

16:11 Focus on What It Take For You to Get There

17:39 Get to Know People Deeply

19:33 Be Conscious of Your Own Triggers

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Do you want to be able to detect the early warning signs of disease? 

Do you want to learn how to manage your stress effectively? 

Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Casey Means, a Stanford-trained physician, a leading voice in the field of metabolic health, and the co-founder of Levels, a company dedicated to improving health through continuous glucose monitoring. She is also an author, with her latest book, "Good Energy," focusing on metabolic health and its impact on overall well-being. Dr. Means has been featured in prominent publications such as The New York Times, The New Yorker, The Wall Street Journal, and Forbes. 

Dr. Casey Means highlights the alarming rise of chronic diseases, including diabetes, heart disease, and obesity, which she attributes to the modern lifestyle and its impact on our metabolic systems. She emphasizes the importance of understanding metabolic health, which she describes as the body's ability to efficiently convert food into energy at the cellular level and encourages us to take control of our health by becoming more attuned to our bodies and the signals it sends. 

Jay and Dr. Means focus on the importance of a balanced diet, adequate sleep, regular physical activity, stress management, and reducing exposure to environmental toxins. And the inspiring stories and scientific evidence to illustrate how simple lifestyle changes can lead to significant improvements in health. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to improve metabolic health

How to manage stress effectively

How to make dietary changes

How to optimize sleep

How to trust your own body

How to stay physically active

This compelling vision for a future where individuals are empowered with the knowledge and tools to take charge of their health, leading to happier, healthier, and more fulfilled lives is attainable. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:55 Who Do We Trust with Our Health?

12:12 Become the Healthiest Version of You

18:27 What is Metabolic Health?

25:39 2 Ways Your Body Communicates with You

34:56 The Concept of Inflammation within the Body

40:15 How Does the Health System Work?

51:33 Why Ban Pharmaceutical Company Ads?

56:42 How Banning Pharma Ads Will Affect the Economy

01:02:47 Academic Research Funded by Pharma

01:05:35 Eliminate Added Sugar in School Lunch

01:11:05 The 5 Essential Biomarkers

01:23:10 How You’re Eating Matters

01:24:37 The Benefits of 7000 Steps

01:29:37 What is Social Jetlag?

01:34:51 We Are a Process Not an Entity

01:44:57 Casey on Final Five

Episode Resources:

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Casey Means | Instagram

Casey Means | Twitter

Casey Means | Facebook

Casey Means | YouTube

Casey Means | TikTok

Casey Means | LinkedIn

Good Energy: The Surprising Connection Between Metabolism and Limitless Health

Levels

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Do you often feel unappreciated by your partner?

Do you avoid addressing issues to keep the peace?

Today, Jay tackles a common yet often overlooked issue in relationships: subtle settling. He begins by acknowledging the pervasive uncertainty many people face about their partners and the fear of being alone that often drives them to stay in unfulfilling relationships. Is it true that the lack of current excitement or passion necessarily indicates settling.

One of the key questions Jay poses is whether individuals feel they can be their true selves with their partners. He highlights the importance of authenticity in relationships, sharing anecdotes about how people often hide or underplay parts of themselves to be more likable, which ultimately leads to losing their true identity.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to foster emotional availability

How to deal with unrealistic expectations

How to ensure mutual respect in your relationship

How to discuss important issues in a healthy way

Healthy communication is another crucial aspect in all relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to ensure they are not compromising their happiness and well-being in their relationships.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:24 Subtle Settling

02:26 #1: Do You Feel Like You Can Truly Be Yourself?

07:18 #2: Do You Discuss Important Things In A Healthy Way?

13:19 #3: Do You Feel A Sense Of Respect?

15:36 #4: Are You Scared Of Being Lonely?

20:58 #5: Do You Compare Your Partner To Other People?

22:23 #6: Do They Understand Why You Are The Way You Are?

23:53 #7: Can They Tolerate Your Weaknesses And Can You Tolerate Theirs?

24:53 #8: You're Subtle Settling If It's A Financial Decision

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What does healing your inner child mean?

How can you heal from past trauma?

Today, let's welcome Grammy-nominated global superstar, Anitta, who has become a leading artist of a new generation of Latin American music. Her album "Versions of Me" surpassed 1 billion streams on Spotify, and she earned a Grammy nomination for Best New Artist in 2023. Known for her energetic performances and bold personality, Anitta is also deeply spiritual, integrating various practices to maintain her well-being and authenticity.

A significant part of the episode focuses on the duality of Anitta's identity. She explains how she balances her stage persona with her true self, Larissa, and the importance of nurturing both. Anitta shares the struggles she faced with comparisons, societal expectations, and the pressure to maintain a certain image. Her journey towards self-acceptance and self-love is a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit. 

Jay and Anitta also talk about the importance of staying grounded amidst success, sharing her daily routines that include meditation, energy cleansing, and connecting with nature. Despite facing criticism and backlash, she remains committed to expressing and celebrating her culture through her music and public appearances.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to stay grounded amidst success

How to overcome comparisons

How to heal from past trauma

How to manage your health

How to cultivate self-love

How to handle criticisms

Anitta's story is a reminder that true success is not just about external achievements but also about inner peace, self-love, and staying connected to one's roots.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:39 How Do You Prepare for a Performance?

05:05 Meditation Practice

08:17 How Elevate Your Energy

11:06 Comparison is Making Us Unhappy

16:04 Successful But Unhappy

29:24 Doing Things for Your Happiness

37:04 Health Scare

38:10 Healing Emotional Trauma

42:46 What Are You Here For?

45:19 Getting Off Birth Control

51:12 Two Energy in One Body

58:32 Society’s Double Standard in Dating

01:01:38 Different Religion and Faith

01:11:30 We All Have a Choice

01:16:10 Challenges and Hardships Along the Way 

01:24:22 Dealing with Conflicts

01:29:14 Opportunities for Better Exposure

01:34:14 Finding Balance in Life

01:35:21 Anitta on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Anitta | Instagram

Anitta | Twitter

Anitta | Facebook

Anitta | YouTube

Anitta | TikTok

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How can you recognize when you need to slow down?

And what are the benefits of slowing down in everyday life?

Today, Jay addresses the growing concern about how to slow down in our fast-paced world. Many of us feel like time is flying by, and Jay offers practical tips to help us feel more present and in control. 

Jay recommends connecting with ourselves, looking at our schedule, and reaching out to loved ones. By waking up 20 minutes earlier than needed, this small change can set a calm tone for the day. And there is power in silence and spending time in nature. Silence helps reduce our brain's cognitive load, and being in nature makes us feel more present and less rushed.

Throughout the episode, Jay provides easy-to-follow advice to help us slow down and enjoy life more fully, reminding us that slowing down is about being more present, not doing less.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to slow down time

How to change your daily habits

How to plan for your day

These small changes can make a big difference in how you experience time. Remember, there's more to life than increasing its speed. Let's slow down together and savor every moment.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:31 Time Flies By So Fast

04:21 #1: Wake Up 20 Minutes Before You Actually Have To

08:40 #2: One Device At A Time

11:35 #3: Take 30 Seconds To Engage All Five Senses

13:44 #4: Obey Speed The Limit

16:32 #5: Being Present With Your Breath To Align Your Body And Mind

18:25 #6: Find And Create Moments Of Silence Everyday

21:19 #7: Observe And Be Present In Nature

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How can changing your mindset help you learn from mistakes?

And what are the benefits of viewing challenges as learning opportunities?

Today, let's welcome Charles Leclerc. Charles is Formula One racing driver who competes for Scuderia Ferrari in the FIA Formula One World Championship. Charles gained attention for his impressive performances in junior categories, winning titles in series such as GP3 Series and FIA Formula 2 Championship. He made his Formula One debut with Alfa Romeo Sauber F1 Team in 2018 before joining Ferrari as their lead driver in 2019.

Charles offers a behind-the-scenes glimpse into the life of a professional race car driver. He narrates through the twists and turns of the race track, uncovering the passion, dedication, and relentless drive that propel them forward. And the secrets behind preparing and training for the race, with sleep emerging as the ultimate priority for peak performance.

Jay and Charles talk about the invaluable lessons learned from mistakes, emphasizing the importance of humility, gratitude, and resilience in the face of challenges. We gain insights into the profound impact of family, mentors, and teammates, and the pivotal role they play in navigating the highs and lows of the racing journey. From confronting fears to embracing growth, from channeling grief into fuel for success to staying grounded amidst soaring achievements, this conversation offers a masterclass in determination and perseverance. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to never lose focus

How to become number one

The importance of family time

The strength of an efficient team

How to practice teamwork

Together, let's hear the untold stories and hidden truths behind the glitz and glamor of the race track. Tune in and prepare to be inspired by the unstoppable spirit of a true racing champion. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:12 Get to Know the Person Behind the Wheels

03:09 If You Weren’t a Race Car Driver, What Would You Have Been?

04:28 When Was the First Time You’ve Driven a Car?

06:23 How Do You Prepare and Train for a Race

09:21 Sleep is the Number One Priority

13:40 How You React to Mistakes is Super Important

14:47 Losing Focus Will Cost You a Lot

17:34 Gratitude for the Team You Work with

19:08 What Scares You Off Track?

20:25 Channeling Grief into Growth

22:19 “What Would My Father Want Me to Do?”

23:19 Keep Important People Close Especially in Difficult Moments

25:03 Always Stay Humble and Grateful

26:08 In the Midst of Success, How Do You Stay Humble?

28:23 What Criticism Hurts the Most?

31:39 Car Racing Remains a Dangerous Sport

32:55 Speed Isn’t the Only Important Part of F1 Racing

34:19 Training is Different for F1 Drivers

37:09 Have You Seen the Movie “The Rush”?

39:07 Different Driving Experiences

40:15 I Love Playing the Piano

42:52 How Much Time Do You Spend with Family?

44:47 The Incredible Racing Track of Ayrton Senna

46:10 The Pros and Cons of an F1 Simulator

48:19 On Lying About Signing the F1 Contract

51:37 Is Driving a Lonely Sport?

53:40 How Important Is It to Win the Championship?

55:02 What Would You Say to Your Future Self?

56:51 How Often Do You Work with Younger Drivers?

58:56 “I Love What I Do But I Want to Be the Best.”

01:00:27 Charles on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Charles Leclerc | Website

Charles Leclerc | Instagram

Charles Leclerc | Twitter

Charles Leclerc | Facebook

Charles Leclerc | YouTube

Charles Leclerc | TikTok

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Are you struggling with finding someone to talk to?

What can you do during a mental health crisis?

Today, Jay offers a wealth of practical advice aimed at enhancing mental health through simple, actionable changes. Drawing on his partnership with the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), Jay emphasizes the importance of recognizing Mental Health Awareness Month and the critical need for accessible mental health support.

Jay provides a blend of personal anecdotes, research-backed insights, and practical advice, making it a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their mental well-being. He wraps up the episode with a heartfelt message of support, reminding listeners that he is always in their corner, rooting for their success and happiness.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How small changes create big impact

How to improve at something you like to do

How to take care of your mental health

The simple practices to change your routine

If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that there is help available. Let's work together to promote mental health awareness and support each other in our journey towards better mental well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:20 #1: Practice A Good Evening Routine

09:24 #2: Plan Something For Yourself And Someone Else

14:31 #3: Get Better At The Things You’re Good At

17:13 #4: Coloring Books Helps Your Mind Relax

20:13 #5: Spending Time Outdoors Helps Reduce Stress

22:05 #6: Sugary Foods Weakens the Body’s Response to Stress

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What motivates your weight loss journey?

How do you stay motivated when progress is slow?

Today, Jay welcomes Johan Hari. Johan is an acclaimed writer and journalist known for his deep investigative work on topics ranging from addiction to depression. He is the author of best-selling books like "Chasing the Scream" and "Lost Connections," which explore the root causes of addiction and depression, respectively. His latest book, "The Magic Pill," investigates the new generation of weight loss drugs and their impact on individuals and society. 

Johan shares the story of how he first learned about these drugs at a Hollywood party and his subsequent journey to understand their true effects. This journey took him across the globe, interviewing leading experts and individuals who have experienced the drugs’ effects firsthand. He candidly shares his own experiences with Ozempic, including the unexpected emotional challenges he faced as his long-standing relationship with food was disrupted.

The conversation also explores the broader societal implications of widespread use of weight loss drugs. Johan and Jay discuss the potential for these drugs to change cultural attitudes towards body image and obesity, for better or worse. They consider the economic ramifications, such as the declining market for fast food and medical procedures related to obesity, and what this might mean for the future of public health.  

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to evaluate benefits versus risks

How to navigate social stigmas

How to deal with obesity

How weight loss drugs could shape future societal norms

The psychological reasons behind overeating

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the complexities of modern weight loss solutions, offering a balanced view that considers both the remarkable benefits and the significant risks.

This interview took place at Soho Home at Soho Works 55 Water. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:30 Is the British Accent Authoritative?

04:16 Biggest Misconceptions About Ozempic

08:20 Three Ways to Treat the Magic Pill

11:35 How Obesity Became a Health Crisis

19:42 ‘I Don’t Feel Hungry’

28:17 The Benefits and Risks of Weight Loss Drugs

34:36 Shame and Cruelty Against Obesity

47:09 Advocating for Body Positivity

54:14 Is the Fast Food Industry Shrinking?

57:26 Big Risks When Taking Ozempic

01:06:34 Varying Clinical Results

01:14:18 The Most Horrific Side Effect Recorded

01:16:11 Is Ozempic Safe for Kids?

01:19:22 Oprah’s Ozempic Challenge

01:22:50 Is It Cheating?

01:26:41 Investing in Weight Loss Drugs Research

01:27:30 How Japan Is Able to Control Obesity

01:37:01 The Cultural Models We Can Learn from Japan

01:40:23 Better Eating Habits is Still Necessary

01:42:52 Johan in Final Five  

Episode Resources:

Johann Hari | Website

Johann Hari | TikTok

Johann Hari | Instagram

Johann Hari | Facebook

Johann Hari | YouTube

Johann Hari | Twitter

Magic Pill: The Extraordinary Benefits and Disturbing Risks of the New Weight-Loss Drugs

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Why is it challenging to acknowledge when you're lying to yourself?

How can one maintain a habit of honesty in daily life?

Today, let's welcome The Breakfast Club co-host Charlamagne tha God. He is a prominent media personality and New York Times bestselling author, best known for his candid approach to celebrity interviews and his advocacy for mental health. His latest book, "Get Honest or Die Lying," challenges readers to forego the superficial and engage in meaningful, transformative dialogue.

Charlamagne shares his insights on the societal detriments of small talk and why  superficial conversations are not only a waste of time but also a significant barrier to meaningful human connection and understanding. He argues that the small, meaningless exchanges that fill our daily interactions should be replaced with deeper, more substantial dialogues that challenge, enlighten, and engage us on multiple levels.

With Jay, Charlamagne explores the psychological and social impacts of engaging in—or avoiding—small talk. He illustrates his points with personal anecdotes and experiences, including his own struggles and breakthroughs in striving for more genuine interactions in both his personal life and professional endeavors. He stresses the importance of being present in conversations, listening actively, and expressing one’s true thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to initiate deeper discussions

How to be honest in conversations

How to set personal boundaries

How to reflect on personal growth

How to encourage others to engage

This episode not only challenges listeners to evaluate the quality of their own conversations but also inspires them to make every word count in the quest for deeper understanding and genuine relationships.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

You can pre-order Charlamagne’s latest book, Get Honest or Die Lying here: https://www.simonandschuster.com/p/get-honest-or-die-lying-preorder

This interview was held at Soho Home at Soho Works 55 Water.

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:01 Why Small Talk Doesn’ Work

05:15 Be Honest About Your Feelings

08:00 How Do You Stop Being Offended?

09:27 Realizations During Therapy

12:14 Not Setting Proper Boundaries

13:32 Stop Being a People Pleaser

16:50 Online Oversharing

18:13 Detaching from Your Ego

20:23 Getting Caught Up in Lies

23:33 Passing Judgment on People We Don’t Know 

29:09 Confronting a Cheating Father

34:48 In-Tune with Your Visions

39:21 Why Some Things Don’t Work

42:36 Successful But Unhappy

01:03:10 Don’t Make a Decision Based on Emotion

01:06:32 Don’t Confine Yourself In Small Boxes

01:13:24 Honest Conversations with Your Kids

Episode Resources:

Charlamagne tha God | Website

Charlamagne tha God | TikTok

Charlamagne tha God | Instagram

Charlamagne tha God | Facebook

Charlamagne tha God | YouTube

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Black Privilege: Opportunity Comes to Those Who Create It

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Why is it important to listen to your inner voice?

How can you cultivate a stronger connection with your inner voice?

In this episode, let's welcome Laura Lynne Jackson, a renowned psychic medium, author, and spiritual teacher, celebrated for her profound ability to bridge the physical and spiritual worlds. She has authored several influential books, including "The Light Between Us" and "Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe," which delve into the ways we can connect with the afterlife and harness our own psychic abilities.  She is widely respected for her compassionate approach and her commitment to helping others discover the transformative power of their own inner voices. 

Laura shares personal stories and professional experiences that illustrate the transformative power of tuning into the inner wisdom. She outlines practical steps anyone can take to cultivate a stronger connection with their inner voice, such as meditation, reflective practices, and journaling. These activities help clear the mental clutter, allowing the inner voice to emerge more clearly and influentially.

Jay and Laura also explore common challenges people face, like doubts and confusion about following this inner guidance, and provide reassuring advice on how to overcome these obstacles. Laura also stresses the value of trusting and acting on the insights provided by the inner voice, highlighting how this trust can lead to a more authentic, fulfilling life.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to identify your inner voice

How to cultivate genuine connection

How to interpret your feelings

How to trust your intuition

How to apply insights to everyday life

As you become more attuned to this powerful guide, you'll find clarity and direction in areas of life where you need it most. Don’t ignore it; embrace it and let it lead you to a more connected and fulfilling life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:05 The Difference Between a Psychic and a Medium

06:59 We All Have Psychic Abilities

09:50 Discovering Your Own Ability

17:31 My Brainwave Patterns Are Different

22:04 The Psychic Abilities We Aren’t Aware Of

32:17 Weakened Disconnection to Our Inner Voice

35:50 Standing Firm with Your Moments of Knowing

40:41 How to Reconnect with Disconnected Relationships?

49:32 What Does Infatuation Mean?

55:27 Vibrations of Love

01:04:44 Living in the Present

01:10:26 How Important Are Tangible Signs

01:17:02 The Answers is Within Us

01:23:14 Being Still Within Yourself

01:25:19 Death Is Not A Dead End

01:35:02 How to Connect with Your Soul?

01:39:20 Getting Into Your Light Energy

01:42:44 Laura on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Laura Lynne Jackson | Website

Laura Lynne Jackson | TikTok

Laura Lynne Jackson | Instagram

Laura Lynne Jackson | Facebook

Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe

The Light Between Us: Stories From Heaven. Lessons for the Living

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Are you struggling with setting your boundaries?

Do you want to know how to respectfully tell others about your boundaries?

Today, Jay questions the traditional notion that a "good person" is one who never says no. This outdated definition leads to a lack of boundaries, which ultimately harms personal well-being. By redefining what it means to be a good person, one can recognize the importance of investing in themselves and navigating difficult conversations.

What does setting boundaries truly mean? They are defined not by what we want from others, but by what we need for ourselves. Jay explains that boundaries should not aim to control others but should protect the individual from their own triggers and provides practical advice on how to communicate boundaries effectively, suggesting the use of simple, clear statements without over-explanation.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to set boundaries without feeling guilty

How to NO effectively

How to communicate boundaries clearly

How to handle other people's reactions

How to build confidence in setting boundaries

Don't wait to reclaim your time, energy, and peace of mind—take control and become the assertive, self-respecting individual you deserve to be.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:31 Boundaries Are Often Tough to Set

03:45 #1: Redefine What Your Boundaries Are

09:05 #2: Clearly Communicate Your Boundaries

11:48 #3: Be Kind, Honest, and Empathetic to Other People’s Reaction

15:07 #4: You Subconsciously Sound Defensive When Setting Your Boundaries

17:53 #5: Plan a Buffer

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Are you struggling with initiating difficult conversations?

Are you struggling with having difficult conversations with family members?

Today's guest is the hilarious and incredible story teller Tiffany Haddish, Emmy and Grammy-winning actress, comedian, and author. Known for her breakout role in "Girls Trip" and her New York Times bestselling book "The Last Black Unicorn," Tiffany has become one of the most influential voices in comedy with her sharp wit, resilience, and authentic storytelling. 

Tiffany and Jay have a vulnerable conversation with a candid look into Tiffany’s life, showcasing her journey from a challenging upbringing to becoming one of Hollywood’s brightest stars. Tiffany shares the emotional and often tumultuous experiences she faced growing up in foster care. Despite these challenges, she credits these early adversities for instilling in her a resilience that later became instrumental in her career. Tiffany discusses how humor became her coping mechanism and how it eventually became a tool for empowerment.

Jay and Tiffany also talk about relationships and the lessons she has learned from her experiences. She opens up about her past relationships and how they shaped her understanding of love, vulnerability, and self-respect. We get to listen to the healing power of laughter, the importance of community, and the role of faith in overcoming life’s challenges. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to overcome adversity

How to turn pain into humor and use it as fuel

How to embrace vulnerability

How to handle criticism

How to advocate for yourself 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:08 Built to Have Fun

04:19 Emotional Hoarder

07:16 Celibacy

12:11 Being with the Wrong Person

15:41 Do You Believe in Past Life?

18:06 Who Do You Want to Date?

20:10 Growing Your Own Garden

22:48 Growing with a Creative Mind

25:05 Worst Thing About Being Me

29:11 Dealing with Online Hate

31:36 She’s Not My Mom Anymore

37:46 Processing and Dealing with Grief

43:36 Resenting and Forgiving My Father

48:46 The Phone Call with My Dad

55:24 Let’s Understand People’s Stories

57:59 Self Care is a Process

01:02:15 My Father Was Sick

01:05:07 Make Home in Your Childhood Community

01:10:29 The Love to Entertain People

01:18:07 What Would Little T be Proud Of?

01:20:24 Childhood Dreams

01:25:09 TIffany on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Tiffany Haddish | TikTok

Tiffany Haddish | Instagram

Tiffany Haddish | YouTube

Tiffany Haddish | Facebook

The Last Black Unicorn

I Curse You with Joy

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How do you identify when you're restricting your desires in a relationship?

How can couples work together to align their desires and ensure mutual fulfillment?

Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa is a co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and the president of Impact Theory, a digital media company aimed at empowering content. With a strong focus on developing content that speaks to personal growth and empowerment, especially for women, Lisa has been a pivotal figure in shifting paradigms within her industry. Her show, "Women of Impact," addresses issues facing modern women, combining personal anecdotes with actionable advice.

The core theme of this conversation is outlining a roadmap for individuals seeking to overcome insecurities and cultivate a resilient, action-oriented confidence. Jay and Lisa discuss the common misconceptions around confidence, emphasizing that it is not a prerequisite for action but a result of engaging with the world despite fears and doubts.

Lisa shares how her initial need for external validation was a significant barrier to personal growth, sharing transformative moments that reshaped her understanding of confidence and self-worth. She stresses the importance of embracing imperfection and vulnerability as catalysts for genuine self-improvement and empowerment.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to start building confidence

How to validate yourself

How to prioritize personal growth

How to handle fear of judgment

How to transform relationships

Together, let's continue to  question the preconceived notions about success and happiness and to take bold steps towards a life aligned with our deepest values and aspirations.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:32 How Do You Define Confidence?

06:54 Believe You’re Capable

09:54 Admitting That You’re Unhappy

16:13 The Frame of Reference

19:36 Everything Is A Risk

27:42 Non-Negotiables in Relationships

34:41 Conversations That Don’t Break Relationships

41:30 Who Leads, Who Follows

49:26 Conflicting Value System

54:57 Don’t Assume, Find a Compromise

59:21 Growth Mindset With Your Partner

Episode Resources:

Lisa Bilyeu | TikTok

Lisa Bilyeu | Instagram

Lisa Bilyeu | YouTube

Lisa Bilyeu | Twitter

Lisa Bilyeu | Facebook

Lisa Bilyeu | LinkedIn

Radical Confidence: 10 No-BS Lessons on Becoming the Hero of Your Own Life

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Does timing really matter in whether a relationship works?

What are healthy ways to deal with a breakup?

Today, let’s welcome back dating coach Matthew Hussey. Matthew is also a YouTube personality and writer known for offering advice on dating, love, and relationships to both men and women through his online content, seminars, and his book "Get The Guy." His approach typically combines practical advice, motivational coaching, and a bit of psychology to help individuals understand what they want from a relationship and how to get it.

Matthew shares his insights on the complexities of love, self-discovery, and the importance of honest communication. He emphasizes on the significance of creating a peaceful relationship, distinguishing it from a boring one, and the value of embracing vulnerabilities to foster deeper connections. Matthew's reflections on his own experiences, coupled with his expertise, provide a comprehensive guide on navigating the challenges of modern dating, building meaningful relationships, and cultivating self-awareness. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to cultivate peaceful relationships without boredom

How to deepen connections through vulnerability

How to navigate modern dating with confidence

How to enhance relationships with effective communication

How to enrich love life through self-awareness

Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode offers valuable lessons on love, resilience, and the transformative power of embracing your true self.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:20 Where Does Your Idea of Love Come From?

10:34 What Differentiates a Peaceful to a Boring Relationship?

19:35 What Are Your Must-Haves in a Relationship?

31:47 Tactics Are Different From Relationship Standards

39:59 Egoic Standards Versus Setting Standards for Happiness

51:20 Practice Having Real and Difficult Conversations

01:04:48 The Importance of Communicating Your Thoughts and Feelings

01:08:25 Is Your Partner the Right One for You?

01:15:05 Dealing with the Different Phases of Heartbreak

01:26:31 What’s Next for Matthew?    

Episode Resources:

Matthew Hussey | Website

Matthew Hussey | TikTok

Matthew Hussey | Instagram

Matthew Hussey | YouTube

Matthew Hussey | Twitter

Matthew Hussey | Facebook

Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

https://matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/ 

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How do you know when you're overthinking too much?

How can you break the cycle of overthinking?

Today, Jay will talk about the complexity of overthinking and how we can turn it around and look at things differently. Jay presents seven practical strategies to help listeners combat the grip of overthinking. These range from the psychological—to limit how many people's opinions we seek, preventing the confusion and indecision that too many perspectives can cause—to the physical, recommending activities that disengage the analytical brain and encourage mental reset, like exercise or simply moving around.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to use over thinking for problem-solving

How to manage alarmed responses

How to use physical movement for mental clarity

How to focus on positives and small wins

Don't let overthinking hold you back! Start implementing these strategies today and take control of your mental space.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:52 Has Overthinking Slowed You Down?

07:53 The Science Behind Overthinking

10:50 #1: Overthinking as a Problem-Solving Approach

14:24 #2: Don’t Ask Too Many People For Their Opinion

18:19 #3: Avoid Responding While You’re Feeling Alarmed

19:17 #4: Move Your Body When Your Mind Is Stuck

20:32 #5: Focus on the Good Thing and Small Wins

22:05 #6: Spontaneous Drawings Relieve Psychological Stress

24:23 #7: Go Back to Analog

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Do you stop yourself from making mistakes? 

Do you want to shift your perspective on fear? 

Today, let’s welcome the one and only Orlando Bloom. Orlando gained widespread fame for his roles in some of the most popular films including The Lord of the Rings trilogy and Pirates of the Caribbean series. He will be seen starring in Peacock's limited adventure docuseries, To The Edge, which he also produced. Off-screen, Orlando is known for his humanitarian efforts, including his work as a UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador.

Orlando shares insights from his life as an actor, adventurer, and someone deeply involved in spirituality. He talks about how meditation and mindfulness help him stay balanced despite the hectic nature of being a celebrity, his views on masculinity, the importance of embracing both masculine and feminine qualities, and striving for balance and introspection in life. We also get to hear stories about facing and overcoming fears, embracing vulnerability, and the lessons he's learned from these challenges. This episode isn't just about getting to know a renowned actor but diving into the personal journey of a man who is constantly looking for deeper meaning and connections in life.

In this interview, you’ll learn:
How to overcome fear
How to maintain balance in a hectic life
How to incorporate mindfulness into everyday activities
How to explore and embrace different aspects of your personality
How to use life's challenges as growth opportunities

Tune in now for a discussion full of insights on overcoming fears, embracing spirituality, and pursuing personal growth.  

With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:
02:28 Working in an Unscripted Space
06:09 What’s Your Earliest Childhood Fear?
08:35 Practicing Buddhism
13:49 The Lotus Sutra
20:16 The 8 Wins
26:28 Trusting Your Life and Becoming Capable
36:33 Being Present While on the Edge
44:48 Any Moment Could Be Your Last
45:43 The Deepest Mirror You’ll Ever Have
48:58 What Did You Learn from Your Past Relationships?
51:22 Introducing Buddhism Practice to My Kids
55:33 Whatever You’re Saying, You Become
01:02:22 Loving the Parenting Journey
01:07:16 The Impacts of Your Decisions
01:09:13 Opportunities Through Obstacles
01:17:40 Buddhism Is My Anchor
01:18:59 The Fear You’re Currently Overcoming
01:26:04 Orlando Bloom on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Orlando Bloom | Instagram

Orlando Bloom | Facebook

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Do you find yourself often thinking about breaking up?

Do you and your partner have unresolved conflicts that keep resurfacing?

In this episode, Jay tackles the tough emotions and uncertainty many face when considering a breakup. He talks about why people stay in or leave relationships, touching on key factors like emotional closeness, personal investment, and the impact of family responsibilities. Jay also discusses how to ensure emotional security and the risks of staying for financial reasons or out of obligation. 

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to recognize emotional investment

How to assess emotional security

How to consider financial implications

How to navigate emotional intimacy

This honest conversation provides you with the insights to evaluate your relationship more clearly, helping you decide whether to work on it or move on, based on a deeper understanding of your feelings and the relationship's dynamics.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:10 When to End Your Relationship

04:48 10 Reason Why People Stay in a Relationship

12:44 Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Relationship

18:14 The Three Cancers of the Mind

24:44 Difference in Scorecard Perspective

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How can you overcome the fear of failure?

What can you do daily to care less about failing?

Today, Jay sits down with Benny Blanco for an inspiring conversation about pursuing passions, mentorship, failure, and continuous motivation. Benny has made a huge mark on the music industry contributing to hundreds of millions of album sales worldwide. Benny has worked with A-List artists like Ed Sheeran, Justin Bieber, and Katy Perry. As a solo artist, his albums "Friends Keep Secrets" and its sequel have amassed over 11 billion streams, featuring multiple platinum hits. Beyond music, Benny has ventured into television and even released a cookbook, "Open Wide," showcasing his diverse talents and interests

Benny shares insight on how to not let failure stop you and getting over imposter syndrome. We also go dive into Benny’s life outside of music, exploring his passion for cooking through his cookbook "Open Wide." Plus, Benny talks about his relationships, how he keeps his creativity flowing, and the small joys that make his life special.

In this interview, you’ll learn:

How to pursue your passion with limited resources

How to not let failure get in your way of achieving your goals

How to embrace the unexpected in creative work

How to transition your passion into different fields

How to find joy and creativity in everyday moments

Don't miss this intimate look at Benny Blanco's life and maybe learn a thing or two about making your own multi-track masterpiece or the perfect dish to serve at dinner!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:43 What’s the First Creative Thing You Put Together?

06:15 I Never Cared About Failure

10:33 Developing Amnesia to Failure

14:22 How Did You Meet Your Mentor?

18:10 “The Boy I Mentored” 

23:42 How Do You Show Up After a Rejection?

26:51 Love Can Be Felt Through Music

29:56 What Do You Do When You Wake Up?   

32:02 Why Do You Struggle with Meditation?

33:28 Why I Went to Therapy

38:25 The Pressure of Perfectionism

44:49 Do You Love to Cook?

47:20 Do You Eat Healthy?

48:47 Finding Comfort in Food

54:42 What’s Your Sleep Pattern?

56:40 Friendships Built Over the Years

59:19 Multigenerational Friendships

01:03:44 Better Relationship After Divorce

01:05:52 Benny on Final Five   

01:15:57 What’s Your Vice?

01:17:53 Do You Take Supplements?

Episode Resources:

Benny Blanco | TikTok

Benny Blanco | Instagram

Benny Blanco | YouTube

Benny Blanco | Twitter

Benny Blanco | Facebook

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How does low self-worth stop you from moving forward?

How can you stop self-sabotage and grow personally?

Today, let’s welcome Jamie Kern Lima. Jamie is a New York Times bestselling author, founder of IT Cosmetics, a company she started in her living room and sold to L'Oreal in a billion-dollar deal, becoming the first female CEO of a brand in its 100+ year history. She's also an active philanthropist who has funded leadership training in more than 100 prisons and shelters across the US, and has donated over $40 million in product and funds to help women face the effects of cancer with confidence. 

Jamie and Jay ponder on the meaning of self-worth, distinguishing it from mere confidence and challenging the misguided belief that our value is tied to our physical appearance. We get to hear the detrimental effects of self-doubt and present empowering strategies to transform your relationship with rejection, offering a new perspective that fosters resilience and self-compassion. 

And then the conversation dives deep into personal beliefs, urging us to identify and discard unhelpful misconceptions, while giving emphasis on why authenticity is crucial and its role in conjunction with other factors in achieving success. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to build self-worth

How to distinguish confidence from self-worth

How to handle rejection

How to overcome self-doubt

How to remain authentic

Together, let's learn how to distinguish your worth from external validation, turn rejection into a stepping stone, and live authentically.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:17 Do You Feel Worthy Today?

10:04 Confusing Confidence with Self Worth

17:37 Your Weight Impacts Your Worth is a Lie 

24:03 What Has Self Doubt Cost You?

31:25 How to Change Your Relationship with Rejection

37:02 The 4-Part R to Reframe Rejection

44:00 You Need This Today

48:13 Which Lie Are You Trying to Unlearn? 

56:32 Authenticity Alone Doesn’t Guarantee Success

Episode Resources:

Jamie Kern Lima | TikTok

Jamie Kern Lima | Instagram

Jamie Kern Lima | YouTube

Jamie Kern Lima | Website

Jamie Kern Lima | Twitter

Jamie Kern Lima | Facebook

Jamie Kern Lima | LinkedIn

Worthy: How to Believe You Are Enough and Transform Your Life 

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What is the #1 way to live a rich life?

How can changing your money mindset impact your life?

Robin Sharma is a globally respected humanitarian who, for over a quarter of a century, has been devoted to helping human beings realize their native gifts. Widely considered one of the top leadership and personal mastery experts and speakers in the world, his clients include NASA, Yale University, and the Young Presidents' Organization. His #1 international bestsellers such as The Everyday Hero Manifesto, The 5AM Club, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, and Who Will Cry When You Die? have sold millions of copies in over ninety-two languages and dialects; making him one of the most widely read authors in the world. 

Robin shares his wisdom on the significance of releasing resentment and redefining our relationship with wealth. He also talks about exploring the essential daily practices that promise personal growth, the complexities, and at the same time, the benefits of altering our social circles, and provides insights into nurturing a healthy relationship with money. Jay and Robin unpack the pivotal role of rest in our daily routine and productivity, and how to break free from the chains of multi-generational cultural norms.  

In this interview you'll learn:

How to release resentment

How to treat money as a tool

How to rest properly

How to cultivate great friendships

The daily practices to transform yourself

Whether you're seeking to overcome generational patterns or find peace in solitude, this episode is your guide to a more fulfilled and intentional life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:26 Don’t Be A Resentment Collector

08:47 Money Is Your Servant, Not Your Master

12:33 When Are We Happiest?

15:01 Where Do We Start?

19:12 3 Daily Practices to Transform You

23:37 2 Reasons Why We Can’t Change Our Circle

27:06 Joy Is A Great GPS

28:28 Why Rest Is A Necessity

34:35 Breaking Multi-Generational Culture

41:07 Why You Need to Spend Alone Time 

43:00 Rewire Your Relationships With Money

45:35 There Is A Time For Every Season

48:22 What Are Scarcity Scars?

54:13 What Is A Great Friend?

57:10 Don’t Confuse Kindness With Weakness

01:00:33 Someone’s Victory Is Your Possibility

Episode Resources:

Robin Sharma | Website

Robin Sharma | TikTok

Robin Sharma | Instagram

Robin Sharma | YouTube

Robin Sharma | Twitter

Robin Sharma | Facebook

Robin Sharma | LinkedIn

Robin Sharma | Books

The Wealth Money Can't Buy: The 8 Hidden Habits to Live Your Richest Life

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How have your goals changed since January? 

What's your next step for improvement in the coming 90 days?

This episode isn't just a conversation; it's an invitation to dive deep into your thoughts, feelings, and aspirations. Jay discusses the tough questions about identity, authenticity, and personal growth, guiding you through a process of self-discovery and transformation. You'll find insights and strategies to help you understand who you truly are and how to align your life with your deepest values. Whether you're looking to break free from the fear of judgment, understand your true desires, or simply get a clearer picture of where you're headed, this is the ultimate guide to your first 90-day check in.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to overcome the fear of judgment

How to be your true self

How to handle external pressure

If you're ready to challenge the status quo and redefine your sense of self, let's uncover the power of self-reflection and the beauty of becoming who you truly are. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:03 Why Live Your Years in Quarters

03:11 The Hardest Challenge Today

05:12 #1: What Is the Most Difficult Judgment You’re Afraid Of?

07:00 #2: Who Would You Be If You Didn’t Worry What People Would Think About You?

07:57 #3: What Would You Do If You Didn’t Worry About What People Think Of You?

13:47 What Did You Use to Value You Don’t Value Anymore?

16:58 Attachment and Aversion Are Two Sides of the Same Coin

21:07 3 Questions You Need to Ask Yourself

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Do you want to know why sitting for a long time shortens your lifespan?

Do you want to know how to transform your daily routine?

Today, Jay is joined by Gary Brecka, the Co-Founder and Chief Biologist of 10X Health and the founder of The Ultimate Human. With more than 20 years of Bio-Hacking and functional medicine experience, Gary has worked with and everyone from CEOs to professional athletes from the UFC, NFL, Professional Boxing, and entertainment industries. 

What will you do when there is a possibility to predict how many more years you have left? Jay and Gary ponder on how our daily habits and emotional states impact our overall health and longevity, the dangers of a sedentary lifestyle and emphasizing on the need for regular movement, the benefits of deep, intentional breathing to enhance physical and mental well-being, and the complexities of mental health disorders, shedding light on common misunderstandings and the reasons why some supplements may not deliver their promised benefits. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to boost your emotional health with simple daily practices

How to reduce health risks by moving more throughout the day

How to deepen and lengthen your breaths for better health

How to clear your mind by understanding and addressing brain fog

This conversation is focused on empowering listeners with knowledge to make healthier lifestyle choices.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:13 Predicting Your Lifespan

09:17 What Is An Emotional State?

12:54 Sedentary Lifestyle Is a Health Hazard

15:37 Why You Need to Breath Deeper and Longer

22:44 Why Mental Health Disorders are Often Misunderstood

32:20 The Some Supplements Don’t Work

36:54 The Science Behind Brain Fog

44:30 Pre and Postpartum Care

48:55 Folic Acid Mutation

50:36 Deficiencies Are Passed Down, Not Diseases

56:01 What’s Wrong with Tap Water?

01:03:02 How Much Chlorine is in Your Water?

01:06:41 Gary on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Gary Brecka | TikTok

Gary Brecka | Instagram

Gary Brecka | LinkedIn

Gary Brecka | YouTube

Gary Brecka | Website

The Ultimate Human with Gary Brecka

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Are you struggling with anxiety?

Are you looking for ways to become less anxious?

Today, Jay Shetty will share several ways to manage anxiety, why it consumes us and how we can navigate through it. Jay will also share insights on how to consciously choose and amplify the voices and influences that nurture your well-being, how to program your mind with positivity and intentionality before bed and upon waking up - a crucial practice that can pave the way for a restful night and a more focused tomorrow.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to not start your day with worry

Begin each morning with gratitude 

Prepare your mind with positive thoughts 

There is healing in acceptance and tolerance, the essential practices for cultivating inner peace and resilience against life's inevitable ups and downs.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:29 Do You Worry a Lot?

03:38 Avoid Dealing with Your Worries Upon Waking Up  

07:31 Start Your Day with Gratitude

11:25 Increase the Voice You Want to Hear

14:49 Program Your Mind Before Going to Bed

18:42 Sometimes, Staying Busy is Healthy

19:48 Practice Acceptance and Tolerance

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Do you want to know how to stop your guilt cycle?

Do you want to know how to build positive mental strength?

Today, let's welcome back renowned psychiatrist and brain disorder specialist Dr. Daniel Amen. Dr. Amen known for his work as the director of the Amen Clinics and a bestselling author, having written numerous books on brain health and wellness, and has also produced television programs promoting his theories on brain health. 

Dr. Amen talks about mindful parenting, ways you can set goals with your children and nurturing their ability to think independently. He shares a simple 20-minute practice to deepen your connection with your child, and understand the pivotal role of boundaries in their development. 

Let's understand how critical it is when children retreat into themselves and offer strategies to mend and strengthen the fragile threads of parent-child bonds. Dr. Amen challenges the practice of labeling children as 'smart' and instead, focuses on cultivating their problem-solving skills and shed light on the often-overlooked emotional burdens our actions can place on our kids, from the subtleties of attachment to the complexities of misunderstanding them.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to empower kids through responsibility

How to build mental strength

How to foster problem-solving in children

How to implement loving discipline

How to instill the value of hard work on kids

This conversation will help you better understand the hacks of raising well-rounded, resilient, and loving individuals in today's fast-paced world. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:46 How Do You Set Goals For Your Kids?

04:34 How Do Children Become Free Thinkers?

10:19 Allow Your Child to Get Uncomfortable

13:01 The 20-Minute Practice to Bond with Your Child

17:46 What Does No Boundaries Lead To?

21:26 Why Do Children Shut Down?

24:54 How Do You Repair a Broken Bond?

28:00 Don’t Tell Your Child They Are Smart

31:04 How Can Your Child Solve a Problem?

33:07 You’re Making Your Kids Miserable

35:16 Attachments That Become Broken

37:37 I Don’t Understand My Child

41:54 What is a Loving Discipline?

44:51 My Child is Addicted to Social Media

46:25 What Does Social Do to the Brain?

48:35 Effects of Divorce on Kids

51:01 Teach Your Child to Self-Soothe

53:39 How to Love Your Child Right 

Episode Resources:

Dr. Daniel Amen | TikTok

Dr. Daniel Amen | Instagram

Dr. Daniel Amen | Twitter

Dr. Daniel Amen | LinkedIn

Dr. Daniel Amen | Facebook

Dr. Daniel Amen | Books

Dr. Daniel Amen | Website

Amen University

Take The ACE Quiz

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Do you feel tired of small talk and no real connection?

Do you want to start building genuine friendships?

Today, Jay talks about the eight simple tips to help you decide which friends to keep close and which ones you might need to step back from. You'll learn how to spot friends who make you happy and help you grow, and notice the ones who might be bringing you down.

Let's understand the impact of the company you keep, the power of focusing on yourself, and the wisdom in discerning relationships meant for a season, reason, or lifetime. Jay unpacks the value of tough conversations and learns to distinguish between fleeting friendships and those destined for depth. There is strength in setting boundaries and the transformative experience of shared challenges. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to choose your long-term friends

How to deepen new friendships

How to be the right friends to others

This episode is your guide to nurturing genuine connections and fostering personal growth in a world craving authenticity.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:00 Who Do You Spend Time With?

04:05 Focus on Yourself

05:06 Season, Reason, or a Lifetime

10:29 Is Repairing a Broken Relationship Worth It?

13:24 Why Do We Need These Hard Conversations?

15:58 Not Every Friendship Has a Future

18:32 Shallow Conversations Don’t Lead to Genuine Connection

21:26 Barriers Keep Others Out, Boundaries Keep Us Safe

23:08 If You Don’t Fit In, That’s Okay

25:04 Doing Difficult Things Together 

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What happens in our body when we eat sugar?
How does a glucose spike affect our health?

Jay welcomes Jessie Inchauspé (Otherwise known as Glucose Goddess.) Jessie is a French biochemist and New York Times bestselling author. Jessie is on a mission to translate cutting-edge science into easy tips to help people improve their physical and mental health through studies of glucose. In her books Glucose Revolution and The Glucose Goddess Method, which sold over 1 million copies worldwide in 40 languages, she shares her startling discovery about the essential role of blood sugar in every aspect of our lives, and the surprising hacks to optimize it.

Jessie doesn't hold back as she unpacks the world of nutrition and wellness, and the intricate relationship between glucose, sugar consumption, and overall health. Jessie discusses the fundamentals of glucose and its vital role in fueling our bodies, the detrimental effects of excessive sugar consumption, and the three glucose spikes that can wreak havoc on our well-being.

The hidden sources of high sugar content in everyday foods will surprise you therefore learning the practical strategies to train your body to burn fat for fuel is essential as well as uncovering the tips for eliminating post-meal cravings and the benefits of adopting a zero-sugar lifestyle. 

In this interview, you will learn:

The role of glucose in the body
The foods that help lower blog sugar
The hacks to control blood sugar spike
The best practices to optimize your sugar intake

Tune in to this eye-opening conversation with Jay and Jessie as they talk about practical tips, expert advice, and invaluable wisdom to help you make informed choices and prioritize your health and well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro
05:36 What is Glucose and How Is It Used by Our Body?
08:15 We Don’t Need to Eat Sugar
10:30 The Three Glucose Spikes That Damage Our Body
15:32 Foods with Hidden High Sugar Content
17:20 The Crash After the Glucose Spike
20:25 How to Train Your Body to Burn Fat for Fuel
24:35 How to Eliminate Post Meal Cravings
30:08 Why It’s Better to Have Zero Sugar Intake Daily
34:55 Sleep and Glucose Go Hand in Hand
37:12 How Blood Sugar Levels Affect Mental Health
43:18 Ideal Foods to Take Before Workout 
46:57 The Benefits of Taking Vinegar Before Meals
49:56 Put “Clothing” on Your Carbs
53:33 Fruits Are Healthy Until It Gets Processed
57:26 Stop Counting Your Calories
01:03:53 The Anti-Spike Formula 
01:05:50 The Disheartening Truth About Taking Ozempic to Lose Weight
01:08:58 Jessie on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Jessie Inchauspé | Instagram
Jessie Inchauspé | Twitter
Jessie Inchauspé | TikTok
Glucose Revolution
Glucose Goddess 
Jessies New Dietary Supplement

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Today, let's welcome to the On Purpose podcast cosmetics entrepreneur, medical research trailblazer, and Women’s Hall of Fame inductee, Victoria Jackson. Victoria founded the global powerhouse brand Victoria Jackson Cosmetics where she irrevocably altered the beauty landscape with her creation of the “No Makeup” makeup aesthetic. She and her husband, Bill Guthy—founder of the marketing behemoth Guthy-Renker—established The Guthy-Jackson Charitable Foundation to fund research on NMO treatments and a potential cure. 

Victoria shares her lifelong experiences, from the anxiety of feeling different to the profound questions about our existence and the roles we play in this world. She opens up about the darkest day in her life as well as the trials of transforming passion into a successful enterprise. These stories aren't just about overcoming; they're about thriving, giving hope to those striving to make a meaningful impact in their lives and the lives of others, especially when facing seemingly insurmountable obstacles.

In this interview, you’ll learn:

How to stay resilient in the most difficult circumstances

How to move on from trauma

How to turn passion into a career

How determination can change lives

Why we never stop learning

The episode is a beacon for anyone seeking to make sense of life's complexities, offering insights into building relationships, handling adversity, and finding one's calling. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:38 I Always Felt That I’m Different

05:51 We’re All Trying to Figure Out the World

06:38 What Were You Most Anxious Of?

08:55 What is My Purpose?

11:29 Love for Teaching and Sharing Knowledge

13:58 Trust the Process and Have Patience for Yourself

17:13 “The Night I Nearly Lost My Life” 

23:13 How Do You Overcome Trauma

25:04 “I Wanted to Give Women Hope”

27:42 Transforming Passion to a Successful Business

32:32 Navigating Relationship Can Be Challenging

35:56 “My Daughter Had Four Years to Live”

39:54 Prove It To Them That You Can Do It

42:39 The Biggest Roadblocks in Healthcare

47:37 How Do You Survive Difficult Situations?

49:48 Finding Cure For Alli

53:21 Going Against All Odds

55:00 Finding Answers and Taking Actions

57:48 Victoria on Final Five

01:03:11 It’s Hard to Get People to Pay Attention

01:06:43 Download the NMO Resources App

01:09:13 Strategic Allocation of Funds

01:10:32 You Just Have to Find a Way

Episode Resources:

Victoria Jackson | Website

Victoria Jackson | Instagram

Saving Each Other: A Mother-Daughter Love Story

The Power of Rare: A Blueprint for a Medical Revolution

Victoria's latest book, "We All Worry, Now What?" is now available for pre-order on Amazonhttps://www.amazon.com/All-Worry_Now-What-Victoria-Jackson/dp/1595911324

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Do you want to learn how to connect with your intuition? 

Do you want to stay focused on your path? 

In a very special episode of On Purpose, Michael B. Jordan joins Jay for an open and honest conversation. Michael is a director, actor, and producer recognized as an industry leader. Michael recently reprised the role of Adonis Creed in CREED III, which had the biggest opening weekend for a CREED film and biggest domestic opening for a sports movie ever. 

In this insightful conversation, Michael sheds light into the nuances of our childhood and its lasting impact on our lives. He also talks about resilience and the importance of prioritizing family amidst the journey of life. Michael and Jay discuss the essence of intuition, authenticity, and purpose, empowering listeners to connect with their inner selves and forge meaningful paths forward.

There is strength in building your own team therefore it is important that we know how to pick our own people. The same goes for showing our authenticity at all times and creating safe spaces for ourselves and the people around us. It also matters that you do not hide behind false words and to always speak your truth. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to connect and develop your intuition
How to trust your own choices
How to be authentic
How to be truth to yourself and to others

Today, we will learn the value of shared goals, insightful stories, and guidance to inspire you to live with purpose, authenticity, and boundless potential. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro
04:39 Why Your Childhood Environment Matters
09:44 Family Over Everything
12:16 Never Stop Making Yourself Better
21:29 The Moments of Negativity
28:00 How to Connect with Your Intuition
31:17 This is Your Moment
34:05 The Right Things to Obsess Over
38:07 The Benefits of Sea Moss
43:23 How to Build Your Team
48:48 The Best Way to Bring People Together
54:52 How Do You Define Authenticity?
01:00:10 What is Your Purpose?
01:05:43 Finding Your Own Safe Space
01:09:33 Unapologetically Honest About Your Truth
01:13:31 Michael on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Michael B. Jordan | Instagram

Michael B. Jordan | Twitter

Michael B. Jordan | Facebook

Moss

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This episode is brought to you by BMW, and the most requested guest is back again - Jay's wife, Radhi Devlukia! Jay and Radhi swap lives for a day in the all electric BMW ix. In this episode, Jay and Radhi take a road trip to the grocery store, where she challenges Jay to complete a grocery store run, where he is tasked to find the right ingredients for their favorite recipe, without her help.

There’s never a dull moment when Jay and Radhi are together - from their on-the-road Q&A, to their grocery store outing (especially when Jay still couldn’t tell the difference between coriander and parsley) - they continue to provide laughs, insights, and meaningful wisdom. 

Tag along on this ride and join the challenges of modern day dating and find out who’s the most stubborn one between the two.

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:18 Jay’s Stuffed Pepper Recipe in Radhi’s Cookbook

02:03 If We Are in Carpool Karaoke 

02:44 Difference Between Drivers in LA and London

03:42 What Does it Mean to Be A Backseat Driver in Life?

05:35 The Three People You Will Go on a Drive With

08:43 Who Usually Leave the Car Lights On?

09:52 Who’s Most Likely to Get Car Sick?

10:29 Would You Need Maps to Navigate Between Places?

11:02 Why Doesn’t Radhi Reply to Messages Right Away?

12:57 First Line to Say When You Meet in a Party

14:11 What’s Your Screen Time?

15:10 Do You Have an Ick About Me?

16:33 It’s Time to Buy Groceries!

22:35 How Does It Feel When Someone Cook For You?

23:56 How Do You Manage to Stay Productive Everyday?

28:03 What Kind of a Party Person Are You?

31:05 Living Conditions in Refugee Camps in the Old Days

31:59 Leaving an Impact in the Community Your Serve

37:02 Spending Time with Family in an Indian Wedding

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Why do we fall victim to love bombing?

Why do we attract narcissists?

Dr. Ramani is back with eye-opening and science-based insights on narcissism. Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. 

Dr. Ramani discusses the difference between narcissism versus narcissistic personality disorder. She dives into the signs of love bombing and how to stop attracting narcissists. Dr. Ramani also talks about the practical strategies for safeguarding yourself from attracting narcissistic personalities into your life and how to spot the red flags and establish healthy boundaries. 
Join us in understanding the complexities of narcissism, how to foster resilience, establish boundaries, and reclaim yourself.

With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro
01:09 Narcissism Versus Narcissistic Personality Disorder
05:41 Why Narcissistic People Make History
09:28 How to Not Attract a Narcissist
11:27 A Narcissistic Person is Like a Volcano
14:38 Love Bombing is Winning You Over with Attunement
15:24 From Love Bombing to What Went Wrong 
18:11 Empaths Get Stuck in Trauma-Bonded Relationships
21:45 The Impact of Narcissistic Abuse
25:29 Can You Disengage from a Narcissistic Partner?
26:36 Repeat Perpetrators Harm the Forgiver
28:21 You Can Empathize and Not Forgive
30:42 What is Radical Acceptance?
32:39 Flexibility in Our Psyche
35:20 Grief is the Most Human Experience
38:06 How to Recreate Your Own Subjective Focus
44:13 How to Pull Yourself from any Form of Gaslighting
48:58 Can a Narcissist Ever Heal?
53:38 Is Change Possible?

Episode Resources:
Dr. Ramani | Website

Dr. Ramani | Instagram
Dr. Ramani | YouTube
Dr. Ramani | TikTok
It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

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