BONUS: Marked by Confidence

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.” —Jeremiah 17:7

We all want to raise confident kids, but the hard part is making sure their confidence comes from the right source: God himself. We live in a culture that esteems strong finances, good looks, prestigious jobs, and realized dreams—none of which are lasting or fulfilling. 

When we look to find our confidence in the things of this world, we will never find satisfaction. Solomon, among the wisest and wealthiest of all time, describes the pursuits of this world as “utterly meaningless” (Ecclesiastes 1:2). He pursued everything the world had to offer only to conclude that there’s “nothing new under the sun” so we should only “fear god and keep his commandments.”

The great irony of the gospel is that only in acknowledging our insufficiency can God do his greatest work by strengthening us.

Let’s pray that our kids are marked by confidence in things with lasting value:

• The promise that God will complete every good work in them (Philippians 1:6)
• Their identity as children of God (2 Corinthians 5:17)
• The good news of the gospel and their eternity with Jesus (John 3:16)
• The opportunity to approach God boldly in prayer, knowing that he hears them (Hebrews 4:16)

Lord, this world is filled with uncertainty that threatens to rock our confidence. But you are steadfast and reliable, showing favor on your children and building them up to accomplish your purposes. Please give [name] a confident spirit marked by their reliance on you.

God’s word speaks: Psalm 27: 3, Philippians 4:13; Psalm 139:13–14; Romans 8:28