We are finishing our Summer of Stories with Nicole Zasowski. She is a counselor, author and speaker that shares her painful story of infertility and miscarriage. Many of you know too well what it’s like to embrace joy when you’ve walked through so much loss and disappointment. Nicole bravely encourages us all that it’s possible. It’s possible to find joy and practice thanksgiving even when mourning and grief is very present.
Make sure you follow along this week on Pardon The Mess Instagram page. I will share the picture of all of her kids that stopped me in my tracks. The photo was edited to feature her 3 kids on earth and her 5 kids in heaven all walking together on the beach. This photo so beautifully depicted the reality that Nicole is a mom of eight children, not just three. If you have been through loss like Nicole, I believe you will be so encouraged by her honesty about the emotions she feels and her journey with God through it all.
My favorite part is when she shares about the brain science behind negativity and joy. She shares practical ideas on how we can lean towards and practice savoring joyful moments. We can store these memories in a part of our brain that helps us recall them again and again.
Praying for each of you now, that you feel seen and heard through this episode. I pray that God meets you in the tender, broken and disappointed places of your heart.
Much love,
Courtney
In this episode, we chat about:
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction and Background
03:48 Struggling with Infertility and Miscarriage
08:09 Feeling Alone and Finding Support
11:35 Journey Between Children
16:01 The Vulnerability of Joy
22:24 Holding Both Pain and Joy
24:17 The Power of Celebration
27:56 Savoring Everyday Moments
30:21 Celebration as a Rhythm
35:40 Engaging God in Joy and Pain
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