Ep 132: If They Would Just ... Guiding Kids to Take Ownership of Their Own Agenda

If you are struggling to get your child to do something, you may want to stop and think, “Who’s agenda IS IT?” Is this just something YOU want? How do you get your kid to buy into whatever it is that you are asking them to do? This week Elaine and Diane discuss agendas! How can a parent and child come together to create a shared agenda that benefits everyone?Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How do you get your child to take ownership of a responsibility? What is in it for them?Motivations may seem simple for younger kids, but what can you do for teens and young adults to create a shared agenda?Keeping in mind the ultimate goal: your child becomes driven and autonomous—this may mean different goals than yours.  Related Links:Parenting With Impact Ep 8 Parenting Emerging AdultsParenting With Impact Ep 80 4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without Enabling  Parenting With Impact Ep 126 Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.Parenting With Impact Ep 129 Asking For Help: Why Is It So Difficult?Video Tip: Take Aim Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices