Ep 184: Why Your Child May Struggle with Following Directions (hint: PDA?)

In the world of childhood ADHD, you may have heard of Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD), and you might even have some opinions about it, too. It often travels with untreated ADHD. But as the medical community begins to understand the overlap between ADHD and Autism, we want to invite you to learn more about a presentation of Autism called PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance). To be honest, there’s some controversy about this diagnosis, because it exists in the UK and Australia, but not officially in the US. So, let’s focus instead on the reality of what’s going on when a child resists and avoids the demands of life! In our community, we’ve learned that if you can understand what’s underlying troublesome behaviors, you can support them better. And this conversation with Nicola is guaranteed to help you do just that! 

Nicola Reekie is a parent to a young, autistic person who has a PDA profile. PDA is an abbreviation for Pathological Demand Avoidance or, as some prefer, Pervasive Drive for Autonomy. Her mission is to support families and professionals in understanding PDA, and she founded The PDA Space to provide resources that will deepen their understanding to create a safer environment for young people. A solution-focused therapist, Nicola collaborates with many amazing families, education and healthcare professionals to information and an excellent support network that supports their emotional well-being and helps to create calm in often challenging situations.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Nicola Reekie.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

The episode highlights the significance of approaching individuals with PDA with compassion and understanding, focusing on their unique needs rather than demanding conformity.

Nicola emphasizes the importance of establishing connections and collaborating with individuals with PDA.

Nicola explains framing behaviors as neurologically driven rather than defiant can shift the perspective and reduce stigma.

Links Mentioned:

Bloody Awesome Parents Awards:  https://www.myfamilyourneeds.co.uk/baps/

Website:  https://www.thepdaspace.com

Autism, PDA & Combative Behaviors:  https://youtu.be/fmFRyyelMsQ

Connect with Nicola:

Website:  https://www.thepdaspace.com/

Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1632926726873571

YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@thepdaspacenicolareekie264/videos

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