How Do You Overcome the Culture of Exceptionalism? w/ John R. Miles EP 163

So many of us struggle with a sense of inadequacy because we are immersed in a culture of exceptionalism. As a result, we will not dare even to consider being average, nor do we know how to accept it with humility.

The problem is that this culture of exceptionalism threatens to turn the idea of personal excellence into an anachronism. It is teaching us that it's terrible to be average. As a result, it inflicts people with chronic hopelessness and loneliness because they feel they can't settle for anything but being the best. If they don't, they are a failure.

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What I discuss about the culture of exceptionalism:

If you discovered this episode of Passion Struck, you have likely been taught that exceptionalism is the only path to becoming your best self. In today's Passion Struck podcast Momentum Friday episode, I provide a counter opinion to the myth that being average is a bad thing. I discuss the culture of exceptionalism that is infiltrating so many of our lives. What I mean by daring to be average. And answer the question, why would anyone want to do that?

• 0:00 Introduction and announcements
• 3:18 Introducing the culture of exceptionalism
• 4:16 The myth that we must be exceptional in everything we do
• 6:46 Is there merit in just being average?
• 9:01 Why we live in a culture of exceptionalism
• 11:46 Why being average is perfectly fine
• 12:46 What is so wrong with identifying with mediocrity?
• 14:58  Analysis and future guest promo

Show discussion questions:

• Why do so many self-help pundits claim that exceptionalism is the only path to achieving success?
• Why do people have a difficult time accepting the idea of being average?
• What is causing this culture of exceptionalism?
• What are the consequences of believing this culture of exceptionalism is the only path to inner peace?
• Why should we not strive to be average but getting there as an end state is ok?
• What are your key takeaways from today's episode?
• How can you apply them to your life?
• How will you approach the culture of exceptionalism in the future?

Show Links

Interested in reading the transcript for the episode: https://johnrmiles.com/why-it-is-perfectly-fine-just-being-mediocre/ 

• My interview with Dave Vago, Ph.D. on How To Experience Personal Growth And Awakening Through Meditation And Meta Awareness: https://passionstruck.com/dr-david-vago-on-self-transcendence/ 
• My interview with former Navy SEAL Mark Divine on the power of meditation: https://passionstruck.com/mark-divine-living-a-life-of-excellence/ 
• My interview with David Yaden Ph.D. on Self-Transcendence, Psychedelics, and Behavior Change: https://passionstruck.com/david-yaden-on-self-transcendence-experiences/ 
• My interview with Elise Micheals on How Men Can Take Back their Power: https://passionstruck.com/elise-micheals-the-power-of-being-a-man/ 
• My interview with Cathy Heller on How Do You Find Your Life's Passion: https://passionstruck.com/cathy-heller-how-do-you-find-your-lifes-passion/ 
• Are you having trouble prioritizing yourself? I discuss the importance of self-love in Episode 104

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-- John R. Miles is the CEO, and Founder of PASSION STRUCK®, the first of its kind company focused on impacting real change by teaching people how to live Intentionally. He is on a mission to help people live a no regrets life that exalts their victories and lets them know they matter in the world. For over two decades, he built his own career applying his research of passion struck leadership, first becoming a Fortune 50 CIO and then a multi-industry CEO. John is also a prolific public speaker, venture capitalist, and author.

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