Why We Fail to Take Responsibility for Our Life w/John R. Miles EP 169

People often ask me, 'Why do we fail to take responsibility for our choices?'

In the words of Jim Rohn, "Either you run the day, or the day runs you." This illustrates how essential it is for us to take charge of our habits or inadvertently allow our choices to dictate our life. 

When we fail to act, we allow fate to control our lives instead of us owning our destiny. As I discussed in last week's episode, it's why mediocre choices lead us to be average.

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Why We Must Take Responsibility for our lives.

Today, I take an in-depth look into what it means when we fail to take responsibility for our choices. Failure to do so results in us living on autopilot. We are like a balloon caught by the wind and utterly dependent on outside forces to guide our way.

I will use the wise old man's fable to provide an overview of what taking responsibility in action looks like.

• 0:00 Announcements and teaser
• 3:20 Why "Either you run the day, or the day runs you.” 
• 5:50 The Fable of the wise old man.
• 8:58 Why do people refuse to accept responsibility for their actions?
• 9:55 How to start taking responsibility for your life.
• 12:32 Examples of what it looks like when we take responsibility.
• 13:58 The importance of consistency in taking responsibility for your choices.
• 15:07 Why only you control the steering wheel of your life?
• 16:39 Wrap up and synthesis

Show Discussion Questions

• Why do so many fail to take responsibility for their actions?
• What are the consequences of not holding ourselves accountable for our choices?
• What did you learn from the fable of the wise old man that you can apply in your life?
• What does it look like when we do take responsibility in our lives?
• Why are our choices so important?
• What are your key takeaways from today’s episode?
• How can you apply them to your life?
• How will you approach how you take responsibility in the future?

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• My interview with Sara Mednick Ph.D. on the power of the downstate and its impact on performance and health: https://passionstruck.com/sara-mednick-recharge-your-brain-body/ 

• My interview with Katy Milkman, Ph.D. on how to create lasting behavior change: https://passionstruck.com/katy-milkman-behavior-change-for-good/ 

• My solo episode on why micro choices matter: https://passionstruck.com/why-your-micro-choices-determine-your-life/

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-- John R. Miles is the CEO, and Founder of PASSION STRUCK®, the first of its kind company, focused on impacting real change by teaching people how to live Intentionally. He is on a mission to help people live a no-regrets life that exalts their victories and lets them know they matter in the world. For over two decades, he built his own career applying his research of passion struck leadership, first becoming a Fortune 50 CIO and then a multi-industry CEO. John is also a prolific public speaker, venture capitalist, and author.

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