The Solutıon To Secret Sorrows: People Who Answer with Insincerity When Called on To Be Sincere

Allah desires sincerity in His followers, and those who grasp this strive to explain it to others. However, some people do not respond well to admonishment and behave in ways contrary to the Quran. A sincere believer can offer advice to help their brother see his weaknesses and strive to improve himself, and if someone is invited to sincerity, they should recognize it as such and not deceive themselves and others. Allah loves those who purify themselves, and He is ever-forgiving and merciful to those who repent and put things right.
Satan, on the other hand, does his best to prevent believers from achieving true sincerity and thinking for themselves. Allah is the one who warns us of our wrongdoings and the consequences of insincerity. Those who are insincere ignore this warning, choosing instead to rely on their own opinions and avoid listening to admonitions. This attitude leads to internal conflict, worry and lack of tranquility, and can be recognized through their voice and manner of speaking. Those who fear Allah, on the other hand, are willing to take advice and learn from it. Allah expects sincerity from people in all aspects of life; from their thoughts and actions, to their words and tone of voice.
A person's tone of voice can be a sign of his insincerity when he is receiving advice or warnings; he may express a lack of trust or agreement in his speech, and become irrational in his attempts to turn the situation in his favor. This is a sign of the "rejection tone of voice" which is a manifestation of secret insincerity. Those who are sincere and humble in their words and behavior, follow the morality of the Qur'an and are conscious of Allah's presence. Those who deny the morality of the Qur'an and persist in their insincerity will be punished for their deception.
Allah demands a behavior of sincerity and honesty from people who believe in Him. A person must admit their mistakes and take effort to overcome them without wasting time. Allah uses the reminder of Hell to motivate people to think in accordance with the Qur'an. People who forget that Allah knows what is hidden in their hearts resort to affected speech and attitude to hide the truth from others.

Such behavior is unacceptable and will result in Allah's torment. Believers should listen to criticism and seek to understand it. Allah's teachings warn against hypocrisy and deceitful behavior. People who practice this type of behavior create misery for themselves by pretending to accept advice they secretly oppose. They also resort to using contrary words and expressions to deceive others.

However, Allah knows the most carefully guarded secrets they keep inside. To abide by Allah's morality, one must develop a humble and submissive behavior, and fear Allah to his utmost. Expressions in one's eyes can give away true thoughts and spiritual state, and people should strive to demonstrate honesty and live what they feel. Allah is a source of mercy and generosity for those who trust in Him. A person who acknowledges their own flaws and mistakes, and is aware of Allah's power, will not despair when given warnings or reprimanded for their behavior.

Lack of submission to Allah's will results in fear, worry, and tension as one attempts to control events in their life. Any criticism should be seen as a means of improving oneself and not as an attack. Allah is just and no one will ever suffer an injustice due to Him. Believers should remain calm and submissive in any situation, trusting in Allah's justice and power.

People with sincere faith understand that protesting with inappropriate behavior, such as slamming doors or refusing to do tasks, is not consistent with the morality of the Qur'an. Such people cannot enjoy themselves and live in a state of turmoil. The only way to find peace and happiness is to devote oneself to the morality of the Qur'an and avoid all that displeases Allah.