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Melissa Vagle Discusses How Divorce Doesn't End With Divorce And How The Red Flags Of Abuse Become Normalized

65 min • 18 oktober 2023

    Slam the Gavel welcomes Melissa Vagle to the podcast. She is a mother with three children. Melissa served in the Army National Guard for almost six years when she met her second husband while she was still a soldier.  At 22 years of age when they met there were the red flags that went unrecognized prior to their marriage that lasted 20 years.
    Going through a grueling three year divorce, Melissa has had the same judge preside over it. Melissa had to rethink her future soon after her mother died in August 2019 and decided to file for divorce when her ex-husband stated not only to Melissa, but to the children as well, that her mother, "deserved it."
    Wanting to learn more about the system, Melissa wanted to help others with their cases, so she became a Notary Public and then a Certified Paralegal with the goal to be an ADVOCATE in these areas.
    Two of her children have special needs and her other child has mental health issues. Melissa states that going through her long divorce and now SEPARATION ABUSE has shown her so much.
   Homeschooling her children for eleven years has forced Melissa to become good at researching. Her own personal experience in having to deal with abuse before, during and after marriage/divorce has afforded her the opportunity to help strangers that have now become her friends.
    Melissa encourages others to, "ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR GUT, and ask your friends their thoughts on an incident that has occurred in your new relationship to see what their take on it is so you can catch an odd behavior early on and when a new person in your life begins to blame you for something, it usually means they are doing something."

To Reach Melissa Vagle:  Facebook: Melissa Vagle, TikTok: @mysterymom3 and  ShapChat: MissyBlonde Mom

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