Talking Sense with Dr Martha

When your child says to another "I don't want to play with you" how does it leave you feeling? Do you want to help them be kinder to others and/or be more inclusive of children in play? If you do, this podcast is for you! Children don't develop social skills naturally, it takes time, practice and some gentle guidance from you. It also helps to understand what you bring with you when talking about friendships with your child. Dr Martha explores the art of socialising, the ways you can build these skills with your child, and what you may also need to work on for yourself to get there.

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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When a child says "I don't want to go to school!" and this happens regularly, what's the best way to respond? How can you support your child while letting them know their feelings are important? Dr Martha discusses this offering some key steps to offer understanding, empathy, and active support to a child who is struggling to go to school.

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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When you are expecting a new baby it can be a time full of excitement. You may also worry about how to share the news with your child(ren), how to prepare them (and you) for the changes that are coming, and keep your connection throughout this family transition. Dr Martha talks through all of this on the podcast offering you actionable ideas to prepare before the baby arrives and suggestions to support you and your child(ren) when baby comes.

There is a whole chapter on welcoming a new baby into the family that goes deep into this topic in the Confident Parent Course.

For books to support your child welcoming a new sibling into your home see 'Siblings' and 'Family Changes' sections of Dr Martha's book recommendations here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/recommended-books

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Do family members ever feel the need to give you an opinion or advice on your parenting that makes you feel criticised or judged? If it's happened, you're not alone. And if you respond by trying to convince and educate and it falls on deaf ears, this isn't your fault. Dr Martha talks about some of the reasons why judgment from family and others may happen and what you can control and do about it. There are no easy answer or quick fixes, judgment is something most parents experience at some point in time. Learning how to respond in way that fits for you and helps you be more empowered in these moments is a good thing to work towards and Dr Martha gives you questions and points of reflection to begin this.

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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There are many stereotypes and stories about 'only children' - but are these valid and true? And what (if anything...) can we do about it? Dr Martha explores the main stereotypes around 'only children', breaks down the myths and offers the facts to share the evidence around what children benefit the most from (spoiler alert: it's not necessarily a sibling).

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. There is a specific chapter on siblings that may interest those who wish to dive into sibling relationships further.

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Technology is part of our life and our children get to use it. But how do we ensure as parents that we keep our children safe when they are online? How do you set boundaries around screen time that give you the reassurance you need that your child is safeguarded when they are watching their favourite YouTube? Dr Martha talks about this from a personal and professional point of view and shares some steps all parents may benefit from talking to safeguard their children online.

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Does your child appear to speak loudly all day whether it's during play or talking at you? If this is the case - don't worry, it's very normal. Children need time and practice to learn how to modulate their voice. Dr Martha talks you through this and what you can do to help your child find their quieter 'inside voice' in comparison to their booming 'outside voice'.

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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If you have more than one child you cannot split yourself in half to care for their needs. So how do you manage your children's competing demands? What can you do when you feel like you are constantly being pulled in different directions? Dr Martha answers these questions and offers a thought provoking perspective on parenting multiple children and the importance of boundaries, for them and for you too.

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years.

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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We know that self-esteem (self-love, self-worth) is important, but how can we ensure we take steps to grow this in our children in ways that are long-lasting? And what can we do when our child rejects our offers of love and acceptance that can help them build resilience and a sense of 'good enoughness'? Dr Martha talks about all of this and offers you ideas on how to build this with your child, and also importantly - for you too.

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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When something scary happens, what can you do to bring back safety? In today's episode of Talking Sense, a mother asks about how to support her child after a choking episode. Dr Martha talks about what happens to children's bodies when they feel scared and the things that are most effective in helping them move through this. Despite the specific question this episode touches on elements that will support you as a parent at times when your child goes through a scary event.

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The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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When children interrupt adult conversations it can feel frustrating and rude. How do we support our children to learn social cues? What is the best way to teach them not to interrupt? And what can we learn from our child interrupting us about the importance of little ones voices? Dr Martha explores all of this and offers practical actionable strategies to guide you and your little one.

On January 6th 2023 Dr Martha will be making a big announcement and it will happen on the newsletter first. Sign up now and don’t miss out!

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question to Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Screens are everywhere! When little ones want to watch screens what is the best way of setting limits? Is there such a thing as ‘healthy screentime’? And how do you find the right balance for you and your family? Dr Martha explores all of these questions and offers you the current evidence base we have on screentime and children.

On January 6th 2023 Dr Martha will be making a big announcement and it will happen on the newsletter first. Sign up now and don’t miss out!

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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How do you know whether you are showing care to your child or spoiling them? Where is the line between nurturing and bringing up an entitled child? Dr Martha shares the difference and the reasons behind why children might ask for care even when they have the skills to do things by themselves.

On January 6th 2023 Dr Martha will be making a big announcement and it will happen on the newsletter first. Sign up now and don’t miss out!

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Do you know how to answer your child’s questions about ‘where babies come from’? And what do you do when your answer isn’t enough and they want ‘more’ understanding about how babies are made? Dr Martha gives you the tools and scripts to talk about this with your child to build your confidence in this topic and bring your child a sense of safety that they can trust you to answer their big questions, always.

Find Dr Martha’s curated list of books on reproduction, sex and families here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/drmdc_paediatric_psychologist/list/PH5HRDNY6GLO

Sign up to Dr Martha’s newsletter here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com

If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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We all want to discourage lies in our children… but what is the true purpose of a ‘lie’? And if we understand this, can it help us respond to our children’s lie’s differently? Dr Martha explores the truth about lies and how you can build honesty and trust with your child, in a way that feeds into the long-term benefit of a stronger connection with you.

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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When it’s time to leave some children shut down and struggle to say goodbye. This might seem rude and frustrating, but there is a lot more going on for your little one! Dr Martha discusses what is going on from a child’s point of view and offers 5 top strategies to guide you in supporting your child to learn how to say ‘goodbye’ without using force or coercion.

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Does your child ask for toys? Does it feel like they can never get ‘enough’ and a new thing is always on the horizon? Dr Martha discusses how to respond to children’s requests for more ‘things’ with three easy steps to guide you. She also offers 2 strategies to support you using these moments as opportunities for developing delayed gratification, teaching the value of choices, and managing disappointment. Given the festive period is on the horizon, Dr Martha also touches on how to prepare for a child’s ‘wish list’ for Christmas.

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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If your child has ever said “I hate you!” or “you are the worst mummy/daddy ever!” it might have shaken you to the core and made you wonder if there was something wrong with your child (or you as their parent!). Dr Martha talks through what is really happening in these moments, how you can be most effective in your response, and strategies that will support your child in changing their words to something more respectful when big feelings show up.

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Have you ever organized a day out with all the things your child enjoys only to find them grumpy and telling you they want to go home? Yep… it’s happened to me too! As adults, you might see this as ungratefulness or plain rudeness – but there is something else going on here. Dr Martha walks you through why children appear ungrateful and what is realistically happening, along with what you can do in the moment and outside of these times to build a practice of gratitude.

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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As parents there will be times when you feel judged by others for the choices you make for your child. How can you respond towards your child at these times? What can you do or say that role models to others that you are doing the best job you can as a parent? And as an adult in the presence of children, what is your role in all of this? Dr Martha uses a real example to walk you through actions, words, and ideas to help you set respectful boundaries with your child and others when you are in public.

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Does your child have nightmares or night terrors? Do you know the difference? And does it even matter? Dr Martha takes a deep dive into this topic, explaining what may trigger a nightmare or a night terror, she explains their differences and similarities, and helps you understand how you can support your child through them.

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The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Are there times when you go out with your child and they seem to go a little bonkers, either saying or doing silly things that seem totally our of character? If this happens to you – you are not alone! Today Dr Martha talks about what happens when excitement becomes too much, how you can support your child in those moments and better still, the things you can do to prepare for times when this might happen. Have a listen, rate and review!

Dr Martha mentions a book in this podcast you can have a look at it here: https://amzn.eu/hLUoqwG

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Parental preference is a developmental stage most children go through. If you are the parent out of favour this can sting, and if you are the preferred parent of the moment it can be exhausting! What is the best thing to do at these times to support your child? How can you manage those deep feelings of pain that being rejected can bring? And if you feel touched out by your child, what can you do without rupturing your relationship? Dr Martha answers all of this and on todays podcast.

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If you would like to be a part of the podcast email and audio question Dr Martha here: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Praise is a hot topic at the moment and the messages can be confusing. Is it possible to overpraise a child? What kind of praise fosters self-worth and self-accomplishment? Are there unexpected outcomes of praise? Dr Martha answers all of this and gives you examples to help you make sense of what praise is, it’s impact, and how you can use it most effectively on todays podcast.

Be the first to hear news and have simple strategies and happy content land in your inbox every week. Sign up to Dr Martha’s Newsletter here, launching very soon! https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Children get frustrated with small tasks easily. What helps children grow frustration tolerance? How can you support a child to persevere rather than give up? On todays podcast Dr Martha answers these questions and helps you understand what frustration is about and how you can help your child build a foundation to move through it.

Be the first to hear news and have simple strategies and happy content land in your inbox every week. Sign up to Dr Martha’s Newsletter here, launching very soon! https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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It is hard to keep a little one close by sometimes. How do you stop them from running off in a shop, or a car park? What boundaries are appropriate to set? And how will they learn that staying close to you is the safest option? Dr Martha talks about child development and helps you understand why children might run off from your side and what you can do about it on today's podcast.

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Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]m

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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When children show empathy and kindness how do we make sure we also instill assertiveness in them? What helps children stand up for themselves and speak up? And what is our role as parents and adults in children’s lives? Dr Martha answers these questions on todays podcast.

Dr Martha holds a list of favourite reads on useful topics including friendships and social skills. Find the reading list and further resources including sensory toys for soothing here:

https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/resources

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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As our child gets older we might expect their emotional regulation skills to get better. When can we expect their outbursts to stop? How do we respond when our child is older and still shout at us? Dr Martha talks about this and a lot more on the topic of emotional regulation with older children.

Dr Martha holds a list of favourite reads on useful topics including emotions. Find the reading list and further resources including sensory toys for soothhing here:

https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/resources

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Children are curious about death. It can feel ‘magical’ and strange to them. We all hold different stories about death and making sense of this can help us answer our children’s questions more meaningfully. How can we talk about death without instilling fear? What are the keywords children need to hear to make sense of death? What can you do to look after yourself in this process? Dr Martha talks about this and more.

If you would find it useful to have resources to talk about death and bereavement with children Dr Martha’s favourite reads to share with children can be found here:

https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/resources

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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We all know the classical stories and fairytales of our childhood. How do we feel about reading these stories now to our own children? What if we don’t agree with the stereotypes within them? Will it harm our children to hear these stories or will it make some of what we teach them seem ‘at odds’ with this? Dr Martha talks about some of the themes classic stories carry within them and what you can do with this, if you wish to.

If you would like to read some different stories to your child Dr Martha has compiled a list of her favourite books, including some that deliberately re-story the classical fairytales of our childhood. Have a look for these stories. Find reading lists here:

https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/resources

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

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We all let out our anger on our children sometimes. How can you begin to make sense of your triggers? What message is Anger trying to tell you? How can you build a toolkit of resources that not only prevents you getting into ‘shouty mode’ but protects and recharges you to have more capacity to be with your child? Dr Martha reflects on all of this and more of this episode on Anger.

Need further support to manage anger? There is help out there. Dr Martha has compiled a list of resources including useful charities and ways to access support alongside further reading on emotions. See all of this and more here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/resources

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

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We want our children to learn emotional literacy but how can we talk about how we feel without placing the burden of responsibility for looking after our emotions? Is it wrong to tell children that their behaviour has an impact on others? How does shame play into this? Dr Martha shares her insight on these big topics and offers a simple, actionable framework of how to talk about your feelings and teach your children a valuable lesson in communication and relationships.

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

Dr Martha has a list of books she recommends to help support emotional literacy. Find them here:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/drmdc_paediatric_psychologist/list/6SUI9EK6J4TJ

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The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Children want to play all day and it can feel relentless and dare I say it, even boring sometimes. What does play mean to your child? How can you be most effective when you join in play? And are there times when you can say no to your child and that be ok too? Dr Martha talks through all of this in more on this episode on play.

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

Dr Martha has a list of toys by age range that she uses therapeutically and with her child. See these lists here:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/drmdc_paediatric_psychologist?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_drmdc_paediatric_psychologist_dp_6SuBTRmJnttP4

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The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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Children sometimes hit other children and sometimes, even you. This can be a big trigger and also raise your concern. Why do children hit? How can you make sense of this behaviour to make it stop for good? Dr Martha talks through what can lead children to hitting and offers ideas and strategies you can trust to redirect the behaviour and meet your child’s needs in a way that makes sense.

Want to be part of the podcast? Email Dr Martha an audio recording of your question: [email protected]

Access resources to talk about feelings with your child here:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/drmdc_paediatric_psychologist/list/6SUI9EK6J4TJ

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The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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When children move schools it can be one of the first transitions they have awareness of, and even if it’s the right decision, it can be hard. Before you can have a new beginning you need to have an ending. Dr Martha talks through what transitions can bring up for you and for your child, offering ideas to support you moving through this in a way that allows both you and your child to process the change and come out the other side feeling more connected. 

Want to be part of the podcast and ask a question? Email Dr Martha an audio file here: [email protected]

Find resources to support this conversation with your child here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/drmdc_paediatric_psychologist/list/2QRL0IDA5RYYQ

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The Confident Parent course is out! Do you have, or look after, children between the ages of 18 months and 6 years old? The Confident Parent is a practical, video-based course for parents and caregivers from Clinical Psychologist Dr Martha. Over eighty 3-6 minute videos to guide you through the main challenges of the early years. 

Learn more about the course and sign up here: https://www.drmarthapsychologist.com/the-course

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