The ANTD Podcast

Can trust ever be rebuilt after cheating? In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders get raw and honest about the exact steps they took to repair their marriage after betrayal. If you've ever been cheated on—or were the one who cheated—and you're wondering if it's even possible to fix things... this episode is for you.

We break down the 3 pillars of true accountability: Remorse, Reassurance, and Respecting Boundaries. Learn why apologies without action are meaningless, how to rebuild connection through daily habits, and how a faith-driven relationship can survive even the worst pain.

You’ll also hear how D overcame guilt, Amee dealt with constant fear, and what ultimately helped them both trust again. Whether you're in a relationship trying to heal or preparing for the future, this conversation will challenge you, encourage you, and remind you—you’re not alone.

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⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Why Accountability Is Non-Negotiable

00:38 – Step 1: Take Ownership Without Excuses

01:45 – Why Blaming Makes Things Worse

02:47 – Breaking Complacency in Long-Term Relationships

04:03 – Rebuilding Emotional Connection Through Time

04:52 – The Compound Effect in Relationships

06:26 – Transparency: Sharing Passwords, Daily Check-ins

08:10 – The Power of Actions Over Words

09:04 – From Manipulator to Man of God

10:12 – What Real Heart Change Looks Like

11:18 – The 3 R’s: Remorse, Reassurance, Boundaries

15:03 – What Reassurance Actually Means

16:55 – Building a Relationship God Will Bless

18:00 – Why Vulnerability Is the Key to Deep Healing

19:51 – Healthy Boundaries After Infidelity

22:41 – Full Access vs. Control in Marriage

24:00 – Can God Really Restore a Broken Relationship?

24:51 – Shop Resources & Final Encouragement

In Episode 48 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders explore how the attachment styles we develop in childhood can sabotage our adult relationships and even lead to infidelity. They break down the four attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant) and reveal how each can influence a person’s likelihood to cheat. With personal stories, faith-filled encouragement, and even a little humor, Amee and D unpack why an unhealed inner child might drive someone to betray their partner. They emphasize that no attachment style is beyond healing – through self-awareness, God’s grace, and hard work, couples can break toxic cycles and rebuild trust after betrayal.

Links & Resources:

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal – https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

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When the trust is shattered, is love enough to stay—or is it time to let go? In this emotionally raw episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders open up about infidelity, betrayal, and the gut-wrenching process of deciding whether to rebuild or release a relationship. This conversation is for anyone struggling in the aftermath of cheating, wondering if the person who hurt them can ever truly change, or feeling stuck between heartbreak and hope.

With honesty, faith, and real-world wisdom, they unpack the emotional, spiritual, and psychological weight of staying—or leaving—after betrayal. You’ll learn the true signs your relationship might be worth fighting for: consistent accountability, real remorse, and transparent action. You’ll also hear when it’s time to stop holding on—especially if your partner keeps breaking promises, blaming you, or causing emotional damage. D vulnerably shares his own past of betrayal and what finally pushed him to change, while Amee brings clarity and strength to the voice of the betrayed.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “How did we get here?” or “Can we come back from this?”—this episode will help you answer it with truth and grace. Whether you choose to stay and rebuild or let go and heal, there is hope beyond heartbreak.

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00:01:03 – Lack of accountability & blame shifting

00:07:06 – Controlling or isolating behavior

00:16:23 – Dishonesty & secretive behavior

00:24:17 – Emotional or verbal abuse

00:29:00 – Inconsistent actions & broken promises

Top 5 Relationship Red Flags: Not Warnings — Stop Signs That’ll Break You

Love can make us blind, but ignoring the wrong signs can cost you everything. In fact, about 60% of people admit they’ve ignored major red flags early in a relationship — only to regret it later. 😮 In this episode of our couples podcast, we dive into the top 5 relationship red flags that are not just warnings – they’re stop signs that can break your heart. We set a funny, emotional, faith-based tone as we share deeply honest stories of infidelity, toxic behavior, and relationship trauma. You’ll hear how we faced cheating, found forgiveness, and discovered emotional healing and growth through faith in our relationship journey.

No more turning a blind eye – we break down each red flag with raw honesty and a dash of humor. 🚩 Learn how a lack of accountability (and constant blame shifting) poisons trust in a relationship. We reveal how controlling or isolating behavior can make love feel like a prison instead of a partnership. We expose the damage caused by dishonesty & secretive behavior, and shine a light on emotional or verbal abuse (yep, we talk gaslighting and all those toxic behaviors). And when it comes to those inconsistent actions & broken promises that leave you feeling crazy, we’re right there with you, sharing why they hurt so much. Expect to laugh at some cringe-worthy moments and maybe shed a tear, but most importantly, you’ll learn to spot these red flags early and protect your heart. 💔🚫

This raw, unfiltered discussion also doubles as Christian marriage advice filled with practical wisdom and hope. If you’re a woman seeking cheating recovery or a couple striving to rebuild trust after betrayal, you’ll find encouragement here. We highlight how to find redemption and healing through Jesus – showing that faith and relationships go hand-in-hand when it comes to forgiveness and personal growth. Stop ignoring red flags and start moving toward the healthy, loving relationship God wants for you. 🙏❤️

Timestamps:

00:01:03 – Lack of accountability & blame shifting

00:07:06 – Controlling or isolating behavior

00:16:23 – Dishonesty & secretive behavior

00:24:17 – Emotional or verbal abuse

00:32:07 – Inconsistent actions & broken promises

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Trust isn’t rebuilt with words—it’s earned through actions. In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders dive deep into how to be reliable after infidelity and prove you're committed to change. If you're wondering how to regain your partner’s trust, stay consistent, and truly heal your relationship, this episode is for you.

We break down the steps to rebuilding credibility, the importance of emotional consistency, and the role of faith in repairing broken trust. Amee shares her perspective on what it took for her to believe in D. again, while D. opens up about the daily efforts he made to prove his commitment. If you’re struggling with self-doubt, lingering resentment, or uncertainty about your partner’s sincerity, we provide actionable steps to rebuild trust—brick by brick.

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⏳ Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: The emotional weight of rebuilding trust

01:20 – How to prove you're serious after cheating

05:10 – The role of faith and accountability in healing

12:30 – What true consistency looks like in a relationship

18:45 – Overcoming insecurity and rebuilding confidence

24:00 – Why words mean nothing without action

30:10 – How social media impacts trust in modern relationships

💬 Have you or your partner struggled with trust after betrayal? Share your thoughts in the comments below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to help others on their healing journey!

Betrayal cuts deep, but healing is possible. In Episode 44 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders share an emotional and powerful conversation about how to start healing after infidelity. If you’ve ever felt trapped in pain, triggered by memories, or unsure how to move forward, this episode is for you.

We discuss the real impact of betrayal, how trauma manifests in everyday life, and practical self-care strategies to help you regain control of your emotions. Amee opens up about a heartbreaking moment in her past, revealing the emotional weight she carried and how she found strength in her healing journey. D. Widders reflects on the damage caused and the role of faith in their recovery.

If you’re struggling with self-blame, intrusive thoughts, or overwhelming emotions, we provide actionable steps to take care of yourself and move toward true healing. Your pain is valid, but so is your power to heal.

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⏳ Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: The emotional aftermath of betrayal

01:20 – How cheating impacts mental and emotional health

05:10 – Amee’s personal story: Trauma, loss, and finding strength

12:30 – How to recognize and control emotional triggers

18:45 – The role of self-care in healing after infidelity

24:00 – Can faith and forgiveness help in recovery?

30:10 – Overcoming self-blame and guilt

37:20 – How to move forward and rebuild your confidence

42:00 – Final thoughts: You are stronger than your pain

💬 Have you experienced betrayal in your relationship? Share your thoughts in the comments below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to support others on their healing journey!

What do you do if the person who betrayed you only seems to care after getting caught? In Episode 43 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders dive deep into the psychology of cheaters—why they do it, why they hide it, and if they can ever truly change.

With over 34% of men and 24% of women admitting to infidelity, the question remains: Do cheaters ever stop if they don’t get caught? We break it all down, from personal experiences to hard-hitting truths about trust, accountability, and healing after betrayal.

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⏳ Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: Would they ever stop if they weren’t caught?

01:11 – Shocking infidelity statistics

03:00 – Amee & D’s personal story: The harsh truth

08:14 – Why most cheaters don’t confess on their own

12:30 – Guilt, shame, and secrecy in infidelity

15:50 – Do cheaters actually feel bad about what they did?

21:10 – Why they suddenly change after getting caught

27:45 – Can someone cheat and still love their partner?

32:20 – Healing from betrayal & rebuilding trust

36:50 – How faith played a role in transformation

41:00 – Final thoughts: Do cheaters ever truly change?

💬 If you’ve experienced infidelity in your relationship, drop a comment with your thoughts. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to help others!

What do you do when the person who nearly destroyed your marriage is someone your spouse still works with? In Episode 42 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders dive deep into the reality of workplace affairs, sharing personal experiences and practical steps for rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, and deciding if staying at the job is even an option.

With 85% of extramarital affairs starting at work, navigating this situation is incredibly challenging. Whether you're the betrayed partner or the one trying to make amends, this episode will give you real, unfiltered insights on how to move forward. Should you quit your job? Can trust ever be rebuilt? We break it all down.

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Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: What happens when your spouse’s affair partner is a co-worker?

01:11 – Workplace affairs: The shocking statistics

03:00 – Amee & D’s personal story: How it all unfolded

08:14 – The emotional toll of working with the affair partner

12:30 – Why most workplace affairs happen & how to prevent them

15:50 – The importance of honesty and transparency after infidelity

21:10 – Setting firm boundaries at work and at home

27:45 – Should you quit your job? The tough decision

32:20 – Healing from betrayal and rebuilding trust

36:50 – How faith played a role in overcoming the past

41:00 – Final thoughts: Moving forward & choosing your marriage

If you’re struggling with infidelity in your relationship, this episode is for you. Drop a comment with your thoughts, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share to help others who need this!

Being cheated on can shatter your self-worth, leaving you searching for validation in all the wrong places. In this episode, Amee shares her personal journey of dealing with betrayal, seeking approval online, and how she ultimately found true confidence in God. She and D discuss the emotional aftermath of infidelity, the dangers of relying on external validation, and the steps to rebuild self-esteem through faith and self-discovery.

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⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro: Betrayal & the Search for Validation

00:34 - How Being Cheated On Shattered My Self-Worth

02:10 - From Brokenness to Foot Model: Chasing Approval

05:18 - The Social Media Trap: Addicted to Likes & Attention

08:53 - Why External Validation Will Never Heal You

12:50 - The Wake-Up Call: Creepy Messages & Reality Check

16:57 - How I Realized My Worth in God, Not Others

19:49 - Healing After Infidelity: Finding Real Confidence

23:59 - The Power of Faith Over Social Approval

25:13 - Turning Pain into Purpose: My Redemption Story

27:06 - Final Thoughts: You Are More Than Their Betrayal

Rebuilding intimacy after infidelity is one of the hardest challenges a couple can face. In Episode 40 of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we dive deep into the emotional and spiritual struggles that come with betrayal, the concept of hyper-bonding, and how faith can play a role in healing. If you're struggling with trust, intimacy, or reconnecting after an affair, this episode is for you.

📌 Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro: Why this episode was difficult to record

00:11 - The emotional weight of sharing our story

00:12 - Hyper-bonding after betrayal: What it is and why it happens

00:13 - The need for reassurance and constant questioning

00:16 - Struggles with intimacy and self-worth after infidelity

00:17 - Spiritual intimacy: How faith can rebuild a broken relationship

00:18 - The importance of involving God in your marriage

00:19 - Final thoughts & how you can move forward

💬 Have questions? Drop them in the comments, and we might do a part two!

What do you think about today’s topic? Have you experienced how hard it is to be intimate after infidelity?

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Is your marriage built on culture or Christ? In this episode, Amee and D. Widders break down the key differences between Godly and worldly marriages, sharing real-life experiences, biblical wisdom, and hard-hitting truths about love, commitment, and personal transformation.

Follow this blueprint and it will give you a brand new relationship that will last!

Timestamps:

📌 00:00 – Introduction – Is your relationship rooted in culture or Christ?

📌 00:06 – Why This Conversation Matters – Amee & D. introduce today’s topic and why it’s relevant for both believers and non-believers.

📌 00:27 – The Divorce Rate Difference – Stats on Christian vs. general divorce rates & why commitment to God makes a difference.

📌 01:25 – The Gambling Analogy – D. shares his past struggles with gambling and how it relates to faith and decision-making in marriage.

📌 **02:30 – Covenant vs. Conditional Love – The fundamental difference between godly and worldly marriages.

📌 03:21 – The Power of a Threefold Cord – What it means to have God at the center of your marriage (Ecclesiastes 4:12).

📌 05:12 – Seeking God’s Guidance in Struggles – Why seeking wisdom from God, not the world, strengthens marriages.

📌 06:16 – How Amee Reignited Her Faith – A personal story of returning to faith and its impact on their relationship.

📌 07:38 – Worldly Marriage Seeks Self-Fulfillment – Why selfishness leads to division & how servanthood transforms relationships.

📌 09:07 – Small Acts of Service Matter – D. shares how serving Amee in small ways improved their marriage.

📌 10:38 – The Power of Selfless Love – How choosing to serve rather than take changes everything.

📌 14:15 – The Empty Promises of the World – D. shares his experience chasing success, money, and power vs. living for God.

📌 17:02 – Healing and Transformation – A raw conversation about change, surrender, and breaking free from past mistakes.

📌 19:50 – Led by God vs. Driven by the World – The key difference between living in faith and following cultural trends.

📌 21:40 – Final Thoughts – A marriage rooted in Christ isn’t perfect, but it’s protected, purposeful, and powerful.

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What do you think about today’s topic? Have you experienced the difference between a worldly and godly relationship? Drop a comment below!

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💔 Struggling with guilt after infidelity? In this episode, we have a raw and honest conversation about the shame and regret that follow cheating. We discuss how guilt affects relationships, faith, and self-worth—and most importantly, how to heal and move forward.

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📌 Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction: The Reality of Shame & Guilt After Cheating

02:16 – The immediate emotions after cheating: Guilt vs. Regret

05:45 – Why cheating causes the deepest shame & how it lingers

10:04 – The struggle of self-forgiveness & breaking free from shame

14:51 – How shame impacts your identity as a spouse, parent, and believer

20:13 – Healing after infidelity: Steps to truly repent & rebuild trust

25:48 – Can cheaters really change? The role of faith & transformation

30:27 – Overcoming negative comments & judgment from others

35:12 – The power of confession: Why keeping guilt inside destroys you

40:05 – Advice for those stuck in shame & afraid to admit the truth

45:20 – Final thoughts: You are not your past—true healing is possible

🙏 If you’ve been through this, let us know your thoughts in the comments. Your story may help someone else!

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Are social media habits hurting your relationship? In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D dive deep into the impact of social media on romantic relationships and the importance of setting healthy digital boundaries. From flirty DMs to unrealistic expectations, we uncover how social media can create trust issues, comparison traps, and emotional disconnection—and most importantly, how to fix it.

🔹 00:00 – Would you be okay with your spouse liking flirty pictures or responding to DMs?

🔹 00:05 – Welcome! Today’s topic: social media and relationships.

🔹 00:46 – Micro-cheating: Is liking thirst traps a form of betrayal?

🔹 01:07 – Comparison & unrealistic expectations: How social media distorts reality.

🔹 02:02 – Social media should come with a warning label: “This isn’t real life!”

🔹 02:39 – How the algorithm influences what you see (and why you should be careful).

🔹 03:16 – Setting boundaries: Should you follow the opposite sex?

🔹 04:12 – D’s past experience in a strip club & how it changed his perspective.

🔹 07:05 – The dangers of desensitization: How overexposure changes your mindset.

🔹 09:39 – Trust & Boundaries: Should couples share passcodes?

🔹 10:57 – Should you delete social media if it’s harming your relationship?

🔹 12:54 – Building trust: Why full transparency leads to freedom.

🔹 14:53 – How social media blurs relationship boundaries & fuels emotional infidelity.

🔹 15:36 – Communication & connection: Is social media pulling you apart?

🔹 20:33 – The importance of phone-free quality time in relationships.

🔹 21:56 – Finding balance: Social media for work vs. personal time.

🔹 23:23 – The key to healthy relationships? Boundaries = Freedom.

💬 Let’s talk! Have you set social media boundaries in your relationship? Drop a comment and let us know your thoughts!

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Can a cheater really change? Or is "once a cheater, always a cheater" true?

Welcome to Episode 36 of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders!

We’ve heard it all—"They'll never change!" "You're a fool for staying!" But what if true transformation is possible? In this episode, we share our personal journey of healing after infidelity, the real steps to lasting change, and how our marriage became stronger than ever.

If you've ever wondered whether a cheater can truly change, this episode is for you.

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⏳ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro: "Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?"

1:21 – Why Most People Don’t Believe Cheaters Can Change

5:49 – The #1 Reason People Cheat (And How to Stop)

10:07 – Is Remorse Real? Or Just Regret for Getting Caught?

14:35 – Breaking Toxic Patterns: How Real Change Happens

20:45 – How Long Does It Take to Rebuild Trust?

25:00 – Faith & Healing: Why God Changed Everything

28:23 – Final Thoughts: Can a Cheater TRULY Change?

💬 Do you believe in second chances? Drop a comment—we’d love to hear your thoughts!

📢 Watch Next:

➡️ How to Rebuild Trust After Infidelity (3 Powerful Steps)

➡️ Caught in Betrayal: How to Heal & Decide If You Should Stay or Go

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Can a relationship survive infidelity? YES—but it takes work. In this episode, we share three essential steps that helped us heal, rebuild trust, and make our marriage stronger than ever. If you’re struggling with betrayal, we’re here to help you navigate the process and decide what’s best for your relationship.

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⏳ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro: Can You Really Rebuild Trust After Infidelity?

0:48 – Step 1: Radical Transparency & Accountability (Why honesty is the foundation)

5:21 – Step 2: Healing Individually & Together (You can't move forward without this)

14:05 – Step 3: Creating a New Vision for the Relationship (Let go of the past & start fresh)

25:19 – How Our Faith Saved Our Marriage (Why spiritual healing matters)

31:23 – Our Hardest Moment: The Breaking Point That Changed Everything

33:25 – Final Thoughts: Is Rebuilding Trust Worth It?

💬 Have you experienced betrayal in a relationship? Comment below—we’d love to hear your story and support you on your journey.

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➡️ Caught in Betrayal: How to Heal & Decide If You Should Stay or Go

➡️ Why Relationships Fail: The #1 Mistake Couples Make

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Should you tell your partner you cheated? Keeping it a secret could destroy you, but confessing could destroy your relationship. In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we dive deep into the truth about confession, healing, and moving forward after infidelity.

Our main goal is to help people tell the truth and move forward. If you're struggling with guilt, wondering how to confess, or trying to heal from betrayal, this episode is for you.

🔑 Main Points Covered:

1. The Biblical & Moral Perspective on Confession – Why honesty is the first step to healing.
2. The Impact of Confession on Your Relationship – Can your honesty save or ruin your relationship?
3. How to Confess the Right Way – Practical tips on when, where, and how to tell the truth.

⏱ Timestamps: 00:00 - Should You Confess? The Hard Truth

00:26 - Introduction: The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders

01:15 - What the Bible Says About Confession & Mercy

02:41 - Why Confessing to God First is Crucial

04:52 - Why People Struggle to Tell the Truth

05:48 - How the Truth Can Restore (or End) Your Relationship

07:51 - Seeking God for True Repentance

09:07 - The Consequences of Hiding the Truth

10:38 - The Long-Term Effects of Cheating

12:19 - Is Keeping a Secret Another Form of Betrayal?

15:02 - Will Confessing Help or Hurt Your Relationship?

20:13 - The Stats on Infidelity: Who Stays & Who Leaves?

22:41 - The First Step to Healing: Full Honesty

25:40 - How to Confess Without Making It Worse

26:58 - The Power of Truth & Moving Forward

💬 Let’s Talk: Have you ever faced this situation? Do you believe in telling the truth no matter what? Drop your thoughts in the comments!

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🔥 How to Love When You Don’t Feel Like It 🔥

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we dive into the powerful choice of loving your partner even when it’s tough. 💖 Whether you’re struggling with emotions, having a rough patch, or just need a reminder, we share practical tips and personal stories to help you choose love every day. 💪

💡 Love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a decision! From shifting your focus to actions to leaning on God for strength, this episode is packed with tools to strengthen your relationship.

📌 Timestamps:

00:00 Intro – Choosing Love Every Day

02:15 Love is a Choice, Not a Feeling

07:30 Shifting Your Focus from Feelings to Actions

12:10 Small Acts of Love – How They Make a Big Difference

18:45 The Power of Prayer & Surrendering to God’s Strength

24:00 Final Thoughts – Unconditional Love is Possible

👇 Drop a comment! When do YOU struggle to love your partner? Let’s talk about it and support each other!

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🔥 Is Your Relationship Built to Last? 🔥

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we break down 5 key signs that determine whether your relationship will succeed—or if it’s heading for trouble. 😳

💡 Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this checklist will help you evaluate where you and your partner stand. From spiritual alignment to communication and conflict resolution, we cover it all.

📌 Timestamps:

00:00 Intro – Are You in the Right Relationship?

02:15 Sign #1: Spiritual Foundation & Beliefs

07:52 Sign #2: Life Purpose & Calling

14:43 Sign #3: Communication & Conflict Resolution

21:47 Sign #4: Boundaries & Purity

27:24 Sign #5: Healing & Past Baggage

38:14 Final Thoughts & Next Steps

👇 Drop a comment! Which of these 5 signs do you see in your relationship? Let’s talk!

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Join Amee and D. Widders on The ANTD Podcast for a deep dive into the tough realities of infidelity and relationship abuse. In this powerful episode, Amee and D. share their personal experiences navigating both betrayal and the complexities of physical and verbal abuse. After nearly ending their own relationship, they offer honest insights into why some people stay in toxic situations and what you should do if you find yourself in a similar struggle.

Are you dealing with infidelity or abuse? This episode provides practical advice on rebuilding trust, embracing forgiveness, and setting healthy boundaries. Learn how to navigate the healing process together, strengthen your relationship with God, and make the tough decision: should you stay or go?

Relationships are tough—but they can be the best thing ever!

This episode is about all things MICRO CHEATING. Is it full blown infidelity or just flirting?

Welcome to your new favorite RELATIONSHIP PODCAST - The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, where we dive deep into love, trust, and the real struggles couples face.

In this Episode we discuss:

1. What is Micro Cheating?

2. Why Does Micro Cheating Happen?How Micro Cheating Ruins Relationships and How To Fix It.

3. How Micro Cheating Ruins Relationships and How To Fix It.

From navigating heartbreak and healing after infidelity to setting boundaries and strengthening your connection, we bring you raw, honest conversations that help you build a healthier, stronger relationship.

Whether you’re dealing with micro-cheating, trust issues, or just trying to keep the spark alive, we’ve got you covered with real talk, faith-based wisdom, and practical advice.

New episodes drop every Wednesday and Saturday at 8 PM PST. Tune in weekly and let’s do the hard work of love—together.

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