The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Our kids don’t need us to be perfect. Not only do they not need us to be perfect, it would actually be bad for them if we were.
In fact, research shows parents are in attunement with their children about 30% of the time. 30%! That’s it!
When I teach, I often reassure parents that ⅓ of their interactions with their child are “getting it right.” About ⅓ of the time they are “getting it wrong” (whatever that even means- we all have our own, valid definitions). The rest? The remaining ⅓? Well ideally, the other ⅓ is spent in repair.
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