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The Dad Edge Podcast is a movement. It is a strong community of Fathers who all share a set of values.
Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge, breaks down common challenges of fatherhood, making them easy to understand and overcome. Tackling the world of Fatherhood can be a daunting task when we try to do it alone.
The mission of The Dad Edge Podcast is to help you become the best, strongest, and happiest version of yourself so that you can help guide your kids to the best version of themselves. Simple as that.
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Marc Azoulay is the founder of Men's Therapy Online, a healing hub and community that transforms men's lives through group therapy, individual counseling, and wilderness retreats. Drawing on his expertise in psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and Buddhism, he helps men identify and overcome unconscious barriers to become the best versions of themselves. Through his team of licensed clinicians, Marc guides men in showing up authentically for their lives, relationships, and communities.
Today, Marc Azoulay shares his expertise in helping men become their best selves through a unique blend of psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and Buddhist philosophy. With his team of licensed clinicians, Marc Azoulay provides men's groups, individual counseling, and wilderness retreats aimed at breaking through unconscious barriers that hold men back from authentic living.
The conversation explores the complex dynamics of how men process and express emotions, particularly in their relationships and roles as community protectors. Marc offers valuable insights into men's emotional evolution–from villain to victim to hero to guide, while discussing the crucial differences between coaching and therapy, and how men can learn to show up more authentically in their relationships and communities.
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Today, in this debut episode of Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, Larry Hagner shares intimate insights from his personal fatherhood journey, emphasizing that parenting is a learnable skill rather than an innate ability. Through candid stories of his own parenting challenges, including moments of lost patience, he draws a compelling parallel to Navy SEAL training to illustrate how fathers can develop emotional regulation and composure in challenging parenting situations.
The episode kicks off this new weekly series by delving into his passionate perspective on two crucial aspects of family dynamics: the importance of prioritizing marriage alongside parenting to create a strong family foundation, and the vital role of building genuine connections with children through meaningful engagement.
Drawing from his own experiences, Larry emphasizes that while parenting mistakes are inevitable, the ability to repair and learn from these moments ultimately strengthens family bonds and creates lasting relationships.
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Emily and Michael have been married for the past 8 years. Michael started doing life with us in the Dad Edge Alliance 4 years ago.
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Nicole Perrone is a pioneering force in the mortgage industry and CEO/Co-Founder of New Jersey Construction. Starting as a top producer at age 23, she went on to lead a $2.1 billion mortgage team in Manhattan by age 33. Now serving as Senior Vice President of Production at America's #1 Retail Mortgage Company, she also hosts The Billion Dollar Banker Podcast and appears on the Emmy-nominated American Dream TV.
Today, Nicole Perrone shares powerful insights on transforming luck from mere chance into a strategic formula, drawing from her journey from communications graduate to successful mortgage banker and entrepreneur. Through her keynote speaking experience, she explains how preparation, opportunity recognition, and bold action combine to create success.
The discussion explores both professional and personal dimensions, from practical steps for seizing opportunities to navigating family dynamics, such as her own experience growing up with divorced parents. Nicole provides actionable strategies for applying the science of luck across all life domains, emphasizing how persistence and a positive mindset can transform setbacks into stepping stones for success.
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Zach Watson is an Invisible Labor Coach who helps men understand and share the mental load of domestic responsibilities with their partners. Through his coaching practice, he guides couples in recognizing unseen household labor, improving communication, and creating more equitable partnerships. His expertise includes addressing emotional labor, cognitive load, and implementing the "Fair Play" framework to foster healthier relationship dynamics.
Today, Zach Watson shares his expertise as a mental load coach, explaining how his viral content (with over 120 million views) helps men understand the invisible labor their partners perform, breaking down this work into three key categories: domestic labor, mental load, and emotional labor. Through personal anecdotes, including his famous "blueberry muffins" example, he illustrates how seemingly small actions can significantly impact relationship dynamics.
The conversation explores practical strategies for creating more equitable partnerships, from reducing unnecessary questions to implementing regular "huddles" for discussing household responsibilities. Zach emphasizes that true partnership goes beyond simply sharing tasks – it's about developing empathy and understanding to create a more balanced and harmonious home life.
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Ben Smith is a highly successful, humorous, and hilarious business owner who has been married for 12 years with a son and a daughter. He has been a part of The Dad Edge Boardroom for one year.
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Andy Heller is a successful businessman and author who transitioned from writing real estate investment books to penning "Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family" after his own divorce experience. Through his unique perspective as someone who has navigated divorce personally rather than as a professional in the field, Andy compiled insights from attorneys, therapists, mediators, and other experts to create a comprehensive guide featuring 46 practical strategies. His groundbreaking approach combines a businessman's objectivity with expert guidance, aiming to help others achieve healthier outcomes for themselves and their families during and after divorce.
Today, Andy Heller shares his personal journey through a high-conflict divorce while offering strategic insights on navigating the process with compassion, including the vital role of early intervention and therapy for both parents and children. He introduces important concepts like utilizing co-parent counselors and special masters to ease the burden of divorce, while emphasizing the significance of strategic compromise on key issues for future well-being.
The discussion delves into Andy Heller's unique approach to preparing children for divorce news through proactive therapy, alongside practical strategies for maintaining effective co-parenting relationships post-divorce. His comprehensive advice, drawn from personal experience and extensive research, provides valuable guidance for anyone contemplating or going through a divorce process.
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Scott McCarthy is a distinguished Canadian Army officer whose leadership journey began early, leading him to command an 80-soldier platoon at age 24 and later a 200-member Logistics Squadron, while also serving as a mentor in Afghanistan. He currently serves as both a senior Canadian Army officer and Chief Leadership Officer at Moving Forward Leadership, where he hosts a podcast sharing insights from his two decades of military experience.
Today, Scott McCarthy delves deep into the concept of psychological safety in leadership, exploring Tim Clark's four crucial stages: Belonger Safety, Learner Safety, Contributor Safety, and Challenger Safety. Through personal anecdotes from his military background, he illustrates how these principles create an environment where team members feel secure to express ideas and learn from both successes and failures.
The conversation extends to the delicate balance of maintaining high standards while fostering a supportive environment, both in professional teams and family life. Scott also shares valuable insights on leadership accountability and personal growth, emphasizing how continuous adaptation and humility contribute to creating psychologically safe spaces where teams can thrive.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Ryan Michler is a husband, father, Iraqi combat veteran, and the founder of Order of Man. Driven by his own experiences growing up without a permanent father figure, he is on a mission to empower men to embrace their roles as protectors, providers, and leaders in their families and communities. Through his podcast and blog, Ryan offers insights and practical advice to help men become the best versions of themselves.
Today, Ryan Michler discuss the challenges and rewards of running a men's leadership development organization, highlighting the importance of consistency and accountability in personal and professional growth.
The conversation also delves into personal experiences and lessons learned from overcoming struggles, emphasizing the need to recognize warning signs in life. They explore attachment styles and their impact on relationships, offering practical advice for managing emotions and fostering effective communication. This episode encourages listeners to embrace vulnerability and seek support, reminding them that transformation is possible through open dialogue and community.
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Ashley Taylor-Maland is a well known writer and social media influencer with over half a million followers, known for her candid content on healing, mental health, relationships, and domestic violence. Through her platform and various roles as a writer, cosmetologist, and mom, Ashley continues to inspire others by promoting healing, authenticity, and breaking free from negative patterns while advocating for both survivor support and abuser treatment.
Today, Ashley Taylor opens up about her journey through emotional manipulation, physical abuse, and trauma bonding, ultimately finding the strength to seek a safe environment away from a destructive relationship.
The conversation traverses many facets of family dynamics, self-worth, and the critical need for boundaries in relationships. Larry and Ashley also delve deep into the significance of safety in intimate relationships and how active fatherhood impacts the family unit. They explore the delicate balance between kindness and assertiveness and discuss the difference between being genuinely kind versus superficially nice.
Towards the end, Ashley shares insights into how her father’s transformation inspired her, while Larry recounts his experiences with relationship conflicts and resolutions. They underline the need for respectful communication, mutual support, and the importance of personal growth within relationships.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Nick Koumalatsos is a former Marine Raider, entrepreneur, and author dedicated to helping others grow through physical fitness, mental resilience, and personal development. He leads Agoge, a coaching company that empowers individuals to pursue their potential by developing strength, confidence, and leadership.
Today, Nick Koumalatsos shares the powerful impact of in-person connections through activities like jiu-jitsu, training sessions, and shared meals. He discussed the Squire program, a transformative rite of passage for young men that Nick personally embraced by guiding his nephew through it, highlighting the crucial need for positive male role models in young boys' lives.
The conversation evolved to address the challenges of modern parenting, particularly the tendency to overprotect children at the expense of their personal growth and resilience. This led to a broader discussion about the importance of generational wisdom transfer and traditional rites of passage, with both hosts emphasizing the need for parents to create environments where children can develop both physically and emotionally through facing and overcoming challenges.
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Jesi Stracham is the founder of Wheel With Me Foundation and co-developer of the Wheel With Me Adapt Fit app, designed to support the independence and fitness of wheelchair users. After a motorcycle accident in 2015 resulted in a spinal cord injury, Jesi turned her experience into a platform for motivation and empowerment, and set on a mission to inspire the world to live life to its fullest. She also co-owns Freedom Longevity & Wellness LKN in Lake Norman, North Carolina.
Today, Jesse Stracham shares her journey from a tumultuous childhood to becoming a beacon of resilience and empowerment. Despite not being a dad, Jesse's story resonates deeply with themes of accountability, personal growth, and the relentless pursuit of one's best self. She opens up about growing up in a family involved in the trucking industry and the lack of guidance that led her to make precarious choices as a teenager. Her life took a dramatic turn when she was paralyzed in a motorcycle accident, forcing her to confront her vulnerabilities and redefine her sense of self.
Jesse's candid recounting of her struggles with physical limitations, mental health, and the journey to regain her independence is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. She discusses her transformation through fitness and nutrition, highlighting the power of proper diet and exercise in managing her condition. Her involvement with Adaptive CrossFit, the impact of the 75 Hard program, and her advocacy for better nutritional awareness underscore her insights into the importance of mental resilience, personal accountability, and the role of faith in her recovery.
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Chuck Liddell is a legendary figure in the world of mixed martial arts, recognized as one of the pioneers who brought MMA into the mainstream. Known as "The Iceman" for his unshakeable presence in the ring, Chuck’s journey to greatness began far from the bright lights of professional fighting. He is the face of UFC, and superstar of Mixed Martial Arts–the fastest growing sport in America. In 1998, he won his first Mixed Martial Arts fight, soon after joining the UFC to become the #1 ranked light-heavyweight contender in the world. He is a walking lethal weapon.
Today, Chuck Liddell shares how his love for martial arts, the camaraderie of fight camp, and unresolved health issues fueled his return. He candidly discusses the difficulties athletes encounter in retirement, comparing experiences with other sports figures like Jake Herbert. Additionally, Chuck emphasizes the importance of financial stability and alternative opportunities post-retirement, reflecting on his own journey aided by a continued role with the UFC until its sale.
Throughout the episode, Chuck Liddell opens up about his familial influences, notably his grandfather's pivotal role and his single mother’s resilience in the face of medical adversity. He dives deep into parenting, revealing the significance of building confidence and instilling essential values in his children while navigating personal mistakes and growth. The conversation also touches on societal changes, the shift in family dynamics, and Chuck’s strategies for managing conflicts peacefully from his time working in bars.
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Clifford Stephan is the founder of Booze Vacation, a health and wellness company for high-performing men. He also founded OneCompensation, a Bay Area consulting firm that has helped Silicon Valley companies. After realizing recreational drinking was holding him back, Clifford founded Booze Vacation to help others upgrade their health and professional potential.
Today, Clifford shares how taking a year-long break from alcohol dramatically improved his health, performance, and quality of life, leading him to launch "Booze Vacation" - an initiative to help men reclaim their vitality by temporarily abstaining from drinking. He explains alcohol's detrimental effects on the body, arguing that even moderate consumption can cause significant issues over time.
By taking a booze vacation, men can reset their minds and bodies, leading to weight loss, enhanced productivity, and better overall wellbeing. Clifford introduces his program, which offers resources and coaching to support men in adopting healthier habits and achieving their health goals.
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Jason Wayne Brick is a 4th-degree black belt, self-defense expert, and security consultant with over 37 years of experience in martial arts. A father of two, he adopted his oldest son when he was eight, which sparked a deeper understanding of the complexities of keeping children safe. Through his work on "Safest Family on the Block," Jason shares insights on family safety, challenging traditional ideas like “stranger danger.”
Today, Jason Wayne Brick Jason shares his extensive journey in martial arts, starting from seventh-grade wrestling to becoming a martial arts junkie for nearly 40 years. They delve into the challenges of keeping kids motivated in sports, especially when they face initial failures, and how Jason's father played a pivotal role in modeling resilience and the willingness to fail publicly.
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Brian Slipka is the owner of the True North Family of Companies, which includes over 20 businesses with nearly $250 million in annual revenue. After an early career in sales and leadership at major corporations, he left the public/corporate world to focus on his growing portfolio of small businesses. He credits his faith, commitment to servant leadership, and ability to build trusting relationships as the keys to his entrepreneurial success.
Today, Brian Slipka shares a deeply personal story about a conversation with his father on his deathbed, which served as a wake-up call for him to reassess his life's pursuits. Despite having achieved significant professional success, Brian realized he was internally struggling and unfulfilled.
Brian also delve into the lessons he learned from his father, a retired US Army colonel and small business owner who exemplified servant leadership and selflessness. He recounts how his father's actions, rather than words, taught him the importance of respect, relationship-building, and community service. These values have profoundly influenced Brian's approach to life and business, emphasizing the significance of living a life dedicated to the service of others.
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Michael Chernow is a father, husband, serial entrepreneur, podcast host, coach, professional athlete, and founder of Kreatures of Habit. Known for his ventures The Meatball Shop and Seamore’s, Michael also hosts the Kreatures of Habit Podcast where he explores the routines and habits that lead to success. In recovery for nearly two decades, he attributes his success to the positive habits he upholds.
Today, Michael Chernow shares his personal commitment to ensuring his children never experience the hardships he faced growing up. The conversation dives deep into the importance of being present for our children, emphasizing that kids value our attention far more than material possessions.
The episode also highlights the viral success of Michael's content, particularly posts that resonate with themes of purposeful parenting and the genuine needs of children. Tune in for heartfelt insights and practical advice on fostering meaningful family connections.
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Dr. Harvey Karp is a renowned pediatrician and co-founder of Happiest Baby, known for his Happiest Baby/Happiest Toddler books that have guided millions of parents worldwide. He created the SNOO Smart Sleeper, an FDA-authorized bassinet that adds hours to infant sleep, now used in over 160 hospitals and offered as a benefit by 80+ companies.
Today, Dr. Harvey Karp shares practical advice for new parents, focusing on the crucial "fourth trimester"—the first few months of a baby's life when they still crave a womb-like environment for comfort. He introduces his "5 S's" method—Swaddling, Side/Stomach position, Shushing, Swinging, and Sucking—to help soothe babies, reduce crying, and improve sleep.
Dr. Karp discusses the impact of sleep deprivation on parents and highlights the SNOO smart sleeper, developed with MIT engineers, to help babies sleep longer and ease parental stress. He emphasizes the long-term benefits of early nurturing and guides listeners to HappiestBaby.com for more resources and support.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Steven Shields is a Counselor (ACMHC), recovery coach, and founder of Accepted and Unashamed Unafraid, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping those recovering from sexual addiction and their families. After beginning his own recovery journey in 2014, he launched a podcast sharing recovery stories and now serves on the executive board of Warrior Heart, hosting retreats for men to reconnect with God and live fully alive.
Today, Steven Shields shares his journey from leading a double life as a church leader struggling with addiction to creating a nonprofit that help others battle pornography and sex addiction. His organization provides judgment-free spaces where individuals can share their stories openly and begin their recovery journey.
Through his work and personal experience, Steven emphasizes that transformation doesn't require hitting rock bottom, but rather embracing hope and community support. His approach focuses on removing shame from the recovery process, allowing individuals to pursue authentic healing while building meaningful connections with others who understand their struggles.
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Clint Harris is a professional real estate investor, entrepreneur, and handles capital raising and investor relations at Nomad Capital. He owns Going Coastal Property Management and hosts the Truly Passive Income Podcast. Having raised capital for over $100 million in stabilized assets, his mission is to inspire financial, location, and time independence for investors.
Today, Clint Harris openly discusses the challenges he faced, the significance of spending quality time with family, and his goals to leave a legacy that goes beyond financial wealth. We'll also delve into the economic and strategic benefits of adaptive reuse in real estate, his advice for beginners, and the life-changing impact of focusing on relationships and personal freedom.
Join us as we explore Clint's inspiring story and invaluable insights, reminding us all of the importance of prioritizing what truly matters in life. Stay tuned for an episode filled with practical advice, personal reflections, and a lot of inspiration.
Tara and Tim have been married for over 20 years and were on the brink of divorce. Tim stepped into the Dad Edge Boardroom in 2023 to learn more about rebuilding his marriage. After just a few short months, things began to turn around.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Dr. Jim Stoppani is a leading expert in fitness, nutrition, and dietary supplements with over 20 years of experience and a PhD in exercise physiology from the University of Connecticut. As the founder of JYM Supplement Science, he offers transformative workout programs and nutrition insights. His science-based approach has made him a prominent figure in the fitness industry.
Today, Dr. Jim Stoppani shares invaluable insights on optimizing your health through movement, even with a sedentary lifestyle, emphasizing the critical role of protein and fats for longevity and muscle growth. Learn about his practical advice on intermittent fasting, minimizing the use of plastics, and incorporating efficient workouts into a busy schedule.
Larry and Dr. Jim also explores the science behind fitness myths, the importance of resistance training to combat aging, and the benefits of practices like Brazilian jiu-jitsu. Get ready to discover why muscle mass is an indicator of longevity and how small changes in daily habits can lead to significant health improvements. Tune in for a blend of personal experiences, expert advice, and actionable tips to help every dad master the edge in health and fitness.
Joel Staley is a fitness coach and the creator of the Shed Fat Fast program, specializing in helping individuals optimize their health and reduce body fat through methods like intermittent fasting. Despite holding a lucrative six figure job, he made the brave decision to quit on his daughter Kennedy’s first day at daycare.
Today, Joel Staley shares the benefits of fasting for weight loss, muscle building, and overall well-being. He delve into real-world strategies for maintaining a balanced diet, managing cravings, and taking control of hunger cues.
We'll also hear about incredible client success stories, including one notable journey of a 30-day fast leading to dramatic physical transformation. Learn how Joel's Shed Fat Fast program has helped thousands achieve their fitness goals, and discover practical tips for integrating fasting into your busy lifestyle without missing out on important social gatherings.
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Dr. Anthony Balduzzi is a health and weight loss expert and the founder of Fit Father Project and Fit Mother Project - leading health & weight loss programs for busy men and women over 40. He holds dual degrees in Nutrition & Neuroscience from the University of Pennsylvania, a Doctorate in Naturopathic Medicine, and is a former national champion bodybuilder. He has helped over 60,000 families in over 100 countries lose weight and get healthy through his Fit Father and Fit Mother Programs.
Today, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi shares profound insights into the world of health, parenting, and personal development, emphasizing the intertwined nature of these aspects. A central theme of the discussion revolves around creating a personal mission statement through mindset journaling. This approach helps individuals align their core values with their health objectives, fostering a more integrated and fulfilling lifestyle.
Dr. Anthony Balduzzi sheds light on the deep neuroscience behind our habits, particularly how the limbic system influences our desires and actions. By aligning the limbic system with the neocortex, one can maintain progress even amidst life's inevitable challenges. He also shares his own journey of overcoming trauma and stress through exercise, which significantly contributed to his mental resilience.
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Conor Gallagher is an accomplished CEO, author, public speaker, and board member, with extensive experience in both for-profit and non-profit sectors. He is the founder of Well-Ordered Family and the CEO of multiple businesses, including Good Will Publishers and TAN Books. He also serves as the Executive Director of the Benedict Leadership Institute at Belmont Abbey College and sits on their Board of Trustees. Conor has authored several books, such as ‘If Aristotle’s Kid Had an iPod’, ‘Still Amidst the Storm’, and ‘Well-Ordered Family’, focusing on personal growth, parenting, and family life
Today, Conor Gallagher, delve into the art of managing diverse temperaments within your family, fostering deeper relationships, and the critical practice of discernment in decision-making. Larry and Conor explore tools and strategies for conflict resolution, enhancing unity, and balancing the fluctuating dynamics between children.
They discuss the practical application of assessment tests both in professional and personal landscapes, sharing intimate anecdotes that illuminate the importance of understanding individual strengths and temperaments. Larry and Conor also tackle decision-making and problem-solving challenges, offering strategies like the "decision matrix" and the "5 Whys" technique to uncover root causes.
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Fraser Burns is the founder and CEO of Ocenture with over 35 years of experience in building global organizations. He co-founded Men's Remedy with Mike Tyson, a virtual healthcare clinic for male hormone deficiencies. In addition, Fraser and his wife, Aida Osmanovic, manage Growth Forward, an investment company with interests in AI-driven healthcare firms and a whiskey distillery in Florida.
T oday, Fraser Burns shares personal insights on overcoming internal bleeding in his knee, achieving balanced testosterone levels, and maintaining an active lifestyle. We also discuss the broader implications of TRT , including its benefits, potential side effects, and the importance of personalized treatment plans.
Fraser reveals his experience raising a two-year-old at age 53, thanks to optimal hormone balance, and critiques the lack of thorough follow-up care in testosterone treatments. Plus, we touch on the role of diet, exercise, and mindset in enhancing overall well-being and the detrimental effects of alcohol and environmental toxins like plastics on health.
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Dr. Stuart Ablon is the Founding Director of Think:Kids at Massachusetts General Hospital and an Associate Professor at Harvard Medical School. An award-winning psychologist, he authored three influential books on addressing challenging behavior. Dr. Ablon is a globally recognized speaker and teaches a unique approach to understanding and managing difficult behaviors across various settings. He has implemented his collaborative problem-solving approach in numerous organizations worldwide.
Today, Dr. Stuart Ablon drops truth bombs on outdated parenting tactics, pushing a revolutionary approach that combines empathy with collaboration. In an era where screens threaten to hijack family time, he hammers home the crucial role of face-to-face interaction in turbocharging kids' brain development. The doc's game-changing strategy? Shut up and listen. It's about drilling down to understand your kid's perspective, not just laying down the law.
Throughout this no-holds-barred conversation, Dr. Stuart Ablon serves up hard-hitting, actionable intel for parents ready to dominate the digital parenting game. His method is a powerful cocktail of empathy and understanding, offering a battle-tested alternative to weak, outdated parenting playbooks.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Shiloh Minor is a dedicated love and marriage coach specializing in helping women transform their relationships. As a wife and mother of two young boys, she brings personal insight to her professional expertise. Through her innovative Real-Love Method, Shiloh empowers intelligent women to cultivate fulfilling marriages without traditional couples therapy. Her mission is to break generational patterns of emotional neglect, guiding women to secure the love, support, and affection they deserve within their existing partnerships.
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Conor Gallagher is an accomplished CEO, author, public speaker, and board member, with extensive experience in both for-profit and non-profit sectors. He is the founder of Well-Ordered Family and the CEO of multiple businesses, including Good Will Publishers and TAN Books. He also serves as the Executive Director of the Benedict Leadership Institute at Belmont Abbey College and sits on their Board of Trustees. Conor has authored several books, such as ‘If Aristotle’s Kid Had an iPod’, ‘Still Amidst the Storm’, and ‘Well-Ordered Family’, focusing on personal growth, parenting, and family life
Today, we dive deep into a conversation about systems and metrics for families—how we can create structured approaches to family life, the difference between micro and macro systems, and the importance of implementing systems one step at a time. We also explore Conor's insights on the digit policy builder and how it can impact family organization. This episode is packed with practical advice for building a well-ordered family, so let’s get right into it.
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Dean Pohlman is an authority on Yoga for Men, developing programs with physical therapists for back health and spinal recovery. He authored the bestselling "Yoga Fitness for Men" and co-produced the "Body by Yoga" DVD series, with his work featured in major fitness publications. Married with two children, Dean applies insights from marriage counseling to maintain strong relationships, emphasizing emotional support and mindful breathing to manage stress.
Today, Dean Pohlman takes us through his personal struggles, from feeling "not good enough" to learning how to handle big emotions and the role of anger as a defense mechanism. We explore how he and his wife navigated the challenges of marriage, parenting differences, and grief with the help of couples counseling, ultimately finding stronger communication tools and emotional safety.
This episode is packed with relatable anecdotes and valuable insights into managing patience and presence, with practical tips from Dean's yoga expertise. Tune in to discover how embracing mindfulness and emotional awareness can enhance your relationships and your role as a dad.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
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Pastor Andy "Rebirth" Pellerano is a Christian Hip-Hop artist, 2x Nola Gospel Award nominee, and 2018 Nola Gospel Rap Artist of the Year. He is also a former reality show star, current President of One Accord, a husband, and father of six. His journey from a troubled past, including gang involvement and multiple felony charges, to spiritual transformation is a testament to personal growth and faith. Andy now travels across states, sharing his testimony through music and spoken word, ministering in juvenile facilities and high-crime areas. As an Apostle to the streets and rising Evangelist, he uses his diverse cultural background and life experiences to connect with and inspire others, both nationally and internationally.
Today, Andy Rebirth shares his transformative life events, from facing severe legal troubles and prison time to his faith-driven redemption story.
Andy also discusses his impactful partnership with Amazon, providing essential supplies for children and creating dignified shopping experiences that foster generosity. We delve into Andy's mission to establish a recovery center aimed at offering trade skills and job opportunities as alternatives to incarceration.
Listen in as we explore the crucial role fathers play in their children's lives, the standards we set, and the powerful example of commitment and care in relationships. Andy's story is a testament to resilience and the importance of a father's love, a tale that will leave you both moved and motivated.
Edward Rodarte is a former gang member turned political leader, corporate executive, and advocate for fatherhood healing. As the youngest mayor of La Puente, California, he demonstrated deep commitment to community service. Edward's journey from Compton's streets to success is marked by personal transformation, especially through fatherhood. After confronting past struggles and finding healing through plant medicine, he now hosts the "Fatherhood Voices" podcast, inspiring others with his story of redemption and helping fathers mend relationships with their children.
Today, Edward Rodarte shares his journey from law enforcement and politics to hosting the "Fatherhood Voices" podcast. He discusses healing family dynamics, breaking toxic cycles, and fostering self-love and empathy in fatherhood. Edward and Larry explore the challenges of his strict parenting approach and the ongoing healing process with his daughters and partner.
Their conversation highlights the power of transformation and the importance of healing past traumas. Edward offers invaluable lessons and practical tools for navigating difficult relationships and becoming a more supportive, emotionally available parent. The episode provides insights for fathers seeking personal growth and improved family dynamics.
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
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Matt Beaudreau is a visionary educator and thought leader, and co-creator of the Apogee Strong Mentorship Program. A two-time TEDx speaker and Stanford University's Corporate Trainer of the Year, he's addressed over 250,000 people, championing innovative, student-led education. Matt's mission is to build heroes through transformative learning experiences, all while cherishing his roles as a husband and father.
Today, Matt Beaudreau and Larry explore the innovative approaches of Apogee campuses—emphasizing flexible, hands-on learning experiences tailored to each student's needs. They discuss post-school pathways, real-world applicability, and programs that have reignited student enthusiasm for learning. Matt shares insights from his sober lifestyle, the influence of his father, and offers advice on guiding teenagers in today's complex world.
The conversation also critiques traditional schooling, highlighting the advantages of alternative education models. Matt and Larry emphasize developing confidence through competence and supporting children's unique paths. Lastly, they also discuss the importance of fostering creativity, prioritizing relationships, and focusing on real-world skills for meaningful lives.
Fraser Bayley is an industry-leading nutritionist for the top 1% of professionals and entrepreneurs. He has coached notable figures like musician Chris Daughtry and successful entrepreneurs Tim Bratz and Mark Evans. His diverse clientele includes veterinarians, corporate bankers, US Special Forces, and Silicon Valley tech experts. With decades of research and practical experience, he guides clients worldwide to create superhuman versions of themselves through optimized nutrition and lifestyle.
Today, Fraser Bayley shares his journey from battling mental health issues to achieving optimal wellness and coaching others. He discusses his tough love and empathetic coaching style, which has helped correct workout regimen. The conversation covers the importance of keeping fitness routines simple for long-term results, the value of mentors, detailed workout tracking, maintaining strength, and achieving a balanced life without compromising fitness goals.
The episode also explores practical strategies for maximizing ROI in personal well-being, the benefits of whole-body exercises, and the power of detailed blood work for personalized health optimization. Fraser Bayley offers insights on balancing family, self-care, and overall health, making this episode valuable for both experienced fitness enthusiasts and beginners.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
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Joe Gatto is a renowned comedian best known from the hit TV shows "Impractical Jokers" and "The Misery Index." He currently tours the United States with his solo stand-up show, "Joe Gatto's Night of Comedy," and co-hosts the popular podcast "Two Cool Moms." Beyond comedy, Joe is passionate about animal rescue, founding the non-profit Gatto Pups and Friends, and has recently authored a children's book titled "Where's Bearry!"
Today, Joe Gatto shares touching memories of his late father, discussing the invaluable wisdom and positive outlook that continue to influence his own parenting style. He offers insightful advice on balancing a demanding career with family life, emphasizing the importance of being present and authentic with children. Joe also shares behind-the-scenes moments from "Impractical Jokers" and discusses his children's book "Where's Bearry?", inspired by his son.
The conversation explores the importance of humility and communication in parenting, as well as the value of humor in marriage and family dynamics. Joe and Larry discuss practical tips for navigating fatherhood, blending personal anecdotes with actionable advice. This episode offers a mix of laughter, wisdom, and heartfelt moments that will resonate with parents, providing memorable stories and practical parenting strategies.
Erik Orton is an Emmy Award-winning writer and producer who has worked on iconic Broadway productions like Wicked and Les Miserables. After facing financial and emotional challenges, Erik and his family embarked on a transformative adventure, living aboard a sailboat in the Caribbean and chronicling their journey in the New York Times Top 10 Travel book, "Seven at Sea."
Today, Erik Orton shares his family's unconventional journey from living in a cramped Manhattan apartment to embarking on a year-long sailing adventure in the Caribbean. He discusses the transition from financial hardship to an enriching family experience at sea, highlighting the importance of involving children in significant roles to build their confidence and self-reliance. Erik also shares unique family practices like their creative bathroom-sharing rule and the cherished tradition of "Weekend Pictures."
The conversation also explores valuable insights on leadership, resilience, and family bonding under pressure, drawn from Erik's experiences managing emergencies at sea and navigating everyday life. His stories demonstrate the strength of family unity and the pursuit of dreams against all odds. The episode offers inspiration and practical tips for enhancing family dynamics, encouraging listeners to tackle life's challenges head-on and cherish moments with loved ones.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
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Conor Gallagher is an accomplished CEO, author, public speaker, and board member with extensive experience in both for-profit and non-profit sectors. He is the founder of Well-Ordered Family and CEO of multiple businesses including Good Will Publishers and TAN Books. Conor serves as the executive director of the Benedict Leadership Institute at Belmont Abbey College and sits on the Board of Trustees. His published works include "If Aristotle's Kid Had an iPod," "Still Amidst the Storm," and "Well-Ordered Family," among others, focusing on parenting, personal growth, and family life.
Today, Conor Gallagher shares his family’s unique journey, including the creation of their family master plan, which includes vision statements, strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats—akin to a family's constitution. The conversation also touches on the importance of involving kids in financial discussions, tracking family goals, and the power of unconditional love and sacrifice.
He then highlights the virtues of unconditional love, sacrifice, and selflessness in maintaining robust marriages and families. He underscores the need for continual self-sacrifice to become the best versions of ourselves, drawing from historical examples.
This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for parents. By incorporating Conor’s actionable insights into your family dynamics, you can not only navigate the challenges of today but also set up a legacy of love, unity, and success for the future.
Brett McDermott is a renowned expert on the fundamentals of powerful communication. His obsession is teasing out the habits and tactics that today's most charismatic communicators share and then breaking these down in a easily learnable way for his students. His mission is to help people build powerful communication skills so they can more effectively push their mission forward.
Today, Brett McDermott shares his journey into understanding and teaching charisma, emphasizing the importance of effective communication skills for everyone. He discusses the fundamentals of being a good listener and the power of asking genuine questions, sharing personal anecdotes to illustrate how these skills have impacted his life and career. Brett introduces his three pillars of charisma: power, warmth, and presence–explaining how each contributes to effective communication and relationship building.
The conversation also explores the nuances of nonverbal communication, including facial expressions and body language. Brett offers practical tips on improving these aspects, from maintaining good posture to practicing daily meditation for better presence. The discussion concludes by examining how these skills can enhance personal relationships, particularly in long-term partnerships.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
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Christian Schauf is an entrepreneur, adventurer, and the founder and CEO of Uncharted Supply Co, a manufacturer of high-quality survival systems and products designed to empower people in emergency situations. Growing up on a Wisconsin farm, he developed a strong sense of preparedness that later inspired him to create the SEVENTY2™ Survival System, a comprehensive 72-hour emergency kit. Schauf's diverse experiences have fueled his passion for innovation in emergency preparedness and outdoor adventure. From climbing some of the world's tallest mountains to hunting in the Yukon, his adventures continue to inspire his work and philanthropic efforts.
Today, Christian Schauf shares his unique upbringing on a farm, highlighting the strong work ethic and valuable life lessons instilled by his parents. He discusses how these early experiences shaped his resilience and success in various fields, including music, adventure, and entrepreneurship. The conversation explores Christian's impactful work performing for troops in remote and dangerous locations, emphasizing the profound effect these performances had on soldiers' morale and mental well-being.
The episode also delves into the inception of Uncharted Supply Company and Christian's mission to equip people for emergencies. He discusses the inspiration behind the SEVENTY2™ Survival System and emphasizes the importance of practical, high-quality survival gear for handling unexpected situations confidently. Christian's diverse experiences, from farm life to military entertainment and entrepreneurship, showcase his dedication to making a difference and preparing others for life's challenges.
TJ White is a former Army Ranger, speaker, security contractor, real estate investor, husband, father, and the owner/founder of Wooby Hoody, a company that provides warm, light-weighted hoodies and sleeping bags for people who love adventure and the outdoors. He also authored the book “Lead Your Adventure”–a culmination of his experiences, offering personal anecdotes and insights to help others break free from their internal struggles and lead better lives.
Today, TJ White shares his transformative journey from a troubled youth to a decorated military veteran and successful entrepreneur. He opens up about his struggles with alcohol and the pivotal moment that led to his commitment to sobriety. TJ discusses how he overcame challenges, including job loss, to rebuild his life and business, emphasizing the power of resilience and personal growth.
The episode explores TJ's current ventures, including Wooby Hoody and his involvement with Operation Lighthouse, a program helping veterans and entrepreneurs optimize their lives. TJ's upcoming book, "Lead Your Adventure" offers a guide to personal transformation. This inspiring conversation highlights the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people and living intentionally for your family, motivating listeners to lead their own adventures.
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
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Ken Coleman is the two-time bestselling author of From Paycheck to Purpose and The Proximity Principle and host of The Ken Coleman Show. As America’s Work Expert, he helps people discover what they do best so they can do work they love and produce the results that matter most to them.
Today, Ken Coleman shares insights on effective leadership in various life aspects, emphasizing the importance of serving unique needs at home and in professional settings. He discusses parenting challenges and rewards, especially with older children seeking independence.
The conversation explores evolving marriage dynamics, with Ken comparing effective marital leadership to ballroom dancing—leading with rhythm and synchronization. He stresses understanding and adapting to your partner's needs for a harmonious relationship. Ken also introduces his latest book, "Find the Work You're Wired to Do", offering practical advice on discovering and pursuing one's true calling.
Jim Ramos is a bestselling author, speaker, and the founder of Men in the Arena, an international ministry focused on equipping Christian Men in the 'Stress Bubble' of life–married, with kids in the home, struggling to lead their families, churches, and communities well. He hosts the #1 ranked Spotify podcast for Christian men, the Men in the Arena Podcast, and has written numerous books, including the #1 Amazon Bestseller “Strong Men Dangerous Times”, the five-book “Strong Men Study Guide” Series for small groups, and “Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God” releasing in September 2024 with David C Cook.
Today, Jim Ramos shares insights from his book “Dialed In”, focusing on 20 key qualities that define true masculinity in God's eyes. These ethical and practical principles are relevant for all men, regardless of faith, helping them become better fathers, husbands, and community members. Jim emphasizes living with integrity, serving others, and making value-aligned decisions.
Larry and Jim delve into the challenges and rewards of raising children with these principles, stressing the importance of allowing kids to make their own decisions and learn from experiences. The episode offers valuable takeaways on living an intentional, purpose-driven life. Jim's passion for helping men reach their full potential makes this a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their leadership skills and personal growth.
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
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Drew Davis is the founder of Equipped Outdoors, a full-service guide company offering experiences in Arkansas, Colorado, and beyond. His company is dedicated to helping men engage with their families, experience God's creation, and grow personally through outdoor adventures. As the Director and Strategic Value Executive at Oracle Health, Davis applies his leadership skills to both his corporate career and his passion project. With a Bachelor's in Spanish, International Business, and Marketing, and a Master's in Global Studies, his background includes extensive travel in Latin America for church work and teaching. A dedicated husband to Carissa and father of four, Davis integrates lessons of leadership, community, and discipleship into outdoor experiences, combining his unique blend of corporate expertise, faith, and outdoor enthusiasm to create transformative adventures.
Today, Drew Davis shares his passion for the outdoors and his mission to help men engage with their families through nature-based experiences. He discusses how Equipped Outdoors, his nonprofit, aims to eliminate barriers preventing men from enjoying nature and inspire personal growth through outdoor adventures. Drew's background in extensive travel and his professional career at Oracle have shaped his approach to leadership and community building. He offers a range of retreats and adventures, from entry-level trips to more advanced excursions.
The conversation explores the profound impact of outdoor adventures on family relationships. Drew and Larry discuss how disconnecting from the digital world and immersing in nature can lead to meaningful conversations and stronger bonds. They highlight the benefits of learning outdoor skills, such as building confidence and problem-solving abilities. The episode offers insights on the transformative power of nature, intentional parenting, and creating unforgettable family experiences through outdoor adventures.
Markus Kaulius is the founder of Magnum Nutraceuticals and author of "Play a Bigger Game." A dynamic entrepreneur, speaker, and mentor, he has transformed his life from humble beginnings to become a success in both business and personal fitness. His book shares the seven universal principles that guided his journey, offering readers tools to unlock their potential and achieve greatness. Kaulius's methods have influenced world champions in sports and business leaders alike. Through his work, he continues to inspire millions worldwide, empowering individuals to live intentionally and flourish in all aspects of life.
Today, Markus Kaulius shares his journey from an insecure, financially and spiritually broken kid to a successful entrepreneur and author. The conversation explores principles for living a fulfilling, intentional life, focusing on the importance of habits in shaping confidence and interactions. Markus emphasizes non-negotiable daily routines and offers practical tips for maintaining discipline. He also discusses the profound impact of saving sexual energy for one's wife, highlighting how this practice can enhance marital intimacy and emotional connection.
The episode features Larry's son Ethan, who shares his recent achievements, leading to a discussion on the importance of positive male role models in children's lives. Markus and Larry stress the significance of intentionality in creating opportunities for kids to interact with good mentors. This heartfelt conversation offers actionable insights for fathers and husbands aiming to improve their daily habits, deepen marital connections, and positively influence their children's development and leadership skills.
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
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Brad Nelson is the founder of Debt Free Dad. As a dedicated single father, Brad is passionate about empowering everyday people to take control of their finances and achieve a happier, less stressful life. Through The Debt Free Dad Podcast and his online course, Roots of Personal Finance, Brad provides practical financial advice and support.
Today, Brad Nelson shares his personal story of overcoming significant financial struggles, including losing his house to foreclosure, and how he now dedicates his life to helping others develop a healthier financial mindset. This episode is unique as it features a community call with members of the Dad Edge Alliance, who ask Brad various questions about managing finances, reducing debt, and planning for the future.
Brad and Larry dive into the emotional aspects of money management, discussing how past experiences and emotional attachments can influence financial decisions. They emphasize the importance of setting short-term and long-term financial goals, tracking expenses, and creating a solid plan to alleviate financial stress. Brad Nelson also shares practical tips on cutting costs, such as shopping around for better insurance rates and being mindful of grocery expenses, especially in the current economic climate.
Whether you're looking to get out of debt, switch careers, or simply manage your finances better, this episode offers a wealth of information and practical advice. Brad's expertise and the interactive format with the Dad Edge Alliance members make for an engaging and informative discussion that is sure to resonate with fathers and families striving for financial stability and freedom.
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Shiloh Minor is a dedicated love and marriage coach specializing in helping women transform their relationships. As a wife and mother of two young boys, she brings personal insight to her professional expertise. Through her innovative Real-Love Method, Shiloh empowers intelligent women to cultivate fulfilling marriages without traditional couples therapy. Her mission is to break generational patterns of emotional neglect, guiding women to secure the love, support, and affection they deserve within their existing partnerships.
Today, Shiloh Minor's expertise shines as she emphasizes the necessity of focusing on self-improvement rather than changing a partner's behavior. This eye-opening conversation provides essential strategies for building trust, setting boundaries, and nurturing a deeper connection.
One of the standout moments comes from Shiloh's advice on handling disappointment and the fear that often accompanies it. She encourages listeners to embrace healing and develop skills to prevent falling into past patterns. Larry complements this by sharing his experiences of coaching men who initially struggle with trust and communication in their marriages.
Shiloh's "real love method" underscores the importance of putting oneself first to meet emotional and psychological needs independently. This approach not only strengthens individual self-respect but also enriches the relationship as a whole.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. As a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) with the International Coaching Federation, Andrew Mundy has worked with clients across various fields, including cybersecurity, financial services, nursing, and entrepreneurship. He helps individuals become the best version of themselves by leading and communicating authentically and powerfully. His coaching focuses on:
Brett Varvel is an Emmy Award winning director and two-time David Letterman Scholarship winner. He started his own production company, House of Grace Studios, and is now a director, actor, and writer. His credits include American Underdog, Running The Bases, Mayberry Man, Play The Flute, and now Disciples in the Moonlight. His short films, feature films, and online videos have won many awards and have been seen by millions of people around the world. Brett’s ambition in life is to share the gospel of Christ through the art of film.
Today, Brett Varvel shares his journey from an inspired young boy to a filmmaker dedicated to impactful storytelling. The conversation centers on his latest project, "Disciples in the Moonlight", a film exploring faith in a dystopian America where the Bible is illegal. Brett discusses the decade-long process of bringing this film to life and opens up about his personal life, including his marriage and the challenges they've faced together. He reflects on the influence of his parents' faith and the importance of building a strong spiritual foundation.
The episode delves into Brett's own faith journey, which began in a Christian home and deepened through personal exploration in his teenage years. Brett emphasizes the transformative power of scripture in his life and work. Listeners are encouraged to watch "Disciples in the Moonlight," released in theaters last July 17th, which promises to be a thought-provoking experience on faith under persecution. Throughout the conversation, Brett's passion for storytelling and dedication to living out his values shine through, offering inspiration on faith, family, and resilience.
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Cory Jenks is the founder of ImprovRx and is a Clinical Pharmacist in Ambulatory Care at Optum. He's a convention-breaking pharmacist, comedian, author, and speaker who combines his healthcare expertise with improv comedy skills to help others adapt to uncertainty and create meaningful connections. Through his innovative approach, books, and performances, he inspires audiences to break free from limiting prescriptions both medical and metaphorical–while finding humor in life's challenges.
Today, Cory Jenks shares his unique journey of integrating humor and improv into his roles as a dad and healthcare professional. The conversation explores how a sense of humor can transform parenting challenges into cherished memories and teach resilience through laughter. Cory discusses his background in improv comedy, which he initially pursued to cope with the unpredictability of healthcare, and how it became a vital part of his life.
Cory explains key improv principles, such as the "yes, and" technique, demonstrating their application beyond comedy to enhance listening, empathy, and adaptability in daily life. The episode features interactive improv exercises showcasing how these skills can improve interactions with patients, strengthen marriages, and enrich parenting experiences. Listeners will gain insights on incorporating humor and improv techniques to become more present and resilient in their roles as fathers and husbands. Cory's new book, "I Guess I'm a Dad Now," is highlighted as a resource offering practical and hilarious tips for new dads, complementing the episode's engaging and lighthearted discussion.
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Dan Doty is the founder of Fatherhood Unlocked and Fatherhood Ready, as well as the men's work organization EVRYMAN. He is a leader in men's personal development and fatherhood education, and his background includes wilderness therapy, teaching, and producing the hit show MeatEater. A three-time guest on the Joe Rogan Experience, he has been featured in major media outlets. Dan Doty is a writer, wilderness guide, and meditation teacher who speaks globally on masculinity and fatherhood.
Today, Dan Doty shares his personal journey and invaluable lessons learned in fatherhood. He recounts a transformative men's retreat he attended with his own father, which led to an emotional breakthrough and a deeper understanding of their relationship. This experience highlights the importance of vulnerability and open communication in strengthening familial bonds, serving as a powerful example of how addressing unspoken emotions can heal and enrich father-son relationships.
The conversation explores the unique challenges and joys of parenting both sons and daughters. He emphasizes the importance of being emotionally available and present for all children, regardless of gender. Dan and Larry also delve into the broader implications of emotional intelligence in fatherhood, discussing how societal norms have often limited men's emotional expression. They offer practical advice for fathers looking to develop their emotional skills, connect more deeply with their children, and create a supportive family environment where emotions are acknowledged and valued.
Darius Foroux is an investor, entrepreneur, blogger, podcast host, and writer in the personal development and personal finance space. He is an author and creator of 8 online courses and books focusing on productivity, Stoicism, and wealth building. He has over 281,000 Medium subscribers, 140,000 email newsletter subscribers, and his blog posts have been read by 30 million individual visitors. His work has appeared in TIME, NBC, Fast Company, The Economist, Vox, Inc., Observer, and many more publications.
Today, Darius Foroux shares his personal journey, including his upbringing in a tight-knit family that valued togetherness and mutual support. He reflects on the lessons learned from his parents, particularly the emphasis on family unity and the importance of prioritizing the group over individual desires. This foundation, he explains, has been crucial in shaping his approach to life and finances.
The conversation then shifts to the core of Darius Foroux's book, where he outlines how Stoicism can help us build wealth. He discusses the significance of managing emotions, maintaining a long-term perspective, and focusing on what we can control—our skills and habits. Darius emphasizes the importance of investing in oneself, not just financially but also in terms of personal development and building a strong network. He also shares his own investment strategy, which involves consistently investing in the S&P 500 index fund, and how this approach aligns with Stoic principles by promoting patience and discipline.
Finally, Darius Foroux and Larry touch on the concept of accepting loss and the dangers of greed. Darius explains that by adopting a mindset that prioritizes contentment over the relentless pursuit of more, we can achieve greater happiness and stability. This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of financial markets with a Stoic edge. Whether you're a seasoned investor or just starting out, the lessons shared in this episode will help you build a solid foundation for enduring prosperity.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
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Bear Rinehart is an American singer, songwriter, and guitarist who is a founding member and lead singer of the rock band, Needtobreathe. In 2019, he announced the launch of a solo career under the name Wilder Woods. His debut solo album was released on Atlantic Records in August 2019.
Today, Bear Rinehart shares his journey through fatherhood, reflecting on the challenges he faced during his childhood and the lessons he's learned along the way. With a career spanning over two decades, Bear Rinehart discusses balancing life on the road with his responsibilities as a husband and father to three boys.
Bear Rinehart delves into the inspiration behind Need to Breathe's latest album, "Caves," and the song "Fall On Me," which touches on themes of fatherhood and unconditional love. He recounts the emotional experience of dropping his eldest son off at kindergarten and the realization that life is full of challenges. Bear also emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for his children to share without fear of judgment, a philosophy that extends to his marriage and his approach to dealing with anxiety.
The conversation also explores Bear Rinehart's tough childhood, including his experiences with bullying and being a preacher's kid in a small town. He shares how these experiences shaped his worldview and approach to parenting, highlighting the importance of listening to his children and recognizing their individual needs. Bear discusses encouraging his boys to pursue their passions, the significance of ownership and accountability, and how his spiritual journey influences his approach to fatherhood and his career.
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Jesi Stracham is the founder of Wheel With Me Foundation and co-developer of the Wheel With Me Adapt Fit app, designed to support the independence and fitness of wheelchair users. After a motorcycle accident in 2015 resulted in a spinal cord injury, Jesi turned her experience into a platform for motivation and empowerment, and set on a mission to inspire the world to live life to its fullest. She also co-owns Freedom Longevity & Wellness LKN in Lake Norman, North Carolina.
Today, Jesse Stracham shares her journey from a tumultuous childhood to becoming a beacon of resilience and empowerment. Despite not being a dad, Jesse's story resonates deeply with themes of accountability, personal growth, and the relentless pursuit of one's best self. She opens up about growing up in a family involved in the trucking industry and the lack of guidance that led her to make precarious choices as a teenager. Her life took a dramatic turn when she was paralyzed in a motorcycle accident, forcing her to confront her vulnerabilities and redefine her sense of self.
Jesse's candid recounting of her struggles with physical limitations, mental health, and the journey to regain her independence is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. She discusses her transformation through fitness and nutrition, highlighting the power of proper diet and exercise in managing her condition. Her involvement with Adaptive CrossFit, the impact of the 75 Hard program, and her advocacy for better nutritional awareness underscore her insights into the importance of mental resilience, personal accountability, and the role of faith in her recovery.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Dr. Meg Meeker is a dynamic and inspirational advocate for father-inclusive parenting, with over 30 years of experience as a practicing pediatrician. She is an international speaker, bestselling author of "Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters," and the host of the popular podcast "Parenting Great Kids”. She has built a social media community of 700k+ followers and regularly contributes to discussions on pediatric health and child-parent relationships.
Today, Dr. Meg Meeker delves into the societal challenges fathers face today, addressing negative stereotypes perpetuated by media and cultural narratives. She discusses the impact of these stereotypes on fathers and their children, advocating for a balanced view of fatherhood. Dr. Meg Meeker also provides practical advice, outlining the four key needs of children from their dads: Affection, Attention, Affirmation, and Acceptance.
The episode also explores the dynamics of marital relationships and effective communication between spouses. Dr. Meeker shares insights on how wives can empower their husbands and avoid undermining them, fostering a supportive partnership. The discussion includes the impact of social media on children's mental health and how fathers can set healthy boundaries to protect their well-being.
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Stephan Friedrich is the founder of Knightlamp Consulting and Psychology, and is one of Australia's leading proponents of trauma-informed behavior support. His career spans over 30 years of work with young people with severe behavior in Australia and has included children in the foster care and juvenile justice systems. He has assisted thousands of parents, foster carers and teachers in understanding and improving extremely challenging behaviors caused by early childhood adversity and infant trauma.
Today, Stephen Friedrich shares his journey of migrating from Colombia to Australia at a young age, highlighting the contrast between his unstable early life and the safety he found in his new home. He discusses how early experiences shape resilience and independence, explaining the impact of developmental trauma on a child's physiological and psychological development.
Larry then shares his own experiences with childhood trauma, and Stephen provides feedback on the importance of early positive influences and supportive relationships. He discusses the concept of intergenerational trauma and the need for fathers to address their trauma to prevent passing it on to their children. The episode concludes with advice for fathers on seeking help and creating a supportive environment for their children, emphasizing that healing and resilience are possible with the right support and self-awareness.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Justin Walker is a devoted Christian, husband, and father. He married his wife at the age of 24, having been together since they were 17. He retired from the Phoenix Police Department, where he dedicated much of his career to serving on the SWAT team. He is now also the proud owner of MilMak Blades and Copper State Knife Company, and he actively mentors other men and business owners.
Today, Justin opens up about his journey to becoming a more patient father, emphasizing the significance of listening to his children and supporting their interests without immediately jumping to solutions. He discusses how visualizing the desired long-term outcomes for his family helps him stay focused and patient in the moment.
Justin also delves into his faith journey, revealing how the loss of his father and his experiences in law enforcement initially pushed him away from faith. However, through the influence of his daughter and a supportive church community, he found his way back and embraced Christianity. He shares how his faith now plays a crucial role in his daily interactions with his family, guiding him to treat others with kindness and understanding.
The conversation shifts to Justin's relationship with his wife, whom he has known since they were teenagers. He highlights the importance of open communication and the practice of "calling each other forward" to foster growth and understanding in their marriage. Justin's approach to parenting his teenage daughter and pre-teen son is also discussed, focusing on meeting them where they are and preparing them for the challenges of life.
Shana James is a relationship coach with over 20 years of experience, specializing in building trust and passion in relationships. She holds a Master's in Psychology, certifications in DISC and Positive Intelligence, and hosts the Man Alive Podcast with 270+ episodes and more than 1/2 million downloads. She also has a TEDx Talk, 'What 1000 Men's Tears Reveal About the Crisis Between Men and Women', and authored the books "Honest Sex" and "Power and Pleasure”.
Today, Shannon James and Larry Hagner discuss the importance of communication, vulnerability, and connection in relationships. They delve into the dynamics of male-female interactions, exploring the need for understanding and empathy in fostering intimacy. The conversation touches on the challenges couples face in maintaining a strong connection amidst the demands of daily life.
Shannon emphasizes the significance of mature communication and self-awareness in nurturing a healthy relationship. She shares insights on how men can lead conversations with their partners, focusing on curiosity, empathy, and a willingness to understand each other's needs.
Listeners are encouraged to approach relationships as a growth practice, viewing challenges as opportunities for personal development and deeper connection. Shannon's expertise in coaching and relationship dynamics provides valuable insights for individuals seeking to enhance their communication skills and strengthen their bonds with their partners.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads.
Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game.
Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Kristina Kuzmic is a motivational speaker, comedian, and author celebrated for her relatable and humorous take on parenting and life. Through her viral videos and social media presence, she shares candid and uplifting messages, encouraging people to embrace their imperfections and find joy in everyday chaos.
Today, Kristina delves into the struggles she faced when her son began experiencing mental health issues, including depression and suicidal ideation. She candidly discusses the initial reactions of fear and control that she grappled with as a parent, highlighting the shift towards connection and curiosity as a more effective approach to supporting her child.
Through her book, "I Can Fix This: And Other Lies I've Told Myself While Parenting My Struggling Child," Kristina emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, open communication, and standing in awe of her son's story. She shares valuable insights on overcoming shame and guilt as a parent, ultimately fostering a deeper connection with her child and promoting mental health awareness.
Kristina's story serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative impact of approaching parenting with empathy, understanding, and a willingness to learn from our children's experiences. Her journey highlights the importance of breaking the stigma surrounding mental health struggles and fostering a supportive environment for families facing similar challenges.
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Joey Odom is a dynamic leader and a natural storyteller known for his ability to inspire and foster deep connections with others. His own experience with technology as a husband and dad led Joey to help create Aro alongside co-founder Heath Wilson, a platform that helps families put down their phones and engage in real life. Joey also hosts The Aro Podcast, which is a weekly conversation with leaders and influencers who strive to live intentionally.
Today, Joey shares personal stories about his journey as a father, emphasizing the importance of being fully present with his children amidst distractions like smartphones. He discusses the concept of "Aro," which means to notice or turn towards in Maori, and highlights how eye contact and presence can positively impact family dynamics.
Joey and Larry also address the challenges parents face in the digital age and offer practical tips for incorporating "Aro time" into daily routines. They encourage listeners to prioritize connection over distractions, showcasing how simple actions like putting down your phone can lead to deeper, more meaningful family relationships.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Thomas DeLauer is a renowned health and fitness expert known for his expertise in nutrition, intermittent fasting, and high-performance training. As a coach, author, and popular YouTube personality, Thomas provides practical advice and transformative strategies to help individuals achieve optimal health and peak physical performance. His approach combines scientific insights with real-world application, making wellness accessible and achievable for everyone.
Today, Thomas DeLauer discusses the importance of work ethic, control, and exercise in his life, highlighting how running served as a coping mechanism during difficult times. Thomas also delves into his relationship with his father and the impact it had on his perspective on fatherhood.
He opens up about his struggles with weight gain and type 2 diabetes, emphasizing the pivotal moment that led him to make a change in his lifestyle. He details his daily routine, including fasting, exercise, and the benefits of incorporating apple cider vinegar and lemon into his diet. Thomas explains the science behind fasting, autophagy, and the gut benefits of giving the digestive system a break.
Moreover, Thomas addresses common misconceptions about fasting and encourages listeners to consider the mental aspect of fasting. He emphasizes the adaptability of the human body and the importance of challenging oneself to go without food for extended periods. Thomas provides practical tips for incorporating fasting into a daily routine and highlights the mental and physical benefits that come with embracing intermittent fasting.
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Brad Nelson is the founder of Debt Free Dad. As a dedicated single father, Brad is passionate about empowering everyday people to take control of their finances and achieve a happier, less stressful life. Through The Debt Free Dad Podcast and his online course, Roots of Personal Finance, Brad provides practical financial advice and support.
Today, Brad Nelson shares insights into the common struggles couples face with money and how women are increasingly taking charge of financial responsibilities in households. The conversation highlights the role of budgeting and saving as essential components of financial stability.
He also emphasizes the need for a deep-rooted desire to change and set clear short-term and long-term financial goals. He also discusses the challenges people face in giving up certain expenses, such as high car payments and excessive spending on dining out, which can hinder financial progress.
Moreover, Brad Nelson shares personal experiences of overcoming financial hardships, including losing a home in foreclosure and navigating through family health challenges. He emphasizes the importance of having a budget, setting financial goals, and making short-term sacrifices to achieve long-term financial freedom. The episode concludes with a discussion on teaching children about financial responsibility and seizing teachable moments to instill positive money habits within the family.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Dr. John Delony is a mental health expert, national best-selling author, and host of "The Dr. John Delony Show." With two PhDs and over two decades of experience in counseling, crisis response, and higher education, he offers practical advice on mental health and wellness. At Ramsey Solutions, Dr. John Delony empowers individuals to navigate life's challenges, focusing on personal growth and trauma recovery.
Dr. John Deloney shares his insights on the importance of connection, the impact of financial debt on mental health, and the significance of emotional regulation in relationships. He emphasizes the need to cultivate genuine connections and prioritize emotional well-being over material success.
He also delves into the concept of "enough" and how our society's constant pursuit of more can lead to anxiety and stress. He highlights the importance of building a legacy based on emotional connection and authenticity rather than material wealth. Dr. Deloney also discusses the physiological signals our bodies give us when we are not feeling safe and the importance of listening to these cues for overall well-being.
Throughout the episode, Dr. Deloney shares personal anecdotes and experiences that underscore the importance of prioritizing emotional health and meaningful relationships. His message resonates with the idea that true fulfillment comes from genuine connections and emotional well-being rather than external achievements or material possessions.
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Morris Brown is a director, composer, graphic designer, technical trainer, instructional designer, accomplished artist, revered UCLA educator, and author of the “Hang'n with the Girl's” book series.
Today, Morris Brown shares his journey from being a college football star to becoming a prolific writer and a loving "girl dad." He discusses the profound influence his father had on him, teaching him the importance of kindness and resilience in the face of adversity. Morris's calm demeanor and thoughtful approach to life are evident as he recounts his experiences and the lessons he's learned along the way.
Morris talks about his unique approach to parenting, which includes writing 21 books inspired by his adventures with his daughters. He explains how the COVID-19 pandemic provided him the opportunity to finally put pen to paper and document the cherished moments he shared with his girls. His books, which started as an 800-page manuscript, were eventually divided into 11 smaller, more manageable volumes, with 10 more in the works. These stories not only serve as a gift to his daughters but also as an inspiration to other parents.
The conversation also delves into Morris Brown's diverse background, including his time as a college professor, a television director, and a composer. He shares anecdotes from his life, such as his near-miss with an NFL career and his unexpected friendship with a homeless man who attacked his car. Throughout the episode, Morris emphasizes the importance of being present and engaged with his children, advocating for a balanced approach to handling life's stresses while maintaining a loving and supportive family environment.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Michael McQueen is a multi-award winning speaker, change strategist, and bestselling author of 10 books who has helped top brands like Google, Toyota, and Mastercard navigate uncertainty. A regular commentator on TV and radio, he has spoken to over 500,000 people across 5 continents and shared the stage with figures like Bill Gates, Mel Robbins, and Steve Wozniak, earning induction into the Professional Speakers Hall of Fame.
Today, Michael McQueen and Larry Hagner discuss the concept of being "mindstuck" and how it affects our ability to change our minds easily. They explore the importance of building trust and creating a safe environment for effective persuasion, especially when dealing with children and teenagers. Michael also shares valuable insights on how to approach conversations with kids, emphasizing the power of aspiration, authenticity, and vulnerability in guiding their behavior.
The conversation delves into the significance of asking open-ended questions and avoiding confrontational language, such as starting questions with "why." Michael then highlights the impact of encouragement and storytelling in influencing children's decisions and behaviors. He emphasizes the value of being open-minded as a parent, acknowledging when children offer new perspectives and being willing to learn from them.
Zuby Udezue is a musician, author, podcaster, public speaker, fitness expert, and life coach. He captivates audiences with his unique perspective, authenticity, and positive energy, earning nearly 2 million followers on social media and over 50 million online video views. He has been featured on major platforms like The Joe Rogan Experience and mainstream news outlets such as BBC and Fox News, establishing himself as a prominent and influential voice.
Zuby shares his journey from a shy child in boarding school to an international musician and motivator, discussing how his early experiences prepared him to face the world fearlessly. He'll also give us a sneak peek into his upcoming book, expected to hit the shelves in 2025.
Together, we tackle critical topics like the danger of living for immediate gratification, the vital role of physical fitness, and the need for consistency and long-term commitment. Zuby offers insights on turning life's challenges into opportunities for growth and development, drawing parallels between video games and real-life adventures.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Joshua Broome is a speaker, author, and coach who shares his powerful journey from a career in the adult film industry to finding freedom and purpose through faith. He is the author of "7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life" where he combines personal experiences with Biblical truths to help others find healing.
Joshua shares personal experiences and insights that shed light on the importance of surrendering to God's plan and finding peace in the midst of turmoil. They touch on the concept of false purpose and the dangers of relying solely on one's feelings and instincts rather than trusting in a higher power.
The conversation also explores the impact of guilt and fear-mongering in religious contexts, highlighting the need for a more compassionate and understanding approach to faith. Joshua Broome shares his own struggles with judgment and skepticism from others regarding his past in the porn industry and his journey towards redemption and faith. Through biblical examples and personal anecdotes, the episode emphasizes the transformative power of grace and the ability to overcome past mistakes.
Listeners are encouraged to reflect on the idea that no sin is too great for God's forgiveness and that true faith is not about meeting a standard of holiness but about embracing the love and grace offered by God. The episode serves as a reminder that redemption is possible for all, regardless of past actions, and that true peace and purpose can be found in surrendering to a higher power.
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Damion Lupo is a serial entrepreneur and best-selling author in personal finance who is rewriting the rules and plans for retirement. Damion has $438M dollars in assets under management and has raised $100s of millions of dollars. He is on a mission to free 1 million everyday investors from the broken traditional retirement system.
Damian shares his journey from being thrown out of college for starting a bookstore to losing $25 million in 2008 and becoming homeless. He emphasizes the shift from chasing money to solving problems as the key to his success. Damian also discusses his latest venture, FrameTech, a revolutionary construction company focused on vertical integration and automation in framing.
The conversation delves into Damian's views on investing, particularly in the current market climate. He highlights the importance of taking control of one's investments and diversifying beyond traditional options like stocks and bonds. Damian introduces the concept of EQRP (Enhanced Qualified Retirement Plan) as a versatile retirement account that allows individuals to invest in a wide range of assets, from real estate to precious metals.
Furthermore, Damian shares insights on financial planning and retirement goals. He challenges the conventional wisdom of accumulating a specific monetary target for retirement and instead focuses on achieving financial freedom by eliminating personal debt and generating passive income.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Erin Alejandrino is a seasoned Men’s coach with 10+ years experience helping nearly a 1,000 men burn fat, build muscle, and become The High Value Men that lead in their Faith, Fitness, Family, and Finances. He is the host of The High Value Man Conversation Podcast, CEO of The Fitbeard and The High Value Man Company and Co-founder of The Modern Day Knight Project.
Erin Alejandrino shares his journey from being overweight and struggling with relationships to finding purpose, health, and a deeper connection with his faith. He discusses the pivotal moment that led to his health transformation and the realization that he needed to take ownership of his life.
Erin opens up about his upbringing without a father figure and how it influenced his relationships with men and women. He shares insights into the impact of being raised primarily by his mother and the journey of redefining his core values and vision for a fulfilling life. The conversation also touches on the importance of surrounding oneself with a supportive tribe and the role of resilience in overcoming obstacles.
He emphasizes the significance of faith in his life and how it has become a foundational aspect of his journey towards personal growth and fulfillment. He reflects on his evolving relationship with spirituality and the role of faith in guiding his decisions and actions. The episode offers valuable insights into the power of resilience, core values, and the pursuit of a purpose-driven life.
Frank Rich is a renowned bodybuilder, successful entrepreneur, and esteemed men's health coach. He is also the esteemed host of ‘The Super Human Life’ Podcast, where he imparts invaluable wisdom. With a profound personal journey that involved battling addiction, depression, and anxiety for nearly two decades, Frank now dedicates himself to empowering men who face similar challenges.
Today, Frank Rich shares his personal journey from confusion and struggle with his identity, marked by the frequent mix-up of his name, to his transformative battle against pornography addiction. Frank opens up about the impact of having two first names and how this minor confusion led to significant reflections on his personal and professional identity.
Throughout the conversation, Frank discusses the turning points in his life, including his decision to embrace Christianity and how it catalyzed his recovery from pornography addiction. He details the steps he took to overcome this challenge, emphasizing the importance of community support, identity transformation, and developing new, healthier habits. Frank's story is not just about battling addiction but about reshaping one's life and purpose through profound personal growth.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
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Matt Schneider brings a wealth of experience as a serial entrepreneur with a portfolio that spans diverse industries. His journey from law enforcement into the business world, including roles such as the EVP of Fit Pro Tracker and founder of multiple successful enterprises, illustrates his fearless approach to entrepreneurship.
Today, Matt shares his personal journey of breaking the cycle of unhealthy relationships he witnessed growing up, emphasizing the significance of prioritizing and fighting for a successful marriage. The conversation highlights the value of friendship within a marriage, showcasing how shared interests and mutual respect can strengthen the bond between partners.
The discussion also touches on the importance of self-awareness and understanding one's own goals and aspirations, as well as those of their partner. Matt and Larry emphasize the need for clear communication, curiosity, and appreciation in a relationship to foster growth and support each other's dreams. They also discuss the impact of conflict resolution and setting boundaries in front of children, demonstrating healthy ways to navigate disagreements and maintain respect within the family dynamic.
Overall, the episode serves as a reminder of the ongoing work and dedication required to build a successful marriage, with a focus on communication, mutual support, and shared experiences. Matt Schneider and Larry Hagner's insights provide valuable lessons on how to cultivate a strong and lasting relationship based on friendship, understanding, and a shared vision for the future.
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Dr. William Elder is a psychologist at the South Texas VA Hospital. He has served as the hospital’s Military Sexual Trauma Coordinator, Director of the PTSD Clinical Team, and Evidence-Based Psychotherapy Coordinator. He has published research about the psychology of men and masculinities and the treatment of PTSD. He has also been awarded Student of the Year, the Loren Frankel Research Award, and Practitioner of the Year by the American Psychological Association Division 51 (Society for the Psychological Study of Men and Masculinities).
In this episode, Dr. William Elder delves into his motivation to study trauma therapy after experiencing the challenges of supporting a spouse with PTSD. Dr. Elder highlights the common misconceptions about PTSD, emphasizing that traumatic events leading to PTSD are not limited to combat experiences but can include various forms of violence, disasters, and threats to life.
The conversation also explores the signs and symptoms of PTSD, shedding light on the four primary symptoms: re-experiencing, avoidance, hypervigilance, and negative thoughts/emotions. Dr. Willam Elder also emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these symptoms to facilitate healing and improve relationships.
The episode concludes with insights on the fine line between validating emotions and enabling negative behavior, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and supporting emotional experiences without condoning harmful actions. Through personal anecdotes and professional expertise, Dr. William Elder provides valuable insights into navigating relationships, understanding PTSD, and fostering emotional connection.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Dr. Alok Kanojia aka ‘Dr. K’ is a Harvard-trained psychiatrist specializing in modern mental health for the digital generation. He is the President and Cofounder of Healthy Gamer, a mental health platform that provides content, expert wellness coaching, and community to young people. Dr. K is known for his expertise in various areas related to mental health, particularly as they relate to psychology and spirituality.
Dr. K sheds light on the rapid evolution of video games from simple pastimes to complex, never-ending journeys that can lead to addiction. With rates of video game addiction doubling over a decade, Dr. K emphasizes the unique challenges parents face today compared to previous generations.
Dr. Alok Kanojia also touches on the social aspects of gaming, explaining how games like Fortnite create a community that becomes integral to a child's social life, making it even harder for parents to set limits. He offers a fresh perspective on parenting strategies, advocating for understanding and collaboration over strict screen time limits.
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Dr. Peter Martone aka ‘Dr. Sleep Right’ is an educator and patient care practitioner who has been focused on improving patient’s biomechanics for over 23 years during his private practice as a chiropractor. Dr. Martone’s revolutionary concepts are designed to help restore proper biomechanics of the spine by adopting a neutral sleeping position, helping you sleep better, live longer and be healthier. His techniques have been featured on CBS, NBC, Fox News, Dave Asprey’s Upgraded Conference, and over 50 podcasts as he travels the world teaching people how to regain their health by mastering the art of sleeping.
Dr. Peter Martone shares his personal journey of overcoming back pain and sleep issues, leading him to develop a unique approach to improving sleep quality through proper posture alignment during sleep.
The conversation covers various topics, including the impact of sleep on the body's systems, such as digestion, immune function, and hormonal balance. Dr. Peter Martone also explains how forward head posture can compress the vagus nerve, leading to digestive issues and other health concerns. He also provides practical tips for improving sleep posture, such as using specific pillows and creating a safe environment for the subconscious brain to promote restful sleep.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Wade Joye is a speaker and leadership coach, author of "This Dream Is Not For You," and host of the "Dreamers and Disciples" podcast. He served as the Worship Pastor at Elevation Church for over 14 years until transitioning off of staff in late 2021 to serve churches and leaders across the country through his teaching and coaching ministry.
Wade recounts the emotional story of his twin daughters' premature birth and the subsequent health issues they faced, including a life-threatening condition for his youngest daughter, Sydney. He opens up about his battle with bitterness and anxiety, and how he learned to see God's miracles in the midst of hardship.
The conversation shifts to the importance of maintaining a strong marriage, especially when facing life's challenges. Wade emphasizes the significance of communication, fun, and spiritual connection with his wife, including the practice of praying together daily. He offers practical advice for couples looking to strengthen their relationship through faith and shared experiences.
Laura Heck is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Gottman Therapist, and Sex Therapist in private practice working exclusively with couples to manage conflict and deepen intimacy and pleasure. Laura is also the co-host of Marriage Therapy Radio with Zach Brittle since 2017, where straight-talking marriage therapists and guests tackle the most common complaints virtually every relationship experience.
Laura shares insights from her experience as a marriage and sex therapist, highlighting the importance of maintaining a strong friendship foundation in a relationship. She emphasizes the significance of curiosity, admiration, and attentiveness towards one's partner to foster a deep connection and understanding.
The conversation delves into the concept of shared purpose and vision in a relationship, showcasing how aligning goals and aspirations can strengthen the bond between partners. Laura also touches on the common pitfalls in communication, such as using extreme language like "always" and "never," which can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Christopher Lindsey aka ‘Roderick Strong’ is an American professional wrestler currently signed to All Elite Wrestling (AEW), where he performs under the ring name Roderick Strong. He is a member of the Undisputed Kingdom stable and is the current AEW International Champion in his first reign.
Roderick Strong opens up about his challenging childhood, marked by his parents' tumultuous relationship, his mother's battle with drug addiction, and the traumatic event of his mother shooting his father when he was just 11 years old.
Roderick shares how his experiences growing up have shaped his perspective on parenting and the importance of creating a safe and nurturing environment for his son. He emphasizes the significance of allowing his son to be his true self and fostering a sense of safety both physically and mentally.
Throughout the conversation, Roderick highlights the role of friendship and community in his life, emphasizing the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive and understanding individuals. His insights offer a powerful reminder of the transformative power of self-awareness, resilience, and the pursuit of genuine connections in navigating life's challenges.
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Jesse LeBeau is one of the top youth motivational speakers in the world and is regularly featured on some of our favorite TV shows, movies, and media outlets. Jesse is also the founder of The Attitude Is Everything Foundation that has helped over 250,000 teenagers improve their mental health through self-esteem building programs. He currently stars in the Emmy nominated new sitcom “This Just In” on Saturday mornings on Pop TV.
From navigating daily life without roads and stores to pursuing his passion for basketball despite being the underdog, Jesse's story is one of resilience and determination. He shares how pivotal moments with bullies and the unwavering support from his parents shaped his attitude towards life's challenges.
Jesse delves into his basketball career, which led him to opportunities in entertainment, including working with icons like Kobe Bryant and Heidi Klum. His experiences taught him valuable lessons about ignoring naysayers and focusing on personal goals. Jesse's transition from aspiring NBA player to motivational speaker allowed him to impact the lives of over a million kids, emphasizing the importance of attitude in overcoming adversity.
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Allana Pratt is a global media personality and go-to authority for those ready to heal heartbreak, live unapologetically, and attract a soul-shaking relationship. She is the Author of 6 books, has interviewed Whoopi Goldberg and Alanis Morissette, and Hosts the edgy Podcast Intimate Conversations: Season 11- Soul Medicine, where listeners learn how to ‘Become the One’ to 'Find the One’ which ‘Awakens the One.'
Allana Pratt shares her personal journey of finding love and doing psychedelic somatic integration work to heal past wounds. She emphasizes the significance of feeling through difficult emotions to achieve personal growth and strengthen relationships.
Allana highlights the impact of unresolved trauma on relationships and the importance of teaching children healthy emotional expression. She stresses the value of creating a safe and loving environment for children to learn relationship skills and emotional intelligence. Allana also shares her experience of how childhood trauma can affect trust, intuition, and self-expression in adulthood.
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Trevor Maxwell is the founder and CEO of Man Up to Cancer, a support community that inspires men to connect and avoid isolation during their cancer journeys. He is also the author of “Open Heart, Warrior Spirit: A Man’s Guide to Living with Cancer.” Trevor has been living with stage IV colon cancer since March of 2018. He has undergone seven major surgeries, chemotherapy, immunotherapy, and a clinical trial.
Trevor Maxwell shares his personal journey of being diagnosed with stage four colon cancer at the age of 41 and the impact it had on his life and family. He emphasizes the importance of community and peer support for men going through cancer. He also discusses the challenges of isolation and the negative consequences it can have on mental health, relationships, and medical outcomes.
Through Man Up To Cancer, Trevor aims to change the culture around men's approach to cancer by normalizing shared burdens and encouraging open communication.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
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Jon Acuff is the New York Times bestselling author of nine books, including his most recent, “All It Takes is a Goal”. For over 20 years he’s also helped some of the biggest brands tell their story, including The Home Depot, Bose, and Staples. His fresh perspective on life has given him the opportunity to write for Reader’s Digest, Fast Company, The Harvard Business Review and Time Magazine.
Jon Acuff emphasizes the importance of setting realistic expectations for children's development and not rushing their growth process. He highlights the significance of nurturing children's interests without suffocating them, allowing them to explore and discover their passions at their own pace.
He shares personal anecdotes and insights on how he approaches goal-setting with his own children, emphasizing the need to pay attention to what lights them up and to nurture their curiosity. Jon Acuff also touches on the importance of creating a supportive environment for children to explore their interests and develop their skills.
Jon Fogel is a dad, pastor, and advocate for evidence-based, non-trauma-inducing parenting methods. He is known under the moniker "WholeParent" on Social Media, where he has over 1 Million followers across multiple platforms. As WholeParent, Jon offers a unique perspective on parenting grounded in evidence-based research in areas of child development, adolescent psychology, and basic neuroscience, synthesizing strategies from the worlds of cognitive-behavioral therapy, general counseling, and even contemplative meditation to help parents manage problematic behaviors and grow deeper in their relationship with their children, their partner, and themselves.
Jon Fogel shares his personal journey and the pivotal moments that shaped his approach to fatherhood. From growing up in a high school known for its comedic alumni to the loss of his father and the birth of his son, he discusses how these experiences led him to a deeper understanding of how our brains react to stress and the importance of developing new neural pathways for better parenting responses.
He also explains the concept of neural pathways and how our childhood experiences shape our default reactions as parents. He then offers practical advice on how to ground ourselves in moments of high stress with our children, emphasizing techniques like deep breathing, grounding exercises, and the importance of not feeding the emotional fire.
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Kimberly Hill is a certified dating and relationship coach who supports good-hearted men to achieve healthy, loving relationships. She's also the host of the relatable and inspiring podcast The Self-Confidence Project where she discusses everything from life, dating, divorce, sex and how to live a meaningful life.
Kimberly shares her unique journey from working in the high-stakes environment of financial derivatives to becoming a relationship coach, drawing on her extensive experience with male-dominated industries to offer a fresh perspective on what men struggle with in their personal lives.
Throughout the conversation, Kimberly Hill offers practical advice and personal anecdotes that shed light on common communication pitfalls and the importance of understanding one's own needs and desires in a relationship. She emphasizes the significance of clear, assertive communication and provides listeners with a simple yet powerful framework for expressing feelings and resolving conflicts with partners.
Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable tips to help you build stronger, more fulfilling connections with those around you.
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Dan Peterson is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC), advanced trainer for the Nurtured Heart Approach™ (NHA), and the founder of The Compass 4 Life. He specializes in helping adults who work with or have challenging children develop strategies for their child to succeed in both the school environment and family setting.
Dan Peterson shares his personal journey from growing up in a large family with young parents to becoming a father himself at the age of 32. He reflects on the contrast between his upbringing and his approach to parenting, emphasizing the importance of a strong foundation in marriage before taking on the role of a parent.
He also touches on the long-term effects of unresolved childhood issues, highlighting the potential for depression, anxiety, and susceptibility to peer pressure as children grow older. Dan Peterson underscores the critical need for connection and acceptance, which are fundamental human needs that persist throughout life.
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Chris Daughtry is an American singer, musician, and actor. He is the lead vocalist and a guitarist for the rock band Daughtry, which he formed after placing fourth on the fifth season of American Idol.
Chris's journey from a small town to rock stardom is a testament to the power of passion and relentless pursuit. His story began in an algebra class, where he first showcased his singing talent, and has since been marked by dedication and hard work—values deeply ingrained by his father.
Chris shared intimate stories of his life, including the life-changing encounter with his wife, Deanna, and the joys and challenges of becoming a "bonus dad" at the young age of 20. His approach to parenting, characterized by humility and responsibility, offers profound insight into the man behind the music.
Chris Daughtry's appearance on American Idol was a turning point in his career, where he captivated audiences with his raw talent and emotional performances. Despite facing challenges and setbacks, Daughtry's determination and passion for music propelled him to the top of the charts, earning him accolades and recognition in the music industry.
His unwavering commitment to his craft and his ability to connect with audiences on a deep emotional level have solidified his place as a music icon. Through his music and personal experiences, Daughtry continues to inspire and captivate audiences, leaving a lasting impact on the music industry and beyond.
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Steven Robertson is an acclaimed keynote speaker, trainer, generational expert, author of "Aliens Among Us: 10 Surprising Truths about Gen Z", and the CEO of BOLD-Training. He inspires audiences and invigorates businesses as he shares from his experience of over 30 years.
Steven emphasizes the unique characteristics that define each generation, shaped by the "perfect storm" of technology, world news, social media, and leadership or parenting styles. The conversation takes a deep dive into the challenges faced by Gen Z, the first generation to be digital natives, and how their communication styles differ from previous generations.
Steven Robertson also explains the concept of the "8-second filter," debunking the myth of the 8-second attention span, and highlights the importance of creating compelling content to engage effectively with younger generations.
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Marc Von Musser is the CEO of Soar and Roar Inc., and the Founder of a human optimization program called “111 Days to Greatness”, awakening the greatness in others and helping people become their greatest self and live their dream life. He is also a highly sought after Sales and Coaching Expert who has helped thousands of companies large and small, grow their profits by over 100%, 500% and even 1000%.
Marc Von Musser shares his transformation from a man who was ready for boys to a devoted girl dad who embraced the challenge of raising strong, confident daughters. He recounts the lessons he learned in teaching his girls everything from tracking animals to excelling in cross-country running, proving that girl energy and boy energy each have their unique strengths.
Marc's story takes us through his own childhood, marked by a mix of dysfunction and adventure, as he grew up with a father who was a child movie star turned developer and a mother who was Miss Norway. Despite the challenges of an alcoholic household, Mark found solace and success in martial arts, where he excelled beyond his expectations.
The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, as Marc discusses the emasculation of men in media and the importance of authentic masculinity. He emphasizes the need for men to awaken to their true potential and to resist the programming that has led to a decline in male confidence and purpose.
Mike Schroder is the co-founder of Future Fans, a company that uses stories and games to teach core concepts of sports in a kid-friendly way. With a focus on future-forward solutions, he plays a pivotal role in shaping the way companies interact with their communities, driving growth and fostering loyalty.
Mike shares his unique perspective on growing up in a bustling household and how his role as the youngest influenced his personality. He reflects on the subtleties of advocating for oneself and the dynamics of sibling relationships.
He also discusses the profound lessons he learned from his dad's steady emotional presence and his approach to life's stages. Mike Schroder's father's decision to forgo treatment for his terminal illness is a poignant example of his pragmatic and appreciative outlook on life, which has left a lasting impact on Mike.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
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Dr. Tim Elmore is a best-selling author, leadership expert, and keynote speaker who’s trained more than 500,000 leaders in hundreds of organizations worldwide. He is also the founder and CEO of Growing Leaders, an Atlanta‐based non‐profit organization created to develop emerging leaders. His work grew out of 20 years of serving alongside Dr. John C. Maxwell.
Tim Elmore shares his rich experiences as a father, husband, and mentor, providing valuable lessons and strategies for raising confident and capable children. From discussing his favorite childhood pastime to the hilarious and somewhat embarrassing tales of his college days, Tim opens up about the moments that shaped him.
He also stresses the significance of humility, ownership, and the impact of a strong marital relationship on children. He introduces the concept of "chess and checkers" in parenting, urging parents to tailor their approach to the individual needs of each child.
Finally, Tim discusses his latest book "I Can't Wait", which is a collection of 52 inspiring stories about children making a difference. He explains how these stories can spark meaningful conversations between parents and children, and how they serve as a reminder that age is no barrier to making a significant impact.
Ruari Fairbairns is the founder and CEO of OYNB. He is a leading figure in the health and well-being space known for his passionate advocacy for healthier living. Ruari has been instrumental in steering OYNB to the forefront of the alcohol-free movement, inspiring over 100,000 people worldwide to reassess their relationship with alcohol, and strive to become the best version of themselves.
Larry Hagner and Ruari Fairbairns discuss the impact of meditation, breathwork, and mindfulness on stress management and overall well-being. Ruari shares insights from his experience with a friend from AA and highlights the importance of understanding the underlying drivers of compulsive behavior.
Ruari Fairbairns also shares success stories of individuals who have transformed their relationship with alcohol through a holistic approach that focuses on personal growth, trauma healing, and self-regulation techniques like meditation and breathwork.
He then explains how tools like neurofeedback and EEG devices can provide valuable insights into brain activity and help individuals cultivate healthier habits. The episode concludes with a discussion on the power of self-control and the importance of building new neural pathways to change addictive behaviors.
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Steven Rinella is a renowned writer, TV personality, and the founder of MeatEater Inc., an outdoor lifestyle company. He is also the host of the Netflix show MeatEater and The MeatEater Podcast. He has gained wide popularity with hunters and non-hunters alike through his passion for outdoor adventure and wild foods, as well as his strong commitment to conservation.
Steven and Larry delved into the complexities of family, parenting, and marriage. Steven Rinella opens up about his conflicted feelings towards his father, sharing personal anecdotes that paint a picture of a man who was both the "worst and the best dad”.
The episode takes a turn towards the outdoors as Steven Rinella, an avid hunter and fisherman, reflects on the importance of involving his children in outdoor activities. He emphasizes the value of exposing them to "arenas of consequence," where making mistakes can have immediate repercussions, thereby teaching them resilience and problem-solving skills.
Whether you're an outdoor enthusiast, a parent grappling with the legacy of your upbringing, or someone looking to strengthen your marital relationship, this episode offers insights and experiences that resonate with the challenges and joys of family life.
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Jason Schnitzer aka "The Husband Coach," is a dedicated relationship coach specializing in helping men become better partners, focusing on communication, empathy, and personal growth to strengthen marriages and partnerships. His "Reclaim Control" program focuses on breaking free from destructive behaviors to improve self-control and personal growth.
Jason shares his personal journey from being a professional baseball player to embracing the world of jujitsu, and how this transition has influenced his approach to handling emotions and conflicts. He opens up about the challenges he faced in his marriage, the pivotal moments that led him to self-reflection, and the realization that perhaps the issues at hand were not solely external, but also internal.
Jason and Larry also break down the nervous system's role in our emotional states, using the analogy of an upside-down stoplight to describe the green, yellow, and red states of being. They explain how our past experiences, even from childhood, can shape our current responses to stress, fear, and confrontation.
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Chauncey Leopardi is an American actor known for playing Michael "Squints" Palledorous in the 1993 film The Sandlot and Alan White in the 1999 series Freaks and Geeks.
As we celebrate the 30th anniversary of the movie “The Sandlot”, Chauncey takes us on a journey through his unique childhood experiences, from starting his acting career at a young age to the complexities of growing up in a blended family.
Chauncey Leopardi opens up about the dynamics of his family life, including the impact of his parents' separation and the influential presence of his stepfather. He shares insights into the world of acting during the '80s and '90s, a time when craftsmanship in film was at its peak, and the sets were built with an attention to detail that is rarely seen today.
As a father of five, Chauncey Leopardi discusses the challenges and joys of parenting and maintaining a strong marriage. He emphasizes the importance of staying committed and being the captain of the ship, no matter how rough the seas may get. His approach to life is one of taking responsibility and control, ensuring that he's present and engaged with his family.
Ryan Alford is the CEO of Radical, a digital ad agency. He also hosts his own marketing and advertising podcast, The Radcast, which has over 130 episodes with listeners all over the world.
Ryan Alford and Larry Hagner discuss the importance of setting clear structures and boundaries in blended families. They emphasize the significance of being a positive role model for children and how children are keenly aware of their parents' happiness and fulfillment.
Their conversation also delved into the balance between love and discipline, showcasing the importance of providing clear expectations and examples for children to follow. Ryan Alford also touches on the impact of physical fitness on parenting, highlighting the role of exercise in maintaining mental and emotional well-being. He shares personal experiences of how fitness has positively influenced his parenting styles and relationships with his children.
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Lt. Colonel Dave Grossman is an internationally recognized scholar, author, soldier, and speaker who is one of the world’s foremost experts in the field of human aggression and the roots of violence and violent crime.
Lt. Grossman talked about the importance of fatherhood, spiritual warfare, and the impact of video games on the younger generation. He emphasizes the biblical perspective on the responsibility of fathers to their children and the significance of turning hearts towards family members.
Larry and Lt. Colonel Grossman also discusses the concept of spiritual combat and warfare, highlighting the importance of prayer and faith in navigating life's challenges. Drawing parallels between historical events and modern-day issues, they shed light on the dangers of unregulated access to violent video games and the impact it can have on youth.
Tim and Kathy Bush established War Room Ministries in August of 2020 to serve men, marriages, families, and churches across the country. Their ministry focuses on developing Christian character through redemption, relationships, and resilience. They are also involved in speaking at marriage conferences and retreats across the country, sharing their insights and experiences to help others.
Tim and Kathy Bush's marriage started when they were just 18 and 20 years old, respectively. They acknowledge that they may not look old enough to have been married for 42 years, but this highlights the fact that they got married at a young age. Tim shares that they got married because Kathy unexpectedly got pregnant, which resonates with many young couples who find themselves in similar situations. Despite the challenges they faced, they made a commitment to each other and built a life together.
They also emphasized the importance of communication and understanding within a marriage. Tim and Kathy's ability to openly discuss their past and present experiences demonstrates their commitment to growth and improvement. They acknowledge their flaws and mistakes, which allows them to work together as a team.
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Keith Yackey is the Founder and CEO of The Married Game and The Ascend Brotherhood, known for his innovative approaches to enhancing marital relationships and personal growth. His work emphasizes the importance of attraction and connection in marriage, drawing from his diverse experiences and insights.
He candidly shares his journey from being on the brink of his second divorce to becoming what he calls a "provocateur" – a man who provokes admiration, desire, and commitment from his partner.
Keith and Larry begin by acknowledging their own past mistakes, demonstrating a commitment to self-improvement. They focus on authentic solutions for personal growth, emphasizing the importance of responsibility in one's actions.
Keith then highlights the significance of authenticity in relationships. He describes his relationship with his spouse as "flirty" and "fun," underscoring the value of a genuine connection. He also emphasizes the role of supporting one's partner and nurturing their dreams, illustrating the importance of mutual support and serving as a leader who uplifts others.
Angus Nelson is an executive coach, speaker, and facilitator, specializing in emotional intelligence and high-performance team building. He brings a unique blend of experience in personal development and corporate innovation, empowering leaders and teams to thrive in today's fast-paced business environment.
Men are twice as likely to take their own lives. This alarming fact sets the stage for a discussion on the importance of seeking help and support. Angus Nelson acknowledges that isolation is a major factor contributing to this statistic. Many men, out of pride and fear of judgment, keep their struggles to themselves.
Angus Nelson goes on to explain that many individuals have things they are unwilling to say out loud, even to themselves. Instead of seeking support, they distract themselves with various activities or substances. This avoidance stems from a belief that admitting to having a problem or struggling makes them less of a man, less of an alpha species. However, the truth is that nobody is perfect, and everyone has their own issues. Angus emphasizes that even those who may seem aspirational or perfect have their own weighty problems.
Angus and Larry Hagner suggests that giving oneself grace, love, and self-compassion can be transformative. By accepting that imperfection is a shared human experience, individuals can find healing and develop a more compassionate mindset. Angus believes that if individuals can extend grace and compassion to themselves, they can also spread those qualities to others.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
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Paul Hutchinson is an entrepreneur, philanthropist, and influential speaker recognized for his dedication to child welfare and humanitarian efforts. He founded the Child Liberation Foundation, leading over 70 undercover rescue missions across 15 countries, resulting in the liberation of thousands of children.
The lesson of dancing instead of fighting, learned from playing rugby, has valuable applications in various aspects of life. Whether in sales, personal relationships, or raising children, approaching conflicts with empathy and understanding can lead to more positive outcomes. By finding common ground and gradually redirecting the focus, it becomes possible to achieve goals without engaging in direct confrontation.
Paul Hutchinson also emphasizes the importance of honing a boy's energy into something positive. He shares a story of his sons play-wrestling on the kitchen floor while he and his wife have a conversation nearby. Despite the chaotic scene, Paul and his wife embrace the energy and find it amusing. This demonstrates their ability to see the positive side of their sons' boisterous behavior and appreciate it for what it is.
Another important aspect of raising boys with a positive influence is teaching them values and instilling a sense of responsibility. Paul mentions the saying, "You can raise dangerously good men, but if you don't do it right, you can raise dangerous men." This highlights the importance of guiding boys towards making good choices and understanding the consequences of their actions. By providing a supportive and nurturing environment, parents can help boys develop into well-rounded individuals who contribute positively to society.
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Dr. Amanda Craig is a licensed marriage and family therapist, author, speaker, wife, and mother. She is known for her work in individual, couples, and family therapy, as well as for authoring the book "Who Are You and What Have You Done with My Kid?" which focuses on parenting tweens. Dr. Amanda Craig's practice emphasizes building strong, emotionally connected families.
Dr. Craig's interest in psychology began during her college years, when she took psychology classes. She admits that she struggled as a student and didn't find her passion until she discovered psychology. The subject matter energized and excited her, sparking a deep curiosity about human behavior and emotions. This newfound passion led her to seek therapy herself, further solidifying her interest in the field.
One particular aspect of psychology that captivated Dr. Amanda Craig was the study of relationships. She recalls taking a family systems course during her master's program, which emphasized the significance of relationships for people's wellbeing. This realization resonated with her, and she became convinced of the importance of understanding the dynamics between individuals and the impact it has on their lives.
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Corey LaJoie is a professional NASCAR Cup Series driver and third-generation racer. He is known for his competitive spirit and engagement with fans through his podcast, "Stacking Pennies." He balances his racing career with philanthropy, emphasizing his passion for both motorsports and community involvement.
Corey shares how his grandfather and father were both successful racers, which naturally led him to be involved in the sport from a young age. Despite the pressure and expectations that came with his family's racing heritage, Corey discusses how he ultimately had to make the choice to pursue racing for himself.
He also sheds light on the intense competitiveness of racing, particularly in the world of go-kart racing. Corey's experience aligns with what he has seen in the industry. He recalls stories from a client who had a son involved in go-kart racing, where parents would go to great lengths to ensure their child's success. Some even flew high-end mechanics from overseas to work on their kid's go-kart.
Brad Rhoads founded Grace Marriage in 2015 to help churches and couples prioritize marriage. Prior to this, Brad was a practicing attorney for 22 years. He served as a marriage pastor at their local church, where he noted the nationwide absence of an intentional, ongoing strategy to keep couples on a trajectory of growth.
In this episode, Brad Rhoads shares his personal journey of feeling pressure to perform in his Christian life. He talks about how a friend helped him understand the concept of relying on the grace of God instead of his own efforts. Brad Rhoads explains the freedom he experienced when he realized that it's okay to not be perfect and that he could enjoy life without the heavy burden of constantly striving. He also discusses how this mindset shift improved his relationships and allowed him to embrace imperfection.
One of the key factors that they emphasized is the importance of prioritizing quality time in marriage. The busyness of life often takes a toll on couples, causing them to go through the motions and lose sight of what truly matters. With kids' activities, work demands, and financial pressures, it becomes easy to neglect the relationship and settle for a mediocre marriage.
Many couples desire a better marriage, but they lack the knowledge and guidance on how to achieve it. They may have tried attending conferences or seeking advice, but nothing seems to bring about lasting change. As a result, they resign themselves to the status quo, accepting that their marriage is simply tolerable.
However, Brad and Larry argue that there is hope for a better marriage. The answer is not as difficult as it may seem, but many couples have not been given the tools or coaching to break free from their stagnant situation. The key is to find the answer and receive the necessary guidance to have a fulfilling and joyful marriage with one's best friend.
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David Hauser is an American entrepreneur, speaker, and angel investor, best known for co-founding the Grasshopper Group, a virtual telephone service that was acquired by Citrix Systems for $170 million in 2015. He is also a founding member of the National Entrepreneurs' Day and has co-founded several tech companies, including Grasshopper, Chargify, Spreadable, PopSurvey, and Deck Foundry.
In this episode, David Hauser and Larry Hagner discuss the concept of work-life balance and challenge its validity. They argue that balance is elusive and can prevent us from fully engaging in both work and personal life. Instead, they advocate for integration, finding ways to include family and personal responsibilities into our professional pursuits. They also explore the history of the term "work-life balance" and its connection to the increase of women in the workforce.
David Hauser then argues that constantly striving for balance can be detrimental, as it consumes valuable time and energy. Instead of constantly thinking about how to allocate time between different areas of life, he suggests integrating family and personal commitments into daily activities.
The origins of the term "work-life balance" are also briefly discussed, with David Hauser suggesting that it emerged in the 70s or 80s when more women entered the workforce. The term was created to address the challenge of balancing work responsibilities with the role of being a mother.
However, the concept of balance itself is questioned, as it implies a trade-off between work and personal life, which may not be the most effective approach. By integrating work and family life, parents can demonstrate the importance of dedication, perseverance, and delayed gratification to their children.
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Dr. Michael Gervais is a renowned high-performance psychologist and the host of the Finding Mastery podcast, where he explores the psychology of peak performance with world-leading experts and athletes. His work focuses on helping individuals excel in high-stakes environments and unlock their full potential.
In this episode, Larry Hagner and Dr. Michael Gervais delve into a fascinating discussion about the mind, emotions, and the power of being present. They explore the concept of the brain as hardware and the mind as software, emphasizing the importance of upgrading our mental software through training and self-awareness. They also distinguish between emotions (observable and physical) and feelings (subjective and interpretive), highlighting the role of thoughts in shaping our emotional experiences.
The conversation further explores the challenges of being present in a world filled with distractions and the aversion many people have to being alone with their thoughts. They discuss the fear of not being enough and the deep-rooted need for acceptance and belonging. Dr. Michael Gervais shares insights from his book, highlighting the real consequences of stress and anxiety and offering practical strategies for managing them.
Throughout the episode, Dr. Michael Gervais emphasizes the importance of training the mind, just like we train our physical and technical skills. He discusses the power of acute stress and the benefits of pushing ourselves to the messy edge, as well as the value of mindfulness meditation and other contemplative practices in cultivating presence and navigating stress.
Overall, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tools for upgrading our mental software and living a more fulfilled and present life. By increasing awareness of our thoughts, feelings, and emotions, we can better navigate the external world and cultivate a sense of calm and confidence.
The First Rule of Mastery: Stop Worrying about What People Think of You
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Connor Beaton is a men's life coach, founder of ManTalks, and an author focusing on men's wellness and personal growth. He integrates Jungian psychology and somatic therapy into his coaching and speaking engagements
In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, host Larry Hagner and guest Connor Beaton talk about the power of voice in conveying emotions and creating a comfortable environment for effective communication. They discuss how slowing down speech and being mindful of tone can reduce anxiety and improve relationships.
Connor Beaton shares his expertise in voice training and music, explaining how a person's voice can reflect their internal state. He suggests that speaking quickly or in a high-pitched tone can be indicative of anxiety or discomfort. By intentionally slowing down speech, individuals can bring attention and presence to their delivery, thereby potentially reducing anxiety and creating a more calm external perception.
The conversation also extends to the impact of voice in parenting and marriage. Connor Beaton emphasize how their calm demeanor and voice can influence the behavior and emotions of their children and partners. They note that when they are calm, their children and partners also tend to be calm. This demonstrates that voice plays a crucial role in creating a sense of safety and comfort in relationships.
JC Batista is a father and a husband. He shares his powerful and heartbreaking story of losing his 25-year-old son to substance abuse and gun violence. Despite facing unimaginable pain and grief, JC and his wife have shown incredible resilience and strength in navigating through this tragedy.
In this Dad Edge Podcast episode, Larry Hagner is joined by JC Batista and heard about JC's poignant tale of losing his 25-year-old son and the profound impact it had on him and his wife. Their journey, steeped in sorrow, is also a narrative of resilience and shared purpose. The episode explores crucial themes like personal growth in the face of adversity, the effects on marital and family bonds, and discovering strength amidst tragedy.
JC Batista places a strong emphasis on personal growth, underscoring the necessity of mental, emotional, and physical preparedness for life's challenges. He advocates for continuous self-improvement as a tool for building resilience, enabling individuals to more effectively overcome difficult periods.
The strength of JC's marriage shines through as he recounts the various hurdles they've encountered. Their united vision of nurturing a robust family unit has consistently guided them. They've learned the importance of mutual support during times of grief, becoming each other's pillars of strength. This unwavering commitment to their union has significantly contributed to their collective resilience.
Addressing the inevitable anger and unanswered questions that follow tragedy, JC Batista admits to grappling with these emotions himself. He stresses the importance of redirecting anger into constructive paths like personal growth and solution-finding. Rather than dwelling on the unanswerable "why," he advocates for focusing on the "how" – how to grow, how to help others.
In conclusion, JC's story is a powerful illustration of the resilience possible in the face of personal tragedy. Through their harrowing experience of losing a child, JC Batista and his wife have confronted their grief together, offering unwavering support to each other and their family. Their story is not just one of enduring pain but also of finding purpose and strength in each other, highlighting the value of self-improvement, open communication, and helping others navigate their struggles.
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Gary Chapman, Ph.D. is an author, speaker, and counselor. He has a passion for people, and for helping them form lasting relationships. The 5 Love Languages® is one of Chapman’s most popular titles, topping various bestseller charts for years, selling over twenty million copies and has been on the New York Times bestsellers list since 2007.
In this episode of Dad Edge, Dr. Gary Chapman discusses his new book on the five traits of a healthy family. He shares that many people struggle with understanding what a good family looks like, especially if they come from a dysfunctional background. Dr. Chapman wrote the book to provide guiding principles for those who are unsure or struggling with creating a healthy family dynamic.
Dr. Gary Chapman emphasizes that the attitude of service is crucial for building a healthy family. He acknowledges that humans are naturally self-centered, but in order to have a healthy family, individuals must adopt an attitude of service. This means approaching relationships and family life with a mindset of wanting to help each family member reach their potential for good in the world.
He also emphasizes that while individuals may not have control over their emotions, they can choose their attitude. This means that even when negative feelings arise, such as anger or hurt, individuals can still choose to think in terms of how they can enrich the lives of their family members. By choosing an attitude of love, individuals can respond to their family members in a positive and loving way, even when their emotions might be telling them otherwise.
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Joel Staley is a fitness coach and the creator of the Shed Fat Fast program, specializing in helping individuals optimize their health and reduce body fat through methods like intermittent fasting. Despite holding a lucrative six figure job, he made the brave decision to quit on his daughter Kennedy's first day at daycare.
In this episode of The Dad Edge, host Larry Hagner sits down with Joel Staley for a raw and insightful conversation about fitness, fasting, and finding your purpose. They dive deep into the importance of nutrition, the benefits of fasting, and the keys to building a great physique. Joel Staley, a successful fitness coach and entrepreneur, shares his own journey of leaving a corporate job to pursue his passion for helping others. They also discuss the significance of setting small goals, finding a supportive community, and being an active and involved parent.
Joel Staley emphasizes the importance of finding a sustainable diet that includes a balance of healthy meals and indulgences. It's not about depriving yourself, but rather enjoying nutritious food while still allowing room for treats.
While Joel used to believe fasting was the answer to everything, he now sees it as just one tool for building a lean physique. Fasting can optimize hormone levels, aid in weight loss, and improve energy levels and self-mastery. However, it's essential to break a fast with healthy, whole foods to feel great and avoid discomfort.
Both Larry and Joel stress the importance of finding a strong reason or "why" to prioritize physical fitness. Whether it's being an active and involved parent or wanting to keep up with your kids, having a compelling purpose will motivate you to take action and make positive changes.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
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Aaron Hale is a former Navy chef and Army EOD team leader turned motivational speaker and entrepreneur, overcoming blindness and deafness to found the chocolate company Extra Ordinary Delights.
In this episode, host Larry interviews guest Aaron Hale who shares his powerful story of resilience and overcoming the odds. Aaron Hale reflects on his journey from being an all-American slacker to facing challenges in college and gaining the "Freshman 50." Determined to find his purpose, he turned to cooking, a passion he had since childhood. From being a Navy cook to becoming an Explosive Ordnance Disposal (EOD) technician. Aaron's journey is one of determination, adaptability, and a desire to serve their country in the best way possible.
Aaron Hale's journey begins with a comfortable job in the military. He enjoys the perks and safety that come with his position, and for a while, it feels like a cushy gig. However, he soon realizes that he craves something more. He wants to serve a greater purpose and be on the front lines of danger.
Another factor that contributes to Aaron Hale's decision to transition from comfort to danger is the nature of his job as a Navy cook. The Navy views cooks as the military equivalent of hotel restaurant management. Their duties often involve working in dining facilities on bases or in barracks, which can be mundane and unchallenging. Aaron's placement as a night clerk at the front desk of the bachelor quarters during his shore duty further reinforces his desire for something more stimulating.
Aaron's motivation to serve others and make a positive impact also drives his transition from comfort to danger. He believes that by doing his best for others, he can lead a more fulfilling life. This mindset aligns with his desire to contribute and do something greater than himself. Additionally, Aaron Hale admits that it's also fun to blow things up, highlighting his adventurous spirit and willingness to embrace the excitement and challenges that come with being an EOD technician.
Michelle Icard is the author of the books “Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen” and “Middle School Makeover”. She has a degree in Education and has worked with parents, children, and teachers for more than 20 years, creating curriculum, books, and programs that help them better understand and navigate early adolescence.
In this episode, Larry Hagner interviews Michelle Icard about their family and their experiences in parenting. Michelle shares that she has two adult children and two dogs. The conversation also touches on their long-term marriage and recent celebration at a concert.
Setbacks can lead to success. This is a concept that is explored in the podcast transcript, where the author, Michelle Icard, discusses her book "8 Setbacks That Can Make a Child a Success." The conversation revolves around the idea that setbacks and failures are not necessarily negative experiences, but rather opportunities for growth and development.
Michelle begins by sharing her own experience of being relationship and commitment phobic before getting married. She explains that she and her husband dated for seven years before tying the knot, which she finds amusing. This sets the stage for the discussion on setbacks and how they can shape individuals and relationships.
She reveals that she does not have a lot of frustration in her marriage and that it has been mostly easy. She attributes this to the fact that both she and her husband came into the relationship with burdens from their own childhoods and approached their marriage with loyalty and flexibility. They deeply appreciate stability, which they lacked in their upbringing.
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Matt Parker is the co-founder of The Exodus Road, a non-profit organization dedicated to combating human trafficking. He started his anti-trafficking efforts in Thailand in 2010, which led to the creation of the organization in 2012.
In this episode of The Dad Edge podcast, host Larry Hagner interviews Matt Parker, the co-founder of The Exodus Road. Matt Parker shares his journey from running a children's home in Thailand to becoming an undercover operative working with the Thai Royal Police to rescue victims of trafficking.
Matt Parker discusses the importance of being vulnerable and open with his wife and children about the challenges he faces in his work, and how it has strengthened their relationships. Matt also emphasizes the need for couples to invest in their marriage through date nights, counseling, and open communication.
He then shares insights on trauma and the importance of seeking help and healing, as well as the impact of online exploitation on children and the steps parents can take to protect their kids. Throughout the episode, Matt's message of resilience, growth, and the power of vulnerability shines through.
Matt's story serves as a powerful reminder that even in the face of darkness, we can find strength and make a difference in the lives of others. He encourages listeners to redefine success as personal growth and improvement, rather than striving for perfection.
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Eric Grannis is the co-author of the book "A+ Parenting: The Surprisingly Fun Guide to Raising Surprisingly Smart Kids." Eric's ethos revolves around challenging the traditional definition of intelligence based on academic performance.
In this episode, Eric Grannis joins Larry Hagner and explores the topic of raising smart kids. He begins by discussing the concept of intelligence and how it has evolved over time. He shares his personal experience of struggling in school but eventually excelling through understanding his own learning style. Eric Grannis also emphasizes the importance of recognizing that intelligence is not solely defined by grades or traditional measures, but rather by understanding how each child learns best.
Eric Grannis acknowledges that the term "smart" is used in the podcast title to attract attention, but the book they discuss is about helping kids find their interests and passions in life. They emphasize the importance of going beyond school and college, where knowledge is dictated, and instead finding what truly interests and engages them.
The conversation also touches on the harmful tendency of parents to compare their children to others, particularly in terms of educational achievements. Eric Grannis suggests that this comparison can be detrimental and that parents should focus on fostering their child's passions and creativity instead.
Investing in our kids is of utmost importance. As parents, we have a responsibility to guide and nurture our children, helping them grow into successful and fulfilled individuals. However, it is essential to recognize that success and intelligence are not solely determined by grades and academic achievements.
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Dr. Doug Lucas is a double board certified physician specializing in metabolic health, hormone optimization for both men and women, as well as osteoporosis. He is known for his innovative approach in patient care, leveraging his expertise to improve longevity and vitality
In this episode, Dr. Doug Lucas shares his journey into the medical field as an orthopedic surgeon specializing in foot and ankle. He discusses the significance of diseases that impact feet, such as diabetes, and the importance of nutrition and aging. After seven years, he transitioned into pursuing additional training to focus on these areas.
The episode delves into the topic of nutrient-poor, calorie-dense food and its impact on our health. Larry Hagner and Dr. Doug Lucas discuss how our diet has evolved over the past century, transitioning from simple, locally sourced foods to highly processed and calorie-dense options. This shift was initially driven by the need to transport food into cities and support a growing population. However, what was once a practical solution to food scarcity has now become a major contributor to the obesity epidemic.
The abundance of food available today has led to a situation where most people have access to more food than they could ever need. However, this food is often lacking in essential nutrients and packed with empty calories. As a result, people are becoming overweight and suffering from diet-induced diseases.
The consequences of consuming nutrient-poor, calorie-dense food are far-reaching. Not only does it contribute to obesity, but it also leads to a host of other health issues. Dr. Doug Lucas also mentions the prevalence of chronic diseases such as diabetes and osteoporosis, which can be attributed, at least in part, to poor dietary choices. This highlights the need for a shift towards a more balanced and nutrient-rich diet.
Todd Herman is an acclaimed performance strategist and coach, known for helping athletes, business leaders, and entrepreneurs unleash their potential by tapping into alter egos. He is also the author of the book called "The Alter Ego Effect". His innovative methods blend psychology and peak performance tactics to achieve exceptional results.
In this Dad Edge episode, host Larry Hagner and guest Todd Herman discuss various topics, including their age, prescription glasses, and a quote about spending time with children. The guest shares a statistic that 80% of personal time with kids is used up by the age of 12. This quote has had a profound impact on the host, prompting him to reflect on how he uses his time with his own children.
Children grow up quickly, and the opportunities to create lasting memories and build strong relationships are fleeting. It is essential to be present, engaged, and intentional in our interactions with them. Quality time spent together not only strengthens the bond between parent and child but also contributes to the child's overall well-being and development.
As parents, we must make a conscious effort to create meaningful experiences and memories with our children. This may involve setting aside dedicated time for activities, conversations, and shared interests. It may also require us to be fully present, putting aside distractions and focusing on the present moment.
In a world filled with constant distractions and busy schedules, it is easy to overlook the value of time with children. However, as the podcast conversation highlighted, time is a finite resource, and once it is gone, it cannot be reclaimed. Therefore, it is crucial to prioritize and make the most of the time we have with our children.
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Don Manning is a father of seven children and the co-founder of Crazy Cool Family. With three decades of marriage experience, Don has paved the way for success in the family relationship category. He emphasizes the importance of embracing differences for stronger relationships and prioritizing growth.
In this episode, Larry interviews Don Manning, a father of seven children. Don shares his experience of raising a blended family with four girls and three boys. He discusses the challenges he faced and his determination to figure it all out. Don also talks about the genesis of his project, Crazy Cool Family, which aims to help other parents navigate the complexities of parenting.
Differences in marriage provide opportunities for personal development. When faced with differences, individuals are challenged to step out of their comfort zones and learn new ways of thinking and being. This growth can lead to increased self-awareness, empathy, and a broader perspective on life. Don mentions that his wife's relational orientation has taught him valuable lessons about family relationships, highlighting the importance of understanding and appreciating the unique strengths that each partner brings to the marriage.
It is important to note that embracing differences in marriage requires effort and a willingness to learn and grow together. It is not always easy, and conflicts may arise along the way. However, by viewing differences as opportunities rather than obstacles, couples can transform their challenges into catalysts for personal and relational development.
Dr. Adolph Brown III is a servant-leader at heart, a life-long mental health & safe spaces advocate, a renowned parent/family television host, career teacher educator, top business motivational speaker, marque entrepreneurial business keynote speaker, virtual presenter, and peak performance coach. He is highly regarded as the “balcony” human leadership advisor, and highly skilled peak performance coach who gets you from where you are to where you want to be while having the most fun ever.
In this episode, Larry Hagner and Dr. Adolph Brown III discusses their love for the "Back to the Future" movies and the iconic characters they are named after. They also talk about the various jokes and references people make about their names, such as references to famous boxers. The conversation then shifts to Doc Brown's large family, consisting of eight children. Doc Brown shares that having a larger family has its benefits, with the children taking care of each other and the household being surprisingly orderly.
Large families have their benefits. While some may view having a large family as chaotic and overwhelming, Brown highlights the love and support that exists within his family unit. One of the benefits of having a large family is the unlimited love that each family member has for each other. Brown emphasizes that despite having eight children, he and his wife have an abundance of love for each of them. Additionally, the children themselves have unlimited love for each other. This creates a strong bond and support system within the family, where everyone takes care of and looks out for one another.
Another benefit is the sense of order and organization that can be found in large families. Contrary to what some may expect, Brown mentions that his home is not chaotic, but rather orderly. The children play together in groups and move from room to room together. They even take responsibility for checking on any accidents or mishaps that occur in the house, reassuring their parents that everything is fine. This sense of collective responsibility and teamwork contributes to a harmonious household.
It is important to note that the benefits of having a large family may not be immediately apparent to those who come from smaller families or have not experienced it themselves.
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Granger Smith, also known by his alter ego, Earl Dibbles Jr., is an American Southern Baptist minister, former country music singer and songwriter, and a New York Times bestselling author. He continues to share his personal testimony to fans across the globe through his book Like a River: Finding the Faith and Strength to Move Forward After Loss and Heartache. After the tragic loss of his son, River, Smith set forth on an inescapable path of discovery towards God's grace and mercy.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner sits down with country music artist Granger Smith. Granger opens up about the challenges he faced after securing a book deal that put a target on his back. He shares his struggles and thoughts of quitting, as well as the decision he made to persevere despite potential consequences. Granger draws powerful insights from his experiences with wild mustangs, emphasizing the importance of surrendering control and finding strength in acknowledging that we are not the highest power.
The conversation dives into the keys to successful relationships, the power of forgiveness, and finding worthiness in the gospel. Granger also shares personal anecdotes, including a traumatic period in his life and a turning point on a music tour that brought him a sense of normalcy.
Granger Smith then shares his own struggles with worthiness and self-doubt, particularly in accepting a book deal without the traditional credentials. However, he discovers that worthiness is not based on personal achievements or the absence of sin. Instead, it lies in the understanding that we are created for a purpose and that our identity as children of God offers forgiveness, restoration, and a sense of worthiness. This reminder allows us to overcome past mistakes and embrace the assurance of redemption.
Throughout the conversation, Granger Smith emphasizes that successful relationships require trust, listening, and commitment. Too often, we are overwhelmed with options, hindering our ability to make a calculated decision. Granger encourages narrowing down our choices and prioritizing these key factors. By doing so, we can cultivate stronger connections and meaningful relationships.
Granger draws inspiration from his experiences with wild mustangs, emphasizing that surrendering control is not a sign of weakness. Just like a horse with immense power can trust its master and run into battle without pulling up until commanded to, surrendering control allows us to acknowledge that there is a higher power at work. In recognizing this, we find strength, peace, and clarity.
Gary John Bishop is one of the leading Personal Development experts in the industry with a global reputation that has impacted tens of thousands of people worldwide. His “urban philosophy” approach represents a new wave of personal empowerment and life mastery that has caused miraculous results for people in the quality and performance of their lives. He is the author of the New York Times bestseller "Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life" and "Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back".
In this episode, Larry Hagner and Gary John Bishop reunite for the fifth time to catch up on each other's lives, including Gary's recent trip to Germany with his sons who are pursuing their dreams of becoming professional soccer players. They also discuss the upcoming data summit and how their experiences tie into the book they are working on.
One of the key themes explored in the podcast is the importance of understanding family dynamics. Larry Hagner and Gary John Bishop discuss how studying oneself and reflecting on their own upbringing is crucial for personal growth and effective parenting.
Gary John Bishop uses the metaphor of "biting your own teeth" to illustrate the difficulty of self-reflection. It is impossible to physically bite your own teeth, just as it can be challenging to objectively observe and analyze oneself. However, Gary John Bishop emphasizes that this introspection is necessary in order to gain a deeper understanding of one's own parenting style and the impact it has on their children.
Gary also shares their own realization from the book, highlighting the tendency to either repeat or reject aspects of their own childhood. He admit that he had not previously viewed his parents as individuals with their own experiences and challenges. Gary’s book helped the host recognize the importance of understanding their parents' stories and how they influenced their own upbringing.
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Adam Lane Smith is “The Attachment Specialist”, helping people heal, connect, and build relationships. Leveraging years of professional experience as a licensed psychotherapist, he has honed his craft as a highly sought-after Attachment Specialist and personal coach. He has helped people from a variety of lifestyles, from blue collar families with marital troubles to millionaire CEOs looking for dating help, or anyone looking to fix their dating life, marriage, or overall health of all relationships.
In this episode, Larry Hagner and guest Adam Lane Smith discuss the topic of attachment and its impact on relationships and marriages. They delve into their personal backgrounds and how their upbringing shaped their attachment styles. They also highlight the prevalence of attachment issues in today's society, with research showing that a significant majority of adults in America struggle with attachment.
Attachment shapes our relationships in profound ways. It is the way we connect with other human beings, giving and receiving love. Our attachment style is learned from our caregivers, primarily our parents, and it forms the foundation for how we relate to others throughout our lives.
Adam Lane Smith further explains that attachment issues can stem from various factors, including neglect, abuse, absent parents, or inconsistent caregiving. When children experience these adverse circumstances, their brains often internalize the belief that something is wrong with them or with others. This belief shapes their attachment style and influences how they connect with others.
Recognizing and understanding our attachment style is crucial for personal growth and building healthier relationships. Therapy and self-reflection can help individuals address and heal from attachment wounds. By gaining insight into our attachment patterns, we can work towards developing more secure and fulfilling connections with others.
Rob Kenney is known as the “Internet Dad” (a Google search of that term immediately brings up his name). But he’s also a self-described introvert who, through genuine concern for others, unexpectedly achieved digital fame during the pandemic. His channel “Dad, How do I” has more than 4 million subscribers, drawn by his straightforward tips and sincere encouragement.
In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, Larry Hagner welcomes the Rob Kenney where they had a fun conversation about being a dad. They discuss various topics such as home repairs, parenting challenges, and the concept behind the YouTube channel "Dad, How Do I?". Rob also shares a funny idea his wife had about a jar for every time someone asks "Mom, do you know where’s my…" Overall, it's an entertaining and relatable discussion about fatherhood.
Rob Kenney's traumatic childhood had a profound impact on his life, particularly in his quest for perfection. At a young age of 14 and a half, Rob experienced the separation of his parents, which led to him moving in with his older brother and his wife. This transition was not easy for Rob, as he felt the weight of living up to unrealistic expectations. He believed that if he could be perfect, he could prevent such a traumatic event from happening again.
The theme of traumatic childhood and striving for perfection is a common struggle for many individuals who have experienced similar hardships. Trauma can shape one's perception of themselves and their place in the world, leading to a constant need to prove their worth and avoid further pain. The desire for perfection becomes a defense mechanism, a way to control their environment and prevent future trauma.
However, it is important to recognize that striving for perfection is an unattainable goal. Nobody is perfect, and the pressure to be flawless can be detrimental to one's mental health and overall well-being. Rob's story serves as a reminder that it is crucial to seek support and healing instead of trying to meet unrealistic expectations.
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Joshua Broome is an ex-pornstar turned pastor, and is the current chief strategy officer of Share The King. He has had a 6-year period career in the porn industry where he is known to be one of the most successful adult film star. Today, he is known for his work in combating the lies of the world with the truth found in the word of God. Growing up in a small town in South Carolina with a teenage mother and no father, Joshua's upbringing has shaped his identity and influenced his journey.
In this episode, Larry Hagner welcomes a special guest, Joshua Broome, a former porn star. They discuss the interesting phenomenon of high podcast downloads but low social media engagement when it comes to discussing topics related to porn. They also delve into Joshua's personal life, including his family, and explore his childhood growing up without a father.
Joshua Broome’s personal experiences highlight the real-life consequences of engaging in the porn industry. He discuss the internal struggle they faced, trying to reconcile his personal values and desires with the demands of their career. Joshua also admits that he allowed himself to be dehumanized and accepted situations that deep down he was not comfortable with, all in the name of conforming to the expectations of the industry.
However, Joshua Broome's story also offers a powerful message of redemption through faith and opportunity. Despite being trapped in a cycle of shame and selfishness, Joshua experienced a transformative moment when a bank teller saw him and asked if he was okay. This simple act of genuine concern and recognition sparked a domino effect that led him to make the decision to leave the porn industry and pursue a different path.
Faith played a significant role in the guest's journey towards redemption. As a person of faith, he attributes the promptings and premonitions he felt to the Holy Spirit. These divine promptings urged him to reach out and connect with others, reminding him of the importance of human connection and compassion. Joshua's faith also played a role in his decision to leave the industry, as he saw his name being used to call him out of a place of death and into a life of salvation.
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Bill Courtney is an accomplished businessman, speaker, award winning film subject and writer, and the founder of Classic American Hardwoods, Inc., a company that employs 120 people with a 45 acre manufacturing facility and domestic sales offices boasting in excess of $45 million in annual sales. He is also a nationally recognized and sought-after speaker keynoting at a variety of venues from the Para Olympics in Colorado Springs to Nike, Frito Lay, FedEx, and other nationally recognized companies.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Bill Courtney shares his three rules when it comes to playing time and dealing with helicopter parents. He emphasizes that asking to play won't guarantee more playing time and encourages parents to have conversations off the field about anything other than playing time. Coach Bill Courtney also opens up about his challenging upbringing, including the absence of his father and the traumatic experiences he faced growing up.
Bill Courtney grew up in a broken home, with his parents divorcing when he was just four years old. His father passed away recently, and he had no relationship with him. His mother, on the other hand, was married and divorced five times, exposing him to various father figures who were often worse than his absent father. This lack of stability and constant changes in his family structure undoubtedly had a profound impact on his childhood.
Childhood trauma can have long-lasting effects on individuals, often leading to negative outcomes. However, it is essential to recognize that resilience can be fostered even in the face of adversity. Bill's story serves as an inspiration, showing that it is possible to rise above one's circumstances and build a successful and fulfilling life.
This conversation highlights Bill's journey from a childhood filled with dysfunction and trauma to becoming a resilient and successful individual. His ability to forgive, excel in sports, and find healing demonstrates the impact of childhood trauma on shaping resilience. This story serves as a reminder that resilience can be cultivated, even in the face of significant challenges, and that childhood trauma does not have to define a person's future. The choice to be a rock, as advocated by Coach Spain, empowers individuals to rise above their circumstances and become symbols of strength and resilience.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Logan Mulvey is a serial entrepreneur, proven operator, CEO of YogaWorks, and the co-founder and managing director of GoDigital Media Group (GDMG), a media and technology company focused on intellectual property rights management and distribution though its multiple operating subsidiaries.
In this episode of The Dad Edge podcast, entrepreneur and CEO Logan Mulvey joins host Larry Hagner for an insightful discussion on work-life balance and being present with loved ones.
As a successful serial entrepreneur and proven operator, Logan understands the pressures of building a career. However, through his experiences as a father raising three young sons–Declan, McCoy, and Fletcher, he has learned the importance of disconnecting from work and being fully immersed in family life.
Logan shares stories about his sons' unique personalities - the overachieving first-born, the confident and cool middle child, and the little guy with a big heart. He highlights simple but meaningful ways he makes time for his family, like spending ordinary moments together, being available for breakfast prep, and truly watching his kids play.
This transparent conversation resonates with all listeners, not just entrepreneurs and parents. It emphasizes being emotionally and physically present with loved ones instead of just going through the motions. Logan challenges people to put down distractions and have sincere interactions - a reminder that quality time requires full engagement.
With insightful anecdotes and thoughtful perspectives, Logan Mulvey provides listeners with motivation and realistic tactics for achieving work-life integration. His words of wisdom help reframe success - it's not about business achievements or lavish vacations but rather finding fulfillment in simple daily experiences with family.
David Hoffman is a top realtor, business owner, economist, and the founder of David Hoffman Realty, an Inc. 5000 company consistently ranked in the top 50 firms as per the Wall Street Journal/Real Trends Top 1,000 list out of over 2 million real estate agents in the United States and Canada. He is also the founder of Covenant First Mortgage, and Beyond Title.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner interviews David Hoffman. David shares his personal story of becoming a father to a little girl, Isabella, through foster care. He discusses the importance of being present in the moment and how his three-year plan guided him towards this beautiful addition to his family.
David also shares his personal experiences growing up and the impact it had on his life. He discusses how he was often left on his own as a young age, with his mother working and going to school. This left him fending for himself and having to figure out dinner and other tasks on his own. He recalls having to save up money to order a pizza on the nights his mom was at school.
Larry Hagner acknowledges David's journey and the positive impact he is making through his work with the Dad Edge Alliance. By helping men improve their relationships and become better fathers, David is creating a ripple effect that will benefit not only his own children but also future generations. The host commends David for breaking the cycle of neglect and creating a legacy of love and support.
He notes that historically, men have found their sense of purpose in their careers, quantifying their success through promotions and accolades. However, this can lead to emptiness and a lack of fulfillment. He encourages men to also focus on their roles at home and the impact they have on their families. By recognizing and valuing their contributions as fathers and husbands, men can find a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Emmanuel Guarino is the Founder of Team Vulnerable. Their mission is to help other married couples overcome porn addiction and have a relationship and life filled with vulnerability and freedom.
In this episode, Larry Hagner interviews Emmanuel Guarino who shares his personal story of struggling with a porn addiction. Emmanuel talks about his lack of sex education growing up and how he started watching porn at a young age. He reveals that his addiction escalated in college and caused problems in his relationship, including erectile dysfunction on his wedding night.
Emmanuel Guarino describes the negative impact porn had on his life and how it took a toll on his mental health. He then shares a pivotal moment during COVID when he realized he needed help and reached out to God for guidance.
His addiction escalated to the point where it interfered with his wedding night. Despite his intentions to quit watching porn before marrying Becca, he found himself unable to perform sexually due to porn-induced erectile dysfunction. This revelation was a devastating blow to both Emmanuel and Becca, as he had to explain that his inability was not a reflection of her desirability or attractiveness. It was a consequence of his addiction and the distorted mindset it had created.
Emmanuel's story serves as a poignant example of how porn addiction can ruin relationships and lives. It highlights the detrimental effects it can have on intimacy, trust, and emotional well-being. Porn addiction not only distorts an individual's perception of sex and relationships but also leads to a breakdown in communication and emotional connection.
It is essential to recognize the seriousness of porn addiction and the need for support and treatment. Emmanuel's story emphasizes the importance of open and honest conversations about sex education and the impact of pornography. Education should focus on healthy relationships, consent, and the potential consequences of excessive porn consumption.
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Brad Stulberg researches, writes, and coaches health, well-being, and sustainable excellence. He is the bestselling author of The Practice of Groundedness, and co-author of Peak Performance. He also serves as the co-host of The Growth Equation podcast and is on faculty at the University of Michigan’s Graduate School of Public Health. In his coaching practice, he works with executives, entrepreneurs, physicians, and athletes on their mental skills and overall well-being.
In this episode of The Dad Edge, Larry interviews Brad Stulberg, author of "Master of Change". Brad shares his insights on navigating change and the paradox of trying to master it. He discusses his journey from economics and psychology to studying public health and becoming interested in what it means to thrive. Brad's book, "Peak Performance," focuses on sustainable ways to perform at one's best.
Brad Stulberg then emphasizes the importance of embracing change for personal growth. It challenges the traditional notion of stability and highlights the concept of allostasis, which suggests that stability is achieved through change. He argues that change is not abnormal or something to be feared, but rather an integral part of life.
From the moment we are born, we are constantly growing, evolving, and adapting to new circumstances. Change is an inevitable part of life. Yet, many of us fear change. We cling to the familiar, the comfortable, and the known. We resist the idea of stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing the unknown. As Brad and Larry argues, to fear change is to fear life itself.
Change challenges individuals to adapt, problem-solve, and develop resilience. It pushes individuals out of their stagnant routines and encourages them to explore new possibilities. By embracing change, individuals can expand their comfort zones, learn new skills, and gain new perspectives.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Jennifer B Wallace is an award-winning journalist and author of the book “Never Enough: When Achievement Pressure Becomes Toxic–and What We Can Do About It.” She is a frequent contributor to The Wall Street Journal and The Washington Post and appears on national television to discuss her articles and relevant topics in the news.
In this enlightening episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, host Larry Hagner sits down with Jennifer B. Wallace, delving into the profound influence of one's circle and the ripple effect it has on personal choices and behaviors.
Larry begins by sharing his reflections on how his circle, initially entangled in negative activities, contrasted sharply with his own pursuits in training, sports, and personal goals. This disparity prompts a deeper exploration into why individuals often veer towards negative behaviors and the underlying factors steering these decisions.
The conversation takes an intriguing turn as Jennifer shares insights from a friend whose life choices were deeply rooted in their family values. This revelation triggers a self-reflection on Larry's end, acknowledging the solid support system he's had, which fortified his resilience and steered him away from detrimental paths.
Transitioning to the realm of parenthood, Jennifer emphasizes the importance of nurturing interdependence in children. She highlights her advocacy for the "A for other" mindset, aiming to groom children into becoming individuals who uplift others. The motto "don't worry alone" resonates as a family mantra, underscoring the essence of deep relationships as a cushion against life's tumultuous rides.
As the discussion nears its conclusion, the spotlight shines on the crucial role of fathers in spearheading the work of interdependence and emotional communication. Jennifer encourages men to defy stereotypes, engage in open communication, and model healthy emotional expression for their offspring. By emphasizing the importance of a tightly-knit support system, the discussion illuminates the path towards cultivating a nurturing environment, not just for oneself but also for the younger generation.
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Jeff Lerner is an Entrepreneur, Musician, Author, Podcaster, Husband, and a Father. He is a visionary entrepreneur whose journey from a debt-laden jazz musician to generating over $100 million in online sales embodies the essence of transformation. His philosophy centers around the "3 Ps of Success" (Physical, Personal, & Professional), a mantra that has inspired millions to reshape their lives.
In this insightful episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner is joined by Jeff Lerner, the visionary Founder of Unlock Your Potential. They delve into a profound discussion about a structured system for purposeful living, which Jeff elucidates as the cornerstone for achieving success and discovering one's unique life purpose.
The conversation takes a deep dive into what Jeff Lerner dubs as the three P's: physical, personal, and professional realms. By channeling focus on these pivotal areas and relentlessly pursuing growth, individuals can set a solid foundation for success. Jeff Lerner talks about the necessity of setting precise goals and understanding the mechanics and definitions of income, growth, and wealth.
As they navigate through the discussion, Jeff introduces the audience to the concept of the fourth P, which is 'purpose.' He elaborates that purpose often materializes later in the journey, sprouting from a life led with consistency, discipline, and predictability. Larry Hagner and Jeff Lerner explore how creating the right conditions can help individuals attain clarity and recognition of their unique purpose, which, although always present, requires the right milieu to be fully realized.
In wrapping up, the episode reiterates the profound impact of implementing a structured system for purposeful living. By aligning daily activities with the three P's of success, individuals can create the conducive conditions for personal growth, clarity of purpose, and intentional living. This transformative approach empowers listeners to take the reins of their lives, progress towards their aspirations, and ultimately unlock a greater realm of freedom and satisfaction.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Nick Scrivens is the owner of Fore Fathers Apparel, a company offering beautifully designed, thoughtfully tailored, ultra-comfortable, and original polos for Dads of all shapes and sizes. Nick is an accomplished and focused enterprise sales executive with talent and grit to turnaround client perception, develop long-term client relations/retention, generate multi-million-dollar sales, and build team cohesiveness.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry interviews Nick Scrivens. They discuss the success of the brand and how it all started with a meme featuring Nick and his daughter wearing their Turf Dad polo. The meme went viral, leading to international demand for their products. Nick shares his initial struggles and the overwhelming support they received from lawn care enthusiasts worldwide.
Nick's passion for his clothing brand is evident in his dedication and hard work. He spent two and a half hours discussing the need for his brand and the potential it had. This passion and belief in his product drove him to take action and start working on his brand. It took him 10 months to perfect his polo shirt and gain confidence in its quality. He started by giving it to family and friends and gradually gained more customers, holding himself accountable for the quality of his products.
One specific theme that emerges in the podcast is the idea of prioritizing family over career. The speakers discuss their experiences as fathers and entrepreneurs, highlighting the challenges they face in balancing their professional and personal lives. They also acknowledge that building a successful business requires a significant amount of time and effort, but they also recognize the importance of being present for their families.
Nick Scrivens and Larry Hagner also touches on the idea of not sacrificing relationships for financial success. They caution against becoming so focused on building a business that they neglect their personal connections. Ending the episode, they share a quote that resonates with them: "Don't come home with a wallet full of money and a house full of strangers." They recognize that true success is not just about financial wealth, but also about having meaningful relationships and a strong connection with one's family.
Seth Ramser is a Dad Edge Alliance member, and the Director of Business Development at SignatureMD. He is also an accomplished healthcare executive with a 10 year track record driving business development, operational efficiencies, innovation and growth strategies to physicians, health systems, self-insured companies, IDNs and ACOs.
In this episode, Larry Hagner is joined by Seth Ramser to explore the pivotal role of relationships and accountability in personal growth and fatherhood. Seth Ramser highlights the immense value of authentic friendships and stresses the importance of a robust support system in our lives. Drawing from his dojo experience, he showcases the transformation that occurs within a supportive community, promoting personal growth.
The analogy of towers reinforces the need for mutual support and accountability in our lives, paralleling how towers depend on each other for stability. Seth Ramser shares poignant personal stories that underscore the reciprocity of support and encouragement among friends.
The conversation also delves into Seth's journey to sobriety, emphasizing the role of relationships and accountability in overcoming challenges. The episode also discusses three fundamental tools from the dojo that profoundly impacted his family life: self-care, a strong marital relationship, and intentional quality time with children.
In conclusion, this conversation reiterates the significance of prioritizing family and fostering meaningful connections. It leaves a lasting impression of how our actions and choices can profoundly impact the lives of those we care about.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Rich Mitchell is a a certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School. He helps high achieving professionals overcome burnout so they can get fired up about their personal and professional lives. He is a Life Coach for single dads on a mission to help single dads level up to their fullest potential.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner interviews Rich Mitchell who shares his personal experience with burnout and how it led to him losing his job. Rich Mitchell discusses the symptoms of burnout, including disengagement and distraction, and emphasizes the importance of addressing burnout to prevent others from going through the same struggles.
One of the ways Rich Mitchell describes his burnout is through his engagement in various distractions. He admits to looking at his phone during work and avoiding people he was supposed to work with. These actions demonstrate a lack of focus and disinterest in his job, which are common symptoms of burnout. Rich also mentions that he stopped focusing on improving his own craft and instead focused on helping others improve theirs as a school administrator. This shift in focus indicates a loss of passion and motivation for his own work.
As Rich Mitchell reflects on his career, he realizes that burnout has been a recurring theme for him. He shares an anecdote about being asked to include goals of becoming a building leader, principal, or superintendent in his goal sheet. However, he tells his supervisor that he is not interested in pursuing these positions, which he now recognizes as a sign that he was already feeling burnt out and not motivated to advance in his career.
Rich's experience highlights the impact of burnout on one's professional life. It can lead to disengagement, a lack of focus, and a loss of passion for one's work. However, amidst the burnout, Rich Mitchell also gained clarity about what he did not want in his career. He realized that he did not want to continue down a path that would lead to more stress and burnout. This clarity allowed him to make the decision to move on to a different career path, specifically life coaching.
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Yeadon Smith is the founder of “My First Million in Multifamily”. Yeadon discerned that he was not called to the pastorate, and launched a career in real estate. Yeadon was one of the top producing real estate agents in his market while he was active in the residential transaction side of real estate.
In this episode, Larry Hanger interviews Yeadon Smith about his personal life, including his marriage and four children. They discuss the question of what leads to having four kids and the guest attributes it to having a hot wife. They also delve into the guest's unique childhood and the different experiences he had compared to others in their generation.
This episode reveals a shift in parenting style over time. They discuss their upbringing and how their parents' authoritarian and disciplinarian approach influenced their own initial parenting beliefs. They also acknowledge that this style was prevalent in the 80s and 90s, reflecting the cultural norms of that era.
However, as they grew older and became parents themselves, they realized that this approach was not effective or conducive to healthy parent-child relationships. They express frustration with the idea of demanding obedience from their children without allowing them to express themselves or be kids. Larry and Yeadon Smith recognize that their parents were simply following the parenting norms of their time and do not blame them for their upbringing.
This serves as a reminder that parenting styles are not fixed and can change over time. It highlights the importance of reflection, growth, and adaptability in raising children. Yeadon Smith’s personal experiences and challenges provide valuable insights into the evolution of parenting styles and the need for a more open and inclusive approach.
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Alyssa Campbell is a teacher, parent, and an emotional development expert with a masters degree in early childhood education. She is also the author of the book "Tiny Humans, Big Emotions." In addition to her writing endeavors, Alyssa also runs a business and is a devoted mother to a two and a half-year-old. Her ethos revolves around the importance of building emotional intelligence in children. She believes in recognizing and regulating biases, looking beyond behavior for understanding, and fostering empathy in communication.
In this episode, Larry Hagner sits down with Alyssa Campbell. They discuss the challenges of balancing motherhood, running a business, and pursuing personal goals. Alyssa Campbell shares her excitement about expecting a baby girl and jokes about potentially having more children depending on their behavior. Larry relates by sharing his experience of having four boys and the reactions he receives from others.
Alyssa Campbell explains that she wrote a book called "Tiny Humans, Big Emotions" because she felt the need for more resources that focused on the adult's role in emotional intelligence. She found that many existing resources only provided strategies for dealing with children's behavior, without addressing the adult's own emotions and reactions.
Building emotional intelligence in kids requires parents to model and teach emotional regulation, empathy, and effective communication. It involves creating a safe and supportive environment where children feel comfortable expressing their emotions and learning healthy ways to manage them. Parents can also encourage their children to identify and label their emotions, validate their feelings, and help them develop problem-solving skills.
Recognizing and regulating our biases is a crucial aspect of building emotional intelligence in both children and adults. This episode sheds light on the biases that often go unnoticed and how they can impact our interactions with children.
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Scott Gutzman embarked on his career in the audio/visual domain at 18, swiftly ascending through various roles, mastering leadership, organization, and customer interactions within a decade. His stint in nightlife security polished his abilities in customer engagement and heightened his situational awareness.
In this episode, Larry Hagner is accompanied by Scott Gutzman, a loyal follower of the podcast. Larry, recognizing the sincerity inherent in earlier segments, unfolds Scott’s unique tale with a desire to pay him tribute. With ten years of dialogues with a myriad of personalities, Larry accentuates the profound impact of collective stories, proposing they provide resilience and diverse outlooks to surmount individual obstacles.
He encourages listeners to gain inspiration from Scott’s odyssey, allowing him to navigate the discussion and reflect on his upbringing, familial bonds, and life in Colorado, balancing the demands of his father’s military assignments. Scott Gutzman expresses profound gratitude for his parents and values his secluded upbringing notwithstanding its trials.
This episode illuminates the transformative essence of forgiveness and accountability in reconstructing strained bonds, featuring Scott Gutzman's moving reconciliation with his father, marked by compassion and responsibility. This account highlights the effectiveness of opting for empathy over condemnation, promoting healing and mutual advancement, and strengthening connections. It portrays the crucial role of forgiveness and ownership in reviving fractured relationships.
The discourse progresses to elaborate that assuming complete accountability for our deeds prevents lingering bitterness. Acceptance of our imperfections aids in the dissolution of pride and arrogance, clearing the path for renewal and concord.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Adam Davis is a notable figure in law enforcement, embodies the principles of authenticity and vulnerability in his work. He’s passionate about aiding individuals through their trauma journeys and firmly believes in the essential role of transparency in relationships. Among his extensive accomplishments, Adam champions for parental vigilance and protection, underscores the value of embracing love and seeking support, and advocates for prioritizing familial bonds and love. His endeavors seek to facilitate healing and triumph by inspiring surrender and defense of family values.
In this episode, host Larry Hagner, alongside Adam Davis, delve into the captivating realm of trauma and its ability to imprison people in their histories. They unravel the complexities in traversing trauma and the struggles of remaining engulfed in it. Adam reveals his life experiences, shedding light on the obstacles faced while expressing vulnerability. The conversation also accentuates the criticality of embracing liberty and the journey to recovery.
Trauma holds the formidable ability to chain people to their past sufferings. Escaping its clutches is daunting, yet the episode illustrates that liberation is attainable. Adam Davis motivates listeners to tread the path of healing and freedom, providing a beacon of hope, illustrating that the shadows of trauma can be overcome for a more luminous tomorrow.
The statement “Churches can be unsafe places,” might shock many, considering churches are typically regarded as havens of serenity and affection. However, Larry and Adam unveil the hidden sinister aspects of some church congregations, revealing the potential presence of manipulation, dishonesty, and malevolence within sacred halls.
This showcases the healing prowess of genuine love in mending profound scars. It stresses the significance of fostering safe and caring spaces, both in churches and personal relationships, enabling individuals to receive healing, backing, and acknowledgment. This episode is a powerful reminder that true, unadulterated love can instigate healing and revitalization in the lives of those haunted by trauma and agony.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner discusses the importance of measuring progress and introduces a new tool called the Five Dials, which helps participants track their growth in various areas of their lives. The boardroom is a tight-knit group of dad business owners who focus on growing their businesses, improving their marriages, and strengthening their relationships with their kids. Larry also highlights the trifecta of business, marriage, and parenting and emphasizes the importance of creating a nurturing environment for open communication with our children.
Family connection and self-improvement are two essential aspects of a fulfilling and meaningful life. One of the metrics mentioned is the "boardroom score" based on the concept of family board meetings by Jim Shields. This score rates how well the speaker is connecting with his family and children. It emphasizes the importance of having a five-year vision and regularly reviewing and working towards it.
One aspect of self-improvement that is often overlooked is the relationship between physical fitness and mental and emotional well-being. Larry Hagner highlights the importance of maintaining fitness in order to achieve better mental and emotional fitness. He also mentions that many people experience a decline in their fitness over time, but they strive to push themselves and their team to improve their physical fitness quarter over quarter.
This episode highlights the significant role that accountability plays in achieving goals. As well as the importance of setting clear goals, having a plan, and regularly checking in with an accountability partner or group. By doing so, individuals can significantly increase their chances of success in various areas of life. Through accountability, individuals can create a path towards personal growth, success, and fulfillment.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
R.A. Dickey is a former American professional baseball pitcher. He played in Major League Baseball for the Texas Rangers, Seattle Mariners, Minnesota Twins, New York Mets, Toronto Blue Jays and Atlanta Braves. Currently, R.A. is a full-time father and husband, taking care of a 40-acre farm and raising four children.
In this episode, R.A. Dickey shares about his current life as a full-time father and husband on a 40-acre farm in Tennessee. He also talks about his two daughters who are in college and his two sons who attend a small Christian school. R.A. Dickey also discusses his love for Nashville and the community he has built there.
One of the key elements that R.A. Dickey highlights is the importance of honesty in a marriage. He reflects upon his struggles with candor, revealing the deep-seated fears stemming from past traumas that threatened the intimacy with his wife. He was shackled by the belief that unveiling his pain would drive her away, a misconception that not only stifled his emotional well-being but also impeded his spiritual and mental growth. It was only through embracing vulnerability that he could navigate past these barriers and embark on a healing journey.
R.A. Dickey's revelations underscore the seismic repercussions of trauma on personal evolution. He candidly shares the burden of shame and apprehension anchored in his past, which sculpted protective but damaging behaviors like deceit, manipulation, and dismissiveness. These defense mechanisms, though aimed at safeguarding his inner wounds, instead deepened the rifts in his relationships, particularly with his spouse.
Centered on the ethos of restoration and metamorphosis through raw honesty, this episode chronicles R.A. Dickey's personal odyssey—facing shadows of the past, pursuing healing, and ultimately discovering rejuvenation both within himself and his marital bond.
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Jay Martin is an investor and the CEO of Cambridge House. He dissects the minds of thought-leaders from around the world with expertise in money management, geopolitics, macro-finance, commodities, technology, and any emerging trends his audience should be learning about. His goal is to challenge the way we think and the way we invest, knowing well that this can improve our lives for the better.
In this episode, Larry sits down with Jay Martin, a multifaceted personality who dons the hats of a business magnate, investor, ultra athlete, fitness aficionado, devoted husband, and proud father to three boys. Genuinely intrigued, Larry marvels at Jay's vast repertoire, jestingly pondering on what Jay Martin possibly doesn't indulge in. Jay's candid revelation: he abstains from alcohol.
Sharing a mutual journey of alcohol abstinence, both Jay Martin and Larry echo the myriad benefits they've reaped. Jay accentuates that mere months into sobriety brought him unparalleled clarity and vitality; an enriched awareness that amplified his engagements and deepened his sense of purpose.
Their discussion inevitably gravitates towards the pivotal role of fitness in molding one's psyche and temperance. Jay Martin, who's evolved into a formidable triathlete and ultra marathoner, professes how physical milestones bolster his self-worth. This newfound self-assuredness is palpably evident in his parental approach—marked by patience, empathy, and guidance, rather than domination.
The testimonies of both Jay Martin and Larry Hagner underscore the symbiotic relationship between fitness and mental wellness. Consistent physical activity, coupled with mindful living, not only elevates one's self-esteem and vigour but also profoundly impacts our interactions, especially with those we hold dear.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Sergio Nazzaro is a licensed real estate broker at 8z Real Estate, and is also the visionary founder and host of Become The Standard—a multifaceted coaching program and podcast dedicated to honing one's career, relationships, and fitness.
In this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner talks with Sergio Nazzaro to unpack the dynamics of achieving balance in marriage, family, and business. Drawing from his military background, Sergio Nazzaro offers poignant reflections on the emotional weight of parting with loved ones pre-deployment and the disorienting feeling of returning to a world that has seemingly left them behind.
With a keen eye on the interplay of personal narratives and finances, Sergio Nazzaro opens up about his modest beginnings and how financial ascendancy has armed him with the means to give back and sustain his family. Beyond mere financial success, he underscores the transformative power of seeking fulfillment over sheer monetary rewards.
Diving deep into the heart of personal evolution, this episode unveils the significance of confronting one's internal battles. Both Sergio and Larry spotlight the fears and hesitations that often deter men from the journey of self-improvement, illustrating through their own stories how overcoming these hurdles paves the way for profound personal victories.
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Shawn French is the host of The Determined Society Podcast where you are able to go to experience high vibe energy and come together with like-minded people who are looking to grow professionally and personally. This is for driven people who are looking to connect with more of the same in order to continue on a path to success.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner and Shawn French discuss the importance of staying hydrated and share their personal strategies for drinking enough water throughout the day. They talk about their daily routines and how they incorporate water consumption into their busy schedules. From using motivational water bottles to tracking their intake, they emphasize the benefits of staying hydrated for overall well being.
This episode sheds light on the importance of water intake and healthy habits for overall health. Shawn French emphasize the positive impact of staying hydrated, wearing comfortable and confidence-boosting clothing, and finding personalized routines that promote vitality.
Shawn French also offers valuable insights into the personal growth and lessons learned from a previous toxic relationship. He emphasizes the importance of trust, personal growth, and collaboration in building a thriving marriage and a healthy environment for children.
Through their own experiences, they provide hope and encouragement for those going through difficult times, highlighting that even the darkest days can lead to brighter ones.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Allan Blain is the former owner and CEO of a $40 million dollar real estate investment company. After realizing that he was not pursuing his true purpose and calling, he launched what he calls his “work-from-anywhere” freedom business, teaching everyday people how to create passive income streams from their phones. Today, he has grown his organization to include over 10,000 others spanning 10 countries, producing millions in annual revenue, and representing countless lives that have been positively impacted by his company’s food supplements.
In this episode of The Dad Edge, Larry sits down with Allen Blain to discuss the challenges of life and the importance of vulnerability. They delve into the misconception created by social media and how it can make people believe that others have always been successful without facing any hardships. Allen also shares his own journey of embracing vulnerability and the positive impact it has had on encouraging others.
Embracing change strengthens relationships. This is the underlying theme of the podcast transcript between Larry and Allen. Throughout their conversation, Allen shares his personal journey of embracing change and how it has impacted his relationships, particularly with his wife, Nicole. Despite being in law enforcement for five years, Allen felt called to a different path. He recognized that his entrepreneurial spirit and desire for personal growth were not aligned with a long-term career in law enforcement.
This decision required a leap of faith, as he was giving up a stable job and financial security. However, Allen's willingness to embrace change and follow his calling ultimately strengthened his relationship with his wife.
Tragedy can strike anyone at any time, and it is how we respond to these challenges that define us. Allen's story is a reminder that even in the midst of the darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of hope and an opportunity for personal growth.
By reevaluating our choices, finding our true purpose, and surrounding ourselves with a supportive community, we can overcome even the most devastating tragedies.
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In this episode, Larry Hagner dives deep into the world of love languages and triggers in marriage. He explored the importance of understanding each other's emotional needs and communicating effectively to enhance their relationship. Larry shared personal experiences and insights, providing listeners with valuable tools to navigate the complexities of love and marriage.
Love languages are the unique ways in which individuals perceive and express love. By identifying and discussing each other's love languages, couples can foster a deeper understanding of their emotional needs. Whether it's through acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, or receiving gifts, discovering and embracing each other's love languages is a powerful tool for building lasting connections.
Thoughtful gestures and attention to small details play a significant role in creating a loving and appreciative environment. Taking notice of each other's efforts, desires, and even changes in appearance cultivates an atmosphere of significance and care.
Love is a journey that requires continuous effort, understanding, and effective communication. By exploring the top love languages and triggers in marriage, you can provide a roadmap to creating a thriving relationship filled with love, understanding, and support. Remember, understanding and embracing love languages, navigating triggers, and showing appreciation and attention are essential elements in fostering a deep and lasting connection with your partner.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Matt Doan is a husband, father, speaker, entrepreneur, and a freedom coach. He is helping burned-out corporate professionals live Uncaged. Inspired by 15 demanding years in management consulting, he is obsessed with helping high-achievers build a career and life on their terms.
In this episode, Matt Doan discusses his journey as a business owner and the freedom it has brought him. He talks about his blended family, with three older children from a previous marriage and a two-year-old with his current wife. Matt also shares his joy in coaching baseball and the intensity of the eleven-year-old players. He then delves into the life lessons he wants to pass down to his children, both boys and girls.
Matt Doan highlights the significance of understanding that femininity does not equate to being female. Instead, he emphasizes the hidden feminine energy that exists within all individuals. This energy includes qualities such as empathy, vulnerability, and emotional expression. Matt believes that society often teaches boys to suppress these traits, but by embracing them, they can become more well-rounded individuals.
Matt's approach to parenting is about finding a balance between masculine and feminine energies. He wants his children, regardless of gender, to feel that they have access to all the qualities and strengths associated with both sides. By doing so, he believes they can lead fulfilling and authentic lives.
This episode demonstrates the negative impact of corporate life on happiness and well-being. Matt’s experience of feeling trapped, unfulfilled, and disconnected from their values and priorities is relatable to many individuals in similar positions. The pressure to maintain a certain lifestyle, the demands of work, and the sacrifices made for career advancement all contribute to diminishing happiness.
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Adam Prince is a member of Dad Edge Alliance. Some individuals, like Adam Prince, have experienced childhood trauma and instability that can have lasting effects on their lives. Adam opens up about his journey of overcoming these challenges and creating a better future for himself and his family.
In this episode, Adam Prince and Larry discuss the power of overcoming childhood trauma and making a conscious effort to change the game. They dive into the importance of breaking patterns and creating a different life despite challenges. Adam describes his childhood as marked by instability. He moved between several different schools, houses, and apartments, even living in a motel for a period of time. This constant upheaval created a sense of uncertainty and unpredictability in his life.
This conversation between Adam and Larry highlights the importance of acknowledging and overcoming childhood trauma and instability. It is not enough to simply accept these experiences as part of one's identity. Instead, individuals must actively work towards healing, understanding, and breaking the patterns that have been ingrained in them. Adam's story is a powerful example of resilience and the capacity to overcome adversity. Despite the instability and trauma he experienced, he has chosen to take control of his life and create a different path.
Resilience and gratitude are two powerful qualities that can help individuals overcome adversity and find strength in the face of challenges. From a young age, Adam experienced the absence of his biological father, who left when he was little and only reappeared briefly when he was 12. This lack of a stable father figure could have easily left him feeling abandoned and resentful. However, Adam chooses not to dwell on the negative emotions associated with his father's departure. Instead, he focuses on the lessons he learned and the resilience he gained from navigating life without a consistent male presence.
Adam's ability to share his experiences with his own children is a testament to his resilience and gratitude. Rather than shielding them from the realities of his past, he chooses to have open and honest conversations with them. He does not shy away from discussing the hardships he endured but presents them in a matter-of-fact manner. This approach allows his children to see the strength and resilience that can emerge from adversity.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Ben Pauling is a writer, director, and actor. He is known for his new film Dream (2023), which highlights the issues of child trafficking in America.
In this episode, the host Larry Hagner welcomes guest Ben Pauling to discuss a topic that has been gaining a lot of attention. They briefly touch on Ben's personal life before diving into the main subject. They mention the release of some films and the media's coverage of the issue, which has created a perfect storm for their own film.
Ben Pauling emphasizes that human trafficking is an issue of utmost importance and one that demands immediate attention. He also highlights the need for rescue missions and organizations dedicated to combating this problem. However, despite the efforts of these organizations, less than 1% of trafficked children are currently rescued. This statistic underscores the enormity of the challenge and the urgent need for increased awareness, resources, and action.
Awareness is key in prevention, especially when it comes to the issue of human trafficking. One of the common misconceptions is that human trafficking only happens in certain areas or to certain types of people. However, the reality is that it can occur anywhere, from small towns to large cities, and can affect people from all walks of life. This lack of awareness is dangerous because it allows predators to operate unnoticed and continue their heinous crimes.
By supporting these organizations and advocating for stronger laws and policies, we can contribute to the fight against child trafficking on a larger scale.
Trine Schmidt and Loise HeartHenley are the creators of the Fulfillment Scale, where you learn where you are at on your personal growth journey, how to recognize growth, and how you reach daily fulfillment in everything you do. Their mission is to connect people's hearts and now share their method of ‘Time-ins’ with everyone so they don't have to walk the journey alone.
In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, Larry welcomes Trine and Loise, two non-dads from Denmark, to share their perspectives. Loise, a proud mother of four girls and a grandmother, discusses the reactions she receives when people learn about her all-female family.
Larry also shares his own experience of being a father to four boys and the common reactions he receives. Loise emphasizes the importance of self-belief and personal development. Meanwhile, Trine Schmidt echoes the sentiment of self-belief and adds the importance of patience.
Both Trine Schmidt and Loise HeartHenley's advice focuses on the internal aspects of parenting rather than external tactics or strategies. This highlights the significance of self-awareness and self-care in raising resilient and confident children. When parents believe in themselves and practice self-compassion, they are better equipped to navigate the challenges of parenting and provide the necessary support for their children's emotional development.
Overall, the episode emphasizes the importance of taking time each day to "tune in" to oneself. By checking in with one's thoughts, emotions, and intentions, individuals can better navigate their personal and professional lives.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Matt Vincent is a traveling strength athlete, two-time Highland Games World Champion, and founder of HVIII Brand Goods. Through his travels, Matt was lucky enough to spend time with exceptional people who were chasing strength, fulfillment, and personal growth in every imaginable way. Matt chronicles his travels and conversations with people in the strength game and beyond on his podcast UMSO.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, the host Larry and guest Matt discuss the limitations of text-based communication, particularly in the age of remote work and virtual meetings. They emphasize the importance of non-verbal cues, empathy, tone, and context in effective communication. They share personal experiences and strategies for avoiding misinterpretation by using audio or video messages instead of relying solely on text. The hosts express concerns about the potential loss of these essential elements in communication as society continues to prioritize text-based communication.
The conversation highlights the need to consider how messages can be interpreted differently and the importance of using non-verbal cues, such as facial expressions and voice tone, to convey meaning accurately. They share instances where written messages were perceived as angry or confrontational, even though that was not the intention. They emphasize that tone and context can easily be lost in text, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. It emphasizes the limitations of text-based communication and the potential for misunderstandings and misinterpretations.
Matt acknowledges that there are lessons to be learned from following the path set by others, but they emphasize the importance of finding their own path. Choosing one's own path is a personal and transformative journey. It requires self-discovery, self-acceptance, and the courage to pursue one's passions and interests. It may involve breaking away from societal expectations or familial pressures. However, with the right support system and a belief in one's own abilities, individuals can find fulfillment and success in their chosen paths.
By triggering awareness and breaking free from societal expectations, individuals can find fulfillment and success in their chosen endeavors.
Markus Kaulius is the founder of Magnum Nutraceuticals, works equally hard on his physique as he does on his business. The hard work and balance between these two endeavors, synergistically have led to success in both areas.
In this episode, Marcus shares his gratitude for being invited and expresses his admiration for Larry’s work. He talks about his family, including his wife, whom he considers the best for him, and his two daughters.
The first piece of advice Marcus offers is to not sweat the small stuff and to choose battles wisely. He emphasizes the importance of not getting caught up in minor disagreements or insignificant issues. Instead, he suggests focusing on the bigger picture and selecting battles that truly matter. Choosing battles wisely is an important aspect of maintaining healthy relationships, whether it be in a marriage, friendship, or any other type of connection.
Creating lifelong memories through experiences is a powerful way to strengthen the bond between parents and children. In today's fast-paced and technology-driven world, it is easy for parents and children to become disconnected from each other. One of the key benefits of creating lifelong memories through experiences is the opportunity for quality one-on-one time.
The ability to explain decisions and involve children in the decision-making process is crucial for their development. By communicating effectively, parents can promote critical thinking skills, empower their children, and prepare them for adulthood.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Sean Patrick Flanery is an American actor, author, and martial arts practitioner. He has embraced transformative roles that have deepened his faith and allowed him to connect with his audience on a profound level. His broad achievements and credentials as an actor and entrepreneur are a testament to his dedication, hard work, and commitment to personal growth.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner and Sean Patrick Flanery discuss their childhoods and the impact their parents had on their lives. They talk about the importance of having a supportive family and how it can shape a person's work ethic. Despite not having a lot growing up, Sean Patrick Flanery emphasizes that he never wanted for anything and had all the necessary tools to navigate life successfully. They also touch on the significance of attending sporting events and the role it played in their upbringing.
Wrestling is a sport that goes beyond physical strength and technique. It builds resilience and grit in individuals, teaching them valuable life lessons that can be applied both on and off the mat. Sean Patrick Flanery emphasizes that wrestling is not just another sport like tennis or basketball. It involves hand-to-hand combat, where a wrestler is pitted against another individual of the same size, weight, and age. The primal nature of wrestling creates a real-world application, where a wrestler realizes that they can be bested by someone their own age. This realization instills a sense of humility and a desire to improve.
Wrestling teaches individuals to make quick decisions and remain calm in chaotic situations. It instills resilience and grit, qualities that are essential for success in any aspect of life. The ability to think on your feet and maintain composure in high-pressure situations is a valuable skill that wrestlers develop through their training and competition.
As we wrap up this episode, remember that embracing failure is a vital part of personal development. Today, we delved into the significance of obstacles and setbacks in propelling us towards our goals, reminding us to continually strive for self-improvement. Consider adversity as a daily supplement, integral to growth and advancement. This wisdom holds particularly true in wrestling, where wins and losses are an inseparable part of the journey. Carry these insights with you as you forge your path forward.
Tom Dobrez is the author of “Root Root Root for the Home Teams: A Chicago Fan's Odyssey to Find the Meaning of Life Through Sports”, an autobiographical account of his life as a sports fan. In this memoir, he examines how sports can teach us about family and success in life.
In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, Larry Hagner welcomes author Tom Dobrez to discuss his book "Root, Root, Root" and his unique childhood experiences with his father. Tom shares how his dad was not only his baseball coach but also took him and his siblings to professional sporting events in Chicago. This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of the father-son relationship and the impact it can have on a child's life.
Tom describes how his father was their baseball coach, and they would often play organized sports together. However, it was not just organized sports that filled their days. Tom's father built a small ball field in their backyard, providing the perfect setting for their baseball games. The family's love for sports extended to attending professional sporting events, such as Chicago White Sox, Blackhawks, and Bears games. This exposure to sports and outdoor activities created a foundation for Tom's love of sports and physical activity.
Engaging in outdoor play has numerous benefits for children's physical and mental well-being. Outdoor play promotes physical fitness and helps children develop gross motor skills, coordination, and balance. Playing sports and games also teaches children the importance of teamwork, communication, and fair play. Additionally, being outdoors exposes children to fresh air and sunlight, which are essential for overall health and well-being.
Outdoor play also has significant mental health benefits. Being in nature has a calming effect on the mind and reduces stress and anxiety. It allows children to disconnect from technology and experience the natural world around them.
In today's digital age, where children are often glued to screens and have limited opportunities for outdoor play, it is crucial to recognize the importance of outdoor play in childhood. Tom's childhood experiences highlight the joy and benefits of spending time outdoors, engaging in physical activities, and building connections with others.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Thomas Pfanner is the Founder and CEO of Dads Who Lead which aims to help dads dramatically improve connection and leadership within their families. He is a Licensed Health and PE Teacher in Oregon Western University.
In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, Larry Hagner interviews Thomas Pfanner, who shares his unique journey into fatherhood. Thomas Pfanner talks about how he unexpectedly became a father at a young age and the challenges he faced. They also discuss the importance of leadership in fatherhood and how becoming a father changed his perspective on life.
One of the key themes that emerges from the podcast is the importance of parental support in navigating the challenges of unexpected fatherhood. Thomas Pfanner shares his experience of telling his parents about his impending fatherhood and the profound impact their support had on him. When he told his mother about the situation, she responded with calm and support, assuring him that they would figure it out together. This simple yet powerful response gave him the confidence and reassurance he needed to face the situation head-on.
The focus shifts to the subsequent years of the father-son relationship. Thomas discusses pivotal moments and lessons learned during this time. He shares how he made the decision to move away temporarily to finish school but returned once his son started kindergarten. This decision demonstrates his commitment to being present in his son's life and providing him with stability. Thomas’s wife also plays a crucial role in supporting their relationship. She recognizes the importance of proximity and encourages the move back to be closer to the child.
The father's journey demonstrates the importance of self-reflection, taking ownership of one's flaws, and adapting one's leadership style to meet the needs of their child. Through this process, the father was able to strengthen his bond with his son and provide him with the guidance and support he needed to thrive.
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Scott Jeffery Miller is currently FranklinCovey’s senior advisor on thought leadership, leading the strategy, development, and publication of the firm’s bestselling books. He is also the host of the podcast “C-Suite Conversations with Scott Miller”, which features interviews with the world’s top executives, as well as the author of the multivolume series Master Mentors: 30 Transformative Insights from Our Greatest Business Minds.
In this episode, Larry Hagner welcomes Scott Jeffrey Miller, who embarks on a revealing journey from his bachelor days to fathering three boys. Scott candidly discusses his transition into parenthood, unexpected career trajectory, and his latest book that focuses on his passion for mentorship. Moving away from traditional perceptions, the conversation illuminates the essence of parenting as a mutual learning experience, thus underlining mentorship's role in shaping a child's self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-worth.
Scott Jeffrey Miller underlines the importance of appreciating a child's unique abilities and contributions. He advocates the practice of "naming their genius," a validating method that can enhance a child's self-worth and enable them to meet challenges head-on. He also compares the parent's role to that of an archaeologist, gently unearthing a child's passions and aspirations, thus enabling children to own their journey.
Also pivotal is the role of parents as validators who affirm their child's capabilities. However, Scott cautions against over-validation, which can diminish the impact of genuine achievements. He also touches on the significance of clear boundaries, using his own strict rules around behaviors like drinking, drugs, and tattoos as an example, to steer children towards positive behaviors.
In summary, Scott paints a compelling picture of parenting as mentorship and validation. This model encourages the nurturing of a child's inherent strengths, mutual growth, and the setting of boundaries. By embracing this approach, parents can foster strong connections with their children, providing them with a trusted confidant and mentor throughout their lives.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Mike Baldwin is the VP of Operations for Grossman on Truth. He is also an experienced Law Enforcement Professional with a proven history in successfully working high profile and sensitive investigations, and co-author of the book “The Bulletproof Mind”. In this episode, Mike shares insights on developing a bulletproof mind and cultivating resilience. He also opens up about his upbringing in Arizona, growing up in a big family with parents who loved him and adopted him.
Throughout his 21-year career in law enforcement, Mike served in various roles, including patrol officer, field training officer, SWAT team member, and detective. He found great satisfaction in investigating crimes, talking to people, and learning from them. Mike's ability to connect with others and gather information played a crucial role in his success as a detective.
Reflecting on his upbringing and the opportunities he was given through adoption, Mike expresses deep gratitude. He acknowledges that without being adopted, his life could have taken a different path, potentially leading to substance abuse or other negative outcomes. Mike credits his heavenly father for guiding him and keeping him away from such destructive paths.
Mike shares an example from his experience as a law enforcement officer, where he would interview suspects who would blame others for their actions. He would remind them that they are responsible for their choices and need to take ownership of their lives. He challenges men to examine their own actions and not use their upbringing or circumstances as an excuse for their behavior.
He discusses the importance of making choices that lead to positive outcomes. Mike mentions that individuals who grew up in dysfunctional homes have the choice to break the cycle and create a better life for themselves and their families. He encourages men to reflect on the kind of men, husbands, and fathers they want to be.
By being accountable to oneself, to others, and to a higher power, individuals are able to navigate challenges, stay motivated, and work towards their goals. Whether it is personal growth, maintaining healthy relationships, or excelling in the professional sphere, accountability plays a vital role in leading to success.
In this episode, Larry Hagner delves into the glaring absence of comprehensive education on what makes a marriage successful, and the trials many couples face as a result of this deficiency in knowledge and skills. Larry turns the spotlight on his own marriage, expressing his heartfelt gratitude as he crosses the two-decade milestone. Additionally, Larry touches upon the escalating divorce rates and explores whether a lack of these crucial skills might be a major contributing factor.
One of the primary hurdles in marriage, according to Larry Hagner, lies in the intrinsic differences between men and women. Our needs, our ways of operation, and our communication styles all differ. Without a clear understanding and appreciation of these disparities, conflicts can surface, triggering misunderstandings and resentment. Consequently, it becomes imperative to learn how to bridge these differences and communicate effectively in order to sustain a healthy and harmonious relationship.
Throughout the podcast, Larry Hagner underscores the lack of formal training or education in the domains of marriage and parenting. Unlike other professional pursuits that demand rigorous training and certification, marriage and parenting are typically a journey of trial and error. This dearth of guidance can leave couples feeling directionless and ill-prepared to tackle the challenges they encounter.
Larry Hagner proposes that with the right set of skills and knowledge, we as couples can surmount these challenges and lay a robust foundation for our marriage. Similar to how a GPS aids in navigation by offering clear directions and information about potential roadblocks, acquiring marriage skills can steer couples through the labyrinth of married life. These skills encompass effective communication, conflict resolution, empathy, emotional intelligence, and understanding one's partner's needs.
Ultimately, Larry Hagner believes that mastering marriage skills is integral to building and sustaining a successful and fulfilling relationship. Living in a society where divorce rates are at an all-time high and relationships encounter numerous challenges, it's essential for us as couples to be educated and guided on how to navigate the intricacies of married life. By honing skills like effective communication, conflict resolution, empathy, and emotional intelligence, we can overcome challenges, reinforce our bond, and cultivate a lasting and joyful marriage.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Josh White is a musician who is still involved in music and has a record label at the church. His ethos and philosophy revolve around fatherhood, broken relationships, forgiveness, grace, and faith. He believes in breaking the cycle, creating change, surrendering to God's perfect plan, and embracing vulnerability and humility in relationships.
In this episode, Larry sits down with Josh White as he shares his challenging upbringing and the absence of a stable father figure in his life. He grew up in a depressed mill town and experienced multiple stepfathers who were either disconnected or abusive. His biological father was an alcoholic and drug addict. Their relationship was distant, but they reconnected later in life, and Josh became a supportive presence for him before his father's death.
Josh White's experience with his biological father is a central theme in his story. He describes the initial disconnect and the subsequent reconnection that occurred during his last year of high school. This highlights the importance of open communication and the potential for relationships to evolve and grow over time. Despite the challenges they faced, Josh and his father were able to establish a real relationship before his father's passing. This demonstrates the power of vulnerability and the potential for transformation in even the most difficult circumstances.
Josh's understanding of forgiveness goes beyond simply forgiving someone. He believes in actively working towards rebuilding relationships, even with someone as complicated and difficult as his father. He attributes this mindset to his faith and the lessons he learned from the Lord. He emphasizes the importance of the cross in his book, as it represents God's willingness to enter into human suffering and offer grace.
Josh's personal experiences have shaped his understanding of forgiveness and grace. He shares that he had a complex family dynamic, being the oldest of three brothers with different fathers. Despite the challenges, he formed a close bond with his younger brother, who had a different father. Josh took on a father figure role for his brother, given the absence of their biological father.
This experience allowed him to understand the importance of boundaries and parameters in creating a sense of safety and freedom.
Justin Gaston is an American actor, singer, songwriter, and model who built his career in multiple fields. Justin Gaston has been ruling over millions of hearts with his incredibly amazing performances and this led him to earn various awards and honors in his career.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner sits down with Justin Gaston and talks about his own experience with infertility and the impact it had on their marriage. He shared how they initially struggled to conceive and had to seek medical assistance. The process was filled with uncertainty and setbacks, but eventually, they were able to conceive their first child. However, their journey didn't end there, as they went on to have four more children in quick succession.
Feeling a deep desire to become parents, the couple turned to prayer and sought guidance from their faith. Adoption had always been on the wife's heart, and they felt that God was calling them to pursue this path. They prayed for guidance and support throughout the adoption process. From the moment they decided to adopt to the time their oldest daughter was placed in their arms in the hospital, only four months had passed. The speed and smoothness of the adoption process were seen as a blessing and a sign that it was meant to be.
Throughout his journey, Justin has learned to pray for guidance and direction from God. He no longer needs to see the whole picture but asks for one step at a time. This mindset is a testament to his faith and willingness to surrender control to God. He recognizes that certainty is a basic human need, but he has chosen to trust in God's plan instead of seeking complete certainty in his own life.
Concluding the interview, Justin's upbringing in a loving and stable family, with parents who demonstrated love and affection, shaped his values of respect, kindness, and commitment in relationships.
Justin's upbringing serves as a reminder of the impact that family, love, and support can have on shaping an individual's values and character.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Mike Rowe is a well-known TV host, author, and advocate for skilled trades. In this episode, Mike and Larry delve into the importance of work ethic, the value of discomfort, and pursuing meaningful work. They also discuss Mike's scholarship program, Microworks, which aims to promote work ethic and challenge misconceptions about skilled trades. Join us as we explore how to instill a strong work ethic in ourselves and our children, and why finding fulfillment through hard work can lead to a passionate and successful career.
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Larry’s Takeaways
What You’ll Learn
09:18 Lucky childhood on isolated farm with woods.
14:06 Woods held imagination, adventure, and family work.
22:17 Parents were skilled liars, but well-intentioned.
29:44 Manic days, changing relationships, evolving fatherhood.
34:02 "Taboo upending, work ethic scholarship advocate."
39:23 Advice is subjective and often misleading
39:23 Advice is subjective and often misleading.
50:10 Mixed feelings about self-help industry and its advice.
53:46 Finding comfort in discomfort raises successful kids.
59:40 Generation Z: fragile, delicate, and lacking resilience.
1:09:06 United Airlines cares about money, not safety. "Safety third" fosters complacency and irresponsibility.
1:13:27 Work Ethic Scholarship program: $1 million scholarships. Apply @microworks.org. Whiskey sales support foundation. Podcast, books, future YouTube show. Evolving business strategy.
1:21:06 Podcast started as therapy, successful but frustrated.
1:23:17 Smartphone: Tool for mischief or heroism.
Roman Prokopchuk is the Founder and CEO of Nova Zora Digital, and host of the Digital Savage Experience Podcast. He is also known as the digital savage, a self-taught digital marketer who ventured into the field out of necessity and developed a passion for it. He is also a foster parent who has welcomed 29 kids into his home since June 2018.
In this episode, Larry converses with Roman about his journey as a foster father. Roman's path to foster parenting began following multiple miscarriages and struggles with infertility that he and his wife faced.
They suffered six miscarriages, and after discovering his wife's pregnancy difficulties, they underwent expensive infertility treatments. Despite these efforts, they experienced repeated losses, including two miscarriages on Christmas Day. These heartbreaks cast a shadow over their holiday season, pushing them to explore alternative means of starting a family. With adoption costs being prohibitive, they found fostering as a feasible option.
As a Ukrainian immigrant, Roman admits to initially having a distinct perspective on fatherhood and masculinity. However, he's learned the value of grieving and seeking support in hard times. He underlines the necessity for men to acknowledge and address their emotions, not just focusing on supporting their partners.
Concluding the interview, Roman's story shines a light on the emotional journey of becoming a foster parent following personal hardships. It underscores the resilience and compassion inherent in opening one's home to children in need. Roman's journey is an inspiration, demonstrating that life's unexpected twists can catalyze profound personal growth and a chance to positively influence many young lives.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Jake Scott is an American singer-songwriter and multi-instrumentalist. While at the university, he began to write and record music–launching his career. In fall of 2013, Jake Scott released his first, self-produced EP, “Of Life and Love and Longing”. Jake's passion for music was influenced by the sacrifices his father made to be actively involved in his life.
In this episode, we converse with Jake Scott about his latest single, journey as a husband and father, and the vital role of psychological safety in fostering children's mental well-being. Looking ahead, he shares his hopes for the milestones he aspires to celebrate; his children grown, and a marriage spanning more than two decades.
Jake opens up about marrying at 24, a decision often criticized as premature. Despite societal pressures, he stands by his choice, marking it as the best decision of his life. He expresses appreciation for his early marriage and emphasizes the merits of navigating life's challenges with a partner.
Further, Jake Scott compares societal perspectives on early marriage between his small town, where young marriages are common, and larger cities, where people tend to marry later.
As we conclude, this episode challenges societal norms on early marriage, accentuating the importance of personal choices and individual life paths. Jake's story is a testament to the uniqueness of everyone's journey towards happiness and fulfillment and the necessity of carving one's own path.
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Talia Filippelli is the founder of Star Therapy and a certified holistic health coach, advocating for emotional well-being through play. She is an ambassador and contributing expert for The Genius of Play. Anna Yudina is a Senior Director of Marketing Initiatives at The Toy Association, emphasizes the cognitive benefits of unstructured play.
In our digitally-driven world, parents often find themselves grappling with the challenges of managing their children's screen time while trying to nurture their emotional well-being. In this episode of The Dad Edge podcast, Larry Hagner engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Talia Filippelli, founder of Star Therapy, and Anna Yudina, a senior director at the Toy Association. The discussion centers around the transformative power of play and its profound impact on parent-child relationships and children's emotional well-being.
The episode highlights the alarming trend of children becoming dependent on screens, which stifles their imagination and creativity. Excessive screen use restricts their ability to engage in unstructured play–a vital component of their development. The guests underscore the importance of allowing children ample time for imagination-fueled play, enabling them to explore their world, think creatively, and develop problem-solving skills.
Research shows that fathers' involvement in physical play with their children plays a pivotal role in emotional regulation skills development and future relationship building. By engaging in activities that promote physical exertion and emotional bonding, fathers provide a safe space for children to express their emotions, develop self-control, and navigate relationships effectively.
As parents, it is crucial that we harness the power of play to strengthen our connection with our children and support their emotional well-being. Through play, we create lifelong memories and lay the foundation for their future success.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Travis Macy is a speaker, author, coach, and professional endurance athlete. He is the author of The Ultra Mindset: An Endurance Champion's 8 Core Principles for Success in Business, Sports, and Life, and he set a record (since broken) for Leadman, an epic endurance event consisting of a trail running marathon, 50-mile mountain bike race, Leadville 100 Mountain Bike Race, 10k road run, and Leadville 100 Run, all above 10,200' in the Rocky Mountains.
Joining Travis is his father, Mark Macy, a successful businessman and outdoor enthusiast. Together, they form an inspiring father-son duo, navigating both thrilling adventures and the challenges of Alzheimer's disease.
In this powerful episode, Larry sits down with Travis and Mark Macy to explore their remarkable journey. They share their experiences of intentional manufactured adversity, endurance races, and facing the complexities of Alzheimer's disease. Through their conversation, they highlight the importance of resilience, embracing uncertainty, and seeking support during difficult times.
Travis and Mark's story is one of profound love and admiration for each other. Their shared experiences have shaped their perspectives as men and provided valuable insights for those facing their own adversities. They offer messages of hope and reflect on the meaningful moments they have cherished together.
The Macy duo has embraced intentional manufactured adversity as a means to discover their inner strength. From endurance races to challenging adventures, they have learned valuable lessons of commitment, perseverance, and never giving up. Their journey serves as an inspiring example of resilience and overcoming even the most daunting obstacles.
While their journey took an unexpected turn with Mark's Alzheimer's diagnosis, Travis and Mark approached it with love, compassion, and an unwavering determination to make the most of every moment. They emphasize the importance of cherishing the present, embracing uncertainty, and finding joy amidst difficult circumstances.
Travis and Mark Macy's story carries a profound message of hope and resilience. They encourage others to seek help, accept support, and offer assistance to those in need. Their unwavering commitment to each other exemplifies the power of love, connection, and community.
Their extraordinary journey demonstrates the strength of the human spirit and the significance of familial bonds. Travis and Mark inspire listeners to embrace challenges, seek support, and find strength in the face of adversity. Their story reminds us that with love, determination, and unwavering support, we can overcome even the most daunting obstacles and find joy in the journey.
Heath Wilson and Joey Odom are the co-founders of Aro, a company focused on helping individuals and families establish healthier relationships with their digital devices. The company's goal is to create an environment in which people can connect more meaningfully with each other and be more present in their daily lives. In this deeply engaging episode, we delve into a significant issue facing families today – excessive screen time. Heath Wilson and Joey Odom share personal stories, fascinating insights, and surprising anecdotes about how their creation is impacting households around the world.
In an era dominated by screen-time, maintaining a balanced relationship with our devices is a pressing issue, particularly for families. Heath Wilson and Joey Odom candidly discussed their own struggles with controlling screen time, often mirrored in their children's behavior. They admired the app's gamification aspect, which effectively motivates users to engage less with their screens.
Wilson and Odom also shared anecdotes of the app being used creatively–from parents tying weekly allowances to screen-free hours to businesses incentivizing their staff to be more present with customers. They also reflected on their own experiences, showing how the app has transformed their families’ screen habits.
This insightful conversation ultimately highlighted the importance of prioritizing human connection over digital distractions. The app isn't just about reducing screen time; it's about fostering a healthier digital lifestyle and reclaiming the valuable moments we often lose to our screens.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Josh Whalen is an entrepreneur, healthcare executive, developer, philanthropist, and the CEO and founder of Blokes, a pioneering telehealth platform designed to redefine men's health. He has dedicated himself to creating innovative solutions to pressing issues.
In this enlightening conversation, Josh Whalen discusses the concerning trend of decreasing testosterone levels in men, their causative factors, and implications on overall health. The intricate relationship between stress, sleep, exercise, and testosterone levels is examined, bringing valuable insights and personal anecdotes into the discussion.
Josh Whalen shared his personal journey, transitioning from the so-called "4am club," where he'd rise early for gym workouts, to a more balanced regimen that incorporated additional sleep. Despite his rigorous exercise routine, he struggled with a persistently high body fat percentage. After prioritizing quality sleep, his body fat percentage drastically dropped, suggesting a link with increased testosterone levels.
The intricate dynamics of cortisol (the stress hormone) and testosterone were emphasized. Elevated stress levels, often stemming from inadequate sleep and lifestyle habits, can detrimentally affect testosterone levels. This finding stresses the importance of managing stress and securing sufficient sleep to uphold healthy testosterone levels.
The dialogue serves as an urgent call to action, emphasizing the importance of regular health checks and proactive health management. Often, men may remain oblivious of their dwindling testosterone levels until they encounter severe symptoms. Therefore, partners and family members assume a crucial role in encouraging men towards regular health evaluations.
In conclusion, the pathway to longevity and improved quality of life involves proactive health management. Being aware and taking the correct actions today can protect men from potential health complications in the future.
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Dr. Robb Kelly is a world-renowned addiction expert and best-selling author, known as The Addiction Doctor. He has over 30 years of experience in the field of addiction and has helped thousands of individuals transform their lives by breaking free from addiction and taking charge of their mental wellbeing.
Today, Dr. Rob Kelly joined Larry Hagner on the Dad Edge Podcast and explored topics ranging from childhood trauma to rewiring neural pathways. Dr. Rob Kelly talks through his program's critical details, including the family aspects, the refund policy, and how it can change neural pathways and brain structures.
Childhood traumas and experiences shape most of how we perceive our lives as adults. We tend to keep on repeating patterns that do not serve us even though we know it is not in our best interest. It is a cycle that can lead to self-sabotage, anxiety, depression, and other forms of mental health problems that hinder growth in our personal and professional lives.
Dr. Robb’s program emphasizes the power of positivity, and how repeating positive actions and habits can change our neural pathways and brain structures despite past experiences. The program involves sessions with psychotherapists and coaches, guaranteeing a refund if the participant does not see a positive change. This program is aimed at facilitating and enabling participants to overcome their trauma and move towards a better version of themselves.
Dr. Robb also highlighted the significant role fathers play as nurturing leaders and role models. He advised them to prioritize family over work or distractions, break from negative traits inherited from their parents, and foster a safe and loving environment.
Ultimately, childhood experiences can have a profound impact on our relationships and decision-making as adults. Trauma can be passed down from caregivers to children and affect our emotional wellbeing. But, we also learned that healing and breaking free from negative patterns through therapy, support systems, and positive habits can lead to a successful and fulfilling life.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Jason Reid is a successful businessman, coach for CEOs, and founder of over 20 businesses. He is also the founder of the Tell My Story foundation, a nonprofit organization aimed at educating and empowering parents to support their children's mental health struggles.
In today's episode, Jason Reid bravely shared the devastating story of losing his 14-year-old son to suicide in 2018. This tragic event has shaped Jason's mission: to eradicate teenage suicide by 2030. He is arming parents with the necessary skills to become better communicators, listeners, and leaders for their children.
According to recent CDC data, teenage suicide is now the second leading cause of death for teenagers in the United States, with the pandemic and increased cell phone usage contributing to the surge in mental health issues among the youth. These concerning statistics emphasize the urgency of addressing the mental health of our children.
Jason stressed the importance of active listening and creating a safe space for children to express their feelings freely. He pointed out that often, in our attempts to console our kids, we may unintentionally dismiss their feelings, which could have harmful consequences. Recognizing the difference between occasional sadness and persistent symptoms of depression or anxiety is vital.
Interestingly, Jason's passion for music and his guitars, symbolizes the need to have personal interests, acting as a reminder that life isn't solely about the hardships but also about the joys that make it worth living.
In this urgent fight against teenage suicide, we, as parents, can make a difference by providing support, fostering open conversations about mental health, and teaching our kids to navigate through life's challenges. Through Jason's heartrending story, let's take action to protect our children and their mental well-being.
David and Colton Chorpenning are a father and son duo of authors. David is a seasoned writer and counselor with a PhD and over 20 years of experience helping people figure out what's next in life. He has authored several books and has helped thousands of people over the years. Colton on the other hand, has emerged as a talented writer in his own right and brings a youthful energy to their collaborative writing.
Together, they have written a brand new book called "What the F*ck is Next" which offers a multi-generational analysis of how to refocus intentions to achieve personal goals. Their philosophy emphasizes the importance of intention, action, self-reflection, therapy, and creating meaningful connections with family. In this special Father’s Day episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, we explore their unique system to identify what the right next step should be in our lives.
One of the inspiring highlights of our conversation was Colton's reflection on the key lessons he learned from his father. He recalled how David, a Midwesterner who sought adventure and became an outdoor enthusiast, ignited a similar love for the outdoors in his own life. From hiking to golfing, this passion is something that continues to fuel Colton today.
On the other hand, David shared how his children have continuously introduced him to new ideas and perspectives. Whether it's an innovation in technology or a health tip, David appreciates how his relationship with his children has enriched his own life.
The Chorpennings believe in the power of intention. They've developed a three-step interactive workbook, a research-based method to help individuals figure out the right next step in their life. This tool aims to help people navigate the multitude of choices that the modern world presents and identify their path with clarity.
This Father's Day, we are reminded that the relationship between fathers and children is not just about guidance but also about mutual learning, love, and respect. The story of David and Colton Chorpenning encourages us to embrace the journey of shared growth, to constantly learn from each other, and to focus on moving forward with purpose and intention.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
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Dr. Steve Pearlman, Ph.D. is a renowned critical thinking expert, educator, and the founder of the Critical Thinking Institute. Since 1992, he has been teaching critical thinking and writing in higher education, including esteemed liberal arts colleges and state universities. With a mission to make advanced thinking skills accessible to everyone, his revolutionary methods have made a significant impact on the way critical thinking is taught and applied.
In this episode, Larry and Dr. Pearlman delve into the importance of critical thinking skills for people of all ages. They discuss how his innovative techniques have made critical thinking more accessible and effective, transforming lives and shaping the future.
Dr. Pearlman's groundbreaking work integrates insights from fields such as neuroscience, education, and behavioral change. His programs, "Brighter Minds, Better Futures" and "Critical Thinking Mastery," are designed for children and adults, respectively, equipping them with thinking skills that empower them to create their futures in ways that bring them the most meaning and happiness.
As an educator himself, Dr. Pearlman understands the transformative power of critical thinking. He emphasizes the value of integrating critical thinking into all aspects of life, making learning a profound and enriching experience.
In addition, Dr. Pearlman highlights the potential of critical thinking skills in driving personal and societal change. He provides insights into how critical thinking can empower individuals to fulfill their dreams and, in turn, change the world.
In conclusion, Dr. Steve Pearlman underscores the necessity of critical thinking skills in our rapidly changing world. By cultivating these skills and applying them in all areas of life, individuals can navigate challenges more effectively, make informed decisions, and ultimately shape a brighter future for themselves and society as a whole.
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Ben Brown is a renowned nutrition and fitness expert, coach, and the founder of BSL Nutrition. With years of experience in the industry, Ben is dedicated to helping individuals transform their lives through optimal nutrition and fitness practices. He is known for his holistic approach to health, focusing on physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
In this episode, Larry Hagner is joined by Ben Brown to delve deep into the importance of optimizing nutrition and fitness practices for overall well-being. Ben shares his personal journey and highlights the transformative power of choosing one's hardships in life. They discuss the mindset shift required to make sustainable changes and the significance of taking personal responsibility for one's health and well-being.
Ben emphasizes the value of seeking guidance from experienced coaches and the role of coaching in personal growth and development. He shares his own experiences with coaching and the positive impact it has had on his personal and professional life. The conversation also touches upon the influence parents have in shaping their children's approach to health and fitness, emphasizing the importance of leading by example.
The episode concludes with Ben reflecting on the legacy that individuals can leave behind through their actions and choices. He highlights the profound impact of setting a positive example for others and living life to the fullest. Ben's passion for empowering individuals to make sustainable changes shines through as he offers practical advice and guidance for optimizing nutrition and fitness practices.
As a passionate nutrition and fitness expert, Ben Brown's insights and guidance inspire individuals to prioritize their health and well-being. Through his coaching and resources, he aims to empower individuals to make positive and lasting changes in their lives, leading to optimal nutrition, fitness, and overall well-being.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Lt. Colonel Brian Slade is a distinguished military officer, real estate professional, and newly published author. As a Combat Rescue Helicopter Evaluator Pilot in the U.S. Air Force, he served his country for 25 years, demonstrating exceptional courage and skill. Beyond his military career, Brian ventured into the real estate sector, showcasing his versatility and entrepreneurial spirit.
In today's episode, Brian and Larry delve into his life's journey, from his experiences in the military to overcoming potential PTSD. His debut book, "Cleared Hot", is a compelling non-fiction account of these experiences, filled with wit, humor, and profound insights about resilience.
As a military officer, Brian faced numerous challenges, some of which had the potential to trigger PTSD. However, he believes that while we can't always control what happens to us, we can certainly control how we react to it. This powerful philosophy is central to his book and informs his approach to overcoming adversity.
In addition to sharing his military experiences, Brian sheds light on his transition to civilian life and his foray into the world of real estate. He emphasizes the importance of adaptability and resilience, valuable traits that have aided him in his varied career.
Furthermore, Brian highlights the critical issue of dealing with PTSD and other forms of trauma. His story is not only inspirational, but it also serves as an educational resource for those grappling with similar experiences.
In conclusion, Lt. Colonel Brian Slade demonstrates that resilience, adaptability, and a positive outlook can help us overcome life's challenges. His story serves as a beacon of hope for those dealing with trauma, reminding us that while we may not control our circumstances, we are in control of our reactions.
Clifton Corbin RFC®, MBA, is a passionate financial literacy advocate, author, experienced business consultant, and a registered financial consultant. With over two decades of experience as a business consultant, he shifted gears from his two-decade-long business consulting career to become a full-time stay-at-home dad. This new path spurred him to author "Your Kids, Their Money" a book providing parents with the know-how and strategies to impart financial literacy to their children.
Today, Clifton and Larry delve into the importance of financial literacy for children and discuss practical ways parents can guide their children towards financial savviness. From understanding allowances to managing first jobs, Clifton's approach makes financial education accessible and interesting.
As a father himself, Clifton understands the importance of preparing children for a world where money management is a constant necessity. He emphasizes the value of incorporating financial lessons into everyday activities, making learning a fun and natural process for kids.
In addition, Clifton stresses the significance of cybersecurity in an increasingly digital world. He provides resources and guides for parents to ensure their children are safe online, further underlining his comprehensive approach to financial education.
In conclusion, Clifton D. Corbin underlines the necessity of early financial literacy and offers practical and engaging ways to teach children about money. By incorporating financial education into daily activities and safeguarding their digital interactions, parents can ensure a bright financial future for their children.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Jon Bernthal is an accomplished actor, dedicated father, and passionate advocate for various causes. He is known for his memorable roles in TV shows like "The Walking Dead" and "The Punisher" and films such as "The Wolf of Wall Street" and "Baby Driver".
In this episode, Jon discusses his unique approach to helping his children recognize him through facial hair, despite his wife's disapproval. He also shares insights about his friendship with Marine Raider Nick K. and the importance of involving a core group of veterans in his projects.
The conversation emphasizes the importance of taking ownership of our actions and choices, recognizing that we all make mistakes and that our decisions impact others. It's essential to be honest with ourselves, be mindful of our needs and wants, and accept help and support when necessary.
Ultimately, taking ownership can be challenging, but it's crucial for living a meaningful and fulfilling life. By taking responsibility for our actions and choices, we become more responsible and independent adults. We also become more aware of the impact of our decisions and behaviors on others, ultimately creating a better future for ourselves and the world.
Ray King is a fitness expert and transformation coach who specializes in helping dads transform their health and bodies through his innovative and effective programs. With a background in personal training and nutrition, Ray has a deep understanding of the unique challenges and opportunities facing modern dads, and he uses this knowledge to empower them to achieve their fitness goals and lead healthier, happier lives.
In this episode, Coach Ray King shares his personal story of transformation through fitness and how it helped him reconcile with his wife after a divorce. He highlights the impact of emotional fitness in our lives, especially in the aftermath of a difficult experience like divorce.
Divorce can take a significant emotional toll on children, causing feelings of confusion, fear, sadness, loneliness, and isolation. Ray shares his own experience of the impact of divorce on his children and the fear and confusion he witnessed in their eyes during the arguments. He also recalls the loneliness he felt after returning home from a successful competition and realizing that no one was there to celebrate with him.
To support children through the challenges of divorce, it is essential for parents to be mindful of the emotional toll it can take and to provide a safe and supportive environment for their children to express their emotions. This includes offering love and reassurance, which can help children to cope with the difficult emotions that accompany divorce and to come out of the experience with resilience and hope.
Ray emphasizes that emotional fitness is just as important as physical fitness, especially in the aftermath of a divorce. He shares how his own journey of transformation through fitness helped him to reconcile with his wife and how it positively impacted his life.
By taking care of our emotional well-being, we can better navigate the challenges of divorce and come out stronger on the other side.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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David Hurwitt is a highly successful sales and marketing leader, brings his extensive expertise to the Dad Edge podcast as he discusses how to make college choices easier for kids and parents. As the driving force behind Troove, David has revolutionized the higher education selection process by harnessing the predictive power of experience.
In today's episode with Larry, David explains the inspiration behind using technology to help find the perfect college fit for students. Drawing from his extensive career developing new products and services, he shares his personal experience of taking his daughter on college tours to find the right college for her.
Selecting a college is undoubtedly one of the most crucial decisions young individuals will make in their lives. Given the multitude of available options, narrowing down choices and making the right decision can be challenging. Therefore, it is essential to make an informed choice.
During the college selection process, allocate time for thorough research. Visit campuses, talk to current students and faculty, and gain a better understanding of the school. Seek advice and assistance from a college counselor or advisor to help with the process.
Technology can also be a valuable asset in choosing a college. AI and data science can match students with schools that provide the best academic and social environments for them. In conclusion, selecting a college is a personal decision that requires careful consideration of multiple factors. By diligently researching and weighing their options, students can make the best decision for their future.
Mark Usher is a husband, father, and men's coach who is dedicated to helping men lead fulfilling lives as heroes in their relationships, families, and communities. He is also the creator of the Heroic Husbands Men's Circle, and the host of the “Be The Husband She Brags About” podcast. With a background in psychology and coaching, Mark has a deep understanding of the challenges and opportunities facing modern men, and he uses this knowledge to support and empower them.
Today, Mark joined Larry on The Dad Edge Podcast to share his personal experiences and insights on how husbands can rekindle the flame in their marriage. He talked about the qualities that make a husband worth bragging about and shared tips for how to be a better husband and how to rekindle the flame with your wife.
In relationships, maintaining a strong emotional connection with our partner is crucial. This can be achieved through open and honest communication about our struggles, fears, and insecurities. When we share these intimate details, we create a deeper understanding and a bond that strengthens our relationship.
However, life can often get in the way of maintaining this level of vulnerability and honesty. It's easy to put up walls and keep our struggles and insecurities to ourselves, leading to a breakdown in communication and a disconnection from our partner.
By embracing vulnerability and open communication, husbands can create a safe and supportive environment where they can connect on a deeper level and provide emotional support for each other. This can help to reignite the spark in their marriage and strengthen their relationship for the long-term.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads.
From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.
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Taylor Calmus, also known as ‘Dude Dad’, is a husband, father, and social media influencer who shares his insights and experiences on fatherhood and men's health and wellness. He joined Larry on The Dad Edge Podcast to talk about the importance of finding humor in fatherhood, balancing parenting with a strong marriage, and aligning parenting styles.
He was an aspiring actor in Los Angeles when his wife became pregnant. To provide for his family, he combined his hobby of making videos with fatherhood and created Dude Dad, a platform for sharing the joys and challenges of parenting through comedic content. He also hosts the Super Dad DIY show, inspiring other dads to create backyard projects for their kids.
Parenting can be stressful and overwhelming, but being creative and having fun with your children can make it a more enjoyable and rewarding experience. Taylor's approach to parenting is a great example of how to have fun while still providing a safe and nurturing environment for the children. He and his wife, Heidi, also prioritize their relationship by having weekly date nights where they connect and have meaningful conversations.
Taylor emphasizes the importance of keeping a strong connection with your partner while parenting. By aligning parenting styles and having open communication, couples can ensure they are on the same page and support each other in their parenting journey.
In conclusion, parenting can be a positive and enjoyable experience when approached with creativity and humor. Take cues from Taylor's approach and prioritize your relationship with your partner to make the parenting journey a more fulfilling one.
Bill Shufelt is a seasoned entrepreneur and business leader with a background in finance. He is the CEO of Athletic Brewing Company, a revolutionary brewing company that offers non-alcoholic craft beer for a healthier, more active lifestyle. Despite being rejected by 100 investors, Bill's determination and vision for Athletic Brewing Company led him to raise $175 million and open breweries on both coasts.
Today, Bill and Larry discussed the balance between work and family life as well as his experience of going alcohol-free for 433 days and how it has positively impacted his life in various aspects, such as improved health, increased intellectual curiosity, and a deeper connection with his family.
As a father of four, Bill values taking time to be present with his family and recognizes the importance of disconnecting from the daily routine. He believes that doing so allows one to fully appreciate the moments they share with loved ones, no matter how small they may be.
In addition, Bill highlights the significance of being present and enjoying moments with family and friends. He suggests that this can help to create lasting memories and strengthen relationships. Bill also talks about the risk-free decision of quitting alcohol and its positive outcomes. By choosing non-alcoholic beer, like the ones from Athletic Brewing Company, you can reduce your alcohol consumption, stay sober, and still attend events where alcohol is present.
In conclusion, Bill Shufelt highlights the importance of going alcohol-free and taking time to be present and enjoy moments with loved ones. By disconnecting from the fast-paced world and slowing down, individuals can fully appreciate the moments they share, create lasting memories, and strengthen relationships.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be. Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. Join future Dad Edge Mastermind calls here:
Eddie McClintock is an accomplished American actor, best known for his charismatic on-screen presence and versatile acting skills. He is also an enthusiastic painter and a dedicated family man. In his spare time, Eddie enjoys connecting with his fans through social media and attending conventions to meet and engage with those who appreciate his work.
Today, Eddie sits down with Larry to discuss his film Miracle at Manchester, which is based on a true story and currently streaming on PureFlix. Before delving into the film, Eddie shares about his personal life and family, including his two teenage sons and his advice for parents of pre-teens. Throughout the episode, Eddie highlights the impact that his dad had on his life, and offers tips for dads looking to build strong relationships with their children.
In life, it is essential to demonstrate compassion and love towards others. This is a lesson exemplified by Eddie McClintock's father, who served as an outstanding role model throughout Eddie's childhood. His father consistently emphasized the importance of making eye contact, offering a firm and respectful handshake, and standing up when greeting someone as a sign of respect.
His father’s display of compassion and love proved especially crucial during Eddie's teenage years, when he was diagnosed with hyperactivity and prescribed Ritalin. Feeling different and out of place, Eddie resorted to drugs and alcohol as coping mechanisms. Despite these struggles, the father remained steadfast in his support, his unwavering dedication ultimately deepening their bond and fostering mutual respect.
Eddie McClintock's father's example of compassion and love has left a lasting impact on Eddie's life, and he hopes it will do the same for his sons. By cultivating kindness, honesty, and understanding, Eddie believes his children will be well-equipped for success in life.
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Rich Grogan is a dedicated master martial artist, inspirational leader, best-selling author, and devoted father. As the creator of the Grogan's Bully Proof System and author of "Becoming Bully Proof", Master Rich Grogan aims to empower 10 million kids and adults with hope, faith, and confidence to believe in themselves and stand up to every bully they face, both real and in their minds.
In a recent Dad Edge podcast episode with Larry, Rich shares his passion for personal growth, discipline, and self-improvement, focusing on the challenging aspects of parenting and guiding kids through their formative years.
As parents, it's natural for us to want to be heroes to our children, shielding them from life's adversities and serving as their role models. However, it's crucial to recognize that our kids need to be the heroes of their own stories. We can act as guides, assisting them in making the right decisions, but they must ultimately find their own balance and become their own heroes.
One way to act as a guide is by being vulnerable and transparent with our kids. Sharing our personal experiences, both positive and negative, enables our children to learn from our mistakes and successes. Additionally, providing them with the necessary tools and resources to make informed choices is essential. It's also vital to discuss bullying with our kids and explore ways to prevent it, helping them develop the skills and strategies needed to stand up for themselves and others.
In conclusion, parents should strive to be guides, not heroes. Our children need us to support them and equip them with the necessary tools and resources to become their own heroes. While we can provide a safe haven for them when they require assistance, they must ultimately be the heroes of their own stories.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be. Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. Join future Dad Edge Mastermind calls here:
Nikki Sixx is a legendary musician, bestselling author, devoted father, and the founding member and bassist for Mötley Crüe, one of the most successful rock bands in history. Nikki is not only a successful musician but also an advocate for addiction awareness, mental health, and personal growth. Today, he joins Larry to talk about his journey as a father and husband, his sobriety for 22 years, and the advice he would give to the current generation of teens.
Embracing sobriety can lead to unexpected benefits in our lives. For Nikki Sixx, sobriety transformed his life in more ways than he could have ever anticipated. He shared his experience of becoming sober and how it has enabled him to explore new opportunities and passions. Remarkably, he mentioned that he never thought he would write books, participate in photo exhibits, and showcase his photography in galleries. Furthermore, he highlighted the importance of managing his time and not diverting attention away from his family.
The most astonishing benefit Nikki has observed from sobriety is the courage it provided him to confront his issues and be honest about them. He emphasizes that facing our issues is the key to changing our lives and those of the people around us. Additionally, he talks about how we can use sobriety to create healthier and more fulfilling lives, simplify our lives, and focus on the present moment.
In essence, sobriety is a gift that should be wholly embraced, as it can bring unexpected benefits to our lives, such as the courage to face our issues, the creation of a healthier and more fulfilling life, and simplification of our lives. Sobriety can help us establish a life of joy and freedom.
By concentrating on nature and simplicity, we can create a more meaningful and fulfilling life.
Eddie Penney is an esteemed and highly decorated former U.S. Navy SEAL turned entrepreneur who has devoted his life to the pursuit of excellence and service to his country. Additionally, he is a Warrior Mindset Mentor, Speaker, Motivator, and CEO of Contingent Group, a company providing customized, adaptive, and flexible risk mitigation solutions in the form of a full-service consulting, development, and implementation security company serving in both foreign and domestic capacities.
Recently, he joined Larry on the Dad Edge Podcast and candidly discussed his journey of becoming a father, touching on his own dad's lack of involvement in his upbringing. Furthermore, he delved into the generation of fathers before him who solely strived to provide and explained how he needed to learn from scratch when it came to raising his own four sons.
Choosing to live unafraid is a powerful decision that can enable us to make the most of our lives. This approach involves embracing the unknown, taking risks that can help us grow, confronting our fears, seizing opportunities, and being open to learning from our mistakes.
Consequently, by living unafraid, we can become more confident, courageous, and resilient. Additionally, we can achieve greater success in our endeavors, as we are more likely to take risks and make bold decisions.
Ultimately, by investing time in our spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical growth, we can become better versions of ourselves and lead more fulfilling lives.
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Seth and Melanie Studley are licensed marriage & family therapists, high performance marriage coaches, and the creators and co-hosts of the Anatomy Of Us Podcast, a show that brings real help to real couples. Together they cover topics from tricky parenting issues to scheduling intimacy and everything in between!
Today, they join Larry on the Dad Edge Podcast to talk about their upcoming collab event, the “Power Couple Summit 2023” happening on July 28-29, 2023 in Orlando, Florida. They also talk about the feedback they have received from their audiences and their excitement for the event. Additionally, they share about the benefits of investing in experiences that you didn't know you wanted or needed.
Investing in relationships is essential for couples who want to have a strong and lasting relationship. It means taking time to nurture it, show appreciation for one another, and seek professional help if needed. This can also be done in a variety of ways, but the most important is to make sure that couples are taking the time to attend marriage retreats and workshops, seek professional help if needed, and show appreciation for one another.
Attending marriage retreats and workshops is a great way to invest in a relationship. These types of events provide couples with an opportunity to learn new skills and techniques to help them communicate better and strengthen their relationship.
Finally, showing appreciation for one another is an important way to invest in a relationship. Taking the time to show appreciation for one another can help couples feel connected and appreciated. This can be done in a variety of ways, such as giving compliments, expressing gratitude, or taking the time to do something special for one another.
Jeff Forrester is a speaker, DISC trainer, leadership consultant, author of the book “Unleashed Potential”, and a Success Coach for Hi-Lite Coaching + Consulting. Jeff has a true passion to help others and see them unleash their hidden potential. He has spent the past 20+ years in corporate sales, marketing, and leadership. Today, he joins Larry to share his story of transitioning from corporate to coaching, focusing on teenagers and young adults. He emphasizes the importance of humility and openness towards one's partner, and how he had to face and let go of childhood self-esteem issues and mistakes he had made related to alcoholism, decision making, and pornography. As parents, it is important to help our teenagers set foundations for future success. We need to encourage our teens to think ahead and take productive pauses to reflect on their decisions. We must also understand the adolescent brain and the gap between adults and teens, so that we can empathize and provide support. Additionally, we can provide our teens with extra coaching and guidance to help them reach their goals.
In the end, parents need to be there for their teens and provide them with the tools and guidance they need to succeed. By setting foundations for future success, teens can make the most of their lives and reach their goals.
Unleashed Potential by Jeff Forrester
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be. Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. Join future Dad Edge Mastermind calls here:
Dr. Kerry Malawista is a psychotherapist, psychoanalyst, writer, author of the book “Meet the Moon”, and co-chair of The New Directions in Writing Program. Her essays have appeared in multiple news outlets and was also nominated for a Pushcart Prize and shortlisted for the Kraken Book Prize. Today, she joined Larry and shared her experience of losing her mother at a young age and how it inspired her writing and work as a therapist.
Humor is a powerful tool for building resilience. It can help us to see the bright side of a difficult situation, to find joy in the midst of adversity, and to keep going in the face of challenges. Humor can also help us to stay connected to others, even during the most trying times. It can be an effective way to lighten the mood and bring people together.
It can also be an effective coping mechanism, allowing us to process difficult emotions in a more lighthearted way. When we can laugh at ourselves, we can find the strength to move forward and take on the next challenge. Humor can also help us to stay positive and optimistic, even in the face of adversity.
By using humor to build resilience, we can help our children to become successful and resilient adults.
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Joel Staley is an online fitness coach, a Pro Physique Athlete, creator of The Shed Fat FAST Program, and author of the book “Dad’s Guide to Building a Great Physique”. He helps busy parents turn their bodies into fat burning machines while building lean muscle. Today, he joined Larry to discuss the basics of intermittent fasting for beginners. They cover the difference between prolonged fasting and intermittent fasting, and the benefits of both.
One of the best ways to live a healthier lifestyle is to practice intermittent fasting. Intermittent fasting is a method of eating that involves alternating periods of eating and fasting. It involves eating within a certain time frame and then fasting for a set amount of time.
It has been around for centuries and is known to be a great way to reduce inflammation, improve digestion, and increase energy levels. It can also help to reduce stress levels and improve mental clarity. Fasting can also help to optimize your hormones and can help to reduce the risk of certain diseases
Overall, living a healthier lifestyle is possible when you practice self-discipline and find healthy ways to cope with stress, anxiety, and boredom. Intermittent fasting is a great tool to help you reach your health goals and stay lean. Joel Staley provides a free guide on his website about intermittent fasting that can help dads get started on their journey to a healthier lifestyle.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be. Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
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Jayson Gaddis is an executive coach, author, podcaster, speaker, a global leader on interpersonal conflict and connection, and is the founder & CEO of The Relationship School. Today, he joins Larry to talk about his new book "Getting to Zero: How to Work Through Conflict in Your High Stakes Relationships", and discusses the importance of conflict resolution in relationships.
Conflict resolution is vital for successful long-term relationships. Whether it’s a family, a business partnership, or a team, we have to learn how to work through conflict in order to maintain a healthy relationship.
When Jayson talks about “getting to zero,” he means that it’s our baseline for feeling good and connected. When there’s no conflict or unresolved issues, we’re at zero. But when conflict arises, our number goes up to one through ten, with ten being the worst. We can be triggered and activated, enraged, or totally shut down.
Although Jayson doesn’t like conflict, he has a passion for conflict resolution. He’s motivated by the bad feeling he gets when he’s at odds with someone. He wants to figure out a way to help the average person because conflict resolution isn’t something we’re taught in school or college. It’s a vital life skill that everyone should learn.
It’s important to remember that conflict isn’t always a bad thing. It can be a way to deepen our connection with someone. When we work through a conflict and get to the other side, we have a better understanding of each other and a stronger relationship.
Dr. Meg Meeker is a renowned pediatrician, speaker, and author, best known for her best-selling book "Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters”. Today, Dr. Meg Meeker joins Larry to explore the crucial role fathers play in their daughters' lives and discuss practical strategies for fostering strong, healthy relationships. Dr. Meeker also shared her wisdom on fatherhood and how dads can tap into their potential to positively impact their children's lives.
One way for dads to connect with their kids is through affection. Affection is a powerful way of communicating to a child that they are seen, heard, and understood. It can be as simple as a pat on the back, a hug, or a high five. It doesn't have to take a lot of time, but it can make all the difference.
When it comes to expressing your feelings, dads should not be afraid to open up to their kids. Kids need to learn how to express love, be affectionate, and be attentive and listen. Kids don't need to know all the mistakes you made when you were 17, but they do need to know that you have bad days and that it's okay to express your feelings.
Overall, dads should recognize the important role they play in their children's lives and strive to connect with them through affection. A little bit of affection can go a long way and can help create a strong bond between a dad and his kids.
Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Dr. Meg Meeker
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Matthew McConaughey is an Academy-award winning actor, producer, director, philantrophist, and author of the bestselling book “Greenlights”. He is one of Hollywood’s most sought after leading men, who launched his career in the cult classic Dazed and Confused and has since then has won an Academy Award for his portrayal of Ron Woodroof in Dallas Buyers Club and appeared in over 40 feature films.
Today, Matthew joins Larry and discusses the role of being a father and what it means to be a parent. Matthew also talked about the importance of bringing loved ones together to create new relationships and form a community. He also emphasized the idea that a father’s job does not stop with conceiving the baby, but continues afterwards
Family is an integral part of our lives and often serves as a source of strength and support when we are faced with difficult decisions. Family is truly everything and it is this kind of unconditional love and support that allows fathers to be their best selves.
When a father is called to pursue a certain path, no matter how difficult, his family is often the first to stand by him and support him. This is exemplified by Matthew McConaughey's experience in his film “Time to Kill”, where his family encouraged him to carry on despite the danger.
Ultimately, it is this kind of support that allows fathers to pursue their calling and make a positive impact on the world.
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Dennis LeMire is the Manager of FloSports, and co-host of the Man 2 Man Podcast, a show seeking to influence and coach men to pursue Christ and to become the men God called them to be so they can truly live, making strong impacts in their marriages, friendships, workplaces, churches and communities, and to help men discover their true identity. Today, Dennis joined Larry to share his experiences of being a father to two sons and openly talks about his struggles as a father and his attempts to stay half a step ahead in order to be able to offer his wisdom and advice.
“Staying half a step ahead” is a phrase that is often used by fathers who are raising teenagers. This phrase speaks to the idea that a father should always be a few steps ahead of his teenage children in order to be able to offer them guidance and advice.
Dennis mentions that the best way for fathers to stay ahead of their teenage children is to stay engaged with them and be willing to listen to their thoughts and opinions. Dennis adds that fathers should also be willing to ask questions and be open to learning new things. This will help them to stay current with their children and be able to offer them the best advice possible.
Finally, Dennis said that as a father, you should be setting an example for your children and teaching them the values that they need to be successful in life. This includes teaching them how to be confident, how to be social, and how to love.
By doing this, you will be able to ensure that your children have the necessary skills and values that they need in order to succeed in life.
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be. Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. Join future Dad Edge Mastermind calls here:
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Douglas Haddad is an award-winning middle school teacher, international speaker, and best-selling author of the book “The Ultimate Guide to Raising Teens and Tweens: Strategies for Unlocking Your Child’s Full Potential”. He has taught over 3,000 students in 23 years as an educator, working with children from all different backgrounds and abilities. Today, Douglas joins Larry to talk about his book and gives valuable advice to all listeners, whether they have a direct or indirect impact on a child's life.
Raising children can be a daunting task, especially when it comes to the teenage years. However, there are 3 keys that can help parents navigate this difficult period: Love, Listen, and Respect.
The first key is Love. Douglas explained that all children desire to feel loved. This is the foundation for a strong bond between parent and child. When a child knows that their parents will always have their back even during difficult times, it opens the door for communication.
The second key is to Listen. Douglas noted that children want to be heard and understood. This means more than just hearing what they have to say; it means listening to understand, not to reprimand. It is important to let children know that their thoughts and feelings are valued.
The last key is Respect. Children desire to be accepted and respected. When they enter the teenage years, they start to break away from their parents and look to their peers for acceptance. It is important to show respect for the decisions they make, even if they are not what you would choose.
When parents show these three qualities, it helps to create a strong bond between parent and child. It also helps children to feel valued and respected, which is essential for their development. By applying these three keys, parents can ensure that their children will grow up to be successful and independent.
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Luke Entrup is a coach, teacher, father, founder of the Contemplative Leadership Institute, and the creator of The Father Son Connection Experience, a rite-of-passage experience for boys aged 10-14 and their father figures designed to help boys navigate the shift from childhood to the teen years, and deepens the bond between fathers and their sons. Luke and Larry discussed the importance of rites of passage—ceremonial demarcations of passing certain stages of life.
Luke said that raising good men is a long and arduous process that requires a lot of effort and dedication. He said it is important to remember that connection is the key to raising good men. By providing your sons with a safe and supportive environment to explore and express themselves, you can help them gain the confidence and courage to become the best versions of themselves.
It is also important to provide your sons with positive role models. By having positive role models in our lives, you can help your sons to develop a strong sense of self and a strong sense of purpose. We should also provide them with the opportunity to participate in rites of passage and to experience the feeling of accomplishment that comes with it.
By providing our sons with a safe and supportive environment to explore and express themselves, we can help them to gain the confidence and courage to become the best versions of themselves.
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Dr. Michael Rucker is the Chief Digital Officer of Active Wellness, and the creator and author of “The Fun Habit”, an action-based approach that helps critically examine one’s pursuit of happiness and make adjustments using evidence-based practices to invite more fun and joy in life. Today, he joined Larry and shares about how the pursuit of joy and wonder can change your life.
Mike Rucker believes that joy and wonder can be found in the simple things in life, like spending time with family and friends, playing with children, and taking time to appreciate the beauty of nature. Joy and wonder can also be found in larger, more meaningful moments, like celebrating a milestone, or mourning the loss of a loved one.
Mike adds that the pursuit of joy and wonder is a powerful force that can change our lives for the better. It can be found in the little moments of everyday life and in the bigger, more meaningful moments. Joy and wonder bring us closer to our true selves, and can bring us closer to those we love.
It is important to remember that life is too short not to have fun. When we are present for our families, we are showing them that we care and that we value our relationships. So, take the time to be present and enjoy the moments that we have with our loved ones.
Richard Ziegler, a 47-year-old entrepreneur and father of 10 children joined Larry today and shared some lessons he learned from his first long-term relationship of 20 years and his second relationship with his current wife and their 10 children.
Richard shared that he has had to learn to focus on what he can control, rather than getting caught up in what he can't control. He believes that this is the key to success and has been using it to make progress in his own life.
Richard's advice is to focus on what you can control. This means taking action and doing the things that you know need to be done, even if you don't feel like it. He also suggests using your time wisely. Instead of getting frustrated when you're stuck in traffic, use that time to consume content that will help you grow.
Taking action is the key to growth and progress, and it is important to remember this as you work to reach your goals.
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Brian Preston is the Managing Partner of Abound Wealth Management and the Founder and Host of The Money Guy Show. Brian has over two decades of experience in personal financial planning and taxes, and he is passionate about assisting others in optimizing their lives so that they can focus on the things that truly matter to them. In this episode, Brian and Larry discuss the importance of good parenting and financial planning.
Brian shared a personal story about his father, who was laid off when Brian was in middle school. His parents were struggling financially, but Brian recalls this time as being one of the happiest times of his childhood. This story serves as a reminder that, while money is important, it should not be the sole focus. Family is more important than money.
Having a purposeful life entails appreciating the people in your life, spending time with them, and ensuring that you are enjoying life to the fullest. It entails reflecting on your objectives and dreams and taking action to make them a reality.
Larry's story serves as a reminder that life is precious and should be lived to the fullest. We should strive to live a purposeful life, focusing on the things that bring us joy and enrich our lives. We should spend our life in such a way that we leave a legacy for our children and future generations.
Life is too short to spend it worrying about money. Instead, focus on living a purposeful life and creating a legacy that will last generations.
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Bill Winchester is the founder of Dangerously Good Men, an organization that focuses on initiating a process of connection between fathers and sons to create a strong and positive family impact. Today, Bill joined Larry and explained what the purpose of a rite of passage is and how one is traditionally structured.
Bill explains how the rite of passage is needed now more than ever and how it can build meaningful, lasting connection between fathers and sons. Rites of passage are an important part of life for many people around the world. It marks the transition from one stage of life to another, and can provide a sense of accomplishment and pride.
Bill also said that rites of passage can take many forms. It may involve physical challenges, such as hiking a mountain, or spiritual journeys, such as prayer or meditation. It can also involve traditional ceremonies, such as coming of age celebrations or initiation rituals. Whatever form they take, rites of passage can help young people feel more connected to their families and communities, and more confident in their own abilities.
By understanding the importance of rites of passage, we can better prepare young people for the next stage of their lives.
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Staying Calm in the Chaos of Life, Fatherhood, and Marriage with Drew Soleyn
Drew Soleyn is a certified Leadership Coach, Trainer, and Speaker, as well as the President of Dad Central and the Founder of Connected Dads, a company that helps dads be their best for the people who matter the most.
Today, he joined Larry to share his story of being abducted by his father when he was three years old. The story follows his 49-month odyssey and his mother's legal journey to bring him back home. Drew reflects on how having this experience has shaped who he is and the necessity of sharing one's own story.
Drew’s story begins with his parents’ divorce when he was seven years old. His father was an alcoholic, and the divorce was the result of his father’s substance abuse. Drew was left feeling lost and abandoned. As a result, he felt like he had no one to turn to for comfort or support.
Enter his stepfather, a patient, steady man with a desire to help. Drew was able to build a trusting relationship with his stepfather by being there for him all the time and being kind.
Drew’s story is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest of times, there is always hope and a chance for redemption. It is a story of courage, resilience, and strength, and it is a story that needs to be shared.
This serves as a reminder that forgiveness and connection are key to overcoming traumatic experiences.
Andy Way is is an author, speaker, and coach who helps parents and young adults connect with their truth and power so they can live happier, more fulfilling lives. He is the creator of Always Adventure, a powerful training methodology that helps connect people with their true selves so they can live happier, more fulfilling lives.
Andy discussed his mission of “the art of living adventurously”. He explained how he was a “crust father”, unable to save his son from the pain and suffering he was going through. He was feeling helpless, until he stumbled upon a YouTube video of people riding dirt bikes in the backcountry of Colorado. This sparked something in him and led him to dive deep into the world of adventure motorcycling.
Andy then identified five powerful practices with five specific outcomes. The fifth and final practice is seeking excitement. The outcome of seeking excitement is to energize your life and bring more joy and happiness. It is important to be intentional about seeking joy and excitement, as it can be easy to get overwhelmed and forget to take time for yourself. By taking time for yourself, you can recharge and be better able to handle the challenges life throws at you.
It is also important to remember that seeking joy and excitement is not selfish; it is necessary in order to be the best version of yourself.
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Sathiya Sam is the founder of Deep Clean, an organization that helps men overcome pornography addiction. After taking 15 years to recover from porn addiction, he is sharing his methodology with people around the globe through coaching and motivational speaking. Today, Larry and Sathiya discuss the adverse effects of porn on the brain and marriage.
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David Waldy is one of the world's leading voices and high-performance coaches on emotional intelligence, business psychology, & empathy-based solutions that create transformational results in leadership, business growth, and systematic personal development. Today, Larry and David speak about the importance of never stopping becoming, the need to define who you want to become, and how to make the choices, habits, and actions that propel you towards your goals.
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Mike Donehey is a professional musician and podcast host of Chasing the Beauty. His professional career started with founding Christian music band Tenth Avenue North, and has lead up to the release of his new solo album, Flourish. In today’s episode Larry and Mike discuss how to navigate the heated moments in relationships.
Mike shares how he gets validation through his beliefs. He shares the importance of being able to give thanks for the good things that come our way and not be defensive or defeated when we find out how flawed we are.
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Dan Peterson returns to the Dad Edge podcast mastermind for a live Question and Answer session. Dan Peterson is a parenting coach and founder of The Compass 4 Life Mission.
Larry recently interviewed Dan on the Dad Edge podcast. The episode was so popular, Larry and Dan decided to hold a Q&A session with members of the Dad Edge mastermind.
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Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be. Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. Join future Dad Edge Mastermind calls here:
Zion Clark is an elite wheelchair racer, wrestler, and mixed martial artist. What makes Zion so inspiring is the simple fact he was born without legs. Zion’s inspirational story shows us if we train hard and stay focused, anything is possible.
By focusing on what he could control, Zion was able to make something of himself and impact the world meaningfully.
His autobiography is a fascinating look into how resilience can turn tragedy into triumph. Today, he shares his best examples and insights into how you can rise above trauma and live legendary
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Zion’s book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/723557/work-with-what-you-got-a-memoir-by-zion-clark-and-james-s-hirsch/
https://www.instagram.com/bigz97/
John Benzick is a serial entrepreneur and the owner in at least 3 startups since 2000. He’s worked with companies like McDonald’s Best Buy, and Hershey. John feels led to help the next generation of kids reach their dreams, and recently authored the book Eli’s Lemonade Startup.
Entrepreneurs often get caught up in business, but John knows the importance of making time for family. He and his wife have a blended family of four children, one of whom is their biological son. They understand having fun together is essential for building strong relationships with their kids.
In this episode, Larry and John explore how to provide for your family, without getting lost in the busy, day to day hustle.
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John’s book: https://venturesuperfly.com/
Larry Hagner along with co-host Joe Bailey are joined by members of the Dad Edge Mastermind. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be. Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. Join future Dad Edge Mastermind calls here: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind/
Dr. Kathy Koch is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids, Inc. Her organization helps fathers and educators better understand the needs of children. She’s a frequent contributor for one of the largest Christian organizations, Focus on the Family.
Today, Kathy and Larry discuss the importance of building resilience in children. Raising resilient kids is an important part of parenting in today’s world. Resilience is the ability to recover quickly from difficulties and face challenges with courage. It is an essential quality for children to develop in order to be successful in life.
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About Michelle Kenney
Before becoming a hand in hand certified instructor in 2015, she worked for 12 years in the public school system, she was a teacher and a counselor. Regardless of her experience, that didn’t prepare her for motherhood.
After years of consequences, bribes, star charts, she found Hand In Hand Parenting created by Patty Wilpfeiffer and it re-shaped the relationship with her daughters.
She is now passionate about helping others find their way about the murky business of being a connected parent. She loves leading groups and finds it dynamic and transformative for both her and the groups that she leads. She also strongly believes that listening partnerships are the cornerstone to moving through difficulties.
She holds a master's degree in education and even speaks fluent Spanish.
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T.C. Stallings is a former professional athlete now finding success in film and television.His desires shifted from football to acting in 2004, when he landed a spot on Animal Planet's King of the Jungle, a reality television show where he emerged as the season 2 champion.
In 2011, T.C. made his feature film debut in the movie, "Courageous" where he portrayed the memorable character, "TJ". It was in 2015 however, that his career reached new heights with his break-out performance as "Tony Jordan" in the hit film, "War Room", which soared to #1 at the box office. He is promoting his latest movie “No Vacancy” where he portraits Cecil Johnson.
T.C. is also a nation-wide brand ambassador for Clearplay, a filtering company with the mission of providing families with clean, wholesome entertainment options. T.C. is a wide-ranging actor, a huge advocate for clean family entertainment, and enjoys creatively getting involved in philanthropic efforts around the world.
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"Empathy is seeing the eyes of another, listening with the ears of another, and feeling with the heart of another." - Alfred Adler
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About Figs O'Sullivan
Figs is a couples therapist and the creator of the Empathi method and the certification process for Empathy coaches. He’s also Chief Empathy Officer, husband, dad, wounded-healer and was featured on NPR’s All Things Considered as a champion for healthy relationships.
Figs’ life’s mission is to help couples feel more connected.
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Dr. Omar Reda is a board-certified psychiatrist, a Harvard-trained trauma expert, and a passionate family advocate. He is the author of several books and a highly sought-after dynamic public speaker.
Dr. Reda is a leading expert in Psychotraumatology and Trauma-Informed Care as well as the mental health of Muslims, immigrants and refugees, the Libyan revolution, and the Arab Spring. Dr. Reda’s passion for healing focuses on tackling the family dysfunction and youth vulnerability resulting from trauma.
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Dan Peterson, founder of The Compass 4 Life, is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) and an advanced trainer for the Nurtured Heart Approach™ (NHA). He earned his Masters degree in Clinical Psychology from Benedictine University in 2002.
Dan is considered the area expert in the Nurtured Heart Approach™ in the Naperville School District. He specializes in helping adults who work with or have challenging children develop strategies for their child to succeed in both the school environment and family setting. Dan wants to provide parenting tips for children with behavioral problems and encourage positive.
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Urijah Faber is an American mixed martial artist who is signed to the Ultimate Fighting Championship. He competed as a bantamweight and formerly competed as a featherweight. He is also the founder of Team Alpha Male.
Faber was an NCAA wrestler. With his base in wrestling, he later started Brazilian jiu-jitsu. Faber won the WEC Featherweight Championship at WEC in 2006, and held the title for over two and a half years.
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Madeline Anderson is an author and entrepreneur. She has a passion for neuroscience, psychology, writing, and speaking. She is the daughter of a Girl Dad and spent years interviewing a wide array of fathers and daughters to write her heartfelt book on how to be the best father to a daughter. Madeline graduated from the University of California, Los Angeles in 2019 with a degree in Business Economics.
Her book Girl Dad is an anecdotal, relatable, and heartfelt book that will make you laugh, smile, and learn as you enjoy stories from real Girl Dads and their daughters. After reading Girl Dad, you will be equipped with tips, tricks, and tools that have been proven successful for creating a strong relationship with your daughter.
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Rich McDanie is a career Navy veteran with over 28 years of experience, Rich has moved around the country 20 times with his wife and 5 children. He has been an owner/landlord since 1998 and has immeasurable experience leading people and solving tough problems as Commanding Officer of a guided missile destroyer, USS STERETT (DDG 104) and Naval Station Norfolk, the world's largest Naval Base, where his command hosted 65,000 people, 59 ships, and 187 aircraft.
Rich is a native of Jackson, Tennessee and attended the University of Memphis, earning a Bachelor of Arts degree in History. A 2006 distinguished graduate of the Naval War College in Newport, R.I., he earned a Master of Arts degree in National Security Affairs and Strategic Studies. His other accolades include being a graduate of the Joint Forces Staff College (2013) and Federal Executive Fellow at the Brookings Institution where he earned a Certificate in Public Leadership from Washington University in St. Louis and the Brookings Executive Education program (2013). Rich belongs to the National Association of Realtors and the Northern Virginia Association of Realtors.
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Chris Meyer has been a funeral home owner for the last fourteen years. In addition to learning many things about love, loss, and life, his entrepreneurial spirit drove him to create two other funeral homes from the ground up. In doing so, he obtained fourteen loans over a ten-year period. As he was assembling yet another loan package for a bank one day, he thought there has got to be an easier way. He created a prototype and showed it to a friend. Together they built magillaloans.com, an anonymous loan search engine that educates and empowers all borrowers in the loan process.
Meyer has a Juris Doctorate and Master's in Environmental Law (Magna Cum Laude) from Vermont Law School and a BA in Politics and History from Brandeis University. He has been a licensed New York State attorney for over twenty-four years.
Prior to his funeral life, he wrote, directed, and produced a low budget film called "Black is White". He has been married for over eighteen years and enjoys coaching his sons in every sport. He is also a member of the Kiwanis Club and Chamber of Commerce in his community.
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Kirk Cameron is known by millions as “Mike Seaver” from the 1980’s hit sit-com, Growing Pains. Since then, he’s invested his time and energy into faith and family-focused films, television shows, and live events. These projects include Fireproof -the marriage-centered film that became the #1 inspirational movie of the year.
Kirk's new talk show, Takeaways, airs weekly on Monday nights on TBN. Recently, he's been featured in the national media for his American Campfire Revival: 100 day plan where he urges the family of faith to return to the principles that will bring blessing and protection to America. Kirk's newest feature film with the Kendrick Brothers, called Lifemark, is about the value of life in the womb and the beauty of adoption.
He and his wife, Chelsea, met on the set of Growing Pains and have been married for 31 years and have raised wonderful children.
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Today, my amazing guest and teenage expert talks about how a family can come together as a team where the where the parents are the captains and the teenagers are the part of the team and the players, how to overcome power struggles with teens, and how to crumble the wall that stands between you and the connection with your teenager.
Nellie Harden is the mother of four truly amazing daughters, all in high school and middle school. She loves adventure, laughing, random dancing, singing, learning and teaching.
Avid reader, lover of personal and leadership development and always striving to be a better version of herself.
She started The 6570 Family Project because she saw the great potential of this time, the second half of childhood, that we have with our kids. This is the training ground for their adulthood and not something to be left to chance and hope, but something you can forge relationship, guidance, trust and connection through and you do this together.
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David Meltzer is the Co-founder of Sports 1 Marketing and formerly served as CEO of the renowned Leigh Steinberg Sports & Entertainment agency, which was the inspiration for the movie Jerry Maguire.
His life’s mission is to empower OVER 1 BILLION people to be happy. This simple yet powerful mission has led him on an incredible journey to provide one thing: VALUE.
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Yogi Roth is a Pac-12 Networks college football analyst, Emmy award-winning Filmmaker, Scholar, New York Times Best-Selling Author, accomplished Coach, Motivational Speaker, Media Personality, Host and World-Traveler. Over the past 20 years Yogi has been driven by the power of sports and story.
Yogi began his storytelling career after coaching football at USC, co-authoring the New York Times best-seller Win Forever with Pete Carroll, as well as his second book From PA to LA. As a filmmaker, he recently Executive Produced and Hosted All American Stories on the CW and has produced or directed multiple documentaries with the Pac-12 Networks, NFL Films, Bleacher Report and ESPN, including the Emmy-nominated film Keep Climbing: 2013 Elite 11, and the award-winning film Life In A Walk.
A graduate of the University of Pittsburgh, Yogi walked-on to the football team and earned a full athletic scholarship. He transitioned to coaching and joined the USC Football staff while earning magna cum laude with a master’s degree in Communications Management at the Annenberg School for Communications and Journalism. He also teaches a class titled Storytelling: The Internship to Pac-12 student-athletes.
He was also the co-founder of Win Forever, LLC with Pete Carroll, which was a company dedicated to coaching coaches on the development of a philosophy.
As an actor Yogi has appeared on Comedy Central, multiple national commercials and in various independent films.
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Recognized as a thought leader by the American Psychological Association, Dr. Lisa Damour co-hosts the Ask Lisa podcast, writes about adolescents for the New York Times, appears as a regular contributor to CBS News, and works in collaboration with UNICEF.
She is the author of two New York Times best sellers, Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood and Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls, and the soon-to-be-published book, The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents.
Dr. Damour graduated with honors from Yale University and worked for the Yale Child Study Center before earning her doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Michigan. She has been a fellow at Yale’s Edward Zigler Center in Child Development and Social Policy and the University of Michigan’s Power Foundation. She and her husband are the proud parents of two daughters.
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Life can be pretty crazy. One moment you can be pumping gas and the next you can be threatened by a stranger who attacks you. That's why we need to be prepared. We need to learn how to defend ourselves. We need to know how to spot danger, be before it becomes a threat, and how to stay one step ahead of danger that lurks around every single corner.
Today my guest shares insights on how we can be better protectors for our family. Teach our kids on how to protect themselves and how to avoid the most common mistakes we make when we aren't being situationally vigilant.
Josh Brisbane is a professional SAVAGE. For the past 20 years, he has been surrounding himself with the best fighters on the planet and learning how to fight, protect and stand his ground. When he is not training, Josh is surfing and spending time with his family. He also hosts The Savage Watermen Podcast, where he interviews everyone from fighters, surfers, entrepreneurs, investors and much more.
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Lucas Black, my celebrity guest today shares his story and a decision and why he temporarily left the Hollywood celebrity scene to spend more time with his wife and kids.
He also talks about why his faith is such a foundational part of his. And why time is the most precious asset we have.
Lucas York Black is an American film and television actor best known as the main character Sean Boswell in The Fast and the Furious: Tokyo Drift, along with his other known roles such as Caleb Temple in the CBS television series American Gothic, and Special Agent Christopher LaSalle on CBS's NCIS: New Orleans. His notable films include Sling Blade, Crazy in Alabama, and Friday Night Lights.
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Jeff Adamson is a former Canadian wrestler who co-founded SkipTheDishes out of a basement in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan with nothing but some pocket lint and a dream of building a successful Canadian startup.
Now, Jeff is pursuing his next startup venture as Co-Founder and Chief Merchant Officer at Neo Financial where we’re forging partnerships that reimagine how brands personalize their engagement with customers.
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Thaddeus Michael Bullard is an American college and retired professional football player and American professional wrestler better known as WWE Superstar Titus O’Neil. He is an accomplished athlete, global entertainer, philanthropist and author of the book “There’s No Such Things As A Bad Kid.”
He grew up in poverty, labeled a “bad kid” who would be dead or in jail by the time he was 16, but people invested in him when they had nothing to gain in return. As a result, he graduated from the University of Florida with academic and athletic accolades. Bullard has made it his mission to create change for those in need.
His professional wrestling career began when he was part of the second season of NXT and also competed on the show's fifth season, NXT Redemption. He has been a one-time WWE Tag Team Champion as part of The Prime Time Players with Darren Young and a one-time WWE 24/7 Champion, being the inaugural champion.
Through his Bullard Family Foundation, in partnership with Hillsborough County Public Schools, he’s transforming Sligh Middle Magnet School and the surrounding area in Tampa, Florida into an innovative education and community hub to create lasting generational change. This includes a first-class gym for school staff, a multi-million-dollar track and turf field for community health and wellness, and a prosperity center offering support services to lift families out of poverty.
Recently Bullard was named a finalist for the ESPN Muhammad Ali Sports Humanitarian Award.
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“Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again and this time more intelligently.” - Henry Ford
I love that quote and it’s perfectly applicable for today's podcast. Today's topic is resilience and restarting and emotional intelligence, and my guest today is one of the world's experts on the topic.
He shares his own raw and unapologetic authentic story of coming from the ashes of darkness and pivoting his life. He shares ways that we can increase our emotional IQ and how we can be a rock for those who depend on us.
Josh Connolly is one of the UK's most influential mental health advocates. He has appeared multiple times on the BBC, ITV and Channel 5 News.
He has spoken in the House of Commons to contribute to policy on mental health issues. He was also a script consultant for the TV show Hollyoaks.
Thanks to his motto "It’s fighting against what we feel is what gets us problems" Josh Connolly has run workshops on resilience in schools and for many brands around the world.
Since 2014 he has been an ambassador for Nacoa, an association that supports children of alcoholic parents.
Today, Josh speaks openly on the importance of emotional intelligence as a way to optimize our relationships. He also shares his incredibly authentic story and going through dark times in his life where he actually considered ending it all and how he can use our humility as a superpower to inspire others.
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“Life is like a camera. Focus on what's important, capture the good times, develop from the negatives, and if things don't work out, take another shot.” Anonymous
I don’t know who this quote is from, however it is completely and totally appropriate for today's podcast. My guest shares how to be fully present in the moment despite the constant demand of his celebrity.
How we can be a more compassionate father and that it's never too late to learn how to do new things.
Richard Onis a songwriter and he is the lead guitarist for the American Rock Rock Group, o a r. He was born in Washington dc. He began playing guitar and piano for his local church group growing up, and he even talks about it in this podcast how his aunt, who taught him how to play piano, actually fired him from piano, which actually he was hoping for all along so he could pick up the guitar.
He has had a love of community and music that he has literally carried with him his entire life, and since their first eighth grade talent show, Richard and the Band O.A.R. has toured the world building a huge fan base, leading them to venues such as Madison Square Garden and the Red Rocks while spreading love and building community along the way.
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The couples that are meant to be together are the ones that go through everything that's designed to tear them apart and come out even stronger. That's an anonymous quote, but incredibly appropriate for today's podcast because my guest shares an unapologetic, authentic story that is incredibly inspiring.
Today he shares an absolute brutal situation that was such an uphill battle. It could have easily torn his marriage apart. However, instead, they used it as a way to deepen their connection, strengthen their relationship, despite facing what seemed to be an impossible obstacle to overcome.
Matt Hadden is the president of Pioneer Belts (General Leathercraft Mfg.), a 3rd generation family-owned and operated business that services lifters around the world - all from their small town in central Texas.
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The success of our marriage depends on several different factors, but most importantly, we simply need to come to terms with the fact that we can't just wing the most important relationship of our life. We have to be intentional about learning skills like connection, communication, and creating a deep level of intimacy.
Unfortunately, we don't learn these things growing up and our relationships truly suffer for it. Today, my guest gets raw and real on how his marriage suddenly came to an end, the clues that he saw in hindsight and what he could have done to save his marriage.
Matthew Fray is a relationship coach, blogger, and author of This is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships.
His marriage ended in 2013. It involved a lot of sobbing, self-loathing, and feeling sorry for myself. A drunken phone call with a phone-a-therapist prompted him to “journal his feelings,” only instead of writing in a private journal like an adult, he drank more alcohol and published it to the internet.
He found new life and purpose blogging about the end of my marriage, discussing relationships with others, and self-reflecting on how his own beliefs and actions contributed to his family’s demise. A bunch of people said it looked, sounded, and felt just like their marriage, and they all had a holy shit moment together, realizing collectively that their relationship conflict and trust-erosion patterns are all pretty much the same.
That journey blossomed into a new career as a relationship coach, and then, an opportunity to write a book. He's the divorced guy who got a tiny bit famous for leaving dishes by the sink. But it turns out it was never really about the dishes.
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“Dates got you to a place where you wanted to marry each other. And if you wanna stay married, then keep dating your spouse.” That's a quote today from Andy Trob.
Today my two guests who are actually brothers share insights on constantly elevating our marriages and why and how we need to constantly date our wives no matter how long we've been married. We've gotta do it for the sake of the marriage, for the sake of the family, and even believe it or not, for the sake of the kids.
Vince, he's been in the fitness industry for over 20 years and he began to impact others as the skinny guy Savior , where he transformed thousands of people from skinny and scrawny to strong and secure.
His no no nonsense muscle building system has given confidence and motivation to people all over the. And over the past seven years, Vince has transformed his expertise and experience to helping hundreds of fitness coaches build their own online business. He is a guru of fitness and marketing and lifestyle, and his actions have changed countless lives.
Adrian has also spent his life mentoring and bringing out the best in others. And for the past 15 years, Adrian has established himself as an award-winning teacher department, head podcaster, and high school leadership mentor to thousands of students and hundreds of teachers. Adrian is the executive director of Hopes Rise, a charity in Toronto that serves marginalized and underprivileged children in low income neighborhoods.
Adrian's strategies for establishing healthy family rhythms have been used by countless homes with remarkable success.
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Leaders are not exempt from adversity and obstacles. In fact, if anything, leaders have a larger target on our backs when it comes to challenges. If you're listening to this podcast, that means you are a dad and or husband, and that makes you a leader. Today, my guest, Jeff LoVecchio, former professional hockey player, shares his journey as a leader in the NHL, the adversity he faced, and how he led himself and his team despite his challenges and the success that came from it.
Jeff LoVecchio is a former professional hockey player and personal trainer. He grew up in my backyard, St. Louis. Through hard work and dedication, self-discipline, he willed himself into a division one scholarship at Western Michigan University.
After 3 years at Western Michigan University, he signed with the Boston Bruins for 3 years before being traded to the Florida Panthers, Providence Bruins, Florida Panthers for their AHL team for a season and a half.
Unfortunately, he sustained multiple injuries, including multiple concussions and it was decided that it would be best for his career and longevity to start playing overseas. Then over the next six years he was fortunate enough to play in the top leagues in Italy, Norway, Austria and Asia, living in places that had different values and societal norms than what we are accustomed to over in the U.S.
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When it comes to saving and choosing a college with our kids, there are several variables that can seem overwhelming. Many of us don't know where to start, and our kids are looking to us to guide them and lead them through this transition. Today, my guest shares many insights on choosing the right college, ways to save for tuition early and how we can be armed with the best information possible to make the right decisions.
Robert Farrington is America's Millennial Money Expert® and America's Student Loan Debt Expert™. He is also the founder of The College Investor, an organization focused on helping millennials get out of student loan debt and start building real wealth for their future.
This project was born out of Robert's own experience, it all started with a blog and he realized the important role of student loan debt. This led him to write his first eBook, Student Loan Debt: Getting in Smart, Getting out Painlessly.
Through years of experience, he has been able to help others, thanks to the conclusion that developing multiple streams of income - investing, the side hustling, and more - are the key to building real wealth.
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"Don't take life too seriously because you'll never get out alive". That's a quote from one of my favorite movies, Van Wilder starring Ryan Reynolds. Many of us take life very seriously and at times it doesn't feel very enjoyable. We focus on challenges, shortcomings, and obstacles. Today, my guest shares insights on how we can enjoy life, laugh in the face of adversity and embrace challenges using humor.
Robert King is a NYC-based writer/actor. He has had numerous scripts produced, including his award-winning solo show Halfrican-American, and his first film, which was produced by Four Times Films. He was a senior writer/performer for Lorne Michaels' Above Average, where he created and hosted the popular web series Your Biggest Fan where he worked with celebrities like Jane Lynch, Alan Alda, and Russell Brand. Robert has created various web-series, and scripts of his have been finalists in the Austin Film Fest, and both the New York and Hollywood Screenplay Contests. He was also a recipient of NBC's Diversity Award for writing and performing. As an actor Robert recently performed in Billy Crystal's stage show, Have A Nice Day, alongside Kevin Kline, Annette Benning, and others. Robert has also worked on various television shows from Law & Order: SVU to The Blacklist, and films such as Don't Think Twice with Mike Birbiglia and Can You Keep A Secret opposite Alexandria Daddario.
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"Only married people can understand how you can be miserable and happy at the same time." That's a quote from one of my favorite comedians, Chris Rock.
Only married people can understand how you can be miserable and happy at the same time. That's a quote from one of my favorite comedians, Chris Rock. Our marriage is the most important relationship we have in our lives. It's also the most complicated and dynamic. Today, my two guests will share how we can elevate our marriage, our connection, and our communication without fear and uncertainty.
Seth Studley. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley. She's a marriage expert and a motivational speaker. They are changing the face of relationship advice with their podcast, along with their resources, and it's called The Anatomy of Us.
Seth and Melanie know firsthand what it takes to change and heal, and they are using their knowledge to make the resources they wish they had 13 years ago when Melanie gave Seth a black eye. They merge hard earned relationship advice with raw and real teaching to approach and transform the marriages of their podcast listeners and their coaching clients, helping couples all over the world to create the fulfilling relationship that they deserve.
The Studley's talk about how we can take personal accountability and extreme ownership as the first step to healing any relationship and marriage. Vel, how escaping with porn, alcohol, or other distractions is actually not the issue, but the symptom of an underlying complication that's not being addressed.
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Can you imagine losing a leg at age 8 and not letting that define you?
A loving husband and family man, Jeff Glasbrenner is a former wheelchair basketball player, he has run triathlons, marathons, and world champion in the Paralympics.
Jeff Glasbrenner is a Paralympian who became the first American amputee to successfully climb Mount Everest in 2016. Now, he’s working toward his next goal – climbing the Seven Summits and completing the Explorers Grand Slam.
Jeff Glasbrenner’s motivational public speaking inspires people all over the world. His opportunity in life came at eight years old, on the day he was involved in a traumatic farming accident that left him a below-the-knee amputee. Most would call this a tragedy, but he considers this his greatest opportunity, which he chose to embrace by continually excelling at wheelchair basketball, triathlons, and by being a husband and father to two children.
He has traveled to dozens of different countries, has met amazing people, and has risen to a world-class level in sports. In wheelchair basketball, he holds a National Championship scoring record of sixty-three points and twenty-seven rebounds in one game, and played in Europe professionally for three years. The author is a three-time Paralympian and a two-time World Champion (Gold Medal). He has completed 25 Ironman distance triathlons, and has won numerous races in his division.
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In years past, many cultures have had rites of passages for young boys transitioning into manhood. Over recent decades, these rites of passages for boys have since vanished. However, a rite of passage is a powerful transitional experience for a young man that can be an empowering experience that can change his life in such a profound manner. On this episode we talk about the benefits of a rite of passage, the life changing experiences and the lessons that serve a man for a lifetime.
Steven Arms lives in Portland, Oregon with his wife and is the proud father of two young children. He is an author, speaker, thought leader, and innovator.
He's also the best selling author of Milestone to Manhood, a Christian right of passage to help your 13 year old son make the leap from boyhood to manhood. He's got a passion for teaching others. He writes in a way to record the best practices of various aspects of life. His writing reflects his personal interests, which include faith, family, athletics, and engineering.
His book, Milestone to Manhood is about a once in a lifetime weekend that a father or a grandfather can take and organize his son on his 13th birthday. The weekend is designed to mark your son's entrance into manhood in a meaningful way, in addition to bestowing the title of Man onto your son. The purpose of the weekend is also to share advice and wisdom with him.
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We all wanna raise strong, confident men who grow up to be an asset to society. We are currently facing a generation of fathers who are more impacted by a fatherless environment, me included, than ever before. Whether you grew up with a positive father figure, a toxic one or an absent one, my guest today is one of the top thought leaders in the world on how we can be better equipped to raise strong, young, confident young men who will positively impact the world for good.
A best-selling author and acclaimed speaker, Dr. Warren Farrell is a political scientist, professor and activist on key issues within masculinism and the men's rights movement.
He was chosen by the Financial Times of London as one of the world's 100 most important thought leaders, his books have been published in more than 50 countries and translated into 19 languages.
The Boy Crisis, (co-authored with John Gray) is a New York Times bestseller as well as other books such as Why Men Are the Way They Are, and the international bestseller The Myth of Male Power.
Warren Farrell is the only man to have been elected three times to the Board of Directors of the National Organization for Women of New York. In addition Dr. Farrell teaches couples communication courses across the country, and lectures internationally on the global boy crisis, its causes and solutions.
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For some effective leadership is a characteristic that many aspire to have or achieve. But while leadership can be a characteristic, it's also a science, a process, and an art. Today my guest shares how we can become an effective leader in all facets of our life by learning the art, the science and the process of leadership.
Errol Doebler is a 1991 Graduate of the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD. During his time as a Naval Officer, Errol served as Assistant Operations Officer onboard the USS Monongahela, Assistant Platoon Commander at SEAL Team FOUR, and a Platoon Commander at Seal Team ONE.
After spending time in the private sector as a sales leader, Errol joined the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) where he investigated International Terrorist Organizations out of the FBI’s flagship office in New York City and also served as a member of the FBI’s New York SWAT Team. Because of his background and experience, Errol was attached to the United States Army’s 75th Ranger Regiment while serving as a Special Agent for the FBI. While deployed to Afghanistan in 2010 with the 75th Ranger Regiment, Errol participated in extensive combat operations and was subsequently presented with the FBI’s second highest award for valor, the Shield of Bravery, for his actions on the battlefield.
Errol left the FBI after 13 years of service to begin his leadership consulting firm, Leader 193, in 2016. Errol has worked with executives and teams from Fortune 100 companies, professional sports organizations, small technical startups, and individual executives across a vast array of industries around the world as the Founder of Leader 193.
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When it comes to marriage and relationship dynamics, men and women not only operate differently, but we're wired differently. Understanding and navigating these differences can easily be the difference between a successful and fulfilling marriage and a disaster. Today my guest shares not only the differences of men and women, but how we can overcome the most difficult obstacles and challenges in our married lives.
Famed author of one of the most recognized books, "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" John Gray is a passionate writer on the subject of the male mind. Thanks to his success USA Today included his book in the list of the 10 most influential books of the last quarter century. This book was the bestselling book of the 1990s.
John Gray has more than 20 books to his credit with his Mars/Venus series. All of them have helped change the way men and women view their relationships. Dr. Gray helps to better understand and respect differences in personal and professional relationships. His approach is based on various communication techniques with nutritional choices that contribute to brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness and romance.
When it comes to redesigning our entire marriages, it's all about controlling ourselves and being the change maker, not pointing the fingers. We only can control what we can control, and we need to be focused on ourselves. Learning skills like tactical empathy, using emotional labels, using mirroring, using generative questions, and creating an environment of psychological safety where your wife feels seen, heard, and safe.
Kurt Young is an independent insurance agent. He and his wife are the owners of their own company (Kurt Young Insurance Group) where they help clients with their insurance and financial needs.
After living through a stroke, Kurt has made radical changes in his life and is one of the most active members of the Dad Edge Acceleration Program.
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When it comes to resilience as a man, husband, and father, it's a critical skill that we often overlook, but yet, it's so vitally important. Today my guest shares unforgettable, vivid stories of growing up on the streets of Venezuela, constantly in survival mode and fighting for his life until the age of 15 where he ultimately moved to United States and fulfilled his dream of becoming an FBI agent. Today you will learn how we can tap into the limitless power of resilience and perseverance despite our upbringing and challenge.
Anthony Arismendi is a former FBI agent with a highly decorated and distinguished career spanning two decades of undercover and special operations against drug cartels, gangs, organized crime, violent criminals and terrorist organizations.
Thanks to this background, Anthony joined the FBI and has worked as a member of the SWAT team, as a supervisory agent in two field offices and at FBI headquarters, and as a unit chief in the FBI's Criminal Investigation Division. He is currently the President and CEO of ARIXMAR and a sought-after speaker, sharing his compelling and motivational story with public and private organizations across the country.
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When it comes to fitness and nutrition, many of us are focused only on the physical aspects and the benefits, and at times only being focused on the physical results of our health isn't enough of a motivator for us to change. Today, my guest Joel Staley and I not only do a deep dive on the physical benefits, but also the mental, emotional, and even relational benefits with our wives and kids.
Joel Staley is a fitness coach and creator of the Shed Fat FAST program. Through his fasting and fat loss programs he has now served over 1200 clients that have been transformed, and collectively his clients have lost more than 40 thousand pounds in the past three years.
His team is made up of mentors who will help and guide you every step of the way in this new stage of your life. Each of the plans are fully customized and ensure results in 90 days and with lasting effects, but only if you commit and take action.
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There's a sleeping giant in every single man. Awakening those giants within and turning them into legends is a desire that every single man has in his heart. As we navigate life, a lot of us are searching for external things we can do to awaken these sleeping giants. However, this awakening starts. As an inside job.
Brian Bogert is the proud father of 2 children and loving husband, Brian helps coach his clients to find a balance or integration between their life and work. He has a B.S. in Business Administration and a B.A. in Psychology from the University of Redlands.
Brian is known for his positive leadership and is a strong supporter of non-profit and philanthropic foundations. He has served on advisory boards and committees such as the American Cancer Society, Adelante Healthcare, TGEN, United Blood Services, the YMCA, Scottsdale Leadership and Valley Leadership. He is also the founder of the Phoenix Children's Hospital Patient and Family Leadership (PALs) group, which is dedicated to giving patients and their families the best possible experience during their treatment.
He is co-creator of the mobile app, Simply Sayin' to help children understand confusing medical terms involved in their care.
Brian Bogert's life purpose is to help awaken the sleeping giant in every human being by helping them grasp that which is just out of reach.
In a disconnected world, Brian is revolutionizing the way people, leaders and entrepreneurs connect deeply with their authentic self to achieve the best version of themselves thanks to his life philosophy on "how to embrace pain to avoid suffering", "people before profits" and "who before what" have helped individuals and businesses discover and activate their unlimited potential.
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TikTok, Snapchat and Instagram are the most popular social media platforms for our kids today, and especially our teenagers. We are the first generation of parents that are confronted with the battle for our kids' time, their attention, and even their mental health. My guest today gives us a deep dive look at the impact of these social media platforms and what they are doing to our kids' lives, their mental health, and how we can be best armed and prepared to guide them as parents.
My guest today is Richard Capriola. He spent 11 years working as an addictions counselor for Menninger Clinic in Houston Texas before retiring in 2019. Menninger Clinic is one of the top ten psychiatric hospitals in the United States and specializes in the assessment, stabilization and treatment of adults and adolescents with substance abuse and psychiatric disorders. During his tenure there he worked in the Adolescent Treatment program and the adult Comprehensive Psychiatric Assessment and Stabilization program. Working closely with psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers and nurses he was responsible for comprehensive assessments and individual and group counseling with patients diagnosed with substance use disorders.
His job with Menninger Clinic was a second career. Prior to joining Menninger, he spent 30 years working for the Illinois State Board of Education where he was a lobbyist, communications and external relations manager and special assistant to the State Superintendent of Education. After retiring from the State of Illinois in 2004 he worked as a mental health crisis counselor in central Illinois until he joined Menninger in 2008.
Now retired, he lives with his wife in Katy, Texas, a suburb of Houston. He enjoys reading, writing, traveling, and spending time with family who live in Texas and on both coasts. He has one son, two stepchildren and four grandchildren.
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We only have 18 summers with our kids, and then they're gone. As much as we don't wanna think about it. Our kids will not be under our own roof forever. Today, my guest and I talk about ways we can embrace moments, be a hundred percent present with our kids, create a relationship with our wives, where it feels like we're always newly dating, no matter how long we've been together and how we can save for the future.
Father of 4 graduates and loving husband, Matt Meline is the founder and CEO of PrairieFire, a company dedicated to helping financial planning and advice.
Matt is committed to improving his clients' quality of life through better money planning and investments by building the components to help families prepare so that when their children go to college it is not an issue of stress or conflict, and helping them plan for an exciting empty nest lifestyle along with a financial plan for the second half of their lives.
A graduate of the University of Northern Iowa, Matt traveled the Midwest primarily as senior manager for various banking organizations but in the mid 1990s decided to become a full time financial planner.
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Porn is one of the most common traps for men to fall into. Many of us think it's harmless but the fact of the matter is porn use will steal the number one precious commodity in our life and that is our time. My guest today gives us a deep dive into the emotional and psychological impact that porn has on our brain, our lives, relationships, and even productivity.
A passionate and faithful promoter of mental health, Dr. Cameron Staley is a clinical psychologist dedicated to counseling and teaching psychology courses. Creator of the “Life After” series where he helps people improve their mental health by learning about the therapeutic approaches and research available.
He gave a TEDx talk, Changing the Narrative Around the Addiction Story, where he shared the details of his research and counseling experience on helpful ways to talk about sexuality and how to effectively reduce the viewing of unwanted pornography through mindfulness. He developed a self-directed online program called Life After Pornography, which is based on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) concepts.
He co-authored a chapter on Personality Disorders for an Abnormal Psychology textbook and has published several research studies on sexuality.
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28% of Americans don't have any savings to cover bills in case of emergencies. And another 21% said they had some money saved up, but not enough to cover even three months of expenses if needed. Being a husband and father means that we are the providers for our families. My guest shares simple and effective strategies to lower our financial stress, save for emergencies and how to work together as a team with our wives to create a financial future that we can feel good about.
In 2009, Sam Dogen founded Financial Samurai, one of the top independently owned personal finance sites today with over 1 million organic visitors a month.
During the middle of the financial crisis in 2009, he began Financial Samurai to help make sense of the financial crisis. He had been working in finance for 10 years and thought he had been doing all the right things with my money – saving 50%+, diversifying into real estate, maxing out my 401(k), etc. Yet, he still lost about 35% of my net worth within a matter of six months. It was a humbling experience.
On the bright side, the financial crisis made him realize that he no longer wanted to work in the financial services industry. He lost the hunger to make lots of money and climb the corporate ladder after 13 years in the business. Instead, the downturn focused his attention on something he really enjoyed doing: writing and connecting with others online.
He found himself addicted to Financial Samurai before work, during his lunch break, and after work. He was having so much fun! Therefore, in the Fall of 2011, he came up with the idea of negotiating a severance to be free from work for good.
Sam has been married for 14 years and is the father of 2 kids.
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We all experience times of fear, worrying, suffering, and stress through life. Sometimes it can last a day, weeks, months, seasons, or even years. But the bottom line is life was never meant to be easy or joyful at all times.
However, we can shorten these tough times in our lives by becoming more resilient today, my guest shares from a faith based lens on how we can become more emotionally and spiritually resilient, even when it seems impossible.
Daniel Fusco grew up in a nominal Catholic family, and never heard much about Jesus. Because of faithful people sharing with him the truth about who Jesus is, he came to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ in 1998 while he was in his last year at Rutgers University in New Brunswick, NJ.
He employs what some describe as a unique style of teaching. He likes to take the timeless truths of Scripture and make them easily accessible and applicable for men and women of all ages, backgrounds, and cultures. He also gets to host the Real. with Daniel Fusco TV show and the Jesus is Real Radio Ministry, featuring messages on TV and radio stations across the country.
He loves to write and is a featured contributor to “Preaching Today,” and has published articles with Leadership Journal, pastors.com, and Calvarychapel.com. He’s written three books, Ahead of the Curve, (self-published), Honestly, Getting Real About Jesus and our Messy Lives, and Upward, Inward, and Outward, Love God, Love Yourself, Love Others (both published by NavPress). All books are available at Amazon.com.
He has taught at churches, retreats, youth rallies, leadership seminars, seminaries, college campuses, and pastor’s conferences both in the States and abroad.
He is married to Lynn. They live with their three children and a crazy dog in Southwest Washington.
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Busy is a four letter word that is very familiar to men, husbands and fathers, especially when it comes to our professions and careers. It's not only our careers that keep us busy, but also all the demands of life. Many of us have the perception that we just don't have the time to live the life we truly want, create the marriage that we ultimately desire and have the connection with our kids that we truly want today.
My legendary guest gives us specific strategies on how we can overcome the busyness of life, be insanely effective with our time, create the marriage we have always wanted and be the dads our kids deserve.
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On this episode I talk to Jeff Bouwman and Jason MacKenzie, 2 amazing men that help co-host and facilitate The Dad Edge Business Accelerator.
We talk about everything related to our upcoming event and why you must join us!
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Being a parent who is supportive of our kids, hopes and dreams is something some of us are on board with and others aren't because it sometimes makes us uncertain. Some of our kids have hopes and dreams that might not make sense to us and even makes us nervous. My guest today is one of the biggest icons in the music industry and he began his career at the age of 12.
And if it wasn't for his parents' support, he wouldn't be where he is today. My guest and I discussed what it means to support our kids, even when it feels uncertain, being a high demand celebrity while balancing fatherhood and what it means to truly chase your dreams.
Angel “AROCK” Castillo is the founder and CEO of bpm music, a music and tech company focused on providing musicians of all kinds with the tools they need to create and perform.
With a deep-rooted love for music and a passion for business, AROCK’s work spans a range of industries, including music, technology, marketing, sales and design.
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Nothing is off the table when it comes to creating businesses and putting food on the table.
Chris Lesso is an expert at optimizing the power of drumming to elevate focus, confidence, and self expression. LTR (Life Through Rhythm) is an attitude and way of life, and it leverages drumming as a force to help you reach your fullest potential and live the art of possibility every day.
Chris began his journey early, drumming and playing piano at the age of 7 – and he’s never looked back. He has studied with world-renowned educators including Dom Famularo and Jim Blackley to name a few, and has traveled the world performing with some of the best in the business, while also leading his own band modus factor. Having studied all over the world with a ‘boots on the ground’ approach and seeking out the very best to learn from, Chris now distills years of learning to serve you on your quest to become your best self through drumming.
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When it comes to raising our kids, many of us are simply repeating several ways that we were raised. We simply don't know any other way. And many of us are searching for ways to break patterns that truly don't serve us, our wives, or even our kids today. My guest goes over what it means to design a family operating system of high standards and character, how we can raise young men and women who will impact the world for good, for generations to come and how we as husbands and fathers can learn the skills to make it happen.
He’s a former public school educator, administrator, and professor at Stanford University. He’s also the host of the Essential 11 Podcast, and a world-renowned keynote speaker with clients ranging from Lockheed Martin, the United States Airforce, Caterpillar, and Honeywell.
He’s made it his life’s mission to find alternative and powerful education opportunities for our young men and women including a partnership with Tim Kennedy in young men’s mentoring programs.
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We are discussing rites of passage. This is something that is needed in our culture. My guest today is Bill Winchester and I wanted to bring him on because this subject is a must in today’s society. Bill and I talk about why a rite of passage is important, the things that are most meaningful for these young men to experience when they are going through a rite of passage.
As far back as he can remember, Bill’s life has been a mix of hard work and the pursuit of fun adventures. His parents, who both experienced difficult and even tragic upbringings, married young and quickly set about doing the best they could to raise a family. But it’s hard to build anything solid on broken foundations. Growing up as the firstborn son, Bill embraced his role of leader and protector for his two younger sisters. And as he watched his parents struggle to overcome the challenges of their childhoods while raising kids of their own, he learned first hand how important healthy families are for the future of our world.
Just before starting high school Bill met a cute girl named Christie, and seven years later they were married. Within months of getting married Bill started his own remodeling company and then he and Christie learned that they were going to be parents sooner than they had planned.
Fast forward 22 years, and Bill’s life has been full with one daughter, two sons, years of watching theater performances, coaching football and baseball, and taking his family on adventures wherever he can find them.
Over the last few years, as his children have grown more capable and less dependent, Bill has felt an increasing urgency to help other fathers prepare their children to successfully transition into healthy manhood (and womanhood). And so, after 25+ years of building spaces, Bill is setting out on a new adventure as a builder of peak moments and HEROIC Men.
As this episode is releasing, he is facilitating his first Father and Son Rite of Passage in the Deschutes National Forest outside of beautiful Bend, Oregon.
If you’re interested in learning more about the importance of Rites of Passage, Bill would love to connect with you and even has a book he’d like to give to you and your son. Just email him at [email protected] and put the word Initiation in the subject line.
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It doesn't matter if you are an everyday dad or like my guest today, who is a celebrity and in the limelight where there's demands on his time, demands on everything. And yet still can carve out time for his wife and for his kids. And when the world is uncertain and we kind of live in some turmoil, we have the opportunity, no matter what level we're operating at to use our gifts and talents to be a shining light and a beacon of light in someone else's darkness.
My guest for this episode, David Rosales is the lead singer of the David Rosales Band. Today we are going to hear his story as a man, husband and father. He tells the story of how he was on top of a building in Los Angeles.
Even when everyone needs something from him as an artist, he still finds time to carve for his family. He shares some wonderful stories of how regardless of what life throws at us we can use our gifts, our strengths and our talents to be a beacon of light and hope and maybe just a bit of an escape.
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On this episode with Clint Hoopes, we talk about leadership! If things are good in your business and you're the leader, then it's you. And if things in your business are bad, it's on you. It's always leadership. The success and the failures always reside on leadership.
Our leadership skills are insanely important if we want success in business, but within our marriages as well. Leadership shows up everywhere. In parenting, with how we raise and lead our kids.
My guest, Clint Hoopes is the proud father of 6 children as well as a Podcast Host and Executive Coach for Business Owners/Leaders who are husband, fathers, and family men.
Over the years he has led hundreds of employees in various roles from manager level to CEO. During that time, he and his wife continued to grow their family.
While leading hundreds of people in different industries, he has found what works and has used and taught these transformative principles and systems with life changing success. He now focuses on coaching leaders to discover the Father First Effect in their own lives.
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When it comes to making mistakes, how likely are you to forgive yourself? This podcast episode will rattle you. My guest, Gavin Meenan has come from the ashes both personally and professionally. I won’t spoil it for you, but there are a lot of stories that we go into in depth of how he went through gut-wrenching life events.
Gavin Meenan is a nationally recognised leader in the Irish health and fitness industry. Through this hands-on work with people from all walks of life, Gavin soon learned that mindset is the most critical component of success. Whether it’s in the gym, at home or in the workplace, battles are won and lost in your mind – long before you make your first move.
Gavin’s belief in this truth has been reinforced by thousands of hours spent honing his skills, delivering results for his clients, and overcoming personal challenges.
Gavin is now expanding his business to serve men everywhere. His number one goal is to help them grow stronger and live better – inside the gym, and outside it too.
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If you are a busy career guy, our time is very limited due to long hours at work. What normally happens is that we pour a lot of time, energy and our bandwidth into the business, our teams because we are trying to create an empire. We want to create these empires because we can to provide for our family and give them maybe the life we didn’t have or simply because our work makes us come alive. What usually happens is that our relationships take a backseat. I am here to tell you that it does not have to be that way.
John Goad, this episode’s guest, is a 30 year marriage veteran. I met him in Colorado as part of an in-person mastermind retreat that we host as part of our Dad Edge Business Accelerator. He has 2 grown kids and I am excited to talk to him because if there is anyone we can learn from, it is the men who have more experience than we do.
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If you really wanna get to the heart and soul of a man who is working hard for his family, it's all about trying to balance. Although it's extremely hard to balance work, life, family, and even taking care of ourselves. Sometimes it feels absolutely impossible and that is today's podcast with Alex Charfen.
Alex Charfen has created systems and processes that he not only loves to do, create businesses that are thriving, but also has time for his wife and two kids.
As a kid, he had a tough time learning. He had a tough time fitting in and following other people's rules. Alex Cahrfen started his entrepreneurial journey in middle school. He went on to run a window washing service in high school and a financial consulting firm in college. In his twenties, he became a Fortune 500 consultant working for some of the most successful people in the world.
In his early thirties, he and his wife started buying and selling houses. Following the economic crisis in 2007-2008, they lost everything and declared bankruptcy. They rose from the ashes to help our country recover real estate brokers in the United States to help our country recover from the biggest mortgage crisis in history.
Alex is now known as the go-to person for helping entrepreneurs ascend the Billion Dollar code and understand how to plan strategically throughout all of this, Alex's mission is to empower entrepreneurs, to grow and scale their businesses and to make their greatest contribution to the world.
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Imagine you woke up tomorrow and your life was completely different and totally altered from what it was yesterday. Suddenly, somehow, some way, you have a stroke and your entire left side of your body is paralyzed and life as you know it, may never be the same, you might not even live.
This is part of what I talked to my guest, Mark Ewing, today.
Mark Ewing owns a couple of successful businesses, is a husband with two kids and 2020, along with the challenges that it brought for most of us, had a little extra for him, when he was in his early forties and he woke up in the middle of the night with a full-blown stroke.
Fortunately, Mark has made a full recovery. Mark’s story brought me to my knees and it makes me think that we cannot take for granted the blessings we have today in our lives.
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Greg Olsen is an American football sportscaster and former tight end who played for 14 seasons in the NFL. He played college football at the University of Miami and was drafted by the Chicago Bears in the first round of the 2007 NFL Draft. Olsen also played for the Carolina Panthers, with whom he made three Pro Bowls, and became the first tight end in NFL history to record three consecutive seasons with at least 1,000 receiving yards. Olsen played his final season with the Seattle Seahawks in 2020.
Greg and I talk about goal setting, not only as an adult, but in a young stage of life. We touch on getting through life’s curve balls and we both open up in regards to very tough moment’s that life had in our paths.
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Mark Evans DM is a 10X best-selling author, owner of multiple multi-million dollar businesses, real estate mogul, and angel investor to countless partners.
He's involved in everything from real estate deals, restaurants, media companies, e-commerce stores, real estate developments, private lending, and everything in between.
Mark grew up in a trailer park outside of Columbus, Ohio with his parents and 2 sisters where money was a constant source of stress for his family.
He knew he wanted a better life and working a traditional 9-to-5 wasn't going to cut.
... so he went the entrepreneurial route and never looked back.
At 18 he purchased his very first company (a gutter business) for $2,000.
By 30 he was flipping upwards of 60+ homes per month without ever stepping foot into a single property.
At 40 he has his hands in over 30+ businesses, multiple cashflow streams, and has created a name for himself in the business world as "The Deal Maker" (that's what the DM in his name stands for) due to his ability to make it happen.
Mark has a business mind like no other and lives a lifestyle that most can only dream of ... but his best quality is his character. He does what he says ... and in a world full of posers and shysters ... it's refreshing to see a man keep his word and follow through. Mark is one of the good ones.
He currently resides near Cleveland, Ohio and spends half of the year in Parkland, Florida with his 2 children and his loving wife, Deena.
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Dr. Jason Dean is a husband, a father, a physician, he’s a patriot and a humanitarian. He is the founder of the Revolution Network and Brave TV.
He is dedicated to to getting the Americana and world public out of health and financial slavery. He started his career working in the NFL, MLB and NHL.
Dr. Jason Dean is a doctor of natural health, doctor of chiropractic and Advanced Nutrition Response Testing Doctor with a mission to help people get well using food as lifestyle, and operates one of the world’s largest practices: Palmer Natural Health.
Dr. Dean is the founder of Brave TV that helps to educate on health, wealth and freedom.
And he left to fulfill a bigger purpose as a physician. He lives for the truth and he works to help others see it. He grew up in an unsteady household on welfare and remembers using food stamps as a way to pay for groceries.
He made the decision at an early age that when he was older, he would never be in a similar situation as his upbringing.
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In 2013, Jennings started to purchase rental real estate, and in 2019 moved into commercial real estate, amassing a portfolio of apartment complexes, self storage, and mobile home parks.
In three years, his portfolio has grown to over $60,000,000 in value, comprising over 1500 rental units, with $800,000 a month in rents collected.
Jennings’ passion for real estate and business has blossomed into an education company-My First Million In Multifamily. Boasting the fastest growing and most engaged community on Facebook, the group has over 24,000 members in less than 2 years. With over 300 subscribers paying monthly, his courses and educational products have broken $750,000 in revenue in less than a year.
He has been married to his incredible wife, Jessica for the past 14 years.
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James Swanwick is an Australian-American entrepreneur who helps casual drinkers reduce or quit alcohol. He is also an investor, speaker, journalist, and former ESPN SportsCenter anchor and Hollywood correspondent.
He has coached thousands of people to improve their lives and performance by adopting an alcohol-free lifestyle. He is the author of The 30-Day No-Alcohol Challenge: Your Simple Guide to Easily Reduce or Quit Alcohol and the creator of Project 90, an online program providing support and coaching for individuals eliminating alcohol from their lives.
A sleep evangelist, James is the co-founder (with his brother Tristan Swanwick) of the popular health brand Swanwick Sleep, which produces blue light-blocking glasses to improve well-being and sleep quality. The company has sold more than 150,000 pairs of its “Swannies” glasses, which are worn by pro-athletes in the NFL, MLB and NBA. The product has been featured on the Kelly Ripa Show, the Today Show and in Forbes, and are recommended by some of America’s top sleep doctors.
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David Delisle is a successful author, entrepreneur and real estate investor with a background as a financial advisor and marketing director. But most importantly, he is a dad.
He has been investing since he was eleven years old and is passionate about passing on the lessons he’s learned to teach kids how to live a rich life and create the freedom for what’s most important to them…the Awesome Stuff
David is a contributor to Entrepreneur, a millionaire mentor for Money Club, and has been featured on countless podcasts, including Impacting Life 24/7 and The Mind of George Show.
He loves being outdoors with his family, laughing with friends, traveling the world, and connecting over a perfect cup of coffee.
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When it comes to your life and making mistakes, I think we can all agree we have a hard time letting things go as men. Men, we are our worst enemy at times. Sometimes the hell that we are experience is
Zach Babcock owns Alpha Underdog Empowerment. He is a great individual. He decided to go down a path that was not so positive and ended up spending time in prison. He came out of prison 8 years ago and he has done some remarkable things.
His mission is to empower underdog entrepreneurs why sharing everything he has learned and to help them level up in business in life.
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On New Year's day, my son Mason, challenged me to join a bodybuilding show along with him. We had 16 weeks to prepare. I was about 195 lbs.18% body fat and I needed to go extreme to meet the goals needed. For this I worked with Joel Staley and his team and I did some aggressive intermittent fasting.
My guest today is Joel Staley. He is the founder of Joel Staley Fitness and the creator of the Shed Fat Fast Program. He has served over 1,000 clients that have been transformed and collectively his clients have lost more than 35,000 pounds over the past 3 years.
Joel is a husband to his beautiful wife and father of 3 girls.
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This podcast is full of energy with my guest Alan Stein Jr. He brings his best game to his life, that of his family and in the way he shows up in the world.
Alan Stein, Jr. is an experienced keynote speaker and author. At his core, he’s a performance coach with a passion for helping others change behaviors. He spent 15+ years working with the highest performing basketball players on the planet (including NBA superstars Kevin Durant, Steph Curry, and Kobe Bryant). Through his customized programs, he transfers his unique expertise to maximize both individual and organizational performance.
Alan is a dynamic storyteller who delivers practical, actionable lessons that can be implemented immediately. He teaches proven principles on how to utilize the same approaches in business that elite athletes use to perform at a world-class level.
The strategies from Alan’s book, Raise Your Game: High Performance Secrets from the Best of the Best, are implemented by both corporate and sports teams around the world.
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It is believed by many women, that when a man approaches her with the desire to be intimate, aka. “have sex”, that is all that the man wants, phisical release. And quite frankly, I would argue that is not the case.
My guest, Teresa Young is one of the leading experts as it pertains to men getting the respect and appreciation and even the sex that men so much desire in relationships.
In her podcast, Teresa Young talks about shame-free marriage, relationship, co-parenting, and divorce stories that help YOU appreciate, respect, and better understand men.
She is the youngest of 3 and watched her father live as an emasculated man. She swore to herself that she did not want that.
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My guest is William Branum, retired Navy SEAL sniper instructor, speaker, and coach. He is also the founder of NAKED Warrior Recovery.
A former US Navy SEAL with 26 years of service, William Branum is the founder of NW Recovery. At an early age William knew he wanted to be part of a team that would push him beyond whatever limits he thought he had and still enjoy the outdoors and all it had to offer. He charged forward and became an Eagle Scout and joined the Navy immediately after graduating High School. After graduating from SEAL Training (BUD/S Class 208) he was stationed in Virginia Beach, VA then San Diego, CA, and finally Oahu, HI where he served on multiple SEAL Teams, taught SEAL Sniper School, and deployed around the globe.
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/376
I don’t think I’ve ever heard a story like the one that my guest shared on this podcast. We tend to give a lot of importance to things that really don’t matter and we easily forget that anyone in your life can be ripped from you in a heartbeat.
I guarantee that you will operate differently after you listen to today’s podcast.
My guet is EksAyn Anderson is an author, negotiation expert, speaker and has been seen on Forbes.com, Speaker Magazine, TV and various blogs and podcasts. He wrote a book called the Key to the Gate: Principles and techniques to get past gatekeepers.
This episode is truly a gift. Listen or watch all the way to the end.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/friday57
My guest today is Ben Bruce, English musician and vocalist for the rock band Asking Alexandria. Bruce founded the band while he was living in Dubai but the back split and he moved back to the United Kingdom, where he then started the band again under the same name.
He comes on today to share some of the lessons he learned from his upbringing, as well as this amazing relationship that he has with his mom and how he goes about navigating it. We talk about how he keeps that relationship just incredibly on point mom and how she's highly involved in his life and no matter how much fame and fortune and him being a celebrity in his life has become his mom will always look at him and say, you're always Ben to me.
Ben and I talk about how he elevates his marriage and relationships with his children.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/375
Today’s episode I am sure will make you stop for a minute and ask yourself how much of your identity you might have wrapped around certain areas of your life such as work
My guest today is an Amazon best-selling author, Robert Althuis, who wrote, “Never Enoughitis”. He is also the founder of the Sacred Wealth Institute, a mindful organization that provides coaching strategies, tools, and techniques to help private clients and businesses embody their full human potential.
Robert reached the pinnacle of success and yet, it was not enough, and today he shares that with us. On paper he had everything we could possibly want and inside the man was dying. He realized that the things that he did were not who he was. So let’s get into it.
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Don Bentley is the New York Times Bestselling author of the Matt Drake thriller series including Hostile Intent, The Outside Man, and Without Sanction as well as one forthcoming title. Don also writes in the Tom Clancy Jack Ryan, Jr. universe with Zero Hour, Target Acquired, and one forthcoming title.
Don spent a decade as an Army Apache helicopter pilot during which time he was stationed in South Korea, Germany, and Texas. While deployed to Afghanistan as a Troop Commander in support of Operation Enduring Freedom VI, Don was awarded the Bronze Star Medal and the Air Medal with “V” device for valor. Following his time in the military Don worked as an FBI Special Agent and was a member of the Dallas Office Special Weapons and Tactics (SWAT) team.
After leaving the FBI, Don worked for companies that developed technology for the U.S. Special Operations Community. He holds a B.S. in Electrical and Computer Engineering from the Ohio State University, and an M.F.A in Writing Popular Fiction from Seton Hill University.
Don lives with his family in Austin, Texas.
Show Notes:https://www.thedadedge.com/374
Today we are talking with Sheila Gregoire and she is an amazing speaker, author and brings a Christian vibe to the sex conversation.
I know that you will get a lot from this show. We talk about increasing the quality. I would sacrifice mediocre daily sex with amazing sex once a week and that’s one thing we talk about today. .
Sheila is a Christian and has a different perspective when we talk about sex and creating intimacy.
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When it comes to making mistakes and taking risks, are you fearful that you’re going to do something wrong and it's going to be irreversible? If this happens, will you be identified as a failure? That is what most people are afraid of when taking risks. We talk today about this and the stories we tell ourselves and why we get wrapped up in something like this.
My guest, Stephen Miller is an entrepreneur, best-selling author and Youtube star with his channel, The Stephen Fam, with a platform of almost 1 million followers in just 2 years. In his channel, he displays the beauty and the depth, diversity of featuring his large adoptive home of seven.
Stephen has recorded six studio albums and is the author of The Liberating King and The Worship Leaders.
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/373
Ethan Kross is one of the world’s leading experts on controlling the conscious mind. An award-winning professor in the University of Michigan’s top ranked Psychology Department and its Ross School of Business, he is the director of the Emotion & Self Control Laboratory.
Ethan has participated in policy discussion at the White House and has been interviewed about his research on CBS Evening News, Good Morning America, Anderson Cooper Full Circle, and NPR’s Morning Edition. His research has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The New Yorker, The New England Journal of Medicine, and Science.
Show Notes:https://www.thedadedge.com/friday54
My guest today is a 2-time nominated most fittest NFL football player that has ever walked the planet. Steve Weatherford, is an incredible athlete and superbowl champion.
The podcast is a bit of a surprise. We recorded this at Steve’s house and my son Mason joined in for the interview.
We spent the first half of the show talking about his walk with faith. We also talk about mindset and fatherhood.
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/372
Today’s episode has been a long time coming. My guest, Taylor Calmus and I shared the stage at Dad 2.0 back in February of 2020 right before the pandemic hit.On this episode we talk about many things, including what it was like when he started the Dude Dad and in particular what it means to be married to a strong, wonderful woman who believes in you and pushes you to greatness. Taylor Calmus, better known as Dude Dad, is a Colorado-based video creator who makes comedic content all about fatherhood and family life. His videos feature everything from sketches to crazy DIY projects and even heartfelt thoughts about the joys and challenges of fatherhood. Taylor is also the host of Super Dad, a DIY show on the Magnolia Network, where Taylor helps other dads create amazing backyard projects for their kids. Taylor and his wife, Heidi, live in Fort Collins, Colorado, with their three children. Show Notes:
Science has shown that the best way to help our kids become independent, kind, and happy is by talking with them. And yet we often find ourselves distracted, exhausted, or at a loss as to how to have meaningful conversations.
On today’s episode we talk to As a speech pathologist, writer, and Harvard lecturer, Rebecca Rolland is passionate about the power of language and conversation to enhance our relationships.
In her latest book, The Art of Talking with Children and her approach, she shows you how to enrich your interactions with the kids in your life and build the skills kids really need to thrive. Rebecca talks about meaningful conversations as a “double promise.” They build your bond with kids in the moment, and they help kids become kinder, confident, and more creative.
Show Notes: https://www.thedadedge.com/371
The question then becomes, how do I actually do that? How do I not get sucked into these distractions and these other things that I could be doing but don’t move the needle at all.
My guest, Demir Bentley, is a renowned productivity experte and co-founder of The Life Hack Method. He comes from a successful background in Wall St., being burned-out from working 80 hr. work weeks. The Life Hack Method is a methodology that combines accountability with hard-hitting productivity techniques that will get us to take action.
Demir has personally coached executives from Facebook, Google, Uber, PepsiCo, and Lexar. And his clients have added millions in revenue and saved thousands of hours after implementing his coaching.
Before starting Lifehack Method, Demir & his wife Carey worked in the CPG, government, technology and finance industries. Their work has been featured in Forbes, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, and many other media outlets.
Fun fact: They live a nomadic lifestyle and are based out of Medellin, Colombia
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/friday52
Ramos founded the 11,000-strong Men in the Arena Facebook Group and a worldwide network of Men in the Arena virtual teams, where men support each other as they work to become their best version.
He and his wife Shanna live in McMinnville, Oregon. They have three adult sons and the cutest granddaughter you’ve ever seen. Jim loves the outdoors, doing anything with Shanna, and listening to men share their story over a dark roasted Americano.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/370
Are you struggling and suffering from burnout and feeling overwhelmed? Maybe you have all the strategies and read all sorts of books but things are not changing for you. Well, then you are in for a treat.
Marc Hildebrand is a husband, father, best selling author, coach and currently serving in law enforcement for the LAPD. A critical part of his success was discovering his proprietary framework called The PUSH Method, a mindself philosophy to discover your own solutions by overcoming your own subconscious obstacles. He now empowers other leaders to avoid burnout and live a life more aligned with their legacy. This episode will help you get there.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/friday51
My guest today is Gary John Bishop, who holds the record for most appearances on my this podcast. He is a NY Times best selling author of multiple books and today we are talking about relationships.
No matter how much advice we get or how much work we do on our “stuff,” nothing ever seems to make the difference. The truth of it is, you’re woefully ill-equipped for one of the most life-defining things you will ever take on—being in a committed relationship.
Whether you’re currently in one, want to be in one, half in–half out, getting over one, married, single, separated, divorced, or just overwhelmed with the whole thing, let’s cut through the morass of relationship schtick and put you back in charge. No flowery BS, no woo-woo strategies, systems, or techniques, just real talk, for real people who want a real relationship in their life that actually works.
If you are feeling any type of stress or uncertainty on how to correct some poor behavior with your kids, this is the perfect episode for you. Maybe it’s some sort of acting out, disrespect, or you’re dealing with a plethora of different problems.
Dan Peterson, founder of The Compass 4 Life, is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) and an advanced trainer for the Nurtured Heart Approach. He earned his Masters degree in Clinical Psychology from Benedictine University in 2002.
Personally trained by NHA founder Howard Glasser, Dan is considered the area expert in the Nurtured Heart Approach in the Naperville School District. He specializes in helping adults who work with or have challenging children develop strategies for their child to succeed in both the school environment and family setting. Dan wants to provide parenting tips for children with behavioral problems and encourage positive parenting.
Dan has developed his own unique coaching style based on the Nurtured Heart Approach™. He believes that in order for the NHA to be effective it must be practiced both at home and at school. To that end, he is passionate about training both parents and teachers. Dan’s vision is to train and coach teachers and parents in the Nurtured Heart Approach™ so that they can in turn provide all children with the best possible environment to flourish. He is committed to bridging the gap between home and school.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/friday50
John David Mann is coauthor of more than 30 books, including four New York Times bestsellers and five national bestsellers. His classic 2008 parable The Go-Giver (coauthored with Bob Burg) earned the 2017 Living Now Book Awards “Evergreen Medal” for its “contribution to positive global change.”
Ana Gabriel Mann, M.A., earned her degree in clinical psychology before going on to serve as an educator, therapist, corporate trainer, speaker, and coach. She currently coaches Go-Giver Marriage clients and leads the Go-Giver Marriage Coaches Training Program, training coaches from around the globe.
Show Notes: http://www.thedadedge.com/368
Today’s podcast episode is different. It’s a topic we have not touched on before, but one that I know you will enjoy. My guest today is Tanner Guzy, a men’s style coach.
Believe it or not, men have always cared about the way we look - deeply so. From Aztec warriors who wear the skins of animals to assume their powers, to the intentional scars won and worn by fencing students in Germany, to an entire spiritual realm introduced by masks in Africa - men throughout time and across the world have used their appearance to signal virtues like courage, strength, mastery, and honor.
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My guest today is Bob Lotich. Bob found himself at his breaking point in his early 20’s overwhelmed by debt and stranded 1,000 miles from home with only $7 to his name.
After crying out to God for wisdom and discovering a simple Biblically-inspired formula he reached a level of financial freedom he never dreamed possible: having a paid off house by age 31 and even reaching a personal goal of giving $1 million by age 40.
For the last 14 years he’s shared his best lessons with over 50 million readers and listeners on his award-winning website, Podcast, and courses. Bob and his wife, Linda, live in Franklin, TN with their three children.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/367
On today’s episode we talk about a few things. If you are a dad, business owner, entrepreneur or even a side hustler, you’re going to enjoy this extra. I have a great guest for you today.
My guest today is the founder of the True Transformation, Josiah Novak. He is a fat loss coach for high performers. He is also an author and is the host of the True Transformation podcast as well as the creator of the true transformation body transformation system.
His work has been featured in Fitness RX magazine, Mind Pump Media, Order of Man and many other popular outlets. He lives in Northern Virginia with his wife, Michelle and their two boys Jackson and Cameron.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/friday48
This show is full of mindset gold. When it comes to self-sabotage thoughts, when things aren’t going right, this is the show for you. My guest on this episode is Dr. John Delony and he comes on with so much energy. We talk about shame and what it does to our mentality.
Dr. John Delony is a mental health expert with two PhDs in counselor education and supervision, and higher education administration from Texas Tech University. Before joining Ramsey Solutions in 2020, John worked as a senior leader, professor and researcher at multiple universities. He also spent two decades in crisis response, walking with people through severe trauma. Now as a Ramsey Personality, he teaches on relationships, mental health and wellness.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/366
My guest today is Richard Capriola. He spent 11 years working as an addictions counselor for Menninger Clinic in Houston Texas before retiring in 2019. Menninger Clinic is one of the top ten psychiatric hospitals in the United States and specializes in the assessment, stabilization and treatment of adults and adolescents with substance abuse and psychiatric disorders. During his tenure there he worked in the Adolescent Treatment program and the adult Comprehensive Psychiatric Assessment and Stabilization program. Working closely with psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers and nurses he was responsible for comprehensive assessments and individual and group counseling with patients diagnosed with substance use disorders.
His job with Menninger Clinic was a second career. Prior to joining Menninger, he spent 30 years working for the Illinois State Board of Education where he was a lobbyist, communications and external relations manager and special assistant to the State Superintendent of Education. After retiring from the State of Illinois in 2004 he worked as a mental health crisis counselor in central Illinois until he joined Menninger in 2008.
Now retired, he lives with his wife in Katy, Texas, a suburb of Houston. He enjoys reading, writing, traveling, and spending time with family who live in Texas and on both coasts. He has one son, two stepchildren and four grandchildren.
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/friday47
My guest today is Jerry DePizzo, principal member of the rock band O.A.R..Over the past 25 years they’ve sold millions in albums, streams and tickets, including a sold-out performance at Madison Square Garden.
In this episode you are going to hear about the life of a man who is a celebrity and the way he optimizes life to show up every day at his highest level. My son Ethan is also on the call and asks some questions, so there is a lot of value behind this interview, because we not only listen to the answers to the questions I ask, but most importantly, the point-of-view behind the questions from my 16 year old son.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/365
Nikki has been a Licensed Mental Health Counselor working with children, teens, adults, and families for 15 years. She also works for LEAPT training play therapists and is an adjunct instructor for Mental Health and Social Work masters students.
She is passionate about walking with and helping families and believes the family unit is where we first learn to belong and how to navigate the world.
Shane Fuller has an MDiv and is working on his MA in Mental Health Counseling. Having four kids with his incredible wife, Brynn, really got him interested in learning everything he could about parenting.
What he loves about working with people and creating resources is helping parents feel more sure of themselves. Ultimately, he wants as many parents as possible to be at peace with themselves and how they've chosen to lean into the hard stuff in life.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/friday46
Lee Baucom, Ph.D. is a 22 year veteran of marriage therapy. His training has been in marriage and family therapy, earning two Master’s degrees and a Ph.D. in the area. He has also completed specialty training in Community Building, as well as in Personal and Life Coaching.
Lee is an experienced facilitator of health and healing for individuals, couples, families, and organizations. This experience has given Lee a different perspective on why couples have problems, and what the solutions are for these problems.
From the beginning, Lee was committed to making relationships work. It is his contention that most relationships are salvageable, and that many take the “easy way out,” rather than finding a workable solution that preserves the relationship, leaving the relationship healthy and individuals happy.
Lee has been happily married for 22 years, and has two children. Lee is devoted to his family, and sees that as inspiration for his own work with families trying to find health.
In addition to family time, in his off-hours, Lee enjoys trail running, mountain biking, and scuba diving. He also pursues flyfishing and is an avid reader with a great deal of curiosity about a number of diverse fields.
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/364
For decades, Matt Sinkovitz had a porn addiction that hung over his life like a dark cloud, until he found the tools and the discipline to master his compulsion. Now Matt’s on a mission to help men everywhere end their damaging relationship with porn and get their lives back.
He’s adopted Buddhism and uses meditation, mindfulness and purpose to help men break free of the habits that hold us back. He’s the host of the making peace with porn podcast and run’s a men’s support group of the same name on Facebook.
Matt’s facebook group runs a 90 day liberation bootcamp as well as a seven day porn abstinence challenge. Matt is passionate about the community's commitment to supporting committed fathers and husbands and ending their toxic relationship with porn so they can reignite their passion in their relationships.
Porn poses a serious problem for many young guys around the world and its insidious influence is constantly growing. We may not realize it but our relationship with porn flows into the rest of our lives, and can negatively affect us in many different ways - but if it's an issue for you, you don’t have to be a victim.
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/friday45
Coach Tony Blauer has been in the martial art, self-defense, defensive tactics, and combatives industry for over four decades.
He founded Blauer Tactical Systems (BTS) in 1985 and it has grown into one of the world's leading consulting companies specializing in the research and development of performance psychology, personal safety, and close quarter tactics & scenario-based training for law enforcement, military, and professional self-defense instructors.
His research on the neuroscience of fear and the startle-flinch lead to the development of the SPEAR System® a modern personal defense system based on physiology, physics, and psychology. It has been used by defensive tactics and combative trainers all over the world for over 30 years.
He developed the world's first impact-reduction scenario-based training equipment, called High Gear which revolutionized force-on-force training for police, SWAT, and military organizations.
After decades of interviewing victims of violent encounters and studying violence, he created the KNOW FEAR® program which focuses on managing fear through self-awareness, resiliency and a 'movement' mindset. This program has also been integrated by psychologists helping Vets to deal with PTSD.
He lives in California with his wife and kids. He still travels extensively working with individuals, corporations and government organizations around the world, providing solutions for training, performance, assessment and credentialing them to help enhance mental and physical safety of everyone that he helps train.
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https://thedadedge.com/363
As men, husbands and fathers, we are faced with adversity and obstacles around every turn. Sometimes we feel like we are faced with adversity and obstacles around every turn, and sometimes we feel like we get hit by them over and over again, like a machine gun and then some is firing at us. We just don’t know exactly what to do.
Mike McKnight is a professional ultra marathoner. He is a coach and lives in the mountains of Northern Utah. He is the father of two children. He also states that he is the husband to the best wife in the world.
In 2012, he had a skiing accident where he shattered his L one vertebrae and had two rods and nine screws surgically inserted into his spine. It was because of this experience that Mike found a love for pushing his limits and running very long distances.
He has won and set records at multiple ultra marathons. In 2019, he became the first person to win all three 200 mile races and set course records at each race. That same year Mike went out and ran and set a speed record for the 500 mile Colorado trail.This year Mike will be heading out to try to set a new speed record on the Arizona trail, which is an 800 mile trail.
Fatherhood comes with adversity and I just know this interview will shed some light on how to pursue the live you deserve for you and your family.
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Matt Schneider is just the epitome of somebody who is constantly on the hunt and the journey of living his best life, physically, mentally, emotionally, from a fatherhood perspective, marriage. The whole nine yards. He is a student and constantly looking to better himself to constantly others to also teach others as well to pursue that lifestyle.
On this episode, we talk about a lot of very vulnerable moments and I know you will grow if you apply some of these learnings.
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www.thedadedge.com/362
I was talking to my 15 year old son and he asked me what being a father was like. I responded: You remember what the first day of school was like for you? All of the uncertainty, not knowing who your classmates would be, what the teachers would be like, if you would like your schedules. I then said, that is kinda what being a dad is like, but on a daily basis. After 4 boys, it feels like that for me. I am as much of a rookie dad as the guy who’s wife is expecting right now.
My guest today, Kendall Smith is the author of the best-selling book, “Rookie Father”, which provides succinct advice and is actionable across a range of different topics that can relate to being a great father, husband, role model, etc.
Kendall has been married for 17 years and has an 8 year old son. His literally work covers a range of matters, including thrillers and even political satire.
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/friday43
Chris Gethard is a comedian based in New Jersey. He can be seen performing all over the world. He’s the host of the podcast Beautiful/Anonymous, the author of a few books, one of which caught my attention and is the topic of our show today: Dad on Pills.
He wrote and starred in an HBO special called career suicide, which was highly popular back in 2007. He also hosts the podcast New Jersey is in the world, a celebration of his home state. And in June of 2021 comedy dynamics released Chris's new special Chris Gethard, half of my life, a hybrid tour documentary and stand up show shot in a variety of DIY spaces and independent venues all over the country.
He is a father and husband. I really enjoyed this conversation with Chris and I think you will as well.
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We've been there, at least I have. And you may feel a little lost in all of it.
My guest, Kimball Lewis and I talk all about how to empower parents to overcome those tough times with our children.
Kimball Lewis is the CEO of EmpoweringParents.com. In addition to his leadership and management roles, he contributes as an editor, a homeschooling expert, and a parent coach. He resides in Orlando, Florida, with his wife and two teenage sons.
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I met Steve when we did the Squire Program. He is one of one of the instructors in that program.
I gotta tell you, some of the things we talk about you may or may not agree with, and that is okay. It is a explicit one, so watch out for the kids being around.
We go into a few different directions such as how to overcome adversity, and learning to ask yourself the right questions. I talk about raising young men and what I have done wrong, but also how I am doing things differently now.
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Ray “Cash” Care is a Navy SEAL veteran with multiple tours and other numerous overseas security details. Upon leaving SEAL Delivery Vehicle Team Two (SDV-2), Ray turned his passion and SEAL Team experience to the world of self-improvement and team building. He has become an accomplished fitness expert and speaker on topics ranging from fitness and building high functioning teams to organizational transformation. Ray is the Founder of CONQUER, a leadership and team building program designed to push you physically, mentally and emotionally for individuals to break through personal barriers. Between his experiences in the SEAL Teams and being featured on television, Ray has become a mindset and team building expert. He has also starred in Captain Philips with Tom Hanks and was selected by The United States Navy as the ambassador to be featured in the “Indoctrination” film showed to all recruits at the Great Lakes Naval Recruit Training Command (The Navy’s Only Bootcamp).
He is married with two beautiful children.
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/359
porn is one of the most, if not the most addictive thing that a man deals with in his life. This is a topic that men have to feel pretty darn safe to bring up because there's a lot of feelings that come up when we talk about porn:shame, guilt, weakness It's all these things that we label ourselves as and we certainly don't want to have the conversation, but given the right environment, we can have these conversations.
When we open up the conversation, we take away the taboo and when you take away the taboo, you actually take away the power that this particular addiction has over us. This is a replay of a podcast I was on called From Porn to Purpose.
You will hear me share a story that I have not shared on any podcast, but as I said, given the right environment, one can open up, and that is why I was able to bring it up and be open with you men.
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www.thedadedge.com/friday40
His military career prepared him for successful leadership and strategic operational planning. Nick is the founder and CEO of Alexander Industries as well as a successful adventure + informational YOUTUBE channel with his partner and wife Alison Capra.
He's a self published author, an entrepreneur and a coach and he is a father of two beautiful daughters and a brand new son.
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www.thedadedge.com/358
So today we will talk about picking the best college for your kids. A lot of the things that are shared on this show will probably surprise you.
Dr. Parrot is the President of Belhaven University in Jackson, Mississippi. He was named among the top 10 most visionary education leaders of 2021 by the education magazine. Dr. Parrot is one of the longest serving university presidents in America. He's been serving there now for over 30 years, but over the past two decades, Belhaven has become one of the leading Christian colleges and arts as one of the 35 schools in the world, earning accreditation in all four of the primary arts theater, music, visual art, and dance. With his wealth of experience, he can provide insight on helping a child follow their dreams and pursue a career while also being extremely cognizant of the high cost of higher education.
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Joe Towne is best known as the founder and CEO of his training company, The Performance Mindset.
He offers workshops designed to help people perform at their highest level, whether it's preparing for an audition, shifting their mindset for a script screenwriting for a healthier work-life balance, or even helping athletes prepare for a performance on a worldwide stage.
He's been featured on Dr. Oz, On the Air with Ryan Seacrest, Good Day LA, Bravo's Million Dollar Listing.
He has brought his a claim to workshops to other high profile clients like Verizon AOL, Lulu Lemon, Showtime networks, L'Oreal, IT cosmetics. He's also trained colleagues over at the universities like UCS, UCLA, George Brown college, and more.
He's also the father to a five-year old son by the name of Lucas. He has also been married for the past 10 years.
This is a very authentic show and I know that what you are about to hear today will help many men.
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Yeadon Smith is my guest on this episode and he has been a husband for 15 years. A father of four, marathon runner and a business owner.
He is a recovering youth minister, now working full time in real estate. He is co-founder of Live Oak Capital which has grown since its inception to $36 million in assets under management.
He has been in the business of building relationships. As part of that, he is now focused on mentoring students in an online education platform he co-founded. He mentors students on buying apartment complexes. We talk about a few topics like relationship capital, the most valuable investment is you and a few others.
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I know you guys will get a lot out of today's interview because we cover proven performance and the principles to be more mentally tough, to avoid self-sabotage, to become literally the best and most resilient version of ourselves that we could possibly be.
My guest, Eric Davis, father of 3, served our country as a U.S. Navy SEAL and decorated veteran of the Global War on Terror. Eric has been recognized as one of the premier sniper instructors in the U.S. military and has served as a Master Training Specialist at the SEAL sniper school in Coronado, CA.
Since departing from the SEAL teams, Eric has worked in corporate performance, sales and leadership training bringing an unprecedented amount of innovation, efficiency and structure to the domain of business and personal performance.
Eric is the author of "Raising Men: Lessons Navy SEALs learned from their training and taught to their sons". Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/356
Today I am talking to Frank Schwartz. He is the current president of F3. He is also an entrepreneur, but he started this journey by joining F3 with the intent of “not being fat anymore”. The complete trajectory of his life would change, however, from that point. He caught the vision of Sua Sponte leadership and in not too long a time, he found himself being asked to help with things at the Nation level. At the beginning of 2020, he began serving as the first ever President of F3 Nation, under the re-organized F3 structure.
Because of the dramatic effect of F3 on his life, he founded a leadership training consultancy in December of 2019, called G3L Leadership. G3L takes all the learnings from F3, as well as the training in communication, leadership, and Psychology that Frank has taken in his undergraduate and Graduate studies and puts it all together to help organizations create leaders.
Frank has been a successful entrepreneur prior to his starting of G3L, founding LEC Media in 2007, a corporate communications and video firm in Charlotte, NC which served clients like, Bank of America, Electrolux, Honeywell, and others.
He also serves in leadership in his church and community, is the husband of his far better half Tracy for the past 20 years and is the father of three wonderful red-headed daughters (ages 16, 14, and 10).
Show Notes: www.thedadedge.com/friday37
My guest today is John Cooper, lead vocalist of the band Skillet. You’re going to love today’s. I loved interviewing John, because as a band fan, I just enjoyed it so much. One of my favorite songs is Legendary, and I share with John how we had 175 men at the attended the live event scream Live Legendary!
John is the father of 2, a husband for 22 years. He comes from a background of Christian rock. His faith is a huge part of his life and he pumps that into his music and song-writing. It’s an epic show
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/355
Is it really possible to grow and maintain muscle with a plant-based lifestyle? Are we going to feel hungry and tired? Listen to the episode and learn from this amazing nutritionist as we get into deep conversations
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This interview I did live. I flew out to Los Angeles and sat down with Bedros Keuilian. This individual has an amazing story. A self-made entrepreneur who escaped communism to come to the United States when he was just a kid. A true rags to riches story, no doubt.
Bedros Keuilian is a best-selling author, speaker and business consultant. He’s the founder and CEO of Fit Body Boot Camp, one of the nation’s fastest growing franchises and an investor in over a dozen companies ranging from subscription software platforms, digital ad agencies as well as mastermind and coaching services.
He’s known as the hidden genius that entrepreneurs, best-selling authors and thought leaders turn to when they want to create high level mastermind and coaching programs, quickly scale their businesses and solve their most pressing bottlenecks so that they can make the quantum leap to massive success.
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Today we have a special guest, a repeat guest actually. Dave Anderson is the owner of a creative video production company.
In this episode we talk a lot about his journey and what it took to get where he is. Family is what drives us, no doubt, but we tend to forget that very easily amidst the work duties.
Dave and I both share proud moments when we learned to detach from our businesses, but also we talk about vulnerable times when we almost ran ourselves to the ground thinking that we were doing the right thing for our families. Spoiler alert, we weren't
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My guest today is Joe De Sena. Joe was one of my first guests when I first started this episode 6 years ago. If you are a Spartan Racer, you might know Joe. He is the CEO of Spartan Race. The basis of his company is the foundation that we as humans cannot reach our potential until we have gone through a struggle or a test. It’s what he calls, purposeful suffering.
Coming from a childhood where he had nowhere to learn, only his own, and had to figure out how to make it. Joe believes his success came from his purposeful suffering philosophy. This is one of my favorite episodes, no doubt.
Joe shares about “Mental Toughness for Families - 10 Rules for Resilience”, his new book and we talk about some of those rules on this episode.
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Craig Risoli is a good friend and Dad Edge Accelerator business matermind member. He is a husband of 10 years to Hailey, father of 3, veteran and the proud owner of High Speed Daddy, an epic backpack for dads company.
He built his company around his family schedule as a stay at home dad, not the other way around.
A lot of men choose to let life manage them. That is unfortunate, because that stresses and burns them out.
Today we will be talking about taking initiative, making decisions and stop letting things hold us up and learn along the way. Many of us are stopped by analysis paralysis.
Craig is an engineer, so I ask him all things about making decisions.
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When it comes to conflict, do you find yourself frustrated or lost? Relationships is not something that we are taught. We grow up and we are taught different skills, trigonometry, social studies, but rarely how to resolve conflict. And it's really unfortunate because think of what our marriages and relationships could look like if we knew how to resolve conflict and how we could actually do it from an objective standpoint to where when we try to resolve conflict just normally in day to day.
My guest today, Jayson Gaddis, a licensed family therapist knows exactly how to do it. He wrote a book, How To Get to Zero and we talk about conflict resolution with those we love the most. It’s a deep episode, so I encourage you to take notes.
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When it comes to conflict, do you find yourself frustrated or lost? Relationships is not something that we are taught. We grow up and we are taught different skills, trigonometry, social studies, but rarely how to resolve conflict. And it's really unfortunate because think of what our marriages and relationships could look like if we knew how to resolve conflict and how we could actually do it from an objective standpoint to where when we try to resolve conflict just normally in day to day.
My guest today, Jayson Gaddis, a licensed family therapist knows exactly how to do it. He wrote a book, How To Get to Zero and we talk about conflict resolution with those we love the most. It’s a deep episode, so I encourage you to take notes.
Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/352
A father, husband, business consultant, and high performance coach — Jake is determined to leave a lasting impact.
He is the owner of a management consulting firm —Delta Perspective, LLC and has done program management, process improvement, change management and business strategy most of my career.
He is passionate about solving problems, exploring new opportunities, and maintaining a positive and persistent mindset.
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Mike McCarthy knows this. As the author of The Miracle Morning for parents (co-authored by Hal Elrod), Mike has developed a proven process to help you not only embrace your mornings, but get you so you improve your life and that of your family. The Miracle Morning works on the premise of being deliberate in your daily actions. As a father, Mike has created The Miracle Mornings for Parents and Families, focusing on CHARMS: Creativity, Health, Affirmation, Reading and Service.
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This is the last show of 2021. As we enter 2022, it is so important to to intentionally work and put into practice choices that lean towards improving our marriages and connecting with our wifes. I struggled for 10 years in my marriage, because I knew there was more, a higher potential for me and my wife and I wasn’t there. So I share skills and what has worked for me in being intentional in my marriage and I believe this can also work for you. Thank you for your support. Let’s make 2022 a great year and remember to Live Legendary!
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You probably know who he is. He is definitely in the limelight and that is Laird Hamilton.
He's best known as the American big wave surfer and a pioneer in the world of action water sports. In addition to his affinity for the water, Laird is labeled as an inventor, an author, a stuntman, a model, a producer, TV, host, fitness and nutrition, expert husband, father, and adrenaline junkie. Most important though, for you guys listening to this show, he is not only all of those things, but for those of you who are dads with daughters, this podcast is definitely for you.
He is married to the ridiculously successful and beautiful Gabrielle Reese. They also have three daughters. They split their time in several different, beautiful places like Hawaii and Malibu. And as you guys know, you can find Laird, obviously chasing the big tides out in the ocean, because that is what he is known for.
I have to tell you, I really didn't know what to expect out of today's show. I've followed Laird for a long time. I gotta tell you, I really enjoy talking to him. He really goes into detail about how he goes about marriage with Gabrielle and also how he goes about raising strong, young, confident women in his life.Show Notes:www.thedadedge.com/350
I have a special treat for you guys today. For all those of you who have daughters between the ages of 5 and 25, this show today is for you. I am grateful to have Dr. Tim Jordan. Dr. Jordan is an expert on parenting girls. He's a counselor. He will give us simple sound advice on raising daughters and we know we need it. Dr. Jordan is the author of “She Leads”, a practical guide for raising girls who advocate, influence and lead. Dr. Tim Jordan is also going to tell us how we as fathers can best help our daughters become empowered and confident.
He highlights the unique challenges that girls face that dads might not be aware of and he also explains how to teach girls how to navigate pressure, speak up for themselves and discover the true gift of who they are.
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Chad Mendes is an absolute MMA legend. He is doing some amazing things in the world. Today he will share quite a lot about his life, things like: how he raises his kids through adventure, a very cool message indeed.
We also talk about how he leverages time and how he operates within containers to make sure he is on point to make sure he is not distracted because in today’s world, it’s easy for us to get so distracted.
I think you will enjoy the show as much as I did. Let’s dive into it
Legacy is what we leave behind as far as the impact of love. You guys have heard me say it many times before: Legacy is forever. Legacy is what we leave behind as far as the relationships in our impact, in our memories and in the end the things that we did. The memories that we made with the people that mean the most to us. Our guest today created an app I personally use to capture special moments. We talk to Ken Kimberly, a father, entrepreneur, real estate investor and we dive deeper into why he created this amazing app to help us capture all of those moments and live legendary.
We also discuss something that many of you ask me for, which is resources for men who have daughters. This is an epic episode and I am sure you will enjoy it as much as I did talking to Ken.
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Today's show is going to deep dive into what your woman requires to deeply connect with you on a more emotional and sexual level, and for that I am talking to Allana Pratt.
Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is a global media personality and go-to authority for those who have suffered heartbreak and are ready to live unapologetically, and attract an open-hearted ideal relationship. She has been chosen as an Icon of Influence, is a columnist on the GoodMenProject, and has been featured on Huffington Post, People Magazine, Forbes, CBS, ABC & FOX and more.
This Ivy League grad is the Author of 6 books, has interviewed Whoopi Goldberg and Alanis Morissette, and Hosts the edgy Podcast “Intimate Conversations” where listeners learn how to find the relationship they deserve. A certified coach with close to 5 million viewers on YouTube, Allana was asked by Leeza Gibbons to coach her during Dancing with the Stars.
On today’s episode I am interviewing Brian Pannuzzo, an Alliance member, fellow father and amazing individual. He's a certified nutrition coach who specializes in working with men whose professional success have cost them their health, marriages and their relationship with their family.
Brian went through a huge transition about six years ago. He was a Wall Street trader whose body and mind was completely broken. His marriage was on the brink of divorce and he thought all he had to do for years was provide for his family, and the rest should take care of it.
And then finally, six years ago, he woke up to a broken body, a broken marriage and a broken mindset. Everything on the outside appeared perfect on the surface, but underneath everything was falling apart. And throughout the years of tireless education and work, he's developed a system that allows career-driven men to recover and improve their personal relationships, marriage, family, and take control of their life.
I don't know about the rest of you guys, but I didn't take personal finance growing up. I had no idea what I was doing when I entered into the real world, as it related to my personal finance. And that's why I'm interviewing today's guest.
My guest is Dan Sheeks. He is the owner and founder of Sheeks freaks, LLC, an online community to help young people live their best lives by making smart money decisions. He's been helping high school students as a teacher teacher in Denver, Colorado for the past 18 years, and he's passionate about teaching teenagers early about financial freedom strategies so they can live their best lives in his free time.
I am joined by Dr. Joe Martin today and he is the founder of Real Men Connect. Dr. Martin is passionate about helping Christian men win. The truth is that every Christian man wants to be a a godly husband, father and provider for his family, but we are afraid of failing in our role as Christian leaders. Deep down inside, most of us dont know how to be a godly man. Dr. Joe Martin survived poverty, abuse, addiction and know dedicates his life help men, just like you write their comeback story. So let's get into the show and hone in on this important aspect as men as spiritual leaders for ourselves and our families.
Drew Tupper is a parent, husband, coach, educator and a coach of the Dad Edge Alliance.
He is on earth to experience life. He's here to love. He's here to learn and he is passionate about parenting and conscious relating
Drew is a coaching draws upon his background in education, parenting, leadership, spirituality and his own personal growth.
Drew believes and has experienced that mature, successful and purposeful living happens when we have the ability to listen to ourselves and act in accordance with our true selves, free from conditioning.
On today’s episode we talk about all things parenting and even get into marriage, but overall the importance of good communication and how to go about it when trying to create a peaceful home environment.
“Don't ever let somebody tell you you can't do something, not even me. All right! You got a dream, you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they want to tell you you can't do it, you want something, go get it. Period.”
Chris Gardner is the CEO of Happyness and he loves his job. his first book The Pursuit of Happyness became a New York Times best-selling book as well as Washington Post #1 bestseller and it has been translated in over 40 languages. That book was the story of Chris's life and he always thought of it as a way to project onto the world that anybody can do anything no matter what the obstacles are, no matter what the adversity is because we all embrace the power of choice. His book also inspired a film that became critically acclaimed, iconic and perhaps more relevant today than when it was first released. That movie was The Pursuit of Happyness. Will Smith played the part of Chris Gardner, he receive a Golden Globe Screen Actors Guild award and Academy Award nomination for his performance.
The first and most important decision Chris ever made in his life is that his children would always know who their father was. The second most important decision that he ever made in his life is that he would become world-class as to whatever he did in his life. This decision led him to an uber-successful career on Wall Street.
Chris shares some serious powerful lessons: #1: how we can make powerful pivots in our lives when we're confronted with adversity and Challenge and how we can show up as a more empowering and compassionate father than we ever thought possible even when we're dealing with everyday stress and the obstacles in our lives and finally that our circumstances do not define our future success.
Father and husband, business coach and speaker.
Dustin is an accomplished coach with over 15 years of experience in sales and marketing, with more than half of that dedicated to Real Estate and Business.
On this episode we talk about stepping into real challenges that push you to achieve what you never thought you would be able to do.
Alright, alright, alright is the famous phrase coined by the illustrious Matthew McConaughey. He is an actor, father, husband, and author. When Matthew was younger, his father instilled in him three principles for life – “Don’t say can’t,” “love, don’t hate,” “tell the truth, don’t lie” and he has carried these principles throughout his life.
Matthew McConaughey has acted in over 50 films and is the co-founder of the Just Keep Livin’ Foundation alongside his wife, Camila. The two have three children and currently reside in Austin, Texas. Throughout his life, Matthew has learned that putting the energy into your family will produce results far greater than if you go it alone. He recalls his wife saying, “You go, we go” when they were deciding whether or not to have children. Since having three children, Matthew has been cultivating a closeness with his children that leaves a legacy for years to come.
In his book Greenlights, Matthew talks about how he wants his life to read like an unfiltered, unedited version of himself. His whole life has been dedicated to this persona of an actor that everyone is familiar with. Leaving a legacy is all about the raw, unedited moments of our lives; the ones where we’re not perfect and we do make mistakes. These are the moments that define who we are, not who everyone else thinks we are.
George Kalantzis is a father, author, ex-Marine, who is breaking the mold and is on the journey of empowering others to overcome the darkest days in their lives and providing a safe space for others through his words.
Life is not linear. It's a magnificent dance that invites us to be more than what we can ever imagine. But that doesn't mean that growth is easy. Transitions from one stage of life to the next can trigger feelings of fear, shame, guilt, anger, resentment and even depression.
In the powerful book that George writes about navigating through life's tough transitions, he's going to help you let go of the past and move into the future with strength, dignity, and optimism. He shows you how to fully accept yourself and rewrite the way you see the world to stop holding yourself back from your best self and to unlock extreme power. Your life is unfolding exactly the way it was intended. And throughout this episode, we will discuss certain subjects that you can learn from on how to connect with your heart.
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My guest today is Nikki Sixx and I have to tell you, this is by far one of the best interviews and guests I’ve had on the podcast. I grew up on Motley Crew and no doubt this interview surpassed all my expectations in the content he shared, his authenticity and so much more. You won’t want to miss it.
Nikki Sixx is one of the most respected, recognizable and entrepreneurial icons in the music industry. He founded Motley Crew and has been sober for 21 years. He is incredibly passionate about his craft and wide open about his life in rock and roll.
He was an All-American kid growing up. He loved to hunt, fishing, he chased girls, played football, but underneath of all of it, there was this burning desire for more, and that was music.
It’s one of my top 5 interviews, that is all I can say.
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Jarrod Hanning is a father, husband and mindset coach for high level entrepreneurs. For the past 10 years, he has been working with high level entrepreneurs and successful business owners to help them actually work less and teach them how to optimize their time and also leverage the proper mindset to go out and live a fulfilling life.
In this episode we talk about building and cultivating an environment where our kids can come and talk to us without instilling fear to the point where they shutdown on us, but also being able to teach them lessons of boundaries and consequences around those actions. I challenge Jarrod a lot in how he approaches certain teachings. I also share a couple of stories of things that I've gone through lately with my teenages and how I've gone about that. Parenting is not perfect, but I think you get a lot of clarity from this episode.
The goal of today's show is to have you take away learnings to better cultivate an environment where kids feel safe sharing things with you.
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Sal Frisella is a husband, father of three children, and the President of 1st Phorm Supplements, which was founded by his brother Andy. He was a Minor League Baseball player who was drafted by the St. Louis Cardinals and played for the Single A New Jersey Cardinals.
Sal went from a baseball player to selling copiers to medical sales where he worked for Johnson and Johnson as a successful sales agent. After these phases of his life, Sal realized that these jobs were not meant for him. Sal knew that he had to take a chance on himself and live the best possible life ever. Becoming the President of 1stPhorm gave him the best life that he could want.
However, Sal's goals weren't always clear. The fear of rejection and fear of the word "no" often held him back during his younger years. Yet, fear didn't stop him from trying. Sal’s success in his life can attest to this because even through doubt and others' negative opinions, he was able to push through and achieve the life he wanted. Sometimes, we are so afraid of rejection that we live with the regret of not trying at all.
Take advantage of every single day and live as if it were your last, or you’ll live with regret. The greatest strikeout of life is never stepping up to the plate. In order to live a fulfilling life, we have to embrace fear and live life to the fullest.
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Scott McCarthy has been in the military for over 20 years and is a leadership expert. His leadership journey started when he was young and had the drive to take control of everything that he needed to be planned. Transferring these skills into the Canadian Army, Scott enrolled as a Logistics Officer in 2001 when he was selected to attend the prestigious Royal Military College of Canada. At the age of 24, Scott commanded an Army transport platoon comp comprising of 80 soldiers. At 33, he was selected to command a Logistics squadron of 200 members. As you can see, Scott knows how to compete as a high-performing leader and knows that leadership is a cycle. He understands how to build high-performing powerful teams, how to delegate as a leader to be a force multiplier, and is proficient in setting goals for high-achieving leaders.
Today's show is about the simplicity of leadership and communication within marriage. We need to be clear about things that we want as men and husbands while also being servant leaders to our wives and what they need, want, and desire. A lot of men live in two camps when it comes to communication. We either throw ourselves on the sword for the sake of our wives and family, while feeling empty. We end up neglecting ourselves in a noble, selfless way without realizing it. On the other hand, we are extremely selfish and only think about ourselves. The goal of today's show is to explain the common ground between both of those camps where we support our families while also communicating what our needs are as a husband and father.
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James Clear is an author and speaker who stresses the importance of habits, decision-making, and continuous improvement. His work has appeared in The New York Times, Entrepreneur, TIME, and CBS' The Morning Show. His website receives millions of visitors each month and hundreds of thousands subscribe to his popular email newsletter at JamesClear.com. James is a regular speaker at Fortune 500 companies and his work is used by teams in the NFL, NBA, and the MLB. Through his online course The Habits Academy, Clear has taught more than 10,000 leaders, managers, coaches, and teachers. The Habits Academy is the premier training platform for individuals and organizations that are interested in building better habits in life and work.
Today, we're going to talk about a significant part of our life is structured and shaped by our habits and how that impacts us. We are also going to talk about how tiny habits are the fundamental unit of a much larger system. Most importantly, we're going to talk about why men are so extreme with their habits. Most of us go out too hard when starting a new habit that we beat ourselves up if we can't continue it. James specifically explains why tiny habits are much more sustainable and lead to large results.
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Allen Carter is a husband, father, and author of the book Letters from a Father. For years, Allen has written a monthly letter to his children during their teenage years. The letters cover an amazing array of life lessons and show an intimate glimpse of one family's life journey. All families have the same challenges and connection that makes this book endearing and relevant to all who read it. There is a Christian faith and foundation throughout the book with stories that are brought to life through Allen's letters.
Today, we are going to be talking about Allen's life as he has recently become an empty nester. He is also going to dive into his marriage and how he and his wife keep God at the forefront of their relationship. Lastly, Allen dives into his book and the purpose behind it.
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Garrett White is a husband, father, the founder of Wake Up, Warrior, Warrior Week, and the author of the Warrior Book. Garrett is known for his brutal delivery and no BS attitude when it comes to helping men live the life they were meant to live. In his book Wake Up, Warrior, Garrett uses these techniques to shake men by the shoulders and find their purpose and passion in life. He uses the tools he learned in his own life and shares them with men all around the world.
Today, we are going to be talking about how we were born warriors with big dreams for our lives. However, many of us are getting beaten down and overwhelmed. We suffer silently and alone and have no idea how to break out and become the men we want to be. Garrett talks to us today about how we need to get clear on what we want or we'll lose everything. He stresses that men can't figure out their own lives if they're sitting around waiting for it to happen. You have to wake up and figure out how you can become better as a husband, father, and business owner.
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Nick Brown is a father, business owner, and member of the Dad Edge Alliance Accelerator Mastermind. Growing up in Mississippi, Nick felt held back and wanted to pursue a life outside his home state. Nick left Mississippi, moved to New England, and joined the Coast Guard. Nick eventually became interested in becoming a lawyer and went to law school. After Nick felt his passion wasn't in practicing law full time, he started investing in real estate deals on the side. Nick Brown is now a real estate investor with over 12 multi-family units to his name while keeping up his law credentials on the side.
Today, we are going to be talking about embracing change and transitions in our lives. Change is one of those things that will be there no matter what. However, how we deal with change in our lives is what defines us. We as humans love consistency and are comfortable staying where we are. However, it's in those transitions that we grow outside of our comfort zone and gain valuable life experiences that we wouldn't have gotten had we not changed at all.
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It has been stated that 82% of married men do not enjoy the work they do for living. The question really becomes, "How did we get into a situation where we don't enjoy our professions?" You might be surprised. In this episode, we will help you identify the way to make decisions about your career and doing the work that makes you come ALIVE!
Andy Frisella is a best-selling author, speaker, consultant, and founder of 1st Phorm, Supplement Superstores, and 75 Hard. He is an industry-leading expert on customer loyalty. He's also known for creating an incredible culture within his business. Andy Frisella has been featured in INC., Entrepreneur, and Forbes Magazine. From 2015 to 2019, he hosted the MFCEO Project, the number one business and success podcast in the world. On his new podcast Real AF with Andy Frisella, he and his guests discuss, debate, and laugh their way through trending topics and pressing issues.
Today, Andy is going to be talking to us about controlling what you put in your mouth. If you can't control that, you likely can't control anything else. Success is not an excuse to let yourself go. Andy talks about his journey to success and how he also let himself go. He is currently on the path to becoming his best self. Even successful people have to work hard to maintain their health. Andy is also going to be talking about taking negativity and harness it for productive action. Andy also shares with us how important boundaries are when taking care of yourself. He shares insights on why we don't have to spend our energy on people who aren't operating at the same level as us. Finally, Andy is going to be talking to us about how we can learn from bad parenting and our past and why he is so pissed off at men right now.
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Shane Achey is a husband, father, and part of the Dad Edge Alliance Leadership team. Today, we are going to be talking about how we can handle the adversity and unexpected curveballs that come our way as fathers. We are also going to be talking about interrupting the drift. For those of you who don't know what the drift is, it's the process of going through the motions daily. Interrupting the drift is when we step out of our daily cycle, and we step into learning the skills to connect with our wives and kids and become a leader in our businesses. The problem with this is that we are highly trained in our careers and overwhelmingly untrained in interrupting the drift. What we need is a community, such as the Dad Edge Alliance, that teaches us these core values so we can live legendary lives.
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Jocko Willink is a decorated, retired U.S. Navy Seal Officer, the author of several books, two of which include Extreme Ownership and Dichotomy of Leadership. He is the co-founder of Echelon Front, where he is a leadership instructor, speaker, and executive coach.
Jocko has spent twenty years in the U.S. Navy Seal Teams, starting as an enlisted SEAL and rising through the ranks to become a SEAL officer. As Commander of SEAL Team 3's Task Unit "Bruiser" during the Battle of Ramadi, he orchestrated SEAL operations that helped the ready-first brigade of the U.S. Army's first armored division to bring stability to the violent war-torn city. Task Unit "Bruiser" became the most highly decorated special operations unit of the Iraqi war.
Jocko returned from Iraq to serve as an officer in charge of training for all West Coast SEAL teams. There, he spearheaded the development of leadership training and personally instructed and mentored the next generation of SEAL leaders who have continued to perform with great success on the battlefield.
During his career, Jocko Willink was awarded the Silver Star, the Bronze Star, and numerous other personal and unit awards. In 2010, he retired from the Navy and launched Echelon Front with Leif Babin, where he teaches the leadership principles he learned on the battlefield to help others lead and win. Clients include individuals, teams, companies, and organizations across a wide range of industries and fields.
Today, we are going to be talking about how Jocko takes charge of his team and family by applying the same tools in both aspects of his life. He's also going to be talking about why it's critical to distance yourself from chaos, mayhem, and our own emotions to make rational decisions. He's going to talk about how even though you may not know the right course of action for your kids, you shouldn't force decisions on them. Finally, Jocko says you must explain to your kids the why behind everything you ask of them.
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Ryan Wilson is a husband, father, and Mastermind member. Today, he tells us his story of his history with alcoholism and how he survived it. He also tells us of how his father's struggle with alcoholism affected his childhood and adult life.
Addiction is something that many people struggle with throughout their lifetime. Whether it's gambling, drugs, or alcohol, there's something holding you back from letting go. Sometimes, it takes a crumbling moment in your life when you're on the ground and no one can help you but yourself. If you continue to let your addiction consume you, it may end up getting the best of you.
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Chris Voss is the former chief hostage negotiator for the FBI, the CEO and founder of the Black Swan Group, and is the best-selling author of the book titled Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended On It. Chris Voss has over 25 years experience as a negotiator for the FBI. He has been featured in TIME Magazine, Business Insider, Entrepreneur, Inc. Magazine, Fast Company, Fortune, Washington Post, Success Magazine, Squawk Box, CNN, and ABC News.
Today, we are going to be talking about the psychology of communication and negotiation. We are also going to be talking about why you want the person you're negotiating with to say no first instead of yes. Chris Voss is going to share with us how to make people feel safe, protected, and in control, and ready to move forward when they are given the space to say "no." He tells us that without action, an agreement is useless.
Voss also teaches us the three yesses in agreement situations - commitment, confirmation, and counterfeit. He's also going to go over the skill of tactical empathy. Tactical empathy is not sympathy, and it doesn't have to end in agreement. You being empathetic to someone in your life doesn't mean you agree with where they're at, nor does it equal sympathy. Voss also goes over how to use your voice tone and how people appreciate integrity despite the outcome of the discussion. He goes over the difference between someone telling you "you're right" versus "that's right." There is specific psychology that underlies the meaning in the tone of voice that Chris will be sharing with us today.
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Michael Daino is a husband, father, and member of the Dad Edge Alliance community. Since his Alliance journey started, Michael has been implementing the strategies he has learned to enhance his connection with his wife and children. After college, Michael's dad gave him an engraved quote that would change his perspective in life. The quote states, "The biggest barrier to success is the fear of failure." This quote has helped Michael by allowing him to become comfortable with fear and rising above it to become successful.
Today, we are going to be talking about how fear can hinder us from becoming successful in life. No matter who you are or how seasoned you are in life, fear is always present. However, what we choose to do with that fear is what sets us apart from others To become successful in life, we must choose the path of courage, feel the fear, and keep going despite it.
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Nir Eyal is a husband, father, former professor at Stanford Graduate School of Business, and the International Best-Seller of two books: Hooked and Indistractable. Nir worked in the video gaming and advertising industries, where he used manipulative techniques to keep users distracted from their values. Now, he writes to help companies use positive behavioral techniques to form healthy habits that contribute to one's traction toward their values.
Today, we are going to be talking about what makes a habit-forming technology. Furthermore, we will be talking about the difference between a habit versus addiction and traction versus distraction. When an activity aligns with our values, it is known as traction. When an activity takes us away from our values, it is known as distraction. In this podcast, Nir goes over the four-step process to become indistractable. Step 1 focuses on mastering our internal triggers. Step 2 focuses on making time for traction. Step 3 focuses on hacking back external triggers. Lastly, Step 4 focuses on making precommitments to prevent distractions from happening.
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Dakota Meyer is a former US Marine and the father of two daughters. He is one of the youngest living Marines to have received the Medal of Honor since 1973. Meyer received this honor due to his actions during the Battle of Ganjigal. Meyer is an entrepreneur and is the founder of Own the Dash and Flipside Canvas. Own the Dash is a training program and Flipside Canvas is an Inspirational and Patriotic Canvas Company.
Today, we are going to be talking about being intentional with your choices. As you can see from Dakota's life, every moment is precious. It's not about the dates on our tombstone that matter, it's about all the moments in between. When Dakota made a life-altering decision, he decided to stop playing the victim and start taking action. Since that dark moment, he has shared his story and inspired millions of people.
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Nelson Tressler is a motivational speaker, author of The Unlucky Sperm Club, and founder and CEO of IGOTSMARTER: Goals Elevated. Tressler was the first person in his family to graduate college, joined the US Airforce, became the top worldwide producer for the top commercial real estate company, and started over 10 businesses. The goal of IGOTSMARTER is to change the world, one person and one goal at a time. The company implements strategies Nelson learned throughout his grueling childhood experience. He uses goal-setting and personal development techniques to transform the lives of struggling people.
Nelson's experience with adversity has allowed him to rise above his circumstances and make a name for himself. His grandmother's belief in him fueled his ambition and he never backed down, despite what everyone thought of him. Tressler stresses the importance of not letting what someone else thinks of you determine your future. You are in charge of who you become, not who other people think you'll become.
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Dr. Zach Bush is a triple board-certified Physician with an expertise in internal medicine, endocrinology, metabolism, hopsice, and palliative care. The breakthrough science that Dr. Bush and his colleagues have delivered offer profound new insights into human health and longevity. His education efforts provide a grass-roots foundation from which we can launch change in our legislative decisions, ultimately upshifting consumer behavior to bring about radical change in the mega-industries of Big Pharma, Big Farming, and Western Medicine at large.
Dr. Zach Bush's mission is to apply the rigor science, the strength of humanity, and the intelligence of nature to transform our health and our world. He explains the body's close relationship to the Earth and how we can unlock the intrinsic ability to heal. He also talks about why need to get rid of our to-do lists, allow space to happen, and change our identities as men and providers.
Dr. Zach Bush is going to go over the innate wisdom our kids possess. When we are broken as fathers, we are the most fertile for change. Fathers need to stop seeing themselves as just providers and fixers. Finally, Dr. Bush will cover why the phrase, "I'm proud of you," can be extremely destructive.
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Kalid Yeung is a Mastermind member, business owner, husband, and father of three children. Kalid grew up in a happy-go-lucky household which projected into his later years. Kalid recalls fond memories of his parents and how wonderful his childhood was. Since Kalid joined the Mastermind group, he's gained valuable skills, improved his relationships, and strengthened his outlook on life.
Today, we are going to be talking about what accountability is and why it is the path to success. Accountability can sound a lot like budget or diet. We sometimes see the word accountability as a joyful process. However, we also tend to think of it as a chore. If you want to take action in your life, accountability is key.
According to the American Society of Training and Development, if you have an idea or goal, you are 10% likely to complete the goal. If you consciously decide you're going to reach the goal by yourself, you are 25% likely to reach the goal. If you decide when you're going to reach the goal, you are 40% likely to reach the goal. If you make a plan to reach the goal, you're 50% likely to reach the goal. When you commit to someone that you will reach the goal, it raises your chance of success to 65%. If you have a specific accountability appointment and weekly cadence, you are 95% likely to reach your goal!
For example, I've done the 75 Hard successfully four times. I've also failed the 75 Hard four times. The four times I succeeded, I had an accountability partner with whom I checked in almost daily. The four times I failed, I did it alone. This is a prime example of why accountability is the key to success.
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Todd Herman is a high-performance coach and is the best-selling author of the book The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life. Over the past 20 years, Todd has worked with celebrities and professional athletes, of whom the majority of his clients are kept secret. In his book, Todd teaches us how alter egos work, how we create them in different aspects of our lives, and how to activate them to help us become the most effective businessmen, the most intentional husbands, and the most patient and present fathers. Alter egos help us find the real version of what we are capable of. This is due to the fact that you no longer care about people judging you for who you are. One thing Todd mentions is that there's only one person keeping you from your full potential and that's YOU.
According to Todd, the way to bypass fear, doubt, and limiting beliefs is through creating heroic alter egos. Todd's biggest aspect of coaching is mental toughness. He tells us the true definition of mental toughness which is, "Mental toughness is your ability to be flexible and adaptable despite what your circumstances are giving you right now."
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Troy Mangum is a husband, father, and author of the book Fatherhood Faceplants. Troy uses his life experiences to write applicable tactics for men to pick themselves back up again after failing. Something that Troy really emphasizes is that men don't always have to get everything right. They may be crushing it in their early years, but as time goes on, it's perfectly normal to be wrong at times. Fatherhood Faceplants emphasizes this idea of imperfection and teaches us how to recover versus always striving for perfection.
Fatherhood Faceplants is a story of redemption and restoration. The book shows us that nothing is impossible with God. Fatherhood Faceplants highlights several topics such as overcoming dad guilt, how to live free, and how to love your kids by loving your wife first. Furthermore, it is important to equip your children for spiritual warfare, especially in today's times. In order to become a better father, you should prioritize your family's success over your personal success and pass on personal victories as your children's inheritance. You can lead your family into their greatest days; you just need to know how. Fathers pass down who they are more than what they know.
Today's podcast touches on the subject of: Fearful dads raise anxious kids; bold dads raise bold kids. You may not be a superdad yet but don't be discouraged. There's always hope. Whatever you're going through, it'll end pretty quickly if you put in the work.
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Gary John Bishop is one of the leading Personal Development coaches in the world. He is an Urban Philosopher and a NYT Best-Selling Author of the books Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life, Stop Doing That Sh*t, and Wise as Fu*k: Simple Truths to Guide You Through the Sh*tstorms of Life. Gary is famously known for his direct, no BS method of speaking and coaching. Originally from Glasgow, Scotland, Gary uses his childhood lessons and events in his life to teach others how to analyze themselves and get real about what they really want in life. Gary is also a public speaker and commands audiences with his authentic, transformational lessons.
Today, Gary is going to be talking to us about the self-limiting beliefs we have about ourselves, how we can deal with our own BS, and how we can interact with ourselves at a higher level. Finally, Gary is going to be revealing to us why searching for your purpose is flawed. Our purpose is right in front of us, we don't have to go find it. Gary tells us that people "search" for their purpose when they really need to get real with themselves about what they want out of life.
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Brian Bisher is a member of the Dad Edge Alliance and is the owner of his own health and wellness company. Brian brings us some interesting perspectives on your mental and physical well-being. Another topic Brian shares with us is how we can not only be physically present in our kids' lives but also emotionally present. Being emotionally present with your kids provides them with a deep emotional connection to you. Kids associate love with time spent, not money spent.
Deep emotional connection creates an environment of psychological safety for our children. As fathers, we can provide not only physical protection and safety but also provide a space where our children can tell us anything. Your kids want to feel as though they are heard and important. When they hear these affirmations, it fuels their mental state and well-being.
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"My father was a big part of my life because he showed up." Emily McCarthy is a former case officer for the CIA, and the cofounder of GoRuck, a brand with Special Forces roots that leads backpacking events all over the world. Emily lost her father when she was just getting out of college and it was a devastating blow. However, the foundation he laid will echo for generations to come. Emily's dad gamified safety and defense so she would always be ready to protect herself and others. She also talks about how her father showed up in her life in many ways and made her into the incredible, mentally tough, resilient, empathetic woman she is today. Emily's story is proof of the ripple effect that a father leaves on a child's life, even if that time is cut short.
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Larry Hagner shares with us the humble beginnings of the Dad Edge. He opens up his heart and shares a story that inspired him to create the Dad Edge. Before Larry statrted the Dad Edge, he was a leader in his workplace. However, his marriage and relationship with his kids were failing. One night in 2012, Larry had a moment that would change the course of his life forever. Larry spanked his four year old son out of anger and hit him so hard that he fell on the ground. He went to help him up and his son looked at him as if he were a monster. From that moment on, Larry knew he had to make a change or his relationships would suffer for the rest of his life.
As a faith-based man, Larry had a moment of divine intervention. He sat down in front of the computer and the words "Good Dad Project" came out onto a Facebook page. From that moment on, Good Dad Project/The Dad Edge was born. Larry made a committment to learn something new every day that would help him become the husband and father he was meant to be.
If you want to have more patience in your life, you have to surrender to the fact that you are always going to have stress in your life. Whether it's professional, mental, physical, or emotional, stress is always going to be present. However, that doesn't mean that we can't manage it with a little patience. Patience does not start in the moment of chaos; patience starts from the moment your feet hit the ground in the morning. Patience and emotional resiliency do not come naturally. There are skills needed to learn patience. Patience is tied to emotional resiliency and mental toughness, which are learned through consistent practice and a dedication to becoming a better person.
The other thing Larry talks to us about today is failure. In Larry's sales job that he had before the Dad Edge, he was nominated to become the sales manager. However, he lacked the necessary skills to be a leader in the workforce. After he was humiliated in an interview because he didn't know any of the leadership questions, he went out to learn those skills.
What Larry learned from this event was that there is no failure, only learning. He learned the necessary leadership skills he needed for that job, went back a year later, nailed the interview, and got the job. If he had defaulted to failure and let it consume his thoughts, he wouldn't have gotten the job. He took that failure, learned from it, and came back harder than ever.
The moral of the story is to never let failure define you. You can take a failure in life and turn it around to be a lesson that you learn from. If you give up, you take away any chance you have of improving yourself and turning the situation around.
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Dr. Meg Meeker is best known for Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters and has spent more than 30 years practicing Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine where she counsels teens and parents. She is the National Best-Selling Author of Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters, 10 Habits of Happy Mothers, and Boys Should Be Boys. Dr. Meg is a popular speaker on Pediatric Health Issues for Children and Children/Parent Relationships. She is a frequent guest on National Syndicated Radio and Television Programs. She also works with the NFL (National Fatherhood Initiative). A famous quote that Dr. Meg stresses thoroughly is, "You are already wired with everything you need to be a good dad."
Most of us constantly second-guess our skills and abilities. When we live isolated and we constantly question ourselves and we have that negative self-talk chatter that's constantly in the background of our minds and our hearts, it's really difficult to believe that statement. All we focus on is the things we are messing up, the things we are doing wrong and that can be so defeating.
Today, Dr. Meeker is going to be going over why fatherlessness is the biggest problem in our country. Your presence as a man and father has an enormous impact on your household. She also says why we should get the big stuff right and why it's important to bring our kids into the world, such as bringing them to work. Dr. Meg shares a story of how her father used to bring her to work when she was a kid. Dr. Meg will also share how to be a good dad after a hard day. She will explain why expecting yourself to be 100% engaged as soon as you walk in the house after a really long day is unrealistic and how you can overcome this in a matter of minutes.
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Alex Wang has been practicing Real Estate in Silicon Valley Bay for the past 17 years, embracing his role as a Real Estate Evangelist. He strives to move the industry towards a model of a small and mighty business with a strong fidelity to clients while combining focus negotiation, innovative tech, and reliable Real Estate practices.
Alex has been ranked by the Wall Street Journal as one of the Top 100 Real Estate Agents in the country. He and his wife Lily have been married for the past 16 years and have three kids. Alex is also a part of the Dad Edge Business Accelerator Mastermind.
Today's podcast is centered around giving yourself advice from a future you's perspective. For example, what advice would you give yourself before you got married, got your first job, or had your first kid? Another piece of advice to take away from today's podcast is, "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." Alex gives us very sound advice on why working together will bring you much more success and meaningful relationships than working alone.
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Russell Dickerson is a multi-platinum, Nashville-based, singer-songwriter, and multi-instrumentalist. He has established himself as a prolific songwriter and a powerhouse showman through memorable, high-energy performances in songcraft with spiked spirit.
His gold-certified, full-length debut album, "Yours," was number 5 on the Top Country Albums chart and number 1 on the Emerging Artist chart. Ultimately, it yielded 3 consecutive number 1 smashes and was christened as one of the hottest wedding songs of the year by The Knot. Nominations piled in from the Academy of Country Music Awards, CMT Music Awards, and iHeart Radio Music Awards.
In his 2020 highlights, Russell received an ACM nod in the category of Best New Male Artist of the Year. He has electrified audiences on tour with Thomas Rhett, Florida-Georgia Line, Darius Rucker, Lady A, and Kane Brown. In addition to headlining sold-out venues every year, Russell sustained a huge following on social media. He finally refers to his followers as the "RD Fam." To give fans more insight into his life, Russell recently launched a new YouTube channel called, "This is Russ."
In 2020, he released his second full-length album, "The Southern Symphony," a long-awaited masterful compilation led by the platinum-certified number 1 single "Love You Like I Used To." This song spent a record-breaking 21 weeks on Billboard Country's Top 10.
Russell is a very humble, faith-based man. He claims that he's just an everyday guy, a regular dude, and a rad dad.
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Sarrah Rose is the founder of Tantric Activation which is a company that advocates pleasure as a way of life and a path to awakening. Sarrah is the daughter of an Evangelical pastor and grew up in a very religious family in Pheonix, Arizona. Growing up, sex was an unspoken topic that had a bad connotation around it. Although she prayed to Jesus every day and asked him to forgive her of her sins, she never felt worthy enough. She associated love with rejection, which made her feel worthless.
However, Sarrah knew that she needed to know more. Over the duration of 19 years and over $100,000 spent on learning about tantra and sexual awakening, Sarrah realized that unconditional love for oneself is the key to achieving a pleasurable life. All this learning led her to where she's at now: making the experience of tantra available to all women and giving them the pleasure-filled lives they crave. Making love to life is the mantra that Sarrah teaches in her coaching. She helps thousands of women discover their true potential in not only love-making but also in life as well.
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In 2008, Mark Herzlich, was one of the best college linebackers in the country, an All-American, and the ACC Defensive Player of the Year. After his junior year, at the very top of his game, Mark was diagnosed with Ewings Sarcoma, a rare form of bone cancer. He was told by his doctors that he had as low as a 10% chance of survival and that his playing days were over, that he might not ever run again. He was just 2116 months after Mark was diagnosed, he was back on the field playing for Boston College and in another 16 months he had won a Super Bowl with the New York Giants. Mark played in 11 games, starting two at linebacker for the 2011 Super Bowl Team. Mark went on to play 7 seasons for the New York Giants and retired in 2018.
In May 2015, Mark married his college sweetheart Danielle, who is a retired Captain in the United States Army, New Jersey National Guard. Danielle, who was a victim of physical, mental and emotional abuse as a child, and Mark have made it their mission to end relationship violence. The couple are national board members, fundraisers, and constant volunteers for The Joyful Heart Foundation, which works to create a world free of sexual assault, domestic violence and child abuse. They are also national board members for A Call to Men, which works to create a world where all men and boys are loving and respectful, and where all women and girls are valued and safe. Mark and Danielle have spoken all over the country to schools, Fortune 500 companies, professional sports teams and college teams, educating them on healthy relationships and healthy manhood.
In 2015, Mark also published his memoir titled, “What it Takes: Fighting for My Life and My Love of the Game”. Mark currently works for ESPN as a college football analyst and is the founder and host of “The Superhero Dad Podcast.” The podcast works to inspire men to put their capes on when they walk in their front doors, not just when they walk out of them. Mark has two children and lives in New England with his family.
Mark's life journey was a rough one, but he consistently talks about how his father was there for him through it all. As fathers, we can learn from this and try to create a realm of psychological safety for our children. They look up to us and open up to us. If we don't make them feel safe, they will learn to hide their problems and seek help elsewhere. Being a present father in our children's lives is something that we should never take for granted. Take Mark for example. If his father hadn't been there to say, "Let's do this," he might have taken the wrong path that would have ended his career. The fact that his father was there throughout the entire journey and finally said, "We did it" shows the commitment Mark's father demonstrated throughout his son's life.
Take the time today to allow your children to come to you with any and everything. It's such a gift to have your child feel safe enough to come and talk to you. It builds a bond and trust that you don't find anywhere else in life.
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Larry Hagner is bringing us a personal account of a conversation he had with his 13-year-old son about cutting the grass. When his son questioned him on it, Larry responded in a way that he wished he hadn't. After apologizing to his son, he realized that it wasn't the fact of mowing the grass; it was that he didn't explain to his son why he wanted him to mow the grass.
Having a stubborn child can be both a blessing and a curse. It's a blessing because your child has a gift; they challenge the status quo and stick up for what they believe in. On the other hand, their stubbornness is also a curse because they are willing to argue with you if they don't understand something. In the case with Larry's son, he mowed the grass because his dad asked him to, but with a poor attitude because he didn't understand why he had to mow the backyard too. Once Larry explained to him why he wanted the backyard mowed, his whole demeanor changed. He then understood that there actually was a purpose to mowing the grass.
A strong-willed child means they have a gift. They are not willing to budge on their beliefs because they hold true to their values. As fathers, we are leaders in our household. If we teach our strong-willed children that if you challenge the status quo, be respectful about it. If they aren't respectful, it's our job to course-correct that behavior, so it's not ill-received. Challenging the status quo is how people change the world. Yes men don't change the world because they are too afraid to say no.
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EJ Snyder is a husband, father, retired US Army combat veteran, actor, and survivalist. He has appeared on the show Naked and Afraid and Naked and Afraid XL. He was also a host on the TV show Dual Survival during its 9th season. EJ is married to his wife Amy, and they have two children, Tyler and Kassidy.
EJ’s claim to fame can be seen through his extraordinary survival, tracking, trapping, navigation, self-reliance, and self-defense skills. He is known as The Skullcrusher, an extreme survivalist, and adventurer who has been teaching survival skills to soldiers and civilians for over 20 years. After serving in the military for 25 years, EJ knew he wanted to be in entertainment and inspire people to develop a survivalist mindset.
Mindset is crucial to the element of survival. EJ is considered a master of mindset, and he talks about how you never quit just because it’s hard or because you’re in pain. You work around it, you force yourself to overcome obstacles, and finish the race. EJ’s mantra is live every day like it’s your last, and I think we can all benefit from this as fathers, husbands, and men. We have to take every chance we have in life to be the best husband, father, and man that we can be. It may be difficult at times, but with the right mindset, we have the power to live epic, legendary lives.
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The word "why" should be eradicated from our vocabulary for several reasons. First, every time we use the word "why," we instantly put the person we are talking to on the defense. We don't necessarily mean to. It sometimes occurs because we are curious why the other person thinks that way, or why someone did something.
The reason we hate hearing the word "why" stems from our childhood. When we were younger, we heard a lot of, "What are you doing? Why are you doing that?," if you were doing something you weren't supposed to. The problem with this is that we probably didn't know it was wrong, and we were immediately thrust into defensive mode. This made us cringe at the word "why" because we associate it with something bad, even though it doesn't always mean that.
For example, you might have an employee that does something really well, and you want to know why they did that. However, when you ask your employee why they did that, it immediately puts them into a defensive state. Instead of asking them "why," ask them to tell you about it. They will be much more open to explaining why they did what they did, without being defensive about it.
Another example could be a person asking you why you gave your child their name. They might not be asking in a bad way, but it makes us feel like we named them something wrong. The person might actually be thinking that they're name is really cool and wants to know the meaning behind it. However, we don't see it this way when they say the word "why."
Providing an environment of psychological safety is the number one way to get someone to open up to you. Instead of feeling defensive about something, they will feel invited to communicate why it happened or what they did. For example, if your child gets a bad grade on a test, our immediate response is "why." This propels them into becoming defensive and coming up with excuses why they got a bad grade. Instead of asking them why, try saying, "tell me about that." This opens the door for communication and lets your child feel comfortable telling you what went wrong.
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Jason Harris is a CEO, co-founder, best-selling author, and father of 2 boys. He is the CEO and founder of the company Mekanism, and co-founder of the Creative Alliance. He is also the best-selling author of the book titled The Soulful Art of Persuasion.
We see persuasion in our lives every single day. Persuasion is not about facts and argument, it’s about your personal character. What persuades people is the person doing the persuading, not the facts themselves. The soulful element of persuasion makes you more inspirational and more persuasive as a person. Another thing we’re going to touch on today is how to develop the habits you were not born with, and how you can perfect the ones that you were born with.
There are a couple principles in life that we should strive to live by, according to Jason. Number one is "be yourself, everyone else is already taken." This is when you tap into whom you really are and figure out your passions and interests in life. Being yourself is the building block of persuasion, and to pass this notion onto your kids. The second principle is generosity. The whole purpose of this principle is to make that person better off than when you found them. Generosity goes a long way in the art of persuasion, because it shows people that you care. If you show someone that you care, you can easily persuade them. However, the goal is simply to be generous, not always to persuade. If we apply these principles to our lives, we'll find it a lot easier to influence and inspire people.
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Barton Scott is a Chemical Engineer, Nutritionist, and founder of UpgradedFormulas.com. Barton is passionate about helping people combat the stressors of daily life, the toxicity of the modern world, the utter lack of nutrients, and the mineral absorption issues that we all face, and he has made it his mission to reduce suffering by increasing the public’s understanding of the human body’s interrelationships.
Scott started his business, Upgraded Formulas, when he began to have short-term memory loss and brain fogginess. Scott, a Chemical Engineer, had a very sharp mind and was always on top of his game. However, when he started to experience brain fog, he knew something was up. It was after years of reading and research that Barton realized he was deficient in minerals. After performing multiple tests, he discovered a test that actually delivered meaningful results. Barton knew all the supplements he would have to take in order to remedy his problem. However, Barton knew that mineral supplements had trouble dissolving into the body. The purpose of Upgraded Formulas was to upgrade the mineral formulas, so they could better absorb into the body and produce astronomical results.
Using his background in Chemical Engineering and nutrition, Barton created mineral supplements that actually worked. The website provides an at-home hair test that you send in to the company, so they can test what minerals you are deficient in, and recommend a product for you. Barton's research and knowledge is astounding and enlightening in our world today. We are so consumed with food, but we don't realize that most of the foods we eat, don't contain the minerals we need for health. Barton's mission is to educate people to understand the purpose of how the food we eat affects our health, and what we can do to fix it.
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Carlos Reyes is a husband, father, serial entrepreneur, and owner of 31 businesses. He came to this country illegally as a young boy and watched his mother struggle to take care of him and his 2 siblings. Carlos eventually gained citizenship and quit his corporate job in 2015 after 14 years. Reyes found his passion in real estate and pursued the dream of becoming the owner of a real estate investment company. Carlos' mantra in life is being more intentional with your time in order to get the most out of life.
There is an extreme importance in being intentional with your time, family, and moving with a purpose. You can’t just say your main priorities are your family, yet you don’t intentionally carve out time to spend with them. Children spell love like T-I-M-E. All children want is our time, and they feel the most loved when we give them it. They don’t care about how much money we make, or what we buy them. They just want our undivided attention in order to feel important.
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Dan Doromal is a husband, father, and CEO of several businesses. Dan graduated with an Engineering degree; however, his main focus is on creating new businesses and marketing. Dan is a mastermind member of Dad Edge Alliance and shares some of his experiences in this podcast. He is the founder of Everest Ice and Water systems, which created a patent for a one moving part ice vending machine system. Dan has been married to his wife for 10 years, and they have a daughter and a son. Dan stresses the importance of becoming the CEO of your own life, whether it's in your business, your marriage, your children, or even with yourself. It's important to prioritize the things that are important to you when you're trying to live legendary.
In this podcast, Dan recalls the lessons he's learned throughout his marriage, the lessons he's learned from his children, and the lessons he's learned through creating several successful businesses. He gives advice to men that are behind him, and how they can best implement the CEO strategy into their lives. He also talks about what he would like to be celebrating at the end of the year, and all that he's accomplished. Dan also talks about how it's important to get on your child's level and see the world through their eyes. It can sometimes change your entire perspective on life.
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Kevin Gilliland is a husband, father, and author, and licensed clinical psychologist. He is the executive director of Innovation 360, an out-patient counseling service that helps individuals and couples struggling with mental health, relationship issues, and substance abuse. Kevin is the author of Struggle Well. Live Well. - 60 Ways to Navigate Life's Good, Bad, and In-Between. This book is told through the eyes of Kevin and his approach to going through life. The topics in the book range from simple things such as work-life balance, to heavier topics such as mental illness and addiction. Kevin's podcast Struggle Well. Live Well. Worry Less. helps people overcome anxiety, worry, mental health, and how we can treat the things that lead to a worry free life.
There is a certain psychology that comes with marriage. Marriage is one of the most rewarding and unique relationships that we will ever have. It's hard to be aware of things we're focused on when we're in it. Sometimes, we are blinded by emotional resentment; we need the other person to give us input on how we perform best and what we need to do to work on things. The great thing about our spouses is that they can act as a mental coach in our lives. They see the things that we can't see because we are unaware of what's happening. They also can give us the potential to unlock our best selves when they give us their outside perspective. This doesn't mean that you need to be their coach or vice versa; this means that you can give them constructive reinforcement for things they can work on or things they are good at in order for them to better themselves. This is important to remember because we don't want to damage the connection we have with our spouses. We want to elevate them, not mentor them.
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Matt Wells is a husband, father, Business Technology Specialist, and creator of the video series Basic Dad Stuff. Matt Wells is currently enrolled in the Mastermind program at the Dad Edge, and is applying those principles to his life today with his video series Basic Dad Stuff. He coined the term from the creator of Basic Dude Stuff, and turned the series into short clips that talk about basic things that dads deal with every day. Through his humor and wit, Matt paints a picture of how fatherhood is meant to be humorous and fun, not a chore. Matt claims his two passions are being a father and helping other men be present and devoted dads.
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Dan Purcell is a husband, father of 6 children, and an entrepreneur. He is the founder of Get Your Marriage On! and CEO of Virgo Dev. Purcell has always been an entrepreneur at heart, and is motivated by creating products people love and creating a positive effect in their lives.
Purcell and his wife founded Get Your Marriage On! because they both found a passion in helping couples discover their true potential as spouses. Through this passion, came an app called Intimately Us which helps people discover what makes a passionate marriage really passionate.
As married couples, we sometimes fall into this ceiling of intimacy or the “peak” of intimacy in our marriages. We think that this is it in terms of connecting with one another on an intimate level. We’re scared to take the next step and ask one another pivotal questions to improve upon our intimacy because we don’t want to fall down a few levels.
Relationships are always a choice. Once you make your choice, you jump in with both feet. You can't keep the back door open because you're never fully committed to the person you're with. Once you figure out that you're with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, the back door closes forever.
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Eric Franco is a Dad Edge Alliance mastermind member, husband, father, and author of the children's book Introvert Ninja. In the book, he talks about a four-step process consisting of the steps: Honor, Energy, Action, Retrospect (HEAR). The Honor step is about honor who you are as a person, and realizing that it's okay to be an introvert. The Energy step is all about how you spend your energy and how you re-fuel it. The Action step is about the things you need to go do with your energy. Lastly, the Retrospective step is about looking back on what worked and what didn't when you took that action in engaging in a conversation with someone. An example of this would look like a kid who goes to school, sees other kids connecting, and feels upset because they can't do that. They feel like they're less than them, and that there's something wrong with them. However, what these kids don't realize is that they have their own strengths, they just need to learn how to tap into them. The book then goes on to talk about how you first honor your strengths, then find the energy to be able to use those strengths, take action on this energy, and then reassess how it went and what they can do differently.
Our lives are full of energy; how we spread it around is our choice. Since 2020, there has been a huge shift in how we spend our time. Before the pandemic, some of us used to focus more on our businesses than we did our families. However, post-pandemic, there's been a shift in mindset where we have begun creating a balance between our work and our families.
Creating a business can be something that's really special and makes you come alive. This isn't for the faint of heart; it's time-consuming work that has to be put in, day in and day out. It's even harder when you have to balance a marriage and kids on top of that. It can be done; however, it takes some very intentional goal setting and time-management in order to balance all three. You want to create a legendary marriage and legacy for your children. You also want to create a psychological place of safety where your kids will come and talk to you about anything. We're trying to create trust and memories, all while trying to take care of ourselves. What You’ll Learn:[3:13]
Eric talks about how walking has brought him joy over the past year. He states that he listens to an audiobook or podcast to wind down, and takes this time to reflect.
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Eric talks about the visions he gets when his thoughts transition from work to family.
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Eric talks about the four-step process in his book about raising introverted kids.
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Eric talks about the feelings he felt growing up introverted and the feelings that parents raising introverts feel.
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Eric talks about the kind of advice he would give him self back when he was unmarried and about to walk down the aisle.
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Eric states how he makes his wife feel seen and heard. He does this by keeping a journal of all the things he's grateful for about her.
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Eric talks about digging deep to find the gratitude to write in his journals.
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Eric talks about the problem with the words "more" and "better" when we try to be intentional in our marriages and relationships with our kids.
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Eric talks about what he's grateful for that's happened during his Mastermind course. He mentions that he is most grateful for the consistency that he's displayed throughout an 8-week period. It's the small steps that compound to great success.
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Eric talks about what his family would be celebrating by the end of the year.
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Eric talks about what life lessons his kids will have learned from him in order for Eric to step into the mentorship role and let his kids take the wheel.
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Ben Newman is an author, public speaker, and financial advisor coach. He is famous for being the Mental Conditioning Coach for the Alabama Crimson Tide Football Team. Ben helps sales and sports teams around the world and specializes in mental toughness. He helps people build a stronger commitment to their purpose and process by educating them on building mental toughness.
Taking ownership when you’re wrong is the first step to maturity. It allows you to look past your pride and admit that you messed up and that you want to make it right. Taking ownership also means figuring out what you want to do in or with your life and OWNING it.
Finding strength in adversity comes from within. It happens when you’re at the end of your rope, when you feel the most hopeless. You have a choice to make. Do you want to give up, or do you want to find your inner strength and push forward?
Lastly, taking action. Taking action occurs when you least WANT to. It happens when you’re tired, and you don’t feel like doing anything, or you can’t find the motivation. After taking action, you begin to feel better and wonder what the big fuss was all about. This is the first step to CHANGE.
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Scott's number one asset that he pushes is learning how to view things from someone else's perspective. Perspective drives everything in life, especially our interactions. Everyone has a different set of lenses they see the world through, and we can't change that. You will be much better as a person and as a business leader if you learn to look at things from someone else's perspective.
Another thing that Scott practices regularly with his wife and children is communication. Communication is key to healthy marriage, along with being each other's best friend. Communication and time are the key to raising your children to be strong men and women. Being there for your wife and kids, and not telling them how to do things or "fix it" for them is the driving factor in successful relationships.
Asking someone a series of questions that will lead them down the path of discovery is much better than fixing the problem for them. Most people don't need us to tell them that we're doing something wrong, they need us to walk the path with them and allow themselves to vocalize it, so they can take the action step at the end. This means, being intentional and allowing yourself to sit and listen, when you'd rather take control of the situation.
As men, we are the leaders and masters of 3 areas - ourselves, our families, and our businesses. In order to live legendary, we have to understand that life is always about the journey of mastery. It isn't about the destination of mastery, and never having to learn. We are constantly learning along the journey, and that's how we become legendary!
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Vernon Fox III is a retired football player, husband, father, coach, consultant, and international public speaker. Fox played for the San Diego Chargers, Detroit Lions, Washington Redskins, and Denver Broncos. He was awarded MVP for Special Teams He was raised in a strong Christian household where his father was physically and emotionally present in his life. Vernon speaks fondly of his father as a positive role model; he was a faithful and stable figure in Fox’s life.
When it comes to success, it’s really about your mindset that makes you successful, not your skill set. If you have a strong mentality to persevere through hard times, you’ll be ten times more successful than the person with just a strong skill set. Mindset requires training and practice, it doesn’t just happen overnight.
Excuses are justifications for losers; it's you trying to find an escape route. A reason is something that's outside your control. Most people will try to find a way to turn their excuse into a reason, and you can't live life that way. If you own up to what you can control, and you understand what you cannot control, you can separate it from the beginning. When you do this, you end up not living by the excuses.
Perseverance is not something you are born with. It’s something you learn and adapt to. You have to decide within yourself that you aren’t going to quit, no matter what life throws at you. You’re going to pick yourself and try again tomorrow. This is how you become successful no matter what your skills are and no matter where you come from.
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There are times in our marriages and parenthood where we have to learn things the hard way. Two lessons that can be learned from these relationships are - communication and vulnerability are critical. We try to portray a certain aura of who we are as a human being to the world. In doing that, you tend to put up barriers for how you actually feel, and you don't commit to being vulnerable and 100% honest in the relationship. You shouldn't wear masks in front of them; you should be totally and completely who you are.
You have to go through hardships in order to fully appreciate and understand those lessons. It's one thing to read about something, or talk about something, than it is to actually experience it. When you experience it, that's when you actually learn it.
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Greg McKeown is a husband, father, author, public speaker, and leadership and business strategist. He is the author of the books Essentialism and Effortless and the CEO of McKeown Inc. McKeown is a renowned LinkedIn Author for the Harvard Business Review and his writings have appeared in the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Fast Company, Fortune, and Politico. Greg’s main purpose is to help people and teams discover what drives success and what doesn’t. McKeown thrives off of challenging conventional wisdom and focuses on what you really need in order to be successful.
Mistake-free living is not something we should be interested in, either for us or our children. Honesty, humility, and leadership are the key elements that allow us to come back from our mistakes and better ourselves so that we can strengthen our relationships. Our children learn from our actions, so if we make mistakes and recover quickly from them, they learn how to do the same.
Greg is a huge proponent of gratitude. He talks about following a complaining statement with a statement of gratitude; this can make a vast difference in mindset. Mindset is the key to going from a chore, to a habit, to a ritual. These three things are how we can achieve a state of effortlessness in our lives.
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Dan Johnson is a husband, father, and founder of the website New Paths. During his younger years, Dan was introduced to pornography by a friend. As he got older, the addiction intensified. During his college years, Dan used the internet as a way of accessing porn and felt the guilt and shame of his actions.
Before Dan got married, he told his then girlfriend that he was addicted to pornography. After the couple got married, they implemented filters on their devices to prevent him from falling into temptation. Unfortunately, he was unable to resist, and he fell off the wagon again. Once Dan realized that he had to make a change, he joined a peer group to keep him accountable.
With any addiction, it can be easy to fall back into temptation and continue the cycle. However, having a sense of community drives you to be better and helps you to understand that you are not alone. With porn especially, comes a great amount of guilt and shame. What Dan has done is implemented a three-step process that helps you recognize those urges, process them, and actively count the reps of your resistance. The action of recognizing the urges, saying them out loud, and then counting each rep that you resisted the urge to watch porn has allowed Dan and many other men to overcome their addiction.
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Sal Frisella is a husband, father of three children, and the President of 1st Phorm Supplements, which was founded by his brother Andy. He was a Minor League Baseball player who was drafted by the St. Louis Cardinals and played for the Single A New Jersey Cardinals.
Sal went from baseball player to selling copiers to medical sales where he worked for Johnson and Johnson as a successful sales agent. After these phases of his life, Sal realized that these jobs were not meant for him. Sal knew that he had to take a chance on himself and live the best possible life ever. Becoming the President of 1stPhorm gave him the best life that he could want.
However, Sal's goals weren't always clear. The fear of rejection and fear of the word "no" often held him back during his younger years. Yet, fear didn't stop him from trying. Sal’s success in his life can attest to this because even through doubt and others negative opinions, he was able to push through and achieve the life he wanted. Sometimes, we are so afraid of rejection that we live with the regret of not trying at all.
Take advantage of every single day and live as if it were your last, or you’ll live with regret. The greatest strikeout of life is never stepping up to the plate. What are you going to say about you on your deathbed?
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Shawn Tolleson is a husband, father, former baseball player, public speaker, and entrepreneur. He is the founder of Tolleson Health Advisors which is a company that uses a person's biological process and creates a personalized plan for increasing their productivity and fulfillment.
Tolleson was a relief pitcher for the Los Angeles Dodgers and the Texas Rangers. Since his youth, Tolleson was raised to be a hard worker and to fulfill the purpose that God had for his life. When Shawn was in college, he discovered that he wanted to play baseball as a career. He started playing for the Dodgers as a pitcher and fell in love with the game.
In 2015, Shawn's father was diagnosed with two forms of Stage 4 cancer. Since his passing, Shawn formed a passion for health and how health can affect one's life. In 2020, he founded Tolleson Health Advisors and has had twenty clients since its launch.
One's of Shawn's greatest priorities in his morning routine. He stresses how much a morning routine can affect the whole rest of your day, whether it's done right or wrong. Shawn's mantra is that making small changes in your health can lead to astronomical changes in your life.
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Darryll Stinson is a husband, father, former D1 athlete, motivational speaker, and founder of Second Chance Athletes. At a young age, Darryll had to take care of his younger sisters because his father was fairly absent in his life. Through custody battles and being teased at school, Darryll found sports which then became his identity.
After his career in sports ended, Darryll discovered his passion for helping former athletes find their identity after sports. It's very common for athletes to use the sport that they play as a form of identity. However, Darryll is an advocate of identifying oneself with values, morals, or things you're passionate about. After his mentor showed him this technique, he has been able to show others how to do the same.
Darryll reminds us that rejection can be used to thrust you into success. No one wants to be rejected, especially men. They even try to go out of their way to be accepted and receive affirmation. However, when we get rejected in life, it always points us in another direction that we never would have thought if we hadn't been rejected.
"When you feel that moment of rejection, process that moment and make a better conclusion." Instead of feeling inadequate or like the world is out to get you, recognize that it may be the other person's insecurities that are driving their decision. Once you realize this, you can step back and come to a better conclusion that will leave you feeling content and secure in yourself.
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"What if we cared as much about the safety of our young people in digital spaces as much as we did in physical spaces." - Chris McKenna. The internet world in relatively new realm in which prying eyes can weave their way into our children's lives even more so than in the physical world. We care so much about who our children hang out with, where they're at on the playground, what time they say they'll be home. Yet, when it comes to technology, there are very little rules put into place that will protect them from online predators who have nothing but evil intentions.
Chris McKenna, former middle school youth pastor turned business owner, noticed this trend of outdated internet laws for protecting kids and decided to take matters into his own hands. He started the company, Protect Young Eyes, as an online program where parents could ask questions about technology and Chris would educate them on the dangers of the internet. Protect Young Eyes came up with an app as a "pandemic proof" way of presenting this information virtually instead of holding live presentations.
Titania Jordan is the Chief Parenting Officer for a tech company called Bark, which is a company that alerts parents when there are signs of any malicious content on a child's phone or device. The app protects against cyberbullying, thoughts of suicide, sexual content, potential drug use, online predation, and more. Bark does this by using artificial intelligence and machine learning to alert you of an issue instead of mirroring everything on your child's phone.
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There are three types of men in this world and each category defines a specific stage of personal growth that each man experiences in their life. The first category is "the victim." The victim is a type of man who blames his shortcomings and faults on outlying factors. For example, a victim might not show affection toward his wife and kids and then blame it on his parents not showing him any affection. This type of man will find proof to justify his actions and faults just to make himself feel better. For example, he may start eating healthy, go off on a food binge, and then blame it on the fact that he has never been able to eat healthy.
The "content zombie" is the next stage of personal development. This is the stage where the man recognizes he needs to make a change before his marriage or his relationship with his kids falls apart. He reads all of the podcasts, articles, goes to conferences, gets counseling - the works. The only issue with this stage is that there is no action. The content zombie has acquired all of the information necessary to change his life, yet hasn't taken the action to execute it yet.
The last phase of personal development, and the phase that men should spend the largest portion of their time in is the "executor phase." This is the stage where the man has finally begun to take some action and uses accountability to keep him honest. For example, you have begun asking your wife insightful questions about your relationship such as, "What are some things I do that make you feel the most loved?" You not only ask her this question, but you also have an accountability partner that you relay this outcome with so that you can stay on top of the development process.
There comes a point in your life when you have to make a choice. You have to decide that if you died today, what kind of legacy would you leave in your wife and children. Would they carry on that legacy into their lives? Would you have made an impact that would carry on through the generations? If you said no to any of these questions, it's time to make a choice. Do you go on living your life? Or, do you make a choice and decide to live legendary?
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Alright, alright, alright is the famous phrase coined by the illustrious Matthew McConaughey. He is an actor, father, husband, and author. When Matthew was younger, his father instilled in him three principles for life - "Don't say can't," "love, don't hate," "tell the truth, don't lie" and he has carried these principles throughout his life.
Matthew McConaughey has acted in over 50 films and is the co-founder of the Just Keep Livin' Foundation alongside his wife, Camila. The two have three children and currently reside in Austin, Texas. Throughout his life, Matthew has learned that putting the energy into your family will produce results far greater than if you go it alone. He recalls his wife saying, "You go, we go" when they were deciding whether or not to have children. Since having three children, Matthew has been cultivating a closeness with his children that leaves a legacy for years to come.
In his book Greenlights, Matthew talks about how he wants his life to read like an unfiltered, unedited version of himself. His whole life has been dedicated to this persona of an actor that everyone is familiar with. Leaving a legacy is all about the raw, unedited moments of our lives; the ones where we're not perfect and we do make mistakes. These are the moments that define who we are, not who everyone else thinks we are.
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John Ramstead is a husband, father, entrepreneur, and author of On Purpose, With Purpose. Ramstead knew from a young age that he wanted to be a pilot. However, when he got to college and was enrolled in the ROTC program, he never believed that he had what it took to be a pilot. After an inspiring talk with his father, John decided that he was going to take aviation classes and become a pilot. Throughout his studies, John had a mentor that held him accountable and challenged him to be the best that he could be. Ramstead finished first in his graduating class and got to pick the plane of his choice.
After John retired from the Navy, he became an entrepreneur and founded the company Beyond Influence. In 2011, John encountered an accident that would alter the course of his life forever. During a work retreat, John was riding on a horse that bucked him off and sent him straight into a steel pipe, shattering his skull. The doctors told his wife and kids to fill out a living will because he was not going to make it. During his time in the hospital, the Lord spoke to John and told him that he would heal him. From that moment on, John decided to save the relationship with his wife and children and become the husband and father he was meant to be.
Marriage is all about skill. You can't just walk in and expect to wing it on the first try; it takes patience, practice, and most importantly - SKILL. Having a healthy relationship with your kids works the same way too. It's not about getting them to be on their best behavior, it's about bringing out the best in them, no matter if it's different than how you imagined. When John was near the end of his life, he discovered that it's not about what you leave for your family, it's about what you leave in them. That is the difference between inheritance and legacy - legacy is forever, inheritance is temporary.
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Ted Shimer, author of the Freedom Fight, is a 30 year veteran of a National Collegiate Disciplinary Ministry who has helped thousands of young individuals in their pornography addiction. His book The Freedom Fight is also a no-cost internet program that uses the power brain of science to outgrow porn and heal from the addiction.
In the early 2000s, Shimer witnessed firsthand what pornography does to not only married couples, but to young adults as well. After the rise of the iPhone, becoming addicted became an even easier feat amongst millions of individuals. Countless studies have been conducted that state the detrimental effects of pornography in relationships, marriages, and even children. Shimer uses a faith-based approach in talking about the effects of porn and how it draws us further and further away from the truth of God's word and His will for our lives. In order to deepen our connection with God, we have to repress those sinful behaviors and replace it with healing behaviors such as an accountability partner or connecting with the Word of God.
In our society, men tend to justify porn by stating that it's not as bad as doing drugs or drinking heavily. However, addiction is addiction no matter how you swing it. The impact of pornography on husbands and fathers has been known to cause divorces two to three times greater than if there was no porn involved. There has to be a point where you admit that you have an addiction, then find the right people and resources to help you outgrow the addiction.
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Ilan Muallem is an actor, director, martial artist, and entrepreneur. Some of his most well known roles are Wesley from “The Walking Dead” and Noah from “The Big Short.” Muallem is also a free speech advocate and political activist who actively supports the military and police. Muallem is currently in a 13 year relationship and is a mentor to his girlfriend’s three children.
During Muallem’s childhood, he recalls his father being hard but empathetic towards his horrendous behavior. When Ilan was diagnosed with an auto-immune disease, he notes how his father was right by his side, caring for him. Ilan recalls how it’s defining moments like those that lead to your identity.
As a father, you realize that 90% of the battle is just being there for your kids. Muallem’s father was there for him during the difficult years and it made Ilan realize that although his father wasn’t perfect, he always showed up. According to Muallem, the definition of success means always showing up and being consistent, no matter what. Even if you’re not a perfect parent, you can still be successful and leave a legacy for your children by just being there for them.
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Todd Stottlemyre
Todd Vernon Stottlemyre is an entrepreneur, business coach, author, and Major League Baseball player. During his youth, Todd watched his father, Mel Stottlemyre, pitch for the New York Yankees. After Todd retired from baseball in 2002, he developed a passion for the stock market and co-founded a hedge fund in 2010. Since 2010, Todd has been co-running this business, writing books, and telling his story to listeners around the world.
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Today, Todd is a husband, father, and self-made business and life coach who learned how to turn guilt into joy by one simple action - letting go. He shares valuable life lessons as well as emotionally captivating stories that demonstrate how he took control of his emotions and began living his life more intentionally.
Todd recalls the guilt he carried with him for 12 years of his life and how he hated the man he saw in the mirror. Through a family loss, emotional baggage, his journey to fame, and the life-changing words of Harvey Dorfman, Todd was able to abolish the guilt he carried with him and live a more intentional, thoughtful life.
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In this episode, we have invited Nicky Billou, the host of The Thought Leader Revolution Podcast. He is inspired by achievement and is dedicated to assisting others in achieving outstanding results.
But there was a time when Nicky’s marriage was in ruins and he didn’t even want to live anymore.
Today, Nicky talks about the mistakes men make when it comes to marriage and what it means to be masculine today.
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Today, our guest is Chris Gardner, New York Times and Washington Post Best Selling author of the critically acclaimed The Pursuit of Happyness, which has been translated in over 40 languages and became a popular 2006 film starring Will Smith.
The book was the story of Chris’s life, a way to project onto the world that everyone can do anything, no matter what the obstacles are, no matter what the adversity is, because we all embrace the Power of Choice. That’s what this episode is all about!
In our conversation with Chris Gardner, we will talk about how we can make powerful pivots in our lives when we are confronted with adversities. We go over how we can show up as more empowered and compassionate fathers than we ever thought possible, even when we're dealing with everyday stress and obstacles in our lives.
We also discuss how his upcoming book, Permission to Dream, lays out a blueprint for building a dream-come-true life, even during uncertainty.
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Whether you had plans for your business, career, family, or personal life, COVID has probably derailed it to some point. Today, we talk about pivoting during the pandemic and turning our setbacks into new opportunities.
Ben Rector is a singer, songwriter, and record producer. Ben has appeared and performed on various television shows like Jimmy Kimmel Live! Conan, Live with Kelly and Ryan, and others. His songs make appearances on shows like American Idol, Ellen DeGeneres Show, World of Dance, Pretty Little Liars, and Castle.
In this episode, Ben talks about his music journey and how he’s had to restrategize his plans since the pandemic. He also shares his parenting insights and how he hits his reset button to stay on track.
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Ron Worley is a business coach, entrepreneur, and the author of “Ditches to Riches: How to Survive Your F&%$ed-Up Life and Create a Kick-Ass Business.”
Living a life of treachery, drugs, and helplessness, Ron almost succumbed to the abyss of death.
Today, Ron is a self-made millionaire, a husband, and a dad. He reveals his chaotic past, personal reflections, pivotal decisions, and life lessons. He also shares how every man needs a woman that will support him throughout it all—in happiness and pain.
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It takes a special skillset to be a good dad to a daughter. We don’t have many shows about raising girls. If you have daughters between ages of five and twenty-five, this show is for you.
Today we are grateful to have Dr. Tim Jordan on the show to give us simple, sound advice on raising strong girls. He is the expert on parenting girls, a counselor, and the author of SHE LEADS: A Practical Guide for Raising Girls Who Advocate, Influence, and Lead.
Dr. Tim Jordan is going to tell us how we as fathers can best help our daughters become empowered and confident. He also highlights the unique challenges girls face that dads might not be aware of. He also explains how to teach girls to navigate pressure, speak up for themselves, and discover their true gifts.
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In this episode, we are excited to talk to Brad Lea, the founder of Lightspeed VT, the most advanced interactive training platform on the market. He is a soon-to-be billionaire and the host of the Dropping Bombs podcast. Brad is also the author of the Real Deal and has a new book coming out, The Hard Way. He's also been featured in Forbes, Huffington Post, Inc. Magazine, and is a regular guest on several top-rated podcasts.
Brad talks about how he blew it as a father and how he’s levelled up as a parent, raising his daughters to be strong, confident women. He tells us how to build confidence and shift our mindsets by accumulating knowledge. He also talks about how to rack up wins to replace old patterns and crush self-sabotage and procrastination once and for all!
Brad learned the hard way so we don’t have to. Take advantage of the wisdom bombs he drops in this podcast!
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It’s been about a year since our worlds were drastically changed by the pandemic. Many of us feel discouraged and stressed out. It seems impossible to stay motivated and focused. We lose the momentum we had toward whatever goals we planned to achieve pre-COVID.
Today’s show is for those who feel frustrated and overwhelmed, for those who struggle with imperfection, impostor syndrome, and self-doubt. It’s for those on the brink of giving up.
Don’t do it. Keep showing up. I will tell you why. When life fights you the most, be ready, because something amazing is heading your way.
This is my personal story about the success that I would’ve never experienced had I given up all those times I wanted to quit. Success is so much closer than you think.
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This show is explicit, and it will be offensive to some listeners. But the message is important. Today’s guest is Wes Watson, and he is not going to sugar-coat his advice. Prepare to hear a lot of f-bombs.
Wes Watson is an ex-convict, motivational speaker, and is the founder of personal coaching firm, Watson Fit, which aims to liberate people from mental prisons to help them achieve their health goals and beyond.
Today, Wes talks about his journey from penitentiary to personal development. He reveals the mindsets and vices that are keeping us stuck. He also teaches us how to exercise self-discipline, practice constructive self-talk, and commit to behaviors that will transform us into the men, husbands, and fathers we want to become.
Are you ready to stop making excuses and start investing in yourself?
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When life gets tough, we tend to take things too seriously. We get discouraged and bitter. We might even lose faith.
In this episode, we get a chance to speak with Mirthell Onyx. He has been an ordained minister and marriage and family therapist for over twenty years. Mirthell is also a dad who writes, directs, produces, and acts in his family’s viral YouTube channel. There they depict how they rose from “the struggle life” to “the Onyx life” as a self-made, millionaire family utilizing social media as their primary entertainment platform.
Also the host of The Onyx Life podcast, Mirthell seeks to inspire and educate families on how to simultaneously build happy homes and financial empires. Today he teaches us how to use the power of humor through hard times and keep the faith to get through anything.
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Our guest today believes the saying “happy wife, happy life” is a lie. If you feel like you’re doing everything right in your marriage and wonder why it’s not working, this show is for you.
In this episode, we have invited Dr. Mike Frazier, the founder of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. Today, we talk about what it really means to be a man and a husband and how you need to define that for yourself. We’ll go through communication, connection, intimacy, and all the secrets you can use to make your marriage strong and exciting.
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How many hours have you spent training to be a husband? We expect marriage to work out without ever learning the skills to maintain a successful relationship. We want more sex and intimacy as well as better communication and connection, but we are missing the tactics.
Today I am with Nate Bagley from the Growth Marriage podcast to talk about elevating your marriage. We go over the tools you need to take the relationship with your wife to the next level.
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In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, our guest is Dr. Nicole LePera. She was trained in clinical psychology at Cornell University and the New School for Social Research. She also studied at the Philadelphia School of Psychoanalysis.
As a clinical psychologist in private practice, she often found herself frustrated by traditional psychotherapy's limitations. She began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical, and spiritual health that equips people with the tools necessary to heal themselves. Nothing short of a paradigm shift, her teachings empower individuals to break free from trauma cycles and create who they want to become.
Today, she talks with us about how to to the work when it comes to resolving childhood traumas, dealing with anxiety, building resiliency, and becoming a greater example for our children.
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In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, we have invited Hunter Clarke-Fields, a mindfulness mama mentor. She coaches smart, accomplished, overstressed individuals on how to cultivate mindfulness in their daily lives.
Hunter has over 20 years of experience in yoga, mindfulness practices and a certified teacher of parent effectiveness training. She has taught mindfulness to thousands of parents worldwide. She is also an international speaker and an author as well.
Today, she talks with us about the meaning of being a mindful father and breaking the cycle of reactive parenting.
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In this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, we welcome iconic comedian and author, Michael Jr. to the show!
Spreading laughter and positivity to stages like Jimmy Kimmel Live and Comedy Central, Michael now is on a mission to take it to the next level through his anticipated book Funny How Life Works.
Today, Michael shares with us how he struggled his way to success, the impact of stories to people’s lives, and how to be the most understanding, inspiring and iconic father you can ever be.
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Navigating the turbulent waters of raising a teenager is different now than when our parents raised us. With technology, they are exposed to so much more than they are ready for. We also are facing new challenges like the pandemic and societal issues.
In this episode, Marc Fienberg is going to teach us how to raise a teen in today’s world. He is the bestselling author of Dad’s Great Advice for Teens and we talk about the tough conversations we need to have with our kids. He tells us why we should encourage our kids to not focus on making us happy.
He also tells us how to get our kids to open up about sex, drugs, and other uncomfortable issues so that they can make the best decisions even when we aren’t around.
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Today we have a celebrity guest, Roger Mathews from the Jersey Shore. He was JWoww’s boyfriend in the show, and they got married and had two kids. They are now divorced, and he only gets to be with his children 50% of the time, but that doesn’t stop him from being a 100% dad. What you’re going to hear today about his take on fatherhood is going to surprise you.
Roger Mathews talks about his upbringing and the amazing connection he has with his father. He talks about the lessons in money management he will pass on to his kids, and how he manages their screen time. He gets real about dealing with a special needs child. Most important of all, Roger talks about focusing on the positive in fatherhood and trying to put good things into the world in spite of the chaos that is happening right now.
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In today’s episode of The Dad Edge, we interview Justin Holland, popularly known as Juice, who completed the 75 Hard challenge with us in The Dad Edge Alliance.
Juice started 75 Hard on November 1st with a starting weight of 344 pounds. He chose November specifically because it’s the toughest time to begin a challenge like this. It’s the holiday season, and Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year, were all standing in the way to test his commitment.
Juice thought if he could go through this, he could go through anything. He has now dropped down to 290 pounds!
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Many of us are frustrated with our relationships. We’re settling for mediocre marriages that we don’t know how to revive. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Our relationships are not the problem. The problem is that we lack the skills to make them into what they could be. Today you will be empowered with those skills.
We are fired up to talk to Shana James. She is a coach, TEDx speaker, author, and the host of the Man Alive podcast. She is here to help us understand what women love most about their men. She is going to teach us how to ask for what we need and what we desire without fear. She also shows us how to access our power, confidence, and clarity so that we can live truly extraordinary lives.
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In today’s episode we have Tim Urban. He is one of the most popular bloggers in the US. He’s got a TED talk about procrastination and is here today to clear up why human beings procrastinate, why we don’t feel motivated, and why we don't get things done. He's also going to explain the evolutionary science behind procrastination, how to cultivate a sense of urgency, and how we can override our own voice of procrastination.
Even Elon Musk follows Tim’s blog, so learn how to get out of your own way, outsmart yourself, and just take action!
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Young men today are less motivated to create extraordinary lives because they aren’t equipped with the skills to turn their dreams into reality. How can we be a relatable parent and instill the fundamentals of manhood so our sons can reach their full potential?
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, we talk with Gregory Koufacos. Greg is the founder and CEO of Velocity Mentoring. He is an addiction professional with almost 15 years of experience. He holds a Master's Degree in Psychology from The New School for Social Research. He is a Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor and a Nationally Certified Recovery Coach.
Gregory is also the author of the book named "Primal Method" which he will discuss along with the issues between a father and a son. We will also talk about relationships, marriages, and the challenging transition of becoming a man in today's world.
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In this episode, we have invited Dr. Nick Sotelo, a coach and counselor. He is a leader in our Dad Edge Alliance and guides people to reaching their potential. He has succeeded in helping people achieve more in their careers and relationships.
Dr. Nick also helps men struggling with addiction, their identity, and their ability to connect well with spouses and children. Today we talk about emotional intelligence skills for men.
You will learn how to master your anger and patience, how to become more self-aware, and how to realize and reach your potential for an upgraded life!
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Imagine hiking for 5 months straight, covering 2,000 miles of harsh terrain. Now imagine doing it with your wife and 6 kids. Yes, 6 kids. Today’s guest is Ben Crawford who set the record for the largest hike through the Appalachian trail with his family. His book, 2,000 Miles Together tells the story of this extreme family adventure, the physical challenges they faced, as well as the public ridicule threatened their journey.
Ben explains how incorporating kids into our adventures teaches them ownership, cooperation, and pride in contributing to a shared goal. He shows us how to challenge the status quo and raise our family according our values. He also talks about how to keep the family morale up when all the chips are down.
This story is as insane as it is inspiring. Get ready for extreme family adventure!
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What are we supposed to do when our kids admit to doing something wrong?
If we blow up, they will lie to avoid getting into trouble. They’ll be afraid to come to us whenever they have problems.
When they are small, it may be a fight on the playground or a grade on a test. As they get older, they’ll have to navigate sex, drugs, and peer pressure. The risks are bigger, and the consequences are more serious.
Today we talk about getting your kid to be honest with you, no matter what.
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So much competes for our attention and patience. It feels as though we have to make a choice—family or business. But is it possible to have the best of both?
Today we have Pat Flynn from Smart Passive Income back on the show to teach us how to master work life integration. Pat built his large, online business from scratch and now makes over 200K a month in gross sales. He helps people all over the world improve their lives, all while being an amazing husband and father of two.
You will walk away from this episode with simple, powerful ways to scale your business and spend more time with your family. You’ve only got one life. Make it count!
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Today we check The Dad Edge Mailbox and answer some questions like:
Is it possible to have a fulfilling and passionate marriage after the kids?
How do we keep things fresh and exciting over the years and even decades?
In this world of busyness, how can we accomplish everything we want to do?
What are the skills we need to learn to become the parents our kids can always rely on? Learn these secrets and more in this quick episode!
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Many of us take pride in being the “nice guy.” But could being the nice guy be ruining our lives?
We are all probably guilty of Nice Guy Syndrome on some level. We sometimes give only to receive in a passive attempt to get what we want without directly asking for it. We avoid conflict to get the acceptance, validation, even and the sex that we need. Some of us might not even realize we suffer from Nice Guy Syndrome and wonder why we are anxious and unhappy.
Dr. Robert Glover is back on The Dad Edge for a discussion we all need to hear. He talks about how to stop being dependent on external things for our happiness. He shows us how to reclaim our identities after losing ourselves in relationships. He also explains why we need to get comfortable with our existential fears to become empowered men.
Stop being a nice guy and start living true to yourself!
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The plant-based lifestyle seems to be everywhere lately, but is it really possible to maintain our bodies without animal protein? Won’t we feel tired and hungry all the time? What about our libido and testosterone levels?
Today's discussion will reveal the surprising benefits of a plant-based lifestyle for men. Our guest is Fraser Bayley. He has founded Veg Up with his wife, Lauren, and together they help people cut through the confusion to achieve peak performance, an amazing body, and insane mental clarity on a plant-based diet.
You will hear how a plant-based diet can radically change your bloodwork, your energy levels, and your psychological wellbeing. You will also learn how being the healthiest dad you can be will make you more available for your kids while setting an example that will prime them for a healthy adult life.
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The next generation is our responsibility. Our kids are watching us. What kind of world do we want them to build?
Today, The Dad Edge celebrates episode 300! Thank you to all of our listeners for being part of this community of men who want to Live Legendary. When we invest in ourselves, when we join together, when we level up, it changes the world. If you’ve been enjoying the show, please take a few seconds to leave us a review and let us know your thoughts.
Our guest for this milestone show is Jon Macaskill. He is a Retired Navy SEAL Commander, a husband, and the father of two. He is also the Executive Deputy Director of Veteran’s PATH, a nonprofit helping veterans rediscover meaning, purpose & joy through mindfulness, meditation and a safe community.
Jon talks about how he uses his training and experience in the SEAL teams to achieve seemingly impossible goals. He tells us how to respectfully cherish our spouses and parent as a cohesive team. He also teaches us how to become strong, mindful fathers by overcoming selfishness and practicing compassion.
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Marriages have taken a beating during the pandemic. We are under a constant generalized stress that keeps our nerves on edge and lowers our emotional capacity. But we can use this time to build a ridiculously fulfilling marriage, and our guest today teaches us how.
Nate Bagley is a marriage researcher, educator, husband, and a new dad. He is the founder of the Growth Marriage Community and podcast and his mission is to rid the world of mediocre love.
Nate has an incredible story. Before he got married, he quit his job and toured the country to gather information that 99% of us do not get. What do madly in love couples do that everyone else is missing out on?
Let’s find out!
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How can you be the best dad after your marriage fails? What can you do to use post-divorce life as an opportunity to grow into the best version of yourself? Today’s show is a dad’s guide to parenting after divorce.
Evan DeMarco is the host of the Single Parents Daily and the Complete Human podcasts. Evan tells his harrowing story of his parents’ divorce, and how his father kidnapped him when he was a toddler. He reveals how his abandonment issues led to his own divorce, forcing him to confront his issues. Evan gives divorced dads tips to reclaim their true selves while also giving married and dating dads insights on how to develop and keep the relationship they have or begin a new one.
This show is gets real, so get ready to face some hard truths.
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Without challenges, we cannot grow. One of our biggest challenges as fathers is to make sure we don’t neglect our health. But learning how to take care of our bodies is the foundation that sets us up for success in all other areas of our lives.
Marc Hildebrand is a husband, father, and LAPD sergeant. He is the creator of First Responder Fitness and provides mindset, fitness, and nutrition solutions for those in the unpredictable career of being a first responder.
He talks about how outer success is a reflection of our inner growth, and that is why mindset-driven fitness is the only way to get lasting results on your health goals for this year and the rest of your life.
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Marriage is one of the most challenging and important relationships in our lives, yet most of us come into it completely unprepared. So many men struggle to connect with their wives. Maybe we’re giving it all we have, and it seems like nothing works. We might wonder if it was never meant to be, and we must decide whether we should divorce or settle for a lifelong roommate.
We want neither.
We want an awesome marriage.
Today we have Dr. Kim Kimberling on the show to reveal the secrets to an awesome marriage. He is going to teach us to empower ourselves with simple tools that we can use everyday to build trust, communication, and sexual intimacy.
A strong marriage is the best gift we can give our kids. It’s time to build an awesome marriage you believe in.
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If we don’t know who we are or what’s important to us, we will be driven by outside forces and will lack the strength to show up in our lives with purpose and integrity.
This can lead to a feeling of being lost, powerless, trapped, and alone. Worst of all, it can cause us to dislike the man in the mirror—if we can even recognize him at all.
Today’s guest is John Elsasser. He is a former Army Ranger and the host of The Art of Masculinity podcast. He is going to tell us how to create a Masculine Blueprint so that we can identify what kind of men we want to become. In living by our own code, we will always know who we are and where we stand.
Feel the power of living as the person you really are.
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Are you a busy, hardworking dad who is ready to get in his best physical health this year? We have the most amazing guest for you!
Drew Manning is NY Times Bestselling author of Fit2Fat2Fit, a book about how he gained and lost seventy-five pounds in order to better understand the struggle to lose weight. Now he talks about Fit2Fat2Forty, which addresses the particular struggles we have with extra weight as we get older.
Drew is bent on disrupting the aspects of the fitness industry that have no empathy for overweight people. He talks about the emotional and mental work that we need to do to take care of our bodies. He also tells us how busy dads can define health for themselves so that diet and exercise doesn’t feel like punishment.
Prepare yourself to not only become a healthy dad, but also a happy and energetic one.
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Would you believe that 82% of men are unhappy with what they do for a living? How tragic is it that so many of us are letting the days slip away in misery? How can we find work that both makes us come alive and also helps us provide the life we want for our families?
If you’re feeling frustrated and trapped, there is good news. It’s never too late to figure out what you want to do with the rest of your life, and you’re in the perfect place right now to take the first step to where you truly want to go.
Andy Storch is the author of Own Your Career Own Your Life: Stop Drifting and Take Control of Your Future. He is the host of two podcasts, The Talent Development Hot Seat and the Own Your Career Own Your Life Show and he is going to teach us how to stop waiting for something to happen and create a life that excites us!
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It has been extremely difficult during lockdown and virtual schooling to limit screen time for our kids. That is why we have Arlene Pellicane back on the show to talk about Screen Kids, the latest book she’s co-written with Gary Chapman.
Arlene Pellicane tells us what too much screen time will do to our kids’ brains. She explains us how the internet trains kids to become accustomed to instant gratification and how that affects their wellbeing and behavior over time. Most importantly, she teaches us how to set non-negotiable boundaries around computers and devices in our homes.
Learn how to keep screen time balanced for you and your kids once and for all in this episode!
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Lockdown has affected us physically as well as mentally. Our relationships have been challenged like never before. But we have the power to recalibrate with healthy habits that will help our bodies, minds, and connection to our families.
Today we talk to everyday dad and Dad Edge Alliance member, Jordan Kaufman. He talks about the signs that warned him he needed to change, why he committed to an extreme health challenge, and how he will use his newfound resilience to keep making his body, mind, and marriage stronger.
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Want to do better with your money? We all do, but how can we create a budget, get out of debt, and save money without making life complicated? And can we show our kids good money habits, even if we haven’t had the best relationship with money?
Today we are excited to have Rachel Cruze to talk to us about practical money wisdom for parents. She is the daughter of David Ramsey and the author of Know Yourself, Know Your Money.
Rachel teaches us how to develop self-awareness around money, discover why we handle money the way do, and make spending and saving an open, stress-free topic in the household.
Get ready to understand yourself and know your money!
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You do not have to be a victim of you past. You can learn to pivot and become stronger. Today’s guest proves it.
Everyday dad and Dad Edge Alliance member Christopher Wilson grew up with an abusive, alcoholic father. He never knew what a normal, healthy family was supposed to look like.
Now he is a husband and a father and works for the inspirational fitness community, Critical Bench. Chris shares what he learned from his difficult childhood, how he deals with his own patience and anger issues, and the critical fatherhood skills he uses to make sure his home is a happy one for his wife and kids.
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Today we have a badass who is also an everyday dude. Navy SEAL Chad Williams is the author of SEAL of God, a husband, and a father. He tells us why servant leadership is more effective than just looking out for ourselves. He reveals why reaching our biggest goals can make us unhappy. He also teaches us how a spiritual practice can put our lives in perspective so that we can use adversity as a wing and become warriors for those we love.
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How insane is it to be a parent these days? Now, think about what our kids are going through. How can we be the go-to guy for our kids when they are struggling?
Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member and elementary school teacher Charlie Moynahan on the show. Not only is he fathering two boys, as a teacher in a poor area, he is often the only consistent person in his students’ lives.
Charlie tells us how to help kids become resilient and self-reliant. He reveals how he helps students deal with learning challenges, bullies, and adversity. He also teaches us the tools he uses to raise respectful, responsible, and loving kids.
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So many men are unhappy, exhausted, and overwhelmed, even when they have a life that would be considered perfect. Why is that?
Today we have mega guest Cody Jefferson on The Dad Edge. Cody is the founder and CEO of Embrace The Lion, and the creator of LION Method, the #1 Group Coaching Program for High-Achieving Men looking to adopt the right support, belief, habits and community to create success in their lives and businesses.
Cody tells us what happens when we are addicted to accomplishment and validation. He teaches us how to get honest with ourselves and step into the reality that is right for us. Most importantly, he tells us how stop sacrificing ourselves on the altar of success and find true fulfillment with our families.
Get ready to embrace the lion within!
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Do you feel like a slave to your to-do list? Are the things you spend your time and energy on bringing you any closer to becoming the man you can be? Today we’re going to talk to an everyday dad about how to become the master of your schedule.
David Pickering is the married father of two and a member of the Dad Edge Alliance. He lived an average, comfortable life, but he didn’t feel like he was in charge of it. Every day was the same. He was “tubing down the river of life,” drifting wherever the current took him.
Learn what David did to take charge of his daily schedule, lose 60 pounds, and actively step into the bigger vision he has for himself and his family.
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Do you want more sex in your marriage? Many of us do, but have you ever asked yourself if the sex in your marriage is even worth having more of? Today, our guest gives us the intimacy tips for married men to have both MORE sex and BETTER sex with our spouses.
Dr. Corey Allan is the host of Sexy Marriage Radio and is back on The Dad Edge to teach us everything we’re doing wrong when it comes to approaching our wives about sex. He tells us to stop trying to fix our women and how to fix ourselves. Corey reveals women’s most common complaints on how their men derail their arousal, and what we can do to make sure our desire is clear without being needy or demanding. He also talks about how to get your woman on board with sexploration and games to fire up the bedroom.
Get ready to become the sexpert in your marriage!
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How do we make the right decision when it comes to where we want to devote our time, energy, and resources? What should we strive for? What should we sacrifice? As fathers, we are pulled in a hundred different directions. Our capacity is limited. It’s easy to feel unsure which way to go.
Today’s guest has developed a system to help you design a life that brings you joy and satisfaction. Darius Mirshahzadeh is the host of Greatness Machine LIVE and the author of The Core Value Equation.
He teaches us not only how to define our core values, but how to turn them into the language of our lives and use them as an anchor for all decision making.
You’ve never heard an approach to values like this before! Learn how to always make the right decision for yourself, your work, and most importantly, your family.
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Today we are beyond excited to have Andy Frisella on The Dad Edge! This interview is the favorite above all other episodes.
If you don’t already know, Andy Frisella hosted the #1 business and success podcast in the world, The MFCEO project, and is the creator of 1st Phorm supplements. Andy is also the host of the Real AF Podcast and the founder of the #75Hard mental and physical fitness challenge.
With a big voice, big personality, and big heart, Andy Frisella, gets real AF about his struggles. He reveals that he naturally is a weak and lazy person, and that only by learning the skill of self-discipline has he developed his unstoppable work ethic and hustle.
He talks about why health must be our priority and how the #75Hard challenge develops the self-discipline we need to accomplish everything we want to do in life.
He also tells us how to practice extreme time management, how to develop true self-confidence, and what legacy really means.
Andy shares stuff in this show that you haven’t heard on any other podcast. Get ready to get real AF about life!
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We are all going to go some day. What kind of culture do you want to leave behind for your family and the generations to come?
We have an intense experience for you today. Errol Doebler, former Navy SEAL and FBI Special Agent, is back on the show. He is a husband, a father of three, and the author of The Process, Art and Science of Leadership.
Errol participated in a live event with the Dad Edge Alliance, where more than 70 men had the opportunity to listen to his arsenal of family leadership training and got a chance to ask him questions on how to use the process of leadership to become strong leaders for their families.
Errol explains how the leadership strategies used for battle are the same we need to use in the boardroom and the home. In this behind-the-scenes peek into the Dad Edge Alliance, you will learn how to gain trust, earn respect, and form an unbreakable family team.
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Life can often feel like a cage fight. Punches fly at us from every angle. We’re swept off of our feet and tackled to the ground. Sometimes we’re straight up knocked out. And if we aren’t prepared to battle, we might never get back up.
Today’s guest is MMA fighter Josh Tyler. He is also the co-founder of Savage Gentleman, a retail brand and ethos that believes that men are both savages and gentlemen.
Josh is here to reveal his secret to remaining calm in the chaos of the cage. He tells us how to employ emotional intelligence, communication, and self-awareness in a masculine way. Josh also talks about how he’s applied what he’s learned as an MMA fighter to family life.
"The world is full of savages and gentlemen. Rare is it to find a man who can be both."
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If you were to leave the world right now, what would you want your kids to know? What would you tell them about the way you feel? What advice would you give to take them through the rest of their lives? Today we talk about the ultimate gift to leave behind for your kids.
Blake Brewer lost his dad in a tragic accident when he was nineteen. Their relationship was cut short, but during the heartbreak and grief, Blake’s mom handed him a letter that his father had written to him. This legacy letter not only helped Blake cope with the loss, it also made it possible for him to take his father’s words with him throughout the rest of his adult life.
In honor of his father and the powerful gift he left behind, Blake Brewer is on a mission to help 1 million dads write at least one meaningful, heartfelt letter to their children with the Legacy Letter Challenge.
Blake knows that writing a legacy letter is a huge undertaking. What do you say? How do you say it? He talks about how to compose a legacy letter and how its effects will ripple through generations to come.
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Most of us want to accomplish many things in life. We know we need to take action to improve our health, relationships, finances, and careers. But we wake up every morning without the motivation. Today’s guest is the expert on how to motivate the unmotivated.
Matt Granados is speaker, coach, and the author of Motivate the Unmotivated: A proven system for sustainable motivation. He reveals the difference between motivated and unmotivated people. He talks about how motivation is not a character trait, but a state of mind. He also tells us how we can strengthen the connection between actions and outcomes to motivate ourselves and others, including our kids.
Get ready to systemize motivation and finally make things happen!
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Today we talk about how to become a patient father.
The Dad Edge started on one of the worst nights of my life as a dad. I lost my patience and did something I regret to this day.
I didn’t grow up with my dad in the picture, and the men in my life were not good father figures to me. I was raised in an uncertain, sometimes abusive, alcohol-ridden household. When I became a parent, I didn’t have a clue. All I knew is what I didn’t want to do, but that wasn’t enough.
Losing our temper does not mean that we are bad, hopeless people. We are only lacking the skills to talk ourselves down so that we can respond instead of reacting to the daily challenges of fatherhood.
In this show, I give you a toolbox of strategies that you can use to understand the triggers, notice the signs, and disarm the bomb before it goes off.
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What would your world look like if you were a cool and confident leader? What if you could implement an environment of emotional awareness, problem-solving, and a never quit attitude in your work, home, and on the battlefield of life?
Errol Doebler is a former Navy SEAL, FBI Special Agent, and an elite executive consultant. He believes that the same leadership applied during the chaos on the battlefield is the same leadership that should be applied in business and at home.
No matter how you’ve approached life so far, leadership is a skill that can be learned. Errol reveals the exact methodology you need to transform yourself into an empathetic and wise leader, living with intention in everything you do.
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Let’s get real. It’s been hard to stay optimistic in these chaotic times and pretending everything is going to be okay is not going to solve our problems. But when we practice realistic positivity, we become more effective in our lives and create a ripple effect in the world around us.
Today’s guest is Christopher Wirth. He is the host of the No Quit Living podcast and the author of The Positivity Tribe. He talks about how positivity really works and gives us tactics to add more realistic positivity in our lives. He teaches us how to eliminate negative people in our circle and surround ourselves with a positivity tribe. Christopher also shows us how one act of positivity, one person at a time, will help you become a happier and more effective man, husband, and father.
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Why is it so hard to make a marriage work? And is it too late to fix your unhappy marriage?
If you’re struggling in your marriage, you’re not alone. About 50% of marriages end in divorce, but staying in a toxic marriage can be even worse.
Today we have husband and wife team Seth and Melanie Studley on the show. They are the creators of the Anatomy of Marriage podcast and app, and they coach couples back to sane and happy marriages.
It’s hard to believe that not long ago, Seth and Melanie’s marriage was a complete train wreck. How did they fix their impossible marriage?
The Studley’s talk about how taking personal accountability and extreme ownership is the first step to healing a relationship. They reveal how escaping with porn, alcohol, or other distractions are not the issue, but the symptom of an underlying complication that's not being addressed. They also explain how to stop fighting and start solving problems.
Don’t waste another day being miserable and frustrated. Start fixing your unhappy marriage right now!
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Are you white-knuckling it through your marriage? Sometimes the relationship with our spouse gets off track and it seems beyond repair. We wonder how long we can hold on, but it’s not because the marriage is hopeless. It’s that we don’t possess the right tools to make it work.
Today’s guest is Seth Studley, the other half of The Anatomy of Marriage podcast and app for couples. If you listened to the show with his wife Melanie, you’ll remember that their marriage was so bad that she ended up giving him a black eye.
Seth is a Licensed Family Therapist and he gives us the man’s perspective on marriage. He tells us the signs that his relationship was headed for disaster, how it totally derailed, and the emotional labor he had to do to piece it back together.
For those men who are tired of fighting their way through marriage, this show is a game changer. Listen now or download for later!
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Why do so many of us lose our excitement for life?
When did we forget how to have fun?
How do we figure out how to feel powerful and free again?
Today we talk about becoming a dangerous man.
Tripp Lanier is the host of The New Man Podcast and the author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous. He reveals why many husbands and fathers feel trapped, bored, drained, and overwhelmed. He talks about how playing it safe is ruining our lives and why he throws most self-help books in the trash. Tripp also shows us how we can use chaos, uncertainty, and even death to lead us to our true desires.
This show is for the men who refuse to settle. Are you ready to become dangerous?
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How is marriage supposed to work? We have never been taught, and when things start derailing, we have no idea what to do.
This show was planned for a later date, but it is too good and too relevant to hold onto. The pandemic has heightened the level of stress in our lives and in our relationships. Many couples are struggling to navigate through these challenging times.
So today we have marriage expert and coach,Melanie Studley with us. She’s the cohost of the Anatomy of Marriage podcast and co-creator of the Anatomy of Marriage app.
Melanie dissects the most common issues between a man and a woman. She tells us what our spouses really think and feel when we watch porn. Melanie also explains the underlying anatomy of a marriage and gives us a formula to communicate our needs and desires as men in a confident, calm and masculine way.
So simple and so powerful, don’t miss the pro tips in this episode!
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Being a parent challenges us in every way. Parenting an ADHD or Autistic child is even more challenging. Kids don't come with instruction manuals and the constant struggle can make you feel frustrated, stuck and hopeless.
Today we have Penny Williams on The Dad Edge. She’s a coffee-lovin’, ADHD-obsessed momma on a mission, and she’s honored to help families on this always chaotic, often stressful, anything-but-ordinary parenting journey.
Through her podcast, award-winning books, online parent training programs, parent coaching, and mom retreats, Penny has helped thousands of families survive and thrive in the face of ADHD. Penny says the key is not to learn how to change your child, but how to change yourself.
In this episode, she teaches the mindset and parenting skills, insights, tools, and strategies, to understand your child’s behavior and help them to interact with the world in the best way possible.
This show is a revelation for all dads and moms. Empower yourself with the training you need to be the parent you child needs.
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When it comes to committing to our goals, we often let ourselves down. We'll sleep in instead of getting that workout in. We'll give in to that junk food or extra beer. We'll put off our big dreams for another day. No one will know that we didn't follow through. But if we have to answer to someone else, the whole game changes. Today we talk about how you can start reaching your goals with an accountability partner.
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Gary Chapman is the author of the most popular books on marriage in the world, The 5 Love Languages. Today he talks about his new book, 5 Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage: ...When You're Stuck at Home Together.
Whether it has been challenging or delightful for you to be spending more time with your spouse during COVID-19, it’s the perfect time to troubleshoot and renew your love. If you have a good marriage, this will make it better. If you have a troubled marriage, this will tear down the walls and help you start rebuilding.
Get on the fast track to a loving, harmonious marriage with these 5 simple tips!
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How are you handling all the change happening in our world? Homeschooling, job changes, financial challenges, social upheaval? We are living in tumultuous times, but our guest today tells us that we are in a constant cycle of transitions, and we can use major life changes as catalysts for huge growth that will serve us in the future.
Bruce Feiler is the bestselling author of Life is in the Transitions: Mastering Change at Any Age. He talks about these lifequake moments and how we can navigate through times of massive change. He tells about how we, as fathers, can apply this fluidity to our family dynamics. He also reveals the cyclical nature of our experience.
Life rarely works out the way we expect it to. Get mentally prepared to reap the most from transitions.
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Our actions reveal our beliefs about ourselves 100% of the time. Are you living the right story?
Life is up to me. I’m all alone. I have to make it happen. Most men live with these unspoken beliefs. We are full of intensity and lacking joy.
But we are not alone. We never were. All we have to do is stop insulating ourselves from the divine guidance that is available to us.
Today’s guest is Morgan Snyder. He is the author of Becoming a King: The Path to Restoring The Heart Of A Man. Morgan teaches us how to become spiritually mature enough to accept the invitation to become who we really are. He tells us how to acknowledge our younger selves and give them the healing they need. He also talks about giving our kids the father they truly need, not our idea of what we think a good father is.
Restore the power of your heart. Open your soul. Ignite the faith that will allow you to live beyond your identity.
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Unresolved trauma from our childhood affects every part of our lives, but the only way to be free from the pain of the past is to face it. When we acknowledge that we’ve been hurt, we can heal ourselves from within by starting with a few, small, brave steps.
We warn you that today’s show may be disturbing for some listeners.
Longtime Dad Edge Alliance member, Kevin Gilroy, is the author of The Kid Upstairs, his story about overcoming trauma and sexual abuse. Kevin went through most of his life avoiding the darkness, numbing the unease in destructive ways. Now he is a new man and courageously tells us how he finally confronted his childhood and carved his own path from trauma to transformation.
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Becoming our best selves is a choice. We can choose to watch life pass us by, sleepwalking to our deathbeds full of regret. Or we can make the decision to take destiny into our own hands, leaving a distinct mark on the world.
Today we have former Navy SEAL Monty Heath on The Dad Edge Podcast. Monty made the choice to leave the Navy SEALs before getting married and starting his family. He talks about how keeping calm is the most effective and important way to operate in life. He reveals how closely he came to divorce and the choice he made to never quit on his marriage. He also discusses his approach to dad life and teaches us how we can keep cool and rational through the inevitable chaos of fatherhood.
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We show up best when we are fully present in the moment, but we have a tendency to live in defense-mode based on fears from the past. It’s not that we’re not capable of being more open and mindful. It’s that we don’t know how. Today, Ben King gives us the skillset to armor down and daddy up.
Ben King is an Iraq War veteran and Purple Heart recipient who has helped hundreds of veterans “armor down” with mindfulness, meditation, and yoga practices. He tells us how he changed his perspective on what it means to be strong and how that has transformed him as a man and father. He explains how to get out of the stories we tell ourselves and get into our bodies to experience life more objectively. He also teaches us how to hone our skills of empathy and patience so that we can move with life instead of against it.
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Being a man, husband, and father can be a challenge, but if we take ourselves too seriously, we forget to stop and enjoy the good moments.
Laughter helps us release tension, cope with adversity, and approach life with a sense of fun. We need humor in our lives now more than ever. That is why today we have a comedian dad on the show!
Aaron Kleiber has been a professional stand-up comedian for 10 years and has just released his Amazon Prime special, Grown @%$ Dad.
Aaron developed his sense of humor as a coping mechanism through a rough childhood. He tells us how comedy has strengthened his ability to deal with people, endure difficult times, and improvise when faced with unexpected adversity. He also talks about how encouraging our kids’ sense of humor will help them be happier, more creative, and resilient.
Lighten up and let some laughter into your family!
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Of course it could, but we are never taught marriage skills. We expect our relationship to work by default, but it’s not going to get better on its own. Marriage takes constant, intentional work. No relationship runs on autopilot no matter how much a couple loves each other.
John Barbee felt he was failing as a husband and a father. He realized he was only participating with his family on a surface level. One day, he decided to take action and shape his relationship his wife. This involved communication, partnership, friendship, and intimacy. It also involved investing in himself.
Now John’s excited about his marriage again and is here to share his marriage skills for men. Get ready to finally learn how to fill your marriage with possibility again!
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What are the best ways to build mental resilience? Today’s guest teaches us how to create weird and wonderful challenges to push through resistance and overcome anxiety.
Ben Aldridge is the bestselling author of How to be Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable: 43 Weird & Wonderful Ways to Build a Strong, Resilient Mindset. Ben’s crippling anxiety prevented him from living fully. In his search for a solution, he discovered that the more he tested himself in controlled environments, the more his anxiety diminished. Since then, he continues to push himself by accomplishing the strange and seemingly impossible.
In this episode, Ben explains how to plan mental, physical, and skill-based challenges that will accelerate our growth and develop a tolerance for being uncomfortable. He talks about how we can leave our comfort zones, face our fears, and increase our confidence. He also tells us how we can help our kids build mental resilience with weird and wonderful challenges!
Are you ready to get uncomfortable and build a more resilient mindset?
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You want to live up to your full potential, but something always holds you back. Fears, insecurities, and false identities keep you from living bigger. These issues are difficult to access because they lurk deep in your unconscious. Today we talk about how to reprogram your brain for success so that you can stop playing small and live as the best version of yourself.
Jeff Forrester is a Dad Edge Alliance member and the author of Unleashed Potential: Simple Steps to Be the Best Version of Yourself. He shares 4 simple steps that you can use every day to stop the negative cycles that are sabotaging your life and replace them with positive habits that will reprogram your brain for success.
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You only get one life, and you want it to be legendary. How can you break free from the mundane and live for what fires up your soul?
Today we are honored to have Stephen Mansfield back on The Dad Edge to talk about his new book Men on Fire: Restoring the Forces That Forge Noble Manhood.
Stephen teaches us about The Seven Fires of Manhood, including heritage, battle, friendship, and legacy. He tells us how we can have those hard conversations with our children so that they will be able to face the evils of the world. He also talks about why it’s important to have a circle of friends we would die for, men who are not afraid to tell us what we can’t see about ourselves.
This is an unforgettable show that will leave you excited about forging a noble legacy. Get ready to stoke the fires of your soul!
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You might think that only accountants or finance geniuses can figure out how to retire early, but this is not true. Our guest today retired at the age of 41! Chris Mamula was a physical therapist who wasn’t excited when he thought about the future. He decided to educate himself on how to reach financial independence and he couldn’t believe how easy it was.
Chris is a husband and dad who now enjoys an adventurous lifestyle on his own terms. He blogs at Can I Retire Yet, is part of the Choose FI movement, and is also the primary author of the book Choose FI: Your Blueprint to Financial Independence.
Today he shares his super simple financial independence tactics to help you put your wealth-building on autopilot.
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How to Invest in your own self care without guilt
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Financial issues are one of the biggest causes of divorce. Not only do money problems make life stressful, they can lead to conflicts that can damage a marriage and destroy a family. But what if you could take a few, simple steps right now to totally change your money situation? Today, we talk about money and your marriage and how you can make budgeting decisions with your spouse easily and argument-free.
Jesse Mecham is the creator of the YNAB (You Need a Budget) app. He is back on The Dad Edge to talk about how to approach the money discussion in a way that will stop friction and encourage intimacy. He outlines his 4 Money Rules to future-proof your finances and gives guidelines for trimming the fat on your expenses without feeling deprived.
After listening to this show, you will feel confident about budgeting, prepared for the unexpected, and hopeful about your dreams for the future.
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Lawrence Gordon grew up with a single mom who showed him how to be resilient, but his father was out of the picture. As he grew up, his priorities were misdirected, and his first marriage ended in divorce. As an adult, Lawrence realized that it was up to him to seek male role models and learn how to navigate the challenges of modern fatherhood.
Today, Lawrence is the happily remarried father of three. He is passionate about getting men involved with reading to their kids with children’s books that his kids help him create. He talks about the silver linings of the coronavirus pandemic when it comes to family. He also goes into how we can do our part to raise awareness about equality and give back to our communities to mentor the next generation of strong family leaders.
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1. How to teach a boy about girls and how to talk to girls
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We are going to be in awe and on fire with this powerful show! Our guest not only overcame extreme adversity but has used it as an opportunity to grow and touch the lives of thousands.
John O’Leary is a speaker and the host of the Live Inspired Podcast. He is the bestselling author of On Fire: The 7 Choices to Ignite a Radically Inspired Life. His new book is In Awe: Rediscover Your Childlike Wonder to Unleash Inspiration, Meaning, and Joy.
Today he talks about the horrific fire that burned nearly 100% of his body and how he turned it into a force to inspire. He tells us how the power of a father’s love can pull us through anything and how we as dads be worthy examples for our kids. We also discuss how to regain our childlike wonder and curiosity to live a richer, more fulfilling life.
Are you ready to live in awe?
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Our relationship with our fathers determines how we will be as fathers. But we have a choice. We can either repeat the cycle or use it as a lesson on how not to parent. Forgiveness seems impossible when it comes to someone who hurt us so badly during the time that we needed them most, but it is the only way to not let the anger rule us as parents. Today we talk about making peace with a toxic father.
Justin Chester’s father was absent most of the time. When his dad was home, he was cold and mean. He'd lock Justin outside during rainstorms and pin him to the wall for not knowing how to tie his shoes.
Now Justin has been married for 3 years and is the father of two sons, a one-year-old and a newborn. He knew that holding onto the resentment and trauma was holding him back in life. In a heroic act of forgiveness, he reached out and confronted his dad to bury the pain. His toxic father cannot take back the past, but Justin is no longer letting it poison his future.
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Pornography has never been so unbelievably accessible, but what starts out innocently enough can eventually take over our lives. We know this is a huge issue for men today because our episodes on battling porn and sexual addiction top the charts.
Today we talk to an expert who has an approach to porn and sexual addiction that you haven’t heard before.
Eddie Capparucci is licensed counselor and the author of Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction. He tells us how men’s struggle with porn is linked to how we dealt with pain in childhood. He reveals why too much porn can ruin our sex lives psychologically as well as physiologically. Eddie also gives us a step-by-step example of how casual porn consumption can descend into the destruction of a family.
Kids are being exposed to sexual content as young as 8 years old. Whether you are struggling with an addiction to pornography or not, this is a show every father needs to listen to.
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Having a special needs child is one of the biggest challenges a parent can face. But the death of a child is so inconceivably painful, many of us can’t bear the thought of it. Today we talk to a man who has endured both.
Zane Shook’s baby had all the chips stacked against him. The doctor gave Zane and his wife the option to abort, but despite the odds, they committed to having their child. Wyatt was born with a chromosomal disorder and severe birth defects that prevented him from ever speaking. He was mentally challenged and unable to walk, but that didn’t keep him from laughing and enjoying life. Wyatt courageously fought to live, but just shy of his eighteenth birthday, he lost the fight. Zane Shook talks about the little warrior his son was, the joy Wyatt brought to his life, and how he survived the insurmountable grief of losing him. You will want to pay close attention to this special episode.
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Today we talk to a previous guest whose story about his father’s suicide is one of our top shows ever in the history of The Dad Edge. Adam Schafer from the hugely popular Mind Pump Podcast is back. He wasn’t a father the first time he was on the show, but now he’s the proud new dad to his one-year-old son Maximus!
Adam talks about how having a baby has changed his lifestyle and relationship with his wife for the better. He opens up about his struggles with empathy and childhood insecurities. He also talks about manufacturing adversity for our kids so that they will build resilience and character.
You've never heard this side of Adam Schafer before. This show is full of insights that will take your fathering skills to the next level. Listen now!
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When we become fathers, we have be in charge of caring for our families. We must step up and provide for them, protect them, and lead them. Fatherhood is an opportunity to become our best selves, but we can’t show up if we don’t invest in our physical, mental, and intellectual wellbeing.
Today we have everyday dad and Dad Edge Alliance member Eric Martinez on the show. He is the founder of Be Well Dad and is dedicated to helping men become their best selves, enabling them give more to their families and lead on a confident and competent level.
Eric’s been with his wife for sixteen years and is the dad of a five-year-old son and a two-year-old daughter. He talks about how he and his wife overcome the most difficult obstacles, how he got out of his dad bod rut by losing 40 pounds, and how he steps off the hamster wheel of busyness to make time for self-care.
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We all want to live in a happy home, a deep relationship with our spouse, and confident and capable kids. But how do we create the home life we dream of in today’s world?
Arlene Pellicane shows us how. She is an author and speaker whose mission is to encourage families. Among her books are Parents Rising, 31 Days to a Happy Husband, and Cool, Calm, and Connected. Arlene helps parents raise kids who are ready for life (not just playing video games), and also helps couples take their so-so marriage to a joyful one.
Arlene talks about what a man needs most from his wife and how a couple can fall in love again. She explains the complementary roles of mothers and fathers and how to leverage the strengths of each. Arlene also tells us how to raise obedient, respectful children, and how we can live with more purpose, and less screen time.
You can live in a happy home. Listen to discover how.
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What does it really take to be a great father? How can we inspire our kids to reach for more, even if our father didn’t show us a good example?
Bryan Loritts is a pastor and the award-winning author of seven books, including The Dad Difference: The 4 Most Important Gifts You Can Give to Your Kids.
Today Bryan teaches us the four RITEs of fatherhood and how to implement each. He tells us how we can be proactive about our operating systems as fathers, becoming constant guides and teachers so that our kids have the best chance of living a meaningful and fulfilling life.
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How far have you evolved as a person? Are you still struggling with the same issues you’ve had all your life? Are you turning to vices to distract and soothe you? Do you avoid those hard conversations with people who are important to you? Your relationship with yourself is the foundation of all other aspects of your life, and if you haven’t confronted your demons, you will never be able to take your personal evolution to the next level.
Stefanos Sifandos is a relational alchemist, international speaker, author and change-maker dedicated to helping men create a life of meaning and purpose. Not long ago, he was egotistical, dishonest, unfaithful, and above all, scared. He discovered that unresolved trauma from his toxic father was unconsciously and destructively influencing his behavior.
Today, Stefanos shares his journey into the depth of pain, and how we can drill to the truth of ourselves to become completely integrated and self-reliant. He also reveals 6 steps that we can take to process, heal, and expand from the wounds of the past.
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This one’s for the guy who is miserable with his life. Maybe your marriage isn’t working, you feel stuck in your job, and you can't remember who you are anymore. Something’s got to give, but you don’t know what to do to make things change.
Craig Mills used to be miserable. He got into his profession by default, thinking it was what he was supposed to do. He neglected his needs and desires to accommodate an unhappy marriage. He lived an empty life and felt like a shell of a human being.
Today, Craig is blissfully remarried with a stepdaughter and a baby. He’s excited about life and has found the work that makes him comes alive.
How did he make this complete dad life overhaul? Don’t waste another minute being miserable. Listen in!
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In this episode we cover some amazing questions from our community!
Each day, we have a choice to do things the way we’ve always done them, or to stare down the wolf of fear until he backs off.
Even if we’re not a former Navy SEAL Commander like today’s guest, as fathers, we are the heads of our families. We need to learn how to operate like an elite leader for them, and more importantly, ourselves.
This means we need to be strong enough to face our insecurities, confront our shadows, admit where we’re wrong, adopt a learning mindset, and be willing to ask help.
We are truly honored to have ex-Navy SEAL, Mark Divine, on the show for his fourth time. Among his many accomplishments, he is the creator of SEALFIT and the author of Unbeatable Mind. His new book is Staring Down the Wolf: 7 Leadership Commitments That Forge Elite Teams.
Today Mark talks about how becoming an elite leader starts with a deep understanding of who we are and why we behave the way we do. He reveals that elite leadership is not about pretending we’re perfect and indestructible. It's about being honest about our weaknesses and failures.
Mark also teaches us how to get a team to commit to one cause and align communication on an intuitive level so that we can better our lives as well as generate a positive change in the world.
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All of us have endured some kind of pain in our past. We might not think about it, but we carry it through our lives, allowing it to contaminate everything we do. If we don’t acknowledge the pain, it will hold us back from reaching our true potential. But if we look at every rock bottom moment as an opportunity to learn, we can transform our pain into explosive inner growth.
Today’s story will blow your mind. Justin Schenck is creator of the wildly popular Growth Now Movement and podcast. He grew up in dark circumstances, with an addicted mother and a dad in jail. By all outward appearances, he was destined to fail in life.
But Justin would not give up. He shed his victim mindset and took charge of his future. In this amazing comeback story, he shows us that we all have the power to climb out of the pit of despair, generate our own happiness, and create the life we truly desire.
This is an interview you can’t afford to miss!
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In this episode, Larry and Uncle Joe are joined by Rashad Hunt. Today's show we cover several aspects of things that are going on in the world...racism, protests, and black lives.
Is there someone in your life that you are finding it hard to forgive? A sibling, friend, or parent? We all have grudges, but we don’t realize how much emotional and mental bandwidth they’re stealing from us.
Derek Stone is the author of Why Should I Forgive? He grew up in poverty and was sexually abused by his stepfather. His bitterness led him into drugs, alcohol, and dysfunctional relationships. But he found the faith he needed to forgive and move on. Now his mission is to empower people to transform their lives and walk them through the hell of confronting past trauma and teaching them to forgive.
Derek talks about his painful journey out of hate, anger, and shame and how the power of forgiveness can free us to create the full and happy lives we were meant live.
"For true forgiveness to happen, something has to die."—Derek Stone
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If we don’t have the parenting tools to remain calm in stressful situations, we will default into panic mode. How we can we keep our cool and make the right call when everything goes wrong?
Holly and Chris Santillo return to The Dad Edge today! They are both blackbelt Kempo karate instructors and the authors of Resilience Parenting: Raising Resilient Children in an Era of Detachment and Dependence. They share the strategies they use to lead their family through the unexpected and remain flexible when operating out of their comfort zone.
We have never needed to be more resilient than right now. After this episode, you will know how to navigate through uncertainty so your kids can learn how too.
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As fathers, it’s our natural instinct to act like everything is under control We don’t want our kids to see us failing or hurting. We don’t want to appear weak. But true strength lies in being real, and if we don’t allow our kids watch how we navigate the ups and downs in life, they won’t know how to deal with adversity themselves.
We have an awesome guest for you today. Green Beret, Special Forces, Sniper, and former top 5 UFC Middleweight, Tim Kennedy, is on The Dad Edge! He is one of the few fighters to serve in the military and fight professionally at the same time. He is the creator of Sheepdog Response, a training program that gives good guys the tools they need to effectively respond to violence. He’s also been married for 13 years and is the father of four kids.
Tim Kennedy talks about how his parents balanced nurturing, protection, and damage control. He tells us why he appreciates the highs and lows of parenthood. He reveals his biggest failures in life and why being a real, transparent, imperfect dad is what your kids really need.
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Are you infected with the disease of busyness? Many of us run on all cylinders, trying to cross the next item off our to do list. Our days are full. We commit ourselves to the point of exhaustion. It feels like we’re accomplishing a lot. But weeks, months, years go by and we find ourselves stuck in the same place. Our health, business, and relationships are neglected. We want to move forward, but how can we possibly fit more in?
Busyness is a sneaky disease. In this episode we talk with Dad Edge Alliance member Dan Zehner, host of the Anthem of the Adventurer Podcast. Dan used busyness as a distraction to avoid doing what he needed to do in life. He was overweight, stress out, and disconnected from his family. Then he got real with himself.
Dan tells us about how he confronted his pain, discovered his purpose, and took ownership of his time. He is now living at the peak of his potential and you can too!
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Get ready to be trained to communicate and negotiate by the most qualified man in the country.
Chris Voss is the former Chief Negotiating Officer of the FBI, the CEO & Founder of the Black Swan Group, and the author of Never Split The Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It.
Chris is back on the show to tell us some surprising things about communication based on decades of experience, modern psychology, and neuroscience.
He explains why we want to get people to say "no" instead of "yes" and teaches us advanced techniques for developing tactical empathy.
Chris also reveals the skill set we need for communication mastery as fathers, arming us with the tools we need to be effective leaders in our households and communities.
"When you negotiate properly, you allow the other side to have your way."—Chris Voss
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Today, The Dad Edge visits the Purpose Chasers Podcast for a discussion with Mark Crandall about putting fatherhood first.
We talk about how our lack of a reliable father figure affected us, how we used that pain and confusion to become better men, and how we’ve screwed up as dads now that we are fathers.
We share how to balance the drive to provide for our families with being physically and emotionally present, and how to make undistracted time with our spouse and kids our number one priority.
Being a dad is the most important job we'll ever have. Let's make it epic!
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If you had one last talk to deliver to the world, what would you say? Who would you say it to?
Philip McKernan is a speaker, author, and enlightened hooligan. He is the creator of the One Last Talk speaking series and author of One Last Talk: Why Your Truth Matters and How to Deliver It.
Philip talks about how all of us have endured some kind of childhood trauma, and that no matter how perfect we try to be, we are going to hurt and disappoint our kids too. But Philip also tells us how we can find our greatest gifts by exploring our deepest wounds, and why we must speak our truth to heal ourselves and others.
This episode is going to hit you hard and stay with you a long time. Give yourself space to listen and time to reflect. It will transform your life.
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Are you living as your true self? Or have you built your life around someone else’s idea of who you’re supposed to be? And if you feel like you’re living a lie, how can you drown out the noise of the world and march to the beat of your own drum?
Today we have an everyday dad and extraordinary person from the Dad Edge Alliance. Chris Lesso is the founder of Your Best Self Through Drumming and is an expert on optimizing the power of drumming to improve focus, confidence, and self-expression.
Through the metaphor of music, Chris explains how each of us has a different drum beat and how we can connect with our best selves by letting our voices be heard. He teaches us how we can become aware of our unique rhythms so that we can better lead our families and keep the beat for our own song of life.
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Every Wednesday we host a live Q&A Radio show, where we are streaming these Q&As live through our Dad Community with thousands of men. You will hear live questions from husbands, fathers, and men that are real and authentic. We never know what question is coming and answer everything the best way possible. For more information on our resources for men/fathers/husbands, head to gooddadproject.com
Warrior toughness is the ability to make the correct decision at the right time, no matter how stressful, painful, or frightening that moment may be. This is not only achieved by rigorous discipline and training, but also a fine balance of body, mind, and soul.
Today we are pumped to have Stephen Drum on The Dad Edge. He is a combat-tested retired Navy SEAL Master Chief with 27 years of experience leading teams and executing mission-critical performance strategies.
Stephen tells us a 4-part process for developing Warrior Toughness that we can apply to real life. He reveals the surprising mix of performance psychology, mindfulness, and problem-solving that makes up the warrior mindset. He also talks about how we can organize the caring of our families while keeping ourselves adaptable and ready to pivot in any situation.
Learn to operate under pressure—day in, day out—no matter what life throws at you!
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At the Dad Edge Alliance, we’re disrupting the default settings of fatherhood so that we can go from living ordinary to extraordinary lives. One of the reasons we men become frustrated and burned out is because we feel it’s our job to shoulder the load for everyone. But if we practice self-compassion instead of self-sacrifice, not only will we feel happier, but we’ll also find we have more to give to everyone in our lives.
Today we interview another dad in the trenches. John Culford is a recent Dad Edge Alliance member who’s been married for fourteen years and is the father of two sons, aged twelve and thirteen.
John shares his challenges with communication, understanding, and connection with his wife and kids. He reveals what strategies he’s implementing to make his family grow closer during quarantine and beyond. He also tells us how getting into the habit of being kind to himself, claiming space, and opening up about his struggles with his family his secret to staying grounded and moving forward.
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Every Wednesday we host a live Q&A Radio show, where we are streaming these Q&As live through our Dad Community with thousands of men. You will hear live questions from husbands, fathers, and men that are real and authentic. We never know what question is coming and answer everything the best way possible.
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Of a Revolution, or O.A.R., is a rock band that has been making music for over twenty years. Whether you know their name or not, chances are you’ve heard their songs on the radio. Today, we are honored to have O.A.R.’s lead singer Marc Roberge on the show for his second interview with The Dad Edge Podcast!
Marc talks about how dads can use this time of quarantine to reestablish the household hierarchy and start running the family as a team. He tells us what it’s like to be a dad on and off the road, how he keeps his marriage alive, and why he is open about his weaknesses and imperfections with his kids. He also shares stories about his own father and how the nostalgia of summers growing up in the neighborhood are the inspiration for his songs to this day.
This show is about the meaning of friends, family, and embracing the good and bad in life. Slow down and have a listen.
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Your best self exists somewhere in the future. How can you initiate the transformation and bridge the gap between who you are now and the man you are capable of becoming?
Today, we have everyday dad Ben Killoy on The Dad Edge. He is a long-time Dad Edge Alliance member and is now one of our call team leaders. Ben is a military veteran turned blogger and motivational speaker. He’s founded the Military Veteran Dad Podcast, and his mission is to bring every dad both physically and mentally back home to his family.
Ben talks about how he broke free from the fear and resistance that was preventing him from living to his full potential. He explains how he cultivated the self-awareness and self-love to become strong enough to lead himself and his family. He also shares how he’s grateful to be in a place to help other men to access the truth beneath their fears and initiate the transformation to their best selves.
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Today we’re going to shed light on a mysterious phenomenon that puzzles most men and even women—the menstrual cycle. We usually shy away from discussing this topic in great detail, but it is a huge part of life as a couple. Understanding your woman’s cycle will allow you to get to know her in a way you never thought possible.
Alexandra Pope and Sjanie Hugo Wurlitzer are the authors of Wild Power and the co-founders of Red School. They are going to teach us about the four seasons of your woman’s cycle, what goes on in her mind and body and how you can work in harmony with the seasons.
They tell us how to take advantage of what each season has to offer as well as knowing what your partner needs before she even asks for it. You will know when she craves space, when she needs connection, and when she’s most sexually charged.
This episode will be a revelation. Alexandra and Sjanie’s advice will equip you with all the knowledge you need to appreciate and “flow” with the wild power of your woman’s cycle.
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Today fan favorite and a legend our community, Aaron “Big A” Walker is on to have a live discussion with our members.
Aaron Walker is the president and founder of View from the Top, an Iron Sharpens Iron Mastermind group that goes beyond success to a life of significance.
Aaron talks about why isolation is the enemy of excellence and how the power of mastermind groups to accelerate our growth, success, and happiness is unrivaled. He explains why we need a community of strong men to do life with and gives us examples of how a group of trusted advisors can help us through the toughest spots in our lives.
Aaron talks about what our spouses and kids really need from us and how to show up big for them with a servant leader mindset. He also tells us how to be courageous during crisis, as well as when to lean into our tribe to survive the pitfalls and mistakes that we’re usually afraid to talk about.
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Modern life demands a modern perspective. In a world where the meaning masculinity is in flux, it’s more important than ever to step back from life and dig beneath our protective layers to find out what we’re really all about.
Who are we as men?
How did we get this way?
How can we use our relationships with our own fathers to inform the men we will become?
Today’s guest is David Wagner. He is a transformational teacher, a father, and the author of Backbone: Modern Man’s Ultimate Guide to Purpose, Passion and Power. David goes into several aspects of being a man, but most importantly he talks about the father wound. Even the best dads fall short in some way and create damage that follows their children into adulthood.
David teaches us how to get to know our fathers as men, to witness life through their eyes so that we can forgive them for their shortcomings and learn from their regrets. Don't miss this emotionally charged episode. It will forever alter the way you view your relationship with your father and and the way you show up for your children.
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We all want to survive this crisis, but how can we use the challenges we face to actually accelerate our growth as men, husbands, and fathers? How do we use adversity as an opportunity to connect and learn in ways we never have before?
It is possible to thrive in the face of uncertainty if we look at every problem as a stepping stone to greater self-awareness and purpose. In this exclusive episode, we will teach you how.
Today we talk about the first Dad Edge Virtual Summit and the 3rd annual Dad Edge Live Summit. You will witness exactly what happens behind the scenes in The Dad Edge Alliance and the changes that take place in the lives of men who work as a tribe. Jeff Bouwman and Jason McKenzie join us, along with our members for an amazing session that shows just how everyday regular dads are reframing their challenges, using them as catalysts for extreme transformation.
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How would you like accomplish in 12 weeks what you’d think would take you a year? The traditional habit of planning goals over a 12 month period has proven ineffective. Believe it or not, we can actually execute more in the next 12 weeks than we can in 12 months—not only in business, but also in our family lives.
We are excited to have Brian Moran on the show today. He’s the NY Times Bestselling author of The 12 Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks Than Others Do in 12 Months. Brian’s going to tell us how the 12 week year works and how we can apply this strategy to work, health, and relationships. He also teaches us how to get our spouses and kids on board to so you can make incredible progress toward your big visions as a family.
Don’t let another year go by without having accomplished your goals. Get started on your 12 week year now!
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The fallout from coronavirus has put unbelievable stress on all of us, but what if the situation was worse? Would we have the mental stamina to endure?
You may remember today’s guest for sharing his incredible story of going on a darkness retreat in the jungles of Guatemala, where he stayed in a 12 x 8 concrete room for 28 days in absolute black silence.
Traver Boehm is the author of Today I Rise and the founder of the Man Uncivilized Movement. He is back to tell us how he tapped into his inner strength to endure the unimaginable. He also talks about embracing our primal masculine gifts to squeeze the juice out of life, even while we’re up against a crisis like COVID-19.
Traver teaches us how to make the best of our situation, draw on our inner strengths, and connect with people in ways we never have before. He inspires us to look deep inside and view our lives in an empowered light.
This episode will have you pumped up. Let’s get uncivilized!
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How do you learn how to make something of your life when you never had an example to follow?
Today’s guest knew he wanted to make a name for himself in the world, but he didn’t know how. Growing up with an unavailable, addicted father, he was filled with anger and took it out on those around him. But he says that we are all born with the champion spirit within. All we need to do is tap into it.
Muay Thai legend Chris Romulo returns to the show to share his story of a champion’s uprising. He talks about how he grew from a frustrated, depressed young man into a world-renowned fighter, and how he’s used what he’s learned in the ring to become the husband, father, entrepreneur and community leader he is today.
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Todd Herman is the author of the wildly popular bestselling book, The Alter Ego Effect, in which he explains the fastest way to transcend fear and self-limiting beliefs by creating alter egos.
In an exclusive Q&A session with Dad Edge Alliance members, Todd reveals how to develop alter egos for the different playing fields of life, and how to activate our secret identities to instantly show up the way we want in the toughest situations. He also talks about how to introduce this method to our kids.
Todd Herman’s tools and strategies will blow your mind and change your life. Get ready to step into your heroic self!
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In this episode I interviewed my 14 year old to get his perspective on the challenges of the quarantine, Covid-19, and what he has appreciated most.
As dads, we are the protectors, the warriors. But how can we protect our children when we don’t know what we’re up against? Whether it’s a tablet, phone, or computer—our kids are exposed to a minefield of predators, cyberbullies, and sexual content. We are the first generation with this problem. What is the best way to protect our children from this insidious danger?
This show is scary, but we are at war. As fathers, we have a duty and responsibility to keep our kids safe. We give our sons and daughters seatbelts in the car and helmets when they ride a bike. In this digital age, we need to give them the same kind of safety gear for navigating the internet.
Today we have Titiana Jordan on The Dad Edge. She is the Chief Parent Officer at Bark, an app that helps families manage and protect their children’s online lives. She tells us the disturbing reality of what our kids are exposed to on the internet. She gives us a guide on how and when to talk to our kids about what they may encounter on the internet and the best way to protect them from online predators, cyberbullying, and sexual content.
This show will disturb and enrage you, but it is information parents desperately need. This is a must listen.
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How can you can cooperate—not compete—with your kids, set boundaries, focus on the positive, and make your parenting flow instead of it always being a struggle?
We are honored to have Jeremy Roadruck among our Dad Edge Alliance members. He's a Kung Fu master, public speaker, and bestselling author. He’s also an empowerment coach for families and children, giving parents and kids the tools they need to feel seen, heard, felt, and understood.
Today, Jeremy talks about how we can add Kung Fu principles to our parenting skill set, allowing self-awareness and compassion to guide us, developing a deep rapport with our children that will give them the inner strength and joy to win in all areas of life.
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What’s the difference between managing your family and leading them? Do you know your values as a family and your vision of how it should operate?
If the answer is no, don’t worry. You’re pretty much just like everyone else.
We often have learned to be leaders in our work and our community, but rarely do we use these skills when we come home with our kids. With packed schedules and hectic days, it’s all we can do to make it to bedtime, but today we’re going to talk about how leading your family brings you closer together, makes decisions easier, and opens up new possibilities in other areas of your life.
Today we have Stewart Friedman and Alyssa Westring on the show. They are organizational psychologists and the authors of Parents Who Lead: The Leadership Approach You Need to Parent with Purpose, Fuel Your Career, and Create a Richer Life. They’re going to give us the skillset we need to lead our families and plan and prioritize our lives around what truly matters to us.
This show will totally change the way you look at your role as a father. Don’t miss this chance to create the family life you always dreamed of!
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Sometimes living with kids can be insane, and we all have those times when we lose our temper. But we do have the ability to choose patience, and it’s up to us to show our kids what it means to be in control of our behavior. Learning how to choose patience can help us find chaos amid the insanity in any situation.
In this short episode, I talk about what we can do mentally and emotionally as fathers to pause, reflect, and create space between reaction and response.
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In this episode, Anthony Trucks (former NFL Football Player and American Ninja Warrior), John Williams (founder of LIFE THAT COUNTS), Ben Snelling (founder of Dadpreneur), and I have a round table discussion around how we can stay connected as a family during the quarantine of COVID-19.
Covid-19 has put us into a situation that we have never experienced before, and we’re unprepared as fathers. Fear, anxiety, and stress can wear on us. Our spouses and children are struggling to adjust as we are confined to our homes. The challenge for us as the leaders of our households is to learn how to best protect and lead our families through this pandemic.
Jason Redman is back on The Dad Edge for this crucial episode. He is a retired Navy SEAL and author of The Trident: The Forging and Reforging of a Navy Seal Officer and Overcome: Crush Adversity with the Leadership Techniques of America's Toughest Warriors. He is a husband, a father of three, and now teaches people from every walk of life how to overcome any “life ambush” they may face.
These unprecedented times call for unprecedented measures. Jason tells fathers what we need to do mentally, emotionally, physically to show up as the best leaders for our families and communities. He tells us how to be honest and realistic with our kids about what’s going on in the world while keeping them calm, productive, and at ease. He gives us a list on how to prepare for the worst while hoping for the best, making sure we choose positivity over negativity in everything we do.
This is a handbook for every dad on how to best protect and lead your family through crisis.
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Men are acutely aware of their mistakes and shortcomings. Rarely do we pay attention to our strengths and contributions. We don’t realize how much we have to give if we would just open up. Today we talk about the unbelievable power of sharing your story.
We interview new Dad Edge Alliance member, Tommy Morgan. He’s been married for ten years and has an 8-year-old son. Tommy’s marriage was going downhill fast, and the lack of control he felt over his life made him easily triggered to anger and rage.
Fast forward a few months, and Tommy’s relationships with his wife and son are growing. He’s made a commitment to self-care and is happier and hopeful. He talks about how hearing the experiences and wisdom of other men helped him to surmount his struggle, and how passing along his story has changed the lives of those who hear it.
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In this episode, I am sharing the last 22 minutes of one of our mastermind breakout teams from this week. In this particular mastermind breakout session we had 45 men on the zoom meeting to share several ideas for calm, connection, and making memories during this unsettling time in history.
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Financial freedom is something we all dream of. Imagine being able to live life on our terms and have enough money to do all the things we want to do. What if we could teach our kids how to set themselves up to be millionaires too? Financial freedom is possible for parents and their kids with a new mindset for money and consistent, small steps in the right direction.
Grant Sabatier is back on the Dad Edge Podcast. He became a millionaire when he was thirty-five and is the creator of the hugely popular Millennial Money blog and the author of bestselling book Financial Freedom: A Proven Path to All the Money You Will Ever Need. Grant was also a speaker at our Dad Edge Summit 2019.
Today, Grant talks about how times have changed and how our perspectives on money, saving, and investing should change too. He also tells us how we can teach our kids to master their money from a young age so they can get a head start on making their wildest dreams come true!
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What happens in virtual men’s groups? How would joining an online group for men take your life to the next level?
Isolation is a serious problem for men already, and during this time of social distancing, it’s more important than ever to invest in our mental and physical wellbeing.
Today we are giving you a sneak peek behind the Dad Edge Alliance. This is not our usual Q&A with an expert, but an actual members-only meeting with real dads.
These men get real about actively designing the lives they dream of, forging amazing connections with their wives and kids, and battling their worst enemy—themselves.
They talk about how being among a group of likeminded men with similar goals helps challenge and inspire, keeps them accountable, and pushes them to do things they never thought they were capable of.
'Isolation is the enemy of excellence.' – Aaron Walker
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This might be our best episode here on The Dad Edge! Dr. Meg Meeker is a pediatrician, mother, and bestselling author. As the country’s leading authority on parenting, teens, and children’s health, she has been featured on all major media. Meg Meeker is also the host of the Parenting Great Kids Podcast and offers a wide range of online courses for parents.
Dr. Meg says fathers have been undervalued and belittled in today’s society, yet statistics show how crucial dads are to the development of both boys and girls, and their potential to become a happy, healthy, successful adults.
It’s time to own our roles in the lives of our sons and daughters.
Parenting great kids is hard, but simple. Meg Meeker tells how we can take an active and consistent role in our kids’ lives in just minutes a day. Whether raising sons or daughters, Dr. Meg explains how we can show up best as dads by embracing and following our male instincts. “You are wired with everything you need to be a good dad.”—Meg Meeker, M.D.
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One of our biggest fears is not living up to our full potential. We don't want to lie on our deathbeds with regrets. We don't want to leave this world without having built the legacy that we know we are capable of.
Today we have Dominick Quartuccio back on the show. He is the author of Design Your Future: 3 Simple Steps to Stop Drifting and Take Command of Your Life and will be featured at our live Dad Edge Summit in St. Louis in June 2020.
Dominick is going to give us a blueprint for designing our futures so that we can eliminate distractions and focus on what lights us up. He teaches us how to stop wasting our energy on destructive habits so that we can channel it into our dreams. He also tells us how to remove ourselves for our environment, creating a sacred space that will change our trajectory and transform us into the men that we were meant to be.
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We all love our kids. At the same time, we all have those moments when they drive us crazy. Sometimes, they don’t listen or become defiant. They have meltdowns and throw tantrums that can get on our last nerve.
But babies, toddlers, and children see the world through different eyes. They depend on us for everything and look to us to guide them. How can we teach and discipline them while being more patient and understanding parents?
Today’s guest is Janet Lansbury. She's a well-known parenting expert, the host of the Unruffled Podcast, and the author of No Bad Kids.
Janet is going to talk to us about what our kids are trying to communicate with their behavior, why we should back off when they explore during play, and how we can best help them to learn and develop without frustration.
This show is a revelation for parents of kids of all ages. Don't miss it!
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Our journey in life is not linear. It’s unpredictable. We might be okay when things are going our way, but what happens when we face adversity? How can we know the next right thing to do? How do we pivot and act with grace when we are tested?
A legendary life is about your values—not only knowing what they are, but also defining, planning, and taking action.
Today we have long-time mastermind member, Judd. He joined The Dad Edge Alliance when his marriage was in trouble. He was so programed to avoid confrontation that he didn’t know who he was or what he wanted anymore. He was making his decisions based on others’ expectations and living a life that wasn’t his own.
Judd finally got real and faced the truth. He stopped the lies he was telling himself and looked deep inside to discover what mattered most to him.
Today, Judd lives according to his values. He knows who he is and what he stands for, no matter what happens.
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The death of a spouse is something that's almost impossible to comprehend. How can you go on without the love of your life? How do you survive without the mother of your children? Going through this life-altering loss can cause a man to question his faith and wonder if he will ever find happiness again.
Today’s guest is Nate Edmonds. He is a musician, worship leader, and author of More Than All the Glories. Nate’s story is brutally tragic. He was living his dream as a touring musician with his wife, Dana. Life couldn’t get any better, when they had two kids, until Dana was suddenly taken from him by an aggressive cancer.
Nate talks frankly about being tested, not only as a husband and father, but also as a spiritual leader. He tells the heartbreaking story of Dana’s last days, and how he and his children tapped into their faith to survive. He also reveals how he fought through the darkness and rebuilt his life and his family to live in a happiness he has never known.
Nate's story is a testament to the power of faith in the face of devastation and grief. Don't miss this powerful interview.
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Do you want to win the war with yourself? The 75Hard is a 75-day mental and physical challenge created by Andy Frisella that will test the resilience of any man.
Today, we talk about the benefits of doing a challenge like 75Hard to improve our health and mental toughness. We also go over how to do the 75Hard without burning out, giving up, or sacrificing family time.
Think you can handle it? Find out!
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Retired Navy SEAL, Chris Sajnog, is one of our most popular guests. He is the premier firearms instructor in America, a bestselling author, and the host of the SEAL Training Podcast.
The Dad Edge went to his studio in San Diego for a live, in-person discussion about fatherhood, and we really went deep. Chris was abandoned by his father and carries the wound with him to this day. He vowed not to be like his estranged dad and gave up his accomplished military life to be there for his teenage boys.
Sadly, his sons don’t want to spend time with him. Chris opens up about dealing with the painful lack of connection with his sons, and how he maintains his fatherly presence in their lives.
Chris Sajnog also shares Navy SEAL tactics for parents to help us to learn anything quickly and effectively. He goes over the hard and soft traits we need to cultivate to be balanced men, and how we can apply the warrior mindset to everyday life.
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The world can be a dangerous place, and our kids are especially vulnerable. From bullying and abuse to abductions and shootings, how can we shield our children from danger? More importantly, how can we teach them to respond to violence when we aren’t with them?
Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member Adam Mitchell. He is a personal protection expert who specializes in tactical parenting. He is also the host of the Close Quarter Dad Podcast and Training Program.
In this episode, we do a live Q&A with our members on how to teach kids to protect themselves. Adam answers questions about why dads should train with their kids, when they should begin showing them self-protection strategies, and how to train kids to be vigilant, but not fearful.
This is a show every dad needs to hear to keep his family safe. Plus, look out for a special offer at the end of the interview.
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Do you feel the need to be perfect, and at the same time, think you’ll never be good enough? As a man, husband, and father, are you plagued by deep-rooted feelings of insecurity and inadequacy, leaving you terrified that people will find out you have no idea what you’re doing? That’s your imposter in charge and he’s preventing you from living as who you really are.
Mike Kitko is an Executive Self-Mastery Coach, speaker, and author. After a colossal career and personal meltdown, he found his true purpose: inspiring leaders to find the power in their authenticity, purpose, and passion.
Today, Mike Kitko talks about how imposter syndrome ruled his life and how he overcame it. He teaches us how to cultivate self-awareness and diffuse the imposter before it sabotages our lives. He also tells us how to stop running from fear and start chasing our purpose so we can provide a loving, safe, and prosperous environment for our families.
Do you suffer from imposter syndrome? How do you defeat the imposter in charge? Find out in this episode!
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Showing has much more impact than telling. When we show our kids how we live according to our values, they see integrity in action. They know we walk the talk.
Today’s guest, Chris, is an everyday dad and one of our new members in The Dad Edge Alliance. He talks about the importance of being aware of how closely our kids are watching us and the messages we are sending them with our behavior. He also gives us his simple yet brilliant ideas on how dads can set a powerful example for their kids in small ways every day.
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How often do you ask for what you need or desire? Whether it be in our marriage, workplace, or among friends, 77% of people have issues asking for help or advice.
Today we have Wayne Baker, sociologist, consultant, speaker, and the author of All You Have to Do is Ask. His mission is to empower people to fulfill their purpose, goals, and visions so they can become more successful. Wayne discovered that those who ask for help or advice, and also give back, were less frustrated and more effective in all areas of their lives.
He talks about how to practice thoughtful intentional requests that people will be happy to fulfill. He also teaches how to create a psychologically safe environment where our kids feel safe to express their needs and wants.
Learn how the simple art of asking can unlock new ideas and solutions, help you get ahead faster and easier, and solve most of the problems that are weighing you down in this episode!
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Larry Hagner is the host of The Dad Edge and the founder of The Dad Edge Alliance. Larry’s used to talking with big names as well as the everyday dad, but today it’s his turn to be interviewed.
Chris Romulo is a former Muay Thai Champion, author, motivational speaker, and the host of The Eight Count Podcast. He asks Larry Hagner about the times he thought he was down for the count in life and how, with the help of his tribe, he picked himself up and got back in the ring to fight his inner demons.
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Hey Guys for this LIVE Q&A episode, I am bringing Doug French, founder of The Dad 2.0 Summit. Doug has been in the Dad Space for years and is hosting his 10th Dad 2.0 Summit in Washington DC on Feb 27th-29th. If you are a Dad Edge Podcast listener and you want to join us in DC, you can use EDGE20 for your coupon code at registration to save 20% off your ticket price. I would love to meet you face to face and see you there! Sign up HERE for the Dad 2.0 SUMMIT
According to Columbia University, children who have a poor relationship with their father are 68% more likely to drink, smoke, or use drugs. How we can strengthen the bond between father and son and father and daughter?
Michael Gurian is one of the world’s foremost experts on gender and the brain and has been called “The People's Philosopher” for his ability to bring together people’s ordinary lives and scientific ideas. He is the NY Times bestselling author of thirty-two books, a keynote speaker, a husband and a father.
Michael tells us the three top reasons why today’s kids aren’t connecting with their dads. He teaches us to discover our assets as fathers and how to invite our kids to utilize them. He also shares the neuroscience behind the differences between bonding with sons and daughters, and how we can best father each one.
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What is a rite of passage? What purpose did it serve in a boy’s life? How can we create modern rites of passage for today’s boys?
In this Thursday Throwdown, we are excited to have Tim Wright. He is a pastor, author, podcaster, and co-leader of The Helping Boys Thrive Summit with Michael Gurian. Today he talks about the history of the rite of passage and what significance it had in different cultures. He also tells us how we can create rites of passage or manhood ceremonies for our sons in every stage of life.
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Every year, we envision a new future and set goals to become who we really want to be. Why is it that more often than not, we never get very far?
If we pay close attention, we can hear a taunting voice, an inner bully who says, “You can’t do that. Who do you think you are? You’re not worthy or deserving. You’re a fake, a fraud, and a loser.” Meet Imposter Syndrome, and we all deal with it.
Today we have Dr. Jaime Hope on the show. She’s an Emergency Medicine Physician, Wellness Expert, Teacher, Speaker, and Author. Jaime tells us how to notice when Impostor Syndrome is creeping up and how we can shut that bully down. She gives us tools to build resilience against our own negative voices and create a new vision of ourselves. Jaime also reveals how to deal with times of stress by connecting the pain with our vision and purpose. Most importantly, she gives us examples of how we can “program” our kids to have built-in protection against imposter syndrome.
Get ready to defeat that inner bully once and for all!
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Today, Charlie “The Spaniard” Brenneman revisits the show. He is a former Spanish teacher turned UFC Champion who now hosts The Spaniard Show podcast and is the author of Driven: My Unlikely Journey from Classroom to Cage.
Charlie is here to talk about his new book, Becoming the World's Toughest Lifelong Learner: A Book for Anyone Who Wants to Pursue Anything. He shares his principles for overcoming the fear of starting something new and pushing through obstacles in business, health, and relationships. He gives us a template on how to tap into courage and the mental tools we need to keep moving forward not matter what. Learn how to become the world’s toughest lifelong learner in this episode!
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Do you consider yourself to be one of the “good guys?” What is the truth about masculinity? What does it mean to be a good man in today’s rapidly changing society? The old ideas of the man being a lone pursuer, protector, and provider are evolving, leaving many men confused about their role in family and society.
Today we have Cleo Stiller on The Dad Edge. She is the author of Modern Manhood: Conversations About the Complicated World of Being a Good Man Today. Cleo has had conversations with men all over the cultural, economic, and geographical spectrum, along with experts in psychology and sociology, to get a deeper understanding of what men really want and need.
In this episode, Cleo Stiller provides context for men and women when it comes to friendship, sex, parenting, money, and work. She also tells us how dads can become better human beings and raise their sons to confidently navigate the modern world.
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Are you living your authentic life? What if you have everything that’s supposed to make you happy and you’re still miserable?
On today’s show, we have Dad Edge Alliance member and everyday dad, Josh Long. Josh had a very successful 16-year career that he hated. He was so hungry for significance in his life, that he threw himself into volunteering for his community. He eventually ran for city council and won. Everything looked very admirable on the outside, but inside he was dying.
Josh was overcommitted and stressed. He began to rely on alcohol to cope. His marriage was in crisis, and he started investing emotionally in another woman. He was living a life of quiet desperation, until he took a hard look at what he was giving his time and energy to and realized he was living for the wrong reasons.
Listen to how Josh saved his marriage, became a better father, and started living a life according to his true values.
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Is it possible to become absolutely irresistible to your woman?
Whether things cooled off after the kids or your marriage is in serious trouble, today’s show is going to dive deep into what your woman requires to deeply connect with you on an emotional and sexual level.
Allana Pratt is a relationship coach and intimacy expert who has been featured all over the media, including CBS, Forbes, People Magazine, and FOX.
She is going to reveal some surprising insights about why your woman may have lost desire for you. She talks about what men should do if they are being emasculated. Allana also explains how to articulate what you truly want without seeming needy, how to make your woman feel safe and seen so she is receptive to you physically, and how to remove the fear of rejection in all your conversations, inside and outside the bedroom.
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Today, we’re going to give you marriage tips that you can use to turn your marriage around or make it even better than it already is.
Many of us might say we have good marriages, but we don’t hear about a lot of great marriages that are full of happiness, connection, intimacy, and sexual desire. This is probably because most couples wait 6 years to seek help when they feel unhappy in their marriages, and by that time they’re often ready to give up.
Today we have Zach Brittle on The Dad Edge. He is a marriage counselor and the co-host of the Marriage Therapy Radio podcast. Zach is going to give us some marriage tips you’ve never heard before. We discuss the DNA of conflict, ingenious ways to navigate arguments, and how to break the same frustrating relational patterns. He also tells us how to create a marriage with absolutely no sexual rejection. All married men (and women) will benefit from the marriage tips in this episode!
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Money is the number one cause of friction between couples. Out of the 50% of marriages that end in divorce, 70% of them end because of financial issues. This is a staggering number, but money in marriage is not something we are taught to navigate, and we don’t know how to show our kids a good example either.
Today we have The Money Couple, Scott and Bethany Palmer on The Dad Edge. They are financial advisors who got tired of seeing their clients’ marriages destroyed because of money. Together they wrote The 5 Money Personalities and The 5 Money Conversations to Have with Your Kids at Every Age and Stage.
Scott and Bethany reveal the 5 money personalities, the reasoning behind each one, and how we can learn to work with our spouse’s and our children’s money personalities. They also discuss how harmful it is to argue about money in front of the kids and how to use money language to actually bring your marriage and family closer than ever before.
(You'll also get a link at the end of the show to a money personality assessment for you and your whole family. Visit the show notes for the link to the test and receive a 19-page money personality report.)
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It’s 2020, and we’re all pumped about taking action on our health and fitness goals. Intermittent fasting is getting a huge amount of attention, not just for weight loss, but for anti-aging, disease prevention, and mental sharpness. Getting started with intermittent fasting is challenging mentally and physically, but in this show you will learn the benefits that make it all worth it.
Today we have Joel Staley from Dads Who Lift on the show. He helps busy parents turn their bodies into fat-burning machines. He tells us what happens to our bodies when we fast, how to break into a fasting routine, and what results to expect.
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Are you not showing up in your life as energized as you want to be? Are you weighed down emotionally and physically for no particular reason? Are you overwhelmed, feeling like a million things are sapping your energy?
Today’s guest is Dr. Zach Bush. His mission is to apply the rigor of science, strength of humanity and the intelligence of nature to transform our health and our world.
Zach explains our body’s close relationship to the earth and how we can unlock its intrinsic ability to heal. He also talks about why we need to get rid of our to do lists, allow space to happen, and change our identities as men and providers.
This interview is full of revolutionary ideas that will forever change your perception of the world and your place in it. Put this episode on repeat!
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Today we have something special for Thursday Throwdown. Aliza Pressman is a developmental psychologist, parent educator, assistant clinical professor, and co-founder of both Mount Sinai Parenting Center and Seedlings Group. She is also the host of the Raising Good Humans podcast and is going to give us some crucial tips on how to use praise and discipline the right way.
Most of us parents have the best intentions when trying to encourage and praise our kids, but little do we know we could be setting them up for misery and failure later in life.
Don’t miss this episode as Dr. Aliza gives a definitive guide on when to praise, how to praise, and how to show unconditional love even when you’re not happy with your kids’ behavior.
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Most of us are sabotaging ourselves without even knowing it. How can we become aware of the negative self-talk that’s holding us back in life? And more importantly, how can we teach our kids to debunk their own self-limiting beliefs?
In this episode, we have one of our most popular guests back just in time for 2020—the one and only Gary John Bishop.
He’s the NY Times Bestselling author of Unf*ck Yourself and Stop Doing That Sh*t. He was a speaker at The Dad Edge Summit 2018, and this is his 4th interview with us on The Dad Edge Podcast.
Gary has just released a workbook to accompany Unf*ck Yourself called Do the Work, and he is going to make us do that work today!
Gary talks about the three categories we need to address in life to break free from self-limiting beliefs. He tells us how to get real with our own bullsh*t and about how we interact with others. He also talks about why the idea of “finding” your purpose is flawed and what you really need to show up big in your life.
If you’re familiar with Gary John Bishop, you already know what’s coming. Brace yourself for some hard truths!
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We all need as much help as we can when it comes to being a better father, and there are some great resources for dads out there. Usually, I’m the one interviewing amazing people like Jocko Willink, James Clear, Mark Divine, and Hal Elrod on The Dad Edge podcast. We’ve had sports stars, financial gurus, sex and marriage experts, TEDx speakers, and even everyday dads.
Today, we are switching things around. I recently got a chance to share my story on the ActiDad podcast with awesome host, Mark Savant. Listen as we discuss health, women, children, and tribe. We talk about the importance of community and how to upgrade your life by finding the right men to surround yourself with.
It's time to live legendary!
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How can you learn how to be a good dad if your father wasn’t there for you? What does it mean to be a good dad? How can you learn to be the father your kids need?
Today we have retired Navy SEAL Senior Chief Luis Rivera on the show. He served with the SEALs for 24 years and was featured in Discovery Channel’s documentary Navy SEALs BUDs Class 234. Luis has been married for 14 years and has three kids.
Growing up, Luis’s father never made an effort to be involved in his life. Luis admits, he wasn’t always a good dad either. Military life always came first, until he realized what an impact his behavior was making on his kids.
Luis is now a fully present and invested dad. He’s also part of Mighty Oaks Programs, an organization that helps veterans, active duty military, and first responders deal with PTS and life trauma.
Luis opens up about his struggles and failures as a husband and father. He tells us how he spent 9 days in a hotel with his daughter to help her through drug withdrawals. He also talks about the free 5-step program that helps men get a full understanding of who they are and what their purpose is in the world.
You’ve never heard this side of Luis Rivera before. Don’t miss this in-depth interview!
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How can we get past our flaws and failures to become the best men we can be? Marriage is the foundation of everything. It is our home and our refuge. A solid, happy relationship with our spouse is crucial to raising emotionally strong and mentally healthy kids.
Today’s guest is a legend in our mastermind community, Joe Bailey. Joe is on his fourth marriage and it will be his last. He's made lots of mistakes when it comes to relationships, but he’s been lucky enough use them to grow and adapt. He knows to stay wary of his weak spots and to double down on his strengths.
In this short episode, Joe shares his firsthand experience and five rules for an unshakable marriage.
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Parenting is always a challenge. We are not given a manual when our kid is born. Parents whose kids have ADHD are even more unprepared. The Dad Edge constantly receives emails from dads who are struggling with their ADHD son or daughter. Most feel frustrated and helpless. They don’t enjoy parenting, and their kids can sense that. But there is hope for ADHD parents. All we need is the right skillset.
Angela Pruess is a licensed family therapist with a background in Child Psychology, Child Development, and Play Therapy. She is the founder of Parents with Confidence and also the mother of three children, two having special needs.
Angela explains the 3 different types of ADHD and the best way to manage each one. She talks about how to create an environment that encourages emotional intelligence and a growth mindset. She also tells us how to develop and leverage our parent-child connection, understand the true motivation behind our child’s behavior, and discipline our children without causing emotional damage.
Empower yourself to grow emotionally resilient ADHD kids who will live their best lives!
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Are you concerned about your alcohol intake?
It's the peak season for drinking. Many guys waking up with a nasty hangover will wonder what it would be like to give up alcohol for awhile.
But we worry.
Wouldn't it be boring? What would our friends think? How would we relax at the end of the day?
Today we have everyday dad and Dad Edge Alliance member, Darren Bellew on the show. After 35 years of drinking, he decided to try a 30-day detox. Once he reached that milestone, Darren experienced the benefits of being alcohol-free and just kept going.
More than a year later, Darren is still alcohol-free. Instead of feeling deprived, he has more energy, more time, better performance, and a deeper connection with his family. Darren has built a better relationship with himself, learning to solve his problems rather than putting them off by drinking.
If you're thinking of taking a break from the beer and the booze in 2020, this episode will help you understand what to expect when you go alcohol-free!
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Do finances stress you out? You’re not alone. Most of us aren’t clear about what we have to do to achieve financial independence. The average 50-year-old has about 50K in savings. Most millennials are not saving at all. The majority of family households don’t even have a budget to know what they’re spending on.
Money problems wreak havoc on our physical and mental wellbeing as well as our relationships. The best time to take control and be intentional about financial independence is right now.
Financial legend, Brad Barrett, returns to The Dad Edge. He’s the cohost of the Choose FI Podcast, the co-author of Choose FI: Your Blueprint to Financial Independence, and cofounder of a financial independence movement that has spread worldwide.
Brad went from being a full-time CPA to retired and financially independent at the age of 35. Now he empowers others to design their paths to financial independence.
Today, Brad gives us simple, actionable steps you can take right now to cut expenses, save money, and build wealth without feeling deprived. He also talks about how to get your spouse in on the game to use your financial plan to bring you closer.
It’s not about what you’ll be giving up, it’s about making your life better. Don’t waste another day or another cent. It’s time to build a lifestyle according to what you value most.
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Suicide is the number one killer among men aged 35-50. The World Health Organization reports that suicide represents half of all male violent deaths worldwide. Why are men at such risk and what can we do about it?
Men are more likely to go for desperate measures for several reasons. Our culture teaches men to internalize emotions and hide distress. At the same time, men tend to lose their close friends and support systems as they step into the role of a provider. They’re also reluctant to seek help when struggling with anxiety, depression, or suicidal thoughts.
The first step in doing something about suicide among men is raising awareness. Today, one of our Dad Edge Alliance Commanders courageously steps up to share his story. Nick Sotelo recounts his intense battle against rage, darkness, and suicide. He also tells us how to interrupt the negative scripts that run through our heads and what to do when overwhelmed with shame and hopelessness.
We never know what is going to send us or someone we care about down a dark road. This is an episode every dad should listen to for himself and any boy or man he knows.
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Are you having trouble breaking bad habits and committing to good ones?
Today’s guest says the problem isn’t you, it’s your system.
James Clear is the NY Times Bestselling Author of Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones. He talks about how building a system of small habits will compound over time for huge results. He'll also teach us how to design our environment so that we’ll stick to good habits without even thinking about it. Most importantly, James will tell us how we can apply atomic habits to our relationships with our spouses and children.
Whether you want to quit drinking, lose weight, excel in your business, or build deeper connection with your family, get ready to reshape your life for success!
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As men, we usually are all or nothing. We have the tendency to set extreme goals, and if we have one setback, we take that as proof we can’t succeed and give up entirely.
But if we practice both self-compassion and accountability, we can forgive ourselves, dust off, and get back on track.
Today, we have one of our Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind Commander on the show, Paul Richardson. He’s in charge of ensuring the men on his team are executing their plans.
Paul says we won’t be motivated all the time, and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean we can’t stay on the path to success.
Instead of beating ourselves up for the bad days, we must learn to trust the process, asking for help along the way. We can grow at our own pace, forgiving ourselves when we have a setback and loving ourselves enough to be patient.
Discover the power of self-compassion and accountability for dads in this short episode!
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What kind of father do we need to be to raise girls into strong, empathetic, and emotionally resilient women? Today’s show is all about how to raise confident, mentally tough daughters.
Emily McCarthy is a former case officer for the CIA and the cofounder of GORUCK, a brand with Special Forces roots that leads backpacking events all over the world.
Emily lost her father when she was just getting out of college. It was a devastating blow, but the foundation he laid will echo for generations.
Emily talks about how her dad gamified safety and defense so she would always be ready to protect herself and others. She also talks about the many ways her father showed up in her life that made her into the incredible woman she is today.
Emily’s story is proof of the ripple effect a father leaves on his children’s lives, even if his time is cut short. Don’t miss this moving episode.
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We feel like communication with our wives and children should come naturally. If we love them, and they love us, it should be easy to understand each other. Right?
Wrong. What most of us don’t realize is that communication is a skill that can be learned. If we master the way we approach conversations, we will drastically improve our relationships.
In this episode, we share three techniques for deep communication with your spouse. These simple skills will put an end to stress, arguments, and misunderstandings.
At the same time, they will create a space of connection, safety, and intimacy in your marriage. Don’t miss this short, incredibly effective episode!
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The only thing we can count on in life is change, and that means having the mental toughness for life’s challenges. We don’t want to spend our entire lives reacting out of fear and frustration. We want to know that no matter what happens, we can handle anything.
Dominick Quartuccio returns to The Dad Edge. He is a speaker, coach, and the author of Design Your Future: 3 Simple Steps to Stop Drifting and Take Command of Your Life. He is going to share 5 practices to make you a mentally tougher man so you can train your body and mind to operate from a place of power, presence, and resourcefulness.
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82% of us hate what we do for a living, yet we do it for 40 hours a week or more. Strangely enough, we wear this misery as a badge of honor, as if the more we hate our job, the more noble we are for suffering through it.
But we weren’t put here to hate our lives. How much is staying where you are costing you?
Today we talk with Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind commander, Sean Hutchins. He used to hate his job, coming home in a bad mood, not showing up for his wife and daughter, and gaining forty pounds.
One day he took an objective look at his situation and realized that the cost of staying miserable was much more than the risk of trying something new. Sean decided to take the leap and design his own life.
What's possible for you? Listen to how to begin the relentless pursuit of a life you love in this episode!
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We obsess over nutrition and fitness for our physique, but we ignore the most important organ in the body—the brain. The brain manages every function of the human body and is also in charge of our focus, mood, and ability to learn.
In this episode of The Dad Edge, America’s Most Popular Psychiatrist, Dr. Daniel Amen, talks about how we can improve the lives of ourselves and our children by making the brain a priority. He tells us how to eat to optimize brain power, how to create a bedtime routine for the best sleep, and how to stop the negative thoughts and behaviors that sabotage our progress in life.
This show will transform the way you think, literally. Prepare to Change Your Brain, Change Your Life!
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We don’t realize how important our health is until we lose it. No man wants poor health to get in the way of becoming the best version of himself, but how do we make health a priority when life gets in the way?
Today Dr. Ryan Wohlfert is back on The Dad Edge to give you the busy dad’s guide to total health. This list of simple hacks for fitness, nutrition, and sleep will fit into any lifestyle. Best of all, these habits can be incorporated into your existing schedule without having to give up other aspects of your life.
Don’t wait to improve your health. Start today!
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Are you the victim or the hero of your life? Did you know that the choice is yours? You have the power to leave the past behind and construct your own world by extreme self-realization.
Today’s guest is Chris Duffin. He is known as the “mad scientist of strength” and holds the world record for dead lifts. He is also an entrepreneur and the author of The Eagle and the Dragon: A Story of Strength and Reinvention.
Chris has one of the most brutal childhood stories you will ever hear. His life was full of poverty, hardship, and confusion. But Chris refused to let the past define him and is now living the life he purposely created for himself, doing what he loves and thriving with his family.
Listen to Chris Duffin’s story of extreme self-realization and how you can decide who you want to be and how you will leave your mark on the world.
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Mike McCarthy is a super-successful entrepreneur, the cofounder of GoBundance, and a member of the Tribe of Millionaires. He is also the co-author of The Miracle Morning for Parents along with his wife and Hal Elrod.
Today Mike teaches us six lessons from the Tribe of Millionaires and the pillars of GoBundance. He also reveals how he cultivates a rich relationship with his wife and kids and the magic formula to turn an argument into a romantic encounter in minutes!
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How can we get back the amazing sex and emotional connection we had when we first met our wives? Where do we go wrong when it comes to exciting our women and igniting their passion? How can we change the direction of our relationship with our spouse when it seems like everything we do is wrong?
Karen Brody is a man coach and bestselling author of Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse Your Woman's Love & Desire.
Karen goes in-depth about how we, as men, lose our power in marriage, how we kill the attraction our wives have for us, and how we can understand our women better than they understand themselves.
You will have some major epiphanies during this show as Karen Brody reveals the secret language of your woman’s desire. Put this episode on repeat!
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Most of us are busy all the time. We feel stuck and overwhelmed. This is because being busy is not necessarily being productive. Fighting the busyness epidemic starts with setting boundaries and being disciplined about what's most important.
Today, we're going to talk about fighting the busyness epidemic with a simple morning ritual that will help you discern what's important to you, set boundaries with yourself and others, and say no to anything that does not serve you.
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We think that if our marriages take work, something’s wrong. Our culture makes love out to be a mystery. We believe we have to be lucky in love to find a happy relationship.
Today, we are going to debunk that mindset. There is a methodology to marriage.
Mort Fertel is the creator of Marriage Fitness, the most successful marriage crisis program in the world. He tells us that marriage is not something that comes naturally. It’s something that must be, and can be, learned.
Mort reveals the elements that destroy a marriage and gives us the tools we need to take our parenting and relationship skills to the next level.
We also invite listeners to a 30-day challenge that will make effective relationship behaviors a solid habit. Get the secrets to fixing your marriage and more in this episode.
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The transition from boy to man is an epic time in the lives of our sons. As fathers, it's our job to teach them what it means to be a man as they close the chapter on childhood and embark on the next stage of life as an adult.
In recent episodes, I talked about a rite of passage experience I created for my 11-year-old Mason. He hiked with me and the Elite Elevation Dad Edge Mastermind to the top of Mount Quandary in Breckenridge Colorado. I also shared the letter I read to him about The Pillars of Manhood when we reached the summit.
Today, Mason is here to share his perspective of what it was like to take on such a tough physical and mental challenge, how he felt among a tribe of men, and the life lessons that he will carry into manhood.
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For many of us, it’s a challenge just to get through the day. We’re stuck on the hamster wheel, running as fast as we can to nowhere. Not only do we lack clarity around our paths in life, but we also lack situational awareness when it comes to the daily environment around us. The world is not always a safe place, and complacency is deadly.
Today we have Mike Glover on the show. He's an ex-Special Forces soldier, the host of the Modern Mindset 365 Podcast, and the founder of Fieldcraft Survival, where he teaches everyday people how to be prepared for any catastrophic event, accident, or natural disaster. He teaches us modern survival for dads, which includes being empathetic, resilient, and deliberate in our actions. He also talks about how to protect our families and teach our kids what to do when their lives are in danger.
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How to know if you’ve been a good dad? As parents, we often don’t know if we’re doing the right thing. We want our kids to have honesty, integrity, teamwork, and a good work ethic. We hope they’ll become mentally tough, emotionally resilient, and brave enough to ask for help when they need it. How can we tell if our kids are getting the life lessons we want to teach?
Today I’m going to share a story about a rite of passage experience where my 11-year-old son hiked with me and the Elite Elevation Dad Edge Mastermind to the top of Mount Quandary in Breckenridge Colorado. Listen to how my son not only received a life lesson about accepting help, but also how he reversed it on me and showed me what kind of man he will become.
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Today’s show is all about how to live in the present. We always hear people talking about it, but how exactly is it done?
Most of us hold onto shame, guilt, and feelings of unworthiness from yesterday. At the same time, we feel constant anxiety when we think about what tomorrow might bring. This ruins any chance of making today a great day and keeps us in a state of fear that negatively effects our relationships at home and at work.
Bryan Falchuk is a life coach, TEDx speaker, and the bestselling author of Do a Day: How to Live a Better Life Every Day. He’s going to give us a formula to help us live in the present moment by confronting our past and removing anxiety about the future. Today is a new day. Go out and do it!
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Why do some men thrive and others merely survive? One of the secrets of successful, motivated, passionate men is that they surround themselves with a tribe to support them, advise them, and inspire them.
Today we visit the Fit Dad Nation podcast hosted by Steve Roy. We discuss how we can optimize the 5 dimensions of manhood, which are health, work, marriage, children, and finances.
We also talk about why men thrive in tribes and how to excel by surrounding yourself with other men who have what you want.
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There is only one person keeping you from reaching your full potential, and that is you. Today we’re going to reveal an extraordinary way to bypass fear, doubt, and limiting beliefs by creating heroic alter egos.
Todd Herman is a high-performance coach and the author of The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life. He is going to teach us why alter egos work, how to create them for different aspects of our lives, and how to activate them to help us become effective businessmen, intentional husbands, and patient and present fathers.
Todd Herman's tools, insights, and philosophy will blow your mind. Prepare to discover the power of your secret identity!
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How do we take the first step in reclaiming ourselves when we’re navigating dark times? How do we harness the courage to move forward when it seems that there is absolutely no way out?
No one is safe from adversity. It could be a mental, physical, or spiritual crisis. We might have to cope with a failed business, a devastating loss, or a destroyed relationship.
Today we have Chad Robichaux back on The Dad Edge Podcast. We had such a powerful response to his first show with us, that we invited him to The Dad Edge Mastermind for a live Q&A session with our members.
Chad talks about triumphing through dark times. He shows us that no matter how hopeless and depressed we feel, there is always a way out with the right mindset, tools, and support.
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Dakota Meyer is a former Marine and veteran of the war in Afghanistan. He’s also the host of the Owning It Podcast and the divorced father of two little girls.
Dakota shares his experience with PTS and his attempted suicide. He talks about how to step out of the victim mentality to become a greater version of ourselves. He also tells us the secrets to owning fatherhood, how to be an emotionally intelligent parent, and why we need to always surround ourselves with a trusted team for counsel.
You will hear a side of Dakota Meyer you haven’t heard on any other show. Get ready to own your life as a man and a dad!
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The bedtime routine is a special opportunity to connect with your kid after a busy day, but sometimes we are so tired that we can't think of anything meaningful to say.
But we dads can set up a deep conversation with minimal effort by using an easy template.
Here are 3 questions to ask your kid every night before they go to sleep to pause and reflect on what they experienced and how the day's lessons can shape their tomorrow.
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What do you constantly tell yourself you can’t do?
Do you look for all the reasons why you’re not capable of change?
How often do you let yourself off the hook by saying, “Well, that’s just the way I am?"
Today we have Gary John Bishop on the show to talk about his new book, Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back. He’s going to tell us why we develop negative conclusions about ourselves and how we seek to validate these false beliefs even though they prevent us from living a full life. Gary reveals how we get caught up in destructive cycles and why positive thinking alone does not work. He also talks about how to deconstruct self-limiting beliefs and live in alignment with a vision that allows us to live passionately as we step into our future selves.
If you’ve listened to our previous shows with Gary John Bishop, you know that this interview will be full of no BS, in-your-face insights that will make you face some hard truths. Brace yourself!
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What is a rite of passage?
What does a rite of passage look like in modern times?
How can you go about creating a rite of passage experience for your son?
Today, I talk about how I created a rite of passage for my 11-year old son by planning an epic hiking trip to Quandary Peak in Breckenridge Colorado. The culmination was when we reached the summit and I read him a letter about the pillars of manhood and how I would show him how to master each one.
Listen to my experience and how you can create a rite of passage to celebrate your son's passage into manhood.
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What kind adversity are you facing in your life and how are you dealing with it?
Chris Norton is the bestselling author of The Seven Longest Yards, a book he wrote with his wife Emily about their journey through extreme adversity. In 2010, Chris was an enthusiastic college athlete with an exciting future ahead of him. Then, in the third quarter of an ordinary football game, he collided with a players’ knee and fractured his C3 and C4 vertebrae. This injury left him paralyzed with a 3% chance of ever regaining any movement from the neck down.
Life as he knew it was over.
Chris Norton talks about how he fought his way from feeling hopeless and helpless to becoming unstoppable. He also tells us how to stretch our identities beyond who we think we are, how to persevere through the darkest moments, and how life’s catastrophes can become its greatest gifts.
Get ready for an arsenal of tools to help you turn adversity into a driving force!
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Some of the most popular shows on The Dad Edge are interviews with female guests. Men love to hear a woman’s perspective on how we, as husbands and fathers, can deepen our relationships with our wives and children.
Today’s guest is Mary Saturnio. She is the creator of the Mindful Moms Movement, a mastermind for women that aims to create wildly fun memories and a legacy of intention.
She is going to talk about how to create a family culture of connection by using simple hacks that open creativity, encourage communication, and keep family life fun and thriving.
Get ready to live a joyful, mindful life with your family!
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Today we have a story unlike anything you've ever heard before. Remi Adeleke is a former Navy SEAL, actor, entrepreneur, author, husband and dad. These are huge accomplishments for any man, but once you learn about Remi's background, you will be astounded.
Beginning life as a son in a wealthy, royal Nigerian family and almost ending as a drug dealer in The Bronx, Remi Adeleke's defining moment was his father's death when he was five years old. Raised by his single mom, Remi was cast into poverty and turned to crime to fill the void of male leadership.
Remi talks about how growing up without a father impacted his journey and how he is is living proof that even when things seem hopeless, it's possible to transform and live a life beyond imagining.
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As our kids get into their teens, they tend to isolate and become more independent. Their thoughts and feelings grow more complex. Asking them about their day at school is not enough to get them to open up about what’s going on inside their heads, and they are not going to volunteer information. How can we better connect with our teenagers?
This is a crucial time for our kids, and the quality of our relationships depends on the quality of the questions we ask. If we want our teenagers to feel free to communicate with us, we have to be proactive about getting to know the person they’re becoming.
In this short episode, we list ten questions to a deeper connection with your teen.
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Digital distraction is a huge problem for parents today. It seems like social media, tech, and video games are hijacking our kids’ lives, but what if the amount of time our kids spend on devices is a symptom of a much deeper issue?
Today we have Nir Eyal on The Dad Edge Podcast. He is a professor at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business and the author of international bestseller, Hooked—How to Build Habit-Forming Products. His upcoming book, Indistractable—How to Control your Attention and Choose Your Life, is a guidebook for getting the best out of tech without letting it get the best of us.
Nir Eyal knows better than anyone about how people get sucked into the rabbit hole of digital distraction, but what he’s going to tell us today will blow your mind. Listen as he outlines the psychology of distraction and how to address the true source of the problem so that kids don’t feel the need to overuse technology.
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Being a man and a father means being the leader of our families, finances, and businesses or careers. We are in constant demand and spend much of our time putting fires out.
How can we develop grit and resilience so that everyday problems and insecurities don't get in the way of creating a life of fulfillment?
What few of us realize is that grit and resilience can be practiced and learned. With hard work, we can toughen our minds and use adversity to grow.
Today we give you a sneak peek into one of our private call teams called the Dad Edge Monthly Tactical Agenda. We discuss a 5 week toolkit that will help you kick butt and take action in your life!
In this short episode, you will learn how to:
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Well, the inmates were running the asylum this week as Larry relaxed on vacation!
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Most of us have been in a dark place at some point in our lives. What is the first step to reclaiming ourselves? How can we find the courage to move forward when it seems like there is no way out?
Today's guest is Chad Robichaux. He is a former Force Recon Marine, a professional MMA fighter, and a bestselling author. After coming home from deployment, he was diagnosed with PTSD.
Chad became lost, depressed, angry, and suicidal. It got to the point where his children were afraid of him, and he and his wife were filing for a divorce.
But Chad experienced a moment of clarity that allowed him to make the choice to step out of the darkness and into his true purpose in life. Now he helps other men as they fight the battle within.
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Fight, flight, or freeze. These are humans’ three reactions to danger. What tools do your kids have to defend themselves when they are threatened?
As parents, we hope our kids will never be forced into this position, but in order to protect them, we must teach them how to stick up for themselves.
Martial arts are a great way to give kids the tools they need to defend themselves. They also teach life skills like discipline, perseverance, and courage. It’s not just about fighting. It’s about empowerment—physical, mental, and emotional.
Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member Philipp Lomboy back on the show. He is a martial arts and self-defense expert and the creator of the Everyday Fighter podcast and community. He is also the father of four girls. He has instilled training as part of his daughters' lives and has raised them to know that they have the right to set their own boundaries and demand respect.
Listen to the benefits of teaching your kids to defend themselves in this short episode!
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How can we detach from chaos and our emotions so we can make the best decisions in our lives? How do we know when it’s time to lead and time to follow? How do we apply the balance of leadership and detachment to our family and work life to reach a victorious outcome in any situation?
Today we are pumped to have Jocko Willink on the show. He is a former Navy SEAL, powerhouse podcaster, and co-author of The Dichotomy of Leadership: Balancing the Challenges of Extreme Ownership to Lead and Win with our former guest, Leif Babin.
Jocko tells us how to navigate life with a mindset of extreme ownership, humility, and wisdom. He also talks about raising kids with the dichotomy of leadership so that they can become more resilient, independent, and make the smartest choices for themselves.
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Today, I pull some listener questions from The Dad Edge mailbox. We're going to cover workouts, morning routines, trips away from the kids, and what it's like to be a change agent in people's lives.
I also give a powerful visualization exercise to make sure you're chasing the right vision for your life. No regrets!
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What’s holding you back from becoming your best self?
What about your environment is keeping you from growing?
How can you assess your life and your abilities to discover your super powers?
Today, we have Dr. Richard Shuster on the show. He is a Clinical Psychologist, Information Technology Expert, founder of a non-profit called Every Kid Rocks, and the host of The Daily Helping Podcast.
Dr. Shuster shares the story of the near fatal crash that radically shifted his aim in life. He discusses the destructive “trophy case” effect of the internet and what parents should and should not share about their family life on social media.
He also talks about how to create an environment that forces you to grow and how to do a comprehensive assessment of your life so that you can use your super powers to be part of the change process for others.
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As the head of your family, nothing changes if you don't take action. If you want to lose weight, grow in your job or business, or have deeper relationships with your wife and kids, it's up to you to make it happen.
Today we have everyday dad, Mark, on the show. He has been married for thirteen years and has two boys. He joined The Dad Edge Alliance two months ago and shares his insights on how taking action as the head of your family can make your life more organized, fun, and fulfilling.
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What if we could tap into the mindset of an elite operator and become a hero in everyday life? Today we're going to learn from the very best.
John "Tig" Tiegen is one of the heroes who was behind The Battle of Benghazi when militants attacked a diplomatic compound on September 11th, 2012, an incident that was portrayed in the 2016 Michael Bay film called 13 Hours.
Tig talks about what it was really like in Benghazi and how he's adjusted to civilian life since. He tells us how to navigate obstacles while staying true to our authentic selves. He also shares his thoughts on being a husband to a military woman and the father of seven-year-old twins.
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Having resilient kids is something all parents want. We want our kids to be confident, make smart decisions, and have the ability to triumph over challenges in life. What we often forget is that in order to raise resilient kids, we have to be resilient ourselves.
Chris and Holly Santillo joined us for a live Q&A in our Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind. They are the authors of Resilience Parenting: Raising Resilient Children in an Era of Detachment and Dependence. They are also karate instructors with a combined thirty-five years of experience educating children in their dojos and are raising three boys of their own.
Chris and Holly answer real questions from everyday dads about kids when it comes to failure, respect, and communication. They also share the Three Pillars of Resilience Parenting that will build a strong mental and emotional foundation for parents as well as their children.
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Are you leading a rich life? Or are you drifting without intention, just trying to make it through the day? If you think there is more for you than what you have now, this show is for you.
Wealth is our topic today. We’re not talking about the usual definition of wealth, but what it means to you. To some people, having a happy, healthy family is wealth. To others, it’s freedom. To many, it’s the sports cars and big houses. But it doesn’t matter what your dream life is if you’re not thinking and acting in a way that gets you results.
Today’s guest is Matt Aitchison. He is the creator of The Rich Life Academy and host of the Millionaire Mindcast. "Matty A" is here to talk about breaking free from your default setting by auditing every aspect of your life and reengineering it so that you will exceed beyond the present identity you have for yourself.
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This show was recorded right after The Dad Edge Live Summit and we’re going to share a quick thought from the event that is so important to our kids.
We might not even notice it, but much of the time, when our kid asks us to do something with them, our default answer is “no.” We’re busy. Maybe later. After we get one more thing checked off our endless to-do list.
What we don’t think about is how badly our kids just want to hang out and spend time with us.
Today we talk about changing our default setting. We always have things going on, but we need to stop and think about what matters most. What would happen if next time your kid asks you to play with them or take them out, that your default answer is “yes?”
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Our society is obsessed with early achievement. We want our kids to become incredible athletes, advanced students, and high-earners. We have a tendency to compare them with their peers and if they aren’t at the same level, we worry that they won’t succeed.
Our guest is Richard Karlgaard. He’s a journalist, award-winning entrepreneur, and speaker. He is the author of bestselling book, Late Bloomers: The Power of Patience in a World Obsessed with Early Achievement. He talks about how today’s kids are under huge pressure to perform and feel like failures if they don’t meet society’s expectations. This coincides with a 70% rise in depression and anxiety in teenagers in the past 25 years.
It’s natural for every parent to wish the best for their child’s future, but Richard Karlgaard explains how kids develop in different ways at different ages. He teaches us how to meet our kids where they are and give them space to grow. He also tells us how allowing them to find their way later in life can be an advantage to long-term achievement and happiness.
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We’re just beginning to understand the impact of the internet and smartphones on society. Our time and attention are sucked away, and we look at a screen instead of our real lives. Energy for valuable activities is drained from us and we have nothing left for creative thinking. The long-term effects technology has on our kids’ wellbeing and development is even more alarming, leading to mental health issues and addictive behavior.
Today we have a fascinating conversation with our previous guest, Cal Newport, the author of Digital Minimalism who answers questions live in our Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind. These are answers every parent needs to hear. Don't miss this episode!
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Most men are motivated by the same thing, and it’s the wrong thing—fear.
We run away from the life we don’t want, struggling to avoid discomfort and scarcity. We are under constant stress and have nothing left for ourselves. But fear is a bad motivator. We can only run so far and so fast before we become depleted and burned out.
Today I have an amazing guest who is no stranger to the spotlight. Tommy Baker is the host of Resist Average Podcast and helps dreamers create the lives they truly desire. He is the author of three bestselling books, and his most recent release, The Leap of Your Life, is about how we can resist average and make bold decisions toward the dreams that scare us.
Tommy talks about the myth of clarity, leveraging regret, and taking action despite never feeling ready. If you’re in survival mode or in a comfortable but boring rut, this show will change your trajectory!
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All marriages have highs and lows, but what happens when things never seem to get better? Have you tried to do everything you think is right, but nothing seems to be working? Communication with your wife has broken down. Resentment grows, walls build up, and you look at your spouse and wonder, what happened to us?
Today we have everyday dad and husband, Ryan on the show. He is the thirty-five-year-old father of three and has a fourth child on the way. His marriage fell into a slump, and he knew he couldn’t just leave it on auto-pilot. He joined The Dad Edge Alliance, and in talking with the other members, learned that the marriage problems he had were extremely common and fixable.
Ryan shares what he’s learned to take his marriage from “fine” to on fire, and one communication tip that will totally shifted the way his marriage works.
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Today we're going to focus in on our marriages. Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo are the hosts of the One Extraordinary Marriage podcast, which has been running for nine years strong. They are also the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, 7 Days of Sex Challenge. When you listen to their actionable advice, you’ll understand how they’ve helped people from all over the world transform their relationships with their spouses.
In this show, John and Alisa talk about:
Learn the principles of keeping your marriage passionate, alive, and flourishing!
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Today, more parents are raising kids with anxiety, depression, and OCD but have no idea how to cope. Judging by the downloads on our shows about anxiety and depression in kids, this topic is in high demand.
Unfortunately, the stigma that still surrounds mental health issues prevents parents from talking about them. The truth is, many mental health issues are part of physiological problems that are beyond a child’s control. We need to educate ourselves as parents and help our children walk through their fear and manage their feelings. That is why today we have an exclusive Dad Edge Alliance Q&A with child therapist, Natasha Daniels.
In this show, you will hear everyday dads talk about the real struggles they have with their kids in ages ranging from toddler to teenagers. Natasha Daniels answers questions about different behaviors including panic attacks, strange phobias, and drug abuse.
Find out how to help kids with anxiety and depression and what signs to look out for in this episode!
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What is the story you‘ve been telling yourself over and over again that keeps you from stepping into the best self you can possibly be?
Mark Crandall is a Transformational Life Coach, host of the Purpose Chasers Podcast, and the author of Embrace Your Past Win Your Future: The Difference Between Being A Victim and Playing One. He was not a dad at the recording of this episode, but he will likely be one when it airs.
Mark has tremendous insight as a son who was abandoned by his biological parents and a man who is about to step into his role as a father.
Mark tells us how to:
Get ready to win your future!
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Are you taking ownership of your business, relationships, health, and future? Or are you blaming things outside yourself for a stagnant life? What is preventing you from living as your best self?
It’s the ego.
Most of us don’t want to admit we don’t have it all figured out. We don’t want people to see that we’re vulnerable. We close ourselves to learning when we're afraid to ask questions. The ego blocks us from growing.
Today we have an everyday dad on the show to talk about how to drill down to your core values and surrender your ego to supercharge your life.
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There is a great deal of awareness surrounding autism and ADHD in children. What has not been equally addressed are anxiety and depression in kids. Many children suffer in silence and parents don’t understand what’s wrong.
Today we are going to talk about how to identify and differentiate between depression and anxiety, signs and behavior patterns to look out for, and tools to help us teach children how to cope.
Natasha Daniels is a child therapist who specializes in anxiety and OCD. She is the bestselling author of Anxiety Sucks! A Teen Survival Guide and How to Parent Your Anxious Toddler. Her work has been featured on various sites including Huffington Post, Scary Mommy and The Mighty. She’s a mom to three kids who have anxiety issues and her mission is to create support for parents through her private practice, podcast, videos, and online courses.
The worst thing to do if you suspect your child may have a problem with anxiety and depression is avoid it. Learn how to tackle this problem head on so that you and your children are empowered to deal with anxiety and depression in a proactive way.
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Today I’m sitting down with everyday dad and alliance member, Mike. He’s having a great time now being a father, but it wasn’t always this way.
Mike is the father of an 8 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. When his son was first born, he couldn’t understand why he didn’t feel a connection to his baby. He thought something was wrong with him but was afraid to tell anyone about it. As his kids grew, his noticed his patience was thin, and he was worried he’d end up being "the dad that yelled a lot." He was also afraid that he wouldn’t have all the answers to the questions his kids asked, and he suffered chronic anxiety. This was a huge catalyst for change.
One of the hardest things for men to do is ask for help, but Mike was tired of doing life on his own. He didn’t want to lean on his wife for everything either. That’s when he made himself a priority and joined The Dad Edge Alliance.
Listen to Mike’s journey, and why men are better together!
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Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. Out of those that stay together, only seventeen percent report being happy. It seems like the odds are against us. Is it possible to take our marriages, whether they are meh or miserable, and transform them into passionate, thriving relationships?
Today we get a woman’s raw perspective. Brandy Salazar, co-author of The Miracle Morning for Couples, is back on the show. She talks about what we’re missing in marriages, communication secrets, and why your wife never seems to be “in the mood.” She also tells us how to get to know our wives on the deepest level so that we have fewer arguments, more fun, and the most amazing sex ever.
Gentlemen, you’ll want to take notes on this episode. Get ready to learn how to light your woman up!
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When it comes to getting healthy, there are really no f*cking excuses. Without our health, we can’t be the best versions of ourselves. We want to have the strength, the stamina, and the mental clarity to live life to the fullest. We want to feel comfortable and confident in our bodies, but something always gets in the way.
Whether you’re revisiting your 2019 health goals, or getting in shape for the summer, today’s show with Renegade Radio’s Jay Ferruggia will give you a stripped-down list of everything you need to know to get in the best health of your life.
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Alcohol is embedded into our society. Besides its traditional use as a social lubricant and its presence in nearly every celebration, the alcohol industry has psychologically programmed us to crave alcohol. But is it really adding to our enjoyment of life?
Today we have Ruari Fairbairns back on the show. He is the cofounder of One Year No Beer, a massive, global alcohol-free movement. Ruari started in a job where drinking was part of a successful career, but he when he became a dad, the late nights and hangovers threatened his relationship with his family. He quit alcohol and was surprised to find how it revolutionized his life. His story comes full circle with a recent encounter with the Dalai Lama.
Ruari talks about rewiring your brain and changing your relationship with alcohol. Whether it’s the occasional binge or a few daily beers after work, alcohol has a huge impact on your mental and physical wellbeing. He also tells us how to combat the stigma associated with not drinking and how to be alcohol-free and still have fun.
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Money is a generational issue. Most of us weren’t taught it, our parents weren’t taught it, and our grandparents weren’t taught it. Unless we break the pattern, our kids will have the same issues, overspending on credit cards and not investing enough to provide a secure future.
What lessons are you teaching your kids about money?
What about personal accountability, savings, and investing?
How do they see you spend money?
There is a balance between money management and enjoying life. We don’t have to teach a scarcity mindset for our kids to be money smart.
Today we talk to a special guest who tells us his dad’s approach to raising financially responsible kids and how it made him leagues ahead of his peers of the same age.
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
How can we teach our kids to navigate hardships and adversity while also raising them to be well-behaved? Today’s guest is Chris Santillo, the author of Resilience Parenting: Raising Resilient Children in an Era of Detachment and Dependence.
Chris is a black belt instructor of Kempo karate and has established a foundation of three pillars in parenting—learning, service, and integrity. You will find out what snowplow parenting is and why it’s so damaging. You’ll also learn why you should formulate a family creed, how to teach ownership and independence, and how to give kids space to overcome challenges to become constant learners in life.
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All of us at some time in our lives will face a time of darkness and despair. It could be financial ruin, divorce, a health crisis, or a shameful mistake. Chances are that when we are struggling through a difficult time, we won’t let anyone know about it. When someone asks us how we are, we’ll say, “I’m fine.”
In this case FINE means:
We tend to take our frustrations out on those around us, blind to the damage we are causing. Addictions can take over when we feel like there is no other way to calm the chaos.
We’re excited to bring Joe Burnham back on the show. He is a Dad Edge Alliance mastermind member who was on the podcast previously to talk about his life after getting arrested in a prostitution sting. Today he tells us how no one is beyond redemption and that it is possible to recover from a downfall by turning shame and regret into power.
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Everyone is talking about finding your “why” or your purpose in life. The idea is that once you know your why, everything else falls into place. But what if you don’t know your why or how to find it? What do you do when you realize you are trapped in a story that you would have never written for yourself? How do you become who you were created to be?
Today we have Mike Flynn back on the show. He is the host of the Impact Entrepreneur podcast and has just released his new book, Master the Key: A Story to Free Your Potential, Find Meaning and Live Life on Purpose.
Mike is going to teach us the 4 elements of ownership, why me must learn to sit in silence with ourselves, and how to find our why. He also reveals the most important key to stepping into our destiny—to believe we are worthy of it.
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We're going to do something new for Thursday Throwdown. I receive a lot of emails from listeners, so in this episode I'm going to answer three questions from The Dad Edge mailbox. Send your email to [email protected] and your question might be featured in the next show!
Today we're going to cover three topics:
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Today’s show is about distraction. Tech can be our best friend and worst enemy. Our devices are no longer normal telephones. They’ve become our constant companions. Texts, emails, social media and loads of content compete for our attention every hour of the day. We are more distracted and overwhelmed than ever before. It not only affects our work life but can do irreparable damage to our family life as well. Will our kids grow up missing their parents who are always on their phone?
Cal Newport is a bestselling author and the father of three boys. You won’t find him on any social media, because he doesn’t have any. He the author of six books, including, most recently, the New York Times bestseller, Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World.
Cal is going to tell us how tech is engineered to keep us on our phones and steal time away from our lives. He also talks about how it affects our memory and anxiety levels. Cal teaches us what boundaries to set for screen time with our kids and gives us a 30-Day plan to step away from tech and rebuild our digital lives in a way that serves us.
Don’t waste another minute being distracted from the things that are most important to you.
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More kids are suffering from anxiety and depression than in any other previous generation. What is it like to raise kids who suffer from anxiety and depression? How can partners align without pointing fingers and being hurtful?
I went on the Parenting Survival Podcast to talk about the struggles I had parenting my son who has anxiety issues. Most dads are ill equipped to manage this problem, and a special skill set is required along with understanding and patience. I discuss how to use emotional validation and tactical empathy to connect and communicate with our kids as well as our wives. I also give advice on how ladies can better communicate with their men without putting them on the defensive.
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Today I’m having a conversation with former UFC fighter and bestselling author of Driven: The Unlikely Journey from Classroom to Cage. He is also a podcast host, a speaker, a husband and a dad. Charlie “The Spaniard” Brenneman is back on the show for his third episode!
We're going to have an authentic conversation about how to approach life as a constant learner, how to live by your core values, and how to find work that makes you come alive. We also discuss how to teach our kids extreme ownership, how to accept our fear sand take action in spite of them, and how to keep momentum while pursuing our goals even when we feel like giving up.
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We have a special show today! At least twice a month we invite one of our elite podcast guests to chat with our mastermind community. We've had Navy SEALs, pro-athletes, and NY Times bestselling authors. In this episode, we have former Top Gun instructor Robert "Cujo" Teschner back for an exclusive Dad Edge Alliance live Q&A with our members! Nearly 50 men participated in this virtual meeting.
Robert "Cujo' Teschner talks about the strategies outlined in his Amazon bestselling book, Debrief to Win. After listening to this show you will know how to create teams and plan in advance to win at home and in the workplace. You'll learn how to celebrate victories, praise your kids properly, and how to keep that no quit attitude no matter what adversity throws at you. You'll also learn how to get out of the lull of complacency and how to stop blaming and shaming yourself for your shortcomings. Get ready to apply Top Gun tactics to your life!
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Today's show is going to ramp you up! Jason Womack is an executive coach and bestselling author of Your Best Just Got Better and Get Momentum: How to Start When you're Stuck.
He's going to talk about why men are so good at starting things but not finishing them, and how to surround yourself with people who will instantly rocket you to where want to go. He also shares two of his forward thinking tools that will completely blow your mind and crush the limited view you have of your future.
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On Thursdays we like to interview every day dads. Today we talk to Dad Edge Alliance member, Ben. His mission was to become the best father he could be to his 6 year old son and a 4 year old daughter. He knew that they were picking up on what he did, not what he said, but sometimes he had a hard time being calm. After struggling with anxiety most of his life, he realized he needed to find a way to stay patient, especially when the kids were crying and things were stressful with work.
Ben had to go inward to face his flaws, to confront the truth about who he was and who he wanted to be. This unlocked the journey to living his life according to his values, to staying calm through the storm by accepting others as they are and letting go of the need to control.
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Warning: Dads, this episode is explicit. Make sure you’re not with the kids while listening.
Today, we are going to talk about how to become a Master Lover.
After we get married and have kids, we step into the role of dad. Our wives go into mothering mode, and we lose the all-consuming passion that we felt in the beginning of the relationship.
50% of couples are dissatisfied with their sex lives. 2/3 of couples feel they don’t have sex often enough. Why is it so hard to keep the excitement and attraction going?
Elisa Popescu is an Intimacy and Relationship coach and the creator of The Master Lover Program. She is going to tell us the 5 Core Needs of a Woman and how we can use them to ignite our wives’ sexual energy. She also identifies the 5 Core Needs of Men and how being aware of them will help us take the lead and get back to that primal bedroom experience we crave.
Don’t miss this hot show that will revolutionize the sex lives of both husbands and wives!
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Today is the 3 year anniversary for Thursday Throwdown and the 4th year anniversary since the launch of The Dad Edge/Good Dad Project Podcast! Thanks to all our fans for making the show such a wild success.
Today's show is about all you podcast listeners. We're calling out the content zombies.
What is a content zombie? Those of us who binge on podcasts, listen to tons of audiobooks, download all the free guides, read all the articles, and watch all the videos on how to improve our lives, but never put the information we learn into practice. Instead of choosing one idea and sticking with it, we just keep sucking up more content. No matter how good it is, it's useless to us because we are not implementing it.
In this episode, we talk about how to choose the best idea and start taking action so you can avoid stagnation and always be moving forward in life. Don't be a content zombie!
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Identity Theft is a huge problem that encompasses more than credit card and bank fraud. Your personal identifying information can be used by criminals to apply for loans in your name, commit prescription pill fraud, or work under your professional license. Worst of all, your child's information can be sold on the dark web and you may not find out till years later that their name has been destroyed.
Barry Russel from Legal Shield is here to talk about the five different kinds of identity theft, case studies of identity theft, and how we can protect ourselves and our families from identity theft. He also tells us what steps we need to take if we suspect our identity has been stolen.
This problem is rampant and out of control. It's not a matter of if. It's a matter of when. Arm yourself with everything you need to know about identity theft in this episode.
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Last month for Thursday Throwdown, we covered the 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage with Lance Salazar. Over 4 weeks, he broke it down into: The Individual, The Partnership, Becoming Friends, and Becoming Lovers. Today I'm going to talk about the marriage partnership in action.
I applied a quasi business-like approach to working with my wife to make sure we were on the same page when it came to responsibilities. This included a weekly meeting where we "frontloaded" and planned everything in advance from who was taking the kids to school to what we were having for dinner. We even synchronized our schedule in a Google calendar. Is it worth doing all this tedious planning? How does it benefit our marriage?
Listen and find out!
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Is work-life balance an unattainable myth? Most of us have tried everything to find out a way to evenly distribute our time and energy across work, life, and family. Many of us may have also discovered that this is one of the most difficult things to achieve. It almost seems impossible. But it’s not.
Today’s guest is James Sudakow. He is the father of four kids and the author of Out of the Blur: A Delirious Dad's Search for the Holy Grail of Work-Life Balance. He used to suffer from superhero syndrome, trying to be everything to everyone all the time. Eventually, he realized that he wasn’t showing up in the way that he wanted to at home or at work and came up with his own plan to analyze his behavior and change his ways.
In this episode, James Sudakow talks about the superhero syndrome and outlines the common traps we fall into when it comes to prioritizing our to do list. He gives practical solutions for breaking common habits that suck our time and energy and shows us that a sane, productive, fulfilling life is not as mysterious as we think. Behold, the holy grail of work life balance!
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Today we wrap up our 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage series with Lance Salazar covering the subject we've all been waiting for—sex. Sex is a big deal when it comes to marriage, but it's also the toughest thing to talk about.
This episode covers everything from the right way to flirt to how to leverage a woman's cycle.
Don't miss out on these secrets for becoming lovers in your marriage!
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Sometimes, the men who seem to have it all together are the ones who are suffering the most. Today’s guest John Kim was a licensed therapist and a life coach who was unfulfilled and hating life. A divorce forced him to begin looking inward and start his blog called The Angry Therapist to share his journey from being a boy to becoming a man.
John Kim’s just published his book I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck: An Everyman's Guide to a Meaningful Life in which he shares his "self-help in a shot glass" tips on how to step into manhood and live a life of purpose and passion!
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Remember when you and your spouse used to have fun together? You never ran out of things to talk about. You always had each other's backs.
Then adulting got in the way—kids, jobs, stress. Sometimes it feels like you have nothing to talk about anymore and the distance between you grows.
Lance Salazar is back on for Part 3 of our 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage Series. Today is devoted to becoming friends with your spouse again.
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
We are just beginning to understand the impact of video games on child development and behavior. Never has our culture been so immersed in gamification. Games like Minecraft and Fortnite have become part of social culture.
The American Academy of Pediatrics has documented that violent videos games cause children to show a greater propensity to be aggressive in real life. Frequent gaming also results in poor grades and a difficult relationship with parents.
So how can we protect our family from gaming addiction?
Today we are grateful to have Cam Adair from GameQuitters.com back on The Dad Edge. He is a former gaming addict who now helps kids and their parents find solutions for gaming addiction. He tells us how we can set healthy limits and boundaries around video games, and what activities we can implement into our daily lives to make sure our kids are fulfilled and less susceptible to compulsive gaming.
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We are dedicating this month to designing our relationships with our spouses. Lance Salazar cofounder of Legendary Couples and coauthor of The Miracle Morning for Couples is back for Part 2 of this series. He has broken down the 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage as:
Last week, we talked about putting marriage aside and developing ourselves as individuals first. This week we focus on the partnership, which includes opening up a dialogue about goals, roles, finances, and parenting.
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Today our show is about porn, sex, and masturbation addiction. This subject constantly comes up in The Dad Edge community and our episodes about pornography have massive downloads. In this age where we can watch it anytime and anywhere on our phone, it is becoming a huge problem. This crucial, controversial topic is not discussed enough because of the taboo, but porn addiction is real and we need answers.
J.K. Emezi is a sex and porn addiction coach for the last 9 years and is the founder of Elevated Recovery, where he helps men overcome sexually compulsive disorders. He tells us everything men need to know about porn—how it changes our brains, affects our relationships, and alters our perspectives. He gets real about how to tell if porn is a problem and what to do about it. He also tells us how we can prepare our kids for their inevitable encounter with porn, which is happening at startlingly earlier ages.
For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/205.
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50% of marriages end in divorce. Out of the half that stay together, 1/3 report being happy, 1/3 are “happy enough” and the other 1/3 are miserable. We actively plan our businesses, goals, and finances, but most of us keep our marriage on auto-pilot and expect it to maintain itself. Communication breaks down, resentment builds, and the love slowly dies.
We are dedicating this month to designing our relationships with our spouses. Lance Salazar from Legendary Couples is back on the show. He has just released The Miracle Morning for Legendary Couples, which he coauthored with Hal Elrod. He breaks down the 4 Elements of a Legendary Marriage for us:
Today, we talk about the first element—the individual. In order to be the best partners and parents, we have to work on ourselves first.
For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday148.
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You don't want to miss an excellent Simon Cowell impersonation by one of our guests! It was the funniest moment we've had yet!
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
What if you could have anything you want? Sounds crazy, right? Here’s the truth—you CAN have anything you want. The problem is we run away from our fears instead of running toward our dreams. We shrink from adversity, hard work, and the unknown. The worst part about it is, this is what we show to our children.
Our guest today is Tony Stephan. He is a registered dietician and nutrition coach who’s been featured on Fox News, NBC, Huff Post, and Women’s Health Magazine. His childhood was full of hardship and tragedy. Anyone would’ve understood if he felt sorry for himself and drifted through life, but his humble father gave him the secret to achieving what he thought was impossible. Tony Stephan’s not only going to tell us how to use this secret to get the health we want, but how to get anything we want in life.
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Today we are focusing on military fathers. Before we get into the show, we thank you for serving our country and providing a safe place for us to raise our families. This episode is for you.
Ben Killoy is a veteran and the host of the Military Veteran Dad Podcast and his mission is to bring every dad home. We're not just talking about being physically home. We're talking about the special challenges of being a military veteran dad.
Servicemen are gone for long periods of time. The normal world continues while they're deployed, and their families learn to live without them. Once military dads return home, they lose their uniform and go from being Superman to Clark Kent overnight. It's a huge adjustment that can leave a soldier lost as to who he is and wondering how to become part of his family, workplace, and community again.
Ben Killoy talks about how military fathers can readjust to family life, become great leaders in their circle of influence, and leave a lasting legacy for their kids.
For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday147.
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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Full Disclosure: We spend a bit too much time talking about thimble-sized condoms.
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Who knows how to rapidly assess, respond, and adapt under extreme pressure better than a Top Gun fighter pilot? Today we are super-psyched to have Top Gun instructor Robert “Cujo” Teschner on the show! He’s releasing his book called Debrief to Win: How High-Performing Leaders Practice Accountable Leadership. He is also a husband, a father of five children, and a cancer survivor.
You don’t get to Cujo’s level without doing the work and prepping yourself to win at all costs. He reveals that even though his military career was taking off, he was failing in other dimensions of his life. One day he realized that if he applied his elite training to his health and family, he would dominate across the board.
Listen to his Debrief to Win system to set yourself up for a successful mission no matter what the dogfight of life throws at you.
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It doesn't matter where you're at. It only matters where you're going. That is what Todd Stottlemyre says. He's a former 3-time World Champion Major League Baseball player and the author of Relentless Success: 9-Point System for Major League Achievement.
Todd's a good friend of The Dad Edge Alliance and returns for this live Q&A where he answers questions about failure, fatherhood, and how to make an impact in life. He confesses the mistakes he made, the adversity he's faced, and what compelled him to pass on what he has learned in his life in the form of a book.
Todd Stottlemyre is a dynamic guest. Prepared to get fired up and learn how to execute major league achievement!
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At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Today I’m joined by my two facilitators for The Dad Edge Summit live event, Jason MacKenzie and Jeff Bouwman. We recorded this episode live in The Dad Edge Mastermind community. The men online were not only able to listen but also interact with us on the podcast.
There are five dimensions of manhood. They are health (mental, physical, emotional, spiritual), work, our relationship with our spouse, our relationship with our children, and finances. In this live Q&A, we go through how we approached each dimension of manhood in last year’s Dad Edge Summit and how we will approach them in this year’s summit using techniques like appreciative inquiry, group exercises, and visualization.
At most personal development events, we are part of an audience. We sit and listen to speakers, but The Dad Edge Summit is different. It’s active, not passive. The intimate setting allows for deep self-exploration and fosters breakthroughs that change the lives of the participants. Listen to why The Dad Edge Summit is the ultimate personal development event for dads!
For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/202.
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We usually interview an alliance member on Thursday Throwdown, but this week’s going to be a little different. This is about being a human and fallible dad in the midst of some challenges with my 11-year-old son. He’s been caught in a few lies lately, and that’s the type of behavior a dad wants to get in front of right away.
Why do kids lie and what can dads do about it? How do we punish them without making them feel as if we only exist to make their lives miserable? How can we make our kids understand how difficult it is to be a parent? You’ll find out my personal experience in this episode.
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Here's what to look forward to in this episode
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
What’s the most important quality of a leader? How can we use leadership to become a more effective father, husband, and man? And how can we teach our kids to be responsible and accountable for their actions?
Our guest needs no introduction. Former US Navy seal officer Leif Babin. He coauthored the #1 NY Time bestseller, Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win, and The Dichotomy of Leadership with Jocko Willink. He is also cofounder of Echelon Front, a premier leadership consulting company that helps others build their own high-performance winning teams.
Leif Babin is going to tell us the most important quality of a leader—whether it’s in SEAL teams or at home—and his answer will surprise you. He’s also going to talk about how he applies combat rules to family life, how to detach from emotions to be more effective, and how to be proactive to find solutions and get things done.
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Our traditional mindset about money is one of scarcity. We believe we have to sacrifice and deprive ourselves of the things that give us the most joy. We budget the fun out of life. Money problems cause anxiety, depression, divorce, and even suicide. But in this day and age, our relationship with money no longer has to be this way.
Today we have an exclusive 90-minute Dad Edge Alliance Q&A with Monday's guest, Grant Sabatier. He has just released his book, Financial Freedom: A proven path to all the money you will ever need and is here to transform your perspective about finance and talk about optimizing your personal relationship with money.
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Today is our 200th episode of the main show. Thanks to all our listeners for downloading and leaving reviews! We have a spectacular guest for this milestone.
Finance is one of our most popular topics on The Dad Edge. We go through years of education and training for our careers, but we’re never taught about how to best use the money we make, and sadly, we rarely take active steps to find ways increase our income.
Grant Sabatier is the founder of MillenialMoney.com and is financially free at the age of thirty-five. He says that the “old school” narrative is obsolete and is with us to talk about his book Financial Freedom: A proven path to all the money you will ever need. Get ready for early retirement!
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This is our last show for January 2019 and we are shutting it down with an intense topic, surviving the dark night of the soul.
We all fight inner battles. Most of us struggle alone. Today, one of our Dad Edge Alliance team leads opens up about how alcoholism and depression led him to the brink of suicide. He lost his job, his house, his wife, and was bankrupt. He was overweight and unhealthy from the constant booze, cocaine, and cigarettes. But one day, something clicked and he decided to fight his way back to the light.
Listen to his story from hopelessness to the heroic triumph over the battle within.
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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Here's what to look forward to in this episode
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
What is it about some people that makes us gravitate toward them? Why is it that sometimes we just don’t like certain people? How can we acquire that X-factor that makes some men so likeable and how can we use that to enhance our relationships at work and at home?
Today’s guest is Arel Moodie, the host of the wildly popular podcast called The Art of Likeability. He says that increased likability improves your leadership and builds deeper relationships to create more success in all areas of your life. He demystifies likeability and tells us how to leverage it and instill it in our children. You do not want to miss the fascinating interview!
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Today is a first. We not only have a longtime Dad Edge Alliance member on Thursday Throwdown, we have his wife! If you have been thinking about joining The Dad Edge Alliance or attending our Dad Edge Summit this summer, but are wondering how your wife will feel about the idea, this interview with Javier and Suzanne will show you what happens when a man finds his tribe.
Javier and Suzanne have been together for 14 years and are parents. They had a fairy tale beginning, but once real life kicked in, intense fights and break ups left open wounds. Javier opens up about his struggles as a man. He tells us how The Dad Edge Alliance helped him grow and how the Dad Edge Summit catalyzed all he had learned into a clear vision for the future.
His wife, Suzanne, gets real about the marriage problems they had and how beneficial The Dad Edge Alliance and Dad Edge Summit have been to their relationship as a couple and a family.
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
Join Larry and JMack as they bring men from The Alliance LIVE and take their questions!
Here's what to look forward to in this episode
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Up to 95 % of the decisions we make are based on what we feel. This means that in almost every situation, we are reacting instead of responding. Think about decisions you’ve made based on fear, selfishness, or anger. How did they serve you? How did they affect those around you?
Today’s guest is the author of F*ck Your Feelings, Ryan Munsey. He is a speaker, coach, and the host of the Better Human Project Podcast. He tells us how to recognize our feelings, understand them, and look at them from an objective point of view. He teaches us how to remove emotions from the equation and act on our values instead. He also talks about reframing frustrating situations so that we can make the right choice in our behavior and become the leaders our families need us to be.
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"We have one shot in life to be a dad. Why not make it epic." If you're a regular listener, you will recognize that this is the intro for The Dad Edge Podcast. Our kids grow up fast and we get older every day. We can't afford to wait around and see if our dreams come true. We have to take action to create an epic life and we have to do it today.
That is why we held the first annual The Dad Edge Summit in St. Louis this past June and we are already planning the next one for 2019. It's a chance for likeminded men to join together and learn from each other as well as elite experts and coaches.
So what happens at The Dad Edge Summit? What are the unknowns? What do guys walk away with? Find out all about this personal development event exclusively for dads!
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Alliance Mastermind community. We've turned this into a live radio show and it's awesome!
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Somehow JMack's underwear preference comes up.
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Today there is so much pressure to find our why, to have a clear purpose in life. Some people seem to have it all figured out. We see them on social media living their dreams. Others think they know what they were meant to be, only to find out they’re unfulfilled. Those of us who haven’t defined a clear purpose yet seem to be looked down on (or maybe we just feel that way). Today’s guest tells us why you need to forget the pressure to find your why and how to let it reveal itself to you.
Dominick Quartuccio, bestselling author of Design Your Future: 3 Simple Steps to Stop Drifting and Take Command of Your Life, is back on The Dad Edge. He says that in looking too hard for our purpose in life, it eludes us. Most people don’t know what their destiny is, and that’s okay. He teaches us how to analyze our lives to become aware of what lights us up, and how to follow that passion to create a life that excites us.
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We only get one chance to be a dad, but life gets busy and sometimes we barely have time to think about what we're doing. It's easy to get wrapped up in work and shuttling kids off to sports and activities without mindfully taking action to level up when we can.
Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member Ray Matz on the show. He is the author of Game Changing Dads: Get Off The Bench and Into The Game! He is a husband and a father to three who talks about what we can do to get off the bench and take small actions for big improvements in our roles as fathers, husbands, and leaders.
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This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Facebook community
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Plus we talk about how JMack's 72 year-old dad walked 26 miles with him.
And, somehow, this came up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xB3rbzzE5K4
PLUS: We bring in the great and powerful Mason Hagner!!
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
At the start of the year, we are always thinking about goals like losing extra weight, eating healthier, and managing our finances more efficiently, but what about wildly important goals? Have you ever set a goal so challenging that it takes you beyond your limits and changes you forever?
Today’s guest is Mark Divine. He is a former Navy SEAL commander, founder of SEALfit, and author of The Unbeatable Mind. His book was the inspiration for The Dad Edge and he was the first big guest on the show. Mark Divine just completed a burpee challenge to raise money and awareness for veteran suicides, which occur at the horrifying rate of every 22 seconds. This wasn’t a one-time event, but a year-long commitment of doing 300 burpees every single day.
Mark talks about how he pulls through and even thrives on these kinds of challenges. It's not all grit. He uses breathing techniques, yoga, meditation, and intuition. You will be awed by the insights he shares in this interview. Save this episode to stay connected to your goals so that you can enjoy the fruits of your labor at the end of this year.
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Being a dad is the toughest and most important job in the world. For those of us who didn’t have a good dad to learn from, it’s even more difficult to navigate life. We didn’t have a proper role model, leaving us without a map to become a good husband and father. But breaking the chain of bad fathering is complex. Sometimes, no matter how hard we try, we see ourselves falling into the same behaviors we watched as a kid. We feel hopeless and infuriated.
There were no resources for men in previous generations, but we’re going to change that. The mission of the Dad Edge is to empower fathers to be their best. Today, we have a Dad Edge Alliance member on the show to talk about his experience being raised by a violent dad. He vowed not to become like his father, but he fell into the same patterns after his own son was born. He knew he had to stop the cycle for the sake of his son.
Listen to how he learned to grow beyond his upbringing to become a happy, confident, and resilient man.
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Welcome to 2019! This episode was recorded live in the Dad Edge Facebook community
Join Larry and Jason MacKenzie as they riff on questions from the Dad Edge communities!
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We also talk about the beauty of yoga pants.
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
Today we have Dr. Corey Allan on the show. He is a marriage and family therapist and the host of the Sexy Marriage Radio podcast, which has been going strong for seven years. Dr. Allan outlines most common problems couples bring to his office, including sex. In this conversation, we get granular about sex issues along with intimacy and pornography.
In his experience, Dr. Corey Allan estimates that that man has the higher desire for sex in 70% of marriages, but men tend to follow a script and don’t get creative with their wives. He tells us what we’re doing wrong when it comes to trying to get more sexual with our spouses and how to talk about it without putting them on the defense. He also talks about the 30% of marriages in which the woman has the higher desire for sex and how couples can manage that.
You may be surprised by his advice. Download this episode because you’ll want to listen to it again!
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We're breaking new ground on the Dad Edge Q&A! This was our first episode where we recorded via LiveStream in the Dad Edge Facebook community and it was a BLAST!
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Here's what to look forward to in this episode
At the end, we talk about the 2019 Dad Edge Summit! 2018 was life changing for the men that attended. 2019 is going to take things to an even higher level!
JMack's podcast is Inquisitive Souls. You can find it here. We live in the world our conversations create.
This is the final episode of Thursday Throwdown for 2018. This was the most successful year yet for The Dad Edge Podcast and The Dad Edge Alliance. We organized our first ever Dad Edge Summit. We received 150 iTunes reviews, 300 members in The Dad Edge Alliance membership, and thousands in our free Facebook group, a judgement and ego-free zone to share the challenges of being a man and a father. Thank you all for doing life with The Dad Edge!
We are going to bring you more amazing guests, content, and resources in 2019 to help you become your best self. We've seen men lose 100 pounds, save hopeless marriages, and rekindle connections with kids. Some guys have quit the jobs they hated to create businesses they love. Others have climbed out of impossible debt. How did they do it? By surrounding themselves with dynamic people, by having support from a group of likeminded men, and by being held accountable for their goals.
Is 2019 going to be the year you make things happen? Or are you going to wait another year?
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Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the expectations placed on you as a husband? Are you confused about what exactly your wife needs from you? Is your marriage in a rut but you don't know the first step to getting out?
Today's guest is Quentin Hafner, author of Black Belt Husband: A Marriage Book for Men. He's a couples counselor by day and a Brazilian jujitsu practitioner by night. Quentin has developed a methodology to becoming a great husband inspired by the martial arts belt system.
There's no need to feel hopeless when your marriage hits a wall, even if the sex has all but disappeared and you and your spouse at moments hate each other. Quentin Hafner breaks it all down for us in this episode!
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On Thursday Throwdown, we interview everyday dads. Today, alliance member John Williams is on the show. John used to suffer from lone wolf syndrome. He shouldered his burdens alone and kept his worries to himself. Even though he arrived at a good place in life, something was missing. He knew that a man is the sum of the people closest to him and that he was capable of more. This sparked the search for a tribe to surround himself with.
A rising tide lifts all ships, and by doing life with good men, John has stopped drifting and is now actively shaping his destiny. His wife Ashley also makes a surprise appearance and gives us the lowdown on the changes she has seen in John since he's had men to share the highs and lows with.
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We also talk about what a terrible idea it is to attach your value as a human being to anything outside yourself.
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Can work-life balance ever be achieved?
Our guest today is Dave Hollis, and he says work-life balance is unattainable. There is no such thing because our lives constantly fluctuate. Sometimes, our kids need us. At other times, our marriage requires more attention. Maybe our health has been neglected and we need to focus on taking care of our bodies. There will also be points in our lives where work demands all of our energy. Life is unpredictable and we must be prepared to adapt.
We are stoked to have Dave Hollis on The Dad Edge. Dave worked for Disney for 17 years selling movies like Star Wars and The Avengers to theaters, and he recently left his position to help his wife Rachel develop her business. Dave tells us why he quit what most people would consider a dream job and how he and his wife grow their media company while raising four kids. He also talks about their technique called ‘frontloading’ to optimize the structure of work, family, and fulfillment for an incredible life.
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As men, we often feel alone on our journeys—especially when it comes to parenting. Today's guest is Dad Edge Alliance member, Simon. He talks about how when his wife got pregnant he didn't want to have a boy because it would force him to confront issues he didn't want to deal with. The thought of becoming a parent baffled him, but once his son was born he realized that shedding his former self and embracing the parenting journey came naturally.
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How do we teach our kids to be resilient? How can we be encouraging and supportive while still building mental toughness? Wouldn't it be great to have a kid's perspective on how to do the right thing as a dad?
Today we have the most amazing guest ever on The Dad Edge, my ten-year-old son, Mason Hagner. He is releasing his book called Never Give Up No Matter What, an illustrated story about a situation where he wanted to give up, how he pushed past his desire to quit, and what he achieved by persevering even though it seemed that all hope was lost.
Mason's book is a wise lesson for both parents and kids. Listen to why he wrote his inspiring book and what advice he has for parents when their kids feel like giving up.
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Sometimes, life throws us a curveball. We might be cruising along, meeting all our goals, right on track for the future. Our family is thriving. Life is good, then suddenly we are launched into chaos.
That is what happened to our guest today, Gene Villeneuve. Gene is a Canadian who moved with his wife and kids to work in Paris, France. They were living the dream until two years ago when his wife was diagnosed with breast cancer.
Gene was on The Dad Edge previously to talk about how to love a spouse with cancer. He did the best he could to be a good husband and dad as his wife went through grueling treatments and surgeries. But just when his wife was recovering from her last surgery, Gene found out that his status with his job in France had changed and he would have 6 weeks to move his family back to Canada.
Gene tells us about how coped with this huge upheaval in his life and four of his personal strategies to keep calm through the chaos.
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What type of father did you have growing up? How does it affect you as the man you are today? If you had a great dad, you'll want to follow in his footsteps. But what if your dad didn't give you what you needed? Will you fall into the same pattern or choose to change it?
Today's dynamic guest is podcaster and founder of Boom Boom Performance, Cody McBroom. His dad was a workaholic who rarely spent time with the family, and Cody thought this meant his father didn't care. Whenever anything went wrong in Cody's life he would blame his dad.
As Cody got older, he began to notice that this grudge held him back in life. This inspired him to embark on a journey of self-improvement to reframe his life and transform his mindset.
Cody McBroom is now a successful, thriving entrepreneur and demonstrates the power of letting go of resentment toward your father or anyone else in your life.
He also shares his no-nonsense fitness and nutrition tips so you can build a foundation of health that will empower you to become your best self.
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Being a father and husband is full of challenges. Sometimes we feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to handle problems at home. We have the urge to get away. It's easier to keep busy with work and focus on providing rather than wrestling with the day to day issues of family life.
Today's guest is everyday dad, Jeremy Bennett. He has been married for nineteen years and is the father of two teenage boys. Jeremy is a firefighter who is passionate about his career. Jeremy traveled frequently and became involved in the world of firefighting as a leader. He lived for the adrenaline and action in his life.
As his sons grew up, Jeremy knew he wasn't present in his role as a father. His way of dealing with tough times was to leave. One day had a wake up call and realized he needed to find a way to balance work and family life. Now he tries to help other young firefighters do the same.
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Oh, and we answer some questions:
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Neuroscience research shows that 95% of what we think and feel falls below our conscious detection, meaning almost all of what we do is beyond our conscious control. Instead of creating our lives, we drift. We fill our time with distractions and bad habits instead of living to our full potential.
Our guest today is author, speaker, and executive coach Dominick Quartuccio. He is here to talk about his book Design Your Future: 3 Simple Steps to Stop Drifting and Take Command of Your Life. He outlines how to upgrade our environments, discipline ourselves efficiently, and rewrite the narrative in our heads so that we can live to our ultimate potential.
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Happy Thanksgiving to all the dads out there. What better topic to cover on Thanksgiving than gratitude? Practicing gratitude may sound like some New-Agey, woo woo fad, but scientific studies prove that being in a grateful state of mind can help you mentally, physically, and emotionally.
Today I go over some surprising statistics about how gratitude benefits your brain performance, hormone levels, body composition, and overall wellbeing.
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Oh, and we answer some questions:
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What's the best diet? Keto? Paleo? Low-carb? High-fat? What about fasting? What's the best workout? Today we are inundated with diet fads and extreme workouts. How do we know which nutrition and exercise program is best for us?
Today we have Josiah Novak. He's the author of Diets Suck: The Ultimate Blueprint on Enjoying Food and Getting Lean. Josiah gets real about fad diets and exercise. He talks about how we need to focus on our health before aesthetic results. He also discusses his own personal crisis and how his foundation of healthy habits helped him get through an emotionally difficult time.
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The holidays are here and so is the holiday stress. We have the financial strain, our children's high expectations, house guests, and maybe some family friction. Combine that with the fact that we eat more, drink more alcohol, and neglect ourselves. We're supposed to be enjoying the holidays, but instead we dread it.
But what if we approached holidays differently?
Today we talk about giving yourself grace during the holiday season. Men tend to be hyper-critical and beat themselves up over not being able to do everything perfectly. It's time to let that go. We're going to make mistakes. We're going to fall back into bad habits. We're not always going to be the perfect husband or father, and that's okay.
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Men are supposed to be strong and silent, right? We think if we work hard and provide we will be rewarded. This is what our culture has taught us, and this is what we think women want. But this idea is becoming obsolete in today's society.
The world has changed drastically when it comes to the roles of men and women. The patriarchy humans lived in for thousands of years has shifted. Women have evolved but men have stayed the same. It's time for us to catch up.
Today's guest, Robert Kandell, is the host of the Tuff Love podcast and the author of the upcoming book unHIDDEN: A Book for Men & Those Confused by Them. He gives us the ultimate guide to demystifying women and tells us how to connect to ourselves so that our women can have what they want most, which is all of us.
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What’s your vice? What relieves your stress? What do you turn to when times get tough? Drugs, alcohol, women, validation, gambling, validation, food? Even a healthy habit like working out can be unhealthy if it’s used to avoid people and escape reality.
Addictive behaviors drain our energy, suck our time, and prevent us from connecting with those we love. They keep us from operating at our true potential. This show is about becoming aware of destructive habits and breaking the addiction mindset. No matter what vice you have, today we'll give you new tools to crush it.
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This episode went off the rails immediately and we're not sure it ever recovered!
Here's what to look forward to in this episode:
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If we think of marriage as a game, we immediately strategize on how to win our spouses’ hearts the way we did the very first time. The problem is that our partners grow and change throughout life. To keep dating your spouse like you did in the past is not going to work anymore. As you will hear on our show today, the game of marriage is infinite. The goal is not to win, but to keep playing.
Today we have our fourth female guest on The Dad Edge. Her name is Cara Miller and she a developmental coach with a unique academic background, including wealth of insightful knowledge about how people connect and feel that sense of belonging that is so important for a rich, fulfilling life.
In this episode, Cara Miller tells how to initiate change in our relationships by dating our spouses for who they are today instead of who they were when we first met them. She reveals simple, actionable steps we can take to become experts on the people we love, including kids, friends, and coworkers.
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None of us likes to see our kids hurt or disappointed. We dads have the natural urge to keep them in a protective bubble, to make sure they are shielded from harm, but one of the biggest mistakes we can make as parents is to not let our kids make mistakes.
Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member Daniel Nolan on the show. He is a self-confessed helicopter parent in recovery and the creator of the Hard Love Project. Helicopter parenting is when we hover over our children to make sure nothing bad happens to them.
We're all guilty of this at times, but Daniel tells us how to raise resilient kids by challenging them to step out of their comfort zone and exposing them to life. He also talks about how we can design regular emotional, social, and physical challenges for our kids to boost their confidence and independence.
For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday130.
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Ryan Enk from CashflowDadlife is back on the show for Part 2 of our series on how to start investing in real estate with little money and no experience.
Ryan helps people achieve financial freedom in one year or less using creative, under-the-radar real estate investment strategies that have huge money-making potential.
Today we talk about how to conquer the fear mindset when real estate investing, how knowledge decreases our investment risk, and how to make the most of the unknown and untapped financial resources that we all have available to us.
Ryan also tells us about his new book, The 7 Day Real Estate Survival Blueprint. The moves Ryan shares in this episode might make your head explode a little bit, so make sure you download it to listen again later.
For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/186.
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In our previous episode, John Lanza, author of The Art of Allowance, shared some ideas about kids and allowance that probably made a lot of us scratch our heads.
He told us that the traditional practice of giving allowance for chores was not a good way to teach kids about managing money or work ethic.
He also explained what a breakthrough allowance is, and how as kids get older they should get as much as $100 in allowance!
These ideas may seem crazy at first, but they work in unexpected ways. Listen to what happened when I implemented these money-smart habits with two of my kids.
For the show notes and links in this episode, go to gooddadproject.com/thursday129.
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JMack's podcast is Inquisitive Souls. You can find it here. We live in the world our conversations create.
What's the right way to teach our kids about money? How do we create a system for chores and allowance that works? How do we show them to save and spend wisely? Today's show is all about how to raise money-empowered kids, and you might be surprised at the tips listed in this episode!
John Lanza is the author of the book The Art of Allowance and the host of a podcast with the same name. He tells us what most dads are doing wrong, like that age old system of giving allowance for chores. He also talks about what is the appropriate amount to pay kids by age, how to teach them to distinguish between needs and wants, and the three core money-smart habits they need to start learning from age five.
For the show notes, links, and sponsor offers mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/185.
Today we talk to a man who never wanted to be a dad. The thought of fatherhood terrified him. He thought so little of himself, he didn't think he was even worthy to procreate. He thought that when his time was done on Earth, there should be no evidence that he even existed.
This man's name is Mark Globowsky, and he is the host of the Strength Through the Struggle podcast. His beliefs of unworthiness and inferiority were the result of his upbringing with a physically and emotionally abusive father. But Mark stepped boldly into the dark, confronting his issues head on. He surrounded himself with the right people, men who showed him the truth about himself.
Now Mark has someone to call him 'daddy' for the rest of his life. Becoming a father was the best thing that could've ever happened to him. He shares how we can mine our pain and our past, finding strength through the struggle to become the man that we decide we want to be.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday128.
Join Larry and Jason MacKenzie (JMack) as they riff on questions from the Dad Edge communities!
About halfway through the episode, JMack's mic goes all Darth Vader but we're keeping these Q&A's live and unfiltered.
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We all go through dark times in our lives. Whether it's financial difficulties, marital tension, struggles with our children, or failures in our work, we may sometimes wonder if we're simply a burden to all those around us.
Today's guest is Adam Schafer. He is a host on Mind Pump, one of the biggest podcasts on iTunes. Adam is not a dad, but he was the son of a father who committed suicide. Adam was seven years old when his dad shot himself, and the tragedy created a shock wave that still reverberates in Adam's life today.
Children whose fathers commit suicide have a 50/50 chance of being suicidal themselves. Adam struggled with isolation and depression because of the impact of his father's suicide. He shares how he uses times of darkness to forge himself into the man he is today.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/184.
Our previous episode was called A Father's Last words and it was something TDE has never done before. Brian Froneyberger bravely and generously gave of the perspective of a father who was dying of cancer. It was a true privilege to listen to his wisdom about what really matters to a person who knows their time is running out. Tragically, he passed away between the recording and release of the show and his funeral service was held the very day his episode came out.
Having this conversation with Brian forced things into perspective. We often get frustrated with our kids. We get irritable with our spouses. We stress about work. Most feel like we're under a burden of obligations, but we have the choice to turn this around. Brian would give anything to be here having the problems we are facing right now.
It's not what happens to us, it's how we respond to it. We can be the calm in the middle of the storm if we don't obsess over life's trivial problems. When we're feeling stressed, depressed, or hopeless, we must ask ourselves, is worrying really worthy of our precious time? Wouldn't it be better to focus our emotions on what really matters in life? Shouldn't we be giving our energy to the things that we love instead of those we hate?
For the show notes and the links in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday127.
Our guest today is Brian Froneyberger. He battled stage 4 incurable head and neck cancer. Ten days after recording this show, Brian lost the fight and passed away. He was only forty-six years old. He left behind a wife, a son, and a daughter.
What you will hear today are a father's last words. They are a gift to all of those who listen. No man knows how much time he has left. Brian bravely opens up about facing death, how it puts life in perspective, and what really matters most before the last goodbye.
His family is now coping with the loss. They are also in trouble financially.
The Dad Edge Alliance has donated $1000 to their Go Fund Me campaign. You can help too by clicking the link in the show notes.
Go to gooddadproject.com/brian.
We all go through ups and downs, and it's easy to focus on whatever is going wrong in our lives, but being stressed and worried all the time works against us. A negative mindset literally makes us dumber! But we can shift our attitude by appreciating what we do have going for us.
Today we have on new Dad Edge Alliance member, Dwayne. He came into the group at an all-time low. His marriage was in trouble, he was in debt, and he was depressed. As he began to target all aspects of his life in the alliance, he also adopted the habit of looking at all that was going right in his life.
Within a few months, Dwayne has made incredible progress. His marriage is in a good place, he paid off 6K in debt, and is smiling again. Discover the other life-changing benefits of practicing gratitude in this short episode!
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday126.
How come we’re not happy when we get what we want? So many of us believe that if we just made more money, if we got that promotion we wanted, or if we lost that last ten pounds we’d be happy. Then sometimes we finally achieve our goals and realize we’re still unfulfilled. This is because we bring 'us.' We always have ourselves and our limited beliefs.
Today we have a live Dad Edge Alliance Q&A session with Gary John Bishop. His book How to Unf*ck Yourself just made the NY Times bestseller list. He has been on our show twice before and was a speaker at our Dad Edge Summit.
This episode is in-your-face and explicit. Some of it you may not like hearing, but Gary John Bishop will tell you (in his Shrek-like Scottish accent) how to come to terms with your own bullsh*t so that you can be relentless in executing your goals while also finding the joy in where you are, here and now.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/183.
Every man is fighting something in his life. It could be a problem at work, an issue in a marriage, or a dilemma with our kids. It might even be something physical, mental, or emotional. But most of us were raised with the "suck it up" mentality. We hold in all our frustrations and struggle alone.
Thursday Throwdown is our show centered on relatable dads. Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member Philipp Lomboy on the show. He is an everyday dad of four girls and he is the host of a podcast called Everyday Fighter.
Philipp was a guy who never talked and always avoided conflict, especially when it came to his wife. He shares how making the choice to be more open has changed his life and inspired the idea for his new podcast.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday125.
Why would we bring on a dating coach when most of our listeners are married? If we're not mindful in our marriage, it will fizzle out. After so many years with the same person, we get comfortable, complacent, and lazy. Whenever we do try to do something new, our wives may reject us and we shut down.
Today we have dating coach and relationship expert Spencer Burnett on the show to talk about how to make your wife fall in love with you again and again. He shares his secrets on pursuing a woman confidently and from a place of service for better communication, intimacy, and attraction.
Married, divorced, and single dads will walk away from this show with a game plan for the relationship they want with the woman they truly desire.
For the show notes, links, and exclusive offers mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/182
Do you know who you are? Do you know what it is you’re really chasing? How will you feel about your life on your deathbed?
Many of us are not living life to the fullest. We're stuck in the daily grind, just trying to keep our heads above water. Society tells us what we should and should not be. Inside we know that our dreams are passing us by and we suffer in silence, sometimes turning to vices.
Today we talk to longtime Dad Edge Alliance member Ryan Greenwood. He talks about how he has transformed his life with the help of accountability and tough love from his tribe. He has advice for men struggling alone so they can stop grinding and start living.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday124.
If you are the coach or parent of a youth athlete, this episode is an absolute game changer. I invited former NFL player Anthony Trucks to my home in St. Louis to do a live Q & A session with dads, kids, and coaches to answer questions about adversity, perseverance, and practice.
Whether it’s football, dance, baseball, soccer, martial arts or track and field, Trucks gives us amazing insights on how to coach the right way and help our kids optimize their mental game for greatness.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/181.
We have no idea what we're up against when it comes to the longterm effects of technology. With the viral popularity of games like Fortnite and gaming disorder being declared a mental health condition, video game addiction has become a hot topic. That's why we had Cam Adair on The Dad Edge for the past two episodes to talk about how devices affect our brains and what we can do to mitigate unhealthy habits when it comes to our digital lives.
Cam's interview inspired me to make some changes in my own home when it came to devices. With four young boys, it was a challenge. At first, life without tablets and video games was miserable for all of us. I also realized that I was part of the problem and that I had to work on my habits to set an example to my family.
Listen to what happens when you take away your kids' devices and how it can change your family life for the better.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday123.
Technology is changing our lives and habits more quickly than ever before in history. We live a life of instant gratification and constant entertainment. Smart phones, tablets, and computers enrich our lives in many ways, but they can also be overstimulating and keep us from interacting with the real world. What can we do for ourselves and our families to prevent video game, porn, and social media addiction?
We had Cam Adair on last week to talk about the epidemic of gaming disorder. This topic is so important and we as a society are just beginning to understand the implications. And it's not just video games. Pornography and social media can alter our brain chemistry in the same destructive ways. We asked Cam back to do a live Q&A session with the Dad Edge Alliance so real dads could share their concerns about raising kids in the digital age.
For the show notes, links, and resources for this episode go to gooddadproject.com/180.
Seven years ago, Pastor Joe Burhnam spent the night in a jail cell after getting arrested in a prostitution sting. He was released cold and alone in an unfamiliar part of town. Joe walked home demoralized, knowing his marriage and career were over. He was a sex addict who had been living a double life, deceiving his friends, family, and community. He spent years crafting a façade and no one knew who he really was ... until now.
Today, Joe is in recovery from sex addiction and can tell his story without shame. He shares his experience battling his demons and has hopeful advice for men operating alone in a dark place.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday122.
This is a hugely important episode. Video games are part of almost every kids life, but there is a difference between playing for fun and using them to replace real life. Games like Minecraft and Fortnite have become part of our popular culture and make up a large part of kids' social lives.
According to the World Health Organization, video game addiction is now an official mental health condition. It changes a child's brain chemistry and can lead to depression and isolation.
In this episode, TEDx speaker Cam Adair talks about his experience with gaming disorder. He also talks about why video games are so addictive, how to recognize the signs of video game addiction in our kids, and how parents can set healthy boundaries for gaming.
For the show notes, links, and resources mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/179.
No matter how hard we try to separate home life from our jobs, work stress affects our families. Children pick up on all our cues and can become frightened if they see us behaving in ways they don't understand. How do we release emotions safely in front of the kids?
Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member Jon McKinney on the show. He is an officer in the Royal Canadian Mounted Police and deals with intense emotions and extreme stress on a daily basis. As a single dad, he has his own challenges to contend with. And as a cop, he also has to help resolve other people's personal problems.
Jon gives us an intimate look at how he demonstrates bravery, perseverance, and resilience to his kids while also showing them that it's okay to breakdown, let your emotions out, and share them with other people.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday121.
We know our kids are going to fail and that they're going to be disappointed. Pulling the positive lessons from failures can help kids use losses as stepping stones to greatness. But what happens when we as fathers fail?
Today we have Frankie Edgar on the show for a return visit. He was the UFC Lightweight Champion of UFC 112 and is a husband and a dad.
Frankie risks crushing failure every time he steps into the ring. Naturally, it's no fun losing a fight, but he knows that his kids are watching. Listen to how Frankie sets a champion's example of pulling the positive from failure and how he draws the line between family and fighting.
For the show notes and exclusive sponsor offers mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/178.
We have two choices when we become dads. Are we going to be like our fathers? Or are we going to try to be different. Some men have a good sense of what a good dad should be by watching their fathers. Other men are trying to break a pattern of bad fathering, whether it be addiction, anger, or complete absence.
On today's short show we have Dad Edge Alliance member Andy Nelson. He is a divorced dad who admits that he was not there mentally for his kids or their mother. He knew he had to break the pattern of his father's parenting and began to proactively improve his relationship with both his kids and his ex-wife.
Andy tells us how he developed a framework to change his life and how he succeeded by focusing on his goals instead of running away from what he didn't want.
For the show notes, links, and to apply for the Dad Edge Alliance, go to gooddadproject.com/thursday120.
Behold the dadbod. How did we get this way? The stubborn belly fat that doesn’t go away no matter how hard we work. The muscle mass that's harder to maintain than it used to be. We don’t have the same energy and stamina we used to. Maybe things have even cooled off in the bedroom.
Alex Van Houten is the founder of Defining Dadbod. He’s going to talk about how our chemistry changes after we become fathers and how to define the dadbod by optimizing our male hormones for fat loss, energy, and libido.
For the show notes and his exclusive free offer, 16 Weeks To Optimizing Your Hormones, go to gooddadproject.com/177.
Fatherhood is imperfect. It's messy. It's crazy, but one thing we need to keep in mind is that our kids are watching us. The example we set means more than whatever we tell them. That's why it's crucial to always keep our word and be accountable for our mistakes.
Thursday Throwdown is our short show with everyday, relatable dads. Today, Dad Edge Alliance member Joe Courtney talks about teaching kids to take ownership.
For the show notes, links, and the application to The Dad Edge Alliance go to gooddadproject.com/thursday119.
Our financially-focused shows are among the most popular, and today's show will blow you away. Most of think we have to wait till retirement to enjoy life. In the meantime, we might be slaving away at a job we hate or one that isn't providing us with enough income for the lifestyle we've dreamed of.
But what would you do if money didn't matter?
Today's guest is Ryan Enk from CashflowDadlife.com. He's going to talk about passive income real estate investing, and you do not want to pass up this show!
Even if you don't have any savings, Ryan reveals the secrets of using other people's money to invest in real estate, scaling that business upwards, and being able to quit your job in 12 months!
For the show notes, links, and the exclusive free passive income real estate training offer go to gooddadproject.com/176.
Do you go at life alone? If you're like 99% of the men out there, you probably are. Most men bear the weight of the world on their shoulders and tell everyone who asks that they're "good" and "fine". They don't want to ask for advice or help because their afraid of looking weak.
But the dangers of perfection are real and the stress that accumulates from internalizing our fears and worries seeps into everything we do as men, husbands, and fathers.
Thursday Throwdown is our short show with everyday, relatable dads. Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member Brian Auten on to share his experience.
He decided that enough was enough. Holding in negative emotions put him in a bad mood with his wife and kids. Pretending everything was okay made his life stagnant. He needed help, and he needed to be proactive about getting it.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday118.
So many men are married and miserable. The worst part about this is we accept it. We think that's the way marriage is supposed to be. We can blame it on our spouse. We might say its because of our work, the kids, or the society we live in, but rarely do we look at ourselves.
Whether your marriage is in a rut, a rough patch, or a full-blown crisis, today's episode will change everything you thought you knew about being married.
Marriage Coach Larry Bilotta is our guest. He is going to shift your perspectives about the core problems between husbands and wives using the movie The Matrix as an analogy. You will be shown the hidden dynamics of relationships and how you alone can save your marriage by changing your programming.
Will you take the blue pill or the red pill?
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/175.
Life is full of challenges. We all will go through times of adversity. If we're going through them alone, we might feel hopeless and cope in negative ways. How can we get away from a fearful victim mentality, and instead, use problems as opportunities?
Thursday Throwdown is our short show where we feature regular dads. Today we have Jason Palmer as our guest. He has faced adversity and loss, including the death of a child.
At first, he reached for alcohol to ease the pain, often drinking a whole bottle of whiskey just to be able to sleep at night. But deep down inside, he knew that he was meant for more. Life didn't have to be this way.
Then Jason discovered our episode about giving up alcohol. It inspired him to give up drinking and join the Dad Edge Alliance.
He tells us how he took ownership of his life and trained himself to look at his problems as opportunities and to move from fear-based to solution-based thinking.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday117.
Are you afraid to go first? We usually like to sit back and watch someone else go first, whether it’s being the first to raise our hand, the first to try something we’ve never done before, or the first to speak up and say what everyone else is afraid to say. But when we become dads, what happens if we continue to let others go first? What does that show our kids?
One of the lessons we want to teach our kids is leadership. We are the leaders of the family and it is our duty to go first, even if we fail. Today we have Kyle Ferris on the show. He’s one of our members from the Dad Edge Alliance and attended our Dad Edge Summit last month. He shares his insights on how to be a leader to your kids by going first.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday116.
Traver Boehm has a story unlike anything you’ve ever heard. He put himself through an experience most of us would find absolutely terrifying. This interview will inspire you to dig deep inside yourself and look at life in a completely new way.
Traver Boehm is an author, speaker, and founder of the Man Uncivilized Movement, which aims to inspire millions of men to balance their primal and divine masculine traits. He is not a dad or a husband at the moment. He was previously married with a child on the way, but everything came to a crushing end.
This sent Traver on a wild and painful physical, mental, and spiritual journey to discover who he truly was inside and what it means to be the masculine, the man, and the mountain.
For the show notes, links, and sponsor offers mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/173.
Why is it that men tend to shut down and hide instead of asking for help? As the founder of The Dad Edge Alliance, I have talked to thousands of men, and I can tell you we all struggle with the same issues. We suffer physical, mental, and emotional problems. We deal with affairs, addiction, fear, anger, identity crises, and major life changes. We are not alone in life's challenges. So why do we insist on pretending we’ve got it all under control? Today I’m going to share 7 reasons why men don’t ask for help, and I will tell you right now that they are all lies.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday115.
Most of us say that our marriage is a priority, and usually it starts off well, but then the kids come. Time alone with our spouses becomes rare. Our children's needs must constantly be met. Life gets hectic and patience runs thin. The happily ever after we imagined can turn into a nightmare.
This is an episode all dads and moms need to hear. Today we have our first couple on The Dad Edge podcast. Lance and Brandy are the creators of Legendary Couples. Their marriage deteriorated after the birth of their two daughters, very nearly ending in divorce. But they took action to save their marriage and now teach other couples how to cultivate that legendary love again.
For the show notes, links, and special offers from Legendary Couples go to gooddadproject.com/172.
Integrity means being a whole person and making sure that our words, actions, and vision are all on the same trajectory toward a meaningful life. As we get older, we tend to lose the innate integrity and curiosity that we were born with. We forget about the dreams that inspired us. We often fall completely out of alignment with that spark in our lives.
Thursday Throwdowns are our short episodes about the everyday dad who is doing heroic things to optimize his life. Today we have one of our Dad Edge Alliance members on to talk about tapping into integrity and curiosity. You will walk away from this show knowing exactly what it means to be whole and how to stay true to yourself through life's ups and downs.
For the show notes and links in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday114.
Do you wince when you hear the word budget? It's about as painful as the words diet or jail, but if you don't budget for your goals now, you will never be able to enjoy life to the fullest and neither will your family. The majority of families are living paycheck to paycheck. Minor emergencies quickly send most people into debt. It's no wonder that money issues are the number one cause of divorce.
Jesse Mecham is our guest today. He is the founder of YNAB (You Need a Budget) and is here to share his no-nonsense takeaways that will help you effortlessly budget money for everything you need and want in life. This show will outline the easy and effective way to budget for your goals so that you can live with less stress and make the most of the money your work so hard for.
For the show notes, links, and exclusive offers mentioned in this episode, go to gooddadproject.com/171.
How should you approach your wife when you're in crisis? When we men go into crisis, we have a tendency to shut down. We don't want to appear like we don't have it all under control. We don't want our spouses to worry. Some might think that sharing all of our feelings of anxiety, stress, anger, or overwhelm with our spouse is the logical alternative, but this isn't the answer either. There's a fine line between what and how we as husbands should share bad news with our wives.
Today, we have Alliance Member Alex Vanhouten on the show. He is the creator of Defining Dadbod, which aims to create a legacy of health and fitness for our kids. But he wasn't always an entrepreneur. A few months ago, Alex was a successful employee who terminated from his job without any warning. Alex's wife is a stay-at-home mom and he didn't know what to do as the sole support for a single-income household. He tells us what he did before explaining his crisis to his wife to make sure that they both could cope with it in best way possible.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday113
Why do many of us fathers neglect our health? There are two main reasons. The number one reason is guilt. We feel bad for taking time away from work and family to spend on ourselves. The second reason is money. We would have to spend more to eat healthier, join a gym, or hire a personal trainer.
But not making our health a priority is the biggest disservice to ourselves and our families.
In this episode, we have a panel discussion with Dr. Adrian Chavez of Your Nutrition Prescription and Chris Hughes from The Driven Dad. They have put together a fully-customized 8-week fitness and nutrition bootcamp for dads. We also talk to members Rashad and Mickey about what made this bootcamp unique and how it has transformed their health and their lives!
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/170.
Who are we supposed to be in relationships? As men, no one gives us a manual on how to communicate, be emotionally available, and give our spouse or partner what they need.
Today we have Dad Edge Alliance member Ed Dillon on the show. He is a single father of four who's had two failed marriages.
Ed spent years wondering why his relationships, including the ones with his kids, were falling flat.
He talks about what mindset shift took place that shed light on all he was doing wrong and how this lead to some of the most profound moments of connection in his life.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode, go to gooddadproject.com/thursday112.
Emotions like fear and anger lead to shortsightedness and poor decision-making. How can you gain ultimate mastery of your emotional state?
Andy Stumpf is a former Navy SEAL who executed hundreds of combat operations all over the world. He is now a sought after public speaker and the host of the Cleared Hot podcast. Andy is an avid base jumper who holds the world record for having flown more than 18 miles in a wing suit. He is also a dad.
Listen to his amazing story—from the Navy SEALs, to base jumper, to father—and how he keeps his cool through it all!
For the show notes, links, and sponsor offers mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/169.
Most of us are resistant to change. It can cause feelings of helplessness, anxiety, and overwhelm. As men, we automatically internalize our stress, shutting our spouses out. We’re afraid of appearing weak to those who look up to us. But, this is a destructive habit that damages our mental and physical health. It also creates a rift in the family that can lead to permanent consequences.
Today we talk to Dad Edge Alliance member Joe Rico about embracing change as a man. He tells us how a major shift in his life almost brought him to his knees, and where he discovered sources of strength to empower himself in the face of uncertainty.
Money, money, money, money. Today, we’re talking money. Episodes on finances are always popular on The Dad Edge podcast so we know you’ll want to hear today’s guest.
Brad Barrett is the cohost of wildly popular podcast ChooseFI (Financial Independence). ChooseFI is a little over a year old and already has millions of downloads. The show has started a financial independence movement that is taking root and spreading across the globe.
The best part is that Brad Barrett is not going to bog us down with numbers and complicated strategies. Instead he gives us super simple, actionable tips that we can use today. He shares hacks on how to save more money, how to shield ourselves from taxes, and gives us specific funds to invest in to avoid the fees on our retirement that compound to massive amounts in the future.
Get off the couch and claim your financial independence!
For the show notes, sponsor offers, and links mentioned in this episode, go to gooddadproject.com/168
Sometimes we don’t realize how much our attention means to our spouses and kids. After work, we might only get a few hours with our families. What’s the best way to spend what little time we have with them?
In this short episode, I talk to my son Ethan who gives us a kid’s perspective on just how important time with dad is. He also shares simple, straightforward advice for hardworking dads on how to achieve work-life balance and prioritize their free time with their families.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday110.
Brace yourself. This show is going to be like a punch in the face, but it's a punch in the face that we men need.
We are born warriors with big dreams for our lives, but many of us are getting beat down and overwhelmed. We suffer silently and alone, with no idea how or if we can break out to become the man we want to be.
In this explicit episode, I talk to Garrett J. White. He is the founder of Wake Up Warrior and Warrior Week. He is also the author of the upcoming Warrior Book. With his stripped-down, brutal delivery, Garrett tells us how to get past the lies we tell ourselves to break free from the person we used to be so that we can get out of our own way and finally step into our own greatness.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/167.
As men and providers, we have a tendency to attach our identity to our work. We spend so much of our time and energy making a living and building our career or business, that it's hard to see ourselves outside that role. But we are not one dimensional men.
There are many dimensions to who we are and neglecting these other parts of our life creates imbalance and a sense of incompleteness. In this episode, I go over how to optimize five main dimensions of manhood.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday109.
What you’re going to hear today will hit you right in the chest and speak to your soul. You might question the direction of your life, and that’s a good thing. Beneath the negative events portrayed in the media, there is a modern revolution of the masculine heart taking place. Do you feel a call to adventure and a longing for a deeper, more fulfilling life?
Today we give you a sneak peek behind the curtains of one of our Dad Edge Alliance group calls. Bestselling author of Wild at Heart John Eldredge agreed to do a live Q&A with our guys. This is an emotional show full of incredible wisdom and answers to questions we might not have even known we had. Don’t miss this special episode of the Dad Edge Podcast!
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The sudden death of a spouse is one of the worst tragedies imaginable. What's even more painful to think about is the effect it would have on our children. How do we teach our kids how to cope with grief?
Today we have one of our Dad Edge Alliance members Scott Tewell on the show. His wife and daughter were in a serious car accident in January of 2017. His daughter made it. His wife did not.
Scott is now a single dad raising a 13-year-old boy and a 10-year-old girl. He talks about how he's helping his kids cope with the loss of their mother and how he's managing to rebuild himself as a man and father after such incredible heartbreak.
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday108.
Do you ever feel the urge to declutter your life? Have you ever found yourself stretched too thin? Do you sometimes feel overworked and underutilized? Are you frequently busy without getting any closer to your goals?
Most of us in this day and age feel perpetually busy and overwhelmed, with little energy and time to spend on the things in life that matter the most to us.
Today we have a very special guest. Greg McKeown is the NY Times bestselling author of Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less. He shares astonishing insights on how family life has changed throughout the centuries, how our behavioral systems impact future generations, and how to design our lives to focus on essentials so we can stay connected with our long-term visions. You'll want to save this epic episode!
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The Dad Edge podcast usually features the most inspirational thought leaders of today, but our listeners have also been telling us that they enjoy our shorter episodes interviewing the everyday-dads who are trying to grow.
Today we have Nick Elkins on the show. He has been a long-time member of The Dad Edge Alliance and is our finance guy. He is a 30-year-old happily married father of three. He talks about how he used habit stacking to reach his goals of losing weight, managing anger, and growing his finances so he can retire in his 40s!
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday107.
Drinking alcohol is ingrained in our culture. It's socially acceptable and even expected, but sometimes we wonder if we're drinking too much and what life might be like if we eliminate alcohol from our lives.
Today we have Steve Galatioto on The Dad Edge podcast. He has just published his book Sobered Up, So Now What?: 3 Keys To Staying Sober & Succeeding At Life.
Listen as he tells us how quitting drinking can improve your body, mind, and soul, enabling you to become a better dad and more successful person.
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If you could improve just one part of your family life, what would it be? As the head of our households, we often feel maxed out and have nothing left to give during our downtime. What if you knew that with a few small changes, you can master intentional living as a family and completely change the atmosphere of your home life?
In today's show, we have Chris from our Dad Edge Alliance. He grew up in LA hanging out with gang members. Now he's a husband and a dad to a son and a daughter. He tells us how he disconnects from work and makes every day special for his family.
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Jake Herbert is back on the show! He was an Olympic Wrestler whose life dream was to win the gold medal in the 2016 Olympics. My boys and I were there to see the trials. Sadly, his Olympic dream didn’t come true.
It was a crushing blow, but now Jake’s smiling. He's got a baby on the way, a new career, and a mission to leave every room better than when he found it. He talks about how he reinvented himself after the disappointment of a lifetime and shares his 4 ridiculously simple steps to knocking out goals one by one.
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What happens when we've never been tested by life? If we've never experienced illness, tragedy, death, or war? How do we know how if we have the mental toughness to face adversity?
Today, I have one of our Dad Edge Alliance mastermind program graduates and our first team lead Brad Ritter on the show. In his thirties, he was by all definitions a success. He had a big house, a great marriage, healthy kids, and a rock solid job. But he felt something was missing. He had never been tested by life and he wanted to find out what he was made of.
Brad talks about how he endured SEALFIT Kokoro training, the world's premier training event for forging mental toughness. He also talks about his Dad Edge Alliance call team nicknamed the Fight Club, and how he has helped the men in his group develop and grow.
For the show notes and links in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday105.
Jeff Hemmer is the author of the book Man Up!: The Quest for Masculinity. He is also a pastor, a husband, and the father of six children.
We don’t’ usually do spiritual topics on the podcast, but whether you’re spiritual or not, you will get a lot of value from today’s show. We’re going to talk about what it means to be a spiritual leader in your house and go beyond the “Sunday School” versions of the Bible to explore the true masculinity of Jesus.
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What does the word 'budget' bring to mind? It's about as fun as the word 'diet.' We think of sacrifice. We think of depriving ourselves. We think of boredom. But what if you could change your money mindset so that living on a budget is something that you and your family can be passionate about?
It's possible, and in this episode of Thursday Throwdown, we have one of our Dad Edge Alliance members on to tell us how he paid off a huge debt and how he and his family have changed their money mindset so that they enjoy budgeting for their financial goals together.
For the show notes and links in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/thursday104.
Armando Cruz is back on The Dad Edge podcast! He is the author of The Legacy Code: Modern Man's Guide To Escape Obscurity & Live A Life Unleashed, a performance coach, and a father of three.
In this episode, he talks about why building a legacy is about much more than leaving wealth behind for your children. He also gives us his five key steps to purposefully creating a legacy that inspires ... starting today!
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All of us want to be a perfect father, but things never turn out the way we expect. Even for those men actively striving to become a better dad, perfection eludes us. Holding ourselves to this impossible standard leads to frustration and hopelessness. It might make us feel like giving up altogether.
Today, we have Dad Edge Alliance member Sam on the show. He's from Sydney and was part of the Australian Special Forces. He's married and is the father of three boys. He lost his band of brothers when he left the military and live and work in Abu Dhabi. Sam was desperately searching for guidance in his relationships with his wife and kids. He didn't consider himself a great dad and reached a point where he was just going to accept it.
Today he talks about how perfection was his enemy and how he moved past it to grow as a husband and a father.
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The Dad Edge podcast is honored beyond words to have John Eldredge on the show. He is the author of bestselling book Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul and is here to talk about our core needs as men and our constant quest for validation.
He also shares life-changing insights on how to become a student of our child's heart and interpret their experiences for them so that they can become happier, stronger adults.
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Steve Birch weighed 250 pounds and was on cholesterol and blood pressure medication. At Thanksgiving, he realized he was sweating, not because it was hot, but because of his extra body fat. It got to the point that when he looked at family pictures, he was appalled at the sight of himself.
Now Steve is 30 pounds lighter, off his medication, and feels better than ever. How did he finally reach his health goals? With the help of the Dad Edge Alliance. Doing life with other likeminded men upped the accountability factor, giving him the motivation to stay on track on not give up.
Listen to how Steve Birch is becoming not only a better man and father, but a healthier one.
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Hal Elrod is a best selling author, international keynote speaker, ultra-marathon runner, world class success coach, and most importantly, a father. He is a man who made it his life's mission to reach his true potential. Hal seemed absolutely unstoppable. Then he was diagnosed with cancer.
In this episode, Hal Elrod reveals what it was like to face death head-on, what tools he used to heal himself, and how he and his family got though it.
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Henry David Thoreau wrote, “the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.” This was in 1854, but it is now truer than ever before.
Today, I have John Bauer on the show to talk about the power in sharing your struggle. John became a Dad Edge Alliance member in the summer of 2017 and has since grown in all aspects of his life. He now pays it forward by being a team lead and an inspiration to all the other members.
In this short episode he talks about why men are afraid to connect and talk about their problems. He also reveals how getting over that fear and sharing your challenges with others helps you finally leave the life of quiet desperation behind!
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Kris "Tanto" Paronto is a former U.S. Army Ranger and CIA security contractor who is known for his actions during the 2012 terrorist attack on the U.S. Ambassador to Libya and the CIA compound in Benghazi. He is now a speaker and the author of the self-improvement novel, The Ranger Way: Living the Code On and Off the Battlefield. Kris is also a father.
Today, Kris talks about discipline, failure, and leading by example. He also tells us why confident men don't take themselves too seriously and how goofing off and having fun keeps us young.
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Stress causes 90% of the health issues that are killing us today. Every thought or emotion we have releases chemicals into the environment in which our cells grow. This causes inflammation, disease, and bad habits that are damaging for us mentally and physically.
In this 100th episode of Thursday Throwdown, Dr. Ryan Wohlfert talks about how internalizing feelings and emotions leads to a build up of stress, and how we as men and fathers can boost our health and achieve sustainable success by surrounding ourselves with likeminded men and sharing our challenges with them.
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Kristen Jenson is the author of Good Pictures Bad Pictures. In this show, she tells us how to initiate a healthy conversation with our kids about pornography according to age group. She also gives a 1, 2, 3 action plan for kids so they know what they need to do if they see pornography.
Kristen explains the brain science behind pornography addiction and how it warps the mind. She also explains how it can lead to relationship problems and even erectile dysfunction. This is a scary topic, but it’s up to us parents to start the conversation as early as possible before kids get the wrong ideas about sex and intimacy from the internet. Save this episode!
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David Mee was addicted to porn for most of his marriage and also ended up having an affair. His relationship with his wife Naomi was falling apart, but they both weren't ready to give up. They worked hard to improve themselves and grow together. Now David and Naomi show other married couples how to navigate these difficult issues with porn addiction and affair recovery mentoring. Today he talks about how he is ready to level up his game so he can continue to grow his business and help others.
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We are pumped to have the lead singer of the band OAR (Of A Revolution) on the show today. Marc Roberge has been making music and touring with OAR for twenty years. Marc also is a husband and a dad. Find out what wisdom he learned from his father, and how he develops his relationships with his wife and kids while living the rock n' roll dream.
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Today we have a guest on Thursday Throwdown. Andy Storch is with me. He is the host of the Entrepreneur Hot Seat Podcast and is not only a member of The Dad Edge Alliance, but has facilitated one of our mastermind groups. He's on the show to talk about how he has thrived as being part of a mastermind group and how being surrounded by other men on a mission has helped him to elevate his game.
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What if you didn’t have to do the 9-to-5 thing any longer? What would your life be like if you were the owner of your time? What would it be like to be with your wife and kids as much as you wanted?
As fathers, we’re always looking for ways we can provide a better lifestyle for our families. Today, author and real estate genius Billy Keels tells us how we can break the golden handcuffs by investing in real estate, even if we're starting out with next to nothing.
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I used to focus on results as a dad. I would ask my kids, "Did you win? Did you score? Did you get an A?" But what I’ve learned from many of my podcast guests is that while results are important, they’re not as important as developing a growth mindset.
Today my amazing older son Ethan is in the studio with me to show how we go over his latest challenges in school and sports in a way that praises effort and encourages a growth mindset.
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We never know how many moments we’ll have left. This is why we shouldn’t wait for special moments to spontaneously happen. It’s our responsibility as dads to create moments that enrich our lives and add to our family histories.
Motivational Speaker, Coach, and Author Jon Vroman is back on The Dad Edge. He is here to tell us all about hope, celebration, and living in the moment. He also tells us how to prevent ourselves from projecting limiting beliefs on our kids, how to honor what’s in our hearts, and how to take a front row seat in our lives!
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This show is about something we all need to hear. We always like everyone to think our life is perfect, but no man has got it totally all together. There are always parts of life where we are thriving and other areas where we are just surviving. At times in our lives, we need help. At other times, we’re in a position to give.
This show is all about the power of community and brotherhood. It’s something a lot of us don’t have in the real world.When we have a tribe, no matter how crappy the outside world is, we can thrive.
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Last month, former Navy SEAL Chris Sajnog told us about the hard traits of a warrior. They are the qualities we most often associate with elite teams like confidence and aggresiveness. Chris also warned us that too much focus on the hard traits leads to an imbalance that can cause all kinds of problems, including post traumatic stress.
Today, he tells us about the six soft traits of a warrior and how we can develop these traits for rapid learning, improved relationships, and better peace of mind. He also talks about how these traits can make us a better dad.
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The Dad Edge Summit will take place in St. Louis Missouri in June 2018. We are now taking applications. This is our first live event and we're going to create an epic environment for men to become their best selves.
Jeff Bouwman is with me today. He is the author of Your Income, Your Life and has helped build the structure that keeps our organization thriving.
In this episode, we outline what we'll be covering in The Dad Edge Summit mastermind for men and what outcomes attendees can expect.
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If you were a successful start-up entrepreneur and sold your company for millions, what would you do with the money? Build your dream home? Buy the sports car you always wanted? Pay for your kids’ college?
Tuan Nguyen sold his first company for millions. Then he gave the money away.
Tuan Nguyen is the host of the Biz Dad podcast, a TEDx speaker, and an extreme philanthropist. Tuan has an incredible story that begins as an infant escaping Vietnam, to growing up poor in an immigrant family in Canada, to his current life of sharing his wealth and his spirit.
Tuan continues to build successful businesses and give the money away to charity. In this episode, he talks about how generosity breeds success and what impact our generosity has on our kids.
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If we want to learn to be emotionally resilient, genuine dads, who better to learn from than the most elite warriors on the planet? Today we have a clip from a Q & A in The Dad Edge Alliance with a recent guest, former Navy SEAL Chris Sajnog. He talks about the importance of allowing kids to feel their emotions and gives an example of his real life experience with this challenge as a father.
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Today we have retired Navy Seal Jason J Redman on The Dad Edge podcast. He is a hero, a speaker, and the author of The Trident: The Forging and Reforging of a Navy SEAL Leader. Jason has gone through extreme adversity and his story demonstrates astounding mental toughness and resilience.
During a military operation on Sept 13, 2007, he took two hits to his arm and a shot to his face. His ironfisted determination helped him cheat death, come home alive, and heal from his injuries. You’ll hear the incredible story of the famous sign he posted outside his hospital room and also get his advice on how to be a man and a father. Brace yourself for tremendous inspiration!
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Losing a job can be one of the biggest crises a man may ever may face. Today I have Michael Jeffery on the show. He is the father of 3 and one of our Dad Edge Alliance members. Michael has been in sales for 15 years. In October, he was terminated.
As a dad, Michael felt like his whole world was turned upside down. His wife was in pieces and they began to live in a permanent state of panic. But then Michael tapped into The Dad Edge Alliance.
In this short episode, he talks about how the group helped him to believe he could get back on his professional feet again. He also reveals how his marriage is now better than ever, and why part of him is actually grateful to have lost his job.
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This is our 150th episode and the show will be 3 years old in a couple months. We’ve had amazing guests – pro-athletes, NY Times bestselling authors, personal development superstars, Navy SEALs, and more. We appreciate everyone who takes the time to listen and participate. If you haven’t already joined, we invite you to our Facebook group to interact with The Dad Edge community.
Today we have Ryan Michler on the show for the 4th time. For those of you who don't already know, he is a good friend and the founder of Order of Man. Ryan has just released a book called Sovereignty that outlines what it means to protect, provide, preside, and lead. Any manly question you could possibly have will be answered. You will walk away a better man, husband, and father after listening to this episode.
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In this short episode, I'm going to talk about a huge mistake most men make when it comes to marriage. We do it with the best intentions, believing we are protecting our wives and doing what's best for them. In reality, we do more damage than we can possibly imagine.
I share a personal experience where I was in danger of losing my marriage because of this one mistake and I'm going to tell you how to avoid it.
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Today we are psyched to have Former NFL player and Superbowl Champion Billy Miller on The Dad Edge Podcast. Most of the time we only see sports stars on the field or getting interviewed after the game. They have to give their camera-ready answers about the team’s performance, but rarely do we see the husband, the father, or the man behind the athlete.
In this episode, Billy Miller opens up his world to us. He delves into his rough childhood as the son of two drug addicts, his battle against depression, and how he uses his difficult past as a reference to become the best dad he can possibly be. He also talks about maintaining a circle of intimate friends, co-parenting with his ex-wife, and how he keeps work separate from his family.
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In our last episode with Amy Morin, author of 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do, we discussed how to enhance mental toughness and emotional resilience in our kids. What does that mean for us dads?
As men, we are thrown so many things each day. Keeping up with work, finances, and family can be exhausting. It’s easy to become irritable and susceptible to knee jerk reactions, especially when our kids don’t listen to us. We usually yell and shout, and then feel terrible.
In this episode, I teach you how to use three seconds to create a mental space in your mind and use questions to give your kid a choice to obey.
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Mental strength is something most of us struggle with. Dealing with grief, fear, and disappointment is a constant challenge for adults. Children have even more difficulty navigating uncomfortable feelings. How can we raise mentally strong kids?
Today’s guest is Amy Morin, the bestselling author of the book called 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Do Not Do. She is a psychotherapist, writer, and TEDx speaker. She is here to tell us how to become mentally strong parents so we can raise self-assured kids who are primed for happiness and success.
This show is full of incredible insights that will change the lives of adults and children. Save it, because you’ll want to listen to it more than once.
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As kids get older, the more they are susceptible to peer pressure and the riskier the things they may be pressured into become. The statistics are frightening, with 35% of all 14-year-olds trying some kind of illegal drug before their 15th birthday. How can we arm our kids against peer pressure so that they will be able to make the right choices when we are not there to guide them?
By practicing role play in advance, we arm our kids with the tools needed to deflect peer pressure. In this short episode, I interview my 11-year-old Ethan who has been experiencing peer pressure. We role a play a few scenarios of peer pressure to practice what he can say when other kids are trying to get him to do something he knows is wrong.
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As men, we do battle every single day. Not only are we fighting to maintain and grow our careers, finances, and family, we fight an internal battle at all times. We have to deal with negative self-talk, bad habits, and anxiety. It’s not to say that life is always a warzone, but it can be challenging, and we can be prepared to face the challenges with a warrior’s skillset.
Chris Sajnog is a Navy SEAL sniper and our third more popular all-time former guest. He is back to teach us how master our thoughts and emotions, become solid leaders, and raise strong children by adopting the Twelve Traits of a Warrior. In this first part of a two-part series, we discuss the six “Hard Traits.”
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If you tuned into last week's show, you heard Gary John Bishop tell us how to confront our weak spots, embrace uncertainty, and take extreme ownership of our lives.
Today you will get a sneak peak at what happens in one of our Dad Edge Alliance Masterminds with a live Q&A featuring an elite guest speaker. Gary John Bishop answers some tough questions from our group and gets brutally honest about fatherhood.
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As men, we like to plan. We like to be able to foresee what’s going to happen so that we can be prepared, but life will inevitably throw curveballs our way. These periods of uncertainty can provoke stress, anxiety, and fear. How can we embrace uncertainty and use as the most powerful opportunity to grow?
Gary John Bishop is one of the world’s elite performance coaches and NY Times Bestselling Author of Unf*ck Yourself. He is here to teach us how to take extreme ownership of our lives and how we can teach our kids to do the same.
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Today I have a very special guest on for an unscripted show. Meet my 10-year-old son Mason. He is in 4th grade and his favorite sport is wrestling. He loved wrestling during the first two years because he had great success. In his third year, he got a new coach, learned new moves, and was moved into a new wrestling bracket. He lost all his matches that season and was devastated.
Mason and I are going to go over how he felt when he won and lost, what to do with those feelings, and how to learn from both winning and losing. This will give an example of how to do a failure analysis with your child so that you can instill the growth mindset that will help them triumph through all life's ups and downs.
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A lot of listeners ask about our mastermind group. What is it? A secret society? What do we do in there? And what do men get out of it?
Today I have Jason Mac Kenzie and Jeff Bouwman who are facilitators of our Epic Experience Mastermind group and The Dad Edge Alliance to talk about how our mastermind groups work, the systems and structures we use, and what topics we focus on.
We’ve also brought on two participants Andy and Zac to talk about their apprehensions at first, what they’ve gotten out of their experience, and what they think of it now.
If you’ve been curious about how a mastermind group can take your life up to the next level, you do not want to miss this episode!
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Welcome to 2018 and welcome to the Dad Edge Podcast! We are all working on our New Year’s resolutions. What can we do differently in our lives? What will propel us to the next level? Is it a new skill, hobby, business, experience? Is it a health goal? A financial goal?
Whatever it is, you’d be shocked to know that 50% of us have forgotten our resolutions by March, and 85-90% of us have given up completely by July. The stats are not in our favor when it comes to changing our habits and reaching our goals. Today I will tell you why.
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After getting married and having kids, most of us men dedicate ourselves to work and family. Any friendships we had in school or college fall by the wayside. We're surrounded by people, yet not deeply connected to anyone. Then we feel guilty for taking time, energy, and resources for ourselves or to invest in relationships with other men.
Today we have Stephen Mansfield on The Dad Edge Podcast. He is a NY Times bestselling author, a speaker, and media consultant. His book Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men reveals the secrets and virtues of great men.
Stephen Mansfield talks about how we've lost the lore of men, why we need a band of brothers, and the skillset needed to form relationships that will help us become our best selves.
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Today we're going to talk about not just saving money, but building wealth. It's easy to get caught up in daily life and neglect strategizing for the future, but if we don't start actively building wealth now, we will be in trouble later in life. Here are five tips that will give you a solid foundation to build on.
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Probably the biggest thing we try to fix in the new year is our health. We set goals to lose weight and tone up, but we tend to fail year after year. Being in optimum shape is important to being a good father, husband, and man. If you listen to this show, this could be the year you actually stick to your health resolutions once and for all.
Josiah Novak is the host of The Fit Man Project podcast and the founder of True Transformation. He is back to tell us why we keep failing at our health resolutions and the secrets to creating a plan that we can succeed at.
Get ready to transform your body in 2018 and beyond!
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Note: The Good Dad Project Podcast will be changing to The Dad Edge Alliance Podcast for 2018. All content and links will remain the same. This is only a title and logo change.
Finances are probably one of the top three things men worry out about. It causes overwhelm, arguments and sleepless nights. This part of our life doesn't have to be so damn stressful. Today I'm going to talk about seven ways we can save money as a family on our biggest household expenses.
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When it comes to investing and saving money, we often overcomplicate things. We don't have to make it so hard on ourselves. Financial rock star Scott Alan Turner is on the show to give us some quick and easy ways to save on monthly expenses that will add up to big money in the long run. He also shares some amazing tips and resources, from increasing your earning power to hiring companies to negotiate lower rates on certain bills. Take action now, get out of debt, and watch the money pile up!
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We live in a world where we are drowning in distraction. It seems that everything is fighting for our attention. This causes our minds to become over-stimulated and reactionary.
In our last show, Jim Kwik told us how to run on our superhero brain. In this short episode, I go over the elements he suggested for a morning routine so we can optimize our brain for focus and productivity.
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In this modern age, we are bombarded with information and distractions. Our brain is not prepared to handle the constant interruptions from our computers and mobile devices. Do you feel overwhelmed and distracted? Are you agitated and anxious? Then you will get a ton of value from our guest today.
Jim Kwik is the founder of Kwik Learning and is a specialist in speed reading, memory improvement, brain performance, and accelerated learning. He is an advisor to many of the worlds’ CEOs, entrepreneurs, and celebrities. He isalso the host of Kwik Brain podcast, the #1 training show on iTunes and is the creator of online courses that are used around the world.
Jim Kwik tells us his story from being learning-challenged due to a brain injury to being one of the most sought after learning coaches in the world. He also shares with us how to avoid mental exhaustion and his 10-step morning routine to create optimum brain power!
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In our last episode, we had Charlie Hoehn on to tell us about the importance of play in our lives. Not only is a playful mindset good for our health and wellbeing, it's contagious and benefits all those around us. In this short show, I highlight four powerful ways play helps dads lead a richer life.
Announcement: We are changing the name of the podcast in a couple weeks to the Dad Edge Podcast. There will be no change in the content or the website. You'll just see the new show name and logo.
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Have you noticed that it's almost impossible for you to have fun anymore? Do you feel guilty unless you make every minute of your day productive? Do you feel stressed, depressed, and isolated? This show will help you break free from anxiety and enjoy life again.
Today we have Charlie Hoehn on the podcast. He is a TEDx speaker and the author of Play It Away: A Workaholic's Cure for Anxiety. We talk about his frightening experience with severe anxiety and how he found the ridiculously simple, drug-free cure to our modern day stress.
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If you listened to our previous show, you learned how Matt Miller developed a side hustle that allowed him to make money while he slept. However, most of us don't make the leap into starting a side hustle for one reason–fear.
In this short episode, I go over four powerful reasons why we shouldn't let fear stand in the way of developing other sources of income.
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Personal finance is one of the most popular topics on this show, and in many of our previous episodes we've learned about the need to to diversify our income. Today we have side-hustle entrepreneur Matt Miller on the show. He has been a guest on the biggest podcasts out there, such as Pat Flynn (The Smart Passive Income Blog), John Lee Dumas (Entrepreneurs on Fire), and Jamie Masters Tardy (Eventual Millionaire).
Matt Miller is a husband and father of three who spent the majority of his life working for a W-2 job. Like most of us, any kind of work/life balance eluded Matt. He didn't have much time with his family or as much income as he liked, so he decided to develop a side hustle by embarking on a business that is often overlooked – vending machines. He now lives life on his own terms and helps others do the same.
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Anxiety and depression are common this time of year. So are colds and flus. Today we're going to to revisit Adrain Chavez to learn more about how the gut and its bacteria affects our mood, immunity, and performance. We also talk about why antibiotics send our body into a cycle of sickness what supplements and natural antibiotics we can take instead.
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As men, leaders, fathers, protectors, and providers, it's up to us to take action when it comes to our health and the health of our kids. We need to make sure we put high-quality nutrient-rich foods into our bodies to perform our best and prevent disease.
But let's face it – the American Diet sucks. Most of our food comes out of a package and is loaded with chemicals, sending our gut health into mass chaos.
Today we have Dr. Adrian Chavez on to talk about how processed foods affect the microbes in your gut and how this huge population of living bacteria affects every aspect of your physical and mental health.
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In the previous episode, I had "Sex with Emily" on this show. As a female, a doctor of Human Sexuality, and a beautiful woman, Dr. Emily Morse gave us some fantastic tips on how to break the silence when it comes to talking about sex with our spouse.
Most of us men in The Good Dad Project community have been married for awhile and things have cooled off in the bedroom department. Dr. Emily Morse said that it only takes 6 months to 2 years for the honeymoon phase to wear off. When kids enter the picture, making sex a priority is harder than ever.
Whether you are a husband or a wife, most of us can agree that we want amazing sex lives with our partner. In this short episode, I go over 5 small ways to make huge improvements to your sex life.
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When we're married and have kids, the whole bedroom thing tends to take the backseat. It's hard to make sex a priority, but we want it to be.
Today we have the host of the Sex with Emily podcast. Dr. Emily Morse is a celebrity relationships and sex expert with a doctorate in Human Sexuality who began her show the first year podcasting started.
Sex is always a huge topic on this show, and in this episode, Emily and I have a fun, laid back conversation about how to have amazing sex in your marriage. We cover just about everything a guy wants to know, so take notes!
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In our last episode, Wes Chapman shared his horrific story of trauma and how throughout his whole life he had been told that he would never be a normal, successful, happy person because of what he went through. Wes healed and soared above his past. If he believed in his heart what all the doctors and adults told him, he would never be able to become the extraordinary man he is today.
It's bad enough when other people are putting us down, but for many of us, our worst enemy is ourselves. We tell ourselves we're not good enough, that we're not capable, or that we're inadequate. This negative self-talk silently kills us every day.
In today's short episode I give four questions we can ask ourselves to crush self-sabotaging thoughts.
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The story you’re about to hear is unlike anything we’ve ever had on this show before. Today we have mega-entrepreneur, Wes Chapman. He has been featured in Forbes, Inc., CBS, ABC, Tech Crunch and TEDx. He is a husband, a father of two, and the founder of A Human Project.
Wes may seem like the picture of success, but he has a dark and painful past that many would not survive. From the time he was born, Wes was physically, sexually, and mentally abused. He was abandoned by his father and then his mother. He was put into group homes and psych wards where doctors told him that his mental and emotional problems would prevent him from ever living a normal life.
Wes Chapman believes that absolute self-honesty is the key to healing and he is pure proof. In this episode, he shares the story of his incredible transformation, and how he triumphed over victimhood to wake up the hero within.
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What are you willing to suffer for?
This is the question we must ask ourselves when it comes to all the choices we make in our lives.
Do we choose to eat poorly and suffer with bad health? Or do we deprive ourselves of our favorite junk food and beer to look and feel great?
Do we reward ourself with the latest shiny new thing and suffer debt? Or do we discipline ourselves so that we can have financial security in the future?
This show is all about choosing your struggle.
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Today we have an unbelievable episode with Lewis Howes. For those of you who don't know him, Lewis Howes is the host of on the hugely popular The School of Greatness podcast and the author of the New York Times bestselling book, The School of Greatness.
Lewis Howes is one of the most sought after speakers today, and has appeared all over the media, including just recently on Ellen. His new book is called The Mask of Masculinity, and Lewis Howes completely sheds his mask for us in this show.
You will hear things that will shock you as well as things that will inspire you. This is one episode you will never forget!
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I have a special guest in the studio with me to day to talk about something near and dear to our hearts as fathers – HONESTY. For this episode, I brought in my eleven-year-old son Ethan to talk about how he feels when it's time for him to be honest with me, and how I can make it easier for him to come to me when he has a problem.
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My guest is mega-successful, 7-figure entrepreneur and thought leader, Nate Lind. Nate is a husband, a father, and the founder of Legendary Man. At the age of thirty-seven, Nate has already experienced huge successes and crushing failures, to the point where he considered suicide. He is here to tell us about depression in men and why openness, vulnerability, and building a tribe are more powerful than the outdated lone wolf idea of masculinity.
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How are mobile devices affecting our physical and mental health? How are they affecting our relationships? In this age of constant internet connection, we are facing an epidemic of living inside our phones instead of with the real live people in front us.
In this short episode, I talk about four reasons why spending too much time on your phone is harmful and what The Dad Edge Alliance is doing to set boundaries for screen time.
For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
Today, I have an awesome return guest on to talk about ADHD and ADD. Peter Shankman’s new book, Faster Than Normal, is the number one new release on Amazon. He is back to help us uncover the secrets of ADHD and give us alternatives to medication.
This is a huge topic for our generation, being fathers, and the next generation, which is our own kids. We undoubtedly have the most medicated children in history, but whether you or your child have ADHD or not, you will get a lot out of this show!
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When the kids are born, men focus on being a father. We cannot falter in our role as a provider and protector. Our spouses focus on being mothers, which is a twenty-four-hour, seven-days-a-week job. Our marriages inevitably suffer, but many parents feel guilty for leaving the kids.
On today’s short episode, I’m going share my personal experience and why you need to leave the kids behind and spend some time getting to know your spouse again.
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Today we have Omar Pinto, host and founder of the wildly popular SHAIR Podcast. SHAIR stands for Sharing Helps Addicts in Recovery. He’s part of our Dad Edge Alliance and he’s also a friend. Today he shares the heart-wrenching story of the son he had to give up. He also takes us through his insane addiction to cocaine and alcohol, and how he not only survived, but transformed into one of the most well-known voices in recovery today. This is a special episode you will not forget!
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One of the most common conflicts that can destroy a family is an unstable system of discipline. Often, one spouse gives into a kid and undermines the other's authority. When this happens on a regular basis, children can learn who is the 'yes' parent and who is the 'no' parent and begin to play the mother and father against each other. How can we avoid these destructive dynamic even if we don't agree with our partner's discipline? Find out in this episode.
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If you have preteens or teenagers, this show is for you. Even if your kids are still young, you will need this information to prepare for the future. The teenage years are a critical time for us to bond with our children so that they will be empowered to make the right choices in life.
Josh Shipp, “The Teen Whisperer,” is here to give us a guide to dealing with difficult teens. You don’t miss this invaluable advice!
For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Talking about money with your spouse is always tricky. This is why we avoid it at all costs, but that only leads to more tension because spending issues go unresolved. But, when we come together with our spouses about finances, it’s a beautiful thing. We have more intimacy in the relationship and we are happier when we succeed in reaching financial and family goals together.
Today I’m going to highlight a discussion we had in the Dad Edge Alliance with financial guru and Your Income, Your Life author Jeff Bouwman, and share six ways we can have peaceful conversations about money, lifestyle, and spending habits.
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So often, when we confront obstacles, whether in work or at home, we want the map. We want the how-to guide to solving the problem. Today we have former Navy SEAL and author of Unbreakable: A Navy SEAL's Way of Life, Thom Shea, to tell us why searching for the how-to is a waste of time and how to commit to our goals the Navy SEAL way. Buckle your seatbelts, tie your shoes, because you’re really going to enjoy this show!
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Everyone on the internet seems to be talking about finding your life's purpose, or finding your why. Your why is supposed to be your moral compass. It keeps you motivated and on track, but today we're going to totally deconstruct that idea. I have a clip from a guest speaker we had in our Dad Edge Alliance, Thom Shea. He’s a retired navy SEAL instructor and author of the book Unbreakable: A Navy SEAL's Way of Life. Tom gives us examples of why finding your life's purpose won't get you very far and what you need to work on instead.
Stop and really listen to this one. Replay it. Share it, because it's a game-changer!
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Would you climb to the top of Kilimanjaro in 30-degree weather wearing nothing but boots, shorts, and a knit cap? Today’s guest did it and he wrote the book on it. We have NY Times bestselling author of What Doesn’t Kill Us, Scott Carney to tell us why he put his body through such extremes and why we all should step out of our physical comfort zones for better health, mental resilience, and disease resistance. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
I'm going to talk about an issue most dads face on a daily basis–losing our temper. What do you do when you tell your son or daughter to do something over and over again and they just won't listen? Usually we get frustrated and angry. We begin to raise our voice, but this doesn't give us the respect we want. Today I'm going to share a secret I learned from a mentor on how to get your kid to listen without yelling. For the show notes and links to The Dad Edge Facebook page and The Dad Edge Alliance CLICK HERE.
In this episode, Charlie "The Spaniard" Brenneman turns the tables and puts Good Dad Project creator and host Larry Hagner in the spotlight. Learn all about the humble beginnings of The Good Dad Project and what it's like to interview amazing guests. You'll also hear about Larry's mastermind groups, how he balances work and family, and why he hates his first name. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
As children, we have mentors for every aspect of our lives. Our parents mentored us from the moment we were born. Our teachers served as mentors for each of the subjects we studied. Our coaches were our mentors when we played school sports. But as adults we are left on our own. We think we know all we need to know. We stop learning and stop growing. Today's episode is a clip from a live Q & A session we had in The Dad Edge Alliance with baseball legend Todd Stottlemyre. He drops a wisdom bomb why we need to continuously seek new knowledge and feedback, and why we need mentors in every stage of life. For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
David Henzel is a radically successful entrepreneur whose calling is to help people live happier lives. Most of us are trying to achieve a work life balance, but we tend to end up overwhelmed and stressed out. Our relationships with our family may be difficult or unfulfilling, but rarely do we give the same attention to detail to our home life as we do to our business. This show is about managing our happiness by applying business success principles to your family life. For the show notes and links to the exclusive Managing Happiness Course discount, CLICK HERE.
If you’ve been thinking of the idea of whether to give up alcohol, now's the time to do it. We're doing a September 30-Day no alcohol challenge on both the free Dad Edge Facebook group and the Dad Edge Alliance membership group. By making a commitment to quit drinking together, we will have the support and accountability we need to succeed.
Post your challenges and successes in our groups. We want to hear when it’s hard. We want to hear about the changes you see in your life. Help and inspire others in the group. Join our challenge today! CLICK HERE FOR THE SHOW NOTES AND LINKS TO JOIN.
Ruari Fairbairns from One Year No Beer is back to share his story and his relationship with alcohol before and after he gave it up. In this episode, you’ll learn how giving up alcohol will revolutionize your life mentally, physically, and socially. You will also be given the tools you need to control your drinking with confidence and inspire people around you. For the show notes and special offers mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, dropped some knowledge bombs on us in our last episode. He also did a live Q & A with our Dad Edge Alliance membership group. Today you will hear a clip of highlights from the call itself as Dr. Robert Glover expands on why nice guys don't get their needs met. For show notes and the exclusive links in this episodes CLICK HERE.
Why are we not getting our needs met when we seem to be going out of our way for everyone? Dr. Robert Glover talks to us today about Nice Guy Syndrome and why it's actually not so nice for you and for those around you. This show will change everything you thought you knew about being Mr. Nice Guy. For show notes and the special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
In this week's Thursday Throwdown, I'm following up on my show Why It’s Time to Do Epic Shit TODAY. I got a great response from that episode. Listeners have been posting pictures of the epic things they are doing with their kids and tagging it with #DoEpicShit. Sharing amazing experiences with our family doesn't have to be complicated. Hikes, camping in the back yard, getting pedicures with daughters–we just need to step out of the normal routine and connect to make a lasting memory. Today I talk about an epic experience I shared with my two older sons and how I marked that experience by writing them a letter and reading it to them. For the show notes, links, and the video mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Mike Flynn is the host of the Impact Entrepreneur podcast and is here to tell us how to tap into peak performance on a daily basis by using the P.E.A.K. system. He also answers some heavy questions from Dad Edge Alliance members. Get ready to achieve your desired reality! For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
We talked about how fatherhood is leadership in the last episode of GDP. We also want to instill these leadership skills in our children. Telling them how to be leaders is not nearly as effective as leading by example. Today we're going to outline four ways to show your kids what it means to be a leader.For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
We had high performance coach and TEDx speaker Devon Brandison on the show way back in the beginning of GDP. Almost 100 episodes later, Devon is back to explain how fatherhood is leadership on so many levels – in our homes and in our communities. He also talks about how to live life to the fullest without burning out and how to control our thoughts so we can control the emotions that are holding us back. This interview is full of heavy-hitting wisdom. Make sure you take notes. For the show notes and exclusive links in this episode CLICK HERE.
Today's episode is all about mindset. As parents, most of us are praising our kids in a harmful way and we don't even know it. We have the best intentions, but we are actually setting them up for disaster. In this episode, I outline four examples of how NOT to praise your kid and one example of how to encourage them in a way that cultivates a growth mindset. For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Finances are a touchy subject that stresses the hell out of all of us. It can especially affect our relationships. Almost one out of every two marriages end in divorce, sixty percent of which are due to financial stress. For most dads, our main goal is to pay off our home mortgage. This seems impossible. How can we pay of a thirty-year mortgage in a matter of years? Today we have Andy Hill from MarriageKidsandMoney.com to tell us how he is paying off his mortgage in less than five years. For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Most of us men live isolated lives because we feel it’s noble, selfless, and the right thing to do. We pay most of our attention to two things – our family and our jobs. When it comes to relationships with other men, we don’t have them. In this week's Thursday Throwdown, I talk about why it's time to end this social isolation epidemic among men. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Today we have a treat for you. We're interviewing former pro football player Thomas Williams who's played for the Jaguars, the Seahawks, the Patriots, the Bills, and the Panthers. Listen as he takes us from overcoming his troubled childhood, to achieving his NFL dream, to using a career-ending injury as the jump-off point to the relentless pursuit of greatness. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Are you waiting for the perfect time or place to start doing things you dreamed of? Are you waiting to save enough money, reach a certain age, or feel a certain way to step out of your routine and start making amazing memories? Today's Thursday Throwdown is all about why you need to start doing epic shit TODAY. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
The diagnoses of kids with ADHD is at an all-time high. How do we raise them the best we possibly can so they can be the best versions of who they’re meant to be? Author, speaker, and parenting coach Brian King is here to give us a workable strategy guide for parenting ADHD kids. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Most of us never read our entire insurance policy.Even if we did, would we understand it? How do we know if we have the best policy for our homes, assets, and automobiles? Do we know how much insurance we really need to cover ourselves in the event of a catastrophe? And how do we protect ourselves from lawsuits, accidents, and identity theft? On today's Thursday Throwdown, I have Dan "The Insurance Man" Luigs to talk about areas we may have overlooked in our insurance coverage. For the show notes and links in this episode, CLICK HERE.
John Williams is the founder of a non-profit organization called Life That Counts. He shares his story of childhood adversity and talks about how he is raising his two boys, how he keeps his marriage on point, and what amazing things he is doing in the world. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
On this week's Thursday Throwdown, we're following up on our last episode with Peter Sacco about how to argue with your spouse. We will all have disagreements with our partner every now and then. This is normal and couples who don’t bring up difficult subjects are in danger of letting issues go unresolved or letting resentment build until it explodes. Here are 4 tips on how to have a healthy argument and set and example for your kids about how to resolve disagreements without anger. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Most of us men have a tendency to accumulate build-up of anger and emotions. It's easy for us to lose our temper and let a discussion turn into an argument. When we are angry, we can’t think logically. This is when we're endanger of saying things or behaving in ways we regret towards our partner. Today, Peter Sacco is back on the show to tell you how to argue with your spouse without drama, anger, and resentment. For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
Guilt. So many of us walk around with guilt and it’s crippling. We feel guilty handing over our time and resources. We feel guilty about too much time with work. We have no time for friends. We even feel guilty for reading a book. Life is centered around family and work. We feel like me must be everything to every single person until we become nothing and no one to ourselves. Find out how we need to let this guilt go in order to become better husbands, fathers, and men. For show notes and the exclusive links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
As you know, Todd Stottlemyre is a 3-time World Series MLB pitcher. You loved his last interview on The Good Dad Project. In this powerful episode, I sit with Todd face to face as he opens up about the most painful moment in his life, how he fought the enemy within himself, and what elements have helped him in his pursuit of relentless success. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
In our previous episode, financial mentor Damion Lupo shared some mind-blowing information about Wall Street. Most of us leave our money on auto-pilot or trust it to a financial advisor at our investment company. We don't have time to examine our investments and how they are being managed, but not paying attention to our money can be dangerous. Today I talk about three ways we can protect our financial future right now. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Is our money really safe in the stock market, IRAs and 401ks? Or is it best to diversify? What is it Wall street doesn’t want you to know when it comes to your money? Financial mentor Damion Lupo reveals the astonishing truth about how investment works to help us take total control of our money and transcend financial problems once and for all. For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
In this episode of Thursday Throwdown, I'm going to share with you some very powerful information from former Navy SEAL Larry Yatch and outline his 4-step process to build unshakable confidence in every aspect of your life. You don't want to miss this short, simple, yet life-changing podcast. For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
How do you become an incredible dad and husband when you grew up with a neglectful father? How do you break the dysfunctional pattern of your family and reverse generations of bad parenting? Chris Romulo is a 6-time Muay Thai Champion and author of Champions Uprising: Fall 7 Times, Stand Up 8. He tells us what it was like growing up with a gambling addict and how he uses his past experiences to be a better husband, father, and community member. For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
On this week’s Thursday Throwdown, we’re going to recap our wildly popular show with Nell Daly about a problem many men silently struggle with – online pornography. Nell Daly talked about three simple steps that can not only help those of us who struggle with porn addiction, but with any destructive habit or behavior like overeating, drinking, gambling, and more. For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
Pornography - It’s pervasive in our culture today. 70% of men between the ages of 30 to 60, look at online pornography weekly. Still, no one wants to talk about it. Today I have psychotherapist and relationships expert, Nell Daly, on the show with me to answer what most guys are dying to know - how much porn is too much? And how do we stop when it becomes a problem? Don’t miss this honest (and explicit) discussion on the truth about porn addiction. For show notes and the links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
I reached out to Dad Edge Alliance members and asked them to share their best pieces of wisdom on being a dad, and what quotes sum up their experience as a father. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Warren Petersen is the author of Becoming a Significant Man and is also a husband and father to four kids. This is an important show about pulling ourselves out of the mud after losing everything, and how to protect our daughters physically, mentally, and emotionally in the world we live in today. For the show notes and all the links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Most of us look at our social media feeds multiple times a day. We see people who post snapshots of what looks like a perfect life. Sometimes we feel jealous, or we get down on ourselves for not accomplishing so much. In this episode of Thursday Throwdown, I talk about how to neutralize your social media envy. For the show notes and the links to all the special deals mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
What does an ultimate fighter and a good dad have in common? UFC fighter James Krause tells us about perseverance and pressure and how he thrives off uncertainty and challenge. He also talks about being a father to his 2-year-old girl and how he came to adopt his little sister. For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
In this episode, I talk about how my son inspired me to write a a book especially for dads to read to their kids. As men and dads, most of us are task-oriented and find it hard to put our emotions into words. We feel odd communicating and we don't know if it will resonate with our kids. Many of us work and are gone for the majority of the day. How do we let our kids know how we feel about them and that we are there for them no matter what? Books are a great way to start the conversation, but the majority of books out there are from a mom's perspective. That is why I wrote Daddy Will Always Love and Protect You. To get the show notes and links to the new book CLICK HERE.
What happens when we go through something so difficult that it rocks the very core of who we are? Today I have a real, raw discussion with Josiah Novak from True Transformation about my battle with insomnia, depression, and anxiety. For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
On today's Thursday Throwdown, I recap the 4 pillars of effective leadership that we discussed in the Dad Edge Alliance membership community. For the show notes and links in this episode CLICK HERE.
Today's guest needs no introduction. Larry Yatch from the SEALed Mindset is back on the Good Dad Project podcast to answer a few questions from our Dad Edge community about how to break the cycle of the fixed mindset in our kids and in ourselves. For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
This episode marks 1 year of Thursday Throwdown on the Good Dad Project! Following up on our previous episode with Peter Sacco about Uncovering the Secrets of Anger, we're going to go over five quick ways we can prevent angry outbursts. For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Most men struggle with anger daily. Our tempers flare at work and at home with our wife and kids. Some of us are like Bruce Banner. Some of us turn into the Incredible Hulk. Canada's psyche doctor, Peter Sacco tells us the secrets of where anger comes from, how to manage it, and so much more. For the show notes to this mind-blowing episode and special links, CLICK HERE.
We all go through times in our lives when the carpet is pulled from under us. Through no fault of our own, our lives spin out of control. We go through a hell that seems unending. We feel all that's important to us slipping through our fingers. Today we talk about prevailing over these crucibles of life. For the show notes and special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
When you hear the word ‘manliness’ what comes to mind? In this modern age, it seems like good old-fashioned manliness has disappeared. Today, Brett McKay from The Art of Manliness is here to tell us what being a man is truly about. For the show notes and special links in this episode CLICK HERE.
In the last episode of GDP, we had ultra-successful businessman and life coach Aaron Walker. He explained that he owed 100% of his success to his tribe and the people he surrounded himself with. In this week’s Thursday Throwdown, I will tell you how you can make sure you surround yourself with the right people to become a better husband, father, and man and live an epic life. For the show notes and exclusive links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
Can we live a life of purpose and still make a living to support our families? Can we do the work that we love and still be profitable? The answer is absolutely YES, and Aaron Walker from View from the Top is here to tell us how. For show notes and the special links in this episode CLICK HERE.
In this episode of Thursday Throwdown, we are going to talk about our wives. As men, we have a hard time balancing our relationships, especially when kids come into the picture. Most of the time, it's the relationship with the woman in our life that gets put on the back burner. We get lazy. We take it for granted. This is when our marriages are in danger of becoming stagnant. So how can we feed our relationship to keep love alive? Today I tell you three ways. For shown notes and links for this episode CLICK HERE.
On today's episode of the Good Dad Project, we have P90X creator, Tony Horton. He talks about how fitness and nutrition reprogrammed his brain. He also shares his success and his failures, and how he maintains a thriving marriage with his wife, Shawna. For show notes and links to the special offers in this episode, CLICK HERE.
Last week on the Good Dad Project, we had Erik Weihenmayer, the first and only blind man to summit Mount Everest. On this week's Thursday Throwdown, I'd like to expand on his concept of a rope team and why every man needs one. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
Erik Weihenmayer is an American athlete, adventurer, author, activist and motivational speaker. He is also the only blind person to reach the summit of Mount Everest. He talks about defying the odds, overcoming adversity, and how he uses his experiences to elevate his family. You do not want to miss today’s episode! For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
As much as we want to encourage our kids to do their best, we might be unintentionally causing them undue stress. That is why it's crucial – whether in sports, school, or life – that our kids see the same us when they look to us for support. For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
Playing ports teaches our kids life lessons, but today, most kids quit sports by the age of thirteen. Today we're going to Coach Jim and Coach Steve from Coach Baseball Right to talk about the hidden secrets to why kids quit sports and how we, as parents or coaches, can change our strategies to encourage and motivate them in the right way. For show notes, links, and a special offer from Coach Baseball Right CLICK HERE.
Electronic devices are a part of our lives now. Can you imagine giving them up? Would your kids survive without their phones, tablets, and video games? Listen to what happened to my family when we gave up our screen time for 40 days! For show notes and all the links mentioned in this episode, CLICK HERE.
Former Major League Baseball star, Todd Stottlemyre, tells us how to dream big, set goals, and create a plan to break the world of impossible. For show note and links to this episode, CLICK HERE.
As men, we hate to admit when we don't know all the answers. We don't want to seem weak and vulnerable, but fathers need to ask for help sometimes, and here is why. For show notes and all the links in this episode, CLICK HERE.
Work relationship issues can lead to broken deals, missed promotions, and lost jobs. Today, Jordan Harbinger from the Art of Charm Podcast uncovers the truths and smashes the myths about building relationships at work. He also tells us how our body language dictates how we are treated, and gives us a drill to start appearing more confident and competent right away. For the show notes and all the links mentioned in this show, CLICK HERE.
In our last episode, we talked with Sam Weinman about how to win at losing, how to succeed when we fail, and how to learn from defeat. I want to recap on this because the fear of losing is one of the most popular topics discussed in our Dad's Edge group. A lot of guys are afraid of doing something new. We're afraid of failing. We hold back because we think we're not good enough. So how do we stop that way of thinking? For show notes and links CLICK HERE.
On today's episode of The Good Dad Project, Sam Weinman tells us how to talk to our kids about failure and how to win at losing by by using defeat as fertile ground for growth. For today's show notes, links, and special offers, CLICK HERE.
In this week's Thursday Throwdown, I follow up on episode 100 with Ryan Holiday and his profound insights on how to approach life as a student. As men and fathers, we want to believe we have everything figured out, but in reality that's impossible. That's why it's important to drop our egos and admit to ourselves, "I don't know everything, but I'm going to learn as much as I can." For all the links and the show notes CLICK HERE.
What’s the difference between confidence and ego, and how does ego hinder us from our own greatness both professionally and as a father? My guest today on episode 100 of the Good Dad Project is Ryan Holiday, NY Times Bestselling author of Ego is the Enemy. He’s also a brand new dad to a three-month-old son. Listen as he illuminates us on the difference between being confident and being egotistical, and how to surrender the ego to become a student of life. For the show notes and all links CLICK HERE.
In episode 99 of The Good Dad Project, Larry Yatch from Sealed Mindset told us about the importance of instilling a growth mindset in our children. I think, like me, a lot of dads listening to that show experienced some major revelations about how we've been praising and encouraging our children. In this week's Thursday Throwdown, I share my personal experience with my nine-year-old son and how I might have negatively impacted his attitude toward wrestling by praising the results instead of his effort. For show notes and links to an exclusive offer to Sealed Mindset training, CLICK HERE!
Larry Yatch from the SEALed Mindset is back to share some mind-blowing insights on how to make our families work as high-functioning teams, how to instill the growth mindset in our kids, and how to persevere and show courage in the face of fear. For the show notes and an epic discount to the SEALed Mindset platform plus a free lesson, CLICK HERE.
Did you know that 93% of our communication is through body language? Having the wrong body language will not only make you look less confident, it will make you feel less confident too. Here are 7 quick fixes to show and feel more confidence with your body language. For links and show notes CLICK HERE.
Self-confidence is something most men struggle with every day, but the majority of us suffer in silence. But what if you had tools and resources to become confident and live your life as the best version of yourself? David Wygant is a dating coach and inspiration for the movie Hitch. He helps men and women deal with insecurities and tackle fear to become the best version of who they’re meant to be. Today he shares his surprising secrets on why men lack self-confidence and how we can get it back. For all the links and info, visit the show notes HERE.
Finding the time for self-care is one of the hugest struggles for dads. We always have another task to complete. We're always being asked for another favor. We feel guilty for taking time away from our family and we leave ourselves last on the list. We can be overcome by exhaustion, frustration, and depression. This is why establishing a self-care routine is crucial. Listen to how as little as ten minutes a day can lead to a happier, more fulfilling life. Click for the show notes here.
Fitness Coach, Josiah Novak, is back on The Good Dad Project to tell us the secrets to following through with health resolutions and getting rid of the dad bod in 2017.
The New Year is well on its way. Have you stuck to your health and fitness resolutions? If you haven’t, you’re not alone. As much as 70% of New Year’s resolutions are abandoned by March. Josiah Novak is here today to tell us why it’s so difficult to commit to a new health regimen. He also gives us simple and effective strategies to ensure great results without sacrificing precious free time or depriving ourselves of the foods we love. Get all the info and links in the show notes HERE.
If you listened to the last episode of The Good Dad Project, then you heard Diamond Dallas Page's incredible story of beginning a wrestling career at an age when most athletes are retiring. It was DDP's dream since childhood, and he took a chance that catapulted him to the career he always wanted. In this week's Thursday Throwdown, I talk about why you must go after your dreams and that it's never too late to begin the journey. For show notes and links to The DDP episode, click HERE.
Today on The Good Dad Project I talk to wrestling legend Diamond Dallas Page about his career, his new projects, and his tips on raising FOUR daughters. For the few who don't know about Diamond Dallas Page, he's famous around the sports entertainment world of professional wrestling as “DDP.” His drive and ambition would lead him on an inspirational journey from being three-time world wrestling champion to his current endeavor of inspiring others to Own Your Life. DDP has developed his life-changing DDPYoga including books, audio cd’s and DVD workouts and is touring the country to promote his system. For show notes on this episode click HERE.
In this week's Thursday Throwdown, I talk about what your daughter needs from you as a father to empower her to speak freely, develop confidence, and set her expectations high when it comes to the men in her adult future. For links and special offers, check out the show notes here.
Bas Rutten is retired UFC Heavyweight Champion and three-time King of Pancrase world champion. He’s a regular on TV, has also appeared in movies, and even makes a cameo in the Grand Theft Auto video game.
It’s hard to believe that Bas Rutten, also known as “El Guapo” or The Handsome One, suffered extreme eczema and asthma during his childhood. He was bullied on a regular basis in his native country of Holland. One day when he was on vacation with his family in France, he snuck into the movie theatre to see Enter the Dragon. Bas knew that if he became like Bruce Lee, the bullying would stop. This sparked a passion for martial arts that took him through a glorious career and taught him many life lessons he would pass on to his three daughters. Check out the show notes HERE.
In this week's Thursday Throwdown, I follow up on Nell Gibbon Daly's episode and give you the highlights of how to talk about lack of sex with your spouse. For show notes and links, click HERE.
A healthy sex life is crucial to a happy and harmonious relationship, but sex is one of the most difficult things for men to talk about. Today our second ever female guest, Nell Gibbon Daly, talks with us frankly about sex and how we can make breakthroughs in communication to improve intimacy and experience amazing sex. (EXPLICIT) Check out the show notes for all the details of this episode HERE.
Getting healthy is the #1 New Year's resolution, but most of us get sidetracked from our goals before January is even through. Today fitness coach and father of two, Josiah Novak, tells us how to go from "Dadbod to Greek God" and still enjoy a pizza every now and then. For the show notes and links to The Dad's Edge Health and Fitness Mastermind, click HERE.
In this episode, I talk with retired Navy SEALs, Eric Davis and Larry Yatch, about how we normal dads can apply Navy SEAL strategies to develop Courage, Confidence, Perseverance and Resilience.
The Navy SEALs are the most elite warriors on the planet. Eric Davis and Larry Yatch worked together as SEALs and known each other over 16 years. They now teach the SEALed Mindset proven performance principles and will share some amazing tactics and formulas so we can become better men and open ourselves up to greater opportunity in life. For more info about the SEALed Mindset and an exclusive listener offer, go to the show notes HERE.
Our thoughts and emotions can tear us down if we don’t know how to manage them. When waves of stress repeatedly hit us, our emotions can override our brains and take over our behavior, leading us to perform badly and make poor decisions. We may experience overwhelm or feel like our life is spinning out of control.
In this quick episode, I discuss the difference between an emotion and a thought, and how we can use the dynamic between emotions and thoughts to eliminate unnecessary stress, depression, anger, and overwhelm. Check out the show notes with special offers from our sponsors HERE.
Alcohol has affected everyone in some way. We drink to reduce stress, to be more social in social settings, and to reward ourselves after a long, hard day at work. But what if drinking is actually bringing more stress into our lives? What if it’s causing us to miss business opportunities and is harming our relationships? You’ll discover amazing insights into these questions in today’s podcast as I celebrate a whole year without drinking with three special guests: Shane Ramer (That Sober Guy), Ruari Fairbairns (One Year No Beer), and Jason MacKenzie (The Book of Open). Check out the show notes HERE.
This week's Thursday Throwdown is the incredible story of James McDowall, a member of the Dad's Edge Mastermind Group who went from being a hopeless drinker to a completely sober dad. Listen as he tells us how living sober is anything but boring, and how quitting drinking has changed his relationships, his business, and his life in amazing and unexpected ways. Check out the show notes HERE.
If we don’t know our purpose, our core values, and our why, we can walk through the world lost. Today Mike Merriam, author of bestselling book, Closer Than You Think, shares his method of uncovering your core values to go from a life of frustration and defeat to a life full of success and fulfillment. Check out the show notes HERE.
Dads are pulled in a thousand different directions each day. We are constantly trying to meet the demands of our work and family life, and we seldom reach out for help. This leads to pressure and frustration. Today I list 3 secrets I use to develop patience and reduce stress. For the show notes, CLICK HERE.
60% of parents have at least three forms of debt with the average household debt being around $33,000. Do you fall into this bracket? How do you get out?
Jeff Bouwman is a CPA. financial advisor, a husband and a dad to three little girls. He has just released his book, Your Income, Your Life, and is on The Good Dad Project to tell us his experience of becoming what most Americans would consider a successful life, but was in reality a stressful financial black hole. Listen to how he got out of debt, quit his corporate job, and now lives the life he was truly meant to live.
Jeff Bouwman is giving away FREE copies of his book to GDP listeners. Find out how and more in the show notes HERE.
Should you give your kids allowance? Or does giving them money for chores teach them a sense of entitlement. In this episode I share why I decided to give my kids an allowance for chores and how it changed the way our whole family thinks about money. Check out the show notes HERE.
Ryan Michler is the creator of the Order of Man Community and podcast, which teaches men how to live with purpose, achieve self-mastery, and create a legacy. Today he tells why it’s important for men to become part of a tribe and how that tribe will help you be a better man. Check out the show notes HERE.
New Years is almost here and most of us busy dads are already thinking of what we'd like to accomplish in 2017. It's easy to set goals, but how do we make sure we reach them?
We can start by setting SMART goals. SMART is an acronym for five goal requirements. Today we talk about the 5 steps to achieving your goals, plus one bonus step! Check out the show notes HERE.
Could the country's behavioral epidemic actually have benefits? In this episode, Peter Shankman shares how to unlock ADHD superpowers.
Peter Shankman has spent the past twenty years as an entrepreneur, a bestselling author, and a public speaker who teaches hundreds of thousands of people how to improve their personal and professional lives. Peter is the father of a three-year-old girl. He has also been diagnosed with ADD/ADHD.
So how did someone with ADHD become so successful? Peter believes his ADD/ADHD is a gift and hosts The Faster Than Normal Podcast, which discusses the benefits of the fast brain and how to leverage it to make extraordinary achievements in life. Get all the info on his podcast and ADHD Superpowers course in the show notes HERE.
Can't stop thinking about work? This is a struggle for most men. We are Type-A personalities who were wired to compete, hunt, and multi-task. We're always thinking about the next goal we're trying to accomplish or the next problem to be solved. When we’re our around kids, it’s hard for us to shut the rest of the world down and keep our mind from wandering. What can we do to focus on our kids every day?
On this episode, I'll reveal one simple mind hack to get your mind off work so you can be present with your family. We also have lots of exciting news and events coming up. Be sure to check them out in the show notes HERE.
Jim Sheils, author of The Family Board Meeting tells us how to magnify your presence with your kid with one-on-one board meetings. Thanks for checking out this week's show. For all the show notes and to connect with Jim Sheils, head over to our show notes page HERE.
Miscommunication is responsible for many relationships problems, but showing love isn’t just about saying the words.
Today, my wife Jessica is our very special guest! She joins me to talk about the book, The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman and why it’s so important to learn your spouse’s love language.
In this episode we share our personal experience and
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Nick Dinardo is an entrepreneur, a consultant, and a public speaker who focuses on resilience, personal growth, and education. Nick is the author of bestselling book The Game of Adversity: 8 Practices to Turn Life's Toughest Moments into Your Greatest Opportunities. He is also the host of The Sweet Adversity Podcast and has interviewed hundreds of experts on overcoming adversity, dealing with trauma and stress, and the critical role it plays in our cognitive development.
In this episode, Nick Dinardo tells us how draws on adversity to inform and inspire his life as a podcaster, personal performance coach, author, and dad. He also ends with a free gift for GDP listeners. Check out the show notes for this episode HERE.
Today on the Good Dad Project, we have Gene Villeneuve, a successful business man who lives in Paris with his wife and two daughters. Last year, his wife was diagnosed with breast cancer and they have endured 11 months of emotional exhaustion as she has undergone treatment.
It’s a harsh truth, but it’s more than likely we’ll all watch one of our loved ones facing a deadly illness during our lives. Gene talks about dealing with the pain and uncertainty of watching a spouse go through cancer treatment while keeping his career in balance and still being a good dad to his kids.
Three things he said were crucial to helping him know how to love a spouse with cancer. Check out our show notes page HERE.
Did you know that giving strategic gifts can make a huge difference in your work and family life? For most men, trying to think of thoughtful gifts feels awkward. This is why guys usually ask wives to choose the gifts. So how can you choose a gift that will leave a meaningful impression that lasts? Giftology author John Ruhlin tells us about the science of gift giving and how it can galvanize your business and personal relationships for years to come. Check out our show notes page HERE.
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Thanks for checking out this amazing episode with Anthony Trucks. To connect with him and check out all the links mentioned in this show, head over right HERE.
Through the inspiration of our last guest, John O'Leary, I wanted to share a story of how we may have the best intentions...but if we don't execute in the moments when it matters...it means nothing. Check out all the links for our show notes HERE.
This episode is incredible! Brace yourself for this story. For all our show notes and to connect with John O'Leary check out our show notes page HERE.
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In this episode we have a conversation with Bret Johnson about how to be a strong father to raise strong daughters. For all the show notes and to connect with Bret, head over to our show notes page HERE.
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WARNING: Unlike most GDP podcast episodes that are CLEAN...this episode is not. There is an explicit warning on this episode. Today, I have a conversation with Shane Ramer, founder and host of "That Sober Guy Podcast." Shane does a raw deep dive into his addictions to drugs and alcohol, how it effected his life, and how he has remained clean and sober for nearly 3 years. Check out all of our show notes and to connect with Shane Ramer HERE.
Addiction can show up in several different ways in our lives. It can be a substance like drugs or alcohol. It can be work (workaholic). It can even be an obsession with health and spending hours and hours a day in the gym. Check out all the links to connect with Rich Roll, Shane Ramer, and to see our new collaboration with SEALFIT. Check out the show notes HERE
Amazing interview with Rich Roll, father of four, vegan, ultra-marathoner, and former entertainment lawyer turned health advocate. His story is amazing to say the least. For all the show notes, links, and to connect with Rich Roll, head over to our show notes page HERE.
Welcome to the 11th Episode of 5 Minute Thursday! Check out our show notes page for all the links mentioned in this episode HERE.
Niyi Sobo, former professional football player for the Saints and founder of iamnotyou.com, comes on the Good Dad Project Podcast and shares his insights on: Fatherhood, how we can improve our lives through ruthless self-evaluation, and how to balance work/life with five kids. For all the show notes and to CONNECT with Niyi, go to our show notes page HERE.
Confidence is something we talk about a lot here on the Good Dad Project! Being a man with confidence, grit, determination, and emotional resiliency is critical to success. For all the FREE resources and links for this show check out our show notes page for this episode HERE.
If you want more confidence, improved self-talk, and have a desire to overcome any obstacle in your life, THIS IS YOUR EPISODE! To see all the show notes and links mentioned in this episode, please see our show notes page HERE.
In this episode, I have a very special guest with me in the studio. For all the resources mentioned in this episode, go to our show notes page here.
#nosleep, #workedallnight, #sleepdeprived, #itsanepidemic. Yep, you’ve heard this before; it’s almost a badge of honor anymore to say you worked 24 hours straight or need to chug 64 ounces of Mountain Dew or Monster to stay awake. Why do we celebrate sleep deprivation, when sleep is our body’s way of repairing itself so we can be our very best? Check out all the resources and links for this episode on our show notes page right here
Money and finances is responsible for over 50% of the divorces in the US today. To be honest, money is not at fault. What is at fault is how we manage money as a family. The question becomes: “How we can we control money vs. money controlling our family?” For all the links mentioned in this episode, check out our show notes page right HERE.
Jordan Goodman, America's Money Answer Man, comes on the Good Dad Project Podcast and shares insights on paying off our mortgages in 5-7 years, paying off credit debit, and saving for the future. Head over to our show notes page and check out all links and resources right here ==> How to Pay off Your Home Mortgage and be Financially Free in 5 Years with Jordan Goodman
Guys: This is a very raw recording with 2 amazing guests. I think you will enjoy it!
You know your family. You know your spouse’s trigger points, what’s going on with their day and what bothers them. You know what is going on in your kids’ lives: their friends, their favorite activities, their sensitivities. Whoa-wait-do you? When is the last time you sat down and really listened, or scheduled an activity together and really made quality time? Too many times our best intentions to build the connections with our family are overlooked by our busy schedules and outside commitments. Changing just some of our simple daily habits, though, can really help strengthen the most important connections of all.
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Getting out of our comfort zones is a critical component to living life to the fullest. In this episode, I share an experience that my son and I went through that has changed our life and relationship forever.
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At the GDP, we’ve had story after story of men overcoming numerous challenges, only to become stronger men and better fathers. Through all of these stories, the common thread is grit and determination. In this episode, we talk with Eric Davis, Navy SEAL and author of Raising Men, continues this trend and brings a fresh perspective on how to become the best version of yourself as a father. Check out all of our show notes and resources for this episode at Leading Your Family From the Front with Eric Davis.
Balance is and having the right mentality is critical to our success as fathers.
This past week we interviewed Jeff Pelizzaro, founder of 18Strong.com. I wanted to highlight some of the pearls that came from his interview because there was a lot! Ultimately, its about pursuing our passions while having the right mindset, focus, and boundaries.
In this episode, I share 3 critical ways to achieve work/life integration. Check out the tips and show notes on our show notes page.
Jeff Pelizzaro, owner of 18Strong.com, entrepreneur, and all-around awesome dad, gives his perspective on living your passion, taking risks, and balancing fatherhood.
Jeff Pelizzaro On Making Your Dreams a RealityLet’s dream for a minute. Wouldn’t it be great if that “crazy” idea for a new business really became a reality? You could do what you really want to do and provide even more for your family. Maybe, just maybe, that idea would grow exponentially and help you realize even bigger dreams. Oh, but you just don’t have the time and that dream really sounds great, but it’s so out there. Is it? Over our last 61 (yes, 61) podcasts, we’ve heard from very successful men about becoming your best self and achieving your greatest potential as an individual and a father. Jeff Pelizzaro is no different: he’s taken his “day job” and turned it into a focused, value-added revenue stream by targeting a very specific niche audience-golfers.
Jeff Pelizzaro on Taking the Leap and Pursuing His PassionJeff Pelizzaro’s podcast and business, 18 Strong, helps golfers at all levels achieve their greatest game on and off the course. Through nutrition and physical training, Jeff shows golfers how to tweak their nutrition and fitness to fit their particular needs. Sounds like a dream job, right? It wasn’t always birdies and double eagles, though. Jeff Pelizzaro started as a physical therapist, working long hours and eventually becoming burned-out; he had the opportunity to change his entire focus to, well, golf. In doing so, however, it meant a big change and a risk for his family. After all, changing from serving a variety of clients to an incredibly niche-based business is risky. In the end, he made the leap and now helps golfers from amateurs to pros perfect their game.
Sacrificing Money to Enjoy What Money Can’t BuyIt wasn’t overnight, though. As always, these great ideas take sacrifice and identifying a balance between home life and work life. Jeff has days, he says, when he’s playing with his kids and a thought about a client crosses his mind. He says it’s definitely not easy, but he’s able to refocus and make sure he is present with his family when he spends time with them. With the help of his wife, Jeff is able to balance the time he needs for his unique business with the time he wants to spend with his family.
YOUR DREAM – GO DO IT!!!!Back to your dream. Maybe you have a great idea for the current business you’re in or maybe it’s something new all together. Whatever it is, though, if you want to do it and it adds value for others, give it a shot. Sure, taking a risk can have its scary moments, but not taking that risk can mean regret.
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Forging Strength in your darkest hour!
I have gotten a ton of feedback from our last podcast on “How to Discover Daily Grit and Gratitude.” From what I have heard, most people were surprised that my family went through such a life altering event by losing my son Gabriel.
I have had a lot of emails, texts, and communication through the GDP community about how much the last episode effected them personally. What I am finding is that there is a vast majority of families out there who are afflicted with miscarriage or death of an infant. I have even had questions asking why I have opened my life up so much about what happened during that six weeks and how it ended.
The bottom line is this…I shared it for several reasons.
It’s Healing
When we go through something that is literally life altering it changes us forever. It’s easy to fall into a mindset up anger. It’s also very common that an event like what our family went through can easily tear the strongest families apart. When we share the events of our life to give strength to others, we heal. Simple as that. When we heal, we help heal others through our own struggles.
Forging Strength of the Family
Losing my son not only effected me, but it also effected my entire family. My wife and two older sons took the loss of our son very hard. To be honest, I underestimated how much it would effect my two oldest boys (Ethan 10 and Mason 8). I can tell you without a doubt a ten year-old and an eight-year old child feels the devastating effects of loss when something like this happens. However, here we are eighteen months later and I can tell you without a doubt our family is stronger now than it ever has been.
Forging Strength through Gratitude
My family learned firsthand the power of the right perspective even in our darkest hour. Our family literally went through six weeks of hell that I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. Knowing you are going to lose your son will rattle even the strongest man. However, I learned the power of having the right perspective in the midst of absolute uncertainty. I kept a daily gratitude journal during this six-week long process and I believe it literally saved me from insanity.
Take 5 Minutes of Gratitude Every Morning
Every morning during that six-week journey, I wrote down three things that I was grateful for every morning. I can tell you without a doubt, that most mornings it was very hard to see the positive aspects in my life. However, I can tell you without a doubt that there were several things in my life that were positive. It took a great deal of discipline to decide to focus on the right things in my life despite the chaos. I would write down things like:
I will admit, on some days I stretched to find gratitude. However, I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt, it was the best thing I did every morning.
My Hope for You
I share this story and this daily routine of:
Morning Gratitude – write down 3 things you are grateful for
Your Power Statement – write down your statement that you will use when the fear wolf starts to whisper in your ear.
Your Mission of the Day – what will you do today. Come hell or high water, what will you accomplish today?
Evening Gratitude – write down 2-3 highlights through the day. Get back into the mindset of gratitude. The highlights are there every day if we decide to reflect on them.
Eradicate Regret from your Life – What was the lowest point of your day? Write it down. Get it out there. Now, instead of focusing on how deeply you regret that low point, ask yourself “what is the lesson?”
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Gratitude is the Secret Sauce to a fulfilled life and is the fuel that develops our grit.
It takes Grit to Climb to the TopSome of us look at a mountain and immediately think, “Eh-there’s no way I’m climbing that thing.” Others of us will look at the mountain and think, “I’m climbing it. It’s not going to be fun or easy, but I’m climbing it.” To climb that mountain takes grit-the stuff that separates those who do from those who simply watch. Of course, having grit is not necessarily something we inherently have. Sometimes, we have to develop it.
What do you do with Adversity?Shawn and Larry share their stories of how they developed grit. Both share the pivotal moments where they had a choice: give up or face the mountain. The essence of their stories is this-developing grit is a process, it’s getting up every day and knowing there is a choice. This choice is to live with gratitude, even in the face of extreme adversity.
Why Morning Gratitude is a MUSTEasier said than done, but if we choose to wake up every morning and look at what lies ahead of us with a grateful heart, challenges will seem easier. Larry suggests making daily gratitude deliberate. In other words, one of the first things he suggests doing each morning is writing down what you are grateful for. (He even includes his kids in on the practice and they look forward to doing it!).
What is your ONE MISSION OF THE DAY?With this in mind, he then suggests creating a daily mission statement. Think about it-when you know what you are going to do, you have a better chance of actually doing it. This mission statement doesn’t have to be profound, it can be something as simple as, “Today I am going to read a book to my kids before bed.” There. Done. And guess what? Mission accomplished.
YOUR POWER STATEMENT!If you happen to see your day getting off track, your mission statement in jeopardy of being derailed, Larry says he uses his “power statement” to bring him back to home base. This “power statement” is the phrase that you utter to yourself when you feel fear keeping you from climbing up that proverbial mountain. It’s the same thing the Navy Seals use when they face a challenge (for more on this, listen to Episode 28 with Mark Divine. Oh! And he’s coming back!). Choose something simple like, “I’ve got this” or, really, whatever speaks to you.
Eradicate Regret from Your Life with EASEEven when you have done all of this, there will be times when we won’t be the best versions of ourselves. But, instead of allowing the regret to take over, embrace it. Yep, that’s right, embrace regret (sounds oxymoronic, but stay with us here). Regret can be a great teacher; it can show us where we need to improve. So, when we embrace regret, we not only learn from what we did wrong, but we also know how to improve in future events. This way, you really are eliminating regret from your life by absorbing its lesson.
Back to GratitudeFinally, when the day is done and you have a chance to reflect on all you have accomplished, look back at two of your most positive moments that day and one regret. Be grateful for each of them, but take a lesson from them as well. Once we learn to master our failures as well as our successes, climbing our many life mountains won’t seem so impossible.
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Work Ethic: The Ultimate Lesson
We had an awesome guest this past week on the Good Dad Project Podcast featuring Joe De Sena, founder of the Spartan Races and New York Times Bestselling author of “Spartan Up!”
Shawn and I have been trying to find the perfect guest to come on the show and talk about work ethic. Joe not only talked about work ethic but also how to teach work ethic to our kids.
Work Ethic and Purposeful Suffering
Joe shared several ways he teaches work ethic to his own kids. Some parents listening to this week’s show might cringe at some of the things he said as it relates to “purposeful suffering.” However, I think his theme on this point was solid! Parents today can be so incredibly over protective that we shelter our kids from any type of growing pains. No parent likes to see their kids experience failure, loss, or even really hard work. However, what we don’t realize is that we are robbing them of critical life lessons that teach work ethic and grit. If we don’t allow our kids to go through any type of pain and suffering and we throw them a life line at every twist and turn, what are we teaching them? I think it’s safe to say when we shield them too much from a lesson of grit and failure, we are doing them a disservice.
Teaching Work Ethic Through Example
It’s been said time and time again that kids learn the best lessons from the example we teach. If we want to help our kids understand the value of hard work, we have to show it to them and teach them how to work hard. Desire and work ethic is one of the most difficult lessons we can instill. However, we have several opportunities to teach it.
For example, the next time our kid wants something (a new bike, a new video game, an expensive toy, a car, etc.) we have the opportunity to show them how to work for it vs. give it to them.
For example, my eight-year old loves football cards, baseball cards, and gum. Instead of just buying him whatever he wants, he has learned to work for things so he can buy them himself. He will sell candy, rice krispy treats, wash cars, or even help with yard work to make a few bucks so he can buy what he wants. It may sound tough to make him do certain things for simple things like games, baseball cards, and gum, but it’s an excellent way to teach him these lessons now. Plus, I have noticed that when he buys something with his own money, he takes much better care of it.
Talking Work Ethic on the MFCEO Project Podcast
I was recently on the MFCEO Project Podcast with Andy Frisella and Vaughn Kohler (aka “The Pastor of Disaster). On that episode Andy and I talked about ways we can leverage our kids failures to teach work ethic and grit. For example, I can’t stand that kids today get trophies and medals for participation. Awards are meant to be earned and not given. Don’t get me wrong, we should always point out the effort our kids put out through communication and encouraging words. However, we should never give out trophies for just showing up.
Awards, trophies, and medals keep kids hungry to keep striving and keep pushing themselves. If awards like this are just given for showing up, what’s the point in trying your best?
Asking Empowering Questions Teach Work Ethic and Grit
When our kids fail, we have a great opportunity to ASK QUESTIONS and not lecture. For example, if your kid participates in a karate tournament and finishes last, it’s a perfect opportunity to ask them questions to get them thinking about solutions to be better. You can ask your kid:
Questions like this get a kid (and adults) thinking about solutions. It also helps identify what needs work and what is needed to get better. Work Ethic and Grit come from knowing what we need to improve and putting in the time and effort to be better.
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Joe De Sena, founder and CEO of Spartan Race, bases his company on the foundation that we, as humans, cannot really reach our full potential until we have gone through struggle. It’s what he calls “purposeful suffering”. Coming from a childhood where he had to learn, on his own, how to make it, Joe De Sena firmly believes his success has come from this purposeful suffering philosophy.
As we’ve seen many times before on the GDP, some of the greatest success stories have come out of a poor upbringing or incredibly challenging circumstances. But there are lessons to be learned from these situations.
Joe De Sena on an "Attitude of Gratitude"We are the creator, not just the product of our environment. Teaching your kids that their circumstances do no define them empowers them to face obstacles they will certainly come across in their adult lives. Instead of being a victim of circumstance, help your child, and yourself, adopt an attitude of gratitude. While the situation may be difficult, find the growth opportunity.
Joe De Sena on the value of "Delayed Gratification"Delayed gratification. Joe tells a great story of how his desire for greater things helped him turn down opportunities for instant gratification, and thankfully, his actions paid off. By showing our kids that putting off an immediate want for something greater, we are giving them the gift of patience and teaching them to plant the seeds for their future goals.
PerseveranceEnough said. The success stories on the GDP are not from overnight successes-those are few and very far between. The true successes, the ones that get to the marrow, are those that are had from great sacrifice and tenacity. When we teach kids that they can conquer obstacles they did not think they were capable of conquering, we provide opportunities to build their self-confidence and lay the foundation for them to reach their full potential.
Of course, these lessons take time to teach, and we may need to learn them ourselves, first, but they are critical for survival in this world. Instead of handing our kids everything they desire and protecting them at every turn, give them something greater: the inner power to reach the best version of themselves.
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First and foremost, we need to forget about being the perfect father, because in all honesty, it doesn’t exist. Being a dad is extremely rewarding, but it is also a tough business. As men, we take a lot of pride in providing for our families and sharpening our craft in the workforce. We are wired to hunt and problem solve. Being a father is a dynamic that constantly sharpened and we can be humbled at every turn. Keep in mind, perfection is a myth. If you want true happiness, focus on progress and not perfection.
Anger Management Tip #2: Know your Triggers
Being proactive in our mindset will set us up for ultimate success. Most of us men have the lowest amount of patience when we first wake up in the morning, come home from work, and right before bed. Why is that? In the morning, we are just trying to clear the cobwebs before taking on the day. Not taking time to wake up 15-30 minutes early (before the kids) is like going for a 3 mile sprint without a warmup. When we come home from work, we are usually exhausted, overloaded, and "hangry" (hungry and angry). Late at night we are usually pretty spent, exhausted, the kids can be fighting us in every way possible to go to bed.
Solution for the morning
Get up early, shower, pray (if you are spiritual), meditate (if that is your thing), listen to a podcast (if you are more of an audio person), etc…you get it. Do something for yourself to warm your mind and patience up.
Solution for the ride home from work
Grab a snack to get that blood sugar up and listen to something empowering (podcast, audiobook, your favorite workout music, etc). The point is get the blood sugar in check and your mind in the right place.
Solution for late at night
Keep in mind that your evenings are meant to make the best memories, so don’t blow it. Set the evening up for success by doing something (other than watching TV) as a family. Also, spend time with each kid before bed (pray together, talk about the day, ask questions that bring our gratitude, etc.) This will honestly propel your evening and experience into a new orbit.
Anger Management Tip #3: Calm through the Breath
Even the greatest dads have bad moments. We all have been moment no matter how hard we try. We all have the knee jerk reaction when we blow up and explode. After we react like that there is a ton of guilt, shame, and defeat that follows. Want to know the secret to staying calm, cool, and collected? Here it is: you have to create some “mental space” between your knee jerk reaction and your response. Meaning, think before you act. We can all achieve this by doing the most natural thing that we do unconsciously…breathe. We can use the breath to calm ourselves. Three deep breaths is all you need in the heat of the moment to calm yourself just enough to respond versus react. Go check out our interview with Mark Divine on How to Create an Unbeatable Mind - Episode 28, for more information on breath control.
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Ah, Clark Griswold; the preeminent example of a father and husband with the best of intentions, but reaction challenged when it comes to dealing with life’s hurdles and controlling his temper. Of course he wants the best for his family: from great vacations to Wally World to finding the biggest Christmas tree. Unfortunately, on his quest to be the “perfect father”, he tends to respond in anger and frustration when things don’t go the way he plans. Sound typical? Ok, so maybe Griswold is a bit extreme (or maybe not), but you have more than likely had a moment or two when frustration has gotten the best of you. Larry and Shawn provide 5 easy ways to keep your anger and frustration at bay.
Your Temper and the "Perfect Father Myth"Before we go any further, let’s dispel the “perfect father” myth; there is no perfect father, doesn’t exist. We’re human, have emotions and sometimes, those emotions get the better of us and that’s okay. As Larry says, “great fathers have bad moments”, it’s what you do in those moments that build your character and provide a positive example for those around you, specifically your children.
Controlling our Temper Means Knowing our TriggersSo, what’s a guy to do when it seems like the world is pushing all of your buttons? Know your triggers. Maybe it’s repeating yourself to get your kids to pick up after themselves or you’ve just come home from a full day of work and you are barraged with requests to help with homework and the kids. Whatever your triggers, identify them so that you can do what you need to do to prepare yourself ahead of time and following these 5 ideas might just help diffuse your response:
Temper Tip #1: BreatheBe able to take a breath. Not just that little hyperventilating breath, either. This breath needs to be a nice, long, drawn breath, enough to calm you and bring you back to a state of peace. It should allow you to reset yourself and prepare you to deal with the situation at hand in a rational manner.
Temper Tip #2: Walk AwayWalk away. In the heat of the moment, our adrenaline may make us want to stay in the situation and argue. But cooler heads do prevail, walking away when we feel our blood boiling will keep us from saying things we may later regret. Not only that, walking away gives us a chance to get perspective on the situation. Adrenaline only muddies the waters.
Temper Tip #3: Stay ActiveStay active. If there’s one concept that is driven home on a regular basis on the GDP, it’s the benefits of exercise and overall health. In the case of anger and frustration, physical activity can also help us to channel this aggression into something more positive. So, there’s really a dual benefit: your anger remains at bay and you stay fit!
Temper Tip #4: Surround Yourself with the RIGHT PeopleSurround yourself with positive, supportive people. Enough said. You need a sounding board that has been through similar experiences and can give you either advice or a simple listening ear.
Temper Tip #5: When you do Lose your Cool, ApologizeFinally, when you do lose your cool, apologize. Even if it goes against everything you feel like doing, an apology goes a long way in repairing a bridge that may be a little singed. Apologies disarm people and pave the way to build a relationship into a stronger force.
Forget about PerfectionForget the “perfect father” myth. Let it remain just that: a myth. We are human, prone to the same emotions of all other humans; it’s what we do with those emotions that make us who we truly are.
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The Good Dad Project Podcast with Frankie Edgar was a game changer for so many reasons. The coolest thing about the GDP and having a dad podcast is that no matter fame nor fortune, men jump at the chance to share their views, their journey, and even their struggles.
For this week’s five minute Thursday, I wanted to recap some highlights from the interview with Frankie.
When under pressure, be calm, cool, and collectedWhen the UFC Octagon cage doors close…anything can happen. The secret to a successful outcome in the octagon is being prepared for anything because anything can happen. Frankie shares that being calm, cool, and collected is absolutely necessary to be able to think rationally.
Being calm, cool, and collected is a skill that transfers from the cage to the family. Through our journey of fatherhood, there will be situations that test us under pressure. When we respond calmly and avoid a knee-jerk panic reaction, it illustrates our emotional resiliency.
How to teach GRITTeaching grit is probably one the most difficult lessons to teach our kids. Our instinct is to protect them from anything that is difficult. Our society also puts such an emphasis on winning at all costs.
Frankie mentioned that he loves leveraging sports to teach his kids grit. For example, he doesn’t really care if his kids win or lose a wrestling match. What he wants to see if how hard they fight for the win. If there isn’t a desire and a fire in the belly to win, that is a bigger problem. None of us can coach desire. Desire is either there or it’s not. However, we can teach how to leverage our desire to win to tap into our grit. We can even leverage our losses to teach us lessons on how to win in the future. Finally, we can teach grit through losing and failure. A victory is even sweeter when we have to work at it extremely hard. Lessons of grit are learned through sports and as parents we can use situations like losses to teach these lessons.
For Parents of Youth Sports: Take a Seat and EnjoyFrankie had some excellent advice for parents of youth sports and that’s “take a seat and enjoy.” Be the silent voice of love and support when it comes to sports. Its extremely difficult to not get emotionally wrapped up in our kids sports performance. I am speaking from a father who is a parent and a coach of my kids sports teams and I see it all the time.
Parents can be extremely tough on their kids even when they think they are helping. I didn’t really get this mentality until I read The Matheny Manifesto by Mike Matheny, manager of the St. Louis Cardinals. If you really want to see your child love sports and if you want to see peak performance…take a seat, enjoy, and let the coaches do their jobs.
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Frankie Edgar comes on the Good Dad Project Podcast and shares amazing insight with our listeners on work ethic, family, and grit. This interview is EPIC on so many levels.
About Frankie EdgarFrankie Edgar is a professional MMA fighter in the UFC. Frankie started his successful fighting career with a solid foundation of wrestling. Two-time State Place Winner for New Jersey, 2nd in HS Nationals in 2000, 4x Division 1 National Qualifier for Clarion University and College Freestyle All-American in 2004. He currently fights in the 155LB weight class in the UFC with 18 wins, 4 losses, and 1 Draw. Frankie has 3 kids – 2 boys and 1 girl.
Frankie Edgar's UpbringingWe are responsible for what we do, or for that fact, do not do. Frankie Edgar, UFC Champion fighter knows this very well. Growing up in New Jersey in a working class family, Frankie’s father showed his kids a life template for how to get through the good and rough times in life. Through his sacrifices for his family, Frankie learned from his own father that even when life doesn’t deal you a fair hand, it is up to the individual to do what is necessary to make the situation right.
Extreme Ownership and Life Lessons of WrestlingFrankie took this mindset to the mat as a wrestler as well. Frankie says the sport is different from other sports in that when you lose a match, the blame falls solely on your shoulders. There’s no one else to point the finger at. You either pinned your opponent or you didn’t. And so it goes in life: those who are successful are willing to take the blame for their mistakes and also know how to take a lesson from those mistakes.
Life Lessons Learned from the CageIn the cage, Frankie says, even when he is faced with mind-wrecking punches, he has to remain “cool, calm and collected and make rational decisions.” Demonstrating this in the ring and in his life, he is able to set the example for his children that even in the most trying conditions, a calm mindset will help to fully understand the situation and make the best decision.
Take a Seat and EnjoyEven when it comes to his own children, and those he coaches, he says he “take a seat and enjoy." He gives the same advice to parents of athletes. Instead of forcing your own desires on your kids, give them a choice so they feel empowered and know that they can make the decisions that impact their lives. (This seems to be a pervasive theme among all elite athletes we’ve spoken with).
Frankie Edgar on Teaching GritOverall, Frankie Edgar wants to make sure his kids learn to have grit, be good people and have a sense of culture. When it comes to his kids, Frankie says, he goes with his gut.
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Other Shows Mentioned in this EpisodeGood Dad Project with Carlos Condit on Grit and Gratitude
Good Dad Project with Jake Herbert on the Gold Medal Mindset
Good Dad Project with Charlie Brenneman on Driven for Excellence
Good Dad Project with Jim Miller on Living a Life without Regret
Hey guys for this week’s “Five Minute Thursday” I wanted to highlight a few takeaways from our interview with Jason Mackenzie, founder of the The Book of Open.
Empowerment through Vulnerability
For most men, we associate vulnerability with weakness. To be honest, even hearing the word “vulnerable” my first thought is “unwanted exposure to weakness.” However, vulnerability is a strength. Vulnerability is empowerment through authenticity, which is being true to one’s self.
I have been working with men/fathers for the past three years, and I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that if men are going to be “vulnerable” with each other, it has to be in an atmosphere or situation where it “cool thing.”
I can tell you from experience that men will check out when you start talking about sensitive stuff like “let’s share our feelings.” Men simply don’t respond to that when in the presence of another man. In fact, it’s even hard for us to do this with our wives for the most part.
However, men are good at one thing…problem solving. We love to problem solve. We feel empowered when we share our wisdom and give advice. To be honest, being vulnerable is sharing a struggle or an obstacle and simply asking for input.
The way to kick start a “cool atmosphere” of vulnerability is to ask for advice from a friend.
Here’s an example that will really hit this home…If you are sitting across that table with a friend and he says:
“Hey Mike, I am struggling in my marriage and I need to share my feelings with you about it.”
OR
“Hey Mike…man…so check this out, Jen and I are having some tough times lately. There is a ton of tension between Jen and me. I can’t really figure out how to get things back in the groove. Have you and Becky been through this? If so, how can you help me out man?”
Which one of those sounds better and would be received better? It’s the same dilemma and situation…just teed up better.
Abundance versus Scarcity
Jason hit upon a great topic that is powerful for all of us and that is having the right mentality. Our brains are wired up to default to fear and keep us from danger. This part of our brain is the amygdala and it has been a part of our hardwired DNA since the beginning. This is the part of our brain where we hear the voice of fear and consequences. It’s the same part of your brain that will talk you out of risks and tells you are not good enough. It’s not our fault; it’s just part of our hardwiring.
It takes a trained and disciplined mind to look at our lives with abundance vs. scarcity. Successful people don’t think about what they are going to lose by taking a calculated risk. Successful people consider what they will lose if they don’t take a calculated risk and move forward.
So, the next time that fear voice starts to bend your ear, remember the words of wisdom from Jason Mackenzie on this subject. It’s all about perspective and reframing.
No One Relates to Perfection
I grew up in the 80’s and I was a die-hard WWF professional wrestling fan. Hulk Hogan, Rick Flair, Jimmy Superfly, and so-on were my heroes. The most hated guys in that sport at that time was “Mr. Perfect and Mr. Wonderful.” Want to know why? It’s because no one can relate to inflated egos and perfection.
People relate to real-life authenticity and transparency. Our greatest human need is the need for community and relationships. It’s impossible for us to relate to others that view themselves as superhuman or “perfect.”
The big lesson here is there is connection and empowerment through being authentic, vulnerable, and transparent. People relate to us better in that mindset and we are more willing to accept ourselves.
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The life that Jason Mackenzie had longed for was ripped out from underneath him when the mother of his daughters was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. After years of trying to hide the pain of watching his wife literally fall apart before him, Jason had to face the reality that his dream life was gone. His wife committed suicide and left him to raise their two daughters on his own. To deal with the pain of his wife’s condition, Jason turned to drinking.
I recently had the honor of interviewing Jack Canfield one-on-one for an hour. I have to tell you it was one the most inspiring interviews I have done to date. For those of you who don’t know Jack Canfield, he is one of the most successful authors and success coaches of our time. He known world-wide for his Chicken Soup for the Soul Series and his Success Principles Series. His books have reached the lives of over 100 million readers and his inspiration is reaching more people every day.
Before I did this interview, I only knew Jack Canfield as the successful person he is today. I have often heard the quote: “When you see a successful person, we usually only see the tip of the iceberg. We usually don’t see all the hardships, failures, and challenges these people have gone through in their lives to get where they are today.” After spending an hour with Jack, I can tell you I was shocked to hear about his challenging childhood with alcoholic parents, the number of times he was rejected for “Chicken Soup for the Soul” (144 rejections), and that he earned a C+ in writing at Harvard.
Below are just few takeaways I learned from spending just 60 minutes with Jack Canfield
DON'T LET YOUR CHILDHOOD CRIPPLE YOU
Jack had a very difficult childhood raised by a father who was an alcoholic. The cool thing about Jack Canfield is that he used his childhood as an example of what he didn't want to be as an adult. The main point is we have people in or society that live in two camps.
Camp #1- Those of us who leverage challenging times to fuel our future success.
Camp #2- Those of us who use our backgrounds for excuses as to why we are not successful and never will be.
So my question to you guys is: “WHAT CAMP DO YOU LIVE IN?”
If you are in camp #2: Congrats because you have made an awesome choice on the path to an empowering life versus a victim mentality life. If you are in camp #1: it’s time to re-evaluate your life and ask yourself better questions. If you are in camp one...go back and listen to Episode 28 with Navy Seal Commander Mark Divine on HOW TO CREATE AN UNBEATABLE MIND. That episode will give you a solid foundation on how to forge mental toughness and become resilient.
DON'T LET YOUR GRADES DICTATE YOUR SUCCESS IN LIFE
Jack got a “C+” in writing at Harvard and was always told he was an "average writer.” Jack is now one of the most successful authors of our time. Had he listened to his professors at Harvard and didn't move forward with his passion to tell stories, our generation would not know the Jack Canfield we know today and he would have never had such a positive impact on the world. S
So, my question to you is: “WHAT HAVE OTHER PEOPLE TOLD YOU ABOUT YOUR SKILL OR PASSION THAT YOU HAVE BOUGHT INTO?” What if for a minute you no longer bought into those labels? What if you decided to step into your greatness? What would be the worst that could happen? I grantee 2 things are certain:
DON'T LET FAILURE STOP YOU
Jack was rejected by 144 publishers for his first “Chicken Soup for the Soul” Book. Let that sink in for a second...144 rejections. How would you feel about your purpose/passion if you were rejected 5 times, 10 times, 50 times, or even 100 times? What if Jack Would have thrown in the towel at the 143rd rejection? The cool thing that Jack Canfield mentioned is that he would have self-published no matter what. It's empowering to have a backup plan and know you will move forward even if it's on your own when no one else believes in you. The lesson here is to fail forward and not give up. Each time we fail there is a life lesson, we learn, and we move forward.
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See you next week with a powerhouse guest! Up next week have Jason Mackenzie with The Book of Open, we also have Joe De Sena, founder of the Spartan Races and NYT BESTSELLER of SPARTAN UP. FINALLY also have professional UFC fighter Frankie Edgar also coming up in a few weeks.
Guys have a great weekend and live your life with purpose and without regret!
Jack Canfield, author of Chicken Soup for the Soul as well as a new book, 30 Day Sobriety Solution, gives a fresh perspective on this sometimes difficult balance.
Jack Canfield on ResiliencySo, maybe you didn’t have the best childhood, or maybe you grew up with every privilege under the sun. It really doesn’t matter. It’s really all about how you come out of the situation and how you respond to the situations you’ve been through. Through this, you provide your children with the ultimate example of resiliency and success.
“Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of life’s longing for itself. They come through you, but not from you. And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.”- Khalil Gibran.
Wow. Such an impactful statement, but one that might be hard to put into practice. We want so much for our children to have the best of everything that we sometimes lose sight of our role in their lives. Sometimes we forget that our children are their own person, not a smaller replica of ourselves. In not understanding this difference, we may try to put our children in activities or situations we wish we would have had for our own childhoods.
Jack Canfield on IntentionBut, it’s also about having the intention and willingness to put in the time. Jack had regrets and guilt in parenting, but he was able overcome those feelings because he knew he had to be the best example as a father. He knew he had to love each of his children individually. There’s a lesson here: you’ve got to love each child the way they want to receive it, not the way you want to give it. Accept your child for the person they are, not for whom you want them to be. Sometimes we try to turn our children into the children we wished we could have been or have the opportunities that will make us look like good parents. You have children; you are not your children. You have to let them be themselves.
Correcting Behavior and PraiseWhen children make mistakes, instead of constantly correcting them for what they have done wrong, point out what they have done right. Leave it there. Then, when they attempt the same task again, praise what they did the time before and then give a suggestion regarding the part of the task they need to correct. If you have young children, be careful with how you approach moments where they fail and succeed. Between the ages of 3-8, Jack says, research indicates that their self esteem is at its most vulnerable. Granted, during their entire childhood children are building their self worth, but it is these years that seem the most critical.
Jack Canfield and The 30 Day Sobriety SolutionBut being the best parent for our children stems, as we’ve seen so many times on the GDP, from how we respond to challenges in our daily lives. Jack approaches this in his new book, 30 Day Sobriety Solution. You may not be an alcoholic, but Jack says in his book that even when we are casual, social drinkers, we still may be using that glass of wine or a beer to “wind down” or “take the edge off.” You may even find that when you have that drink, you aren’t really present for those you love: you’d rather fall asleep instead of reading your child that bed time story after the simple glass of wine (or two). Maybe you question how you’ll enjoy a night out without that one drink, or how you’ll get through that social work setting without the beer. But as Jack points out and his book addresses, there may be some underlying factors we may be covering with that drink.
It's about being your BEST SELFIt’s really about being your best self in all aspects of your life-putting down a drink may just be one of them. Jack’s advice? Be as committed to being a great dad as you are to your job, your hobby or other things you find important. If you want something different, you have to do something different. The choices you make and actions you take today determine your outcomes for tomorrow.
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George Bryant: Marine, successful author, innovator in the field of the Paleo Diet. These accolades don’t exactly trigger images of someone you might believe has had to battle through some of life’s greatest challenges. Though, George Bryant is just that man. It is only through his incredibly difficult childhood, one of tremendous neglect and abuse, that he found his true strength. George has taken what could have been one heck of an excuse to opt out of being successful in life and turned it into the ultimate inspiration.
Jim Harshaw believes failure, struggle and setbacks are not only an inevitable part of life but a necessary step on the path to success. Jim Harshaw has learned many life lessons on the wrestling mat. Having been a Division I All American and won three ACC Championships for the University of Virginia, trained at the Olympic Training Center and competed overseas for Team USA he has experienced significant triumph and devastating defeat. He relates those powerful lessons of failure, struggle and setback to empower his audiences to overcome their own challenges and achieve success despite their inevitable failures.
Larry and Shawn interviewed Jim Miller to discuss his perspective on living life to the fullest and living a life without regrets. This show is a game changer and by far one of our best yet for the Good Dad Project Podcast. There are so many nuggets in this interview that are life changing. Tune in, enjoy, and share it.
Larry reveals why he is so passionate about being a dad with purpose, his challenging childhood, and how he has become a student of fatherhood. In this episode, he shares details of his childhood, fatherless environment, the lowest points in his life, and how he has turned his struggles into strategies for success.
In this intimate look into the life of Shawn Stevenson, one half of The Good Dad Project Podcast, Shawn shares the reason he is so passionate about fatherhood and being part of this wonderful program. This successful author, entrepreneur, health and wellness expert (not to mention being “audio velvet”) takes us behind the scenes into his upbringing and the challenges he faced that brought him to achieve his best version of himself.
Drew Manning comes on the GDP Podcast to talk about the importance of health and fatherhood.
Larry and Shawn interview Pat Flynn, found of Smart Passive Income. Pat shares so many life lessons about work/life balance and how to start a passive income online. This show is great for anyone who is serious about taking their passion and purpose to an online business.
Larry and Shawn do a deep dive into how to achieve our desired goals for the new year. They do a deep dive into why goals that aren’t “SMART” goals, chances are you won’t stick to them. Check out this episode and learn how to make your goals a reality.
Dan Miller is a New York Times Bestselling Author of “48 Days to the Work You Love.” Dan shares so many insights and several life changing nuggets as it pertains our professional life and work/life balance.
Have you ever wondered what the mentality is of someone who is striving to be the best int the world? Jake Herbert shares several insights about having a “Gold Medal Mindset” as he chases his life dream of being the best in the world and winning gold in 2016.
Have you ever been curious to learn what it takes to build an unbeatable mind and forge mental toughness? Larry and Shawn recap Larry’s retreat at Mark Divine’s Unbeatable Mind retreat.
John Maxwell is known to many as a genius when it comes to success and leadership. In this episode, Larry and Shawn present seven habits that successful people live by. They give several examples and perspectives of how to implement these strategies in your life as a father and provider.
John Maxwell is known to many as a genius when it comes to success and leadership. In this episode, Larry and Shawn present seven habits that successful people live by. They give several examples and perspectives of how to implement these strategies in your life as a father and provider.
Tis the season for giving and sharing! The holidays are a great time of year, but can also come with a great deal of stress if we don’t plan right. Holidays are all about enjoying time together with family, friends, and kids. We can set ourselves up for ultimate success and fulfillment if we keep the right perspective and plan for success. In this episode Shawn and Larry offer five solid strategies that will be sure to make your holiday more enjoyable, create more lasting memories without all the added stress.
In today’s world raising confident kids is a must! Our kids are faced with more challenges and obstacles than ever before. As parents, it’s critical that we help arm them with ways to develop their self-esteem, self-worth, and confidence.
Work/Life balance can be a challenge for men. We are wired to work hard and provide for our families. Working hard and making money is important, but success at the office can mean sacrificing our relationships. Believe it or not, we can achieve success in business as well as relationships.
One of the things fathers crave most is a blueprint of success. In the episode, Larry and Shawn interview former olympic athlete and life coach, Dr. Jeff Spencer.
Shawn and I wanted to honor those who defend the freedoms we have in this country. We interviewed Ryan Michler, founder of Order of Man and Iraqi Combat Veteran. Ryan shares: why he chose to enlist in the military, the lessons he learned, his experience of being under attack, and the how he stepped back into civilian life after war.
In this episode, Larry and Shawn discuss the number one human fear and how we can overcome it.
Larry and Shawn discuss one of the most popular chapters in Larry’s book called “Why Perfection will Cripple you as a Father.”
Larry and Shawn reached out to GDP community and asked one simple question: “What is one life lesson your father taught you and has made you the man you are today.” We had several responses and we chose five.
Larry and Shawn interview NY Times Best Selling Author and Navy Seal, Mark Divine, to discuss the strategies and techniques to developing an unbeatable mind and forge mental toughness.
Larry and Shawn reached out to GDP community and asked one simple question: “What is one life lesson your father taught you and has made you the man you are today.” We had several responses and we chose five.
Teaching your kids leadership through example is a powerful lesson. Devon Bandison, from “Fatherhood is Leadership” discusses several ways we can teach our kids lessons of leadership and confidence through example.
Larry and Shawn interview professional comedian, Justin Worsham. Justin shares why having a sense of humor is so important when it comes to our fatherhood journey. At times when we just want to snap and lose our cool in the heat of the moment. Justin shares great tips and insight of how our own sense of humor can save the day. This episode was truly remarkable!
Is your child a victim of being bullied? If so, this is an episode you will not want to miss. On October 16, 2006, Tina Meier’s life took a devastating turn when her 13 year old daughter, Megan Taylor Meier, took her own life after being cyberbullied. In December of 2007, Tina Meier founded the Megan Meier Foundation, a nonprofit whose mission is to promote awareness, education and positive change in response to the issues surrounding bullying, cyberbullying and suicide.
Having a strong known purpose is absolutely critical to our success as dads. Once we know what we stand for and why, our journey of fatherhood becomes extremely clear. In this episode, you will discover your own mission and your why to empower your dad journey.
Larry and Shawn interview Drew Manning from “Fit 2 Fat 2 Fit.” Drew went on a very unique journey for a year where he purposefully gained 70 pounds and got completely out of shape. He then took six months and got right back into peak shape. He shares his journey of how his sub optimal health had devastating effect on his confidence, relationships, and productivity.
Do you find it hard to stay positive when things are fighting you? Shawn and Larry share some personal experiences of how they lived with the wrong perspective and it was devastating.
Eating healthy can be expensive. Feeding an entire family healthy food can get outrageous. In this episode, Larry and Shawn share 10 simple ways to eat healthy without breaking the bank.
Larry and Shawn interview Ryan Hawk, founder of The Learning Leader. Ryan has quickly become a big name in the online self-development space. He has a full time job, he is a father of 5 daughters, and he successfully has launched a podcast called “The Learning Leader.” Ryan shares essential tips to ensure busy dads can achieve balance in their lives.
Larry and Shawn interview Brian McGraw and Jon Graf, financial advisors and show sponsors of the Good Dad Project. Saving for retirement can be stressful and daunting. However, it doesn’t have to be. Brian and Jon give great tips and strategies on how we can simplify saving for retirement and avoiding the common mistakes.
Larry and Shawn interview Ryan Michler, founder of the “Order of Man.” Ryan goes into detail about his background and surviving a negative childhood father figure. He also shares insights and techniques for positive parenting skills in the midst of being raised in a very negative environment.
Larry and Shawn interview Thomas Fiffer, chief Editor of the Good Men Project. Thomas Fiffer is an author, speaker, and a divorced Dad of two boys. Thomas gives several essential strategies to overcome parenting challenges for other divorced men. In particular:
Overcoming common challenges of Divorced Dads
How to model healthy relationship behavior to our kids
How to Dismantle the stereotypical incompetent father stereotype
Nick Pavlidis takes us into the mind and house of a terrible husband.
Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson share 4 fundamental strategies to help Dads and kids improve sports performance anxiety and sports competition enjoyment.
In this episode, Shawn and Larry dive into 3 strategies about how to improve patience, especially our “dad patience.”
Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson interview Hal Elrod, one the world’s most popular and sought after success coaches. Hal goes in depth on being a good dad and how he uses “The Miracle Morning” strategies to be a more purposeful father.
Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson interview Armando Cruz about the R.I.C.H. (Respect, Inspired, Connected, Happy) Man experience and how to connect with your spouse.
Most men are extremely nervous about being a new dad. Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson talk about the top 3 concerns that most new dads share: money, potential changes in the marital/romantic relationship, and time with friends.
Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson get personal on this episode and share some of the things they struggle with most and how they have personally learned to overcome weakness.
Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson interview Jay Forte about how Dads can their Greatness Zone by leveraging the 3 A’s: Aware, Accountable, and Authentic.
Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson interview Dan Nessel, Director of Marketing for Perfect Supplements, to talk about the 5 best supplements for busy dads. In this episode: Larry, Shawn, and Dan share common supplemental needs for the everyday busy Dad. We all want to have more energy, more mental clarity, and an increase in sex drive. Dan shares some great insight as to why many men are affected by supplemental deficiencies in their diet and how Perfect Supplements can help.
Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson discuss the current staggering statistics of the amount of TV our kids watch on a weekly basis. Larry and Shawn share 5 key strategies to make quality time at home memorable, fun, and interactive without depending on TV. Listening to this episode will give you ideas that will immediately impact positive interaction with the entire family.
In this episode, Shawn and Larry talk about some shocking statistics about sex and marriage. Larry and Shawn share 3 strategies to improve your sex life. These strategies include: ensuring men connect with their partners on an emotional level first; not rushing physical intimacy; and how a reduction in stress can improve sex.
Larry Hagner and Shawn Stevenson talk about how important it is to choose your peers wisely. Listen as Shawn and Larry share knowledge gained at a Tony Robbins event: Jim Rohn’s “The Law of Averages” when it comes to your circle of friends. Shawn and Larry also share their background and talk about what led them to coming together to create The Good Dad Project: Teaching men to strive to be better every day, living with purpose, on purpose.
We have limited time in the day to connect with our spouse. We have demands of work, homework, extra curricular activities with kids, our health, hobbies, quality time with our kids and family.
At times, there is very little time to connect during the day. We can be exhausted from the day. We burn the candle on both ends. When we don’t make time for our spouse we can potentially lose our connection. We lose intimacy. In this episode, Larry and Shawn outline 5 great ideas to keep your spousal relationship vibrant.
Get tips on how to live a healthy lifestyle in this episode of The Good Dad Project. As Men our bodies need certain nutrients to allow us to show up to life fully. As we age this need increases. Shawn happens to be the host of the largest health podcast in the world and knows what he's talking about. So listen closely to his tips to find out how to increase your energy, lose a few extra pounds and even increase your libido. This episode gives you all your body needs to be a Dad on Purpose.
Larry and Shawn talk about ways to improve your connection with your kids. Listen as Shawn and Larry share their background and talk about what led them to coming together to create the GOOD DAD PROJECT. Growing up with similar back grounds, Shawn and Larry come together with amazing perspectives on what our kids are really looking for from their dads. Teaching them to strive to be better every day, living with purpose, on purpose.
Can we live a life of purpose and still make a living to support our families? Can we do the work that we love and still be profitable? The answer is absolutely YES, and Aaron Walker from View from the Top is here to tell us how. For show notes and special links mentioned in this episode CLICK HERE.
This episode of Thursday Throwdown, we are going to talk about our wives or significant others. As men, we have a hard time balancing our relationships, especially when kids come into our lives. Most of the time, it's the relationship with the woman in our life that gets put on the back burner. We take it for granted. This is when our marriages are in danger of becoming stagnant. So how can we feed our relationship so that it's always growing and thriving? I will tell you three ways. For the show notes and links for this episode CLICK HERE.
What if you treated your kids with the same respect as you would your biggest business client or investor?
Jim Sheils is a real estate investor and the author of The Family Board Meeting: Is Business Success Hurting Your Family? He is also the founder of Board Meetings International, which offers retreats and online tools to help busy professionals and entrepreneurs forge lasting bonds with their kids. Jim talks about how to magnify your presence with your kid with special one-on-one board meetings. Check out the details in the show notes here.
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