4195 - We must uphold Chabad standards; lowering them for fear of losing students is not an option.

In Chabad, all matters should be conducted pleasantly. We don't chase anyone away; instead, we explain that it's for their benefit. Unlike the Musar approach, which elaborates on the negative, we concentrate on explaining the positive. We farbreng with them, share stories, and sing and dance. https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/igroskodesh/012/007/4195