The secret to overcoming shame! (Spiritual Bypassers #018)

Welcome to The Spiritual Bypassers—the podcast where three friends, Ashley, Jannick, and Tim, take on spirituality, personal growth, and emotional release with a healthy dose of sarcasm, vulnerability, and belly laughs. Despite the title, there’s no shortcutting our emotions here—just raw honesty and probably more oversharing than necessary. Think of it as self-help, but with fewer mantras and more awkward moments. It’s spiritual growth, but not as your guru recommended. So, grab your crystals (or don’t), settle in, and get ready for a wild ride of real talk, questionable advice, and lots of laughs!

In this episode we are diving deep into the emotion of shame. We talk about healthy shame, toxic shame and ways how you can work with it! We share personal storys of how shame is showing up in our lifes and how to have more self compassion. We hope you enjoy this episode!

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Jannick

Free community: https://www.skool.com/fearfuckers
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Ashley

Website: https://www.ashleyvelvetfrost.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyvelvetfrost/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCylDs6MMxYTOWELdsU7ro_w

Tim

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/timdajan/

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0:00 - Intro
01:46 - The connection between shame and worthyness
05:51 - Where does toxic shame come from?
18:52 - How to deal with shame
36:14 - The needyness that comes from shame