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What happens when our identity becomes so tightly intertwined with what we do? When we experience obstacles in our professional life, how do we deal with that loss of confidence? 

This week in episode 2, we’re unraveling these questions in the context of Ted Lasso’s second season and unpacking what it means to be true to who you are, how to find comfort and encouragement in the people you trust, and why we have to be brave in moments of vulnerability. 

As we discuss decoupling our identity as a professional from our identity as a person, we consider this question of security vs. success and how to balance and encourage the growth of both in a workspace. 

“We talk a lot in the work that we do about wanting to create these psychologically safe spaces. We want to create spaces where people can show up and be themselves, and that’s what Ted has done. But at what point does that pendulum swing too far to the other end where it’s damaging the organization?” – Dimple (12:54) 

In This Episode

• [4:15] Why it’s important for leaders to pay attention to the dynamics between their team members
• [11:27] How to separate your identity from your profession and also encourage success in your organization
• [17:40] How familial relationships influence the way we interact with others
• [22:14] Why we have to challenge our people to be the best versions of themselves 
• [35:17] How to balance supporting a team vs. the individual members
• [42:23] The Prince of Tides connection and how different people deal with pain
• [47:07] Key takeaways: fostering psychologically safe spaces while encouraging success and creating space for vulnerability

Resources & Links

• Mentioned
• Every Person Who Got an Army Man and Its Meaning
• Brene Brown – The Man in the Arena
• Matthew Syed – The Greatest: The Quest for Sporting Perfection
• Why Prince of Tides is Dr. Sharon’s Favorite Book

• #WWTLD 
• https://www.wwtldpodcast.com/
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• Learn More About Dimple Dhabalia 
• https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/
• https://twitter.com/dimpstory
• https://www.instagram.com/dimpstory/
• https://www.facebook.com/dimpledhabalia
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/dimpledhabalia/
• Why Radically Human Leadership Is More Important Than Ever 
• https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/why-radically-human-leadership-is-more-important-than-ever
• 4 Steps to Creating A Human-Centered Organization
• https://www.rootsintheclouds.com/blog/004-4-steps-to-creating-a-human-centered-organization
• Learn More About Jeff Harry 
• https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/
• https://twitter.com/jeffharryplays
• https://www.instagram.com/jeffharryplays/
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffharryplays/
• https://www.youtube.com/jeffharryplays
• https://www.tiktok.com/@jeffharryplays
• Building Psychological Safety At Work
• https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/building-psychological-safety
• Solve Your Problem With Play
• https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/coaching
• Jeff’s Positive Psychology Playlist
• https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/playlist