wise people can see curses as blessings / wise people recognize that even good people sometimes act out of character, and are inclined overlook another’s faults / wise people acknowledge their own misbehavior and feel a purifying sense of repentance / wise people are inclined to acknowledge their own offense towards another & disinclined to accept another’s offense towards themself / dvija-deva-gobhyaḥ - the care for the culture of wisdom, God consciousness and the cows
SB 1.19.1 - 1.19.3