On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Do you find yourself often thinking about breaking up?

Do you and your partner have unresolved conflicts that keep resurfacing?

In this episode, Jay tackles the tough emotions and uncertainty many face when considering a breakup. He talks about why people stay in or leave relationships, touching on key factors like emotional closeness, personal investment, and the impact of family responsibilities. Jay also discusses how to ensure emotional security and the risks of staying for financial reasons or out of obligation. 

In this episode you?ll learn:

How to recognize emotional investment

How to assess emotional security

How to consider financial implications

How to navigate emotional intimacy

This honest conversation provides you with the insights to evaluate your relationship more clearly, helping you decide whether to work on it or move on, based on a deeper understanding of your feelings and the relationship's dynamics.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:10 When to End Your Relationship

04:48 10 Reason Why People Stay in a Relationship

12:44 Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Relationship

18:14 The Three Cancers of the Mind

24:44 Difference in Scorecard Perspective

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How can you overcome the fear of failure?

What can you do daily to care less about failing?

Today, Jay sits down with Benny Blanco for an inspiring conversation about pursuing passions, mentorship, failure, and continuous motivation. Benny has made a huge mark on the music industry contributing to hundreds of millions of album sales worldwide. Benny has worked with A-List artists like Ed Sheeran, Justin Bieber, and Katy Perry. As a solo artist, his albums "Friends Keep Secrets" and its sequel have amassed over 11 billion streams, featuring multiple platinum hits. Beyond music, Benny has ventured into television and even released a cookbook, "Open Wide," showcasing his diverse talents and interests

Benny shares insight on how to not let failure stop you and getting over imposter syndrome. We also go dive into Benny?s life outside of music, exploring his passion for cooking through his cookbook "Open Wide." Plus, Benny talks about his relationships, how he keeps his creativity flowing, and the small joys that make his life special.

In this interview, you?ll learn:

How to pursue your passion with limited resources

How to not let failure get in your way of achieving your goals

How to embrace the unexpected in creative work

How to transition your passion into different fields

How to find joy and creativity in everyday moments

Don't miss this intimate look at Benny Blanco's life and maybe learn a thing or two about making your own multi-track masterpiece or the perfect dish to serve at dinner!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:43 What?s the First Creative Thing You Put Together?

06:15 I Never Cared About Failure

10:33 Developing Amnesia to Failure

14:22 How Did You Meet Your Mentor?

18:10 ?The Boy I Mentored? 

23:42 How Do You Show Up After a Rejection?

26:51 Love Can Be Felt Through Music

29:56 What Do You Do When You Wake Up?   

32:02 Why Do You Struggle with Meditation?

33:28 Why I Went to Therapy

38:25 The Pressure of Perfectionism

44:49 Do You Love to Cook?

47:20 Do You Eat Healthy?

48:47 Finding Comfort in Food

54:42 What?s Your Sleep Pattern?

56:40 Friendships Built Over the Years

59:19 Multigenerational Friendships

01:03:44 Better Relationship After Divorce

01:05:52 Benny on Final Five   

01:15:57 What?s Your Vice?

01:17:53 Do You Take Supplements?

Episode Resources:

Benny Blanco | TikTok Benny Blanco | Instagram Benny Blanco | YouTube Benny Blanco | Twitter Benny Blanco | Facebook

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How does low self-worth stop you from moving forward?

How can you stop self-sabotage and grow personally?

Today, let?s welcome Jamie Kern Lima. Jamie is a New York Times bestselling author, founder of IT Cosmetics, a company she started in her living room and sold to L'Oreal in a billion-dollar deal, becoming the first female CEO of a brand in its 100+ year history. She's also an active philanthropist who has funded leadership training in more than 100 prisons and shelters across the US, and has donated over $40 million in product and funds to help women face the effects of cancer with confidence. 

Jamie and Jay ponder on the meaning of self-worth, distinguishing it from mere confidence and challenging the misguided belief that our value is tied to our physical appearance. We get to hear the detrimental effects of self-doubt and present empowering strategies to transform your relationship with rejection, offering a new perspective that fosters resilience and self-compassion. 

And then the conversation dives deep into personal beliefs, urging us to identify and discard unhelpful misconceptions, while giving emphasis on why authenticity is crucial and its role in conjunction with other factors in achieving success. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to build self-worth

How to distinguish confidence from self-worth

How to handle rejection

How to overcome self-doubt

How to remain authentic

Together, let's learn how to distinguish your worth from external validation, turn rejection into a stepping stone, and live authentically.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:17 Do You Feel Worthy Today?

10:04 Confusing Confidence with Self Worth

17:37 Your Weight Impacts Your Worth is a Lie 

24:03 What Has Self Doubt Cost You?

31:25 How to Change Your Relationship with Rejection

37:02 The 4-Part R to Reframe Rejection

44:00 You Need This Today

48:13 Which Lie Are You Trying to Unlearn? 

56:32 Authenticity Alone Doesn?t Guarantee Success

Episode Resources:

Jamie Kern Lima | TikTok Jamie Kern Lima | Instagram Jamie Kern Lima | YouTube Jamie Kern Lima | Website Jamie Kern Lima | Twitter Jamie Kern Lima | Facebook Jamie Kern Lima | LinkedIn Worthy: How to Believe You Are Enough and Transform Your Life 

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What is the #1 way to live a rich life?

How can changing your money mindset impact your life?

Robin Sharma is a globally respected humanitarian who, for over a quarter of a century, has been devoted to helping human beings realize their native gifts. Widely considered one of the top leadership and personal mastery experts and speakers in the world, his clients include NASA, Yale University, and the Young Presidents' Organization. His #1 international bestsellers such as The Everyday Hero Manifesto, The 5AM Club, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, and Who Will Cry When You Die? have sold millions of copies in over ninety-two languages and dialects; making him one of the most widely read authors in the world. 

Robin shares his wisdom on the significance of releasing resentment and redefining our relationship with wealth. He also talks about exploring the essential daily practices that promise personal growth, the complexities, and at the same time, the benefits of altering our social circles, and provides insights into nurturing a healthy relationship with money. Jay and Robin unpack the pivotal role of rest in our daily routine and productivity, and how to break free from the chains of multi-generational cultural norms.  

In this interview you'll learn:

How to release resentment

How to treat money as a tool

How to rest properly

How to cultivate great friendships

The daily practices to transform yourself

Whether you're seeking to overcome generational patterns or find peace in solitude, this episode is your guide to a more fulfilled and intentional life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:26 Don?t Be A Resentment Collector

08:47 Money Is Your Servant, Not Your Master

12:33 When Are We Happiest?

15:01 Where Do We Start?

19:12 3 Daily Practices to Transform You

23:37 2 Reasons Why We Can?t Change Our Circle

27:06 Joy Is A Great GPS

28:28 Why Rest Is A Necessity

34:35 Breaking Multi-Generational Culture

41:07 Why You Need to Spend Alone Time 

43:00 Rewire Your Relationships With Money

45:35 There Is A Time For Every Season

48:22 What Are Scarcity Scars?

54:13 What Is A Great Friend?

57:10 Don?t Confuse Kindness With Weakness

01:00:33 Someone?s Victory Is Your Possibility

Episode Resources:

Robin Sharma | Website Robin Sharma | TikTok Robin Sharma | Instagram Robin Sharma | YouTube Robin Sharma | Twitter Robin Sharma | Facebook Robin Sharma | LinkedIn Robin Sharma | Books The Wealth Money Can't Buy: The 8 Hidden Habits to Live Your Richest Life

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How have your goals changed since January? 

What's your next step for improvement in the coming 90 days?

This episode isn't just a conversation; it's an invitation to dive deep into your thoughts, feelings, and aspirations. Jay discusses the tough questions about identity, authenticity, and personal growth, guiding you through a process of self-discovery and transformation. You'll find insights and strategies to help you understand who you truly are and how to align your life with your deepest values. Whether you're looking to break free from the fear of judgment, understand your true desires, or simply get a clearer picture of where you're headed, this is the ultimate guide to your first 90-day check in.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to overcome the fear of judgment

How to be your true self

How to handle external pressure

If you're ready to challenge the status quo and redefine your sense of self, let's uncover the power of self-reflection and the beauty of becoming who you truly are. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:03 Why Live Your Years in Quarters

03:11 The Hardest Challenge Today

05:12 #1: What Is the Most Difficult Judgment You?re Afraid Of?

07:00 #2: Who Would You Be If You Didn?t Worry What People Would Think About You?

07:57 #3: What Would You Do If You Didn?t Worry About What People Think Of You?

13:47 What Did You Use to Value You Don?t Value Anymore?

16:58 Attachment and Aversion Are Two Sides of the Same Coin

21:07 3 Questions You Need to Ask Yourself

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Do you want to know why sitting for a long time shortens your lifespan?

Do you want to know how to transform your daily routine?

Today, Jay is joined by Gary Brecka, the Co-Founder and Chief Biologist of 10X Health and the founder of The Ultimate Human. With more than 20 years of Bio-Hacking and functional medicine experience, Gary has worked with and everyone from CEOs to professional athletes from the UFC, NFL, Professional Boxing, and entertainment industries. 

What will you do when there is a possibility to predict how many more years you have left? Jay and Gary ponder on how our daily habits and emotional states impact our overall health and longevity, the dangers of a sedentary lifestyle and emphasizing on the need for regular movement, the benefits of deep, intentional breathing to enhance physical and mental well-being, and the complexities of mental health disorders, shedding light on common misunderstandings and the reasons why some supplements may not deliver their promised benefits. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to boost your emotional health with simple daily practices

How to reduce health risks by moving more throughout the day

How to deepen and lengthen your breaths for better health

How to clear your mind by understanding and addressing brain fog

This conversation is focused on empowering listeners with knowledge to make healthier lifestyle choices.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:13 Predicting Your Lifespan

09:17 What Is An Emotional State?

12:54 Sedentary Lifestyle Is a Health Hazard

15:37 Why You Need to Breath Deeper and Longer

22:44 Why Mental Health Disorders are Often Misunderstood

32:20 The Some Supplements Don?t Work

36:54 The Science Behind Brain Fog

44:30 Pre and Postpartum Care

48:55 Folic Acid Mutation

50:36 Deficiencies Are Passed Down, Not Diseases

56:01 What?s Wrong with Tap Water?

01:03:02 How Much Chlorine is in Your Water?

01:06:41 Gary on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Gary Brecka | TikTok Gary Brecka | Instagram Gary Brecka | LinkedIn Gary Brecka | YouTube Gary Brecka | Website The Ultimate Human with Gary Brecka

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Are you struggling with anxiety?

Are you looking for ways to become less anxious?

Today, Jay Shetty will share several ways to manage anxiety, why it consumes us and how we can navigate through it. Jay will also share insights on how to consciously choose and amplify the voices and influences that nurture your well-being, how to program your mind with positivity and intentionality before bed and upon waking up - a crucial practice that can pave the way for a restful night and a more focused tomorrow.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to not start your day with worry

Begin each morning with gratitude 

Prepare your mind with positive thoughts 

There is healing in acceptance and tolerance, the essential practices for cultivating inner peace and resilience against life's inevitable ups and downs.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:29 Do You Worry a Lot?

03:38 Avoid Dealing with Your Worries Upon Waking Up  

07:31 Start Your Day with Gratitude

11:25 Increase the Voice You Want to Hear

14:49 Program Your Mind Before Going to Bed

18:42 Sometimes, Staying Busy is Healthy

19:48 Practice Acceptance and Tolerance

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Do you want to know how to stop your guilt cycle?

Do you want to know how to build positive mental strength?

Today, let's welcome back renowned psychiatrist and brain disorder specialist Dr. Daniel Amen. Dr. Amen known for his work as the director of the Amen Clinics and a bestselling author, having written numerous books on brain health and wellness, and has also produced television programs promoting his theories on brain health. 

Dr. Amen talks about mindful parenting, ways you can set goals with your children and nurturing their ability to think independently. He shares a simple 20-minute practice to deepen your connection with your child, and understand the pivotal role of boundaries in their development. 

Let's understand how critical it is when children retreat into themselves and offer strategies to mend and strengthen the fragile threads of parent-child bonds. Dr. Amen challenges the practice of labeling children as 'smart' and instead, focuses on cultivating their problem-solving skills and shed light on the often-overlooked emotional burdens our actions can place on our kids, from the subtleties of attachment to the complexities of misunderstanding them.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to empower kids through responsibility

How to build mental strength

How to foster problem-solving in children

How to implement loving discipline

How to instill the value of hard work on kids

This conversation will help you better understand the hacks of raising well-rounded, resilient, and loving individuals in today's fast-paced world. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:46 How Do You Set Goals For Your Kids?

04:34 How Do Children Become Free Thinkers?

10:19 Allow Your Child to Get Uncomfortable

13:01 The 20-Minute Practice to Bond with Your Child

17:46 What Does No Boundaries Lead To?

21:26 Why Do Children Shut Down?

24:54 How Do You Repair a Broken Bond?

28:00 Don?t Tell Your Child They Are Smart

31:04 How Can Your Child Solve a Problem?

33:07 You?re Making Your Kids Miserable

35:16 Attachments That Become Broken

37:37 I Don?t Understand My Child

41:54 What is a Loving Discipline?

44:51 My Child is Addicted to Social Media

46:25 What Does Social Do to the Brain?

48:35 Effects of Divorce on Kids

51:01 Teach Your Child to Self-Soothe

53:39 How to Love Your Child Right 

Episode Resources:

Dr. Daniel Amen | TikTok Dr. Daniel Amen | Instagram Dr. Daniel Amen | Twitter Dr. Daniel Amen | LinkedIn Dr. Daniel Amen | Facebook Dr. Daniel Amen | Books Dr. Daniel Amen | Website Amen University Take The ACE Quiz

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Do you feel tired of small talk and no real connection?

Do you want to start building genuine friendships?

Today, Jay talks about the eight simple tips to help you decide which friends to keep close and which ones you might need to step back from. You'll learn how to spot friends who make you happy and help you grow, and notice the ones who might be bringing you down.

Let's understand the impact of the company you keep, the power of focusing on yourself, and the wisdom in discerning relationships meant for a season, reason, or lifetime. Jay unpacks the value of tough conversations and learns to distinguish between fleeting friendships and those destined for depth. There is strength in setting boundaries and the transformative experience of shared challenges. 

In this episode, you?ll learn:

How to choose your long-term friends

How to deepen new friendships

How to be the right friends to others

This episode is your guide to nurturing genuine connections and fostering personal growth in a world craving authenticity.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:00 Who Do You Spend Time With?

04:05 Focus on Yourself

05:06 Season, Reason, or a Lifetime

10:29 Is Repairing a Broken Relationship Worth It?

13:24 Why Do We Need These Hard Conversations?

15:58 Not Every Friendship Has a Future

18:32 Shallow Conversations Don?t Lead to Genuine Connection

21:26 Barriers Keep Others Out, Boundaries Keep Us Safe

23:08 If You Don?t Fit In, That?s Okay

25:04 Doing Difficult Things Together 

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What happens in our body when we eat sugar?
How does a glucose spike affect our health?

Jay welcomes Jessie Inchauspé (Otherwise known as Glucose Goddess.) Jessie is a French biochemist and New York Times bestselling author. Jessie is on a mission to translate cutting-edge science into easy tips to help people improve their physical and mental health through studies of glucose. In her books Glucose Revolution and The Glucose Goddess Method, which sold over 1 million copies worldwide in 40 languages, she shares her startling discovery about the essential role of blood sugar in every aspect of our lives, and the surprising hacks to optimize it.

Jessie doesn't hold back as she unpacks the world of nutrition and wellness, and the intricate relationship between glucose, sugar consumption, and overall health. Jessie discusses the fundamentals of glucose and its vital role in fueling our bodies, the detrimental effects of excessive sugar consumption, and the three glucose spikes that can wreak havoc on our well-being.

The hidden sources of high sugar content in everyday foods will surprise you therefore learning the practical strategies to train your body to burn fat for fuel is essential as well as uncovering the tips for eliminating post-meal cravings and the benefits of adopting a zero-sugar lifestyle. 

In this interview, you will learn:

The role of glucose in the body
The foods that help lower blog sugar
The hacks to control blood sugar spike
The best practices to optimize your sugar intake

Tune in to this eye-opening conversation with Jay and Jessie as they talk about practical tips, expert advice, and invaluable wisdom to help you make informed choices and prioritize your health and well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro
05:36 What is Glucose and How Is It Used by Our Body?
08:15 We Don?t Need to Eat Sugar
10:30 The Three Glucose Spikes That Damage Our Body
15:32 Foods with Hidden High Sugar Content
17:20 The Crash After the Glucose Spike
20:25 How to Train Your Body to Burn Fat for Fuel
24:35 How to Eliminate Post Meal Cravings
30:08 Why It?s Better to Have Zero Sugar Intake Daily
34:55 Sleep and Glucose Go Hand in Hand
37:12 How Blood Sugar Levels Affect Mental Health
43:18 Ideal Foods to Take Before Workout 
46:57 The Benefits of Taking Vinegar Before Meals
49:56 Put ?Clothing? on Your Carbs
53:33 Fruits Are Healthy Until It Gets Processed
57:26 Stop Counting Your Calories
01:03:53 The Anti-Spike Formula 
01:05:50 The Disheartening Truth About Taking Ozempic to Lose Weight
01:08:58 Jessie on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

- Jessie Inchauspé | Instagram
- Jessie Inchauspé | Twitter
- Jessie Inchauspé | TikTok
- Glucose Revolution
- Glucose Goddess 
- Jessies New Dietary Supplement

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Today, let's welcome to the On Purpose podcast cosmetics entrepreneur, medical research trailblazer, and Women?s Hall of Fame inductee, Victoria Jackson. Victoria founded the global powerhouse brand Victoria Jackson Cosmetics where she irrevocably altered the beauty landscape with her creation of the ?No Makeup? makeup aesthetic. She and her husband, Bill Guthy?founder of the marketing behemoth Guthy-Renker?established The Guthy-Jackson Charitable Foundation to fund research on NMO treatments and a potential cure. 

Victoria shares her lifelong experiences, from the anxiety of feeling different to the profound questions about our existence and the roles we play in this world. She opens up about the darkest day in her life as well as the trials of transforming passion into a successful enterprise. These stories aren't just about overcoming; they're about thriving, giving hope to those striving to make a meaningful impact in their lives and the lives of others, especially when facing seemingly insurmountable obstacles.

In this interview, you?ll learn:

How to stay resilient in the most difficult circumstances

How to move on from trauma

How to turn passion into a career

How determination can change lives

Why we never stop learning

The episode is a beacon for anyone seeking to make sense of life's complexities, offering insights into building relationships, handling adversity, and finding one's calling. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:38 I Always Felt That I?m Different

05:51 We?re All Trying to Figure Out the World

06:38 What Were You Most Anxious Of?

08:55 What is My Purpose?

11:29 Love for Teaching and Sharing Knowledge

13:58 Trust the Process and Have Patience for Yourself

17:13 ?The Night I Nearly Lost My Life? 

23:13 How Do You Overcome Trauma

25:04 ?I Wanted to Give Women Hope?

27:42 Transforming Passion to a Successful Business

32:32 Navigating Relationship Can Be Challenging

35:56 ?My Daughter Had Four Years to Live?

39:54 Prove It To Them That You Can Do It

42:39 The Biggest Roadblocks in Healthcare

47:37 How Do You Survive Difficult Situations?

49:48 Finding Cure For Alli

53:21 Going Against All Odds

55:00 Finding Answers and Taking Actions

57:48 Victoria on Final Five

01:03:11 It?s Hard to Get People to Pay Attention

01:06:43 Download the NMO Resources App

01:09:13 Strategic Allocation of Funds

01:10:32 You Just Have to Find a Way

Episode Resources:

Victoria Jackson | Website Victoria Jackson | Instagram Saving Each Other: A Mother-Daughter Love Story The Power of Rare: A Blueprint for a Medical Revolution

Victoria's latest book, "We All Worry, Now What?" is now available for pre-order on Amazonhttps://www.amazon.com/All-Worry_Now-What-Victoria-Jackson/dp/1595911324

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Do you want to learn how to connect with your intuition? 

Do you want to stay focused on your path? 

In a very special episode of On Purpose, Michael B. Jordan joins Jay for an open and honest conversation. Michael is a director, actor, and producer recognized as an industry leader. Michael recently reprised the role of Adonis Creed in CREED III, which had the biggest opening weekend for a CREED film and biggest domestic opening for a sports movie ever. 

In this insightful conversation, Michael sheds light into the nuances of our childhood and its lasting impact on our lives. He also talks about resilience and the importance of prioritizing family amidst the journey of life. Michael and Jay discuss the essence of intuition, authenticity, and purpose, empowering listeners to connect with their inner selves and forge meaningful paths forward.

There is strength in building your own team therefore it is important that we know how to pick our own people. The same goes for showing our authenticity at all times and creating safe spaces for ourselves and the people around us. It also matters that you do not hide behind false words and to always speak your truth. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to connect and develop your intuition
How to trust your own choices
How to be authentic
How to be truth to yourself and to others

Today, we will learn the value of shared goals, insightful stories, and guidance to inspire you to live with purpose, authenticity, and boundless potential. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro
04:39 Why Your Childhood Environment Matters
09:44 Family Over Everything
12:16 Never Stop Making Yourself Better
21:29 The Moments of Negativity
28:00 How to Connect with Your Intuition
31:17 This is Your Moment
34:05 The Right Things to Obsess Over
38:07 The Benefits of Sea Moss
43:23 How to Build Your Team
48:48 The Best Way to Bring People Together
54:52 How Do You Define Authenticity?
01:00:10 What is Your Purpose?
01:05:43 Finding Your Own Safe Space
01:09:33 Unapologetically Honest About Your Truth
01:13:31 Michael on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Michael B. Jordan | Instagram Michael B. Jordan | Twitter Michael B. Jordan | Facebook Moss

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This episode is brought to you by BMW, and the most requested guest is back again - Jay's wife, Radhi Devlukia! Jay and Radhi swap lives for a day in the all electric BMW ix. In this episode, Jay and Radhi take a road trip to the grocery store, where she challenges Jay to complete a grocery store run, where he is tasked to find the right ingredients for their favorite recipe, without her help.

There?s never a dull moment when Jay and Radhi are together - from their on-the-road Q&A, to their grocery store outing (especially when Jay still couldn?t tell the difference between coriander and parsley) - they continue to provide laughs, insights, and meaningful wisdom. 

Tag along on this ride and join the challenges of modern day dating and find out who?s the most stubborn one between the two.

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 00:18 Jay?s Stuffed Pepper Recipe in Radhi?s Cookbook 02:03 If We Are in Carpool Karaoke  02:44 Difference Between Drivers in LA and London 03:42 What Does it Mean to Be A Backseat Driver in Life? 05:35 The Three People You Will Go on a Drive With 08:43 Who Usually Leave the Car Lights On? 09:52 Who?s Most Likely to Get Car Sick? 10:29 Would You Need Maps to Navigate Between Places? 11:02 Why Doesn?t Radhi Reply to Messages Right Away? 12:57 First Line to Say When You Meet in a Party 14:11 What?s Your Screen Time? 15:10 Do You Have an Ick About Me? 16:33 It?s Time to Buy Groceries! 22:35 How Does It Feel When Someone Cook For You? 23:56 How Do You Manage to Stay Productive Everyday? 28:03 What Kind of a Party Person Are You? 31:05 Living Conditions in Refugee Camps in the Old Days 31:59 Leaving an Impact in the Community Your Serve 37:02 Spending Time with Family in an Indian Wedding

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Why do we fall victim to love bombing?

Why do we attract narcissists?

Dr. Ramani is back with eye-opening and science-based insights on narcissism. Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. 

Dr. Ramani discusses the difference between narcissism versus narcissistic personality disorder. She dives into the signs of love bombing and how to stop attracting narcissists. Dr. Ramani also talks about the practical strategies for safeguarding yourself from attracting narcissistic personalities into your life and how to spot the red flags and establish healthy boundaries. 
Join us in understanding the complexities of narcissism, how to foster resilience, establish boundaries, and reclaim yourself.

With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro
01:09 Narcissism Versus Narcissistic Personality Disorder
05:41 Why Narcissistic People Make History
09:28 How to Not Attract a Narcissist
11:27 A Narcissistic Person is Like a Volcano
14:38 Love Bombing is Winning You Over with Attunement
15:24 From Love Bombing to What Went Wrong 
18:11 Empaths Get Stuck in Trauma-Bonded Relationships
21:45 The Impact of Narcissistic Abuse
25:29 Can You Disengage from a Narcissistic Partner?
26:36 Repeat Perpetrators Harm the Forgiver
28:21 You Can Empathize and Not Forgive
30:42 What is Radical Acceptance?
32:39 Flexibility in Our Psyche
35:20 Grief is the Most Human Experience
38:06 How to Recreate Your Own Subjective Focus
44:13 How to Pull Yourself from any Form of Gaslighting
48:58 Can a Narcissist Ever Heal?
53:38 Is Change Possible?

Episode Resources:
- Dr. Ramani | Website
- Dr. Ramani | Instagram
- Dr. Ramani | YouTube
- Dr. Ramani | TikTok
- It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

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Do you find yourself thinking too much about other people?s opinions?

Is it starting to feel like it?s negatively affecting your life? 

Today, Jay unveils the subtle yet pervasive signs that indicate a deep-seated concern for others' opinions and the telltale signs that you may be overly influenced by external validation, from struggling to assert boundaries to outsourcing your decision-making to others.

Jay Also talks about actionable tips and strategies for reclaiming your sense of self-worth and how to draw inspiration from those who have walked a similar path before you, cultivating resilience and self-assurance in the face of external judgment. Explore the transformative power of reframing your self-perception and embracing a mindset of self-acceptance, as Jay emphasizes the importance of clarity and self-awareness in navigating life's challenges. 

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to not crave external validation How to stop people-pleasing How to not get swayed by other people?s opinions How to stand your ground 

Gain practical tools for cultivating inner strength and confidence, from reframing negative self-talk to recognizing the inherent value of your own opinions and choices.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:11 Stop Caring About What People Think 04:10 Sign #1: You Get Easily Swayed 05:36 Sign #2: You Struggle to Say NO 06:18 Sign #3: We Often Want to Please Others 06:40 Sign #4: You Outsource Your Choices 09:22 Tip #1: Someone Has Been Through a Similar Experience Before You 17:00 Tip #2: Don?t Be Someone Who Gossips About Others 18:52 Tip #3: Be Clear About How You Feel About Yourself 21:06 Tip #4: Opinions Don?t Become Your Reality 22:19 Tip #5: Think of the Three Best Decisions You?ve Made in Your Life 24:20 Tip #6: People Are Not Thinking About As Much As You Think They Are

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Do you tend to feel tired after eating? 

Do you want to learn simple changes to stay energized and avoid the 3 PM slump? 

On this special episode of On Purpose, My wife Radhi joins us! Radhi is a clinical dietician, nutritionist, and always learning to cook. Radhi brings a modern approach to the ancient principles of holistic wellbeing and earned her Ayurvedic Health Counselor 1 degree at the California College of Ayurveda. Radhi's first ever book called JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live Radiantly is out right now.

In this episode, Radhi teaches how to nourish our body in a way that's truly individual to you. Plus, pick up some practical tips for making sustainable changes in your diet and embracing the method of Ayurveda for balance and well-being.

Further into the episode, Radhi touches on the three modes of Ayurveda and how they influence our eating habits, intuitive eating practices that honor your body's signals, and the valuable insights to optimize digestion and transform your relationship with food.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to change your diet How food affects your mood The right way to eat proteins How to create positive daily routines How to change your mindset about food

Get ready to savor each moment, embrace mindful eating, and cultivate a deeper connection with your body and soul. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 04:17 Recipes Inspired by Family and Love for Food 07:09 The Individual nature of Healing Your Body 12:01 How to Make Sustainable Changes in Your Body 14:52 The Three Modes in Ayurveda 20:08 Your Body Deteriorates when You Stop Listening to the Body Cues  23:40 Eat Until Satisfied, Not Stuffed 28:35 Why You Need to CHew Your Food Properly 32:50 Avoid Cold Drinks and Iced Beverages 35:38 Does Skipping Meals Work? 38:31 On a Busy Day, How Can You Slow Down? 41:41 Overeating Proteins Harm the Body 45:02 How to Change Your Relationship with Food 51:18 The Value of Spices  55:58 What is Your Morning Routine? 58:03 How to Not Feel Lethargic After Lunch 01:00:57 Best Practices for Evening Routines 01:05:24 The Recipe Game 01:11:28 What is Your Hope for People?

Episode Resources:

Radhi Devlukia | Website Radhi Devlukia | Instagram Radhi Devlukia | YouTube Radhi Devlukia | Facebook Radhi Devlukia | TikTok JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live Radiantly

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How do your 'icks' affect your dating life?

And what's the ultimate key to better dating?

Today, Jay is sharing the conversation he had with Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham where he was being interviewed in their podcast, U Up?. The U Up? is a definitive modern dating podcast where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in.

Jay talks about a wide array of topics including the challenges of booking guests for new podcasts, the importance of preparing for important interviews, and his  unique approach to every show, offering listeners a diverse and enriching experience with each episode.

The conversation takes on a serious note when Jay talks about his take expressing anger, dealing with insecurities, and navigating the complexities of modern dating. Gain valuable insights into mindfulness practices and learn how to focus on the wins while amplifying the abundance of life.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to deal with insecurities How to become a better partner How to change your mindset about dating

Truth be told, dating remains one of the challenging hurdles we go through in life but it is also one of the most rewarding when we find the right person to spend our life with.  

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:43 Calming Positive Influence to Others 03:29 The Competitive Aspect of Drinking Games 05:26 The Difficulty of Booking Guests for New Podcasts 07:05 Preparing for Important Guests 08:54 Every Show Has a Unique Offering 11:27 How Do You Express Anger and Hate? 13:57 Did You Ever Felt Wrongfully Targeted? 16:41 Did You Ever Block Anyone? 19:58 What are the Biggest Mistakes About Dating Today? 25:44 What?s Your Go-To First Date Activity? 27:16 Working in the Same Industry with Your Partner  28:52 How Practicing Mindfulness Changes Your Mindset 31:07 How Do You Deal with Insecurities? 36:18 Focus on the Wins and Amplify the Abundance of Life 38:26 Two Things I Look Forward To 39:29 What?s Your Travel Pet Peeve?

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What's the top habit for mastering time and energy?

How can we make this habit our own for better time and energy management?

Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Ed Mylett. Ed is a highly successful entrepreneur who has blended his unique experiences with a diverse set of practical strategies that have made him one of the most sought-after inspirational speakers in the world today. He is a serial entrepreneur who has enjoyed considerable success in part through his unrivaled work ethic and ability to fire up people with his dynamic, high-octane presentations.  Over the years, he has been involved in several tech, real estate, medical, and food ventures, among many others, leading him to be named a Success Magazine SUCCESS 125 most influential leader in 2022.

Have you ever stopped to ponder what lies within the depths of your being? Jay and Ed dive into the depths of self-discovery, from uncovering subconscious anchors to making courageous choices, discover the keys to unlocking your full potential and living a life of purpose. 

The duo explores the power of intention and action in validating your path, and learn how to navigate the challenges of speaking truth with kindness and compassion. Gain insights into overcoming obstacles, embracing change, and cultivating resilience on the path to success, and reflect on the concept of time and its malleability, and discover the rhythms of success that shape our lives. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to maximize your time How to not get tied to the past How to speak your truth How to achieve success How to change the trajectory of your life

Tune in to this enlightening conversation with Jay and Ed as they share wisdom, inspiration, and practical guidance to help you navigate the journey of self-discovery and personal growth.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:37 What Have You Been Working Inside? 05:56 In Life, We Move Towards What We?re Familiar With 06:58 How Do We Stop Creating Stress and Chaos? 09:12 The Subconscious Anchors That We?re not Using 12:50 Doing the Most Courageous Choices in Life 15:31 You Are Always Making People Feel Something 19:53 What Do You Do with the Weeds in Your Life? 21:07 You Validate Your Intention with Your Action 26:28 How to Speak Truth to People in a Kind Way? 32:54 You Are Born to Do Something Great with Your Life 40:15 Can You Bend and Manipulate Time? 46:11 Why You Aren?t in the Rhythm of Success 51:57 The Things that Got You Where You Are Won?t Get You Where You?re Going 55:34 Your Identity is the Thermostat Setting of Your Life   01:01:28 The Danger of Tying Your Identity to What You Do 01:04:16 The Three D?s that Will Lead to Burnout 

Episode Resources:

Ed Mylett | Website Ed Mylett | Instagram Ed Mylett | Twitter Ed Mylett | YouTube Ed Mylett | Facebook Ed Mylett | TikTok Ed Mylett | Books

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How do we build our inner confidence?

And how can we stop pretending that we?re okay even if we aren?t?

In a world where we're constantly comparing ourselves to others, Jay reminds us of the importance of embracing our unique qualities and building inner confidence. We'll dive into the dangers of comparing our relationships to others and how it can affect our self-esteem. And find out why nurturing inner confidence is key for personal growth and happiness. 

Jay also shares practical tips for boosting confidence, like embracing our quirks, celebrating our strengths, and shifting from seeking validation from others to validating ourselves. 

In this episode, you?ll learn:

How to build self confidence How to boost your own strengths How to focus more on self-validation

Together, let's learn the actionable ways and and empowering wisdom to help you embrace your uniqueness and cultivate unshakable confidence from the inside out.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:45 Getting Lost in Comparison to Other People?s Relationships 05:13 Why We Need to Build on Our Inner Confidence 08:35 Confidence is the Belief That You Matter 12:47 #1: Being Okay with Liking Things That Others Don?t 17:19 #2: Start Noticing Your Own Strengths  18:20 #3: Giving Self-Validation Versus Needing External Validation 24:05 Your Hero is Your Future Self

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Why does trauma manifest as guilt and shame?

How do we untrap ourselves from the past?

Today, we welcome back renowned speaker on addiction, stress, and childhood development, Dr. Gabor Maté. They dive into the core of human identity and explore the delicate balance between being yourself and seeking acceptance, discovering the liberating truth that authenticity is the ultimate path to self-discovery. Gain insights into the complexities of the human emotional landscape and learn how to navigate and process fear, a powerful force that often holds us captive. 

Gabor talks about the top five regrets of dying people - a profound insight that serve as a compass, guiding us to live a life aligned with our deepest values and aspirations. He also talks about the intricacies of guilt and shares wisdom on how we can untrap ourselves from it, the universality of pain and trauma, the synergy between logic and creativity in problem-solving. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to live with fear and anxiety How to deal with deep-rooted trauma How to handle grief and pain How to improve your personal growth

Together, let's explore the infinite possibilities that unfold when we awaken to our true potential and embrace a mindset of continuous growth.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 03:56 How Do You Heal a Broken Man? 07:34 Tell Me Who You Are 11:33 The Small Still Voice Within Us 13:19 Be Yourself or Be Accepted But not Both at the Same Time 17:10 What Are the Most Common Emotions We Feel Everyday?  20:26 How Can We Process and Heal From Fear 28:11 How Can You Help Someone Who Refused to Be Helped? 31:06 The Top Five Regrets of Dying People 36:09 How Do We Untrap Ourselves From Guilt? 43:03 There?s No Path Without Pain, So Choose Which Path to Take 46:53 Embrace Your Freedom Responsibly  48:46 There?s No Hierarchy in Pain and Trauma 51:07 What is Integrative Thinking? 59:27 The Book ?Blessed with a Brain Tumor?  01:02:00 Can I Continue to Grow? 01:04:15 How Do Emotions Translate to Physical Reality? 01:13:13 If We Could Just Wake Up to Our Possibilities

Episode Resources:

Dr. Gabor Maté | Website Dr. Gabor Maté | Instagram Dr. Gabor Maté | Twitter Dr. Gabor Maté | YouTube Dr. Gabor Maté | Facebook The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture 

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Have you been struggling to get over your ex?

Do you want to find healing after a painful breakup?

Then this episode is for you.

Today, Jay will talk about the complexities of heartbreak and grief, shedding light on the profound emotional and physiological effects of romantic loss. He unravels the intricate workings of the human brain's obsession with love, exploring the biological and psychological mechanisms triggered by heartbreak. There are different physiological changes that occur in the body during a breakup, illuminating the intensity of emotions experienced in the aftermath of romantic dissolution.

Through poignant anecdotes and expert insights, Jay navigates through the stages of grief, offering a compassionate understanding of the rollercoaster of emotions that accompany loss. From denial to anger, bargaining to depression, and ultimately acceptance, Jay guides listeners through the transformative journey of healing and growth.

In this episode, you?ll learn:

How to overcome a breakup The physical manifestations of a heartbreak The different stages of grief

Whether you're in the midst of a breakup or seeking to support a loved one through their journey of healing, this episode offers invaluable insights to help you navigate the path forward with grace and resilience. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:19 What Happens When Someone Breaks Our Heart? 03:54 The Human Brain Is Obsessed with Love 04:55 What Happens in the Body During a Breakup? 09:36 Why Breakups Are Comparable to Addiction Withdrawal 11:36 The Rage Room 13:58 The FIve Stage of Grief 16:38 THe First Stage - Denial 20:42 The Second Stage - Anger 23:03 The Third Stage - Bargaining 25:37 The Fourth Stage - Depression   27:33 The Final Stage - Acceptance 29:02 This is the Best Way to Describe Grief

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How can you let go of something you love to do?

And when is the right time to let go?

Today, Jay is joined by Emmy Award winning host, writer, producer, and actor, James Corden. James is also a Tony Award winning and Golden Globe nominated actor; and a multiple BAFTA Award winner. In April 2023, James wrapped up his eight-year run as host of THE LATE LATE SHOW, which premiered on CBS in March 2015. The show garnered Corden four Emmy Award wins and an additional twenty-three Emmy Award nominations. Corden is the co-creator and executive producer of CARPOOL KARAOKE: THE SERIES for Apple TV+ which won five consecutive Emmy Awards and is currently nominated for 2023. The series also won three Producers Guild Awards, a Critics? Choice Real TV Award and was nominated for a Writers Guild Award.  

James takes you through the successive successes and inevitable misses that shape our lives, the impact of expectations on our experiences and unravel the true meaning of success. He touches on his love for performance, the driving force behind success, and the reality that not all efforts receive the recognition they deserve; as well as the reflective process during significant transitions and gain insights into the complexities of the narcissistic dream.

As the conversation continues, James presents the powerful analogy of letting a balloon go, symbolizing the liberation that comes with releasing expectations. They also touch on the importance of mindful living, questioning how much of tomorrow you're willing to borrow.  

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to effectively chase after success How to pick yourself up after failure The importance of surrounding yourself with good people How to balance family life and career How to make your marriage work How to slow down when things get tough

This episode is a reminder to cultivate a life filled with purpose, the art of slowing down, embracing life's pace, and savoring each moment. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:52 The Successive Success and the Many Misses in Between 08:32 The Expectation OF is What Mostly Ruins Things 10:22 What is the True Meaning of Success? 12:56 Love for Performance and the Drive for Success 17:23 Not All Efforts Get Rewarded 20:36 Your Life Can Get Flipped Over Every Single Day 23:38 Reflection Process During Big Transitions 28:13 The Narcissist?s Dream 35:50 The Analogy of Letting a Balloon Go 41:02 Becoming More than the Man You Actually Are 46:44 Sleep is an Extraordinary Gift 49:42 How Much of Tomorrow Are You Willing to Borrow? 53:15 Why Do You Need to Stop Going on a Diet? 56:21 How Do You Keep Good Friends Around? 01:00:32 How to Calmly Talk to Your Child? 01:06:14 Where is the Best Place to Raise Your Family and Kids? 01:11:24 Effective Communication Between Married Couple 01:15:43 The Story of a Man Who Just Kept Going 01:21:08 The David Beckham Statue Prank 01:22:35 Learning to Slow Down and Not Rush Anything 01:32:27 James on Final Five

Episode Resources:

James Corden | Instagram James Corden | Twitter The Late Late Show with James Corden | YouTube The Late Late Show with James Corden | TikTok

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Do you want to do more this month?

How do you effectively become more productive?

Today, Jay will share with us how to maximize your efficiency, ensuring that this month becomes your most productive one yet. Are you ready to unlock your full potential? 

Jay introduces the concept of 25-minute stretches of focused work, strategically interspersed with 5-minute breaks?a game-changer for heightened productivity. Or engage in job-related tasks for 52 minutes and then take a 17-minute break. 

Jay sheds light on the wisdom behind the practice of tackling the easiest or hardest tasks first, providing valuable insights into mastering time management. Let's uncover the secrets of distinguishing between creative and logical days, understanding how to harness each for optimal results. 

In this episode, you?ll learn:

How to become more productive effectively How to manage your time without stress How to be more intentional with time management

The best way to remain productive is to find ways to eliminate distractions that keep you from accomplishing your tasks. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 01:20 Do you want to become more productive this month? 03:44 #1: Engage In Job Related Tasks For 52 Minutes And Then Take A 17-Minute Break  06:57 #2: The 25 minute stretches of focused work broken down by 5-minute breaks 11:32 #3: TTC - Task, Time, Calendar 15:44 #4: The Practice of Doing the Easiest/Hardest Things First 17:38 #5: Creative Versus Logical Days 22:00 #6: Energy Versus Time 25:13 #7: Putting Your Phone Away Lessens Distraction

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Do you feel that you struggle with being authentic? 

Do you want to overcome the judgment of society's perceptions of what it means to be authentic? 

Today, Jay sits down with Lil Nas X. Lil Nas X is a 24-year-old award-winning rapper, singer, songwriter from Atlanta, Georgia. Dubbed ?an internationally recognized phenomenon? by Billboard, Lil Nas X rose to fame in 2019 when he released ?Old Town Road? and shattered genre norms, disrupted the charts and went viral worldwide.  After a highly successful EP and several multi-platinum songs, Nas went on to release his critically acclaimed and GRAMMY-nominated debut album Montero in September 2021, which featured the culture-shifting 6x Platinum hit ?MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name)?. Following the release of Lil Nas X?s latest single ?J CHRIST?, his beautiful new documentary, Lil Nas X: Long Live Montero, debuted this weekend on HBO and is available to stream now on Max.

In this vulnerable episode Lil Nas X shares his story from being a shy kid in Atlanta Georgie to achieving his wildest dreams. Lil Nas X has proven that there is power of self-awareness and embracing your true identity, even in the face of loss and grief. He shares with us personal stories that have shaped him into the person he is today, and the person he is working on becoming. 

The conversation navigates through fears, the misunderstood aspects of Lil Nas' message in his latest single, and the importance of cherishing time with family. They discuss spirituality, the quest for genuine love, dealing with a lack of control, and overcoming inner voices. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to embrace authenticity How to deal with societal expectations How to be true to yourself How to genuinely believe in what you love to do How to make peace with your inner voice

Tune in for a thought-provoking and heartwarming conversation that validates our humanness, flaws and strengths, and our ability to overcome difficult times.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:42 Fascination for Time Traveling 03:55 Lil Nas X Helped Montero Morph Out of Being a Super Shy Kid   07:04 There?s No Reason to Stop, Even You Mess Up 08:57 What?s Your Favorite Childhood Memory? 10:32 Becoming Self Aware and More In Tune with Your Sexuality 11:24 Losing a Loved One to Cancer 16:22 A Song About not Being Present When a Loved One Needed You So Much 17:39 Appreciating and Cherishing Time Spent with Family   19:27 What Scares You the Most Right Now? 20:56 What Does Positive Chaos Look LIke? 22:14 The Part of Montero?s Message That Got Misunderstood 26:30 My Relationship with My Father 28:52 We All Have Our Own Ideals in Seeing Other People  31:09 Freedom to Explore Your Spirituality 35:05 This One Being That?s Connected to Everything 36:28 Being Authentic and Relatable at the Same Time 38:37 Fully Open to Finding Real, Genuine Love 42:10 Overpowering the Voices in Your Head 45:23 The Ability to Recognize that Everything has Its Place 45:58 Allowing Your Younger Self to Grow  47:35 Things that Haven?t Been Said to My Family Are in the Documentary 50:35 How to Help Others Work on Their Best Self 54:04 How Do We Deal with Our Lack of Control? 56:03 Why We Need to Relax Sometimes to Stay Sane 57:23 The Habit of Watching a Movie to Take a Break 59:34 What Are You Focusing on Over the Next 12 Months? 01:01:39 Do You Believe in Angel Numbers? 01:03:24 What Do You Do When You Can?t See the Signs? 01:05:11 Lil Nas X on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Lil Nas X | Instagram Lil Nas X | Twitter Lil Nas X | YouTube Lil Nas X | TikTok Lil Nas X | Facebook Welcome to Montero

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Are you struggling to silence your inner critic?

Is it becoming too loud and overwhelming? 

Today, Jay guides you through the art of silencing your inner critic and the reasons behind our tendency to quit. Unpack the various types of criticism influencing our inner dialogue, and discover actionable tips to befriend your inner critic. Jay's insights span from the importance of self-love in catalyzing change to the transformative power of language, urging you to remove the "I Am" statement. 

Learn the practice of journaling wins, cultivating resilience, and celebrating daily victories. And unpack how to navigate challenges with resilience, staying true to your goals despite the internal resistance.

In this episode, you?ll learn:

Why your inner critic is so loud How to take control of your inner critic How to think differently about yourself How to celebrate small wins

Listen in, reflect, be in tune to a more positive and empowered self-perception. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:00 How To Silence Your Inner Critic When It?s Too Loud 03:29 This Is The Reason Why We Quit Doing Something 05:15 The Two Broad Types Of Criticism 06:35 7 Tips To Befriend Your Inner Critic 08:03 #1: You Can?t Hate Yourself Into Change 12:24 #2: Give Your Inner Critic A Name 12:56 #3: You Heard Your Inner Critic From Someone Else First 16:55 #4: Remove The ?I Am? Statement 17:59 #5: Don?t Let Your Inner Critic Stop You From Making The Right Action 23:24 #6: Start Journaling Your Wins And Good Moments 26:04 #7: Write Down 3 Things You Did Well Today

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Do you want to know how to respond when no one believes you?

Do you know other people?s perception of you isn?t your reality?

Today, Jay Shetty sits down with Daniel Kaluuya. Known for his role as Fred Hampton in Shaka King's American biographical crime drama film Judas and The Black Messiah, Daniel won the 2021 Academy Award, British Academy Film Award, and Golden Globe Award for Best Actor in Supporting Role. His feature film writing debut with Netflix, The Kitchen has received positive reviews.

While football is a well loved topic between Jay and Daniel, the conversation shifted on Daniel?s earliest childhood memories that left an indelible mark on his life. We uncover the roots of his resilience and determination and his unwavering interest in writing. 

Daniel looks back into the challenges he faced for having dark skin and offers his insights on how to change our mindset around racism. We will learn about the cost of chasing our desires, the inspiration behind ?The Kitchen?, and the transformative power of bringing ideas into existence. Together they unpack the importance of making peace with people's perceptions, and the courage it takes to share your work and passion with the world. 

In this interview, you?ll learn:

How to pursue your passion How overcome your limits How to turn ideas into reality How to develop resilience

Join us on this soul-stirring exploration of life, growth, and the resilience that lies within each of us.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 01:19 Earliest Childhood Memory That Changed Your Life 06:07 What Would You Do When No One Believes In You? 08:51 How the Interest in Writing Started 11:52 Learning the Art of Improv 14:25 Shared Love for Football 19:27 Getting Shamed for Having Dark Skin 23:37 How to Change Your Mindset Around Racism 25:41 Standing Up For the Decisions that You Make 27:46 The Cost of Wanting Something is High 30:25 The Inspiration for The Kitchen 33:54 Exposing Why People Live the Way They Do 38:36 Overcoming the Fear of Making an Idea a Reality 43:16 The Power of One Idea 48:21 How Bringing Things into Existence can Change You 52:29 Making Peace with People?s Perception of You 58:51 Sharing Your Work and Passion to the World  01:01:36 Daniel on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Daniel Kaluuya | Instagram

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Do you want your relationships in 2024 to uplift you and the others around you?

Do you want your relationships to bring you energy and not drain you?

Then this episode is for you.

Today, Jay shares insights on building stronger connections. Discover the proactive steps to create bonds that will withstand the test of time, moving beyond surface-level ties. Uncover the five types of relationships you can invest in for genuine and enduring connections.

Jay explores the concept of belonging?the magic that happens when we become part of a community. From the joy of shared experiences to the comfort of knowing you're not alone. Your journey can take an introspective turn when you look deep into the vital relationship with ourselves?the key to true independence and the layers of self-discovery and the profound impact it has on our overall well-being.

In this episode, you?ll learn:

How to boost your existing relationships How to create new and better relationships How to be more in-tune with yourself How to upgrade your connections and community

Join Jay as he guides us through the transformative power of relationships built on selfless love and devotion.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 01:56 The 5 Types of Relationships We Need in Our Life 03:16 Type #1: Belonging - Being a Part of a Community 09:32 Type #2: Legacy - Feeling Connected to Something Bigger 14:11 Type #3: Independence - A Relationship with Ourselves 18:33 Type #4: Safety Relationships - The People that Bring Stability in Our Lives 23:39 Type 35: Service - Relationships Based on Surrender and Service

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Do you want to know the secret to know if your chemistry will last? 

Are you wondering why you can't move on from your ex?

If you have questions about love and relationships, this episode is for you. Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is back. Esther is recognized as one of today?s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Esther?s TED Talks have garnered more than 40 million views and her bestselling books, Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs, are global phenomena. Esther is also the host of the hit podcast Where Should We Begin? which is available on Apple Podcasts.

If you've ever wondered when a relationship is worth saving or why we grieve after a breakup, Esther has incredible insights to share that you can apply to your own relationship. Let's discover the power of accountability in relationships and how it can trigger positive change. We discuss the art of turning conflict into connection. Also, we uncover the negative effects of losing curiosity and how it impacts our connections.

The conversation also fearlessly tackles the topics of betrayal, lack of trust, and the intersection of relationships, technology, and mental health. Get ready for a fascinating exploration of the narratives that shape our relationships, the dynamics between rationalists and romantics, and what truly makes a real relationship.

In this interview, you?ll learn:

How to turn conflicts into genuine connection Why relationships often fail How to save your correct relationship What to do after a breakup How to boost trust and confidence in a relationship

It is truly a thought-provoking and heartfelt journey into the essence of human connection.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

Thank you to Soho Works 10 Jay in Dumbo for hosting us for this episode.

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:12 When is a Relationship Worth Saving? 03:51 Why Do We Grieve After a Breakup? 05:14 Accountability in Relationships Can Trigger Change 10:00 How to Turn Conflict Into Connection  14:10 People Try to Overcome Fear by Gaining Control 17:14 The Negative Effects of the Loss of Curiosity 22:09 Blaming the Other Doesn?t Solve Anything 27:21 How to Make Your Partner Feel Important  29:10 Other Mediums to Express What You?re Unable to Say 36:01 Do New Things Together 38:08 There are Lingering Feelings that Stays Even After Breakup 41:53 We All Fear Betrayal and Lack of Trust 43:35 How to Value and Protect Your Relationship 50:50 The Real Story Before and After Betrayal 55:33 The Intersection of Relationships, Technology, and Mental Health 01:01:50 The False Relationship Narrative that Failed us 01:04:22 The Rationalists and the Romantics 01:06:23 What Makes for a Real Relationship? 01:10:04 Diversifying Long-Term Relationships 01:15:55 Your Partner?s Opinion Matters 01:21:11 The Real Definition of Self Confidence 01:24:59 We Are Drawn to People We Don?t Want to Become 01:28:03 Where Should We Begin A Game of Stories with Esther Perel

Episode Resources:

Esther Perel | Website Esther Perel | Twitter Esther Perel | Instagram Esther Perel | YouTube Esther Perel | Facebook Esther Perel | Books Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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How can you stay motivated in 2024?

How can you stay on track when things get though?

There is always a challenge, some resistance, or pressure to break your goals and lose motivation. Today, Jay will unpack why it?s become difficult to maintain motivation throughout the year. There are scientifically proven ways to boost your motivation and stay motivated.  

From investing on people and personalities that is linked to your goal and that can give you positive influence and the three people you need in your life when things get too tough to doing the things that you?ve been planning to do but haven?t got the time to complete, there are options and tips available for you to get that motivation back and stir your path to the right goals. 

In this episode, you?ll learn:

How to stay focused on your goals How to effectively set goals How to bring back motivation How to do the things you?re set on doing

There's a wealth of options and insights waiting for you to reclaim your motivation and steer your journey toward the right goals.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 01:22 There?s always a challenge to break your goal 02:59 Tip #1: The Four Stages of Cognitive Restructuring 07:52 Tip #2: Follow All The Right Accounts That Is Linked To Your Goal 10:26 Tip #3: Tick Off Anything That You?ve Completed In The Day 14:21 Tip #4: The Three People You Need In Your Life When You Lose Motivation 17:04 Tip #5: The Most Important Thing Is How You Feel After You Do Something 20:05 Tip #6: You Got Everything Done Except For The One Thing That You Needed To Do 22:10 Tip #7: Your Fitness And Wellness Is Based On The Quality Of Your Sleep 24:01 Tip #8: The 20-Minute Routine You Need To Practice

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Do you want to learn how to strengthen your relationship over time? 

Do you want to have better communication and expectations with your partner? 

On this very special episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty sits down with the former First Lady of the country, Michelle Obama. During Michelle?s time as First Lady, Michelle launched several initiatives, including "Let's Move!" which aimed to combat childhood obesity, and "Reach Higher," promoting higher education. Her memoir "Becoming," released in 2018, became one of the best-selling books of that year and took the world by storm. Today we sit down to talk about her most recent book, ?The Light We Carry.? 

In this raw conversation, Michelle opens up about her thoughts on marriage, fame, and public service. She talks about the toxicity of social media and technology that affects our mental health and how to be open to the changes and possibilities people bring with them. She also talks about how negative news and social updates are affecting our society and the community we are in.

We also dive deep into relationships and  why we put so much pressure on our marriage, how to choose the right person for you and make the relationship work even when it isn?t perfect, and how to practice constructive arguments with your partner.

In this interview, you?ll learn:

How to think freely and independently How to take care of your mental health How to become a supportive partner How deal with negativity How to become an effective leader How to make your marriage last  

Together we?ll learn how to find calm amid life's noise, give people the space to be seen and heard, and explore topics that resonate with the very fabric of our personal growth journey.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 01:18 What is the Best Part of Being You? 02:16 What?s Your Longest Friendship? 03:16 The Struggle of Leaving the People You Love Behind 06:36 Be Open to the Possibilities of People 11:36 What?s the Hardest Part of Being You? 14:23 When You Lose a Piece of Yourself 16:48 What Keeps You Up at Night? 19:00 Allow Your Brain to Rest from the Noise 24:26 Mindful Usage of Technology 26:48 We Consume More Negative News Daily 31:03 How Do You Sustain a Successful Relationship? 35:33 The Non-Negotiables in Any Relationship 37:08 You Are Responsible for Your Own Happiness 42:50 What is Your Fight Style? 48:42 Giving People Space to Be Seen and Heard 53:15 What Offends You the Most? 54:39 The Best Personal Growth Moments 59:59 Conclusion with Michelle Obama

Episode Resources:

Michelle Obama | Instagram Michelle Obama | Facebook. Michelle Obama | Books Obama Foundation  The Light We Carry: Overcoming in Uncertain Times

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What do you want to change in 2024?

What goal do you want to achieve this year?

Happy New Year! Today, let?s focus on making your new year?s resolution into a reality. For many, there?s a lot they want to change, overcome, and succeed in but not everyone has the resolve to take action and actually make it happen. 

As we step into 2024, Jay guides us through four dynamic approaches: a year of learning, experimenting, performance, or thriving. No matter your choice, let's laser-focus on your top goals. Remember, even colossal goals can be conquered by breaking them down into manageable chunks. 

In this episode, you?ll learn:

How to set better goals How to make your year productive How effectively achieve your goals 

Let's make 2024 a year of learning, experimenting, and finding success in life, love, and career! 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 03:10 What Type Of Year Is 2024 For You? 04:22 #1: What is 2024 For You? 05:10 A Year of Learning 08:02 A Year of Experimenting 09:58 A Year of Performance 10:48 A Year to Thrive 12:30 #2: A Year From Now, What Would You Want To Be True About You And Your Life?   15:57 #3 The 1-4-3-1 Method 20:18 Know That You Will Fall Off Your Plan 22:20 Be Compassionate to Yourself and to Others 27:00 Let?s Make 2024 the Year You?ve Been Waiting For

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Do you want to know the secret to living a long healthy life? 

Do you want to know what the healthiest people in the world drink everyday?

Dan, a best-selling author and explorer, shares his extensive research and knowledge on the communities where people live the longest and healthiest lives. As the mind behind the acclaimed book, "The Blue Zones Secrets for Living Longer: Lessons from the Healthiest Places on Earth," and the visionary behind the Netflix docu-series, Dan Buettner brings a wealth of knowledge about how to live to 100+.

This conversation explores the common threads that weave through these diverse group of people, unlocking the keys to a fulfilling and enduring life .From diet and daily habits to the profound sense of community, Dan Buettner offers profound insights into how these lessons from the Blue Zones can be applied to our own lives. 

Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that bridges ancient traditions with modern living, and learn how you can integrate the Blue Zones' transformative lessons into your own pursuit of a healthier, more meaningful and longer life

In this interview you?ll learn: 

Practical lessons for a longer life  What role your genes play in the length of your life  What you can add to your diet daily that will add 4 years to your life  How our environment plays a key role in our life  Tangible steps we can take to improve our overall well being  How plant based diets can significantly improve our health  How a sense of purpose and community can enhance our life and longevity 

Dan?s passion for understanding and unlocking the secrets to longevity has influenced the world and I hope it does the same for you. 

With Love and Gratitude, 

Jay Shetty 

What we Discuss:

00:00 Intro  03:40 How much of our genes determine how long we will live  09:23 The secret to a healthy America  14:30 The overconsumption of meat is hurting us 18:15 We spend twice as much time in our cars than we did in the 1980s 20:24 The power of community   24:50 The hack to a longer life isn?t based solely on diet and exercise but also community  27:13 Using elders as a longevity strategy for community  30:40 Green tea can add to your longevity  35:33 How beans and grains are cornerstones in the oldest global communities  38:11 What has changed over the years that has added to our mortality rate  43:40 The power of creating a social circle around health  44:35 Reminder to stop eating when stomachs are 80% full  47:27 What the last bluezone 1.0  will be  51:16 What most cities should consider in order to become a blue zone  54:43 How a sense of purpose and clarity can add to our longevity  55:03 Conclusion 

Episode Resources:

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As we approach the close of 2024, this episode is not just about reflecting on the lessons learned; it's about sharing the transformative insights that will illuminate our path forward.

Jay poses a question that resonates deeply: How many of us stress about our well-being? From health and meditation to daily journals and affirmations, the pursuit of self-improvement often brings with it a surge of stress. 

Jay challenges you to explore the idea of stress as a spectrum, a nuanced scale rather than a binary state. This concept is monumental and understanding stress can be a game changer for you this coming year. 

In this episode, Jay unpacks the idea that sometimes the goal of wanting to be better and do better puts us under greater pressure. 

Let Jay guide you as he explains positive stress, distress and the lessons he learned this year that are meant to be carried forward and put into practice. It's not just about learning; it's about application, about making these lessons a living, breathing part of our lives.

This episode is your go to to close off the year and prepare yourself for a beautiful journey in 2024. 

With Love and Gratitude, 

Jay Shetty 

In this episode you?ll learn: 

Differentiating positive stress and distress Finding your center  Top stressful events for adults  Knowing when to be hard on yourself and when to let go 

What we discuss: 

00:00 Intro  03:02 The Big Lesson I Am Taking Into 2024  03:34 #1 Understanding Stress As A Spectrum 04:49 The Positive Side Of Stress 10:30 Living In Distress 17:09 #2 Finding Your Center  20:28: #3 Being More Compassionate And Understanding Of How Others Deal With Stress  21:25 The Ultimate Gamechanger

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Is it possible to pivot and lean into our passions later on in adulthood?

How can you successfully remain true to your identity while following different ventures?

Today on the show we have Jay Sean, a renowned global artist whose impact on the music industry has been profound since his debut in 2003 with the groundbreaking album "Me Against Myself." Over the past two decades, Jay has contributed five studio albums, a standout greatest hits compilation, and a collection of engaging mixtapes. With an impressive career spanning 20 years, Jay has consistently demonstrated his musical prowess and fearlessness in embracing new creative challenges while remaining authentically connected to his artistic roots. 

This episode is a masterclass in self-awareness. Jay provides practical insights into recognizing and embracing change, uncovering the secrets to thriving in transition, and forging a path that aligns with your core values.

Tune in and get ready to be inspired, motivated, and equipped with the tools to shape your authentic success story.

In this interview you?ll learn: 

The importance of self-awareness How to let go of fear and embrace new things  Insights on how he has let go of self limiting beliefs How Jay has navigated the ups and downs of success  Balancing what has brought you success in the past while also leaning into your new passions 

Remember that embracing new parts of you doesn?t mean you are letting go of yourself. It just means you are meeting different parts of you, growing and evolving. 

In Love and Gratitude, 

Jay Shetty 

What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro  04:06  Jay shares insights into his upbringing, discussing the influence of his driven parents and their sacrifices.  12:15 The moment Jay knew he wanted to study medicine and pursue a musical career  18:27  When it clicked for him and changed the trajectory of his life 25:39 Dreams feeling within reach  35:14 The importance of not keeping yourself in a box  43:40 Lessons learned over the past 20 years 44:45 Why are you doing this? 53:30 Why staying true to himself has helped navigate challenges  58:30 The story of how Ride It came to be  01:01:46 The power of letting go of your ego and leaning into your curiosity  01:13:01 Letting Go of Former Identities  01:17:09 What we can learn from Rocky Balboa  01:19:31 Breaking free from a trapped identity  01:25:38 Conclusion

Episode Resources:

Jay Sean | Facebook Jay Sean | Instagram Jay Sean | TikTok

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Do you want to reduce your stress in just 7 minutes a day? 

Do you want to learn how to make meditation easy and accessible for you?

Today, I welcome my good friend Michael Acton Smith. Michael is the co-founder and co-Executive Chairman of Calm, the leading mental wellness brand with the #1 App for Sleep, Meditation and Relaxation. Calm has grown to over 100 million downloads, was the Apple 2017 app of the year, and is the world's first mental health unicorn. Long fascinated by neuroscience, flow states and mental fitness, Michael is passionate about spreading meditation as a simple but valuable skill around the world. 

Michael discusses the interesting twist of putting an entertainment voice in meditation, challenging myths, and misconceptions surrounding this powerful practice. We tap into the future of mental health, exploring why sometimes we need to step back to find the answers. Patience has always been the secret to success.

As the conversation progressed, we stirred into the potential of AI and its role in the next evolution of Calm and potentially address the question: How can technology be harnessed to serve humanity better? There is a future in AI and how it immensely helps spread mental health awareness and promote mindfulness practice. 

In this interview, you will learn:

The many benefits of meditation How to practice mindfulness How to sit in silence and calm your mind How to leverage your creativity The connection between AI and mental health

It's an episode packed with insights, laughter, and a sprinkle of mindfulness. Together, let's explore the boundless possibilities of a calm and balanced life together! 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:18 How Did the Calm Partnership Come About? 05:26 Making Meditation and Mindfulness More Accessible 09:06 The Impact of Daily Calm and Sleep Story on People 11:53 Putting an Entertainment Voice in Meditation 15:27 Myths and Misconceptions About Meditation 18:27 What is the Future of Mental Health? 22:01 Why You Need to Step Back to Find Answers 26:29 Why Patience is the Secret to Success 29:46 How Do You Combine Business and Creativity? 32:19 How Can AI Help Humanity? 39:37 The Potential of AI and The Next Evolution of Calm 42:03 How to Find Balance Between Digital and Physical Activities 47:02 The Benefits of Reacting Instead of Responding to Triggers 51:41 How to Positively Introduce Meditation to Children 55:52 How to Develop the Practice of Sitting in Silence

Episode Resources:

Michael Acton Smith | LinkedIn Michael Acton Smith | Instagram Calm

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Do you want to set better Goals? 

Do you want to see patterns before your competition? 

Jay sits down with the CEO of Fanatics, Michael Rubin. Fanatics is a global digital sports platform that is reimagining the fan experience across many different businesses. 

Michael Rubin is a noted entrepreneur, philanthropist, and social justice advocate who has built several multibillion-dollar direct-to-consumer companies. Driven by a deep passion for business and a life-long love of sports, As growth is constant and never ending, Michael shares the value in learning from those you admire, the biggest mistake many make when building a brand and the undeniable connection between financial success and loving what you do every day.

Michael shares secrets to his mindset of continuous learning and discovers the role of pattern recognition in achieving business success. Michael shares his tips for finding incredible talent and the importance of routines for productivity, learning how to define your worth, turning negatives into positives, and setting billion-dollar goals.

In this interview, you will learn:

How to be a successful entrepreneur How to change your mindset when building a business How to overcome challenges and naysayers How to be financially independent  How to spot patterns in business 

This episode isn't just about business?it's about family and finding what truly matters to you. It's about building empires but creating a life you love.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

01:03 Introduction  02:50 Pursue Your Passion for Entrepreneurship 05:05 Why Learn From the People You Admire 06:42 Evolution of Entrepreneurship 08:04 A Peek into the Trading Card Business 12:16 The Biggest Mistake when Building a Brand 14:45 Financial Success is Loving What You Do Everyday 16:17 You Don?t Stop Learning 17:32 The Role of Pattern Recognition in Business Success 19:01 The Quest for Incredible Talent 23:42 Routines to Help with Productivity 25:24 Can You Define Your Worth? 29:01 The Positive Impact of Turning Negative into Positive 34:01 The Billion Dollar Goal 35:23 Family Life in the Midst of Success 35:57 Finding Balance Between Career and Family 38:22 How to Prioritize What Matter the Most 42:23 Conclusion with Michael Rubin

Episode Resources:

Michael Rubin | Instagram Michael Rubin | Twitter Michael Rubin | TikTok Fanatics Reform Alliance

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Do you want to get over your biggest fear of 2023? 

Do you want to set purposeful intentions for next year?  

This episode is brought to you by BMW and the most On Purpose most asked for guest is back again, Jay's wife Radhi! Jay and Radhi take a ride around LA together and reflect on the past year in their personal life, relationship as well as career. They reflect on goals, fears, and looking ahead at how they want to change for 2024.

Jay and Radhi dive deep into their thoughts on facing their fears and doing things they fear doing the most, the biggest lessons and learning this year, and the personal choices that significantly impacted their lives in the last 12 months. 

In this episode Jay's wife Radhi joins him for a road trip around LA in the all electric BMW iX. The iX is the embodiment of the ideal blend of luxury, technology, and power that delivers a thrilling, yet sustainable comfortable ride. 

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to overcome your fears & unlock the core of your fears  How to set better intentions for next year  How to give value to your partner's opinions How to see past the lessons you?ve learned

As always with Jay and Radhi, their conversations are filled with laughter as well as deep reflections. This episode is filled with incredible nuggets of tips on how to implement strategies on shifting your mindset on fear and goal setting. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 00:34 What?s Something You Would Ask Your Partner?s Opinion Of? 03:24 What Do You Avoid Asking Opinion For? 06:56 What Need Have You Not Found a Friend to Spend With? 08:25 If We Switch Roles Today, What?s the First Thing You Will Do As Me? 14:08 Any Fun Memories While Driving? 16:57 Where Do You Drive To When You Miss Home? 18:43 Place You Are Most Scared of Going That You Ended Up Going 23:49 What?s the Root Cause of Our Fears? 26:41 What Is the Biggest Lesson You?ve Learned this Year 29:59 What Is Something You Want to Work on Next Year? 34:04 What Is Something You Valued in Your Relationship Now that You Didn?t Value Before? 37:58 What Did You Change This Year that Impacted Your Life?

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Tired of being misunderstood all the time?

Are you looking for ways to stop living up to other people's expectations?

Then this podcast is for you. 

Today, Jay Shetty welcomes world-ranking professional tennis player Nick Kyrgios. Nick burst onto the pro tennis scene in 2012 after a prolific junior tennis career. Since his start he has captivated fans with a larger than life personality, passion for the game, and unpredictability. Kyrgios has won 7 singles titles and 4 doubles titles in his career, but 2022 marked the first time Kyrgios displayed his dominance making it to his first Grand Slam Final, winning 3 singles titles, and 3 doubles titles. He also reached the Quarter Finals of the 2022 US Open beating then-ranked No. 1 Daniil Medvedev and is one of the few players on Tour who have beaten the Big Three (Novak Djokovic, Roger Federer, Rafael Nadal) at least once. 

In this conversation, Nick opens up about how his strong personality online has sparked hate and negativity - how misunderstood his persona is and how different he is with friends and family.

Nick also briefly talks about dark times, dealing with depression and addiction and turning the most difficult phase of his life into a pivotal moment to have the best year of his life when he reached the Wimbledon final. He also talks about looking at life beyond tennis and what awaits him in the future.

In this episode, you will learn:

How to accept your flaws How to overcome fear and anger How to turn your life around How to deal with negativity How to become your best self

A truly inspiring story begins with a challenge and ends with a triumph, and Nick has just proven to us that success isn't elusive when you dream big and work hard for it. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 00:54 Enjoying Some Time Off 02:00 Nick Used to Hate Playing Tennis 03:35 Misbranded by the Media 06:00 The Effects of Promoting Negative Content 08:25 Dealing with Mental Health in Silence 10:49 Getting Out of the Darkest Moments 15:08 How Hard Work Led to Wimbledon 17:04 People Only See the Anger 19:23 People Will Always Have Something to Say 22:56 Being Okay with Leaving the Game Behind 24:52 Nick Talks About His Injury 25:46 Would You Spend Time with Your Haters? 28:25 Playing the Character of a Villain 29:55 The Best Crowd to Play For 33:32 Who is the Nice Guy Nick? 34:59 Tennis Is A White Privileged Sport! 38:34 How Media Can Negatively Affect Your Mental Health 44:26 How Strong Boundaries Make Relationships Work 49:36 An Old Conversation with Drake 51:50 Happiness is Spending Time with Family 54:44 The Many Breakdowns that People Do Not Know 59:14 What?s Keeping You Busy These Days? 01:00:30 The Best Places to Visit 01:02:00 Regrets of Losing a Loved One 01:06:44 Learning How to Bounce Back Right Away 01:07:58 The Hardest Lesson You Had to Learn 01:12:05 How Stress Can Affect How You React to People 01:16:24 Why Would You Break a Racket? 01:19:14 Routine Consistency is Hard Work 01:21:15 The Struggle of Letting People Down 01:24:13 Nick on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Nick Kyrgios | Website Nick Kyrgios | X Nick Kyrgios | Instagram Nick Kyrgios | Facebook

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How can you prevent toxic conversations?

How can you prevent someone from triggering a negative response out of you?

As we step into the holiday season, potentially tricky conversations during family gatherings can happen. We've all been there, dealing with relatives where the connection isn't as smooth as we'd like, and the conversations can be a bit of a challenge. 

Before you switch into the festive gatherings, a bit of pre-party practice could be your secret weapon. And there is power in being the bigger person?leading with empathy and understanding. 

In this episode, you?ll learn:

The best practices for a restful sleep How to improve your sleeping habits How to change your body clock

Let's make this holiday season one filled with warmth, understanding, and, of course, lots of love. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:00 The Sense of Discomfort Around Family 04:10 #1 Pre-Party Practice You Need Before the Holidays 10:03 #2: Prepare for the Questions Often Asked  12:14 #3: Family Gatherings are Rarely the Place to Fix Things Out 18:10 #4: Select Your Allies and Communicate with Them Beforehand 20:04 #5: Alter the Direction of the Evening by Showing Affection 23:07 #6: It?s Okay to Vent Afterwards 26:15 #7: Don?t Let Anyone Get Under Your Skin

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How do you reset your gut health?

How can you reduce inflammation in your body?

Today, we welcome Dr. Darshan Shah. Dr. Shah is a health and wellness specialist, board certified surgeon, published author, entrepreneur, and founder of Next Health, the world's first and largest health optimization and longevity clinic. With expertise in all body systems, Dr. Shah has performed over 15, 000 surgical procedures, including trauma surgery, general surgery, and reconstructive procedures. As a health and wellness specialist, he has advised thousands of patients on how to optimize their well being and extend their lifespan. 

Dr. Shah talks about the three-step process that empowers you to take charge of your health, examine the changing landscape of our food intake, and learn four essential ways to eat right. He emphasizes the importance of plant-based protein sources and the incredible benefits of vegetables, and dives deep into consequences of low vitamin D levels.

The conversation takes a turn towards the power of social activity and how to break free from sedentary behavior. Uncover valuable insights on escaping the clutches of perfectionism and how to prepare for old age. Dr. Shah sheds light on the benefits of sleep tracking and shares best practices to ensure a good night's rest.

Together, let's gain a deeper understanding of how inflammation affects your gut health, learn how to take care of your heart, and explore the technological evolution of cancer testing. 

In this interview, you?ll learn:

How to eat healthy How to change your diet effectively How to exercise properly How to be more active at home The benefits of good sleep How to take care of your gut How to take care of your body

There is so much to learn and so much information to process, but this conversation will surely lead you to a better, healthier lifestyle.  

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 03:06 Why Was There a Need to Build Next Health? 09:11 The Three-Step Process to Stay Healthy 13:19 What Has Changed With Our Food Intake? 16:16 4 Ways to Eat Right 24:36 Plant-Based Sources of Protein 26:11 How Vegetables Can Greatly Help Your Body 30:44 This Happens When Your Vitamin D Level is Low 34:12 Know What is the Blood Work Optimal Range 36:51 You Need to Invest in Social Activity 39:19 How to Break Sedentary Behavior? 46:46 How Do You Get Out of the Perfectionist Mentality? 48:32 How Do You Prepare for Old Age? 50:21 The Benefits of Sleep Tracking 57:24 Best Practices to Help You Sleep Through the Night 01:03:52 Inflammation Affects Your Gut Health 01:09:10 How to Take Care of Your Heart 01:14:23 Technological Evolution of Testing Cancer 01:18:24 How Do We Prevent Cancer? 01:22:28 Conclusion

Episode Resources:

Darshan Shah | Website Darshan Shah | Instagram Darshan Shah | LinkedIn Darshan Shah | Facebook Darshan Shah | YouTube Next Health

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Do you want to sleep deeper? 

Do you want energy that will last you all day?

If you're grappling with consistent difficulty in achieving restful nights, then this episode can help you.

Today, we're diving deep into one of the most widespread challenges of our modern lives ? the elusive, quality sleep that seems to escape many of us. We dive into the secrets to transform your bedroom into a sanctuary that promotes healthy sleep. You will learn to discover the power of location, the influence of time, and how to create an environment that embraces the soothing energy and memories of a restful night. 

We introduce the first key to having good sleep: maintaining a sanctuary-like atmosphere in your bedroom. From adjusting the thermostat to match your body temperature to embracing cave-like darkness, these steps are game-changers for a good night's sleep.

In this episode, you?ll learn:

The best practices for a restful sleep How to improve your sleeping habits How to change your body clock

In this transformative episode, we walk through the essential keys to unlock the door to a better night's sleep. Your journey to restful nights and vibrant days starts right here.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 01:35 Who Doesn?t Need a Better, Deeper, Quality Sleep? 03:13 #1: Location Has Energy, Time Has Memory 04:34 How to Make Your Bedroom a Sanctuary for a Healthy Sleep? 06:18 #2: Include Drinking Warm Water in Your Morning Routine 07:55 #3: Lower the Thermostat at Bedtime to Match Your Body Temperature  11:22 #4: Create a Cave-Like Darkness 14:22 #5: Recognize Your Body?s Circadian Rhythm  Clock 16:38 #6: Get a Comfortable Mattress 17:45 #7: Learn More About Yoga Nidra 19:39 #8: Know the Best Sleep Positions

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Do you want to know the formula to building a billion- dollar empire? 

Do you want to identify your fears in order to reach your dreams? 

Is work-life balance actually a myth? 

If you're in search of building a career of your own and be as successful as your potential allows you to become, the insights in this conversation will help you achieve your goals. 

Our guest today, Emma Grede, has founded and is at the helm of multiple global businesses including Good American, Safely and SKIMS.

Emma candidly opens up about the secrets of finding motivation in the most unlikely places and we get to learn that the job we're struggling in today might just be the stepping stone to a remarkable career shift tomorrow.

Fear is not the enemy ? it's our gateway to personal growth and altering the trajectory of our careers. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to find the motivation to change your life How to turn struggle into an opportunity How to be overcome societal expectations of women How to find success in your passion How to restart your career Tips on effective decision-making

Experiences are more than just wisdom; it's an invitation to embrace your potential, overcome obstacles, and live life authentically.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 06:10 The Ambition Mindset  08:58 Overnight Success Is An ILLUSION  15:08 Every Job Will Teach You An Important Lesson  17:44 How Fear Can Help You Grow  22:21 Every Relationship Has Chapters  26:36 The Tradeoffs Mothers Make Daily  30:24 CHALLENGE The Expectations Set For Women  32:03 Take Time To Reflect On What Matters To You  36:23 What Makes A Successful Relationship?  41:09 Practice Who You Want To Become Everyday  43:31 Misconceptions About Working Women  49:48 What?s Your Intention When Going to Work? 51:35 Don?t Be Afraid To Take Chances  01:01:08 How To Come Up With A Good Business Idea 01:04:41 How A Successful Businesswoman Thinks  01:12:24 The Most Stressful Part Of Building A Business  01:15:03 Responsibilities That Come With Success  01:22:37 Emma Grede On Final Five

Episode Resources:

Emma Grede | Instagram Emma Grede | Facebook Good American

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Ever wondered what creative approaches exist to propel professional growth? 

How can creativity become the driving force for career advancement? 

Today, Jay will guide us through the keys to mastering growth and innovation in your professional journey. He kicks off this episode with a powerful reminder: "It all begins right now." Discover how understanding your company's algorithm can be a game-changer, and learn the art of studying patterns effectively to propel your growth.  

Jay unveils the seven essential steps to drive innovation in your organization. From identifying your company's growth area to embracing acceleration as a catalyst for disruption, Jay provides invaluable insights into navigating the ever-changing landscape of success.

He moves on to share the importance of investing in what you're good at and mastering the art of creative networking. Learn how to enter the flow state and be in the zone, unlocking your full potential. Jay encourages us to connect things that may seem unexpected, unveiling the hidden gems of creativity and growth.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to plan for your career path  The ways you can excel at work How to make meaningful connections How to accelerate your career growth

Join Jay as he unravels the secrets to growth, helping you chart a course towards a brighter and more fulfilling future. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:24 It All Begins Right Now 06:37 #1: Understand Your Company?s Algorithm 11:48 How to Study Patterns Effectively 13:12 #2: Identify Your Organization?s Growth Area 15:40 #3: If You?re Accelerating, You?re Going to Disrupt the Organization 17:30 #4: Invest in What You Are Good At 22:08 #5: Learn the Art of Creative Networking 23:55 #6: Be in the Flow State, Be in the Zone 25:54 #7: Connect Things that Seem Unexpected 

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What if there is a way to help reduce aging?

What if it is something you can do on your own and make it a daily habit?

There is a way and today?s guest will offer insights about aging and managing emotional stress.

Today, we welcome back Dave Asprey, the founder of Upgrade Labs and known as the 'Father of Biohacking'. He Is a four-time New York Times bestselling science author, host of the Webby award-winning podcast The Human Upgrade.  

Dave shares the science behind the concept of biological age and how to calculate it, shedding light on the surprising power of laziness and how working hard without the right tools might not yield the results you desire. Dave also exposes the secrets to optimizing your metabolism, upgrading your body with cutting-edge technology at places like Upgrade Labs, and boosting your mineral intake for better overall health.

We also get to learn the connection between a malnourished body and emotional stress and why staying healthy often takes a backseat in our busy lives. Learn the art of maximizing the benefits of meditation and how to reset your body, paving the way for holistic healing. Plus, get the lowdown on protein needs, the truth about chicken products, the merits of a plant-based diet, and various types of milk and their unique benefits.

In this interview, you?ll learn:

How to exercise effectively  How to eat right to avoid inflammation How physical health affects emotional health How to reset your body for better performance The foods that are causing inflammation How much protein the body needs How to stay healthy How to age without feeling old

This episode is packed with valuable insights on how to prioritize your health and well-being, so you can truly live your best, youthful life. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

01:03 Introduction  03:34 Figure Out How Old You REALLY Are  04:33 Laziness Can HELP You?!  07:21 How To Hack Your Body  08:47 Exercise Less & Be Healthier  11:24 How The Metabolism REALLY Works  14:10 Your Health Is Missing THIS  16:58 Vitamins & Minerals You Need  19:42 Figure Out What You?re Missing  23:06 Secrets To Becoming Fitter  26:01 The Reset Process 28:06 Why Forgiveness Is So Important  31:14 You NEED To Let Go- Or Else  34:40 How Much Protein Do You Need?  37:40 The Truth About Veganism  40:10 Which Protein Source Is Best? 42:16 The Role Of Genetics In Diet  44:30 What Kind Of Milk Should You Drink?  50:11 The Truth About Oils  53:50 Should You Eat Palm Oil?  55:36 How To STOP Aging  58:02 Conclusion

Episode Resources:

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As stressful as life can get, we all look forward to the holidays.

It is the time of the year where we can unwind, reconnect with family, and look forward to the new year.

But if you're too stressed about work and life in general, there's a high chance you'll carry over that energy over the holidays.

If you're looking for ways to release stress and lighten your mood, then this episode can help you. 

The holiday season - it's a that can be both joyful and stressful. Jay shares invaluable insights on acknowledging and managing stress, anxiety, and the feeling of overwhelm during this festive period.

As the holidays approach, let's break down the top four sources of stress, providing practical tips to tackle each one. From learning to say no without guilt to taking all your time off, he emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries to protect your mental well-being.

Let Jay guide you through ten actionable strategies for a more mindful and enjoyable holiday experience. From incorporating healthy meals between events to budgeting and planning ahead, these tips are not just for surviving but thriving during the festive season. 

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to deal with stress and anxiety How to prepare for the holiday season How to change your mindset about stress How to fully enjoy the holiday festivities

This episode is your go-to guide for creating a holiday season filled with joy, peace, and self-care. Together, let's approach the holidays with a clear mind and a grateful heart. Tune in to make this season truly special.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 02:59 Learn to Acknowledge Stress, Anxiety, and the Feeling of Overwhelm 04:45 The Top Four Sources of Stress Around the Holidays 07:02 #1: You?re Allowed to Say No 10:46 #2: Take All Your Time Off 14:47 #3: In Between Events, Add Some Healthy Meals 17:44 #4: Expecting Triggers is Better than Hoping They Won?t Happen 19:38 #5: Allow Yourself to Switch Off and Do What You Want to Do 21:14 #6: Check in Advance and Make a Budget 22:10 #7: Be Clear with People About What You Want 23:53 #8: Look at Your Calendar and Plan Ahead 24:30 #9: Make Time to Reflect This Year 25:19 #10: Don?t Abandon Therapy and Meditation 

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Can we transform rejection into a powerful force for redirection? 

What if setbacks were not roadblocks but rather signposts pointing us toward growth? 

Today in On Purpose, we have a special guest, La La Anthony, whose story is a shining example of self-discovery, resilience, and making a positive impact on the world.

La La Anthony is a talented actress, TV personality, bestselling author, and a passionate advocate for prison reform. She's not just about the glitz and glamor but also about creating positive change.

In this episode, we'll dive into La La's life, her experiences, and what she's learned along the way. We'll discover the importance of being true to yourself, even when the world tries to push you in different directions. From personal challenges to finding one's authentic self, La La's journey is a lesson in self-acceptance and embracing who you are.

We'll explore her efforts in supporting prison reform and how she empowers children to express themselves. La La's story is a reminder that you can overcome obstacles and pursue your dreams while staying true to your authentic self.

Join us as we journey through La La Anthony's remarkable life, filled with resilience, compassion, and the transformative power of being yourself.

In this interview, you?ll learn:

How to prioritize self care without feeling guilt The unique balance of being both a parent and a best friend to your child The transformative power of love and a change in environment Insights on coping with criticism and negativity

Remember, each of us has the potential to overcome challenges, prioritize self-care, and achieve our dreams while staying true to our authentic selves. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

Thank you to Soho Works 10 Jay in Dumbo for hosting us for this episode.

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 01:37 Healing is Messy 04:33 Creating Your Own Happiness 07:33 The Reality Behind the Spotlight 09:31 True Friendship in Life's Ups and Downs 14:01 Prioritizing Self-Care Without Guilt 19:20 Becoming Your Child?s Best Friend 25:17 The Passion of Creating and Producing 28:33 How Rejection Shapes Success 35:51 Breaking Free from the People-Pleasing Cycle 41:23 La La's Prison Reform Advocacy 51:21 Navigating Life's Unexpected Turns 58:09 Discovering Self-Love and New Beginnings

Episode Resources:

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For some, success is elusive while for others, it?s years of hard work and dedication.

But how can one truly and effectively achieve success?

How can we be as successful as the leaders we look up to?

Today, in the On Purpose podcast, Jay sits down with New York Times Bestselling Author, Alli Webb. After spending 15 years as a professional hairstylist, in 2010, she pioneered the Drybar concept, a chain of hair salons known for blowout services that quickly expanded nationwide. Jay and Alli go in depth about what the journey was behind creating a business to eventually selling the company for $225 million! Alli?s remarkable journey has landed her on the cover of Inc. Magazine, Fast Company's "100 Most Creative People in Business" list, Fortune magazine's "40 Under 40," and more. 

Alli and Jay explored the messy truth about starting something new? whether it?s a business or a relationship. They also talked about the importance of intuition and paying attention to red flags in entrepreneurship and the role of passion and love for what you do. 

You will also learn about how Alli balances her personal and professional life and the difficulty of navigating and ending a marriage. Remember that sometimes, we won?t always have the ?perfect ending? in our stories, and that?s okay. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

The messy truths of entrepreneurship The importance of acknowledging imposter syndrome and using it as a source of motivation and growth The challenges and risks associated with starting and running a business How to take feedback as a gift How to cope with life changes and challenges

Remember that the most beautiful masterpieces are often created from the messiest of beginnings.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro  02:50 Success Is Messy  03:55 The Truth About Starting A Business  05:55 Anyone Can Be An Entrepreneur  07:40 ?I never thought I would be successful?  10:30 From Hobby To Business  13:20 DON?T Think About The Money  14:26 The 2 Secrets To Success  15:56 Being Right Or Being Delusional?  20:05 How To Find Your Passion 22:04 Finding The Right Business Partners  25:31 Making Your Idea Work  27:21 Dealing With Potential Failure  29:22 Feeling Like An Imposter  33:00 The One Piece Of Advice For Success  37:00 How To Accept Criticism  40:50 Can You Be Successful AND Happy?  45:10 Finding Love During Chaos  48:25 Navigating Challenges In A Relationship  51:15 How To Balance Your Life  54:01 Finding Closure Within Yourself  57:30 How To Cope With Uncertainty  1:00:29 Hardest Part Of Divorce  1:04:58 What Do You Need To Change About Yourself?  1:07:33 Dealing With Trauma  1:11:41 Alli?s Best Advice  1:19:00 Alli On Final Five

Episode Resources:

Alli Webb | Website Alli Webb | Instagram Alli Webb | TikTok  Alli Webb | Book

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Staying in your comfort zone often gives us a sense of control and stability. 

But when it comes to growth, staying in one spot for a long time doesn?t lead to growth. 

So how can you comfortably leave your comfort zone and unlock your hidden potential?

Today, Jay sits down with organizational psychologist Adam Grant. Adam is a leading expert on how we can find motivation and meaning, rethink assumptions, and live more generous and creative lives. Adam hosts the TED podcasts Re:Thinking and WorkLife, which have been downloaded over 65 million times. Adam?s latest book, Hidden Potential offers a new framework for raising aspirations and exceeding expectations.  

Adam and I explore why growth is so important in our lives as we dive into the tools to use in order to grow through discomfort. We look deep into facing discomfort, finding your authentic voice, and the true essence of learning.

Now, let's talk about something that can sometimes weigh us down ? envy. We'll learn how we can turn envy into inspiration, using our role models as a stepping stone to success.

In this interview, you'll learn:

Why personal growth matters How to deal with discomfort How a life coach can help you How to find your authentic voice How to get out of your comfort zone

Truly, this is a journey of self-improvement, self-discovery, and embracing personal growth. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro  03:57 Why Growth Is So Important  06:25 Should You Compare Yourself To Others?  09:01 ?I thought I should quit?  10:50 You Need To Study Your Role Models  12:00 How To Face Discomfort  16:07 Are You Being Too Cautious?  17:56 Why You Need to Stick With Things  20:10 What Do You Need To Be Better At?  23:35 How To Know If You?re Doing Well  27:29 The Trick To Gaining Self-Confidence  30:32 How To Deal With Never-Ending Criticism  32:27 Should You Care What Other People Think?  35:40 Myths About How We Learn  39:37 The Truth About How We Learn  43:50 Doubt Can Be Helpful 45:40 Why You Should Get A Coach  52:25 How To Succeed Without Perfection  56:17 Is Self Promotion Bad?  1:00:10 How To Promote Your Work  1:04:45 Adding Value To Others? Lives  1:08:55 The Secret To Success  1:12:42 How To Enjoy The Struggle  1:16:50 ?What one piece of advice has stuck with you??  1:19:11 Why Choices Are Important  1:23:15 Finding Hidden Potential  1:26:54 How To Optimize Education  1:28:00 Conclusion

Episode Resources:

Adam Grant | X Adam Grant | Instagram Adam Grant | Facebook Adam Grant | Threads  Adam Grant | LinkedIn Adam Grant | Website Adam Grant | Books

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Have you ever found yourself comparing your current partner to someone from your past? 

Are you wondering why your current relationship isn?t as happy as it used to be?

If you?re currently struggling with keeping your relationship afloat, then this episode is for you. 

We all know that effective communication is the key to maintaining healthy connections, and I am here to guide us on how to better express our thoughts and concerns to our loved ones. Here's the first golden rule in improving your relationships ? someone's past behavior doesn't define them today. And it's not just about their actions; it's about what you bring to the table as well. 

Let's take a look at crucial insights on how we tend to fill in the gaps with our own assumptions, the importance of asking the right questions, and why criticism rarely leads to positive change. And always consider the significance of seeing vulnerability as strength and not putting your loved ones down in public.

In this episode, you'll learn:

The reasons why relationships fail How to avoid actions that ruin relationships How to become a better listener How to communicate yourself effectively

We're in for a heartfelt discussion that will surely help you strengthen your relationships and take a step closer to the happier, healthier connections you deserve.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 01:38 How to Better Communicate Issues in Your Relationship 03:31 #1: Someone's Behavior Doesn?t Make Them The Same As Someone You Were With Before   09:01 #2: Don't Fill In Uncertainties Mentally 13:26 #3: We All Have A Long List Of Needs 18:12 #4: Ask Yourself These Three Questions 20:38 #5: Criticism Doesn?t Help Change, Coaching Does 23:27 #6: Seeing Opening Up As A Weakness  26:33 #7: Criticism Is Often Linked With Comparison 27:20 #8: Don?t Put Them Down In Public

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Do you want to shift your thoughts to change your reality? 

Do you want to shift your self- criticism into compassion? 

Today I welcome Charli D?Amelio, a digital superstar, crowned ?the reigning queen of TikTok,? by The New York Times. Charli was the first on the platform to hit 100 million followers and is the current leading female TikTok creator with over 150 million followers, making her the most followed person on the platform. Now Charli is one of the most recognizable faces online, in print and on screen with her family?s Hulu docuseries, The D?Amelio Show.

In this interview, Charli doesn?t hold anything back. She openly discusses how she preserves her self-esteem and identity while navigating the challenges of online bullying and fame. She talks about her breaking point and what led her to change the way she talked to herself by implementing self-compassion. It?s a reminder that checking in with yourself is important in order to sort out emotions and assess your physical and emotional needs. 

In this interview, you will learn 

The importance of being kind to yourself  How to tap into your authentic self How to rediscover yourself and giving yourself permission to be  The power of learning to trust yourself and your decisions  Strengthening your ability to bounce back from setbacks. How to voice your needs to those around you. 

Join us in a conversation of self-exploration, where we explore the depths of self-awareness and empower you to build trust in yourself and your choices. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro  02:34 Did Charli Just Get Lucky?!  5:50 Charli?s Online Identity vs. Her Real-life Persona  11:26 Learning To Focus On What Actually Matters  13:43 On Losing Her Identity 19:10 Finding Joy In Everyday Life  25:00 How To Be Less Self-critical  29:00 Treating Your Friends With Kindness  32:43 Navigating Difficult Family Dynamics  36:43 What It?s Like To Film A Reality TV Show  39:10 On Being Trust In The Adult World At The Age of  16 45:24 Gossip, Rumors, and Clickbait 47:38 Being Friends With Other Influencers  50:15 Having A Famous Boyfriend  54:28 Learning To Ignore The Haters  58:34 Raising Her New Puppy!  1:00:30 Finding Her Personal Style  1:02:00 Learning To Use Her Voice  1:09:40 Finding Peace With Animals  1:13:15 Visiting Africa  1:17:30 Charli D'Amelio On Final Five

Episode Resources:

Charli D'Amelio | Instagram Charli D'Amelio | TikTok Charli D'Amelio | YouTube Charli D'Amelio | Twitter Charli D'Amelio | Facebook Charli D'Amelio | Website

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