Today I want to ask you the following questions: does it make sense to you that your happiness depends on someone else? Have you become so attached that you think you couldn't live without that person?
It's happened to all of us. I lived much of my life depending on the approval and acceptance of others. I needed to have a partner in order to be "someone", I needed to have friends to feel good. But despite having them all I was not happy, I still felt empty and alone. I didn't love or accept myself – and until I began to love and accept myself, I wasn't happy. That's when I stopped looking for my "other half".
For example, we believe that falling in love and the feeling of attachment generates love and we insist on this belief, generating endless disappointments. However, true love cannot cause pain. It is the other way around, pure love is all about accepting and it's unconditional.
True love sets you free!