The Comfort Zone

Is it really ‘discipline’ or is it just disordered? Let’s unpack the blurry lines between healthy habits and harmful obsessions… wellness culture's obsession with rigid routines, ‘clean eating’ and 5AM wake-ups are often disguised as self-improvement, but are sometimes more like self-punishment.

In this episode, we share our tips for distinguishing between genuinely nourishing practices and those unwelcome disordered behaviours hidden as "dedication." See you in season two!

Thank you so much for joining us, we appreciate you so much 🩷

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The summer paradox makes us feel like we're never doing summer "correctly" - we're not relaxing enough or not making enough memories. The pressure to have a perfect summer often prevents us from actually enjoying summer on our own terms.

There's pressure to maximise every moment with exciting activities and adventures, creating anxiety about "wasting" summer days, while also feeling exhausted by constant socialising and activity planning.

With summer around the corner, it's time we tackle the harmful concept of 'the summer body' and give practical advice on coping with summer expectations.

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As your self-proclaimed big sisters, we think it's time that we answer some of your questions and offer our advice - from things you're too afraid to ask, to dilemmas you've been battling with alone, to those awkward life situations nobody prepared you for. We've been there, made the mistakes, and learned the hard way so you don't have to.

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Join us as we tackle the chaotic reality of adulting whilst still trying to find out who we truly are. 

In this episode, we break down our journey from overthinking every decision we make to finding peace with imperfect progress, the pressure of social comparisons and the anxiety that comes with the fear of making "wrong" choices. 

Whether you're facing big transitions, feeling behind in life, or just want some big sister advice, join this honest conversation about navigating the messiness of your twenties - when nothing feels certain and everyone else seems to have it all figured out.

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As two girls that have struggled with restriction, Ro and Jaycie invite you into a vulnerable conversation about their personal journeys towards food freedom and how it has changed their lives for the better.Drawing from their own experiences, they discuss the emotional toll of food rules, diet culture's impact on their mental wellbeing, and the small steps that led to their healing.Join them as they discuss rebuilding a peaceful relationship with food, challenging internalised food fears, and rediscovering the freedom of eating without guilt. Whether you're actively in recovery, working to repair your relationship with food, or simply searching for hope during challenging times, this episode offers both compassion and practical guidance to support your journey towards food freedom. Because it is possible, and you deserve it.

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Does the fear of failure stop you from trying new things? Do you abandon projects because they don't meet your impossibly high standards? Are you constantly putting things off until the time is 'just right'?

In this episode, Ro and Jaycie explore how the pursuit of perfection might actually be sabotaging your happiness, productivity, and mental health. They dive into the psychology behind perfectionism and share their personal strategies to break free the 'perfection paralysis.

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We all know that social media distorts reality, so we're here to pull back the curtain on the influencer world.

From false advertisements to edited pictures, Ro and Jaycie break down the messy reality behind the ‘dream' influencer lifestyle. Is it really what it looks like? What's real and what's fake?

Get ready to lift the lid on the world of content creation and expose how social media has made normal life seem boring.

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In this episode, we dive into the thought process behind chronic over-apologising and why so many of us reflexively say "sorry" for things that don't warrant an apology at all.

We'll explore how this habit often stems from people-pleasing tendencies, and internalised feelings of taking up too much space in the world. Ro and Jaycie unpack the difference between genuine apologies and the automatic "sorry" that infiltrates our daily conversations.

Maybe you don't need to apologise for your existence...

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Have you ever just felt a little ‘different’? Like there's this invisible barrier between you and the rest of the world - like you can see everything happening but you can't quite figure out how to join in naturally?

From things that keep us up at night, to defining what ‘normal’ really means, this episode dives into the feeling that we just don’t quite fit in.

And if you feel the same, just know that you’re not alone. Maybe we’re all not outsiders after all, or maybe being a little different is your superpower.

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Do you ever lie awake, mind spinning, over-analysing every conversation and every interaction you’ve had that day? Us too!

In this episode we unravel the inner workings of our brains, and try to understand why we feel like we feel, care and worry more than others. Is this constant deep feeling and overthinking weighing us down... or making our lives richer?

Maybe it's both - the same sensitivity that keeps us up at night also lets us experience joy, notice the beauty that others miss, and understand people on a deeper level. Yes, sometimes it's exhausting, but would we really want to feel any less? Let’s find out…

In this bonus mid-week minisode we're talking all things journalling! From how to take the pressure off and genuinely enjoy it, to our favourite equipment, we've got everyone, from beginner to experienced journal keepers, covered.

In this raw and honest episode, we're discussing exposure therapy.

Facing your fears sounds terrifying - but what if we told you that's exactly why it works?

Ro shares her lived experience, whilst Jaycie asks important questions to help you on your own journey.

We hope that episode will transform how you think about fear and trauma - and show you why running from it might be the very thing holding you back.

You're stronger than you think, and sometimes the only way out is through.

Get ready to delve deep into our unpopular (or maybe not so unpopular) opinions... does money really buy happiness? Would we be happier without social media? Has cancel culture gone too far? Let's find out!

We both know that self-care can feel impossible sometimes... but here's the thing - caring for ourselves shouldn't feel like another source of stress.

Self-care has been twisted into this exhausting checklist: drink more water, exercise daily, follow a 12-step skincare routine, meditate, the list goes on...

On some days, basic self-care like taking a shower feels like climbing a mountain. And that's okay.

Self-care looks different for everyone. The most important thing is learning to listen to yourself. What helps you recharge? What brings you peace or joy?

Your self-care journey is yours alone. There's no checklist to complete, no right or wrong way to do it. The only thing that matters is whether it genuinely helps you feel better, more whole, more like yourself. Let's talk about it!

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‘Glowing up' is everywhere on social media, promising that if we just ‘try hard enough’ and change every part of ourselves, then we can be worthy of love and acceptance. False.

In this episode, we challenge the toxic pressure to constantly improve our appearance and discuss why society’s idea of ‘beauty’ is flawed.

Through sharing our personal experiences, we examine why the relentless push for ‘self improvement' can damage our mental health and self-worth. Plus, we dive into how companies are actually capitalising on our insecurities, while selling us solutions to problems they helped create in the first place.

Glowing up is a scam, and this episode will leave you accepting yourself as you are, right now, because every version of you is enough. 

In this episode, we explore everything that 2024 taught us... letting go of what no longer serves us, closing a chapter, discovering what we want to bring into the new year and our goals for 2025.

We dive into why January 1st doesn't need to be a dramatic transformation, and how every single day offers a fresh opportunity to start again.

Remember that growth is a continuous journey, not a destination tied to a calendar date.

Get to know your hosts, Ro Mitchell and Jaycie Fry, as they open up about their own messy lives... telling open and honest personal stories and experiences before giving big sister advice to The Comfort Zone listeners.

From navigating life's ups and downs, to sharing important ED recovery advice, this episode aims to leave you feeling like you're not alone, and can do anything you put your mind to.

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In a world that can often feel scary, we're faced with a choice: do we shrink our lives from fear, or do we allow ourselves to live a full and happy life? This episode explores how we can live courageously, acknowledging life's challenges whilst refusing to let fear define our existence. We dissect why we can feel scared and unsafe in different environments, and then discuss strategies for building confidence in the wider world.

In this episode we delve into the world of overconsumption, and the psychology behind our purchasing behaviours. Join us as we explore the subtle marketing tactics used by companies to keep us in the dopamine-driven cycle, and the ways in which we can mindfully consume and find fulfilment in a more minimalist life.

This episode is your guide to surviving (and thriving) during the Christmas season. We discuss our top tips on managing the intense pressures that come with the festive season... exploring how to create boundaries, prioritise self-care, food freedom and giving yourself permission to rest without guilt. This is the year that we learn to say no to events that drain us, and create meaningful connections that actually bring us joy!