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You can change your life and Mel Robbins will show you how. The Mel Robbins Podcast is the #1 podcast on the globe for a reason: Mel’s simple, research-backed advice has changed millions of people’s lives, and in every episode, she’s giving you all her hard-fought secrets, science-backed tools, and deeply personal stories, so you can change yours too. If you’re a new listener, you’re in the right place. Every episode will empower you to create a better life and help you take a step toward the life you want. Want more? Follow along at @melrobbins
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This episode is a must-listen if you or someone you love has ever struggled with weight.
Today, Mel sits down with world-renowned, triple board certified endocrinologist and obesity specialist, Dr. Rocio Salas-Whalen, to explain the medical truth behind your metabolism, weight loss, and the most talked-about medications on the planet: GLP-1s like Ozempic and Wegovy. Today, she’s breaking down exactly how these medications work, who they’re for, and the critical mistakes people are making when using them without medical supervision.
If you're confused about these drugs, worried about the side effects, or curious if they could help you or someone you love—this episode will answer every question you've been too afraid to ask.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
-The 5 real causes of weight gain—and why only one is in your control
-Why obesity is not your fault (and how blaming yourself is holding you back)
-What GLP-1 medications like Ozempic actually do in your body
-The #1 risk no one is talking about when taking these drugs
-Why these medications can change your brain, your cravings, and your relationship with food
-How to avoid “Ozempic face,” hair loss, and muscle loss while on these drugs
-How to know if you’re a good candidate—and the red flags to watch out for
You’ll also hear Dr. Salas-Whalen’s personal story of using the medication herself after hitting perimenopause—and what she wants every woman to know about managing weight in midlife.
This episode is your science-backed, shame-free guide to understanding GLP-1s, your metabolism, and what real help looks like.
If you or someone you love is struggling with weight, send them this episode. It could change their life.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, and want more evidence-based tools for a healthier life, listen to this next: The Body Reset: How Women Should Eat & Exercise for Health, Fat Loss, & Energy
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If you’re feeling like you’re behind in some area of your life, today’s episode is a must-listen.
Mel is directly addressing one of the most requested topics of all time: when you don’t feel like you’re on the “right timeline” compared to everyone else around you.
By the time you finish listening, the way you view your entire life will change.
In this episode, Mel goes decade by decade, and speaks to the pressures that people face in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and even 80s and 90s.
She will hit, head on, the “invisible checklist” and myths that are making you feel stressed out and behind in life.
If you’ve ever felt like you should…
-Have your career figured out by now
-Have already met the love of your life
-Have more money in the bank
-Own a home
-Find a life partner if you want to have kids
-Be less stressed and happier
-Have found purpose and meaning
-Be ready to retire
-Found your lifelong friends
Today’s episode is for you.
Mel is going to liberate you from the expectations of society, your family, your friends, and even the ones you’re putting on yourself. She has the facts, the science, the psychology, and thousands of listener comments to back everything up.
This is an episode you do not want to miss, and that you’ll want to share with everyone you love.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode.
If you liked this episode, the next one you should listen to is: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness
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If you’re anxious, overwhelmed, uncertain, or find yourself wondering “what is wrong with me?” then this episode is for you.
Today, world-renowned psychiatrist Dr. Tracey Marks, MD is here to deliver the truth about what’s really going on in your brain, body, and most importantly: what you can do about it.
If you deal with anxiety, ADHD symptoms, trouble focusing, procrastination, stomach problems, skin picking, and always running late… you need to hear today’s episode.
You are not broken.
You don’t need fixing.
You just need the right tools.
And today, you’re going to get them.
With over 25 years of clinical experience and more than 2 million followers on YouTube, Dr. Marks is known for making complex mental health topics clear, relatable, and actionable.
In this powerful conversation, she breaks down the surprising science behind anxiety and ADHD and gives you the exact tools she shares with her patients to stop spiraling and start feeling more in control.
You’ll learn:
- Why you fidget, overthink, or shut down under pressure
- The hidden links between anxiety, ADHD, stomach issues, skin picking, and always running late
- The #1 tool to interrupt anxiety in the moment
- Why labeling yourself “an anxious person” might be making things worse for you or your loved ones
- Small but powerful habits that rewire your brain for calm, focus, and confidence
This episode is your science-backed, therapist-approved toolkit for mental clarity, emotional balance, and real relief.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode.
If you liked this episode, and want to know more about ADHD and what you can do today to focus and feel better, listen to this episode next: 6 Surprising Signs of Adult ADHD
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In this episode, you’ll learn how to let go of regret, overcome regret, let go of past mistakes, and step into a powerful new chapter.
Today, Mel is joined by one of the most powerful and honest voices of our time: Charlamagne Tha God. He’s a Radio Hall of Famer, a three-time New York Times bestselling author, an Emmy-winning producer, and co-host of The Breakfast Club, one of the biggest radio shows in the world, among many accolades.
But none of that is why this episode matters.
This is a raw, inspiring, and deeply personal conversation about redemption, reinvention, letting go of mistakes, and becoming a better version of yourself.
Charlamagne opens up about childhood trauma, addiction and the moment he finally chose to change his life. He shares how he became a better father, how he broke toxic cycles, and why grace is the key to growth.
You’ll learn:
– How one simple decision can set you free
– How to stop punishing yourself for who you used to be
– A simple practice to help you find peace, even when life feels heavy
By the end of this episode, you’ll know that no matter where you come from or what you’ve done, you can reinvent yourself. You can change yourself. Starting today.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode.
Note: this episode includes open conversation around mental health, including anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts. Please take care while listening.
If you liked this episode, and want to know more about how to become a happier, healthier you, listen to this next: Why You Feel Lost in Life: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma & How to Heal
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Today, you’re going to learn exactly how to earn more, get promoted, network more effectively, and finally land your dream job.
This is the most important career advice you’ll ever hear.
In this episode, Mel sits down with Harvard Business School Professor Dr. Alison Wood Brooks, who’s pulling back the curtain on everything your boss won’t tell you: from mastering negotiation and communication to building real influence at work.
Dr. Brooks teaches Harvard’s #1 course on negotiation and communication. Today, she’s giving you information that could change everything.
Whether you’ve just been laid off and need a roadmap, you’re stuck at a job and craving recognition, or you’re doing well but ready to level up – this episode is your next step forward.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
-How to ask for a raise, and actually get it.
-What it really takes to earn a promotion.
-How to nail any interview with confidence.
-The path to discovering and landing your dream job.
-The science behind negotiation, and how to do it better.
-How to handle high-stakes conversations with ease.
-Strategies to conquer anxiety and show up like a leader.
If you’re ready to make more money, step into your power, and move your career forward with clarity and confidence this episode is your playbook.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, and want more incredible communication tools, listen to this next: Research From Princeton: 13 Proven Hacks That Boost Your Influence & Make You More Confident
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In today’s episode, Mel is sharing the 4 books that will change your life.
These aren’t just great reads—they’re must-reads. They changed Mel’s life, and will do the same for you, too.
Each one offers fresh perspectives, practical tools, and transformative insights that will shift the way you think, show up, and connect with the people around you.
These books will:
-Transform how you see the world
-Help you strengthen and deepen your relationships
-Spark bold new ideas and inspiration
-Give you the courage to pursue what truly matters
Whether you’re stepping into a new chapter, feeling stuck, or simply looking for your next great read, this episode is your roadmap to growth, clarity, and confidence.
And if you read The Let Them Theory and want to know what to read next, you’ll get the best recommendations in this episode.
For more resources, including links to all the books mentioned in this episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Today's episode is a MUST listen.
You will learn the surprising science of women’s exercise and nutrition, the mistakes you’re making, and the simple changes that lead to better health and longevity.
For way too long, fitness and nutrition have been based on research done almost exclusively on men, and the women who have been following those strategies are left wondering why the fitness and nutrition guidelines don’t work for their bodies.
That changes today. In this firecracker of an episode, Mel sits down with Dr. Stacy Sims, a world-renowned exercise physiologist and nutrition scientist, to break down exactly how you, as a woman, should be eating, training, and recovering for your hormones, metabolism, and overall health.
Dr. Sims reveals why traditional fitness advice is failing women.
She talks about how intermittent fasting drains your energy and why your workouts leave you exhausted instead of strong.
She explains why fasted workouts, calorie restriction, and extreme cardio can actually make it harder to lose weight and what you should be doing instead to build muscle, burn fat, and feel amazing at every stage of life.
Ever wonder why men seem to drop weight faster than you? Or why your workouts feel great one week and awful the next? There’s a reason for that.
Dr. Sims will tell you, it’s all in your hormones.
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
-Why women should NEVER train like men (and what to do instead)
-The #1 mistake you’re making in the gym—and how to fix it
-The truth about fasted workouts (spoiler: they might be wrecking your metabolism)
-Why eating too little could be making you gain fat—not lose it
-How to work with your cycle for better energy, results, and recovery
-What every woman needs to know about perimenopause and menopause training
If you’ve ever felt like your diet and workout plan isn’t working, this episode will change the way you approach fitness and nutrition forever.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, your next listen should be: Look, Feel, & Stay Young Forever: #1 Orthopedic Surgeon’s Proven Protocol
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If you feel lost or stuck in life, today’s episode will help you understand the root cause of trauma and how childhood experiences shape you throughout your life.
Understanding your trauma is the key to healing.
Your past doesn’t define you—but it does shape you. And today, world-renowned physician and bestselling author Dr. Gabor Maté is here to break it all down.
Dr. Maté, a leading expert on trauma, shares insights on this topic unlike anything you have heard before.
In this powerful conversation, he reveals how childhood experiences—whether you realize it or not—impact your relationships, self-worth, and the way you navigate life.
You’ll learn why trauma, stress, addiction, and people-pleasing aren’t just personality traits but survival patterns formed in your early years.
And most importantly, you’ll discover that while what happened to you isn’t your fault, healing is your responsibility.
This conversation will challenge the way you see yourself—and give you the tools to take control of your future.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you enjoyed this episode with Dr. Gabor Maté, listen to his first appearance, where he dives deep into the connection between trauma, ADHD, and autoimmune disease: Dr. Gabor Maté: The Shocking Link Between ADHD, Addiction, Autoimmune Diseases, & Trauma
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In this episode, you are going to learn how to have amazing sex, deeper intimacy, and create real, lasting love.
If you feel like intimacy with your partner is rare, your desire is low, or that your marriage is even sexless, this conversation is for you.
Here to deliver the most important sex advice you need to hear is renowned sex therapist and bestselling author, Vanessa Marin.
Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist and a sex therapist with over 20 years of clinical experience helping people have healthier, more satisfying sex lives. She is known for her viral, no-shame, straight-to-the-point advice on how to have the best sex of your life.
This conversation tackles everything you weren’t taught—and probably aren’t talking about—when it comes to sex. Mel also shares openly about her own sex life, difficulties with intimacy, and speaks openly in a way you’ve never heard before.
Whether you are single, in a relationship, or married, this conversation is going to make you think differently about sex and inspire you to prioritize pleasure and connection in bed, no matter your age, relationship status, or gender.
You’ll learn:
-The real reason you feel disconnected in your sex life
-The two different types of sex drives and why it matters
-What to do if you’re on your way to a dry bedroom
-What exactly to say if you’re not in the mood when your partner initiates sex
If you feel like you can’t talk about sex, if you can’t ask for what you want, don’t know how to bring it up, are going through a dry spell, or want to have more sex but you’re exhausted, this episode is for you.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you enjoyed this personal and practical episode, listen to this one next: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage
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Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling dismissed, overlooked, or drained — but you couldn't quite put your finger on why?
You're not imagining it.
Disrespect is everywhere, and often, it’s so subtle that you don’t realize it’s happening until it’s already taken a toll on your confidence, energy, and peace of mind.
In today’s episode, Mel breaks down 6 sneaky ways people are disrespecting you every day — at work, in relationships, even within your own family — and, more importantly, exactly what to do about it.
Whether it’s someone constantly talking over you, dismissing your feelings, or always running late (yep, that’s disrespectful, too), you’ll learn how to respond in a way that protects your energy and commands the respect you deserve.
If you’re tired of feeling unseen, unheard, or undervalued, this is the episode for you.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you enjoyed this eye-opening episode, listen to this one next: How To Handle Difficult People & Take Back Your Peace and Power.
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Life is hard. Struggles are inevitable for you and for the people you love. But even when things feel overwhelming, there’s always something you can do.
And in today’s episode, you’re getting a toolkit – a companion guide to all of life’s twists and turns.
When life feels chaotic, you deserve clarity.
When emotions feel overwhelming, you deserve tools that work.
And when you feel stuck, you deserve a way forward.
That’s all in today’s conversation with world-renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Julie Smith. Dr. Julie is here to share the essential strategies that will help you navigate stress, anxiety, and life’s toughest moments with confidence. This episode will change the way you approach your emotions and mental strength forever.
You’ll learn:
-How to handle difficult emotions in the moment
-The biggest mistakes you make when dealing with stress & anxiety
-How to stop overthinking and regain control of your mind
-Practical tools to build resilience and mental strength
-Why you are so much stronger than you realize—and how to tap into your strength
This is one of those conversations you’re not only going to love, you’re going to want to share it with everyone you care about.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you enjoyed this eye-opening episode, listen to this one next: How to Control Your Mind & Redirect Your Energy to Self Transformation
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn the evening routine that has changed Mel’s life.
Right now, you most likely stay up too late, scrolling on your phone, flipping through channels, or doing absolutely nothing – and end up going to bed later than you want to.
You wake up tired, feeling like you’re behind the ball on the day, and start the day stressed.
That changes now.
In this episode, Mel breaks down exactly why you’re staying up too late, even though you know better. It’s not your fault. There’s real science behind it, and once you understand what’s happening, you can take back control.
You’ll also learn the 5 easy steps you can take right after you finish listening that will help you close out each day, sleep better, and set you up to feel better tomorrow.
This episode is packed with tactical advice and the 5 science-backed components of the best nighttime routine.
If you’ve ever said, “I need to stop staying up so late,” but keep falling into the same trap, this episode is a must-listen. Hit play now, embrace your new evening routine, and wake up feeling like you again.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you enjoyed this episode, your next listen should be: How to Find Your Purpose & Design the Life You Want
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Today, you will learn why everything you thought about aging is wrong — and how to stay strong, energized, and mobile at any age.
Dr. Vonda Wright, MD, joins Mel today to give you the wakeup call of a lifetime – one that will teach you how to look, feel, and stay young forever.
Dr. Wright is a double board-certified orthopedic surgeon and one of the world’s leading experts on mobility, musculoskeletal aging, and longevity. Her pioneering research proves that aging doesn’t mean getting weaker — it means getting smarter about how you move.
You’ll learn:
Dr. Wright will break down the exercise routine scientifically proven to change the way your body looks and feels, plus a powerful mindset shift that will completely change how you view aging.
Whether you’re 25 or 65, this episode will give you a science-backed roadmap to staying strong, mobile, and independent for life.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you enjoyed this episode, listen to this one next: How to Find Your Purpose & Design the Life You Want
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Today, you’re getting a wake-up call that will forever change the way you see your phone, your attention, and your time.
Mel is pulling back the curtain on the hidden game that Big Tech is playing with your brain—one designed to hijack your focus, drain your energy, and keep you scrolling so they can profit off of you.
But here’s the good news: once you see the game for what it is, you can stop losing and start winning.
In this episode, you’ll learn why you feel exhausted after scrolling, why you can’t stop checking your phone, and how social media is manipulating you in ways you don’t even realize.
Mel breaks down the science of dopamine, motivation, and attention—and how simple, research-backed changes can help you reclaim control.
Mel also shares her conversation with renowned psychiatrist Dr. Alok Kanojia, also known as Dr. K, who reveals the shocking truth about what your phone is doing to your brain—and how to undo the damage starting today.
By the end, you’ll have the tools to take your power back, set boundaries with technology, and start using your phone as a tool rather than being the tool.
If you’re tired of feeling distracted, overwhelmed, and drained, this episode is the wake-up call you need.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
To hear more from Dr. K, listen to this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, that goes deeper into the themes discussed today: Before You Waste Time, Listen to This
For more real talk from Mel that cuts right to the heart of what you’re facing today, listen to this episode: When Nothing Seems to Be Going Your Way, Here’s Exactly What to Do
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Today, you are getting research-backed strategies for handling difficult people.
In this episode, you will dive deep into how to respond to disrespect, gaslighting, and exactly what to say when someone tries to brush off their behavior with, “I was just joking.”
You and Mel are both learning from trial lawyer Jefferson Fisher, who is known for his straightforward advice, tips, and tricks on how to communicate better.
Jefferson is here to teach you exactly what to say (and what not to say) when you're dealing with a difficult person:
If you’re tired of being talked over, dismissed, or made to feel less than, it’s time to learn the techniques that will help you walk into any conversation with confidence—and walk away with your power intact.
You’ll learn how to:
After today, you’ll have the exact tools to protect your peace, reclaim your confidence, and navigate any difficult conversation with ease.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you enjoyed this episode, and want to know more about how to protect your energy and happiness, listen to this one next: The 7-Day Reset for More Time, Energy & Happiness (Backed by Science)
Listen to Jefferson’s first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast here: Communicate with Confidence: The Blueprint for Mastering Every Conversation
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Today, you are getting a simple plan to take back control. In this episode, Mel is sharing the 7 research-backed habits that will make a huge difference in your day-to-day life and will help you to reclaim your time, your energy, and your focus.
These are weekly habits for productivity, wellness, health, and balance.
If you feel constantly overwhelmed, stressed, or like you’re running on empty, this episode is your reset button. Consider it your blueprint for taking back control.
After listening, you will have 7 habits, that if you do them each once per week, will make it an amazing one. You’ll go from feeling scattered and exhausted to calm, clear, and ready to face whatever life throws at you next.
This episode comes with a powerful companion checklist—designed using the latest research to help you beat overwhelm and take back your power with simple weekly habits. The best part? You can start using it in less than a minute.
Just download it here: melrobbins.com/week
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you enjoyed this episode about getting your week together, hone in on every day next with this one: Try It For 1 Day: Do This Every Morning to Boost Motivation & Focus.
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In this episode, you will learn how to make healthy living unbelievably easy.
Today, Dr. Rangan Chatterjee is distilling over 20 years of experience and thousands of patient success stories into just four key steps to a happier and healthier life.
Dr. Rangan Chatterjee is a world-renowned physician, bestselling author, and the host of Europe’s #1 health and wellness podcast. Today, he will simplify the overwhelming topic of health and empower you to trust what feels good for your body.
He is going to share practical and actionable tools you can incorporate into your life, starting today, including a simple 5-minute workout you can do in your kitchen and a proven framework to help you stop cravings and stay in control.
Whether you want to cut back on sugar, sleep better, move more, boost your energy, or reduce stress, this episode has everything you need to start feeling better today.
And stick around until the end of this episode because Dr. Chatterjee is talking openly about the stress that comes with caregiving: whether it’s for aging parents, a partner, your kids, or even yourself. What he has to share is truly powerful.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you like this empowering and informative episode, your next listen should be this one: Eat THIS to Lose Fat, Prevent Disease, & Feel Better Now With Dr. William Li
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to do a mindset reset to unlock the full power of your mind.
Your brain is wired to give you what you want, and today, you’re getting Mel’s science-backed insights and her step-by-step guide for letting go of negative thoughts and redirecting your energy to self-transformation.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of negativity, self-doubt, or overthinking, this episode is for you. Mel is sharing 5 powerful, science-backed techniques to get your brain working for you rather than against you. By the end, you’ll see that when you focus your thoughts toward the right things, there’s no stopping you.
Whether you want to build confidence, break free from negative thought loops, or simply create more peace in your life, this episode gives you the life-changing tools to make it happen.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you like this research-packed episode, your next listen should be this one, with Dr. Jim Doty: #1 Neurosurgeon: How to Manifest Anything You Want & Unlock the Unlimited Power of Your Mind
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In this episode, you’ll learn the truth about relationships that no one ever tells you.
Today, Mel and her husband Chris, who have been together for 30 years, are answering your biggest relationship questions and giving you their secret to a happy relationship.
Packed with fresh advice you never saw coming, Mel and Chris talk about how they learned these lessons the hard way, and share the relationship truths they wished they knew sooner to create a healthy romantic relationship.
Mel and Chris break down their relationship truths into small, actionable things you can do to make your relationship stronger today.
These are the real conversations about love, resentment, and growth that most couples avoid. After today, you will know:
Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode will change how you think about love.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory here.
If you liked this episode, you’ll like hearing another episode from Mel and Chris: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage
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If you’ve ever found yourself wondering “where did all my friends go?” or felt like making friends as an adult is impossible, you are not alone.
In today’s episode, Mel is breaking down the surprising reasons why friendship feels so much harder in adulthood—and, more importantly, how to change that.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Mel also shares shocking research that will change the way you think about friendships—including how long it really takes to form a close bond and the single most important factor in building lasting connections.
If you feel lonely, disconnected, or simply want to strengthen the friendships you already have, this episode will give you the exact roadmap you need.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, your next listen should be this one: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness
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This episode is your playbook for a happier, more fulfilling, and more meaningful life.
Today, renowned researcher Dr. Judith Joseph, MD is here to share the simple, science-backed habits that will truly make your life better.
She is here to share her groundbreaking research on this important subject and exactly what to do to feel more energized, excited, joyful, and present in your life again.
Dr. Joseph is a double-board-certified psychiatrist who trained at and is affiliated with Columbia University and New York University. She is also a pioneering researcher and the founder and principal investigator of her research institute, Manhattan Behavioral Medicine.
In this episode, she’s revealing—for the first time ever—her 5 V’s Framework, a groundbreaking research-backed approach from her Happiness Lab.
If you’re ready to take control of your life, achieve your biggest goals, and create lasting happiness, this episode is for you.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, your next listen should be this one: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness
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In this episode, you will learn why 80% of autoimmune diseases happen to women and the solutions to take back control of your health.
Today, Dr. Sara Szal, a Harvard- and MIT-trained MD with over 25 years of clinical experience will share what is happening in your body when struggling with an autoimmune disease.
These are the medical facts, signs, and causes you need to know from a renowned MD. This is science you’ve never heard and solutions you’ve never considered.
After today you will know:
What exactly is an autoimmune disease, and what causes it?
Why do women have more autoimmune issues than men?
What symptoms might you be experiencing right now that could signal an undiagnosed autoimmune disease?
What are the top 3 things you can do to heal yourself?
What role does trauma play in autoimmune disease?
If you already know you have an autoimmune disease—or you’ve been struggling with symptoms like persistent fatigue, brain fog, muscle pain, unexplained weight gain, or swelling—this episode could be life-changing.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, your next listen should be this one: Dr. Gabor Maté: The Shocking Link Between ADHD, Addiction, Autoimmune Diseases, & Trauma
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory here.
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If nothing seems to be going your way, and when it feels like it’s all too much, today’s episode is for you.
Today, Mel is showing up with a powerful message that will help if you’re feeling stressed, lost, alone, or like you’re losing hope.
In this episode, Mel is giving you a 4-step roadmap to get unstuck and move forward in the truly unfair moments in life.
When life hands you situations that seem impossible, it can feel like there’s no way out. In this episode, you’ll get the 4 powerful steps to help you move through life’s toughest challenges.
No matter what situation you are in, you will leave this episode feeling validated and empowered to find a way through even the hardest moments.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, your next listen should be this one: How to Find Your Purpose & Design the Life You Want
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Today, you’re getting a masterclass about what alcohol does to your body, brain, and health.
One of the most renowned and respected experts on alcohol is here to give you the latest research and science of how alcohol impacts your life.
She’s going to give you facts and help you be informed about the decisions you are making when it comes to your mental, physical, and emotional health when it comes to alcohol consumption.
Joining Mel today is Harvard’s Dr. Sarah Wakeman, MD. Dr. Wakeman is Senior Medical Director of Substance Use Disorder at Mass General Brigham, an Associate Professor of Medicine at Harvard Medical School, and the Program Director of Mass General Substance Use Addiction Services.
She’s here to answer:
How much is TOO much alcohol?
What amount of alcohol is okay in a healthy life?
What happens to your brain when you drink?
And how do you help someone you love who you think drinks too much?
By the time you finish listening, you’ll have the latest research so that you make the most informed decisions about the role alcohol plays in your life. This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top.
Join Mel on her first ever LIVE tour, Let Them The Tour, here.
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory here.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Sarah Wakeman’s work, click here for the podcast episode page.
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In today’s episode, Mel asks you 3 powerful questions that will reveal who you really are.
This episode gives you a simple way to learn more about yourself, find clarity, and feel energized and inspired again.
The first question helps you become your best self and tap into your capacity for success and excellence.
The second question will help you make any difficult decision and access your most important values.
The third question involves your relationships, how you can make them better, and how you prioritize them.
Whether you're at a crossroads or just curious about your potential, this episode will leave you inspired and ready to take action.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, your next listen should be this one: Try It For 1 Day: Do This Every Morning to Boost Motivation & Focus
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn a process to figure out what you really want, design a life you love, and find your purpose.
If you feel stuck, lost, or unsure about what’s next, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools you’ve been searching for.
This is your roadmap for creating the life you want.
For two decades, Mel has followed the work of Dr. Martha Beck from afar. She is the #1 life coach in the world and her teachings have inspired Mel every single step of her own journey.
In this episode, for the very first time, Mel and Dr. Beck are sitting down to give you the coaching session of a lifetime.
Dr. Beck is here to give you the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for and the wisdom you’ve been craving.
Using her own powerful comeback story of strength and resilience , she’ll inspire you to step into your purpose and create a bold, authentic life that’s fully aligned with who you are and what you truly want.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Martha Beck’s research, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, your next listen should be this episode: If You Struggle With Stress & Anxiety, This Will Change Your Life
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If you're feeling tired, unmotivated, and lonely you need today's episode.
Today, the #1 stress doctor is here to share her toolkit to quickly get out of a rut and live a happier life.
Dr. Aditi Nerurkar, a Harvard Medical School lecturer and one of the world’s top experts on stress and public health, will reveal the top 3 things that keep you stressed and overwhelmed.
Then, she shares a reimagined, science-backed approach to protect your brain from stress and feel calmer now.
The strategies you’ll learn today are simple, free, and available for you to start using right away.
By the time you finish listening, you will go from feeling tired to energized, shift from feeling disconnected to deeply connected in your life, and break free from burnout and finally feel your best again.
By the end, you’ll feel inspired, empowered, and ready to start thriving.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Aditi Nerurkar’s research, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, your next listen should be Mel’s conversation with Dr. Tara Swart, MD, PhD: The #1 Neuroscientist: After Listening to This, Your Brain Will Not Be the Same
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In this episode, you’ll learn how to actually stick to your goals this year.
Mel shares 5 rules that will make any new habit stick. These hacks are simple, evidence-based, and easy to apply.
They help you avoid the most common traps people fall into: feeling tired, lazy, and deciding to give up on your goals.
You’re not alone—many people end up quitting. But not you. Not this time.
Because by the time you finish listening to today’s jam-packed episode, you’ll know the 5 powerful, science-backed strategies to make your habits stick for good.
Whether it’s staying consistent with your fitness goals, building better money habits, or committing to Dry January, these tools will help you stay on track—even on the days you want to give up.
You’ll learn the powerful link between habits and your identity, simple ways to trick your brain into action, and how to bounce back quickly from slip-ups.
This is the ultimate episode for anyone who’s tired of starting over and ready to lock in the habits that lead to lasting change. These tips are practical, proven, and so easy to apply, you’ll be on your way to success before the episode is over.
This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top.
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory here.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this personal, tactical, and relatable episode, listen to this one next, about how to use your mornings better this year: Try It For 1 Day: Do This Every Morning to Boost Motivation & Focus
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn the simple, 15 minute morning routine you should do each day after waking up.
If you want to wake up early and be more energized, productive, and in control of your day, you’ll love learning the 6 easy steps in Mel’s morning routine.
From the first time you try out this 15 minute routine, you’ll be amazed by the difference it makes in your life.
This powerful episode is packed with teaching, insights, research, and tools about making the most of your mornings.
You’ll also learn why mornings are harder for some people than others and how sticking to this reliable routine is the key to breaking out of destructive patterns and showing up in your life with the energy and confidence you deserve.
It’s time you start your day in a way that makes you feel incredible.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode on how to begin your day, you’ll love listening to this one about how to end your day next: 4 Easy Nighttime Habits to Feel Energized & Sleep Better
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Today, you’re going to learn the simple trick to stop caring what other people think.
If you find that you take things personally, worry what other people think about you, are scared of being judged, or find that you can’t stop overthinking, you’ll love this episode.
You’ll learn how to stop people-pleasing and start doing what is right for you.
Featured in today’s episode is Chrissy Teigen, who opens up about her own struggles with people-pleasing. Mel gives Chrissy the coaching session of a lifetime, and what they talk about together will resonate deeply with you.
This episode is both deeply personal and highly practical. You’ll learn:
Get ready to take back control of your life again and live it for yourself.
To listen to Chrissy Teigen’s new podcast on Audible, Self-Conscious with Chrissy Teigen, click here.
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory, which she mentions in this episode, here.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this personal, tactical, and relatable episode, listen to this one next: The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn a proven step-by-step process to achieve any goal.
There are 6 simple steps that Mel has used over and over in her life to accomplish goals big and small, and she’s sharing her framework with you today.
Whether you want to improve your health, launch a business, make a major life change, or simply get more steps in, this proven formula will help you create results.
Mel will walk you through how she’s used this 6 step process in her own life, including how she got out of debt, became a bestselling author, and started this podcast, and she will share specific insights that will help you stay on track even when things get tough.
By the end of this episode, you’ll feel inspired and ready to start taking action immediately on the goals that matter most to you.
All additional resources are linked on the podcast episode page.
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn a renowned doctor’s protocol to prevent disease, heal your body, burn fat, and feel better now.
You’ll get the exact steps to optimize your health, the 5 foods you should be eating every week, and the 3 foods you’ll never eat again after you listen to this episode.
Joining Mel today is Dr. William Li, MD. Dr. Li is a physician and scientist whose groundbreaking work on angiogenesis (the study of blood vessels) has impacted more than seventy diseases, including cancer, diabetes, blindness, heart disease, and obesity, and his foundation has educated 40,000 physicians.
He has also spent over 30 years researching the connection between food and health, and his findings that he is sharing with you today are nothing short of revolutionary.
Dr. Li will explain how you can rewire your metabolism, improve your overall health, and start feeling better by making simple and powerful changes to your diet.
In this episode, you will learn:
Dr. Li’s research and advice will change the way you think about food and your health.
All additional resources, including Dr. Li’s books and studies are linked on the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love listening to this one next: Change Your Brain: #1 Neuroscientist’s Exercise Protocol for Peak Energy and Focus
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Take 7 minutes for yourself today.
These are 7 minutes for the next year that will start 2025 right.
In this special mini-episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Mel has a message just for you: This year, you have the power.
You have the power to make this the best year of your life.
You have the power to take the leap, pursue your dreams, and create the change you’ve always wanted.
This is the year you take back control. You stop worrying about what others think, say, or do, and start focusing on YOU. Because here’s the truth: only you decide how to spend your time and energy. And when you direct them toward the right things, everything changes.
Start your year strong with this message from Mel.
If you liked this episode, your next listen should be this one: The Top Expert Advice of the Year: The Best of the Mel Robbins Podcast
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In this episode, you’re getting the best of the best of The Mel Robbins Podcast.
This year, Mel released 115 episodes of the podcast, and featured 43 experts who shared their transformative insights on health, relationships, mindset, and more.
Together, this adds up to thousands of takeaways.
Because your time is valuable, Mel is giving you a gift today:
She and her team crunched the data, reviewed hundreds of hours of content, analyzed listener feedback, and pinpointed the moments you shared, replayed, and wrote about—the moments that changed your life.
The result? The 8 most impactful moments of the entire year.
So in this episode, Mel is teeing up these moments to you one at a time, playing for you the best takeaways of the year.
You’ll hear 8 small pieces of expert advice that are packed with science, stories, and actionable strategies that will help you take action and make change, starting today.
What should you listen to next? You’ll love the full podcast episodes with each of the experts featured today:
Dr. Tara Swart: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Dr. Aditi Nerurkar: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Dr. Mary Claire Haver: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Dr. Wendy Suzuki: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Dr. Chris Palmer: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Sarah Jakes Roberts: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Dr. Robert Waldinger: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Dr. Zach Bush: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Mel also created an episode of HER favorite moments of this year, which you can listen to here.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Do you want to make 2025 your best year yet?
There are 7 questions to ask yourself that will help you:
In this episode, Mel will walk you through the 7 powerful questions, reveal her own answers, and guide you through how to answer them.
Your answers will show you what the very next steps are in your life, and help you confidently map out what you should focus on in the next 12 months.
This is the method Mel uses to set and achieve goals, and today, you’re getting the roadmap to the success, fulfillment, and happiness that you desire.
And if you’ve been a long-term listener of Mel and the podcast, you’ll recognize and love this method, as Mel invites you to reflect on and revisit how the past year went.
Fun, engaging, and deeply impactful, this episode will help you step into 2025 with purpose and momentum.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, your next listen should be this one: The Top Expert Advice of the Year: The Best of the Mel Robbins Podcast
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If there’s someone in your life you wish you were closer to, but it sometimes feels like there’s an unspoken tension between you, this episode is for you.
Today, Mel sits down with her oldest daughter, Sawyer, for a raw and transformative conversation about repairing relationships and closing the invisible distance that so many of us feel with the people we love most.
Together, they share the story of how writing The Let Them Theory healed their relationship and reveal three powerful tools that can help you do the same.
Whether it’s with a sibling, a parent, an adult child, or your partner, this conversation is a gift—one that will help you let go of resentment, show up differently, and create the deeper connection you’ve been longing for.
Get ready to finally have the relationship you’ve always wanted.
Get the book: “The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About”
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this personal episode, you’ll love this one, in which Mel and her husband Chris have a very candid conversation about their marriage of 28 years: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage
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In this episode, you’ll learn the best expert advice Mel learned this year.
Today, Mel has carefully selected the most life-changing, thought-provoking, and inspiring moments shared by her guests in the last 12 months.
These are the breakthrough ideas and expert insights that left a lasting impact on her, and they are about to do the same for you.
Hear from world-class scientists, researchers, and leaders in their field as they reveal how to manifest success, have better boundaries, the secret to a happy life, and how to finally get the sleep you deserve.
This is not just a podcast episode. It is your step-by-step guide to real change and the level-up you have been waiting for. Ready to make 2025 your best year yet? Start here.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
This episode is packed with wisdom, practical tools, and inspiring moments that will transform how you think, act, and show up in 2025.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
What should you listen to next? You’ll love the full podcast episodes with each of the experts featured today:
Dr. Jim Doty: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Jefferson Fisher: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Dr. Rebecca Robbins: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Trent Shelton: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
Tiffany Aliche: Spotify | Apple | YouTube
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This episode will change the way you think about every relationship in your life.
Today, Harvard’s Dr. Stuart Ablon is distilling 30 years of behavior change research into one hour.
Dr. Ablon is the Founder and Director of Think: Kids at Massachusetts General Hospital, which focuses on Collaborative Problem Solving. An award-winning psychologist, Dr. Ablon is also a professor of child and adolescent psychiatry at Harvard Medical School.
After listening, you will have a completely new approach to dealing with difficult people, challenging kids, and family members.
In this candid and relatable conversation, Mel and Dr. Ablon bust through the most common parenting myths and offers a simple 3 step approach for transforming even the most frustrating dynamics.
This episode isn’t just about solving conflicts; it’s about creating a deeper understanding of others and fostering lasting change.
Whether you're a parent, partner, or simply navigating life’s challenges, this conversation is for you.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, and want to create a peaceful connection with family, listen to to this episode next: The Simple Tool That Will Transform Your Family Dynamic
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Confidence is a skill, and today you are going to learn exactly how to build it.
Mel is one of the leading experts on the topic of confidence and is tapped regularly by the world’s top brands to teach their leaders how to be more confident.
And in today’s episode, Mel is giving you her step-by-step playbook, the same one that she teaches to leaders around the world, that you can use immediately.
Mel is offering the guide to believing in yourself (for real this time) in 5 simple steps.
If you have ever wanted to know how to increase your self-confidence and improve self-esteem, this is the episode for you. Whether you want to speak up at work, set boundaries, or stop doubting yourself, you need to hear this.
This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, which was packed with coaching and simple tools to be more confident, you’ll love listening to this one next: How to Read Body Language to Get What You Want: 6 Simple Psychological Tricks to Be More Confident
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In this episode, you will learn how to live a more meaningful and happy life with zero weird tricks.
Today, world renowned professor Dr. Laurie Santos is here to give you a crash course on living a happier, more fulfilling life.
Dr. Santos is the professor behind Yale’s most popular course of all time, which she then taught as an online course called The Science of Well-Being.
5 million students have taken her semester-long course, but you don’t need to.
Why? Because today on the podcast, she is distilling and summarizing the key takeaways from her world-famous 26 lectures into one hour for you.
She will share the surprising truths about what truly makes you happy and 5 science-backed ways to rewire your mind for more joy and meaning.
And even if happiness feels out of reach, this episode will change your perspective and equip you with practical tools to experience more of it, starting today.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love hearing from Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar – the most popular professor in Harvard’s history – share about the science of creating a better life. Listen to this one next: How to Build the Life You Want: Timeless Wisdom for More Happiness & Purpose
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Today, you are getting the best dating advice out there for both you and your loved ones.
Mel sits down with Logan Ury – a behavior scientist, dating expert, host of Netflix’s new dating series “The Later Daters,” and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge – to get her science-backed insights on finding success in dating.
If dating apps make you feel hopeless, if you feel like dating is broken, or can’t seem to find “the one,” Logan’s insights will change your approach to finding love forever.
Whether you're single, in a relationship, or supporting a loved one navigating the dating scene, this episode is packed with science-backed insights and actionable tools to help anyone find the love they deserve.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you’re in your relationship and want tools and tips on how to make it better, listen to this episode next: 5 Signs of an Incompatible Relationship & 3 Signs You’ve Found “The One”
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If you’re going through a breakup, or someone you love is, this episode is dedicated to you.
Mel is sharing the #1 cure for your broken heart, and is here to help you navigate the incredibly difficult process of moving forward after a breakup.
This is also a resource to share with anyone in your life who is going through heartbreak.
In this episode, Mel is joined by her daughter Sawyer, who recently went through the biggest breakup of her life.
They reveal research-backed strategies and the real, raw emotions of going through loss and grief, and together, they walk you through the painful task of learning how to live without someone you loved.
If you're ready for guidance on healing and moving forward, this episode is for you.
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory, which she mentions in this episode.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, listen to this one next: Let Go of Negative Thoughts & Reprogram Your Mind for More Positive Thinking
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In this episode, you will learn the requirements of a good relationship – and the signs your relationship may not go the distance.
If you’re wondering if someone is “the one” and you’re not sure if you should end things, you’ll get the answer today.
And if you’re struggling through a rough patch in your relationship and want tools and tips on how to make it better, Mel is sharing that as well.
Today, you’re getting the skills you need for any healthy romantic relationship.
Whether you’re in the early stages of dating, committed for years, or simply curious about your compatibility, this episode will give you the tools to navigate love with confidence.
Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory, which she mentions in this episode.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, and want to hear a very candid conversation with Mel and her husband Chris about their 28 year marriage, listen to this episode next: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage
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After listening to this episode, you’re going to understand how to harness the power of your mind in a way you never thought possible.
Today, Mel welcomes Dr. Jeff Karp, a world-renowned scientist and innovator, who’s here to teach you simple, science-backed methods to unlock your potential, no matter where you’re starting from.
You’ll learn how these tools helped Dr. Karp break free from feeling stuck, reframe challenges, and bring creativity and connection into every area of his life.
He’ll show you exactly how to use these techniques to sharpen your focus, manage stress, and boost your energy instantly.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit of strategies to help you overcome overwhelm, silence self-doubt, and bring purpose into your daily life.
Get ready to unlock your mind, ignite your potential, and transform the way you live.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode on brain health and unlocking your potential, listen to this one next: The #1 Neuroscientist: After Listening to This, Your Brain Will Not Be the Same
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Today, Mel is sharing exactly what you can do to improve the dynamic within your family.
Whether it’s disagreements over politics, someone who always has to be in the center of attention, or just pressure to make the limited time fun, family get-togethers can be hard.
You’ll learn Mel’s favorite tool, The Let Them Theory, to stop getting upset, bothered, or angry with your family, and what you can do instead.
This episode is a masterclass in how to improve your relationships with your family, so you can create stronger, more positive, and peaceful connections.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
To order Mel’s new book The Let Them Theory, click here.
If you liked this personal episode on family dynamics and creating lasting connection, despite the differences, listen to this episode next: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage
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If you find that the clutter keeps piling up, this episode will blow your mind.
You’re going to learn a foolproof decluttering method that has transformed Mel’s home.
The incredible Dana K. White, founder of the hit blog, A Slob Comes Clean, and author of How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind, is here to help you tackle your clutter and the overwhelm that comes with it.
Today she shares a five-step process that’s revolutionized the way countless people manage their lives—and it’s not about buying more containers or wasting time making everything look perfect.
This is decluttering like you’ve never heard it before, designed to make your life easier, your mind clearer, and your home more peaceful.
This episode will give you the first step to finally feeling less underwater (no matter what your shelves, desk, or bathroom counter looks like right now!).
This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, which was packed with personal stories and open dialogue from Mel, you’ll love this one: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage
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Today, Mel’s dream guest joins her in the Boston studios: Dr. Gabor Maté, MD.
Dr. Maté is a world-renowned trauma expert, and shares things today unlike he has ever shared before.
This wide-ranging conversation covers ADHD, autoimmune diseases, anxiety, addiction, people pleasing, and trauma.
Dr. Maté will take you on a deep dive into how your early life experiences can shape the way you feel and function today, both mentally and physically.
This episode is about unlocking real healing and finding hope.
Dr. Maté’s compassionate insights will show you how understanding your past can free you to make healthier choices right now.
You’re about to discover powerful, science-backed ways to understand and care for yourself in ways you never have before.
So, whether you’re on this journey for yourself or to help someone you love, this episode is for you.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode and want to reprogram your brain for more happiness and fulfillment, listen to this episode next: #1 Neurosurgeon: How to Manifest Anything You Want & Unlock the Unlimited Power of Your Mind
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It’s time to get off the hamster wheel that’s leaving you exhausted and overwhelmed.
If the idea of “doing nothing” feels almost painful and you feel uncomfortable when you’re not busy, this episode is the wake-up call you need.
Today, Mel unpacks one of the most common addictions that you probably have never heard of before: the addiction to busyness and stress.
Here to give more research and advice is Dr. Scott Lyons, a medical doctor, psychologist, and world-renowned trauma expert.
Dr. Lyons explains why over-scheduling every second of your day and constantly feeling “not enough” unless stretched to the limit is keeping you disconnected.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable steps to break free from the cycle and regain control of your time, energy, and peace of mind.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this empowering and insightful episode, listen to this one next: #1 Stress Doctor: 5 Tools to Protect Your Brain From Stress & Feel Calmer Now
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Today, you’ll learn the #1 money rule to live by to achieve financial success.
You’ll also get the secret to stopping fear and anxiety around money for good.
In this episode, financial expert Farnoosh Torabi will uncover major money myths that leave you feeling trapped and the steps you need to take to get good with money and build wealth.
Whether you want to start saving, make more, or get out of debt, this episode will lay the foundation for greater financial success.
This is an open and honest episode that will help you transform your relationship with money, and Mel candidly shares about her experience with financial fear after she found herself $800,000 in debt.
For more resources related to this episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you want more content related to money and finances, listen to this episode next: 5 Rules of Money: How to Make It, Save It, & Be Smarter About It
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Today, you will learn a mindset that will unlock the full power of your mind.
Your thoughts are connected to your future. It’s time to destroy the limitations of your mind so that you can unlock greater success, purpose, and possibilities.
If you feel stuck, unmotivated, or like you’re falling behind, this episode is for you.
Right now, there are 3 lies you tell yourself that are keeping you stuck in negative thinking patterns.
Today, Mel, along with four renowned experts, will help you identify 3 three lies and replace them with empowering truths that will shift your perspective and make moving forward easier than you ever thought possible.
You’ll learn powerful insights from Mel as well as leaders in the fields of medicine, business, and spirituality.
This episode will be the wake-up call you need to start believing in your potential.
What should you listen to next?
You’ll love the full podcast episodes with each of the experts featured today:
Dr. James Doty, MD: #1 Neurosurgeon: How to Manifest Anything You Want & Unlock the Unlimited Power of Your Mind
Steven Bartlett: The 51% Rule (and 3 More Strategies to Think Like a Millionaire)
Dr. Alok Kanojia, MD: Before You Waste Time, Listen to This
Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts: How to Create a New Version of Yourself: Let Go of Past Mistakes & Overcome Regret
For more resources, including links to learn more about each expert on today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
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In today’s episode, you’re going to learn about the powerful connection between neuroscience and religious experiences.
Renowned medical doctor and neuroscientist Dr. Andrew Newberg, MD is here on the podcast today, and you’re going to be amazed at what he shares.
Dr. Newberg is a pioneering researcher of “neurotheology,” which is a field of research that studies the relationship between neuroscience and spirituality.
He has spent decades scanning the brains of people during prayer, meditation, and spiritual experiences, and he’s here to share the findings of his huge body of research – and how you can apply it in your life.
Whether you consider yourself religious, spiritual, or an atheist, this episode is for you. You’ll discover practical tools to create daily rituals that cultivate a sense of unity,
connectedness, and calm in your daily life — starting right now.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode and would like to know more about about your mind works, listen to this episode next: #1 Neurosurgeon: How to Manifest Anything You Want & Unlock the Unlimited Power of Your Mind
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If you feel a sense of overwhelm, dread, or uncertainty right now, you need to hear this episode.
Right now, so many things are out of your control – whether it’s global events, elections, a health diagnosis, or news you’re waiting on.
In today’s deeply personal episode, Mel is sharing her best tools to deal with overthinking and negative thoughts.
Your worries are stealing the joy and peace you deserve.
And by the time you finish listening, you’ll feel more calm, grounded, and ready to handle whatever challenge comes your way.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
What should you listen to next? Check out this episode about a powerful tool you can use to start every morning strong, no matter what is happening around you: Start Strong: Do This Every Morning to Get Out of Bed, Beat Anxiety, and Feel Incredible All Day
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By the time you finish listening, your perspective on death—and life—will be forever changed.
Today, Mel sits down with death doula and best-selling author Alua Arthur for a transformative conversation about how embracing the shortness of life can unlock a profound sense of joy and purpose in your life right now.
Alua shares three powerful questions you should ask yourself today and reveals an inspiring exercise to perform on your birthday to help you live with more intention and gratitude.
With wisdom, warmth, and humor, Alua shows how getting real about death can unlock the authentic, fulfilling life you’re meant to live.
Prepare for a mindset shift that will change how you look at life, death, and everything in between.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this deeply profound episode, listen to this one next: #1 Neurosurgeon: How to Manifest Anything You Want & Unlock the Unlimited Power of Your Mind
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In this episode, you are getting the 6 secrets to a lasting partnership.
You will learn how to make love last and the key to keeping your relationship successful and strong.
Today, Mel and her husband Chris dive deep into the most important lessons they've learned in 28 years of marriage.
Mel and Chris share their real-time reactions to each other’s insights as they dive deep into the keys to a lasting relationship.
Together, they unpack how to handle resentment and unmet expectations, how to navigate family pressures, personal growth, and much more.
Whether you're in a relationship, navigating one, or simply curious about how to build a lasting connection, this episode offers authentic and relatable relationship advice you’ve never heard before.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode and would like to know more about how to build connection that lasts, listen to this episode next: The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You
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After listening to this episode, your brain won’t be the same.
Today, you are going to learn the science behind manifestation and what steps you need to take to manifest your dream life.
In this episode, Mel sits down with the extraordinary Dr. Jim Doty, a Stanford neurosurgeon, neuroscientist, and expert on manifestation and visualization.
Together, they dive deep into the science behind creating the life you want. Dr. Doty explains why your negative self-talk is holding you back and how you can reprogram your brain using simple yet powerful tools rooted in neuroscience.
This episode is science meets manifestation, as Dr. Doty unpacks how neuroscience proves visualization. It will give you the mindset reset you need to make your brain work for you and to rewire it for success.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode and would like to know more about manifestation, listen to this episode next: How to Manifest Anything You Want: 4 Simple Steps Backed by Neuroscience & Olympic Athletes
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Mel is thrilled to announce that her new book, “The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About” is now available for pre-order.
You can order a copy of the book at LetThem.com.
If you're struggling to achieve your goals or feel a little happier, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people.
In this book, you’ll learn how two words — “Let Them” — can set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you.
There is a better way to live.
The Let Them Theory is a proven method that teaches you how to protect your time and energy, and focus on what matters to you. You’ve spent too long chasing approval, managing other people’s happiness, and letting their opinions hold you back. Learn how to stop giving your power away and start creating a life where you come first—your dreams, your goals, your happiness.
“Let Them” is a simple tool that millions of people around the world can’t stop talking about because it works. The fastest way to take control of your life is to stop trying to control other people and focus on what you can control: yourself.
By letting other people live their lives, you finally get to live yours.
Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have!
If you have trouble getting out of bed, there is one simple hack you need to wake up early, beat anxiety, and kickstart your morning.
In today’s episode, Mel shares a technique called slithering that will help you on those tough mornings when getting out of bed feels impossible.
Mel reveals how this unique practice, taught to her by her therapist, moves stress and tension out of your body, helping you shift your mindset and start the day with ease.
You’ll learn how to use this simple tool to reset your body, tackle morning dread, and take control of your day—no matter what challenges you’re facing.
Note: this episode covers sensitive material, including discussion of trauma and sexual assault. If this topic isn’t for you right now – please skip this episode.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode and would like to know more about Mel’s morning routine, you’ll love: 3 Small Decisions That Make You Feel Incredible: Do This Every Morning After Waking Up
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In this episode, Mel is giving you the step-by-step roadmap of how to reinvent your life.
Whether you’ve just graduated, you’re an empty nester, or you’re somewhere in between, this episode will provide you with the steps to make a pivot.
You’ll learn why reinvention is not about fixing what’s broken, but about tapping into your desires, following your curiosity, and taking bold action.
By the end of this episode, you’ll be fired up and ready to take control of your future. This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top of the episode where you’re getting Mel’s simple guide for stepping into your next chapter.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to this one next: 9 Small Things That Will Make a Surprisingly Big Difference
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When was the last time you said "no" without feeling guilty? Or set a boundary and actually stuck to it?
If you can’t remember, today’s episode is the wake-up call you need.
Boundaries can protect your time, energy, and mental space, and yet for so many of us, boundaries are hard to make and almost impossible to keep.
Renowned psychiatrist Dr. Pooja Lakshmin is sharing the 3 surprising signs that you lack boundaries and how to take control to reclaim your life.
By the end of this conversation, you're not only going to know how to set them, you're going to realize that any single time you feel overwhelmed or overextended, you need to take her 3 simple yet powerful steps to taking your power back.
If you liked this episode and want to learn exactly what to do to live a more peaceful and fulfilled life, listen to this episode next: 5 Things Only Fake Friends Do & How to Let Go of What No Longer Serves You
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In today’s episode, you’re going to learn how to turn your comfort zone into a powerful tool that fuels your success.
Your comfort zone is not a place of weakness—it’s actually a place for growth.
Today, you’ll discover how and when to use it so you can feel more calm, confident and optimistic about your life.
You’ll know when to press pause in your life so you can recharge, and build the strength to take on your biggest challenges.
Based in science, Mel will explain how everyday comforts—whether it’s your favorite cozy blanket or your go-to spot on the couch—can actually make you more resilient and help you break through self-sabotage, fear, and resistance.
Plus, you’ll hear from world-renowned Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Robert Waldinger, who shares the surprising science behind comfort rituals and why they’re essential for staying grounded in a chaotic world.
It’s time to unlock the power of your comfort zone so you can truly create a better life.
If you liked this episode and want to learn exactly what to do to discover your authentic self (at any age), listen to this episode next: How to Build Real Confidence: 7 Truths to Unlock Your Authentic Self
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If you struggle to make new habits stick, you are not the problem.
You've just been missing the right tools and strategies to make real change happen.
In this episode, you’re going to learn the simple ways to break bad habits and form new ones.
Mel is revealing the 3 biggest mistakes you are likely making when trying to change your behavior and why it’s not about willpower.
She is breaking down the science of habit formation so you can finally understand why your bad habits keep holding you back—and how to flip the script.
This is a comprehensive toolkit that will help you apply the research to your life and take the exact steps you need to make lasting change.
This episode will help you beat your next urge to doom scroll, snack, smoke, or self-sabotage.
This is the breakthrough you've been waiting for!
If you want more science-backed hacks for more confidence and productivity, listen to this episode next: 4 Habits for Energy, Productivity, & Happiness That Changed My Life (Science-Backed)
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Do you have a family member, a boss, or even a close friend who constantly drains your energy or makes everything about them?
In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to protect yourself from toxic, self-centered personalities that can make you feel exhausted and frustrated.
Dr. Ramani, a world-renowned expert on narcissism, gives you the playbook to navigate even the most challenging personalities.
She will break down the signs of narcissistic behavior and arm you with the strategies you need to maintain your boundaries and your sanity.
You’ll learn how to stop letting difficult people control your life and get practical advice on how to create a game plan for peace in every one of your relationships.
If you liked this tactical and powerful episode, listen to this one next: How to Handle Negative People: 6 Strategies to Protect Your Peace
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If you’ve ever failed, made a major mistake, or wish you could take something back, this episode will teach you how to let go of regret and move forward.
Today, Mel is sharing her breast implant story and how everything went horribly wrong. Even though she can now laugh at some of the things that happened, she also faces the truth: how this one decision left her with regret and shame for years.
This episode is a masterclass in turning your pain and past failures into straight-up rocket fuel.
Mel gives life-changing insights that will turn your regret into wisdom that will help you get out of any situation where you feel stuck.
It’s time to reclaim who you are meant to be and take back control of your life.
If you liked this personal yet informative episode, check this one out next: I’ve Never Told This Story: Leaky Bladder, Pelvic Floor, UTIs, & Constipation (#1 Urologist Gives Solutions).
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This episode will change your brain forever.
World-renowned neuroscientist Dr. Wendy Suzuki is here to share new research around the brain-changing benefits of exercise. Dr. Suzuki is the Dean of the College of Arts and Sciences at New York University and is a leading researcher known for her areas of memory, psychology, and neurobiology.
She's a pioneer in researching how moving your body and exercising improves your brain health, and today she is here to teach you the best exercise is to improve brain function, the #1 way to strengthen your mind, and the antidote to aging.
Dr. Suzuki also reveals the 10-minute routine you should do every day to lower your risk of dementia and improve memory.
You will get her step-by-step guide to boost energy, focus, and mood. Dr. Suzuki’s practical tips and fascinating insights will empower you to take control of your mind and your life—starting today.
And you’re going to want to listen to this entire episode because there is a shocking surprise you won’t want to miss.
You’ll learn the true power of the phrase “I love you”: why it matters, when to use it, and if you want more surprising takeaways, listen to this episode next, featuring the director of the 86-year-long happiness study at Harvard: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness
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In today’s episode, you’re about to uncover the shockingly simple habits that billionaires swear by—and you’ll be surprised at how easy it is to adopt them.
These tips will help you create a future filled with success, no matter where you are right now.
Mel breaks down the tiny habits and routines of successful people like Taylor Swift, LeBron James, Warren Buffett, Sara Blakely, and more.
You’ll learn the secrets behind their goal-setting, decision-making, and even how they prioritize sleep to stay at the top of their game.
These easy, science-backed habits are free, powerful, and will transform your future, one little move at a time.
If you’re ready for an immediate boost to your energy, productivity, and overall well-being, listen to this episode next: 9 Small Things That Will Make a Surprisingly Big Difference
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In today’s episode, you’re getting the blueprint for developing your communication skills. What you learn will boost your influence and make you more confident.
You and Mel are both learning from trial lawyer Jefferson Fisher, who is known for his straightforward advice, tips, and tricks on how to communicate better.
Jefferson is teaching you proven techniques to express yourself clearly, handle disrespect, and know what to say when someone challenges you, even in high-pressure situations.
He will also teach you:
If you’ve ever felt unsure of how to get your point across or wished you could be more confident when speaking, this episode is packed with tools you can use immediately to transform how you engage with others.
If you liked this tactical episode, listen to this episode next and learn how to use body language to boost your influence: How to Read Body Language to Get What You Want: 6 Simple Psychological Tricks to Be More Confident
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn the 9 small habits that will change your life and make it easier.
If you’re ready for an immediate boost to your energy, productivity, and overall well-being, this episode is for you.
Mel is sharing 9 little, easy-to-implement changes that will have a surprisingly big impact on your life.
They’re practical, simple shifts you can make starting today, and the best part? Each one comes with a memorable, sticky tip that will make it easy to remember and apply.
Whether you’re looking to get healthier, improve your relationships, reduce stress, or just feel a little better every day, these quick changes are packed with research-backed benefits that will have you thinking, “Why didn’t I start doing this sooner?”
From mindset shifts and sleep hacks to how you manage your time and even your emotions, these 9 tips cover it all — and you can put them into practice immediately.
This episode is packed with life-changing tips that anyone, no matter your schedule or situation, can start using right now. By the end, you’ll feel empowered, energized, and ready to start seeing big results from these small changes.
Share this episode with a friend who could use a little boost, and let’s start making life easier and better, together.
If you liked this tactical episode, listen to this episode next and learn how to transform your mood and mind: 4 Habits for Energy, Productivity, & Happiness That Changed My Life (Science-Backed)
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In today’s episode, you’ll reframe your perspective on happiness, kindness, and friendship through a fresh lens—all thanks to a surprising source: Mel’s 10-year-old guest, Elton.
Mel is sitting down with this wise beyond his years kid for an impactful, profound conversation that will challenge you (and encourage you!) to be a better human. Elton’s simple but profound insights on everything from friendships and feelings to screen time and self-kindness are exactly what you need—no matter your age.
Forget the idea that wisdom only comes with age. This episode is an invitation to embrace the wisdom and curiosity of those younger than you. It’s a reminder that sometimes the most powerful lessons come from the most unexpected voices.
This episode is your call to get curious and excited about life again. This is the kind of advice that everyone —no matter your age—needs to hear, and you’ll leave this episode feeling empowered to be a kinder, more intentional friend, parent, sibling, and person.
You’ll also rethink how much time you spend on your phone, feel encouraged to reconnect with what brings you joy, and learn how to be gentler with yourself.
This is also a great episode to share with your kids or with anyone who is a parent.
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If you liked this fun and relatable episode, listen to this one next, about Mel’s recent hiking trip with her family and the lessons she learned through that experience: 7 Lessons To Learn Once That Will Improve Your Life Forever
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After listening to today’s personal episode, you will feel called to experience things more deeply, create more meaning, and find lasting change in your life.
In this episode, Mel dives into an incredible, true story about her life-changing experience with an owl and how it brought profound and unexpected meaning to her life.
This episode is remarkable because whether you’re dealing with a change in your own life or just looking for a little bit of inspiration, Mel’s lessons and insights will inspire you to open your mind to larger possibilities and amazing capabilities that you already have.
This episode is your reminder to keep your eyes—and your mind—wide open and embrace the magic in the everyday.
If you liked this poignant episode, check this one out next: Trust Your Gut: The Science and Spirit of Intuitive Decision-Making
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In today’s episode, Mel is giving you the playbook to make decisions without guilt.
If you’ve ever felt stuck between your own life and other people’s obligations, this one’s for you.
Mel shares the personal (and laugh-out-loud story) of an unexpected 10-day stay with her parents, which started with guilt and ended with her dad’s epic pickleball mishap that ended with him getting back surgery.
This episode is a candid, funny, and unexpectedly deep dive into how to release the pressure to be everything to everyone.
Whether you’re juggling family visits, battling the guilt of not staying longer, or simply want to have more fun with your loved ones, Mel gives you the real talk and practical tips you need to stay sane and enjoy the ride.
Mel tells you how to turn guilt into joy and find peace in the moments that truly matter. By the end of this episode, you’ll feel empowered to ditch the heavy guilt, embrace the fun, and make every visit with the people you love a memorable one.
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In today’s episode, you are getting the ultimate advice for navigating any major life change.
Mel is now an empty nester and is giving her best wisdom about how to step into a new chapter. She is sharing deeply personal advice about her experience with this transition.
Whether you’re also figuring out your next steps after the kids have left home, or are navigating a move, relationship change, or new job, this advice is exactly what you need to hear.
This episode will be your guide for how to take on the unknown with ease and comfort. It’s exactly what you need to find peace and live a more fulfilled life.
The truth is, things don’t change with time. It’s what you do with that time that matters. And you’re getting the playbook you need today.
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn the surprising science of happiness.
This is a masterclass on everything you need to know about happiness: what really creates it, the different types of happiness, and 4 easy habits that will make your life better.
You’ll learn lessons from the longest study on happiness, what habits are blocking your happiness, and science-based tools for feeling better.
It’s also grounded in questions from listeners just like you, who are seeking more happiness, fulfillment, and meaning in their lives. This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top of the episode. You’ll be happy you joined. Because happiness is not only possible; it is an option for you.
Get out your notebook because we are drilling into decades of psychological research that will ladder up to more meaning, purpose, and satisfaction in your life.
To hear more about some of the powerful research mentioned, listen to this episode with happiness expert Dr. Robert Waldinger: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness
If you, like Mel, find it hard to truly let yourself be happy, listen to this very personal episode about why you’ve been blocking happiness: The Secret to Success & Happiness Nobody Talks About
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Do you want to know the secret to getting ahead of 99% of people, starting now?
In today’s episode, Mel is sharing the results of a surprising study that will change how you think about creating the life you want.
What if you’ve been approaching goal-setting all wrong?
There’s a simple, hidden advantage in front of you, waiting for you to take it.
Right now, you’re in a unique window of time in which you can leapfrog change, hack productivity, and make the most of your time and energy.
Very few people know this research about the unique opportunity of the fall to achieve your goals and dreams.
It’s all covered in today’s episode.
Imagine if by the end of the year you had new, rock-solid habits, an unbreakable routine, and felt calm and energized. This is possible for you by the time you finish listening.
For another personal episode about making the most of your time listen to this episode next: Life Is Short (How to Spend It Wisely)
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Do you want to know how to get motivated even when you don’t feel like it?
Today’s episode is one of the best talks ever on how to improve self-motivation and overcome your excuses.
So before you waste any more time, listen to this.
After today, you will know how to navigate your life with more power and purpose than you ever thought possible.
Psychiatrist Dr. Alok Kanojia, MD, also widely known as Dr. K, is a Harvard-trained psychiatrist specializing in modern mental health and the brain. He is beloved by the millions of fans of his YouTube channel Healthy Gamer for his clear, no-nonsense advice about motivation, technology, and making the most of your life.
This is one of those episodes that will forever change the way you think.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Alok Kanojia’s research, website, book, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love Dr. K’s first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast, which focuses on technology’s impact on the brain and body: Before You Waste Time, Listen to This
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These 8 pieces of advice will change your college experience.
In this episode, Mel is sharing the most impactful and insightful advice for all college students.
Think of it as a freshman year survival guide.
And if you’re a parent of a college student, this episode is one that you’re going to want to share and listen to with your kid.
Mel is sharing advice on:
This episode is the cheat sheet for how to navigate college (and any major life change), so grab your pen and paper because class is in session.
For another personal episode on navigating your 20’s, check this out next: 13 Things I Wish I Knew in My 20s
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Once you learn these 7 lessons, you will never be the same.
Today, Mel is sharing the profound wisdom that she learned while hiking on the Appalachian Trail.
In this deeply personal, relatable, and entertaining episode, Mel walks you through how you can use these insights to improve your relationships, find perspective, change your mindset, and keep your cool even in moments of high stress.
By the end of this episode, you are going to feel inspired to take on new challenges and climb to the next level in your life.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to this one next, which is a recent fan favorite: 8 Realistic Healthy Habits That Make a Huge Difference
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Today’s episode is a must-listen because you’ll learn exactly what to do (and not do) to take better care of your body.
In this research-packed episode, one of the top gynecologists in the world is here to debunk 10 myths about women’s health.
Mel is asking all the uncomfortable questions you want to ask but never have, and today you’re getting the answers.
Gone are the days of feeling small or out of control when it comes to your health. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to take their power back.
Dr. Jen Gunter, MD, is joining Mel in this no-shame, straight-to-the-point conversation. Dr. Gunter is known as the internet’s best Ob/Gyn. She is a double-board certified, fellowship-trained medical doctor and a fierce advocate for women’s health.
Dr. Gunter says you deserve science-backed solutions, not fairytales, and she is here to bust through all health myths and clear through the misinformation. This conversation is going to make you think differently about everything, from periods to pleasure—it’s all covered today.
And you’ll also want to listen all the way to the end for one of the most poignant, inspiring endings to any episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Gunter’s research, website, and social media pages, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love Dr. Gunter’s first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast, which focuses on menopause: How to Balance Your Hormones: What Your Doctor Isn’t Telling You About Menopause
For another personal episode about health, listen to the recent conversation Mel had with Dr. Rena Malik, MD: I’ve Never Told This Story: Leaky Bladder, Pelvic Floor, UTIs, & Constipation (#1 Urologist Gives Solutions)
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Today’s episode is the guide that you need to create lasting change and uplevel in all areas of your life.
You will learn the 3 foundational habits that will transform your life and improve your productivity, wellness, health, and life balance.
These 3 habits are essential to your health, and you need to get them right. Renowned experts are here to give you their straight-from-the-lab advice on how to do each of these things in the optimal way and make them a habit you can stick with for life.
Consider the next hour an investment in your health and wellbeing. You can’t afford to miss it.
What should you listen to next?
You’ll love the full podcast episodes with each of the experts featured today:
Patrick McKeown, 5 Ways to Improve Your Breathing for Better Health (With the #1 Breath Expert in the World): Apple I Spotify
Dr. Shane O’Mara, The Shocking Science and Benefits of Taking a Simple Walk: Apple I Spotify
Dr. Gina Poe, How to Get Better Sleep and Boost Your Learning, Memory, and Energy: Apple I Spotify
Dr. Neha Sangwan, The Surprising Link Between People Pleasing & Your Health: A Medical Doctor’s Recommendation on How to Say “No”: Apple I Spotify
For more resources, including links to learn more about each expert on today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Today, you are getting the 8 science-backed hacks to lower your stress, amplify your happiness, and make you healthier.
Harvard’s Dr. Aditi Nerurkar is here to show you exactly how you can get back on track.
If you’ve ever wanted to know exactly how a Harvard doctor grocery shops, meditates, exercises, eats, and even commutes, you’re getting all of that and more today.
You’ll love this research-packed episode because every habit that Dr. Aditi shares is simple, easy to apply, and makes you feel better right away.
Dr. Aditi Nerurkar is a medical doctor, researcher, and world-renowned expert in stress and public health.
She's a lecturer at Harvard Medical School and was the medical director of Harvard's Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital's integrative medicine program, where she developed an enormous clinical practice in stress management using evidence-based integrative approaches to help her patients feel better.
Today, she is going to give you evidence-based integrative approaches that are easy, simple, and proven to make you feel better, calmer, and healthier.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Aditi Nerurkar’s research, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you like this inspiring episode, and want to better understand what it is you truly want and how to work towards it you should listen to this episode next: How to Figure Out What You Really Want: Use This Life-Changing Hack
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In today’s episode, Mel is helping you get true clarity about what you really want and create a plan to make it happen.
The free companion workbook to this episode can be found at melrobbins.com/what.
Mel created this free workbook, What Do You Really Want, as a way to thank YOU for your support of this podcast and for making it one of the most popular podcasts in the world.
In this episode and workbook, Mel is helping you get to the heart of this powerful question:
What do you really want?
The fact is, if you don't know what you really want, you're never going to get it. It's one of the top reasons why people stay stuck.
But that won’t be you. This deeply personal episode will walk you through a science backed method that is proven to help you get to the heart of what you want right now in your life.
There's nothing more important to spend your time on than yourself, and allow this episode to be your guide.
Do not let any more time go by wishing things were different. This is your opportunity to get what you really want and redefine your future.
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The Olympians are the best of the best, and today, Mel is revealing 5 habits that your favorite Olympic athletes use to win.
These 5 habits will change your life forever, and they all involve mindset, mental preparation, and simple tactics that you can instantly apply in your own life.
First, Mel will explain exactly how the most famous gymnasts use visualization to manifest specific outcomes and results.
Next, you’ll learn about the “Bronze Medal Mindset” and how it will create exceptional results in your everyday life. Once you know the science behind this, you will be more resilient, no matter what happens in your day.
Third, you’ll learn about a specific daily practice from Mel’s favorite Olympic swimmer that will make you happier (and make you more influential as well).
Fourth, you’ll learn why winners always quit. This habit is not what you think, and you’ll be surprised by what Mel shares with you.
And finally, there’s a very specific question that every Olympian knows the answer to. Mel shares a powerful story from the Paralympics that will make you understand how to answer it and use it in your life.
Answering this question will help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life.
And you don’t need to take the next step alone: Mel has created a free 26-page workbook that will walk you through a science-backed method that is proven to help you get to the heart of what you want right now in your life.
Just go to melrobbins.com/what and you can get your hands on it in less than a minute, and you will be one step closer to getting what you really want.
For more resources for this episode, including research studies, articles, and videos of every Olympian mentioned, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next: 3 Small Decisions That Make You Feel Incredible: Do This Every Morning After Waking Up
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Today, you are going to learn about something that impacts 40% of women and 30% of men. This topic can be embarrassing and difficult to talk about, but Mel is putting an end to the shame.
Mel is opening up for the first time about her decades long struggle with leaky bladder and pelvic floor issues, sharing how they kept her from fully living, and what she did to finally stop suffering.
She has invited Dr. Rena Malik, MD, one of the top urologists in the world, to have this important conversation with her, and to give you the specific solutions you need if you struggle with leaky bladder, pelvic floor issues, UTIs, and constipation.
Dr. Rena is an absolute powerhouse who is known for her viral, no-shame, straight-to-the-point advice. She’s a top urologist and pelvic surgeon who specializes in female pelvic medicine, reconstructive surgery, and sexual medicine. Her YouTube videos have over 300 million views and she’s published over 100 peer-reviewed research articles, multiple review articles, and book chapters.
And today, you’ve got an appointment with her. Join Dr. Rena and Mel for a very personal, open, and solution-filled conversation so you can take control and stop suffering.
This episode is so packed with actionable advice that you’ll want to share it with every person in your life who needs this information too.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Rena Malik’s research, website, and informative YouTube videos, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to Dr. Rena’s first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast: The Most Important Sex Advice No One Ever Told You: Revamp Your Sex Life in 10 Minutes
For another personal take on a health topic that isn’t discussed enough, check out: The #1 Menopause Doctor: How to Lose Belly Fat, Sleep Better, & Stop Suffering Now
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This is expert relationship advice everyone needs to hear.
Whether you are single, dating, in a relationship, or married, you will learn the relationship secrets you never knew you were missing.
This is not the same stale relationship advice you’ve heard over and over again. The fresh advice you hear in this episode will jumpstart your relationship or help you find real and lasting love.
Learn the simple habits of all happy relationships, how to find a great partner without a dating app, and get the quick advice you need to hear to improve your love life instantly.
Matthew Hussey is here to help Mel give relationship advice that will make your love life come alive, no matter what state it’s in right now. For more than 17 years, Matthew has been helping people feel more confident and in control of their relationships. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love-life advice, with over half a billion views, and he is a New York Times bestselling author. Today, he is helping you.
Listen for the best advice you will hear for finding love, falling in love, and keeping in love.
For more resources, including links to Matthew’s book, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to Matthew’s first episode next: The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You, and for more great relationship advice, 3 Requirements of a Good Relationship
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to do a mindset reset to unlock the full power of your mind.
Your brain is wired to give you what you want, and today, you’re getting Mel’s science-backed insights and her step by step guide for letting go of negative thoughts and redirecting your energy to self transformation.
You’ll learn how to use neuroscience and specific mindset tricks to take control of your mental habits and become more optimistic and resilient. This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top of the episode that is packed with tools, tips, and scripts to reprogram your mind for more positive thinking.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, listen to this powerful and tactical episode next: How to Motivate Yourself: Leverage Dopamine & Overcome Your Excuses
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This one episode will change how you think about your entire life – and what comes after life ends.
You are going to learn how to let death, the regrets of the dying, and near death experiences shape your life.
Joining Mel today in this deeply profound and moving episode is Dr. Zach Bush, MD.
Dr. Zach is a triple board certified physician specializing in hospice care, internal medicine, and endocrinology. He is one of the most compelling medical minds currently working to improve our understanding of human and environmental health.
He is here today to share his wisdom and insights from his extensive experience working with people near death and being with them during the dying process as a hospice physician.
Dr. Zach is also going to share what he calls the “science of the soul” and the powerful lessons you can learn from near death experiences. He even reveals for the first time ever, his own powerful near death experience and how that has shaped his life.
What you learn today will forever change you.
For more resources, including links to learn more about Dr. Zach Bush and his work, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this profound and science-backed episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next with Harvard’s Dr. Robert Waldinger: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness
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Today, you are getting Mel’s favorite science-backed hacks for more confidence, productivity, concentration, and peace.
In this episode, Mel is teaching you how you can boost your mood and transform your mind using the tool of music.
First, Mel will reveal the songs you need to listen to starting today that will instantly reset your mood, change your mindset, and leave you feeling in awe of life.
Then, she will also give you the specific types of sound and music you can use daily to instantly prime your brain for learning, unmatched productivity, and even healing.
This episode is fun, surprising, and packed with practical tips you can start using right away.
Throughout the episode, Mel shares many of her favorite playlists, including ones for energy, focus, and healing. She has curated these playlists for you. Click here for them.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next: How to Build the Life You Want: Timeless Wisdom for More Happiness & Purpose
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Today’s episode is a dare: a dare to get back up and believe in yourself.
This is one of the most emotional and inspiring episodes that have ever been on The Mel Robbins Podcast.
If you’ve ever failed or felt like you’re not being the version of yourself you know you’re meant to be, this is the episode for you.
Today, world-renowned speaker, pastor, and New York Times best-selling author Sarah Jakes Roberts joins Mel to share her incredible story and powerful wisdom with you.
Pregnant at 13, married by 19, divorced by 22, and all while under the intense scrutiny as the daughter of a famous mega-church pastor, Sarah knows what it’s like to be knocked down. But more importantly, she shares what it takes to get back up.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to accept yourself for where you’re at while still pushing yourself to become who you want to be.
Sarah teaches you what it truly means to be powerful, how to reclaim your confidence, and how to create a new version of yourself.
This is a masterclass in turning your pain and past failures into straight-up rocket fuel. Stop discounting yourself and the impact you have in this world.
It’s time to reclaim who you are meant to be and take back control of your life.
For more resources, including links to connect with Sarah Jakes Roberts, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next: Do This To Become More Confident: 5 Truths You Need To Hear
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There are 3 powerful and fundamental truths that you need to accept about other people in order to live a better life.
Most people will never learn these 3 things.
Which is why today Mel is breaking them down, one by one, to give you a guide for better relationships.
These truths are hard to accept, but when you accept them, your life will get so much easier.
You are wasting so much time, energy, and attention trying to control other people.
And once you hear these 3 things, you will have more emotional peace, an understanding of yourself, and a better relationship with the people in your life. This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top of the episode that is packed with tools, tips, and scripts to create more meaningful relationships.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, listen to this powerful and tactical episode next: The “Let Them Theory”: A Life-Changing Mindset Hack That 15 Million People Can’t Stop Talking About
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New research shows that your work, your life, and your relationships will get boring.
Today, you’ll learn a simple tool you can use to make your life exciting, joyful, and energizing again.
This profound conversation will allow you to truly understand and connect the dots between why you've become bored with what used to excite you – and how you can create more meaning in your life.
In this episode, Mel is joined by the renowned neuroscientist from University College London and MIT, Dr. Tali Sharot.
She is here to teach you the groundbreaking science and research about how you can start feeling excitement about your life again.
Dr. Sharot is a behavioral neuroscientist and the director of the Affective Brain Lab at University College London. Her research integrates neuroscience, behavioral economics, and psychology to study how emotion and behavior influences people's beliefs and decisions.
After today, you will know how to use Dr. Sharot’s research to make your life sparkle again and reignite happiness in your day-to-day life.
You’ll also learn very specific, tactical things you can do to make your vacations better, avoid a midlife crisis, and improve the experience of your everyday life.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Tali’s books, website, and research, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode with Dr. Tali Sharot, you will love her first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast: How to Motivate Yourself (and Others) to Change Any Behavior
And to go deeper in the themes of this episode, you’ll love this one: 5 Fun Ideas to Shake Up Your Life & Get Out Of A Rut
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There is a person out there that has what you want. And if you feel jealous, triggered, or like everyone else’s lives are working out better than yours: listen up.
Today’s episode is required listening for you.
Mel is unpacking the 3-step process you need to rise above jealousy and create the life you want.
This episode is personal, packed with takeaways, entertaining, and relatable.
It is designed to help you feel more in control of your life – and empowered to change your mindset and take action.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next: Your Dreams Are Not a Joke: It’s Time to Dream Big Again & 3 Ways to Get Started
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Today’s episode is a roadmap for reaching your potential.
If you are feeling stuck in a rut, behind in life, or just a little bored by your life, this episode is for you.
There are a few simple steps you can take to quickly get unstuck – and it’s easier than you think.
Dr. Adam Alter, one of the top psychology experts and professors in the world, is joining Mel on the podcast today to help you uncover the extraordinary potential that is laying dormant inside of you.
Dr. Alter is a New York Times bestselling author, a renowned researcher, and a professor at NYU’s Stern School of Business.
Whether you’re trying to level up an already successful life, have a breakthrough on a creative project, or you need a reset in every aspect of your life, you’ll love the 3 steps that Dr. Alter is sharing with you today.
For more resources, including links to Adam’s book, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode with Dr. Adam Alter, you’ll love listening to his first appearance on the Mel Robbins Podcast: 6 Simple Science-Backed Hacks That Will Make Your Life Better
If you want more tactical tips to get unstuck, you’ll also love Mel’s interview with Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar: How to Build the Life You Want: Timeless Wisdom for More Happiness & Purpose
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Today, you’re getting a masterclass in how to manage your emotions and deal with people who cannot tolerate their own.
Whether you find yourself constantly annoyed, frustrated, or angry…
Or if you’re sick of dealing with people who can’t handle their own emotions…
This episode is for you. You’ll learn powerful, practical, and science-backed skills to master your emotions so that you can stay calm when you’re stressed, be fearless under pressure, and reach your potential.
Dr. Susan David is here to share her best advice with you. Dr. David is an award-winning Harvard medical school psychologist and bestselling author who has been studying emotions, happiness, and achievement for over 20 years.
She is here to explain how your thoughts and feelings directly affect your actions, careers, relationships, happiness, and health – and exactly what to do about it.
For more resources, including links to Dr. David’s work, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this impactful episode, you’ll love listening to this one next with Dr. Becky Kennedy: Why Am I So Triggered? 3 Steps to Control Your Emotions & Rewire Your Response to Stress
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Today, a secret service agent is teaching you how to read body language, master your emotions, and spot a liar.
In this one of a kind episode, agent Evy Poumpouras is unpacking proven strategies and psychological tricks to get what you want.
Evy is a former secret service agent who has protected 5 U.S presidents.
She is a “human lie detector” who has been specially trained in the art of lie detection, human behavior, and cognitive influence.
And today, she is giving you a masterclass of all of her best secrets from over 3 decades of training and experience.
Evy’s extensive and decorated career includes operating undercover, complex criminal investigations, and working as an interrogator for the Secret Service’s elite polygraph unit – and she’s here to arm you with information, tools, and strategies in this special episode.
For more resources, including links to Evy’s work, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this impactful and tactical episode, you’ll love listening to this one next, which shares more body language secrets (including those that are specific to helping you get ahead at work): Research From Princeton: 13 Proven Hacks That Boost Your Influence & Make You More Confident
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Want to know the secret to make your life exciting again?
By the end of this podcast, you are going to have a plan to shake things up in your life, starting today.
In this fun and engaging episode, Mel is leading you through an exercise that will prompt you to find more adventure and passion in your life.
She will walk you through 5 different questions that will help you start your “Never Been There, Never Done That” adventure.
You are going to learn the surprising benefits of trying something new, and it doesn't have to cost a thing or take up very much time.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next: Transform Your Life at Any Moment: The Surprising Science of Happiness
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Do you want to know the most important lesson from 200,000 brain scans?
What about the daily habits that make you smarter, improve your memory, and help you learn faster?
Would you like to control your mind and speak to yourself in a more positive way?
Today’s episode is a masterclass on how you can unleash the full potential of your brain.
Your brain health is pivotal when it comes to your mental health, memory, focus, and more. So it is time to start prioritizing it.
In this episode, you’re getting the simple, science-backed hacks and daily practices you can start implementing today – and they are easier than you think.
6 world renowned experts, including the #1 brain doctor, a professor from Harvard Medical School, and other esteemed researchers are giving you a step by step guide to build a better brain.
After you finish listening, you’ll love the full podcast episodes with each of the experts featured today.
Check out the full episodes here:
Dr. Sarah Wakeman: www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-155
Dr. Daniel Amen: www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-90
Jim Kwik: www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-128
Dr. Paul Conti: www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-125
Shawn Achor: www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-79
Dr. Joseph Ferrari: www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-127
For more resources, including links to the 6 experts’ websites, research, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Why is adult friendship so hard?
Today, Mel is finally having the conversation on how to find your people, have more fun, and create meaningful friendships as an adult.
In this deeply relatable episode, you’ll learn the 5 lies that you tell yourself about friendship that are keeping you from having the best relationships of your life—and the truths you must know.
If you’ve been feeling lonely, left out, or just like your friendships are not as strong as they used to be, you’ll feel empowered and encouraged by the time you finish listening.
Mel is giving you her exact 3-step playbook for finding, making, and strengthening your relationships. This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top of the episode, that is packed with tools, tips, and scripts to create more meaningful friendships.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, especially the last 10 minutes of it (you’ll have to listen to know what I’m talking about!) you’ll love this one next: This One Hack Will Unlock Your Happier Life
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Today’s episode is a wake-up call.
By the time you finish listening, you’ll have an entirely different approach to how you think about life.
This is one of the most profound and insightful episodes of all time on The Mel Robbins Podcast.
Joining Mel today is the renowned clinical psychologist and spiritual teacher, Dr. Shefali.
This conversation strikes deep into the core of what it means to be alive and the mistakes that you are likely to make in every relationship you have.
It is an invitation for you to really consider your own experience and how your parent-child relationship impacted you, including how you show up in your day-to-day life and how you do (or will) show up as a parent.
Dr. Shefali will help you break cycles and reparent yourself. She’ll give you the steps to find your authentic self and maybe even have a spiritual awakening.
And you’ll learn the BEST advice for raising kids (and supporting adult children) that Mel has ever heard.
Dr. Shefali received her doctorate in clinical psychology from Columbia University. She's an expert in family dynamics and is known as the pioneer of the conscious parenting movement. She specializes in the integration of Western psychology and Eastern philosophy and is a New York Times bestselling author of 7 books.
Her simple words will change how you think about yourself, your life, and your relationships in a whole new way.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Shefali’s research, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this enlightening episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next: Life Is Short (How to Spend It Wisely)
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Today, you are going to learn one of the best science-backed hacks to feel happier, more connected, and even make you more successful.
The simple tools Mel shares today will boost your mood, lower your stress, and make your life more meaningful.
In this deeply personal episode, you’ll learn 4 specific applications of this powerful and profound research – and you may be surprised by how simple it is to find and bring into your life.
By the time you finish listening, you’ll be inspired to take immediate action to create a positive ripple effect in your life and your relationships.
For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next with Dr. Adam Alter, who is mentioned in today’s episode: 6 Simple Science-Backed Hacks That Will Make Your Life Better
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Do you want to have better sex?
Or even know how often you should be having sex – according to research?
Today, Dr. Rena Malik, MD is in the house to answer all of your uncomfortable sex questions.
Dr. Malik is an absolute powerhouse who is known for her viral, no-shame, straight-to-the-point advice on how to have the best sex of your life.
She is a top urologist, pelvic surgeon, and sexual health expert – and she’s here today giving you the truth, based on medical research, on things like G-spots, orgasms, libido, and even erectile dysfunction.
You’ll also learn the single biggest thing that you are getting wrong in your sex life, according to one of the top urologists in the country.
Dr. Malik is an assistant professor at the University of Maryland School of Medicine and the Director of Female Pelvic Medicine & Reconstructive Surgery. She is also a researcher who has published over 100 peer-reviewed research articles, multiple review articles, and book chapters.
You're going to want to share this conversation and all the juicy details with every one of your friends, and most importantly, your significant other.
Great sex starts today.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Rena Malik’s research, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love listening to this episode next: The #1 Neuroscientist: After Listening to This, Your Brain Will Not Be the Same.
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn the real reason why you’re always tired – and how to fix it.
If you want to wake up every morning feeling refreshed, energized, focused, and in control, you need to get the best sleep of your life – every night.
Today, you’ll learn 7 easy, accessible, science-backed tips that will help you (and the people you love) perfect your sleep and as a result give you (almost) limitless energy.
Joining Mel on the podcast today is the renowned Harvard sleep scientist Dr. Rebecca Robbins, PhD.
Dr. Robbins is a Research Investigator in the Division of Sleep and Circadian Disorders and the Departments of Medicine and Neurology at Brigham and Women's Hospital, and an Assistant Professor of Medicine at Harvard Medical School.
You’ll love the simple, free, and evidence-backed tips that Dr. Robbins shares. These easy habits will boost morning energy, make you feel incredible, and best of all: you can easily add them into your life today.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Rebecca Robbins research, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
Want to know what to listen to next? Mel shared Dr. Rebecca Robbins’ research on an episode about evening routines: 4 Easy Nighttime Habits to Feel Energized & Sleep Better.
And, you’ll also love this hit episode, which also cites Dr. Robbins’ work: 3 Small Decisions That Make You Feel Incredible: Do This Every Morning After Waking Up.
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Two-thirds of people have a stomach or gut issue. Do you want to know exactly what to do to feel better?
In today’s episode, you’re getting an appointment with one of the most renowned GI doctors in the world.
She is here today with her step-by-step protocol to help you reset your gut health, beat the bloat, and find more energy today.
Dr. Robynne Chutkan, MD is a renowned gastroenterologist. For two decades, her integrative clinic, Digestive Center for Wellness, has helped patients to help them uncover the root cause of GI disorders. She’s worked at Georgetown Hospital for 27 years and has a deep wealth of knowledge and experience.
She is going to inform you of the simple things that you can do starting today to:
- Have a healthier gut
- Beat the bloat
- Settle your IBS
- And address constipation once and for all
You’ll get her nutritional plan to heal stomach problems and optimize your gut for mental and physical health… and you’ll even learn exactly WHAT your poo should look like (and when you should go to the doctor).
This is THE master class on your gut health, and it’s filled with compelling, tactical, and easy to understand science.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Robynne Chutkan’s research, website, and social media click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love this episode with Dr. Mark Hyman: Reset Your Health in 10 Days: Advice From a Renowned MD
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In today’s episode, you’re going to learn how to take back control of your time.
New research shows that you’ll spend 20 years of your life on your screens.
It’s time to stop wasting your time – and your life – and learn how to use technology in a way that works for you, your brain, and your body.
Here to deliver the wake up call of a lifetime is Dr. Alok Kanojia, MD.
Dr. Kanojia, also known as Dr. K, is a Harvard-trained psychiatrist specializing in modern mental health and the impact of technology on the brain. He is beloved by the millions of fans of his YouTube channel Healthy Gamer for his clear, no-nonsense advice about motivation, technology, and making the most of your life.
You will be shocked by what Dr. K shares with you about:
- Why you feel tired all the time.
- The impact that looking at your phone in your has on your attention span.
- Why you don’t want to do anything after binging hours of social media.
- How to know if you truly have a problem with your technology.
- The exact scripts to talk to someone whose phone, social media, or game use is concerning you.
This episode is a resource that you are absolutely going to want to share with everyone that you know.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Alok Kanojia’s research, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love this episode with NYU’s Dr. Adam Alter, that also discusses the impact of technology: 6 Simple Science-Backed Hacks That Will Make Your Life Better.
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Today, you’ll learn the surprising science of what creates a meaningful life, based on 8 decades of research.
This conversation is so profound that you might need to take a second listen.
Prepare to laugh, cry, and leave feeling empowered to find and create the happiness and connection that you want.
Because the truth is, you can transform your life at any moment.
There is nothing more important than this conversation.
Because by the time you are done listening, you will understand how one tiny step might just change how you think about your entire life.
Get ready to be blown away by the groundbreaking research and heartwarming stories that will prove just how powerful unexpected connections can truly be.
And more importantly, how you can start making them today.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll love this conversation with Harvard’s Dr. Robert Waldinger: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness
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Do you want to know the secret to unlocking motivation in yourself or someone you love?
If you want to change any behavior for the better…
Or if you’ve got someone in your life (don’t we all?!) who you wish would change…
Today’s episode is for you.
You’ll learn why guilt, pressure, fear, crying, threats, and ultimatums will not help anyone change, and there’s a scientific reason why.
Then, you’ll learn the 3 very specific tactics that inspire anyone to quickly change their behavior for the better, including specific scripts that you can use with even the most stubborn people.
Teaching you today is #1 neuroscientist Dr. Tali Sharot. She’s here to debunk the myths of behavior change and teach you how to make any change, big or small.
Dr. Sharot is a behavioral neuroscientist, professor at both University College London and MIT, and the director of the Affective Brain Lab at University College London.
Her research integrates neuroscience, behavioral economics, and psychology to study motivation and behavior change.
By the time you finish listening, you’ll know EXACTLY what to do to create any change you want.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Tali Sharot’s research, website, and social media click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love this episode: The #1 Neuroscientist: After Listening to This, Your Brain Will Not Be the Same.
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Do you want to know the best relationship advice no one has ever told you before?
In today’s episode, Mel is revealing the one rule about relationships you must know.
There is a game-changing framework that will help any relationship go the distance, and once you hear it, you’ll want to share it with everyone you know.
It reveals why some relationships fail, and it also gives you the secret to sustaining a strong and successful relationship.
Here to explain this “4 Levels” framework is New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey.
Matthew has been helping people for more than 17 years to feel more confident and in control of their relationships. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views.
By the end of today’s episode, you’ll know when it’s time to let go of a relationship, when it’s worth fighting for, and the 4 habits of all successful relationships.
For more resources, including links to Matthew Hussey’s new book and his videos, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, you’ll want to listen to this one next: 3 Simple Ways to Get the Love You Want.
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After today, you will never think about stress the same way again.
You’ll learn exactly what to do to take control of your stress, stay calm under pressure, and find instant relief.
Harvard’s Dr. Aditi Nerurkar is here today to explain stress and how it relates to your body and brain.
Dr. Aditi is a medical doctor, researcher, and world-renowned expert in stress and public health.
She's a lecturer at Harvard Medical School and was the medical director of Harvard's Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital's integrative medicine program, where she developed an enormous clinical practice in stress management using evidence-based integrative approaches to help her patients feel better.
Today, she is going to give you a reimagined approach to overcoming your stress and burnout using five small but mighty mindset shifts.
These mindset shifts are free, backed by science, and can be applied to your life starting today.
By the time you finish listening, you will feel uplifted, empowered, and inspired to rest your stress, rewire your brain, move out of survival mode, and start thriving again.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Aditi Nerurkar’s research, website, and social media, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, your next listen should be Mel’s conversation with Dr. Tara Swart, MD, PhD: The #1 Neuroscientist: After Listening to This, Your Brain Will Not Be the Same.
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Today, an absolute powerhouse is here to give you the key to living a longer, happier, healthier, and more meaningful life.
“I’m 86, but I look and feel 57,” says Mel’s mother-in-law, Judie Robbins.
Judie is the most happy, alive, vibrant, and well-connected person Mel knows.
She’s back on the podcast and is sharing her best life advice and all new secrets for longevity, vitality, and how to create a long and happy life that you actually enjoy.
You’ll also learn the crucial life lessons that most people learn too late, but you won’t after what you hear today.
After today’s episode, you’ll know one thing for sure:
No matter your age, the best years of your life are ahead of you.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, here’s one you should listen to next: 5 Small Habits That Will Change Your Life Forever.
To hear Judie Robbins’ first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast, which focuses on her daily routines, listen here: This 85-Year-Old Badass Does More Than You & Me (Steal Her 7 Amazing Secrets).
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Do you want to know how to deal with difficult people?
What about if that difficult person in your life is a parent, boss, ex, child, or partner?
Today, renowned psychologist and narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula is here to give you the tricks you need to master to live a more peaceful life.
This episode is your masterclass on how to identify and heal from toxic people.
Dr. Ramani will teach you how to not only deal with people who are disrespectful, passive aggressive, and can’t control their emotions, but also how to heal from the damage that they can cause you.
She will show you how you can stay in your power and purpose no matter who you have to deal with in your life.
You’ll learn how you can keep your goals, priorities, and happiness front and center, no matter what is happening around you.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Ramani’s research, website, and social media click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love Dr. Ramani’s last appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast: Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist (New Research From World-Leading Expert Dr. Ramani).
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Today, you’ll learn the skill of self-confidence.
This episode is a masterclass in how to believe in yourself, no matter what obstacles you face.
Mel will share the 7 truths you need to hear about confidence and the art of being truly yourself.
After listening, you will know exactly what to do to discover your authentic self (at any age), boost your self-esteem, and achieve really cool things.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode and want to know more hacks to feel more confident, here’s one you should listen to next: How to Build the Life You Want: Timeless Wisdom for More Happiness & Purpose
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn 6 simple mind and body hacks that play a huge role in your success, happiness, and health.
One of the top psychology experts and professors in the world, Dr. Adam Alter, is here to reveal the simple things in your day to day life that influence how you think, feel, and behave.
Dr. Alter is a New York Times bestselling author and a renowned researcher and professor at NYU’s Stern School of Business.
He will share his incredible research, including:
- One tiny change that will give you 20 years of your life back (yes, you read that right).
- The exact colors you should wear on a first date, during a big meeting, or when you want to be more influential.
- A simple, free hack that makes you more productive and calmer.
- One common household object that can dramatically change behavior based on where you put it.
- How looking at a screen impacts your body and brain
After listening to today’s episode, you’re going to know how to use these 6 science-backed hacks to make your life better.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Adam Alter’s research and bestselling books, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love this one next: “How to Read Body Language to Get What You Want: 6 Simple Psychological Tricks to Be More Confident”
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Today, a top menopause doctor is here to give you the science and facts on menopause and hormone replacement therapy that your doctor isn’t telling you.
This episode is a must listen because you’ll learn EXACTLY what to do to feel like yourself again.
Dr. Jen Gunter, MD, is known as the internet’s best Ob/Gyn. She is a double board-certified, fellowship-trained medical doctor and a fierce advocate for women’s health.
She says you deserve science-backed solutions, not fairytales, and she is here to bust through all menopause myths and clear through the misinformation.
You’ll learn:
- The best intervention for menopause symptoms to help you lose weight, sleep better, and stop suffering now.
- Should you or a loved one be on hormone replacement therapy (HRT)?
- Which form of HRT is best?
- Are “bioidentical hormones” better?
After today, you will know how to hack your hormones and get your mojo back.
Bookmark this episode and share it with every single woman in your life, because it’s time to change the paradigm: you do not have to live with symptoms that can be resolved, and you do not have to suffer.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Gunter’s research, website, and social media click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love our first episode about menopause with Dr. Mary Claire Haver, MD: The #1 Menopause Doctor: How to Lose Belly Fat, Sleep Better, & Stop Suffering Now.
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Today’s episode is a wake-up call.
The reality is that time is passing you by.
If you want to live a more meaningful, successful, and happy life, you need to get serious about the amount of time you have with your loved ones, because it’s limited.
And unfortunately, today’s topic is something that is often not realized until it’s too late in life.
After you listen to today’s episode, you’ll learn exactly what you can do to make the most of the time you have.
If you loved this episode and want to know what to listen to next, check out this interview with Professor Tal Ben-Shahar, who will share more about creating a meaningful life: How to Build the Life You Want: Timeless Wisdom for More Happiness & Purpose.
For more resources, including links to learn more about each expert on today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
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In today’s episode, you’re going to learn about something important and rarely discussed that specifically impacts busy people and high achievers.
Just ask yourself:
- Do you just have coffee for breakfast, because a real meal would slow you down?
- Do you eat lunch while you work, instead of taking a break?
- Do you mindlessly scroll before going to bed because your mind is too busy?
- Do you take on extra work because you think, “I’m the only one who can do this, right?”
- Are you always there for others but don’t take care of yourself?
These are some of the signs of high-functioning depression you should not ignore.
Joining Mel today is the world’s leading expert and researcher on this topic, Dr. Judith Joseph, MD.
Today, Dr. Joseph is here to share her groundbreaking research on this important subject and exactly what to do to feel more energized, excited, joyful, and present in your life again.
Dr. Joseph is a renowned double-board-certified psychiatrist who trained at and is affiliated with Columbia University and New York University. She is also a pioneering researcher and the founder and principal investigator of her research institute, Manhattan Behavioral Medicine, where she has conducted over 60 clinical research trials with her all-female medical team, which focus on high-functioning conditions, including high-functioning depression.
This episode is for all the busy people who keep it all together, the moms on the move, and the overachievers at work. You’ll be surprised, moved, and feel a sense of relief and peace after today’s episode.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Joseph’s research, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love hearing Dr. Joseph’s other appearance on the podcast: Want to Be Happier Right Now? Don’t Make This Mistake (New Surprising Science)
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In this episode, you’ll learn the best expert advice Mel is using right now.
For this one-of-a-kind episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Mel hand-picked the top 5 most impactful, insightful, and exciting pieces of advice and rules for life ever shared by her guests.
Listen as experts give you their best advice that will transform your health, stop anxiety, make you more money, improve your confidence, show when someone is lying to you, and help you live with more meaning and purpose.
This episode is the cheat sheet for the level-up in life you have been looking for.
What should you listen to next?
You’ll love the full podcast episodes with each of the experts featured today:
Dr. Mark Hyman: “Reset Your Health in 10 Days: Advice From a Renowned MD”
Dr. Luana Marques: “Harvard Professor Says THIS Is the Secret to Success (It’s Not What You Think)” and “Turn Anxiety Into Power: A 3-Step Process to Master Your Emotions From a Harvard Psychologist”
Tiffany Aliche: “5 Rules of Money: How to Make It, Save It, & Be Smarter About It”
Janine Driver: "FBI-Trained Expert Explains How to Read Body Language"
Judie Robbins: "Get Your Sh*t Together: This 85-Year-Old Badass Does More Than You & Me (Steal Her 7 Amazing Secrets)"
For more resources, including links to learn more about each expert on today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Do you want to know how to talk to anyone with ease and confidence?
In this episode, you will learn science-backed psychological tricks to be more successful, charismatic, and influential today.
Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of The Science of People, a behavior lab that studies high achievers and the science of confidence and body language.
Her research proves that anyone can learn these practical skills and become a more successful person by using the same simple habits that almost every high achiever has.
Whether you want to be a better leader, land your dream job, achieve big goals, or align your life with what you want, this is the episode for you.
For more resources, including links to Vanessa’s bestselling books, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, you’ll love hearing Vanessa’s other appearance on the podcast: Research From Princeton: 13 Proven Hacks That Boost Your Influence & Make You More Confident
If you are looking for more support, Mel wants to coach you. Her signature 6-month live coaching program, Launch, is open for registration for just a few more hours.
Click here for more information and to sign up. If you miss registration, hop on the waitlist.
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This one idea will change how you think about your entire life.
Today, you are getting a step-by-step guide to overcoming any challenge that comes your way.
Mel is sharing one tool that has profoundly helped her and the 4 simple steps that help you apply this concept in your own life.
This singular tool allows you to:
- Find your purpose
- Change how you think about the past
- Move towards your truest potential
If you can’t stop procrastinating, are battling self-doubt, or you just need a reminder that your best days are ahead of you, then this is the episode for you.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this episode, here’s one you should listen to next: The #1 Neuroscientist: After Listening to This, Your Brain Will Not Be the Same
If you are looking for more coaching, Mel just opened the doors to the once-a-year, science-backed, community-packed coaching program, Launch with Mel Robbins, and wants YOU to join her.
Over 6 full months, you’ll get step-by-step support through 3 personal or professional projects that are important to you. If you’re ready for deep support, dream-chasing, and a LOT of momentum, this is for you.
Launch with Mel Robbins closes enrollment on April 25th. If you miss the date, you can hop on the waitlist for next year’s course.
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Do you want to be happier every day and live a more meaningful life?
In this episode, you’re getting the research, the secrets, and some very surprising takeaways from the #1 happiness expert, Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar.
He has taught 2 of the most popular courses in Harvard’s history, and today you are getting a front row seat in one of his lectures.
Grab a pen and paper, because class is in session.
He is here to share all of the groundbreaking research and give you the answers to:
- What you have wrong about happiness
- The science-based tools for increasing happiness
- 5 simple habits for a successful, happy life
This episode will give you the secret to creating happiness in your life again, with zero weird tricks.
For more resources, including the link to Dr. Ben-Shahar’s book, Happier, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you liked this research-packed episode, here’s one you should listen to next: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness.
If you are looking for more coaching, Mel just opened the doors to the once-a-year, science-backed, community-packed coaching program, Launch with Mel Robbins, and wants YOU to join her.
Over 6 full months, you’ll get step-by-step support through 3 personal or professional projects that are important to you. If you’re ready for deep support, dream-chasing, and a LOT of momentum, this is for you.
Launch with Mel Robbins closes enrollment on April 25th. If you miss the date, you can hop on the waitlist for next year’s course.
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Don’t allow your life to be controlled by these 5 things.
In today’s episode, Mel reveals the 5 surprising things that you waste time and energy on right now.
You’ll be surprised by the sneaky things that are holding you back.
Here’s the thing: When you try to control everything, you can't focus on anything that's truly important.
By the end of this episode, you’ll learn the simple shifts that help you make room for the things that really matter.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you are looking for more world-class free resources and support, sign up for Mel’s brand new free training, Make It Happen.
This training is designed to help you make your next 6 months extraordinary. It includes a 29 page workbook and 2 video trainings that use the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and create a plan to make it happen.
And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at melrobbins.com/makeithappen
If you liked this episode, here’s one you should listen to next now that you’ve taken back control over your time and emotions: This One Study Will Change How You Think About Your Entire Life
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Today, you are getting a step-by-step guide on how to change your brain so that it helps you get what you want.
Joining Mel today is Dr. Tara Swart Bieber, MD, PhD. She has a medical degree from Oxford and a PhD from King's College London, and is a senior lecturer at MIT.
This #1 neuroscientist will teach you how you can trick your brain into manifesting your goals and desires and use manifesting as a tool for success, happiness, and better health in 4 simple steps.
She will also share the shocking link between stress and your brain and body. She reveals how stress leaks through the skin, is contagious, and gives you belly fat.
You’ll also learn the 2 easy ways to reset your nervous system instantly, the 4 foods to eat for better brain health, the science of intuition, and how to use a vision board to achieve your most ambitious goals.
Class is in session, because after you listen to this, your brain will not be the same.
For more resources, including the link to Dr. Tara’s book, The Source, click here for the podcast episode page.
If you are looking for more world-class free resources and support, sign up for Mel’s brand new free training, Make It Happen.
This training is designed to help you make your next 6 months extraordinary. It includes a 29-page workbook and 2 video trainings that use the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and create a plan to make it happen.
And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at melrobbins.com/makeithappen
If you liked this research-packed episode, here’s one you should listen to next: What Makes a Good Life? Lessons From the Longest Study on Happiness.
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In today’s episode, Mel shares the one question that will determine your next six months (and reveal who you really are). Then, you’ll learn how to go from thinking about what you want to taking action and making it happen.
The free companion workbook to this episode can be found at melrobbins.com/makeithappen.
Along with your workbook, Mel has created 2 video trainings to help you feel inspired, energized, and in control again.
Mel created this free program, Make It Happen, as a way to thank YOU for your support of this podcast and for making it one of the most popular podcasts in the world.
The next 6 months of your life could be extraordinary, but it's not going to happen by accident.
It will happen because you CHOOSE to make it happen.
Do not let any more time go by wishing things were different. This is your opportunity to make it happen. Why wouldn’t you take it?
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This one study will change how you think about your entire life.
Today, you’re getting the definitive answer to this powerful question:
What makes a good life?
There is nothing more important than this conversation. Because by the time you are done listening, your life won’t be the same.
In this episode, you’re getting the research, the secrets, and some very surprising takeaways from an 86-year-long study at Harvard. The Harvard Study of Adult Development began in 1938 and is the longest study that has ever been done on happiness, relationships, and the human experience.
Joining Mel today is the director of that study, Dr. Robert Waldinger, MD. Dr. Waldinger is a medical doctor, professor at Harvard Medical School, and a zen priest. He is here to share all of the groundbreaking research and, more importantly, give you the answers to what you need to do starting today in order to live a good life.
You’ll learn the best life advice and lessons from 100-year-olds, the surprising question of whether you can predict if you’ll be healthy at age 80, the simple daily habit that leads to lasting happiness, and more—all backed by decades of research.
For more resources, including the link to Dr. Waldinger’s fantastic book, The Good Life, click here for the podcast episode page.
This episode is a companion to Mel's brand new free training, Make It Happen.
This training is designed to help you make your next 6 months extraordinary. It includes a 29 page workbook and 2 video trainings that use the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and create a plan to make it happen.
And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at melrobbins.com/makeithappen
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn 3 surprising steps to help you unlock the unlimited power of your mind, grounded in exciting research.
You were meant to see this today.
There is a reason you need to listen.
You can feel inspired, energized, and in control again, if you know how to turn on your mind’s superpowers.
Your mind has unlimited potential, and there are larger possibilities available to you, but you haven’t been taught how to unlock them.
YET.
Wouldn’t it be amazing if you had a sense that life was conspiring to help you?
That there are signs that you are on the right path if you know how to look for them?
That things are working out for you?
You deserve to live a life filled with meaning and purpose. Today you’ll learn 3 ways to make that happen.
This episode is a companion to Mel's brand new free training, Make It Happen.
This training is designed to help you make your next 6 months extraordinary. It includes a 29 page workbook and 2 video trainings that use the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and create a plan to make it happen.
And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at melrobbins.com/makeithappen
If you liked this episode, listen to this one next: This One Study Will Change How You Think About Your Entire Life
For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Today you’re learning the best relationship advice no one ever tells you.
Because the BEST relationships start with better conversations.
Nobody teaches you that.
If you’ve ever been in a situation where family and friends don’t agree with you, or they don’t like the direction you’re taking your life, it’s frustrating.
Not knowing how to deal with that can damage relationships with people you love.
Today’s episode will teach you how to speak so that people listen, so you can keep the people in your life that you really care about.
Today Lisa Bilyeu joins Mel on the podcast. Lisa is the co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and president of Impact Theory Studios. Her wildly successful career started with a childhood dream to make movies. But in a traditional Greek family that didn’t support her ambitions and wanted her to be a housewife, that dream caused a lot of friction.
Lisa had to build a framework for having difficult conversations and get the people she loved to understand her dreams and support her career. This framework made it easier to go after her dreams, while staying close to the people she loved.
Learn how YOU can use this framework so that people in your life want to listen when you speak.
For more resources, including the link to Lisa’s book, Radical Confidence, click here for the podcast episode page.
And if you liked this episode, listen to this one next: Do This To Become More Confident: 5 Truths You Need to Hear
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In today’s episode, you’ll learn 3 simple yet profound science-backed strategies that will change your life, and you’ll feel the difference as soon as you start using them.
These tiny decisions will instantly boost your energy as soon as you wake up, so that you OWN your mornings and start your day feeling incredible.
They will make you healthier, improve your relationships, make you more productive, and strengthen your mindset in just a few minutes per day.
If you love the proven hacks featured in today’s episode, then the next one you’ll want to listen to is: 8 Small Habits That Will Change Your Life: The Best Expert Advice I’m Using This Year
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Today's episode is a MUST listen. You won't believe what the latest research is saying about menopause. And you're likely not getting what you need to know from your doctor.
Did you know perimenopause can begin as early as your 30’s? Or that symptoms can include frozen shoulder, joint pain, ear ringing, migraines, and body odor?
Today, the #1 menopause doctor tells you everything she knows so you can stop guessing and KNOW how to stay healthy and feel amazing in your body.
Dr. Mary Claire Haver joins Mel on the podcast today. She is a board certified obstetrics and gynecology specialist, a certified menopause practitioner from the Menopause Society, and her latest book is The New Menopause. Her advice today will help you optimize your health, no matter what your age.
You've got symptoms; today's episode has solutions, like:
3 types of foods that will stop your bloating.
2 supplements that will help you sleep better.
1 exercise that will help you lose weight and improve your bone density.
Bookmark this episode and share it with every single woman in your life, because it’s time to change the paradigm: you do not have to live with symptoms that can be resolved and you do not have to suffer.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Haver’s latest book, her free Menopause Empowerment Guide, and reader recommended physicians, click here for the podcast episode page.
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In today’s episode, you’re going to learn 4 pieces of advice that will help you act confident when you're stressed, be fearless under pressure, reach your potential, and unlock the magic in your life.
If you can’t stop procrastinating, are battling self-doubt, or you just need a reminder that you’re stronger than you think, then this is the episode for you.
And if you know someone who’s not living up to their potential because they keep procrastinating on the actions they need to take, send them this episode and let Mel give them the motivation they need.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Today you’re getting a masterclass from one of the most renowned and respected experts on alcohol.
She’s here to give you the latest research and science of how alcohol impacts your body, brain, and mind. She’s going to give you facts, dispel myths, and help you be informed about the decisions you are making when it comes to your mental, physical, and emotional health when it comes to alcohol consumption.
Dr. Sarah Wakeman is Senior Medical Director of Substance Use Disorder at Mass General Brigham, home to nationally recognized hospitals and cutting-edge research. She's also an Associate Professor of Medicine at Harvard Medical School and the Program Director of Mass General Substance Use Addiction Services.
How much is TOO much alcohol?
Is some alcohol healthy?
What happens to your brain when you drink?
And how do you help someone you love who drinks too much?
Get the latest research so that you make the most informed decisions about the role alcohol plays in your life.
For lots more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
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These 13 pieces of life advice will change your future.
Buckle up, because today Mel is not holding back.
It’s true that your 20s can feel overwhelming, but you’re more powerful than you think.
And this advice will unlock that power.
If you’re feeling behind in life, these 13 pieces of advice will move you to the front of the line, no matter how old you are.
The truth is that no matter what decade of your life you are in, you can make it the best one – and this advice will help you do it.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
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In this episode, you’re going to learn the 5 rules of money.
Whether you want to build credit, pay off debt, increase your income, or have more money in the bank, this episode is a must-listen.
It will surprise you.
It will move you.
And it will help you live a richer life.
Tiffany Aliche is THE money expert.
Known as The Budgetnista, she is a New York Times bestselling author who has helped 2 million people just like you save, manage, and pay off massive debt.
This is not your usual “make-a-budget-and-stick-to-it” advice. Tiffany’s take on $$ will help you see your money in a completely different way so that you understand how to make more of it and save it with ease.
After you listen, you’ll have THE 5 money skills you need to gain financial freedom.
For more resources, including links to Tiffany’s book, the links Mel mentions, and Tiffany’s social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.
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When you don't feel like doing anything, this one thing will turn it around.
If you struggle with stress and anxiety and can’t let go of the negative thoughts that keep you stuck, this episode will change your life.
Learn the #1 journal exercise that will pull you out of your rut. This simple exercise will transform your energy so that you become the person you’ve always wanted to be.
What you do TODAY will change your future.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
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There is one thing you need to live a more peaceful and fulfilled life:
Having the right people around you.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn the surprising reasons why your friends aren’t more supportive and the sneaky ways people are disrespecting you.
In order to find more joy and less stress, you need positive relationships with people that actually cheer you on, that believe in your potential, and that make your life better.
Today, you’ll learn exactly how to find those people, take your power back, and create more peace in your life. Joining Mel is Trent Shelton. Trent is a bestselling author who is beloved by his 15 million followers for his inspiration and insight, and today he’s sharing that profound wisdom with you.
For more resources, including links to Trent’s new book, Protect Your Peace, and his social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.
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You need to hear today’s episode. I have something profound to share with you, and it will change the way you think about success.
Whether you want to make more money, get in the best shape of your life, find the one, launch an incredible business, or see your name on the cover of a book that you publish…
This is the coaching and the tools you need to take the next right step.
If you’re sick of standing still or talking yourself out of the changes you want to make and the goals you dream of achieving, this one’s for you.
And you need to hear it right now.
For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.
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This one-of-a-kind episode is a masterclass in how to believe in yourself, no matter what obstacles you face.
There are 5 lies that you are telling yourself that are holding you back from greater success, purpose, and true fulfillment.
Today, Mel is sitting down with one of the most successful self-made women, Jamie Kern Lima, who will share these lies and the truth you need to hear.
Jamie went from serving stacks of pancakes at Denny’s to creating a billion-dollar makeup company, IT Cosmetics. She is one of the most successful entrepreneurs of all time and was the first female CEO in L'Oreal's history.
Jamie’s life story shows you what is possible when you stop doubting your greatness, build unshakeable self-worth, and embrace who you are.
In this episode, she is giving you the exact playbook for the level up in your life you have been looking for. Once you listen, your self-doubt won’t stand a chance.
Listen to Jamie’s first interview with Mel (and her full story!): How to Find Your Purpose: Stop Searching and Do This Instead
For more resources, including links to Jamie’s new book Worthy, her website, and her social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Wouldn’t it be amazing to have tonight be the most relaxing, happy, or productive night you’ve had in ages?
It will be after you listen to today’s episode.
Mel shares the 4 easy steps you can take right after you finish listening that will make tonight one of the best nights of your life.
This episode is packed with tactical advice and the 4 science-backed components of the best nighttime routine.
Don’t make the mistake of waiting until the morning to make positive changes.
The 4 simple steps Mel unpacks today will teach you how to sleep better, give you back time, and even set you up for a better tomorrow.
For more resources, including the science and resources that Mel shares, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Today’s episode is a masterclass in narcissism.
If you want to know how to protect yourself from a narcissist, you first have to know how to identify one.
You’ll learn the top 10 personality traits to look for, how to handle a narcissist in your life (that you can’t avoid), the difference between ‘love bombing’ and infatuation, and a whole lot more.
Joining Mel today is Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and one of the world’s leading experts on narcissism.
Her mastery of all things narcissism has made her the #1 most requested guest on The Mel Robbins Podcast.
Dr. Ramani has been researching this topic for over 20 years and is here to give you the wisdom, practical advice, and well-researched tools and tricks to navigate what is one of the most unpredictable experiences: being in a relationship with a narcissist.
According to Dr. Ramani, 1 in 5 people has narcissist traits, which means you know (and may love) someone who is a narcissist. After you listen, you’ll know what to do.
For more resources, including links to Dr. Ramani’s book, website, and social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.
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In this episode, you’ll learn what true love really is, along with 3 simple ways to start getting the love you want.
Today, you’ll learn the art & science of giving and receiving love.
You’ll get simple tools for all kinds of love: romantic relationships, friendships, family relationships, mentorship, and even the smallest, simplest daily acts of love.
You’ll also learn:
For more resources, including links to all studies mentioned, and to go deeper into the themes in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Do you want to learn the 4 essential strategies that will lead you to more success, happiness, and opportunity?
And today you are going to learn the tools that you can use, from one of the world’s best thinkers and most successful people, to make better decisions.
Steven Bartlett is an entrepreneur, speaker, investor, author, and host of Europe’s #1 podcast, The Diary Of A CEO. He has cracked the code on how to leverage your business online, rise above any obstacle, and excel in anything you set your mind to.
There is a reason he sits on the boards of many global brands – because he has one of the greatest entrepreneurial success stories of all time. Steven was a broke university dropout at age 18 when he built an industry-leading social media marketing company. At 28, he co-founded Flight Story, a marketing and communications company and a software platform, which was valued at $600M. He then went on to launch the #1 ranked The Diary Of A CEO podcast.
Today, he is sharing the 4 tactics he uses to make any decision for the best results. The tactics he shares are from his personal life as well as top-tier industry and thought leaders, entrepreneurs, entertainers, and athletes that he interviews on his wildly successful show.
In this episode, you’ll also learn:
For more resources, including links to Steven’s podcast, book, and social media platforms, click here for the podcast episode page.
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Today’s episode is a wake up call.
Before you waste another day of your life, you need to hear the six shocking statistics from a ten-year long study about what you’re doing with your time.
Because the hard reality is that time is passing you by.
And if that bothers you, this episode will get you doing something about it.
You’re probably spending too much time on things that are not important to you, and not enough time on what is.
It’s time to change that.
In this episode, you’ll also learn:
To go deeper into the topics shared in today’s episode, including the study Mel shares, the graphs, and the resources mentioned, click here for the episode resource page.
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Ready for your next listen? If you liked this, you’ll love this episode: 2 Ways to Believe in Yourself & Achieve Cool Things
What is the secret reason you might not be happy?
Did you know that there are common things that steal fulfillment and joy from your life?
Today, Mel is diving into the 3 research-backed habits that can make your life better. Because happiness is not only possible; it is an option for you.
This conversation is not only comforting and impactful; it is also packed with practical and proven tools that can be put to work in your life immediately.
Mel is thrilled to introduce you to the incredible Dr. Judith Joseph, MD.
Dr. Joseph is a renowned double-board-certified psychiatrist who trained at and is affiliated with Columbia University and New York University. Dr. Joseph is also a pioneering researcher and the founder and principal investigator of her research institute, Manhattan Behavioral Medicine, where she has conducted over 60 clinical research trials, and today she is sharing her innovative work with you.
This interview took a surprising turn. In this hour-long conversation, Mel goes deeper than ever, discussing her struggle with the lingering feeling of “blah” she’s had for the past couple of years.
In this episode, you’ll also learn:
For more resources, including links to Dr. Joseph’s work, studies, and quizzes to find out if you have anhedonia, click here for the podcast episode page.
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This episode is a masterclass in how to believe in yourself, no matter what obstacles you face.
Learn how to achieve your most ambitious goals and do it with confidence.
Once you listen, your self-doubt won’t stand a chance.
You’ll learn:
To go deeper into the topics shared in today’s episode, including links to all videos and resources mentioned, click here for the episode resource page.
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Have a hard time staying focused?
Do you start projects and never finish them? Are you frustrated with your hyperactive brain?
Your brain simply needs help, and today you’re going to learn exactly what to do about it, thanks to the expert advice of today’s guest Dr. Chris Palmer.
Dr. Palmer is a psychiatrist who has practiced at Harvard’s McLean Hospital, the #1 psychiatric hospital in the nation, for almost 30 years. He is also the Founder and Director of the recently launched Metabolic & Mental Health Program at McLean Hospital.
In this episode, you’ll also learn:
To listen to Dr. Palmer's first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast, check out the episode right before this one, Reset Your Mental Health: The Diet & Nutrition Protocol from Renowned Harvard MD
For more resources, including links to Dr. Palmer's work, studies, and tips to implement everything you learn, click here for the podcast resources page.
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Do you want more energy?
Are you done with the constant anxiety? Can’t seem to climb out of your funk?
In today’s episode, you’ll learn the exact steps to optimize both your mental and physical health.
Joining Mel today is Harvard’s Chris Palmer, MD, whose work lies at the intersection of nutrition, metabolism, and mental health. He will explain how he believes your diet is causing your brain to misfire, which is why simple changes to your diet and lifestyle can help you improve your mental health.
Dr. Palmer is a psychiatrist who has practiced at Harvard’s McLean Hospital, the #1 psychiatric hospital in the nation, for almost 30 years. He is also the Founder and Director of the recently launched Metabolic & Mental Health Program at McLean Hospital.
His innovative approaches to treatment-resistant mental health challenges have brought his patients relief and hope, which is why his waitlist is years long. Today, you’ll learn Dr. Palmer’s exact protocol he shares with his patients in Boston.
In this episode, you will learn:
Dr. Palmer goes deep into the science and his protocols. All additional resources to learn about Dr. Palmer and his science are linked on this page of Mel’s website:
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Do you feel like quitting on your goals?
Do you want to give up on your resolutions?
Are you just plain unmotivated?
Mel delivers her most powerful pep talk, designed to light the fire inside you so you can break through any setback.
She’ll give you the tools you need to power through resistance and shut down any negative thoughts holding you back. You will want to listen to this over and over again.
You will learn the secret to gaining unstoppable confidence. You’ll get incredible insights on how to reinvent yourself if you feel like giving up and reclaiming the dream you gave up on.
In this episode, you will learn:
This episode comes with a 29-page companion workbook. This workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Ready to know the secret to success and genuine happiness?
You won’t find it where you’ve been looking.
You will find it in today’s episode. Learn two simple yet profound ways to start feeling real happiness so that your life becomes the success you want it to be.
In this episode, you’ll also learn:
This episode comes with a 29-page companion workbook. This workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Do you want to know the surprising truth about motivation?
Right now, think about something you want to change or improve.
How do you make lasting and powerful changes and life improvements? And how do you keep going even when you don’t have the motivation to do it?
If change was easy, we’d all have six-pack abs and a million dollars in the bank.
And that’s where this episode comes in: Mel is here to teach you the HOW.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
This episode comes with a 29-page companion workbook. This workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Do you want to feel productive and energized all day long?
Do you want to get your own bulletproof morning routine so no day is “wasted” and you are always in the flow?
Do you want to know the 5 essential components of the perfect morning routine?
This episode is the only pep talk you need if you want to own your mornings. You know your mornings are your best shot at changing how you show up in life. This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top of the episode, that is packed with advice that will help you win your mornings and set you on the path to becoming who you want to be.
Mel gives you tough love, plus lots of science and research, as she unpacks:
This episode comes with a 29-page companion workbook. This workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Do you want to know how to set your goals so you can easily achieve them?
Do you want the only 2 science-backed steps you need to hit your goals?
Have no idea what your goals are or where to even start?
This episode is a comprehensive toolkit that will help you set the goals that inspire you. You’ll feel excited about what’s ahead and what you need to do to achieve it. You’ll not only learn the correct way to set goals according to research, but by the end of the episode, you will have even taken the first steps toward your goal.
In this episode, Mel covers:
This episode also comes with a 29-page companion workbook. This workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Want zero-cost advice that will help you level up every area of your life?
Do you want simple, mind-blowing hacks to help you be the best version of yourself in 2024?
For this one-of-a-kind episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Mel hand-picked the top 8 most impactful, insightful, and exciting pieces of advice ever shared by her guests.
Listen as renowned experts and industry leaders give you their best advice that will change your relationships, boost your self-esteem, calm your anxiety (yes, even your anxiety), stay in the best shape of your life, and more. This episode is the cheat sheet for the level-up in life you have been looking for.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
This episode comes with a 29-page companion workbook. This workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Dr. Ramani: melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-6
Rebecca Zung: melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-121
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Want to know the 4 important life lessons that can make your life 10X better?
No matter what is happening to you, life is trying to teach you something. In this episode, Mel unpacks the 4 most important lessons life tries to teach everyone, and the sooner you learn them, the faster your life will change for the better.
In this episode, Mel covers:
This episode comes with a 29-page companion workbook. This workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Want to know the ONE thing you should do this week?
Today’s episode is essential listening and exactly what you need to hear right now.
In this episode, you will learn:
This is an encore episode that you’re going to love.
It also comes with a free companion workbook to help you make 2024 your best year. This zero-cost workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Do you want to make 2024 your best year yet?
There are only 6 questions to ask yourself for instant clarity and insight. Your answers will show you what the very next steps are in your life.
The companion workbook to this episode can be found at melrobbins.com/bestyear.
In this episode, Mel will discuss:
The powerful year-end ritual she has used for the past 20 years.
The simple question to ask yourself to know what you really want.
How to use your camera roll to highlight your year.
The only reminder you need during this time of year.
What the launch of The Mel Robbins Podcast taught Mel.
What the stop-start-continue method is and why successful businesses use it.
The one best step you should take after listening to this episode.
This episode comes with a 29-page companion workbook. This workbook is designed using the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and empower you to take the next step forward in your life. And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get your hands on it.
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Why do you love the way that you love?
How do you have the best relationships of your life (including the one with yourself)?
Today, Mel sits down with expert in attachment theory Thais Gibson to explain the framework to improve any relationship in your life.
Her work on the subconscious mind and personal transformation will empower you to set better goals and have happier and healthier relationships.
Topics discussed include:
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Want to feel more at peace, in control, and calm in just 15 minutes?
If you listen to this meditation for 21 days in a row, you will reprogram your subconscious mind.
You will leave feeling free of thoughts, patterns, and behaviors that weigh you down.
Today, counselor, expert in attachment styles, and bestselling author Thais Gibson is walking you through a meditation that has helped over 31,000 people.
Thais created this as a very special bonus for listeners of The Mel Robbins Podcast.
This is a must-listen.
The full-length companion episode with Thais, which goes deep into attachment styles, how to identify yours, and ways to heal, is called “Why Do I Love The Way That I Love: Attachment Styles Explained.”
Be sure to listen to that next.
And to get the full effect of this meditation, bookmark it and listen to it every morning for 21 days in a row.
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Want to boost your reading speed by 30%–50%?
Want to learn faster?
What if you never forgot where you put your keys again?
Mel sits down with world-renowned brain coach Jim Kwik to help you boost your brainpower with his science-backed tools, tips, and strategies.
In this episode, they discuss:
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Are you always the one who is late for everything?
Do you find yourself procrastinating, no matter how hard you try to stay focused?
Does managing your time to get everything done feel impossible?
Mel sits down with THE world’s leading researcher on procrastination.
Dr. Joseph Ferrari is a distinguished Professor of Psychology at DePaul University in Chicago, where he has spent nearly three decades researching with colleagues around the world about why we procrastinate. Today, he’s sharing those surprising findings with you.
Topics discussed include:
How research defines procrastination. (It’s not what you think.)
Why procrastination is an epidemic.
How procrastinators see the world.
The difference between someone who procrastinates and a procrastinator.
Signs you may be a chronic procrastinator.
How the Premack Principle helps you get stuff done.
The REAL reason you procrastinate.
Why “social esteem” is so important to procrastinators.
The ONE word that can change how you think about yourself.
A powerful strategy to use when you feel stuck.
The link between procrastination and perfectionism.
The difference between an excuse and a legitimate reason.
How to deal with procrastinators in your life.
You can purchase Dr. Ferrari’s latest book, Still Procrastinating, here: https://shorturl.at/aJPR0
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Want to know the hack that will make you more successful in 2024?
Today, Mel is offering you a masterclass in business at zero cost. By walking you through her learnings and lessons, you will receive the coaching you need to uplevel in business and in life.
Topics discussed include:
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Want to learn how to be a happier and more successful version of yourself… from the psychiatrist that Lady Gaga says “saved her life?”
Mel sits down with Stanford-trained psychiatrist, trauma expert, and best-selling author Dr. Paul Conti to help you improve your mental health and be happier in 2024.
Topics discussed:
Toxic self-talk starts in childhood.
Cotard’s Syndrome: The extreme side of negative self-talk.
Your thoughts become your reality.
What to do when you feel like a failure or doomed to bad luck.
Feel happier when you say THIS to yourself.
5 strategies for changing your inner dialogue.
The one area where computers are better than the human brain.
Why you HAVE to process your childhood trauma.
What to do with a panic attack.
The ONE thing you need to know about change.
What an umbrella has to do with how you think about yourself.
Purchase Dr. Conti’s book, Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic, here: https://www.amazon.com/Trauma-Invisible-Epidemic-Works-Heal/dp/1683647351
Check out his website here: https://drpaulconti.com/
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Do you want to reset your health?
Are you ready for more energy and better overall health?
Do you want to start seeing results in 5 days (or less)?
In today’s episode, Mel is joined by double-board certified Dr. Amy Shah for Part 2 of her masterclass on how to optimize your gut health.
Dr. Amy, a medical doctor trained at Harvard, Cornell, and Columbia University, is an immunologist and leading expert in women’s hormonal health and nutrition.
She’s giving you her proven 5-step method to heal inflammation, reset your natural hormone balance, and heal food sensitivities.
Learn how to use the power of your gut microbes to help digestion, gain mental clarity, and decrease your stress levels.
In this episode, Dr. Amy discusses topics like:
What a gut microbiome is.
Why science says your gut microbiome is the key to better mental and physical health.
The scientific link between gut health and depression, cancer, and heart diseases.
What the brain-gut connection is and why it’s essential to your health.
What to do after your overindulgence in holiday food and drinks.
The reason you can’t properly digest food.
What makes your gut bacteria “upset” and what keeps them "happy"?
How healthy aging is directly connected to your gut biome.
Why stress can make you bloated.
The reason 1 in 7 people experience bloating once a week.
How gut health impacts a woman's hormone health.
The difference between fiber and insoluble fiber.
Which natural fiber do you need in your diet for improved digestion?
The only type of bread that heals your gut.
What intermittent fasting is and why it improves gut health.
The one thing you should know about your circadian rhythm.
Dr. Shah's 5-day reset protocol and why you need it to reset your gut health.
3 things you should do every day for optimal gut health.
What the best probiotic for your body is.
The foods your gut bacteria love to digest.
Why bonding with someone is a love language for your gut health.
What an elimination diet is and why you need to do it.
3 foods you should consider removing from your diet for 7 days.
How many days it really takes to reset your gut.
Why crazy diets are not working to “reset” your gut.
Why your daily probiotic pill isn’t really working.
You can purchase Dr. Shah’s book, ‘I'm So Effing Hungry: Why We Crave What We Crave – and What to Do About It’, here: https://a.co/d/7mTXT2F
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What is bloating, and why don’t your pants fit after just one meal?
What are the 10 foods to avoid when you feel bloated?
What is gut health, and how can you improve yours?
Today Mel is joined by double-board certified Dr. Amy Shah, who is here to explain bloating and optimal gut health in a way that you can understand and easily apply to your life.
Dr. Shah, a medical doctor trained at Harvard, Cornell, and Columbia University, is an immunologist and leading expert in women’s hormonal health and nutrition.
She is giving you all the tools you need, including her 3-step plan to get long-term relief from bloating.
In this episode, Dr. Amy discusses:
What bloating is; why and when it happens.
3 symptoms of being bloated.
10 foods notorious for causing bloating.
The one food that bloats everyone.
Why bloating can be worse during menopause or menstruation.
How to tell if you are bloated vs. gaining weight.
What “water weight” is and how to avoid it.
What a “distended belly” is and where it comes from.
2 everyday (non-food) things that cause bloating and how to avoid them.
3 foods you should not eat when you are bloated.
The pill you are taking that surprisingly may make you bloated.
One type of food that 68% of the world is intolerant of and doesn’t know.
Why alcohol bloats most of us.
Why you shouldn’t take Advil after a night of drinking.
Why sleep is so essential for reducing bloating.
What gut bacteria are and how to know when they’re upset.
What a food elimination diet is, why you need one, and how to safely try it.
Why fasting for 12 hours is essential for a gut reset.
Dr. Shah’s 3-F plan and why you should start your day this way to reduce bloating.
What the best probiotic is. (Hint: you can’t buy it.)
The surprising experience Mel’s daughter had with “bad” gut bacteria.
How anxiety and depression can be tied to gut health.
You can purchase Dr. Shah’s book, ‘I'm So Effing Hungry: Why We Crave What We Crave – and What to Do About It’, here: https://a.co/d/7mTXT2F
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How do you have a “healthy” fight with your family?
How do you repair a relationship with someone you love?
Today Mel is joined by her husband Chris, their daughter Kendall, and their son Oakley to answer listener questions about all kinds of relationships.
This is the perfect episode to listen to with your family. You’ll hear the Robbins’ insightful, powerful, fun, and sometimes hilarious advice on how to get along with and love everyone in your family.
Hear Mel unpack the 4 important lessons she learned from a silly fight she had that morning with her daughter, Kendall (note: there is some cursing).
In this conversation, Mel, Chris, Oakley, and Kendall discuss:
The 4 important life lessons Mel learned from her fight with Kendall.
How to use the Let Them Theory to diffuse fights with family.
A smart relationship “trick” from a therapist that Mel and Chris love.
Mel’s funny story of how she ran into Reese Witherspoon.
How to repair a damaged relationship with your child.
When and how to apologize to your family.
What to do when someone you love is always angry at you.
The real reason you treat your family worse than you treat strangers.
What strengthens most parent-kid relationships?
What happened when guilt made Kendall do something she didn’t want to?
What to do when your kids don’t talk to you.
The reason family members start a fight.
The right moment to bite your tongue in an argument.
The one thing that will stop you from “advice vomiting” on your kids.
The phrase you need to repeat to yourself when you feel left out of your friend group. (Or when you just miss your friends.)
What you need to know that will help you feel more confident after a move to a new home or school.
What happens the moment you meet your idol. (It’s not what you think.)
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Is it possible to be around narcissistic people and not lose your power? Especially when it's your mom, dad, ex, or boss who’s acting toxic?
Today, Mel is joined by Rebecca Zung, an expert on narcissism and a globally recognized high-conflict negotiator. Rebecca is also a top-ranked trial lawyer who has studied narcissism so that she could win against them in the courtroom. She’s written the playbook, SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with A Narcissist and Win.
She is here to make the case that you CAN stay in power no matter how toxic the people are around you. And by following her 4-part plan, you can even win when dealing with narcissism.
In this conversation, Rebecca discusses topics like:
Narcissism: what is it?
The 3 types of narcissism.
What a covert passive-aggressive narcissist is.
What a malignant narcissist is.
What a grandiose narcissist is.
The link between narcissism and divorce.
The exact phrases that can change the dynamic between you and a narcissist.
The top 3 sentences to disarm a narcissist without causing rage.
Why “cutting off” a narcissist won’t work.
The physical symptoms you can have when dealing with a narcissist.
Why being “the victim” is keeping you trapped.
What narcissistic supply is and why it is so important.
The 2 ways a narcissist gets their “narcissistic supply".
What happens in a narcissistic brain in childhood that flips a switch.
The tie between trauma and narcissism.
What the 4 non-verbal triggers for any narcissist are.
Why a narcissist is just an 8-year-old throwing a tantrum.
The reason why a narcissist actually fears you.
The definition of love bombing and why it’s so addictive.
What the 3 phases of a narcissistic relationship are.
How you can be physiologically addicted to a ‘love bomber’ (it’s as addictive as cocaine).
What narcissistic rage is and why it happens.
What your 3 options are in a relationship with a narcissist.
What happens when you become the focus of narcissistic rage.
What those passive-aggressive or back-handed comments mean to a narcissist.
What triangulation is, and how to protect yourself.
The biggest myth about narcissists.
The real reason why narcissists string you along.
The 4-step process to getting your power back from a narcissist.
The $2M apology.
What to do when a narcissist is raging at you.
When it's okay to tell a narcissist what they need to hear.
The 3 things to stop doing now in a narcissistic relationship.
How to respond to an accusatory email at work.
What you need to know about negotiating with a narcissist.
Why saying “I’m anticipating…” disarms any narcissist.
The first boundary you need to create with a narcissist.
What to look for as signs that you are dating, engaged to, or married to a narcissist.
You can purchase Rebecca’s book, ‘SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win’, here: https://a.co/d/bLWp5YZ
Follow Rebecca Zung:
Instagram: instagram.com/rebeccazung
Webpage: rebeccazung.com
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Does this doctor have the health secret you’ve been looking for? Does people-pleasing really make you sick?
Dr. Neha Sangwan is an internal medicine physician, bestselling author, and accomplished researcher.
Today, Mel sits down with Dr. Sangwan to learn the truth about people-pleasing.
Topics discussed include:
People-pleasing: What it is.
Are you a “yes” person?
The difference between “going with the flow” and people pleasing.
Why avoiding conflict makes you a people-pleaser.
What your “childhood blueprint” is and how it shapes adulthood.
People pleasing and the link to illness.
What your parents did or said to turn you into a people-pleaser.
Why people-pleasing is a coping mechanism.
Why you can’t deal with other people’s discomfort.
How to trace your people pleasing back to a single moment in time.
Why being stressed, irritated, and tired is a sign that you are a people-pleaser.
Why being a control freak may be a sign of people pleasing.
How to unlearn people pleasing.
How every conflict in your life traces back to childhood trauma.
What happens, from a medical perspective, when you have an unresolved conflict?
The secret reason you’re an overachiever.
How to stop your people-pleasing behavior at work and set better boundaries.
What it really means when you resent the people you love.
Why people-pleasing is a “protection tool” you learn to use in childhood.
The link between chronic worry and people pleasing.
The simple 3-part framework Dr. Sangwan uses to say "no" when you mean "no".
How 80% of all illnesses are caused by stress.
The 5 questions you should ask yourself to understand what your body is really trying to signal to you.
You can purchase Dr. Sangwan’s book, ‘TalkRx: Five Steps to Honest Conversations That Create Connection, Health, and Happiness’, here: https://a.co/d/iaVNwiL
Download a FREE audio chapter from ‘TalkRx: Five Steps to Honest Conversations That Create Connection, Health, and Happiness’, here: intuitiveintelligenceinc.com/mel
Follow Dr. Sangwan:
Instagram: instagram.com/doctorneha
Webpage: intuitiveintelligenceinc.com
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Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a way to not get so annoyed or frustrated with the people that you love?
There is.
It’s called the “Let Them” theory. Mel discovered it while arguing with her son about a taco stand, and she hasn’t stopped using it since.
She first explained the “Let Them” theory in a 60-second reel on Instagram. 63 million views later. The verdict is in. Everyone loves the “let them” theory.
Today, Mel is in the studio, taking your calls live and teaching you 6 ways to improve any relationship with the “Let Them” theory.
In this episode, you hear Mel cover topics like:
How to handle a mother-in-law who is not supportive.
Feeling left out? Good. You need better friends.
Why moving in with your parents is better than living with an ex.
What to say when your sibling wants to gossip about your mom.
Why being the family peacekeeper creates a war inside you.
How to stop being the “fixer” in your relationships.
The truth about addiction in a family and the role you need to play.
Why your dad’s gambling problem isn’t yours to fix.
How rescuing people robs them of the problems they need to face.
What to do when your parents’ marriage is in crisis.
How to tell a friend you are sick of hearing about their relationship drama.
Why you shouldn’t be the “therapist” for your friend group.
Why it's normal for friends to drop you when you start drawing boundaries.
The art of putting yourself first: “Let me” be happy for a change.
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My book! The High 5 Habit here: https://a.co/d/g1DQ8Pt
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Want to know what it really takes to launch, build, and sell a $255 million-dollar business in ten years flat? Do you have a good idea, but you think you “have no business being in business”?
In this new episode, Mel sits down with the founder of Drybar, Alli Webb, and takes you on a riveting tour of how a stay-at-home mom who had ‘no business being in business’ made $255 million in 10 years. You’ll hear the entire messy truth and all the hard-won advice, from the exciting start of her business to the disastrous ending of her second marriage.
Alli is a NYT bestselling author, badass businesswoman, co-founder of the iconic brand Drybar, and two other successful companies. Learn about the immense sacrifices she made in her relationships, the shaky financial situations she navigated, and the specific decisions she made as a businesswoman that accelerated the growth of this iconic brand.
In this conversation, you’ll learn:
Why your childhood dream job is probably the key to success.
How your big idea is right in front of your face.
Starting a business starts with you: your idea, your skill set, your purpose, and your gut instinct.
All amazing business ideas share this ONE thing.
Her parents' business advice for her: find a good man.
How to juggle kids while having a side hustle.
Why starting a business with your spouse is a bad idea.
Why she didn’t call off the wedding (and probably should have).
Why she jumped into her second marriage too soon.
The HARSH dating advice Mel delivers to Alli.
Why she trusted her business instincts but not in her relationships.
How being a hairdresser prepared her to be a CEO.
Why she’s sharing the messy truth now.
The text she sent Mel at her lowest point.
The part of the interview that she “wanted to cut".
Why she names the hairstyles at Drybar after drinks.
Her take on imposter syndrome.
How to face your fear of failure.
How to say ‘f*** it’ and try something new.
How to double your productivity and leverage your time.
What passion is and why it’s so personal.
What she learned from her mistakes.
How a business owner is only as good as her team.
What not to do when creating a blended family.
How she lost herself in her last marriage.
How she handles a “no” in business.
And a big shoutout to Alli. It’s very easy to talk about your wins; Alli is giving you a huge gift by sharing her personal losses too.
You can get Alli’s book ‘The Messy Truth: How I Sold My Business for Millions but Almost Lost Myself’ here: https://a.co/d/cuYHOGv
Follow Alli Webb:
Instagram: instagram.com/alliwebb
Webpage: ALLI WEBB
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Are you tired of feeling anxious?
Want to know a simple way to boost your confidence?
Do you need better boundaries with your family?
Buckling under the pressure of college applications, a job search, or other big life decisions?
Listeners from around the world have been writing in about these issues, asking specifically for both Mel’s advice and her 18-year-old son Oakley’s young adult perspective.
This is a fantastic conversation to listen to as a family. It will give you amazing insight into issues you may be facing as well as eye-opening honesty about how the young adults in your life are thinking about these topics.
In this conversation, Mel and Oakley discuss topics like:
How to properly support someone you love with anxiety
When to know if it’s time to break up with someone
If it’s possible to stay friends with an ex
How to create boundaries with your family
When you should be worried someone is spending too much time alone
A really interesting take on gaming
Handling the pressure of college applications, divorce, job search, or finding your purpose
How to talk to your kid about alcohol: surprising boundaries you can use to protect the ones you love
What to do to get someone talking when they are not talking to you
Specific advice on building confidence as a young adult
Mistakes divorcing parents make
How to have a tough conversation with your parents
Calming words for someone going through a hard time
A short visualization exercise to calm anxiety
A fun and free way to get closer to your family
A young adult perspective on hazing and bullying and why you should always get your parents involved
Watch the episodes on YouTube: https://bit.ly/45OWCNr
My book! The High 5 Habit here: https://a.co/d/g1DQ8Pt
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Are you getting the sleep you need? Do you wish you could improve your sleep, but you’re not sure how?
Dr. Gina Poe is an accomplished researcher and trained neuroscientist with a PhD in basic sleep. Currently a professor at UCLA, Dr. Poe has been researching the functions of sleep for over 30 years and has authored nearly 200 publications on the topic.
Today, Dr. Poe is here to answer your questions like, Why do you sleep? What is your brain doing as you sleep? What is REM sleep? What are sleep cycles? What are circadian rhythms?
And perhaps most importantly, you’ll get 5 research-backed recommendations from Dr. Poe on how anyone, including you, can not only improve their sleep but also get a “perfect” night’s sleep, as defined by a neuroscientist.
In this conversation, Dr. Poe discusses topics such as:
What is the “perfect night's sleep”?
How long are you supposed to sleep every night?
What is a sleep cycle, and why should you care?
What is N1 sleep?
What is N2 sleep?
What is N3 sleep?
What is paradoxical sleep and how can you tell someone’s in that state?
What REM sleep really is and how often we must be in it.
The physiological and neurological difference between being awake and asleep.
What a neurotransmitter is and how it changes composition when asleep.
What the functions of our brain’s two hemispheres are.
How sleep cleans the brain.
The connection between sleep and neuroplasticity.
The link between sleep and brain health.
The scientific reason why they call it “falling” asleep.
How sleep directly affects longevity and vitality.
Why you don’t remember your dreams.
How sleep impacts how we learn during the day.
What happens to your body and brain when you close your eyes at night.
The one phase of sleep you cannot miss.
A neuroscientist's top 5 recommendations for better sleep.
What the purpose of vasodilation is.
Which hours of sleep are absolutely critical for memory processing.
How many hours of sleep you really need for optimal functioning.
Why a consistent bedtime is the start of the best sleep of your life.
Follow Dr. Poe:
Instagram: instagram.com/poe.gina
Webpage: bri.ucla.edu/people/gina-poe-ph-d/
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Are you missing the one thing that would make all the difference in your effort to be healthier? I was. And the thing I was missing was weight training.
In this episode, you will learn from Dr. Gabrielle Lyon, a medical doctor who is fellowship-trained in nutritional sciences and geriatrics.
Dr. Lyon is a renowned researcher, pioneer, and founder of the Institute for Muscle Centric Medicine. She is the New York Times best-selling author of Forever Strong: A New, Science-Based Strategy for Aging Well and has decades of experience to share with you.
In this conversation, Dr. Lyon discusses topics like:
You can purchase Dr. Lyon’s book, ‘Forever Strong: A New, Science-Based Strategy for Aging Well’, here: https://a.co/d/3zgEDLB
Follow Dr. Lyon:
Instagram: instagram.com/drgabriellelyon
Webpage: drgabriellelyon.com
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I was talking sh*t about my daughter and got caught red-handed. Talk about unnecessary drama.
We've all been there. And according to today’s expert, this type of conflict is causing more stress than you think.
Today, I am joined by Dr. Scott Lyons, a medical doctor, holistic psychologist, and renowned body-based trauma expert. He says there are 6 telltale signs that you’re addicted to stress.
I never considered myself to be a person who is addicted to stress until this conversation.
Dr. Lyons is certified in more healing modalities than you want me to list and has even created his own body-based trauma therapy called Somatic Stress Release™, taught in over 20 countries.
You and I are digging into the fascinating science, research, and psychology of stress. And more importantly, you are going to get the tools you need to remove it from your life.
Dr. Lyons will explain why we keep ourselves on edge, why we find ourselves picking fights, gossiping, zombie scrolling, and staying in relationships where drama is present.
This is a cycle you need to break. It’s time you slow down and learn:
If you’ve read this far, it means you want to feel less stress. I want that for you, too.
That’s why I can’t wait for you to listen and learn how to remove all the unnecessary drama from your life.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.
Welcome to another round of your questions and my advice. I have a stack of your crazy, raw, and unbelievably direct questions, so we are going to have an unfiltered conversation about sex, competitive parents, getting over your ex, and this light and easy question... Is there a God?
You are getting the coaching you need right now.
The questions you asked are juicy:
Why am I still obsessed with my ex? It’s been 7 years.
My partner refuses to have sex with me. What do I do now?
The parents of my kid’s friends are so competitive; how the hell do I get out of this rat race?
Is there a God?
Imposter syndrome is killing my career. What the hell do I do?
What are the 4 new habits I can’t stop? (Because they are THAT GOOD.)
Why do I feel so trapped in my life? What do I need to know to get out?
Why can’t I fix myself after years of personal development courses?
Get the tough love, “ah-ha” moments and laugh your ass off at some of the crazy stuff that goes down in this episode.
You asked… and I can’t wait for you to hear my answers.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
1:00: The 4 best tips I’ve learned in these first 100 podcasts.
4:25: How do you stop checking in on your ex’s social media?
7:50: 3 techniques to help you argue with your partner in a healthy way.
10:30: The “red light:green light” technique that’s worked for me and Chris.
14:15: What’s my astrological sign?
15:40: Here’s what I believe about faith and signs and a higher power.
22:30: What happens when we die? This is what I think.
24:20: How do you deal with difficult parents of your kids’ friends?
30:10: Husband is ready for sex months after his wife has a baby, but she’s not.
35:08: This is how I learned I was dyslexic.
35:35: Hard line advice on promoting your business without feeling egotistical.
37:30: Why all your personal development work doesn’t feel like it’s working.
41:50: Behind the scenes and blooper clips just for you.
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, you are going to learn how to have better sex. You have an appointment with a leading sex expert, Dr. Emily Morse. I will be the first to admit that I want to have better sex, but I don’t know how to achieve it.
And I’m asking all the uncomfortable questions you want to ask.
This conversation is going to make you think differently about this topic and inspire you to prioritize pleasure and connection in bed, no matter your age, relationship status, or gender.
And if you are saying, “This doesn’t apply to me,” or as my friend just said, “I’m in way worse than a drought! At this point, I’m a born-again virgin."
No, you’re not. And this episode is for you too, because our expert says improving your solo sex life is the first step.
You may not want your little ones to listen because, when it comes to confessions about sex, I'm going first.
Dr. Emily claims that everything you have been taught or observed about sex is WRONG.
Wait. WHAT??...
Dr. Emily is insightful, and this conversation is hilarious and actionable.
You will learn:
Grab your mirrors and vibrators, and leave your inhibitions and embarrassment at the door. And according to our expert, it’s amazing foreplay to talk about sex. So why don't you and your partner listen to this together? You’ll thank me later.
Maybe we’ll call these sex episodes “Listen and Lube”?
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.
I’m not even going to call our conversation today an episode because it is so much bigger.
I am here with a soul-stirring and inspiring message that’s coming from my heart to yours.
When the world feels dark, you and I need to bring the light.
I was moved to share a deeply personal message with you today about the power you hold to make a difference right now. I hope that when you hear my words, they will inspire you to find your strength and that they will renew your spirit.
And just know if you’re reading this, I’m sending you my love, and I hope you feel my light and the protection of my prayers.
Xo Mel
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, Dr. Thema Bryant gives you the tools to conquer overwhelm and unlock your inner peace.
Dr. Thema Bryant is the current president of the American Psychological Association. She trained at both Duke and Harvard, teaches at Pepperdine University, has published multiple best-selling books, and has spent decades of her life researching how you can stay calm and centered in any situation.
She calls this kind of peace “coming home” to yourself, and she will teach you how to do it, even if the world around you is in chaos.
Dr. Thema is simply incredible. Just her presence alone will put you at ease. She has the unique gift of weaving together psychological strategies for healing with the deeper spiritual cornerstones of faith and trust.
This is an encore episode with new insights from me at the top of the conversation. Given how overwhelming the world seems right now, I believe this profound and actionable conversation is exactly what you and I need to hear.
With Dr. Thema's wisdom and tools, you can and will overcome the overwhelm, anxiety, and stress you are feeling right now.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
When the world feels dark, you and I must stay connected to our inner light. This episode will teach you how. Please share this with your loved ones because the world needs all of us to keep the light bright, and together we will.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at https://melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this important and special episode, you will hear the beautiful, profound, and comforting words that are needed in the world right now.
When I woke up this morning, I did not expect to have this conversation.
But, as I watched the news unfold, I felt overwhelmed and hopeless, seeing a world that feels like it’s spinning out of control.
I thought to myself, "If I could talk to one person right now who could give you and me the love, support, and tools that help when you feel scared of the world around you, who would it be?"
I knew exactly who I wanted to talk to: Dr. Thema Bryant.
Dr. Thema Bryant is a scholar, minister, and tenured professor at Pepperdine University. A clinical psychologist who completed her postdoctoral studies at Harvard Medical Center’s Victims of Violence, Dr. Thema Bryant is the current president of the American Psychological Association and has published multiple best-selling books.
Every time I listen to her speak, she radiates so much love, perspective, and soft empowerment to help you face whatever is going on in your life.
I seriously feel my soul exhale whenever she speaks, and that’s why I wanted her to talk to you and me through this difficult time.
Whether you’re watching tragedy play out in the news or things are happening for you globally, nationally, locally, or even in your own living room, this is a conversation that will help you.
You don’t have to be directly impacted by what is going on out there in the world to feel the uneasiness and overwhelm inside you.
Please take 29 minutes and join me and Dr. Thema Bryant for this incredibly powerful message:
Even when things seem so dark, there is still a light inside of you and me, and there are ways in which you can connect with it, no matter what is happening.
This conversation is packed with meaning and simple things to do if you’re feeling overwhelmed or are in the middle of turmoil within your own community, relationships, or family.
Dr. Thema will guide you in navigating your feelings.
She’ll explain to you with reassurance and wisdom how exactly to process what is going on, while still staying connected with yourself.
If you don’t feel like you have a soft or safe place to land or don’t know how to sort through overwhelming feelings, this conversation will feel like a gift.
Thank you for being here for this and for sharing it with everyone you know and love.
Because everyone is in it right now, and we all need some guidance.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at https://melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, award-winning Harvard-educated journalist and researcher Jenny Wallace is here to discuss “toxic achievement” and the toxic pressure that makes you feel that no matter what you do or what level of success you achieve, it will never be enough.
You feel toxic pressure at work, and you feel toxic pressure at home. Jenny Wallace, who just completed a major research study with over 6,000 kids and their parents, is here to tell you this unhealthy pressure is trickling down to your kids, who are buckling under the never-ending demands to measure up.
Whether you are sick of spending every weekend racing from one sporting event or club team practice to another, or you are tired of the never-ending video calls that keep you working day and night, one thing is clear: something has to give.
Your worth is not determined by the things you achieve.
Jenny Wallace is here with the research and the findings that say all this pressure is backfiring because all anyone really wants is to feel like they matter.
According to her research, there are seven changes you can make that will boost your kids’ confidence and resilience and get you off this hamster wheel that is leading nowhere.
If you struggle with work-life balance and feel burned out, the research will empower you to:
I want you to get off the hamster wheel and stop being obsessed with achieving, having, and winning.
You hold the key to helping yourself and others feel like they matter in this world.
It’s time to unlock it.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at https://melrobbins.com/podcast.
In today’s episode, prepare to open your mind to larger possibilities and amazing capabilities that you already have.
I am sitting down with intuitive psychic medium Kim Russo, who is here to share her gift and tell you how you can get in touch with your intuitive gift, too.
I first learned about Kim from Oprah Winfrey and immediately knew I needed to get her on the talk show I hosted. What happened next changed my entire life.
When Kim was just a child, she realized she could see people who’d passed away, and nobody else was seeing them. After years of denying it, she decided to lean into her incredible skill. A skill she says you have too.
If you’ve ever sensed somebody’s with you, you’re right. Kim says we travel with two or three loved ones at all times. Have you ever had that little voice in your head or gut feeling about something? Kim says that your loved ones are trying to guide you.
This episode is remarkable because you are not only going to learn how Kim tapped into her abilities, but you'll also learn how you can tap into yours.
Kim has helped MILLIONS tune into their innate intuition by teaching them to quiet their minds and listen to their inner voice to figure out the next step.
Are you skeptical? I was, too.
Until she gave me a message from my dead father-in-law. It is the reason I sold my Boston home after 26 years and moved to southern Vermont. She changed my life forever.
What Kim will teach you is invaluable; you will learn:
Kim will show you why and how we must open up our minds and hearts to new possibilities and use the guidance of our loved ones to navigate life.
You just have to listen.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
In today’s episode, author and entrepreneur Lorenzo Lewis tells you the amazing story of how he is changing the lives of over 3 million people a year.
His story is so inspiring, and I wanted you to meet Lorenzo because I know he’ll inspire you to think bigger about making a difference in your community or the world at large.
Lorenzo had no funding, influence, or experience. He just had a simple idea and a very big heart. And that’s all you need to make the world a better place.
When Lorenzo was born, the odds were already stacked against him: his mother gave birth to him while she was in jail. His father died in prison. He was raised by his aunt and uncle. As a child, he struggled with anger, anxiety, and depression and was labeled a problem.
You’ll hear about the defining moment when Lorenzo made the decision to turn his life around. He graduated from college and started working in health and human services. That was where, at the age of 24, he had an idea about creating a mental health movement that is now changing millions of lives.
“The Confess Project” was born.
Lorenzo’s nonprofit trains barbers and beauticians to be mental health advocates for the men, women, and children who are sitting in their chairs.
Now 3,000 mental health advocates across the country are changing the lives of over 3 million people a year.
It’s an absolutely incredible story.
Today, you will learn:
I can’t wait for you to meet, learn from, and be inspired by Lorenzo.
His story is proof that it’s never too late to change your own life and that when you see a problem you want to solve, lean into it.
You’ll not only help other people; you’ll surprise yourself with how much of a difference you can make.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at https://melrobbins.com/podcast.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing the “6 magic words” that I say to myself on repeat whenever I start to spiral.
I call them “magic” because they seem to have an almost spell-like effect on me when I say them out loud.
I’ve shared these 6 magic words with millions of people online, and today you’re going to learn what they are and how to use them to your advantage.
If you're a worrier, an overthinker, or struggle with anxiety, you’ll love these 6 words.
You can use them like a tool to stop yourself from worrying, obsessing, catastrophizing, and creating problems in your mind that don’t exist in the present moment.
These 6 words are rooted in behavioral science, psychology, stoicism, and even Buddhism. In fact, I’m going to share a fantastic metaphor to make this even more visual and easy to understand and apply in your life.
You will also learn:
Bottom line: You have the power to quiet anxious thoughts and to stop the endless loop of worries that run through your head.
You just need the 6 magic words I’m about to teach you right now.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
0:44: I’ve got something I want to confess to you.
4:46: What is the ONE thing we all do?
5:13: You are creating worry and stress in your life. This is exactly how to stop.
6:49: How to use my 6-word phrase to interrupt your worries and self-doubt.
9:18: The question you can ask yourself to beat fear with logic.
12:10: A beautiful Buddhist teaching that will empower you to stop torturing yourself.
13:46: Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional. Listen to this.
16:16: Assuming the worst is doing this to your nervous system.
18:39: What would your life be like if you didn’t worry about…anything?
21:38: This is exactly how to break the habit of chronic worry.
24:55: The shocking connection between catastrophizing and your ability to focus.
31:06: Wait until you hear how stressful thoughts cause you real pain.
34:06: How do you start living to your fullest potential once and for all?
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at https://melrobbins.com/podcast.
In today’s episode, we are trying something new, and absolutely anything goes. You’ve been flooding my inbox with questions, problems, sticky situations, and big, big dreams and goals.
So today, because you asked, I am going to show up and deliver the hard truth, the surprising advice, the tricks to get you out of any pickle, and the inspiration that you need to take that next step.
Nothing is off the table. So don’t f***ing blame me when I tell you how it is.
I’ve got a pile of hundreds and thousands of YOUR questions, and I’m giving you the coaching you need.
This might be my favorite episode I ever recorded.
We are going to cover:
Oh, and we will cover my favorite swear word for the season (I can’t write it here, so you’ll have to listen).
You will laugh with me in this episode, and you will also get advice you need to hear.
But don’t blame me if it is TMI—you asked for it!
Xo, Mel
P.S. If any little ones are listening, put those headphones on!
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at https://melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, researcher, respected expert on intermittent fasting, and bestselling author of Fast Like A Girl, Dr. Mindy Pelz, is here to explain fasting—and, in particular, how it impacts women’s hormone health.
Men and women’s hormones are different, and because of that, women MUST fast differently than men.
Dr. Mindy is the first person who explained this to me, and this is why I wanted to have her on.
I had no idea that fasting would screw up my estrogen and progesterone. Why? Because I first learned about fasting from a male.
When I tried intermittent fasting, I wasn’t seeing the health benefits that everyone talks about. Now I know why.
You’ve seen fasting advice trending on TikTok and in health articles; even your friends are talking about it (just like mine), and after this episode you will know exactly what fasting is, why you might want to do it, and what every woman needs to know to get started.
I want you to get the right information from a respected female expert in this field.
Everyone needs to hear this.
This conversation is loaded with research and resources, and as always, extensive show notes are available on melrobbins.com. You can find them for this episode here. (www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-103)
Today, Dr. Mindy Pelz reveals:
We are going to focus on the step-by-step guide for women, what to do, and why this matters, but we do cover fasting protocols and how-to advice that both genders need to know.
I learned so much from Dr. Mindy, and as with all episodes, this is a free resource where you get to learn straight from somebody who has literally written the book on this topic.
I would definitely send this to absolutely anyone that needs to hear it.
Xo, Mel
IMPORTANT: This podcast discusses fasting, and its advice may not be suitable for anyone with an eating disorder. If you have an existing health condition, are pregnant or nursing, or are taking medication, always consult your healthcare practitioner before going for prolonged periods without eating.
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, renowned holistic health expert and intermittent fasting devotee Dr. Mindy Pelz is here to explain the 101 of fasting for better health. You’ll learn the empowering science behind why it works and how it can help you achieve so many health goals.
Dr. Mindy is fascinated by our body’s ability to "heal itself" and how fasting protocols can activate some remarkable results based on extensive research studies.
If you’re tired of diets that leave you feeling like sh*t, health improvements that cost money, or just hate feeling out of control of your body, this is the one zero-cost tool that could have a significant impact on your health.
Dr. Mindy is on a mission to help people understand and harness their healing abilities through fasting. And today, she’s told all the Olympic athletes, Academy Award-winning actors, and Silicon Valley CEOs that she works with to step aside because she’s got an appointment with someone more important: you.
This episode is a guide to 6 recommended and researched fasting protocols. You’ll learn about each one and how they unleash your body’s natural ability to heal itself, reset the gut, and even get rid of damaged cells in the body.
Dr. Mindy breaks it all down with significant research, stories, and shocking statistics.
She’ll teach you:
I can’t wait for you to learn from Dr. Mindy about this free tool that may just be what you’ve been looking for. Get ready to feel empowered.
Xo, Mel
IMPORTANT: This podcast discusses fasting, and its advice may not be suitable for anyone with an eating disorder. If you have an existing health condition, are pregnant or nursing, or are taking medication, always consult your healthcare practitioner before going for prolonged periods without eating.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com/podcast.
Lately, I’ve been getting a ton of questions from listeners about how to best support high schoolers and 20-somethings. There are lots of questions about anxiety, peer pressure, and getting young adults to open up.
So, in this episode, I have a pile of your questions in front of me as my son, Oakley, and I go through them rapid-fire style, so you get both of our perspectives on the topics everyone worries about but is too afraid to talk about.
I have to say, Oakley really showed up for this conversation for you. He has hilarious and heartfelt thoughts on topics he has first-hand experience with.
We cover it all. From academic pressure to body image to bullying, this conversation is full of tools and strategies and is raw, unfiltered, and filled with relatable stories (and only a few f-bombs).
You will learn:
I can’t wait for you to hear this. I loved the questions and the advice. And as a mom, I couldn’t be more proud of Oak for how much wisdom he shared.
I’d love for you to listen with your teens and 20-somethings. In fact, at the end of the episode, Oakley gives specific advice (including exactly what to say) to get your kids to listen.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast resource page at melrobbins.com/podcast.
In today’s episode, I welcome back KC Davis, therapist, and bestselling author.
The episode before this featured her relatable, hilarious, and breakthrough ideas about everything from laundry to loading a dishwasher and giving yourself the freaking break that you deserve.
That episode was so insanely popular, we moved this up in the queue.
The verdict is in.
You love KC Davis. So today she's answering your deeply personal and surprising questions.
In just 50 minutes, KC’s genius hacks and smart approach to everyday tasks will not only help you manage your to-do list, but give you back the time to rest without feeling guilty.
She also reveals the single most helpful item you can bring to someone when they are going through a very difficult time.
You ask the questions and she's giving you the step-by-step plan. She covers so much it’s hard to summarize, but here is my best attempt:
Steal her scripts and her hacks.
You asked for more time with KC Davis, and we delivered.
Thanks for sharing this with all your friends and family that need it.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com.
In today’s episode, best-selling author and therapist KC Davis answers the question, "How can you be successful in many areas of your life but fall short on getting the laundry, dishes, or grocery shopping done?"
Which begs the question: why are all the "little tasks" so hard?!
Because when it’s time to get them done, they don’t "feel" so little.
KC’s advice, breakthrough ideas, and research will make you realize you’re not the only one who feels like you’re drowning.
And her compassionate, hilarious approach and simple tools will help you take better care of your home and yourself immediately.
If you’ve ever said:
Why can’t I get it all done?
Why does everyone else do this without a struggle, and I am FAILING?
I should really have my act together….
All the answers you need are in this episode.
And if you (or someone you love) is having a moment where even taking a shower or brushing your teeth feels like climbing Mount Everest, KC Davis is an angel sent from the heavens to lift you up.
This is one of my favorite conversations of all time. It’s so wide-ranging in topics and deeply relatable, laugh-out-loud funny, poignant, and actionable.
Talking to KC is like having an old friend show up at your house with a mug of tea, a mop, and a casserole you can stick in the fridge.
There are so many life-changing realizations that will restore your sanity—and the functionality of your home—that this is only Part One of your time with KC and me.
Today’s episode will change your entire life. You will learn:
My mission today is to prove to you that if you don’t have your sh*t together, you aren’t broken. You’re just like the rest of us – you’re human.
Get ready to laugh and learn as I confess the details of what a disaster I am at home, as we go step-by-step with instructions and affirmations for an empowering and gentle journey to a functioning space.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com.
You need to hear today’s episode.
I have something profound to share with you. It is a deeply personal message, straight from my heart to yours.
This is not a pep talk. It’s not a motivational speech. This is a goddamn wake-up call.
Your life is like a melting ice cube.
Your excuses are endless, but time isn’t.
Stop waiting for the perfect time.
Stop waiting to feel ready.
While you’ve been full of excuses, waiting for someday to come, time has been passing you by.
So, if you’re sick of standing still or talking yourself out of the changes you want to make and the goals you dream of achieving, this one's for you.
My mission is to make today the someday you’ve been waiting for.
This is the coaching you need.
And you need to hear it right now.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com.
In today’s episode, you and I are discussing the fascinating science of secrets: why you keep them and how keeping secrets directly impacts your relationships, your self-esteem, your health, and holds you back from living the life you deserve.
Dr. Michael Slepian is a bestselling author, psychologist, associate professor of leadership and ethics at Columbia Business School, and former scholar at Stanford. He has been researching secrets for over a decade and will help you understand what secrets are, why we keep them, and the harm of holding them inside.
Dr. Slepian's research is shocking: studies prove you are keeping 13 secrets right now. 5 of which you’ve never told a single person. Not your mom. Not your best friend. No one. Even more shocking is the impact they have on your life.
My mission today is to help you free yourself of the burden of secrets.
Listen and you’ll understand how the secrets we have shape our physical and psychological well-being, who we are, how we connect with others, and how we cope with our challenges.
You will also learn:
Keeping a secret is the easy part; the hard part is having to live with it.
Let’s change that today.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at melrobbins.com.
In this episode, you will meet Judie, a total badass who has it all figured out, from killer biceps to fulfilling friendships to staying mentally sharp, spunky, and sexy. She’s got it all together.
Who is Judie? She’s my 85-year-old mother-in-law.
You don’t need a library full of books filled with the science of staying young forever. Today you are getting the cliff notes for living a long, happy, healthy, fulfilling, and purposeful life.
She will teach you:
Today Judie is sharing her 7 secrets to longevity and coaching you on how to get the life you deserve. She spills her no-BS secrets on how to take care of your mind, body, and relationships.
Backed by research and 80 years of experience, her love of life and ability to embrace moments of joy and give back are what make her such an inspiration.
I am so excited to introduce this wonderful person to you. I want you to take a page out of her playbook.
You’re never too young or too old to start living life the way you want.
And it is NEVER too late to be the badass you were meant to be.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
In today’s episode, the incredible Patrick McKeown, international bestselling author of ten books on breathing and founder and CEO of The Oxygen Advantage, a world-leading breathwork training program, breaks down all things breathing.
This is not a lecture; it is a masterclass. His decades of research will blow you away, so let’s slow down and learn from the best in class.
You need this, and I need this. Why? Because you and I have been breathing all wrong.
Today Patrick is revealing the 5 ways breathing through your mouth hurts your health and leaves you feeling more anxious and stressed.
You and I are getting coached by the world's leading expert on functional breathing for better health, more focus, less pain, better sleep, and, honestly, a better you.
This is information that should be shouted from the rooftops. AND taught to parents, teachers, and health professionals everywhere.
These steps are so simple, and yet they’re incredibly impactful on ALL parts of your life: your work, your ability to play and have fun, and your relationships.
Best of all, this advice is ZERO-cost to you.
You will learn:
The science proves that the quality of your breath determines the quality of your life.
So let’s dive in.
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
In today’s episode, you are getting a relatable and hilarious guide to navigating major transitions like a pro.
Join me in a real and raw conversation with my friends and colleagues, Amy and Lynne, as we unpack the major mistakes and 6 lessons learned from "horrible" college drop-off experiences (both our own and the ones we had with our kids) and the fear that comes with any major transition in your life.
Whether you’ve got kids or not, these 6 lessons apply to you. Everyone is going through some kind of transition right now: back to school, back to work, and dropping out of college. It’s a time of saying goodbye, of saying hello to new chapters, and of helping people move into new dorms and apartments and transition to new jobs or a new grade.
That means it is the perfect time to learn the 6 lessons I learned (the hard way) about managing big life transitions without losing your sh*t.
Listen and Learn:
Xo, Mel
In this episode:
In this episode, you and I are dismantling one of the most crippling forms of self-doubt.
"Imposter Syndrome" is when you think you’re not good enough and that everyone else is smarter, more successful, and has more to contribute than you do. Everyone feels it. It’s so common that the Harvard Business Review found that even 70% of the world’s top executives have struggled with it.
My mission today is to convince you that Imposter Syndrome is actually a GOOD thing. And I’ll use an example from my own life to prove my case.
Come backstage with me to a huge music festival, where my daughter Kendall, an aspiring singer-songwriter, comes face-to-face with the famous musicians who inspired her career.
Cue the panic.
Self-doubt almost made her bail on what turned out to be a life-changing weekend in her career.
She turned it around (you’ll hear how) and, as a result, was invited impromptu to perform twice with Grammy-winning musicians!
Listen and learn how to be more courageous and confident in those moments that really matter. I can’t wait for you to hear:
It’s time to hit delete on your self-doubt forever.
This one is so good and so relatable that you’ll be yelling, Encore!
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
A few days ago, I was the witness to a very tragic accident, and the experience affected me very deeply.
I reached out to a renowned trauma specialist, and the advice she gave me changed my life.
In this episode, you will hear that incredible advice because she allowed me to record it.
Dr. MaryCatherine McDonald, PhD, a best-selling author and professor, reveals the 5 essential things you need to know about trauma so you can finally move forward with your life.
Listen, and I will help you pick up the remote control for your brain and turn OFF the trauma loop.
What’s the trauma loop? You may be in it and not know it: if you get triggered and have no idea why (and this expert says we almost never know why), have flashbacks playing in your head over and over again, the trauma loop is at play.
With the help of our expert, Dr. MaryCatherine, you and I unpack (in real time) the accident I witnessed and how it affected me.
With compassion and clarity, she explains what trauma really is and how to heal from it. You will learn and benefit from her decades of research and clinical experience. And she’ll help you understand what steps you need to take so that your brain does not store an experience as "trauma".
Dr. McDonald is one of the few experts who explains trauma and how to heal it in a way that is easy to understand, and her 5 truths will change the way you relate to yourself forever.
The strategies and science in this episode will help you:
This episode could change your life. And it is absolutely one you want to share with anyone who could benefit from Dr. MaryCatherine’s expertise.
And I want to be upfront with you: yes, today’s episode is powerful, and it’s also a serious topic. If this isn’t the right time for you to listen, I understand completely. Just bookmark it so you can come back to it later.
I’m not going anywhere.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
01:44: The very scary moment that left me feeling traumatized.
06:19: Full panic hit me at this exact moment.
11:26: What narrative psychology is and why it’s proven to work.
14:10: Understand the ‘trauma loop’ so you can identify when you are stuck.
17:41: How your brain processes a normal event or memory.
19:38: How your brain processes a traumatic event.
23:08: Uncover why you have flashbacks, looped thoughts, and triggers.
27:32: How EMDR can integrate traumatic memories properly.
30:29: Why do you and your siblings have different memories of the same events.
37:28: Why feeling shame around a trauma response is normal.
41:52: Three ways to calm your nervous system and be present with your emotions.
44:26: The biggest myth about triggers that even psychologists get wrong.
In this episode, you’re getting a crash course in 13 essential hacks that will help you be more successful, and they’re backed by surprising research out of Princeton.
Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of the behavior lab The Science of People, a behavioral investigator, body language expert, and bestselling author who specializes in the kind of science-based people skills most of us never hear about.
Vanessa’s research proves that anyone can learn these practical skills, earn the trust of others around them, and become more confident, competent, and reliable.
News flash: You don’t have to be an extrovert to be successful.
Whether you want to be a better leader, land your dream job, achieve big goals, or align your life with what you want, this is the episode for you.
Listen, and you'll learn:
This is an encore episode that is packed with tools, tips, and scripts to boost your chances of success. With new and exciting insights from me at the top of the episode, you will leave feeling more confident for your next interview, first date, or wherever you are upleveling in your life.
You owe it to yourself to learn how to cultivate unstoppable confidence and influence, and you can do that in just a few minutes.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
2:23: The shocking research from Princeton about how people size you up.
4:50: What exactly IS charisma and what does it look like?
6:58: Why high achievers can’t just rely on their intelligence.
8:15: Two types of awkward people and how to tell.
14:14: Are you highly competent? Look for these three signs.
16:42: What highly competent people are missing.
21:27: What highly warm people are missing.
23:58: The ONE thing you need to do in the first 10 seconds of your Zoom call.
28:06: A simple test that will help you figure out how charismatic you are.
32:10: The reason why you keep getting passed over for that promotion.
40:08: Why you should never fake a smile.
46:02: Three ways you can start building your charisma today.
47:42: Why a second impression is as important as the first.
51:07: Five silent cues to command respect in any situation.
In this episode, world-renowned brain specialist Dr. Daniel Amen reveals the secrets to a happier life, and it all starts with... (surprise!) your brain.
Dr. Daniel Amen is a medical doctor with 40 years of experience as a psychiatrist, 12 New York Times bestselling books, and he’s conducted over 200,000 brain scans, all of which back up the simple, proven tactics he’s about to share with you.
Dr. Amen shares the 3 most important habits you can start today to make your brain work better for you, based on decades of research.
Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, addiction, or stress, the information in this episode will forever change the way you think about your brain.
No boring and complicated science here.
Learn simple, practical changes to improve your brain, like:
This is your zero-cost guide to better brain health!
This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from me at the top of the episode. You keep asking about how to improve your mental health, and it starts with improving your brain health.
In under an hour, you’ll learn everything you need to be sharper, smarter, and more successful—by maximizing the power of your brain!
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
0:52: Today, you have an appointment with one of the world’s leading experts on brain health.
05:28: The craziest brain scan Dr. Amen has ever seen
07:17: Brain health 101: What you need to know about your brain today
09:34: The simplest habit you can incorporate today to protect your brain
10:53: The first thing you need to say every morning to keep your brain strong
13:01: The 2 most important vitamins to take daily
16:38: What do having a glass of wine and falling in love have in common?
20:52: 3 easy ways to know if you have low dopamine levels
29:02: The breathing technique Dr. Amen recommends for an anxious mind
33:02: 2 proven ways to calm a very busy brain
37:40: Whenever you get a negative thought, ask yourself this one question
39:04: If you feel tired all the time, it’s time to look inward.
42:47: How to improve your memory: it starts in your kitchen
46:10: The greatest piece of advice on brain health you need to leave with
In this episode, you’ll get 5 effective strategies to help you improve your family dynamics, resolve almost any conflict like a pro, and create a better bond.
Spending time with family is awesome, but it can also be challenging because, as much as you wish everyone could get along, different personalities and opinions don’t always mix well together.
When family drama starts, don’t allow yourself to get sucked into it. You can learn how to dial down the drama and build trust and connection.
Today I invite you to sit on the couch next to me and my family here in Vermont as our three adult kids discuss all the ways Chris and I have screwed up as parents and the things we did that built trust and brought us closer.
I can’t wait for you to hear the truth bombs our kids are dropping. They’re shockingly insightful and will change your relationships for the better.
Listen, and you’ll learn:
(and your kids)
Share this episode with your family, and consider listening to it WITH your kids. It’ll definitely spark an interesting conversation because we get real and raw, and hold nothing back.
If you’re looking to get closer to someone you love, this episode is exactly where you should start.
I can’t wait to hear what you think!
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, a renowned Oxford-trained neuroscientist teaches you the most incredibly simple, science-backed hack that will change every single part of your life in just 10 minutes.
Professor Shane O’Mara, academic writer, author, and Experimental Brain Researcher at Trinity College in Dublin, walks us through the mind-blowing research behind, of all things, walking.
You’ll be shocked to learn how the right kind of walking can lower depression and anxiety without medication.
Professor O’Mara explains 3 different types of walking: one way will boost your creativity, another will make you more productive, and a third way will make you a rockstar problem solver.
You’ll also learn about the incredible cognitive, mechanical, and physiological chain reaction that happens in your brain and body during a simple walk.
The research and neuroscience will empower you to use walking to help you:
If you’re short on time, bullshit. Put your earbuds in and get outside.
Are you ready? Hit play, and let’s walk.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
05:29: Want a younger brain? Start moving.
09:48: You won’t believe these benefits of a 10-minute walk.
11:29: Is your environment working against you?
16:28: Here’s how walking is just as good, if not better, than your antidepressant.
17:20: This is what happens when you get outside and into nature.
20:50: What the heck is a “walking mind”?
23:54: Walking makes you more creative if you do this.
31:34: Turn up your energy while you walk using this incredible metaphor.
32:56: The shocking study that explains how walking changes your personality.
36:07: Don’t have enough time for a walk? I call BS. Here’s why.
39:00: Professor O’Mara suggests your walking routine should look like this.
42:32: 5 easy ways to get in more steps every day.
47:03: This is why you want to make it a habit to walk at night.
52:06: Feel like you don’t belong? Here’s how walking can help.
In this episode, double-board certified Dr. Amy Shah is here to explain the science of hormones, how they impact a woman's body, and more importantly, what you can do about it.
If you’re tired of PMS, bloating, mood swings, hot flashes, the belly "bread basket," or the brain fog of menopause... grab your pen and get ready to take notes.
Dr. Amy, a medical doctor trained at Harvard, Cornell, and Columbia, is an immunologist and leading expert in women’s hormonal health and nutrition.
She is here to explain it all in a way that you can understand and apply to your life.
Today, Dr. Amy Shah reveals:
I can’t wait for you to learn from Dr. Amy. You are going to feel so empowered!
And please share this with all the women you care about in your life: your mothers, sisters, daughters, wives, and girlfriends, because we all deserve to know what the heck is going on and how to feel better in our bodies.
Xo, Mel
PS: For all of our readers who are men, do NOT stop reading. You have to live with us, so this will help you too. (And will make you wonderful when you forward it to all the women in your life). Plus this research and advice on hacking hormones is just downright fascinating!
In this episode, you’ll learn:
02:27: Why the hell do I always feel so tired?
04:52: What happens in our bodies during PMS and menopause?
09:10: Best metaphor to help you understand what’s going on in your body.
11:37: How to optimize your health in every phase of hormone change.
15:02: When in your cycle you should train and eat like an athlete.
17:03: What is really happening with your hormones during pregnancy?
21:09: Where the heck did this muffin top come from?
27:32: The top 5 health questions for Dr. Shah and her answers.
30:02: Did you know that PMS is a mini-menopause?
34:06: Why sleeping in a cold, dark room will help you lose weight.
38:42: Top 3 tricks that regulate your cravings.
40:01: Why anxiety increases during PMS.
46:48: What you need to know about hormone replacement therapy.
56:12: Power nap or meditate at THIS time for best results.
59:01: Why it’s way past time we start talking about women’s health.
In this episode, renowned researcher, bestselling author, and total badass Ritu Bhasin will help you step into your power.
Her work proves that a better life begins when you stop trying to fit in and start showing up as your authentic self.
Does this sound like you?
Before you waste another day of your life pretending to be someone you're not, listen to this life-changing episode.
You deserve better.
This episode will teach you how to make the rules and be who you want to be.
Ritu and I will teach you how to claim your confidence and live a bolder, badass life in 4 simple steps.
Game ON.
This is your time. Take it.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, Harvard professor Dr. Luana Marques is going to teach you 3 simple steps to turn anxiety into power. And she’s not fooling around; in the first few minutes, she even called me out.
If you want to be more successful and effective in getting what you want out of your life or career, learning how to master your emotions, especially in difficult situations, is an essential skill.
And Dr. Luana is a sought-after expert who will teach you how.
If major life changes crush you with overwhelm and anxiety, this is for you.
If stress and frustration are holding you back at work, you need her 3-step method.
If your palms start to sweat just thinking about…
Not anymore.
Dr. Luana Marques is a popular Harvard professor here to teach you that change is not only a necessary part of life but an incredibly powerful part of creating the life you want.
And even cooler, she is going through a MAJOR career change right now (and using her 3-step process to do it).
Today you’ll learn to:
And you’ll get a practical and simple 3-step framework to master any transition in your life.
Grab your notebook, your pencil, and hit play.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Today on the podcast, you and I are having a deeply personal and eye-opening conversation about alcohol and your relationship to it.
Rachel Hart is a best-selling author and master coach who has helped thousands of people re-examine their relationship with alcohol, and that’s exactly what she is going to help you do today.
Rachel knows the surprising reason you (and I) crave a drink (or have the urge to shop, vape, play video games, scroll on social media, or want something sweet).
She’ll also explain that weird cycle of emotions you experience after drinking.
Did I drink too much last night? Did I do anything I regret? Should I stop drinking altogether? Should I detox this week before the wedding next weekend? How do I drink less? Maybe it’s time I stopped altogether.
You’ll learn that this agitation and conflict about alcohol are normal. The question is, how do you change it?
Rachel says it’s by examining the desires underneath the urge.
Today, Rachel will help you unpack urges and desires and teach you why boundaries go right out the window when you feel an urge.
Today you’ll learn:
Not sure if you have a problem with alcohol? Worried about someone else who does? You're not ready to quit alcohol all together, but you wish you’d not reach for the glass of wine most nights. Wonder if maybe you should stop?
Perfect. Listen in.
You can change your relationship with alcohol.
After this episode, you’ll know how.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, you’re going to learn that it is never too late to try to repair a broken or difficult relationship.
Research shows that estrangement is not only on the rise but that the majority of us have at least one extended family member or friend who is estranged.
I know this is true in my own extended family, and I also have friends who are estranged from their parents.
Whether you’re the person who’s cut off contact or you're the one wondering why someone you love did, our episode today will give you the language, tools, and context to start moving toward understanding and healing.
Dr. Joshua Coleman is a psychologist and best-selling author who works with families to repair broken bonds and help them reconcile and improve difficult or estranged relationships.
In fact, according to Dr. Coleman, the strategies he shares work, and the statistics are in your favor.
I hope you share this with anyone you know dealing with a difficult relationship. It is very common, especially after a divorce and when there is a new spouse or significant other.
When someone you love suddenly pulls away or cuts you out of their life, you need a playbook to help you know when to reach out and when not to reach out, and what exactly to say and not say.
Today you’ll learn:
The pain of separation is real, but it doesn’t have to be forever.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, I show you how to find your people, have more fun, and create meaningful friendships as an adult in a very simple way.
And it starts with your morning coffee.
Plus, I’m sharing 4 opening lines and tactics you can use when approaching a potential new friend.
Can we just be honest? Making new friends as an adult is so hard. And I believe that we are all struggling with it.
So I’m going to share the strategies that I have used in the last year to go from moving to a new town and feeling like I have "no friends" to taking the steps to create an awesome new circle of adult friends.
Today you’ll learn:
What I’m sharing today works because this is how I found my people in the last 12 months.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, you are going to learn why you struggle in certain relationships and how to let more love in.
Whether you struggle in your friendships or your romantic relationships, or you don’t feel connected to your family or the community where you live, today's conversation will give you the insight and tools that you need to create better and more loving relationships everywhere.
Dr. Marisa Franco is a NYT bestselling author, award-winning therapist, and professor of psychology at The University of Maryland. She dedicated her professional practice to the study of connections and systemic loneliness.
What will really catch your attention is her research on attachment styles and what they look like in real time, which has been an incredible game changer for me and my personal relationships, particularly with my husband.
Attachment style theory goes way beyond "love languages," and once you know yours, you’ll be less triggered by others around you.
Understand the attachment styles of others, and you’ll take things less personally.
In today’s episode, you’re getting a complete guide to:
After listening to this episode, you’ll see the people in your life through an entirely new lens and with an abundance of compassion.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In today’s episode, you will learn the 5 things that men secretly struggle with and how you can open up the conversation to better support them.
I’m proud to introduce you to my husband, Chris, who is the founder of a men's retreat, Soul Degree. He has been leading these retreats for the past 6 years and has worked with everyone from veterans, executives, and first responders to college students.
Chris has incredible insight into the secrets that men keep and the struggles they’re facing alone.
Hearing Chris unpack these challenges is very compelling. He not only shares insights from leading retreats for 6 years but also from his coaching practice and his work as a death doula.
Many of the struggles that he witnesses in other men are the exact same struggles that he has worked through as well.
This is an episode every man, boy, or anyone who identifies as male needs to hear, and so do the people that love them.
It’s not just we women who struggle with self-love; everyone struggles with loving themselves.
If you don’t know what’s going on with the men in your life, let me talk to them and let them know it’s okay.
That’s why I am teaching you how to start loving yourself with a simple habit that you can add to your routine.
Today you’ll learn:
Love is not something you feel; it’s something you must demonstrate.
Xo, Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, you’re going to learn the 4 happiness habits that, based on research, are scientifically proven to make you happier in 21 days.
Happiness is not only possible; it is an option for you.
Our guest today is one of the most respected happiness researchers in the world. Shawn Achor is the author of 4 New York Times bestsellers and has created the largest happiness training program in the world. He is here to prove to you that happiness is not only possible but also an option for you.
This conversation is packed with practical and proven tools that you can put to work in your life immediately. We will also dig deep into the research that supports everything that you are about to learn.
Shawn goes deeper than he has ever gone in an interview, discussing his struggle with depression and how these 4 habits have helped him climb out of it.
Get out your notebook because we are drilling into decades of psychological research that will ladder up to more meaning in your life.
Today you’ll learn:
Happiness is not an emotion; it is a framework, and that framework is getting built today!
Xo Mel
In this episode you’ll learn:
In this episode, you are going to learn the art of having more fun.
I share a hilarious story about a major wardrobe malfunction with you and two podcast crew members.
You’ll laugh along at all the ridiculous details, but the takeaway is serious:
Learning how to laugh at yourself is a superpower, and research says people who have a sense of humor are more respected and are viewed as more confident and intelligent by their peers.
Today you’ll learn:
Seriously? You need to laugh more. Let’s start today.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why do you always crave dessert after dinner? Or a snack mid-afternoon?
Today we’re digging into the science of cravings:
-Why you have them
-How to tell the difference between a craving and actual hunger
-How to eat your way to better health and a happier life.
Dr. Amy Shah is a double-board certified medical doctor with training from Cornell, Harvard, and Columbia Universities and an expert on intermittent fasting, hormones, and food cravings.
And today, I got you and me an appointment with her for free! Let’s friggin’ goooo!
If you want to understand your body and how to make your metabolism work for you, Dr. Amy has the research and the tools to help you kick your cravings to the curb once and for all.
In today’s episode, you will learn:
*when to drink coffee in the morning so you stay energized all day
*how cravings relate to dopamine and how to curb them so they never come back
*why your sugar cravings are so strong and how to stop them
*the truth about probiotics and which ones your body needs right now
*what ghrelin and leptin are and why they are the secrets to a healthy metabolism
*the shocking research that compares antidepressants to food and exercise
*how to stop overeating
Our bodies are complicated, but your health doesn’t have to be. Let Dr. Amy empower you to live a more vibrant, fulfilled, and energized life.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
More and more adults are being diagnosed with ADHD, so today, we are unpacking the 6 surprising signs of ADHD. I also tell you why so many women, in particular, go undiagnosed.
This episode is deeply personal, but my story is shared by so many women.
I lived my entire life with symptoms of ADHD and crushing anxiety because of it. But I was never diagnosed until the age of 47—and I found out by fluke!
So in this episode, I go deep into what ADHD is: a neurological disorder that affects the brain structurally and chemically. I explain the signs and the science behind what is going on in your brain to help you live a better life.
If you ever wondered if you have ADHD, if you feel like menopause is making it worse, or if you struggle with anxiety, an eating disorder, or low self-esteem, you have to listen. All these might be symptoms of ADHD.
This episode goes way beyond an inability to focus, because ADHD is so much more. This is an education in how your brain works, how focus works, and how to help yourself or someone in your life who may have ADHD.
I’ve been wanting to record this episode for MONTHS, but I didn’t want to do it until I had first-class resources for you. Because every time I talk about my ADHD story, we get an avalanche of questions from listeners.
I have regrets about that lost time when I did not know I had ADHD, and I don’t want you to have them, too.
Today you’ll learn:
*why women have been profoundly underdiagnosed
*four key differences between genders with ADHD
*why my diagnosis was both a blessing and a curse
*the surprising way most women find out
*six symptoms of ADHD that most people don’t catch
*the connection between anxiety and depression and ADHD
*resources and hacks to help you take charge over your symptoms
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
According to Harvard professor Dr. Luana Marques, there is one sneaky habit that holds every single person back – and no one knows what it is.
When she reveals the habit that holds you back, your first reaction will be to stop and think.
And as you listen to her explain it and give you examples, you’ll be shocked that you’ve never before seen it in yourself or heard anyone else point it out to you… until now.
You’re not the only one.
I didn’t know about this habit until I was introduced to Dr. Marques’ work.
What you learn today will change how you think about success, influence, mindset, and even anxiety and procrastination.
This sneaky habit has been holding you back and you didn’t even realize how pervasive it is in your life.
It’s not self-doubt. It’s not fear. It’s something even deeper.
I want you to listen, because she’s the world’s leading expert on the topic, and this is one of those episodes that will make you never look at life the same again.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Today we are digging into the research on gratitude. Gratitude is a critical life skill, yet most of us are practicing it wrong.
That’s right.
According to the research, there are 4 essential elements of genuine gratitude. Without all 4, you can’t unlock the powerful physiological, neurological, and psychological benefits of genuine gratitude.
For example, if you’re just thinking about what you’re grateful for or writing a list before you go to bed, you’re probably not getting the full impact of its power.
Once you know the 4 steps, you can use genuine gratitude to actively rewire your brain!
Next, we’ll discuss the “Toxic Gratitude Theory” and the 6 ways you probably use gratitude in a backhanded or manipulative way – and don’t even know it!
I’m guilty of all 6 types of toxic gratitude (ouch) and now that I see it, I can stop doing it.
So today, let’s learn how to unlock gratitude and all its profound power. You’ll also learn…
And because I’m so genuinely grateful for you, I have started rolling out a fun bonus with each episode, Mel Robbins Podcast Bloopers, so listen all the way through for a good laugh!
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
If you’ve ever dreamt of doing something big, today's episode will get your head spinning, open your heart, and inspire you to take the leap.
It doesn’t matter how young or how old you are.
You are meant to go big, to swing for the fence, and to do something no one has ever done before.
No more small plans. You have something big to do.
And there’s no better person to inspire you to make big plans than my friend and IT Cosmetics Founder, Jamie Kern Lima.
Jamie went from serving up stacks of pancakes at Denny’s to creating a product that would help millions of women around the world feel confident in their own skin.
Today you’ll hear the story of how she transformed the beauty industry, created the most successful product launch in QVC history, and ultimately sold IT Cosmetics to L’Oreal for 1.2 billion dollars (becoming the first female CEO at L’Oreal in their history).
If you think Jamie had it easy on the way there, you’d be wrong. And you won’t have an easy time either, but so what?
Her story is a rollercoaster of rejection and disappointment, fear, self-doubt, and near bankruptcy.
But when you’ve got big plans, you just keep going. Jamie never lost faith, and today she is teaching you how to never give up on your big plans either.
In today’s episode, you will learn
Wow. Just wow.
If you don’t know what to get the graduates in your life, send this episode because it’s a real gift.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
This is a message for every new graduate.
Whether you’re graduating from college or graduating from a chapter in your life, you need this message today. Your dreams matter, and what happens next is in your hands.
You have a flame inside you that represents the way you were meant to show up in this world.
Today I’m teaching you how to throw gasoline on that flame.
No matter what you're going through in life, your dreams are alive and well, and they are waiting for you to wake up and turn toward them.
If you’re not ready for some Mel Robbins inspirational firepower, bookmark this for another day. Because I’m not f’ing around today.
Whether you’re ready to make your mark on the world...
Or you’re tired of your excuses...
Or if you're like Barbara, who you'll meet in this episode, and you've given up on your dreams because they haven’t materialized yet…
This may be the most important 50 minutes of your life.
I’m going to show you
-the three ways you shut down your dreams
-why jealousy is actually a good thing
-the one question to ask in the morning that will impact the entire rest of your day
And if you don’t even remember what it’s like to dream, I’ve got you.
This episode includes a free download of an incredibly powerful, science-backed tool that will help you start dreaming again.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Welcome to an exciting new masterclass on designing the life of your dreams.
First, you’ll learn the process for identifying your own North Star, why this is important at the beginning of creating your new life, and how to use your North Star to guide you in the process of designing your life.
Next, you’ll dive deep into the 3-part framework: Emulate, Assimilate, and Innovate.
This framework is the backbone of the University of Southern California’s world-renowned Popular Music major taught at their Thornton School of Music.
It’s the creative process artists use to create songs, movies, and video games. The framework has helped launch Grammy-winning artists and touring musicians for the past decade.
I just learned about it a week ago and was so blown away that I had to share it with you.
When an artist creates a song, they begin with a blank piece of paper.
When you design your life, you are an artist with a blank canvas.
Today, you’re invited to tap into the artist within and learn how to find your North Star and use the creative process to bring your vision for your future to life.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
I shared the "Let Them Theory" on social media, and it went CRAZY VIRAL. 15 million views, 11,000 comments. Today, it’s your turn to learn this mindset trick.
I’ve been using this technique for a while, so I know firsthand how powerful it is.
The "Let Them Theory" is so simple, you’re going to get it immediately.
And I have some great stories and examples to share with you, because there are three very different ways you can use it.
I can bottom line this in one sentence:
When you "Let Them" do whatever it is that they want to do, it creates more control and emotional peace for you and a better relationship with the people in your life.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
If you feel that something’s missing from your life but have no idea exactly what’s missing or where to begin looking for it, today’s episode will help you reconnect with your power and find greater meaning in your life.
Dr. Thema Bryant is the current president of the American Psychological Association. She trained at both Duke and Harvard, published multiple best-selling books, and has dedicated decades of her life to researching how we connect with each other by first connecting back to ourselves.
Her work has been so profound for me personally that, right off the bat in this conversation, I get emotional.
Dr. Thema is a national treasure. Her presence and her voice will put you at ease. And she has the unique gift of weaving together psychological strategies for healing with the deeper spiritual cornerstones of faith and trusting in "that which cannot be explained."
In this episode, you’ll learn:
-6 signs that you are disconnected from yourself
-what it means to be "psychologically wandering"
-how to handle people in your life who are chronically irritable and angry
-the surprising signs of "irritable depression"
-the three words to say to yourself before you can begin healing
-why self-care is critical if you are in a toxic workplace (you are more than your labor)
-why you need to stop talking about your significant other and your boss in therapy.
-where to find therapy when you can’t afford it.
You are so much more than a highway for other people to get where they’re going. With Dr. Thema’s wisdom and tactics, you’ll reconnect with yourself and take the wheel on your own incredible journey in life.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Imagine how liberating it would be to not care about what other people think of you. You’d take more risks. You’d stop holding yourself back. You’d make more money and have more fun.
That’s what happened to me when I learned the (not-so-subtle) art of not giving a sh*t.
This is the best episode I've done so far.
I mean it. The best.
It’s hilarious. It’s relatable. It’s packed with takeaways and research. It’s entertaining and personal, and yet I still manage to empower you with 4 simple ways to stop caring about what other people think.
Want to know what life looks like when you don’t care?
I’ll go first.
You’ll hear some outrageous, not-safe-for-work stories about your friend, Mel.
And as you’re laughing at me, I’ll be laughing at me, too. One of the benefits of not caring about what other people think is that you don’t take yourself too seriously.
Why? Because you have much more important things to care about.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
I am thrilled to share this conversation with you. It is packed with practical strategies that will help the people in your life who may be struggling.
Dr. Lisa Damour is a clinical psychologist and author of three New York Times bestsellers. She earned degrees from both Yale and the University of Michigan and has more than 30 years of experience working with teens and families.
Her latest book, The Emotional Lives of Teenagers, has been nothing short of life changing.
Today you will learn…
-five words you need to know when someone you love is struggling
-the signs that tell you when someone is “costly coping”
-what to say that will prevent a conversation from turning into a battle
-why your kids dump all their emotional garbage on you
-when it’s time for a therapist
-why struggles are signs of being “mentally WELL”!
I started using Dr. Lisa’s strategies with my family the moment we finished recording this episode. They work!
You will leave this episode full of the resources you deserve. Plus, you’re going to love Dr. Damour (and how hopeful she makes you feel) as much as I do.
Xo Mel
And if you need to take the reins in your own life, sign up for my free Take Control mini-course to get inspiring support, guidance, and motivation.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
You know what you want and how to start.
But you never make progress.
Here’s my wake up call for you today:
What’s holding you back is never what you think.
Today I am coaching a woman who says:
I can’t make myself do what I need to do. I feel like I’m in quicksand. Every time I try to move…I sink.
She has:
-put on an extra 30 pounds
-left her relationship with herself in the gutter
-no longer does the things that make her happy
-broken promises to herself time and again
I bet you can relate.
This is a must-listen if you want to:
be healthier…
go back to school..
find your dream home…
make new friends…
go for that promotion…
write a book…
land your dream job…
But you just can’t make yourself take the actions you need to take.
Stop frustrating yourself by trying to solve the wrong problem.
Your dreams matter.
Today you’re learning where to find the right solution.
Pull up a seat for a conversation with a listener like you as we uncover what’s really holding her back.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, you’re going to learn how to decode body language from one of the world’s leading experts on the topic.
Janine Driver has been trained by the FBI, CIA, and one of the world’s top hostage negotiators.
When a criminal case grabs our attention, every news network calls Janine to analyze body language and critical verbal cues that suspects, politicians, and celebrities are sending so we can tell when somebody is lying.
If you love True Crime, you’re going to love this episode, because it’s a masterclass from an expert who’s spent over three decades decoding body language for law enforcement agencies around the country.
She will teach you which hand gestures indicate that somebody may be lying, why you should grab your chin during a high-level meeting, why you should never shrug your shoulders if you want to be convincing, and the million-dollar question that you should ask at the end of every single interview.
If you’re dating, you’ll learn all kinds of incredible tactics, like why you should never sit directly across from someone on a first date.
This is an incredibly interesting, entertaining, and surprising take on how to build confidence and be smarter about the subconscious signals that other people are sending you all day long.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Last week, I learned a really cool trick to help you go with your gut.
I guarantee you’ve never heard gut decisions explained this way before. Because I stumbled upon it in a very random way—while touring colleges with our son Oakley!
We hit 5 schools in 4 days, and over the course of that time, it hit me. Holy smokes, that's the perfect hack for making big decisions.
You can use it anytime you feel torn, uncertain, or scared about how people might feel.
What you’re about to learn is so helpful and memorable, you’ll turn to it over and over again.
This is one of my favorite kinds of episodes, because I’m going to put you right at the scene—the moment I had the epiphany. I’ll give you all the hilarious details, and there’s even a part of the story where, I am embarrassed to say, I acted pretty cringe-worthy.
And that’s not all; as I was taping this episode, two friends chimed in with stories of their own.
So I asked them to jump on the mic and share them with you. Two stories about a moment in their lives that’s so relatable—when they ALMOST didn’t go with their gut and looking back, they’re thankful they did.
Because going with your gut always changes the trajectory of your life. It just does.
That’s why I don’t like the term "trust" your gut.
It’s not about trust. You KNOW your gut is right. You’re just scared to go with it.
So join me, Oakley, and two of my friends. I’m taking you on an entertaining and profound tour today.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Oh…sometimes life is a real doozy.
You make all these plans, and boom. You step right into a pile of you-know-what. And then you realize that pile was there all along—you just missed it.
Which brings us to the topic of today’s episode: making hard decisions and moving on from hard relationships.
How do you move forward when…
You feel so torn about what to do.
You don’t trust yourself.
You’re scared to make the wrong decision.
What’s best for you will impact the people you love.
How do you decide your next big move when everything you worked for evaporates before your eyes?
How do you stop thinking about your ex, especially when you might bump into them at any moment?
I’ll tell you how.
Pull up a seat and join me because you are going to love the listener, Katrina, who I’m coaching today. Her question was, "Should I stay or should I go?"
By the end of this episode, you’ll not only have the answer to whatever question YOU are grappling with, but you'll also have so many decision-making tools in your back pocket that you’re going to need more pockets.
Today, you’re getting strategies to help you
The biggest takeaway? Knowing the difference between what’s right for you and the fear that’s keeping you from it
When something is right, even if it’s scary as hell to go for it, you’ll only ever regret not having tried.
Xo Mel
PS - If you’re looking to ditch your insecurities for a powerful way to launch forward on your dreams, I’ve got just the thing for you. Sign up for my FREE Take Control mini course here.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
At some point, the you-know-what is going to hit the fan.
And it happened to me the other morning when I was driving my husband to his colonoscopy.
This is the first episode without a video version because I recorded it from my iPhone after dropping my husband off at the hospital.
I promised to take you into my life; I just didn't expect it to be as a stressful situation was unfolding in real time.
When it comes to dealing with stress, best-selling psychotherapist and researcher Harriet Lerner says that being an underfunctioner or an overfunctioner is your patterned response to dealing with the alarm in your body.
It probably doesn’t surprise you that I am what researchers call an "Overfunctioner."
My husband, Chris, is an "Underfunctioner," especially on those days when he’s on the way to a medical procedure.
And learning the way YOU react to stress is a game-changer for your relationships.
An overfunctioner like me allows the alarm in my body to take over in stressful situations, becoming triggered and anxious.
And the only way to calm the alarm is to bark orders, manage the phone calls, organize the activities, make the appointments, plan the meals, and take on all the responsibilities because it gives me a sense of control.
It may be my superpower, but it also makes me a royal pain in the a$$ and takes away the chance for Chris to feel empowered.
The way Chris deals with stress is more chill and very methodical, which frustrates the hell out of me.
Listen today as we work through these two different ways of dealing with a stressful family situation so that you can understand your own approach better and, more importantly, how to ask for what you need from others before you drive them nuts.
And if you’re ready to take the next right step to live your life with more confidence and no regrets, this is your time.
Sign up for my exclusive signature course, Launch with Mel Robbins. It’s available for registration only through May 4, so grab your spot today!
Learn all the exciting details and sign up here!
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
You can be rich.
(Don’t roll your eyes at me; I’m serious.)
This is not what you think.
This episode today is so digestible. So counterintuitive. One of the most enlightening conversations I’ve had with anybody.
If I had a nickel for every epiphany I had during this episode, I’d be rich.
Most of us have been thinking about money all wrong.
It turns out that the amount of money you have in the bank (or don’t have in the bank) is only a small part of your relationship with money.
I didn’t realize this until I got to sit down with the incredible Ramit Sethi.
He’s a NYT best-selling author and finance advisor with a brand new, top-ranked Netflix series called How to Be Rich, where he coaches real people about how to take control of their financial lives.
He says you’ve been thinking about money all wrong.
This is one of my favorite conversations ever.
It changed the way I think about money.
If you were told that you need to create a budget and stick to it, Ramit calls BS.
Instead, you’ll learn about your money dials, the only four numbers that matter, the 85% Rule, why the 10 Year Bucket List is so important, the one thing you should NEVER say about yourself, and best of all, what it means to live a Rich Life.
Today’s episode is going to change the way you SEE money, because when you see it differently, you’ll treat it differently.
If you’re feeling crushed by debt, you’re trying to save for a new home, you can’t stop spending, or you’re constantly getting into arguments with your partner over money issues, you need to hear this episode today.
You have to learn to feel confident around money, and Ramit has the practical tools and resources to teach you how.
And if you’re looking for another zero-cost resource to help you change your mindset around finances, I’ve got just the thing.
Sign up for my free training called Take Control with Mel Robbins.
You’ll be joining a quarter million other students who’ve signed up already and you’ll get 3 incredible video trainings plus a 21-page workbook that will help you get the clarity you’re looking for to change the direction of your life. All you have to do is sign up here.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
A few years ago, I found this study from Harvard, and it changed my life.
It's research about performance and feeling nervous, with a simple reframing method that you can use to never let fear stop you again.
I’ve been using this technique with my five second rule for years, and the first way I applied it was to get control of my nerves and fear of public speaking.
I’m going to teach you this new method in a super cool way... by taking you on the road, on stage, and behind the scenes with me as I deliver a keynote address to 3,000 people at the convention center in Dallas.
I’ve been wanting to bring you on the road with me for awhile, and this topic allowed me to record this episode live in multiple locations while all kinds of things were unfolding.
There’s even an impromptu guest appearance from Michelle Poler, whose entire speaking career is about teaching people how to face their fears.
This Harvard-backed technique is so cool because it leverages your body chemistry, physiology, and neural pathways to your advantage.
The #1 fear most people have is public speaking, but this technique will help you with absolutely everything, whether it’s speaking up at work, giving an incredible presentation, not choking when you deliver the toast at your best friend’s wedding, performing better on tests, or even running better.
Stop letting fear hold you back. Use science not only to reframe your fears into excitement but to conquer them once and for all.
And one more thing. My free, brand new, research-backed training called "Take Control with Mel Robbins" is live and waiting for you. Get 3 incredible video trainings plus a 21-page workbook, and all you have to do is sign up here.
Already a quarter of a million students are taking the course for free.
I’m just waiting for you!
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, you’re learning a simple but powerful way to take control of your mindset.
You need to get serious about your mindset. The way you think and talk to yourself has serious consequences.
Your thoughts become your beliefs.
Your beliefs turn into actions.
Your actions become habits.
And your habits determine who you are and what you achieve in life, or not.
That’s why you need a Mindset Reset.
Imagine if your thoughts were positive, empowering, clear, and encouraging. Imagine if your beliefs inspired the best in you.
If you’re tired of listening to a voice that beats you down, fills you with doubt, and argues against your goals and dreams, it’s time to change your thinking.
Today, you’ll learn how to do it for yourself and start programming a more positive, empowering, and confident mindset.
So pull up a seat as I coach two people through the process.
I’m so confident you’re going to be fired up after listening to this episode that I have a free gift to help you take your current mindset to the next level.
I have a brand new, free, 3-part training called "Take Control with Mel Robbins."
It will provide you with the coaching, structure, and support you need to hit reset, take control, and level up your life.
It features 3 brand-new training videos, two hours of research-backed curriculum taught by me, and a 21-page workbook. Plus you’ll be with hundreds of thousands of other students taking the course for free around the world.
All at zero cost to you. Why? Because you deserve it, and it’s my way of thanking you for being here with me.
You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain. Why not take advantage of this opportunity? I’ll see you in the course!
Xo Mel
In this episode, you will learn:
This episode blew my freakin’ mind.
After you meet our expert today and learn her revolutionary approach to simplifying your life, you will never approach the topic of picking up, cleaning up, or organizing the same way again.
Whether it’s your desk or closet that is overwhelming you, or like me, you are guilty of constantly starting projects and putting things in piles, only to run out of time or get flustered, creating bigger projects to deal with in the future, today’s episode will change your entire life.
I had no idea how simple it could be to feel organized and in control.
I learned from our expert today that I was attacking organization completely wrong, and that was the problem.
Her 5 steps are so life-changing that from the moment I finished talking to her, I started putting them into practice, and the results are incredible.
Get ready to laugh and learn as I confess the details of what a disaster I am (my husband even rats me out).
Luckily, the incredible Dana K. White, founder of the hit blog, A Slob Comes Clean, and author of How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind, is here to help us all.
And that's not all.
Don’t forget to sign up for "Take Control with Mel Robbins."
It’s free. It’s my gift to you for supporting this podcast.
It features 3 brand-new training videos, two hours of research-backed curriculum taught by me, and a detailed 21-page workbook.
This training will provide you with the coaching, structure, and support you need to hit reset, take control, and level up your life.
And if you combine this training with Dana’s advice about decluttering, you, my friend, won’t even recognize yourself in a week.
All at zero cost to you. Why? Because you deserve it, and it’s my way of thanking you for being here with me.
You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain. So why not take advantage of this opportunity?
Sign up for free at melrobbins.com/takecontrol now.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Today’s episode is a continuation of our exclusive two-part series with world-renowned medical expert Dr. Russell Kennedy.
If you thought Part 1 of this series was life-changing, buckle up! Part 2 of this Toolkit brings you even more strategies and tools as we take questions from three more listeners of the podcast.
Is anxiety impacting your ability to sleep?
Tired of the negative loop of thoughts in your mind?
Is anxiety affecting your kids?
Is it genetic?
Are there surprising signs of adult anxiety?
Did your parents struggle with it, and you never knew?
How do you break generational cycles?
Dr. Kennedy answers these questions and so many more. You’ll also learn what most therapists get "wrong" about anxiety.
You'll find Dr. Kennedy’s approach both revolutionary and effective. As a medical doctor and neuroscientist, he will coach you on the critical difference between "coping” with anxiety and his protocol for "healing" it once and for all.
And for anyone in your life who may be struggling, please share this exclusive series generously; it could provide the life-changing answers and guidance they need to finally heal.
If you are looking for more free resources and support, I’ve got you! I have a brand new, free 3-part training called "Take Control with Mel Robbins."
This training will provide you with the coaching, structure, and support you need to hit reset, take control, and level up your life.
It features 3 brand-new training videos, two hours of research-backed curriculum taught by me, and a detailed 21-page workbook. Plus, you’ll be taking the course with over half a million other students around the world.
All at zero cost to you. Why? Because you deserve it, and it’s my way of thanking you for being here with me.
You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain. So why not take advantage of this opportunity?
Sign up for free at melrobbins.com/takecontrol now.
Xo Mel
P.S. And if you haven’t yet listened to The Toolkit for Healing Anxiety, Part 1 then do that as soon as you listen to this one, because you can’t afford to miss out.
P.S.S. This Toolkit for Healing Anxiety is not meant as a replacement for therapy, but if you’ve been seeing a therapist for a while, forward this series to them for guidance too. It would be great information to include in your sessions.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
And if you missed when Dr. Kennedy joined us the first time, click here!
Today’s episode is my gift to you and anyone in your life who struggles with anxiety.
I created this exclusive series, "The Toolkit for Healing Anxiety," because of the number of questions I am receiving from listeners asking for more resources on this topic.
Part 1 is packed with tactical takeaways and features Dr. Russell Kennedy, one of the world's most respected medical experts on anxiety.
Dr. Kennedy is a medical doctor and neuroscientist who has a revolutionary and effective approach to helping his patients understand and heal anxiety.
(He's also been our most popular expert on the podcast to date.)
Dr. Kennedy teaches you the truth about where anxiety comes from and the mistake that most therapists make when treating it.
You’ll also have a front-row seat as he coaches listeners on the critical difference between "coping with anxiety" and his protocol for "healing it" once and for all.
I can’t wait for you to listen and apply the advice in this life-changing series.
And for anyone in your life who may be struggling, please share this exclusive series generously; it could provide the answers and guidance they need.
If you have follow-up questions, send them to me in the DMs or through the podcast topic link on melrobbins.com/podcast. We read them and use them to program future episodes (this toolkit is an example of that).
This episode is not meant as a replacement for therapy, but if you’ve been seeing a therapist for a while and aren’t seeing yourself improve, you may want to forward this series to them for guidance too.
Xo Mel
Didn’t get to listen to Dr. Kennedy’s first interview? Check that out here.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
· 5:00: I bet you haven’t heard this definition of anxiety before. .
· 6:15: So where exactly does anxiety come from?
· 7:30: This is a revolutionary way of thinking about how to heal anxiety.
· 8:45: If you’re waking up this way, that’s a red flag.
· 9:45: A trauma response isn’t directed outward- it’s here instead.
· 12:00: Have you tried everything to deal with your anxiety?
· 14:45: Forget what you’ve tried so far, THIS is what will actually heal you.
· 19:00: This sign of anxiety may surprise you.
· 22:00: Anxiety happens because of this and addictions “fix” it
· 24:00: I think there are these three layers to healing your anxiety.
· 27:15: What the hell does “inner child” mean and why does it matter?
· 30:00: There’s a difference between drama and trauma.
· 34:00: Dr. Kennedy tried everything, but only this healed his anxiety.
· 37:00: Okay, what’s one specific and tangible tool we can use?
· 40:30: Do this together with me now.
· 44:00: Here’s why play is so important for healing trauma.
· 47:00: Healing will take time. Here’s why and what you need.
Today, you and I are calling BS on partners, friends, siblings, colleagues, and roommates who ride on your coattails, mooch off your generosity, and love the fact that you do everything. (While they do next to nothing.…)
It’s time to take your power back with 5 actionable takeaways to get people in your life to step up and do their part.
I’m not messing around. The first person you’ll meet in this episode is tired of being the only one holding her family together.
And during the second coaching session I get even more intense with a woman whose boyfriend hasn’t had a job in three years.
Hear me loud and clear: by enabling other people, you are part of the problem.
There are 5 things you need to know that will change this dysfunction now.
Clear your schedule for the next hour because you and I have an appointment where you, my friend, will learn how to lay down the law and start putting yourself first.
Xo Mel
Can’t ask for what you need? Listen to “How to Speak Up for Yourself.”
In this episode, you will learn:
In this episode, you and I are talking about how to protect your peace.
You already spend a lot of time trying to be positive - so today I want to remind you that it is just as important to protect your energy from people and situations who suck it dry.
You know the ones.
The friend who is so n-e-g-a-t-i-v-e, about everything!
The rude person at the coffee shop.
The colleague who’s always stirring the pot.
The toxic dynamic with certain family members.
Negative people are like dogs who have just jumped into a muddy pond. They come running up to you smelling all nasty and as soon as they get next to you - boom - they shake all that crap all over you.
It’s time to protect yourself.
Today’s podcast episode will teach you six super easy science-backed strategies to help you create an impenetrable force field against bad energy (and muddy dogs).
You can’t allow that crap to get on you - because your positive life force deserves your protection!
And today I’m teaching you how. Force fields up! Positive energy out!
Because that, my friend, is something to feel great about!
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Have you been betrayed? Listen to “What to do when you’ve been cheated on.”
Need a confidence boost? Here’s your “Confidence Toolkit.”
In today’s episode, I’m finally answering the #1 personal question that I get asked:
What’s the story behind my tattoo on my right wrist?
Pull up a seat to laugh along with us as Chris and I share our tattoo adventure - complete with anxiety, jealousy, intention, love, a huge mistake on my part, and the most incredible moments of synchronicity.
But it’s not just a story; there’s a much more profound topic we are discussing today.
Because tattoos aren’t really about tattoos.
They are an example of a powerful, positive force that habit researchers call an “environmental trigger.”
They’re also an example of another tool that you can use to create a more powerful and resilient mindset.
Because a lot of tattoos are also “meaningful mantras.”
Today, you will learn how to create and use positive triggers and meaningful mantras to improve your life and to remind you of either a deeper purpose or the values you want to live by.
This goes way beyond etching ink onto your body.
By the end of this episode, you’ll not only be inspired to create your own meaningful mantra, you will have several specific examples of how you can create a positive environmental trigger using things you have around your house.
One thing’s for sure, this episode will leave a lasting impression. 😄
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Learn more about “How & Why Synchronicity Can Improve Your Life.”
Want more about finding your purpose? “Stop Searching and Do This Instead.”
In this episode, you’re learning how to speak up for yourself and make sure that you are heard.
Whether you want to be more influential and visible at work or there’s a hard conversation that you’ve been avoiding with a family member, this episode will empower you to have a breakthrough.
Most of us have never been taught the skills we need to have challenging conversations or to better advocate for our needs.
The good news is that these are skills, and you are going to learn them in a very entertaining and relatable format today.
You’re invited to listen in on multiple coaching sessions with listeners just like you and me who are struggling to find the words or the courage to say what needs to be said.
So today I’m unpacking my formula, step by step, for handling challenging conversations.
This is an excellent episode to send to people in your life who you really wish saw their own value and worth and could communicate it better.
I can’t wait to hear how these very clear steps have helped you have those conversations you’ve been putting off and to show up differently at work and school.
Xo Mel
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Is it time to let go of your relationship? If so, then listen to “How to Let Go.”
Learn about “The 4 Attachment Styles for Healthy Relationships.”
I made you an appointment with one of the world’s leading doctors in functional medicine.
Dr. Mark Hyman has written an incredible 14 (!!!) New York Times best sellers. He is the founder and director of The UltraWellness Center, and Head of Strategy and Innovation at the Cleveland Clinic Center for Functional Medicine.
His latest book, Young Forever, teaches you science-backed, actionable steps to slow down the aging process and even reverse disease.
An appointment like this would cost $$$ in person, but today, it’s free for you.
Seriously, you will be floored by what you hear.
No matter how old you are, you have more control over your health than you may think, and it’s never too early or too late to start making simple yet profound changes.
Having trouble sleeping? We've got you.
Brain fog and headaches messing up your day? Check.
Low energy? We hear you.
Anxiety and ADHD running your life? We’re covering that too.
In this episode, we are breaking everything down point by point so that you get the specific, actionable steps you need to start changing your life in real time.
Grab a notebook because the doctor is in and he will see you now.
Get ready to take charge of your health like never before.
Xo Mel
Check out research and other resources at melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
Start your day off with focus using “A Toolkit for the Perfect Morning Routine.”
Here are more “Simple Ways to Improve Your Brain Health.”
In this episode, you and I are tackling overwhelm together as I coach five listeners just like you who are tired of feeling so stressed.
I promise this will be helpful, fun, and full of powerful tools you can put to use immediately.
You need that because you’re drowning in your to-do lists, taking care of everyone else but yourself, and you’re saying yes to every commitment that enters your inbox.
That’s why simple solutions are the answer.
And I need these solutions too. I feel like my to-do list is overflowing and the demands are piling up.
But that’s okay, because with The Mel Robbins Podcast, you get to show up exactly as you are.
And today, we will start breaking down the two types of overwhelm so you can understand exactly what it is you’re dealing with.
But we don’t stop there.
You’re also getting three simple but profound strategies to help you eliminate the overwhelm from your life.
So that you start feeling energized again.
And I so want that for you.
Xo Mel
Check out research and other resources at melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
Don’t know how to say no? Listen to “Start Putting Yourself First.”
And I know you will like “The Only Way to Stop Procrastinating.”
In this episode, we are digging into betrayal and learning how to get your power back after someone shatters your trust.
It’s happened to me and I know it’s happened to you, too.
Maybe someone cheated on you. Maybe someone stole from you in business. Perhaps it was a friend who stabbed you in the back.
It’s painful.
You might not be sure how to confront that person, or if it’s even worth it.
Or if you did confront them, they may have denied and deflected, making you feel like something was wrong with you.
Well today I’m using my own experiences with betrayal to coach Sonia and Jenn - and you - through this.
You always have options, and whether you believe it or not, you can get your power back.
Today’s episode will help you heal, change your perspective, and equip you with the tools you need to land on your feet and be smarter, more open and able to create healthier relationships, partnerships, and friendships in the future.
You deserve that.
Buckle up, because your friend Mel is hitting you between the eyes with some hard earned wisdom and tough love today.
Xo Mel
Check out research and other resources at melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
Here is Betrayal 101: “3 Lessons From One of the Hardest Years of My Life.”
When it’s time to do this, listen to “How to Let Go.”
In this episode, you and I are getting intentional about your happiness.
Happiness is misunderstood.
Fortunately, there’s a ton of research that explains why it can be so elusive and, even better, HOW you can create a happier life, starting today.
Our conversation about happiness begins with breaking down the two types of happiness and why it’s important for you to include both in your life.
You’ll also learn four practical takeaways that research says are key for cultivating more happiness in your daily life.
I love this episode, and I can’t wait for you to experience it! I am bringing the science and the strategies, and I have a phenomenal metaphor to share with you that will forever change the way you view happiness.
You’re not only going to learn what to do; you’re going to experience several listeners just like you who are seeking more happiness and fulfillment in their lives.
This is a highly relatable, entertaining, and transformative episode, so don’t miss out.
You’ll be happy you joined us.
Xo Mel
Check out research and other resources at melrobbins.com/podcast.
And if you want to start owning your mornings, join my free Wake Up Challenge.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
This episode pairs well with “You’ll Never Be Truly Happy Until You Start Doing This”
Learn how to train your mind with “The Mindset Reset Toolkit.”.
Today’s episode is a trip.
I can’t wait to introduce you to my favorite metaphor - a road trip - to inspire you to have more fun and enjoy the ride on this thing called life.
After all, life is a journey. And no one’s path is exactly the same.
So today, I’m asking you to think about this road trip called life.
And I’m going to be asking you to consider some thought-provoking questions:
Are you the driver or the passenger of your life?
Are you even on the right road?
Do you need to pick a new direction?
Are you heading where you want to go, but speeding so fast you can’t enjoy the ride?
Is it time to update the road trip playlist (in your head)?
And most importantly, what lies on the road ahead?
Whether you’ve just graduated, you’re an empty nester, or you’re somewhere in between, this episode is the perfect gift to send to absolutely everyone in your life.
Change is scary, but it doesn’t have to be. I’m here to help you navigate the road ahead.
This episode will empower you to take the wheel in your life.
Because you, my friend, have choices.
And there’s a million ways to get to where you want to go.
The best days of your life are ahead. I believe that, and after you embrace the opportunity of this road trip called life, you’ll believe it too!
Xo Mel
Check out research and other resources at melrobbins.com/podcast.
And if you want to start owning your mornings, join my free Wake Up Challenge.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
Want more help with your dreams? Listen to “Your Dreams Are Not a Joke” and “Goal-Setting Toolkit.”
In this episode, you are getting a brand new definition of confidence.
This definition is based on research studies on how confidence is built.
Confidence is not what you think it is.
It is not a personality trait you’re born with, and it’s not reserved only for extroverts.
Confidence is a skill that anyone can master.
And today is the perfect day for you to start.
You and I are breaking down the science together, and you’re invited to join in as I coach several listeners who are struggling with self-doubt.
By the time this episode is done, you will not only have a brand new definition of confidence, but you will also know how to put that definition to use to start building unstoppable confidence in your own life.
Confidence is your birthright. You can’t lose it; you just lost your connection to it.
Let’s get that back.
If you are willing to get up every day and put one foot in front of the other, you, my friend, will not only be practicing and building confidence, but over time you’ll start feeling more confident too.
Xo Mel
Check out research and other resources at melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
Sign up for my free 5-day Wake Up Challenge to wake up your confidence.
This is an episode about how to face the things that you’re scared to admit, or as in the case of my guest today, have never publicly spoken about.
Today, you and I are going on a healing journey so that you can put the past where it belongs: in the rearview mirror.
You deserve healing.
It’s the only pathway for experiencing true peace, happiness, and the greatness you’re capable of.
So, I’m introducing you to a friend of mine who had some serious sh*t to face and has spent the last several years addressing the things that used to drag him down.
Do not miss this deeply personal conversation.
It is profound. It is relevant to your life and packed with so much wisdom. And we jump right in.
There are so many mic-drop moments, it would be hard for me to pick just one, because my guest today was so unguarded and generous.
You may know him, but you’ve never heard him like this before.
I’m talking about Lewis Howes, host of the award-winning podcast, The School of Greatness, which just celebrated its 10-year anniversary and has over 500 million downloads.
His brand new book, The Greatness Mindset, teaches you how to discover your own unique gifts and talents, but more importantly, how to do the work to heal.
And look, this conversation is “unguarded” and covers sensitive topics (particularly perhaps for the men in your life). So if this isn’t for you right now – please skip this episode.
I cannot wait to hear your favorite and most meaningful parts of this unforgettable conversation with Lewis.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Visit www.melrobbins.com/podcast for additional resources.
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
In this episode, you are going to learn how to put yourself first.
Which means you and I are having a conversation about people-pleasing.
You know you do it. I do it, too.
In fact, unless you're a narcissistic jerk (and you’re not if you’re listening to these podcast episodes), we are all people-pleasers to some extent.
Being a people-pleaser is a coping mechanism and it is destroying your energy, your time, your dreams, and your sanity.
Every time you say yes to something you don’t really want to do, you’re saying no to yourself.
Today, we’re changing that in a surprising way.
First, you’ll become aware of when and why you do it.
Second, you’ll learn the science-backed tools you need to break the habit of always putting other people’s needs before your own.
Third, you and I are going to have a talk about guilt, because when you start saying no, one thing I can guarantee is that you’ll feel guilty about it.
I used to, too. I don’t anymore. And I’ll explain how you can handle the guilt and still put yourself first. One of the critical steps to creating a life you love is learning how to say yes to what matters to you and no to what doesn’t.
This is a big topic; there are a lot of surprising layers.
So I can’t wait for you to apply these relatable and easy strategies to your life and to hear about your breakthroughs.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
Visit www.melrobbins.com/podcast for additional resources.
Sign up for my free 5-day Wake Up Challenge.
In this episode, I’m on a mission to open your eyes to new possibilities.
What do you really want from your life?
And how can you reimagine your next career move to help you fulfill it?
If you’re feeling stuck in a job you hate, were just laid off or fired, just graduated, or you have no idea what you want to do with your life, this episode is my gift to you.
I wanted to do something to help you gain the clarity and courage that you need to make a big change when you’re feeling uncertain.
So I’ve arranged for you to meet with one of the best experts on the planet for a zero cost masterclass and coaching session on getting clear on your next career move, Amy Porterfield.
Her new book, Two Weeks Notice, is the playbook for how you build a successful side hustle or business with zero prior experience.
Amy’s taught more than 50,000 people just like you how to go from dreading their job to designing the life and work they’ve dreamed about.
Today Amy is coaching you, and when you’re done listening to our conversation, you’ll not only be inspired, but you’ll also have the tactical next steps to take.
And, if you’ve ever quietly dreamt of having your own business, my mission today is to pour gasoline on that fire.
After you listen, you’ll think differently about what you’re capable of, and you’ll get a taste of what COULD be.
I always say you are one decision away from the rest of your life.
If you’re ready to design a life you love waking up to, we’re about to teach you how.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
Visit www.melrobbins.com/podcast for additional resources.
Sign up for my free 5-day Wake Up Challenge to start beating procrastination from the second your alarm goes off.
In this episode, we’re attacking procrastination head on – using science.
Just think about how many hours, or heck YEARS, you have wasted thinking about what you needed to do instead of doing it.
That ends today.
This episode is packed with a simple, research-backed method to understanding why you procrastinate (it’s not what you think) and what researchers claim is the best way of tackling it.
I predict this episode will be one of the most shared this year because procrastination kills more dreams than fear ever does.
Take a listen to this episode, and I will give you something priceless in return: more time.
Imagine having hours to move closer to your dreams, hours to spend with your family, hours to move your body or read that novel, or hell, hours to do whatever the hell you want because you deserve it.
In this episode, we cover everything from micro-procrastinating to avoiding the really important stuff. And as always, I am armed with research and simple takeaways that work.
Specifically, you’ll learn 4 critical takeaways to apply to your life immediately, along with a science-backed 3-step technique to break free from your procrastination habit.
Whether you are the captain of procrastination like I used to be, or you are just tired of wasting so much time scrolling on your phone, this toolkit is my zero-cost gift to you.
Nothing is more important than taking control of your time, so hit play and I’ll lead the way to ending that vicious cycle you feel stuck in.
Don’t procrastinate on listening to this episode.
You deserve to understand why you're resisting parts of your life so that starting today, you can level up and get more out of it.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here.
Visit www.melrobbins.com/podcast for additional resources.
Sign up for my free 5-day Wake Up Challenge to start beating procrastination from the second your alarm goes off.
In this episode, you’re invited to sit in on a really personal and raw conversation with our 17-year-old son, Oakley.
Whether you experience anxiety yourself or you’re just worried about someone you love who does, this episode is a powerful gift from my family to you.
What Oakley shares based on his personal experience is life-changing.
You will hear Oakley describe two periods of anxiety and some pretty scary and overwhelming thoughts that rose up freshman and sophomore years of high school.
I am sharing this with you because Oakley is not alone in what he experienced.
According to the CDC’s most recent data, anxiety in teens and adults continues to rise, with nearly half surveyed reporting persistent feelings of hopelessness.
Whether you’re an adult or a teen, depression and anxiety are two of those mental health conditions that leave you feeling isolated from everyone because it can seem like you’re the only one having these kinds of overwhelming thoughts.
Today, in real-time, Oakley shines a light on what he experienced and how he worked through it.
And don’t worry, this isn’t a downer. In typical Oakley fashion, he has me laughing as much as I was sighing.
Two really important things come out of this conversation:
#1: You get an inside view of what anxiety can look and feel like, and #2, you get to learn about the healing process Oakley engaged in with family, a therapist, his doctor, and medication to work his way through it and back to a clear, confident, and happy state of mind.
I want to be clear. Oakley has chosen to share his own personal experience. With his therapist’s help, Oak feels more connected and empowered to ride the ups and downs of life and create deeper meaning in his life. And that’s what we want for you.
So many of you write in to thank us for sharing these conversations with my adult kids because they help you open up conversations.
Well, today’s conversation is meant to serve the same purpose. You may want to listen to this with people you love.
And please, share this.
Share it with teachers, coaches, nieces, nephews, and parents who you know could use these insights.
Too many of us try to deal with anxiety on our own. Let Oakley inspire you and the people you love to open up.
You are not weird or messed up if you have fleeting dark thoughts, but if those thoughts persist, please reach out to a therapist, family, or friends. You don’t have to go through this alone.
And if this topic is not for you right now, bookmark this episode and come back to it at another time. But it is a deeply powerful one you won’t want to miss.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Visit www.melrobbins.com/podcast for additional resources.
In this episode, we’re discussing morning routines.
This episode is very tactical and covers 5 simple but essential components of a perfect morning routine.
I’m really glad that you’re taking this topic seriously because every successful person you admire is serious about their mornings.
I sure am.
How you set up your day is typically how it ends up.
I love my morning routine so much that I call it the Million Dollar Morning, because it makes me feel like a million bucks for the rest of my day – and it creates a level of discipline in my life that helps me make millions of dollars too.
But let me be clear: I am not naturally a morning person.
And if that’s been your excuse, my mission is to change your mind.
If you already have a morning routine, listen to this episode to take it up a notch.
Xo Mel
Sign up today for my free 5-day Wake Up Challenge so you can start your own Million Dollar Morning routine tomorrow.
Once you finish listening, be sure to check out the episode “The #1 Hack for Being More Productive Tomorrow” to learn why your morning routine begins the night before.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Visit www.melrobbins.com/podcast for additional resources to help you go deeper.
Today’s episode is a masterclass on finding your purpose, listening to your gut, and never giving up (no matter what other people say).
So many of you write in asking for advice about purpose that I’ve decided to introduce you to a guest whose life story is the epitome of purpose.
You’re about to meet a woman who went from serving up stacks of pancakes at Denny’s to creating a billion-dollar product that would help millions of women around the world feel confident in their own skin.
It was such a success that L'Oréal recently bought her company for $1.2 billion dollars.
I’m talking about none other than Jamie Kern Lima, the founder of It Cosmetics.
And if you think that her purpose in life was to create a cosmetics company, you’d be wrong.
The topic of purpose is essential and misunderstood, so today I’ll teach you how to truly find your purpose using Jamie’s inspiring story and tactical tools every step of the way.
In fact, her takeaways are so good that I refer to her as the “Professor of Purpose,” because by the end of this episode, you’ll be closer to finding yours.
Learn how today. Class is in session with one of the most successful self-made women today.
Xo Mel
For episodes notes and resources, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Take my free 5-day challenge – The Wake Up Challenge – to walk you through getting started with these tools: www.melrobbins.com/wakeup.
In this episode, we are talking about the #1 thing you can do to make sure tomorrow is a productive and awesome day.
I’m sure you know the importance of a good morning routine.
But what you may not know is that a rock-solid morning routine – the kind that kickstarts you and your day for maximum focus and to feel more in control, calm, and like the rockstar that you are…
It doesn’t start where you think.
If you truly want to own your day, you must first own the night before.
That’s right.
Hours before you even lay your head on your pillow, your decisions have either set you up for success or they have set you up to fail.
Your brain is primed to be the most productive during the first 2-4 hours of the day. That’s why I want you to get serious about how you set yourself up the night before.
This episode is packed with research-backed tactics, specific advice, and the four science-backed components of the best evening routine.
And this is also one of those tough-love, hit you with the common-sense, friend-to-friend conversations that you know and love from me.
Xo Mel
Take my free 5-day challenge – The Wake Up Challenge – to walk you through getting started with these tools: www.melrobbins.com/wakeup.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
For episodes notes and resources, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
This podcast is not meant to be a substitute for therapy and is for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is my passion, however, to bring you free and accessible content that can help you change your life for the better.
In this episode, you and I are getting a masterclass on the topic of love.
And it’s not what you think.
This is not an episode about relationships – it is an episode about YOUR relationship to love and how you can let more love into your life.
My mission with this episode is to inspire you to stop and consider the profound subject of love, how important it is, and why you deserve to feel more love in your daily life.
If you have felt alone or feel like your relationships are on autopilot, this episode is a real gift.
I am also excited because as you listen to this episode, I get to introduce you to someone I really love.
He and his wife are very dear friends of ours and he just finished a two-year-long research project on the topic of love.
This friend of mine is also a former monk with a tender heart and a global fanbase.
His sage counsel on life is sought after by celebrities, world leaders, professional athletes, and the most successful artists in the world.
I’m talking about none other than my friend, Jay Shetty. He’s the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Like a Monk, and his latest book is 8 Rules of Love.
Climb into your favorite chair and get ready for a wild ride.
I threw out the talking points from Jay’s PR team and just went for it. I love this episode because Jay delivered.
He gets personal and reveals more about his own experience and mistakes with love than ever before.
This is a must listen and a must share. Listen as a family. Listen with friends. Listen as a couple. Listen by yourself. Love is what we need. And hearing two dear friends go deep on the topic will make your heart swell.
Even an old dog like me learned a few new tricks about how I can experience more love and be more loving in my life ❤️
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want to go deeper into the topic of relationships? Listen to the last episode, “I Don’t Usually Share Advice Like This: 6 Lessons on Making Any Relationship Work.”
In this episode, I’m getting brutally honest with you about relationships.
Our conversation begins with a question from a listener who asked me for advice on how to make your relationship go the distance in this messy modern world.
I’ve always shied away from giving relationship advice, mainly because after 26 years of marriage, I know the only secret is this: it takes a lot of consistent work.
I also don’t consider myself an “expert” on the topic because our relationship seems to always need attention. It’s so easy to silently retreat to your corners and not address the issues. And there were years where we did just that.
In fact, over the past few years, Chris and I have been working through some really heavy issues with a couples therapist.
Today I share very personal revelations I’ve had about my own role in causing problems between us. After all we’ve been through, I’m really proud of my husband, Chris, and me for making it this long and doing the work to make it better.
In the process of working hard to improve our relationship, I learned six powerful lessons that I felt compelled to share with you. Not because I hold the magic wand, but because I hope these lessons will save you the pain and heartaches I’ve caused myself and my husband.
No matter what kind of relationship you might be in, working on, struggling with, or hoping to save, these six lessons will provide a roadmap to make it better.
Whether you are married, dating, divorced, happily single, or experiencing a falling out with a friend, this episode will have something for you.
About halfway through, another listener asks,
“What do I do if my partner doesn’t want to do the work?”
In that case, there’s just one rule for when it’s time for you to move on.
Oh, one more thing, if you and your partner are having a hard time… Share this episode with them. It’s a simple way to open the door for a much-needed conversation.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, you will learn how to deepen your healing by understanding how your parents may have created silent trauma that is still impacting you as an adult.
I want to introduce you to a woman who has had a really big impact on my own healing.
She is the renowned psychologist and #1 New York Times bestselling author, Dr. Nicole LePera, who you may also know as The Holistic Psychologist.
Today, Dr. LePera will normalize the common experience of having few memories from childhood.
This is something that I struggled with silently. I personally have very few memories from my childhood, and I assumed there was something wrong with me.
It was only when I started sharing about this lack of memories online that I realized I wasn’t the only person who can’t reminisce about their past.
I now understand why this happens. I also know there is nothing wrong with me.
And if you have very few memories from your childhood, there’s nothing wrong with you either.
Today, we are digging into parenting styles and how your childhood experiences (whether you remember them or not) are still impacting the way you respond to stress as an adult.
The research and tools in this conversation will help you understand not only why it’s so easy to get triggered, but also how to deepen your healing journey now that you do.
This is one of those episodes that I also know you will be sending to family, friends, and siblings because there is so much empowering information here.
I personally made all three of our kids listen because I both recognize as a daughter how my childhood impacted me – and as a mom, I’m also very aware that my parenting style has impacted my kids.
And, Dr. LePera so beautifully teaches us how to take control of the rest of our lives as adults.
Xo Mel
PS: After you listen to this one, listen to “Take Control of Your Life: A Toolkit for Healing” if you haven’t yet, because I’m sharing details from the last few years of my healing journey.
Plus, there’s a companion workbook to help you go deeper.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
If you uncover or have a history of trauma, consider enlisting the support of a trained therapist. This podcast episode and the companion workbook are not meant to be a substitute for therapeutic support.
In this episode, I’m making the topic of trauma easier to understand by taking you step by step through my recent revelation that I was struggling with past trauma.
I was one of those people who thought I didn’t have trauma. And you may be like that too.
But if you have trouble managing emotions, expressing your feelings, dealing with upset, you go on edge easily, you have trouble focusing, or you struggle with anything like anxiety….
This will be very eye opening.
The words “trauma” and “nervous system” are thrown around like candy online.
I want to share the profound things that I’ve learned about both topics and how I’ve started to address and heal the trauma in my nervous system.
This episode is personal, it’s important, and tactical, and most of all – it’s packed with tools you can start using right now.
I hope this episode opens your eyes in the way that it did mine, and makes you not only understand this topic – but yourself a little bit better.
And, to go deeper, I have a free 9-page workbook for you that serves as a companion to this episode to help you with your own healing.
Just click here to access it.
And, this episode covers sensitive material, including discussion of trauma and sexual assault. If this topic isn’t for you right now – please skip this episode.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
If you uncover or have a history of trauma, consider enlisting the support of a trained therapist. This podcast episode and the companion workbook are not meant to be a substitute for therapeutic support.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to use simple neuroscience to train your mind to start working for you.
The research, tools, and strategies you’ll learn in this episode are from an experience I created and taught to more than 250,000 students called “Mindset Reset.”
The fact is, your mindset is critical to your happiness, success, relationships, and fulfillment.
Listen to today’s episode and you’ll learn how to train your mind using this easy, science-backed method.
By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to use an amazing filter in your brain to reset your mindset.
This episode is also packed with takeaways and insights you can apply to your life and one surprisingly fun “brain game” you can play every day (even with your kids) to actively program a more powerful mindset.
I can’t wait to share this with you and for you to apply it to your life and share it with the people who matter to you most.
Xo Mel
For full show notes, including all research mentioned in the episode, go to melrobbins.com/podcast.
This episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, you’re about to learn how to make your new habits stick.
If you’ve struggled to be consistent with behavior change, you’re not alone. It’s easy to talk about habits. It’s a whole different thing to apply the science to your life.
You are not the problem.
The problem, when it comes to habits, is the lack of systems and hacks that help you stay consistent.
There are 5 very specific, simple systems backed by science that you have to have in place if you want to make your new habits stick for good.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve already bailed on your New Year’s resolutions or if the only habit you think you’re successful at is failing at habits. I’ve got you.
If your treadmill just became the most expensive laundry hanger you’ve ever purchased, then this episode is for you.
I’ll say it again:
It’s not you; it’s your lack of systems.
Stop relying on willpower to get you through.
That’s not what you need. The research says you need systems.
Today, I’ll teach you 5 essential ones.
Let’s go, because your behavior toolkit masterclass series continues.
Xo Mel
For full show notes, including all research mentioned in the episode, go to melrobbins.com/podcast.
For a free workbook that dives deeper into the topic of habits and helps you apply what you learn, click here.
This episode works together with the episode “The Ultimate Toolkit for Creating New Habits.” After you finish this one, check out that episode here.
This episode, you’ll learn:
In this episode, you’re going to learn exactly what you need to form new habits.
Even if you think you already know everything there is to know about habits, you probably still struggle to apply this knowledge and make change stick.
And if this topic is brand new to you, don’t worry; I have a way of explaining it that’s fun, and so simple even a 5-month-old puppy can understand it.
Just because it’s science doesn’t mean it has to be complicated and boring.
When we make change fun and easy to understand, you’re more likely to be successful in applying all of this research.
That’s why this episode also comes with a free companion workbook, so that you not only listen and learn, but also go deeper and apply what you’re learning to your own life.
You can download that for free at melrobbins.com/habits.
I’ll teach you the three critical parts of forming new habits, and together we’ll unpack the brain research that explains why these parts are essential to your habit-making routine.
When you’re done listening, you’re going to see that you’re making the same mistake most people make: you’re only focused on one part of forming a habit, and you’re missing the other two.
I’m really excited for you to listen, learn, and apply all this knowledge.
New habits begin as something you practice, and after applying this over time, they become who you are.
Xo Mel
Get your free companion download at melrobbins.com/habits.
For full show notes, including all research mentioned in the episode, go to melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
This is the pep talk you need.
Change is hard.
Which means you’re going to want to quit or give up.
I call those moments F*** It Moments.
Today’s episode is a little different because you’re going to hear me get in someone’s face who is about to throw in the towel on a big goal and a promise that she has made.
When you hear me coach her, it will be like I’m coaching you.
And once you’re done listening, I promise you won’t be saying F*** it, you’ll be saying F*** yes.
Xo Mel
PS: If you’re frustrated with somebody in your life who keeps calling it quits, let me do the honors and deliver the ass-kicking for you.
For full show notes, including all research mentioned in the episode, go to melrobbins.com/podcast.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
This episode will help you set the right goals for you.
Goals matter. They make your life easier and they create a sense of purpose and meaning.
But most people don’t set goals the right way, which is why they fail before they even start.
That’s not going to be you.
This episode is a comprehensive toolkit that will help you set the goals that inspire you and make you feel excited about the year ahead.
And, it’s part of our month-long series covering the foundational research and topics related to creating a better life.
Today, you’re not only going to learn the correct way to set goals according to research, you’re also going to identify 1-3 goals for yourself, and I’ll be doing the same thing right along with you.
Have no idea what your goals are or where to even start?
Don’t worry; you will by the end of the episode.
You’ll apply the latest research every single step of the way.
And that’s not all.
You can access a free companion workbook at melrobbins.com/goals that will walk you through everything we’re talking about so you can go even deeper into this conversation.
Expect your goals to change as you listen to this episode, so don’t worry about doing any of this “right.”
By the end of this episode you will have even taken the first steps toward your goal.
How cool is that? I can’t wait. Let’s get started.
Xo Mel
For full show notes, including all research mentioned in the episode, go to melrobbins.com/podcast.
For a free worksheet that dives deeper into the episode and helps you apply what you learn, click here.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
I want this year to be the best year of your life.
So we’re going to talk about the one habit that researchers say has the biggest, overall impact on the quality of your life.
And that habit is learning to be kind and loving to yourself.
We all know we need to learn how to love ourselves, but no one has taught you HOW.
Until now.
In this episode, I am teaching you how to start loving yourself with a simple habit that you can add to your morning routine.
I’ve got loads of research to prove why this habit matters and how it will change your life.
And bring your Kleenex.
Today I’m not only answering questions from some listeners about self-love, I also invited my husband, Chris, to come on and explain why he thought this habit was so stupid when I first shared it with him.
The conversation took a turn that I was not expecting.
It gets very personal and both Chris and I end up crying. He shares details about a period of his life where the shame and sense of failure were so palpable that he couldn’t even look himself in the mirror. I’m so proud of him, and moved by his vulnerability.
This is an episode every man, boy, or anyone who identifies as male needs to hear. It’s not just we women who struggle with self-love; the men in your life are struggling, too. That’s why we all need to be practicing this habit every single morning.
You’re going to learn that love is not something you feel; it’s something you must demonstrate. And that’s what I’m going to teach you to do.
You’ll want to listen until the very end, because you’ll meet a woman whose entire life trajectory changed by simply trying this habit once.
Want to learn more? All of the research - and there’s a lot of it - is linked in the show notes at melrobbins.com/podcast. And if you want to watch a longer, unabridged version of this episode, visit my YouTube channel.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
1:50 The habit that has changed the lives of thousands of people
3:50 HOW do I love myself?
4:28 Why it’s so hard to love yourself
5:11 The secret to self-love
6:04 What the science says about why you should do this after brushing your teeth
7:05 50% of people find it impossible to do this
9:30 Learn about neurobics and how it helps you learn a new habit faster.
12:22 The dopamine hit that boosts your mood
14:09 What you tell yourself every time you do this one habit
15:25 One study about how this habit creates winning teams
16:40 How this habit helped kids perform better and work longer
20:48 Why my husband, Chris, thought this habit was ridiculous at first
22:20 The profound insight Chris had when he took the 5-day challenge
25:19 Why you’re going to want to share this with the men in your life
25:55 When in his life Chris started to feel like a failure
34:00 What all men struggle with
36:39 What Chris has to say to all the men out there
40:20 Why I sign off every letter and every episode the way I do
45:00 The message from a listener that every skeptic needs to hear
For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
To take the High 5 Challenge, go to High5Challenge.com.
In this episode, I am sharing 8 brand new studies and exciting new research about simple changes supported by science that can help you improve your day to day life, like…
How to cut your gym time IN HALF and still get the same benefits.
The surprising sound researchers say will boost your mood for EIGHT hours.
The research on how mindfulness reduces your anxiety by 30% - the same as Lexapro.
And so much more
I’m also joined by Tracey, who leads our research and has helped me produce five #1 Audible Originals and all the science behind it.
She’s found the studies; we are breaking them down together, and having a ball as we do.
This episode is going to make you smarter and is packed with the tactical, simple, and science-backed tools that I know you love learning on this podcast.
Pull up a seat and let’s go.
Oh! And one more thing. As always, all of the research - and there’s a lot of it - is linked in the show notes at melrobbins.com/podcast. And if you want to watch a longer, unabridged version of this episode, visit my YouTube channel.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
0:13: Why the research studies and science you will learn today matter
4:35: Why you can trust the tools you learn on this podcast
5:56: Research study #1: A simple action that goes a long way
12:32: Research study #2: The way to build strength in just 3 seconds a day
19:25: Research study #3: The one sound that boosts your mood for hours
26:43: Research study #4: A powerful tool for anxiety
31:35: Research study #5: What a study with 20,000 high schoolers tells us about success
36:56: Research study #6: One thing you can do to create lifelong positive memories
44:43: Research study #7: How tiny guilty pleasures can strengthen your relationship with your partner
52:01: Research study #8: The habit with the largest impact on your quality of life
For full show notes, including a links to every single study and citation mentioned on today’s episode, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
Have you ever had one of those years where life seems to punch you in the face?
Where one thing after another knocks you down, over and over, until you start to feel like you are never getting back up.
Well, that was this past year for me.
People I trusted betrayed me. Plus, I was living 150 miles away from my husband and son, alone in Boston during the week for work. I never saw my friends because I was too busy working. I wasn’t exercising. I wasn’t taking care of myself in general. Honestly, I felt really lonely all the time.
And looking back at pictures of myself from that time, it’s easy to see all of that in my face.
I think we all know that the greatest lessons in life come from the most challenging things that you face. And while it’s true, it’s not easy when you are in the middle of it.
This past year taught me 3 invaluable lessons, and today I’m sharing them with you.
I know you’re going to nod along because you know these lessons are true.
I don’t know why they are so damn hard to learn, but my hope is that by sharing what I struggled through and what I learned from, it will save you the headache and heartache that this year put me through.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
0:24: The gory details from the hardest year of my life
7:02: Lesson #1 from this year
8:30: The journal prompt that gave me a wake up call
11:43: How to identify the friction in your life and a major warning if you don’t pay attention
15:21: Lesson #2 from this year
16:55: How this podcast almost never came to be
22:36: The epiphany our son Oakley had
27:04: If you’re tired of your excuses… try THIS
28:49: Lesson #3 from this year
32:31: The mental health crisis I experienced this year and what it taught me
For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
I’ve got a very special invitation for you today.
Grab a spot on the couch next to me and my family here in Southern Vermont.
Join our family as our three kids discuss all the parenting mistakes Chris and I made – and the things we did that built trust and brought us all closer.
I’m really excited and proud to share this with you, even though there are moments where my kids absolutely school me.
They also share wisdom and insights that are so profound, you’ll hear Chris break down and cry.
This really isn’t a conversation about parenting at all. It’s about how you create a close and meaningful connection with anyone.
So whether you’re wondering how to get closer to your family or your friends, everything we discuss applies to all relationships.
This episode goes deep – we cover drinking, drugs, addiction, and what to do when teenagers stop talking to you or someone you love is dating someone that you don’t like.
And, since so many of you have written in asking about my approach to parenting after hearing our kids on various episodes of this podcast, I’m also sharing our parenting philosophy.
My family is getting real and raw in this discussion, and we’re inviting you to be a part. So join us. I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this episode, and one thing you might want to consider is listening to it with your family. I guarantee you, it will spark very interesting discussions.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
0:32: Why I recorded today’s episode
3:25: Meet the Robbins family
6:02: You keep asking: How are my kids so open with me?
7:30: A frank discussion on drinking
12:33: Why people don’t listen to you
14:10: What Chris and I think the whole point of parenting really is
18:27: Let’s talk about addiction, including groundbreaking new research from Mt. Sinai
25:15: Our #1 piece of advice that will keep people honest with you
30:55: What we mean when we say people in your life are “lie detectors”
33:07: Why showing your feelings to loved ones is so powerful
36:58: How to build connection with anyone
40:52: When you keep repeating patterns you wish you could break
44:44: Why you need to let kids be themselves
50:52: Why you shouldn’t let people bounce from uncomfortable situations
52:39: “I don’t like who my kid is dating” – advice that applies for any relationship
1:01:52: Our #1 piece of advice for you
For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
I know you’re busy. Which is why today’s message is the one thing you need to hear right now.
I need this message too. We all do.
Because there’s only one thing I want you to do this week:
NOTHING.
That’s right. I want you to do absolutely nothing.
No, I’m not smoking anything funny when I say this. I’m dead serious.
Hear me out.
There is an art and a science to doing nothing, and we need to put it into our daily lives.
All this constant doing is impacting your energy, your drive, your stamina, and your ability to be present, which in turn affects the decisions you make and your relationships.
Look at it this way. What are you doing right now?
Because I bet you’re scrolling through podcast episodes to listen to as you jump on your Peloton, drive to work, fold laundry, organize your desk, or whatever it is you do when you multitask.
You and I live in a world that glorifies productivity and accomplishment. The busier we are, the more important we must be.
But all that busyness is not making you happier or healthier. In fact, you’re writing to me every day asking how to deal with burnout and overwhelm.
And look, I’m not exactly an expert. I struggle with this too, which is why I wanted to talk about it.
I can’t even take a freakin’ bath without feeling the urge to answer emails on my phone (and oftentimes, I do).
Like you, I have absolutely no idea how to do nothing.
But I know I need to learn how to turn off and unplug, even if it’s just for a minute.
This episode is the tough love that we all need. And it won’t require you to take a week off from work or be somebody who meditates all day.
We’re going to talk about how to create moments of peace in your daily life, no matter how complicated it may seem right now.
So whether you’re on vacation, studying for exams, running your own company, raising a family, or you’re in between three jobs, this episode is for all of us. And it’s one you deserve.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
0:12: The only thing you should do this week – and why
10:02: How to remain hopeful when you’re in the trenches and surrounded by high achievers
13:19: The only advice you should be following
15:41: Should you listen to people who don’t understand your life?
17:36: How I handle jealousy
19:25: How to make time for rest when it feels like a guilty pleasure
24:00: How to get out of your head and into the moment
26:40: What you and I will do at 2:13 pm every day
33:29: The difference between laziness and procrastination (and how it applies to you)
For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
I’m checking in on you and me. There's a lot going on in the world right now, and I am still reeling from the news that Stephen ‘tWitch’ Boss died from suicide.
If you had to ask me to list the 5 most positive people on the planet, The Rock would be #1, and tWitch would be #2.
Having lost too many friends and people I love to mental health challenges like depression, addiction, trauma, and hopelessness – all of who died from suicide – I’m just so heavy with emotion.
tWitch was beloved by millions for being Ellen DeGeneres’ executive producer, dance partner, and DJ on her talk show. He was a part of people’s lives 5 days a week, for years. He competed on So You Think You Can Dance and he had one of those million-dollar smiles that just lit up every room he walked into. He is followed by millions of people online who love the adorable dances that he, his wife Allison, and his 3 kids do.
Seeing such a bright light like tWitch go out so suddenly at the age of 40, with 3 beautiful kids, a huge life, and adoring fans around the world…
It just stirred up so much sadness inside of me, and this may be stirring up a lot inside of you.
You don’t have to know tWitch personally (I didn’t – I am just a fan) to be profoundly impacted by the news of his death.
This may be bringing up experiences of loss from your own life. It may also be reminding you of moments when you were really struggling, which is another reason why I felt the urgency to talk to you today.
And I thought, maybe you’re sad too.
Or having a hard time processing how someone who seemed to “have it all” and “so much talent” could come to a point where this could happen.
Or maybe you are going through a tough time yourself.
Or maybe you just need a friend to tell you it’s going to be okay and give you a boost.
So I wanted to connect.
I decided to roll out of bed, get right on the mic, and share what I'm feeling and how I'm thinking about tWitch's death so we can process this together.
Please take 14 minutes to listen to this powerful message.
I share my thoughts about how to process news like this and I also emphasize something tWitch always said:
Be kind.
Today, be kind.
You never know what another person is going through, so be kind.
And always, be kind to yourself.
One thing you can do today is reach out to people you love. You never know what it’s going to mean to someone. If you don’t know what to say, you can share this episode.
And, if you are in pain right now. PLEASE. There’s a difference between wanting to end the pain you feel, and wanting to end your life.
You can end the pain with support and by taking small steps forward every single day.
It can and it will get better.
Please, if you need help, pick up the phone. You deserve support.
Trained volunteers are standing by to help you. Call the National Suicide Hotline, which is 988 in the US. Different languages are available – click here.
Or, text HOME to 741-741 for the Crisis Text Line.
Thanks for reading this and listening to this episode. And I just wanted to end by saying, I love you and it means more than you know that you are here.
I’ve lived with ADHD, dyslexia, and anxiety for most of my life.
And I’ve spent the last decade immersed in research around how to improve my mental health, but only recently did I realize there was a big missing piece to the puzzle when it came to being happier, more confident, and more present.
That’s taking care of the brain.
Your brain is your problem-solver.
It’s your memory keeper.
It’s a supercomputer.
If the physical health of your brain sucks, it’s like having a beer belly with IBS for a brain.
If you’re really committed to being a happier and healthier person, it's common sense to keep your brain happy and healthy. But…
The science can be complicated and boring.
More serotonin and dopamine would be great… but I zone out when I am looking at all the research.
That’s why I asked one of the leading experts on brain health to be here today. Dr. Daniel Amen has 40 years of experience as a psychiatrist, 12 New York Times bestselling books, and he’s conducted over 200,000 brain scans, all of which back up the simple tactics he’s about to share with you.
Today’s episode is jam-packed with practical information, so you may even want to listen twice. You can make your brain stronger and more resilient. There are specific changes you can make today, including supplements to take, a change to your walking style, a specific breathing technique to reduce anxiety, and more.
Dr. Amen will also share the one powerful question he’s been asking himself every single day that keeps his brain strong.
He also shares a recipe for a delicious mug of “brain healthy hot chocolate.” I’ll drink to that and a little Brain Health 101.
Xo Mel
You will learn:
Today you and I are digging into three things you must accept about other people.
It took me years to understand these truths.
It sounds horrible, but I always wondered, “What’s wrong with people? Why don’t they change?”
I know you can relate. Because today I’m taking your questions about trying to change other people.
You’re frustrated by the fact that your spouse or partner won’t exercise more. You get angry seeing how much money your daughter wastes going out every weekend. You’re annoyed by how stubborn your parents have become the older they get.
Me too.
I’ve tried every tactic you can imagine to get other people to change. And recently I realized the true source of my frustration: It’s not them, it’s me.
I’m refusing to accept three things.
These things are hard to accept, and they’re true.
Once you hear them and you apply them to your life, your relationships will be way easier.
In addition to the three truths about other people, you’ll learn research that explains why it’s so hard to get other people to change. And like all episodes, this one is packed with tactical advice and takeaways that you can put to use immediately.
And, if you’re the one who’s busy making changes but your loved ones are not being supportive, I answer that question from a listener, too.
I feel compelled to answer your questions because so many of you are improving your life with the tools you’re learning on this podcast and your family is starting to get annoyed with you. That’s okay. It shows you’re making progress (but it doesn’t make it easy).
Hopefully today’s episode will.
Xo Mel
Key lessons:
3:12: 3 powerful truths you have to accept about people.
4:33: Rule #1 explained
6:02: How do you deal with people who don’t want to change?
9:00: Why some people can’t change.
12:42: I’m embarrassed to tell you this story.
19:49: Rule #2 explained
20:37: Rule #3 explained
21:44: My “6-month rule” for any complainer
32:03: What do when the people around you don’t support the changes you’re making
40:23: The science of “Myside bias” and what it says about human nature
For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast
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Have you ever had such a powerful coincidence happen in your life that you think…
This must be a sign.
The person sitting next to you at an event turns out to be part of the team you’re interviewing with next week.
There is a hummingbird outside your apartment window on move-in day, and your grandmother always said she’d come back as one.
You’re sitting in your favorite coffee shop, thinking of someone you haven’t seen in a long time, and right at that moment, they text you.
You can’t explain how these things happen, but when they do, they give you goosebumps and make you feel just a little bit more confident and less alone.
I personally love it when this happens. And I’m always on the lookout for signs that my life is moving in the right direction.
Well, what if I told you that you can create more moments like this?
That’s what we’re talking about today.
These moments have a name: they’re called “synchronicities.”
And my guest today is Dr. Tom Myers, a professor who researched and wrote his entire Ph.D. dissertation on the subject.
You’re about to learn simple steps that will train your brain to create more of these impactful synchronicities in your own life, and three powerful reasons why it’s important that you do so.
Today, you and I are hanging out at the intersection of psychology, science, and spirituality.
Wouldn’t it be nice if your life had more of these magical moments?
Looking for signs that you’re on the right path is not some cheesy thing to do; it’s yet another way you can get intentional about training your brain to help you experience life in a whole new way.
I’ll also share a few stories from my life that are not only examples of synchronicity, but they will also give you goosebumps.
I can’t wait to hear your “goosebump” stories, and I hope what you learn from our conversation today will teach you how to create more of them.
Xo Mel
I talk more about synchronicity, including a powerful story from my life and how to create more of them, in my New York Times bestselling book The High 5 Habit.
For complete show notes, including links to every research study mentioned, see the episode page at melrobbins.com/podcast
I was lying in bed one morning, and all of a sudden it hit me…
If I ever want to be truly happy, I have to stop doing THIS.
So do you.
What is this thing we need to stop doing?
I call it the “Campaign of Misery.”
In the background of your mind, there’s a campaign of misery running on a loop. And until you stop it, you will never experience the happiness, joy and contentment you deserve.
I promise you - it is there. In the background - talking to you all the time.
This is the missing piece to true happiness.
When you remove the campaign of misery, you create room for joy.
I recorded this episode the same morning I had this profound insight. What you're about to hear is a conversation with me and two friends and colleagues, Amy and Jessie. Pull up a seat at the kitchen table; I want you to hear me unpacking this breakthrough about happiness in real time.
My two friends saw their “campaign of misery” immediately and started describing in detail the ridiculous ways they torture themselves. You’ll laugh, you’ll nod along, and you might even cry a little. We sure did.
Because when you realize how much you rob yourself of the happiness you deserve, it is sad.
I always say, this isn’t just a listening podcast, it’s a doing podcast. So by the end, there’s something specific I will be asking you to do with us while you listen.
In three simple steps, you will join us as we put down the sword, grab a book of matches, and pick up the pen to write new default programming into our minds.
Don’t worry, I’ll explain why you need matches near the end of the episode.
And you’ll be so happy that I did.
You have the power to change the way you think and the way you talk to yourself. You have the power to stop seeing all the reasons your life is hard and teach yourself to see how this could be easier.
Yes, you can be happy.
You can be content.
But first, you have to stop making yourself miserable. Let’s support one another on this.
If we fight this battle for happiness together, side-by-side, I am certain we will win.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Go deeper:
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Morning Pages inspired by Julia Cameron: The Artist’s Way
For complete show notes, click here.
Buckle up and get ready to take notes because this episode is a masterclass.
The tools you’re about to learn will help you become more confident, influential, and even make more money.
Today, we’re talking about The “It” Factor.
Some people just seem to have IT, right?
When I think of The It Factor, people like Oprah, The Rock, Taylor Swift, the Dalai Lama, and Martin Luther King, Jr. come to mind.
These people make you want to lean in, join in, and learn more.
So today we’re asking…
What is “It” that some people have that makes us automatically trust and like them?
And, more importantly, how can you get it?
Here to answer that question is Vanessa Van Edwards, a best-selling author, researcher, and founder of the behavior lab The Science of People.
I cannot wait for you to dig into what she has researched.
Turns out The It Factor has another name: charisma.
And the good news?
YOU can learn how to have charisma, starting today.
You’re going to want to. Research finds that charismatic people are more influential, earn a higher income, and have a bigger impact at work, in their communities, and in their relationships.
The secret to hacking it? Social cues, like body language and the way you speak.
That’s why today’s episode is a masterclass.
You’ll learn…
That’s just the tip of the iceberg. Today’s episode is jam-packed with simple, tactical research and tools that will help you and anyone you care about develop the skill of charisma.
And you deserve that.
Xo Mel
Join the free 5-day Wake Up Challenge with me and master your morning routine here.
All show notes for this episode can be found at melrobbins.com/podcast
Check out the video version of this podcast on my YouTube channel here.
Whatever you're doing right now, stop and make time for this conversation.
Every single day, I get questions from listeners about self-love, self-hatred, and what it actually means to like yourself.
I understand why it’s confusing.
The topic of self-love is so broad, and there is very little actionable advice on how exactly you learn to like yourself, especially if you’ve spent your whole life being hard on yourself.
So don’t worry, I’ve decided to attack this topic of self-love in a completely unique, surprising, and tactical manner. This is also one of the most personal episodes I’ve released because I’m inviting you to join a conversation I’m having with our 17-year-old son, Oakley.
This is not a “podcast interview.” This is an intimate conversation between a mother and a son about the most important topic you could discuss: self-love.
When Oakley was in middle school, he hated himself, and as his mom, it was awful to see him so lonely and sad. In today’s conversation, he shares things with me about this time in his life that I never knew.
And more importantly, we unpack the moment he had an epiphany that changed everything.
You will absolutely relate to everything he shares and his reflections about it.
I’m so proud to share this conversation with you. You will be blown away because you’ll not only feel like you’re part of our family, but we’re also welcoming you into our hearts.
You will laugh out loud, even though your heart might break a little. And by the end of it, you’ll have not only wisdom, but also a couple of simple tools to help you learn how to like yourself a little more.
This conversation is a must-listen for EVERYONE in your life. And especially for young adults because when they hear these insights from someone their age, it’s way more compelling than getting advice from an adult.
I do want to be up front about one thing: Oakley is 17 and like most 17-year-olds, whether they do it in front of you or not, he has a case of the F’s, meaning he drops the F-word a fair number of times, and I made a decision to record it as is and allow him to speak freely.
And, I just can’t emphasize enough how much insight this is going to give you into your own relationship with yourself.
I hope you will make the time to spend a half hour with the two of us, because I know you will leave feeling seen, understood, and liking yourself a little better.
I cannot wait to hear what you learn.
Xo Mel
For complete show notes, go to melrobbins.com
I want you to get serious about inserting fun back into the holidays this year.
It might seem odd to have an entire conversation about fun. But here’s why we have to: most of us aren’t having any.
In fact, it’s gotten so bad that researchers have a term for it: “a fun drought.” You’re not alone – 97% of people want to have more fun.
And wouldn’t it be fabulous if you had an absolute blast with your family this holiday season?
It is possible. And you’re just the person to make it happen.
On the topic of family, I find it interesting that most of the advice out there is focused on toxic family dynamics and boundaries. If your family is that toxic, the only thing you need to do is make other plans. You’re not required to spend time with them.
But… if you are planning to spend time with family during the holidays, make this the year you bring the fun.
Fun breaks up old dynamics, fun draws people out of their shells, and fun gives you something to talk about other than the weather and how the school year is going.
And laughter is not only great medicine, but it also makes you happier and strengthens your relationships with those you’re having fun with!
Today you and I are getting serious about fun.
In this episode, you’re going to learn the 3 things that get in the way of you having fun – the biggest one being that you don’t plan for it.
So, we are going to discuss how to plan for and have more fun, and I’ll give you all kinds of ideas to consider.
This is the perfect episode to listen to with your family if you’re traveling. It’s appropriate for all ages.
So shake off the dread and pull out the party hats. I’m on a mission to inspire you to have more fun.
Xo Mel
For complete show notes, go to melrobbins.com
I used simple research from Harvard Business School and UCLA to tame my fear of public speaking and become one of the most successful keynote speakers in the world.
I used this same tool to overcome my fear of flying.
If nerves or fear are holding you back from applying for that promotion, asking someone on a date, speaking up at a meeting, or traveling to another part of the world, this brain hack will change your life.
Your fears make your life small. Your nerves limit your potential. Your anxiety robs you of happiness and confidence.
Today on the podcast, you’ll hear me coach someone through one of her biggest fears.
You’ll hear the hilarious ways I used to cope with my fears and you’ll also learn why telling someone to calm down never works.
You’ll leave this episode with a 4-step tool that you can apply to your life the moment you learn it.
Stop letting your fear make your life small.
Board that plane, step onto that stage, apply for that promotion, and never let your nerves stop you from living your life the way that you want to again.
And please, share this episode not only with people you love, but particularly with all the young adults in your life, because research shows that this tool not only helps you tame your anxiety – it also helps you perform better on tests, be a better athlete, and compete at a higher level in academic competitions.
Xo Mel
For complete show notes, go to melrobbins.com
What if you could show up in any relationship feeling secure, exactly as you are?
You didn’t have to overthink every text you sent.
You wouldn’t have to play the dating games.
If somebody ghosted you, it wouldn’t be the end of the world.
Well I’m here to tell you today that you CAN be that person.
Meet the phenomenal Dr. Marisa Franco, New York Times bestselling author of “Platonic” and expert on attachment theory.
Today, we’re shining a light on your attachment style.
What is an attachment style?
Simple. It’s a framework backed by decades of research that will help you understand how you show up in relationships.
There are 4 attachment styles, and whether you’re aware of it or not, you default to one of them.
If you have a hard time setting boundaries with family members…
If you keep dating the same kind of people…
If you cling to relationships that have long expired…
Or if you’ve never been able to connect with someone on a deeply emotional level.
Blame your attachment style.
And here’s the good news: when you understand attachment theory, you can change your default attachment style and become more secure, which leads to happier and healthier relationships.
You deserve that, which is why this episode is for you.
Today, Dr. Franco breaks down the 4 attachment styles that make or break your relationships, AND the powerful tools you can use to improve them.
Once you understand your attachment style, you’ll have a lens through which to improve absolutely every relationship, especially the one you have with yourself.
Because at the deepest level, becoming more secure is about allowing love in.
Xo Mel
PS: One way to let more love in is to get in touch with your big dreams. Let me help you with a free journal guide: melrobbins.com/dreambig
For complete show notes, go to melrobbins.com
According to neuroscience research, there are four major mistakes you make when it comes to manifesting.
Done correctly, manifesting is a mindset tool that elite athletes and the world’s most successful people use to perform at the highest levels and achieve remarkable goals.
Today, I’ll reveal those mistakes and more importantly, teach you how to manifest the right way.
This episode is all about the HOW.
If you love takeaways and tools, you’ll eat this up.
Today I’ll lay it all out for you, step by step.
You’ll learn the 4 things you need to do every day if you’re serious about achieving your goals and dreams.
So wherever you stand on the topic of manifesting, this episode is a masterclass in both the science and art of doing it.
For all my cynics and skeptics, this isn’t what you think it is. This is tactical and based in research.
And if you already love vision boards, you’re probably going to have to rip yours up and create a new one once you learn the research related to what works and what doesn’t when it comes to visualization.
I promise you are not going to want to miss this one.
Xo Mel
To get the free download mentioned in the episode that helps you get in touch with your dreams, go to MelRobbins.com/dreambig
For complete show notes, go to melrobbins.com
THIS is the pep talk you need to hear right now.
I’m showing up with a level of intensity in a way you’ve never heard me before.
We are talking about you and your big dreams.
No matter what you're going through in life, your dreams are alive and well and they are waiting for you to wake up and turn toward them.
If you’re not ready for some Mel Robbins inspirational firepower, bookmark this for another day. Because I’m not f’ing around today.
If you’re done with feeling like you’re doing the same sh*t day in and day out…
If you’re tired of your excuses…
Or if you're like Barbara, who you will meet in this episode, and you have given up on your dreams because they haven’t materialized yet…
This may be the most important 50 minutes of your life.
There is a flame inside of you that is still flickering.
Today, we are going to throw gasoline on and reignite that fire.
You’re ready for this today. I know you are.
And more than any other episode, I can't wait to hear how you’re feeling and what you’re doing after you listen to this one.
Xo Mel
P.S. A lot of you keep asking how you can motivate the people that you love – your kids, spouses, family members, colleagues. Just share this episode with them and I’ll take care of it.
P.P.S. When you’re done listening, you’re going to feel like you’ve been shot out of a cannon and want to know how to level up. A great way to start is jumping into The Wake Up Challenge so I can support you in getting your mornings off to a great start for five days in a row, which is exactly the kind of structure you’re going to need to get started on your dreams.
This is the inspiration and wisdom you need to hear today.
It’s been quite a week and it’s only Monday.
I woke up yesterday and was so sick, I had to cancel some really important work and personal commitments.
Cue: the disappointment, the anxiety of upsetting others, and my own sadness that life was not going as I had planned.
This is one of those episodes that I recorded for myself and for you. Even when things are really upsetting, you still have the power to face them and take control.
Join me in learning one simple, powerful tool. I’ll not only explain it – I’ll also have you practice it with me.
I already feel better, and so will you.
Xo Mel
How do I know if I’m in a relationship with a narcissist?
Are certain personalities more drawn to narcissists?
Can I heal if I was raised by a narcissist?
How do I handle narcissists at work?
Why do I keep attracting narcissists into my life?
How can I keep a narcissist in my life… and not go crazy?
And, most of all:
What EXACTLY do I do to cope with narcissists?
You have been flooding my inbox with questions since Dr. Ramani Durvasula, the world’s leading expert on narcissism, spoke about it on the podcast.
You asked to bring her back and I’m listening: Dr. Ramani is here with answers to all of your questions.
This episode is for you if you…
Today you get:
You’ll also learn:
Listen in on today’s conversation. You will not only be glad you did – you’ll also leave armed with the knowledge, tools, and resources you need to diffuse the impact of a narcissist, get your power back, and know that whatever it is that this person says or does – it’s not your fault.
Xo, Mel
PS: Once you’re done with this one, if you haven’t had a chance to listen to Dr. Ramani’s first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast, absolutely spend some time listening to it: “5 Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist & How To Protect Yourself”
A survival guide to adult friendship: how to find your people, have more fun, and create meaningful friendships as an adult.
This is the topic you and everyone else are thinking about.
From making new friends to staying connected to your old ones, to the thing that’s really hard: what do you do when your friendships start to fade?
This is something I’ve been dying to talk to you about because I am right here, shoulder to shoulder with you, feeling lonely, left out, and wondering…
Where did all my friends go?
I know I’m not the only one because when I do see my friends or meet someone new, everyone is talking about how they never see their friends anymore.
Let’s fix that.
I spent a lot of time reflecting on the things that I’m doing that keep me from putting myself out there (which I know I need to do) and did extensive research on the topic.
What I discovered is both comforting and empowering. I can’t wait to share it with you.
I can boil all of this research down to the 5 lies you and I tell ourselves about friendship.
These lies are keeping you from having the best relationships of your life.
That’s why you need to hear them.
So did I.
You also need to hear the truth bombs I’m dropping and the smarty pants research I found to back it all up.
Because once you stop repeating these lies, your life will open up again.
You’ll have an easier time finding, making, and strengthening your relationships with friends.
And most importantly, your friendships will align with who you really are and what you really want in this chapter of your life.
Today it’s just you and me, friend to friend, figuring sh*t out together.
So let’s go.
Xo Mel
Today’s conversation is required listening for everyone.
We are going to blow the lid off of emotional triggers.
Let’s get to the bottom of why you and I react the way we do, and more importantly, learn simple ways to take control of our emotions.
It doesn’t matter where you live, how you grew up, or even if you’re a freakin’ saint to everyone else, I know you have something that triggers you.
You have days just like I do when something sets you off and you either snap like a firecracker or withdraw like a turtle in a shell.
And just like me, you say and do things you later regret.
I’ll go first: I’m trying hard to work on the nasty tone of voice I use with Chris and our kids when I feel frustrated or confronted.
And it doesn’t end there. If you’re like me, you beat yourself up for getting triggered, and you now start feeling bad and regret what you did (or the fact that you did nothing).
It makes me feel like crap when I do these things. I have felt helpless for a long time because it’s been so automatic when I get triggered emotionally.
I don’t want to keep living like this. I’d like to feel calm, peaceful, and more in control.
And that’s what this episode is about.
Wouldn’t you love to get out of this cycle of feeling emotionally triggered? Wouldn’t you love to take control of your emotional life as an adult?
The good news: you can rewire your response to stressful and annoying situations.
And in turn, you’ll bring more happiness, presence, control, and closer relationships into your life, because you’ll be present in them instead of letting your emotions drive you.
So, who is going to teach us about triggers?
I’ve tracked down a psychologist who teaches one of the most popular online workshops about this topic:
The incredible Dr. Becky Kennedy.
She’s the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Good Inside. And do not let the fact that she is a child psychologist and parenting expert keep you from soaking up and applying everything you can learn from her.
No matter how old you are right now, YOU were once a child. And that, my friend, is where your triggers got hardwired inside of you: before you even knew how to talk.
Understanding triggers (and taming them) requires you to go back before you can move forward.
Dr. Becky says, “Your triggers are stories from your past.”
Listen to this episode and really try to absorb what Dr. Becky shares, because the wiring and triggers that frustrate you right now are not permanent.
I know you’re going to send this to every one of your friends who is a parent, and please send it to your kids, nieces, and nephews, too.
Learning how to rewire my response to stress at 54 is amazing. But imagine if you knew how to do this in high school. That’s why I’ve asked our three kids – ages 23, 22, and 17 – to listen too. Sure, it would be nice for us to pass this healing and confidence-building stuff down to every generation, right? If they get this information now, they can rewire themselves faster.
This is really important, life-changing stuff. And I love that it’s also so simple. And you know what else I love? You. Thank you for listening and let me know what you learn.
Xo, Mel
PS: Want to go deeper?
For complete show notes, go to melrobbins.com
One thing that helped me gain control is taking control of my mornings. If you haven’t checked out my free 5-day Wakeup Challenge, let me support you in getting going and creating a better morning. Sign up here.
You know those days when you just feel “off”? Well, last week, both my friend Amy and I were having bad days.
Thankfully, I had just had an appointment with my amazing therapist that morning.
So, as Amy and I started to talk about why we didn’t “feel like ourselves,” I got this crazy idea that maybe we should invite YOU to join us as the conversation started to unfold.
We decided to turn on a recording device and unpack how we were feeling – on the fly.
I need to say: I stole everything you’re about to hear from my therapist Anne, and you should steal it too.
This is way more than just learning how to put on a happy face.
These tools are truly transformational because they help you tap back into the incredible power within you.
This is a very intimate and special episode that unfolds live.
So I’m inviting you right now: pull up a seat at the kitchen table with Amy and me.
Join us. Don’t just listen, but close your eyes and do the exercises with us.
Do not miss out on what happens near the end. It is magical and I certainly did not see it coming.
And I know you’re going to want to see the cowboy boots: don’t worry, they are in the show notes on my website here.
Xo Mel
Narcissism is on the rise and you need to learn how to spot it in other people and have tools to protect yourself.
We all know those people who constantly turn a conversation toward themselves, who only call you when they want something, and who have a way of making everything someone else’s fault.
Well, guess what? Turns out narcissism goes far beyond that.
I’m telling you right now, even if you THINK you know what a narcissist is, you need to listen.
I thought I knew, yet I’m still reeling from all my breakthrough moments.
Do you have a narcissist in your life?
Maybe you grew up with one.
Maybe you work with one.
Maybe you married one.
Maybe you don’t know what the hell a narcissist is!
Pull up a seat at the table with me because class is IN session.
Narcissism is a term that gets thrown around a lot these days, so how do you know if you’re *really* dealing with a narcissist?
You have been blowing up my email and DMs about this topic, so Dr. Ramani Durvasula is here to answer your questions.
She’s the world’s leading expert on narcissism and someone I’ve followed and admired for years. I love how she breaks down the topic of narcissism in a way that’s understandable, simple, and packed with tools you can apply the second you learn them.
Listen in as she shines a light on the REAL definition of a narcissist and the 5 warning signs you need to know if you’re dealing with one.
This topic is so juicy – and so surprising – that you’re going to be shocked by what you learn. One part in particular will change how you approach narcissists in your life from this day forward.
That’s exactly what happened to me. I have somebody in my life, a very prominent somebody, who absolutely displays narcissistic tendencies, and I have spent years in therapy dealing with it. So I actually got out of my chair and hugged Dr. Ramani after everything she taught me and you in this amazing episode!
If you get something out of this episode, or if you have a friend that has struggled with a narcissist in their life, please share this with them.
And if you think a person is a narcissist, don't even bother sharing, because if there's one thing you're going to learn: you don't want to EVER call one out…
That's just one of the many rules you're going to learn to follow in order to protect yourself from narcissistic behavior.
This episode is jam-packed with teachable moments that will leave you seeing the narcissists in your life with 20-20 insight.
You’ll learn how to not only deal with them but also end this episode with the tools to heal.
And that, my friend, could be the takeaway that changes your life forever.
Xo Mel
For full show notes, visit www.melrobbins.com
How do you know if the thing you’re holding on to is something you should keep fighting for or if it’s time to let go?
Phenomenal question. I’ve got the answer.
The truth is, most of us never let go.
You spend a lot of time adding things into your life – new projects, new relationships, new stuff – but when was the last time you *subtracted* something?
I’m talking about all the things you hang on to, even when they’re no longer serving you or helping you grow.
The stuff that you know is weighing you down and sucking your energy dry, but you can’t seem to drop it.
I’ve got the solution for you.
I’m about to walk you – literally – through a strategy that nobody talks about. It will help you let go of what’s a pain or a drain in your life.
Are you staying in a job you hate?
Do you keep hanging out with that friend who brings you down?
Holding on to those too-small pants because you’re hoping to one day fit into them again?
As the late, great Pulitzer and Nobel prize winner Toni Morrison wrote, if you “want to fly, you got to give up the shit that weighs you down.”
By the end of this episode, you’ll understand how to start letting go of what doesn’t serve you to create room for growth.
And, you’ll learn the two things you must let go of today.
Get ready to step into your new potential and unlock the magic of your life.
Aren’t you ready for that? I know I am. Let’s do it!
Xo Mel
For full show notes, visit www.melrobbins.com
Everything you think about anxiety is wrong.
Yes, we’re starting there.
And yes, we’re going deep.
I know that this episode will change your life. It has done the same for mine.
It’s not a secret that I’ve struggled with anxiety for pretty much my whole life. I swear I came out of the womb in a full-blown panic attack, and I was just warming up for a life of worry on a very elite, professional level.
I have been sharing my anxiety journey, and the tools that have helped me, for the past five years.
And in this episode, things go deeper than they have ever have before.
No exaggeration when I say that my takeaway from this interview today is so revolutionary, it’s forever changed the way I think about my anxiety and my relationship to it.
Which is why it’s my honor to introduce you to Dr. Russell Kennedy, MD.
I’m willing to bet that what you learn today you haven’t heard yet.
Like the real reason you’re anxious in the first place.
It’s not what you’re thinking.
No lie, I’ve been stalking Dr. Kennedy on Instagram for the past year because I just love his stuff.
Like me, he’s lived with his own anxiety since childhood. As a neuroscientist and a medical doctor, he also has the clinical experience to teach us how to HEAL our anxiety.
Did you catch that?
You don’t have to stop at managing your anxiety; you can actually heal it.
I see you if you’re living with a constant “nervous stomach.”
I see you if you can’t sleep.
I see you if your heart races and your muscles are often tense.
What Dr. Kennedy shares with you today has changed my relationship to anxiety, and I know it can do the same for you.
It will blow your mind when Dr. Kennedy tells you that we’ve been attacking this all wrong, and he’ll give you simple science and research-backed tools that will change your life immediately!
I ask all the questions you are thinking about anxiety and Dr. Kennedy and I get real with the answers.
You are not only going to learn how to deal with your anxiety in a very simple but effective way, you are going to learn why it’s there, what it’s trying to tell you, and how to heal it for good.
This episode has changed my life and I know it will do the same for you and your loved ones. Bookmark this episode and share it with those in your life who need it.
It’s time. You deserve what you’re about to learn.
Xo Mel
For full show notes, visit www.melrobbins.com
The biggest secret to getting the life you want is understanding 3 words I hope you never forget:
Motivation. Is. Garbage.
Right now, think about something you want to change or improve.
I bet you know WHAT you want to change – and what you need to do.
But the 100 million dollar question is: HOW?
How do you get started?
And how do you keep going even when you don’t feel like it?
Look, if change was easy, we’d all have six-pack abs, a million dollars in the bank, and healed our trauma.
And that’s where this episode comes in: I teach you the HOW.
I cracked the code on motivation, and in the next hour, I’m sharing everything I know with you.
You’ll learn the secret to breaking old habits, creating new ones, and how to hack what neuroscientists call “activation energy.”
You’ll also learn one simple but incredible tool, that’s grounded in decades of research, and will change your life forever. This tool is a “cheat code” for motivation. It’s worked for millions of people and it will for you, too.
I wish that what I was about to tell you was something I had read in a book, but unfortunately, that's not how I tend to learn things.
I'm the kind of person who either has to fall into a hole that I didn't see to learn a lesson, or more likely, I screw up my life so badly, I dig the hole for myself.
This was me back in 2008. I was digging the biggest life hole ever. And that’s where this episode begins.
I was at the lowest point in my life. My husband’s business was failing, I was unemployed, on the brink of bankruptcy and divorce, I was drinking way too much, and to top it all off, I couldn’t even get up in the morning. Not the Mel Robbins you know today.
This is the exact moment I discovered the secret to hacking motivation – because I had to if I wanted to fix my own life.
And if I can do it, you can too.
If you're a new listener, you'll learn more about how I got to where I am today.
And if you've been a fan for a while, this episode will be a reminder of the power within you to make any change you can imagine.
At the end of the episode, I’ll also give you a free 5-day challenge – The Wake Up Challenge – to walk you through getting started with these tools: www.melrobbins.com/wakeup
You won’t believe how simple it is to transform your life, your work, and your attitude. I can’t wait to show you how.
Xo Mel
How do you find your power when life knocks you down?
What do you do when you are in the middle of an emotional tsunami?
How do you respond when the universe is testing you?
This is the ultimate episode about resilience, confidence, and taking your power back.
Yes, you can take control with simple tools whenever you feel that insecurity spiral kick in. You can pick yourself up, shake off the sh*t, and you can make it a win for you.
In this episode, I take you into my life as my 22-year-old daughter gets news that sent her spiraling: her ex was now interested in one of her friends.
This episode unfolds live, over the phone, in real-time, and it is about way more than dealing with heartbreak.
This is for everyone, including you.
This is about how you can make those moments of insecurity a win. It’s about finding your confidence when self-doubt comes in. It’s about getting your power back.
And this is also about how you can make better decisions. How to align your actions and reactions with what you want out of life, rather than letting your emotions hijack you.
This is powerful stuff.
During this deeply relatable conversation, you’ll laugh, nod along, and probably think of a dozen friends who need to hear this too. My daughter and I unpack the situation live, and you’ll hear Kendall process her feelings, rise above the noise, tap into her power, and start coaching herself forward from a place of confidence and clarity.
Honestly, as her mother, I’m incredibly proud of what she shares in this episode.
I want you to listen because I want you to feel empowered too.
In one hour, you will learn how to turn hurt feelings into a WIN for you. You’ll hear the best advice I’ve ever received when life knocked me down, and how you can use it to make your life and your attitude 10X better.
You’ll understand how to break old patterns of self-sabotage and kick them to the curb for good.
Holy sh*t…I almost forgot! There is swearing in this episode! If you have any kids around, put those headphones on!
And seriously: for anyone in your life struggling with insecurity, do them a favor and remind them of who they are. Send them this episode so they can take their power back.
Xo Mel
You can change your life. Period.
My mission in this episode is to remind you of who you are and help you tap into the power inside of you. I want you to see something bigger for your life this year. I want to empower you with 3 simple steps you can take to make that vision a reality.
In this episode, you will learn the 3 steps I used to reinvent every aspect of my life over the past two years. I strengthened my relationships, changed my business, improved my mental health, and heck, I even changed where I lived (after 26 years)! I will walk you, step by step, through the story and the process.
I will share how I went from feeling stuck, lost, and overwhelmed two years ago to where I am today: happier than I’ve been in a long time, making big things happen, and having a ball.
If I can do it, you can do it.
I’ll walk you through what I did and how I did it. By the end of the episode, you’ll not only feel motivated to improve your life, but you’ll also know the steps to take and HOW to make it happen. And I will make sure you know that you, in fact, deserve to be happy and fulfilled. Yes, YOU.
You’ll also hear an amazing and inspiring story from one woman who used these 3 steps to save her life and then, over the past year, take the actions to improve her life and become happier, more confident, and empowered.
All of this is here to inspire and empower you to use these same simple steps to create profound change in your life, too.
You’ll also learn interesting research about tapping into intrinsic motivation, temporal landmarks, and thinking bigger about your life and the future, using “The Fresh Start Effect” to unlock the confidence to kick your rear end when you need to.
This episode is packed with stories, science, tools, and the motivational fire power you deserve. I am on a mission to remind you of who you are and the power you have inside yourself to change your life.
Change is possible. And you can’t convince me otherwise. YOU have the power to change your life through the actions you take every single day. YOU deserve to be happy.
And in case no one tells you today, I love you and I believe in your ability to change your life. Now go get ‘em. ❤️
Mel Robbins has spent the last 10 years helping millions of people change their lives. In The Mel Robbins Podcast, Mel shares the relatable stories and science-backed tools she’s built her career around to inspire, motivate, and empower you to create a better life. Starting October 6th, Mel is here for you twice a week with new episodes every Monday and Thursday.
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