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TPP 431: Rebecca Winthrop & Jenny Anderson on Disengaged Teens

48 min • 25 februari 2025

Today’s conversation feels both important and timely, because they’re tackling a challenge so many parents are facing: how to help disengaged teens reconnect with learning. My guests are Jenny Anderson, an award-winning journalist focused on learning and parenting, and Rebecca Winthrop, a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution specializing in education innovation. Together, they’ve been diving deep into the science of student engagement, and today, they’re sharing what they’ve learned about reigniting curiosity and motivation in kids who have checked out of school and their excellent new book, The Disengaged Teen: Helping Kids Learn Better, Feel Better, and Live Better.

In our conversation, Jenny and Rebecca broke down why engagement isn’t just about academics—it’s an intricate mix of cognitive, emotional, and behavioral factors, often even more complex for neurodivergent children. We discussed the connection between technology and disengagement, why traditional models of education often fail to meet kids where they are, and how parents can foster curiosity by modeling a love of learning. Jenny and Rebecca also walked us through the four modes of learning and offered strategies to help kids switch from resistor, passenger, or achiever mode into explorer mode, which is the mode where kids learn best.

One of the most powerful takeaways from this discussion is the reminder that resistance in learning doesn’t equal a lack of interest in learning—it’s often a signal that the context is not working for the student.

Things you'll learn

  • Every child deserves access to quality education, but disengagement, exacerbated by technology, has long been an issue
  • Engagement is a dynamic mix of cognitive, emotional, and behavioral factors, often highlighted by challenges faced by neurodivergent children
  • Parents can bridge the gap between school and real-world relevance by modeling curiosity and fostering the thrill of learning
  • Disengagement today carries higher costs, making it vital to connect learning content to children’s interests and help them envision possible future selves
  • Resistance in children can become part of their identity, but with emotional coaching and redirection, their agency can lead to growth
  • Why staying emotionally connected, fostering curiosity, and engaging in meaningful discussions supports both academic and emotional development

 

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