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The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace sells like hotcakes in biblical counseling/ fundamentalist/ homeschooling circles, and even though it seems like a “fringe” book, it’s affecting tens of thousands of women. Today Marissa Burt and Tia Levings and I sit down to talk about the problems with this book that tells women they must obey their husbands and submit—no matter what.

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Things Mentioned in the Podcast: 

• Download our Onesheet on The Excellent Wife
• Our podcast on how Emerson Eggerichs misuses Scripture in Love & Respect 
• Marissa’s post on 10 reasons parents have a hard time giving up spanking 
• 4 Concerns with Biblical Counseling 

About Tia Levings:

• Tia’s book, The Well-Trained Wife 
• Find Tia on Instagram  and Substack (as The Anti-Fundamentalist)
• Listen to last week’s podcast with Tia

About Marissa Burt:

• Find Marissa on Instagram  and X 
• Read Marissa’s Substack

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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She went to a flagship SBC church. She wasn’t supposed to get sucked into fundamentalism. But Tia ended up being stuck in an abusive marriage, trying to fix things by following advice from Gothard and more. It made her sick. It made her hopeless. But finally she realized, no one else is going to rescue us. I have to do this for me and the kids. And she did. Her story is riveting, touching, and relevant. Listen to a Well-Trained Wife!

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To Support Us:

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

About Tia Levings:

• Tia’s book, The Well-Trained Wife 
• Find Tia on Instagram  and Substack (as The Anti-Fundamentalist)

Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

• Tia's reel on Fundie Baby Voice
• The Dallas area pastors who have had to resign

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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The evangelical church spends a lot of time giving modesty messages to girls. But we hardly ever talk about vanity--even though the Bible condemns it. Could it be that in all our talk about modesty, we're inadvertently promoting vanity? And perhaps we can't call out vanity, because our messages to boys essentially enable vanity. Join Rebecca and Sheila as we hash this one out!

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Things Mentioned in the Podcast: 

• Our book She Deserves Better
• The Instagram channel HerCherch with all the cartoons
• Our Orgasm Course and Libido Course
• Our podcast looking at the long-term effects of the modesty message
• Why is Dannah Gresh calling 8-year-old bellies intoxicating?
• Our one-sheet on Lies Young Women Believe
• The reel from Our Savior's Church
• The side-by-side plagiarized apology from Josh Howerton

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Ever heard people say, "The Bible is crystal clear" or "if you don't believe that, you don't believe the Bible?" Quite often people equate their interpretation of the Bible with the Bible itself--with bad results. Today Scott Coley joins us to talk about his new book Ministers of Propaganda, and to look at how many evangelical leaders have used logical fallacies to keep themselves at the top of the power hierarchy. Plus let's look at how to get back to the way of Jesus!

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If church was your place of deepest hurt, can you find peace and healing with Christ? Check out Ryan George's book  Hurt and Healed by the Church 

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• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Things Mentioned in the Podcast: 

• Find Scott Coley's book Ministers of Propaganda
• Find Scott on X
• Check out The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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What if the church hurt you terribly? Can you still heal? Today Ryan George joins us to talk about how his fundamentalist family covers up his father’s sexual abuse of others—and how Ryan eventually learned the truth and turned his father in. And then Ryan deconstructed so much of what he had been taught—and found the real Jesus. Join us as Ryan George talks about his book Hurt and Healed by the Church.

About Ryan's Book

• Ryan’s book Hurt and Healed by the Church 
• Find all of Ryan's books

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Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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What happens when your family gets sucked into fundamentalism, and your father insists on controlling your life, including who you will marry? You grow up under Christian patriarchy, and you experience serious emotional abuse. Today Cait West joins us to talk about her absolutely beautiful memoir Rift, about how and why she had to break free. Then Keith and I talk about why people are deconstructing, and why it’s so desperately important to listen to stories like Cait’s.

About Cait West:

• Find Cait’s book Rift
• Find Cait on Twitter and Threads 

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Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

• Our post on 8 things to know about deconstruction
• Our book The Great Sex Rescue 
• The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to help people understand why certain teachings hurt people

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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People who deconstruct are often accused of never believing in the first place, or of just wanting to sin. But those who deconstruct are often those who have been hurt the most by toxic teachings. Today Sarah McCammon joins us to talk about who are “ex-vangelicals”, and her own story of deconstruction. And then Keith and I talk about what it means to create a safe and just community that honors people’s fears, betrayals, and concerns.

About Sarah McCammon:

• Find Sarah's book The Exvangelicals on Amazon
• Follow Sarah on Substack

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Things Mentioned in this Podcast:

• Our book She Deserves Better
• The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to help people understand why certain teachings hurt people
• Marg Mowczko's site analyzing the biblical passages pertaining to women
• The saga of Robert Morris’ abuse, from Dee at Wartburg Watch who broke the story 
• Larry Linn’s Twitter thread about righteousness 

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Why is a frequenty-used book in teen girls' Bible studies focusing on Satan and not Jesus?

A deep dive into the book Lies Young Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth and Dannah Gresh. Let's see what is being taught to teen girls--and why it's so problematic. We can do better, church!

Get our Downloadable One Sheet of the problems with the book Lies Young Women Believe:

Thanks to our sponsor, the book The Sex Talk You Never Got by Sam Jolman 

And listen to our interview with Sam about the book! 

To Support Us: 

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• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Things Mentioned in this Podcast:

• Our podcasts about the book Lies Women Believe: Part 1 and its treatment of abuse and Part 2 and its portrayal of God
• Our downloadable onesheet about Lies Women Believe
• Our book She Deserves Better 
• Our podcast going over the problems with how Dannah Gresh teaches about modesty
• Why do women support modesty messages? 
• Dannah Gresh's submission quiz

About Johnna Harris

• Follow her on Instagram and X, and find her podcast Bodies Behind the Bus

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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 Every Father’s Day, there’s a rallying cry in many conservative evangelical spaces that men are losing out and fathers are under attack. Where’s the truth in this? And what are the problems with talking about marriage like this? Plus we rewrite Harrison Butker’s commencement speech!

Thanks to our sponsor, the book The Sex Talk You Never Got by Sam Jolman 

And listen to our interview with Sam about the book! 

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• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Things Mentioned in this Podcast:

• Focus on the Family Broadcast, Finding the Hero in Your Husband (Part 1) 
• Harrison Butker Speech  and Transcript 
• Our Bare Marriage podcast on the idea that women talk too much (put forward by Focus on the Family under James Dobson)
• My post from last Father’s Day about framing your husband as the hero

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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What if purity culture didn’t just steal sexual health from women, but stole it from men too? What does it mean for a man to have healthy sexuality? Today licensed counselor Sam Jolman joins us for The Sex Talk You Never Got.

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The Boost Your Libido Course: https://baremarriage.com/boost-libido-course/

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• New River Fellowship
• Facebook
• Instagram

Pastor Joey Willis, Lead Pastor at New River Fellowship in Hudson Oaks, Texas.

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Evangelical conservatives too often portray masculinity as if men are supposed to be the “Alpha male”—aloof, emotionless, vying for control, and bullying. Today we look at how, even in nature, this concept of the Alpha Male has been overblown. And we present a better picture.

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Things mentioned in the podcast:

• Let Men Be Men podcasts, and Let Men Be Dads
• Josh Howerton about Evangelical Honeymoons
• The Desiring God article where Greg Morse bemoans all the safe men
• The TED Talk from Frans de Waal about Alpha Males
• Rick Pidcock analyses the Stronger Men’s Conference with Mark Driscoll’s “Jezebel” outburst 
• This week’s article on turning the other cheek 

All about New River Fellowship Church

• New River Fellowship 
• Facebook
• Instagram

Pastor Joey Willis, Lead Pastor at New River Fellowship in Hudson Oaks, Texas.

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Church is messy. Friendships are hard to find. Life in a fishbowl is awkward. But what if…it’s worth it? Such a great convo with Stephanie, Jessica, and Jenna about their new book Pastors’ Wives Tell All!

Whether you're a pastors' wife, or a female pastor yourself, living life in a fishbowl can be hard. We talk about parenting, marriage, and finding friends when you're in church ministry.

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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With the release of so many books critiquing purity culture, what has the backlash been like? Well, let’s talk about it with Zachary Wagner, the author of Non-Toxic Masculinity as we celebrate the one-year anniversary of the launch of She Deserves Better.

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About Zachary Wagner: 

• Find Zachary's book Non-Toxic Masculinity
• Find Zachary on Instagram

Things Mentioned in the Podcast: 

• Our book She Deserves Better!
• Zachary's response to the review from Shane Morris on The Gospel Coalition
• Bob and Dannah Gresh's appearance at Cedarville University
• Information about Dannah calling 8-year-old's bellies intoxicating
• Fred Stoeker's appearance on Focus on the Family
• Matthew West's podcast discussing Modest is Hottest

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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We've got such a compelling interview with Lauren Rose from Called to Peace Ministries. She's telling her story--and it's a mesmerizing one--of what happened as her family got more and more into the Bill Gothard movement (and she was eventually one of the ones he allegedly abused, and was part of the lawsuit).

But when you grow up feeling like your main role is to submit, are you even able to recognize abuse?

Lauren tells her story of being in an abusive marriage, and how she eventually realized something was wrong and came out of it.

(Also: at the beginning I quoted a Bible passage and said Matthew 18. I meant Matthew 15. Sorry!)

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View a sample of the Bible here!

To Support Us:

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

About Lauren Rose and Called to Peace:

• Called to Peace Ministries
• Find Called to Peace on Facebook, including my interview on how Sexual Coercion is Domestic Abuse

Things Mentioned in the Podcast: 

• Our podcast with another Gothard Survivor, Emily Elizabeth
• Our interview with Alyssa Wakefield, who grew up in a Gothard home and was groomed for abuse (Part 1, and Part 2).
• Our podcast episode 229 with Jay Stringer about Josh Howerton's wedding night advice
• My

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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When we talk about how God made sex to be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and how, if women don't want sex, the answer is to figure out why, we invariably get people saying, "so you think women don't have to have sex then?"

Today on the podcast we look at the 90% problem vs. the 10% problem. In 90% of cases where women don't want sex, there's a reason. Let's focus mostly on the 90%! But guess what? We actually talk about the 10% too!

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The book Forgiveness After Trauma. A victim-centered approach to what forgiveness looks like after betrayal. Rather than pressuring a victim to forgive, let's examine what Scripture says about lament, anger, accountability, and what reconciliation looks like. I was so, so blown away by this book, and saw things in Scripture I never saw before. Check out Susannah Griffith's story, and this amazing book.

To Support Us:

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

The Products We Mentioned: 

• Our book The Great Sex Rescue
• The Orgasm Course
• The Boost Your Libido Course

Things Mentioned in the Podcast: 

• Our podcast on obligation sex, and the post that goes along with it
• The podcast where we discuss Emerson Eggerichs saying you can't tell if a woman is aroused--and a follow-up podcast going into more detail on how evangelical writers portray female orgasm
• More podcasts on libido: 3 ways to talk about libido differences, and have we made sex into a yes space for men?

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Recently Texas SBC megachurch pastor Josh Howerton told brides that on the wedding night, they should "stand where he wants you to stand, wear what he wants you to wear, and do what he wants you to do." Sex was presented as something that HE has been waiting for his whole life, and that she has to provide.  There was no emphasis on how she actually has greater need to be cared for sexually, if you're going to begin well, than he does. Jay Stringer joins us today to talk about how the conversation around sex often leads to couples starting off badly--and also allows men to not have to grow up or do the work of being mature, emotionally healthy people.

Our Sponsor:

The book Forgiveness After Trauma. A victim-centered approach to what forgiveness looks like after betrayal. Rather than pressuring a victim to forgive, let's examine what Scripture says about lament, anger, accountability, and what reconciliation looks like. I was so, so blown away by this book, and saw things in Scripture I never saw before. Check out Susannah Griffith's story, and this amazing book. 

To Support Us:

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

About Jay Stringer:

• Check out Jay's book Unwanted
• Find Jay on Instagram
• Learn more about the upcoming Sexual Attachment Conference

Links We Mentioned:

• Jay's first podcast with us on his book Unwanted
• Our book The Great Sex Rescue, with the stats on vaginismus and sexual pain
• Our books for engaged couples, The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
• Our podcast looking at Josh and Jana's Howerton's sex talk
• The podcast showing how Josh Howerton plagiarizes in his sermons
• The Orgasm Course

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Forgiveness is so often weaponized against victims in the church. But what does the Bible really say about forgiveness, especially when trauma is involved? How can we value our own mental health but also follow Jesus? This is a fascinating and healing conversation with Susannah Griffith, author of Forgiveness After Trauma.

Our Sponsor:

The Kingdom Girls NIV Bible. Meet the women in God's story! Designed for girls, but honestly--it's awesome for every woman! And it makes a great Easter gift. The Bible includes beautiful photos and write-ups on every woman who is mentioned in Scripture. Finally, a Bible that highlights God's story for women.  
View a sample of the Bible here!

To Support Us:

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Links We Mentioned:

• Susannah Griffith’s book Forgiveness After Trauma
• Find Susannah at her website

Future Speaking Events:
Belleville, ON: St. Thomas Anglican Church in Belleville, Ontario is throwing a party for us to celebrate The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better! March 23, 2:30-4:30 pm. Q&A, crafts with toxic books, and more.
More information here. 

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Natalie Hoffman joins us today to talk about her INCREDIBLE memoir All the Scary Little Gods. Natalie escaped an abusive marriage, and now coaches other women in similar situations.  In her memoir, she invites us to listen to the story from the point of view of Little Natalie, and using IFS (Internal Family Systems) to see it from all of her parts. And as we understand our stories, we make it so that we won't recreate the problems.

To Support Us:

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Links We Mentioned:

• Natalie Hoffman’s book All the Scary Little Gods
• Natalie’s website Flying Free, and her Flying Free podcast
• The first podcast Natalie did with me–how Christian books made me stay in an abusive marriage
• Natalie joined us on our podcast about the book Lies Women Believe
• Richard Schwartz' book No Bad Parts
• Jenna Riemersma's book on IFS Altogether You

Future Speaking Events:
Belleville, ON: St. Thomas Anglican Church in Belleville, Ontario is throwing a party for us to celebrate The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better! March 23, 2:30-4:30 pm. Q&A, crafts with toxic books, and more.
More information here. 

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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So many people resist admitting that they are actually egalitarians, because they think they have to be complementarian--even if they don't act like it. Today Sheila and her husband Keith dissect the arguments that are often used to say "we're really complementarian"--even when they're objectively not. And we invite people instead to preach what they practice.

To Support Us:

• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
• For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
• And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!

Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

• The Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood's statement
• Our podcast with Nancy Pearcey where we explain how  complementarians act as egalitarians
• The interview with Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth and Robert Wolgemuth 
• The Great Sex Rescue, with our findings about decision-making
• Rebecca Groothuis' article about equality
• Jonathan Leeman's article (and video) about a husband's authority

Resources about the Biblical Argument for Equality:

• Marg Mowczko's site--amazing short articles on virtually every bible passage about gender. 
• Our podcast with Philip Payne, and his book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood
• Terran Williams' book How God Sees Women
• Terran Williams' series refuting Mike Winger's videos
• Julie Zine Coleman's book On Purpose 

Future Speaking Events:
Grand Rapids, MI: Sheila and Rebecca will be at Calvin University on March 13 and 14 . March 13 at 4:30; March 13 at 7 pm for a panel discussion; and March 14 at 7 pm. More details here.

Bellevill

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

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The Great Sex Rescue turns 3 this week! And it's been a super eventful three years. So much has changed. So let's talk about the feedback we've had, what we've done since, what people are saying--and where we're going from here.

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Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

• The Great Sex Rescue!  Learn more, or get it right from Amazon.
• Our Healthy Sexuality Rubric where we scored the books we looked at for The Great Sex Rescue.
• The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to tell others about our findings
• Our podcast where we discussed how the authors we critiqued had responded to The Great Sex Rescue.
• The article on Julie Roys' site about Focus on the Family deleting comments on the Reel where Juli Slattery used our talking points. 
• Juli Slattery's reel on Focus on the Family's Instagram page
• The Bodies Behind the Bus podcast where Joy tells her story about The Great Sex Rescue (we're near the end) (and here's part 2!)

Future Speaking Events:
Grand Rapids, MI: Sheila and Rebecca will be at Calvin University on March 13 and 14 . March 13 at 4:30; March 13 at 7 pm for a panel discussion; and March 14 at 7 pm. More details here.

Belleville, ON: St. Thomas Anglican Church in Belleville, Ontario is throwing a party for us to celebrate The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better! We'll have blackout poetry crafts and other paper crafts to do with toxic books (bring them along!), a silent auction, a Q&A, and more. March 23, 2:30 - 5:00 pm. All welcome.

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

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Would our reaction to Christian marriage advice change if we realize how many people who write that advice are actually in abusive or destructive marriages? What if people in those marriages are more drawn to write marriage advice to process how they're feeling?

Today we look at two different women that Focus on the Family have held up to be emulated. One is a woman who has written prolifically for them, and when you look at her articles and what she reveals about her relationship, a TON of red flags are present. The other is a woman whose husband was jailed for domestic violence, but then she prayed, he repented, and now they lead Love & Respect seminars together. And Focus on the Family thinks this is a positive message.

Today Sheila Gregoire is joined by her husband Keith and by abuse educator Sarah McDugal.

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Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

• The article in the Revealer about Elisabeth Elliot's marriage
• My article detailing Focus on the Family's Facebook post praising the man who was jailed for domestic violence, as well as the letter I sent to Jim Daly
• My article on TradWife influencers and my concern for them
• Our podcast on Power of a Praying Wife
• Our one sheet download on Love & Respect
• Focus on the Family's article "It's the Little Things"
• Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family

Find Sarah McDugal:

• Follow Sarah on Facebook
• Find her at Wilderness to Wild

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth taught concerning things about shame, trauma, and even what God is like. On today's podcast, we're joined by Becky Castle Miller, a doctoral student looking at emotions in the Bible, and Helen Blake, a licensed counselor in Sydney, Australia, to discuss some of the damaging teachings--and point us to a Jesus who understands and sympathizes with our struggles.

Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

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Our Downloadable Onesheet:
Download our One Sheet on Lies Women Believe, looking at the problems with the book

Other Things We Talked About:

• Last week's podcast on Part 1 of Lies Women Believe
• Find Becky Castle Miller on Instagram
• Scot McKnight's book King Jesus Gospel

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• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

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Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth is one of the most popular women’s bible study books used in churches across North America. But what does the book actually teach about marriage? About sex? About divorce and abuse? It’s scary, and today Gretchen Baskerville and Natalie Hoffman join host Sheila Wray Gregoire to analyze the harmful messages in Lies Women Believe.

Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

To Support Us:
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Our Downloadable Onesheet:
Download our One Sheet on Lies Women Believe:

Natalie Hoffman's Information:
Natalie’s Podcast Flying Free, and her website
Natalie Hoffman’s book Is It Me: Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage

Gretchen Baskerville's Information:
Gretchen Baskerville’s site The Lifesaving Divorce:
Gretchen Baskerville’s YouTube channel:
Gretchen’s book The Lifesaving Divorce

Other Resources
Our podcast on The Power of  a Praying Wife (featuring Gretchen):
Our podcast telling Natalie’s story:
Our book She Deserves Better, which deals with Nancy Leigh DeMoss’ book Lies Young Women Believe: 

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

First, support us!
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Check out our Merch!

Our Resources
Sign up for Rebecca’s Friday emails

The Orgasm Course (there’s also an add-on for husbands)

She Deserves Better book

The Studies We Looked At:
Time Use and Feelings of Love

“Women Get Worse Sex: A Confound in the Explanation of Gender Differences in Sexuality

“Popular Psychology Through a Scientific Lens: Evaluating Love Languages From a Relationship Science Perspective”

“Gender Inequities in Household Labor Predict Lower Desire”,

How to Understand Statistics Podcast (and how statistics can be misused):

Want to be part of our research team?
If you're a grad student, prof, or other academic, check out our job opportunities to help with peer reviewed research papers:

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Or, for tax deductible donations in the U.S., support our Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation: https://secure.qgiv.com/for/goodfruits

Check out our Merch–including our Love & Respect His & Her mugs: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/his-hers-love-and-respect-ceramic-mugs/

Sign up for Rebecca’s Friday emails: http://eepurl.com/z0VFn

The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex: https://baremarriage.com/good-girls-guys-guide-great-sex/

Gary’s article “Young Husband: It Might Not be Her; It Might be Her Situation” https://garythomas.com/2017/06/29/young-husband-might-not-might-situation/

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Or, for tax deductible donations in the U.S., support our Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation: https://secure.qgiv.com/for/goodfruits

Check out our Merch–including our Love & Respect His & Her mugs: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/his-hers-love-and-respect-ceramic-mugs/

Emerson Eggerichs’ reel where he talks about relationships https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxL4Lm6pDo7/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Our summary of the issues with Love & Respect https://baremarriage.com/2023/01/summary-problems-love-and-respect-emerson-eggerichs/ 

Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect https://baremarriage.com/2020/01/open-letter-focus-on-the-family-love-respect-emerson-eggerichs/

(All of our other posts are linked there)

Our podcast looking at the way he downplayed abuse in a sermon series at Houston First Baptist Church https://baremarriage.com/2021/03/podcast-on-emerson-eggerichs-gaslighting-emotional-abuse-victims-and-stop-seeing-women-as-dangerous/

Our look at how Emerson Eggerichs misuses Scripture in Love & Respect

https://baremarriage.com/2023/01/emerson-eggerichs-twists-scripture-love-respect/

The problems with hierarchy in marriage (Keith’s Danvers statement series) https://baremarriage.com/2023/06/danvers-statement-series-complementarian-problem-1-men-dominating-their-wives/

Check out Andrew Bauman’s Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma: https://christiancc.org/

Andrew J. Bauman’s website https://andrewjbauman.com, or follow him on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/AndrewJamesBauman

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our Facbook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more!
• Thanks to everyone who helped us reach our fundraising goal! You can give to our work and get tax deductible donations (within the United States) by donating to the Good Fruit Faith initiative of the Bosko Foundation. 
• Check out our Merch at our store, including our biblical womanhood and biblical manhood merch, our new Jezebel merch, and more!
• Join our email list so you don't miss one of Rebecca's great Friday emails, or any chances to be in new surveys, etc.
• Mark Gungor's clip about preferring a dog to a wife who talks to  you
• The Halo 3 study about female voiced players

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

Partner with us at Good Fruit Faith, an initiative of the Bosko Foundation, as we help impact future church leaders with our data and our message (tax receiptable within the U.S.): https://secure.qgiv.com/for/goodfruits

Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Find Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer’s book Pivot: https://amzn.to/3ToOKiV, along with their first book together A Church Called Tov: https://amzn.to/41nRsrd

Our first podcast together about their book A Church Called Tov: https://baremarriage.com/2021/04/podcast-a-church-called-tov-and-matthew-18/

Find Scot McKnight’s New Testament bible study series: https://amzn.to/46Zc5uW

Laura Barringer on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@lauraebarringer

Scot McKnight on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@scotandkris

Me on Threads! https://www.threads.net/@sheilagregoire

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

Our marriage survey is still open! We’re looking for married couples to take it. https://baremarriage.com/grim

Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our incredible Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Help us raise $52,000 by Christmas to expand our reach and make inroads into academic circles! BOSKO LINK HERE

Laura Anderson’s book When Religion Hurts You https://amzn.to/3sB0Zhs

Find Laura on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraeanderson/

Our Merch: order before December 10 to use it as Christmas gifts! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/merchandise/

Our book She Deserves Better, outlining some of the trauma messages teen girls receive, and our book The Great Sex Rescue, outlining vaginismus as a potential trauma response

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

And her FACEBOOK PAGE has been HACKED--so please join the new official one!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Things mentioned in this podcast:

Our survey link! Couples are invited to take our marriage survey (you take it individually and it’s confidential): https://baremarriage.com/grim

Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Join our email list and get Rebecca’s awesome Friday emails as well as a roundup of our best posts and podcasts: http://eepurl.com/z0VFn

Sarah’s Wilderness to Wild program: https://wildernesstowild.com

No Eden Elsewhere blog talking about small group abuse at Watermark Church: https://noedenelsewhere.com/the-aftermath-stories-from-former-watermark-church-members/

Dee Parsons from The Wartburg Watch on why you shouldn’t sign a membership covenant: https://thewartburgwatch.com/2023/09/11/smart-christians-need-to-think-carefully-before-joining-a-church-with-a-membership-covenant-which-is-a-legal-contract/ and how to resign from a membership covenant: https://thewartburgwatch.com/permpage-how-to-resign-from-a-church-whether-or-not-you-are-under-church-discipline/

Our podcast with Naghmeh Panahi: https://baremarriage.com/2023/10/naghmeh-panahi-bullied-leaving-abusive-marriage-podcast/

Biblical Counseling post on 98 ways you can sign against your husband: https://baremarriage.com/2019/06/sinning-against-husband/

The consent form you sign for biblical counseling: https://baremarriage.com/2019/03/question-your-biblical-counsellor/

John MacArthur Sermon Clip: https://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/70-54/bible-questions-and-answers-part-77

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:
Take our marriage survey! We’re looking for couples to fill out our marriage survey: https://baremarriage.com/grim

Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and support our work, while getting access to our awesome Facebook community! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Our Merch makes great Christmas gifts! Order before December 11 to guarantee delivery by Christmas: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/merchandise/

Andrew Whitehead’s book American Idolatry: https://amzn.to/3SubmhI, and Andrew Whitehead’s book with Sam Perry, Taking Back America for God https://amzn.to/3FU84Ne

Join Andrew’s substack! https://andrewwhitehead.substack.com/

Follow Andrew on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ndrewwhitehead/ 

Listen to Andrew’s 4 part series on Christian nationalism: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/american-idols/id1706355168

Our book (co-authored with Joanan Sawatsky) The Great Sex Rescue https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

Our survey link! Couples are invited to take our marriage survey (you take it individually and it’s confidential):
https://baremarriage.com/grim/

Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

The article where you can find the Elisabeth Elliot quote on the essence of femininity: https://www.crossway.org/articles/the-essence-of-femininity/

Holly Furtick’s reel on being grumpy: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtnHKVJOOOI/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Holly Furtick’s reel on not fussing and just praying:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm1oSdNBGB3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

The study on why sweating the small stuff is important:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18361676/

Get help for religious OCD at NOCD.com -- Licensed therapists using evidence-based techniques.
https://nocd.com

John Gottman’s book The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work:

https://amzn.to/3Mxzc8h

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

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Links to things mentioned:

Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Lisa Weaver Swartz’ book Stained Glass Ceilings: https://amzn.to/3suzUfJ

A write-up of the amicus brief submitted on behalf of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary to deny victims the right to sue the organizations that failed to report and failed to protect: https://www.courier-journal.com/story/news/2023/10/27/southern-baptists-response-to-sex-abuse-in-kentucky/71343874007/

Our book She Deserves Better: https://baremarriage.com/she-deserves-better/

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and support our work and research, while getting access to our Facebook group, unfiltered podcast, merch discounts, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage

Sign up for our email list to hear about when our next study is out! http://eepurl.com/z0VFn

The study that people say claim 75% of women divorce for lack of commitment (it doesn't really say that): https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/

The study on how men are six times more likely to leave when one spouse is diagnosed with a life-altering disease: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/

She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes in the Sink: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288 Plus Matthew Fray's book This Is How Your Marriage Ends: https://amzn.to/45PSM6w

Caylee Cresta's Instagram channel about mental load and taking out the trash: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrQx8-sMKL9/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Check out our Boost Your Libido Course https://baremarriage.com/boost-libido-course/ and our Orgasm course: https://baremarriage.com/the-orgasm-course/

Check out our books The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: https://baremarriage.com/good-girls-guys-guide-great-sex/

Check out The Great Sex Rescue https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

The study that found that women do more housework the more they out-earn their husbands: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3028208/

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Check out her books:

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• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Links to things mentioned:

• Join our Patreon and get access to the best place on the internet! https://patreon.com/baremarriage
• Check out our Domestic Violence Awareness Merch and our Breast Cancer Awareness Merch--20% of profits go to support charities involved in fighting DV and breast cancer: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/
• See Naghmeh's book I Didn't Survive: https://amzn.to/3MgUpmP
• Listen to the audio of Franklin Graham confronting Naghmeh--and Naghmeh standing her ground on Scripture: (at the bottom of this post): https://julieroys.com/panahi-graham-bullied-salvage-savesaeed/
• Read a synopsis of Naghmeh's story on the Roys Report: https://julieroys.com/panahi-graham-bullied-salvage-savesaeed/ or the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/religion/2022/06/20/franklin-graham-domestic-abuse-abedini/

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our amazing Facebook group and unfiltered Sheila & Rebecca!
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Christa Hardin's new book The Enneagram in Marriage:
https://amzn.to/3SmZyxR
Christa's podcast The Enneagram and Marriage:
https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/pod
Christa on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandmarriage/
The study we analyzed:
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/jomf.12863
Our new Biblical Manhood Merch:
https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-manhood/

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Check out her books:

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• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:
Join our Patreon group for as little as $5 a month and be part of the most amazing place on the internet: https://patreon.com/baremarriage
Join our email list so that you'll be notified when I'm in your area--and so you don't miss any of Rebecca's amazing round-ups: http://eepurl.com/z0VFn
Kristin Kobes Du Mez' Twitter thread: https://twitter.com/kkdumez/status/1709746160120795295
Josh Howerton's sermon where the clip came from: https://subspla.sh/c7tmk53 (starting around timestamp 12:30)
Last week's podcast with Terran Williams on changing his mind and the impact on his family: https://baremarriage.com/2023/10/terran-williams-sets-out-to-prove-complementarianism/
Tim Little's bio at Faith Baptist Theological Seminary: https://faith.edu/faculty/dr-tim-little/
Gary Thomas' article where he misunderstands modern neuroscience: https://garythomasbooks.substack.com/p/every-mans-battle-yes-and-every-womans
Our podcast where Rebecca and Connor go over the meta-analysis on the differences between male and female brains: https://baremarriage.com/2021/09/pink-brains-blue-brains-gender-differences-neuroscience-podcast/ And the 2019 meta-analysis that we quoted from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6681749/ and the 2021 meta-analysis: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763421000804
Rachel Joy Welcher's review of Shannon Harris' memoir in Christianity Today: https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2023/september-web-only/shannon-harris-woman-they-wanted-memoir-purity-culture.html
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Terran Williams’ Book How God Sees Women: https://amzn.to/3PJjwQ2

Terran’s book What’s So Amazing About Scripture: https://amzn.to/3ROMSiZ

Terran’s series on Mike Winger’s videos on complementarianism/egalitarianism: https://terranwilliams.com/what-winger-presently-gets-wrong-egalitarian-silver-bullet-galatians-328/ (all of his articles are linked at the bottom of this one)

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Our Obligation Sex Series that has run all month:

https://baremarriage.com/2023/09/10-things-obligation-sex/

Our 4-Step Plan to Rebuild after Obligation Sex:

https://baremarriage.com/2022/11/the-sex-recovery-series-4-point-plan-to-rebuild-your-sex-life/

10 Questions to Ask if Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex:

https://baremarriage.com/2020/09/10-questions-for-husbands-to-ask-if-your-wife-doesnt-want-sex/

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Our summary of all the issues in this podcast, plus a downloadable one sheet! https://baremarriage.com/2023/09/review-of-the-problems-with-for-women-only-by-shaunti-feldhahn-with-download/

Our post that does a deep dive in the problematic survey questions that Shaunti Feldhahn asks:

https://baremarriage.com/2021/01/fixed-it-for-you-we-fix-a-survey-question-so-it-doesnt-enable-date-rape/

Find Meghan Tschanz’s podcast series on For Women Only: Part 1; Part 2; Part 3; Part 4

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bonus-episode-for-women-only-part-1/id1438368947?i=1000625676862

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-2/id1438368947?i=1000626549865

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-3/id1438368947?i=1000627185380

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-4/id1438368947?i=1000628046603

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Devi Abraham’s podcast Where Do We Go From Here, including my latest episode with her!

https://wheredowegopod.com/

https://open.spotify.com/episode/18eiTmiHvMimq3Oog80lq1

Follow Devi on Instagram!  https://www.instagram.com/devi_writes/, and the Where Do We Go From Here on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wheredowegopod/

We take apart the “love and respect survey question at the end of this podcast: 

https://baremarriage.com/2020/12/unconditional-respect-in-marriage-is-wrong-podcast/

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Our op ed with Baptist News that goes over the points in this podcast: https://baptistnews.com/article/do-complementarian-men-do-better-a-response-to-nancy-pearcey/

Our initial article responding to Josh Howerton's claim that conservative evangelicals have the best sex and marriages 

https://baptistnews.com/article/do-conservative-evangelicals-enjoy-better-sex-and-marriage-a-response-to-josh-howerton/ 

Our podcast going over these same points (for those who would rather listen!):

https://baremarriage.com/2022/04/podcast-do-christians-have-better-sex-lives-a-response-to-josh-howerton/

Leonardo Cruz' critique of how Nancy Pearcey handled history scholars https://leo-cruz.medium.com/nancy-pearcey-pt1-44f98c2a3602

Our book The Great Sex Rescue, based on our survey of 20,000 women https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

The IFS report that showed that conservative highly religious men were far more likely to perpetrate intimate partner violence (p. 36):

https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/reports/worldfamilymap-2019-051819.pdf 

The book The Scandal of the Evangelical Mind

https://amzn.to/3r7BIe9

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• Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month! Get exclusive access to our Facebook group, merch, and more perks! https://patreon.com/baremarriage
• Sign up for our FREE webinar with Wendy Snyder from Fresh Start Family! Disciplining with Compassion, Connection, and Firm Kindness: https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/baremarriage/
• My article that Rebecca Davis quotes in her book: https://baremarriage.com/2020/07/submission-debi-pearl-created-to-be-his-helpmeet-abuse
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Check out last year's podcasts with Wendy: Part 1 and Part 2

https://baremarriage.com/2022/05/podcast-how-to-misuse-statistics-for-dummies/

https://baremarriage.com/2022/05/podcast-connection-not-punishment-a-better-way-to-parent-feat-wendy-snyder/

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The Instagram Reel on Ken vs. Allan: 

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The Atlantic: The real reason South Korean women aren't having babies: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/03/south-korea-fertility-rate-misogyny-feminism/673435/

The New York Times: Women in South Korea are on Strike Against Being Baby-Making Machines https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/27/opinion/south-korea-fertility-rate-feminism.html

Carolyn Custis James' book Malestrom https://amzn.to/47HWqSh

Information on the Bechdel Test: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bechdel_test

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• Our amazing Insulated Travel Mugs, that keep water super cold, and keep things hot, too! We've got them in a variety of designs, including Prayer and Tent Pegs, our She Deserves Better slogans, and our Biblical Womanhood Merch
• N.T. Wright's book How God Became King, and Rachel Held Evans' book Inspired: Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible Again
• The article from Desiring God that tells women to gaslight themselves
• Our podcast on how Emerson Eggerichs misuses Scripture, and our post outlining the main ways in detail

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• Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit--help for you as you talk about healthy teachings to your friends and church https://baremarriage.com/toolkit/
• Keith's Danvers Statement posts--Start here.
• Emerson Eggerichs warns against wives following into sin (watch the first few video clips and see his emotional response)
• Our Power of a Praying Wife podcast and download
• The Gospel Coalition's Instagram Reel about men being passive
• Our podcasts with Philip Payne: Part 1 and Part 2
• Check out Marg Mowczko's amazing website
• Why having the husband make the final decision can be a harmful shortcut

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• Join our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get exclusive access to our Facebook group--and even free merch!
• A Synopsis of all the problems in Power of a Praying Wife--with an optional download
• Gretchen Baskerville at the Life-Saving Divorce, and her book The Life-Saving Divorce. Follow her on Facebook and YouTube.
• Gretchen's articles with info on the effect of divorce on kids; the ACE study; and more.
• Sarah McDugal from Wilderness to Wild. Follow her on Facebook and Instagram and YouTube, or join her support groups.
• Sarah's free online course to recognize red flags of abuse, plus a slew of resources to help identify abuse. 
• Sarah's article on how God honors free will: Happily (N)ever After, and Does God Say You Can't Divorce for Abuse?
• Keith's series on the issues with the Danvers Statement

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• Our book The Great Sex Rescue!
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• Our research methods for The Great Sex Rescue, with FAQs, and a Twitter thread analying our methods by someone we don't even know!
• Article from The Journal for Sex Research on the motivations for sex and the effects of obligation sex
• Article on the emotional work done by women during sex--The Other Third Shift? Women's Emotion Work in their Sexual Relationships

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• Todd Korpi's book Your Daughters Shall Prophesy: Amplifying the Voice and Place of Christian Women (https://amzn.to/3MWkPtH)
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• Our book The Great Sex Rescue, plus our two books that look into the sexual response cycle in detail: The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex. 
• Emerson Eggerichs: His podcast where the clips were taken from, plus the podcast where we analyzed his advice to the woman crying the shower; the post where we went into this in detail; and the podcast featuring the woman who wrote in to Eggerichs. 
• Dr. Laura Robinson's critiques of Beautiful Union. Here's Part 6 with links to everything (so go here, but then start at post 1 that is linked at the top and work your way through). In this podcast we focused on parts 3 and 4. 
• My original Twitter thread about the visceral reaction that women have to sex advice. 
• An article earlier this week about how pastors aren't necessarily the experts; lo

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• Nijay's new book Tell Her Story 
• Our podcast looking at how Emerson Eggerichs mishandles Scripture, featuring Nijay Gupta
• The audio version of She Deserves Better is now available! https://amzn.to/43tbmkp
• Our new She Deserves Better merch!
• Amazon Prime's new series Shiny Happy People (coming June 2)

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• Our new book She Deserves Better--the audio has now launched!
• Our one-sheet download of the problems with Every Young Man's Battle
• Our podcast with Zachary Wagner, his new book Non-Toxic Masculinity, and his Twitter
• Andrew Bauman's book The Sexually Healthy Man and his Facebook
• Our Whole Story puberty course to tell your kids about sex & puberty!

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• Our new book She Deserves Better
• Beth Allison Barr's book The Making of Biblical Womanhood, plus follow Beth on Twitter
• Our books that are awesome for couples about to get married--The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex

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• Our new book She Deserves Better!
• Aimee Byrd's book Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, and her new book The Sexual Reformation
• Aimee Byrd's story of the bullying she went through in her denomination, and some more recent thoughts on the aftermath. 
• Take the submission quiz yourself! It starts on p. 30 of this download, but you can also find the "bellies are intoxicating" on p. 24. 
• The modesty podcast where we talked about the "bellies are intoxicating" statement. 
• Our Hazardous Materials stickers to put on books  you're concerned about

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• Zachary Wagner's book Non-Toxic Masculinity, plus find Zachary on Twitter
• Our Hazardous Materials stickers to put on books  you're concerned about
• The Instagram Reel from thatdarnchat

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The podcast where we discussed "Girls Talk Too Much":
https://baremarriage.com/2023/03/do-women-talk-more-than-men-podcast/

The podcast where we were talking about how boys had to be superheroes:
https://baremarriage.com/2023/04/podcast-on-nice-guy-syndrome-and-boundaries/

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• Our new book She Deserves Better
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• Article on the problem with “Nice Guy” behavior when it’s rooted in entitlement
• Our episode of Theology in the Raw with Preston Sprinkle (the interesting parts are from 30 minutes on)

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• Our Patreon! Thank you for supporting us and helping us fund our research. You can join us for as little as $5 a month!
• Jasmine Holmes’ new book Never Cast Out! Plus find her on Instagram. 
• Jasmine on our podcast a few months ago talking about her book Carved in Ebony.
• Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it and get access to our bonuses. 

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month!
• Our new book She Deserves Better! Send in your pre-order receipts for lots of pre-order bonuses. 
• Study on Himpathy on what makes people sympathize with perpetrators rather than victims
• Jenna Mountain's counseling center Aspen Haus

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Links to things mentioned:

• Pre-Order She Deserves Better and join our launch team! The Launch Team closes on Tuesday, March 28, so get your pre-order receipts in now!
• Help support our research, plus get access to unfiltered podcasts, an amazing Facebook group, and more, by joining our Patreon
• Last week's podcast where we looked at the problems with one of Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions around modesty
• A podcast where we walked through another issue with Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions where she spreads rape culture myths, and a post that lays out her survey question that enables date rape

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THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST

• She Deserves Better–our new book! Preorder on Amazon, or here are other places to get it (Baker Books has 40% off and free shipping within the U.S.!).
• Join the launch team if you’re willing to write a review!
• On Modesty: We shouldn’t sacrifice teens’ well-being for adult men’s comfort

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it now (it helps us a ton), and then on Monday I'll give you information on how you can join the launch team. 
• Sign up for my email list so you don't miss out on joining the launch team
• A study of gender differences in children and number of words spoken (hint, not much of a difference)
• An article explaining the issue of faulty claims, and giving the results of a study inspired by these faulty claims.
• The Mendelberg and Karpowitz study of gendered speech in mixed groups with decision-making

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Should we kiss dating good-bye? In purity culture, we made dating a sin. But what does the data actually say about how dating affects teen girls? In today's Bare Marriage podcast, we share our findings from our survey of 7000 women!

Things Mentioned in the Podcast:

• Our new book She Deserves Better, which launches April 18! It helps us immensely when you pre-order!
• Sign up for my email list to be notified about how you can join the launch team!
• Our book The Great Sex Rescue
• The University of Georgia study on teens who don’t date

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• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon that helps support our podcast! You can join for as little as $5 a month! There's unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group (it's really active!), merch, and more!
• Exodus Cry. Check out the organization and see what they're doing!
• See how to get involved (it's easy!). Join the fight against PornHub, sign petitions, read their articles, and more!
• Watch Exodus Cry's documentaries. They're so well done and hard hitting.
• Follow Benjamin and Exodus Cry on Instagram!
• Our podcast last week with the woman who was put under church discipline when she wanted to get to safety from marital rape. 

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Today I want to tell you the story of an amazing woman who was the victim of her marriage AND her church that knew all the gory details, and yet chose to put her under discipline when she decided to end the marriage.

TRIGGER WARNING

In the first half of the podcast there is graphic descriptions of what her husband did to her. I did mention during the podcast when this was about to occur, so that people could fast forward if they chose to. But the description is horrendous. I wanted people to know what she was facing, and to understand her pastor knew this too.

NOTE ON NEURODIVERGENCE

Part of this woman’s story, she believes, is her husband’s lack of diagnosis for autism, which she believes contributed to his inability and unwillingness to see things from her perspective.

Plenty of autistic people are able to relate emotionally with their spouses, even if they do it in different ways. And they value connecting.

What is shared in this podcast is merely her story, and we understand that it is not the case with many neurodivergent people, who can have loving marriages.

THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST

• Our new Fixed It for You Workbook! It’s selling so well, and it’s still on for just $4.99–until Monday!
• The marital rape posts in our original series: The 2 kinds of rape; what to do if you’re a victim of marital rape; 5 next steps if you realize  you’ve coerced your wife into sex
• Kate Shellnutt’s article in Christianity Today about John MacArthur’s church’s further abuse of women, and Julie Roys’ account about Eileen Gray that broke the story.
• My commentary from last week about the John MacArthur situation

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon!
• Ngina Otiende: https://intentionaltoday.com/  https://twitter.com/NginaOtiende
• Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood (available for pre-order now!)
• Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters, and Mutual by Design (where he has written a chapter on headship)
• Philip Payne's Twitter

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon!
• Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood (available for pre-order now!)
• Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters, and Mutual by Design (where he has written a chapter on headship)
• Philip Payne's Twitter

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and you can get access to our awesome Facebook group, our unfiltered podcasts, and more!
• This is the LAST WEEK to get the ebook for The Great Sex Rescue for just $2.99! On February 1 it goes up to its regular price!
• The Orgasm Course! If this is a struggle for you, we can help. https://baremarriage.com/the-orgasm-course/
• Our new book She Deserves Better is out in April! You can pre-order it now.
• My post Bring Back Vanilla Sex, that a lot of this podcast was based on.

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• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts, while supporting our work counteracting harmful messages of marriage in the evangelical church
• OUR LOVE & RESPECT ONESHEET: Download our new resource
• Nijay Gupta's upcoming book Tell Her Story. Follow Nijay on Twitter!
• Our post on Baby Bibles distorting the Genesis account
• Our original Love & Respect post, followed by our Open Letter to Focus on the Family, Our look at how Emerson Eggerichs gaslights women in a sermon series, and how he brushes off a case of marital rape.
• Our rubric and scorecard to see why Love & Respect scored 0/48.

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Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Support our work for as little as $5 a month, including all the amazing things that are coming in 2023, including two new big surveys, one sheets of harmful books to give to your churches, and scholarships as others continue the research!
• Our podcast on finding new church homes
• The Strike at Putney by Lucy Maud Montgomery
• Our podcast with Beth Allison Barr
• The research study finding that churches with gender hierarchy produce worse health outcomes for women, plus a shorter article describing this research by Dr. Camden
• Information on the Iceland’s Women’s Day Off
• Pre-Order She Deserves Better–our new book out in April!
• The Harvard study including what SBC men and women think of female pastors:
• The top Bare Marriage podcast episodes from 2022
• The Great Sex Rescue! It’s on sale in ebook form across all platforms for the month of January, at only $2.99, and it’s on for $5 off in paperback on Amazon, too!

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• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST

• Our Patreon! They’ve supported some amazing projects this year, and you can join us for as little as $5 a month! 
• The original podcast on feeling spiritually homeless
• Last year’s update on feeling so disappointed by faith leaders (plus the podcast on how the authors we critiqued responded to The Great Sex Rescue)

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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Links to things mentioned:

Our patreon community! Join for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, merch, and more!
https://patreon.com/baremarriage

The Bodies Behind the Bus podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bodies-behind-the-bus/id1601586078
and Johnna Harris' Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/bbtbpod/
Me as a guest on the Bodies Behind the Bus podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/guest-sheila-gregoire/id1601586078?i=1000555692110

Dr. Foluso's counseling practice
https://skillsetcounseling.com/

and Dr. Foluso's YouTube channel
https://www.youtube.com/@UC0ogPtE3KqsiLXngwEboM8A
 
Before you sign a church membership covenant:
https://noedenelsewhere.com/before-you-sign-what-you-need-to-know-about-membership-covenants/

How to resign from a membership covenant
http://thewartburgwatch.com/permpage-how-to-resign-from-a-church-whether-or-not-you-are-under-church-discipline/

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Check out her books:

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• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, more merch, and an exclusive Facebook Group!
• Our Merch! Makes great last minute Christmas gifts, and check out our Be a Biblical Woman or our Love & Respect collection, or even our new Fixed it For You!
• Winston Bosch’s Sermons: What God Hates More than Divorce (Mal. 2:16): Jesus and Divorce; and Paul and Divorce
• Jasmine Holmes’ book Carved in Ebony, plus find Jasmine on Instagram!
• And, of course, here’s The Great Sex Rescue! It’s on for just $2.99 on Kindle right now!

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Merch–mugs, t-shirts, canvas wall hangings and more that are great for Christmas gifts and stocking stuffers. Check out our Love & Respect collection, our Biblical Womanhood collection, and especially our Be a Biblical Woman collection!
• Our Patreon–join for as little as $5 a month and help support our research!
• A brief synopsis of the learned helplessness experiments with dogs, and then a run down on the learned helplessness experiment in the classroom. Plus you can watch a video of the classroom experiments here! (great to watch with teens).
• Our orgasm course for women struggling with orgasm
• Sam Tielemans’ couples counseling
• Our upcoming book She Deserves Better–you can pre-order it now!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

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Links to things mentioned:
Our Patreon: Support us for as little as $5 a month to help us branch out and continue this movement!
https://patreon.com/baremarriage
The Great Sex Rescue:
https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/
Our series on our 4 step recovery plan when sex has become a major issue:
https://baremarriage.com/2022/11/the-sex-recovery-series-4-point-plan-to-rebuild-your-sex-life/
One story on what recovery looks like:
https://baremarriage.com/2022/11/heres-what-recovery-from-sexual-problems-looks-like/
Article by Matthew Fray on Safety for Women:
https://matthewfray.com/2017/04/11/safety-and-trust-in-relationships-those-words-dont-mean-what-you-think-they-mean/
Article by XO Marriage on the Four Needs of a Man:
https://xomarriage.com/articles/the-four-major-needs-of-a-man/
Last week's podcast featuring Jay Stringer:
https://youtu.be/QWpfqtr7PK4
Our podcast looking at postpartum sexual favors:
https://baremarriage.com/2021/11/the-sexual-favors-postpartum-podcast-can-we-please-stop-being-selfish/
Nathaniel Jolly's take on rape (major trigger warning):
https://baremarriage.com/2022/08/rape-victims-deserve-life-nathaniel-jolly-preaches-death/

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

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Links to things mentioned:

Our Patreon: Support us for as little as $5 a month to help us branch out and continue this movement!

https://patreon.com/baremarriage

The Great Sex Rescue:

https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

Jay Stringer’s book Unwanted:
https://amzn.to/3DOvJgo

Jay’s website:
https://jay-stringer.com/

Jay’s Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/jay_stringer_/

Emily Nagoski’s book Come As You Are
https://amzn.to/3zYymvd

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Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Support where this blog is going for as little as $5 a month!
• The Boost Your Libido Course and The Orgasm Course
• The birth control series where we went over how some contraception methods MAY affect libido
• How our hormones and our cycle affect libido
• Our post on how the sexual debut affects libido later
• Our post on how mental load and division of labor affects libido
• Our Love AND Respect Merch

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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Links to things mentioned:

Our Patreon: https://patreon.com/baremarriage

The study on Who Cheats More: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america

The Dennis Prager Facebook Video: https://www.facebook.com/prageru/videos/868111834352628/

The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

The podcast with Alyssa Wakefield https://baremarriage.com/2022/06/groomed-for-an-abusive-arranged-marriage-alyssa-wakefields-story-podcast/

The podcast with Natalie Hoffman https://baremarriage.com/2022/09/podcast-how-christian-marriage-books-set-up-for-failure-with-natalie-hoffman/

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• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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Links to things mentioned:

• See the study!
• Want an easier way to read a summary of the study? Read yesterday's post.
• Previous podcast: are men and women's brains really that different? 
• Previous podcast: Let's talk MODESTY.
• Follow Meghan Tschanz on Instagram
• Learn more about The Great Sex Rescue

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Check out her books:

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• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Send us a text

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

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Links to things mentioned:

• Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and fund our ongoing projects
• The Great Sex Rescue, our book that showed the issues with a lot of evangelical teaching about sex, based on our survey of 20,000 women
• Our Merch: Check out our Be a Biblical Woman collection
• The other times we've talked about Josh Howerton, specifically with Josh Howerton plagiarizing others; and Josh Howerton misrepresenting research. 
• Download our rubric of healthy sexuality teaching that we used to score the books--and this Instagram Live!
• Listen in to the podcast where we talked about how other authors have responded to The Great Sex Rescue, including the Tim and Kathy Keller anecdote

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.