Become Good Soil

The integration of redeemed femininity and masculinity is essential to the path to human flourishing.

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What if losing the track is an essential part of engaging in God’s initiation of our souls? 

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Too much uncertainty is chaos. But too little is death.

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Together, we will look back to look forward.

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God has the first word. And God has the last word. This is good news.

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Let's remember the beauty, cost, and largeness of the Tale that has woven our ordinary lives into its surprise, delight, and power.

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What story are we inviting our kids into?

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If I can only lead my child where I’ve gone myself, what’s next in my initiation?

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In the Kingdom of God, we are never behind, and it is never too late.

The post 146: Wild Courage, with Jeremy Morris appeared first on Become Good Soil.

Salvation is a process, not an event. – Resilient Friends, Steady. Strong. ​​​Resilient.  What would it be like for these words to describe the sons of God in this hour on earth?  It’s hopeful.  It’s powerful. And, brothers, it’s available.  John’s most recent work, Resilient, is a life raft amidst our contemporary turbulent sea. Singularity of heart is...

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As we see how Jesus engages men and women, we discover his brotherly love, care, and invitation. 

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Jesus became a brother to mankind so we might more fully come home to the Family of God.

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Let's rediscover the innocence and hope of asking questions.

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It’s not up to me. I am being led by a good Father brilliantly orchestrating my masculine initiation. What would it be like for that to be true?

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Not only is Winn a man through whom God is bringing the life and legacy of Eugene Peterson, he has his own rich life and legacy.

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No description of Eugene Peterson rings more true than this one: he beheld the Presence of God.

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Cherie Snyder offers what she has lived and who she has become through 25 years of discipleship to Jesus.

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Thirty local Fires have been launched, and more are being lit. They all start with one man and one match.

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Wild at Heart Fires offer a context for the authentic masculine community essential for our hearts to thrive. 

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A decade of small and hidden choices has led to a life to really celebrate. Join Morgan and Aaron for this declaration of hope.

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We return to the big ideas of parts work in a fresh session where Cherie and Morgan taught as a team.

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A trusted guide offers a personal experience of care for the fragmented parts of your soul. 

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Some have become disintegrated and marred, but there are no bad parts of our hearts as men and women made in the image of God.

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It is the wholehearted soul who is truly free and able to let God be the center of his story.

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A few BGS Intensive alumni give us an in-depth look at parts work in the intersection of our daily lives. 

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How do we participate in a process through which every disintegrated and fractured part can be brought back into alignment and connection with God?

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Let God use Jared’s story to shine a light into your heart as you attune to who God wants to be for you and what he is calling you into.

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The Becoming a King Retreat is an invitation back onto the narrow path that leads to life.

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We hear another fresh batch of stories from the frontlines of the Becoming a King Retreat.  

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Few things will facilitate our masculine initiation more deeply than offering strength, love, and service on behalf of other men.

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Pause with God to review this past year, uncovering its treasures and clarifying insights for the journey ahead.

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Take up a childlike heart again this Christmas and be swept up into the awe and beauty of Immanuel—God with us. 

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In our masculine initiation, it is often through the megaphone of pain that God rouses parts of us long dormant. 

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In time and over time, we're invited to follow the path and process of Jesus, passing through death into more and more life.

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We can choose to be with God rather than try to impress him. We can experience friendship with God that far outweighs the fleeting nature of our talents.

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Over a lifetime of maturing, we are intended to become the children, the friends, and, finally, the lovers of God.

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Join us as we weave together story and song to shepherd our hearts ever deeper into the hope and heart of a God unbound by death. 

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The one who knows us best is the one who loves us most. 

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Our stories do not define us; the Author of them does. 

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There is perhaps no promise greater than the bottom-line reality that God's love gets the last word. And all will be made new in the light of this love.

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Your heart's healing is not about you, nor is it primarily for you. It’s primarily for others. 

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We will have life and have it to the full only if and when we are willing to die. 

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I’m sorry. I was wrong. Will you forgive me? 
These three phrases can transform every relationship. 

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Wholehearted living is no longer a choice—we must cultivate daily habits that root us in the life and presence of God.

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Where do you feel uncomfortable? When do you feel weak? In what ways do you feel uninitiated? Where is God asking you to risk? 

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What has been your experience of being loved without condition by someone who had robust well-being to share? 

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We uncover what needs to die in us in order that we might really live, becoming men who have nothing to hide, nothing to fear, and nothing to prove.

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Over 20 years ago, I found myself navigating a man’s world but largely feeling like a boy. Balancing a young marriage, young children, and a young career had punted me into the deep end.

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The cure for our waywardness and nagging discontent is to come home to receive the overflowing love, attention, and care of God. 

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What if coming home to a new and secure attachment to God is the primary definition of salvation? 

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What is in the way of growing your attachment to God as your source of pleasure, joy, and comfort?

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There simply is no distinction between sacred and unsacred work in the world. 

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What if, even in the midst of bewildering pain and disappointment, we are actually being led by our Father?

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There is nothing more clarifying than proximity to birth and death and the invitation these twin experiences provide to consider what we most deeply want.

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To mark this sacred milestone of 100 episodes, it is my deep joy to celebrate your stories!

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How have you responded to the reality that sometimes your very best strength is not enough to achieve the outcome you long for?

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What was going on in the heart and soul of Joseph that caused him to risk everything on God?

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What if there was an ancient path that led to life as it was meant to be?

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Reckoning with our unconscious biases is a form of initiation that will help us increasingly see more of how God sees.

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Advent is yet another powerful context for our masculine initiation, an opportunity to relinquish our inferior self-will in order to joyfully receive more of our King and his Life.

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What if you were to turn with an open heart and a beginner's mind toward the Bible for a fresh revelatory quest?

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There is a narrow road to know the Scriptures—and the God who wrote them—with more of ourselves, more deeply.

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What do we do with this collection of ancient texts? What if a community could engage our questions and face the strangeness of the Bible with us?

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Sam Jolman has become a craftsman in the restoration of the masculine soul. In this episode we each get a seat in his counseling office to dive together into the masculine journey.

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Join Christopher and me as we unpack the mystery and wonder of original design and the compelling intersection of body, soul, and the life of God.

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The relentless mission of Jesus is to heal and restore every aspect of our personhood. To rebuild what has been devastated.

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What if maturity looks like blurring the lines between vocation and family? What if you could come home? And what if it changed everything?

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A modern-day parable, The Company Men depicts one man’s masculine initiation. As usual, the process begins with a man at the end of his rope. 

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What if pursuing and cultivating wholehearted relationships with those under our care is a holy invitation back into the garden of simplicity with God? 

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The Father is a wild one, undivided in his commitment to meet us where we are and father every uninitiated place in us. 

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May the words of these men who are risking it all on God and his Kingdom strengthen you and fuel you for what’s ahead.

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Over the past year I’ve had the honor to share campfires with allies to connect and hear stories of the men bravely working through Becoming a King.

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Slow down and receive with me the treasure of an intimate conversation with a man to whom God has entrusted much of his Kingdom.

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Trusting Jesus’ leadership, let’s explore how we can regularly receive feminine love and maternal care from the heart of God.

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Here is the good news: our medicators and their grip are not the truest thing about us.

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Often at first pass we see things not as they truly are, but only as we are. However, if we are willing, our distorted vision need not be the final verdict.

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Over two decades ago through his book Wild at Heart, John Eldredge offered men the central thing they were missing: permission.

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Masculine initiation has as much to do with unlearning as it does with learning. As much to do with powerlessness as it does with power.

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Liturgy was intended to be a grace and essential stream to draw near to God and access the full breadth and depth of his Kingdom.

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What is the path of inner transformation and becoming like Christ? Is such transformation even possible? Dallas Willard assures us it is readily available. 

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Experiential therapy has been a profound conduit of the River of Life for me and for many; it is one of the great modalities of therapy and healing to consider in our toolbox for the restoration of the masculine soul. 

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We turn to part two of a conversation Cherie and I hosted with our mentor, counselor, and dear friend, Gary Unruh.

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May the action of our Coming King in you and through you refresh your heart and enliven your hope as you prepare and anticipate his Coming Again.

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After being Gary's counseling clients for years, Cherie and I had a chance to host him on the Become Good Soil podcast.

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It’s my joy to lean into the years of trauma-informed story work that my wife, Cherie, has explored for two decades. May this conversation be one more step for all of us toward the wholeness that Jesus offers in the marvel and promise of our embodied life.

The post 070: The Body Keeps the Score, with Cherie Snyder [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

It’s my joy to invite you into part two of the Become Good Soil podcast series on The Inquisitive Christ with our winsome, American-born, Irish-bred lady of the questions, Cara Murphy.

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Cara Murphy is a woman of questions. It’s my joy to explore her book, The Inquisitive Christ, together and recover some of the central questions that are needed in this hour on the earth.

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It’s my joy and privilege to invite you into this soul-strengthening conversation with a fellow Kingdom apprentice.

The post 067: Pathfinder – A Conversation with Zach Thomas [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

"We must empty ourselves of that with which we are full so that we might fill ourselves with that of which we are empty." –St. Augustine

The post 066: Arranging Our Days – An Intimate Conversation from the 2019 Become Good Soil Intensive [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

I asked three courageous women, "What is the fruit of the Become Good Soil message in your husband's life?" My desire is that this conversation will strengthen your hope for the transformation that is available. 

The post 065: Heroic Stories Series – Wives of the Become Good Soil Intensive Fellowship [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

There are practices in our power to do that accomplish in us what we never could on our own—small, consistent, but heroic acts that integrate our fractured souls and reconnect us supernaturally with our God.

The post 064: Cultivating a Habitat for the Soul [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

The privilege of engaging with Nancy and the Isle of Misfits was catalytic in my own relationship with God. In the hope of passing on what I recieved, I wanted to bring this episode to Become Good Soil for our mutual strengthening. 

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If acute anxiety has been a part of your story or the story of someone you love, there is reliable hope for encounter, comfort, and transformation.

The post 062: Anxiety to Peace [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

How do I find a mentor? What do I do with my disappointment in older men? How do I offer guidance, counsel, or simply more to younger men in my world?  

The post 061: In Search of a Father [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

No one stops to think. These five words, spoken over two thousand years ago, have the potential to change your life more than any others. 

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Over two decades ago I set out on a relentless quest to find the answer. What I found was not what I expected, and where I found it was in the most unanticipated places. With it came a restored strength and an unshakable hope.

The post 059: Becoming a King [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

Seventy-two years ago, a novel threat emerged on the earth, inciting a proportionate pandemic of fear around the globe. In that hour, it was the advent of the atomic bomb, a weapon whose potential for immediate and global destruction was unprecedented.

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The owner of the company maintained his poker face; it was not simply for the card game. This was the face he now donned for every public moment in these dark days. He was in trouble, and under no circumstances would he let it show. The investments he had made in the good times were now worthless.

The post 057: Surviving Survival: Who Lives, Who Dies, and Why? [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

Friends, it was Oswald Chambers who said, "We tend to use prayer as a last resort, but God wants it to be our first line of defense. We pray when there's nothing else we can do, but God wants us to pray before we do anything at all." This morning I was deeply moved in my own personal prayer time to contend...

The post 056: Strength in the Midst of the Storm – Prayer Response to Coronavirus [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

Standing up and owning our reverberating pulses of passion rarely comes down to a singular event or momentary intersection with destiny. There is a daily-ness to our noble and sensible resignations. We dutifully go about our lives for years, decades even, and suddenly we look up to find ourselves with parts or whole swatches of our lives unlived...

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We celebrated the 50th Become Good Soil podcast by asking you like-hearted listeners around the globe to send in the questions coming up as you travel the narrow road. The response was far more than we anticipated, and so deeply encouraging. And included far too many to address in one podcast...

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It has been an incredible privilege to invite you into an intimate mentoring encounter with Chuck Bolton in this three-part Become Good Soil series. Among the many treasures in this final conversation, Chuck offered this gold: "I want to be authentic with everyone, transparent with fewer, and intimate even fewer...

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Podcast: Subscribe in iTunes | Play in new window | Download Prison was so holy, because there was such a dependence on God. I had the gift of desperation. I couldn’t fix anything. I couldn’t do it. I had to lean into the Father. -Chuck Bolton One of the lenses I often use when I’m looking to recover the...

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Podcast: Subscribe in iTunes | Play in new window | Download I’ve spent 15 months in federal prison, but I can say the loneliest, darkest prison I’ve ever been in was my addiction. It was because I was alone and because I was living in secrets. -Chuck Bolton Heart strong and soul safe. That’s what I think of when...

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The questions came pouring in. From near and far. They have been rich and meaningful. What I thought would be one podcast celebrating the 50th episode of Become Good Soil is sure to turn into an extended volume of conversations over time...

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It was 21 years ago, but I remember the interaction like it was yesterday. I was in the home of a mentor, and he and I were talking in the kitchen while two of his boys played in the adjoining room. A few minutes into our conversation, a conflict arose between the boys. And in the blink of an eye...

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Though it is rare, there are people who have built a strong inner character, who have achieved a certain depth. In these people, at the end of this struggle, the climb to success has surrendered to the struggle to deepen the soul. David Brooks, The Road to Character...

The post 048: Initiating Five Sons, with Paul Ryan [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

In the mid-20th century, The Times in London ran an essay contest, inviting highly respected thinkers and leaders to respond to the question, “What’s wrong with the world?” Chesterton offered this as his full response: Dear Sirs, I am. Sincerely yours, G. K. Chesterton...

Chesterton was in contact with the reality of the masculine

The post 047: Intensive Series (Episode 8 of 8) [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

Podcast: Subscribe in iTunes | Play in new window | Download For a human character to reveal truly exceptional qualities, one must have the good fortune to be able to observe its performance over many years. If this performance is devoid of all egoism, if its guiding motive is unparalleled generosity, if it is absolutely certain there is no thought...

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Join me for this sixth episode of an eight-part series where we are going behind the scenes into the most recent Become Good Soil Intensive. If you're joining us for the first time in this series, I would encourage you to begin with...

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How are you arranging your days? Dallas suggest that there is a possibility and a promise that, in time and over time, we can indeed arrange our days so that we are "experiencing deep contentment, joy, and confidence in our everyday life with God."

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In Renovation of the Heart, Dallas says, "Our soul is like a stream of water, which gives strength, direction and harmony to every other area of our life. When the stream is as it should be, we are constantly refreshed and exuberant in all we do, because our soul itself...

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It's perhaps the second most dangerous and daring prayer we could ever pray. And it is one that can lead us into treasures beyond telling. Listen to this session from the most recent Become Good Soil Intensive about receiving God as Mother...

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What was it about Jesus that allowed him to become quite possibly the most relaxed and lovingly unpredictable person who ever lived? Join me as we explore part two of an eight-part series in which we're going behind the scenes into the most recent Become Good Soil Intensive.

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Many are saying that in the automobile industry, there has not been a revolution of this magnitude since Henry Ford inaugurated the assembly line for the Model T Ford on December 1, 1913. Yet as with every revolution and in every growing kingdom, there are hidden costs.

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In time it sometimes comes to pass that familiarity can give way to presumed familiarity. That presumed familiarity can then give way to unfamiliarity. And unfamiliarity can give way to boredom, obscurity, or even contempt. – Dallas Willard, The Divine Conspiracy

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What is it like to really know God? Not just know about God but to know him, thoroughly and comprehensively in the most essential places of our souls? What if there were a way to practice experiential knowledge of God? What if we could regularly encounter God on a level far deeper than creedal statements...

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I find it fascinating that when Jesus speaks of eternal life, it's less often about a specific time or place where we transition into some other state of being and more often about a quality of life—robust, deep vitality—that is being made available to us, right here and right now.

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"Did you bring me out here in the storm to kill me?" This pained and brutally honest prayer poured from Jonathan David Helser's heart in the midst of a moment of exposure and hand-to-hand battle with the living God. Jonathan explains...

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Check out the news on any given day and you’ll find stories that illuminate a crisis of masculinity. It's a crisis rooted in the loss of effective masculine initiation, for a boy does not become a good man on his own, but by the soul-food of loving mothers and the soul-forging of loving fathers...

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"Messy could describe the first moment that God has with man. He gathers dirt in His hands to form Adam. There is dirt under God's fingernails and then on God’s lips as He draws Adam close to breathe in His Spirit. What is it like for Adam when he opens his eyes and sees and feels ...

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Amidst the clamor of contemporary life, there is the narrow path of slowing down and setting our souls before the insight of the elders. We can take heart: there are wise ones who have gone before us, men and women who have recovered the lost treasure of the Gospel ...

The post 033: The Slow and Steady with Dallas Willard and Michael Cusick [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

Brad Beck has spent a lifetime offering strength in a myriad of roles in countless missions. As a flight surgeon in a supersonic jet for NASA, a crew member in international theater performance with YWAM, a physician in private practice, a coach of high school football...

The post 032: One Giant Leap for Mankind – A Conversation with Brad Beck [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

Piecing together a string of single-track trails that meander through a dry, rocky, cactus-strewn landscape, it’s possible to make a 48-mile continuous trek across Zion National Park. For most people, this trek would be one of the epic adventures of their lives; if you’re Dave Eitemiller, you count it as a solid training workout for yet another 100-mile adventure race...

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Kelly and Phil are getting a divorce. The email from a mutual friend sharing the news hit me like a punch in the stomach. Brandon and his dad are in deep contention. It’s the kind of painful, two-sided misunderstanding that could finally sever the strained relationship...

The post 030: Coming to the Center (The Marriage Podcast Series – Part Four) [podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

The offer is Life. Yet that abundant life is often found in the least likely of places. What is the most effective path toward the much looked-for restoration in the heart of your spouse? Join Cherie and me in this second half of a conversation in which we reflect on the particular elements of Reality as Jesus reveals what can bring more life to our marriages than we ever thought possible...

Jesus, we choose to pause.

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Jesus and His words… are essentially subversive of the established arrangements and ways of thinking. That is clear from the way they first entered the world, their initial effects, and how they are preserved in the New Testament writings and live on in people...

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If we are relational to our core, fashioned in the image of the One who is Three, then it is in dynamic relationship that we participate in the unending Life of God. And among human relationships, there is none more brimming with the loving potential to both expose our "not yet" and to beckon us forward than marriage...

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These words have become a mantra for my masculine soul. A sort of North Star as I attempt to orient and re-align my life with the Reality of God and His Kingdom. Allen Arnold and I had an opportunity to share some dialogue and prayer regarding how we're choosing to orient our souls at the beginning of this new year...

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This most recent episode was a treasure to record, featuring Esther Sparks, a Scottish poet and musician whose music has been uniquely sustaining to Cherie and me throughout this decade of excavation and becoming...

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It has been said, "The lives of many rest in the courage of a few." How are you becoming the kind of person to whom God can entrust the lives of others? How are you becoming the kind of person to whom God can entrust His Kingdom?

The post 024: Going Deep – An Invitation to Become Good Soil [Podcast] appeared first on Become Good Soil.

In part two of the three part series, we venture behind the scenes into a sacred space where sages of the great nation of Australia offer their counsel at a Become Good Soil Intensive in New South Wales.  I want to invite you to savor some wisdom from the ancient path...

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What astonishes the heart of God? In part one of this three-part series, I want to invite you behind the scenes into a session at the heart of the most recent Become Good Soil Intensive in Colorado. We are now accepting applications for the upcoming Become Good Soil Intensives in both Colorado and Australia in May of 2017.  Find out more.

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It was a shimmering rehearsal dinner, the headwaters of which were most certainly in Eternity. The choicest wine flowed, but even more, the choicest stories: stories of daring, risk, and deep redemption. Family and friends honored Abbey and Shaun with words of profound affection, honor for obstacles overcome, and the kind of faithful knowing and seeing that forms the texture of our deepest longings.

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Podcast: Subscribe in iTunes | Play in new window | Download   It all started with a lawnmower, a skateboard, a women’s clothing magazine, and a set of flip flops. What if play is God’s idea and is at the epicenter of Kingdom living? (A version of this podcast is also available in written form.)

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God’s kingdom is like a treasure hidden in a field for years and then accidentally found by a trespasser. The finder is ecstatic—what a find!—and proceeds to sell everything he owns to raise money and buy that field. -Matthew 13:44

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This episode of the Become Good Soil Podcast is a reflection I wrote after ongoing ventures in recent years through The Message paraphrase of Matthew 21:12-18, the passage commonly referred to as “The Clearing of the Temple.”

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Eugene Petersen, author of The Message, makes this observation: The two most difficult things to get straight in life are love and God. More often than not the mess that we make of our lives can be traced to the failure in one or both of these areas. Sages have a capacity to see our lives illuminated with a glow that can only be appreciated through the view of many decades to come.

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I've lost the ability to bullshit. It's the me I've always wanted to be. It's one of my all-time favorite film quotes, spoken by Jerry Maguire as he sheds the Poser and becomes more and more the kind of man to whom God can entrust His kingdom. The film is a modern parable of a transformational process being made available to us every day.

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We begin by taking a deeper look at how Jesus moves fluidly with both authority and love in all three styles of relating.

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How we relate with other people is one of the greatest indicators of our spiritual maturity. This was the counsel offered by an older, wiser man years ago as he helped untie the knots in my rope and my marriage. One tough conversation began the beautiful and life-changing process of understanding how...

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"Deep calls unto deep..." the Scriptures suggest (Psalm 42:7). There is in every moment of every day an accessible onramp to the narrow road that leads to Life. Often the onramp is hidden in the ache and longing to ever more wholly experience life as a son.  And when we pause and let this ache rise...

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C.S. Lewis, in The Problem of Pain, once said this, What can be more a man’s own than this new name which even in eternity remains a secret between God and him? And what shall we take this secrecy to mean? Surely, that each of the redeemed shall forever know and praise...

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It is rare that we pause and pull back far enough from our daily life to observe and wonder about the who we have and have not yet become.  At Wild at Heart we produce a weekly podcast, and Craig and Allen recently invited me into the studio to reflect on how we've each changed over the last decade...

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The soul searches for a Father. It was John Ortberg who put those words to me in a way so succinct it cut to the core. I see it in nearly every action of every day. Every reaching. Every ache. Desire reveals design.  Design reveals destiny. It is the intention of the heart of our True Father that we would become sons...

That's why George MacDonald offers this invitation:

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For centuries, Celtic Christians have identified a "thin place" as a location where the veil between heaven and earth becomes especially sheer; a place where the unseen reality of God’s Kingdom is made vivid to the senses; a place where the Presence of God is unmistakable as it rouses the deepest spaces within the human heart...

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There are few men I respect more than Dave Tolman. He is one of the giants who served as a sage and guide at the most recent Become Good Soil Intensive.  I had a rare chance to turn on the microphone and record a conversation with him that I think you'll enjoy.  Dave is a Kingdom strategist...

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A few thoughts on discipleship from Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard to begin: Who teaches you? Whose disciple are you? Honestly. One thing is sure: you are somebody’s disciple.  You are learning how to live from somebody else. There are no exceptions to this rule, for human beings are just the kind of creatures who have to learn and keep learning from others how to live...

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Nearly a decade ago, I had the privilege of seeking wisdom from Craig McConnell, a man who's seen many miles, fought many wars, and conquered death more times than I can recount. It was an even greater privilege to circle back with him on another conversation, this time recorded for the benefit of other men like you...

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An old, wise man, Jeremiah, suggested this: Go stand at the crossroads and look around. Ask for directions to the old road, The tried-and-true road. Then take it. Discover the right route for your souls. (Jeremiah 6)
There are few things in which I find more life than asking older men the hard and holy questions...

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C.S. Lewis was right when he summed up the dilemma of modern masculinity: "We castrate the gelding and bid him be fruitful." It's painful.  And it's true. Become Good Soil is committed to helping men find an alternative path—a narrow road—that doesn't "remove the organ and demand the function."

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To every relationship, to every circumstance, at every given moment, we are either bringing our question or our strength.  Our search for validation and identity as men is the root of all that we do and all that we become.  This was at the center of a great conversation I had with Allen Arnold, Director of Content...

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Dan Allender makes this bold suggestion regarding peer friendship in this decade: Find like-hearted kings living in the same direction. Sign treaties.  When one kingdom is at war, both are at war.
Join me in a conversation with two "like-hearted kings" who have chosen to give a decade to Becoming Good Soil...

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Welcome to another Kingdom experiment.  This is the first episode of the Become Good Soil Podcast.  The BGS Podcast is a combination of interviews with sages, conversations among peers, teaching and more; all aimed at providing nourishment for men choosing a decade of Becoming Good Soil.

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