Priorities on Purpose: Eliminate Distractions, Find Your Focus, and Grow With Jesus

Mom Life, Pivots, & Overcoming Fear of Judgement

14 augusti 2024 | 56 min

5 Must Read Books: For women who want to become more intentional in life and with Jesus

7 augusti 2024 | 27 min

Navigating Life Transitions

31 juli 2024 | 13 min

Loving God, your neighbor (including enemies), and yourself

24 juli 2024 | 22 min

Self-sabotage & Goals: Behind the Scenes of a Masterclass of Goalsetting

10 juli 2024 | 22 min

Saying no to alcohol and the power of sobriety for Christians

3 juli 2024 | 17 min

When fear & anxiety wake you up in the middle of the night

26 juni 2024 | 26 min

In this episode of Priorities On Purpose, Life Coach, Melissa Batt discusses situational anxiety, particularly the kind that arises in the middle of the night or during times of conflict or chaos. She clarifies that she's not referring to diagnosed general anxiety disorder in this episode although she has been diagnosed and has experience with it.

Melissa shares her personal experiences and offers advice on how to manage such anxiety. She suggests turning to worship music, reading the Bible, and praying. She also recommends reaching out to others for prayer support when you're unable to pray for yourself. She also advises against scary movies, true crime podcasts, and anything related to the occult or witchcraft. She also suggests being mindful of late-night eating habits.

Melissa (who is also a faith mentor for women who want to grow their relationship with God) says one of the most powerful things you can do is identify what is worrying you and surrender it to God. Tough, she understands that it isn't always possible.

Spotify playlist to worship your way through fear and anxiety: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1XIUE1dtRDBznXB3BYGjrF?si=c783d28b5aa24f66

The playlist Melissa made for her grandma towards the end of her journey with cancer when the fear and anxiety were getting the best of her: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7o3IsTJxUivqtBuLqFfs0C?si=6218a3d3a2bd4ab5

She couldn't find Jasmine Brady's song on Spotify to add to the playlist but it is one of her top recommendations when the anxiety and fear seem out of control. The words of the song will minister to your soul. Bookmark it. It's THAT good! https://soundcloud.com/jasminecbrady/speak-the-name-of-jesus

Want to work with Melissa? Please email at [email protected] and set up a call.

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The fear of being seen, judged and other insecurities when God says Speak Up

19 juni 2024 | 28 min

How to protect your mental health and learning to create healthy habits

12 juni 2024 | 29 min

Dealing with conflict and why we need to have a kingdom mindset

5 juni 2024 | 32 min

A lifelong insecurity and how God used it for good

30 maj 2024 | 27 min

A challenge to not ignore those over the age of 75 and questions to ask to start the conversation

22 maj 2024 | 24 min

ADHD and the MTHFR gene mutation: Figuring out my mental health struggles

14 maj 2024 | 29 min

Do you love well? And more talk on what God says about love.

8 maj 2024 | 16 min

When You Say Yes, What Are You Saying No To?

5 maj 2024 | 20 min

Whenever you say yes to someone or something, you are also saying no to something else. If you always say yes, how will you prioritize the things that truly matter to you?

Today you get a BTS (behind the scenes) of a laser coaching session I did with someone participating inside of my free 12 Weeks to Success Workshop. Sonya has gigantic goals and knows where she wants to go. However, her constant need to say yes to everything and over-committing leads her to neglect her well-being and limits her time to work on her God-sized dreams. During this laser coaching session, I work with her on setting boundaries and rebalancing her life to prioritize what matters most.

Some of her goals include becoming a life coach, creating a course to help women grow in their relationship with Jesus, and writing a book. This episode is a great example of what it is like to work with me. If you are a high achiever, constantly biting off more than you can chew, love to volunteer, and are always known as the 'yes girl', then get a pen and paper; you'll want to take notes.

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Understand how important prioritizing self-care and your well-being is in your daily routines.
Discover the profound impact of balance and boundary-setting for your daily peace.
Realize the consequences of saying 'yes' to all and its influence on others.
Grasp the underestimated importance of stillness and reflection in goal mapping.
Take time to do a life audit to see how you are spending your time and why.
Prioritize your goals - If you're struggling to figure out your goals or have trouble following through on them, this episode is precisely what you need. It will challenge you to reassess your goals and provide guidance on how to focus on what truly matters.

My special guest is Sonya Smody from Set4Life.

She's a high-achieving single mom who navigates life with resilience and unwavering determination. Continually pushing the boundaries of her comfort zone, Sonya knows her calling and purpose. However, without realizing it, she often overcommits herself leading her to self-sabotage.

The Oxygen Mask Parable
You've probably heard the safety announcement about securing your own oxygen mask before helping others on flights, right? It's a brilliant metaphor to explain why personal care matters. If we can't breathe, we can't help others breathe. This principle applies to our day-to-day lives as well. For those of us who struggle to see our worth the way God does, this lesson is hard to learn and will lead to old habits if we aren't careful.

The Power of Moving Backwards
Our culture often romanticizes the notion of always moving forward and depicts taking even a single step back as a failure. But sometimes, you have to go backward to leap forward. It's like drawing back an arrow before letting it fly. Indeed, revisiting past experiences, re-evaluating priorities, and resetting the course of life can seem daunting. But it can also create necessary growing spaces and ultimately leads to healing if you allow God to help. Sonya openly discussed her fear of going backward in the podcast.

The Struggle with Priorities
You know that feeling when you keep piling on more than you can physically carry? Well, that's what we're talking about. A lot of people, just like Sonya, get caught up in a whirlwind of responsibilities. They believe they can handle everything that comes their way, from personal commitments to endless volunteering opportunities. Unfortunately, it becomes a vicious cycle of always saying yes, leading them to overlook their health and well-being. As one might imagine, this imbalance can take a massive toll on overall happiness and lead to long-term physical and mental exhaustion. From Sonya's perspective, her constant yes attitude initially seemed like a noble trait, one which made lending a helping hand to others a no-brainer. But, it came at a major cost.

The Martha Syndrome
In the biblical account of Martha and Mary, Martha was so wrapped up in serving guests that she missed out on the moment's joy. People, like Sonya, who find it hard to say no, often end up being the 'Martha.' They keep volunteering, serving, and giving until they are spent. While giving back and volunteering are valuable qualities, it's equally important to find space to be still and maintain main priorities. During the podcast, Melissa used the story of Mary & Martha to provide Sonya with a different perspective on her situation. Sonya, as an inherent doer and giver, admitted to being a 'Martha.' The challenge for Sonya now is to balance her 'Martha'-like willingness to serve with the heart posture of Mary.

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Setting Boundaries: How to stop feeling so exhausted, anxious and get your time back

1 maj 2024 | 29 min

How well do you know God? And other things you should know as a Christian.

23 april 2024 | 20 min

Mom Life, Pivots, & Overcoming Fear of Judgement

20 april 2024 | 56 min

Numbing Out: What is it? Are you doing it? And why is it dangerous to your faith and relationships?

17 april 2024 | 26 min

What does God's word say about wasting time, energy, and other important resources

10 april 2024 | 14 min

Living with Intention: Identifying what works and what doesn't work in your life

2 april 2024 | 28 min

Questions you must ask yourself every year to make the most of your life lessons

26 mars 2024 | 37 min

5 Must Read Books: For women who want to become more intentional in life and with Jesus

21 mars 2024 | 27 min

Loving God, your neighbor (including enemies), and yourself

12 mars 2024 | 22 min

The love audit: How do you measure up?

6 mars 2024 | 16 min

Navigating Life Transitions

1 mars 2024 | 13 min

Season 2 Coming Soon

27 februari 2024 | 3 min

Lessons in Faith & Humility: Embrace Vulnerability and Asking for Help

30 januari 2024 | 11 min

I know I'm not alone in my fear of the unknown. In the middle of 2023, I was on the phone with my mom and was telling her how exhausted I felt. I wasn't tired from lack of sleep. I was 'soul-tired'.

This episode is just a quick behind-the-scenes conversation with what God is teaching me as I lean into God and stop allowing excuses to hold me back. I am doubling down on vulnerability and leaning into the messy process of growth. And, I'm taking you along with me!

In this episode, I talk about:

Staying true to yourself in the pursuit of your goals.
Overcoming personal insecurities and developing your faith
Walking in unwavering courage to confront obstacles with humility.
Mastering the skill of venturing beyond your comfort zone and seeking support.
Believing in the vision and keeping your head focused on Jesus as you walk things out.

Keep your eyes on Jesus. Not the waves, not the wind, not the people that are behind you or watching you, but your eyes straight on Jesus because he's directing your steps. - Melissa Batt Coaching

Authenticity in Weaknesses
There is so much power in allowing others to see our weaknesses. It's time to be authentic and embrace your weaknesses instead of hiding them. People are more inspired by genuine vulnerability than artificial perfection, as it creates a relatable connection. In doing so, we empower others to face their insecurities and pursue their dreams without fear. Melissa Batt opens up about her struggles with seeking approval and perfectionism. From her point of view, it is crucial to be vulnerable and show our weaknesses in front of others, even if they may be uncomfortable. By doing so, she encourages the listeners to let go of their fears and insecurities and trust in God's plan for their lives. This approach of embracing authenticity in our weaknesses can help build courage and resilience in the face of challenges.

Speaking at Church

Melissa Batt spoke at a church prayer meeting and shared about encountering trouble. She gave examples including conflict, anxiety, depression, and other hardships. Believe it or not, this is actually an invitation to spend more time with God through prayer. She challenged the audience to remember that no matter if it is big or small, God is there & cares. Use the hard times to fan the flame for Jesus and be reminded that the obstacles we face are often distractions from the enemy. He would prefer nothing more than for the trouble we face to derail us from our purpose & growing our relationship with God. If you would be interested in learning more about having Melissa Batt speak, reach out to [email protected].

Want to work with me in February? I'd love to help you! Please email me at [email protected] and we can set up a call.

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Conquer your insecurities and grow your confidence

23 januari 2024 | 18 min

Have you set some big goals for yourself this year but are having trouble getting started or getting derailed from the habits you want to start or end? Do you think you may be holding yourself back from your true potential? So many of us fall prey to these misconceptions and most of us do it without even realizing it.

Misconception #1 - You have to be perfect to succeed.

Misconception #2 - Someone else can do it better than you.

Misconception #3 - Success means never feeling self-doubt.

But the truth is, you don't have to be perfect, there is room for you even when others are also doing it, and self-doubt is 100% normal.

As a Christian Life & Business Coach for women & direct sellers, I'm here to share with you the real truth - and help you silence your inner mean girl once and for all.

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

• Silence your inner critic and transform your mindset by reversing negative thoughts aka FLIP THE SCRIPT. 

• Own your quirks and insecurities as tools to connect you to others and remain relatable 

• Trust God to use all of you- the good, the bad, the ugly! 

Your purpose and plan has the power to impact more than just yourself. It isn't about you. -Melissa Batt

Other Tips:

• Consider hiring a coach for personalized and focused accountability to help you reach your goals. 

• Cut out Bible verses related to your insecurities and post them in visible places as reminders of God's love and purpose for you. 

• Call out your insecurities and address them if you feel shame around them. The enemy can't use what you bring into the light.  

• Speak out about the things that the devil wants to keep you silent in and acknowledge the elephants. 

• Follow Melissa Batt Coaching on Instagram for daily inspiration and tips. 

Giving Yourself Permission to Be You 

Embracing our true selves, quirks, and all, is essential for personal growth and achieving true sustainable success. By permitting ourselves to be authentic and unique, we can harness our individual strengths and stand out in the crowd. In this episode, I share my personal journey to self-acceptance and want you to do the same.

In doing so, we can channel our unique abilities to truly live in the purpose God has for us and create a massive impact.

Want the worksheets I mentioned in this episode?

Click here

Want to work with me? I'd love to help you!

Please email me at [email protected] and we can set up a call.

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Stop Chasing Shiny Things & Get Laser Focused

16 januari 2024 | 29 min

Break Free from Mental and Physical Clutter in the New Year

9 januari 2024 | 37 min

New Year, New Goals

2 januari 2024 | 14 min

Does this sound familiar? You set goals for yourself, but no matter how hard you try, you just can't seem to achieve them. You've been told that the key to success is simply setting goals, but you're feeling the pain of disappointment when those goals remain out of reach. It's time to uncover the missing element that no one told you about: aligning your personal desires and values. In this episode, we'll explore the importance of synchronizing your ambitions with your convictions. Get ready to break free from the cycle of unfulfilled goals and discover the true path to achievement.

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Stop flying by the seat of your pants so you can be more intentional
Align your personal ambitions and convictions with the goals you set
No longer allow other people's expectations to define the goals you set
Set goals you actually want to achieve
Be courageous and share your dreams with someone you trust for accountability
Recognize your excuses so you can flip the script and overcome them

If that's not God's plan for you, it's okay if you don't want it. It doesn't mean you suck. It doesn't mean you're a failure. It just means you are called for something else, and that's okay. - Melissa Batt Coaching

The resources mentioned in this episode are:

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Coaching women in life is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.

Want to work with me in January? I'd love to help you! Please email me at [email protected] and we can set up a call.

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Why God Wants More for You and How to Go Back to Church

19 december 2023 | 24 min

Is going back to church something you are feeling called to in this holiday season? If so, this podcast episode will give you practical tips on finding a new church.

I'm acknowledging all the elephants and sharing some of my own personal experiences about feeling as if attending church was pointless. I know it sounds harsh, but it appeared that most church attendees were going through the motions. I wanted no part of it until my friend convinced me to try one more time.

Because of Natasha, I gave attending a local church one more chance and I'm grateful for her push.   Watching online, settling for a podcast with your favorite preacher's messages... (Still love a good Steven Furtick message!) God wants more for you and that is what this podcast is all about!

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Acknowledge personal fears, rejections, and past hurts that could have you self-protecting and avoiding 
Recognize your need for local believers to pray and connect with 
Stop living offended and instead use it as an opportunity for intentional conversations 
Recognize when avoidance of what is uncomfortable gets in your way of spiritual growth 
Trust in God's guidance and provision, remembering my favorite bible verse; Matthew 6:8: Your Father knows what you need before you ask Him. 
Be courageous and take steps to go back to church, even if it's terrifying. 
Reflect on any past church hurt, remembering that people hurt you, not God and that it's important not to put the church on a pedestal. The church is full of broken people who are in need of a Savior and help. 
Research churches in your area, considering factors such as location, denomination, and community involvement, and pick three to try out. 
Attend a church service or if you are really uncomfortable, start with a smaller step like a Trunk or Treat or special service churches offer throughout the year, keeping an open mind and heart. 
Get involved in a church community by joining a small group, or ministry, or volunteering in an outreach program. 
Reflect on any past experiences of rejection or abandonment and how they may be influencing your feelings about attending church 
Remember that God is calling you back to the church not only for your own growth but also to be a part of a community of believers and serve others.

I've coached dozens of clients through this process over the last year and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too!  Want to work with me in January? I'd love to help you! Please email me at [email protected] and we can set up a call.

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How to make space for God when you are a busy mom

12 december 2023 | 18 min

This is an excerpt from a Masterclass, shared with Christian direct sellers, ministry leaders, and those who lead non-profits. We were talking about how to hear from God and read the Bible, and how to make room in our lives to let God lead. We have to obey and be still to be able to recognize God's voice and make time to spend with Him and read the Bible. We have the choice to make room for God or continue on the same path we are on. We need to be obedient, follow God's lead, and not get distracted by other things in order to do kingdom work and make disciples. We need to get rid of what's not serving us and the things getting in the way of our relationship with Jesus.
"Stop filling your mind with noise and crap and do the work that He has called you to do. Get yourself together and make room for His word, because the harvest is here and you are called to be a worker!"
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How do you develop a deepening relationship with Jesus? 2. What is the importance of knowing the sound of the Shepherd’s voice? 3. How can you use your struggles as a sacrifice to God? 4. How to start reading your Bible and actually understand it?

Resources:
Circle the Wagon & Becoming Intentional

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Doing the Uncomfortable, Asking Hard Questions, Trusting God Getting Out of the Boat & God-Sized Dreams

Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/ Website: https://www.melissabatt.com/

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Chapter Summaries:
[00:00:00]
Melissa Batt is the host of Priorities on Purpose, a podcast for overwhelmed direct sellers. As a Christian life and business coach, she wants to help you live with intention. She shares proven and simple strategies that will be sure to help live a fulfilled life. [00:01:24]
In this episode, hear a little bit of the real talk that happened during the Masterclass I did for the Success Lounge called Faith Blockers. Is your faith and your relationship with Jesus where you want it to be? And if not, what can you do about it? [00:08:51]
Melissa: God is calling you to kingdom work. You are to go and make disciples. The revival is coming. We need more workers. I challenge you to slow it down. Baby steps, one step at a time. Breakthrough is here. [00:15:51]
Sometimes it's okay to be on social media, shop, and all the things but we shouldn't use it for comfort. God is the ultimate comforter. He can comfort us as nobody else can. [00:17:25]
Melissa: If you found value, I would love it if you could take a couple of seconds to leave me a quick review. Also, take a screenshot and share it on social media with your biggest AHA today. Until next time, friend, keep walking it out, one baby step at a time.

53. Try putting down your phone this month

6 december 2023 | 29 min

52: What does it look like to say YES to God and operate out of radical obedience?

15 november 2023 | 31 min

What does an anonymous million-dollar donation and your relationship with Jesus have in common? EVERYTHING.

Join me, Melissa Batt, as I share a powerful message that is guaranteed to offer you hope and give you a little extra pep in your steps. Often times I find walking out my life in faith to be a bit of a roller coaster. But, regardless, it all has a purpose and God will use it.

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, you will be able to:

Understand the power of faith and obedience in your faith journey so you can have a more intimate relationship with God.
Learn what steps to take if you feel clueless about what God's calling is for your life
Encouraged to trust in God's perfect timing and experience the peace that comes from surrendering control.
Recognize that God's asks may be the answered prayer for others

Sometimes God puts something on our heart that seems impossible, but with God, all things are possible. - Melissa Batt

Trusting in God's timing is crucial for us as we attempt to walk in full obedience to God. His asks may not always make sense to us because we don't see the full picture. Do it anyway.

The resources mentioned in this episode are:

Start a conversation inside of the Real Talk Tribe community. If you're looking for a place to connect with like-minded women and discuss topics related to conflict resolution, boundaries, and communication, I invite you to participate. It's designed to be a space for women to connect and support one another.
If you're feeling stuck or overwhelmed in your life, consider working with a life coach. I specialize in helping women navigate conflicts, create boundaries, improve communication, and more. If you're interested in exploring this option, reach out to me for more information.
A huge shout-out to Cleveland Worship Center in Cleveland, Georgia. They've done an incredible job of making my dad feel seen, valued, and known. If you're in the area and looking for a good church, I recommend this one! You can listen to the powerful message from Pastor Mark I refer to during this episode. HERE. ((I skipped past announcements and worship, and went straight to the message bc of time.) If you don't have Facebook, send me an email and I will try to get you a copy of the message in a different form.

Book a free consultation and let's chat: https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

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And, as always, you can email me at [email protected] at anytime.

51. Anxiety Struggles: What it looks like, how it shows up, and life hacks to help

31 oktober 2023 | 12 min

From someone who actually understands how hard the bad anxiety days can be

This episode is about anxiety. Lots and lots of anxiety talk. As a Christian Life Coach who works with quite a few women who navigate mental health issues like depression and anxiety, I often open up about my own personal struggles.

I read a journal entry live and go behind the scenes letting listeners in on what a REALLY hard day looks like for someone like me who struggles with Generalized Anxiety Disorder.

I also talk a lot about the craziness and panic I feel related to the overwhelm I experience driving in unfamiliar areas. It's a bit irrational. But, that's the thing, anxiety often seems irrational to others. And, at the same time, the person who is struggling with the thoughts feels completely paralyzed and overwhelmed.

This episode is for anyone who is or knows someone experiencing anxiety or is curious about learning more about anxiety.

You can also expect to:

Gain insight into what life looks like for someone struggling with anxiety
Understanding signs and symptoms of anxiety
Exploring triggers and things that can make us more anxious
Learn coping mechanisms & life hacks to help navigate anxiety and depression more easily
Listen to real talk about what it's like when you can't get out of your bed because life seems too hard.
Be reminded that dealing with anxiety as a Christian doesn't always mean lack of faith

In 2018 and early 2019, I was in a major funk and pit of depression. It was then that I made a decision to intentionally choose to do hard things. I flipped the script on my anxiety and when it is possible, I consider it a challenge and call it 'adventure'. (Please note that while it works for me, it isn't a guarantee and definitely depends on other factors as well.)

Why choose adventure? Choosing adventure is willingly giving up control and learning you will be okay. It gives God an opportunity to show off and for you to grow more reliant upon him. It's my anxiety life hack and it truly helps me be less anxious. It will serve you well AND help you grow your faith. Adventure requires faith. Faith produces more faith and helps us learn to be more reliant on God versus relying solely on ourselves.

Are you in survival mode or feel like you are existing and taking up space? It doesn't have to be that way, friend. I am passionate about helping women move forward and live life with passion and purpose. I've been there and lived the life, and now my mission is to give hope and practical tips to help you thrive with peace.

Book a free consultation and let's chat: https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

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Note: Melissa Batt is a Christian Life Coach, not a physician. She only speaks from her own personal experiences of navigating life with depression, anxiety, and attention deficit disorder (ADD). Nothing shared should be taken as medical advice. Please reach out to your healthcare provider for guidance and the next steps.

50. Feeling invisible as a single mom and full circle moments with Ashley Haley

24 oktober 2023 | 41 min

Encouragement for Single Moms and Women Everywhere: Ashley Haley's Story of Hope

In a world full of hardships and challenges, one single parent's journey took an unexpected twist. You will love hearing this conversation between Ashley Haley & me on the podcast, Priorities on Purpose. Brace yourself for a tale of resilience, hope, and the power of an anonymous note and a $100 bill that sparked a profound transformation in her life. Tune in to discover the incredible power of faith and how our stories can be used for greater purposes.

My special guest is Ashley Haley

Ashley Haley is a remarkable woman who has overcome numerous obstacles in her life. As a single mom, she faced challenges that tested her strength and resilience. However, through her unwavering faith in God and determination, Ashley rose above her circumstances and found purpose in it all. With a background in nursing and a passion for helping others, she has made a difference in the lives of many through her work. Ashley's journey also led her to the world of direct sales, where she discovered the power of entrepreneurship and the ability to create positive change. Her experiences and insights make her a valuable guest on Priorities on Purpose, as she shares how God can use our stories.

There is joy on the other side of the hardships. We grow through it and persevere. We wouldn't be who we are today without them. I wouldn't change a thing. -Ashley Haley

I was speechless. It meant that someone saw me & I mattered to somebody. Because at the time, I didn't feel like I mattered to anyone. I was just trying to keep my head above water, pay the bills, and take care of my son.-Ashley Haley

In this episode, we dive into:

The world of direct selling & the mistakes we have made.
Overcoming life obstacles when things go sideways; divorce, bankruptcy, government housing, single mom life
Feeling unworthy & helping others feel seen, valued, and loved because of it
Breast Implant Illness and the power of listening to your body
Being obedient and trusting God to boldly share our stories

Take Action:

Consider the impact of feeling worthy (or unworthy) and how it can affect your life and decisions.
Reflect on the obstacles you have overcome and how they have shaped you.
Learn about breast implant illness and its potential effects.
Pray for ways to positively impact others by giving back and help others
Read James Ch 1 vs 2-3 and think of a time your faith was tested and produced perseverance.

Connect with special guest, Ashley: [email protected]

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Whether you are looking for a life coach or a business coach, make no mistake, my mission is to help you gain more peace and thrive in life. Book a consult and let's chat:  

Let's connect:

https://www.melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching

Why living on autopilot is dangerous for your family & life purpose

17 oktober 2023 | 24 min

Prepare for Battle: Conquer Resistance and Find Your Purpose

Have you been going through the motions on autopilot, doing the same thing every day? Do you feel like there has to be more to life than the life you are living? Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, discontentment, or just feel completely 'blah' sometimes?

Today on the podcast, we are talking about the three words I have been talking about since 2020. If you need a pep talk, this episode is for you and is sure to light a fire under your butt!

Circle the wagon. It's a word God gave me and it is beneficial to all of us. You cannot hear this message enough, it is so important. It's a talk about preparing. There are things you can do today, starting right now. And honestly, through this journey, for myself, there's always more work to do because we're never going to arrive, right? At least, not on this side of heaven.

Spiritual warfare is real. I don't talk about this to scare you. It's to prepare you. The attacks are going to come, but they don't have to hit as hard as they will if you don't get your stuff together. We must get ready. My mission is to help you live the life you were created for and to do it well, we must be prepared. If not, our lives will be full of distractions that derail us from the work God wants us to do.

In this episode, we talk about:

The importance of preparing for resistance and learning how to build resilience in the face of challenges to stay ahead of the curve and confidently navigate any obstacles that come your way.
Overcoming shame and forgiving ourselves or others to be free
Strengthening your marriage, family, health, and finances
Eliminating noise & finding time to focus on main priorities as a mom, business owner, etc
Embracing the journey of life and remembering that it's okay to lead/follow at different times. Focus on knowing where you want to go and taking intentional steps to get there.
Pursuing peace and what that looks like as a Christian

Circle the wagon. It's time to get your crap together. If you don't, who will?!!! Nobody. It is your responsibility. -Melissa Batt

Proactive Strategies for Success
You have the ability to forecast potential challenges and develop strategies to alleviate them. Effective planning in key areas such as finances, career, and relationships safeguards our well-being and limits distractions.

The resources mentioned in this episode are:

Get the 12 weeks to success workshop worksheets AND a guide to help you navigate your life with purpose and help you circle the wagon. https://www.melissabatt.com/becoming-intentional

Take action:

Check out Ephesians Chapter 2, verses 14-21 in your Bible to read about finding peace and living with God.
Consider joining a community or finding accountability partners who can support you and provide encouragement when things get tough.
Take time to evaluate your priorities and make sure you're aligning your actions with what truly matters to you.
Take action to pursue peace in your life. This may involve spending more time with God, creating better boundaries, or practicing self-care.
Whether you are looking for a life coach or a business coach, make no mistake, my mission is to help you gain more peace and thrive in life. Book a consult and let's chat:  https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

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48. Is Elevation Church and Steven Furtick for real? My insight after visiting...

10 oktober 2023 | 21 min

Inside Look: Acknowledging the elephants around Pastor Steven Furtick of Elevation Church & sharing my thoughts on my in-person visit.

Have you ever wondered what it's like to step into the grandeur of Steven Furtick's Elevation Church? The anticipation builds as you approach the sprawling campus, only to find yourself in the overflow section. But here's the twist - what starts as a disappointment soon transforms into a heartfelt connection you never saw coming. The warmth and love exuded by the volunteers go beyond your expectations, making you feel truly seen and valued. Stay tuned to hear how this unexpected twist unfolds and tips that will be helpful if you decide to visit Steven Furtick's Ballantyne campus in North Carolina. Oh, and lots of bonus tips on what you can bring back to your local church.

In this episode, we will discuss:

My thoughts on visiting Elevation Church led by Pastor Steven Furtick.
My tips for attending the Ballantyne campus of Elevation Church in Charlotte, North Carolina
The power of being seen inside the church and impact of being cared for
Acknowledge the culture of empathy and prayer upheld by the volunteers at Elevation Church
Tips to take back to your local church and implement for volunteers and visitors

He is serving God and doing the work God has called him to do. Just like everyone else, he's human. That's why we need to read our own Bible instead of settling with listening to someone else read theirs. - Melissa Batt

Discern the significance of accepting individuals where they are in their faith journey. Elevation Church believes in serving both those who need spiritual milk and those who yearn for deeper spiritual instruction. Furtick and his church symbolize an accepting house of worship that caters to the diverse needs of its attendees, ultimately fostering love and embracing all.

Are you planning to attend live and want quick tips before you visit?

Plan ahead and arrive at the church early to avoid traffic and secure your seat in the main sanctuary. We were staying in a hotel 15 minutes away; an hour was not enough time to get through traffic and get parked. The further off campus you park, the less traffic you will endure. Visit the Elevation Church website to learn more about their campuses and upcoming events. Also, take advantage of the passionate volunteers who are there to assist you.

Send Melissa a DM to let her know if you listen to the Priorities on Purpose podcast and to connect with her.

Whether you are looking for a life coach or a business coach, make no mistake, my mission is to help you gain more peace and thrive in your life.

Book a consult and let's chat:  https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

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47. Why numbing out is a stumbling block to your spiritual growth & a call to action for all Christians

3 oktober 2023 | 30 min

Unmasking Our Emotions

In this episode, we talk about:

Exploring the profound impact of embracing God's renewal in your life.
Understanding the importance of fostering a healthy soul for overall well-being.
Discovering the strength found in genuine emotional honesty
Recognizing the value of consistent introspection and reflection
Embracing the revolutionary change faith and a relationship with Jesus can bring to our lives.

Faith doesn't mean we limit our emotions to only good emotions. Negative emotions does not mean self-pity, and positive emotions does not mean strong faith. - Dr. Alicia Britt Chole author of The Night is Normal

Fostering a Healthy Soul
Cultivating a healthy soul goes beyond mere physical wellness; it also involves spiritual well-being. Consistent self-evaluation helps in identifying the cultural influences that might be undermining the health of our souls. It is crucial to prioritize personal well-being, regular self-checks, and authentic personal development, which ultimately leads to spiritual growth.

Resources mentioned in this episode are:

Check out Lisa Whittle's book Jesus Over Everything - This book has had a significant impact on my life and I highly recommend it. You can find it at all major book retailers such as Amazon.

Take action:

Journaling to God - If you struggle with processing your thoughts and emotions, I encourage you to start journaling to God. It can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and connecting with Him on a deeper level. Find a journal or notebook that you resonate with, and start writing out your prayers, thoughts, and struggles.
Read and reflect on Isaiah 43 - Write down any insights or reflections that come to mind.
Practice emotional honesty - Be honest with yourself and acknowledge where you really are. Avoiding only delays progress.

Whether you are looking for a life coach or a business coach, make no mistake, my mission is to help you gain more peace and thrive in life. Book a consult and let's chat:  https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

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Mental health struggles and hope for the trial/error issues for those taking medication

26 september 2023 | 64 min

Genetic Testing is changing the game and can change your life if you are struggling with depression, anxiety, or other mental illnesses.

If you're feeling trapped in a cycle of trial and error with mental health medications, trying medication after medication without finding the relief you desperately need, then you are not alone! It can be incredibly disheartening to put your hope and trust in a medication, only to experience frustrating side effects or little improvement in your symptoms. Despite your best efforts, you may be left feeling discouraged and hopeless, wondering if there is a better way to manage your mental health. But fear not, because genetic testing in mental health medication management offers a breakthrough solution that can finally provide the personalized approach you've been searching for.

My special guest on this episode is my sister, Kristina Hall

Kristina has struggled with depression and anxiety for over 22 years and assumed that her life would never get better. She felt like she had tried all the meds out there including Zoloft, Paxil, Celexa, Welbutrin, Prozac, and all the other SSRIs. However, after a suggestion from her therapist, she chose to have genetic testing done. Through this she realized she was on the wrong medication and her body didn't metabolize those meds well. This key unlocked the door to personalized medication that works with her specific genetic makeup.

If you or someone you know has struggled with their mental health, get ready to take notes. This episode will give you hope and be a starting point for you to discuss with your doctor.

Laziness is a symptom of a bigger problem, and a lot of the time it is a mental health issue. - Melissa Batt

In this episode, you will learn how genetic testing paves the way for customized and effective mental health medication strategies with less trial and error. Through a simple and non-invasive cheek swab, you can learn how your genetic makeup determines how your body breaks down the chemicals in the medications. We also talk about the stigma on those who struggle with depression, anxiety, bipolar and other mental health struggles and share resources you may find helpful if you are struggling or supporting someone who is struggling.

Transformative role of genetic testing
Genetic testing provides an invaluable tool in determining tailored treatment approaches for mental health issues. It aids in identifying the medications that a person can efficiently metabolize based on their genetic makeup. This can lead to effective mental health treatments, maximize the benefits of medications, and potentially reduce adverse drug reactions.

The resources mentioned in this episode are:

GENESIGHT® (linked here) is the specific testing Kristina had done. It seems to focus more on mental health medications that are commonly prescribed to treat depression, anxiety, ADHD, and other psychiatric conditions.
PGx (linked here) is the test that Melissa had done mentioned at the beginning of the show. This test also gives you information related to dozens of other areas not related to psychological issues such as opioid withdrawal, pain management, overactive bladder, sleep disorders, gastrointestinal, diabetes, dementia, Alzheimer's, multiple sclerosis, anesthesia, antifungals, HIV, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, atrial fibrillation, NSAIDS, Vertigo disorder, seizure disorders, COPD and gynecology. It also gives you specific details related to the MTHFR variant.

If you are local to Corbin, Kentucky. Melissa loves Mary Rollins at Heartstrings Mental Health, PLLC in London. You can find out more about this office here.
To find more support for yourself or loved ones, look for your local NAMI office here. https://www.nami.org
And, remember whether it is for suicide prevention or just to talk with someone who will listen, you can always dial 988 and get connected with someone 24/7.

Disclaimer: Melissa Batt is a Christian life coach. She is not a physician. She only speaks of her experiences. Her opinions are her opinions alone and should not be taken as medical advice. Please reach out to your doctor for guidance and next steps. Never stop taking a medication without being under the supervision of your healthcare provider.

Whether it is you struggling or a loved one, you do not have to go through this alone. Book a consult and let's chat:  https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

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45. Confronting secrets & shame with courage and Jesus

19 september 2023 | 34 min

Finding Freedom in Vulnerability: Acknowledging Secrets for a Fulfilled Life with Melissa Batt Does this sound familiar? You've been told to bury your shame and keep your secrets locked away, believing that it's the only way to survive. But deep down, the pain still lingers, and you long for healing and freedom. The truth is, hiding behind a facade only intensifies the torment, leaving you feeling isolated and trapped. It's time to break free from the ineffective action of silence and confront your shame and secrets head-on. Only then can you find the healing, freedom, and purpose in life that you truly deserve.

The weight of carrying a secret, no matter how big, is holding us back. We cannot be free until we surrender the shame that we have been carrying. - Melissa Batt

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Be intentional with your thoughts & acknowledge your past
Overcome shame by acknowledging secrets that lead to feeling ashamed
Trust in God to help you through the fear and anxiety as you think about the 'what ifs'
Empower yourself by coming to terms with personal shame and secrets.
Have compassion for yourself and give yourself grace

The critical role of a mentor/coach in walking this out
Having a dependable support system is important. Most also find having someone outside of family and friends to partner with crucial. I personally coach several women who are navigating similar situations. I provide support through accountability, talking things out, encouragement, and prayer. I remain neutral, provide valuable feedback, and am willing to say the things most families would not be willing to do and do so with love. Reach out today if you would like to talk.

Take action:

Reflect on your own secrets and shame: Take time to reflect on any secrets or shame you may be carrying and consider opening up to someone you trust. Whether it's a friend, family member, or therapist, sharing your burdens can help you find healing and freedom.

Book a consult & let's chat:  https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

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44. From darkness to renewal: Inspirational stories of hope & faith to help you in difficult seasons

12 september 2023 | 20 min

If you're feeling trapped in a cycle of despair and hopelessness, constantly searching for a way out but finding none, then you are not alone! Perhaps you've tried everything to change your circumstances, seeking solace in distractions or numbing the pain with unhealthy habits, only to find temporary relief that quickly fades away. Instead of finding hope, you may be spiraling deeper into the darkness, wondering if there will ever be a way to climb out of the valley you're in. But take heart, for there is a glimmer of light even in the darkest of valleys, and together we can discover the path to resilience and renewed hope.

I know you loved last week's Rise 22 clips so I'm gonna give you a little bit more of that and then, of course, let me know if you want to hear more. Also, do you think we should host another one? Next year in 2024, we already have a live event planned and I know it will be amazing! It's called the breakthrough event. You can go to my website and get on the waitlist now for it because tickets will be going on sale soon. I'm so excited for you to hear from these women who have such powerful testimonies and really just share what was on their hearts and served the women who were inside the Real Talk Tribe community.

In this episode, we will:

Discuss mental health issues and loss of our identity
Learn to celebrate and harness your unique qualities and passions for personal growth.
Explore the wisdom in trusting God's plan during challenging times.
Gain insights into navigating valleys of life and finding hope in the most challenging seasons through scripture
Realize the impact and significance of reaching out for help and support when needed.

Whatever I needed was so readily available to me. It literally just counted on me reaching out. All it takes is a garment moment where you say, 'Jesus, here I am, I'm reaching out to you and I'm asking that you will heal me,' because he will. - Abbigail Fox

The way God made me was no mistake. And the way God made you is no mistake. - Rebecca Shepherd Cain

Trusting God's Plan in Challenging Times

Trust can be a powerful assurance when life gets tough. Faith in God's plan offers comfort and resilience as we do our best to navigate it. This key value highlights the sense of security that comes from surrendering control and trusting God's design, showing that even in periods of struggle, we are never alone.

Book a consult to learn more and let's chat:  https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

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43. From pain to purpose: Inspirational stories of hope and encouragement

5 september 2023 | 17 min

42. The cycle guaranteed to leave you feeling exhausted & struggling with burnout

30 augusti 2023 | 21 min

41. I didn’t want to go back to church and more of why I’m so passionate in telling you to go back.

24 augusti 2023 | 24 min

I'm acknowledging all the elephants and sharing some of my own personal experiences about feeling as if attending church was pointless. I know it sounds harsh, but it appeared that most church attendees were going through the motions. I wanted no part of it until my friend convinced me to try one more time. Because of Natasha, I gave attending a local church one more chance and I'm grateful for her push.   Watching online, settling for a podcast with your favorite preacher's messages... (Still love a good Steven Furtick message!) God wants more for you and that is what this podcast is all about! In this episode, you will be challenged to: •Acknowledge personal fears, rejections, and past hurts that could have you self-protecting and avoiding  •Recognize your need for local believers to pray and connect with  •Stop living offended and instead use it as an opportunity for intentional conversations  •Recognize when avoidance of what is uncomfortable gets in your way of spiritual growth  •Trust in God's guidance and provision, remembering my favorite bible verse; Matthew 6:8: Your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.  •Be courageous and take steps to go back to church, even if it's terrifying.  •Reflect on any past church hurt, remembering that people hurt you, not God and that it's important not to put the church on a pedestal. The church is full of broken people who are in need of a Savior and help.  •Research churches in your area, considering factors such as location, denomination, and community involvement, and pick three to try out.  •Attend a church service or if you are really uncomfortable, start with a smaller step like a Trunk or Treat or special service churches offer throughout the year, keeping an open mind and heart.  •Get involved in a church community by joining a small group, or ministry, or volunteering in an outreach program.  •Reflect on any past experiences of rejection or abandonment and how they may be influencing your feelings about attending church  •Remember that God is calling you back to the church not only for your own growth but also to be a part of a community of believers and serve others.  Re: Recognizing Triggers Triggers are specific cues or situations that cause an emotional reaction or flashback from past traumas or hurt. Becoming aware of one's triggers allows for better management of emotions and reactions to challenging experiences. Identifying these triggers and working through them ensures past emotional baggage does not hinder your growth. In this podcast, Melissa Batt discusses the concept of triggers and their potential impact on rejoining a church community. She confesses that previous experiences of rejection may lead to negative emotional responses when contemplating attending a new congregation. Melissa suggests working through these emotional triggers, analyzing the root causes, and seeking support as needed to overcome them. Doing so will enhance the individual's ability to develop a healthy church experience free from the influence of past emotional scars. God is calling you to get involved. Delayed obedience is disobedience. Not only do you need the church, but the church also needs you. - Melissa Batt Reminder: The next Breakthrough Challenge is open now. Want to start serving in a specific ministry? Find a church to call home? Spend more time in God's word and actually understand what you are reading? Build a Nonprofit? Whether you have business, faith, or life goals, it can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, networking to get outside of your circle, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through this process over the last year and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too!    Book a consult to learn more and let's chat:  https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min    Let's connect:    https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/   https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/  https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose   https://www.melissabatt.com

40. For women wanting to make money as a life coach or business coach

15 augusti 2023 | 28 min

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, I am talking to those who are ready to monetize their God-given gifts and passion to help others. Some of you were born to coach and are finally understanding you can make money doing it. Spoiler alert: You are already coaching. You just may not be getting paid for it YET.

In this episode, I'll be sharing a few things I wish I would have known when I was getting started. Knowing this now can help you save time, money, and your sanity.

Top Takeaways:

Show up in person and online as your best self. Always be willing to leave your comfort zone.

Become clear and consistent in communicating your message online and in person.

Magnify your energy online for better audience engagement and deeper connections getting viewers to stop their scroll and pay attention.

Find your loyal lifers & connect with them regularly even if they aren't yet paying you.

Focus on value-driven connections and coaching without allowing your lack of clients to distract and/or derail you. Don't expect someone to hire you a week after you start serving consistently. Feeling entitled won't get you anywhere.

Don't fall for all the gimmicks. Shortcuts will not give you sustainability.

Improve your social media captions to make them more engaging and informative, encouraging users to pay attention to your content and stop scrolling.

Be intentional in your actions, recognizing that if you want people to pay you for your services, you must provide value and build trust. Give 10x the value of what you want people to pay you.

Be patient with yourself and your business growth, understanding success takes time and dedication. Commit to the process.

Consider seeking feedback and guidance from a mentor or coach to help you improve and grow your business. (I'd love to work with you!)

Remember your journey is unique, and comparing your progress to others can be unproductive and discouraging. Focus on your growth and success.

Are you ready to make progress toward those God-sized dreams? Want to start a podcast? Build a nonprofit? Maybe you have been wanting to launch your own coaching business to help those who are going through similar things you have gone through. Your goals can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, building your audience, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 4 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I've helped them and can confidently say I can help you, too! Sign up now and let's get started!

Find out more about the challenge:

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39. Real Talk on Marriage: Porn, Grace, Sexual Intimacy and Hope

8 augusti 2023 | 16 min

38. Don’t give up: What to do when things aren’t going as planned

2 augusti 2023 | 29 min

A few years ago I started working intentionally to live out my dreams. And, today, I'm a successful Christian Life & Business Coach who had already surpassed last year's profits within the first 2 months of this year. In this podcast episode, I am talking about God-sized dreams and how we can move forward when life is crazy chaotic with lots of twists and turns. {No hustling necessary just intentional hard work.🙌}

Want to know how I did it? Listening to this episode will not only provide you with valuable steps to pursue your God-sized dreams but will also inspire you to take action and rely on God more.

I have always had a burning desire to help women, but until a few years ago, I didn't know I could make money doing it. One day, I asked myself a life-changing question - if I could do anything without worrying about money, what would it be? The answer was crystal clear: coach women all day, every day. That epiphany led me to create a thriving business where I can combine my passion and impact the lives of others AND make money doing so.

Looking back, I can see how God has been the driving force behind my achievements, providing me with the gifts and opportunities to live out my purpose. I had to learn to trust in His plan, even when faced with challenges and distractions along the way. From setting boundaries to finding the right support system, the journey has been a test of faith, persistence, and overcoming my fears.

Investing in my dream, both financially and emotionally, has also been a crucial part of my success. My path toward coaching women began in 2019, although I had been coaching for years without realizing I could earn a living from it.

Main takeaways from this episode:

Keep the long-term vision in front of you and create boundaries to protect it.
Be prepared to say no to distractions and opportunities that don't align with your goals.
Recognize the journey will not always be easy, but don't give up.
Develop a battle plan for overcoming obstacles and staying focused on your goals.
Surround yourself with supportive people, including prayer warriors and mentors.
Get involved in a local church community to find like-minded individuals and support.
Use worship music for encouragement and motivation.
Be willing to spend money and understand the value of investing in your goals.
Remember that if you aren't willing to invest in your dream, it's unreasonable to expect others to do so.

Want to know more about how to do a life audit? Click here

Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.

Let's connect:

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37. Facing the pain: Finding freedom from childhood trauma through faith

25 juli 2023 | 31 min

Unmasking the Pain: Finding Freedom from Childhood Trauma Through Faith

Have you heard these myths about facing childhood trauma head on?

Myth #1: Time will heal all wounds.

Myth #2: Ignoring it will make it go away.

Myth #3: You just have to toughen up and move on.

Here's the truth: God wants to set you free from the trauma you have experienced. And, it starts with leaning into hard things and choosing to have the courage to face them. I share more of what God's been doing in my personal life and let you in on how God has shown up & showed out when I made the decision to take obedient action when it would have seemed easier to stay silent. This will give you encouragement, guidance, and hope as you move forward toward saying yes to what God is asking you to do.

In this episode, we will talk about:

What it looks like to lean into God and surrender to trust Him in hard things when you don't want to
Childhood Trauma including sexual abuse, grooming, and the cycle in families that keeps repeating
Speaking up even when you are worried someone can't handle it
Becoming free so we can help others become free
Creating space to process, rest, and take care of yourself while in the midst of hard seasons

Sometimes it would seem so much easier to do what everyone has always done and just pretend it didn't happen. But I knew that God was calling me to speak up. - Melissa Batt Coaching

Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Consider booking a coaching session with me to get personalized guidance and support in achieving your goals and living a fulfilled and sustainable life.

Share this podcast episode: If you know someone who could benefit from this podcast episode, please share the link with them. This is a powerful message that others need to hear & I could use your help to get the word out!

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36. Goal Setting: The biggest obstacle keeping you from achieving your goals

18 juli 2023 | 14 min

Unlock Your True Potential: Aligning Desires and Values for Goal Setting Success

Does this sound familiar? You set goals for yourself, but no matter how hard you try, you just can't seem to achieve them. You've been told that the key to success is simply setting goals, but you're feeling the pain of disappointment when those goals remain out of reach. It's time to uncover the missing element that no one told you about: aligning your personal desires and values. In this episode, we'll explore the importance of synchronizing your ambitions with your convictions. Get ready to break free from the cycle of unfulfilled goals and discover the true path to achievement.

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Stop flying by the seat of your pants so you can be more intentional
Align your personal ambitions and convictions with the goals you set
No longer allow other people's expectations to define the goals you set
Set goals you actually want to achieve
Be courageous and share your dreams with someone you trust for accountability
Recognize your excuses so you can flip the script and overcome them

If that's not God's plan for you, it's okay if you don't want it. It doesn't mean you suck. It doesn't mean you're a failure. It just means you are called for something else, and that's okay. - Melissa Batt Coaching

The resources mentioned in this episode are:

The free coaching workshop starts July 24th, 2023. Sign up now and get in on free coaching at https://www.melissabatt.com/registerfor12weeks
The best website for Christians who love cute graphic tees (not an ad, just obsessed with this amazing company): https://www.beaconthreads.com/

Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.

Let's connect:

https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/

https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/

https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose

https://www.melissabatt.com

35. The Impact of Saying Yes: Lessons in Setting Boundaries & Prioritizing for Women with Big Goals

12 juli 2023 | 20 min

The Impact of Saying Yes: Sonya's Lessons in Setting Boundaries & Prioritizing - Priorities on Purpose Podcast Episode

Today you get a BTS (behind the scenes) of a laser coaching session I did with someone participating inside of my free 12 Weeks to Success Workshop. Sonya has gigantic goals and knows where she wants to go. However, her constant need to say yes to everything and over-committing leads her to neglect her well-being and limits her time to work on her God-sized dreams. During this laser coaching session, I work with her on setting boundaries and rebalancing her life to prioritize what matters most.

Some of her goals include becoming a life coach, creating a course to help women grow in their relationship with Jesus, and writing a book. This episode is a great example of what it is like to work with me. If you are a high achiever, constantly biting off more than you can chew, love to volunteer, and are always known as the 'yes girl', then get a pen and paper; you'll want to take notes.

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Understand how important prioritizing self-care and your well-being is in your daily routines.
Discover the profound impact of balance and boundary-setting for your daily peace.
Realize the consequences of saying 'yes' to all and its influence on others.
Grasp the underestimated importance of stillness and reflection in goal mapping.
Take time to do a life audit to see how you are spending your time and why.
Prioritize your goals - If you're struggling to figure out your goals or have trouble following through on them, this episode is precisely what you need. It will challenge you to reassess your goals and provide guidance on how to focus on what truly matters.
Sign up for the next Twelve Weeks of Success workshop - This workshop will help you set and achieve your goals over the next twelve weeks. Look for the sign-up details in the show notes.

My special guest is Sonya Smody from Set4Life.

She's a high-achieving single mom who navigates life with resilience and unwavering determination. Continually pushing the boundaries of her comfort zone, Sonya knows her calling and purpose. However, without realizing it, she often overcommits herself leading her to self-sabotage.

The Oxygen Mask Parable
You've probably heard the safety announcement about securing your own oxygen mask before helping others on flights, right? It's a brilliant metaphor to explain why personal care matters. If we can't breathe, we can't help others breathe. This principle applies to our day-to-day lives as well. For those of us who struggle to see our worth the way God does, this lesson is hard to learn and will lead to old habits if we aren't careful.

The Power of Moving Backwards
Our culture often romanticizes the notion of always moving forward and depicts taking even a single step back as a failure. But sometimes, you have to go backward to leap forward. It's like drawing back an arrow before letting it fly. Indeed, revisiting past experiences, re-evaluating priorities, and resetting the course of life can seem daunting. But it can also create necessary growing spaces and ultimately leads to healing if you allow God to help. Sonya openly discussed her fear of going backward in the podcast.

The Struggle with Priorities
You know that feeling when you keep piling on more than you can physically carry? Well, that's what we're talking about. A lot of people, just like Sonya, get caught up in a whirlwind of responsibilities. They believe they can handle everything that comes their way, from personal commitments to endless volunteering opportunities. Unfortunately, it becomes a vicious cycle of always saying yes, leading them to overlook their health and well-being. As one might imagine, this imbalance can take a massive toll on overall happiness and lead to long-term physical and mental exhaustion. From Sonya's perspective, her constant yes attitude initially seemed like a noble trait, one which made lending a helping hand to others a no-brainer. But, it came at a major cost.

The Martha Syndrome
In the biblical account of Martha and Mary, Martha was so wrapped up in serving guests that she missed out on the moment's joy. People, like Sonya, who find it hard to say no, often end up being the 'Martha.' They keep volunteering, serving, and giving until they are spent. While giving back and volunteering are valuable qualities, it's equally important to find space to be still and maintain main priorities. During the podcast, Melissa used the story of Mary & Martha to provide Sonya with a different perspective on her situation. Sonya, as an inherent doer and giver, admitted to being a 'Martha.' The challenge for Sonya now is to balance her 'Martha'-like willingness to serve with the heart posture of Mary.

Want to know more about how to do a life audit? Click here

Sign up for the July workshop: https://www.melissabatt.com/registerfor12weeks

Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.

Let's connect:

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34. What you may not know, the truth and real talk from a Christian Life & Business Coach: Circling back to our very first episode of Priorities on Purpose

27 juni 2023 | 21 min

33. When you want to be polished & professional but God wants the world to see you and your weaknesses

20 juni 2023 | 11 min

Small Steps, Big Impact: Your Guide to Navigating New Territories and Growing Your Business

I know I'm not alone in my fear of the unknown. Recently I was on the phone with my mom and was telling her how exhausted I felt. I wasn't tired from lack of sleep. I was 'soul-tired'. Real Talk: I'm in this season of continuously taking myself out of my comfort zone, and doing new things. This episode is just a quick behind-the-scenes conversation with what God is teaching me as I lean into God and stop allowing excuses to hold me back. I am doubling down on vulnerability and leaning into the messy process of growth. And, I'm taking you along with me!

In this episode, I talk about:

Staying true to yourself in the pursuit of your goals.
Overcoming personal insecurities and developing your faith
Walking in unwavering courage to confront obstacles with humility.
Mastering the skill of venturing beyond your comfort zone and seeking support.
Believing in the vision and keeping your head focused on Jesus as you walk things out.

Keep your eyes on Jesus. Not the waves, not the wind, not the people that are behind you or watching you, but your eyes straight on Jesus because he's directing your steps. - Melissa Batt Coaching

Authenticity in Weaknesses
There is so much power in allowing others to see our weaknesses. It's time to be authentic and embrace your weaknesses instead of hiding them. People are more inspired by genuine vulnerability than artificial perfection, as it creates a relatable connection. In doing so, we empower others to face their insecurities and pursue their dreams without fear. Melissa Batt opens up about her struggles with seeking approval and perfectionism. From her point of view, it is crucial to be vulnerable and show our weaknesses in front of others, even if they may be uncomfortable. By doing so, she encourages the listeners to let go of their fears and insecurities and trust in God's plan for their lives. This approach of embracing authenticity in our weaknesses can help build courage and resilience in the face of challenges.

Speaking at Church

Melissa Batt spoke at a church prayer meeting and shared about encountering trouble. She gave examples including conflict, anxiety, depression, and other hardships. Believe it or not, this is actually an invitation to spend more time with God through prayer. She challenged the audience to remember that no matter if it is big or small, God is there & cares. Use the hard times to fan the flame for Jesus and be reminded that the obstacles we face are often distractions from the enemy. He would prefer nothing more than for the trouble we face to derail us from our purpose & growing our relationship with God. If you would be interested in learning more about having Melissa Batt speak, reach out to the email address below.

Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.

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32. Struggles + Fear: Nicky’s Story of Returning to Church After Trauma

14 juni 2023 | 49 min

Obedience to God's Calling: Nicky's Inspiring Journey Back to Church

Have you heard these myths about attending church?

Truth: You don't have to be perfect to attend church, in fact, the church is a place for imperfect people to come together and grow in their faith.

A church should allow you to connect with others and you should actually enjoy it. Okay, okay... {Maybe you won't enjoy it immediately but you shouldn't hate it either.}

And, although you can worship God on your own, attending church allows you to be a part of something bigger than yourself and strengthens your relationship with God.

Note: After recording this episode, I stumbled upon a quote that spoke strongly to me.

A disconnected member of the body of Christ will not last. It must be attached to a body for sustainability.

I can't remember the pastor's name but what he was saying was as Christians we are all a part of the body of Christ. If you are a believer, I'm assuming you know we are to be the hands and feet of Jesus. 1st Corinthians Ch 12:12-31 shares about different body parts and how all are essential for the work God is doing.

So what happens when a hand is cut off and no longer has blood flow? It dies. While some of us have left the church for a season and haven't yet lost our faith, I now believe God's word says it is crucial for us to be connected to a body of believers to sustain the hard days and the attacks of the enemy. WE NEED each other! If you are currently not attending a local church, I believe it is only a matter of time before you grow stagnant and get distracted by the world's noise. Let this message be a wake-up call!

In this episode, I know you will be inspired to take a step of faith in obedience to do whatever it is God is asking of you. Nicky's testimony of how God was gracious & loving every step of the way is a reminder for us today. He knows. He is a good, good father.

Other topics and thoughts mentioned in this episode:

Overcoming personal struggles and healing from trauma caused by the church
When you feel like an outcast because of things out of your control
Having a child with special needs inside the church and feeling unsupported
Why avoiding hard conversations is disastrous and causes conflict & chaos inside the church.
Divorce inside the church and why treating someone differently because of it isn't the answer.
Be intentional about going back to church, even if it's scary and intimidating, and remember that the church is made up of broken people who may not always know how to respond in difficult situations.
Acknowledge the elephants in the room and don't avoid what's uncomfortable.
Take time to reflect on what God may be calling you to do and trust in His plan.

Nicky Asher-Bowling is a resilient and inspiring coaching client of mine who has overcome numerous challenges in her life. As a devoted Christian, Nicky faced the heart-wrenching decision to leave her lifelong church after experiencing judgment and disappointment in her time of need. Despite these setbacks, Nicky maintained her faith and yearned for spiritual growth. With immense courage, she took the leap of faith and returned to church, embracing God's calling for her life. Nicky's journey demonstrates the importance of obedience and trust in God, even in the face of fear.

Overcoming the Fear of Going Back to Church
Returning to church after a long absence can be intimidating, especially if previous experiences have been filled with judgment or negativity. Opening oneself up to a new church community requires vulnerability and courage. The fear of rejection or not fitting in may hinder people from exploring their faith and finding a supportive and compassionate church community. It's important to remember that everyone's spiritual journey is unique, and sometimes, revisiting the familiar may offer new insights and stronger connections to our faith. Nicky Asher-Bowling faced her own fears and hesitations when considering returning to church after a long absence. Through our coaching and God's nudging, she realized the importance of trusting in God's calling for her life and recognizing that her fears were merely obstacles to her spiritual journey. Nicky's story highlights the powerful and transformative results she experienced as she overcame her fears and took those first courageous steps back into a church community where she felt welcomed and supported.

The Importance of a Welcoming Church
A supportive and welcoming church environment is crucial for fostering spiritual growth and a sense of belonging. Churches should focus on acceptance, understanding, and genuine connection instead of just following rules or imposing strict expectations. A person's spiritual journey is deeply personal, and a person's ability to grow and thrive in their faith is usually greatly influenced by the quality of the church community they are part of. For Nicky Asher-Bowling, finding a church that supported her personal views and beliefs was essential to her reconnection to her faith. Throughout her conversation with Melissa, Nicky shares how she eventually found a church that offered her a supportive and welcoming environment through their unique system of "house moms," which helped her feel seen and heard. This connection allowed Nicky to flourish in her faith and feel inspired to invite her husband to attend with her, further deepening their spiritual bond.

31. For the Direct Sales consultant who is tired of chasing sales & wants to build a sustainable side gig business

6 juni 2023 | 15 min

Unleash Your Direct Sales Potential: Proven Tips for Booking More Parties & Finding Your Groove

Do you want to increase your party bookings and sales in your direct sales business? Are you tired of chasing people and bugging the same people all the time for an order? Do you want to get back in the game with your business and actually start making money again?

I can help you turn your direct sales business into a thriving success. By implementing proven techniques and strategies, you can achieve the ultimate goal: a steady stream of party bookings and a bigger paycheck. With my help, you can transform your business and reach the result you've been dreaming of – a profitable and rewarding direct sales career. It's time to take action and start seeing the kind of success that doesn't leave you feeling burnt out and overwhelmed to sustain.

Listen in for my real talk about treating your social selling gig like a real business. Lots of people get into direct sales because they like the idea of earning money from home, but they fail to put in the time, systems, and effort required to build a successful & sustainable business. It should be noted that the sales consultant asking the question is a rockstar who has sold thousands per month in the past and built a small team. But, at the time we were talking, she was barely staying active. Don't discount or dismiss this episode based on the numbers I'm sharing with her personally. You can use these tips to hit any sales goal you have!

In this episode, you will be able to:

Take steps to strengthen the foundation of your business.
Learn more about the goal-setting process to have a great experience in your network marketing journey.
Hear more about using mega parties as a secret weapon to get in front of more people in less time.
Think about and take action to set yourself apart from others in your industry.

The Importance of Presentation
Presentation matters. You want to create a lasting impression on potential hostesses, recruits, and customers. This can be especially important when it comes to gift-giving or presenting party favors. A well-thought-out, visually appealing wow gift will help them remember you and want to work with you again. A tip for those who like to give extra products as a gift or mystery bag items: Do not give or include items you wouldn't want or others wouldn't want. The items you choose and the presentation of them can be the difference between a one-time transaction and a loyal, lifelong customer.

Setting Income Goals
Direct sales consultants often find success when they set specific income goals from the beginning. Establishing a money goal helps to keep you on track and motivated, and allows the focus to remain on tasks and strategies designed to achieve it. Goal setting helps you be intentional, get things done, and save time doing it.

Mega Parties
Another key strategy for direct sales success is to host Mega Parties. These events typically involve having multiple hostesses inside of one party, maximizing exposure and reaching more people in less time. Mega Parties can be held online or at home, and are a great way to boost sales and engage potential customers. I share my process of booking parties and the necessary steps to be the most efficient with the least amount of back and forth. Mega Parties, when executed effectively, are changing the game for consultants in Norwex, Thirty-One, Younique, Pampered Chef, Seint, and many others.

The Mega Party process for those who love the cliff note version:

Figure out how much money you want to make and do the math to see how much you need to sell in order to make that amount.
Block off the weeks on your calendar when you want to have parties before you ever ask anyone to party.
Make a list of all the people you want to ask to have a party.
Join the Success Lounge to receive the script to get started on the Mega Party and host three parties inside of one party.
Try to get at least two parties booked off of every single hostess.
Create a list of the perks for partying with YOU (not the company)
If you need help with wording, put your verbiage in the student community and ask for help with tweaking it.
Treat your business like a business.
Utilize the one-to-many strategy and focus on parties to get in front of a lot of people at one time.
Don't get caught up in creating party scripts or graphics to avoid the hard thing, which is rejection.
Create small baby steps to get you to your goal. Start with booking three parties every single month if you are currently less than 3.

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Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.

Let's connect:

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30. Mental Health Struggles: Finding courage to ask for help and what NOT to say to someone battling depression and anxiety

30 maj 2023 | 31 min

Finding Courage in Mental Health Struggles with Breakthrough Challenge member, Mary

After years of pushing down her emotions and putting herself last, Mary finally scheduled an appointment with a doctor and even followed through, despite her husband's recent hospitalization.

And, sadly, her vulnerability was met with rude remarks by the doctor and nurse, leaving her feeling dumb and ashamed. To make it worse, a nurse actually said the words "Pull up your big girl panties", which is not helpful to someone who is already struggling.

Now, Mary questioned whether her struggles were even valid.

Quick tips and topics we talk about:

• Validate the courage needed to ask for help with mental health challenges. 

• Ways that therapy can target and alleviate the roots of anxiety and trauma. 

• Consider the critical nature of selecting a therapist with whom you can develop trust and rapport. 

• Welcome the benefits of letting go of fear and leaning on faith for support and direction. 

• Uncover the process of addressing and healing from the shame associated with trauma. 

• Recognize that seeking help IS pulling up your big girl panties.

• Flip the script on negative self-talk and recognize your worth and value.

• Take medication if needed and recognize the importance of medicine in managing mental health. 

• Journaling through emotions and asking for prayer support when feeling weak. 

• Prioritize self-care utilizing a battle plan, and intentionally live a fulfilled life. 

Healing Requires Confrontation 

The road to healing often requires confronting and facing the source of our trauma or emotional distress. By avoiding these issues, we risk prolonging our pain and allowing it to dominate our lives. Confronting our past and its impact on our present can be an uncomfortable and challenging process, but it is necessary for growth and healing to occur. Melissa Batt gently guides Mary in the conversation to understand that, although the process is difficult, breaking apart can eventually lead to healing and freedom. Melissa encourages Mary to create a battle plan and seek protection during tough times by turning to prayer partners when needed. This deliberate confrontation of her traumatic experiences will allow Mary to start healing and find freedom in her life.

You are worthy of attention 

Suppressing your emotions and struggles for fear of seeming needy or attention-seeking ultimately hinders your ability to heal fully. It's crucial to realize that your experiences, emotions, and the path to healing all deserve attention and care. During the podcast, Melissa Batt reminds Mary of her worthiness of attention and advises her to flip the script on her negative thoughts. By embracing her value and acknowledging her emotions, Mary can move forward in her healing journey with confidence and self-assurance.

Want more tips to help you move forward and get healing?

Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.  

  Let's connect:    

https://www.melissabatt.com/12-weeks-to-success

If you or someone you know is struggling and you feel like you need someone to talk with you can also reach out to the National Mental Health Hotline NOW. It's free and confidential. They offer 24/7 assistance and will provide support with compassion. Call 866-903-3787 and someone will be on standby to talk with you.

29. Stop with the Copy-Pasting Posts & Messages: Create a loyal tribe who will buy anything & everything you are selling.

23 maj 2023 | 20 min

Authenticity Over Copy-Paste: How to Stand Out in Network Marketing

From copy and paste to authenticity and value - Find your loyal tribe or as we call it around here-LOYAL LIFERS! But how do you do it? Listen in to find out!

In this episode, you will be able to:

Understand the role authenticity (and allowing yourself to be REAL) plays in direct sales, social selling, and network marketing businesses like Mary Kay, Scentsy, Park Lane, Norwex, Plexus, Thirty-One Gifts, Seint, etc...
Start creating content to set yourself apart and provide MASSIVE value to attract your people and build the like, know, and trust factor.
Know your pillars and who you want to attract to speak directly to them in your communication.
Learn to embrace your unique strengths to set yourself apart from competitors.
Ask for feedback to grow and polish your areas of knowledge & expertise because it's probably so obvious you won't see it.

To give value, you have to show up authentically. Stop hiding behind your products or the company you represent. - Melissa Batt

Other tips:

Stop teaching copy-and-paste methods in direct selling and network marketing.
Focus on creating value instead of noise.
Show up authentically and stop hiding behind your products or company.
Niche down and speak to one person.
Let your freak flag shine and share your quirks, stories, struggles, and obstacles.
Acknowledge all the things that set you apart and become super clear on who you are.
Share your personal stories to connect with your audience.
Define your LOYAL LIFER aka Ride or Die and determine who she is.

Help Others Navigate Their Obstacles
One way of demonstrating authenticity and providing value is to assist others in overcoming their obstacles. This can include sharing your personal struggles, giving encouragement, and offering support through empathy and compassion. In doing so, you become relatable & go beyond the surface talk and sales. Leverage your life experiences and skills to aid others facing similar challenges. In this episode, I share personal examples of how I have been open with my battles with ADHD, depression, and anxiety. By being open about my struggle to focus, for example, I have inspired others going through the same thing. As I walk this out, I can see that my 'loyal lifer' is someone who struggles to focus and sometimes feels like she is all over the place. Since this is something I have learned (and am still learning) to overcome, I can share tips on what has helped me. If they try the tips and it works, it builds trust and they are more likely to continue following, connecting, and trying other things that I share as helpful.

Acknowledge What Sets You Apart
It's important for all of us entrepreneurs to recognize what sets us apart. We do not have to compete with team members, new consultants, or even similar brands. There is room for us all! You will recognize this when you stop trying to be basic in your marketing and serve the masses. Identify your own strengths and weaknesses or seek feedback from close friends or family members. By getting clear on your uniqueness, you can stop trying to be like everyone else and own who God created you to be. Remember you don't have to know everything about a certain topic, you just need to know more than who you were five minutes ago. Example: I share how I am mastering the art of planning despite not being a natural planner. In this topic, I'm not targeting those who love to plan and have it mastered. I'm targeting people who wish they loved to plan, find it hard, and want to find something that works for them. Can you see how this fits with my brand of chasing squirrels, getting distracted, and having attention deficit problems?

Want to learn how to get your first 500 Loyal Lifers? Click here

Purchase the ON DEMAND Bootcamp and get all 4 days: Click here

Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.

Let's connect:

https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/

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28\\ Circling the wagon: Become proactive & prepare for life’s challenges to protect your peace

16 maj 2023 | 20 min

Circling the Wagon: Preparing for Life's Challenges

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, I share more from the Girlboss Basic Bootcamp in hopes it will help you prepare for resistance. For 3 years I've been challenging my coaching clients to slow down and pay attention. Are you ready to circle the wagon and start being proactive in your life? Tune in to find out.

Spoiler Alert: While life is hard and the enemy will come to attack you as you live out your calling, you DO have control over some areas of your life.

Key takeaways in this episode:

Look for the gaps and cracks in your life and create a plan to fix them. Areas mentioned include your health, relationships, marriage, finances, and your home.
Declutter and organize your home to remove chaos and create peace. If you struggle with anxiety, ADHD, or depression, this will be extremely helpful for you.
Take time to review your budget paying attention to what comes in and what goes out to improve your financial situation.
Spend intentional time in your closest relationships to make sure you remain connected.
Stop putting off taking care of yourself. Prioritize your health. Schedule the doctor's appt you have been putting off. Go to the dentist. Move your body.
Consider adding an additional stream of income to live out your calling or if you are already a direct seller, utilize your business as a vehicle to help you do so.
Join a book club or find other ways to slow down and reset to avoid being too busy to take care of yourself and your priorities. Check your rhythms.

Circle the Wagon
Circling the wagon involves identifying areas in our lives that are more vulnerable and taking steps to strengthen them. This proactive approach will help you have more peace, limit your distractions, and protect your resources. It's time to get off the hamster wheel and out of survival mode. This is the message God gave me in 2020. Today, the words are still written on my mirror in my bedroom as a reminder. It's my mission now to help others recognize that living in reaction mode and putting out fires regularly isn't how it has to be. Follow these steps and protect your peace.

Want more tips to help you Circle the Wagon? Click here

Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min

Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.

Let's connect:

https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/

https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/

https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose

https://www.melissabatt.com

27\\ Mean girls, listen up! Acknowledging insecurities and sharing it all with you.

9 maj 2023 | 18 min

Overcoming Self-Sabotage and Insecurities to Thrive

Are you holding yourself back from your true potential? So many of us fall prey to these misconceptions and most of us do it without even realizing it.

Misconception #1 - You have to be perfect to succeed.

Misconception #2 - Someone else can do it better than you.

Misconception #3 - Success means never feeling self-doubt.

But the truth is, you don't have to be perfect, there is room for you even when others are also doing it, and self-doubt is 100% normal. As a Christian Life & Business Coach for women & direct sellers, I'm here to share with you the real truth - and help you silence your inner mean girl once and for all.

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Silence your inner critic and transform your mindset by reversing negative thoughts aka FLIP THE SCRIPT.
Own your quirks and insecurities as tools to connect you to others and remain relatable
Trust God to use all of you- the good, the bad, the ugly!

Your purpose and plan has the power to impact more than just yourself. It isn't about you. -Melissa Batt

Other Tips:

Consider hiring a coach for personalized and focused accountability to help you reach your goals.
Cut out Bible verses related to your insecurities and post them in visible places as reminders of God's love and purpose for you.
Call out your insecurities and address them if you feel shame around them. The enemy can't use what you bring into the light.
Speak out about the things that the devil wants to keep you silent in and acknowledge the elephants.
Join the Success Lounge for access to masterclasses and community support.
Follow Melissa Batt Coaching on Instagram for daily inspiration and tips.

Giving Yourself Permission to Be You
Embracing our true selves, quirks, and all, is essential for personal growth and achieving true sustainable success. By giving ourselves permission to be authentic and unique, we can harness our individual strengths and stand out in the crowd. In this episode, I share my personal journey to self-acceptance and want you to do the same. In doing so, we can channel our unique abilities to truly live in the purpose God has for us and create a massive impact.

Want the worksheets I mentioned in this episode? Click here

Purchase the Bootcamp: Click here

Last chance to join the Breakthrough Challenge:

Want to start using your voice and allow yourself to be seen? Build a Nonprofit? Or maybe just grow your confidence? Whether you have business, faith, or life goals, it can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, networking to get outside of your circle, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too!

Partner with me HERE:

https://www.melissabatt.com/12-weeks-to-success

Let's connect:

https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/

https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/

https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose

https://www.melissabatt.com

26\\ Finding a new & local church: Questions to ask & practical tips to make the process doable and stress-free

2 maj 2023 | 25 min

Church Search Anxiety: Facing Fears and Embracing New Connections

Does anyone else move a lot like me? One of the hardest parts of moving is finding all the favorites in the new area. We have to research and make so many decisions like where to send our kids to school, the best neighborhoods, who to use for a pediatrician, a dentist, our own primary care physician, etc... And, then of course, for those of us who consider ourselves Christians... We need to find a new church. While this isn't easy, it is doable. And, with as much as we have moved, I now consider myself a professional church researcher and love to help my friends and coaching clients narrow down their choices to not allow decision fatigue and analysis paralysis to keep them from jumping back in and getting back to church.

In this episode, you will learn a lot of tips and tricks like:

Deciding on your non-negotiables when it comes to finding a church to fit your family
Knowing your personal preferences for a church, such as denomination, type of music, size of congregation, and proximity to home.

Asking friends, family, or colleagues for church recommendations and inquiring about their experiences.
Visiting church websites to gather information on their beliefs, programs, and staff.
Watching live streams or recorded services to get a sense of the worship style, music, and preaching.
Reviewing church social media accounts to gain insight into the church community, pastor, and children's program leaders. {I know I'm not the only one who stalks Facebook accounts, right?}
Reaching out to friends who follow or like the church's social media pages to ask about their experiences and opinions.
Attending a service at the TOP 3 churches and being open to trying different churches until finding the right fit.
Engaging with church members and staff during your visit, asking questions, and expressing your interest in learning more.
Getting involved in church events, small groups, or volunteer opportunities to further immerse yourself in the church community and make connections.
And, last but not least... Feel free to reach out. I'd love to help you find a church that meets your needs.

Bonus Tip

Obviously, taking time to look up the church's website and social media accounts can provide great information on their beliefs, values, and available programs. But, if you take time to watch recordings or live streams of previous services it may also give a glimpse into the atmosphere and worship style of a church. Look for churches that post candid photos of their congregation to see how people dress and what the overall culture of the church is like.

Importance of Outreach and Serving
Outreach and serving opportunities within a church allow members to serve the community and be a part of something greater than themselves. Being involved in outreach programs can foster personal growth and spiritual development, as well as strengthen one's connection to the church community. Finding a church that emphasizes the importance of serving and encourages involvement is crucial for those of us who love to create impact. By participating in these programs, not only does one grow spiritually, but they also have the ability to make a difference in the lives of others.

Join the Breakthrough Challenge:

Want to start serving in a specific ministry? Find a church to call home? Spend time in God's word and actually understand what you are reading? Build a Nonprofit? Whether you have business, faith, or life goals, it can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, networking to get outside of your circle, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too!

Partner with me HERE:

https://www.melissabatt.com/12-weeks-to-success

Let's connect:

https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/

https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/

https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose

https://www.melissabatt.com

25\\ Do you feel God calling you to go back to church? Overcoming church hurt, rejection, and shame to get involved with a local church in your community.

25 april 2023 | 24 min

Overcoming Church Hurt, Rejection, and Shame to find community with other believers.

In the last two years, I have had conversations with several women who feel called to either begin attending or go back to church. In today's podcast, I'm acknowledging all the elephants and sharing some of my own personal experiences about feeling as if attending church was pointless. I know it sounds harsh, but it appeared that most church attendees were going through the motions. I wanted no part of it until my friend convinced me to try it one more time. Because of Natasha, I gave attending a local church one more chance and I'm super grateful for her push.

Watching online, settling for a podcast with your favorite preacher's messages... (Does anyone else love listening to Steven Furtick's podcast episodes of his Sunday messages? If so, I see you, girl!)

God wants more for you and that is what this podcast is all about!

In this episode, you will be challenged to:

Acknowledge personal fears, rejections, and past hurts that could have you self-protecting and avoiding
Recognize your need for local believers to pray and connect with
Stop living offended and instead use it as an opportunity for intentional conversations
Recognize when avoidance to what is uncomfortable gets in your way of spiritual growth
Trust in God's guidance and provision, remembering my favorite bible verse; Matthew 6:8: Your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.
Be courageous and take steps to go back to church, even if it's terrifying.
Reflect on any past church hurt, remembering that people hurt you, not God, and that it's important not to put the church on a pedestal. The church is full of broken people who are in need of a Savior and help.
Research churches in your area, considering factors such as location, denomination, and community involvement and pick three to try out.
Attend a church service or event, keeping an open mind and heart.
Get involved in a church community by joining a small group, ministry, or volunteering in an outreach program.
Consider reading the book Triggers: How We Can Stop Reacting and Start Healing by David Richo
Reflect on any past experiences of rejection or abandonment and how they may be influencing your feelings about attending church
Remember that God is calling you back to the church not only for your own growth but also to be a part of a community of believers and serve others.

Re: Recognizing Triggers
Triggers are specific cues or situations that cause an emotional reaction or flashback from past traumas or hurt. Becoming aware of one's triggers allows for better management of emotions and reactions to challenging experiences. Identifying these triggers and working through them ensures past emotional baggage does not hinder your growth. In this podcast, I chat a little bit about the concept of triggers and their potential impact on rejoining a church community. Previous experiences of rejection may lead to negative emotional responses when contemplating attending a new congregation. While this may be uncomfortable, I want to challenge you to flip the script and work through these emotional triggers, analyzing the root causes, and seeking support as needed to overcome them. Doing so will enhance the individual's ability to develop a healthy church experience free from the influence of past emotional scars.

God is calling you to get involved.

Delayed obedience is disobedience. Not only do you need the church, but the church also needs you. - Melissa Batt

Reminder:

The next Breakthrough Challenge will be starting soon. Want to start serving in a specific ministry? Find a church to call home? Spend more time in God's word and actually understand what you are reading? Build a Nonprofit? Whether you have business, faith, or life goals, it can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, networking to get outside of your circle, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too! Sign up for the free workshop that I'm hosting this week to learn more!

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24\\ Are you sabotaging your success? Three things to stop doing immediately if you want to grow your audience, income and influence to maximize your opportunities.

18 april 2023 | 28 min

Stop Sabotaging Your Business: Top Mistakes to Avoid

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, host Melissa Batt helps overwhelmed direct sellers and new life coaches understand the often-overlooked importance of presenting themselves professionally in order to grow their income, audience, and influence without sacrificing their mental health.

Top Takeaways:

Maximize your opportunities by showing up in person and online as your best self.

Elevate your professional appearance if possible and clarify your message to attract clients more effectively.

Magnify your presence for better audience engagement and deeper connections.

Connect with your loyal lifers and become super clear in your message and purpose.

Focus on value-driven connections and coaching without allowing your lack (scarcity) mindset to get in the way of your serving at your highest level.

Embrace patience, stay humble, and keep things simple. Don't fall for all the gimmicks. Shortcuts will not give you sustainability.

Reflect on your online presence, including your appearance in photos and videos, to ensure you are presenting yourself professionally and confidently.

Focus on improving your social media captions to make them more engaging and informative, encouraging users to stop scrolling and pay attention to your content.

Show up consistently online and in person, striving to be presentable and confident in all interactions but also recognize where you are. Showing up matters most.

Be intentional in your actions, recognizing that if you want people to pay you for your services, you must provide value and build trust.

Always give ten times the value of what you want people to pay for your services or products.

Avoid rushing the process of building your business and instead focus on steady growth and progress.

Be patient with yourself and your business growth, understanding that success often takes time and dedication.

Invest time and energy into developing a strong message and brand identity for your business.

Consider seeking feedback and guidance from a mentor or coach to help you improve and grow your business.

Remember your journey is unique, and comparing your progress to others can be unproductive and discouraging. Focus on your own growth and success.

The next Breakthrough Challenge will be starting soon. Get ready to make progress toward those God-sized dreams. Want to start a podcast? Build a nonprofit? Maybe you have been wanting to launch your own coaching business to help those who are going through similar things you have gone through. Your goals can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, building your audience, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I've helped them and I can confidently say I can help you, too! Sign up for the free workshop to learn more!

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23\\ Something happened at church tonight and I must share it with you!

8 april 2023 | 24 min

Is God calling you to go to the altar? What would it look like if the church was full of hungry people who want to be in the presence of God and no longer care what people think?

Stop second-guessing yourself. Be bold. Recognize the opportunity to support someone else's faith and go first.

Get out of your seat and take the steps forward. If Jesus is willing to die on the cross for us, can't we surrender our pride and go to the altar? Intercede for others. Pray for yourself. Praise Him for what He has already done in your life. Consider it an act of obedience because you know God is moving and doing a new thing.

I shared this message live at midnight after tonight's Good Friday worship service at my church here in Kentucky. Because Easter is so close, I wanted to upload this message here as quickly as possible in hopes some of you will be more aware this Sunday. This episode is raw & real and is unedited with me sharing my heart and what I know God has been telling me over the last couple of years.

It's about going first.

It's about not staying in your seat but going to the altar when you feel the prompting from Holy Spirit.

It's about leaving your comfort zone and not allowing the spirit of resistance to stunt your growth.

P.S. If we want revival, we must allow ourselves to linger in His presence and lay down our pride, motives, and agendas.

P.S.S. Have you been putting off getting back into the church? Or maybe you haven't yet found a home church or you are overwhelmed with the idea of even looking for a good church. God is doing a new thing and He needs you to show up for His people. Be on the lookout for another podcast soon on how to find a church, what to look for, and how to feel comfortable walking in the doors before you even leave your house. And, no, I'm not talking about watching church online through a live stream or Youtube Channel.

The next Breakthrough Challenge will be starting soon. Sign up now so you will be ready to go! Your goals can be as simple as going back to church, reading your bible, or meeting new people through a bible study. Several of our current participants have similar goals and will tell you it is possible! I'd love to help you. And, of course, if you have a business or other life goal, we can do that too!

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22\\ Unlocking Your God-Sized Dreams: Stepping into Your Purpose and Making Money

5 april 2023 | 29 min

Despite my fears, I trusted God and surrendered my struggles and comfort to walk out this journey of coaching. Every day I get to wake up and do what I didn't even know was possible. I had no clue I could be paid to do life coaching. I truly thought my calling was to show up as the best top leader in my direct sales/network marketing business and I was super satisfied with it. However, sometimes God wants us to think bigger, step out of our comfort zone, and stop putting Him in a box.

Today, I'm no longer in direct sales but instead, I have the opportunity to coach women (inside and outside of the network marketing industry) to live a fulfilled purpose-driven life. So how did I get here? I'm glad you asked because today's episode is all about it!

Top Takeaways:

Keep the long-term vision in front of you and create boundaries to protect it.

Be prepared to say no to distractions and opportunities that don't align with your goals.

Recognize that the journey will be difficult, but don't give up.

Develop a battle plan for overcoming obstacles and staying focused on your goals.

Surround yourself with supportive people, including prayer warriors and mentors.

Get involved in a local church community to find like-minded individuals and support.

Use worship music as part of your battle plan for encouragement and motivation.

Don't be afraid to invest money in your dreams, even when it seems challenging.

Be willing to spend money to make money and understand the value of investing in your goals.

Remember that if you aren't willing to invest in your dream, it's unreasonable to expect others to do so.

Also, remember it is important to Circle the Wagon and be proactive as you start walking these big dreams out. I have a great freebie that will help you assess and start preparing ahead of time for the resistance and chaos that could come when you start living fully for God.

Protect your peace and download this freebie now:

https://www.melissabatt.com/becoming-intentional

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21\\ Making Room for God: Unblocking the Path, Growing Closer to God, and Reading your Bible

29 mars 2023 | 18 min

This is an excerpt from a Masterclass, shared with Christian direct sellers, ministry leaders, and those who lead non-profits. We were talking about how to hear from God and read the Bible, and how to make room in our lives to let God lead. We have to obey and be still to be able to recognize God's voice and make time to spend with Him and read the Bible. We have the choice to make room for God or continue on the same path we are on. We need to be obedient, follow God's lead, and not get distracted by other things in order to do kingdom work and make disciples. We need to get rid of what's not serving us and the things getting in the way of our relationship with Jesus.
"Stop filling your mind with noise and crap and do the work that He has called you to do. Get yourself together and make room for His word, because the harvest is here and you are called to be a worker!"

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How do you develop a deepening relationship with Jesus?
2. What is the importance of knowing the sound of the Shepherd’s voice?
3. How can you use your struggles as a sacrifice to God? 4. How to start reading your Bible and actually understand it?

Resources:
Circle the Wagon & Becoming Intentional

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Doing the Uncomfortable, Asking Hard Questions, Trusting God Getting Out of the Boat & God-Sized Dreams

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Chapter Summaries:
[00:00:00]
Melissa Batt is the host of Priorities on Purpose, a podcast for overwhelmed direct sellers. As a Christian life and business coach, she wants to help you live with intention. She shares proven and simple strategies that will be sure to help live a fulfilled life. [00:01:24]
In this episode, hear a little bit of the real talk that happened during the Masterclass I did for the Success Lounge called Faith Blockers. Is your faith and your relationship with Jesus where you want it to be? And if not, what can you do about it? [00:08:51]
Melissa: God is calling you to kingdom work. You are to go and make disciples. The revival is coming. We need more workers. I challenge you to slow it down. Baby steps, one step at a time. Breakthrough is here. [00:15:51]
Sometimes it's okay to be on social media, shop, and all the things but we shouldn't use it for comfort. God is the ultimate comforter. He can comfort us as nobody else can. [00:17:25]
Melissa: If you found value, I would love it if you could take a couple of seconds to leave me a quick review. Also, take a screenshot and share it on social media with your biggest AHA today. Until next time, friend, keep walking it out, one baby step at a time.

20\\ The Superwoman Cycle: What it is, why it is causing you to burn out, and how to stop letting it control your life for moms, direct sellers, and those struggling with depression and anxiety

21 mars 2023 | 21 min

Join me and my friend, Tori, as we discuss this phenomenon I refer to as the 'Superwoman Cycle'. It's where we are unintentionally trapped in a relentless cycle of overcommitting, exhausting ourselves, and feeling like a failure. This cycle shows up in all parts of our lives including our businesses and home life.

The good news is you don't have to continue on this path. You will have to stop flying by the seat of your pants but it is absolutely possible to regain control and break out of the cycle.

I'm a Christian life and business coach who helps overwhelmed direct sellers grow their income, audience, and influence without sacrificing their mental health and main priorities. This topic is right on point for all of us!

We have to be disciplined in our approach to the cycle and learn to trust the process. When we do, we can realign our priorities, allowing us to lead a more sustainable and fulfilled life.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. Breaking the Superwoman Cycle - Discover how to recognize and break the cycle of showing up inconsistent, exhausting yourself, and feeling like a failure.

2. Setting Business Hours - Find out how to prioritize family and yourself while still running a successful business. All about my own personal fears when it came down to making this decision and why it was the best thing I've ever done (and in all areas of my life including business)!

3. How to do a Fruit of the Spirit Audit and God's promises - How to ask God to help you develop self-control and discipline.

Get the waitlist for the next round of the Breakthrough Challenge: https://www.melissabatt.com/12-weeks-to-success

Resources:

Audit Your Life & Start Circling the Wagon

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Episode 18: Doing Hard Things

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19\\ Building a Social Media Plan From Scratch, Utilizing Facebook and Instagram to Give Value & Build Authority as a Direct Seller and Coach

15 mars 2023 | 16 min

18\\ Doing the uncomfortable, trusting God, and walking out hard things. Caregiving, acknowledging the elephants in the room, and asking God to grow us in the Fruits of the Spirit.

9 mars 2023 | 46 min

Where have I been? Why hasn’t there been much activity from me? What’s God been doing in my life?

Addressing it all in this episode. Lots of tears. Unscripted. A very casual conversation about making the decision to hit pause and help care for my Grandma who was nearing the end of her life. I talk about how God set me free of my crazy fears once again and helped me become more loving and grow in gentleness.

Other topics mentioned:

Starting a conversation about uncomfortable topics (the elephant in the room)

Leaning into the things that are typically left unsaid and saying them out loud

Allowing God to set us free of our fears and trusting Him

Learning the difference between wisdom and fear & how to know what to do in those situations.

How to ask someone who is dying if they know where they are going when they die

Reminders to give yourself permission to hit pause every once in a while when you need to process hard things. Most of the time we choose to neglect our main priorities because it feels safer and they will understand. Be intentional and live with your priorities on purpose.

P.S. The feedback from those who watched this FB LIVE tells me this episode is worth the extra time and the not-so-great sound quality. I hope you can listen and apply some of what I have been doing to your own life. You can do hard things. And, it doesn't have to feel equipped and confident in it. Trust God to give you the supernatural strength to pull off whatever it is He is calling you to do. He will do it!

And, of course, I'd love to partner with you to help you move forward! Our next Breakthrough Challenge starts in April. Get on the waitlist now so you can get started ASAP!

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17\\ Get your time back as a direct seller: 3 steps to take, stay focused and succeed using business systems

14 februari 2023 | 42 min

Are you a direct seller looking to streamline your processes so you can quiet the noise and breath again? Are you overwhelmed and feeling like there just isn't enough time in the day for you to be who you know you are supposed to be? If so, you’re not alone. Today we’re joined by Wendy Thomas, a mama, encourager, advocate, and coach who once found herself in the same situation. She was a stay-at-home mom, barely staying active in her direct sales business, and had no goals or ambitions to do much with her business as a Thirty-One Consultant. She only knew she needed to get out of the house!

When working with Wendy, it was clear that we needed to do life stuff before we could focus on business things. Through hard work, focus, and staying the course, Wendy managed to turn her business around and create systems to streamline things.

In our Breakthrough Challenge Spotlight today, we will explore Wendy’s story and learn how she did it. I’ll outline how Wendy Thomas managed to create a system for her business that brought her consistency, healthy habits, and systems. If you are ready to learn more, let's get to it.

About Wendy Thomas

Introducing Wendy Thomas - a mama, encourager, advocate, and coach. She has a coaching business that helps mamas who are raising a child with a diagnosis. Wendy is no stranger to the struggles of being a stay at home mom, as she has experienced it herself. After her youngest child received a medical diagnosis, she realized her job was to help other mamas navigate the journey of raising a child with a diagnosis. Wendy's journey began when she was just a hobbyist in the direct sales world. Through conversations and coaching, Wendy was able to open her eyes to the possibilities and opportunities of running a sustainable business. With my help, Wendy also addressed her trauma and fears related to an abusive relationship from her past.

Why is it important to build an effective system for your business?
In order to get your time back as a direct sales consultant or network marketer, you must streamline your processes, increase efficiency, and get in front of new people. A well-designed system provides a framework to keep all the balls in the air, keep your main priorities first, and track performance. Systems also allow you to save time, energy, and brain power by reducing redundant tasks and ensuring that the most important tasks are completed quickly and accurately. When you show up and do things consistently it will also build trust in your brand, identify problem areas, and help you focus on the things that matter most for your business and life goals.

Here are the steps you need to follow:
1. Taking Baby Steps
2. Staying Laser Focused
3. Continuing on the Path

1. Taking Baby Steps
Taking Baby Steps Taking baby steps is a great way to start on the path to achieving your dreams. The first step is to break down your goal into smaller, achievable tasks. By breaking down the goal into smaller tasks, you can start by taking one small step each day that will bring you closer to your goal. For example, if you want to start a business, the first step would be to consider your options. What kind of business would you like to be a part of? Another way to take baby steps is to use a habit tracker. A habit tracker allows you to track your progress and plan out the specific steps you need to take each day. This will help you stay focused and motivated. It also helps to have a support system that can provide you with motivation and accountability. Having someone to cheer you on and push you to keep going will help you reach your goal. Finally, having patience and persistence is key. It's important to remember that success doesn't happen overnight. You will experience setbacks and challenges along the way, so it's important to stay focused and keep moving forward. Taking baby steps and not giving up will help you eventually reach your goal.

It's also important to take time after each baby step to evaluate your progress. What worked? What didn't? What could you do differently next time? Doing this exercise will help you keep moving forward instead of accidentally getting into the 'check the box' and autopilot mode. It also helps you to recognize and celebrate your successes.

2. Staying Laser Focused
Staying laser focused is essential to having a successful life and business. For Wendy, it meant committing to the mega party and continuing to do the same thing even when the results weren't immediate. It also meant setting aside her fear of being visible and facing her trauma head-on. Once she was able to do that, she was able to move forward and start seeing results. She also had the support of the Success Lounge group membership. All members of my membership are provided with scripts and ideas. This gave her the baseline she needed to start creating her own content. She was able to recognize the noise in her head, and the thoughts that were holding her back. By recognizing these, she was able to move past them and start taking the steps necessary to create her business. By staying the course and staying laser-focused, she was able to achieve the success she never thought was possible.

To stay laser-focused, Wendy also took the time to prioritize her daily tasks. She knew that she couldn’t do everything at once, so she made sure to focus on the most important tasks that would bring her closer to her goal of a successful business. By dedicating her time and energy to the most important tasks, she was able to achieve her goals faster.

3. Continuing on the Path
Once Melissa and Wendy began working together, Melissa helped Wendy to overcome the trauma of a past relationship, which had been holding her back from moving forward. Wendy then began to realize that she could make her direct sales business a real business, and not just a hobby. She started by committing to a “mega party” and remained consistent, despite not seeing immediate success. This helped Wendy to stay focused on her goals and not be distracted by shiny new things. She also had access to resources, such as a “success lounge” with scripts to help her become more comfortable with her business. Ultimately, Wendy was able to stay the course and continue on the path to success. Through this process, Wendy was able to overcome her fears and make her business a reality.

Wendy was also dedicated to learning and growing as an entrepreneur. She attended our first Success Lounge Intensive and showed up to every masterclass, group coaching session, and 1 on 1 session to gain knowledge from other successful entrepreneurs. Wendy was also willing to take risks in order to grow her business. She took the initiative to close her Facebook Customer VIP Group, created a website, which enabled her to reach even more customers, and she began to build a network of loyal customers who continue to support her. Wendy was able to take her business to the next level. She was able to stay focused on her goals and was not afraid to take risks and try new things. Through her dedication and hard work, Wendy was able to turn her direct sales business into a successful venture.

This episode is a great example of how staying focused and taking baby steps can help you achieve success. By taking consistent action, having a support system, and staying laser-focused, you can overcome the fear and trauma holding you back, find your voice, and be who God called you to be.

And, of course, I'd love to partner with you to help you move forward to live the life of your dreams. Our next Breakthrough Challenge starts in April. Get on the waitlist now so you can get started ASAP!

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