Sex With Emily

Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’re having sex, you’re going to come across the famous, the controversial, 69 sex position. Why not learn some pointers to make the whole thing more hot, and more comfortable?  

First, I share research with you that might motivate you to put 69 on regular rotation in your sex life. Next, I give you techniques for being an excellent oral giver, and strategies like mindful masturbation, to help you become a more relaxed and erotic receiver. Finally, I talk position tips like the Sideways 69 and the Power 69 for you to play with, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Game-changing 69 positions to maximize pleasure.
• Oral sex tips to elevate giving and receiving.
• How to relax and fully enjoy receiving pleasure.

Show Notes:

• This episode is brought to you by: Just Thrive (Visit justthrivehealth.com and use code “SEXWITHEMILY” at checkout for 20% off your order)
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
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Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction.

I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to address common causes of pain during sex
• Treatments for sexual health challenges
• Why there’s no “normal” when it comes to sexual health

Show Notes:

• More Dr. Maria Uloko: Instagram | Twitter | MUMD Sexual Health Beverly Hills
• VULVAi.co: Instagram | Website 
• Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE 
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
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On today’s show, it’s all about finding answers to your trickiest questions and unleashing your full pleasure potential. How do you orgasm when you don’t know how? Or have sex for the first time, when you’re a virgin? How do you ease into an open relationship or threesome? How do you find balance in your masturbation routine?

Whether you’re too dry (and it’s puzzling your partner), or too wet (and it’s puzzling both of you) I help you figure out solutions to overcome your biggest sexual challenges.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to break through orgasm barriers with self-pleasure tips.
• The essentials for navigating open relationships and threesomes.
• Why embracing the messiness of sex leads to better intimacy.

Show Notes:

• Try VIIA Today! Head to https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code "EMILY"!
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave? 

Actor, writer and director Lake Bell is obsessed with the human voice. On today’s show, we’ll discuss her audiobook Inside Voice, which explores this obsession, including the “sexy baby voice” phenomenon - which happens to be her least favorite choice for bedroom talk. We also discuss your takes on dating in your 40s, and why things often get better with age when it comes to the pursuit of romance. All this and more with my amazing guest, Lake Bell.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How your voice can enhance intimacy and authenticity in and out of the bedroom.
• Why playful and respectful communication is the key to better sex.
• The joys of dating in your 40s, from confidence to self-awareness.

Show Notes:

• More Lake Bell: Instagram | X
• Lake Bell's Audiobook, Inside Voice: My Obsession with How We Sound: Audible | Pushkin
• Try the Enigma Wave Today! Visit lelo.com and use code “SEXWITHEMILY” at checkout for an additional 25% OFF any existing sales.
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

It’s the question everyone has asked themselves at least once. Should I break up with my partner? Relationship success depends on so many factors - communication, emotional intimacy, and of course - sexual connection. Figuring out which problems are worth solving and which ones are directing you to the exit sign can be confusing, exhausting and painful.

So on today’s show, I take your questions - live - to figure out if you should make up or break up. Is bad sex worth leaving someone over? What about an age gap that puts both of you in much different life stages? Or how do you know if an affair has the potential to turn into something real? We learn so much from other people’s relationships. No matter where you are in your own, this will teach us all how to make better choices going forward.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

•  How to navigate the crossroads of making up or breaking up—and what signs to look for in your relationship.
• Why communication, boundaries, and therapy are game-changers when deciding whether to stay or go.
• The truth about age gaps, open relationships, and the role of emotional honesty in finding real compatibility.

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Ready to grow your business? Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/swe
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
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I am joined by Violet Benson, host of the podcast Almost Adulting and creator of the wildly popular Instagram account @DaddyIssues_. Over the last couple of years, Violet has become well known for her irreverent relationship and dating advice. 

In this interview, Violet reveals why she has stopped dating (for now), what exactly a “pick me girl” is and how attraction is not always dependent on good looks. And because this is a sex show after all, Violet shared some tips for avoiding potentially embarrassing moments in the bedroom. This is a good one!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why taking a break from dating can reset your emotional boundaries
• How to embrace authenticity in relationships
• Practical tips to avoid awkward bedroom moments

Show Notes:

• Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code "EMILY"!
• More Violet Benson: @DaddyIssues_ | @VioletBenson |
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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‘Tis the season to give and receive! In this episode, I’m unwrapping the 2024 Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide to help you bring more pleasure to your loved ones—and yourself—this year. From wellness essentials to stocking stuffers and, of course, must-have sex toys, there’s something for everyone on your list (yes, even your grandparents!). I’ll share my top picks, tips for introducing a partner to toys, and why the gift of pleasure is truly the gift that keeps on giving.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• When and how to gift a sex toy.
• Tips for introducing toys into your relationship.
• Emily’s favorite pleasure-filled gifts for the holidays.

Show Notes:

• Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide: 2024 Edition
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Episode Sponsored By:

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What if being happy was a moral obligation, like voting and recycling? Would you take steps to be happier? Today, I’m joined by brain health expert, and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how our thinking patterns shape our lives in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss the ways stress affects your sexual performance, give tips to combat your automatic negative thoughts (ANTS), and discuss his book Your Brain is Always Listening. 

We answer a question from a habitual cheater on how to break the cycle and discuss how Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) can get in the way of your orgasm. Come along on a fascinating deep dive into how shifting your mindset can transform your brain, your relationships, and your pleasure.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to silence negative thoughts with easy daily habits to rewire your brain
• Why a healthy brain means better sex, from focus to pleasure
• How to break toxic cycles and build stronger, happier relationships

Show Notes:

• More Dr. Daniel Amen: Website | Instagram | Amen University | Your Brain is Always Listening
• Take The Dragon Quiz Today!
• Try the Enigma Double Sonic Today! Visit lelo.com and use code “EMILY20” at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales.
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not a cliche - it’s a skill, and on today’s Ask Emily show, we’re talking our way to better sex. So let’s bravely face the awkwardness, with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos.

Clamming up during sex talks? I’ve got a confidence-building solution for that. How about giving tough feedback, like asking for better handjobs, or addressing a funky smell? We get into it! Finally, we tackle tough topics like telling a friend you have feelings for them, whether or not to open a relationship, and if you should stay in a partnership if the sex is just OK. Communication is lubrication, but you know what? It’s also liberating, and by the end of this episode, you’ll be feeling a lot more free.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to confidently speak up about your needs in the bedroom
• Why communication is the ultimate lubricant for better sex
• The secret to navigating relationship dilemmas—whether it’s mismatched libidos, feelings for a friend, or trying non-monogamy for the first time.

Show Notes:

• Try The Je Joue Hera Flex Today! Head to sexwithemily.com/hera and use code "EMILY30" at checkout for 30% off. 
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

On this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Nikki Glaser, comedian, and host of The Nikki Glaser Podcast. We discuss how to take oral sex to the next level, why a great orgasm can lead to an intense connection, and the power of tapping into a person’s “energy” on a date.

Nikki also shares her go-to sex toys, favorite types of porn, experience with squirting, and personal journey with mental health and body acceptance. We also dive into the hidden pleasure of canceled plans, why feeling horny can be like being drunk, and why your flaws DON’T make you a bad person.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

•  How taking charge of your orgasms can boost your connection with partners and why having a vibrator isn’t “cheating"
• Explore the journey of accepting yourself fully—flaws, quirks, and all—and learn why self-confidence is the ultimate turn-on.
• Get real about setting boundaries in relationships, from balancing power dynamics to knowing when to wait before taking things to the next level.

Show Notes:

• More Nikki Glaser: Website | Facebook | Twitter (X) | Instagram | The Nikki Glaser Podcast
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

On today’s show, I am answering all of your pressing calls from the Sex with Emily hotline! We get into some great topics like how to start enjoying receiving oral sex, ways to spice up your honeymoon sex without actual penetration, and what to do if you aren’t getting as wet as you used to during sex. Plus, new methods for giving oral sex to prevent discomfort and how to decide if it’s worth staying in your relationship after seven years (and three children).

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Oral sex tips to prevent discomfort
• How to make your wedding night intimate without penetration
• How to build confidence with communication

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE 
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

In this episode of Sex With Emily, my friend and somatic sexologist Dolly Josette, The Pleasure Muse, returns to help us reconnect with our bodies and unlock deeper pleasure. She shares how to pleasure yourself and communicate those desires to your partner. You’ll walk away knowing how to heal trauma in your genitals, access the prostate for an epic orgasm (for all bodies!), and deepen intimacy with yourself and your partner to enhance your life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why embodiment is the key to unlocking deeper pleasure and connection.
• Why releasing stored trauma (yes, even in your genitals!) can transform your sex life and help you feel more during intimacy.
• How to access the prostate for mind-blowing orgasms and greater sexual fulfillment.

Show Notes:

• More Dolly Josette: Pleasure Muse | Instagram | Nashville Relationship Reboot Retreat
• Try the Enigma Double Sonic Today! Visit lelo.com and use code “EMILY20” at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales.
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Social media is becoming the “third'' partner in so many of our relationships, but it’s not the threesome most of us are craving. Sure, it’s a great way to connect, but it can take a major toll on our sex lives.

Today’s episode gets into the good, bad, and questionable impacts of social media. I answer your top questions like, what does it mean if my partner follows a bunch of Instagram models? If my partner is paying for Only Fans, does it count as cheating? And is it okay to check my partner's phone? (We surveyed our listeners and you might be surprised how many of you have snooped.)

Also, how does all the endless scrolling affect your confidence? I offer advice on how to manage the relationship with your phone, so you can stop the “compare and despair” mindset and build stronger relationships with yourself and others.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How Social Media Becomes a “Third Wheel” in Relationships
• The Sneaky Ways Social Media Can Undermine Your Confidence
• Micro-Cheating, Doomscrolling, and the Need for Digital Detox

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Ready to grow your business? Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/swe
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

You may think of her as divorce attorney to the stars, and Laura Wasser is certainly that. But Laura is also a sharp thinker on marriage and communication, and is here to tell us what every couple needs to know before saying "I do." She says that couples who have the prenup conversation are actually more likely to stay together than those who don't, and that money is an even bigger conversational taboo than sex. She also tells us what it's like repping actor clients vs. musician clients, why we're seeing a celebrity-led trend of "gentle separations," and how social media has changed the game for divorce cases.

Plus, I take your divorce questions! When is it time to say "I don't," and get the hell out? Or how about if you're single, and have a tendency to hook up with older, separated men -- are they just your type? Or...are there some deeper conversations you need to be having, with them, and with yourself? Let's talk dating as a divorcee: when is it OK to tell the kids you've met someone new? And finally, after being married for so long, how do you tell the difference between love and lust, when you're back on the scene? All this and more, on today's divorce show.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why open conversations about finances are just as crucial as discussing intimacy in relationships
• The power of the “prenup conversation” for a stronger relationship
• Why understanding each other’s relationship expectations can prevent major conflicts down the line

Show Notes:

• More Laura Wasser: Instagram | Office
• Divorce.com: Instagram | Website | Facebook | Twitter (X) | Youtube | Tiktok
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner?

Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mystery. And that’s why today's call in show is devoted to all things O. First up: she fears a loss of control while climaxing, which derails her arousal altogether. Can she relax and stay present? Next, he’s fit and athletic, with a girlfriend who loves sex. The problem? It takes him a long time to finish – maybe too long. Finally - when you’re with a partner who loves giving you oral, but it’s not exactly getting you off…what gives? I answer these questions and more on todays episode. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to get out of your own head and finally let go for a better orgasm
• Why pleasure is a right, not a reward
• Practical tips for tackling delayed orgasms and performance pressure

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

How do you know if you’re bisexual? Author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused.

Whether you’re a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies, or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay but still has thoughts about the opposite sex, Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with. Because after all, your sexuality is less about the destination and more about the journey to get there. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Labels like bi or pan are for you to explore your identity, not to please others
• Communication is everything. Talk openly with your partner about desires and fantasies to strengthen intimacy
• Bisexuality isn’t one-size-fits-all: It’s a personal journey, and questioning your sexuality is part of it

Show Notes:

• Try the LELO ENIGMA Wave Today! (Use code "EMILY20" at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales.)
• More Jen Winston: Instagram | Twitter (X)  | Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?”

Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Tips on how to align your dates with your unique arousal style, whether it’s through touch, adventure, or conversation, to keep things fresh and fun
• Fun, creative date ideas—like role-playing as sexy strangers or planning a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market—that spark connection and curiosity
• How to break free from routine and create exciting, playful dates that build sexual tension and enhance intimacy

Show Notes:

• Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code "EMILY"!
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
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It’s time to debunk the toxic myths around sex and age. Does sexual satisfaction drop off as you get older? Absolutely not! In fact, the data tells us the exact opposite is true. Today, anthropologist, bestselling author and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin and I lay out the facts, which is fitting: we’re both in our fifties! 

If you’re not in your fifties yet, here’s what you can look forward to. It’s the decade many of us hit the reset button on our sexual desires. It’s the decade you start purely having sex for pleasure. And it’s the decade your confidence and communication get even better because you’ve honed your relationship (and career!) skills. Wednesday and I talk about why your fifties are so sexy, the signs of perimenopause and menopause and how to treat both, and our best advice for younger women.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why your 50s are a time for empowerment, confidence, and embracing your desires.
• Tips for navigating bodily changes and maintaining intimacy in midlife.
• Understanding the impact of menopause on your body and libido, and how to adapt for a fulfilling sex life.​

Show Notes:

• More Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | X | Website | Book
• Enter the Solaray giveaway now! Entries end on 10/21 at 11:59 PM PT and the winner will be chosen on 10/22.
• Follow @solarayvitamins and @sexwithemily on instagram
• Like our giveaway post on our Instagram
• Tag your friends in the comments – each tag gets you an entry, so go ahead and tag all your people!
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Housewife turned billion-dollar co-founder Lisa Bilyeu is the picture of confidence: she’s got a thriving business, a partner she adores, and basically, is a literal boss. But she also overcame illness, insecurity, and massive relationship challenges to get where she is today.

In her book Radical Confidence, Lisa shares the lessons that changed her life, and helped her become the hero of her own story. On today’s show, I ask her about keeping the sexual spark alive in a long term relationship, the “purgatory of the mundane,” and how to have a growth mindset with your partner.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Radical confidence is built by taking action, even when you’re scared.
• How to escape the “purgatory of the mundane” by making small changes and stop waiting for the perfect moment.
• All about validating yourself—don’t rely on others for approval, celebrate your own wins.

Show Notes:

• WIN FREE VIBRATORS! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone – sign up here: bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast
• More Lisa Bilyeu: Instagram | Youtube | Twitter | Book: Radical Confidence | Impact Theory
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Try the LELO SORAYA WAVE today! (Use code "EMILY10" for an additional 10% OFF at checkout, exclusions may apply)
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one. 

How do you talk to your partner about sex? I teach you how to broach this conversation with compassion, and how to normalize sex talks in general. How about amping up your sex drive? There are hacks for that! Maybe you want to last longer in bed, get better at oral, or spice up your sex life. There’s a whole world of solutions for those, and I walk you through them. Whether it’s toys, technique, or just a good talk, this episode is all about finding answers, so you can have the pleasure you deserve.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to talk to your partner about sex or trying something new
• How to get better at oral
• How to spice up your sex life
• How to increase your sex drive
• How to last longer during sex

Show Notes:

• WIN FREE VIBRATORS! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone – sign up here: bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code EMILY!
• Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE 
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Anal sex isn’t as taboo as it once was but many people are still too shy to explore it. Today, I’m talking with nationally renowned anal surgeon and expert Dr. Evan Goldstein, about all things anal. From how to clean up before backdoor play (did you know you can be too clean?), to tips to enhance pleasure and the wide variety of things to try while you’re back there, we’ve got you covered.

Dr. Evan gives tips on how to relax, toys that can help, and which lubes are best for every act imaginable. We also break down lube shooters, how to minimize the risk of exposing yourself to STIs and what to consider whether you’re a top or a bottom.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why communication and preparation are key to a positive anal experience with your partner.
• Expert tips on easing into anal play without discomfort or pain.
• Safe and effective cleaning practices to maintain a healthy and pleasurable anal routine.

Show Notes:

• WIN FREE VIBRATORS! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone - sign up here: bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast
• More More Dr. Evan Goldstein: Instagram  | Website | Bespoke Surgical | Future Method 
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• This episode is brought to you by: Just Thrive (Visit justthrivehealth.com and use code “SEXWITHEMILY” at checkout for 20% off your order)
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

What’s your biggest fantasy? It might be watching your partner with someone else, group sex, or sex in a public place. All answers are welcome because there’s no shame in your fantasy game! In this episode, I discuss the psychology behind your fantasies, how to bring them up with a partner and why having a rich fantasy life is an important part of your overall sexual health. Then I reveal the top fantasies you shared with me on Instagram.

I also answer your questions including, what to do if you fantasize about a best friend, how to be a third in a threesome, and explore latex, panty, and foot fetishes.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to embrace your sexual fantasies without shame—they’re healthy and common.
• Learn how to communicate your fantasies with your partner for deeper intimacy.
• The difference between Fantasies and Fetishes

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• This episode is brought to you by: VIIA (Visit Viiahemp.com and use code “EMILY” at checkout for 15% off your order)
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

How well do you know the vulva and vagina? In this episode, I’m joined by two guests to break down all things V. We’re talking about how to take care of your vulva, and so much more. My first guest is OB/GYN, author of the She-Ology book series, and an expert in all things women’s sexual health, Dr. Sherry Ross. She shares the benefits of getting to know your (or your partner’s) vulva, the relationship between insecurity and porn, solutions for painful sex, and of course, squirting.

Next, we have Dr. Pablo Gonzalez, who specializes in obstetrics and gynecology for the last 10 years and is the pioneer in regenerative gynecology. We talk about the company V-health and how beneficial it is for all vulva owners.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The impact of aging, hormonal changes, and lifestyle factors on vaginal wellness.
• How the V-Health serum can improve moisture and overall sexual pleasure.
• The importance of taking proactive steps for your sexual wellness

Show Notes:

• More Dr. Sherry | Website | Instagram
• More Dr. Pablo Gonzalez | Website | V-Health
• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• This episode is brought to you by: V-Health (Visit getvhealth.com and use code "EMILY20" for 20% off at checkout)
• Try Solaray her life Stages Today! Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" to get 15% off your entire order!
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Let’s manifest our dream partners and our best sex. Because listen: if our romantic lives aren’t aligned with the people we actually are, we have an opportunity to change that. 

Today, I’ll tell you how I manifested my own partner, the specific steps used to get there, and why the science behind this practice works. I’ll also answer your questions about finding the one and how manifestation can apply to your everyday dating and sex dilemmas.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What is manifestation
• How to manifest your ideal partner
• Key questions to deepen connections and understand compatibility when dating.

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• This episode is brought to you by: VIIA (Visit Viiahemp.com and use code "Emily" at checkout for 15% off your order)
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Ahh, the honeymoon phase. You know that euphoric period of time at the beginning of a relationship where your partner seems perfect and you can’t keep your hands off one another? Fast forward a few months (or sometimes years) and that initial spark begins to fade and those feel-good chemicals start to wear off. What then? Today, I share why the honeymoon phase is so intoxicating, why our feelings change over time, and how to strengthen your relationship so that it survives the initial fading of happy hormones. 

I answer your questions about what to do when your partner asks you to be in a threesome but it’s not your fantasy, how to communicate to your partner that their Instagram habits make you uncomfortable, and what to do when you feel like you have become more friends than lovers with your significant other.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to navigate conversations about spicing up your relationship
• Understanding boundaries around threesomes
• How to handle narcissistic tendencies in relationships

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• This episode is brought to you by: Promescent(Visit the link for 15% off, or go to promescent.com/emily)
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

On today’s show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married with kids, how to initiate your first threesome, when (if ever) you should tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with, and ways to get more comfortable while giving oral sex.

I also talk about what to do if the porn you watch makes you feel guilty, how to approach exploring a fetish without shame, what to do if you disagree with your partner about having another child and what it means when you cry after sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How honest, heartfelt conversations about intimacy can reignite connection and strengthen emotional bonds with your partner.
• Techniques to overcome sexual conditioning and experience pleasure in new ways through mindfulness and open communication.
• The importance of exploring sexual fantasies with clear boundaries and how they can evolve as part of a healthy sexual journey.

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• This episode is brought to you by: LELO (Use code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.)
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

In today’s episode, I’ve brought my Mom back on the show to dive into a range of topics from the hilarious to the profound. We reminisced about growing up as women in an ever-changing world, trying to date and have sex! Our conversation covered the early passionate days of relationships to the mundane, finding time for sex and reviving your libido. I also had some fun quizzing my mom on modern dating slang. Her take on each word made me laugh. I think you’ll love hearing about the many stages of sex from my mom's seasoned perspective. Exploring dating terms with my mom was a fantastic way to demystify modern relationships! I asked her about breadcrumbing, DTR, red flags, situationships, ghosting, pegging, and rizz, aka…charisma.

Learning points from the episode:

• The evolution of relationships from passion to domesticity.
• The impact of menopause on intimacy.
• The many layers of modern dating terms.
• Insights into maintaining a long-term relationship.

Tune into these articles: 

• I Asked My Mom 5 Things About Sex, Sexuality and Aging: Here’s What She Said
• 8 Most Common Sexual Struggles for Couples (& How to Solve Them)

This episode is brought to you by Solaray. If you're seeking a healthier cycle or mood support, you have to check out these products. For 15% off your entire order, go to: www.solaray.com/sexwithemily 

Solaray Disclaimer: The FDA has not evaluated any of these statements, and these products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Additionally, I've personally had a great experience with Solaray, but each woman’s experience is unique. The Solaray "HER LIFE STAGES" formulas shared in this episode are not intended to address every symptom or concern mentioned, but they are designed to provide powerful life-stage support. 

SMARTSX: I'm thrilled to announce SmartSX, an exclusive membership that's revolutionizing the way you will approach sexual wellness. Last week, I kicked off this exciting journey, inviting you to join a community that's all about transforming your sex life. Whether you're looking to deepen connections or explore new kinks, SmartSX is your gateway to all things sexy and insightful. Embrace your pleasure potential with an open heart and mind. As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll gain invaluable tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month, we'll dive into themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.' CLICK HERE TO JOIN

So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner’s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn’t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How past negative experiences can impact your current reactions to physical affection, and discover strategies to rebuild a positive relationship with touch.
• Understand the importance of transparent dialogue with your partner about your needs and boundaries, and how to approach these conversations constructively.
• Explore the challenges of casual dating and the significance of self-awareness in identifying what type of relationship dynamic suits you best.

Show Notes:

• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
• Let’s text: Sign up here
• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Hey, pleasure seekers! I'm super excited about today's episode. I always encourage you to discuss sex with your friends, so I've invited Amy Friedlander, my CEO and brilliant friend, to join this conversation. We're both fed up with the pleasure gap, a topic The New York Times highlighted in a recent article, "The Orgasm Gap Isn’t Going Away for Straight Women."

Today, Amy and I are actively seeking ways to bridge this gap. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. We're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. Together, we're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why the Orgasm Gap Persists: We'll unpack how inadequate sex education continues to widen this divide.
• The Dangers of Faking It: Discover why being authentic in expressing your sexual needs is essential for true pleasure.
• The Role of Media: We'll debunk harmful myths and foster a healthier dialogue around sex.
• Also, don't miss our discussions on whether sleeping apart can enhance your sex life and how Kegel trainers can lead to more intense orgasms.

Tune into these articles:

• Does Sleeping Apart Help Your Sex Life?
• Kegel Trainers for Bigger, Badder Orgasms

More:

• Try the LELO SILA CRUISE Today. Link here!
• Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE

💖 SMARTSX ANNOUNCEMENT 💖

Today, September 10th, 2024, we're thrilled to launch SmartSx, our membership platform where pleasure meets education. Join our community to transform your intimate life, whether you're deepening connections or exploring new kinks. SmartSx is your gateway to all things sexy and insightful. Embrace your pleasure potential with an open heart and mind.

As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll also gain tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month will feature themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.'

CLICK HERE TO JOIN

In this episode, Dr. Emily welcomes her friend and fellow Michigan native, Ophira from The AstroTwins, to discuss their new book, The Astrology Advantage, and their revolutionary I*AM system. This unique system or framework blends astrology with the Enneagram and Meyers Briggs to unlock insights into your personality-- your buttons, skills, passions, and life path.

As a bonus, Ophi reads Emily's chart, revealing how the I*AM system shapes her career, sex, desire, and goals. They explore the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes, offering a fresh perspective on understanding yourself through astrology. Tune in to learn how astrology influences desire and sexuality and how to align with your authentic sexual self. Get your copy of The Astrology Advantage to dig deeper into your I*AM archetype! Ophi describes the I*AM System as “an astrological personality test” and “Atomic Habits meets The Wisdom of The Enneagram.” You need this book! I could not put it down.

Purchase: The Astrology Advantage

More about The AstroTwins

What You'll Learn:

• The I*AM System Explained: Discover how the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes correlate with the 13 planets in astrology and your chart.
• Astrology Meets Enneagram: Learn how each IAM archetype connects with the 12 zodiac signs, offering a new lens to understand your personality, desires, and behavior.
• Sex, Shame, and Kink: Understand how your I*AM archetype influences your sexual expression and how to overcome shame or embrace kink through astrological insights.
• Body Confidence and Sexual Fulfillment: Explore how aligning with your archetype helps you feel more comfortable in your body as you pursue pleasure and intimacy.
• Sexual Authenticity: Learn how your sexual style—whether you're an Innovator, Authority, or Maven—affects how you engage with partners and express desire authentically.

Also, SmartSx, my new membership, launches on September 10th. Please join me and this incredible community of open-minded pleasure-seekers!

Here's a sneak peak of what you'll experience when you sign up:

• SmartSX is a community and app for individuals prioritizing pleasure and sexual well-being, helping members explore desires and create a fulfilling sex life.
• Great lovers are made, not born: Anyone can learn how to have the best sexual experiences of their lives.
• SmartSX members can directly interact with her and ask questions in the community.
• Inclusive membership: SmartSX caters to everyone—whether you're a beginner or experienced, single or partnered—focusing on understanding, giving, and receiving pleasure.
• Members will uncover their unique desire style, increase their Sex IQ, enhance sexual communication, and gain essential tools for a healthy sex life through discussions, special guests, and experts. Each month features a theme based on Dr. Emily's 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.
• GET ON THE WAITLIST: CLICK HERE

Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them?

I asked you to tell me what negative dating patterns you’re trying to change, and you all delivered! On today’s show, I’m addressing your top dating problems so we can solve them together. Having sex too soon, trying to “fix” less-than-ideal partners, fear of asserting yourself, having misaligned expectations, the tendency to audition people for the role of life partner – we’re covering it all, so you can feel empowered with new partners and have an amazing time with existing partners.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How to Identify and Break Negative Dating Patterns
• The Importance of Assertiveness in Dating
• Strategies for Building Self-Confidence in Dating

Show Notes:

• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• Shopify.com/swe
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com/live.

Let's explore the world of sex parties! Are you curious if this scene is for you? This episode is your go-to guide for everything about sex parties. We'll cover the various types available, from kink-centric gatherings to more relaxed swinging events. I'll guide you through finding these parties, understanding the etiquette, and what to expect when you arrive. We'll discuss how to mingle effectively and, importantly, what to wear to blend in or stand out. So join me at this podcast, Sex Party! 

Don't forget to join the waitlist for SmartSX, which launches on September 10th, 2024. This incredible membership will offer you access to exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

• Smart SX: join our waitlist! 
• FetLife
• Feeld
• #Open
• Kinky Rabbit Club
• Just Thrive (code BOGOSWE)
• Shop With Emily! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Read this week's Articles: How to Have Vigorous Sex | How to *Actually* Dirty Talk
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In today's episode, we’re diving into the questions you've been too shy to ask out loud—yes, those. Remember, shame has no place here, especially when it comes to your sexual curiosities and concerns. We’re all in this together, exploring the complex yet exhilarating world of sex, so let’s break down those barriers and talk openly.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

1. How do I handle rejections for sex from my partner when they masturbate daily?
2. If their “porn” type looks different than my body type, does that mean they may not be attracted to me?
3. Is it normal to think about someone else during sex?
4. How do I get my partner to understand I’m not a porn star…Yes, I’ll try things, but…I’m not that kinky.
5. I’ve never squirted. Is that normal? How can I get myself to squirt?
6. Can too much use of a vibrator desensitize or burn my clitoris? 
7. How can I get a clitoris orgasm by mouth without it taking hours?
8. I don’t like to masturbate in front of my partner because it's hard for me to focus. Is something wrong with me?

Show Notes:

• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com/live.

Let’s be honest: there are certain myths about sex that are SO common, they seem like truth. Things like: what it means to be wet, what it means to be hard, and what it means if you use a vibrator a lot. But guess what? A ton of the things you and I have both heard about sex aren’t based on science - they’ve just been repeated a lot. So on today’s show, I’m debunking the top sex myths I see and hear, and giving you the actual facts. 

What does it mean about your sexual ability if you’ve had a lot of partners - or conversely, hardly any? We talk about it. How about if you’re not getting wet during sex. Does that mean you’re not turned on? We discuss! Let’s say you use a vibrator a lot - can you get addicted to it? Or my favorite: does having an orgasm mean the sex was good? I tackle both of these. And finally, we face the truth about anal sex, because spoiler alert...it’s not just for gay men.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• About the wide range of orgasms people can experience and why each is unique.
• Why libido levels vary between individuals and how this impacts sexual relationships.
• How pornography can shape unrealistic expectations and affect real-life sexual experiences.

Show Notes:

• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want to try Promescent's Delay Spray or Arousal Gel? Visit Promescent.com/emily for 15% off your order!
• Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE 
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com/live.

Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.)

We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!).

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to Improve casual sex
• Insights from the LGBTQ+ Community
• Tools for talking to your kids about sex

Show Notes:

• More Justin Lehmiller : Website | Instagram | X | Podcast | Book
• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
• Try the ENIGMA™ Cruise Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

On today’s show, I’m joined by psychological astrologer and returning guest Dr. Jennifer Freed.

We answer your questions on how to spot a sensual lover, useful tools for addressing low libido, how to pursue a threesome or open relationship, how to easily create intimacy in a relationship, what your Zodiac signs say (or don’t say) about compatibility with your partner, what to do if your hookup buddy wants a relationship (but you don’t), and the mind-blowing effects of EMDR therapy.

We also share our top methods to build erotic tension and why focusing too much on your partner’s desire can hold you back in the bedroom. As an added bonus, we walk through ways to reach your ‘power yes’ in sex, the effects of toxic masculinity, and how to communicate as an invitation—not a confrontation.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to identify and attract a sensual lover through astrology and self-awareness.
• Tools and techniques to address low libido and build erotic tension in your relationship.
• Practical advice on navigating open relationships, threesomes, and understanding compatibility through Zodiac signs.

Show Notes:

• More Dr. Jennifer Freed: Website | Instagram
• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
• EMDRIA.org: Resources for EMDR therapy
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Just like going to the gym improves your body, going to therapy improves your mind. And bonus: couple’s counseling can radically improve your relationship and your sex life. So why do some people absolutely refuse to go?

On today’s show, I’m giving you the therapy low-down, so you can decide whether you should try it – or, if it’s the right call for you and your partner. I’m talking: signs it’s time to look for a therapist, pros and cons of solo therapy vs. couple’s counseling, whether sex therapy is right for you, what to expect from a typical therapy session, and how to find therapy that works for you – including budget-friendly options. Plus, I take your therapy-related questions on porn addiction, sexual trauma and what to do if you tried to improve your sex life with your partner…but they cheated anyway.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The Importance of Addressing Sexual Trauma
• The Power of Open Communication in Relationships
• Seeking Professional Help is a Sign of Strength

Show Notes:

• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

If you build a sex room, they will come. That’s the idea behind the Netflix show “How to Build a Sex Room,” and on today’s episode I’ve got designer Melanie Rose here with me to discuss her real-life erotic renovations.

From a rock n’ roll dungeon to a high-end sex spa, Melanie has all kinds of decor ideas you can steal: spanking benches, wall-mounted handcuffs, soundproofing wall art. All of these are client-approved sex innovations, but the show has a touching side too. You get to see all kinds of clients, from suburbanites to polycules, parents to long-distance couples, discuss their fantasies and sexual desires – some of them for the very first time. And you know I’m all about that.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Insights into how Melanie Rose creates sex rooms that are both functional and sensual
• Practical advice on managing bodily fluids during sex
• How designing a personalized sex room can empower individuals and couples to explore their sexuality more freely

Show Notes:

• More Melanie Rose: Netflix show | Instagram | Website | Pinterest
• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Discover the positive reasons to explore anal play on your own, regardless of your anatomy.
• Learn the truth behind common anal myths and misconceptions.
• Get detailed tips on toys and insertion techniques, from beginner to advanced levels.

Show Notes:

• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Yes! No! Maybe? Guide
• Try the LELO SORAYA Beads Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Have you ever used FaceTime for sex? Maybe you’re traveling and want to stay connected to your partner. Maybe you’re dating and want to test the waters with someone virtually before having sex IRL. Or maybe the idea just turns you on! No matter the case, today’s episode is all about FaceTime sex and how to pull it off.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to get in the mood for FaceTime sex and tips to help yourself feel more comfortable on-screen
• Answers to listener questions, such as how to spice it up and how do you end a sexting session
• How to position your camera and what to actually say in the moment

Show Notes:

• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Try our FREE Guides Today!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Trust: it’s the glue of relationships, even the more casual ones. Can I trust that this person is safe? That they aren’t going to hurt me? Can I trust myself, that I’ll know how to navigate this situation? These are the questions we all ask ourselves, even if it’s subconscious. Our bodies and brains regularly scan for danger, but when you’re wearing rose-colored glasses, sometimes the red flags just look like flags.

So on today’s show, I take your questions on trust and safety, because as we know, safety is the precursor to hot sex. So what happens when you’re having mind-blowing sex with a partner, but catch them chatting with sex workers online? What happens when you’ve been love-bombed, by someone who isn’t what they seem? Or maybe you’ve had past relationship trauma, and don’t trust new partners to take it slow with you? We get into all of it. Finally: do you trust yourself to facilitate a hookup? Do you trust that you can help a partner heal from sex-negative messaging? These are the questions I’m exploring today, and trust ME: by the end, you’ll walk away with some great tools for sticky situations.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Being upfront and honest in a new relationship is very important
• Lowering your expectations for a one night stand or a situation-ship
• When someone tells you who they are, believe them

Show Notes:

• Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
• Try our FREE Guides Today!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Breakups. They can be a painful experience. Trust me, I know. After spending time considering your partner to be such an important aspect of your life, losing them can be like a mini-death. If you have decided your relationship is over and are struggling to know what to do next, this episode is for you. I give my top tips for how to cope and answer all your questions.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How to cope with a breakup 
• Tips for giving better oral sex 
• Tools for communicating your needs

Show Notes:

• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Try the LELO Enigma Double Sonic Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.)
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Tune into this conversation with the incredible Dr. Josh Gonzalez, a board-certified urologist fellowship-trained in sexual medicine and specializing in the management of male and female sexual dysfunctions. Dr. Gonzalez has been featured in Vogue and is a medical contributor to Men’s Health and Cosmopolitan, among others. He is a sexual health expert who has built a following on TikTok and Instagram, where he uses social media to educate on sexual and reproductive health. He is also the co-founder of Popstar, a men’s supplement addressing semen health. I loved talking with Dr. Gonzalez. I can’t wait to share his incredible work with you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• That 50 percent of infertility cases are related to male factor infertility. That’s half of the cases, but somehow, we default label infertility as a female issue.
• How oral contraceptive pills cause an elevation in a protein called sex hormone binding globulin in women. This is a protein you don't want large amounts of in your body, as it binds up all of your hormones. When the hormones are bound, they can't be effectively used.
• About the groundswell of men coming into Dr. Gonzalez’s office requesting vasectomies after the overturning of Roe v. Wade.
• How you can easily test your sperm with at-home collection kits. For not much money, you can freeze your sperm, too.

Show Notes:

• More Dr. Josh Gonzalez: Instagram | Website | TikTok
• Try the Popstar Volume & Taste Supplement & Popstar Fertility for Men Today! Save 20% with code "EMILY" at popstarlabs.com/emily
• Try our FREE Guides Today!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

So you want sex on the daily, but as for your partner? Not really. Not to worry! Today’s hotline calls episode takes a look at mismatched sex drives, and what might actually be behind them. We’re also diving into penis size, pleasure, and communication. There are so many ways to enjoy a penis - but first, ya gotta talk about what you BOTH want.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How to make eye contact during sex
• What to do about sexsomnia (aka having sex in your sleep)
• How to talk to your partner about not having much sex experience

Show Notes:

• Try our FREE Guides Today!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want to try Promescent's Delay Spray or Arousal Gel? Visit Promescent.com/emily for 15% off your order!
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Did you know that nipple sensations for vulva-owners ignite the same parts of the brain as clitoral stimulation? Today, we’re unlocking all of the overlooked erogenous zones including nipples. ALL genders can potentially have more pleasure and orgasms through nipple play—you just need the proper tips and tricks.  

We hear from a masseuse who is exploring the reality of “happy endings” as well as a couple who’s interested in perfecting the “g-spot orgasm” and closing the orgasm gap. (I like to call it the “g-area”... Find out why!)

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How to have a nipple orgasm
• Ways to help with the orgasm gap
• How to respond to a partner who you feel may not be sexually attracted to you 

Show Notes:

• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Try the LELO Enigma Double Sonic Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.)
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How to find your fantasies and how to talk to your new partner about them 
• What to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross
• How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it)

Show Notes:

• The Yes! No! Maybe? List!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order
• More Elle Chase: Website | Instagram
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

On today’s show, everyone’s looking for clarity in the sexual unknown, starting with: how can I tell if they’re into me? Whether it’s an office crush and you’re trying to figure out if they like you back, or you’re about to go on a date and worried you’ll be friend-zoned, I give you tips to put your best foot forward. How about if it’s a new sexual act, and you don’t know how you feel about it — or if you should even try it? I offer ways to figure out what YOU want…and not just what your lover wants. Finally, sexual evolutions in long-term relationships: what to do when you’re filled with old resentment? Is there a new conversation you could have with your partner? How about when you want to open up…but your nesting partner is scared of you having new lovers? We’re venturing into uncharted sex territory today, but don’t worry—we all come out on the other side, with fresh ways forward.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• Steps to getting back into dating
• How to talk to your partner about their kinks
• What to do when you want your relationship to be open, but your partner doesn't
• How to talk to your kids about Sex and Sexual Wellness

Show Notes:

• Try our FREE Guides Today! 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

What does it mean exactly, when someone says they’re a voyeur? A sub? A cuckhold or an exhibitionist? Well folks, we are getting a kinky education today!

On today’s episode, I’m walking you through your sexual fantasies to see where you land on the kink spectrum. I’m talking submission and domination, exhibitionism and voyeurism, even a little humiliation, if that’s your preferred kink flavor. But because kink is play, I’m also giving you some specific ideas for how to explore these fantasies IRL – and, bonus, I’m taking all of your kinky questions. 

In this episode you’ll learn:

• Various sexual fantasies, including submission, domination, exhibitionism, voyeurism, and consensual non-consent
• The importance of excellent communication, trust, and consent when exploring fantasies
• How to explore fantasies practically and safely, emphasizing that kink is a form of play meant to enhance relationships and understanding

Show Notes:

• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE 
• Shopify.com/swe
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com/live.

In today’s throwback episode, I’m taking your Sex With Emily hotline calls and answering your questions. Remember, you can always call and leave a voicemail with your question at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• What to do if you can’t stop fantasizing about women (but you’re in a healthy relationship with a man)
• How to determine if birth control is tanking your sex drive
• How to communicate with a partner who won’t share their desires

Show Notes:

• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• Try our FREE Guides Today! 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Have you found yourself fascinated with what's masculine or feminine, especially in the bedroom? On today's episode, volleyball star, Gabby Reece, redefines the modern day versions of these roles and explains why it matters in her marriage.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• Gabby's definition of masculine & feminine in her marriage
• Why younger generations may not be having as much sex
• Which sex toys Gabby is into

Show Notes:

• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• More Gabby Reece | Instagram | Website | Podcast
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order.
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is all about articulating what you need, sexually and otherwise. The result? Way healthier relationship dynamics and hotter sex. You’re welcome!

In this episode you’ll learn:

• What to do if you want your child to grow up with more positive sex messaging than you had
• How to deal with an emotionally detached partner
• Why you have to communicate to get the kind of touch you need in bed

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Try the LELO DOT Travel Today! 
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Volleyball legend and podcast host Gabby Reece takes the hot seat and reveals all her secrets to being a successful athlete, wife, parent and business owner with her famous surfer husband, Laird Hamilton.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• Sex rules to keep your man happy
• How to play farmer and flower to have a long lasting relationship
• Gabby Reece's biggest turn on, it's not what you think it might be
• Why being kind is better than being nice

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• More Gabby Reece | Instagram | Website | Podcast
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• This episode is brought to you by: Promescent (Visit the link for 15% off)
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure that your sex life follows suit. In this throwback episode, I’m sharing my steamiest ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom. If you’re ready for a Hot Girl Summer, this ep’s for you.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties
• Where to (safely) have sex in public
• How to navigate a friends with benefits situation

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Ever wondered how culture has molded your sexuality? My guest, Dr. Shefali Tsabury, dives deep into this topic on today’s throwback ep, revealing how societal norms have conditioned us to suppress our true desires, cheat ourselves, and live inauthentically. But here's the twist: radically authentic love and desire are within reach! All it takes is confronting the myths we've been fed and making a conscious choice to live freely. Ready to break free and embrace your true self? Tune in. 

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to rethink marriage as a model for growth
• All about monogamy and why it’s the societal norm (and if it’s even natural…)
• How to replace societal conditioning with worthiness

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• Dr. Shefali: Instagram | Website Podcast: Parenting & You with Dr. Shefali
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Try the LELO SONA 2 TRAVEL today and get 25% when you use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout.
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QUESTION: If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? I say absolutely! Even if it feels like you’re navigating a minefield, and even if your own parents left you in the dark (because let’s face it, they probably did), I get it – finding the right words can be trickier than solving a Rubik’s Cube. That’s why today’s episode is your ultimate guide, packed with tools, scripts, and resources to help you tackle this touchy topic with confidence and maybe even a little humor. In a couple years, your kid will thank you!

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• Why should you talk to your children, and teens specifically, about masturbation
• The truth behind masturbation myths 
• Specific verbiage to make these uncomfortable sex talks a little easier

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• The Communication Guide (And Other Guides)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• For a limited time, you can save 20% off sitewide at Justthrivehealth.com with promo code: SEXWITHEMILY
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Have you ever been so in love that you lost your mind? I totally get it, and so does today's guest, sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Diagnonsense, Todd Baratz, who joined me to chat about all things relationship and why dating can be such a struggle today.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How oral sex can make or break your relationship
• What to do when you date men who don't know how to connect emotionally
• Why we need to stop diagnosing everyone

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE 
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Did you know that the lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety and depression? How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Ever since the pandemic, many of us have been touch-starved, but now it’s time to feast. On today’s throwback show I’ll share how to satisfy your skin hunger and bring more touch and intimacy back into your life.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• What questions to ask yourself to figure out if your relationship is where you want it to be
• How to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom
• How to get back into the dating scene

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• Pleasure Planner + Other Guides
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• Shop Promescent for 15% off your order!
• Shopify.com/swe
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017. 

On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation!

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers
• Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies
• How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Take the SWE Listener Survey Here!
• Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread
• Ejaculate Responsibly
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your body keeps hitting snooze? In today’s show, I’ll show you my favorite tips and tricks and address even the most perplexing arousal questions. 

In this episode you’ll learn:

• My special trick for giving oral sex with a gag reflex
• How to deal with vaginismus
• Why communication can fix (almost) every sex problem

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE 
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Imagine: You've got that special someone who makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The trust is there, the connection is solid. But sometimes the fire just fizzles out when it comes to sex. I get it. When the routine starts feeling a bit too...routine, it's time to switch things up and rediscover what really gets your engine revving (and sometimes, it’s not your partner!).

On today’s throwback we're diving deep into the world of sexual attraction - what it is, how it's different from romantic love, and most importantly, how to use that knowledge to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Because at the end of the day, switching it up never hurt anybody. 

In this episode you’ll learn:

• Why sexual attraction can feel so distinctly different than long-term love
• What to do when you and your partner are both submissive
• When you should hang onto your friend with benefits – and when to let them go

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• Sex and Psychology
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• This episode is brought to you by: Promescent (Visit the link for 15% off)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

In today’s throwback show, I talk to the one and only Shaun T, host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but, as you’ll learn in the episode it took a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there. But hey, if he can do it, you can too. Trust me: if you’ve been looking for inspo to feel yourself in the bedroom, this convo is an absolute must. 

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How Shaun and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids
• Why you have to do the work to heal from trauma – and why it’s so rewarding
• Shaun’s genius sex and arousal hacks

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• What’s Your Arousal Type?
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• This episode is brought to you by: Bathmate (Use code EMILY10 or visit the link for 10% off)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into the mix, casual sex can be the spark that reignites your erotic energy. In my opinion, the secret sauce is all about knowing yourself and being crystal clear about what you want from your casual encounters. This episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• All the different types of casual sex out there
• How to know if casual sex is right for you (because it isn’t for everyone!) 
• When it’s best to turn down a potential partner

Show Notes:

• Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
• 7 Myths of Non Monogamy
• Friends With Benefits: A Guide
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• LOKI WAVE 2
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today I had the pleasure of talking to the “Scientific Carrie Bradshaw”, a.k.a Amy Chan, the revolutionary mind behind Renew Breakup Bootcamp, to talk about all things relationship. We chat about how her heartbreak helped in creating Breakup Bootcamp, why being present during dates is hard but necessary, and why dating outside of your comfort zone might be the key to finding the one. If you’re sick of swiping left and tolerating toxicity, this one’s for you.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to measure your chemistry compass 
• Why it’s important to date that short person (even if they aren’t exactly your type!)
• How to spot the “green flags” in a relationship

Show Notes:

• Attend Dating Bootcamp! 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Eager to transform your hottest sexual fantasy into reality? Then today’s throwback Ask Emily show is for you! I'll be taking calls about fantasies and offering concrete tips on how to actualize them. However, it's essential to recognize that this journey is a blend of creativity and strategy. You must embrace your sensual desires, visualize intensely passionate — and perhaps even forbidden — scenarios, and explore what genuinely excites you! Lucky for you, I’ve given you tips on how to do just that. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery…

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to go about finding a “third” if your partner’s been hinting at cuckolding
• The 411 on play parties (and how to stay safe if you go to one!)
• What to do if you’ve been craving a sexual fantasy, but your imagination’s been letting you down

Show Notes:

• The Yes, No, Maybe List
• Fetlife
• Feeld
• #Open
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief history of the celebration, the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys and lubes for bringing you pleasure this May and all year long.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• What to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator
• Why masturbation can help you have orgasms during sex with your partner
• Signs that you’re masturbating too much

Show Notes:

• Mutual Masturbation Guide
• For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE 
• SEX WITH EMILY VESPER
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
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• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What, Matthew’s texting skills, and why it’s best to follow your path and not your feelings. And if you were wondering about the texting cliffhanger from Part 1, it’s answered in today’s show. Enjoy!

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• Why “avoiders” can be more of a red flag in relationships than liars
• When to make things work and when it's not worth it
• Why speaking your truth is sexy

Show Notes:

• Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1
• Matthew’s New Book: Love Life
• LELO Tor 3 (Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

When it comes to sex, a lot of us find ourselves getting in our head about the way it “should” go down. “I should look a certain way.” “They should kiss me a certain way.” “We’ll both orgasm at the same time.” In other words, we expect things to be straight out of a movie…

But here’s the real deal: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s throwback show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your senses. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, I’ve got sensory tools you can use to remove mental blocks and seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O.  

In this episode you’ll learn:

• Why you’re dissociating during sex and how to stop
• Ways to talk dirty without swearing
• How to bring back an MIA orgasm

Show Notes:

• Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide or use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout!)
• Come As You Are - Dr. Emily Nagoski
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who has revolutionized the world of dating advice with his amazing methods. We chat about emotional journeys, what Matthew has learned in his experience as a relationship coach, and ways to take charge of your love life. If you've been in a dating slump, this is the episode for you.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to take charge of your love life
• Why reflecting on your instincts is a game changer
• The value of valuing yourself first

Show Notes:

• Matthew’s New Book: Love Life
• More Matthew Hussey: Website | Instagram | Youtube
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today, I continue my candid convo with my friend Falguni, answering all your hottest and most personal sex questions. From my experiences in threesomes to my favorite positions, no question goes unanswered. If you’ve ever wondered what the mile high club is like or how to tell your partner they could step up their sex game, tune in. Trust me, this is an episode you won’t wanna miss.  

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• Why penetration alone might not always give you an orgasm   
• How to take control of your orgasm 
• Why communication is the most important part of your threesome

Show Notes:

• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• LELO DOT Travel (Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off)
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
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Happy 4/20! While direct research is still in development, there's no denying the potential benefits of cannabis for enhancing your sexual experiences. Researchers theorize that the plant can unlock a world of heightened eroticism, tranquil minds, and pain-free sex. On today’s show, I chat about ways cannabis might light up your sex life, my favorite products and delivery methods for the occasion (I’m a huge edible fan!), and how to figure out if cannabis is right for you. 

In this episode you’ll learn: 

•  How cannabis can affect sexual performance 
•  How to decide if you should bring cannabis into the bedroom
• My fave product recommendations for 4/20 fun

Show Notes:

• 6 Ways to Use Cannabis for Sex: A Guide
• The Journal of Cannabis Research Study
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY420 for 40% sitewide until 4/30/24)
• For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE  
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
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Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to flip the script and spill the tea on what sex with Emily is actually like (pun intended)! Tune in to hear me get up close and personal about my sexual journey, why I faked my orgasms until my 30s, and sex trends that I see making a comeback in the near future. 

In this episode you’ll learn: 

•  How I stopped having performative sex
•  How to push past the pleasure thieves for fulfilling sex
•  My go-to positions and products for the best orgasms

Show Notes:

• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly's bacteria and your sexual wellness. And who better to guide us through this intestinal intrigue than Tina Anderson, the gut guru and CEO of Just Thrive, the brand whose mission is to reboot your microbiome. Prepare to have your life changed as Tina spills the beans on how bacteria in your gut really calls the shots, influencing everything from your mood swings to your mojo. 

Buckle up, lovers and health hackers, as we explore the steamy science that'll have you rethinking your next date night dinner. 

In this episode you’ll learn:

• What low libido, keeping the spark alive, erectile challenges, and gut issues all have in common
• How hormones and the gut biome each affect each other in a bi-directional system
• Why the 3 pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) also impact our general health and wellness

Show Notes:

• Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide at checkout!)
• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really difficult to articulate them and share them with your partner. On today’s throwback Ask Emily show, I’m here to help you take that vital next step and get your needs fulfilled. From those who’ve never had an orgasm before to those who just want to communicate with their partners better, I’ve got you! 

Just remember: for every sex problem, there is a path forward. 

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How to communicate your sexual needs (even if your partner shuts down sex convos)
• Techniques to give your partner a crazy orgasm
• What to do if your partner desires things you might not be sure about like swinging

Show Notes:

• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today I revisit my conversation with Dolly Josette, the PleasureMuse who turned the world of breathwork into the ultimate erotic adventure! Imagine unlocking a treasure chest of sensations and full-body orgasms you never knew you had with the work of meditation.. Dolly isn't just any guide on this journey; she's the Gandalf of sexual enlightenment, hailed by the high councils of Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines as a pioneering Sexological Bodyworker. But what truly sets her apart isn't the accolades; it's her magical ability to awaken the dormant erotic energy within women and couples, guiding them from numbness to dizzying heights of orgasmic bliss. So, if the idea of exploring the vast, uncharted territories of pleasure sounds good to you, Dolly Josette is ready to lead the way!

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to hack your nervous system for better sex
• Why so many vulva owners are trained to numb from the waist down (and how to fix it!)
• How to become a great masturbator

Show Notes:

• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• More Dolly Josette - The Pleasure Muse 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY420 for 40% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Mental health and sexual desire – do you have to choose between one or the other? It's a conundrum that's more common than you think, and it's a topic that's sure to get you thinking! Antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesavers for many, but they can also leave you feeling a little, well, deflated in the bedroom department. On the other hand, if your depression goes untreated, it can be tough to get in the mood. So, how do you navigate this predicament?

Today, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of this struggle, and you'll hear from some of our listeners who've been there. 

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How to understand the effects your mental health has on your sex drive
• Sexy strategies to manage the side effects of antidepressants
• Alternative treatments and lifestyle changes to maximize your pleasure

Show Notes:

• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness (36 Questions)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all other products)
• LELO DOT Travel
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here

Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

It's commonly said that the brain is the most significant sexual organ in the human body. But is it possible to manipulate our brains to enhance happiness or even improve our sexual experiences? Dr. Daniel Amen, a psychiatrist and acclaimed author, has compiled the most extensive collection of brain scans globally. Through analyzing this data, he has uncovered intriguing insights: by adopting habits grounded in neuroscience, we can significantly enhance our mental well-being, elevate our mood, and indeed – enrich our sexual lives. Tune in now to discover how to take control of your mind and enjoy the benefits.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• The way stress hormones can interfere with our sexual hormones
• Techniques to shield yourself from mental "noise"
• The reasons why individuals who are happier generally enjoy longer lives, maintain healthier relationships, achieve greater success professionally, and experience more fulfilling sex lives

Show Notes:

• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• Order Dr. Daniel Amen's New Book, Raising Mentally Strong Kids
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Sexting: it’s basically the foreplay of the 21st century - a steamy, sultry way to turn up the heat without even being in the same room. But let's be real, sending a bunch of suggestive emojis out of the blue might leave your partner scratching their head. That's why you need to master the art of sexting, and I'm here to help you do just that. In this show, I'll give you the inside scoop on how to craft the perfect sext, from the right tone to the perfect use of emojis. With my pro tips, you'll be able to turn up the heat and leave your partner begging for more. So buckle up, because we're about to take your sexting game to a whole new level!

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How emotional intelligence influences your sexting skills
• How to manage your devices so messages don’t end up in the wrong place
• How to have good phone sex in a long distance relationship

Show Notes:

• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• Sexting Guide
• Yes, No, Maybe List
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
• LELO Sona 2 Travel
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
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• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Looking to connect with your partner on a whole new level? Lucky for you, today’s episode with human connection specialist Mark Groves will give you the tools to do just that. Mark uses his emotional translation skills to give accessible relationship and wellness advice to others and shares his relatable ways to be your most authentic self. From discussing a Thanksgiving dinner that changed his life to examining past toxic behavior, Mark and I dive deep into ways to become wiser in love. Get ready to get vulnerable, today’s show gets DEEP!

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to break free from codependent relationships
• Why reflecting on past experiences is the key to better relationships
• Why we should all be using the word “boner again

Show Notes:

• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• Pre-order Mark’s new book: LIBERATED LOVE
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
• LELO F1S V3
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here

Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

WARNING, WARNING: Your climax has exited the premises. Ever wondered why achieving orgasm can feel effortless with one partner but challenging with another? Or why squirting might occur without reaching climax? On today's throwback episode of Hotline Calls, we're delving into the topic of orgasm and its hidden secrets. Tune in for an orgasmic time. 

Got a burning question? Feel free to reach out and leave a voicemail anytime at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• The difference between squirting and orgasming
• How to orgasm for the first time, if you never have
• How to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve 

Show Notes:

• Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE! 
• Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• OhMiBod Sphinx
• OhMiBod Foxy
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here

Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Weddings: They're like a beautiful blend of tradition and flowers, but let's be real – Is married sex worth all the hype? Let's face it, folks. Married sex often gets stuck in this rut of tired old cliches. But guess what? It doesn't have to be that way! 

We're so over settling for dull or non-existent intimacy as we journey through life with our partners. So, buckle up because on today's show, I'm all about shaking things up to make sex with your spouse hot again. From crafting your own set of sex vows before you take that stroll down the aisle to pleasure planning with your long-time partner, we're rewriting the playbook on honeymoon passion. Oh, and we're diving into the cultural landscape of love, sex, and relationships because times are definitely changing!

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage
• What it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s wedding
• How to bring back the spark…even when the spark was a little dim in the first place

Show Notes:

• Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE! 
• Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE!
• Yes, No, Maybe Guide 
• Pleasure Planner 
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 20% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today I’m joined by Liz Moody, the best-selling author and podcast host who shares insightful tips to help transform your life in all different aspects in her new book, 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success. We discuss her personal strategies for prioritizing wellness, ways to run your home like a CEO, and how to make your ideal Sex Bill of Rights. Tune in for so many amazing tips and tricks to upgrade your life!

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How planning your funeral helps you live a fulfilling present life
• Why it's important to run your home like you’re the CEO
• My new term "micro intimacy” and why that will be a game changer

Show Notes:

• Check out Liz’ New Book HERE
• LELO F1S V3 (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here

Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Listen up, assholes! Relationships and sex dynamics can be pleasure-filled and intimate, and also complicated and messy. Today, Producer Erica and I are reading your AITA questions and letting you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships. We answer questions like: AITA for wanting more sexual tension and intimacy in our relationship? AITA for re-evaluating a new relationship after they told me they have an STI? AITA for breaking up with my partner because they won’t go down on me? And more.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

• How to communicate your sexual needs effectively with your partner
• What to do if your partner tells you they have an STI
• How to heighten sexual tension

Show Notes:

• Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!)
• Episode: Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today, I had a candid conversation with Chelsey Goodan, also known as the Teenage Girl Whisperer, about empowering teenage girls in today's society. Chelsey shares her insights from working with teenage girls for over a decade and discusses the challenges they face regarding sexuality, self-expression, and societal expectations. Join us as we explore the power of communication, empowerment, and authenticity in supporting teenage girls on their journey to self-discovery and empowerment.

In this episode you’ll also learn: 

• Effective communication strategies
• The power of radical honesty and authenticity in building relationships
• How to break cycles of criticism, self-doubt, and judgment

Show Notes:

• Chelsey’s Book: Underestimated
• Promescent.com/Emily (15% off your order!)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Ever wondered if there's a way to spice things up in the bedroom AND reignite the spark between you and your partner? Well, today I'm about to help you crack the code of the 5 Love Languages and supercharge your relationship. I'll also tackle your burning questions like what to do when you and your partner speak different love languages (more common than you’d think), how to keep the love alive in a long-distance relationship, and sex hacks based on your unique love language combo.

And if that wasn't enough, I also discuss some awkward situations like accidentally critiquing your partner's penis or navigating that awkward phase when you and your partner feel like the spark is gone.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

• All about the 5 Love Languages
• How to keep the flame burning in a long-distance relationship
• How to best express your desires with your partner (even if your love languages are different!)

Show Notes:

• Je Joue Mimi Soft
• Talk Dirty to Me w/ Joanna Angel
• Head to bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily for an automatic 10% off your purchase!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today I teamed up with the brilliant developmental psychologist and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast, Dr. Aliza Pressman, for a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of parenting, sexuality, and relationships. From decoding the mysteries of "the talk" with kids to unraveling the enigma of why millennials and Gen-Zers might be having sex less often, we left no stone unturned. Join us as we dive headfirst into understanding and embracing children's gender identities and sexual orientations, all while figuring on how to be the best humans we can be. 

Get ready, because this episode isn't just about parenting—it's about living your best life and loving fiercely along the way!

Show Notes:

• 5 Principles of Parenting OUT NOW!
• More Dr. Aliza Pressman: Website | Instagram 
• Head to bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily for an automatic 10% off your purchase!
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here

Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime.

So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What BDSM and Kink are really about 
• The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics
• How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom

Show Notes:

• What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex
• How to Squirt (For Real)
• Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
• LELO Tiani Duo
• We-Vibe Melt
• Head to bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily for an automatic 10% off your purchase!
• 5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here

Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gabby shares how you can manifest the sex life you want but through a practical, less woo, lens and how to work through sexual trauma and change your core beliefs around sex. We also get into Internal Family Systems therapy and how young women today speak about sex differently than our generation.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

• How spirituality can enhance your sexuality
• How to boost your confidence (in and out of the bedroom)
• Tools for working through trauma

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• My appearance on the Dear Gabby podcast!
• More Gabby Bernstein: Website | Instagram
• Happy Days
• The Universe Has Your Back
• Self Help (coming 2/31/24)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here

Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to find solid friends with benefits
• Masturbation techniques
• The anatomy of the vulva!

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• The Psychology of Your Kink
• How to Squirt (For Real)
• Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
• Playground Lube
• Je Joue Mimi
• Je Joue Hera
• Magic Wand
• Insertion Toys
• Dual Stimulation Toys
• #Open
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How often you should masturbate in a relationship
• How to try masturbation when you never have
• The magic of mutual masturbation

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• The Psychology of Your Kink
• How to Squirt (For Real)
• Your February Solo Sex Challenge
• LELO DOT (up to 50% off until the end of February, code EMILY10 for an additional 10% off)
• We-Vibe Touch
• Je Joue Mimi
• We-Vibe Rave
• We-Vibe Nova
• Pjur Water-Based Lube
• Aneros Prostate Massager
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

• How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma
• How to get clearer on your sexual desires
• About the experiences of sex workers

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• How to Give a Prostate Massage
• 15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
• Erika Lust porn
• Vice Series: Sex Before the Internet
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Orgasms are one of the most pleasure-filled parts of sex. But what’s actually happening in your body when you have one? Today, I’m breaking down the physiological process of different kinds of orgasms and explaining how to have them. I also reveal how to find your G-area and have a G-spot orgasm, what it means to have a dry orgasm, what squirting really is and how to do it. Plus, I get into your orgasm questions.

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

• The anatomy of the clitoris, vulva, and penis so you can better stimulate them
• The many benefits of orgasms, for both your mental and physical health
• Tips for communicating with a partner if you no longer want jackhammer sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• How to Give a Prostate Massage
• 15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
• LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

I’m bringing you all into a LIVE conversation I had with renowned sex educator and researcher, Dr. Emily Nagoski, during a recent event in New York! After releasing her bestselling book on sex, Come As You Are, in 2015, Emily’s own sex life took a hit. Today, we discuss how she brought her sex life back from the dead, the Pleasure Thieves, and why it’s okay to stop sex once it’s already started.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to identify your sexual brakes and accelerators
• About the connection between wearing socks and having more orgasms
• How stress impacts your sex drive desire

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
• Magic Wand Micro
• Come Together, Dr. Emily Nagoski: Amazon | GoodReads | Bookshop
• More Dr. Emily Nagoski: Instagram | Website
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m here to make sure it’s your best one yet. First, I get into some common Valentine’s Day myths and things you should never do on the sexy holiday. After that, I’ll share some creative ways you should celebrate to ensure that your Valentine’s Day is hot, intimate and of course, sexy. Plus, I share some of my listeners’ favorite Valentine’s Day moments for some hot inspiration.

In this episode, you’ll learn: 

• How to incorporate blindfolds into sexual play
• Which toys can be used during penetration
• How to cultivate sexual desire & intimacy

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
• How to Do the Kivin Method
• LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February 2024)
• Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
• Massage Candles
• Le Wand Crystal
• Glass Dildo
• Cozy Earth (code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 35% off)
• Magic Wand
• Masterclass (use link for 15% off the 1st year of an annual subscription)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

On today’s Best Of episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily Hotline. We get into: how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to set intentions for new relationships
• How cannabis can improve your orgasms and intimacy
• How to guide a partner during oral sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
• How to Do the Kivin Method
• The Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
• EMDRIA
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with a partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What “spectatoring” during sex means, and how to overcome it
• Tips for sharing a sexual fantasy with a new partner
• How to navigate mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• 10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)
• Solaray (code 20STAGES for 20% off)
• We-Vibe Nova Shop Site
• Podcast: Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm?
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

To feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. So today, I’m taking some of my favorite Hotline calls on trust and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, and now sex feels sorta gross? What if you tell a new partner you love them, and they don’t reciprocate? Or how about being “too picky” of a dater - is it really because they’re all duds, or are there some underlying trust issues there? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

• How to move forward after infidelity, whether you were the cheater or the cheated on
• Tips for feeling comfortable with new partners
• What to do when it feels like the “spark” is gone

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• 10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)
• Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
• Podcast: Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions and recommendations to help you get there. Nervous that chastity play is giving your partner delayed ejaculation? I ease your worries and help you collaborate with your partner for mutually fulfilling sex. Plus, we get into other kinky calls like erotic lactation and anal sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to teach your body new ways to orgasm
• Common causes of vaginal pain
• About chastity play and penis cage safety

Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• How to Initiate Sex
• LELO Hugo 2 Remote (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

• Creative solutions for mismatched libidos
• What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship
• Tips for healthy sex conversations

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• How to Initiate Sex
• Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide)
• Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the show to help me answer your questions. From concerns about sexual compatibility to avoiding jackhammer sex, you will hear the change in these callers’ voices as we help them in real-time.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Effective ways to tell your partner you want to explore sexually
• How to have sex talks with a partner who gets uncomfortable
• How to feel confident going into a date

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• Magic Wand Micro
• Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website
• The Embody Lab
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Burnt out from dating? Do you feel like you’ll never meet “the one?” In today’s episode, celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman dispels common dating myths and suggests new dating pillars. Plus, she tells us which dating rules to follow (and which to disregard), the #1 expectation for men on dates with women, and how to make your online dating profile stand out.

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

• How much chemistry really matters on a date
• Who should make the first move
• How to track your dates to be more strategic

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• 5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024
• F the Fairy Tale, Damona Hoffman: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
• More Damona Hoffman: Instagram | TikTok | X (Twitter) | Website
• Dates & Mates Podcast: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Website
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I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips. I also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner doesn’t want to explore new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay. Plus, I answer your questions!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to set the mood for hotter, more intimate sex
• Specific sex tips to seduce a partner
• The key differences between couples with ‘great’ vs. ‘bad’ sex lives

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever
• 5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024
• Podcast: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation
• Flavored Lubes
• Massage Candles
• Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?
• Podcast: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel
• Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation
• Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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I’m answering your top asked sex questions of 2023 and taking a trip through the hottest moments of the year. It’s the last episode of 2023, and there were definitely some standout episodes you all loved the most. So I’m playing some of the highlights, from my fascinating conversation with Esther Perel to my top Hand Play tips, before answering your top questions.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What squirting really is and how to do it
• How often the average couple has sex
• How to have satisfying sex on SSRIs

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever
• Podcast: Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel
• More Esther Perel: Website | Instagram | Twitter
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
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I’m always encouraging you all to set goals for yourself in your sex life and relationships, and there’s arguably no better time than in the New Year. Today, Producer Erica and I review predictions for 2024 sex and relationship trends, make some of our own predictions, and suggest some New Year’s resolutions to make 2024 your sexiest year yet.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• About the living apart, together movement
• What pleasure mapping is, and how to do it
• What percentage of successful couples schedule sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
• Get to Know Your Body with “Vulva Mapping”
• LELO Dot
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok 
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.