Podd: Uncharted Catholic Man

Episode 274. Abstinence Reloaded: Navigating the Matrix of NFP in Catholic Marriage

23 februari 2025 | 49 min

Episode 273: P*rn in Catholic Marriage: Are We Going About It All Wrong?

16 februari 2025 | 44 min

The Conflicted Catholic: Navigating Faith Struggles With Your Kids.

9 februari 2025 | 32 min

Is Catholic Morality The Cure Or The Culprit For Sexual Wounds In Marriage? (episode 271)

2 februari 2025 | 47 min

Should The Church Ordain Gay Priests? + NFP Mile High Adventures | Episode 269

19 januari 2025 | 50 min

Reach us at unchartecatholicman.com or send us an email [email protected] 00:00:30 - Coyote Mating Season 00:01:00 - Strange Dreams and Time Travel 00:05:20 - Trip Concerns and Family Planning 00:06:50 - Baby Clothes and Sentimental Value 00:08:30 - NFP Challenges with Kids 00:12:00 - Italian Bishops and Homosexuality in the Priesthood 00:15:00 - Chastity and the Priesthood 00:17:30 - Concerns About Sexuality and the Priesthood 00:19:00 - The Impact of Sexual Orientation on Chastity 00:21:30 - The Church's Stance on Gay Priests 00:22:00 - The Complexity of Sexuality in the Church 00:24:30 - Declining Mass Attendance 00:25:00 - Birth Control and Church Teachings 00:27:30 - Personal Experiences with Family Planning 00:28:00 - The Role of Empathy in Church Teachings 00:30:30 - Fundamental Option and Family Planning 00:31:00 - The Impact of Tradition on Modern Life 00:33:30 - Menopause and Family Planning 00:34:00 - The Oldest Recorded Pregnancies 00:36:30 - Reflections on Aging and Parenthood The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Episode 268: This One Time, at Catholic Camp: Talking to Kids about the Birds, the Bees, and NFP

12 januari 2025 | 66 min

[email protected] 00:00:30 - Confession and Family Dynamics Discussion about a missed confession and family responsibilities. 00:01:30 - Eucharistic Adoration Experience Sharing a personal experience during Eucharistic Adoration and a meaningful encounter. 00:05:30 - Reflections on Marriage Exploring the significance of commitment in marriage and personal reflections. 00:07:30 - NFP Challenges Discussing the complexities and challenges of Natural Family Planning (NFP) in daily life. 00:12:30 - Travel and Family Life Navigating travel plans and their impact on family dynamics. 00:15:30 - Planning for the Future A couple's approach to planning their year and setting goals for their marriage. 00:19:30 - Talking to Kids About Sex Addressing the challenges of discussing sexual education with children in a Catholic context. 00:23:30 - Struggles with Church Teachings Personal reflections on disagreements with church teachings and the implications for parenting. 00:25:30 - The Nature of Sin and Justice Debating the nature of sin, justice, and God's mercy in relation to human actions. 00:30:30 - The Role of Prayer Discussing the importance of prayer in maintaining a relationship with God and avoiding scrupulosity. 00:35:30 - The Trad Movement Concerns Concerns about the traditionalist movement within the church and its implications for future generations. 00:40:30 - Mel Gibson's Controversial Views Discussion about Mel Gibson's views on the Catholic Church and his personal life. 00:45:30 - Reflections on Wealth and Struggles Contemplating the challenges faced by wealthy individuals and the nature of suffering. 00:52:30 - Faith and Natural Disasters Exploring the intersection of faith, judgment, and natural disasters in the context of personal stories. The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Episode 267: Natural Family Planning: So Easy a Caveman Could Do It.

5 januari 2025 | 51 min

In this episode of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive into a variety of thought-provoking topics, including the dynamics of marriage, the impact of family structure on success, and the challenges of parenting. They reflect on their own experiences with family life, discussing the balance between raising children and maintaining a healthy relationship with their spouses. The conversation takes a turn as they explore the nuances of Natural Family Planning (NFP) and its effects on intimacy and desire within marriage. They address the question of whether NFP can create hesitancy in women to initiate intimacy due to the fear of unintended pregnancies. Craig and Jonah share personal anecdotes and insights, making this episode relatable for anyone navigating the complexities of family life and relationships. Join us for a candid discussion filled with humor, personal stories, and valuable insights into marriage, parenting, and the realities of using NFP. Topics Covered: - The impact of family structure on children's success - The dynamics of marriage and emotional well-being - The challenges of parenting in large families - Natural Family Planning and its effects on intimacy - The importance of communication and understanding in relationships Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! We’d love to hear your experiences and perspectives on these topics. Thank you for tuning in! Timestamps: 00:00:30 - Introduction and Live Streaming 00:01:44 - High School Memories and Unique Stories 00:03:21 - Impact of Parental Marital Status on Success 00:04:07 - Cold vs. Hostile Environments for Children 00:04:57 - The Role of Love in Marriage 00:06:15 - Current Marital Happiness and Dynamics 00:09:33 - The Challenges of Parenting and Family Size 00:11:29 - Reflections on Having Children 00:12:35 - Advice on Timing for Marriage and Kids 00:16:36 - The Stigma of Waiting to Have Children 00:19:46 - Encouraging Couples to Wait Before Starting a Family 00:20:35 - Discussion on Early Marriage and Parenthood 00:22:44 - The Changing Landscape of Marriage and Family 00:25:49 - NFP, Female Desire, and Initiation 00:31:24 - The Dynamics of NFP and Intimacy 00:35:25 - Humor in Marriage and Parenting 00:41:38 - Theoretical Changes to Human Reproduction 00:47:29 - Closing Thoughts and Future Polls

Episode 266: Confession Dilemmas, Christmas Miracles, and Abundant Abstinence.

29 december 2024 | 48 min

Episode 265: Are Women Treated Unfairly in Confession?

22 december 2024 | 46 min

Surviving The Desert Of Desire: Navigating NFP With A Relentless Toddler. (Episode 264)

15 december 2024 | 39 min

Join Craig and Jonah in this episode as they dive into the complexities of modern relationships, parenting, and the challenges of intimacy amidst the chaos of family life. Jonah shares his experience of watching a thought-provoking movie about an AI robot that complicates marital dynamics, leading to a discussion on the implications of technology in our personal lives. The duo also explores the realities of Natural Family Planning (NFP) and the struggles that come with it, especially when raising energetic young children. They candidly discuss the ups and downs of intimacy, the impact of parenting on relationships, and the humorous yet relatable moments that arise in family conversations about how babies are made. Tune in for a mix of laughter, reflection, and real talk about navigating marriage and parenthood in today's world. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! Topics Covered: - The plot of the movie "Subservient" and its implications - The role of AI in modern relationships - Navigating intimacy while parenting young children - The realities of Natural Family Planning - Humorous family moments and conversations about sex education Follow us for more episodes! Share your thoughts in the comments below! Timestamps: 00:00:30 - Introduction and Streaming Dilemma 00:01:30 - Movie Review: Subservient 00:03:00 - Ethics of AI Relationships 00:04:30 - Intimacy and Parenthood 00:06:30 - The Reality of Parenting 00:09:30 - The Role of AI in Parenting 00:11:30 - Choosing Between AI Options 00:13:00 - Struggles with NFP 00:15:30 - Upcoming Trip and Weaning 00:18:30 - Travel Plans and Family Dynamics 00:20:30 - The Seasons of Parenting 00:22:30 - The Challenge of Intimacy 00:25:30 - Quality of Relationships 00:30:30 - Children's Curiosity About Life 00:37:30 - Navigating Conversations with Kids 00:38:30 - Conclusion and Encouragement Craig Jonah Netflix Subservient (movie) Megan Fox AI robot NFP (Natural Family Planning) Pope Catholic Church Children Sperm Egg Y chromosome X chromosome Birth control Contraception Christopher West

Episode 263: The Great Catholic Abstinence Experiment: Will He Make It to the End?

8 december 2024 | 47 min

Episode 262: NFP: Path of Sacrifice or Cult of Suffering?

1 december 2024 | 50 min

Episode 261: The Great Celibacy Challenge - Is It Even Worse Than NFP?

24 november 2024 | 53 min

If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] As the Uncharted Catholic Man embarks on a personal quest for self-discovery, he reveals his decision to undertake a two-month period of celibacy, exploring the impact it has on his relationship with his wife. Join us as we discuss the ups and downs of NFP, the struggles of abstinence, and the unexpected benefits of taking a break from physical intimacy. Tune in for a lighthearted yet insightful conversation about love, parenting, and the quest for balance in a busy family life. Will he succeed in his challenge? Find out as they share their experiences and thoughts on relationships, intimacy, and the journey of parenthood. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! Topics Covered: Follow on Twitter for live updates on the journey! https://x.com/CraigOnan/status/1857795947578716463 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Introduction and Family Birthdays 00:01:37 - Funny Birthday Story 00:02:44 - Understanding Women's Psychology 00:03:06 - Quest for Self-Discovery 00:05:20 - Midlife NFP Crisis 00:06:06 - Active Use of NFP 00:07:15 - Challenges of NFP 00:09:12 - Struggles with a Two-Year-Old 00:12:30 - Mental Strain of Abstinence 00:14:40 - Celibacy vs. NFP 00:17:45 - Discussing the Decision with Wife 00:20:47 - Wife's Reaction to Celibacy 00:22:31 - Accountability and Commitment 00:25:44 - Physical and Mental Challenges 00:26:56 - Weird Dreams During Abstinence 00:30:42 - Positive Changes in Relationship 00:32:14 - Importance of Date Nights 00:34:10 - Addressing Relationship Issues 00:37:37 - Concerns About Long-Term Abstinence 00:40:50 - Spiritual and Psychological Aspects 00:42:11 - Future Plans and Predictions 00:45:47 - Reflections on NFP and Relationships 00:50:17 - Public Commitment to Celibacy 00:51:44 - Conclusion and Next Steps Craig Jonah John Farrell Twitter NFP (Natural Family Planning) Marquette method PMAS (Post-Marital Act Syndrome) DMT (Dimethyltryptamine) Christopher West celibacy postpartum Happy Wife School two months date night children marriage intimacy relationship

Episode 260: Contraception Conundrum: A Catholic Woman's Quest for Peace of Conscience

17 november 2024 | 75 min

www.unchartedcatholicman.com [email protected] Craig sits down with Cristina, a Colombian native and cradle Catholic, to discuss her journey through faith, family, and the complexities of Catholic teachings on contraception and natural family planning (NFP). Cristina shares her experiences of moving to the U.S., raising a family, and navigating the challenges of traditional Catholic values in a modern context. She reflects on her upbringing in a conservative family, her husband’s evolving relationship with faith, and the impact of culture on their views about family planning. Throughout the conversation, they explore the emotional and spiritual struggles surrounding contraception, the importance of open communication in marriage, and the role of conscience in making family decisions. Cristina also shares insights from her family dynamics, including her siblings' varied approaches to NFP and contraception, and the influence of their upbringing on their choices. Topics Covered: Cristina's background and family life The impact of cultural differences on Catholic teachings The journey of faith and family planning Personal struggles with contraception and NFP Insights from family dynamics and sibling experiences Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below! 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Contraception Mentality and Abortion Concerns 00:01:16 - Introduction of Cristina 00:01:44 - Cristina's Background and Family Life 00:03:37 - Husband's Catholic Background 00:05:00 - Differences in Religious Upbringing 00:07:38 - Husband's Practical Approach to Faith 00:08:56 - Contraception Debate in Marriage 00:10:54 - Mother's Perspective on Family Planning 00:12:31 - Cultural Context of Marriage in Colombia 00:15:28 - Access to Contraception in Poor Communities 00:16:46 - Government Intervention in Family Planning 00:18:30 - Religious Awareness of Contraceptive Use 00:19:46 - Socioeconomic Factors in Family Size 00:20:55 - Financial Stability and Family Planning 00:23:15 - Siblings' Approaches to Family and Faith 00:24:34 - NFP and Family Dynamics 00:27:06 - Sister's Experience with NFP 00:29:05 - Brother's Attitude Towards Contraception 00:30:15 - Sister's Adoption Journey 00:32:15 - Marriage Preparation in Colombia 00:35:19 - Expectations Going into Marriage 00:36:34 - First Pregnancy Experience 00:39:24 - Struggles with Catholic Teachings on Contraception 00:41:37 - Evolution of Thoughts on Family Planning 00:45:25 - Desire for More Children 00:47:29 - Confession and NFP Guidance 00:49:47 - Conversations with Priests on Family Planning 00:52:33 - Struggles with Church Teachings 00:53:37 - Reflections on Natural Law and Church Doctrine Contraception JP II (Pope John Paul II) Colombia South America Catholic Opus Dei Regnum Christi NFP (Natural Family Planning) Paul VI Gestational diabetes C-section Couple to Couple League Turning Point (book) Confession Preeclampsia Celibate Family planning Natural law

Episode 259: The Truth About Contraception, NFP, And Conscience: A Candid Discussion With A Priest

10 november 2024 | 54 min

www.unchartedcatholicman.com [email protected] Find Fr. Carr's content: https://www.catholicaudiomedia.com/ Craig and Jonah welcome back Father Carr to discuss the complexities of conscience, morality, and the teachings of the Church. They dive deep into the often contentious topic of contraception, exploring how individuals can form their consciences in relation to Church teachings. Father Carr emphasizes the importance of understanding the nuances of sin, culpability, and the role of spiritual advisors in navigating difficult moral decisions. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions surrounding hell and the motivations behind following Church teachings, challenging the notion that fear should be the primary driver of faith. Join us as we unpack these critical issues, including: The role of conscience in moral decision-making The Church's teachings on contraception and NFP (Natural Family Planning) The importance of spiritual guidance and confession The balance between the letter of the law and the spirit of the law Insights into the historical context of heaven and hell from a Jewish perspective Whether you're grappling with personal moral dilemmas or seeking a deeper understanding of Catholic teachings, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Introduction to Conscience and Contraception 00:01:13 - Welcome Back, Father Carr 00:02:08 - Understanding Mortal Sin 00:03:04 - Fear of Hell and Its Impact 00:06:27 - Psychology of Motivation 00:07:28 - Scriptural References to Hell 00:08:50 - Narrow vs. Wide Path 00:10:02 - Historical Views on Heaven and Hell 00:10:34 - Fatima and Its Messages 00:12:36 - Understanding Private Revelation 00:15:35 - Struggles with Sexual Morality 00:18:51 - The Role of Confession 00:21:48 - Forming Conscience 00:23:54 - Conscience vs. Church Teaching 00:27:55 - Culpability and Sin 00:30:41 - Humanae Vitae and Contraception 00:32:30 - Personal Context in Church Teachings 00:36:20 - The Challenge of NFP 00:40:30 - Intrinsic Evil 00:43:38 - The Spirit of the Law vs. The Letter of the Law 00:49:10 - The Role of Prayer 00:50:39 - Communication from the Church 00:52:18 - Upcoming Projects and Interviews The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation Contraception NFP (Natural Family Planning) Father Carr Ralph Martin Saint Augustine Saint Faustina Sister Leonora Daughters of St. Paul Fatima Baltimore Catechism Humanae Vitae Catholic Church God Jesus Massachusetts Harvard University MIT (Massachusetts Institute of Technology) CatholicAudioMedia.com WROL (Radio Station) Divine Mercy Shrine Saint Maximilian Kolbe Twitter Discord Catholic spirituality Blasphemy Mortal sin Spiritual advisor Grace Eternal life Hell Heaven Procreation Unitive Sacrament Spirituality

Episode 258: Fasting or Abstinence: Which is Easier in Marriage?

3 november 2024 | 64 min

www.unchartedcatholicman.com In this episode of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into the complexities of marriage, intimacy, and the challenges that come with navigating relationships in a Catholic context. They discuss the struggles of balancing desire and abstinence, particularly during periods of Natural Family Planning (NFP), and how these dynamics can create tension in a marriage. Craig shares his recent experience with fasting and how it impacted his desire for intimacy, leading to a candid conversation about the differences between men and women in these situations. The duo reflects on the teachings of St. Paul regarding marriage and the difficulties of serving both God and a spouse, while also exploring the implications of polygamy and societal expectations. Join us as we unpack the emotional rollercoaster of married life, the constant push and pull of desire, and the quest for understanding in a relationship. Whether you're married, single, or somewhere in between, this episode offers insights into the realities of love, commitment, and the unique challenges faced by couples today. Topics Discussed: - The impact of fasting on desire and intimacy - The challenges of NFP and its effects on marriage - Differences in male and female perspectives on intimacy - The teachings of St. Paul and their relevance today - Exploring polygamy and societal norms Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Discussion of St. Paul’s view on challenges in serving God while married. 00:01:09 - Jonah shares his recent fasting experience and its effect on his relationship. 00:01:34 - Intimacy buildup and frustrations from unmet expectations. 00:02:46 - Sensitive discussions the need for a safe communication space. 00:04:18 - Is Polygamy the solution? 00:05:25 - The Pain of Abstinence vs. Fasting 00:07:27 - Effects of Fasting on Desire 00:09:11 - The Struggle of Detachment 00:10:29 - Reconnecting with Intimacy 00:12:35 - Differences in marital experiences and desires between men and women. 00:15:41 - The Burden of Motherhood 00:16:34 - Constant Background Frustration of Abstinence and NFP 00:17:32 - The Challenge of Commitment 00:18:51 - Intermittent intimacy and the resulting emotional strain. 00:19:42 - Universal Struggles in Relationships 00:23:29 - The Complexity of Marriage, and the added weight of Moral Rules 00:25:53 - Emotional highs and lows linked to marital intimacy. 00:27:44 - Polygamy and Its Implications 00:30:45 - The Burden of Catholic Rules 00:35:20 - Navigating Difficulties in Marriage 00:38:32 - Survival Mode in NFP 00:41:38 - The Search for Thriving Couples Expresses a desire to find thriving couples amidst marital challenges. 00:46:58 - The Mystery of Marriage Contemplates marital complexities and gender differences. 00:50:40 - Resignation to the Struggles Jonah reflects on accepting marital struggles and complexities. 00:53:51 - Conclusion: The Cost of Fasting Final thoughts on fasting and a preference for intimacy over abstinence. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email at [email protected]

Episode 257: Intimacy, Ice Cream, and Angry Neighbors: The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage

27 oktober 2024 | 39 min

In this episode of the podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into the complexities of mental health, relationships, and the challenges of communication. They share a powerful story about a friend who faced a life-threatening moment and how a seemingly divine intervention changed everything. The conversation touches on the hidden struggles many people carry and the importance of reaching out to those around us. Craig opens up about a recent conflict with a neighbor over his dog, leading to a heated exchange that highlights the challenges of neighborly relationships and the pressures of family life. The duo also discusses the significance of intimacy in marriage, the struggles of navigating periods of abstinence, and the impact it has on their overall well-being. Join Craig and Jonah as they explore these topics with humor and honesty, reminding us all to be kind and attentive to the needs of those around us. Topics Covered: Mental health and suicide prevention The importance of communication in relationships Navigating conflicts with neighbors The role of intimacy in marriage Personal anecdotes and reflections Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - A Close Call: A Story of Hope 00:01:30 - The Weight of Hidden Struggles 00:03:20 - Divine Signals: Listening to the Call 00:05:10 - Understanding the Burdens of Life 00:06:20 - The Complexity of Relationships 00:07:30 - Conflict with the Neighbor: A Dog Dilemma 00:10:30 - Escalating Tensions: The Argument 00:12:00 - Aftermath of the Confrontation 00:15:00 - Navigating Marital Dynamics 00:19:30 - Intimacy and Its Importance 00:21:00 - The Struggles of PMAS 00:24:30 - The Impact of Intimacy on Life 00:27:30 - Debating NoFap and Life Energy 00:30:30 - The Role of Intimacy in Relationships 00:32:30 - The Challenges of NFP 00:35:30 - The Elusiveness of Invincibility 00:37:30 - Conclusion: Reflections on Life and Relationships Andrew Carnegie Henry Ford Napoleon Hill PMAS (Post-Marital Abstinence Syndrome) NFP (Natural Family Planning) Marquette method communication boundaries mental health burdens dreams prayer love life marital act Catholic guilt

Catholic Marriage Survival Guide: Duct Tape, Death Stares & Afternoon Delights (Ep. 256)

20 oktober 2024 | 38 min

https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman In this episode of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive into the ups and downs of family life, sharing Jonah's recent experiences from a vacation at the Hot Air Balloon Festival in Albuquerque, New Mexico. They discuss the challenges of parenting, communication in marriage, and the importance of standing up for oneself in relationships. Join them as they reflect on the dynamics of intimacy after having children, the humorous moments that arise during family outings, and the lessons learned from navigating the complexities of marriage. From dealing with cranky kids to the logistics of travel, this episode is filled with relatable anecdotes and insights that many parents will appreciate. Topics Covered: Highlights from the Hot Air Balloon Festival The importance of communication in marriage Navigating intimacy and abstinence in relationships Funny family moments and parenting challenges Reflections on personal growth and respect in marriage Tune in for a candid conversation that blends humor with heartfelt advice on maintaining a strong family bond! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below! 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Pre-Marriage Advice Discussion on the importance of communication about sex and standing up for oneself in marriage. 00:01:09 - Vacation Recap Jonah shares his experience at the Hot Air Balloon Festival in Albuquerque, New Mexico. 00:02:16 - Hot Air Balloon Safety Conversation about the safety measures in place during the balloon festival and the potential for accidents. 00:02:57 - Family Dynamics Jonah reflects on family interactions and the challenges of managing crankiness during the trip. 00:04:54 - Standing Up for Yourself Jonah discusses a realization about asserting himself in conversations with his wife. 00:06:01 - Travel Challenges Jonah recounts the difficulties faced while returning from vacation, including luggage issues. 00:07:38 - Staying with Family Discussion about staying at in-laws' house and the dynamics of sharing a room with the family. 00:08:32 - Desert Periods Challenges of timing intimacy around family planning and natural cycles. 00:11:15 - Communication in Marriage Exploration of how communication has improved in their marriages and its impact on intimacy. 00:12:39 - Twitter Debate on Intimacy Discussion about a viral Twitter debate regarding intimacy after having children. 00:17:17 - The Importance of Communication The need for open discussions about intimacy to avoid long periods of abstinence. 00:18:31 - Navigating Conversations Jonah shares a technique for discussing sensitive topics with his wife. 00:20:52 - Humor in Marriage A light-hearted moment about using a navigation app voice and the idea of a "nagging wife" voice. 00:22:34 - Empty Nest Feelings Jonah reflects on the experience of having fewer children at home and the freedom it brings. 00:25:37 - Date Night Dynamics Discussion about the challenges and humor of trying to have a spontaneous date. 00:30:07 - Traveling with Kids Jonah talks about the difficulties of managing children's sleep schedules during travel. 00:32:31 - Future Travel Plans Plans for an upcoming trip to Phoenix and the anticipation of time alone with his wife. 00:33:40 - Communication and Intimacy Jonah reflects on how improved communication has positively affected their marriage. 00:34:45 - Lessons Learned Final thoughts on the importance of discussing intimacy and standing up for oneself in marriage. 00:37:13 - Upcoming Live Streams Announcement about future live streams and personal projects on YouTube.

Is the Church driving people away with all the sex rules?

18 oktober 2024 | 77 min

Confession Line: Why Women Take Their Time And Men Can't Wait To Escape - Episode 255

13 oktober 2024 | 61 min

Unraveling The Mystery Of Primacy Of Conscience: Livestream Playback

11 oktober 2024 | 115 min

https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman Join us in this thought-provoking episode as we dive deep into the complexities of conscience, morality, and the teachings of the Catholic Church. Our co-hosts, Matthew and Essential Catholic, explore their personal journeys navigating the tension between church doctrine and individual conscience. Matthew shares his extensive background in Catholic theology and philosophy, discussing the dynamic structure of cognition and how it shapes our understanding of right and wrong. He reflects on his experiences as a gay Catholic and the challenges of reconciling personal identity with community expectations. Essential Catholic adds to the conversation by examining the fractured state of the Catholic community regarding issues like salvation, mortal sin, and the role of conscience. Together, they question the clarity of church teachings and the implications for the laity in their spiritual lives. This episode tackles pressing questions such as: What does it mean to follow your conscience? How do we navigate the tension between personal beliefs and church teachings? Can one be in a state of mortal sin if their conscience is poorly formed? Tune in for an engaging discussion that encourages listeners to think critically about their faith and the nature of conscience in the modern world. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! 00:00:00 - Introduction and Technical Setup 00:01:34 - Matthew's Background and Interests 00:04:30 - Personal Experience and Conscience 00:09:56 - Tension Between Conscience and Church Teaching 00:13:44 - Scrupulosity and Personal Struggles 00:14:45 - Introduction of Essential Catholic 00:16:15 - The Puzzle of Catholic Faith 00:18:04 - Contraception and Moral Questions 00:19:28 - Understanding Conscience and Church Teachings 00:20:49 - Divergent Views Within the Church 00:22:54 - The Role of Intelligence in Faith 00:24:41 - Vatican II and the Evolution of Church Teaching 00:26:02 - The Nature of Conscience 00:30:51 - Feelings vs. True Judgment 00:33:12 - Knowledge and Mortal Sin 00:35:36 - The Challenge of Understanding Knowledge 00:37:47 - Salvation and Mortal Sin 00:39:37 - The Impact of Dogma on Belonging 00:41:33 - Credibility vs. Credentity in Belief 00:43:37 - The Complexity of Mortal Sin 00:45:39 - The Role of Baptism in Salvation 00:49:31 - The Relationship Between Knowledge and Sin 00:51:32 - The Church's Understanding of Mortal Sin 00:55:30 - Expectations of the Laity vs. Church Standards 00:56:33 - Conscience and the Question of Free Will Catholic theology STM (Sacred Theology Master) STL (Licentiate in Sacred Theology) PhD cognition philosophical hermeneutics Saint Irenaeus of Lyon Joseph Goldbrunner Lonergan Aquinas Pope Francis Vatican II Franz Jägerstätter Martin Luther Essential Catholic Catholic community mortal sin conscience contraception catechism church teaching Logos Victorian era scientific circles Holy Communion purgatory dogma grave matter advertence intelligence community culture time place

Confessions of a Melancholic Catholic: Constant Quest for Joy and Belief. Episode 254.

6 oktober 2024 | 49 min

If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] In this episode of the Uncharted Catholic Podcast, Craig is joined by Midnight Philosopher for a deep and engaging conversation about faith, marriage, and the complexities of navigating Catholicism in today's world. They explore the challenges of raising children within the faith, the impact of cultural shifts on religious practices, and the importance of finding joy in one's spiritual journey. Midnight shares his unique perspective as a married man in an unequally yoked marriage, discussing the balance between honoring his Catholic upbringing and respecting his wife's beliefs. The duo delves into the themes of love, mercy, and community within the Church, while also addressing the struggles many face with guilt and doubt. Join us as we tackle tough questions about faith, the role of tradition, and the importance of authentic dialogue in a rapidly changing world. Whether you're a lifelong Catholic or someone exploring the faith, this episode offers valuable insights and a sense of community for those navigating their spiritual paths. Topics Discussed: The challenges of raising children in the faith Navigating an unequally yoked marriage Finding joy and authenticity in Catholicism The impact of cultural changes on religious practices The importance of community and dialogue in faith Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more episodes! Share your thoughts in the comments below! 00:00:30 - Struggles with Faith and Parenting 00:01:30 - Introduction of Midnight Philosopher 00:02:30 - Fan Devotion and Community 00:03:30 - Midnight Philosopher's Background 00:05:30 - State in Life and Marriage 00:06:30 - Cultural and Religious Differences 00:08:30 - Navigating Unequally Yoked Marriages 00:10:30 - Finding Common Ground in Faith 00:12:30 - Themes of Love and Forgiveness in Catholicism 00:14:30 - The Role of Structure in Faith 00:16:30 - Community and Tradition in Religion 00:18:30 - Balancing Standards and Individuality 00:20:30 - Navigating the Post-Vatican II Landscape 00:22:30 - Crisis of Identity in the Church 00:24:30 - Optimism for the Future of Faith 00:26:30 - Sharing Faith with Others 00:28:30 - The Importance of Joy in Faith 00:30:30 - Personal Reflections on Faith and Happiness 00:32:30 - The Impact of Suffering on Faith 00:34:30 - Finding Peace in Catholicism 00:36:30 - Raising Children in the Faith 00:38:30 - Navigating Doubts and Spiritual Growth 00:40:30 - The Role of Community in Healing 00:42:30 - Concluding Thoughts on Faith and Dialogue 00:44:30 - Wrap-Up and Future Conversations The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Birth Control Battle: Candid Catholic Chat About Contraception and NFP

4 oktober 2024 | 97 min

Join us in this lively episode of our podcast as we dive into the often-taboo topic of birth control! With special guest Midnight Philosopher, we explore personal experiences, societal norms, and the complexities surrounding contraception. From humorous anecdotes about navigating parenthood to serious discussions about the implications of various birth control methods, we cover it all. We also touch on historical perspectives, including the Majority and Minority Reports from the Vatican, and how they shaped the Church's stance on contraception. Whether you're a parent, considering family planning, or just curious about the conversation, this episode offers a blend of humor, insight, and thought-provoking dialogue. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! Special Guest: Midnight Philosopher Tune in for a fun and informative discussion that challenges conventional views and encourages open dialogue! 00:00:00 - Tech check 00:01:30 - Discussion on Birth Control 00:03:00 - Personal Experiences with NFP 00:05:30 - Speculative thoughts on Birth Control Options 00:08:00 - Vasectomy Considerations 00:10:30 - Health Risks and Birth Control 00:12:30 - Statistics on Contraceptive Use 00:15:30 - Cultural Influences on Birth Control 00:18:30 - NFP vs. Contraception Debate 00:20:30 - Majority and Minority Reports of the 1962 Pope Paul VI Commission on Birth Control 00:25:30 - Historical Context of Birth Control in the Church 00:30:30 - Engaging with Modern Issues 00:35:30 - Moral Implications of Contraception 00:40:30 - The Role of Suffering in Family Planning 00:45:30 - Theological Perspectives on Sexuality 00:50:30 - Final Thoughts on Birth Control and Contraception NFP (Natural Family Planning) Birth Control Vatican II Pope John XXIII Pope Paul VI Humanae Vitae Casti Connubii Arcanum IUD (Intrauterine Device) Contraception Conjugal Onanism St. Alphonsus Christopher West Manichaeans Gnostics Cathari New Advent Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) Original Sin Catholic Church Protestant Churches Mortal Sin Venial Sin Contraceptive Methods Withdrawal Method Male Condoms Female Condoms Sterilization Hormonal Birth Control Testosterone Wet Dream Catchers Scrotum Swelling Ice Bath Marital Debt Contraceptive Intention Responsible Parenthood Fertility Regulation Pregnancy Contraceptive Use Statistics 1960s

NFP: The Art of Dodging Kids and Conjugal Acts (Episode 253)

29 september 2024 | 46 min

If you’d like to reach us, go to unchartedcatholicman.com or email [email protected] 00:00:30 - Unlocking a New Level: The Marquette Method 00:01:08 - Reflections on Father Ripperger and Tim Gordon 00:02:15 - The Fallout Between Timothy Gordon and Taylor Marshall 00:03:20 - Timothy Gordon's NFP Course Update 00:04:32 - @AnnulmentProof 's Unique Perspective on NFP 00:06:04 - Exploring the Marquette Method 00:06:35 - Understanding NFP and Ovulation 00:09:10 - Navigating the Challenges of NFP 00:10:45 - The Benefits of Extended Fertility Windows 00:11:30 - The Complexity of Sexual Ethics 00:12:00 - Chastity and Its Implications 00:19:48 - The Church's Teaching on Solo Acts 00:22:05 - The Realities of Married Life and Chastity 00:30:32 - The Burden of Rigid Rules 00:35:38 - Finding Balance in Catholic Life 00:39:55 - Trusting in God's Mercy 00:42:37 - Podcast Updates and Future Plans 00:45:15 - The Impact of Consistency on Viewership The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation Marquette Method NFP (Natural Family Planning) Father Ripperger Tim Gordon Taylor Marshall John Farrell Humani Vitae Onan Solomon King David Catholic Church Baltimore Catechism CCD (Confraternity of Christian Doctrine Catholic Twitter Trad Wife Scrupulosity Sexual Deviance Conjugal Act Birth Control Sexual Chastity

Ice Cream, Intimacy, and the "Fertile Window": Do we actually agree with Timothy Gordon on NFP?

27 september 2024 | 81 min

Episode 252: Tied Up in Guilt: The Church's Endless War Against "Self-Abuse"

22 september 2024 | 44 min

In this episode of the Uncharted Catholic Man podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into the complexities surrounding the topic of masturbation and its moral implications within the Catholic Church. They reflect on the teachings of St. Alphonsus Liguori and explore the historical context of sexual morality, questioning the burden of proof placed on couples regarding their intimate lives. Join them as they discuss the humorous yet serious anecdotes about saints and their struggles, the lack of clarity in church teachings, and the impact of these teachings on modern marriages. They also touch on the differences in how male and female sexuality has been addressed historically and the challenges faced by couples trying to adhere to strict moral codes. This episode aims to spark thoughtful discussion and encourage listeners to consider the nuances of sexual morality in the context of faith. Whether you're a devout Catholic or simply curious about the topic, this episode offers a unique perspective that you won't want to miss! Topics Covered: - The burden of proof on the Church regarding sexual morality - Anecdotes about St. Alphonsus Liguori and other saints - Historical context of masturbation and its moral implications - The impact of strict teachings on modern marriages - Differences in the treatment of male and female sexuality Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insightful discussions! If you want to join the conversation, check out our newsletter and Discord community at unchartedcatholicman.com. The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation St. Alphonsus Liguori Onan St. Francis St. Clement of Alexandria Humanae Vitae Casti Canubi Veritatis Splendor Catholic Church

Episode 251: From Covenant Church to Boston College: A Wicked Good Journey of Faith

18 september 2024 | 66 min

If you’d like to reach us, please go to unchartedcatholicman.com. Craig welcomes Jonathan Heaps, the director of the Bernard J. Lonergan Institute at Seton Hall University, for an engaging discussion on the intersection of faith, philosophy, and morality within the Catholic tradition. Jonathan shares his journey from evangelicalism to Catholicism, discussing intellectual struggles. The conversation covers evil as privation, sin, moral teachings, Catholic sexual morality, discernment in marriage, and Bernard Lonergan's insights on procreation and moral theology. Guest's webpage: https://www.jonathanheaps.com/ Bernard J. Lonergan Institute at Seton Hall University: https://www.shu.edu/lonergan/ 00:01:32 - Jonathan's Background Jonathan shares his academic background, conversion to Catholicism, and early influences from evangelical traditions. 00:03:20 - Interdisciplinary Influences Jonathan reflects on the impact of his philosophy education at an evangelical school and its connection to Catholic thought. 00:04:20 - Common Experiences of Converts Craig and Jonathan discuss the shared experiences of individuals from non-Catholic backgrounds who convert to Catholicism. 00:06:24 - Crisis of Authority in Evangelicalism Jonathan explains the challenges faced by evangelicals regarding the sufficiency of Scripture and the search for authority. 00:09:39 - Retention Rates of Converts Discussion on the retention rates of converts to Catholicism and the factors influencing their commitment. 00:11:15 - Cradle Catholics vs. Converts Craig shares his experience as a revert to Catholicism and the challenges of questioning traditional teachings. 00:12:01 - Catholic Sexual Morality Exploration of the complexities and challenges surrounding Catholic sexual morality and the perception of rules. 00:15:40 - Comparing Evangelical and Catholic Ethics Jonathan contrasts the sexual ethics of evangelical circles with Catholic teachings on marriage and procreation. 00:17:59 - Orthodoxy and Moral Theology Discussion on the focus of moral theology in both Catholic and evangelical contexts, particularly regarding sexual ethics. 00:22:07 - Lonergan's Approach to Moral Theology Jonathan introduces Lonergan's perspective on moral theology and the importance of understanding the good. 00:26:25 - Understanding Sin and Moral Good Discussion on reframing the understanding of sin and moral obligations in light of Lonergan's teachings. 00:28:30 - Lonergan's Critique of Humanae Vitae Jonathan summarizes Lonergan's private letter regarding Humanae Vitae and his views on the church's authority. 00:31:13 - The Shift in Scientific Understanding Exploration of the differences between classical and modern scientific ideals and their implications for moral theology. 00:33:33 - Lonergan's Methodology Jonathan discusses Lonergan's methodology in theology and the importance of engaging with contemporary culture. 00:36:42 - Moral Discernment and Concrete Good The conversation shifts to the importance of moral discernment and the relationship between rules and concrete situations. 00:40:10 - The Challenge of Moral Fitness Jonathan emphasizes the need for moral fitness and preparation to do good rather than merely avoiding bad actions. 00:43:39 - Jesus' Teachings on Morality Discussion on the balance between Jesus' call to perfection and the burdens of moral living. 00:49:26 - Lonergan's Authentic Perspective Jonathan shares insights on Lonergan's genuine perspective regarding church teachings and moral theology. 00:52:19 - Cultural Engagement and Tradition Discussion on Lonergan's view of the church's engagement with modern culture and the evolution of moral understanding.

Episode 250: Holding Firm: A Stimulating Look at the History of Masturbation in Catholic Thought.

15 september 2024 | 79 min

In this milestone episode 250 of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into a topic that has sparked curiosity and debate throughout history: masturbation and Catholic teaching. If you’d like to reach us, please go to unchartedcatholicman.com or email [email protected] Join us as we explore the historical context of the Church's stance on masturbation, referencing key documents like the Catechism of Trent and the 1999 Catechism of the Catholic Church. Discussing the significance of companionship in marriage, the moral implications of sexual pleasure, and the evolving understanding of human sexuality within the Church. With a mix of humor and serious reflection, we dive deep into the surprising history of this taboo subject across cultures and religions, with particular emphasis on the evolution of thought in Catholic teaching. Whether you're a long-time listener or new to our discussions, this episode promises to be enlightening and thought-provoking. Don't miss out on this stimulating conversation! Topics Covered: Historical perspectives on masturbation in the Church The Catechism of Trent vs. the Catechism of the Catholic Church The moral implications of sexual pleasure The role of psychology in understanding sexual behavior and culpability 00:01:00 - Episode Milestone and Topic Introduction Celebration of the 250th episode and introduction of masturbation and Catholic teaching. 00:01:30 - The Missionary to the Masturbators 00:02:10 - Overview of the Catechism of the Catholic Church Introduction to section 2352 of the Catechism regarding masturbation. 00:02:40 - Constant Tradition and Moral Sense of the Faithful Discussion on the Church's teaching that masturbation is intrinsically disordered. 00:04:00 - UCAT Catechism Insights Exploration of the UCAT's perspective on masturbation and its implications. 00:06:00 - Loneliness and Isolation Discussion on the dangers of isolation and addiction related to masturbation. 00:07:30 - Understanding Lust Examination of Section 2351 and its definition of lust in relation to sexual pleasure. 00:09:00 - Clarifying Sexual Pleasure Sexual pleasure and its moral implications for married Catholics. 00:10:30 - Persona Humana and Historical Context Introduction to the document Persona Humana and its relevance to the discussion. 00:12:00 - Psychological Perspectives on Masturbation What is the role of modern psychology views masturbation and its implications for moral responsibility according to the Church. 00:14:00 - Critique of Scientific Opinions The Church's stance on the opinions of psychology and sociology regarding masturbation. 00:16:00 - Pastoral Considerations How habitual behavior and psychological factors are considered in pastoral care. 00:18:00 - Culpability and Moral Responsibility Exploration of how psychological factors can diminish culpability in cases of masturbation. 00:20:00 - Criticism of the 1992 Catechism's teaching on Masturbation Introduction to critiques of the current teaching on masturbation and how Traditionalists believe it leads people astray 00:22:00 - Historical Church Teachings Discussion on the historical context of Church teachings regarding masturbation 00:24:00 - The Role of Tradition in Teaching Examination of how tradition influences current Church teachings on sexual morality. 00:26:00 - The Council of Trent and Its Teachings Overview of the Council of Trent's catechism and its relevance to the topic. 00:28:00 - Exploring the Concept of Effeminacy Discussion on the historical meaning of effeminacy and its implications for sexual morality. 00:30:00 - Sexual Activity and Reproductive Purposes Insights into the Church's teachings on sexual activity and its intended purposes. 00:32:00 - Conclusion and Reflection Wrap-up of the discussion and reflections on the teachings covered in the episode. Join the conversation! Share your thoughts in the comments below, and don't forget to subscribe for more insightful discussions!

Episode 249: Magic Wands and Marital Debt: Speculative Theology Or Heresy?

11 september 2024 | 46 min

00:00:47 - Wisdom from an Old Man: Marriage Analogy 00:01:35 - Kids Back in School 00:04:05 - The Wizard of Oz Fight 00:09:15 - Celebrating 500 Subscribers 00:11:33 - Wives and Murder Mysteries 00:14:50 - Trad boy incels 00:19:01 - Controversial Poll Results: Changing Catholic Sexual Morality 00:25:33 - Are Catholics Not Allowed To Discuss Things Anymore? 00:30:51 - Menopause: oasis or mirage? 00:32:56 - Why do you still Promote NFP? 00:35:32 - The Period of Rejection 00:37:59 - Can We Be Frustrated with God? Welcome to Episode 249 of our podcast! Join Craig and Jonah as they dive into a lively discussion about marriage, parenting, and the complexities of Catholic sexual morality. In this episode, they share amusing anecdotes about their family lives, including the challenges of bedtime routines and the joys of having kids back in school. Jonah recounts a humorous conversation with an old man who likens marriage to "eating soup with a fork," sparking a deeper conversation about relationships and expectations. The duo also tackles the topic of Natural Family Planning (NFP) and its impact on their marriages, exploring the nuances of intimacy and communication. They discuss a recent Twitter poll that stirred up some controversy regarding changes to Catholic sexual morality, including birth control and IVF, and reflect on the reactions they received. As they navigate through these topics, Craig and Jonah emphasize the importance of open dialogue and understanding in marriage, while also addressing the discomfort some may feel discussing these subjects. Tune in for a thought-provoking and entertaining episode that blends humor with heartfelt insights on marriage, parenting, and faith! Don't forget to subscribe for more episodes and join the conversation in the comments below! The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Episode 248: "Give Me Intimacy Or Give Me Death". Tales from the Heart of the Uncharted Catholic Man

8 september 2024 | 47 min

No regular UCM episode this week

4 september 2024 | 2 min

Episode 247: Inquisition of Catholic Man Before His Wedding. Mortuus Ambulans

1 september 2024 | 65 min

00:10:10 - Marriage Preparation: Discussion about marriage preparation and reading materials like Casti Connubii and Aquinas. 00:17:40 - Marriage Prep Readings: Conversation about reading Fulton Sheen's "Three to Get Married" during marriage preparation. 00:20:35 - NFP Discussion: Discussion about Natural Family Planning methods and learning about it. 00:24:54 - Future Interviews: Plans for future interviews at different milestones in the marriage. 00:32:20 - Challenges of Marriage: Reflecting on the challenges of marriage and prioritizing the relationship. 00:37:48 - Communication Differences: Exploring differences in communication styles between men and women in marriage. 00:43:02 - Understanding Emotions: Discussion on understanding and supporting each other's emotions in marriage. 00:47:57 - Prioritizing Marriage: Importance of prioritizing the marriage relationship over other responsibilities. 00:52:11 - Reflecting on Marriage: Reflecting on the growth and strength gained from overcoming challenges in marriage. In this episode, we had a candid and insightful conversation with Sam, a college senior who shared his experiences and thoughts on marriage, engagement, and relationship dynamics. Sam discussed his journey from being engaged to his fiancée, who also grew up in a traditional Catholic background, to their upcoming wedding and marriage preparations. Sam shared how they met through an online group chat, developed a friendship before dating, and navigated a long-distance relationship. He highlighted the importance of being friends first and how it made the transition to dating smoother. The couple's engagement story was heartwarming, with Sam proposing after a morning mass and a heartfelt speech at a special Marian statue. The conversation delved into their marriage preparation, including reading materials like Casti Connubii and Aquinas on the nature of marriage. Sam also touched on their decision to prioritize their relationship over potential challenges that may arise after having children. He emphasized the importance of communication, understanding each other's perspectives, and being prepared for the changes that come with marriage and family life. The discussion also explored the differences in communication styles between men and women, the challenges of balancing work, family, and personal time, and the need to prioritize the marriage relationship amidst the demands of daily life. Sam shared his insights on being a supportive partner, listening without always trying to solve problems, and acknowledging that mistakes and conflicts are a natural part of any relationship. Overall, the episode provided valuable insights into the complexities of relationships, the importance of communication and understanding, and the ongoing journey of growth and learning within a marriage. Sam's reflections on love, commitment, and the shared journey of carrying each other's crosses offered a poignant and relatable perspective on the joys and challenges of building a strong and lasting relationship. The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Episode 246: Why Men Crave Intimacy And Does Church Teaching Make the Conjugal Act a Need?

28 augusti 2024 | 21 min

03:03 Do men need the conjugal act? 04:56 Does the Church force couples to make the conjugal act a need? 11:15 Twitter Poll: How many NFP couples are using "other acts"? 17:49 The Great Unknown of Catholic Marriage 19:27 Primacy of Conscience in Catholic Marriage In this episode, Craig and Jonah dive into a candid discussion about the challenges and frustrations of navigating intimacy within a Catholic marriage, particularly in relation to Natural Family Planning (NFP). They share personal experiences, reflections, and insights on the impact of following strict guidelines versus following one's conscience in the context of marital intimacy. The conversation delves into the complexities of balancing moral teachings with the realities of married life, highlighting the importance of communication, understanding, and mutual respect within a relationship. Craig and Jonah also touch on the evolution of their perspectives over time and the transformation they have witnessed in their marriages. Join them as they explore the nuances of intimacy, the role of conscience in decision-making, and the pursuit of a thriving Catholic marriage amidst the challenges of NFP. Listen in for a thought-provoking discussion that sheds light on the intricacies of marital intimacy and the journey towards a fulfilling and harmonious relationship. Don't miss out on this insightful episode filled with honesty, transparency, and valuable reflections on the complexities of Catholic marriage and intimacy. Tune in now for a candid conversation that delves into the heart of marital dynamics and the pursuit of a fulfilling relationship. The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Episode 245: Talking Hell, Confession, Scrupulosity, Judgment, and Hope with Catholic Priest.

25 augusti 2024 | 52 min

Find Father Carr's podcast and radio show: CatholicAudioMedia.com Read Father Carr's articles: Catholicaudiomedia.substack.com CCC 2098. http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2098.htm YouCat: https://youcat.org/ 01:10 Fr. Robert Carr Bio 04:24 Catholics and "following the rules" 06:02 Catholics are "living in terror" of hell if they can't follow the rules 08:55 Catholics and Confession out of precaution 10:09 Essential role of prayer in the Catholic life 12:07 Importance and Value of Confession 13:06 Levels of Culpability and seeking assistance in the confessional 14:00 Priest Shopping? 16:22 Catholics have the right to go to a priest of their preference 20:51 When should people go to confession? 23:39 Can Catholics rely on the Catechism for forming their Consciences? 28:58 How common is mortal sin? 32:44 What about Conscience and Confession? 40:30 Importance of showing mercy to ourselves 40:42 You can't go to Hell by mistake or accident 46:17 How Judgment Actually Works The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Episode 244: Talking NFP, Intimacy, and Happy Catholic Marriage with Ordinary Catholic!

21 augusti 2024 | 85 min

Episode 243: Does Your Catholic Marriage Feel like a Minefield or a Farmfield?

18 augusti 2024 | 24 min

"Souls Must Be Able to Go To Hell Because of Free Will". The Fundamental Problem with this Argument.

16 augusti 2024 | 7 min

Rant Against The Fake NFP Apologists. Update on UCM's Sickness

16 augusti 2024 | 7 min

ONAN DOWN: No UCM Video this week

11 augusti 2024 | 1 min

Episode 242: The Problem of Natural Law in Catholic Sexual Ethics

7 augusti 2024 | 60 min

Episode 241: Which is Worse for Marriage: Other Acts Between Spouses or Soul Crushing Abstinence?

4 augusti 2024 | 41 min

Episode 240: NFP Gone Wild: Camping During The Infertile Window.

1 augusti 2024 | 25 min

Episode 239: Can a Man Thrive if his Wife is Unhappy? Catholic Marriage and Grappling Hooks.

28 juli 2024 | 38 min

Episode 238: Is it Sinful for Catholics NOT to use NFP? NFP goes from Bad to Worse.

24 juli 2024 | 37 min

Episode 237: Is Hell Empty? Jordan Daniel Wood Discusses Hope vs. Heresy and Universalism.

21 juli 2024 | 90 min

Episode 236: Marital Wager: Would You Go Back In Time Machine and Start Over or Stay Put?

17 juli 2024 | 15 min

Episode 235: Lord of the Scruples. A Catholic's Journey to Trad and Back Again.

14 juli 2024 | 108 min

00:17:28 "If I ever go back to the TLM, "sh**t" me" 00:27:28 "At that moment I thought I was going to be a single dad" 00:50:09 "I say this as Lord of the Scruples" 00:51:04 "crank me down" for safe Catholic s*x We talk to a Catholic Revert who discusses his journey from Catholic revert, to hard core Traditionalist, to back again to a "normal" Catholic. Here are some of the highlights: * Taylor Marshall helped shape his return to the Faith, journey to Traditionalism, and back again. * The breakup of Taylor Marshall and Timothy Gordon impacted his faith journey * "At that moment I thought I was going to be a single dad." * Near death of his wife during childbirth changed all of his priorities in life * Being "shushed" at a TLM was the final straw in his journey back from Traditionalism * "If I ever go back to the TLM, "sh**t" me." * "Crank me down, Alexa"--is Catholic sexual morality really meant to be this robotic? If you'd like to follow our guest, you can find him on twitter: @Damian888282 https://x.com/Damian888282 The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Episode 234: Catholic Teaching Based on Bad Biology or Good Theology?

10 juli 2024 | 44 min

Episode 233: Adventures in Babysitting: How Should Catholics Make Time for Intimacy?

7 juli 2024 | 25 min

Episode 232: NFP High Stakes. Was the Gamble Worth It?

3 juli 2024 | 31 min

Episode 231: Secret to a long and happy Catholic marriage: cheat code or heresy?

30 juni 2024 | 78 min

Episode 230: Are you not entertained? Does Catholic media have to be boring?

26 juni 2024 | 96 min

Episode 229: Being chaste, overcoming loneliness, and forming your conscience as a gay Catholic.

23 juni 2024 | 89 min

Episode 228: No Pope No Problem! Talking papacy, intimacy, and end times with a Sedevacantist.

19 juni 2024 | 40 min

Episode 227: Onan's Last Stand. Trads call in the big guns. Then block me anyway.

16 juni 2024 | 26 min

Episode 226: Mining for Catholic truth: Is there more to sex than Procreation and Unity?

12 juni 2024 | 31 min

Episode 225: 🎵 Let's get Metaphysical! 🎵 What would Aquinas say about Only Fans?

9 juni 2024 | 15 min

Episode 224: Planes, Trains, and Abstinence Periods. Why big Catholic families don't go on vacations

5 juni 2024 | 38 min

Episode 223: Is abstinence harmful to your health? Is body building an occasion of sin?

2 juni 2024 | 32 min

Episode 222: Can you really abuse NFP? We respond to Harrison Butker speech controversy.

29 maj 2024 | 41 min

* Can you really abuse NFP (Natural Family Planning)? * What does "Grave Cause" even mean under Humanae Vitae? #Is NFP just Catholic birth control? * Is it really harmful to wait to have children to establish financial security? * You're never too old to learn new things in marriage * Are we too soft on masturbation? We get called out by an angry listener * frequent marital intimacy is such an enormous boost to your marriage Harrison Butker commencement speech: https://youtu.be/-JS7RIKSaCc?si=BnsDo8oJ4M1tj70y Link to John Farrell's video: https://youtu.be/J1Ux5EYMf6E?si=JWkhLbH2ichbnRy9 Link to 2352 of Catechism: https://www.usccb.org/sites/default/files/flipbooks/catechism/566/ "2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved." To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability." #harrisonbutker #naturalfamilyplanning #kansascitychiefs #benedictine #taylormarshall #humanaevitae #marquettemethod #Catholicbirthcontrol #mortalsin #venialsin #catholiccatechism The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

Menopause and what it means for us Catholics. Craig and Jeannie Part 2.

29 maj 2024 | 54 min

Episode 221: "Don't scratch every itch" and other silly stuff good Catholics say about sex.

29 maj 2024 | 24 min

Episode 220: The Agony of the Garden and other mysteries of women and marriage.

22 maj 2024 | 21 min

Episode 219: Does Natural Family Planning make your marriage better? It's a thorny issue!

19 maj 2024 | 32 min

Episode 218: More kids? If I were a rich man. Ya ba dibba dibba dibba dibba dibba dibba dum.

15 maj 2024 | 23 min

Episode 217: John Michael Talbot interview. Talking community, chastity, and discernment.

12 maj 2024 | 56 min

John Michael Talbot joins the Uncharted Catholic Man for a wonderful discussion of faith, music, and community. * John Michael Talbot discusses his new book and music, and the amazing story behind them * Monasticism and community have much to offer the Church * why is the Traditional Latin Mass growing in popularity * discussing celibacy and chasity for members of religious monastic communities * considering a monastic vocation? Come visit Little Portion Hermitage. John Michael Talbot is a multi-platinum selling, Grammy / Dove award winning Contemporary Catholic / Christian Music pioneer. His music has been the soundtrack to the faith journey of millions of believers throughout the world! Late Have I Loved You is his 59th album and will be released February 14, 2024! A Best-Selling (and prolific) author, John Michael’s 37th book, "The Lord's Supper: A Eucharistic Revival" was published in 2023. His 38th publication, and first ever autobiography, "Late Have I Loved You" will be published February 14, 2024! In 2019 John Michael established his "Inner Room of Spirituality" - an online teaching community designed to lead you into a deeper relationship with Christ and His Church through the wisdom of Scripture, Monasticism, Community Living and the teachings of the Church Fathers. John Michael lives and leads the monastic life, which overflows into his very active ministry from Little Portion Hermitage in Arkansas, where he is the Founder and General Minister of the Catholic based community The Brothers and Sisters of Charity. Official Website: www. JohnMichaelTalbot.com Label: Troubadour for the Lord Publishing The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email [email protected] #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #intimacy

Episode 2 (C&J): An ugly husband makes a happy wife. What can turkeys teach these podcast turkeys?

8 maj 2024 | 20 min

Episode 216: Captain John Farrell returns and tries to chart us back to the nature of marriage.

5 maj 2024 | 86 min

Episode 1 (C&J): From Mountain Dew addict to Podcast model: a true tale of redemption.

1 maj 2024 | 13 min

Episode 215: Bond. James Marriage Bond. The trials and tribulations of Natural Family Planning.

28 april 2024 | 24 min

Episode 214: Coitus Inoculus: Not even rabies can keep this podcaster down.

24 april 2024 | 27 min

Episode 213: NFP & Catholic marriage is really hard. That's what she said!

21 april 2024 | 41 min

Episode 212: Jonah agrees to wrestle Taylor Marshall, the Whale of Traditional Catholicism.

17 april 2024 | 25 min

Episode 211: Divine Mercy controversy: Lord have mercy on those naughty swing dancers.

14 april 2024 | 32 min

Episode 210: Taylor Marshall blocked us, Swing Dancing is evil, & Uncharted Catholic Matrix update!

10 april 2024 | 31 min

Episode 209: Celibacy vs. Catholic marriage. Which is actually tougher? And is NFP sinful to use?

6 april 2024 | 159 min

Episode 208: Former Trads debate NFP Catholic swingers, Other Acts, and other pressing topics.

3 april 2024 | 91 min

Episode 207: Uncharted Catholic Matrix: Have we been looking at Marital Intimacy all wrong?

31 mars 2024 | 39 min

Episode 206: What came first, the chicken or scrupulosity? This is no laughing matter!

27 mars 2024 | 17 min

Episode 205: Marital Debt Collectors Unite! Are you even Catholic if you don't love Marital Debt?

24 mars 2024 | 78 min

Episode 204: There's no place like home: doggy style

20 mars 2024 | 23 min

Episode 203: NFP is just like contraception and that’s why almost nobody uses it. 🤷‍♂️

17 mars 2024 | 58 min

Episode 202: Chasing cats and fleeing concupiscence! Lie WITH your wife, not TO your wife!

13 mars 2024 | 23 min

Intermission: recapping Episode 200 and looking ahead for the Uncharted Catholic Man

10 mars 2024 | 20 min

Episode 201: Theology of the Body and female pleasure--where do we go from here?

6 mars 2024 | 59 min

Episode 200: "Other Acts" in marriage: What do Catholics believe and why?

4 mars 2024 | 114 min

1. What do Church documents say about Other Acts? 2. What are the reasons behind the Church documents and teachings? 3. What are common objections to a ban on "other acts" if that's what the Church teaches? Link to Episode 200 Intro: https://youtu.be/2KiODByzYj4 For updates on this issue and the citations discussed, please subscribe to our newsletter: https://ucman.mailchimpsites.com [email protected] Christopher West Episodes on "Other Acts" Part 1: Episode 164: https://youtu.be/AhWZkPH6KDc Part 2: Episode 166: https://youtu.be/N4Wa8YYq-8I Primacy of Conscience Episodes: Episode 196: Personal conscience vs. Catholic teaching. Interview with former NFL chaplain. https://youtu.be/MM_dAsv9VNQ Episode 198: When conscience collides with Catholic teaching. Interview with "Essence-tial Catholic". https://youtu.be/SVJ0F1CZbew References (as of 3/2/24) Catechism of the Catholic Church: * 2350: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2350.htm * 2351: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2351.htm * 2352: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2352.htm (full text below) * 2360: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2360.htm * 2362: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2362.htm * 2366: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2366.htm * 2367: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2367.htm * 2368: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2368.htm * 2369: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2369.htm * 2370: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2370.htm * 2371: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2371.htm * 2372: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2372.htm Humanae Vitae: (paragraphs 11, 12, 13, 14) * https://www.vatican.va/content/paul-vi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae.html Casti Cannubii: (paragraph 55) * https://www.vatican.va/content/pius-xi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-xi_enc_19301231_casti-connubii.html Amoris Laetitia (Paragraph 80) * https://www.vatican.va/content/dam/francesco/pdf/apost_exhortations/documents/papa-francesco_esortazione-ap_20160319_amoris-laetitia_en.pdf Persona Humana: (paragraph 9) *https://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/documents/rc_con_cfaith_doc_19751229_persona-humana_en.html Lumen Gentium (paragraph 25) * https://www.vatican.va/archive/hist_councils/ii_vatican_council/documents/vat-ii_const_19641121_lumen-gentium_en.html Pope Pius XII: * Allocation to Midwives (October 29, 1951): https://www.ewtn.com/catholicism/library/allocution-to-midwives-8965 *Address to participants of the Second World Congress on fertility and sterility (May 19, 1956): https://www.catechism.cc/pdf/Pius-XII-Address-1956.pdf Karol Wojtyla (John Paul II): * Love and Responsibility (page 271, Christopher West: * Good News about Sex & Marriage (pg. 92) Trent Horn: * What's Okay for Married Couples to do (link needed) Section 2352: "2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved." To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability."

Intro to Episode 200: "Other Acts" in marriage: What do Catholics believe and why? (link below)

3 mars 2024 | 11 min

1. What do Church documents say about Other Acts? 2. What are the reasons behind the Church documents and teachings? 3. What are common objections to a ban on "other acts" if that's what the Church teaches? Link to Episode 200: https://youtu.be/HoDhr8fSMQQ For updates on this issue and the citations discussed, please subscribe to our newsletter: https://ucman.mailchimpsites.com Christopher West Episodes on "Other Acts" Part 1: Episode 164: https://youtu.be/AhWZkPH6KDc Part 2: Episode 166: https://youtu.be/N4Wa8YYq-8I Primacy of Conscience Episodes: Episode 196: Personal conscience vs. Catholic teaching. Interview with former NFL chaplain. https://youtu.be/MM_dAsv9VNQ Episode 198: When conscience collides with Catholic teaching. Interview with "Essence-tial Catholic". https://youtu.be/SVJ0F1CZbew References (as of 3/2/24) Catechism of the Catholic Church: * 2350: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2350.htm * 2351: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2351.htm * 2352: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2352.htm (full text below) * 2360: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2360.htm * 2362: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2362.htm * 2366: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2366.htm * 2367: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2367.htm * 2368: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2368.htm * 2369: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2369.htm * 2370: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2370.htm * 2371: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2371.htm * 2372: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2372.htm Humanae Vitae: (paragraphs 11, 12, 13, 14) * https://www.vatican.va/content/paul-vi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae.html Casti Cannubii: (paragraph 55) * https://www.vatican.va/content/pius-xi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-xi_enc_19301231_casti-connubii.html Amoris Laetitia (Paragraph 80) * https://www.vatican.va/content/dam/francesco/pdf/apost_exhortations/documents/papa-francesco_esortazione-ap_20160319_amoris-laetitia_en.pdf Persona Humana: (paragraph 9) *https://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/documents/rc_con_cfaith_doc_19751229_persona-humana_en.html Lumen Gentium (paragraph 25) * https://www.vatican.va/archive/hist_councils/ii_vatican_council/documents/vat-ii_const_19641121_lumen-gentium_en.html Pope Pius XII: * Allocation to Midwives (October 29, 1951): https://www.ewtn.com/catholicism/library/allocution-to-midwives-8965 *Address to participants of the Second World Congress on fertility and sterility (May 19, 1956): https://www.catechism.cc/pdf/Pius-XII-Address-1956.pdf Karol Wojtyla (John Paul II): * Love and Responsibility (page 271, Christopher West: * Good News about Sex & Marriage (pg. 92) Trent Horn: * What's Okay for Married Couples to do (link needed) The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism; #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #endsofmarriage

What does Christopher West say about "Other Acts" Part 2 (previously 166)

2 mars 2024 | 40 min

Episode 199: Why are Catholics leaving the faith? Talking love and lust with former Catholic.

25 februari 2024 | 113 min

* Is sex the main reason people are leaving the Catholic Church? * What's the basis for the Catholic Church's teaching on sex and is it persuasive? * What is "teleology" as it is a persuasive structure for moral living? * Should we even encourage our children to get married? * What is the role of conscience in the life of a Catholic? * What happens when Traditional Catholics find their faith escaping? * Should we trust Marian apparitions like Fatima, Lourdes? * Should we trust approved Eucharistic miracles? Kevin is the host of the Kevin Nontradicath podcast. Link: http://www.youtube.com/@NontraditionalCatholic Kevin's bio: "Hello friend, my name is Kevin, and I am the Nontraditional ex-Catholic. I grew up going to the TLM, at an FSSP chapel in New Jersey , USA, that was founded by my grandparents. While I no longer consider myself a practicing Catholic, I am still as Catholic as an atheist Jewish man is still Jewish. That is to say, Traditional Catholicism is my culture. This channel will serve as an outlet for my thoughts - about why I am not a practicing Catholic, and about what I believe and why." #TraditionalCatholic #TLM #FSSP #Tradition #LatinMass #SSPX #Fatima #Loures #EucharsticMiracles #NatrualLaw #Teleology The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism; #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #endsofmarriage

Countdown to Episode 200: What does Christopher West say about "Other Acts" Part 1 (previously 164)

21 februari 2024 | 39 min

Episode 198: When conscience collides with Catholic teaching. Interview with "Essence-tial Catholic"

18 februari 2024 | 107 min

Episode 197: Most NFP Catholics would use birth control if the Church allowed it.

14 februari 2024 | 62 min

Episode 196: Personal conscience vs. Catholic teaching. Interview with former NFL chaplain.

11 februari 2024 | 115 min

* Personal Conscience vs. Catholic teaching * Interview with Leo Armbrust, former chaplain to Miami Dolphins and University of Miami football * Human touch: the real struggle of celibacy * The profound effects of loneliness on human well being. * The importance of self-acceptance and self-forgiveness * The rise of clericalism * From priestly ministry to society's forgotten and lost * Virtue is doing things because they are right, not to avoid punishment Leo Armbrust was Ordained a Catholic priest on May 14, 1977. He served in ministry from South Miami to Stuart. He's the former Director of Campus Ministry, Director of Communications, Diocesan Director of the Florida Catholic. He is the former team chaplain for the University of Miami and Miami Dolphins football teams, 1983-2005. Leo Armbrust was born in Ohio and has been a resident of Florida since 1959. He attended St. John Vianney Minor Seminary (Miami); St. Vincent de Paul Major Seminary (Boynton Beach); and the University of Miami (Coral Gables) He holds a B.A. in Philosophy, cum laude a M. Div., magna cum laude, a M.Th., cum laude, and M.S. Ed Leo Armbrust is the former Director of the televised Mass on WPTV, and Founder of Renaissance Village, now Vita Nova, a facility for at-risk youth He's a Member of Iron Arrow Honor Society, the highest award of the University of Miami He was Inducted into the Palm Beach County Sports Hall of Fame in 2010 He's a Motivational speaker, retreat director, lecturer, professor, counselor, and author of (“Only The Wounded May Serve”). https://www.amazon.com/dp/069279123X?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_HK5CXFBNWK2PPAE29S6G The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism; #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #endsofmarriage #conscience #celibacy #superbowl

Episode 195: Traditional Catholic morality and the 21st Century--friends or foes?

7 februari 2024 | 38 min

Episode 194: Conceivable! The moral dilemma for faithful Catholics and responsible parenthood.

4 februari 2024 | 31 min

Episode 193: 2352 Shades of Gray--quest for clarity on the biggest theological issue of our time

31 januari 2024 | 20 min

Episode 192: The Catholic voter now that Roe v. Wade is gone. Thomas Polega returns to discuss.

28 januari 2024 | 104 min

Episode 191: Rebels with a just cause: Saving marriage with ice baths and living marital debt free.

24 januari 2024 | 47 min

Episode 190: St. Joseph vs. St. Peter: which is the better model of chastity for Catholic men?

21 januari 2024 | 37 min

Episode 189: Shipwrecked again in the Uncharted waters of NFP and abstinence still sucks.

17 januari 2024 | 37 min

Episode 188: Traditional Catholic orders his household. Master of his domain or red pilled menace?

14 januari 2024 | 25 min

Episode 187: Uncharted Catholic News: Brittany Spears and Cardinal Burke walk in to a shoe store

10 januari 2024 | 12 min

Episode 186: Amish having more whoopee and is exercise an occasion of sin? Thomas Polega joins us!

8 januari 2024 | 103 min

Episode 185: Letter vs Spirit. Are Conservative Catholics defenders of truth or modern Pharisees?

3 januari 2024 | 38 min

Episode 184: Adventures in abstinence, Confession scares, and Communion line alibis.

31 december 2023 | 25 min

Episode 183: Corn flakes and soccer a day keep the solo away. And when that fails, go to confession.

27 december 2023 | 32 min

Episode 182: Catholic Shades of Gray: Is Theology of the Body just Catholic purity culture?

24 december 2023 | 48 min

Episode 181: Nocturnal eviction: fact or fiction? Hopefully the NFP instructor doesn't see this.

20 december 2023 | 27 min

Episode 180: Confessions from Down Under. A listener from Australia shares his struggles and triumph

17 december 2023 | 76 min

Episode 179: To Chaste or not to Chaste, eh? Unravelling Catholic morality with Canadian podcaster

13 december 2023 | 73 min

Episode 178: Tough NFP conversations: the No Fly List continues for the Uncharted Catholic Man

10 december 2023 | 20 min

Episode 177: Abstinence, sleepless nights, and flying monkeys Just another day in the life of NFP.

6 december 2023 | 30 min

Episode 176: Interview (Part 2) with TikTok phenom, the Christian S_xpert

3 december 2023 | 55 min

12.1.23: Stop worrying about whether sex is a "need" for your husband. Ask this instead.

1 december 2023 | 6 min

11.30.23 Catholics Guys: If you want better marriage intimacy, you have to isolate the porn first.

30 november 2023 | 8 min

Episode 175: Interview (Part 1) with TikTok phenom and intimacy coach, the Christian S_xpert

29 november 2023 | 68 min

11.29.23: Is Theology of the Body the Catholic version of Purity Culture?

29 november 2023 | 8 min

11/28/23: Catholics will struggle with sin and bad habits and that's okay. We want your stories.

28 november 2023 | 7 min

11.27.23: Reflections and hope for an amazing marriage

27 november 2023 | 8 min

Episode 174: Stop playing hooky in your marriage and go learn from the Happy Wife School.

27 november 2023 | 36 min

Episode 173: Solo Scripturo: Do our tricks even work on non-Catholics?

23 november 2023 | 21 min

Help wanted: We're looking for 2-5 hours per week of behind the scenes help on the podcast.

22 november 2023 | 12 min

Any volunteers for Uncharted Catholic Mastermind?

21 november 2023 | 12 min

Uncharted Catholic Man Trailer

21 november 2023 | 1 min

Episode 172: Natural family planning rules are made to be broken, named, and baptized.

20 november 2023 | 26 min

Craig and Jonah discuss the progress in Craig’s household with the new Natural Family Method, the Marquette Method. They discuss NFP in postpartum situations as cycles eventually return. Craig and his wife have been learning the Marquette method, a natural family planning technique, which they have found successful. They have enjoyed its design for transitioning postpartum. Craig explained the rules of the new cycle and the use of a fertility monitor, stating that there is a 10-day window before the start of the next cycle or the first day that the monitor measures high, whichever comes first. He clarified that low readings are safe, high readings indicate approaching ovulation, and peak readings should be avoided. Craig also discussed the challenges of unpredictable fertility in their 40s and acknowledged the role of patience, perseverance, and motivation in trying to avoid pregnancy. Craig discussed Mrs. uncharted’s perception that he couldn’t hold out for the entire abstinence period. He expressed feeling conflicted about defending his honor and missing opportunities. Craig discussed his experiences with Natural Family Planning (NFP), highlighting how it has improved his marriage. He expressed his fears about his wife's increased involvement and understanding of the PMAS process, but also acknowledged that the increased frequency of intimacy has led to a change in desire for both parties. Craig also shared that he used to hate NFP, but now appreciates the care and support it has brought to his marriage. He emphasized the importance of communication in understanding and addressing the needs of men in a relationship. He highlighted that men's intimacy needs are often overlooked and that communication is crucial for understanding how to help a woman with her mental load. Craig also stressed the importance of fulfilling one's partner's love language and expressed hope that their videos could help change people's perspectives on intimacy. He also mentioned the possibility of involving a woman's perspective in their future content to better resonate with the female audience. Section 2363: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2368.htm The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism; #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #endsofmarriage

Alert! Big improvements (changes) coming to podcast soon!

16 november 2023 | 12 min

Episode 171: 4 steps to better and more frequent intimacy in your Catholic Marriage

16 november 2023 | 9 min

Craig and Jonah discuss Craig’s four-part plan for achieving better and more frequent Catholic intimacy in marriage. Step 1: Wife must understand and appreciate appreciate her husband’s “need” for intimacy. 2. Both spouses mutually desire that the man should not take matters into his own hands. 3. The husband must actively and progressively reduce his wife’s mental load, especially with the handling of household chores and childcare. 4. The husband must understand and actively engage in his wife’s love language. These factors are crucial for achieving better and more frequent intimacy in a Catholic family. Craig discussed the importance of understanding and fulfilling his wife's love language, which is quality time. He emphasized the significance of “active listening” and being attentive, even when they are just spending time together. Craig acknowledged that he has been slow to understand this, but has come to realize that this has been a vital missing part of his relationship with his wife for too many years He also shared a recent conversation with his wife about possibly increasing their intimacy during the infertile times of their cycle to motivate him to remain strong during the fertile abstinence times, and discusses her response. 2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved." To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability. Section 2363: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2368.htm The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism; #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #endsofmarriage

Episode 170: Nocturnal Transmission: can Elon Musk save Catholic men?

13 november 2023 | 28 min

Episode 170: Nocturnal Transmission: can Elon Musk save Catholic men?Craig and Jonah discuss advancements in science in technology, and the key differences between how men and women experience sexual pleasure and climax. Jonah discussed scientific research in to harnessing electrical signals in various parts of the body to similar and cause female orgasm. The so-called Orgasmatron. Is a device or pill available to men to cause nocturnal emissions, and would such aids, if they could be designed, be morally licit? Would you use it? Why or why not? The ability to morally and licitly achieve a sexual release, aside from intercourse, could have a monumental impact. For articles on the “orgasmatron”https://www.newscientist.com/article/mg16922773-800-push-my-button/#.UyxvB84YsyYhttps://www.bbc.com/future/article/20140321-orgasms-at-the-push-of-a-buttonNocturnal emission: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_emissionCatechism 2352: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2352.htm2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved."To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability.Section 2363: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2368.htmThe Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism; #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #endsofmarriage

Episode 169: A listener threatens to call our bishop, but pulls out and calls in to the show instead

9 november 2023 | 106 min

Craig and Jonah have a lengthy conversation with a newly-married listener named Josh who recently found the podcast and was upset at some of our video clips. After Josh threatened to call our bishop on account of our content, we invited Josh on the show and he graciously accepted the invitation to defend the faith. This episode is our discussion with Josh about his complaints and criticisms, which led to a respectful and productive discussion on topics such as masturbation, marriage, abstinence, addiction, and even Onan. Be sure to like and comment on this episode and let Josh know you appreciate his open and frank discussion with us. Josh discussed his journey as a Catholic, temporary atheist, and past addictions to certain sins of the flesh. And how he came back to the Church, and is a fervent defender of Catholic teaching. We discuss a lot, including masturbation, wet dreams, Aquinas, oral sex, theology of the body, confession, hell, mercy, intimacy, and communication. Here are some links referenced in the show: Short that started controversy: https://youtube.com/shorts/qDYSERtJkVU?feature=share Playlist with Fr. Longenecker: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLX75rIeVl16NVg0zRRdu8bUC-IoGB270r Catechism 2352: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2352.htm 2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved." To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability. Section 2363: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2368.htm 2368 A particular aspect of this responsibility concerns the regulation of procreation. For just reasons, spouses may wish to space the births of their children. It is their duty to make certain that their desire is not motivated by selfishness but is in conformity with the generosity appropriate to responsible parenthood. Moreover, they should conform their behavior to the objective criteria of morality: When it is a question of harmonizing married love with the responsible transmission of life, the morality of the behavior does not depend on sincere intention and evaluation of motives alone; but it must be determined by objective criteria, criteria drawn from the nature of the person and his acts, criteria that respect the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love; this is possible only if the virtue of married chastity is practiced with sincerity of heart.

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Episode 167. From Occam to Galileo, weird dreams to white lies, why do all roads lead back to Onan?

5 november 2023 | 41 min

Episode 167. From Occam to Galileo, weird dreams to white lies, why do all roads lead back to Onan?Craig and Jonah discuss the challenges and demands of parenting, balancing work and family, and how tough it is to be a good husband and father during the best of times. They discuss how abstinence and less intimacy, which results in PMAS (post marital act syndrome) makes these responsibilities more difficult.Jonah is visited in a dream by Craig, who tells everyone to go to confession if you fall in to solo sin. Frequent confession, whether you struggle with sexual sins of lust, masturbation, or porn or not, is just a good practice for Catholic men and women. A recent YouTube short when “viral” by our meager standards, and led to some very nice discussions and invitations for interviews for people to discuss their stories and lived experiences. https://youtube.com/shorts/qDYSERtJkVU?si=O3YYAwZr-pAVeswBCraig puts on his heretic hat for a moment and engage in some speculative theology as to what God really does and really doesn’t care about when it comes to sexual morality. Occam’s razor: “This philosophical razor advocates that when presented with competing hypotheses about the same prediction, one should prefer the one that requires the fewest assumptions[3] and that this is not meant to be a way of choosing between hypotheses that make different predictions.” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Occam%27s_razorDoes man and the Church’s past struggles with fitting our experience and observations in to an earth centered universe, bear any resemblance to the seeming complexity of the traditional nothings of man, sex, and concupiscence? Jonah is visited in a dream by the ghost of Craig, who tells everyone to go to confession if you fall in to solo sin.A recent YouTube short when “viral” by our meager standards, and led to some very nice discussions and invitations for interviews for people to discuss their stories and lived experiences. https://youtube.com/shorts/qDYSERtJkVU?si=O3YYAwZr-pAVeswB"2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved."To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability."#catholicpodcast #onan #onanfans #oldtestament #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic

ALERT: changes coming to podcast channel and help wanted!

4 november 2023 | 9 min

Some important and (hopefully) helpful changes are coming to the podcast.1. Full episodes will remain available, in audio, on the audio side (e.g. Spotify, Apple, etc.).2. Full video episodes will be unlisted on the YouTube Channel, and under an unlisted Playlist called the "Unfiltered Catholic Man". If you wish to have access to full video episodes, go to the link tree and email us and put "email list" in the subject line and indicate you want to be added to unfiltered videos.3. We will put out a public, shortened clip on the normal public channel. We may include links to the unlisted videos so you can access without an email list. 4. We're looking for a volunteer to help with the behind the scenes stuff. Basically, helping take the video content and have it saved and uploaded to YouTube and Spotify. Editing not required unless you want to. If you like generating clips, shorts, and reels, we'd love to have some help. This is a volunteer position (for now at least), but Jonah and I are just limited by our time to generate the quality content you want and deserve, and to help this channel reach more people. Email us if you are interested. The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism; #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #endsofmarriage

Episode 166. Christopher West answers our tough questions. Or does he? (Part 2)

1 november 2023 | 41 min

Christopher West is the face of the Theology of the Body in most Catholic circles, aside from Pope John Paul II himself (Karol Wojtyła). Craig wrote to Christopher West and asked him two questions. Question 1: What does the Church teach about the morality or licitness of "other acts" (i.e. those acts between a husband and wife that result in climax but don't involve or occur at the time of intercourse. Question 2: Why does the Church teach that, and what is the harm that he believes comes to marriage. Craig and Jonah listen to part of his response, and offer their commentary on what he said and whether and how persuasive it is. What do you think of Christopher West's explanation? Is it persuasive? And is it persuasive only to those who already believe, or is it also persuasive to those who don't already believe what the Catholic Church teaches about birth control, contraception, masturbation, and acts of intimacy between husband and wife. Link to Episode 164 (Part 1): https://youtu.be/AhWZkPH6KDc?si=ifBXGA0W2Tv33fhK Link to Episode 166 (part 2): https://youtu.be/N4Wa8YYq-8I Link to Christopher West Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ask-christopher-west/id1448699486?i=1000631441810 (Minutes 30:25 to 45:43) Episode 141: id we solve Onan? https://youtu.be/KKEwzknUHY8 Onan Fans playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLX75rIeVl16Nt0ErX3rS1ShTRV4pWng4U Taylor Marshall on Onan: https://taylormarshall.com/2017/11/god-really-kill-onan-spilling-seed-something-else.html Humanae Vitae: https://www.vatican.va/content/paul-vi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae.htmlEpisode 162: Story of Onan and the Dark Passages of Scripture. https://youtu.be/Gb7HH12E6yY Section 2352: "2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved." To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability." #catholicpodcast #ChristopherWest #tobinstitute #johnpaul2 #KarolWojtyła #loveandresponsibility #endsofmarriage #catholicmorality #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #onanfans #onan #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism.

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1 november 2023 | 3 min

Episode 164. Christopher West answers our tough questions. Or does he? (Part 1)

29 oktober 2023 | 39 min

Christopher West is the face of the Theology of the Body in most Catholic circles, aside from Pope John Paul II himself (Karol Wojtyła). Craig wrote to Christopher West and asked him two questions. Question 1: What does the Church teach about the morality or licitness of "other acts" (i.e. those acts between a husband and wife that result in climax but don't involve or occur at the time of intercourse. Question 2: Why does the Church teach that, and what is the harm that he believes comes to marriage. Craig and Jonah listen to part of his response, and offer their commentary on what he said and whether and how persuasive it is. What do you think of Christopher West's explanation? Is it persuasive? And is it persuasive only to those who already believe, or is it also persuasive to those who don't already believe what the Catholic Church teaches about birth control, contraception, masturbation, and acts of intimacy between husband and wife. Link to Episode 164 (Part 1): https://youtu.be/AhWZkPH6KDc?si=ifBXGA0W2Tv33fhK Link to Episode 166 (part 2): https://youtu.be/N4Wa8YYq-8I Link to Christopher West Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ask-christopher-west/id1448699486?i=1000631441810 (Minutes 30:25 to 45:43) Episode 141: id we solve Onan? https://youtu.be/KKEwzknUHY8 Onan Fans playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLX75rIeVl16Nt0ErX3rS1ShTRV4pWng4U Taylor Marshall on Onan: https://taylormarshall.com/2017/11/god-really-kill-onan-spilling-seed-something-else.html Humanae Vitae: https://www.vatican.va/content/paul-vi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae.htmlEpisode 162: Story of Onan and the Dark Passages of Scripture. https://youtu.be/Gb7HH12E6yY Section 2352: "2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved." To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability." #catholicpodcast #ChristopherWest #tobinstitute #johnpaul2 #KarolWojtyła #loveandresponsibility #endsofmarriage #catholicmorality #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #onanfans #onan #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism.

Episode 168: Prudential Catholic Podcasting v. Uncharted Catholic Man

27 oktober 2023 | 18 min

Episode 163: Catholic Gymnastics: During or after. But not before. And not more 20 minutes.

25 oktober 2023 | 27 min

"In his podcast today, Christopher West seemed to contend that the female orgasm is intertwined with procreation because it can assist the female body in drawing the sperm up inside where conception occurs. Does this support the distinction the priest in question is making? It absolutely baffles my mind that these critical questions affecting Catholic married couples do not seem to have a clear and uniform response by the Church." "The research doesn't support that across the board. There is some research that says orgasm can help with conception and some research that says it doesn't help. It's a difficult thing to research in an ethical way so it actually makes sense that we don't have answers. The body is still a mystery and we as humans as an image of God, it actually makes a lot of sense that we don't understand everything about our body because we can never understand everything about God. Philosophizing in this way is part of being human and part of the journey toward God. We'll never have all the answers, but we have more answers than we did in 1930 when castii conuubi came out, and we can thank God for that. But if we frustrate our journey toward God with an insistence on having all the answers, we're going to have a very hard time getting closer to him. Sometimes we have to admit that orgasm is a mystery we don't yet fully understand and we may never understand. What Christopher West was ultimately trying to get to us that there is some merit to simultaneously experiencing orgasm. But it's also not a necessity in a full sexual act. What exactly that merit is, we don't yet fully understand, and that's kind of exciting because it means we can continue to learn and pray and ask God for guidance. Some of the greatest saints came out of times when there was not clarity on big issues of the church. Things like the iconoclast heresy, the skism, etc. I agree wholeheartedly with something Christopher West says a lot that this period of time in our Church will build some incredible saints." #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #intimacy #physicalintimacy #emotionalintimacy #marriage #marriageadvice

Episode 165: Post Marital Act Syndrome, masturbation, and do men really need sex and intimacy?

24 oktober 2023 | 26 min

Episode 162: Story of Onan and the Dark Passages of Scripture

22 oktober 2023 | 14 min

Reflections on NFP, abstinence and self mastery (a/k/a self misery) (BONUS CONTENT)

22 oktober 2023 | 9 min

Episode 161: What are sexless marriages, why are they so common, and can anything be done about it?

18 oktober 2023 | 29 min

Episode 160: Frequency of Intimacy affects marriage conflict

15 oktober 2023 | 15 min

Episode 159: You must stop the p_orn use for us to help your marriage. (BONUS CONTENT)

14 oktober 2023 | 7 min

Episode 158: Kamas Sutramus: a field guide for Catholic married couples

11 oktober 2023 | 17 min

Episode 157: My wife can make me question my very existence.

8 oktober 2023 | 22 min

Episode 156: Paris Hilton and the Theology of the Body Count (BONUS CONTENT)

6 oktober 2023 | 12 min

Episode 155: Masterdebate: is porn the same as having an affair?

4 oktober 2023 | 17 min

Episode 154: We were shocked to learn that more intimacy makes your marriage better.

1 oktober 2023 | 24 min

Episode 153. Putting out beats pulling out--why did God love Soloman and kill Onan?

28 september 2023 | 19 min

Episode 152: Is sex a need for #Catholic men, or do they need to control their #concupiscence? #NFP

25 september 2023 | 21 min

Episode 151: Origen’s razor: Lopping them off for the kingdom? From soulmates to roommates.

21 september 2023 | 39 min

Episode 150: Oral Sex and Catholic legalism: what does the Church say about it and why?

17 september 2023 | 23 min

Episode 149: Craig and Jonah welcome new viewers

16 september 2023 | 16 min

Episode 147: What's the ideal bedroom frequency?

14 september 2023 | 15 min

Welcome new listeners and intro to the channel

13 september 2023 | 7 min

Episode 146: stop comparing porn and masturbation to infidelity

10 september 2023 | 41 min

Episode 145: Quickie Controversy, what does the Theology of the Body say about quickies?

7 september 2023 | 43 min

Craig: “Perhaps the husband that is asking for a quickie is not trying to be selfish, but is simply trying to remain chaste and not fall in to sin.”Moderator: “This is where self-control is required in remaining out of sin. It's still a sin to use your wife only for sexual pleasure and not prioritizing her pleasure. The husband's job in sex is to give his wife the gift of pleasure and the wife's job is the opposite. Simply using the wife for sexual release in order to "stay out of sin" is still use of a person and is at odds with the dignity of the human person.”Craig: “"This is where self-control is required in remaining out of sin. It's still a sin to use your wife only for sexual pleasure and not prioritizing her pleasure." I wish I could convey the amount of spiritual pain and guilt many Catholic men quietly carry around with them every day, and in and out of the confessional, as they try to faithfully follow all these teachings. It truly feels like an impossible task much of the time. This is the quiet agony of the cross many men, myself in included for man years, carry as we try to navigate Catholic moral theology. I'm very grateful that my beloved wife was willing to embrace this cross and help me carry it.”Moderator: “And Craig on the flip side of that, I wish I could convey the deep pain of women who feel objectified and used within their marriages by the person who is supposed to be sacrificing himself as Christ did for his bride the church. Marriage is made of fallen people. It's never going to be easy. It will get harder and harder as God calls us to greater holiness. We are always called to do the hard work to grow toward grace. And it will be physically and emotionally hard and it may at times feel impossible. Countless saints have said that the path to holiness looks impossible to many, but it is the righteous who lean on Jesus to guide them through what would be impossible for human beings alone, but it is not impossible with God. The "impossible" factor is what separates the saints, we know that NOTHING is impossible with God.”Craig: “"I wish I could convey the deep pain of women who feel objectified and used within their marriages by the person who is supposed to be sacrificing himself as Christ did for his bride the church." I respect this perspective 100%, with one caveat. The key distinction between men and women in these divergent crosses is that, for the man, failure is said to be a mortal sin and warranting eternity in hell. A single act of masturbation, or lusting after his wife when he just craves a sexual release, is potentially a mortal sin that cuts him off from God. Forever. That is what we are told to believe as Catholics. That is what the husband is waging war with every day of his life when it comes to his body and his sexual desires, which seem intent on dragging him to hell if the Church's teachings on this are to be believed. His only respite from this war is intimacy with his wife. Some men turn to masturbation rather than burdening their wives with their bodily needs, especially if they are going to be told they are being selfish if they ask for it more than their wives are willing or able. So a husband finds himself in this battle for his very salvation, as he further adds to it the worry that he is objectifying his wife, which he does not want. And his reward is to be told he's just selfish, and needs to exercise more self control.”#catholicpodcast #catholic #quickies #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #theologyofthebody #objectify #selfish #salvation #salvation #confession #2352Project

Episode 144: Is everyone in hell for sexual sins?

4 september 2023 | 11 min

Episode 143: The Mad Trad Piano Controversy

31 augusti 2023 | 14 min

Episode 142: What if Christopher West is wrong about abstinence?

28 augusti 2023 | 30 min

Episode 141: Did we just solve the mystery of Onan’s death?

25 augusti 2023 | 14 min

Part 2 of Episode 140: Talking marriage, sex, and sin with Catholic married priest

21 augusti 2023 | 22 min

Part 1 of Episode 140: Conversion Story of married Catholic priest.

21 augusti 2023 | 14 min

Episode 140: Talking marriage, sex, and sin with married priest.

21 augusti 2023 | 38 min

Episode 139: Make Confession Boring Again

18 augusti 2023 | 7 min

Episode 138: Seed retention super power?

16 augusti 2023 | 12 min

Episode 137: Huge fight about circumcision

14 augusti 2023 | 20 min

Episode 135: Plot Twist: Onan was eaten by a shark

11 augusti 2023 | 17 min

Episode 134: Closing the masturbation gap

9 augusti 2023 | 17 min

Episode 133: Is sex an idol if you can't go a year without it?

7 augusti 2023 | 33 min

Episode 132: Three pillars of (the cross of) Catholic marital morality

4 augusti 2023 | 11 min

Episode 131: 21st wedding anniversary chat

3 augusti 2023 | 13 min

Episode 130: Less work and more leisure to a better marriage.

1 augusti 2023 | 9 min

Episode 129: Talking NFP (failures) with Mrs. Uncharted Catholic Man

30 juli 2023 | 27 min

Episode 128: Interruptus Scrupulous--stay deep

28 juli 2023 | 11 min

Episode 126: Bliss is better than Brandy

28 juli 2023 | 11 min

Episode 124: PMAS and where's my luteal phase excuse?

28 juli 2023 | 10 min

Episode 121: Why do we talk about sex so much and a tip for you

28 juli 2023 | 19 min

Episode 119: Why I'm no longer a Traditionalist Catholic

28 juli 2023 | 21 min

Episode 118: Taylor Marshall is wrong and I may be a heretic too

28 juli 2023 | 30 min

Episode 117: Don't starve your marriage of intimacy

28 juli 2023 | 13 min

Episode 115: Onan Fans

28 juli 2023 | 10 min

Episode 114: No Solo November

28 juli 2023 | 17 min

Episode 109: Homesteading--the good the bad and the ugly

28 juli 2023 | 37 min

Episode 108: Is Marriage supposed to be pure suffering--a response to Christopher West

28 juli 2023 | 48 min

Episode 107: Medieval Catholic rules for the bedroom.

28 juli 2023 | 23 min

Episode 101: Interview with NFP instructor and catholic sex podcaster

28 juli 2023 | 76 min

Episode 98: Dog Pile on Onan

28 juli 2023 | 11 min

Episode 76: Catholic and Lutherans discuss sex and sin.

28 juli 2023 | 92 min

Episode 67: Long Days and Short Nights: PMAS in real life

28 juli 2023 | 9 min

Episode 63: Handy Andy

28 juli 2023 | 30 min

Episode 60: Great Scott!--The Flesh Capacitor explains men and women once and for all.

28 juli 2023 | 5 min

Episode 59: Interview with Sam Crowley: Motivational Speaker and Podcast Coach

28 juli 2023 | 52 min

Episode 58: Catholic man and Lutheran woman discuss Catholic intimacy rules

28 juli 2023 | 69 min

Episode 57: Interview with the Paranormal (with video)

28 juli 2023 | 78 min

Episode 51: Catholics and haunted houses

28 juli 2023 | 16 min

Episode 47: No you can't use NFP Selfishly

28 juli 2023 | 19 min

Episode 44: Ovulation Oh My! Night club studies to NFP

28 juli 2023 | 22 min

Episode 38: Is Marriage a near occasion of sin?

28 juli 2023 | 16 min

Episode 25: Interview with Kevin Ford

28 juli 2023 | 62 min

Episode 24: Jonah response to the Mission to the Masturbators

28 juli 2023 | 29 min

Episode 7: Interview with intimacy coach

28 juli 2023 | 74 min

Episode 23: Missionary to the Masturbators

28 juli 2023 | 25 min

Episode 20: Tim and Heidi Indahl (Euphrosyne Corner Farm)

28 juli 2023 | 60 min

Episode 19: Clare Short (aka diclara)

28 juli 2023 | 35 min

Episode 8: Interview with intimacy coach 2

28 juli 2023 | 55 min

Episode 128: Interruptus Scrupulous--stay deep

27 juli 2023 | 11 min

Episode 56: Interview with former NFL player and current fitness trainer

27 juli 2023 | 90 min

Episode 50: Adam Lane Smith Interview

27 juli 2023 | 48 min

Episode 126: Bliss is better than Brandy

27 juli 2023 | 11 min

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Episode 274. Abstinence Reloaded: Navigating the Matrix of NFP in Catholic Marriage

Episode 273: P*rn in Catholic Marriage: Are We Going About It All Wrong?

The Conflicted Catholic: Navigating Faith Struggles With Your Kids.

Is Catholic Morality The Cure Or The Culprit For Sexual Wounds In Marriage? (episode 271)

Should The Church Ordain Gay Priests? + NFP Mile High Adventures | Episode 269

Episode 268: This One Time, at Catholic Camp: Talking to Kids about the Birds, the Bees, and NFP

Episode 267: Natural Family Planning: So Easy a Caveman Could Do It.

Episode 266: Confession Dilemmas, Christmas Miracles, and Abundant Abstinence.

Episode 265: Are Women Treated Unfairly in Confession?

Surviving The Desert Of Desire: Navigating NFP With A Relentless Toddler. (Episode 264)

Episode 263: The Great Catholic Abstinence Experiment: Will He Make It to the End?

Episode 262: NFP: Path of Sacrifice or Cult of Suffering?

Episode 261: The Great Celibacy Challenge - Is It Even Worse Than NFP?

Episode 260: Contraception Conundrum: A Catholic Woman's Quest for Peace of Conscience

Episode 259: The Truth About Contraception, NFP, And Conscience: A Candid Discussion With A Priest

Episode 258: Fasting or Abstinence: Which is Easier in Marriage?

Episode 257: Intimacy, Ice Cream, and Angry Neighbors: The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage

Catholic Marriage Survival Guide: Duct Tape, Death Stares & Afternoon Delights (Ep. 256)

Is the Church driving people away with all the sex rules?

Confession Line: Why Women Take Their Time And Men Can't Wait To Escape - Episode 255

Unraveling The Mystery Of Primacy Of Conscience: Livestream Playback

Confessions of a Melancholic Catholic: Constant Quest for Joy and Belief. Episode 254.

Birth Control Battle: Candid Catholic Chat About Contraception and NFP

NFP: The Art of Dodging Kids and Conjugal Acts (Episode 253)

Ice Cream, Intimacy, and the "Fertile Window": Do we actually agree with Timothy Gordon on NFP?

Episode 252: Tied Up in Guilt: The Church's Endless War Against "Self-Abuse"

Episode 251: From Covenant Church to Boston College: A Wicked Good Journey of Faith

Episode 250: Holding Firm: A Stimulating Look at the History of Masturbation in Catholic Thought.

Episode 249: Magic Wands and Marital Debt: Speculative Theology Or Heresy?

Episode 248: "Give Me Intimacy Or Give Me Death". Tales from the Heart of the Uncharted Catholic Man

No regular UCM episode this week

Episode 247: Inquisition of Catholic Man Before His Wedding. Mortuus Ambulans

Episode 246: Why Men Crave Intimacy And Does Church Teaching Make the Conjugal Act a Need?

Episode 245: Talking Hell, Confession, Scrupulosity, Judgment, and Hope with Catholic Priest.

Episode 244: Talking NFP, Intimacy, and Happy Catholic Marriage with Ordinary Catholic!

Episode 243: Does Your Catholic Marriage Feel like a Minefield or a Farmfield?

"Souls Must Be Able to Go To Hell Because of Free Will". The Fundamental Problem with this Argument.

Rant Against The Fake NFP Apologists. Update on UCM's Sickness

ONAN DOWN: No UCM Video this week

Episode 242: The Problem of Natural Law in Catholic Sexual Ethics

Episode 241: Which is Worse for Marriage: Other Acts Between Spouses or Soul Crushing Abstinence?

Episode 240: NFP Gone Wild: Camping During The Infertile Window.

Episode 239: Can a Man Thrive if his Wife is Unhappy? Catholic Marriage and Grappling Hooks.

Episode 238: Is it Sinful for Catholics NOT to use NFP? NFP goes from Bad to Worse.

Episode 237: Is Hell Empty? Jordan Daniel Wood Discusses Hope vs. Heresy and Universalism.

Episode 236: Marital Wager: Would You Go Back In Time Machine and Start Over or Stay Put?

Episode 235: Lord of the Scruples. A Catholic's Journey to Trad and Back Again.

Episode 234: Catholic Teaching Based on Bad Biology or Good Theology?

Episode 233: Adventures in Babysitting: How Should Catholics Make Time for Intimacy?

Episode 232: NFP High Stakes. Was the Gamble Worth It?

Episode 231: Secret to a long and happy Catholic marriage: cheat code or heresy?

Episode 230: Are you not entertained? Does Catholic media have to be boring?

Episode 229: Being chaste, overcoming loneliness, and forming your conscience as a gay Catholic.

Episode 228: No Pope No Problem! Talking papacy, intimacy, and end times with a Sedevacantist.

Episode 227: Onan's Last Stand. Trads call in the big guns. Then block me anyway.

Episode 226: Mining for Catholic truth: Is there more to sex than Procreation and Unity?

Episode 225: 🎵 Let's get Metaphysical! 🎵 What would Aquinas say about Only Fans?

Episode 224: Planes, Trains, and Abstinence Periods. Why big Catholic families don't go on vacations

Episode 223: Is abstinence harmful to your health? Is body building an occasion of sin?

Episode 222: Can you really abuse NFP? We respond to Harrison Butker speech controversy.

Menopause and what it means for us Catholics. Craig and Jeannie Part 2.

Episode 221: "Don't scratch every itch" and other silly stuff good Catholics say about sex.

Episode 220: The Agony of the Garden and other mysteries of women and marriage.

Episode 219: Does Natural Family Planning make your marriage better? It's a thorny issue!

Episode 218: More kids? If I were a rich man. Ya ba dibba dibba dibba dibba dibba dibba dum.

Episode 217: John Michael Talbot interview. Talking community, chastity, and discernment.

Episode 2 (C&J): An ugly husband makes a happy wife. What can turkeys teach these podcast turkeys?

Episode 216: Captain John Farrell returns and tries to chart us back to the nature of marriage.

Episode 1 (C&J): From Mountain Dew addict to Podcast model: a true tale of redemption.

Episode 215: Bond. James Marriage Bond. The trials and tribulations of Natural Family Planning.

Episode 214: Coitus Inoculus: Not even rabies can keep this podcaster down.

Episode 213: NFP & Catholic marriage is really hard. That's what she said!

Episode 212: Jonah agrees to wrestle Taylor Marshall, the Whale of Traditional Catholicism.

Episode 211: Divine Mercy controversy: Lord have mercy on those naughty swing dancers.

Episode 210: Taylor Marshall blocked us, Swing Dancing is evil, & Uncharted Catholic Matrix update!

Episode 209: Celibacy vs. Catholic marriage. Which is actually tougher? And is NFP sinful to use?