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Why is Everyone Yelling is hosted by Lindsey Hein. Lindsey, who is a mother of four brings a guest on each week to explore different topics related to parenthood. The hope is that you will leave with something that will encourage you in your own parenting in some way big or small.
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Kenna Valdez is joining me on the podcast today! Kenna is the creator behind the account @thefliphubb on Instagram. She is your resource for all things DIY, home flips, and furniture flips. So many cool things that she is doing over there including her new home that they had flipped, a house in the woods that is just too cute!
Kenna is the mom of three. In this episode, we start the conversation talking about her road to motherhood. She has a severe case of endometreosis and knew that becoming a mom would be challenging. She did end up having two children biologically and then they fostered and adopted their third child. We talk about that a lot in this episode. We also talk about how she started her business, what she is passionate about, how she manages her business and motherhood/family life!
What we talked about:
5:10- Her infertility experience
9:30- Her experience with fostering and adopting
16:30- The “balance” of parenting and running a business
17:45- Her house that she flipped
25:15- Getting started with DIY
34:00- Her childcare situation and logistics of their family and business
41:20- End of podcast questions
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Book recommendations:
Remarkably Bright Creatures
The Push
The Whispers
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I am excited to share my conversation with Hailey Magee. This is a conversation all about communication and setting boundaries and how to stop people pleasing. Big conversation, right? Hailey made it fun and manageable, though!
Hailey has a new book out called Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power! I think there are so many good takeaways from this conversation to help you strengthen your relationships in all areas of your lives! There are many types of communicators and learning about the type of communicator that you are and what type those people are around you is SO important to have healthy and happy relationships. We also talked about when to set a boundary and when to push past what is comfortable for you. I want to live in a world where we can have boundaries and we can show up fully for everyone.
This was such a great conversation and I’m so grateful for all of the work that Hailey is putting out into the world!
What we talked about:
4:00- Her book launch
5:00- How she has ended up in this space of helping others heal their people pleasing tendencies
7:10- External versus internal validation
8:15- Being a people pleaser
9:40- Communication types and how we can use that to understand our own relationships
32:10- Deciding when to set boundaries
38:00- Giving yourself the space to change your mind
44:20- Growth in her business
46:20- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
The Good Enough Job
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Elise Loehnen is on the podcast today! She is the author of On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good. This book weaves together history, memoir, and cultural criticism to explore the ways patriarchy lands in the bodies of women and embeds itself in our consciousness. Elise also hosts the podcast Pulling the Thread. If you are into spirituality at all and are interested in hearing from spiritual elders and wise thinkers those are some really great conversations over there! Elise has co-written/ghost written 12 other books.
In this conversation, we focus on raising emotionally healthy boys. This is hard to do because it’s a cultural thing not just something that happens inside our own homes! We talk about envy, something women tend to struggle with. We talk about how women are givers and why that is. I have a lot of spiritual questions (of course!) I love that this is one of the things that she focuses on in her work and it was so fun to pick her brain!
This is a wide-ranging conversation and I had SO much fun chatting with Elise!
Show notes:
Elise’s Website
Check out Elise’s book
Book recommendations:
Falling Upwards
The Universal Christ
The Wisdom Pattern
The Amen Effect
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Julie Bogart is back on the show today!
Julie Bogart has a book called Raising Critical Thinkers. Julie is the creator and owner of Brave Writer, an online writing and language arts program.
In this episode, we talk about what happens when our hopes and dreams for our kids do not align with their hopes and dreams for themselves. We also talk about motivating our kids to be a successful person without pushing them in one direction or another. We also talk about relationships with adult parents!
What we talked about:
5:45- Leaning into aging
10:45- Hopes and dreams that we have for our kids
21:35- Allowing your kids to lead the way as they are following their dreams
32:35- Siblings fighting
48:00- Relationships with our adult parents
58:05- Message to younger generations
Show notes:
Julie’s book: Raising Critical Thinkers
Julie on Episode 117 of the Why is Everyone Yelling? Podcast
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Julie Bogart has a book called Raising Critical Thinkers which is mainly what we talked about in this episode. We chat not only about raising critical thinkers but also how to be critical thinkers ourselves. Julie provides passionate & compassionate exploration of what critical thinking is and how to hone this vital skill set in our children.
Julie is the mother of 5 grown children and has so much wisdom to share in this episode! We had such a candid conversation about how to think for ourselves in a world where information is constantly being thrown in our direction.
What we talked about:
2:55- Introduction to Julie
6:00- Becoming critical thinkers
11:30- Teaching our kids how to become critical thinkers
19:00- Critical thinking at school
21:20- Allowing your kids to make critical decisions for themselves
25:40- Entering into conversations with people that we don’t agree with
37:35- Religion while raising kids
44:50- Divorce
52:30- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
Julie’s book: Raising Critical Thinkers
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Dr. Amy Bantham is the founder and CEO of Move to Live More. They have a mission to bring healthcare, health and fitness and communities together to get people active and healthy. Dr. Amy has a book called Move to Live More which is all about trying to help us keep our kids active. Amy also has a podcast related to this topic, which is a fantastic resource. I am so passionate about this topic so I loved having Amy on !
In this episode, we talk about ways to encourage families to get their kids moving more and incorporate being active into just everyday, simple life.
What we talked about:
2:30- Introduction to Amy’s work
6:10- Unstructured activities to increase physical activity for kids
10:00- Keeping girls in sports
17:45- Encouraging your kids to be more active
25:00- Amy’s clients
25:20- The importance of fitness breaks and recess in school
33:10- End of podcast questions
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Sarah Edmondson is on the podcast today! And wow, she has a story! She is a former member of NXIVM. She ended up leaving the group and came forward about things that were happening behind the scenes there. Sarah’s full story as a whistleblower is featured in the CBC podcast “Uncover: Escaping NXIVM” (downloaded over 25 million times) and “The Vow”, the critically acclaimed HBO documentary series on NXIVM.
In 2019, Sarah published Scarred: The True Story of How I Escaped NXIVM, the Cult that Bound My Life, with Kristine Gasbarre. In this tell-all memoir, she shares her story from the moment she takes her first seminar to her harrowing fight to get out of NXIVM, collaborate with the FBI, help others, and heal.
She has a podcast called “A Little Bit Culty” where she helps people understand, heal from, and avoid abusive situations, one little red flag at a time.
Sarah is also the mom of two and we talk in this conversation a bit about how she parents with this knowledge that she has and protecting your kids from people with bad intentions.
I loved this conversation and I hope that you do too!
What we talked about:
3:45- Her work in film and television
4:55- Finding herself in a cult
19:00- MLMs
43:00- Parenting with the knowledge that she has
47:00- End of podcast questions
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Jess Ekstrom is on the podcast today! Jess is an entrepreneur, speaker, and author. She started her own business in college after an internship at Make a Wish. She founded Headbands for Hope where they deliver headbands to kids with illnesses. They have now donated millions of headbands to kids around the country and world.
Jess is now the author of Chasing the Bright Side. She is also the author of the #1 children’s journal on Amazon, Create Your Bright Ideas.
She has a speaking course called Mic Drop Workshop where she empowers women to get on stages and speak and tell their stories. Only 32% of speakers are women so she is on a mission to get more women on stage and get paid to do it!
I found Jess on Instagram from her children’s book and fell in love with her work! I’ve now taken her speaking course and love it!
What we talked about:
4:30- Introduction to Jess’ work
10:50- The shift in public speaking post-pandemic
14:10- Not having it all figured out even when you are speaking on a topic
18:05- Where to even start when writing a speech
20:45- Having confidence with public speaking
26:00- The impact of social media
32:00- Simplifying your life and systems
41:00- Jess’ books
43:00- Chasing positivity
47:25- Her impact from her parents as entrepreneurs
51:45- End of podcast questions
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Book recommendations:
Generation Anxiety
The Rabbit Listened
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This episode is a little bit different, it’s a book club episode! I am doing a monthly book club. I am a big reader myself and I thought why not do a book club!? The book that we read for February was Love, Me by Jessica Saunders! Jessica was able to join us for the book club and it was so much fun to have the author join our conversation! This book was such a fun, engaging read!
Jessica is a lawyer by trade and she has had a lifelong love for reading and writing. In the spring of 2021, she experienced an unthinkable loss of one of her close friends and that encouraged her to go after writing and doing what she loves!
Jessica was so much fun to talk to and it was great to learn about her life, how she became an author, and writing the book! We finish off with a fun listener Q&A!
Please note that this conversation does have some spoilers!!
Oh and don’t forget to join my book club so you can join in on all of these fun conversation – here’s the link to join!
What we talked about:
4:30- Writing her debut novel, Love, Me
8:30- Her writing experience before this novel
12:40- Talking about the book
22:20- Details of writing the book
25:35- Looking at her life as a lawyer and author
27:50- Being drawn to certain characters as an author
30:20- Listener questions
50:00- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
Listen to my episode with Annabel Monaghan
Book suggestions:
The Women by Kristin Hannah
Listen for the Lie
The Astrology House
Dark Matter
Then She Was Gone
Pretty Girls
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I’m excited to be joined by Michelle Dempsey-Multack on the podcast today. She is a certified divorce and coparenting specialist, a bestselling author, and a top one percent podcaster known for her ability to inspire and empower moms through their divorce and coparenting journeys!
This isn’t a topic that I talk about a lot because it is not something that I have ever walked through or plan to walk through but I think it is such an important topic. There really is so much in this episode that she discusses that can help us all be better parents.
Her passion for keeping the kids at the center and putting the children first while not pulling them into the middle of the mess has helped thousands of women find permission to move on confidently.
If this is something that you are walking through, Michelle has so many great resources to lean on.
What we talked about:
3:20- Introduction to Michelle’s work
7:30- Advice for parents that are divorced/coparenting
11:30- Communicating to your kids about the divorce
17:20- Healthy coparenting
25:40- Introduction new partners post-divorce
36:10- End of podcast questions
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Eve Rodsky is joining me today! She is the author of Fair Play and Find Your Unicorn Space. Eve is working to change society one partnership at a time by coming up with a new 21st century solution to an age old problem: women shouldering two-thirds or more of the unpaid domestic work and childcare for their homes and families. Have you ever felt this frustration? That you’re taking a lot of that labor?! That’s because a lot of women do!!
We talk about ways to communicate and how to have a fair play system in your partnership. These things don’t just fall into place. As I listened to Eve’s book, Fair Play, on audible, I was thinking that we really need to have these conversations before we have kids and even before we get married!
Eve’s great message is that we should treat our homes and relationships like organizations. She came up with a game that helps you with life management systems so that you can re-balance the domestic load with your partner and strengthen your relationship!
I hope this conversation helps you with your communication and talking about this stressful topic!!
What we talked about:
3:45- Introduction to Eve’s work
10:00- Fairplay and unpaid labor
18:50- Introducing this into your relationship
30:10- Bringing these conversations with other people in your life
37:45- Dividing out the Fairplay responsibilities
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Keli Reese joins us today and is full of joy, truth, and laughs! She is from Indianapolis and the mom of five. She is a on a mission to help moms replace the ick of guilt with fulfillment and joy. Keli does this as the founder and speaker for Ministry in Mothering.
In this episode, we talk about consequences and discipline and how you have to do it all differently for different kids! I took this hour to see if Keli could walk me through one of my current parenting struggles, and she delivered!!
I really think that you are going to walk away from this episode with a smile because Keli does everything with so much joy!!
What we talked about:
00:30- Catching up with Keli
5:20- Disciplining our kids
15:15- How to discipline each of our kids differently
23:00- Birthday celebrations
26:55- Parenting talk
39:00- Leaving her teaching career
44:50- Her church experience and raising her kids in the church
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Zibby Owens is the host of the podcast, Moms Don’t Have Time to Read Books. She puts out a daily show where she interviews authors. Daily?!?! What! She is also the owner of a local book shop Zibby Media. She hosts retreats and book clubs. Right now, she is touring because her new book Blank just came out! She is also the author of a memoir called Bookends: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Literature. She also has her own publishing house – how cool is that!?
I’m so fascinated by the fact that she really launched this career after she turned 40 and got divorced. I love hearing success stories of people on different timelines! This is such a good reminder to keep chasing your dreams.
Of course this podcast is FULL of great book recommendations.
What we talked about:
6:45- Zibby’s podcast
8:10- Her career taking off after she turned 40
13:20- The origin of her podcast
18:30- Owning a bookstore
21:35- Her decision making process
24:00- Book culture
28:35- Running a book club
30:00- All the book talk
36:35- Her new book, Blank
38:50- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
Order Blank (Zibby’s new novel!!)
Book recommendations:
You Could Make This Place Beautiful
Everywhere All at Once
Hello Beautiful
Remarkably Bright Creatures
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Today I am joined by Dr. Raquel Martin. She is a clinical psychologist and a professor at Tennessee State University. She is the mother of two and a mentor. She helps black women navigate racism, gender bias, and oppression. She embraces the importance of protecting our mental health. Clients and students alike attest that Dr. Martin’s accessible approach to mental health is much-needed and critical to building a movement of proactive and empowered individuals who value the relationship with themselves first and understand how to truly thrive.
In this conversation, we get to know Dr. Raquel Martin, we talk about raising family in community and undoing things from our own childhood. She shares about her career, how she feels about church, we talk about talking to our kids about racism, and more.
I really enjoyed talking to Dr. Raquel and I hope that you enjoy this conversation just as much!
What we talked about:
3:20- Getting to know Dr. Raquel
6:00- Communally raising families
7:40- Undoing things from your childhood
17:00- Nobody is mad at you
20:40- Her career
25:00- Two things can be true
34:40- Church
42:35- Racism and talking to our kids about racism
1:05:20- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
Dr. Raquel’s podcast: iTunes, Spotify, and YouTube
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Emily Tisch Sussman is the creator and host of the award-winning podcast, She Pivots, a Tony-nominated producer, a Marie Claire contributor, a democratic political strategist, and mother of three. Emily is a seasoned host, having interviewed leaders and influential women including Vice President Kamala Harris, Secretary Hillary Clinton, Priyanka Chopra, and Sophia Bush, among others.
She has a passion for amplifying women’s voices and sharing stories of those that have successfully pivoted in their personal and professional lives, which is what she did after leaving her fast-paced job as the VP of Campaigns at the largest democratic think tank in Washington, D.C when she became a mother. This was a huge life shift for her. She talks about that transition in this episode and what it was like.
We also talk about how you can view motherhood differently than other people and it can still be a beautiful thing. Emily is also super active with her school board where her kids go to school. I loved getting to talk to another podcast host and hearing about all that she is passionate about. This was a fun one!
What we talked about:
3:00- Podcasting
13:00- Pivots in our lives
17:20- Finding your strengths
20:50- Her own pivot in life
30:00- Her investment in sports
31:50- Career dreams
32:45- Balancing motherhood and career
39:40- WeSuite
42:45- End of podcast questions
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Dr. Mariel Buqué is an Afro-Dominican psychologist. She received her doctorate in counseling psychology from Columbia University, where she also trained as a fellow in holistic mental health. She is a world-renowned intergenerational trauma expert and the author of the book Break the Cycle: A Guide to Healing Intergenerational Trauma. Her clinical framework is holistic and infuses ancient and indigenous healing practices into a modern, comprehensive therapeutic approach.
She has utilized her training in holistic care to integrate holistic practices, like sound bath meditation and breathwork, into therapy, which has helped to deepen trauma healing for an entire generation of clients. She additionally provides healing workshops to Fortune 100 companies including Google, Capital One, and Meta and lectures within the psychology department at Columbia University. Dr. Buqué is widely sought out for her clinical expertise and trauma approach and has been featured on major media outlets including The Today Show, Good Morning America, and ABC News. She has been named as a School of Greatness’s 100 Greatest People Doing Good in 2022 and an inaugural Verywell Mind 25 Mental Health Champion.
We get into so much in this episode! We talk about how to identify intergenerational trauma, what it means to be a cycle breaker, our nervous systems, anxiety, and walking through all of this with our children! It got quite deep for me in this episode but I am so grateful for the depth of this conversation.
What we talked about:
4:00- Getting to know Dr. Mariel
6:10- Having a zen aura
8:40- Sound baths
13:20- Tea time
16:00- Break the Cycle
24:25- Defining your trauma
38:00- Anxiety
45:35- First steps to healing
52:35- End of podcast questions
What we talked about:
Book recommendations:
They Called Us Exceptional
Nervous
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Today on the show, I have Isis Bradford joining us! She is simply full of energy and has encouraged me to live audaciously. She is a marketing, social media, and content expert. She is a keynote speaker strategist and consultant. She has recently decided to make a big change in her own business and what she is pursuing.
Isis is a former kindergarten teacher. When she discovered the world of online branding, she created these presets for pictures on her phone and started selling them which became a business. She went on to teach others how to “skyrocket” their business.
Isis also has ADHD and she talks about how she focuses. She does these power hours which are really helpful in getting work done! We also talk about believing in your purpose! Just because you are good at something doesn’t mean that it is good for you!
She has SO much enthusiasm and excitement about what she wants to do with her life and it was so much fun to hear about! She really takes things on without the imposter syndrome and that is the energy I want to have!
What we talked about:
3:15- Introduction to Isis’ work
8:00- Being a teacher and leaving that profession
12:30- Her new transition in her business
17:40- Running a business with her ADHD diagnosis
22:35- Her book
25:50- The purpose behind her business
29:55- Preparing for a speaking engagement
35:15- Setting expectations for your day
43:00- Advice to anyone to step out of their comfort zone
46:00- End of podcast questions
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A Little Life
American Marriage
The Artists Way
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Sheri Jones is my guest today! She is the mom of four and is a passionate advocate for youth entrepreneurship. This is such an exciting topic for me, I love this idea! Sheri herself is a serial entrepreneur, investor, and is the co-founder of Youth in Business. She is on a mission to empower young minds through entrepreneurship. Her and her husband founded an educational program dedicated to equipping kids with financial knowledge and independence. This is such a cool topic and I was so excited to learn more from her!!
Their website, Youth in Business, helps kids come up with creative ways to be their own business owner and entrepreneur. I am hoping to get one (or more) of my kids get into this idea!
It’s never too early to talk to your kids about money and Sheri shows us really fun ways to do that!
What we talked about:
2:50- Introduction to Sheri
3:20- The online business that her kids run
5:30- Her background with entrepreneurship
9:00- Youth in Business
10:45- What type of kid this model best suits
15:00- Youth in Business TV
19:20- Helping kids find business ideas
21:15- First steps to getting started on your business
22:50- Helping kids find balance in their life while owning a business
24:15- Her kids businesses
26:00- Talking to kids about finances
29:50- Planting the seed about starting the business
31:20- Time commitment from the parents
33:35- Opportunities that entrepreneurship has provided their family
35:00- Goal setting with kids
43:00- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
The Success Principles for Teens
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Victoria Marcouillier is the founder of BrandWell Designs and The Branding Business School. She leads an all-female team and they’ve built over 200 websites and have helped create over 300 brands. BrandWell Designs helps service-based female entrepreneurs.
Victoria is a mother of two and she is passionate about helping women and mothers create powerful brands and websites.
Victoria and I dove into so many topics surrounding entrepreneurship, differentiating your brand, getting clear on your business’s brand, and understanding the why behind your business. It was so much fun to dive in and hear all about how she started and scaled BrandWell Designs.
This was a fun one, friends. I hope you enjoy this conversation.
What we talked about:
1:30- Introduction to Victoria
2:45- Starting BrandWell Designs
22:30- Marketing your product
28:20- Being brave enough to chase your business dreams
35:00- Differentiators
39:10- Transitioning your brand
42:00- Branding Business School
45:05- End of podcast questions
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Today, I am joined by the wonderful Sarah Levy! She is a writer and the author of Drinking Games which is a memoir and essays that explores the role that alcohol has in our formative years and what it means to opt out of a culture completely enmeshed in drinking. Sarah has been featured on Good Morning America, The Los Angeles Times, Buzzfeed, The New York Post, Apple Books, Pure Wow, Goodreads, Amazon, and more! Okay, I’m impressed!!
In this episode, she talks about her story with alcohol and why she decided to give it up. She is now six years sober. She is a new mom! She has a three month old baby and we kick off the conversation with some new mom talk!! We also have a super fun part of the conversation where we talk about Taylor Swift and our favorite books – this is a FUN one!
If you have been listening to this podcast for awhile, you know that I am super interested in the sober community and don’t love my relationship with alcohol so I love conversations like these. Plus what better time to have this conversation than during dry January!
I hope that you learn something in this episode and I hope that you feel encouraged and don’t feel any shame and I hope that you feel confident in the life decisions that you are making regardless of what they are!
What we talked about:
3:30- Walking into motherhood
12:00- Sarah’s story with alcohol
22:30- Thinking about your own relationship with alcohol
27:40- Changing your mindset around drinking
30:55- What her relationship with alcohol looks like now
35:00- Her upbringing with alcohol
39:20- Advice for anyone wanting to change their relationship with alcohol
46:45- Taylor Swift talk and favorite books
Show notes:
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Book recommendations:
Bright Young Women
Happy Place
The Legacies
My Last Innocent Year
The Poisonwood Bible
Demon Copperhead
Nora Goes Off Script
Everyone Here is Lying
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Carly Anderson shares all about fashion tips for pear shaped bodies, bathing suits that make you feel amazing, family adventures, and body positivity over on her Instagram – @lipglossandcrayons.
Carly went viral on Instagram when she posted a photo of herself in a bathing suit and said “Just wear the suit” and it took off from there!
Carly is a former teacher, a runner, and is all about sharing mid-size style, over-40 beauty, self-love, body positivity, and is a self-proclaimed internet over-sharer.
I loved this episode with Carly and I hope that you do, too!
What we talked about:
3:35- Carly’s passion for running
12:20- Talking to our kids about body positivity
16:30- Taking a sabbatical from her career
21:30- Raising strong women
27:00- Expectations on people with a big following on social media
32:40- Her favorite part of her online presence
33:30- Growing her Instagram following
40:00- Her training heading into her half marathon
43:15- End of podcast questions
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Noel Gatts is on the podcast today! She is a mom of three, a former actress, and now designer. She has a business called Beam and Bloom. She is also the co-host of the HGTV show Inspector Joe and What’s Wrong With This House? The motto of her business, Beam and Bloom, is “Character Driven Design with a Holistic Twist.” She lives by the heart, home, and harmony motto and she tells you all about that in this episode!
I got way into the nitty gritty in this episode asking alllll about design! This is not my strong suit so it was fun to dive into that and hear how I can make my space more cozy and well decorated. She gives so many great tips on how to find our style and cozy up our spaces.
Noel was such a fun episode and I hope that you love it as well!
What we talked about:
3:30- Acting and being on reality TV
9:15- Home Inspector Joe
19:00- Discussing homes
26:30- How to cozy up your own home
37:50- Kitchen design
40:15- Laundry room design
43:20- What’s next for Noel
44:45- Noel’s Heart, Home, Harmony motto
47:00- End of podcast questions
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Peter Shankman is on the podcast today!! Peter is a dad, an author, a keynote speaker, and a creator. He is the founder of Faster Than Normal and Help a Reporter. Faster than Normal is all about unlocking the gifts of the ADHD brain. Peter says ADHD is a gift and not a disability. He has a new kids book out called The Boy with the Faster Brain.
Peter loves adrenaline! He has been skydiving numerous times and an ironman triathlete.
I loved talking with Peter about this topic because I have been loving diving into the topic of ADHD and learning about how it may be playing a role in my own life. Peter is really helpful in this episode chatting about that. He travels the world sharing about this topic so it was fun to get to chat with him one on one all about his expertise!
What we talked about:
3:30- Peter’s career
6:55- Peter’s diagnosis with ADHD
13:15- Taking medication for ADHD
23:55- The tie between entrepreneurs and ADHD
26:00- Tactics to help your ADHD for kids and adults
33:40- His athletic endeavors and how they benefit his ADHD
36:20- First steps to helping your kid with their ADHD
44:25- End of podcast questions
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Wow – this energy is full of energy, excitement, joy, and great advice!
Coach Will Elliott is on the podcast today! He is a teen and parent coach. He coaches teens on their time management, personal growth, motivation, character building. He serves as bridging the gap between parents and teens. This is interesting – he is only 25 years old! I love this because it wasn’t that long ago since he was a teen so his passion pairs well with his knowledge.
His business is Next Gen Student Coaching and he helps kids with goal identification, making clear plans, success principles, habits, accountability. He has an app as well where he does live coaching sessions once a week. It is such a cool business, I have never seen someone in this space like him so I am excited for you to hear his story today!
He is so passionate about helping us have good relationships with our kids and coaching kids to be motivated! Will is wise beyond his years and it was SO much fun to hear his perspective about working with teams!
What we talked about:
5:00- Getting to know Will
8:50- Will’s work
17:25- The app that he created, Unstoppable U
18:30- Social media for kids
24:00- Helping parents communicate with their teenager
31:30- Character
33:50- Hard work
37:00- What the kids he works with wish his parents did less of
44:30- Time management
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This episode with Amy Kiefer was so much fun! It will feel like you’re just listening in to two friends chatting and catching up on all things business, podcasting, and friendship. Filled my cup for the week!
Amy is the co-host of the Herself Podcast and the Pursuing Her Purpose Podcast. She is also the co-founder of Expecting and Empowered. Amy is a former RN. She hosts the Herself Podcast with one of her best friends. And get this – they just bought a vacation home together! This was so much fun to talk about with Amy. It sounds like a dream for me and Amy gives us the ins and outs of that.
One of the things that we talked about in this episode that I really loved is that your business can grow and change with you and with the audience as you grow and change. This really resonated with me regarding this podcast. It was a fun conversation about following what you are passionate about and interested in.
Amy was so much fun to have on the podcast – continue to follow all that she is doing on her Instagram @ameskiefer.
What we talked about:
3:50- Introduction to Amy and the podcasts that she hosts
5:40- Hosting multiple podcasts
8:10- How her podcast grows with her life growing and changing
12:30- Keeping some of your family matters private
16:30- Keeping organized in your business
22:15- Balancing what you share online
27:10- Friendship
35:10- Doing business with her friends
39:40- Buying a house with her friends
47:25- End of podcast questions
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There was so much in this episode that I needed to hear and I hope that you all find the value in it, too!
Dr. Cara Goodwin is a child psychologist. She runs the nonprofit Instagram account called the Parenting Translator. She also has a podcast and a substack page for that where she shares research. She translates recent scientific research into information that parents can actually use. This concept is SO cool because you know that all that she is sharing is ad-free and simply her dissection of the research. Cara is doing really great work over there!
Cara is also the mom of four so she understands what it’s like implementing this research first hand with her own kids. We had a great conversation in this episode about just that – when gentle parenting and other parenting techniques simply don’t work with your kids! I loved talking about that because we all have great intentions to implement these strategies but each of our kids are unique and need something different. We also talked about how to help your anxious child, what anxiety looks like in children, school avoidance, and more!
To wrap up this episode, we talked about what a Tradwife is allllll of our thoughts on that. This term was new to me and I’m curious to hear what you all think. I know you’ll be going down a rabbit hole of researching this after hearing our conversation!
What we talked about:
4:45- Dr. Cara’s work
9:25- What she does when the research doesn’t work in her own parenting
16:10- Talking about anxiety with our kids
24:50- School avoidance
28:30- A conversation on gentle parenting
40:30- ADHD
42:45- End of podcast questions
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Clarkie Doster is passionate about helping our kids read and write. She has a website called Reading and Writing Matters, is a teacher and private tutor, and has two kids. Clarkie is on a mission to help parents, caregivers, and teachers become the team they need to be while also giving parents and caregivers the tools and inspiration necessary to guide their children’s thinking and communication in a critical, thoughtful direction while developing more connected family relationships and decreasing stress.
What we talked about:
3:00- Introduction to Clarkie and her family
7:35- Clarkie’s passion for teaching kids to read and write
12:30- Encouraging reading and writing in families
15:15- Finding your child’s reading level
18:20- Getting your child to enjoy reading
20:15- Reading challenges
26:00- Encouraging reading through book clubs with your kids friends
29:50- Finding a reading tutor for your child
33:00- Writing exercises for kids
34:30- The impact of reading and writing on critical thinking skills
39:25- End of podcast questions
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The First Cat in Space Ate Pizza
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Brooke Romney is the mom of four boys and the author of a few books. Her most recent book is 52 Modern Manners for Kids and she also has one for teens. This book helps you give your kids practical ideas for how to live in this world, connect with adults, connect with peers, and more! Growing up can feel awkward and hard when it comes to manners and her book simplifies things like that!
Brooke has created a really beautiful space talking all about parenting teenagers.
In this episode, we talk about teenage friendship, helping our kids navigate drama, walking through tough moments of parenting, and more!
What we talked about:
3:25- Introduction to Brooke, her work, and her parenting
5:30- Parenting teenagers
10:55- Brooke’s book “I Like Me Anyways”
11:45- 52 Modern Manners for Kids
20:35- Getting compliments about your kids
22:00- Teen drama
28:10- Walking through tough parenting moments with teenagers
40:20- End of podcast questions
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The Emotional Lives of Teenagers
The Remarkable Journey of Coyote Sunrise
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Dr. Jenny Nuccio is the founder and CEO of Imani Collective which exists to empower artisans through dignified work, opportunity, and community. She tells us all about that in this episode!
Jenny went on a short-term mission trip when she was 18 and identified some problems with that model and ended up moving to Kenya and has lived there for years now! She still lives in Kenya with her husband and three kids. She has her doctorate of education. She also has a nonprofit training program which is developed into a social enterprise and holistic women empowerment. Jenny is the author of a new book called Let it Be Wild and the host of The Moxie Podcast.
What we talked about:
3:40- Introduction to Jenny
5:25- Jenny’s journey to traveling Kenya
8:25- Short termed mission trips
15:00- Discussion around her company
27:10- The Imani company structure
30:50- Supporting Imani Collective
35:40- Finding your purpose
41:40- Living in Kenya
43:50- End of podcast questions
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Dr. Alexandra Solomon is a therapist, professor, speaker, author, wife, mom, crossfitter, and more! She has her PhD in counseling psychology at Northwestern and she is a faculty member in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University. She is also a licensed clinical psychologist at the Family Institute at Northwester University.
She has a new book out called Love Everyday, 365 Relational Self-Awareness Practices to Help Your Relationship Heal, Grow and Thrive. She is also the author of Loving Braving, Taking Sexy Back. She has over 220k Instagram followers where she gives relationship advice over there!
What we talked about:
2:30- Her recent book release
5:10- Family structures
8:00- Becoming empty nesters
17:40- Love Every Day – Dr. Alexandra’s most recent book
26:00- Sexual intimacy
31:15- Talking to your kids about sex
43:55- Being your best parenting self
47:20- End of podcast questions
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Dr. Erin Leyba is an integrative counselor who sees adults in person in her private practice in Boulder, CO. She specializes in working with new moms who are adjusting to significant life changes, experiencing grief/loss, caring for a child with special needs, and/or feeling anxious.
Erin is the author of the book Joy Fixes for Weary Parents, 101 Quick, Research-Based Ideas for Overcoming Stress and Building a Life You Love.
What we talked about:
4:40- Introduction to Erin
7:15- Finding joy in parenting
9:10- Giving effort in relationships and friendships
13:00- Microconnections
16:20- Parenting with an age gap between your kids
18:25- Moving to Colorado
25:00- Giving individualized attention to your kids
33:15- Staying grounded in stressful moments
40:55- End of podcast questions
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Nicole Story Dent shares such fun content on Instagram with some millennial content! She has 534k followers over there! She’s completely grown that platform since November 2022. She is currently transitioning her work life after being a creative director for years. Her husband is a stay at home dad.
We have an all around fun and engaging conversation in this episode!
What we talked about:
4:20- Growing her platform on Instagram
8:00- Mental health
13:15- Her social media content
16:30- Millenial nostalgia
34:15- Discussion on body image
44:20- Chilis
54:05- Her husband being a stay at home dad
1:01:25- End of podcast questions
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The Hunger Games Prequel – The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes
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Lauren Truslow is an entrepreneur through and through! She is the owner of barre3 Columbia, The Nail barre Columbia, and she is the creator of The Plan by Lauren Truslow. These planners that she has created are amazing! Lauren also hosts the podcast A Girl in Sweaty Spandex. Lauren is also the mom of four.
Lauren has an organization in her life that I can only dream of! She shares some tips in this episode for her planning in life and in business.
What we talked about:
3:00- Turning 40
4:50- The businesses that she runs
7:05- Her family life
14:20- Opening her own Bbarre3 studio
20:30- Taking that first step in opening a business
26:50- The planners that she created and her planning system
29:50- Not letting imposter syndrome win
43:45- End of podcast questions
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A Girl in Sweaty Spandex Podcast
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Erin Tarr is a Confidence Coach for teen and tween girls and creator of the fierce&flourish empowerment program and a thought leader in the youth confidence space.
Erin’s twenty year career in education and personal development serving tweens, teens, and moms led her to be named among Central Illinois Business Magazine’s 40 Under 40. She has led countless Confidence Building workshops with girl scout troops, athletic teams, and youth groups.
Erin’s leadership programs have impacted more than a thousand girls and young women of all backgrounds across the country by helping them overcome self-doubt and everyday anxiety, while discovering their most authentic self. As a coach she empowers tween girls, helping them overcome their negative self talk and discover the unique ways they can change the world through her FIERCEST Framework.
What we talked about:
3:15- Introduction to Erin and her work
6:55- The evolution of Erin’s business
9:10- Living a FIERCE life
16:55- Working with young girls
25:30- Helping kids problem solve
38:00- Finding a mentor for your kid
39:05- What’s next for her career
41:50- End of podcast questions
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Leslie Bailey is the founder of Indy Maven which is a digital media platform that offers lifestyle content to delight an audience of highly engaged, badass women in the great Indianapolis area. She also started Maven Space, a coworking space in Indianapolis.
Leslie is a seasoned writer, editor, and media consultant. Before launching Indy Maven, she was the managing editor for AAA Crossroads Magazine, lifestyle editor for Indianapolis Monthly, and a reporter for the Indianapolis Star. Leslie has two sons and a stepson, she loves cooking, reading, and organizing.
What we talked about:
5:55: Introduction to Leslie
6:45- Indy Maven
8:10- Postpartum creativity
10:55- Balancing motherhood and being an entrepreneur
17:10- Maven Space
18:30- Indianapolis
22:05- Competing with other coworking spaces
30:10- Making things happen in her business
36:00- Filtering out consumption of social media
39:50- Walking away from hustle culture
45:40- End of podcast questions
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Annabel Monaghan is the author of the novels Nora Goes Off Script and Same Time Next Summer. Before writing novels, Annabel wrote fiction for young adults and also wrote a column. Annabel lives in New York City and is a mom. Previously, she taught novel writing at The Writing Institute at Sarah Lawrence College.
Annabel was such a fun guest and I loved hearing all about her writing adventures!
What we talked about:
8:30- Does this Volvo Make My Butt Look Big?
12:20- Nora Goes Off Script
16:45- Having success later in her career
20:00- Becoming an empty nester
26:30- Having regret with parenting decisions
28:25- A deep dive into writing books
45:45- What she has learned about herself during this process
48:30- Carpooling tip
50:30- End of podcast questions
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Does This Volvo Make My Butt Look Big?
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Christy Wright is a number one national bestselling author, a speaker, and a business coach. She worked for Ramsey Solutions for years and that is where she first began speaking on stages. I loved the story that she shares in this episode about how those speaking opportunities came about.
In this episode, we talk about speaking on stage and how to do it well, motherhood, and how she strives to be an optimistic person.
What we talked about:
5:30- Introduction to Christy and her work
7:00- Becoming an expert at public speaking
27:15- Take Back Your Time
41:35- Being optimistic
48:30- Speaking out about things with a large platform
54:20- Knowing when to make a change
59:00- End of podcast questions
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Pam Lobley is the author of the book Why Can’t We Just Play? What I Did When I Realized My Kids Were Way Too Busy, a memoir of the summer I spent letting my two sons take time off from all their scheduled activities and JUST play.
She is also the co-author of the book You Definitely Know You’re a Mom When … a charming gift book for moms of young children.
Pam has also written plays, comedy sketch shows and columns on various news outlets including, The New York Times, The Bergen Record, Philadelphia Inquirier, Huffington Post, Today.com, and many more.
In this episode, we talk about not giving your kids too much structure and allowing your kids to free play.
What we talked about:
4:00- Getting to know Pam
10:30- Sibling fighting
15:00- Relatable parenting conversations
29:50- Why Can’t We Just Play
41:30- Encouragement for parents to let their kids free play
55:05- End of podcast questions
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Eileen Moskowitz-Palma is an author. She is a former elementary school teacher and she writes middle grade novels. She is in the middle of writing her first young adult series. Her book series The Popularity Pact was published in 2020 and is all about friendship. In this episode, Eileen and I talk about our kids’ friendships and walking through that with them.
Eileen also teaches writing classes both virtually and in person. She partners with Girl Scouts and they have a storytelling badge and she works with troops all over the country teaching writing and storytelling to these kids.
What we talked about:
5:40- Introduction to Eileen
10:35- Kids and their friendships
17:30- Reflections of your parenting on your child
19:20- Friendship
35:30- Encouraging our kids to write more and read more
49:30- End of podcast questions
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Amy Palanjian is the founder of Yummy Toddler Food which is a website filled with practical feeding advice and wholesome, happy recipes geared towards families with little kids.
Amy is the author of Busy Little Hands, food play and cookbook for preschoolers. She also has a book coming out call Dinnertime SOS which is designed to help make dinnertime less stressful for you!
Amy has worked as the Lifestyle Director at Family Fun Magazine, as a food editor with Better Homes and Gardens, Special Interest Media and as the Deputy Editor for Ready Made Magazine.
Amy’s work has been featured on big media platforms like HGTV, Better Homes and Gardens, Motherly, Parents.com, The Wallstreet Journal, and so many more places!
In this episode, we talk a lot about making dinnertime less stressful and I hope that you find this episode really helpful for your family!
What we talked about:
5:00- Comparison in motherhood
9:30- Amy’s passion for food
13:05- Amy’s business,
16:00- How much the feeding at a young age affects a kid later
23:30- Making dinner time less stressful
27:35- Involving your kids with the cooking process
30:05- The book Amy has coming out, Dinner SOS
34:50- Her own reality with mealtime
38:15- Incorporating more homemade meals/snacks into you family’s diet
40:30- Teaching our kids to have a healthy mindset with food
45:40- End of podcast questions
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Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow
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Mary Van Geffen is the international parenting coach for moms of Spicy OnesTM️. She helps
people who are highly competent in life but overwhelmed by motherhood to lean into the
spiritual discipline of staying calm and cultivating warmth and tenderness all while trying to
wrangle fiery future CEOs. Often this requires serious skill-building and the balm of
self-compassion.
Mary has a ministry on Instagram where she posts an inspiring parenting tip every single day.
Just reading her social media will help you delight in your child and remember that you are
enough. Mary believes that when a mom realizes how hard she is on herself and cracks the
door open for some self-compassion, her entire family is bathed in light!
She offers on-line parenting classes and her signature 8 week group program: Moms of Spicy
Ones to help moms gain the confidence to choose gentle, respectful parenting especially if they
weren’t raised that way.
Mary is a certified Simplicity Parenting Counselor® and Professional Co-Active Coach, but her
greatest achievement is cultivating a calm, kind and firm relationship with her Spicy go-getter
daughter (now 18), mild child son (16) and un-Enneagramable hubby.
Mary has a great course coming out for teens and tweens on how to shift your parenting to stay connected. Learn more at MaryVanGeffen.com
What we talked about:
4:00- Introduction to Mary
6:00- Parenting spicy kids
11:35- Setting boundaries with kids
20:00- Your parenting style
32:00- Craving a church community
38:30- Teaching lessons to the spicy ones
50:00- End of podcast questions
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Join Tweens and Teens Class!
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Priscilla Tallman is a mental performance coach who trains athletes to have a healthy relationship with their sport, their teammates, and themselves. She played collegiate volleyball for the University of Georgia and went on to play for the USA National team and was a member of the World University Games team. She uses both her experience as a player and her education in clinical psychology to help athletes with their mental performance.
She has a really cool 30-day Champion’s Journal and Return to Play Journal. She also provides performance and mindset coaching to youth, club, and collegiate athletes. She has also been a coach of various levels for many years.
I loved talking with Priscilla!
What we talked about:
5:10- Priscilla’s work
8:10- Priscilla’s experience in sport
13:00- Following your kids’ passions in sport
25:45- Guiding our kids to help them find their passions
27:55- The athlete journal that she created
34:25- Social media for kids
42:55- Expectations for kids and grades
47:00- High school coaching
50:00- Teaching kids about mindset
53:00- Continuing to have fun in sport
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Dr. Morgan Anderson is relationship coach, attachment theory expert, and the creator of E.S.L. Relationship Method. Her mission is to help women get off the dating rollercoaster, raise their self-worth, and attract the healthy relationship they’ve always wanted.
In this episode, we talk about relationships. So much in our relationships change when we have kids or have been married for a long time. We talk about what it means to be empowered and secure in our relationship with our partner and with ourselves.
What we talked about:
4:00- Dr. Morgan’s career
5:20- Attachment theory
11:00- Evaluating your attachment style
12:15- Navigating conflict with our partners
14:35- Childhood trauma
18:25- Continuing to be true to yourself in long term relationships
21:00- Friendship
23:10- Handling the give and take in relationships
27:30- Rekindling things after being in a relationship for awhile
29:30- The biggest problems that she sees people having in relationships
30:30- Creating our best selves
40:15- Her course, Empowered Secure Love
41:15- End of podcast questions
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Heather Adams is on the podcast today. I stumbled upon her when I heard her on another podcast that I listen to and learned that she was Jen Hatmaker’s book agent and she does so much with Jen and other women around the country. I just loved her pizzaz and energy! I started listening to some of her podcast and thought I’d bring her on the show!
She is the CEO and founder of Choice Communications. Her passion and mission is to link arms with other women as their champion and mentor in life and in work. She has launched over 100 NYT bestselling books. She is a publicist and communications expert. She has two teenage boys.
What we talked about:
4:10- Introduction to Heather
13:30- Creating a job that works for your quality of life
19:20- Publishing books
26:45- Media and PR
42:00- Owning a business and parenting two young boys
50:00- Focusing on being present
53:05- End of podcast questions
What we talked about:
Choice Media and Communications
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Monica Swanson is the mom of four boys. She is the author of the books Boy Mom and Raising Amazing.
In this episode, we talk a lot about character and what it means to raise our kids in a way that they learn about what is character and how to have good character. We talk about how she has raised her kids to love God, like their family, and do the dishes without asking.
Her oldest is 23 and her youngest is 12 and these are my favorite conversations to talk with parents that are ahead of me!
What we talked about:
2:40- Living in Hawaii on a farm
10:50- Raising four boys
15:00- Sibling fights
21:00- Boundaries and relationships with your children
37:50- Pursuing faith
43:55- Talking to kids about relationships
46:00- Teaching your kids about character
55:00- End of podcast questions
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Ginny Yurich is the founder of 1,000 Hours Outside which is a movement to get us all outside more. Ginny, the mother of five herself has created an amazing community over on instagram where she educates on the importance of outside time and how powerful it is.
In this episode we talk about the importance of outside time and how free play helps our kids cognitively, physically, socially and emotionally.
If you love what you hear from Ginny- make sure you check out her brand new book that is available on pre-sale now!
What we talked about:
3:20- What 1,000 hours outside is
12:40- The importance of getting outside before noon
18:55- Being intentional to set aside time to get outside with your kids
23:05- Modeling healthy habits for our kids
25:40- The importance of free play
37:15- Getting outside in the winter
42:25- Finding activities outdoors for kids of all ages
47:40- Ginny’s activity book that she published
50:40- Last message to send to the audience
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This episode is a rerun of episode 58. I am taking a 2-week break from releasing new episodes here at the beginning of the summer to kick off an awesome summer with my kids! We’ll be back in 2 weeks with fresh episodes, but for now, enjoy this throwback to one of my favorite guests on the show!
Wendy Snyder is a returning guest of the show! She is on today to talk about sibling rivalry. Wendy is a parenting coach. She inspires parents to learn and grow and she leads with connection based strategies. She is the creator of the Firm and Kind Parenting Blueprint. She has an amazing online community called the Bonfire Membership Program.
In this episode, Wendy gives strategies that we can use as parents to help our kids learn about conflict resolution. One of my favorite methods that Wendy teaches in parenting is making proactive agreements ahead of time with your kids and we talk about this in this episode. I hope that you walk away from this conversation feeling armed for when your children argue.
I first found Wendy when I was looking for guests around the topic of parenting on The Illuminate Podcast. I interviewed Wendy about positive parenting. Now this is my fifth time interviewing Wendy! We’ve had so many conversations about compassionate discipline and reframing how we think about parenting.
What we talked about:
6:35- Lindsey’s example of siblings fighting
10:50- Debriefing sibling rivalry
41:00- Talking to your kids about how you feel when they fight
46:25- Reducing the amount of times that you and your kids yell
49:45- Amending sibling arguments when they are happening
Show notes:
FREE Win-Win Guide for Conflict Resolution
Raising Strong Willed Kids Worksheet
Free Online Workshop: Power Struggles
Helping Siblings Get Along Bundle Lesson
Wendy on Episode 15 of The Illuminate Podcast
Wendy on Episode 39 of The Illuminate Podcast
Wendy on Episode 16 of the Why is Everyone Yelling? Podcast
Brain Washed by David Perlmutter and Austin Perlmutter
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Laura Tremaine is on the show today. I have been following her work for quite awhile and I have always thought that she has really relatable, honest and encouraging things to say. She has a new book out called The Life Council, Ten Friends Every Woman Needs. I loved relating this book to my own life and friendships!
Laura is also a podcaster. She has a podcast called Ten Things to Tell You. She loves to read and has her own awesome book club going on this summer called Stephen King Summer.
Laura is also the author of the book called Share Your Stuff, I’ll Go First.
We covered a lot in this episode, but the bulk of it was about friendship! I hope that you love it and find something good in it!
What we talked about:
4:00- Laura’s obsession with Stephen King
12:20- Growing an online community
19:45- Saying a quick yes
24:50- Boundaries
36:20- Letting people care for you in their own way
44:00- Sharing your life online and among friends
50:00- The Life Council
1:05:00- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control
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Dr. Tracy Dalgleish is on the podcast today! She is a clinical psychologist, the mother of two, a wife, and she is the creator of Be Connected. She has a great online community at @drtracyd on Instagram. Nearly 200,000 people are following her over there getting sound and scientific advice.
She has spent over 15 years in practice working with individuals and couples and training with renowned relationship experts. She has a book coming out called I Didn’t Sign Up for This: A Couples Therapist Shares Real-Life Stories of Breaking Patterns and Finding Joy in Relationships . . . Including Her Own. She talks about that book and the cases that she walks through in that book!
What we talked about:
7:00- Giving up TV
14:40- Becoming a therapist
17:40- How much our childhood affects what we want out of our own partners
20:30- Healthy communication strategies
33:20- Disagreeing with your partner about how to parent
43:10- Keeping the spark alive with your partner
54:10- Numbing out with technology
56:50- End of podcast questions
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Caitlin Murray is Big Time Adulting on Instagram. She is one of the most hilarious follows over on Instagram. She brings hilarious, honest commentary on the everyday mundane life of motherhood.
Caitlin has three kids and is a stay-at-home mom. Although, her Big Time Adulting platform has turned into a great success and we talk about her goals and vision for that. Her oldest son is a cancer survivor and we talk about that time of her life in this episode.
To note: there are swear words in this episode!
What we talked about:
6:10- How she started Big Time Adulting
9:00- Comparison in suffering
11:00- Sharing your life on the internet
19:50- Caitlin’s platform and goals for her career
27:30- How she handles having a big following
30:00- Staying home with the kids
31:20- Resentment towards your partner
35:35- Motherhood
41:10- Career goals
46:50- Who Caitlin is outside of what we know from Instagram
51:00- Swearing with your kids
53:20- End of podcast questions
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Big Time Adulting on Instagram
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Dr. Siggie Cohen is on the show today! She is passionate about helping families connect and thrive. She has been working with families for over three decades, first as a teacher and then as a child development specialist.
Her own kids are all grown, so she has been there and done that and gives us some valuable advice in this episode!
What we talked about:
04:45- Dr. Siggie’s parenting journey
8:15- Being a working parent
10:35- Having a presence on Instagram
12:20- Surface and underlying triggers as a parent
16:10- Sharing our emotions with our kids
21:30- Finding a balance between sharing emotions with kids and having authority
27:35- When you “do it all right” and parenting is still hard and your discipline is unsuccessful
32:00- Parenting each child differently
34:55 – Parenting older kids when you don’t agree with their decisions
39:30- Punishing kids
48:10- End of podcast questions
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The Blessing of the Skinned Knee
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Today we have Nancy and Elizabeth Jorgensen on the show. Nancy is the mother of 2016 Olympic Triathlon Gold Medalist, Gwen Jorgensen. Elizabeth is Gwen’s sister. Together, they have written two books and the most recent book about Gwen’s career is called Gwen Jorgensen: USA’s First Olympic Gold Medal Triathlete. It is for young adult readers and their hope was to write a story of a female athlete who has big goals and went after them. In this episode, we talk about what it was like to parent a very high achieving child and to be the sister of a very talented and driven athlete.
Elizabeth is an English teacher and Nancy has also written several books.
What we talked about:
5:00- Gwen’s childhood
10:15- Not putting pressure on Gwen to succeed in sport
12:45- Realizing Gwen’s potential
15:45- Gwen’s drive
23:20- Mindset
27:05- Gwen going back to triathlon
30:00- Hopes for the book
34:00- Finding community in sport
39:20- Sibling rivalries
45:45- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
Gwen Jorgensen: USA’s First Olympic Gold Medal Triathlete
Here is a link to purchased signed copies: https://www.booksco.com/signed-copy-gwen-jorgensen
For author visits, email [email protected] or [email protected]
Websites: lizjorgensen.weebly.com and nancyjorgensen.weebly.com
Go: Gwen, Go: A Family’s Journey to Olympic Gold
Elizabeth’s teaching book: Hacking Student Learning Habits
Elizabeth’s Korean poetry book: Sijo: Korea’s Poetry Form
Nancy’s choral education book: Things They Never Taught You in Choral Methods
On Twitter: @LyzaJo and @NancyJorgensen
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Dr. Morgan Cutlip has a PhD in psychology and is a relationship expert. She has a book coming out in September called Loving Your Kids Without Losing Yourself.
Dr. Cutlip has a particular passion for helping her generation of Millennials find love, happiness, and longevity in their relationships.
She has conducted award-winning research on the Love Thinks course, Head Meets Heart, and completed a study on the high divorce rate of female soldiers.
Dr. Cutlip has created content and courses for @FloTracker, the number one app in health and fitness, and was a featured relationship expert for Teen Vogue.
What we talked about:
4:30- The change in demands as kids age
7:30- Her change in perspective after becoming a parent
12:35- Her community on Instagram
16:30- The emotional roles in parenting
24:00- Working through some of your own trauma
26:00- All about Dr. Morgan Cutlip’s book
31:40- End of podcast questions
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Dr. Morgan Cutlip on Instagram
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Ellen Braaten is a licensed psychologist and child neuropsychologist. She is the author of the new book Bright Kids Who Couldn’t Care Less, How to Rekindle your Child’s motivation. The book was forwarded by Sheryl Sandburg.
Ellen has a book called Love the Kid You Have, Not the One You Wish You Had
This conversation with Ellen is a good one! We talk about what motivation is and what we can do as parents to help our kids feel self-motivated rather than pushing them to do things.
What we talked about:
4:15- Introduction to Ellen
7:25- Learning differences
9:30- Talking to our kids about motivation
21:30- The lifelong impact of your parenting
25:00- Timeframe that a child should get a job
32:25- Setting goals with your kids
38:05- Setting expectations with our kids
44:25- Working with a child as they lose motivation
49:35- End of podcast questions
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Heather Brooker is on the show today! She is an actress, a comedian, a host. She has been featured on NBC, ABC, and Netflix. She is a two time Emmy winner. She has been on shows like Grey’s Anatomy, Atypical, and The Mindy Project. She is also a standup comedian and has her own podcast with her husband and her daughter called The Brooker Family Popcast.
We talk about body positivity, working in Hollywood, and raising a child in Hollywood who is also in the industry.
I had so much fun getting to know Heather and I am certain that you will too!
What we talked about:
2:55- Introduction to Heather and her career
6:30- The decision to pursue acting
12:30- Going after big acting jobs in her career
18:55- Standup comedy
24:00- Not being offensive within comedy
31:05- Her family
36:20- Talking to your kids about body positivity
39:50- Raising a kid in Hollywood
42:10- End of podcast questions
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Jen Panaro shares about sustainability in simple ways in this episode.
We start this conversation talking about composting and simple ways that we can compost if we are interested along with why we should compost. We also talk about choosing to buy less and choosing where we buy from. We also discuss voluntary hardship in this episode!
What we talked about:
5:00- Her passion for sustainability
9:50- Food waste and composting
23:55- Teaching your kids about composting
30:50- Recycling
34:40- Hang drying clothes
38:30- Voluntary hardship
44:40- Message about sustainability
51:00- Hike 40
56:10- End of podcast questions
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Jen’s blog posts to check out:
Posts specifically geared toward beginner composters
Tips to Buy Less Stuff We Don’t Actually Need
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Dr. Shefali is a clinical psychologist specializing in the integration of Western psychology and Eastern philosophy. She brings together the best of both worlds for her clients. She is an expert in family dynamics and personal development. She teaches courses all around the world. The most recent book that she released is called The Parenting Map. She also wrote the book The Conscious Parent, Out of Control, A Radical Awakening, and The Awakened Family. Her work is all about conscious parenting.
Dr. Shefali has been all around the world speaking about this topic, including being interviewed by Oprah.
She explains exactly what it means to be a conscious parent in this episode.
What we talked about:
3:25- What conscious parenting is
6:10- Being in the present moment
9:20- Letting go of control in parenting
11:15- Encouraging our kids alongside their goals
15:35- Ego in parenting
26:00- Understanding disrespect
32:00- When you make a mistake with conscious parenting
33:50- Categories of parents
36:55- End of podcast questions
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Dr. Carolyn Rubenstein is a clinical psychologist. She has a PhD from the University of Miami in counseling psychology. She has been featured on the Today Show, the Boston Globe, and Psychology Today. She has a robust Instagram community where you can follow her. She gives practical ways to overcome anxiety and burnout over there.
In this episode, we talk about how to identify burnout, living beyond burnout, and ways that we can work to prevent burnout. We also talk about self soothing ourselves and how to teach our kids about this.
What we talked about:
4:45- Introduction to Dr. Carolyn Rubenstein’s work
6:00- Validating your feelings and emotions
17:55- Dealing with burnout
26:30- Teaching our kids about burnout
27:35- Self care
35:15- Taking control in a situation
36:05- Managing expectations
40;00- Self-soothing
44:40- Finding time for yourself to avoid burnout
49:00- End of podcast questions
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Dr. Carolyn Rubenstein on Instagram
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Shannan Martin is a mother, a wife, and a neighbor living in Indiana. She just wrote a book called Start with Hello (And Other Simple Ways to Live as Neighbors). She is very passionate about that and I am as well! It was really fun to connect with her about that. She is also the author of Falling Free and Ministry of Ordinary Places. She is a phenomenal writer.
In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a neighbor. We also talk about her life and how she got to where she is now and how her views and thoughts have changed and how she has walked through that pretty publicly and what that looked like.
She is a cook at a local nonprofit dedicated to feeding her community. It was so fun to hear about that on this podcast episode!
I have been following Shannan and have been reading her books for many years now, so it was so special to have her on the podcast for this interview! She really encouraged me to connect with and care for my neighbors!
What we talked about:
3:00- Catching up with Shannan
10:00- Creating community in your neighborhood
13:45- Living out in the country and then deciding that wasn’t for them
20:55- Raising children of color
24:45- The evolution of her life and making decisions as a family
41:35- Having uncomfortable conversations with conflict
45:30- Being a good neighbor
54:50- Her work at her community soup kitchen
59:25- Feelings of curiosity and adventure
1:02:40- End of podcast questions
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My sister, Ericka, is on the show today! Ericka was first on the show back in 2021 for episode 36 where she talked about her sobriety journey. She has now been sober for 2.5 years so we get an update on that journey in this episode.
She is a freelance writer, a podcaster, author, and a mom of two. She lives in Indianapolis. She has been published in the Wallstreet Journal, the Washington Post, and the New York Times. She also has a business called Pitch and Publish where she teaches people how to get published. She has published two books – Leaving Cloud 9 and Reason to Return.
In this episode, we talk about our upbringing and how that has forged our life, how that foundation from our childhood was very important, and our faith journey.
What we talked about:
4:00- Ericka’s sobriety
16:20- The foundation of how you were raised
23:40- A conversation on faith
47:15- Ericka’s work and freelance writing
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I Don’t Have Enough to Be an Atheist
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Hi all! I decided to take a little break week as I spend some nice weather days at the beach here at Wrightsville Beach with my four boys!
We’re also taking a little break as we strategize a bit more for this podcast. If you have any suggestions for the podcast, please reach out to me at [email protected]. I would love to hear what you are loving with the podcast, would like to hear more of, or guest ideas!
Thank you all so much for being here. I am always so grateful for your support and joining me on this podcasting and parenting journey!
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I am so excited about this conversation with my friend, Nattie Meador. I know Nattie from way back, she is from the same hometown as me and is one of those friends that I have kept up with since reconnecting on social media!
Nattie is from Bloomington, Indiana (my hometown!) and has moved back there and works as the Associate Director at Indiana University Alumni Association. She is the mom of three.
She recently started her new podcast called A Little Happy. She has such a great story of why they named it that and she shares about that in this episode and I loved that story!
We get honest in this episode about therapy, hard things that we walk through as mothers, friendship, creating community, and being honest and vulnerable with our friends and family.
What we talked about:
3:00- Getting to know Nattie
7:20- Finding out she was having twins
12:15- Nattie’s career
13:40- Moving back to her hometown, Bloomington, Indiana
16:40- The podcast that she started, A Little Happy
23:15- Having parallel feelings
26:20- Therapy and sitting in our anxiety
29:40- Leaning on community
35:50- Friendship
47:05- End of podcast questions
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Aly Pain is back on the show! She was on episode 118 where we talked about healthy communication with our kids, especially as they are in their teen years. Today, we talk about communication again but we talk about how to communicate with our kids when they have something big coming up without being outcome focused.
Aly Pain is a parenting expert. She helps parents end baffling blowups and painful disconnection with their teens to build trust and respect. She is a certified relationship coach for families.
Aly is passionate about empowering us to have deeper and meaningful relationships with our kids where we can actually communicate well and listen well.
What we talked about:
3:30- Emotions with kids coming home for the holidays
6:20- Conversations with our kids about their accomplishments without focusing on the outcome
14:25- Encouraging our kids to work hard
20:55- Working with a kid that is naturally perfectionist or high achieving
39:00- Last message to listeners
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Julie Bogart is back on the show today!
Julie Bogart has a book called Raising Critical Thinkers. Julie is the creator and owner of Brave Writer, an online writing and language arts program.
In this episode, we talk about what happens when our hopes and dreams for our kids do not align with their hopes and dreams for themselves. We also talk about motivating our kids to be a successful person without pushing them in one direction or another. We also talk about relationships with adult parents!
Photo credit: Daniel Smyth
What we talked about:
5:45- Leaning into aging
10:45- Hopes and dreams that we have for our kids
21:35- Allowing your kids to lead the way as they are following their dreams
32:35- Siblings fighting
48:00- Relationships with our adult parents
58:05- Message to younger generations
Show notes:
Julie’s book: Raising Critical Thinkers
Julie on Episode 117 of the Why is Everyone Yelling? Podcast
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Dr. Hoet works in Pediatric Primary Care where she serves primarily Latino and Somali immigrant children. She is also a clinical assistant professor of Pediatrics in the Department of Pediatric Psychology and Neuropsychology at Nationwide Children’s Hospital and The Ohio State University.
She is the clinical director for On Our Sleeves which is an amazing resource. It is a movement for children’s mental health. On Our Sleeves provides free resources that help break stigmas and start conversation.
What we talked about:
3:10- Introduction to Dr. Ariana Hoet and her work
7:45- Being an immigrant to the United States and how that has impacted her own mental health
11:00- What her support system looked like from her parents regarding her mental health
13:25- How to open up the conversation about mental health to our kids
15:25- Behavior activation
19:10- Barriers to entry with therapy
21:50- Simple ways to help a child experiencing anxiety
26:10- Working with diverse groups of people
29:10- How to support other students of diverse backgrounds in regard to mental health
32:00- Teaching our kids to be allies
34:30- First steps to getting your kids help
38:20- Language to use around our kids surrounding mental health
43:40- How to support On Our Sleeves
44:45- End of podcast questions
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Kim John Payne, M. ED. is an award-winning author. He has worked passionately to help tens of thousands of people give voice to the feeling that something is not okay about the new normal of overwhelm that so many people are experiencing every day. He offers doable ways to realize the hopes and values that we all have for ourselves and build deep connections with our children that gives our families resiliency and simple joy. Kim John has been a consultant and trainer to over 230 independent and public US schools.
What we talked about:
3:45- Introduction to Kim John Payne’s work
9:20- Understanding kid’s anxieties
15:00- Helping teachers work with various types of children
20:55- Tackling the overwhelm that we are experiencing as families
25:10- Finding the balance between giving your kids opportunities and simplicity
34:00- Boundaries around screen time
46:00- Switching from the governor to the gardner to guide as a parent
55:20- End of podcast questions
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Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens
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Lisa Andersen is the mother of five. She is also the founder of Drawers Co. which is a color coded clothing for kids, specifically underwear. The sizes are indicated by color.
Lisa’s Instagram is @thrivingmotherhood and she is such an encourager over there! One of the messages that I love over on Lisa’s Instagram is that if you are struggling, you are growing!
I hope that you find the connection in this episode helpful!
What we talked about:
3:50- Getting to know Lisa
5:45- Starting her business
8:05- What her business is
13:30- Thriving Motherhood
22:30- Boundaries in parenting
24:40- Showing our kids our emotions
25:50- Hard but helpful truths
44:50- Turning 40
48:55- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
Unbroken (The Young Adult Adaptation)
Drawers – Color Coded Clothing for Kids
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Aly Pain is a parenting expert. She helps parents end baffling blowups and painful disconnection with their teens to build trust and respect. She is a certified relationship coach for families.
Aly is passionate about empowering us to have deeper and meaningful relationships with our kids where we can actually communicate well and listen well.
I loved learning from and connecting with Aly in this episode!
Disclaimer: Aly shares about some dysfunctional family relationships in her own life which included her having an eating disorder and attempting suicide.
What we talked about:
2:45- Being kind to yourself while parenting
7:10- Where her passion for helping other parents came from
20:45- Understanding the teen brain
27:00- Communicating and setting boundaries with our teenagers
32:55- The emotional feeling wheel
37:55- Encouraging our kids when they are going through phases of self doubt
45:05- End of podcast questions
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Julie Bogart has a book called Raising Critical Thinkers which is mainly what we talked about in this episode. We chat not only about raising critical thinkers but also how to be critical thinkers ourselves. Julie provides passionate & compassionate exploration of what critical thinking is and how to hone this vital skill set in our children.
Julie is the mother of 5 grown children and has so much wisdom to share in this episode! We had such a candid conversation about how to think for ourselves in a world where information is constantly being thrown in our direction.
Photo credit: Daniel Smyth
What we talked about:
2:55- Introduction to Julie
6:00- Becoming critical thinkers
11:30- Teaching our kids how to become critical thinkers
19:00- Critical thinking at school
21:20- Allowing your kids to make critical decisions for themselves
25:40- Entering into conversations with people that we don’t agree with
37:35- Religion while raising kids
44:50- Divorce
52:30- End of podcast questions
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Tritika Sharda Bhanot is passionate about the minimalist lifestyle. She is a working Southasian mom on her journey to the minimalist lifestyle and her mantra is “each inch of your house is gold, use it wisely.” I love that she shares in this episode that her mother is who actually planted the seeds of minimalism growing up. She also shares 5 tips for taking the first step to decluttering, organizing, and simplifying.
Tritika works full time outside of the home as a senior consultant for an IT company. Along with this passion of hers for helping others simplify their life, she also has a side gig where she cooks delicious Southasian food and she also has a passion for helping other women create their own businesses as well.
What we talked about:
3:05- Introduction to Tritika
4:55- Living a minimalist lifestyle
12:20- The two-year rule to help you simplify your home
18:40- Organization tips
22:00- 5 tips for organizing and decluttering
30:45- Gifting experiences
33:00- Her side hustle of cooking
39:15- End of podcast questions
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Cali Werner is a family and behavioral therapist. She focuses on Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, athletes and repetitive and ritualistic performance inhibiting behaviors, anxiety, mental health stigmas and more. Cali also recently wrote a book and it’s called Anxious Annie.
In this episode, she gives us really thoughtful ways to evaluate and decide if our kids might need to see a behavioral therapist, ways to think about anxiety with our kids, how to handle certain situations, anxiety with sports, and more.
I took a lot from this conversation and I hope that you all with too!
What we talked about:
4:05- The book that Cali wrote
5:15- Her work as a therapist
6:45- Cali’s own story with OCD and working with your child on their own OCD
20:15- Bringing siblings to therapy
21:50- When to get help for your child with OCD
24:35- Symptoms of panic attacks
25:30- How to help your child through a panic attack
28:55- Anxiety with sports
34:35- Writing Anxious Annie
36:10- Anxiety vs OCD and how they intertwine
37:30- How to communicate with teachers and others about your child’s anxiety
49:10- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
What Happened to You? By Oprah Winfrey and Bruce Perry
The Whole-Brained Child by Daniel Siegel
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David Thomas is the director of family counseling at Daystar Counseling in Nashville, TN. He is the co-author of 8 books including the bestselling books Wild Things and Are My Kids on Track. As a licensed therapist, he works with kids and parents on all kinds of different topics.
He is a frequent guest on national television and podcasts and has been featured in publications including The Washington Post and USA Today.. He also has his own podcast, Raising Boys and Girls. He speaks around the county on these topics. He has 2 sons that are twins and a daughter.
In this episode, we focus specifically on raising boys. As a mom of 4 boys myself, this topic is extra interesting to me and I am excited to bring you this conversation today!
What we talked about:
4:20- Introduction to David’s work at Daystar Counseling and his family
11:10- The difference of raising boys and girls
15:45- Engaging, discipling, and encouraging boys that is in tandem with the way that they are hard wired
28:35- Rough play and wrestling
37:15- Communicating with your boys
43:35- Parenting teenage girls vs teenage boys
47:00- Talking with our boys about rough play with their friends
50:55- Advice for talking with boys about their emotions
52:20- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
Raising Boys and Girls Podcast
Raising Boys and Girls on Instagram
Raising Boys and Girls on Facebook
The Addiction Inoculation by Jessica Lahey
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Ali Flynn is a writer and supporter specifically for moms of teens. She provides encouragement and inspiration for them. She has four daughters, two who are in college and two which are at home.
We talk about adjusting our expectations when our kids are home from college, transitioning to raising older kids, parenting teenage girls, and more!
Photo credit: Amy Drucker Photography
What we talked about:
4:45- Introduction to Ali and her family
7:20- Showing our kids who we are outside of being their mom
11:10- Transitioning to raising older kids
16:30- Letting go of expectations when your kids come home from college
20:15- Being a welcoming house for your kids and their friends
26:40- Her online presence
33:05- Looking ahead to being an empty nester
38:45- Advice to moms with girls entering the teenage years
42:55- Social media with her kids
52:35- End of podcast questions
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Bre Pearl is a respiratory therapist and also is a content creator for @sarcastic_mommy. She has her own page called @fullofmomsense where she shares about humor based parenting, just giving light hearted energy to parenting because it can be really hard.
In this episode, she shares what it was like being a respiratory therapist during the peak of COVID. She also walked through some health struggles that really made life challenging and she talks about walking through that.
What we talked about:
3:00- Introduction to Bre
7:30- Mental health struggles and teaching your kids coping strategies
11:00- Her content creation
15:00- The health setbacks that she had and a discussion on mental health
37:50- Her work as a respiratory therapist
39:00- The pandemic and its effects on our kids
44:20- End of podcast questions
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Yael is a returning guest on the show. She was on the show back in August on episode 99. In that episode, we talked about what it is like to thrive in work, parenting, relationships, stress management, and how we can plan to focus on the things that really matter to us.
Today, we dive deep into relationships and how we can learn to parent with our significant other and still enjoy being around them. In this conversation, Yael breaks down how we can grow in the connect in the good, the bad, and the downright infuriating.
Yael Schonbrun, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist, assistant professor at Brown University, co-host of Psychologists Off the Clock: A podcast about the science and practice of living well, and mother of three. Yael’s work draws on scientific research, her clinical experience, ancient wisdom, and her own personal experience with her three little boys.
Yael is the author of the new book called Work, Parent, Thrive. It has twelve science backed strategies to ditch guilt, manage overwhelm, and grow connection (when everything feels like too much).
What we talked about:
3:50- Pouring into your relationships at home amidst the busy
5:50- Balancing her work with what she has going on in her own life
8:00- Appreciating the differences between you and your partner
10:15- Scheduling in time for you and your partner
14:35- Talking about marital problems with your friend groups
17:30- Toxic positivity
26:40- Communicating about mortality with kids
28:35- Struggles in relationships with kids
32:05- Division of responsibilities with kids
45:00- Managing flexible schedules
53:20- Last message
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Hi friends! Happy Thanksgiving week. We have decided to take a down week here on Why is Everyone Yelling? but I wanted to connect and say hi. Thinking of each of you this holiday season!
XO!
Lindsey
Amanda Parrish Morgan is a writing instructor, a marathon runner, and the mother of two. She has a new book out called Stroller.
In this conversation, we talk a lot about consumerism in parenting and how the world has led us to believe that we need all these things that we don’t really need. We also talk about fear based parenting and how our society also puts ideas in our heads that maybe we should be fearful of things that we shouldn’t actually be fearful of. Lastly, we talk a lot about raising independent kids, which is something that I really love talking about!
What we talked about:
3:00- Stroller running
7:35- Marathon training
9:15- Her book, Stroller
15:00- Consumerism in parenting
24:05- Pressure on kids
27:00- Fear-based parenting
43:45- Raising independent kids
1:00:55- End of podcast questions
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Lauren Krasnodembski is a privacy attorney and the founder of the Mind Muscle Motivator, LLC. She helps high achieving women get off the hamster wheel and find their purpose and passion in life. She went through this herself in 2017 when she realized that outside of work and motherhood, she didn’t know what she was passionate about and wanted to change that. She helps other women do the same.
I love that in this conversation, Lauren helps us to rethink how we are living our day to day lives.
What we talked about:
2:15- Introduction to Lauren
3:55- Lauren’s career and the business that she has started
6:00- Finding passion in your life
14:05- Making time for things that are important to you
16:55- How to make the mundane, everyday activities more fun
21:30- Her book
24:05- Her husband’s role in her transformation in finding her life purpose
29:30- Main message about finding your purpose
30:40- Allowing herself to take breaks
36:15- Message to working parents on balancing everything
36:50- End of podcast questions
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Brighton Peachy is the mother of 3 and she loves to adventure outdoors with her children. She is passionate about wilderness safety and first aid. Her husband is in his medical residency so she spends a lot of time with her kids on her own and is very passionate about still getting outdoors and adventuring and doing hard things with her kids solo.
They have converted a van into a mini camper that they take with them all around the country. She shares about that in this episode!
She has walked through a very traumatic experience with her own kids due to an accident from a distracted driver. She shares about this story in the episode. Her kids are all okay but it really changed how she looks at life.
We also chat about minimalism for families. I am also so passionate about it so it was really fun to talk to Brighton about this.
What we talked about:
4:40- Introduction to Brighton
6:10- Prioritizing being outdoors with her family
8:05- Being a minimalist
10:15- Where her passion for minimalism and the outdoors came from
13:55- Minimalism for families
23:05- The accident she was in with her kids and how it impacted her life
38:20- Her outdoor adventures with her family
39:55- Teaching her kids about first aid
46:30- Van life
49:35- Tips for camping with kids
50:50- Tips for minimalism
53:50- End of podcast questions
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Carla Naumburg, PhD is a clinical social worker, the mother of 2, and the author of several books. Her most recent book is You Are Not a Sh*tty Parent, How to Practice Self-Compassion and Give Yourself a Break. She is also the author fo the bestselling book How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t With Your Kids. Carla brings some hilarity to this issue and she talks a lot about how if we practice mindfulness and take care of ourselves that can help us stay calmer when things get crazy in our homes and in our minds as well.
Disclaimer: there is some cussing in this episode.
Photo credit: Heidi Aaronson
What we talked about:
6:30- Introduction to Carla
10:05- You are not a shitty parent!
18:10- Having self-compassion as a parent
20:35- Self-care as a parent
26:55- Being grateful but also accepting that parenting is hard
35:30- Concerns about what other parents think about you
38:45- Letting kids swear
41:30- Parenting advice
41:50- End of podcast questions
Show notes:
How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t With Your Kids
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Esther Huybreghts is the mom of 2 and lives in Belgium. She is the cofounder of Pok Pok Playroom which is a Toronto based digital toy company that empowers kids to be creative and think outside the box. It’s designed for kids aged 2-6. This app sounds like a dream come true!
In this episode, Esther and I talk about parenting as older millennials and the pressures that comes with that. We also talk about creating healthy boundaries with technology and screen time in our families.
What we talked about:
4:00- Introduction to Esther
12:10- School in Belgium
15:30- The pressure of parenting these days
23:45- Her app, Pok Pok Playroom
32:30- Creating healthy boundaries with technology and screen time
46:00- End of podcast questions
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Arlene Pellicane is the author of Screen Kids which she coauthored with Gary Chapman. She has been featured on the Today Show and Wallstreet Journal. Her mission is for you to find more happiness in your home. Arlene is the mother of 3 kids.
In Screen Kids Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane will empower you with the tools you need to make positive changes. Through stories, science, and wisdom, you’ll discover how to take back your home from an over-dependence on screens.
In this episode, we talk a lot about screen time and kids and technology. She has delayed giving her kids a phone until college.
Photo credit: Anthony Amorteguy
What we talked about:
5:15- Having a kid move out for college
13:00- Kids and screens
24:05- Not giving her kids technology until they went off to college
30:15- Self-reliance without technology
35:00- The importance of the quiet time in your brain without your technology
36:25- The reason that she wrote her book and what it’s all about
41:55- Her one piece of advice surrounding kids and technology
43:30- End of podcast questions
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Josephine Atluri is the mother of seven and in this episode she shares her experience of becoming a mother through IVF, international adoption and surrogacy. She is a highly sought after fertility, pregnancy, and parenting mindfulness coach. She is the host of the popular podcast, Responding to Life: Talking Health, Fertility, & Parenthood. She is also the author of the books Mindfulness Journal for Parents and 5 Minute Mindfulness for Pregnancy.
I loved getting to know Josephine and her story and learn more about her mindfulness practice.
What we talked about:
3:00- Josephine’s journey to motherhood
5:00- Talking with her kids about her family
7:00- Her podcast, Responding to Life
13:20- Being considerate of others when having the conversation around fertility and having kids
20:45- Finding mindfulness in your life and parenting
33:40- Her book
38:50- Realizing she needed mindfulness in her life
40:15- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
Responding to Life: Talking Health, Fertility, & Parenthood
5 Minute Mindfulness for Pregnancy
Mindfulness Journal for Parents
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Kara Forney is the founder of The Bump.com. She was the former CEO of The Bump as well once it was acquired by The Knot. She has a new book out called Boy Moms, Collective Tales of Mothers and Sons. This is a book where she sheds light on todays boy mom experience through a collection of essays written by moms that speaks to the unexpected joys, challenges, and overall significance of mothering sons. This heartwarming collection that Kara has put together demonstrates what society has long told us what to expect when it comes to being a boy mom. The reality is often quite opposite of our expectations. More often than not it is an adventure filled with exquisite moments of insight and joy we never could have anticipated. All that to say it’s not always what you think it is going to be! In her book she shares stories from all types of experiences.
You know that I love to talk to a mom that is quite a few steps ahead of me! Kara’s kids are both out of the house and she talks all about that. Her kids also grew up playing a lot of video games, and guess what – that’s okay!
I hope that you enjoy my conversation with Kara!
What we talked about:
5:40- The dialogue around raising boys
7:40- Showing your emotions and how that has changed over generations
16:25- Dreaming up her book, Boy Moms
26:10- How Kara started The Bump
33:10- Stories that she heard in her book
40:00- Giving boys good mentors and examples for what they can grow into
43:00- Social media and video games
55:35- End of podcast questions
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Judge Anthony Bompiani is a retired Judge and family law attorney turned consultant. He is the founder of Judge Anthony Consulting and co-founder of Court Clerk, a family court case management software program for non-attorneys. He is in the business of helping people navigate the areas of divorce and custody. He has been featured in Forbes, Success Magazine, and Men’s Journal. In addition to working with his clients one on one and in small groups he has also created online programs for people around the world who are struggling through divorce and custody battles.
This might not be something that everyone listening to this podcast is walking through right now but someone you know is walking through it and so I think it is important to educate ourselves so that way we can show up for other people.
If you are someone walking through this, I hope that this episode is helpful for you and I hope you feel supported by it. I am giving you a big hug!
There are a lot of important things that we talk about in this episode including communication and how important that is. Judge Anthony shares his own personal story walking through divorce and I am so grateful that he was willing to be open and honest about that in this episode.
What we talked about:
4:00- Introduction to Judge Anthony and raising his boys
9:40- His career as an attorney
15:50- Advice to other family law attorneys
17:45- Message to someone walking through divorce
20:20- Healing that Judge Anthony did after his divorce
27:55- Best case scenario for custody with kids in a divorce
32:15- Accepting the other parent’s parenting style when divorced
43:35- Questions to ask when your kids come home from the other parent’s house
46:30- How to be a supportive friend of someone walking through a divorce
48:50- End of podcast questions
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Nellie Harden is a family, life, and leadership coach. She is the mom of 4 girls who are in their teen years. She works hard to help parents build their kid’s worth, esteem, and confidence. She focuses on raising girls but there is a lot of relevant information in this conversation about raising both girls and boys.
In this conversation, Nellie and I talk about conversations to be having with your kids as they get into those teen years and how ultimately we are raising kids who are able to self discipline and lead successful lives once they leave your home.
What we talked about:
4:40- Living in a small town
7:05- The decision to transition out of homeschooling
9:40- Transitioning to having big kids
12:05- Building kids up and then releasing them
23:25- Important conversations to be having with daughters
31:00- Talking to your daughters about bullies
39:00- Encouraging kids to volunteer
47:00- Instilling confidence in our youth
50:50- End of podcast questions
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Today my guest is Stef Tousignat and we talk about all things gratitude! The biggest takeaway from this conversation is that you are already a REALLY GOOD MOM. Stef is a self proclaimed imperfect parent & gratitude nerd. She is also the author of the children’s book “The Middle of the Night Book.” She wrote this book because she felt like she was not her best self in the middle of the night when kids had her up and wanted to tackle the problem.
In this episode we also talk about thing small, unique ways that both Stef and I are good moms and I hope you will take a minute to practice that as well. What are three ways you are a really good mom or dad? Claim it and lean into it!!
Time Stamps:
5 min – Walking through anxiety with your kids
7 min- Talking about what we are good at as moms
15 min – Comparison
17 min- Parenting in community
24 min -Bedtime/middle of the night regulation
25 min- Starting your own gratitude practice
39 min- The juicy pause
44 min- Doing things that scare you
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Stef’s Website – Parent Differently
Stef’s Book – The Middle of the Night Book
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Yael Schonbrun, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist, assistant professor at Brown University, co-host of Psychologists Off the Clock: A podcast about the science and practice of living well, and mother of three. Yael’s work draws on scientific research, her clinical experience, ancient wisdom, and her own personal experience with her three little boys.
Yael is the author of a book coming out in November called Work, Parent, Thrive. It has twelve science backed strategies to ditch guilt, manage overwhelm, and grow connection (when everything feels like too much).
I am really excited about this conversation today! I know there are a lot of parents listening that have a lot on their plates and Yael helps us understand relationships between our roles, stress management, and gives us some happiness practices.
What we talked about:
5:20- The inspiration behind writing her book
10:10- Working through guilt as a parent
13:00- The importance of boredom in our lives
19:40- Yael’s biggest struggles when transitioning to a working parent
24:00- Therapy
28:50- Work family enrichment
32:50- Being present throughout your kid’s life
45:00- Balancing pursuing career goals and wanting to be with your kids
53:00- End of podcast questions
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Shanera Willamson is the host of the Brown Mama Bear Podcast.
I first found out about Shanera on the Donald Miller Podcast which is a business podcast. She was getting advice from him about how to go about starting this awesome community that she has created.
The community that she created is for parents raising brown children in white spaces. Shanera provides a place for parents to get the support, inspiration and input they need to raise kids who are comfortable in their skin and can passionately leave their mark on society.
She is the mom of three daughters and after her youngest went to college she reflected on her own life and what she learned over the years of parenting and she wanted to share and help others walking through the same type of situations that she has walked through.
Shanera says “all children deserve to grow up in an environment where they are seen, celebrated, and given the tools to succeed. The sting of racism embedded in our society can affect the confidence, self-respect, and ambition of children of color. Specifically parents of black and brown children must take steps to uproot the bias, negative stereotypes, and discrimination that threaten the physical and emotional safety of our developing young people. Ultimately, with the guidance of an engaged brown mama bear, our kids can thrive and reach their God-given potential despite the barriers that they face.”
What we talked about:
4:50- What Brown Mama Bear is
5:50- Schools, community, and what we do at home and how that impacts our kids
11:15- Teaching people based on what she learned through her parenting
17:00- Adultifying your kids
30:00- Helping people to make a change in your community
38:45- Her relationships with her kids as they are now adults
47:00- The importance of raising good kids
50:20- End of podcast questions
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ColorFull: Celebrating the Colors God Gave Us
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David Thomas is back on the show today to talk about raising emotionally strong boys. If you haven’t listened to his first episode, go back to episode 42 from July of 2021. We talked about simply raising boys and what that looks like. In this episode, we get more in depth about the emotional side of boys and why it is important to nurture that.
David is the director of family counseling at Daystar Counseling in Nashville, TN. His brand new book, Raising Emotionally Strong Boys, is out now. He is the co-author of 8 other books including the bestselling books Wild Things and Are My Kids on Track. As a licensed therapist, he works with kids and parents on all kinds of different topics.
He is a frequent guest on national television and podcasts and has been featured in publications including The Washington Post and USA Today.. He also has his own podcast, Raising Boys and Girls. He speaks around the county on these topics. He has 2 sons that are twins and a daughter.
What we talked about:
4:15- His most recent book and the inspiration behind writing it
9:30- The way that David was raised
10:35- Why men have difficulty showing their emotions
13:15- Handling a situation where your young boy is angry
25:10- Paying attention to the language that we use around our young boys
28:25- Processing your own emotions while working through your kids’ emotions
32:50- Projecting our own emotions on our kids
43:30- Depression in boys and how to help them cope with that
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Raising Emotionally Strong Boys
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Katie Arnold returns to the show to talk about kids and sports and why it’s so important to nurture a love for sport AND play. It can be really easy to get sucked into the World of signing your kid up for ALL THE THINGS and we want to stay curious and examine why we sign our kids up for things and how to strive for a healthy ratio of organized sport versus unorganized free play.
Here is a little more about Katie in case you missed our first episode! She is the mother of two girls, an ultra runner and a writer. She won the Leadville 100 in 2018 and her work has been published in Outside, her stories have appeared in The New York Times, Men’s Journal, ESPN the Magazine, Marie Claire, Runner’s World, Elle, and Sunset, among others.
She created and launched the popular Raising Rippers column, about bringing up adventurous kids. Her families can be found adventuring up mountains and down rivers and I wanted to hear her tips and ideas for how to pursue a lifestyle like this with your kids.
Katie is also an author and her first book, a memoir; Running Home is now available in paperback- make sure you check it out at your local bookstore and it’s also available on audible narrated by Katie.
Let’s get to hearing all about raising adventurous kids now!
What we talked about:
2:45- An update on what Katie has been up to with her kids
5:45- The discussion of balancing kid’s sports with other priorities
17:10- How to balance schedules with encouraging kids to be well rounded with sports and activities
26:25- The balance of starting kids young in sports
30:20- Encouraging play over competition for kids
38:25- The life lessons that team sports can teach children
59:00- Being intentional to create the experience that you want for your family
Show Notes:
Norwich – One Tiny Vermont Town’s Secret to Happiness and Excellence
Don’t Let Youth Sports Hijack your Life
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We are talking about raising adventurous kids in todays episode with Katie Arnold!
Katie is the mother of two girls, an ultra runner and a writer. She won the Leadville 100 in 2018 and her work has been published in Outside, her stories have appeared in The New York Times, Men’s Journal, ESPN the Magazine, Marie Claire, Runner’s World, Elle, and Sunset, among others.
She created and launched the popular Raising Rippers column, about bringing up adventurous kids. Her family can be found adventuring up mountains and down rivers and I wanted to hear her tips and ideas for how to pursue a lifestyle like this with your kids.
Katie is also an author and her first book, a memoir; Running Home is now available in paperback- make sure you check it out at your local bookstore and it’s also available on audible narrated by Katie.
Let’s get to hearing all about raising adventurous kids now!
What we talked about:
3:35- Introduction to Katie Arnold and her family
5:25- Her thoughts on “balance” in her life
9:20- Katie’s upbringing and how that is a part of who she is today and how she parents
14:00- Katie’s thoughts on technology for her kids
24:15- How her outdoor adventures help to instill curiosity in her kids
28:40- The importance of learning with your kids
31:40- How to bring your kids on outdoor adventures and ways to handle their complaining
39:10- How her parenting has evolved and changed as her kids have gotten older
54:10- End of podcast questions
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Rosalia Rivera is a Consent Educator, Sexual Literacy Advocate, Speaker, change agent, founder of CONSENTparenting, host of the AboutCONSENT Podcast, creatrix of CONSENTwear and child sexual abuse survivor turned thriver.
In this episode we talk about body boundaries, safe people and safety networks, how to respond to a child who comes to you with information that they may be ashamed to talk with you about, body exploration, giving your kids ownership over their bodies and their decisions and so much more.
This episode is perhaps the most important episode I’ve recorded yet. I am so happy to get this information in the hands of more parents and those helping raise kids! Please share it with anyone who you think may benefit from it and reach out to Rosalia on instagram to give her a thank you for this work she’s doing!
Photo Cred: Katelyn Malo
What we talked about:
3:35- Introduction to Rosalia Rivera and how she got into the work that she does
11:20- The first steps in teaching kids about body awareness and body safety
14:45- How to respond to a child if they come to you with the information that they have been sexually abused
19:15- How to remove a person from a child’s life without the child feeling betrayed for having spoken up
21:35- What a safety network is and how to implement it in your family
26:20- How to handle doctor’s visits, coaches and other people of power in the child’s life and how to empower kids with consent letters
33:10- The importance of giving your child independence for self development
40:10- Teaching kids about self exploration with their body parts
48:10- The difference between being overprotective and proactive
53:45- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
Books Recommendations for Kids:
Some Secrets should never be Kept – Jayneen Sanders
C is for Consent – Eleanor Morrison
It’s not the Stork – Robie Harris
Book Recommendations for Adults:
Parenting with PTSD – Joyelle Brandt
Conversations with a Pediphile – Amy Hammel-Zabin
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Ralphie Jacobs is a positive parenting expert and shares “life changing parenting truths” through her courses over at Simply on Purpose and through her wildly popular instagram. She is the mother of four and has a big passion for arming parents with powerful parenting skills that will change your home.
In this episode we talk about being a safe parent and what that means, families having different boundaries – there is no one right way, and the most important take away from this episode in my opinion is that we can’t “fix” our kids but we can take charge of our own behavior and that’s where it all starts.
I hope you learn something and enjoy this conversation! Please consider leaving us a rating and review on iTunes or wherever you are listening if you do enjoy it and share it with a friend!
What we talked about:
4:30- Introduction to Ralphie and what she does with Simply on Purpose
8:20- What it means to be a “safe parent”
14:40- The reason why children might still misbehavior even with positive parenting implemented in the home
20:05- Doing the work now and implementing positive parenting now can make it easier for the future
23:50- Parenting teenagers
25:45- The changing role of a parent
27:45- Navigating a child’s disrespectful behavior
32:25- Parenting being all about the parent’s behavior
34:55- Why there’s been a shift in parenting in recent years
36:55- The importance of boundaries in parenting
41:30- When and how to introduce technology to children and setting boundaries around that
55:00- End of podcast questions
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Jenn Wirth is the founder of Mom’s Maternal Health. She is the mother of two and is also a former first grade teacher. Jenn had postpartum depression when she was 4 months postpartum with her second baby and she shares her story very openly and candidly in the episode. She gives us all a safe, judgment free space to listen, learn and to reflect on our own lives. She also does that in her own community that she has created with Mom’s Maternal Health. Jenn really invites others mothers to share their stories including the good, the messy, and the emotional rollercoaster of every piece of motherhood.
I also share a bit about my own struggles with anxiety in this episode. I want you all to know that if you are walking through that in any way regardless of how old your baby or kids are, just know that you are not alone and you are not weak if you ask for help. I hope that you feel empowered by this episode of the podcast.
What we talked about:
3:30- Mom’s Maternal Health and the work that Jenn does with that organization
7:40- Jenn’s husband advocating for her during her postpartum anxiety and depression
14:45- Taking care of your mental health
24:00- Jenn’s community that connects postpartums moms with each other
28:40- Asking for help
41:50- Accepting your feelings about various stages of your kid’s life
44:35- Social media as mothers
49:50- End of podcast questions
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Moms Maternal Health on Instagram
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Dr. Jenny King is a licensed social worker who focuses on trauma and is the co-director of the Center on Trauma at Case Western University in Cleveland. She is the mother of 3 and her and her husband unschool their children.
In this episode, we focus on stress and trauma and the importance of play as adults. We talk about moving away from surviving and actually thriving after trauma and how we can work to calm anxiety in everyday life through these simple micropractices that Jenny has developed.
I hope that this is an insightful conversation to help you in your everyday life and also in your parenting!
What we talked about:
4:00- Introduction to Dr. Jenny King and her work
6:15- Creating a device for kids to self-report their trauma
8:30- Helping people move from surviving to thriving after trauma
10:10- Talking to our kids when their emotions are high
17:35- How our kids perceive us
21:35- Daily micro-practices to help reduce our stress
27:45- Playing as adults
30:50- Finding our baseline for stress levels
36:10- Other micropractices to center yourself
38:20- Unschooling her kids
56:50- End of podcast questions
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Dr. Kate Lund is licensed clinical psychologist, published author, and keynote speaker. Kate struggled as a child with a medical condition called Hydrocephalus which made some of the typical activities of childhood challenging. Kate is an international bestselling author of the book Bounce which is the ultimate guide to help children build resilience and thrive in all areas of life. In this episode, we talk about raising confident, optimistic and happy kids handling bullying and building bullet-proof self belief and discovering strengths through challenges.
What we talked about:
2:50- Kate’s childhood with Hydrocephalus
4:25- What her parents did to help her feel okay with being different as a kid
7:25- Talking to kids about the word “normal”
8:35- How her experiences as a child lead her to become a child psychologist
10:55- How she is teaching her kids how to find their passions
15:05- Comparison among siblings
17:30- Teaching our kids about perseverance and how to overcome challenges
19:55- How to control our own emotions if our own children are being bullied
23:30- Helping kids understand that feelings and emotions will pass
25:10- Teaching our kids about resilience
27:55- How to teach our kids to help others when are they struggling
32:40- Dr. Kate’s book, Bounce
33:30- Teaching kids how to regulate their emotions
42:15- Standing up for what’s right
43:05- Message to parents
45:20- End of podcast questions
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The Diary of the Wimpy Kids Series
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Amy is the mom of 4 girls, she is a simplifying wizard. She is also the host of Mom Chat Monday which is a podcast with her cohost, Kyla Marie Charles. This is a podcast but they actually go live on Instagram and use that audio for their podcast. Go follow her on IG @houseofeilers.
She is funny, smart, and she will encourage you to get rid of some stuff and organize your space.
What we talked about:
2:45- Introduction to Amy
13:40- Chores
18:35- Tips for decluttering
31:50- Amy’s 6 week house challenge
33:35- All things plants
44:20- Decluttering with kids
49:10- End of podcast questions
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Emily Battle is the executive director of Let Me Run. Let Me Run is a nonprofit wellness program that inspires boys to be themselves, be active, and belong. They have a comprehensive curriculum that applies the power of running. The program encourages boys to develop their psychological, emotional, and social health in addition to their physical health.
In this episode, we talk about the importance of this connection that they create in the community at Let Me Run. Emily is also a mom of 2 boys herself. It is a great conversation about changing the societal narrative about being a boy and a man and becoming a role model for others.
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What we talked about:
4:00- Introduction to Emily
7:50- Emily’s career with NYRR
12:30- Transitioning to her career with Let Me Run
13:50- The program structure of Let Me Run
18:30- How Let Me Run helps boys understand that they can express their emotions
24:25- Boys and friendships
27:50- Teaching boys to be respectful
31:50- How running teaches the boys these life lessons
38:10- Where they are located and their expansion
41:05- End of podcast questions
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Julia is nationally recognized as an award-winning children’s book author and parenting expert. There is probably a book that Julie has authored that tackles an issue or a subject that you are hoping to work on with your children. She has presented in thousands of schools across the country and abroad, regularly speaks at national education and counseling conferences. She has published nearly 100 children’s books with a wide range of characters and social development topics. Her books showcase her innate ability to enter the worldview of a children who can then use her storybooks to grow. Julia gives children both the “what to say” and the “how to say it.”
What I love about Julia is her biggest goal is to find a creative way to give children the tools to be life long problem solvers.
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What we talked about:
4:05- Julia’s summer plans
4:55- Introduction to Julia’s work
7:25- The books that she writes
8:45- Tips for kids that interrupt often
10:25- Talking with our kids when tragedies happen
22:15- Therapy dogs
26:05- Teaching kids about having hope
35:00- Teaching kids to be proud of themselves but staying humble
41:25- Giving kids tools to be lifelong problem solvers
42:25- How to find Julia’s books
43:35- End of podcast questions
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Katie Kovacs is a licensed therapist and she specializes in individual counseling and psychotherapy for both adults and children. She is known for her work in high school athletics and the reality of anxiety, perfectionism, and eating disorders.
In this podcast, we focus on transitions, perfectionism, anxiety, handling emotion, and talking to our kids and ourselves about having a healthy relationship with our bodies and food.
What we talked about:
6:15- Introductions to Katie’s work in therapy
10:20- Transitions with kids
14:25- Emotions
20:50- How therapy changed her life as a client
23:20- Advice that she received in grad school
27:25- Communicating about taking care of our bodies with our kids
38:05- Dealing with body changes as you age as a parent
42:55- Body image issues in sports for kids
48:35- End of podcast questions
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Rachael Amarante is an author, a speaker, and she has created the Awakening Motherhood Project. She talks really authentically and in a really honest way to mothers and has a passion for living life with a little less BS, more joy, and purpose.
In this episode, we talk about burnout and ways to tackle it, choosing to unhurry yourself, and we end the episode with some favorite things that we are loving!
Rachael was on the show last summer on episode 39. We talked about finding joy in motherhood and summer sanity ideas and tips last year. Go back and check that one out!
What we talked about:
3:35- Catching up with Rachael
9:25- Burnout in motherhood
22:15- Unhurry yourself
26:35- Limiting the crutch that you lean on for anxiety
45:30- Soaking in each stage for your kids
49:15- Things that they are loving
1:00:40- The Awakening Motherhood Project
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The Awakening Motherhood Project Website
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Kellie is a board certified behavior analyst. She is the founder of her own business, Applied Behavioral Happiness. At Applied Behavioral Happiness, Kellie and her team work with families to overcome challenging behavior through skill building programs and play.
What I love about Kellie is that she approaches this with what will work with your kids, your family, your belief systems, your values. It’s not a one size fits all plan for how to handle behavior issues with your child.
Some things that we talked about in this episode were how to change behavior without forcing change in your child, when tried and true advice doesn’t work, our triggers, your child’s triggers. I walked away with some tangible skills that I am going to walk away for my own family!
I shared some real life experiences that I’ve had with my own kids that I had Kellie analyze that I thought would be helpful for people listening.
What we talked about:
4:05- What Applied Behavioral Happiness is and what lead her to this career path
7:45- What clients are typically looking for when they work with her
10:35- When to seek out intervention for your child
11:35- Changing the behavior of a child without forcing change of your child
16:15- Discussing specific examples of kid’s behavior
22:00- Consequences versus punishments
25:20- When tried and true advice doesn’t work
32:20- Consequences of behaviors
39:30- Punishments
43:55- How to handle when our own triggers come up
50:25- Supporting other parents when you see them struggling out in public
51:55- How you can work with Kellie
53:30- End of podcast questions
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Angela Douglas is the Executive Director for Healthy New Albany which is an organization that promotes wellness in Ohio. They have toddler in nature programs, nourish cooking lessons, a food pantry, and five races throughout the year that help fund their programming. They also have a virtual kids marathon where you do 26 miles over an 8 week period. She started the food pantry in her garage when she was pregnant and had a 1.5 year old. It is really cool to hear how all of that evolved. She also served in the army for 4 years and in this episode she shares how that shaped how she views life everyday and feels a pull to make an impact in what she does.
In this episode, we get to hear about finding ways to give our kids perspective, kids in sports and athletics and the importance of moving our bodies.
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What we talked about:
3:10- Introduction to Angela
4:15- Her inspiration to join the army and how her experience inspired her to give back
9:40- Teaching your kids about having a perspective on their life
10:25- How she started the food pantry
15:45- How the food pantry process works
21:15- Her work with Healthy New Albany
24:30- Healthy New Albany race series
26:05- The kids marathon and encouraging kids to be active
29:15- Kids and sports
33:30- Encouraging people to exercise daily
44:35- Communicating with her kids about the importance of movement
49:10- End of podcast questions
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Dr. Laurie Kramer is a licensed clinical psychologist and a professor of applied psychology at Northeastern University. She is the creator of More Fun with Sisters and Brothers program which is a program that teaches 4-8 year old children the key social and emotional competencies that research has shown are critical for fun, friendly, and low conflict sibling interaction. She has some steps that are really simple to work through some of these conflicts.
What we talked about:
4:50- Introduction to Dr. Laurie Kramer’s work
6:10- Age appropriate arguments
8:15- How we can guide our kids during these times
16:25- How these conflict skills translate into skills in adulthood
19:00- The Sisters and Brothers Program
25:40- The differences based on different family dynamics
28:25- Hope for a family that feels like they have lost control with sibling conflicts
32:45- Expectations to have your sibling’s backs even when there is conflict at home between each other
36:20- Breaking down specific fights and how to handle them
46:35- End of podcast questions
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Bob Kennedy is an American Distance Runner, who is now retired. He once held the American record in the 3,000 meters, 2 mile and the 5,000 meters. Bob ran for Indiana University and went on to run professionally for Nike, competing in the 1992 and 1996 Olympics. Bob has a 5k PR of 12:58 and Nike has named two shoes after him.
I’ve had the opportunity to work with Bob, when he was on the Board of Directors for Back on My Feet Indianapolis and then at Athletic Annex, a local run specialty store in Indianapolis.
Bob is also the father of two kids. He has twins. His daughter is very involved with running and his son is a soccer player. One of the things that we focus on in this episode is how Bob approaches parenting his kids through the lens of someone who was a very successful athlete himself and what kinds of involvement he has in their athletic careers.
What we talked about:
4:15- Introduction to Bob
8:25- Background on Bob’s running career and his work with Athletic Annex
14:15- His kid’s involvement in sport
18:05- Pushing his kids to pursue their sports to the highest level
23:15- Making sure his kids don’t overdo their training and burnout
31:15- Not setting the expectations that his kids have to live up to his athletic experiences
34:55- What he looks for in coaches for his children
41:55- How to promote longevity in sport for our kids
46:30- Promoting hard work in sport
49:50- When to specialize in sports
55:20- What he is like at his kids sporting events
1:02:25- Coparenting
1:06:35- The most exciting running moment that he has seen in the last year
1:14:45- Who he would choose for a 5k team from across eras
1:17:20- End of podcast questions
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Jennifer Borget is the mom of three kids. She is a blogger and is the creator of the Movie Night Journal. She is very passionate about movie watching and they do a family movie night every week and the journal that she created gives you suggestions, activities, and snack ideas to make your family movie night perfect.
Jennifer is a former news anchor and we talked about how her life shifted after she left that career to stay home with her kids full time.
In this conversation, we went in so many directions but one of the coolest things that we talked about was that her and her husband paid off their home in their 30s and they lived debt free. It was really cool to hear how they made that happen.
What we talked about:
2:30- Introduction to Jennifer
8:35- Her marriage with her husband
10:35- Paying off their mortgage in their 30s
25:40- Her interest in budgeting
30:35- Teaching your kids about budgeting and money
36:25- Family movie night
56:05- Talking about puberty with your kids
58:20- National movie night
1:03:25- End of podcast questions
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Amy Arnold and Jessica Stanley are my guests today. They founded the company, Card My Yard. They founded the business with the simple goal of serving families and making a positive impact in the community with their small business. Over the past several years, they have turned this into a major franchise. They have over 450 franchises throughout the United States. They are both mothers of three kids and live in Texas.
In today’s episode, we talk about friendship, building Card My Yard and where the idea for the business came from, working with their husbands, and more!
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What we talked about:
4:55- Introduction to Amy and Jessica
7:55- How Amy and Jessica met
15:30- Kids being more independent
21:00- Advice for forming friendships
27:00- Starting Card My Yard
37:40- How they manage all of their team members and franchise owners
39:10- Seeing a lot of growth in the past few years
43:25- The options that they have at Card My Yard
45:30- How the business has evolved over the years
49:50- Maintaining a friendship while owning a business together
54:00- End of podcast questions
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I’ll Be There (But I’ll Be Wearing Sweatpants) by Amy Weatherly
Mama Bear Apologetics by Hillary Morgan Ferrer
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Lyndsee Wunn is the founder of Boxes of Love which is a grassroots effort to provide babies and children entering foster care from local hospitals with a large box of new clothing, pajamas, shoes and other comfort items to call their own. Lyndsee is a pediatric nurse and she saw a shocking number of babies and children who would enter the foster care system with nothing but the clothes on their backs. After adopting her own son who her and her husband fostered for two years, Lyndsee knew she had to do something to change the way so many children enter the foster care system. Lyndsee talks about being a foster parent, adopting her own son, and what Boxes of Love does and means to her.
What we talked about:
5:10- Introduction to Lyndsee
13:25- Biggest challenges of fostering her child
18:25- The adoption process for her son
24:40- What life looks like now
32:15- Finding your purpose in life
51:15- Ways that you can help the foster care system without actually fostering
58:05- End of podcast questions
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The Lies That Bind by Emily Griffin
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Tricia Brichler is a mom of two lively little boys, a pediatric and holistic certified registered nurse (RN) and an integrative health coach based in Cincinnati, OH. She is an active lifestyle enthusiast and life-long learner and is constantly seeking ways to improve the balance between modern conveniences and long-term health of her own family. She received her integrative health coach training through Duke Integrative Medicine.
In this episode, Tricia shares about tips for incorporating nutritious food into our kids’ diets, promoting an active lifestyle for your family, simplifying your morning routine with kids, and so much more!
What we talked about:
3:20- Walking through the grief of losing her father
11:15- Finding running again as an adult
15:25- Tricia’s career path
23:00- Tricia’s passion for promoting an active lifestyle
25:45- Making sure we are feeding our children a nutritious diet
37:30- Goals with her business, Groundwork Health Coaching
45:20- Tip to simplify the morning routine with kids
47:40- End of podcast questions
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The Practice of Groundedness by Brad Stulberg
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Julie Leonard is a pre and postnatal fitness coach. She has a master’s degree in exercise science. She focuses on the core and pelvic floor and she helps people achieve an easier birth and faster postpartum recovery.
In this episode, Julie and I talk about how she got into her career and she gives us some great advice on strength work and core work. She has a wild story about the birth of one of her kids and she shares about that in this episode. This is super fun and casual as well as educational, you’re going to learn a lot in this episode!
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What we talked about:
3:10- Introduction to Julie
4:15- Being a competitive swimmer and how that impacts her parenting now
9:50- How she met her husband
10:45- Julie’s work in exercise science
14:30- How she improved her pelvic floor health
22:15- What people can do to prepare during pregnancy for labor and postpartum
26:30- Exercises that you should and shouldn’t do throughout pregnancy
30:25- Advice for people wanting to return to exercise postpartum
36:10- Julie’s birth stories
46:50- How Julie mentally handled her next two births after a traumatic birthing experience
50:30- Birthing positions
52:45- End of podcast questions
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Strong Women Lift Each Other Up by Molly Galbraith
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Julie Lythcott-Haims is the NYT Bestselling author of How to Raise an Adult which gave rise to her popular Ted Talk. Her newest book is coming out, it is called Your Turn: How to be an Adult. Julie is also the author of a poetry memoir called Real American which illustrates her experience as a black and biracial person in white spaces.
Julie worked at Stanford University as the Dean of Freshman for over a decade and she noticed a rise in parental involvement in students’ lives. That is where the book, How to Raise an Adult, came from. Julie has two children.
What we talked about:
6:40- Introduction to Julie
9:00- Her role as a dean at Stanford and how it shaped how she parented her own kids
18:20- Allowing your kids to roam freely
26:55- Balancing structure and free play
32:00- The methods to encourage kids to do things on their own
39:35- Benchmarks for various ages
46:25- Parents helping too much with their kid’s homework
49:00- Giving your kids agency
56:45- End of podcast questions
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Read Until You Understand by Farah Jasmine Griffin
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Sarah Molitor lives in the Pacific Northwest and has 6 boys. Sarah is married to her husband, Tim. She provides encouragement, joy, and inspiration for you over on her Instagram page: Modern Farmhouse Family. She recently wrote a children’s book and has another one coming out soon.
Sarah used to be a nurse and in this episode she shares about what it looked like to step away from that career and stay at home with her kids.
What I love about Sarah is that she just is who she is! She lays it all out there on her social media and shares her real life raising these 6 boys. And, she’s a whole lot of fun!
What we talked about:
3:05- Introduction to Sarah
8:10- Accepting help as a mom
16:25- Her business, Modern Farmhouse
23:05- Working through resentment as a mother
28:50- Being a nurse and then deciding to leave work to stay home with the kids
31:35- Making friendships as an adult
35:00- Living near her in-laws
39:55- Dinnertime with a large family
49:20- The children’s book that she wrote
53:35- Having the sex talk with your kids
59:05- End of podcast questions
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I Grew With You by Sarah Molitor
M is for Mama by Abbie Halberstadt
The Treasure Tree by John Trent
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Keli has a heart for helping mothers replace anxiety and guilt with fulfillment and joy. She is the mom of 5 and recently went back to work. She is an educator who teaches fifth grade. She spent 11 years at home with her kids and has been back teaching for 2 years. We get to hear about that transition and she also shares about choosing joy in her life even in the hard times. She shares how she handled motherhood when it wasn’t necessarily what she thought it would be. We also talk about boundaries and what that looks like while raising kids.
What we talked about:
3:25- Introduction to Keli and her family
6:00- Going through the baby years even though it wasn’t what felt natural to her
16:00- Being firm but kind and setting boundaries with her kids
24:35- Choosing joy
29:25- Celebrating each stage of your kids’ lives
32:45- Pausing to feel emotions
37:05- Going back to work after being home for 11 years with the kids
42:25- Mom guilt
46:45- Her Ministry in Motherhood work and balancing that with parenting and teaching
56:25- End of podcast questions
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Jenn Kautsch feels passionate about making safe spaces for women to have conversations about alcohol without judgment, labels or rules. She is a retired “grey area” drinker and in her mid-40s, she felt tired, stuck, and on autopilot and needed a change. She just turned 50 and is a new empty nester.
She started a community called Sober Sis where she has helped over 20,000 women from all over the world. SoberSis is a like-minded community of women who are renegotiating their relationship with alcohol w/o labels, shame, judgment or rules. She has a 21 day reset challenge that she started because she wanted to share what she has learned and experienced firsthand.
The biggest takeaway that I had was that I just want to be present and clear minded. This conversation really gave me a pull to be intentional about that!
What we talked about:
5:10- Introduction to Jen
12:30- Going alcohol free
21:25- Being on a different page as her husband in her decision to quit drinking
32:45- Drinking as a parent
34:30- Talking to your kids about drinking
35:30- What her alcohol intake looked like when she was drinking and why she felt the need to quit drinking
50:20- Making an intention to thrive versus slipping into survival mode
58:00- Being open with her kids about her drinking journey
1:16:30- What she orders for non-alcholic drinks at a restaurant
1:18:00- End of podcast questions
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This Side of Alcohol by Peggy Cooney
This Naked Mind by Annie Grace
Alcohol Explained by William Porter
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Tessa Stuckey is a licensed therapist working with teens and parents of teens. She is a returning guest on this show. She was episode 32 of this podcast where we talked about cultural influences impacting our teens.
Today on the podcast, Tessa talks about coping skills, when our kids lie and cheat and how to handle those things. Tessa has a great system that she talks about in this podcast for when her children lie and cheat.
Tessa is helping so many people with her therapy practice as well as on her Instagram community. She is so relatable, she has four kids of her own and comes at everything with such a thoughtful approach!
What we talked about:
4:05- Catching up with Tessa
16:45- Addressing cheating and lying with your kids
34:35- Talking to your kids about how their behavior affects your emotions
40:55- Allowing your kids to feel their emotions and handling behavioral issues
51:45- Figuring out how to parent in the way that works best for you
59:15- End of podcast questions
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For the Sake of our Youth by Tessa Stuckey
The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides
Behind Closed Doors by B.A. Paris
The Couple Next Door by Shari Lapena
The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave
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Sarah Lacey is the founder of Linking Indy Women which is an amazing community and networking group where each month men and women gather to hear inspiring women in business around the city share the story. You leave all of these events feeling connection, encouragement, having advice and strategy and most importantly you leave inspired.
Sarah is also the mother of four, she works full time in tech. In this episode, we talk about why she launched Linking Indy Women, what it means and why it is important, what it is like to be a woman in business. Sarah also talks about walking through divorce and what it is like being a single parent. She shares with us about her heart for motherhood.
What we talked about:
6:05- Sarah’s career before starting Linking Indy Women
12:45- The evolution of Linking Indy Women and the power of connecting with other women in business
20:35- What Linking Indy Women looks like now
29:15- Being willing to not have a balance in your life when you are juggling multiple commitments
37:05- What it is like parenting adults and cultivating a friendship with your kids
44:55- What’s next for Linking Indy Women
46:35- Your purpose in life
50:20- Taking solo trips with each of her kids
51:40- Being a single mom and walking through divorce
56:45- Talking about divorce with her kids
1:00:30- Co-parenting Advice
1:02:00- End of podcast questions
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Esther is the mother of four grown children and she runs the Instagram account Moms of Bigs. She will speak to your soul over on that page! She talks about giving our big kids the roots of unconditional love and the wings of freedom to be completely themselves. She comes to you with help, humor, and hope!
We get a lot of really great advice from Esther in this episode and I hope that you enjoy it!
What we talked about:
6:40- Introduction to Esther
8:25- Setting boundaries with all of your children and teaching them about respect
24:10- Feeling lonely as a mother
27:55- Setting boundaries around drinking with your children
41:20- Parenting older kids
45:50- Seeing your kids enter young adulthood
49:10- Reflecting on the younger years
53:30- Helping your kids learn to take care of themselves
55:25- The projects that Esther is working on
58:30- End of podcast questions
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Learning to Walk in The Dark by Barbara Brown Taylor
What is God Like? By Rachel Held Evans and and Matthew Paul Turner
Parenting Your Teens With Love and Logic by Foster Cline and Jim Fay
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Shannon Battle is a mentor, a business owner, a speaker, a counselor, and she is the mother of 5. She also recently got her license to be a general contractor and the story behind that is so cool that she saw the need for it and went after it. Shannon has a passion for helping others see opportunities that lay dormant within themselves.
I had so much fun talking to her and hearing about her journey, owning her own business, and taking chances. I love her drive and I think that she will really motivate you to go and do something that needs to get done today!
What we talked about:
4:25- Shannon’s family
7:55- Being a teen mom and still being married 26 years later
16:15- Technology and kids and how it has changed over her parenting journey
17:15- What Shannon does professionally
24:55- Her passion for doing counseling for children in foster care
26:55- Not letting fear get in the way of what you want to do
30:10- Balancing dreaming big and being realistic
34:45- Doing contract work and where that business is taking her
38:50- End of podcast questions
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Michelle Icard is a speaker, author and educator who helps kids, parents, and teachers navigate the complicated social world of early adolescence. Her newest book is Fourteen Talks By Age Fourteen. That guides readers between the fourteen essential conversations parents need to have with their kids before they start high school. It talks to you about the simple conversations to the really big conversations. The book covers hygiene, alcohol, sex, repuation, friendship, freedom. So many topics in this book that I was underlining and taking notes on. My oldest child is 9 and I felt like it was a great time to read this book!
Michelle is a CNN parenting writer and a member of the Today Show Parenting Team. Her work has been featured in publications like the Washington Post, People Magazine, the Chicago Tribune. She has a middle school leadership program that is amazing.
What we talked about:
4:25- What Michelle experienced that made her interested in studying early adolescence
7:05- What we can do to prepare our children for adolescence
10:40- Giving your kids freedom even when it’s hard
14:00- Helping our children realize that we are a safe place
19:30- The B.R.I.E.F. conversation model and why that is important when talking with your kids about both simple and hard stuff
30:45- Talking to our kids about reputation
35:15- Helping your children navigate friendships and relationships
40:35- Communicating with our kids what fairness really means
46:10- Having older kids
48:40- End of podcast questions
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Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen
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Erin Mohring is the mom of three boys who are a sophomore, an 8th grader, and a 4th grader. Erin is also a runner so it was fun to hear that part of her story. She is a really fun follow on Instagram, she is @homewiththeboys over there! On her blog, she shares all about faith, family, fashion, and fitness!
In this episode, Erin shares about the MOB Society and A Million Praying Moms that she founded and worked on for 12 years. She finally decided that it was time to step away recently. She shares what that is like to step away from something even when it is still a really good thing. She really encouraged me to step into what I am passionate about, what I believe in, and to trust my instincts on how to raise my family.
A resounding theme in this episode is that your family is your family, do it your way!
What we talked about:
3:00- Get to know Erin!
5:50- Finding her passion for running after having her third baby
13:30- Motivating her kids to find a passion for exercise
22:15- Balancing all of her kid’s extracurriculars
28:25- Accepting that her children are getting older and closer to being out of the house
34:15- Her boundaries with her kids and technology
38:10- The business that she created, the MOB Society & A Million Praying Moms and knowing when to step away from something even when it is still good
51:30- Teaching her children to give back to others
56:55- End of podcast questions
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Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb
The Wingfeather Saga by Andrew Peterson and Joe Sutphin
The Book With No Pictures by B.J. Novak
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Matt DeVirgiliis is on the podcast today! He is the father of 2 and his daughters are 6 and 8 now. They were born very prematurely so he has a memoir out that walks through his journey of being a dad of two preemie babies and walking through some pretty scary and life threatening situations with his wife. He shares openly and honestly in this book about what it was like during those few years in his life. I think that anyone that has walked through anything similar will feel connected to Matt. Even just as a parent with new babies, you will feel connected to Matt.
What we talked about:
4:00- Introduction to Matt and his kids
7:00- Matt’s book and his writing
13:50- Matt’s children being born prematurely and his wife’s birth experience
27:55- Facing the reality that they can no longer have other biological children and almost losing his wife
36:15- Message to anyone in the NICU
41:00- Going to visit the girls in the NICU
50:45- Matt’s mental health and emotional state while being in the NICU with his girls
54:35- End of podcast questions
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Barbarian Days: A Surfing Life by William Finnegan
At the Same Moment, Around the World by Clotilde Perrin
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Amanda Knapp is the founder and CEO of Sitting Made Simple. Amanda started her career as a nanny right out of high school in 1999. Over time, as her nanny career evolved and changed and she moved, she lived in Columbus, Ohio and realized that there was a huge need for childcare. That is where Sitting Made Simple all started. She worked from her home basement, scheduled everything on pen and paper and took appointments over the phone. In 2011, just 3 years into the business the demand for the services were rapidly increasing and Amanda made the decision to go full time with Sitting Made Simple.
Sitting Made Simple connects local families with Sitting Made Simple babysitters. Whether you need a sitter for before or after school care, part time or full time, evenings, or weekends they have you covered with reliable, screened, CPR certified, background checked, and interviewed sitters.
Amanda has such a fun personality and you are going to learn about her vision for her business and her journey as an entrepreneur!
What we talked about:
4:00- Getting to know Amanda, and the business that she has created, Sitting Made Simple
8:55- How each of the franchises are locally owned
16:40- Difference in moms versus dads booking sitters
23:20- Babysitters being required to be 18 and older on Sitting Made Simple
28:00- Running the business through the pandemic
30:30- How to set expectations with babysitters
43:20- Turning 40
49:40- End of podcast questions
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Not All Diamonds and Rose by Dave Quinn
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Shanisty Ireland is a former news reporter and anchor. She is now the mother to 4 and she runs the blog She’s Becoming Domestic. She has had a couple of articles that have gone viral on Scary Mommy. Shanisty talks openly about the messy parts of motherhood as well as the fun parts.
I really enjoyed chatting with Shanisty and I really hope that when you listen to this conversation you feel like you are joining a conversation with two friends!
What we talked about:
2:50- Introduction to Shanisty
3:30- Homeschooling some of her children
9:35- Sports with kids
16:30- Shanisty’s career as a news reporter and anchor
23:30- Motherhood as a working mom and starting her blog
30:35- Transitioning from being a full time working professional to staying home with the kids
34:40- Showing our kids what matters to us and that we work hard
37:55- Mom guilt
50:50- Learning to love cooking for her family
58:50- End of podcast questions
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Ready Player One by Ernest Cline
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Julie is the mother of two and she is the founder of Modern Pop which is a fruit bar which was born out of her kitchen. She couldn’t find a simple ingredient frozen fruit bar to help her son’s teeth when he was teething and needed some soothing. They started selling these from a cold plate push cart along the street in Laguna Beach. Not long after that they fielded phoen calls from local grocery stores requesting delivery of their fruit filled bars. Julie is really a marketing and sales expert, she is so good at what she does. She shares about her entrepreneurship journey along with tips for people that are looking to start their own business.
This episode is not just for entrepreneurs, you’ll also gain some really great life advice. She will help you to own this one simple thing: you are awesome!
What we talked about:
5:00- Julie’s interest in style and branding
6:35- Moving back closer to family
9:30- How she got into entrepreneurship
11:25- The self belief that she has
13:00- The confidence that was instilled in her while growing up
15:10- What her and her husband each work to teach their children
19:55- Easy breakfast ideas that Julie likes to prepare for her kids
21:20- What they do for dinner in their homes
22:35- The origin story of her business, Modern Pop
29:25- How to get over the fear of being rejected
34:50- Julie’s favorite self-help books
36:35- Cultivating a healthy lifestyle for her children
40:55- Biggest win with Modern Pop
42:00- Best branding advice for someone starting a business
45:20- Using LinkedIn to grow her business
51:55- Julie’s holiday family traditions
53:00- End of podcast questions
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Manifesting Made Easy by Jen Mazer
Chocolate Fever by Robert Kimmel Smith
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Andrea Davis is back on the show today! Andrea is the founder of Better Screen Time and is the mom of 5. She has been researching screen time and the effects that it has on families for years. She has just relaunched and added so many great things to her tech healthy family plan. It is a course to prepare kids to use tech as a tool.
In this episode, we talk about modeling healthy tech habits, working with our partners so that we can get on the same page, internal filters, self regulation, and getting buy-in from our kids for having a tech healthy lifestyle.
Andrea is offering listeners of this show a discount on her course! You can save 15% on her Creating a Tech Healthy Family Course by using the code “Lindsey15”.
What we talked about:
3:05- Launching her online course and what people can get from it
7:30- Giving your kids ownership over their tech plan
8:45- Creating healthy tech habits yourself to set a good example for your kids
14:10- Approaching when to give your children a phone
20:40- Helping your teens find their values and boundaries on social media
26:25- Working with our partners so that we can get on the same page with a tech plan
31:10- Putting filters in place on devices
37:35- Teaching your kids about internal filters when it comes to tech
38:40- Her own tech habits
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Chelsea Skaggs is the founder of The WTF Trimester. She is a certified professional life coach, intimacy expert, and communication trainer for parents. Chelsea has relationship tips for overwhelmed parents, helping you and your significant other with fewer arguments and more intimacy. In this conversation, we talk about what happens after the baby is born and what happens after that 6 week checkup.
Right now, her and her family are living and traveling full time in an RV so we start off the conversation talking about that journey!
What we talked about:
2:30- Living in an RV with her children
10:40- Managing her business while living in an RV
15:50- Chelsea’s work with WTF Trimester
34:40: Tips for fewer arguments and more intimacy
39:25- Most common problems that couples come to Chelsea with
42:30- Where to find Chelsea’s work
46:45- End of podcast questions
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The WTF Trimester on Instagram
Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliott
I Like Myself! By Karen Beaumont
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Torre Sommers is the founder of Chadwick Home. If you do Elf on the Shelf, she has a solution for you so you don’t have to think about where you are going to put the elf every year! Torre’s elf box exists to empower and support families to keep the magic alive but not boggle you down or stress you out.
In this episode, we also talk about her husband’s journey being a three time kidney transplant recipient. He just had his third transplant this summer and she shares how they walked through that.
This conversation was super casual and fun! My vision for these conversations is to have you walk away with some valuable tools but it is also for you to have a way to feel a connection with other parents. I really feel like you are going to feel that in this conversation with Torre! She is going to inspire you to enjoy your everyday life.
What we talked about:
3:35- Introduction to Torre
14:15- Torre’s husbands kidney transplants and walking through that with him
26:30- Dealing with her husband’s diagnosis at a young age
33:50- Starting Chadwick Home and what that is
45:40- The elf boxes
1:00:10- End of podcast questions
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The Little Mouse, The Red Ripe Strawberry, and The Big Hungry Bear by Don Wood
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Wendy Snyder is a returning guest of the show! She is on today to talk about sibling rivalry. Wendy is a parenting coach. She inspires parents to learn and grow and she leads with connection based strategies. She is the creator of the Firm and Kind Parenting Blueprint. She has an amazing online community called the Bonfire Membership Program.
In this episode, Wendy gives strategies that we can use as parents to help our kids learn about conflict resolution. One of my favorite methods that Wendy teaches in parenting is making proactive agreements ahead of time with your kids and we talk about this in this episode. I hope that you walk away from this conversation feeling armed for when your children argue.
I first found Wendy when I was looking for guests around the topic of parenting on The Illuminate Podcast. I interviewed Wendy about positive parenting. Now this is my fifth time interviewing Wendy! We’ve had so many conversations about compassionate discipline and reframing how we think about parenting.
What we talked about:
6:35- Lindsey’s example of siblings fighting
10:50- Debriefing sibling rivalry
41:00- Talking to your kids about how you feel when they fight
46:25- Reducing the amount of times that you and your kids yell
49:45- Amending sibling arguments when they are happening
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FREE Win-Win Guide for Conflict Resolution
Raising Strong Willed Kids Worksheet
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Wendy on Episode 15 of The Illuminate Podcast
Wendy on Episode 39 of The Illuminate Podcast
Wendy on Episode 16 of the Why is Everyone Yelling? Podcast
Brain Washed by David Perlmutter and Austin Perlmutter
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Taria Butler is the mother of 2. She is the co-author with her husband, Tyrece, of the book 2am Parenting: The Highs and Lows of an Unexpected Diagnosis. Their son has Type 1 Diabetes and he was diagnosed at 18 months. Taria shares her story of walking through that and shares what this process has been like and how she leans on her faith when things feels hard. Taria also opens up about her own anxiety that came after this diagnosis and how she has really leaned on therapy to help her walk through that.
Her and her husband also have marriage workshops because as they walked through this unexpected diagnosis they realized that they really needed to prioritize their marriage through all of this.
What we talked about:
3:25- Introduction to Taria
7:10- Her son’s diagnosis with Type 1 Diabetes
22:20- The anxiety that she experienced after the diagnosis
27:25- How she has gotten through the grieving process
31:55- Prioritizing their marriage through the unexpected
36:30- Deciding to go to therapy
41:50- Taria’s organization tips
50:20- End of podcast questions
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Shelby Gil is my sister and she is on the podcast today! Shelby teaches survival swim and is a PediaSwim instructor. We talk about what she does with kids and teaching them how to float and survive in the water and reasons why you might want to consider doing this with your own kids. I hope that this episode gives you some knowledge about water safety and makes you feel a bit better about keeping your kids safe in the water!
What we talked about:
4:05- How Shelby named this podcast
5:30- Why Shelby started teaching survival swimming
10:00- What PediaSwim is and the method that Shelby teaches
17:40- How parents can continue to teach these methods with their children after the lessons
20:45- Horizontal swimming position
28:25- How Shelby handles children crying in her swim lessons
34:15- The various types of survival swim programs
37:50- Having help from your parents with your kids
39:50- End of podcast questions
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Ash Brandin is a middle school social studies teacher who thinks that school should feel as motivating as a game. Ash creates lessons and structures that motivate like games. I have already learned so much from their Instagram page around the topic of video games and I feel a lot of relief because video games have been a bit of a struggle in our household and I know that I have not always reacted the way that I should.
In this episode, Ash breaks down how to set up a structure and a routine so that your kids can have a healthy relationship with gaming. A lot of times, the problem isn’t the video game itself, it is the expectations around when it is time to play the video game and things like that. We can own this experience and it doesn’t have to be a negative one! Screens and video games aren’t going anywhere so this episode helps to set expectations and boundaries around these things. There are also a lot of positives that can come from video games and Ash really dives into that.
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Amy Mockbee is with the individualized early childhood consulting company, Work and Play. We had her confounder, Emily Boucher, on the show on episode 45 talking about fostering independence in your children. Amy has been teaching preschool for over 23 years and has a lot of experience! Amy and I talk about partnering with teachers, screen time, and giving yourself grace as a parent.
What we talked about:
3:55- Being able to tell birth order with kids at school
7:35- Being nervous about your child going to school after they haven’t had socialization due to COVID
10:15- Handling tough drop offs at preschool
18:55- Supporting teachers and working with them as “partners”
33:45- Screen time for kids
47:05- End of podcast questions
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Lisa Chan is on the show today! Lisa is an Occupational Therapist for children. On her Instagram, she gives simple, practical and fun ideas for families. In this episode, we talk about some basic occupational therapy tactics that Lisa uses in her own practice. She gives us some really good ideas about helping children learn to tie their shoes and other things that we can be working on with our kids from a young age. I found this conversation to be really helpful for myself and I hope you do too!
What we talked about:
3:25- Introduction to Lisa and how she got into Occupational Therapy
5:25- What an Occupational Therapist does
9:35- Tips for teaching our kids how to tie their shoes
13:30- Slowing down and allowing children to learn things on their own
16:30- What executive functioning skills are
18:50- Working on executive functioning skills with our children
21:40- The information that she shares on Instagram
23:45- What heavy work is and how we can implement it
29:25- Breath work with our kids
34:05- Focusing on our kid’s strengths versus what they need to improve on
38:20- End of podcast questions
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Stillness is the Key by Ryan Holiday
Smart but Scattered by Peg Dawson
Zach Gets Frustrated by William Mulcahy
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Lindsay is a licensed clinical social worker and writer. She has worked with parents and pre-parents in the world of adoption for the past 10 years focusing on preparing parents to be ready to have kids.
In this episode, we focus on methods of discipline for your family, choosing your family mission statement and values, and creating a plan for your own family that is unique and that works for you.
What we talked about:
4:10- Lindsay’s path to becoming a social worker
6:15- Working with parents preparing to adopt
9:05- Lindsay’s parenting methods that she recommends
19:00- Defining your family’s mission statement
28:30- How we were parented can impact how we parent
35:40- Feeling judgement from other people about your parenting
43:20- Lindsay’s book
50:20- What connected discipline is
51:20- End of podcast questions
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Parent Goals by Lindsay Garrett
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Sarah Boyd is the founder of Resilient Little Hearts which is a children’s book series that teaches resilience and emotional health. Their bestselling book is called The Boy Who Stood Up Tall. Sarah has tons of parenting resources. She is a psychologist and works in neuro leadership.
In this episode, we talk about teaching kids to navigate difficult emotions, raising sensitive kids, what courage is, and ultimately raising kids to help give them the skills that they need to succeed in the future.
What we talked about:
3:20- Introduction to Sarah
5:05- Advice for moving
8:05- Sarah’s background and how she became interested in children’s psychology
12:25- Working with our kids and their emotions
22:35- Dealing with fear and how our children handle fear
30:45- Raising kids that lead meaningful lives
33:40- Affirmations that she says with her kids
36:15- What Resilient Little Hearts is
37:05- The Children’s Book that she wrote, The Boy Who Stood Up Tall
37:55- A power pose that kids can do
39:25- Courage and how we can teach our children to be courageous
44:10- Goals with Resilient Little Hearts
50:00- End of podcast questions
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Megan Michelson & Mary Flo Ridley are on the podcast today! They teach us through a simple online course that give parents the tools and confidence to talk to their young kids about sex. Mary Flo has been doing this for over 30 years and Megan joined her team just a few years ago. They teach us to educate and empower our kids through building a foundation for future conversations to protect them from dangers on and offline and to have the power of the first impression.
If you enjoyed this conversation, check out their online course for parents of kids ages 1-10. You can use the code “Lindsey20” for 20% off their online course here.
What we talked about:
4:25- How they each got involved in educating parents about talking with your children about sex
13:05- When to introduce the topic of sex with your kids
18:00- Bringing up the conversation with your children
25:30- Getting on the same page with your partner about how you will have these conversations
28:45- Becoming comfortable with having these conversations about sex with your kids
33:05- What to do if your child sees pornography
37:50- Appropriate ages to stop taking showers with your children and when your kids should stop bathing together
41:30- Conversations to have with your kids about body exploration
55:05- End of podcast questions
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Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Jr.
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Cali Werner is a family and behavioral therapist. She focuses on Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, athletes and repetitive and ritualistic performance inhibiting behaviors, anxiety, mental health stigmas and more. Cali also recently wrote a book and it’s called Anxious Annie.
In this episode, she gives us really thoughtful ways to evaluate and decide if our kids might need to see a behavioral therapist, ways to think about anxiety with our kids, how to handle certain situations, anxiety with sports, and more.
I took a lot from this conversation and I hope that you all with too!
What we talked about:
4:05- The book that Cali wrote
5:15- Her work as a therapist
6:45- Cali’s own story with OCD and working with your child on their own OCD
20:15- Bringing siblings to therapy
21:50- When to get help for your child with OCD
24:35- Symptoms of panic attacks
25:30- How to help your child through a panic attack
28:55- Anxiety with sports
34:35- Writing Anxious Annie
36:10- Anxiety vs OCD and how they intertwine
37:30- How to communicate with teachers and others about your child’s anxiety
49:10- End of podcast questions
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What Happened to You? By Oprah Winfrey and Bruce Perry
The Whole-Brained Child by Daniel Siegel
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Today’s episode is a lighthearted conversation with my friend Bri Cook! She is a nurse practitioner turned stay at home mom. She is a Beautycounter consultant and we dive into some of our favorite Beautycounter products in this episode! For the first time both of her kids are in school full time so we talk about what that transition is like for her. We share some of our favorite book suggestions and then we also share one or two things that are making our lives a little easier and a little bit more fun!
What we talked about:
2:20- Introduction to Bri
7:05- Deciding to stay home with her kids
10:10- The transition to both of her kids now being in school
11:30- Being a Beautycounter consultant and favorite Beautycounter products
31:00- Top 3 favorite books
45:35- Things that are making our lives easier, happier, and more fun
55:10- End of podcast questions
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Environmental Working Group to check safety of products
Lash Therapy
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The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
Malibu Rising by Taylor Jenkins Reid
Anxious People by Fredrick Backman
The War of Art by Steven Pressfield
The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune
The World Needs More Purple People by Kristen Bell and Benjamin Hart
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Shannon is an inspiring mom of 5. All 5 of her kids came into her life through IVF. Shannon is an ARNP but recently resigned to stay at home with her kids. She’s also a Virtual Health Coach and Business Mentor.
In this episode, we talk about the IVF process, battling anxiety and talking to a therapist, the crazy everyday life struggles of simply being a mom, and so much more!
What we talked about:
3:45- Introduction to Shannon’s family
8:40- The challenges of parenting
15:55- How Shannon met her husband
17:20- Finding out that she had fertility issues
30:20- Walking through her fertility journey
34:50- Going to a therapist and handling her anxiety
49:20- End of podcast questions
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Melani Rayen is the mother of two and is Montessori Certified and shares all about gentle parenting and raising readers over on her Instagram. In this episode, we talk about what Montessori schooling environments look like and why she thinks they are a great decision for her family. In this episode we also talk about giving our kids the freedom to choose and what her idea of coding is and how to implement it with your own kids. We also talk about how the way we were raised as children might not look exactly the same as we raise our kids now and how we handle that as parents.
What we talked about:
4:10- Deciding to implement Montessori learning into her children’s’ lives
8:20- Being present with your children
11:10- Giving your children the freedom to choose
16:50- Implementing small learning activities throughout the day with your kids
19:45- Coding for kids
25:45- Creating a community in India of other parents that are interested in Montessori learning
28:45- Raising our children different than we were raised by our parents
32:05- How children that are big readers can be more empathetic
37:45- End of podcast questions
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What Should Danny Do? Book Series
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Emily Boucher has taught both preschool and kindergarten in NYC, including at The Brearley School and The Buckley School. She later served as the Director of Beginnings Nursery School and as the Associate Director at the Brick Church School. Emily and her friend and fellow teacher, Amy, started a company called Work and Play where they provide individualized early childhood consulting.
Emily lives in Connecticut with her husband and her 5 kids where she teaches preschool. Her oldest is a sophomore in college and her youngest is 1st grade. In this episode, we talk about helping our kids learn to play independently, communication as parents with teachers, and we encourage you to let there be messes sometimes.
What we talked about:
4:15- Emily’s kids and family
4:45- Having kids leave the house
7:40- Being a parent of both younger and older kids at the same time
15:25- Fostering independent play
20:25- Allowing there to be messes in the house
26:05- Setting boundaries with independent play
47:05- Communication with teachers
53:30- What they offer at Work and Play
1:00:30- End of podcast questions
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Elephant and Piggie Books by Mo Willems
Please, Mr. Panda by Steve Antony
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Kristen is a gardener. She has a beautiful cut flower garden and she also grows vegetables. She helps new gardeners learn to grow vegetables and beautify their yard. She shares recipes that you can make from the vegetables that you grow in your backyard.
Kristen lives with her family in Canada with her husband and 3 kids. In this episode, she shares all about starting both a vegetable and flower garden in your backyard, her favorite vegetables to grow to feed her family, her son’s autism diagnosis and advice for other parents walking through that, and more!
What we talked about:
3:45- Introduction to Whitney and her family
9:10- Having a c-section while being a professional musician
12:30- Receiving an autism diagnosis for her son
16:05- Working on her marriage when her and her husband felt like they had become distanced
17:15- Starting her gardening work
19:40- Flowers to avoid planting
21:40- Where to start to create a cut flower garden
24:45- Benefits of using a raised bed garden
25:50- Her business and passion of making bouquets for weddings
28:55- Moving with her family
30:45- What zones mean with gardening
34:40- Favorite vegetables to grow to feed the family
35:45- Why to plant marigolds by certain vegetables
37:10- Favorite gardeners on social media to follow
38:20- End of podcast questions
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Suzanne and Kim Wade are on the show today! Their daughter, Becky Wade, was on my running podcast, I’ll Have Another, a few years ago. Becky is a professional marathon runner and she wrote a book called Run the World where she wrote about her experience traveling around the world running with different cultures.
Suzanne and Kim had two sets of twins within 20 months of one another. They are both lawyers and now are empty nesters. In this episode, we talk about sports, giving kids the opportunity to try new things, setting boundaries, developing young leaders, and encouraging our kids to have jobs when they are teenagers.
I really admire the passion that Kim and Suzanne have for showing up for their kids no matter what.
What we talked about:
5:30- Having two sets of twins
7:20- Staying home with the kids temporarily and then transitioning back into the workforce
8:25- Putting the kids in activities and sports
13:25- What they each pulled from their own parent’s parenting styles
16:25- Managing the kids’ arguments and complaints
19:35- Encouraging your kids to have jobs and do chores
24:20- Becoming an empty nester
30:25- Being grandparents and seeing their kids parent
35:00-Making and cultivating friendships at different stages of life
37:35- Setting boundaries with your children
47:30- Giving each child individualized attention
55:20- End of podcast questions
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The Little Mouse, the Red Ripe Strawberry, and the Big Hungry Bear
Becky Wade on the I’ll Have Another Podcast
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David Thomas is the director of family counseling at Daystar Counseling in Nashville, TN. He is the co-author of 8 books including the bestselling books Wild Things and Are My Kids on Track. As a licensed therapist, he works with kids and parents on all kinds of different topics.
He is a frequent guest on national television and podcasts and has been featured in publications including The Washington Post and USA Today.. He also has his own podcast, Raising Boys and Girls. He speaks around the county on these topics. He has 2 sons that are twins and a daughter.
In this episode, we focus specifically on raising boys. As a mom of 4 boys myself, this topic is extra interesting to me and I am excited to bring you this conversation today!
What we talked about:
4:20- Introduction to David’s work at Daystar Counseling and his family
11:10- The difference of raising boys and girls
15:45- Engaging, discipling, and encouraging boys that is in tandem with the way that they are hard wired
28:35- Rough play and wrestling
37:15- Communicating with your boys
43:35- Parenting teenage girls vs teenage boys
47:00- Talking with our boys about rough play with their friends
50:55- Advice for talking with boys about their emotions
52:20- End of podcast questions
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Raising Boys and Girls Podcast
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The Addiction Inoculation by Jessica Lahey
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Staci Drovdahl is the mom of 7 children and is on a mission to ditch the grocery store and improve the health of their family. Their family packed up and moved across the country and built their own home. One of the things that I love about this is that they had a bunch of projects along the way that their kids helped do.
She calls herself the homesteading mama and they grow much of the food that they eat in their home. Their family has a pumpkin patch and their kids work and help with that part of their business. In this episode, she shares some tips about growing your own garden, raising chickens, involving their kids in the home building and farming, where to buy your food in bulk, and so much more!
What we talked about:
4:20- Being in a community with other people that have big families
8:15- Getting into a homesteading life
12:15- Raising chickens
14:50- Building their home from scratch as a family and involving the kids in the building process
25:30- Their pumpkin patch
26:55- Tips for starting your own garden
32:00- Winters in Wisconsin with the kids
35:10- Homemade gummy bears
36:45- Organization tools for pantries
38:45- Buying food in bulk
42:25- Snacks and meals with the kids
49:50- End of podcast questions
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Love Without Borders by Angela Braniff
Mrs. Piggle Wiggle book series
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Kate Borsato is on the show today! Kate is a therapist and an educator for pregnancy, postpartum, and early motherhood. She has virtual therapy clinics for Canadian moms and she also has anxiety courses online for moms. The mission of her work is to support moms to live the best life that they possibly can.
In this episode, we talk about how things change when we become parents, intrusive thoughts and anxiety, finding joy in the little things, and giving ourselves the freedom to take care of ourselves and not feel guilty about that.
What we talked about:
3:40- Kate’s habits of waking up early before her kids
5:45- How her family sold everything and went on a yearlong trip
14:00- Missing the freedom that you had before kids and what to do with those feelings
24:40- What intrusive thoughts are
27:30- How intrusive thoughts show up
37:10- How to reframe intrusive thoughts
44:30- Feeling anger as a parent and working to not act out on that
54:10- End of podcast questions
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Rachael Amarante is on the podcast today! Rachael is the mother of 4 boys and she has recently started The Awakening Motherhood Project. She created The Awakening Motherhood Project when she looked at social media and saw that we are all filled with noise, expectations, perfection and anxiety. She wanted to talk about motherhood in a way that felt real so through her newsletter and social media she shares ways to remind us of how to find ourselves again in motherhood and how to show up for our kids in the best way.
In this episode, we talk about finding joy as a parent even when it is really hard. Rachael also really gives us some really great tips on transitioning into summertime with your kids, with the schedules changing and all of that. She has some tips that I am definitely going to try in my own life!
What we talked about:
3:05- Being the mom of 4 boys
11:10- What The Awakening Motherhood Project is
22:30- Tips for handling the summertime transition with kids
33:25- Finding joy even in the moments when your kids are fighting
40:30- Tip for taking your kids to the grocery store with you and giving them authority to cook meals
49:30- Showing up in motherhood as you want to and finding balance between routine and having fun throughout the summer
55:35- End of podcast questions
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The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
Miss Rumphius by Barbara Cooney
The Art Lesson by Tomie dePaola
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Kevin Wolma recently retired as the Athletic Director at Hudsonville High School. During his tenure in the district, he also taught physical education and health and coached over 30 seasons of tennis, basketball, and golf.
Kevin recently published the book 30 Second Timeout about navigating through the challenges of youth sports. What I love about this book is that Kevin is a parent himself, he has been a coach, and he was an athletic director so he has seen all sides of youth and high school sports. He has some really valuable information for parents to help us navigate that and the way we can talk to our kids to help them have a positive experience.
I hope you get as much out of this conversation as I did!
What we talked about:
3:15- Kevin’s book, 30 Second Timeout
5:25- Supporting your child, their team, and the support team in sport
7:35- The importance of exposing your kids to a variety of sports and activities
13:55- The response to have when your child gets cut from a sports team
16:45- How to teach our kids how to care about the success of their team rather than just individual success
20:50- How we can help change the culture of parents being disrespectful to the officials and ways to show appreciation towards the officials
27:15- Releasing your kid to the game & letting the coach do their thing and not stepping between that
35:15- Best things to say to your kid after a game
38:20- Our biases towards our kids and their skills and wanting them to go into the game
42:05- How to raise hardworking kids
44:55- Kevin’s advice looking back now that his kids are older
47:25- What’s next for Kevin now that he has retired as the Hudsonville Athletic Director
50:35- End of podcast questions
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Stacey Heiny is a Certified Holistic Nutritionist who helps women increase their return on investment through lifestyle wellness. She’s a clean beauty advocate, abundance mindset mentor, and plant based eating inspirer who wants to show women that creating lifelong holistic habits is what will help them create their ultimate life.
Owner of her brand called The Herban Farmacy, Stacey believes that plants are truly medicine and when we feed our body with optimal fuel, every other aspect of life has the capacity to thrive even more. She also teaches the power of knowing your why and how creating a healthy optimized environment is critical to long term health and success.
On Saturdays, Stacey’s family sells Organic Produce from their farm & Elderberry Syrup at the Farmers Markets.
In this episode, Stacey shares tips for reducing toxins in your home as well as shares some vegan recipes to get more plants on your kids plates.
What we talked about:
4:50- Introduction to Stacey and her business
6:30- The benefits of elderberry syrup
9:40- Stacey’s journey to living a more holistic lifestyle
15:20- Stacey’s relationship with alcohol
21:45- Why it’s important to introduce low tox living strategies into your life and 10 tips to reduce toxins in your home
44:00- Message to people that feel overwhelmed by making lifestyle changes
45:50- Her routine to have healthier eyelashes and makeup removing routine
49:15- Simple vegan recipes that kids might enjoy
53:15- End of podcast questions
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Ericka Andersen Sylvester is a writer, author, podcaster and freelance extraordinaire. She also happens to be my sister.
Ericka joins the show to talk about what she’s learned over the last few years about alcohol. She’s currently 8 months alcohol free with her sights set on a full year and in this episode she shares about what landed her at this decision and why she thinks it’s important we start talking about the effects of alcohol more. It seems to get a free pass and it’s also often times glorified in motherhood culture. We get into all of that.
It feels like a sensitive topic and we are both open and honest about our own struggles. I hope it makes you feel less alone if you are feeling that way too.
What we talked about:
6:55- Ericka’s business and work
7:55- Meeting her husband and her journey to motherhood
15:00- Ericka’s decision to become alcohol free
21:40- What she learned from Annie Grace and her book “This Naked Mind”
24:55- The culture of drinking with motherhood
28:50- Family history with drinking
36:10- The culture of drinking in our society and the support systems that she has
50:25- Thoughts on healthy ways to drink alcohol
56:35- The stigma around struggling with alcohol and giving up alcohol
1:03:45- End of podcast questions
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The Alcohol Experiment – Annie Grace
We are the Luckiest – Laura Mckowen
Annie Grace on the Worth your Time Podcast
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Celeste Goodson is on the show today! Celeste is the owner and founder of ReCORE fitness. This is a company where she helps women postpartum improve core, pelvic floor control, strength, stability and function through pregnancy and recovery. Celeste is the mother of 3 herself and she found that she had some challenging issues recovering after her third child. In her research trying to figure out what to do, she discovered so much great information. With that she founded this amazing business where she is helping other mothers who have gone through the same thing that she has gone through to find solutions. Celeste also has created a maternity fit splint that is a belly band to wear while you run when you are pregnant.
In this episode, she shares about what she does at ReCORE and why she founded that business. If you know any moms who are pregnant or newly postpartum this is definitely one to refer them to!
What we talked about:
3:10- What ReCORE fitness is
5:20- The problem with women not working on preventing pelvic floor problems
8:05- Things that women should be focusing on in regards to their pelvic floor during pregnancy and postpartum
9:15- What prolapse is
11:00- Exercises that you can do if you are experiencing prolapse
14:20- The difference between a C-section and a vaginal birth in regards to prolapse
15:05- Celeste’s birthing experiences
21:45- What diastasis recti is and what to look for when you think you may have it
24:00- When to start doing preventative exercises during pregnancy
24:40- Message to people who cannot exercise as they’d like to during pregnancy
26:15- The maternity fit splint that she created
29:20- When and why she started ReCORE
30:20- The certifications that Celeste has and the training that she has gone through
32:30- What you can do if you are still having incontinence
36:10- 5 things to know about your pelvic floor and core postpartum
39:50- Seeing a Pelvic PT postpartum
42:40- Looking back on starting her business while her kids were young
47:00- Advice to herself when she had younger kids now that she has teenagers
48:30- When she gave her kids technology and if she would change the timing of it
51:05- End of podcast questions
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Today my husband Glenn joins me again for round two! If you haven’t listened to our first episode together on road tripping with kids, you can find it here in episode 28 of this podcast!
In this episode we share about our (Glenn’s camping adventure with our two biggest kids and also give thoughts on current real life parenting situations we are finding ourselves in on the regular. We are no experts but we are trying hard to do this well and have learned some lessons along the way. Sometimes we don’t always agree on in the moment decisions but later come to agreeing on the plan of action. We talk about those things in this episode as well as thoughts on letting our kids be bored and not feeling like we have to be their constant source of entertainment.
I hope you enjoy this laid back episode and a peek into everyday parenting with us! Thank you for being here. Keep up the good work. This is hard and you are doing a great job.
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Wendy Demer is on the show today to talk about helping our kids with anxiety and stress through meditation.
She is passionate about teaching others how to live a more balanced joyful life through meditation, self-development and increasing spiritual awareness. She educates teachers, parents, children, coaches and her peers in mindfulness, mediation and sport psychology.
In this episode we talk about how to implement meditation, deep breathing and a gratitude practice into our everyday lives with our own kids!
Let me know if you try the meditations with your kids friends!
What we talked about:
4:00- Wendy’s background working with kids as a teacher
8:35- Working on your own mental health as a parent and as a family as a whole
11:20- How old her kids were when she started getting into meditation and how it has been incorporated into their lives
13:00- How to incorporate meditation into your kid’s life to help decrease stress and the breathing techniques that she uses
18:45- How Wendy started working with athletes on meditation and breathwork
20:00- Helping our kids to understand their emotions
28:15- Tips to empower parents to implement meditation into their family’s lives
31:25- Allowing both ourselves and our kids to feel their feelings
34:15- Where people can find Wendy’s guided meditation
35:00- Wendy’s book, Empowering Our Future
35:55- End of podcast questions
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3:30- Why Tessa wrote her book and the articles that lead to it
7:55- What lead Tessa to become a therapist
9:35- The clients that she works with as a therapist
11:15- Not projecting what happens with her clients on her own kids and what she has seen with mental health in teenagers
17:15- Where to set boundaries with kids using screens
20:40- The six cultural influences
37:25- Helping kids enjoy the fun part of technology without letting them become addicted and have the negative effects of it
41:45- Finding the screen time expectations to set for your kids
42:35- What technology she utilizes with her kids right now and what age that she feels like kids are ready to get phones and social media
52:05- The best memories that we have coming from outside of our technology
54:50- How Tessa balances her own social media usage
57:35- More on the six cultural influences
1:00:25- What parents can do with the knowledge about screens to put all of it into action
1:03:15- What to do when your child has suicidal ideations
1:05:10- End of podcast questions
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Ginny Yurich is the founder of 1,000 Hours Outside which is a movement to get us all outside more. Ginny, the mother of five herself has created an amazing community over on instagram where she educates on the importance of outside time and how powerful it is.
In this episode we talk about the importance of outside time and how free play helps our kids cognitively, physically, socially and emotionally.
If you love what you hear from Ginny- make sure you check out her brand new book that is available on pre-sale now!
What we talked about:
3:20- What 1,000 hours outside is
12:40- The importance of getting outside before noon
18:55- Being intentional to set aside time to get outside with your kids
23:05- Modeling healthy habits for our kids
25:40- The importance of free play
37:15- Getting outside in the winter
42:25- Finding activities outdoors for kids of all ages
47:40- Ginny’s activity book that she published
50:40- Last message to send to the audience
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Sara Olsher shares solutions and tips for talking with kids about hard things like divorce, cancer diagnosis and other life changing circumstances.
Sara, a mother herself has been through it all- she battled cancer and divorce all before she turned 35 with a daughter in tow. While the world around her was constantly changing, Sara recognized that her daughter’s life was also changing. She questioned how to have conversations about these hard topics with her daughter, how to protect her, how to help her in every way possible as they developed a new normal.
As a result of these life circumstances, Sara founded Mighty + Bright, to help parents lead their children through the rough parts of life. Whether it be through divorce, a parent with cancer, a child with cancer, or a pandemic, Mighty + Bright has resources to aid parents and children.
From co-parenting, cancer, divorce, death, and uncertainty, Sara addresses the things that most people want to ignore and forget about. But Sara also believes that each person has the resilience to overcome unimaginable hardships and that we can all use our experiences to make the world a better place.
What we talked about:
2:35- Her passion for talking to your kids about divorce and other hard things
10:00- Talking with your kids about divorce and having a different family situation than others
16:30- Facing her own feelings with her cancer diagnosis while being strong for her daughter
22:45- The children’s books that she has written as resources for other parents
30:30- Sara’s nonprofit organization and her publishing company
33:00- Giving kids ownership
35:00- How people can help their friends going through a divorce or cancer diagnosis
41:00- Advice to someone going through divorce
42:10- Advice to someone who has a new cancer diagnosis
43:05- End of podcast questions
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4:50- The Yeti running challenge that she did
6:10- Being the TV Host of Cash Explosion and her career path to there
9:45- Her journey with her passion for reading
14:05- Where she finds all of her books
15:00- The book of the month club
17:45- Tips to read more when you’re a busy parent
23:35- Cultivating healthy reading habits with your kids
33:35- Where she gets book recommendations
36:00- Reading books with diverse characters and by diverse authors
45:30- Chatting about Rachel Hollis
52:55- The top books that she recommends
1:03:30- End of podcast questions
5:10- Introduction to the Hein family
14:00- Top memories from our recent North Carolina trip and favorite places we visited
26:00- Tips for traveling with kids
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In 2016, Ellie’s world was forever changed when her daughter was born without the chromosomal disorder doctors had told her to expect. When her second daughter was 6 months old, Ellie and her husband began the adoption process to adopt a child with Down syndrome. A little while later, they adopted their son, Finn, who has Down syndrome.
Ellie now has written the children’s book, Image Bearer which is a Christian children’s book that celebrates differences and spreads the message that every child is an image bearer. The characters in the book are inspired by children with disabilities that Ellie has gotten to know.
In this episode, Ellie talks about the adoption process, what life is like with Finn and her two daughters, teaching kids about people with disabilities, and so much more!
Photo credit: @sweetsmilesbysarahmichelle
What we talked about:
3:10- Ellie’s book Image Bearer and the inspiration behind it
5:00- Ellie’s first pregnancy
8:25- What came next after finding out her daughter didn’t have the extra challenges that they thought she would
9:10- The different feelings that she had during her pregnancy after finding out that her daughter was supposed to be born with special needs
11:40- The process of adopting her son Finn, a baby with Down syndrome
22:15- Meeting Finn’s birth parents
23:45- The experience of being in the NICU with Finn after he was born
26:50- What life is like with Finn and her two girls now
28:50- The biggest surprise of raising a child with Down syndrome
33:30- Finn’s sleeping schedule
36:35- Teaching your kids about people with disabilities
39:15- Thoughts on the friendships that Finn will form
43:50- Who the characters in the book are based on
45:30- The self-publishing process for her book
47:15- End of podcast questions
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Jayne Havens returns to the show- this time to talk about toddler sleep. Jayne is a certified sleep consultant through the institute of pediatric sleep and parenting. She works with families to help get their babies and kids sleeping better through her business Snoozefest by Jayne Havens! Jayne is also the founder of Pediatric Sleep Management where she trains other people to start their own businesses as sleep consultants.
In this episode Jayne and I discuss healthy sleep habits for toddlers, she talks about the amount the average toddler actually needs (which is much less than I realized). We also talk about what to do when the nap goes away, what to do when young kids crawl out of crib, agreements before bedtime and more. Anyone ever heard of a bedtime pass? This is a fun strategy Jayne implements with the bigger kids and I kind of love it!
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What we talked about:
3:45- The sleep challenges at different stages of a child’s life
5:00- Defining toddler years
6:30- When you should transition your child out of a crib into their own bed
8:20- What to do if your child starts crawling out of the crib at a young age
11:40- What to do when your child starts feeling scared sleeping alone
15:35- Cultivating a positive relationship with your kid’s sleep space
17:30- Strategies to help lessen the bedtime struggle with young kids
28:00- Strategy for taking away naps
35:20- Working with kids that have night terrors
37:55- Thoughts on melatonin
40:45- Thoughts on kids sleeping together in the same room
45:40- Creating a consistent bedtime routine and some ideas for bedtime incentives
51:10- The services that Jayne offers
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Kim Perry helps moms stay fit during & after pregnancy. She is Prenatal/Postnatal Certified and has effective workouts for mamas. Kim is the mother of three girls and runs her fitness business at home where she educates, motivates and encourages women walking through pregnancy and post partum.
What we talked about:
3:25- Introduction to Kim and her work
11:45- How she develops her programs and the programs that she offers
15:50- How everyone has different physical fitness goals postpartum
26:45- Having a baby in the middle of quarantine and her birth story
41:05- Tips for postpartum fitness
48:10- General recommendations for when to start her postpartum programs
51:30- Her Amtrak ride with her kids
55:35- End of podcast questions
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3:25- Introduction to Nate Webb, his work as a school counselor, and his business Bullies Be Gone
8:50- The advice that he got from his dad while he was being bullied
12:15- What it feels like to work with high schoolers that are bullies or are being bullied
13:35- Steps he takes to help a bully realize that it is more fulfilling to be kind
14:30- The effects that social media can have on kids
19:00- How to prepare kids for the bullying that they may experience
28:50- How he is anticipating what to do as a parent if his kid is being bullied
30:50- Teaching our kids how to respond to hateful comments or messages on social media
36:20- The high rate of suicide in relation to social media
40:00- His plan for allowing his kids to have technology and phones
41:35- What he does when a student comes into his office not doing well
43:40- End of podcast questions
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Andrea Davis from Better Screen Time join us today! Andrea is the mother of five and has been researching the effects screen time has on families for years now. Andrea considers her family a low-tech family who had to rethink their approach to screens. I love that Andrea’s message is not one of fear for screens it’s one of confidence and connection.
At Better Screen Time, Andrea shares family-tested strategies with other parents so that: kids can stay kids, teens can learn to use tech as a tool (slowly!), and parents can spend less time worrying and more time connecting with their kids.
You can check out Andrea’s new ebook over on amazon “Creating a Tech Healthy Family” and check out all the resources she has to offer… including 100 screen free ideas over at BetterScreenTime.com.
In this episode we talk about creating a unique tech plan for your family, when and how to introduce phones and so much more!
What we talked about:
2:50- Introduction to Andrea and the backstory of why she started Better Screen Time
7:15- The difference between passive viewing time and interactive screen time
8:50- Setting up your own unique screen time plan for your own individual family and when to start creating a family tech plan
20:35- Creating new habits for kids to find something else to do and redirect them when they want to go on a screen
27:00- The importance of connecting with your kids
30:50-Steps to take to make sure kids aren’t using their screens to numb out feelings
40:10- The best time to offer a phone and social media to kids
46:30- Having a place specifically for phones to be placed overnight and during the day when screens aren’t allowed
52:55- End of podcast questions
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Jayne Havens is a certified sleep consultant through the institute of pediatric sleep and parenting. She works with families to help get their babies and kids sleeping better through her business Snoozefest by Jayne Havens! Jayne is also the founder of Pediatric Sleep Management where she trains other people to start their own businesses as sleep consultants.
In this episode Jayne provides tips and methods for helping you help your baby sleep through the night. She shares what she believes sleep training really is and we both want you to walk away feeling empowered to help your baby sleep well and trust that you can make the decision that is best for your unique family when it comes to helping kids sleep.
What we talked about:
3:35- Introductions to Jayne and how she got so passionate about the work that she does
9:20- When you should start working with kids on sleeping habits
18:05- What sleep training is
23:10- Sleep training methods
35:15- Thoughts on early bedtimes for babies
36:55- Nap schedules and how that affects bedtime
39:20- How breastfeeding and bottle-feeding can affect sleep training
42:45- How she works with parents with a baby with colic
45:20- Going back to old sleep training methods when there are regressions or changes in the baby’s life
48:50- Top tips for successful sleep habits for babies
57:30- Her Pediatric Sleep Management business where she teaches other people to start their own business as sleep consultants
1:01- End of podcast questions
Here are some quick hit tips she shares in the episode:
This is not a Fashion Story – Danielle Bernstein
Baby Be Kind – Jane Cowen Fletcher
Don’t Push the Button – Bill Cotter
Who is Books – Kirsten Anderson
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Nefertiti Austin is the mother of two, Professor and the author of memoir Motherhood so White: A Memoir of Race, Gender and Parenting in America. Her work has appeared in the “New York Times”, “Washington Post”, “Huffington Post”, “MUTHA”, “Gen Medium”, and many other publications.
Nefertiti adopted both of her children through the foster care system and she shares a little about that process in this episode but goes into further detail in her book. We also talk about her experience raising a black son as a single mother as well what parents of white children can do to come along side her and her children to be allies.
You’re going to want to go pick up her book “Motherhood so White” after this conversation!!
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What we talked about:
6:50- Why she decided to write her memoir “Motherhood so White”
10:15- How she describes herself as a mom
12:30- Being raised by her grandparents and how that has changed her parenting
15:15- When she realized that she wanted to adopt and what the adoption process looked like
20:45- Meeting her son for the first time
22:15- The response that she got from family and friends when she decided to adopt as a single mother
25:30- What she does to ensure that her kids have male role models in their life and building a community around them
29:45- What it means to her to look back at her childhood and her parent’s involvement in the Black Power Movement
32:50- Her message to a single black woman who wants to adopt
34:45- Her hardest transition in motherhood
36:50- What parents of white children can do to walk alongside parents of black children and be supportive
41:50- Her hopes that her book brings about more resources for black mothers
45:15- The most important message that she hopes people take away from her book
47:05- End of podcast questions
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Zoie Hoffman from Hoffman Tutoring Group joins the podcast today to talk about goal setting and tips for helping kids with homework without the chaos. If we’ve learned one thing this year it’s that having kids home for virtual school is a challenge. Zoie gives us some tangible ways we can help our kids have a positive experience with homework.
Zoie is also the mother of 7 month old twins so she shares a little bit about what it was like to become a first time Mom to TWO babies at once in the middle of a pandemic.
I hope you all enjoy this conversation with Zoie Hoffman!
What we talked about:
3:00- Introduction to Zoie and her passion for the work that she does
8:00- Giving birth to twins and moving during the pandemic
16:50- Setting goals with your kids
26:45- How Zoie evaluates what type of tutoring each child needs
31:05- When a third party tutor can be helpful for your child
32:35- When you should be checking your child’s grades and how to appropriately use online grade portals
37:15- Giving your kids responsibility and authority in their schoolwork
40:15- The benefits of being an online tutor during the pandemic and how the pandemic has affected her business in general
47:00- Avoiding stress and frustration while helping your kids with homework
54:25- The typical age that most students come into tutoring
55:40- End of podcast questions
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The Happiest Kids in the World – How Dutch Parents help their kids and themselves
Shh! We Have a Plan – Chris Haughten
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Ralphie Jacobs is a positive parenting expert and shares “life changing parenting truths” through her courses over at Simply on Purpose and through her wildly popular instagram. She is the mother of four and has a big passion for arming parents with powerful parenting skills that will change your home.
In this episode we talk about being a safe parent and what that means, families having different boundaries – there is no one right way, and the most important take away from this episode in my opinion is that we can’t “fix” our kids but we can take charge of our own behavior and that’s where it all starts.
I hope you learn something and enjoy this conversation! Please consider leaving us a rating and review on itunes or wherever you are listening if you do enjoy it and share it with a friend!
What we talked about:
4:30- Introduction to Ralphie and what she does with Simply on Purpose
8:20- What it means to be a “safe parent”
14:40- The reason why children might still misbehavior even with positive parenting implemented in the home
20:05- Doing the work now and implementing positive parenting now can make it easier for the future
23:50- Parenting teenagers
25:45- The changing role of a parent
27:45- Navigating a child’s disrespectful behavior
32:25- Parenting being all about the parent’s behavior
34:55- Why there’s been a shift in parenting in recent years
36:55- The importance of boundaries in parenting
41:30- When and how to introduce technology to children and setting boundaries around that
55:00- End of podcast questions
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Lisa Graft is a beautiful soul who will encourage you to be exactly who YOU were created to be unapologetically. I knew when I sat down with Lisa that I would leave the conversation filled up with energy to pursue motherhood the way I was meant to. We all have different skills and passions and are wired totally different and there is no room in our hearts and minds for comparing ourselves to any other parent who you might consider to be a “supermom” or dad.
We also talk about making sure we are continuing to pursue our passion and identity outside of motherhood which feels really important considering one day all of these kids are going to be out of the house and we’re going to need to know what we love outside of mothering or fathering them.
I hope you enjoy this conversation with Lisa as much as I did. Know that my life is different than yours and Lisa’s life is different with mine and yours and we all have our own stuff. In this episode Lisa and I light heartedly talk about some of the mundane “hard” and some of the “hard” hard.
What we talked about:
4:25- Introduction to Lisa Graft
9:40- Unmet expectations after childbirth and Lisa’s experience postpartum
15:15- Lisa’s experience with pre-partum depression
18:15- What Mother of the Year is
26:35- Guilt that may come up as a parent
35:20- Finding interests and passions outside of parenting and carving out time for yourself
38:30- Being open to ask for help
39:25- Finding those extra pockets of time in your schedule to do things that you enjoy
43:35- The community that Lisa is building and exciting things that she has coming up
48:20- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
I am Mother of the Year Podcast
I am Mother of the Year Facebook Group
Loving our Kids on Purpose – Danny Silk
Wherever you Go my Love will Find You – Nancy Tillman
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Dr. Christia Brown joins me on the show to talk about raising kids free of gender and ethnic bias.
She is an author, researcher, and professor of Developmental Psychology. She is also the Director of Center for Equality and Social Justice at the University of Kentucky. She earned her Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology at The University of Texas at Austin.
Her research focuses on how children develop gender and ethnic stereotypes, how children understand gender and ethnic discrimination, and how discrimination and stereotypes affect children and teens’ lives. As part of her research on discrimination, she also examines the perpetration and acceptance of sexual harassment and how children understand politics, public policies, and societal inequalities.
She is the author of Parenting Beyond Pink and Blue, and co-edited the Wiley Handbook of Group Processes in Children and Adolescents. She has a forthcoming book, Unraveling Bias: How Prejudice Has Shaped Children for Generations and How to Break the Cycle.
What we talked about:
3:10: When Dr. Christia Brown began studying gender stereotypes
6:55- How when we treat girls and boys differently based on gender, their brain actually develops differently
17:25- The importance of not separating boys and girls
23:05- Body image issues in young girls and where it can stem from
28:40- What we can do for young kids to ensure they don’t take on gender stereotypes
35:45- Teaching kids at a young age to be anti-racist
38:10- The importance of talking with kids often and asking them what stereotypes they see
47:20- Respectfully correcting relatives or others close to the child when they encourage gender stereotypes
51:05- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
Parenting Beyond Pink and Blue
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Wendy Snyder is the fonder of Fresh Start Families. She is a Positive Parenting Teacher & Family Coach, helping families parent with great purpose and intention by creating healthy, respectful & cooperative relationships. She is a Certified Parent Educator of Redirecting Children’s Behavior (RCB) and an advocate for families.
In this episode we talk about strong willed kids, age appropriate behavior and the power surges kids go through at different ages. We also talk about redirecting behavior and teaching our kids about their feeling. Lastly we finish off talking about agreements ahead of time and designing logical consequences.
This episode is packed with actionable take aways!
Make sure you check out Wendy’s 5 Day Free Parenting Challenge – free 5 day mini courses that starts on Monday, January 25th!
What we talked about:
3:30- Introduction to Wendy and Fresh Start Families
7:45- Definition of a strong willed child
17:30- The difference between punishment and discipline
28:00- Steps of discipline
42:45- Creating logical consequences
50:30- Free parenting challenge that Wendy is offering
52:40- End of podcast questions
Previous Podcast Episodes with Wendy:
The Illuminate Podcast Episode 39 – Compassionate Discipline
The Illuminate Podcast Episode 15 – Positive Parenting
Book Recommendations:
Redirecting Children’s Behavior
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Katie Arnold joins us for round two on the podcast today! You first heard from her in episode 9 when we talked about raising adventurous kids! Today she returns and we talk about kids and sports and why it’s so important to nurture a love for sport AND play. It can be really easy to get sucked into the World of signing your kid up for ALL THE THINGS and we want to stay curious and examine why we sign our kids up for things and how to strive for a healthy ratio of organized sport versus unorganized free play.
Here is a little more about Katie in case you missed our first episode! She is the mother of two girls, an ultra runner and a writer. She won the Leadville 100 in 2018 and her work has been published in Outside, her stories have appeared in The New York Times, Men’s Journal, ESPN the Magazine, Marie Claire, Runner’s World, Elle, and Sunset, among others.
She created and launched the popular Raising Rippers column, about bringing up adventurous kids. Her families can be found adventuring up mountains and down rivers and I wanted to hear her tips and ideas for how to pursue a lifestyle like this with your kids.
Katie is also an author and her first book, a memoir; Running Home is now available in paperback- make sure you check it out at your local bookstore and it’s also available on audible narrated by Katie. If anyone’s interested in hosting a live Zoom event, contact Katie through her website katiearnold.net, where you can also find info about running and writing FLOW retreats she leads!
Let’s get to hearing all about raising adventurous kids now!
What we talked about:
2:45- An update on what Katie has been up to with her kids
5:45- The discussion of balancing kid’s sports with other priorities
17:10- How to balance schedules with encouraging kids to be well rounded with sports and activities
26:25- The balance of starting kids young in sports
30:20- Encouraging play over competitive for kids
38:25- The life lessons that team sports can teach children
59:00- Being intentional to create the experience that you want for your family
Show Notes:
Norwich – One Tiny Vermont Town’s Secret to Happiness and Excellence
Don’t Let Youth Sports Hijack your Life
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Happy Holidays friends! I am taking a break week this week and just wanted to pop on to say hi and I hope you are enjoying this season. It’s a challenge over here if I’m being honest and I wanted to say you are not alone if you are struggling as well! Sending so much love to each of you!
– Lindsey
Alex Caspero, Registered Dietitian with Plant Based Juniors comes back today! We had so much to cover during our first episode that we decided to go for round two! Great news- after our first conversation Alex became inspired and created a free protein guide you can check out.
We cover A LOT in this episode. It is packed full of great information around food, the kitchen and kids. We talk about language in the kitchen with our kids, giving the kids choices around meal time within reason, picky eating, getting in the protein you need in plant based food, supplements and seasonal eating!
Alex is a wealth of knowledge and explains things simply and easy to understand!
Alex Caspero is a Registered Dietitian and plant based Chef, she is the Founder of Delish Knowledge and the co-founder of Plant Based Juniors. She is the Mom of two and personally focuses on plant foods with a little dairy or egg and what I love about her approach to food and plant based eating is that it’s not an all or nothing deal. Over at Plant Based Juniors, she and her business partner Whitney offer a complete guide to plant-based prenatal and pediatric nutrition.
What we talked about:
4:15- Plant based protein that are great options to offer kids and how to encourage them to eat them
14:00- Pulling apart meals and being able to offer kids at least one thing that they like per meal
20:15- Allowing your kids to have a say in meals that are being made a couple of times a week
21:55- Alex’s plant-based program that she recently created
23:30- Language around food and talking to our kids in the kitchen
26:55- Her favorite ways to involve her children in cooking
29:10- Introducing foods to kids that are picky eaters and understanding when they don’t like a certain food
32:50- Adding healthy foods to meals and explaining it to your kids rather than sneaking it in without them knowing
38:45- How picky eating is common at certain ages and allowing kids to grow out of it
40:35- Introducing kids to peanuts to avoid peanut allergies
45:25- Supplements to give kids that eat plant based
49:00- Eating seasonally
54:15- Recent books that Alex has been reading
Show Notes:
FREE Protein Guide
You can use the code “Lindsey” for 15% off all Plant Based Juniors Ebooks!
Alex’s Book Recommendation:
The Immoralists – Chloe Benjamin
Connect with Alex:
Plant Based Juniors on Instagram
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Jeena Wilder is the mother of four, an adoption advocate and a new homeschooling mom. She gave up the virtual learning thing and just went full on homeschool on her own! I bow down.
Her and her husband have three biological children and one child through a kinship adoption. We get to hear about how their family came to be and what it looks like to be a multi-racial family. Jeena and her husband always knew they wanted to adopt but just weren’t sure how it would come about.
In this episode we discuss how to talk to your kids about race and why it’s important to start early. Jeena also shares about learning with her kids and how she feels that is a really key piece of how she parents.
What we talked about:
3:00- Jeena’s decision to homeschool her kids
12:15- Introduction to Jeena and her family and the process of adoption
18:00- Jeena shares about having a multiracial family
21:30- Talking to your kids about race
27:00- A teaching moment that she had recently with her children labeling themselves by their race when playing princesses
34:35- The meaning behind her children’s nicknames
38:50- Jeena’s experience with going to therapy with her daughter
46:05- Her thoughts on not always knowing all of the answers and teaching her kids that it is okay to not always know everything
51:05- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
Disney Princess Subscription Books
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Bryce Reddy is a licensed mental health counselor specializing in maternal mental health. She joins us today to talk about triggers, anger management in parenthood and so much more!
In this episode we talk about coming into parenthood after loss, managing the newborn years and paying attention to our own triggers as parents so that we can ultimately have a more calm, happy home.
Make sure you check out her instagram page for so many great tools she provides for us parents!
What we talked about:
3:05- How Bryce got started in the work of being a therapist for moms
7:25- How her infertility journey lead to her being passionate about the work that she is doing
9:30- The transition to becoming a stay at home mom and how that can affect people differently
10:35- The guilt that you can feel after dealing with infertility and then having children and still having struggles emotionally with motherhood
11:55- The steps that she has to help mothers walk through the emotions that they feel after having a child
13:50- How she came up with the name Mom Brain Therapist
14:55- The transition from working in a private practice to working completely online in her current work
16:15- The mini course that she has about temper
18:45- Triggers that parents have and how to work through them
32:50- How different times of the year, week, or day can cause extra sensitivity and working through those feelings
38:30- The importance of modeling behaviors to our kids
41:30- The mindset that we can always reset and start over
45:00- The importance of how we respond to our kids and when to address bad behaviors
53:20- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
Temper Tool for Parents Mini Course
Kids Books Suggestion:
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Rosalia Rivera is a Consent Educator, Sexual Literacy Advocate, Speaker, change agent, founder of CONSENTparenting, host of the AboutCONSENT Podcast, creatrix of CONSENTwear and child sexual abuse survivor turned thriver.
In this episode we talk about body boundaries, safe people and safety networks, how to respond to a child who comes to you with information that they may be ashamed to talk with you about, body exploration, giving your kids ownership over their bodies and their decisions and so much more.
This episode is perhaps the most important episode I’ve recorded yet. I am so happy to get this information in the hands of more parents and those helping raise kids! Please share it with anyone who you think may benefit from it and reach out to Rosalia on instagram to give her a thank you for this work she’s doing!
Photo Cred: Katelyn Malo
What we talked about:
3:35- Introduction to Rosalia Rivera and how she got into the work that she does
11:20- The first steps in teaching kids about body awareness and body safety
14:45- How to respond to a child if they come to you with the information that they have been sexually abused
19:15- How to remove a person from a child’s life without the child feeling betrayed for having spoken up
21:35- What a safety network is and how to implement it in your family
26:20- How to handle doctor’s visits, coaches and other people of power in the child’s life and how to empower kids with consent letters
33:10- The importance of giving your child independence for self development
40:10- Teaching kids about self exploration with their body parts
48:10- The difference between being overprotective and proactive
53:45- End of podcast questions
Kariss is a photographer, write and speaker. She’s a business owner and the mother of three. She is the Co-Owner of Pharris Photos & Philms, alongside her husband Joshua. They specialize in wedding and commercial photography.
In this episode Kariss talks with us about walking through four miscarriages as well as what it’s like to run a business with her husband. It is an exciting year for their family- they have hired on 6 employees over the past year and are really growing- both in the business and their family as they have recently had their third child. You are going to love Kariss’ positive energy and excitement for life.
What we talked about:
2:30- Juggling working at home and parenting with kids at home this year
5:45- The balance that Kariss has found with wanting to work even while resting after having a baby
6:45- The decision to hire employees in her business
9:15- How her and her husband met
11:00- Getting pregnant early on in her marriage
11:50- Walking through four miscarriages and the emotions that she felt with those
23:25- Growing up in a single parent home and with a strong faith
26:45- Starting a business with young kids and not being afraid to ask for help with the kids
31:30- What Kariss’ business is and what it is like working with her husband
33:45- Being married to a dreamer and someone with a lot of ambition
38:00- How she prioritizes her marriage while working with her husband
40:45- The importance she places on taking good photos of her children so that they can look back on memories
43:10- Her organization system for her family photos
49:30- How her business has grown in recent years and how she has brought on several employees
54:40- Talking about her birth stories
1:00:45- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
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We are talking about raising adventurous kids in todays episode with Katie Arnold!
Katie is the mother of two girls, an ultra runner and a writer. She won the Leadville 100 in 2018 and her work has been published in Outside, her stories have appeared in The New York Times, Men’s Journal, ESPN the Magazine, Marie Claire, Runner’s World, Elle, and Sunset, among others.
She created and launched the popular Raising Rippers column, about bringing up adventurous kids. Her families can be found adventuring up mountains and down rivers and I wanted to hear her tips and ideas for how to pursue a lifestyle like this with your kids.
Katie is also an author and her first book, a memoir; Running Home is now available in paperback- make sure you check it out at your local bookstore and it’s also available on audible narrated by Katie. If anyone’s interested in hosting a live Zoom event, contact Katie through her website katiearnold.net, where you can also find info about running and writing FLOW retreats she leads!
Let’s get to hearing all about raising adventurous kids now!
What we talked about:
3:55- Introduction to Katie Arnold and her family
5:40- Her thoughts on “balance” in her life
9:20- Katie’s upbringing and how that is a part of who she is today and how she parents
14:00- Katie’s thoughts on technology for her kids
24:15- How her outdoor adventures help to instill curiosity in her kids
28:40- The importance of learning with your kids
31:40- How to bring your kids on outdoor adventures and ways to handle their complaining
39:10- How her parenting has evolved and changed as her kids have gotten older
54:10- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
Kids Books Suggestion:
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Miranda Anderson is here to encourage us to simplify.
Miranda Anderson is the mother of three and the founder of Live Free Creative Company and her mission is to provide tools for women to live a creative, adventurous, and intentional lifestyle.
Miranda is also the author of More than Enough, a book that shares a time when she felt weighed down by the mass of belongings her family had been accumulating and decided to take an entire year where they would stop all unnecessary shopping. It meant learning to use what they already had and being more creative.
In this conversation Miranda will give some tangible tips for getting starting with some simplifying of your stuff and we also talk about some fun new family tradition ideas.
Enjoy my conversation with Miranda!
What we talked about:
3:05- Introduction to Miranda Anderson and her business
11:00- Assessing what we already have before going out shopping and buying more
16:30- Tips on ways to declutter
21:20- Ways to organize chargers and cords
29:55- The importance of word choices that she discussed on a recent podcast
33:30- The balance of finding joy in holiday decorations and not having too many and ways to use what you already have creatively
45:00- Limiting stuffed animals with her kids
46:50- Teaching her kids to simplify and giving them the choice of what to declutter
50:25- A three step challenge to simplify and declutter
56:25- Her book and the 1 year no shopping challenge that she did
1:07:20- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
Sergei Urban from The DadLab is here to talk about connecting with your kids through science. What started as a hobby doing experiments and projects with his own two kids turned into a full time gig where he encourages other parents to get invested in learning with their kids. He is also the author of a really cool book that shares some of his favorite experiments called The DadLab.
Alex Caspero is a Registered Dietitian and plant based Chef, she is the Founder of Delish Knowledge and the co-founder of Plant Based Juniors. She is the Mom of two and personally focuses on plant foods with a little dairy or egg and what I love about her approach to food and plant based eating is that it’s not an all or nothing deal. Over at Plant Based Juniors, she and her business partner Whitney offer a complete guide to plant-based prenatal and pediatric nutrition.
In this episode we talk about how to make sure our kids are getting enough iron, protein and calcium in a plant based diet. (It’s not as hard as you might think!) We also talk about The Division of responsibility in eating. Parents are in charge of what we are offering and kids – if they want to eat it and how much of it they want to eat. Alex explains this really well and emphasizes teaching our kids self regulation.
If you are interested in purchasing anything on the Plant Based Juniors website (their batch ebook is awesome!)- you can use the code “Lindsey” for 15% off your order!
What we talked about:
4:45- Introduction to Alex Caspero
5:40- What she did before she started her company Plant Based Juniors
8:50- What her business Delish Knowledge is and details on her cookbook
11:05- Her own journey to becoming plant based
16:55- What Plant Based Juniors is and how it started
20:35- Nutrition tips for pregnant women
23:45- Tips for getting kids to eat healthy snacks
24:55- Tips for starting to introduce solids for babies
28:00- Iron rich foods to feed kids and Vitamin C rich foods to pair with them
32:05- The difference between iron from a plant based diet and iron from meat
33:05- The concerns that people have for a plant based diet for kids lacking protein and calcium and simple solutions
41:10- Simple tips for making plant based meals for the family
48:30- Tips for getting kids to eat and try new foods and making meal time less stressful
1:01:15- Her favorite plant based recipe recommendation: tofu nuggets
1:03:50- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
Top 3 Kitchen Items:
What Alex is Reading:
Favorite Cookbook:
Connect with Alex:
Plant Based Juniors on Instagram
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Andrea Thorpe is the mother of three girls ages 16, 14 and 9 so I felt like I was talking to a Mom who was a few steps ahead of me and that as really comforting. She is a homeschooling Mom and the founder of the African American Homeschool Moms. We’ll learn about her heart behind founding the organization and how it provides resources and support for other African American home schooling Mommas.
Andrea is also a writer and has created a really cool book that is a special resource designed to help parents and children slow down and connect with one another.
In this conversation we talk the importance of connecting with our kids and provide simple ideas for ways to do that including asking our kids more questions. (I love these ones that Andrea shared – If you were in that situation what would you have done? Asking them about their own goals, aspirations) We also talk about giving our kids options and Andrea gives some great thoughts on talking about hormones with teenage girls.
It’s a good one! Grab a cup of coffee, get your shoes on for a run or walk or pop the headphones in for your grocery trip. This conversation with Andrea will fill you up and encourage you to connect with your kids today.
What we talked about:
3:30- Introduction to Andrea Thorpe and her family
6:20- The most important things that she cultivated with her kids while they were younger
8:45- How she encourages honesty and cultivates trust with her kids
10:45- Giving your child a decision as to when they have the hard conversations and allowing them some space
11:50- The African American Homeschool Community that she has created
15:40- How to separate school mode and mom/family mode while homeschooling
20:55- The scheduling system/calendar that she uses to stay organized
25:00- The journal that she created to help connect you with your kids
33:00- How we can slow down and connect with our kids
40:50- How she processes the time that has passed by so quickly with her kids as they grow up
43:00- Her favorite thing about parenting teens
43:55- How she handled talking with her teenage girls about body changes and hormonal changes during the teenage years
52:20- What she has taught her kids that she hopes they will pass on and teach their kids
55:40- End of podcast questions
Show Notes:
African American Homeschool Moms
Lindsay’s Letters Calendar (that I don’t use but want to use haha)
What Andrea is Reading:
Jackie Robinson’s Autobiography – I Never Had it Made
Kid’s Book Suggestion:
Connect with Andrea:
Andrea’s Facebook Group – African American Home School Moms
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3:30- Katy Allan introduces herself and talks about her current school setup for her kids
7:30-How Katy started her Instagram and Blog Savoring the Flavoring
11:25- Why she was living in California when her kids were born and then moving to Georgia
14:10- How her and her husband met
20:25- Her relationship with food and the mindset she hopes to pass on to her family
25:45- A delicious salad dressing that she made
29:28- Why everyone should be shopping at their local farmers market
36:15- Her best fried green tomato recipe
44:20- Meal planning tips for everyone
52:40- End of podcast questions
Salad Dressing Recipe:
Bianca Dottin is an incredible woman who has walked through so much. You are going to be in awe of this woman.
She is the Mother of three kids, 9 year old Tatiana and 6 month old angel baby Tristan, and her rainbow baby Trevor.
After walking through the incredibly difficult experience of being a NICU Mom, Bianca created the organization called “Mama’s of the NICU” to support other moms going through similar circumstances. Mama’s of the NICU aims to help moms cope with their time in the NICU by providing journals and survival kits to NICU moms, connecting them with past NICU moms as mentors, and providing an educational outlet through a blog with information, personal stories and past experiences. They also have a great community in their facebook group you can join if you area past or present Mama of the NICU.
Bianca also shares about her need for a kidney donor and how she chooses to work hard and thrive regardless of her circumstances that often times are very challenging. Learn more about Bianca’s need for a kidney donor here.
Bianca is fun, she’s encouraging and she also has a ton of fun DIY, lifestyle, fashion and travel fun over on her website! I hope you enjoy this conversation friends!
Photo Cred: Kate Kelley Collection
What we talked about:
5:30- Introduction to Bianca and her family
7:05- her son Tristan, her pregnancy journey, his NICU experience, and losing him
11:50- how she handled parenting her daughter while grieving the loss of her son and how she helped her daughter handle those hard times with therapy
16:30- the NICU experience
22:20- Creating bonds with other families in the NICU and the emotions that you go through when others in the NICU can go home with a healthy baby or when they lose their child
26:50- Her organization, Mama’s of the NICU, how it started, what it is, and how she hopes to help other moms through the organization
30:50- How her Facebook group can serve as a support group for moms going through postpartum depression
32:10- Message to moms in the NICU and/or walking through loss
34:05- Message to moms that are unsure how they can continue going on after a hard time
35:15- Her diagnosis with a kidney disease and how she has walked through that
41:10- Navigating the fear for her own health while continuing to show up as a good parent for her kids
42:50- Waiting to receive a kidney donation
44:50- Prioritizing and working on her marriage while going through hard times
46:15- Finding Mama’s of the NICU
48:40- End of podcast questions
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Katie Crenshaw joins us to talk about Body neutrality and ways to talk with our kids about having a healthy body image. Katie is the Mother of three and has a great message for post partum Mother’s who are questioning how their body is “supposed” to look and a message for the parent trying to create a healthy environment around the topic of body image in their home.
I am grateful for Katie’s leadership on this topic and hope that you get as much out of this episode as I do.
What we talked about:
3:50- Introduction to Katie Crenshaw and her parenting journey
5:45- Her recent blog post about life during the pandemic and realizing how so much of her happiness is tied to her productivity
8:00- How she has accepted that she doesn’t find her full identity in motherhood and how that lead her to starting her blog
10:55- How she started Her Body Can and what lead her to becoming so passionate about body positivity
17:10- Teaching young boys and girls to have body positivity for themselves and respecting other bodies
23:20- Teaching people to love bigger bodies and love all bodies
25:15- Modeling good body image and accepting your body as a parent
27:50- Her philosophy around food and meals with her kids
30:55- The Her Body Can book
33:45- Running the New York City Marathon and the story of why she did it
42:00- Messages to moms about their bodies changing after having kids
44:30- What she wants her kids to remember about her as a mom and the messages that she taught them
45:20- End of podcast questions
What She’s Reading:
Emily Calandrelli joins us for episode one! About a month ago my kids discovered the new netflix show “Emily’s Wonderlab” and I immediately knew I had to try to book Emily for thi brand new podcast.
Emily’s Wonderlab is an educational show about science that does an amazing job engaging with kids and teaching them important science skills. One of the first things that will catch your eye when watching Emily’s Wonderlab is that she is very pregnant as she hosts the show. A badass woman scientist pregnant with her first baby. Amazing.
Here is a little more info about Emily pulled from her website:
Emily is an MIT-engineer turned Emmy-nominated science TV host. She’s the Host and Co-Executive Producer of Emily’s Wonder Lab on Netflix, She’s featured as a correspondent on Netflix’s Bill Nye Saves the World and an Executive Producer and host of FOX’s Xploration Outer Space, which airs in 100 million households each week. Her first science children’s book series, the Ada Lace Adventures, are now available for purchase. She recently launched the third Ada Lace book into space as part of the Storytime From Space program.
Emily is also a professional speaker who has spoken at venues like Google, Pixar, MIT, Texas Instruments, CERN, and dozens of K-12 schools and Universities around the country. She focuses her talks on the topics of science communication, space exploration, and women in STEM. Her 3 TEDx talks are available on YouTube.
Emily’s educational background is in engineering and policy. At West Virginia University she received bachelors in Mechanical and Aerospace Engineering. While at WVU she was awarded the Goldwater scholarship for research and Truman scholarship for policy work.
She received her Masters from MIT in Aeronautics and Astronautics as well as Technology and Policy.
What we talked about:
6:30- Introduction to Emily Calandrelli and how she got into science
8:45- Why she got into production and doing science shows
10:00- The behind the scenes creation of Emily’s Wonderlab Show
11:15- Being one of the only females in her undergraduate science program and how that translated into the science production industry
16:00- Emily’s thoughts on how to be kind when teaching or explaining science
18:05- How she approaches conversations when people don’t believe in science
20:10- How both parents and kids can become science literate
22:00- Working with Bill Nye for the show “Exploration Outer Space” and how it has shaped her
25:00- What she has learned from Bill Nye
29:35- Getting young girls into science and the STEM field
30:35- Her book series, the Ada Lace Series
32:10- How having her daughter has changed her views on her career
35:30- Why it is important that we are doing space exploration
36:00- End of podcast questions
41:30- Listener questions from kids!
Show Notes:
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Hey everyone! WELCOME to Why is Everyone Yelling!
As the mother of four I’ve always envisioned myself creating a show where parents can connect, grow and feel supported.
Parenthood is beautiful and it’s also really hard. In the eight short years of experience I have, I have learned over and over again that I may need to rethink how I do things around here. And I often times find myself saying, maybe yelling “why is everyone yelling.”
My hope is that you will leave this podcast each week armed with something that will help you in your own parenting in some way big or small.
What I really envision is that you will smile, you will give some solid head nods and you will feel supported.
This is a weekly podcast that will drop every Tuesday. We are super proud to bring this show into the SandyBoy Productions podcast network. It joins I’ll Have Another with Lindsey Hein, The Up and Running Podcast and The Illuminate Podcast.
We have already created a Facebook group for this podcast called “Why is Everyone Yelling” and you can also connect with me on Instagram I’m @LindseyHein626 over there.
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