Parenting with Impact

John Willson, MS, LRT/CTRS, is Executive Director for SOAR, the world’s premier adventure program serving youth with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) and LD (Learning Disabilities). SOAR’s outdoor adventure-based programs provide academic instruction, experiential education, and life skills development for youth and young adults ages 8-25. SOAR stands for Success-Oriented, Achievements Realized. With a passion for fostering resilience and nurturing strengths in neurodiverse communities, John is a respected advocate among those who serve individuals with learning differences and attention challenges. Learn more at soarnc.org.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Willson about ADHD and outdoor learning.

How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]

Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.

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Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

John emphasized the effectiveness of outdoor experiential learning in nurturing success and coping mechanisms for kids with ADHD

John discusses recognizing and celebrating children's achievements, big or small, can create a positive cycle of confidence and growth, essential for long-term success.

John stresses the use of metaphors in the learning process was highlighted as a powerful tool for children to understand and apply lessons from outdoor activities to real-life situations.

Related Links:

Website: https://soarnc.org

Outdoor Adventure Camp Experiences for Kids with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/outdoor-adventure-camp-experiences-for-kids-with-adhd/

10 Easy Steps to a Tension-Less Home: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/10-easy-steps-to-a-tension-less-home/

How to Manage Them, Me and Their ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/parenting-with-adhd/

Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.: https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_P

What Support do ADHD'ers Need? Book Smart or Street Smart?: https://youtu.be/jzaRjHLspjs

Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_U

The Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based Approach: https://youtu.be/QmXPUxNRCGA

Connect with John:

Website: soarnc.org

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The sense of urgency in parenting often leads to reactive rather than creative problem-solving, posing unique challenges for both parents and children. Elaine and Diane, drawing from their personal experiences and insights, underscore the importance of recognizing and managing the signs of reactivity, such as hypervigilance or catastrophizing.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss problem-solving.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

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Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Elaine and Diane understand as parents you must recognize when you are in a reactive state and make a conscious effort to shift towards a calmer mindset before addressing the issue at hand. This allows for more thoughtful and effective problem-solving.

Practice pausing in interactions with your children to allow for reflection and emotional regulation. This space enables both parents and children to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively.

Elaine and Diane stress guiding your children through moments of discomfort instead of immediately rescuing them. By helping them navigate challenging emotions, you empower them to develop emotional self-regulation skills for the future.

Links

Beyond Mean Girls: Parenting and Dignity with Rosalind Wiseman: https://youtu.be/GfmkH5HkaS4

Effective Agreements: https://youtu.be/1Sf6G37JW80

Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with Responsibility: https://youtu.be/gUQdne8YliM

Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s

5 Steps to Settle Family Politics: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/5-steps-to-settle-family-politics/

Handling Conflicts with Complex Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kids

Welcome to Parenting With Impact: https://youtu.be/FykSBnaWXhk

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Parenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus

Episode 171 Are You Unflappable? Adapting to Parent Stress, Grief, Change and More with Renee Zavislak

Renee Zavislak, the host of Psycho Therapist: The Podcast, is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and nutritionist in private practice; she specializes in treating complex trauma, high conflict families, and anxiety. Renée's homebase is Sonoma County, California, where she lives with her husband and son, and she travels to see clients in Los Angeles, New York City, and San Diego. In addition to weekly therapy sessions, Renée works via multi-day intensives for individuals, couples, and groups that focus on holistic healing. When she isn't working or cooking, she can be found fawning over her Canine-American soulmate, Chili.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Renee Zavislak about parental stress and grief.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

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Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Renee emphasizes the significance of being comfortable with making mistakes and apologizing to children.

Renee highlights the importance of catching kids being good and shifting the focus towards desired behaviors rather than solely addressing negative ones.

Renee advocates for parents to approach parenting with wonderment rather than expectation.

Connect with Renee:

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Podcast:  https://www.psychotherapistthepodcast.com/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/psycho_therapist_renee/

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Dr. Marquita Davis, Ph.D., is KinderCare’s Chief Academic Officer, overseeing the development of KinderCare’s high-quality educational programs, educator professional development, quality and accreditation initiatives, research and evaluation, inclusion services, and public policy.

Marquita has more than 20 years of experience in early childhood education, non-profit leadership, government and philanthropy, including nearly six years as deputy director of Early Learning at the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, where she led the foundation’s multi-state early learning strategy which aims to ensure all young children have access to high-quality, effective and affordable preschool.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Marquita Davis about your child’s first and forever teacher.

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible:

What is recommended treatment for children and teens

Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication

Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring.

ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

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Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Marquita explains Kinder Care provides comprehensive care and education for children from six weeks to twelve years old, including traditional center care, before and aftercare, and a thriving aftercare program.

Parents are recognized as their child's first teachers and are supported in early learning settings through mental health and educational assistance, empowerment, and tools for transitioning into traditional settings

Marquita discusses the emphasis on the partnership between parents and providers in early learning settings, with shared responsibility for supporting the child's development and creating a supportive environment.

Community support plays a crucial role in empowering parents to advocate for their children's well-being, access necessary resources for their development, and develop relationships with providers to effectively address concerns.

Related Links:

10 Self Care Tips: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/self-care-tip-sheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=self

Parenting Young Boys with Difficult Behaviors: https://youtu.be/FAyRk-Ta_z8

Undefinable Brilliance: Brain Development Essentials: https://youtu.be/AqZ_LAqNWDw

When the School Says No -- How to Get to the Yes: https://youtu.be/LZAJ5bhSJgk

The What and Why of Parent Behavior Training: https://youtu.be/8VTKfgpPVdE

Accommodations vs. Remediation - What's the Parent's Role?: https://youtu.be/2tfQ4nZDs2E?si=Ysl6UyqmxyZyIIUd

When Parenting Feels Like a Burning Building: https://youtu.be/VsW674HfSMI

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Website: https://www.kindercare.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marquita-davis-ph-d-bb623171/

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Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Rosalind Wiseman about parenting and dignity.

Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids

Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide   from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

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Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Rosalind and Elaine discuss how technology and the Internet have changed parent-child communication, highlighting the struggle to find a balance between control and creating a safe environment.

Elaine and Rosalind talk about the difficulties parents encounter when communicating with their children, particularly when discussing topics like social dynamics and adolescent development.

Elaine and Rosalind emphasize the importance of supporting children and families during tough situations; they discuss treating children with dignity, highlighting the importance of valuing a person's inherent worth.

Elaine and Rosalind emphasize the importance of meeting complex kids where they are, understanding their underlying motivations, and respecting their agency in parent-child relationships.

Related Links:

The Anxious Generation (book): https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0593655036/?tag=im0ea3-20

Improve Relationships with Complex Kids and Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/improve-relationships-with-complex-kids-and-teens

rosalindwiseman.com

Redirecting Your Child with ADHD Without Judgment: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/redirecting-adhd-without-judgment/

Six Things to STOP Saying to your ADHD Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/six-things-stop-saying-to-your-adhd-kids/

How to Pick Your Battles to Achieve Family Peace: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/how-to-pick-your-battles-to-achieve-family-peace/

ADHD & Depression, ADHD & Anxiety, and All of the Above: https://youtu.be/EsVPRm9RVD4?si=lj3YuBucpK3A6cmN

Parenting Anxious Childhood Emotions: https://youtu.be/ff5hXtdem5Y

What Story Are You Telling Yourself?: https://youtu.be/a3Pu8irWDR4

Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s

Understanding Learning Styles: A Curiosity-Driven Approach: https://youtu.be/za5bG6DuN7M

Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_U

Connect with Rosalind:

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Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss social media and mental health.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Elaine and Diane encourage parents to reflect on their own technology habits and how they model healthy tech usage for their children.
• Elaine and Diane explain it's crucial for parents to have open and honest conversations with their children about their online activities.
• Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of mindfulness in technology usage. They advocated for conscious engagement with digital tools and encouraged individuals to view technology as a supportive tool rather than a controlling force.

Links

Social Media and Youth Mental Health: https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/sg-youth-mental-health-social-media-advisory.pdf

Surgeon General: Why I’m Calling for A Warning Label on Social Media: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb

Surgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb

IPPF Report: https://www.ippf.org/sites/default/files/2016-05/ippf_cse_report_eng_web.pdf

Supporting Youth Experiencing Technology-Facilitated Sexual Violence: https://gbvlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-39/Learning-Network-Issue-39.pdf

Yuval Noah Harari: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5nwNQzNmE-/?igsh=MWtudGVkZ2dwZGx3OA==

Sanity School link: https://impactparents.securechkout.com/DSS-Kit-$197?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=episode-169&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=dss-kit

Podcast Episodes:

Teaching Kids to be Responsible with Technology: https://youtu.be/9_NbAkoaZjk

Intern'l Conf on ADHD 2022 Takeaway Part 2: Technology & Gaming Research: https://youtu.be/3OmacXsemNc?si=Avmr_v_c9YIBBVWn

Tech Overwhelm and the Metaverse: https://youtu.be/HXN4ShSNbvw

Effective Agreements: https://youtu.be/1Sf6G37JW80

Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with Responsibility: https://youtu.be/gUQdne8YliM

Articles:

Let Go Control Freak Parent: https://impactparents.com/let-go-control-freak-parent

Confident Parenting – Why Bother? https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/confident-parenting/

5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/

A Parent’s Guide to Sexing, Texting and Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/a-parents-guide-to-sexting-texting-and-teens/

Handling Conflict with Complex Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kids

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Dani Donovan is a purpose-driven creator and the founder/CEO of The Anti-Boring Project. Her unorthodox self-help book “The Anti-Planner: How to Get Sh*t Done When You Don’t Feel Like It” offers procrastinators innovative strategies, activities, and games to understand their emotions and overcome productivity roadblocks. Dani’s work empowers individuals with ADHD understand themselves, feel a sense of belonging, and better explain their struggles to loved ones. Her relatable webcomics, viral TikToks, and closing keynote at the 2021 International ADHD Conference have established her as a prominent voice in the mental health community. Dani has been featured in publications like The New York Times, The Washington Post, BBC News, and The Guardian. Her efforts have encouraged thousands to seek diagnosis and treatment. Check out her work at ADHDDD.com and anti-planner.com!

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Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids

Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE

insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

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Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Dani emphasizes the effectiveness of personalized learning strategies, such as using art to help her son study. This highlights the significance of tailoring educational approaches to individual interests and needs.

• The Feelings-Based Productivity Approach advocated by Dani organizes productivity tools based on emotional states. This approach addresses how individuals feel, ultimately boosting productivity by acknowledging and working with their emotions.

• Elaine and Dani stress the importance of collaborative communication and incorporating humor to navigate the challenges of ADHD. Effective communication and a light-hearted approach can make dealing with ADHD-related difficulties more manageable.

Related Links:

• How to Respond When Your Kid Says Everything is Boring: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/kid-says-everything-is-boring/

• Empathy: A Magic Wand to Connect with Complex Kids and Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/empathy-a-magic-wand-to-connect-with-complex-kids-teens/

• The Anti Boring Project: https://www.antiboringproject.com

• ADHD Conference: https://chadd.org/conference/

• The Anti-Planner: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1944627073/?tag=im0ea3-20

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Parenting during the summer presents unique challenges, as parents strive to create a balance between structured activities and unstructured downtime for their children. Elaine and Diane, both experienced in navigating these summertime hurdles, offer insightful perspectives on the matter.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss summer stressors.

Ten Self Care Tips for Parents

Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Elaine and Diane advocate for a flexible structure that allows for goal-setting across different types of activities

Elaine and Diane stress the importance of parents prioritizing self-care during the summer months.

Involving children in the summer planning process not only encourages autonomy but also fosters essential life skills like executive function and self-sufficiency.

Related Links:

Flexibility + Structure = Moderation: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/flexibility-structure-moderation-2/

Managing Summer Stressors:  A Message to Moms with

ADHD:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/managing-summer-stressors-a-message-to-moms-with-adhd/

Planning Summer Days Rhythm and Routine with Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/planning-summer-days-rhythm-and-routine-with-kids

Summer Planning with Complex Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/summer-planning-with-complex-kids

Setting Boundaries for Summer:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/setting-boundaries-for-summer/

Dinner with an ADHD Family:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/dinner-adhd-family/

Anxiety 101: Let Go of Expectations (success story):  https://youtu.be/BmUOXqqL8tY

Parenting Is Improv!:  https://youtu.be/xjt1rT_Tioo

Travel Planning with Anxious, Inflexible, Neurodiverse Kids:  https://youtu.be/JWhIFPvmTNU

Yes, You Can Teach Life Skills Through GAMING:  https://youtu.be/RQL8PUcbGvM

Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.:  https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU

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David Taylor-Klaus reintroduces Successful Entrepreneurs and Senior Executives to their families. A serial entrepreneur, David is recognized for combining candor, intelligence, and humor with masterful coaching. He challenges leaders and their teams to reach their highest levels of performance in their professional and personal lives.

David has lived with depression and ADHD for most of his life giving him a deep understanding of, and compassion for, the neurodivergence that is so common among entrepreneurs and maverick leaders.

When David’s life work is done, no entrepreneur nor maverick leader will need to experience what he did: standing on the proverbial bridge wondering how they ever got so lost …

David and his wife Elaine (also a best-selling author and professional coach), are "up-until-COVID empty-nesters" now living in the heart of Atlanta with their two dogs and an ever-changing array of their three children. Their life is rich and full!

His best-selling book “Mindset Mondays with DTK: 52 Ways to REWIRE Your Thinking and Transform Your Life" is available on Amazon.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with David Taylor-Klaus about ADHD, co-parenting, and coaching.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

David emphasizes the importance of talking to your children about everything and allowing them to share their thoughts and feelings openly.

David and Elaine stress practicing active listening instead of constantly directing or correcting. Stay curious about their thoughts and experiences without imposing your own agenda. This helps build trust and strengthens the parent-child relationship.

David and Elaine understand parenting, especially in a collaborative manner, requires significant time, effort, energy, and attention. It's essential to prioritize self-care and recharge your own resources to effectively support your children in their growth and development.

Related Links:

David Taylor-Klaus Mindset Mondays: dtkcoaching.com/rewire

David Taylor-Klaus Website: dtkcoaching.com

Articles on Depression for Parents: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/depression-and-adhd/

Parenting Together: Getting on the Same Page: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/parenting-together-getting-on-the-same-page/

Distraction and Depression: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/distraction-depression-2/

What If My CoParent's Not On The Same Page: https://youtu.be/ODGghyPOR8E

Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_U

Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home: https://youtu.be/CcHgigVXwFk

Parenting is Leadership Guide: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/leadership-bonus?utm_campaign=imp-freebie&utm_source=podcast-episode-165&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=leadership

Connect with David:

Website: dtkcoaching.com

Mindset Mondays: dtkcoaching.com/rewire

Facebook: https://facebook.com/DTKcoaching

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/davidtaylorklaus/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/dtk

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Jamie Blume is the Founder and CEO of Alone Their Way, an organization dedicated to empowering people with ADHD and helping them reach their potential. Jamie is a certified ADHD and Life Coach an IFS and IFIO Coach, an educator at the ADD Coach Academy, a mentor of aspiring coaches, and the Chair of the Education Committee for ADDA.

As a life-long learner, Jamie believes in educating and creating awareness about ADHD to support overall healing, growth, and transformation. In her practice, Jamie supports individuals and families by integrating health, wellness, and nutrition into her coaching and by incorporating the healing properties of nature, mindfulness, and self-compassion into her work.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Jamie Blume about shame and ADHD

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Jamie discusses the importance of understanding how shame contributes to emotional dysregulation in individuals with ADHD.
• Jamie emphasizes focusing on the wins, positives, strengths, and talents of younger kids with ADSHD to help build confidence and a better sense of self.
• Jamie also explains the importance of staying calm during tough conversations to build self-confidence and resilience.
• Elaine stresses the importance of setting intentions before taking action – something that is often overlooked in a community where the focus tends to be on quick fixes. Slowing down and understanding the situation and setting clear intentions can help reduce fear and anxiety.

Related Links:

Along Their Way Website: alongtheirway.com

Three Steps to Learn from Mistakes Without Shame: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/

Take the Shame Out of Making A Mess: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/keep-their-mistakes-to-yourself/

Why and How to Teach Kids to Fail Forward: https://impactparents.com/books/why-and-how-to-teach-kids-to-fail-forward/

Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake a New One: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/

Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_U

Parenting with Presence: Celebrating Neurodiversity in Kids and Adults: https://youtu.be/6SApHN_Jswg

Treatment vs. Support: What Do Complex Families Need?: https://youtu.be/F46WANGkmqU

Shame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness: https://youtu.be/jIKZtEKBBKk

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-blume-78782653/

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Parenting is a journey filled with challenges, triumphs, and everything in between. One of the most important skills parents can learn is the art of fixing vs. helping. It's a delicate balance that can have a profound impact on a child's development and well-being.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about fixing vs helping.

Motivation Guide

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Diane and Elaine stress the importance of letting children know that it's okay to seek assistance, fostering collaboration and problem-solving skills.

Elaine and Diane agree; by staying composed, both parents and children can navigate difficulties effectively, validate emotions, and engage in collaborative problem-solving.

Elaine and Diane stress the importance of understanding and fostering resilience in children, especially in the context of neurodiversity.

Links Mentioned:

Parenting Style Quiz: https://impactparents.com/help-for-parents/free-parenting-style-quiz?utm_campaign=imp-freebie&utm_source=podcast-episode-163&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=parenting-style-quiz-new

Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s

How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools: https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0

Asking For Help: Why Is It So Difficult?: https://youtu.be/tK52aEi_VgM?si=eqikl2AjSQX_dIGS

Ask Your Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/ask-kids/

Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake A New One: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/

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Award-winning author Alysson graduated from the University of Louisiana at Lafayette with a degree in elementary education. She is a certified elementary education teacher and earned a law degree from the Southern University Law Center. After practicing law for six years, she traded in writing trial briefs for writing children’s books. Her books featuring Alycat have been recipients of the NYC Big Book Award, the Mom’s Choice Awards, have been featured in Kirkus Reviews, Publishers Weekly, and People Magazine; and have appeared in the Oscars celebrity swag bag and the Grammy Awards gift bag. Bourque enjoys speaking with children and teachers at schools and libraries and she hopes to inspire others to believe in themselves and their work and to keep pursuing their dreams.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Alysson Foti Bourque about the Alycat book series.

Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their Tracks

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.

UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/bonus-minimize-meltdowns-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=mm

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Alysson highlights the importance of instilling bravery in children. By celebrating small victories and encouraging problem-solving, kids can develop important tools to navigate life's challenges.

The Alycat series serves as a great example of using storytelling to help children navigate complex emotions and friendships.

Alysson’s books showcase the value of relying on friends during challenging times. By working together and offering support, children can learn to conquer their fears and navigate difficult situations.

Links Mentioned:

Lessons From Celebration: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/lessons-from-celebration/

Learn From Mistakes: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/

Combat Your Anxiety and ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/combat-your-anxiety-and-adhd/

ADHD Kids Believe What Parents Tell Them to Believe: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/kids-believe-what-parents-tell-them-to-believe/

Connection & Compassion: Parenting Children & Teens in Difficult Times with Susan Stiffleman: https://youtu.be/0pZJhzfTeVU

Black Woman Psychotherapist & Coach on ADHD, Resilience & Community with Ingershaye Colzie : https://youtu.be/ky6tjmfoUZc

Alycat Series Website: www.alycatseries.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealycatseries/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thealycatseries

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Stop the Roller Coaster, I want to get off! In today's fast-paced world, resilience and flexibility are crucial for survival. With constant changes happening around us, being able to adapt and bounce back from challenges is key to thriving in this environment.

Understanding complex children is also essential for their well-being and development. Each child is unique, with their own set of needs and characteristics. By taking the time to truly understand and connect with them, we can support their growth and help them navigate the complexities of the world.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about stress, anxiety and difficult situations.

Ten Self Care Tips for Parents

Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Diane discusses the significance of self-talk and coaching oneself through difficult situations, underscoring the need to help parents navigate challenging circumstances with resilience.

Elaine emphasizes the need to find a balance between anticipating potential challenges and not overwhelming oneself with excessive planning.

Diane encourages listeners to celebrate small wins along the way, acknowledging that life is full of ups and downs like to a rollercoaster ride.

Links Mentioned:

A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/a-parents-best-question-is-it-naughty-or-neurological/

Parenting Kids with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/parenting-kids-with-adhd/

Shedding the Shoulds: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/shedding-the-shoulds/

Navigating Parenthood: Embracing the Coach Approach: https://youtu.be/SbN75MWckn4

This Too Shall Pass: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/this-too-shall-pass/

Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s

Expect the Unexpected: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/set-realistic-expectations/

Sanity School: https://impactparents.securechkout.net/ssp?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=ssp

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This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Sonja shares her story of seeking support and guidance while utilizing a coaching approach that fosters independence.

Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Sonja about seeking support and guidance.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

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Sonja stresses the need to shift from completing tasks for the child to empowering them to seek help and overcome challenges independently.

Sonja highlights the importance of adapting parenting strategies to meet the individual needs of each child.

Sonja emphasizes the need for parents to understand and embrace the unique needs and viewpoints of each child, ultimately enhancing the child's environment for growth and development.

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Rules, boundaries and agreements are essential components of a healthy family dynamic. They help set expectations, create structure, and foster communication among family members. However, navigating these aspects can sometimes be challenging. Let's delve into how accountability measures, collaborative agreements, and setting boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining harmony within a family setting.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about rules, boundaries and agreements

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE

Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of understanding the distinctions between rules, agreements, and boundaries.

Regular accountability checks within agreements can enhance collaboration and mutual understanding within the family; this practice fosters a sense of responsibility and accountability among family members, ultimately strengthening the family dynamic.

Setting boundaries is crucial for protecting one's emotional well-being. Boundaries guide children towards independence, self-ownership, and responsibility.

Links Mentioned:

Alone At The Table

Parenting Together:  Getting on the Same Page

House Rules Rule!

Learn From Mistakes

Relationships By Design 

I've Tried Everything and Nothing Works

Help for Kids Starts with Parents 

Effective Agreements

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Phil Anderton, a visionary in the field of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), has revolutionized the way we perceive and address this condition. Through his leadership at ADHD 360, the largest and most successful ADHD medical clinic in Europe, Phil and his team have consistently pushed boundaries and paved the way for new possibilities.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Phil Anderton about ADHD diagnosis and treatment.

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible:

• What is recommended treatment for children and teens
• Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication
• Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring.
• ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Phil discusses the systematic approach to diagnosing and treating ADHD in patients of all ages. His focus on providing comprehensive care through assessments, treatment, and support services reflects a shift towards acknowledging and accepting ADHD as a neurodiverse condition that requires attention and understanding.

Phil emphasizes the importance of addressing skepticism towards ADHD diagnosis and the benefits of medication and accommodations for individuals with ADHD. He advocates for improved outcomes and quality of life, using examples like comparing ADHD medication side effects to common pain relievers and discussing the necessity of accommodations, such as extended time in exams, to support individuals with ADHD in achieving success.

Phil emphasizes the importance of evidence-based practices in advocating for ADHD acceptance and treatment. By using medical evidence and a data-driven approach, Phil aims to address funding battles and challenge misconceptions about ADHD in the National Health Service and educational institutions, with the goal of making positive impacts on individuals' lives through evidence-backed interventions and treatment options.

Phil explains digitized clinic processes streamline patient journeys and enhance assessments through video conferences. By offering assessments in patients' homes, the clinic reduces anxiety associated with in-person visits, leading to more accurate results and improved patient outcomes.

Phil and Diane explain the ADHD diagnosis process can be simplified by blending qualitative and quantitative data. By using screening tools, DSM criteria, and semi-structured interviews, clinicians can streamline the diagnostic process to a few hours of focused assessment.

Related Links:

Medical Bias vs. ADHD: The History of a Smear Campaign: https://youtu.be/0Cdcg5nwV2Y

Bilbow Formula for Success: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/bilbow-formula-for-success/

Using ADHD as an Excuse: Its Pitfalls: https://www.blogtalkradio.com/attentiontalkradio/2024/03/27/using-adhd-as-an-excuse-its-pitfalls

Website: www.adhd-360.com

QbTest: https://www.qbtech.com/

Connect with Dr. Phil Anderton:

Website: www.adhd-360.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/360ADHD

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/360adhd/

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Aaron is the founder of “Parenting Teens that Struggle” and the host of the #1 Parenting Podcast “Beyond Risk and Back” which is in the top 3% GLOBALLY for parent podcasts.

His new book, The 4 Prime Archetypes- Why we do what we do is out! It is personality profiling at it’s best! Get ready to point fingers at your loved ones, take a good long look in the mirror and understand WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO.

Aaron is an internationally known lecturer on archetypal imagery, body language, and martial arts and the Founder and President of Fire Mountain Programs, and since 2004 has run kids camps, teen camps, and family programming. In 2009, he and his wife Christine opened a residential Mental Health and Dependency recovery treatment center for teens ages 12-17 in Colorado. Fire Mountain Residential Treatment Center was in 2019 named one of the Top 50 Healthcare Providers in the United States and in 2020 named one of the Top 100 Innovators in Healthcare. He was also recently (2022) inducted into the US Martial Arts Hall of Fame.

23 years in personal addiction recovery, Aaron is also VERY ADHD... and it is his superpower.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Aaron Huey about emotional parenting.

How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]

Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.

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Aaron emphasizes the significance of a parenting approach with strong boundaries, influenced by his parents' progressive attitudes with stern, traditional discipline and expectations. He credits his mom and stepdad for instilling in him the value of setting strong boundaries while supporting and uplifting children. This approach reflects a modern understanding that focuses on empowering children while maintaining clear guidelines and expectations.

Aaron advocates for parents to acknowledge past parenting approaches, embrace radical change, and commit to making necessary adjustments for a better future. He emphasizes the importance of parents doing their inner work, healing past wounds, and being present for their children in a way that meets their needs.

Neurodiversity Informed Coaching focuses on understanding behaviors as symptoms of underlying struggles, teaching parents coaching skills to support their children. By recognizing that behaviors are often solutions to unmet needs like safety, power, connection, freedom, and worth, parents can approach their children's actions with empathy.

Parenting strategies involve understanding the reasons for a child's behavior and avoiding emotional reactions. By analyzing the why behind a child's actions, parents can address root causes rather than just reacting.

Aaron stresses the significance of expressing love and support, emphasizing that the love we withhold is the pain we carry, affecting not only ourselves but also our children and relationships. By creating a space for open communication, understanding, and empathy, individuals can navigate the challenges of parenting and relationships with compassion and resilience.

Links Mentioned:

Website: www.parentingteensthatstruggle.com

Book The Four Prime Archetypes: Why We Do What We Do: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B0CSWRLF74/?tag=im0ea3-20

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The Parenting with Impact podcast presents an intriguing topic, discussing how parents can amplify their children's strengths while also addressing their challenges. Elaine and Diane, two prominent voices in this discussion, share unique but complementary perspectives shaped by their experiences.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about focusing on your child’s strengths.

Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids

Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of celebrating children's strengths and capacities, even during struggles. By focusing on what works and providing genuine acknowledgments, parents can help build self-awareness, resilience, and positive self-perception in their children.

Giving positive feedback to children, even if they may initially struggle to accept or believe it, can have a significant impact on their self-esteem and growth. The importance of persistently offering compliments, even in a subtle manner, is highlighted to help children gradually internalize and believe in the positive affirmations.

Elaine and Diane discuss that recognizing and acknowledging a child's strengths boosts their self-esteem and provides them with the confidence and resilience needed to navigate challenges and succeed in life. By focusing on these strengths and building upon them gradually, parents can help their children develop important skills and overcome obstacles more easily.

Elaine and Diane explain encouraging parents to identify and celebrate unusual strengths in their children can foster a positive self-image. Highlighting the importance of recognizing and praising unique abilities like attention to detail or resilience can help children build confidence and develop a positive self-perception.

Links:

Help Kids Stand in their Power: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lNl-IjoSTiU&feature=youtu.be

Tips for Helping Kids Feel Proud (When They Don’t Like Praise):

https://youtu.be/-z98xnrCZUA?si=EZBNhNUgYGhdQ-0h

Improve Communication with Complex Kids and Teens:

https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/improve-communication-with-complex-kids-and-teens

Help Your ADD/ADHD Child: Change Your Perspective

https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/help-your-addadhd-child-change-your-perspective/

The #1 Best Strategy for Better Communication: Yes, AND…

https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/the-1-best-strategy-for-better-communication-yes-and/

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Derek is a father, coach, adventure-seeker, and self-exploration enthusiast.

He arrived at coaching through his own journey of self-discovery — experiencing the impact of coaching firsthand. On paper he was successful, but inside felt perpetually stuck and controlled by subtle yet pesky doubts, fears, and negativity.

By focusing on core fundamentals and becoming more aware of his energy and strengths, he learned to rewire those negative thought patterns and reclaimed what makes him come alive.

Through his client work, Derek helps others rediscover their aliveness and build momentum to play the game they’re destined to win.

Derek spends most of his time with his two little girls and enjoys running outside with his hyperactive Australian Shepherd. He also writes a periodic newsletter “Scratching My Niches” on Substack, exploring his many interests, navigating our tech driven world, and what it means to live an authentic life.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Derek Baynton about understanding different learning styles.

Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids

Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Derek shares how embracing his need for movement has helped him comprehend information better and generate creative ideas, highlighting the potential benefits of incorporating movement into learning and cognitive processes for individuals with ADHD.

Advocating for a strengths-based approach in parenting and education involves recognizing and capitalizing on individual strengths and abilities. By reframing perceived deficits as gifts and challenges as opportunities, parents can help their children thrive by identifying and nurturing their unique strengths.

Understanding and embracing the unique learning styles of children is crucial. By staying curious, asking questions, and observing how their children learn best, parents can help create environments that cater to their children's individual needs.

Staying curious as a parent is crucial in understanding children's behaviors and preferences. By observing and exploring what works for kids, parents can tailor their approach to better support their individual needs and learning styles.

Teaching children to make choices is essential for their development, as it helps them build confidence, agency, and decision-making skills. By allowing children to make their own decisions, parents can assist them in overcoming challenges and fostering independence.

Links Mentioned:

Dr Ned Hallowell: ADDers Are The Game Changers:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2jq6Ag8VYTE&list=PLzhSb7eNz3AcVF1h1F4TR8bQOGwrujeQ9&index=97&pp=gAQBiAQB

Helping Complex Kids Envision Their Future:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JD_c-cbHCqE&list=PLzhSb7eNz3AcVF1h1F4TR8bQOGwrujeQ9&index=11&pp=gAQBiAQB

Connect with Derek:

Website: derekbaynton.com

Website: alongtheirway.com

Newsletter: https://derekbaynton.substack.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derekbaynton/

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This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community!

Diane and Andy are dedicated parents who have navigated the challenges of their son's ADHD complex diagnosis since he was ten years old. Seeking support from Impact Parents, they have actively engaged in coaching and resources to better understand and support their son's needs. Diane and Andy’s journey has been marked by a deep acknowledgment of the reality of ADHD, leading them to prioritize support and understanding over frustration. They have shown remarkable growth in their parenting journey, emphasizing patience, understanding, and effective co-parenting to support their son and others with similar tendencies. Their commitment to working together and embracing different parenting styles has led to significant progress in their shared journey of supporting their son's ADHD.

Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Diane and Andy Solomon about parent success.

Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids

Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Diane and Andy explain Parent Training and Support is crucial in understanding and supporting children with ADHD. Through this training, parents can gain a deeper understanding of their child's ADHD diagnosis, leading to a shift in perspective from frustration to acceptance.

Diane and Andy have shifted from a dictatorship parenting style to a more conversational and supportive approach. By focusing on building relationships and gaining buy-in from their children, they have seen significant improvements in their relationships and outcomes for their kids.

Diane and Andy have shown that parents can have different approaches to parenting while still successfully co-parenting and supporting their children. Despite their differences, they have managed to parent together effectively, demonstrating that there is no one-size-fits-all method to parenting.

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Trust in relationships, particularly between parents and children, is a fundamental cornerstone for effective communication, learning, and growth. Elaine and Diane delve into the complexities of trust-building, especially with neurodiverse children.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about communication and building trust.

How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]

Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Diane and Elaine emphasize the importance of trust between parents and children, and highlight the impact of trust gaps on frustration. They discuss the challenges faced by parents of complex kids and stress the need for understanding and support.

Diane and Elaine delve into the challenges of trust-building, particularly with complex kids. They discuss the importance of understanding trust gaps, and managing expectations.

Elaine and Diane explain setting realistic expectations based on a child's developmental capacity is crucial for fostering trust and growth. By acknowledging and working with a child's challenges, parents can create a supportive environment that encourages trust, honesty, and growth in their relationship with their child.

Diane and Elaine emphasize the importance of trust in relationships, highlighting the need to assume best intentions and understand that trust is a process that requires effort from all parties involved.

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Deborah MacNamara, a highly experienced developmentalist, brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the field of parenting and child development. With a PhD and years of working alongside renowned author Gordon Neufeld, she has dedicated her career to understanding how children grow and thrive. Deborah's extensive background in academia, counseling, and teaching has allowed her to deeply immerse herself in the study of human development for nearly two decades. As a faculty member at the esteemed Neufeld Institute, she continues to contribute to the field through her research, writing, and online presence. Drawing from her personal experiences with highly sensitive children, Deborah's work resonates with families of complex kids, providing them with valuable insights and guidance.

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Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids

Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

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The developmentalist approach, explained by Deborah McNamara, focuses on understanding human development and its connection to parenting. This approach emphasizes helping children grow and thrive, and understanding what parents need to do to support their child's development.

Parenting complex kids can be a challenging and rewarding journey. These complex kids require parents to adapt and be flexible to understand their unique needs. Parenting, in general, is an adaptive endeavor, but it becomes even more apparent when raising children with complex needs. The key to adaptation lies in keeping our hearts warm and maintaining a sense of care and patience, even in the face of frustration and stress.

Neurodivergent development explores the challenges faced by parents of neurodivergent children. Deborah emphasizes the importance of creating supportive environments and providing structure, routine, and boundaries to help these children develop their identity and navigate the world.

Trial and error is crucial for neurodivergent individuals to navigate their lives and find their passions. By giving them opportunities to be the answer to something, such as through volunteer work or involvement in a community, they can develop a sense of identity and learn appropriate behavior.

The topic of holding on to kids while allowing them to let go explores the long-term relationship between parents and their children. Deborah emphasizes the importance of this throughout their development, from infancy to adulthood. She finds inspiration in Gordon and Gabbar's book, "Hold on to Your Kids." Holding on to our children means providing support and guidance, even when we are not physically present. It involves instilling our values and fostering a healthy and independent relationship.

Links Mentioned:

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What's So Wrong with Immaturity?

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Sometimes in the world of ADHD, we parents come across a medical provider who really, really 'gets it.' This is one of those times! Dr. Aaron Dodini understands the nuances of diagnosing and treating ADHD, and has thoughts about the future of this complex condition. This conversation is a must listen for anyone with kids or adults who have ADHD in your family!

Dr. Aaron Dodini is a seasoned clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience in diagnosing and treating ADHD, particularly focusing on high achieving professionals and athletes who may have been overlooked in the diagnosis process. Aaron firmly believes in a comprehensive approach to diagnosing and treating ADHD, emphasizing that there is no one-size-fits-all treatment. He advocates for a combination of medication, behavioral interventions, coaching, therapy, and creating supportive environments to address the various aspects of ADHD. His perspective is shaped by his extensive experience and his passion for empowering individuals to embrace their ADHD as a catalyst for growth and excellence.

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Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Aaron emphasizes the importance of working with families, systems, and communities to provide support. He believes that a proper diagnosis for adults is crucial for improving their lives and their ability to support their children. When parents receive the support they need, they can reinforce support for their kids, leading to greater intimacy within the family.

According to Aaron, there is no cure for ADHD, but a combination of approaches can be beneficial. Medication is important, but should be complemented with behavioral training, therapies, and exercises. Aaron emphasizes the importance of using a whole toolbox of strategies to address the various aspects of ADHD.

Aaron explains, ADHD can be a catalyst for personal growth and excellence. Embracing a diagnosis of ADHD can lead to thriving and personal development. Therapy can help adults navigate the emotional aspects and come to terms with their diagnosis, although it may not address all executive function challenges. Aaron emphasizes the importance of self-love, compassion, and understanding oneself better, which therapy can facilitate. Ultimately, an ADHD diagnosis can serve as an invitation to self-awareness and growth.

Many of our defense mechanisms and ways of motivating ourselves that once served us well may no longer be effective as we evolve. Elaine mentions the "stick" that adults with ADHD have used to beat themselves up in order to be successful. While this coping mechanism may have worked in the past, it is important for individuals to learn to put the stick down and find healthier ways to motivate themselves.

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Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster about parental well-being.

Ten Self Care Tips for Parents

Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE

guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Parenting challenges can significantly impact the well-being and emotions of parents. Diane and Elaine explore the theme that parents often become stressed, overwhelmed, and experience a range of emotions due to their focus on their children. They emphasize the importance of parents taking care of themselves in order to effectively engage with their children. They discuss the need for parents to be in a good mental state to problem solve and navigate the complexities of parenting.
• Diane shares her personal experience of realizing her stress while watching home videos. She struggled to control the chaos in her life. Elaine adds that stress can lead to offensive or defensive approaches, such as shutting down or becoming aggressive. Diane explains the stages of dysregulation, where emotions and logical thinking compete in the brain. This often happens when parents feel overwhelmed, worried, or burdened by guilt or perfectionism. Elaine emphasizes that parents may react to stress in various ways, including internalizing, engaging in unhealthy behaviors, or resorting to explosions, blaming, and micromanaging.
• Prevention is crucial for maintaining emotional well-being and avoiding reactive behaviors. Diane and Elaine discuss the importance of recognizing triggers and staying aware to prevent escalation. Elaine shares an interesting perspective about how children and adults may already be in a triggered state, making explosive reactions more likely.
• Emotional regulation is a crucial skill that helps individuals manage their emotions and respond to challenging situations in a healthy manner. According to Diane and Elaine, it's important to be gentle with oneself when it comes to emotional regulation. They suggest taking a moment to breathe, reclaim your brain, and figure out what you need in that moment. They also highlight the importance of finding strategies that work for you, such as taking a walk or engaging in self-care activities. Ultimately, emotional regulation is about noticing and navigating your emotions.

Links:

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Using music and humor as her instruments, Amy orchestrates powerful moments of connection that leave people feeling encouraged and empowered. As a board-certified music therapist and a Certified Humor Professional, Amy conducts meaningful experiences that build community and center on the joy that music adds to our lives. One of her proudest accomplishments is being the musical director of Grace Notes Community Singers, an intergenerational performing arts organization for people living with dementia and their caregivers. Members are inspired to move beyond their heavy responsibilities to a place of relief and new possibilities. Amy has been a music therapist for over 20 years and holds dual master’s degrees in music therapy and music education. She is the owner of Oak Song Music Therapy and Consulting Services in San Antonio, TX.

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Motivation Guide

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Amy has dedicated over 20 years to this profession finding purpose in helping others through music. During the COVID-19 pandemic, when face-to-face interactions were limited, Amy explored therapeutic humor as an alternative way to fulfill her passion. She emphasizes the importance of laughter and playfulness in building relationships and motivating individuals, whether through activities like singing or finding coping strategies for self-care.

Amy emphasizes using humor to build strong bonds with children and motivate them. Engaging in joyful activities like singing or sharing jokes creates a sense of connection and strengthens relationships. Incorporating humor into self-care routines can also provide coping strategies during challenging times. By intentionally seeking out humor and creating a structure for fun conversations, parents can cultivate a light-hearted and joyful atmosphere in their homes.

Amy explains humor is a source of joy and entertainment with numerous benefits for our health and well-being. Engaging in humor and fun activities with loved ones helps build strong bonds and releases oxytocin, creating a sense of connection and happiness. Humor also serves as a powerful tool for self-care, providing coping strategies during challenging times.

According to Amy, laughter yoga has numerous health benefits and can be a powerful tool for connecting with others. The practice involves finding your own sense of humor and being authentic in your laughter. It can be used as a way to bond with family members, especially children, through sharing funny memes, watching funny movies, or playing games that lead to laughter.

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Jesse LeBeau is one of today’s most highly sought after youth speakers and teen coaches. His unlikely underdog story has inspired millions of teens through his speaking, best-selling books and youth programs. He is one of the worlds premiere basketball trick artists and is regularly featured on TV, film, and international tours. Jesse’s new reality series ‘The LeBeau Show’ allows viewers the chance to follow him around the country and see firsthand the major impact he is having on youth.

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Ten Self Care Tips for Parents

Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Finding strengths and pursuing passions is crucial for personal growth and fulfillment. Jesse emphasizes the importance of allowing children to explore their own interests and not forcing them into preferred activities. He advises parents to support their children's strengths and help them find activities they are passionate about.

Jesse emphasizes the power of attitude. He learned the significance of attitude from his father, who taught him by observing how athletes reacted to setbacks in sports games. Instead of focusing on their successes, they paid attention to how they handled failures and disappointments. This lesson had a profound effect on Jesse's life, teaching him that while we can't always control what happens to us, we can control our attitude towards it. By becoming the master of our own attitude, we can live a happier, more successful, and fulfilled life.

Jesse stresses how the importance of self-care and grace are essential for maintaining mental and emotional well-being. He highlights the importance of prioritizing self-care and adopting a positive attitude, even in the face of adversity. Jesse acknowledges that everyone's experiences and backgrounds differ, but it is crucial to empathize with others and recognize the validity of their struggles. He encourages individuals, regardless of age or circumstance, to understand that they are not alone in their challenges and that seeking resources and support is a positive step.

Jesse discusses balancing independence and parental guidance is a complex task for parents in today's digital age. One of the biggest challenges parents face is managing their children's relationship with technology, particularly smartphones and social media. Setting systems in place to monitor screen time and access is important, as the allure of endless scrolling and the influence of online content can negatively impact a child's life.

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Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode about nagging.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

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The topic of shifting from nagging to collaborative problem-solving in parenting is a crucial one, as it can significantly impact the dynamics of parent-child relationships. Elaine believes in a more playful approach to parenting, while Diane acknowledges that nagging often stems from a place of fear and anxiety

Nagging can be detrimental to relationships, causing annoyance and a breakdown in communication. Elaine and Diane explore the negative effects of nagging and discuss alternative ways to address concerns.

Elaine and Diane dive into the role of executive function support in parenting. They share insights on shifting from nagging to a collaborative approach, empowering children to take ownership.

Elaine and Diane explore the power of shifting from nagging to reminding with permission. Learn how a simple reminder system transformed one family's dynamic and created a more positive approach to reminding.

Links Mentioned:

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Episode 146 Simple, Safe & Connected -- Tips to Navigate Big Emotions with Sonali Vongchusiri

Sonali Vongchusiri is founder of Forward Together Parenting and the "Raising Your Strong-Willed Child" series. She often says that she WAS that kid and now she HAS three of those kids. As a parent coach she supports parents in shifting from "parenting perfectly" to "parenting with personality" -- helping parents step off the emotional roller-coaster, simplify parenting and stabilize their relationship with their kids by focusing on their needs as well as their kids.

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Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

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Sonali shares her experiences and the difficulties she faced in her relationship with her children. Sonali realized she needed to find her own approach to parenting, one that aligned with her needs and the needs of her children. She emphasizes the importance of connection and sharing truth with ourselves and our kids, rather than trying to fit into a mold of what parenting should look like.

Sonali emphasizes the challenge of meeting both parent and child needs simultaneously. She suggests acknowledging both the child and parent's needs instead of trying to fix the situation. One effective approach she recommends is using nonverbal communication.

She expresses the importance of feeling safe and stable in any emotional situation, whether dealing with a frustrated child or facing overwhelming circumstances. Sonali introduces the SHUAVE Process, which involves accepting and approving of oneself, aligning with emotions, and feeling a sense of belonging and validation.

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Leslie Josel, a renowned expert in effective communication strategies for parenting complex kids, has over two decades of experience in this field. Leslie's perspective on this topic is rooted in her belief that effective communication is the most crucial aspect for parents to understand. She emphasizes that all issues related to parenting complex kids ultimately boil down to how parents communicate with their children. Drawing from her personal journey as a parent to a child with ADHD and executive dysfunction, Leslie acknowledges that parenting complex kids can be overwhelming, but she underscores the need for parents to educate themselves and find ways to effectively communicate with their children. She also highlights the importance of translating complex medical and therapeutic language into conversational parenting language to make it more accessible for parents.

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Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

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Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Leslie shares her journey of becoming an accidental entrepreneur. She explains how effective communication and support can make a difference in raising complex kids.
• Leslie and Elaine dive into the crucial role of brain activation in parenting and effective communication with children. Leslie shares insights on medication, meditation, sleep, nutrition, and exercise.
• Leslie explains techniques on acknowledging your child's current state, choosing the right moment to talk, and prioritizing clear communication. She describes how to create an environment where children feel comfortable discussing important matters without triggering defensiveness.

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The topic of supporting parents of young adults, with its unique challenges, evolving relationships, and opportunities for growth, is the focus of this Parenting with Impact podcast episode. Join Diane and Elaine on this episode as they delve deeper into this significant and necessary area of focus.

Episode 144 Helping Young Adults Get Back On Track with Elaine and Diane

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How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]

Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. 

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

● Diane, who has been actively supporting parents of young adults for three years, emphasizes the need for understanding, guidance, and support for parents navigating this stage of life. She believes in creating space for young adults to ask for help and for parents to support their agenda, while also acknowledging the complexities involved in parenting young adults.

● Elaine stresses the importance of building and maintaining strong relationships with young adults, fostering trust, and effective communication. She encourages parents to focus on the progress and incremental growth of their young adults, rather than solely on the desired outcome of complete independence.

● Elaine and Diane dive into the complex world of parenting adult children. From establishing boundaries to fostering open communication, they explore the ups and downs of this ever-evolving process.

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·      Parenting Emerging Adults 

·      Effective Agreements

·      4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without Enabling 

·      It's No Mystery: Why Kids Resist Help

·       It's All About Control: Are You Ready?

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This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community!

Elena Nichols is passionate in raising complex kids through personal transformation and effective communication. After stumbling upon coaching by accident, she became intrigued by the concept of self-awareness and its potential for personal growth. As a parent of a child with dyslexia, Elena initially struggled with expectations and frustration. However, through her own journey of seeking

support and focusing on her child's strengths, she witnessed significant

improvements in their reading abilities. Elena's dedication to understanding

neurodiversity led her to become a neurodiversity informed coach, recognizing

the unique talents and facets of individuals with a greater degree of neurodiversity. With a diverse clientele and a supportive community at Impact

Parents, Elena continues to find fulfillment in connecting with and coaching

people, experiencing personal growth along the way.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting

complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help

you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater

independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using

to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

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Stories Edition Parenting With Impact episode with Elena Nichols about parent

coaching for complex kids.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Learn how observing herself and taking a pause before reacting changed her
• interactions with her children.
• Discover coaching as a transformative profession that opens the door to a whole new world.  Through coaching, obstacles and challenges are easily resolved, and everything flows effortlessly
• Learn how parent coaching as a transformative approach that empowers parents to navigate the challenges of raising complex kids.

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As parents, we worry about our kids fulfilling their potential, and want them to think about what they want their future to look like. How do we encourage our complex kids to envision a future, when they may still be struggling with the present?

Sheila Akbar joined the Signet team in the summer of 2010, bringing with her a wealth of experience teaching SAT, ACT, GRE, literature, and composition in both one-on-one and classroom settings. Sheila loves both teaching and learning and finds nothing more rewarding than working closely with students to overcome the challenges they face. After graduating from Harvard in 2002, she spent two years working in financial services before continuing her academic career, which culminated in two doctorates. She brings her significant business and academic experience to bear on her current role at Signet, which includes speaking to every client to craft a tailored solution for their needs, managing the administrative team, and providing educational thought leadership for the company. Sheila holds a bachelor’s degree and master’s degree from Harvard University and two doctoral degrees from Indiana University.

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12 Tips for Parenting a Complex Teen

From the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to

become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better

relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

Encouraging students to focus on positives, emphasizing strengths, and acknowledging their unique interests.

Emphasizing the importance of daily discipline and skill-building rather than solely focusing on achieving set goals.

Emphasizing the need for kids to own their aspirations and motivations rather than parents imposing their agendas.

Reframing failure as a learning opportunity and a part of the journey toward finding the right path.

Advocating for a safe space where kids can explore interests and change their minds without pressure.

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Three Steps to Learn From Mistakes Without Shame

How Are Values Guiding Parents And Kids?

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Elaine and Diane are back from the Annual International Conference on ADHD 2023! Hear about the ongoing evolution of ADHD management approaches, emphasizing the need for nuanced perspectives, change management strategies, and empowerment for individuals and families impacted by ADHD.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they reflect on their experiences at this year’s conference and the evolution of ADHD management, and how to mesh together the book-smart approach with the street-smart approach to managing ADHD.

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Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible:

• What is recommended treatment for children and teens
• Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication
• Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring.
• ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Shifting Perspectives: From deficit-based to strength-oriented approaches Observing a transition from a disempowered view of ADHD to an empowered and strength-based outlook within the community.
• Complexity of ADHD: Understanding the multifaceted nature of ADHD, including the complexities of diagnosis, treatment, and coexisting conditions, leading to a more nuanced approach in managing the condition.
• Change Management vs. Behavior Management: Recognizing the need for change management alongside behavior management, especially in familial and educational contexts, emphasizing a holistic approach to support individuals with ADHD.
• Empowerment and Transformation: Highlighting the transformative impact of their coaching approach, focusing on deeper conversations beyond problem-solving, empowering individuals to manage ADHD effectively and encouraging personal growth.

Related Links:

• CHADD Annual International Conference on ADHD 2023
• Dr. Tracey Marks YouTube Channel
• ADHD Dude- Ryan Wexelblatt, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP   
• ADHD Neither Gift Nor Curse with Doctors Russell Barkley and Edward Hallowell  
• Why Don't Parents of Complex Kids Get the Help They Need? Impact Parents - Research Results

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Susan Stiffelman is a licensed Marriage, Family and Child Therapist and the author of Parenting Without Power Struggles and Parenting With Presence. Her work focuses on helping parents forge sturdy attachment with their children as the calm, confident “Captain of the ship.” She hosts a popular podcast and offers online classes and is a lifelong meditator who is deeply committed to enjoying her life and living with gratitude and joy.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Susan Stiffelman as she shares her journey of understanding the diverse learning needs of children and the evolution of her work in merging educational psychology with therapy.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• The impact of parental engagement in children's emotional and academic development, and the importance of understanding diverse learning methods.
• Addressing the challenges parents face in a world where teenagers are inundated with overwhelming information, and the need for parents to help their children navigate this landscape.
• Stressing the significance of self-compassion and finding support in parenting, and the need to prioritize self-care while creating or seeking out supportive communities for guidance and shared experiences.

RelatedLinks:

• Kristin Neff  

Connectwith Susan Stiffelman:

• susanstiffelman.com
• Podcast
• Facebook
• Instagram
• YouTube
• Master Class
• Parenting Without Power Struggles
• Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

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Ginny Luther shares her journey of parenting her son, Bart, a defiant, passionate, and determined child who challenged her to shift from control to connection.

Ginny Luther MS, is an Educational and Family Behavioral Consultant, founder of Peaceful Parenting LLC, and Conscious Discipline Master Instructor. She is a dynamic international speaker for parents and educational professionals, pulling from her vast life experience. Her own challenging child was the catalyst for her passion to help others, using Conscious Discipline in schools, early childhood centers, with parents, and in mentorship. Her tremendous knowledge provides creative solutions to many difficult issues facing schools and families today. 

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Ginny Luther about the

importance of embracing vulnerability, acknowledging emotions, and fostering

strong connections with our children.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership"

Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will

guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important

relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Embracing empathy and connection over control in parenting complex children.
• Recognizing disappointment and failure as invaluable learning opportunities for children.
• Prioritizing self-acceptance and empathy to foster trust and empowerment in parent-child relationships.
• Navigating through loss and tragedy with resilience and the lessons learned from such experiences.

Related Links:

• Episode 109 Success! Changed My Family's Life with Help from Sanity School® 
• 3 Steps to Respond Without Reacting
• Shedding the Shoulds 
• Taming Your Inner Control Freak!
• Let Go, Control Freak Parent!
• When Kids Lose Control or Destroy Property
• Relationship Battles: Lay Down Your Sword and Shield
• Dinner with an ADHD Family
• Communicating with Teachers for School Success with ADHD
• Dreading School Meetings with Teachers? Try These 8 Steps
• How to Create a Great Relationship with Your ADHD Child’s Teacher
• 3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens

Connect with Ginny:

• GinnyLuther.com
• Blue Star Grit by Ginny Luther

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• Instagram  @impactparents
• Facebook  @impactparent
• LinkedIn  @impactparents
• Twitter @impactparents

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Communication is an ever-evolving part of your relationship with your child, no matter what age they are. During the holiday season, when there is increased togetherness there is a greater potential for difficult conversations.

Episode 138 How Do I Get My Kid To Talk To Me? 4 Communication Tools with Elaine and Diane

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the importance of effective communication tools.

How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]

Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. 

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Permission-based conversations and breadcrumb cues for smoother interactions.
• AC-E Method: Acknowledge emotions without judgment, wait or pause to let emotions settle, and then explore options or inquiries for problem-solving.
• Designing Conversations: Offering acknowledgment or a gift, making requests, and performing check-ins for reciprocal and inclusive discussions, aiming for collaborative problem-solving.
• Trust and Connection: Emphasis on maintaining trust and connection with kids as the foundation for effective communication and problem-solving, fostering collaborative dialogue and mutual understanding.

Related Links:

• Relationship Battles: Lay Down Your Sword and Shield
• Three Steps to Take When Your Kid Says, “I Don’t Know”
• 5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids
• Ask Your Kids
• Collaborative Conversations: Ask Powerful Questions for Independent Kids
• Plan Important Conversations
• 3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens
• Relationships by Design
• Improve Relationships with Complex Kids and Teens

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• Instagram @impactparents
• Facebook @impactparent
• LinkedIn @impactparents
• Twitter @impactparents

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Stephanie Pinto is an Emotional Intelligence author, speaker and coach who specializes in helping parents to create an Emotionally Intelligent family culture at home. She is a certified Emotional Intelligence specialist, is a pediatric anxiety therapist, and practiced as a Speech Pathologist for 10 years. Her ground-breaking book, From Chaos to Connection, was published in March 2023. And she has over 100k in her Facebook community called Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids. 

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Stephanie Pinto about understanding emotional intelligence in our children and how to parent effectively based upon where your child is at.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• What is emotional intelligence and how does it impact the ability to regulate emotions?
• The key components of the 26 competencies of emotional intelligence- what is most important?
• Punishment vs. discipline- are you responding or reacting? Which will help your child grow?

Related Links:

• How to Apologize When You’ve Hurt Your Child’s Feelings: Recovering after a Fight 
• Dealing with Emotional Kids and Meltdowns
• Are You (Secretly) Calling Your Child an “Idiot”?
• Even an Epic Meltdown is a Great Parenting Opportunity

Connect with Stephanie:

• www.stephaniepinto.com
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• YouTube

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• Instagram @impactparents
• Facebook @impactparent
• LinkedIn @impactparents
• Twitter @impactparents

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Priya Saaral LICSW, RPT-S is a first-generation immigrant from India and Singapore who identifies as a neurodivergent person. Her work has been centered on helping young people and parents find their voice and their playful spirit amidst personal and structural adversity, seeking to be seen and to belong. She aims to help all children feel seen and heard as valuable human beings in society, and as agents of change. 

Jaya Ramesh MA LMHC, CCTP is a neurodivergent immigrant. Her passions include creating liberatory healing and learning spaces and working to disentangle from and dismantle systems of oppression. In her private practice she supports BIPOC, neurodivergent people in having more authentic and nourishing relationships.

Priya and Jaya are the authors of Parenting at the Intersections -- Raising Neurodivergent Children of Color.

Parenting a neurodivergent child is challenging. What are the complicating factors for families of color or different cultural backgrounds? Systems of oppression and cultural standards play additional roles in how to advocate for your child.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Jaya Ramesh and Priya Saaral about creating a community of support for neurodivergent children of color.

Motivation Guide

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Approaching support for neurodivergent children while considering cultural backgrounds and communities.
• Parents of marginalized children are working within certain systems. One size does not fit all, and each community comes with a different set of rules.
• How might interactions be different when advocating for your neurodivergent child when you are a person of color? Are there underlying fears and expectations that others may not face?

Related Links:

• How To Talk With Your Kids About Race  
• Shift Your Expectations to Manage Complex Kids
• A Huge “aha” Moment: Set Realistic Expectations for ADHD Kids
• Kids Believe What Parents Tell Them to Believe

Connect with Priya & Jaya:

• www.parentingattheintersections.com
• www.jayarameshcounseling.com
• www.play-it-out.com
• Instagram @parenting.at.the.intersections
• Parenting at the Intersections -- Raising Neurodivergent Children of Color  

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
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We all set goals for our children as to what success should look like for them. As a parent, having control seems like the simplest path to that goal. However, we know this does not lend well to your child ultimately having independence and agency. So, how do we navigate this?

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss control and how to transition from director to supporter and allowing your child to thrive in their own power. 

Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids

Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• A rigid definition of success for our kids sets them up for failure- there are many definitions and many paths to get there, and your definition will evolve as your child grows.
• Reflecting upon why you are holding on so tightly to your idea of the path and the end point of success for your child.
• Transferring ownership from you to your child to get to the outcome you can both agree on.

Related Episodes

• Ep 11 Can You REALLY Control Your Kids with Gretchen Wegner  
• Ep 68 The Independence Pyramid: Big Picture and Daily Tasks with Elaine & Diane
• Ep 80 4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without Enabling with Elaine & Diane
• Ep 103 Success! Building Strong Relationships at Home and Work with Danielle Junker
• Ep 104 Self-Awareness, Self-Regulation & Self Management with Elaine & Diane

Links: 

• Control by Janet Jackson
• Three Steps to Learn From Mistakes Without Shame
• How to Help Your Kids Ask for the Help They Need  
• Study on Resiliency 
• The Pygmalion Effect   

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
• Facebook: @impactparent
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Does your young boy exhibit behavior that has you in fear for his future, and what kind of man he will become? Parenting boys with difficult behaviors can be very challenging. What can we do now to reduce risks and aggression?

Tosha Schore is a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. She is also co-author of “Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges,” which has been translated into five languages. Tosha works with parents to care for themselves, connect with their boys deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly, and has been featured on Dr. Shefali’s Parenting Mastery Summit, GoZen’s Anger Transformation and ListenUp! Summits, and has spoken to audiences at the Institute for Child Psychology, the Diversity in Parenting Conference, the Davidson Institute, Lawrence Livermore Laboratory, and on a boatload of podcasts!

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Tosha Schore about today’s approach to parenting young boys with challenging behaviors.

Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their Tracks

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• In the era of “me too” and feminism, how do we want to raise the next generation of young men?
• Connection between parent and child is the key to reducing aggressive behaviors in boys. When you lean into your relationship, he will do better.
• Shifting your mindset on how you parent- showing compassion and embracing emotion is valuable in raising boys who have a better handle on their own feelings and behaviors.

Related Links:

• 6 Core Coaching Concepts for Creating Change
• Parents are Missing Link to Empower Kids with ADHD
• Let The Feelings Flow: Dealing With Emotion
• Worst Parenting Advice for Complex Kids
• A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?

Connect with Tosha:

• parentingboyspeacefully.com
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• YouTube
• Sign up for the next Out With Aggression Workshop

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• Instagram @impactparents
• Facebook @impactparent
• LinkedIn @impactparents
• Twitter @impactparents

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As the founder of Executive Function Specialists, Sean McCormick has pioneered cutting-edge practices to guide students with AD/HD to overcome procrastination, disorganization, and school avoidance. His passion for empowering others led him to establish the Executive Function Coaching Academy, offering training programs for aspiring executive function coaches. Sean also hosts the popular Earn More Tutoring Podcast with a mission to enhance the lives of teachers, tutors, and educational therapists through success stories of educational entrepreneurship. 

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Sean McCormick

about collective efficacy, and the impact of parents collaborating with their child and their teacher.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Collaboration between parent + student + teacher yields great results when working with your child to improve academic success.
• What is “affective filtering” and how do you work with your child to build confidence and an openness to receiving positive feedback?
• Support is the best way you can set your child up for success- but you can’t do it all on your own.

Related Links:

• What is the affective filter?
• John Hattie's research:
• Elaine on the Earn More Tutoring Podcast   
• Video Tip: Take Aim
• How important are executive function skills?

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• www.efspecialists.com
• Sign up for the EFS Newsletter
• Earn More Tutoring Podcast
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• YouTube

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
• Facebook: @impactparent
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If you are struggling to get your child to do something, you may want to stop and think, “Who’s agenda IS IT?” Is this just something YOU want? How do you get your kid to buy into whatever it is that you are asking them to do?

This week Elaine and Diane discuss agendas! How can a parent and child come together to create a shared agenda that benefits everyone?

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• How do you get your child to take ownership of a responsibility? What is in it for them?
• Motivations may seem simple for younger kids, but what can you do for teens and young adults to create a shared agenda?
• Keeping in mind the ultimate goal: your child becomes driven and autonomous—this may mean different goals than yours.

Related Links:

• Parenting With Impact Ep 8 Parenting Emerging Adults
• Parenting With Impact Ep 80 4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without Enabling  
• Parenting With Impact Ep 126 Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.
• Parenting With Impact Ep 129 Asking For Help: Why Is It So Difficult?
• Video Tip: Take Aim

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We would do anything for our kids in the pursuit of having them grow up to be happy, healthy, and self-sufficient. But when is it too much? When does helping become hindering? Doing more harm than good, is never our intention, so how do we navigate that fine line when raising young adults with autism, ADHD, and other learning disabilities?

Misty Wagner understands the unique challenges and strengths of each individual that allow her to guide students on their journey towards independence. One of Misty’s strongest abilities is working with the students’ families of individuals with developmental disabilities by assisting them in aligning services, as well as assisting families in understanding an individual’s needs. Misty joined the CIP community in 2018 as a Student Advisor, supported the community as Head Student Advisor, and now as Assistant Program Director. 

Misty earned a bachelor’s degree in special education from The University of Memphis in Memphis, Tennessee. Misty has developed this strength through a solid professional history as a special education teacher, Student Advisor, and Head Student Advisor, but also through my undeniable empathy and bond with parents. As Assistant Program Director at CIP, Misty works on the day-to-day operations to provide high quality services to all students and families. She collaborates with each student, staff member, and support team member in order to provide positive outcomes for each student. 

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Misty Wagner about how to support your complex kid without being an enabler, as they navigate life transitions. 

Motivation Guide

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Finding opportunities to allow your child to assert their independence, is where growth happens, and knowing when your child truly needs your help or guidance.
• Outlining the steps needed and providing clear guidance as they learn to do something themselves.
• How to assist your child with coming up with a strategy to identify and solve a problem, by establishing an outcome and detailing the steps needed to achieve it.

Related Links:

• Video Tip: Take Aim
• Flexibility + Structure+ Moderation
• Handling Conflict with Complex Kids

Connect with Misty:

• cipworldwide.org
• cipworldwide.org/longbeach
• X (fka Twitter)  
• Instagram
• Facebook
• LinkedIn  

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
• Facebook: @impactparent
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Is your child highly intelligent and passionate, but struggles with daily tasks and doing well in school? Executive function deficits play a large role. How do you meet your child where they are and help them to thrive, when you know they are capable of so much?

Julie Skolnick is the Founder of With Understanding Comes Calm where she guides parents of twice exceptional children, mentors 2e adults, and trains teachers on how to bring out the best and raise self confidence in twice exceptional people. Julie hosts empowerment groups for parents and for 2e adults and is the author of Gifted and Distractible: Understanding, Supporting, and Advocating for Your Twice Exceptional Child. She has three exceptional kids of her own.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Julie Skolnick about what giftedness and 2E really is and how to shift from focusing on deficits and focusing on strengths.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Looking at giftedness as a 3-layer cake: intelligence, asynchronous learning, excitability.
• Gifted vs High Achieving- what is the difference? Are “gifted programs” for 2E kids?
• Why gifted individuals can struggle with school and have behavioral issues.

Related Links:

• Three Steps to Take When Your Kid Says, “I Don’t Know” 
• What Makes a Child Twice Exceptional (2E)?
• Video: Where’s Your Curiosity?

Connect with Julie:

• With Understanding Comes Calm Website
• Gifted and Distractible book
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• X (fka Twitter)
• YouTube

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
• Facebook: @impactparent
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Why is it so hard for your child to ask for help? Making the transition into independence can often backfire when your kiddo will not ask for help when they need it.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the reasons kids have a hard time asking for and accepting help, and how we can prepare them to seek assistance when they need it.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• What are the common reasons people don’t ask for and accept help?
• Is it helping or is it controlling? Learning the difference and helping your kid to trust you will assist and not take over.
• Needing help does not mean you are inadequate. How can you model seeking help for your child?
• Guiding your child into directing YOU in how you can help them.

Related Links:

• Watch Episode 68: The Independence Pyramid  
• Watch Episode 92 Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems Collaboratively
• Relationship By Design
• Help Your Complex Kids Be Independent (especially in the mornings)
• How to Help Your Kids Ask for the Help They Need
• Teach Your Kids to Ask for Help – A Mother’s Success Story 

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• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/
• @impactparents
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent
• @impactparent
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/
• @impactparents
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents
• @impactparents

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There are many highly successful adults living with ADHD. No matter what time in their lives they were diagnosed, they often have common struggles. The paradox of knowing they are smart yet feeling stupid. Feeling like an impostor. Questioning whether a treatment is right or not.

Casey Dixon is a respected Life Coach with a unique focus on science-based, innovative, collaborative coaching for attorneys, professors, and high-achieving professionals with ADHD.

She founded Dixon Life Coaching in 2005 as a new beginning to her 15-year career of working with both kids and adults with ADHD in schools and universities. Since then, Casey has become recognized for helping clients excel in authentic and creative ways using ADHD-informed approaches. Casey is known for reliably facilitating direct results without judgment. 

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Casey Dixon about high achieving professionals with ADHD and how to work through the struggles they often face.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Under the surface of a highly successful adult with ADHD is often a sea of struggles.
• Managing ADHD while achieving success and finding a balance that doesn’t leave you exhausted and overextended.
• Taking the complexity out of living well with adult ADHD with treatment and support.

Related Links:

• Mindfully ADD
• Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home with Melanie Sobocinski 
• ADHD Online
• Video: Where’s Your Curiosity?
• The Mindfulness Prescription for Adult ADHD
• If I Had Known — Lessons from a Mom of an ADHD Adult
• How to Manage ADHD Effectively: 6 Fundamental Steps
• Put Yourself First, Mom
• Using Stress to Help Performance, Anxiety and Self-Esteem

Connect with Casey:

• www.dixonlifecoaching.com
• Facebook
• X (FKA Twitter)
• LinkedIn

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• www.impactparents.com
• Instagram: @impactparents
• Facebook: @impactparent
• LinkedIn:@impactparents
• Twitter: @impactparents 

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Will your neurodiverse child get into college? According to college admissions consultant Michelle McAnaney, the answer is a resounding YES! But just when you think it's all figured out, a sudden twist leaves parents wondering if they're truly prepared for the transition to college life...

Michelle McAnaney founded The College Spy® with this mission: Help students identify colleges that are a good fit for them and get accepted. 

Michelle is an expert in college admissions and a leader in her field. She has over 20 years of experience as an educator, counselor and consultant, assisting students in making smart choices to reach their full potential. She is current on the latest trends in college admissions. 

Her extensive admissions knowledge is coupled with firsthand experience with the colleges and universities your student will be considering. She visits approximately 40 colleges each year, attending information sessions and open houses, taking tours and meeting with admissions officers. 

 Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Michelle McAnaney about navigating the college admissions process with your complex teen.

12 Tips for Parenting a Complex Teen

From the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Keys to a smooth transition from high school to college for complex kids.
• Grasp a better understanding of college disability services and accommodations available.
• Fostering independence and managing anxiety to ensure college success.
• Remember that your child will change and grow over time, so keep researching and understanding all the options available.
• Encourage your child to take ownership of the process as much as possible, but be there to support and guide them as needed.

Connect with Michelle:

• Website
• X (formerly Twitter)  
• Facebook

Related Links:

• Parents of College Bound Students with LDs, ADHD and ASD Facebook Group  
• College Admissions 101 (parents of 9-11) for Parents of Neurodivergent Students Course  
• Ep 79 Leveling The Playing Field: Accommodations in HS and College

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Do you struggle with getting your child to do things? Does it feel like no matter what you do, it is a struggle to motivation your child to ____. We can fill that blank with countless things: homework, clean their room, exercise, chores, be on time… Well, you may be surprised to learn that traditional motivation tactics often backfire. Elaine and Diane have a dynamic way to help your child with the P.I.N.C.H. method.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the truths and myths around motivation and what it really takes to get your child invested in doing something.

Motivation Guide

In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• What is the role of motivation in getting things done?
• When it looks like your kid lacks motivation, what is really happening?
• If your child does not have internal motivation, it does not mean a lack of moral values.
• What are the 5 motivators in P.I.N.C.H., and how can they be applied?

Related Links

• Are You Getting Stuck in Information Land?
• Effective Agreements  
• Interview with Radio Host, Jeff Copper, on Parenting & ADHD
• What Kids Think Parents Should Know About ADHD & Motivation
• Lessons for Kids from the Olympics: Hyper-Focus, Motivation & Passion
• ADHD Behavior Management – Is It All About Teaching Motivation?
• There are Only 5 Motivators for People with ADHD
• How do I Motivate my Child to Turn in Homework?
• How do I Motivate My Child to do…Anything!?
• Getting Unstuck: It Depends on your Point of View

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Just when Jennifer Gay Summers thought she had it all figured out, her world was turned upside down. Her child, Lee, was diagnosed with ADHD and other learning disabilities, shattering her expectations of traditional parenting. But instead of giving up, Jennifer dove headfirst into researching and advocating for her child's needs. She discovered the importance of meeting her child where they are, rather than forcing them to conform to societal norms. What resulted was a journey of growth and resilience.

Jennifer Gay Summers is a dedicated mother and former teacher who journeyed through her child's unique learning needs from a young age. As her child struggled with ADHD, sensory processing disorder, and anxiety, Jennifer decided it was time to let go of traditional expectations and meet her child where they were. Her perseverance in finding the right support for her child, coupled with her advocacy skills, has helped countless parents like her embrace and navigate the complexities of raising children with diverse needs.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Jennifer Gay Summers about making the shift form traditional parenting to the journey of parenting the child she has and meeting them where they are.

Ten Self Care Tips for Parents

Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Discover the intricacies of raising a child with ADHD and other disabilities.
• Learn the value of self-education and advocacy when supporting a child with unique needs.
• Explore the art of releasing traditional expectations and embracing a more personalized approach.
• Delve into coping with grief and celebrating the unique attributes of one's child.
• Uncover the power of memoir writing in sharing experiences and raising awareness.

Connect with Jennifer:

• Website 
• Facebook 
• Instagram  
• Article

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Andrea Pollack's life took an unexpected turn when her two-year-old son was diagnosed with autism. It was a heartbreaking moment that forced her to leave her promising legal career behind. But little did she know that this decision would eventually lead her to become a renowned parenting coach, helping other parents navigate the challenges of raising neurodivergent children. Her approach is unique, focusing on personal growth and self-reflection for parents, which ultimately benefits the entire family. Join us as we explore Andrea's fascinating journey and learn how she's helping parents create more fulfilling parenting experiences for themselves and their neurodivergent children.

Andrea Pollack is a dedicated and compassionate advocate for parents navigating the complex world of raising neurodivergent children. With over two decades of personal experience as a mother to an autistic son, she understands the unique challenges and triumphs of parenting children with different needs. Having left her career as a practicing attorney to homeschool her son, Andrea realized her true calling was to empower and support other parents. Committed to a holistic approach, she combines her educational background with valuable coaching techniques to help families thrive through personalized, problem-solving strategies.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Andrea Pollack about discovering the key to helping your complex kid- YOU!

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Shift your perspective by understanding the value of focusing on your child's capabilities.
• Decipher the hidden motives behind challenging behaviors exhibited by children with autism.
• Embrace essential self-care practices for parents to ensure balance and optimal support.

Related Links:

• A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?  
• The Coach-Approach to Parenting
• Recommended Treatment

Connect with Andrea:

• autismparentsolutions.com
• Facebook

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In the vast sea of information, it is easy to get stuck in the land of information. Oftentimes, we begin to apply this new knowledge, but get held up in the details and end up getting stuck with information that we cannot implement, leaving us where we started.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to go beyond learning strategies and tools, and get into implementation and customization for your kid and your needs.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Transformation requires information, integration, implementation; you cannot simply stop at information.
• It is important to understand repetition and improvisation when implementing ideas for change.
• Strategies alone are not always enough, especially if they are not used in an effective context.
• What are the “magic 3 questions” to ask yourself if you don’t think a strategy is working?

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• Is Coaching For You?
• The Coach Approach to Parenting
• What To Look for in a Behavior Therapy Program for ADHD
• Recommended Treatment
• What is Behavior Therapy for ADHD? (Part 1)
• What To Look for in a Behavior Therapy Program for ADHD

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If you're feeling frustrated and helpless as you watch your child (or yourself) struggle with ADHD symptoms, despite trying various interventions and treatments, then you are not alone! Many parents and healthcare professionals have faced the challenge of medical bias, which has hindered accurate diagnosis and effective treatment of ADHD for far too long.

In 2020, Kelly accidentally discovered she had ADHD at the age of 48. This revelation was absolutely life-changing. Since then, Kelly has dedicated her life to learning about ADHD. She is extremely passionate about spreading awareness and empathy for ADHD in general, but in women and girls in particular. She understands how much harder it is for females to find a knowledgeable and compassionate provider.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Kelly Pickens about the history of a smear campaign against ADHD, how much progress the ADHD has made, and how much farther there is to go. AND, how you can better attain effective treatment!

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Examine the history of bias against the diagnosis and treatment of ADHD within the healthcare system.
• Investigate the fascinating roots of ADHD and its (lack of) acceptance as a mental health disorder.
• Gain insights into how ADHD interacts with other health challenges and its effect on longevity. 

Related Links:

• Adverse Health Outcomes  article by Dr. Russell Barkley
• Article on ADHD Lawsuits
• Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: A Handbook for Diagnosis and Treatment By Dr. Russell Barkley

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• www.uaadhd.com
• Facebook

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If you are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and exhausted because your current parenting strategies are not improving your relationship with your complex child, then you are not alone!

This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Ellen joins us on today's podcast to share her story of navigating the challenges of raising a complex child. Having weathered the storms of parenting and feeling unprepared for the challenges that come with a complex kid, she eventually found her guide in the community-driven support system of ImpactParents.

Ellen and her husband are parents of a creative and curious 16-year-old son who was assessed and diagnosed with ADHD when he was in Middle School. Ellen began to realize that as academic demands increased, so did her son's reaction to them. She became really curious about what was behind his behavior. 

Through her involvement in several Impact Parents programs with Elaine and Diane, Ellen now clearly understands the value of engaging in parent coaching. She arrived feeling exhausted, confused, and frustrated. She has grown over the past few years after a lot of hard work and truly appreciates all that Impact Parents provide: compassion, support and community, and the continued sharing of knowledge and scientific findings. 

Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Ellen about turning to community for support in parenting a complex child. 

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: 

What is recommended treatment for children and teens:

• Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication 
• Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. 
• ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Unlock wisdom to navigate the high seas of parenting complex children towards victorious outcomes.
• Learn how reshaping expectations can positively influence your parenting style for complex children.
• Uncover the potent impact of community support to uplift parents of complex children.
• Unbox the potentials of the coach approach for an enriching parenting experience with complex children.
• Grasp the significance of self-care, adaptability, and introspection in molding the life of your complex child.

Related Links:

• Talking to Kids About Their Neurodiverse Brains  with Dr. Liz Angoff
• Don’t Panic! Your Kid’s Not Broken  with Debbie Reber
• Differently Wired  by Debbie Reber
• Executive Function Skills: What Every Parent Needs to Know  with Seth Perler

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Do you want to create a more harmonious and peaceful atmosphere within your family? Are you looking for a solution to improve conflict resolution and achieve better relationships with your loved ones?

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they share the key to fostering improved dynamics and creating a more united and supportive family unit

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: 

What is recommended treatment for children and teens: 

• Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication 
• Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. 
• ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Navigate your way through family conflict resolution techniques.
• Unpack methods for helping children preserve ties with both parents.
• Absorb strategies for staying impartial and empathetic during family disputes.
• Unravel the process to bypass the savior or defender role in family fights.
• Unearth pivotal ways to boost considerate communication and mutual understanding among family members.

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Related Links:

• Register for the 2023 ADHD Parents’ Palooza!  
• The 4 Sources of Conflict in Your Family Part 1
• The 4 Sources of Conflict in your Family Pt 2  
• Effective Agreements  
• Relationships by Design  

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Bullying can be one of the most heart-rending challenges a parent faces. When your child is neurodiverse, that can make life downright miserable for both your child and your family.

Kayla Taylor is a best-selling writer, researcher, advocate, and parent. She recently published “Canaries Among Us,” an important exposé that blends poignant storytelling and groundbreaking scientific research to empower those caring for the millions of kids challenged by learning differences, bullying, and anxiety. This heartrending chronicle tackles harmful stigmas while documenting the joy and heartache inherent in raising children who don’t fit society’s definition of “normal.”

Listen to this gripping Parenting With Impact episode with Kayla Taylor about her family's journey through the challenges of bullying, learning differences, and anxiety.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Validating and nurturing self-esteem of neurodiverse children.
• Institutional betrayal of children and families navigating complex challenges.
• Parental involvement in mitigating bullying and advocating for neurodiverse individuals.

Related Links:

• How To Have Hard Conversations with Other Parents
• 4 Ways to Teach Your Child to Stand Up To Bullying
• Bullying and the ADHD Child
• 8 Reasons You’ll Never Know Your Child is Being Bullied  
• Model Self Respect for Your Kids: Tame the Bully Within

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• KaylaTaylorWrites.com
• Canaries Among Us  
• Resources for Parents  
• Instagram

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Highly sensitive children can express themselves with very strong emotions that can leave parents feeling rattled and desperate. Randi’s experience with her son took her on a journey of acceptance and unconditional love.

Randi Rubenstein coaches parents raising strong willed kids. Randi searched endlessly to find the magical resource that would help her own highly sensitive, strong-willed child. (He’s now 25, healthy and happy-ish:). She’s been passionate about helping other “cycle-breaker” parents like herself for almost two decades.

Randi’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the long standing Mastermind Parenting podcast and author of The Parent Gap. 

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Randi Rubenstein about the emotional rollercoaster of parenting a highly sensitive child.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Practical approaches for managing emotions and establishing a healthy family life.
• Active listening and validation helps nurture secure attachments with your little ones.
• Strategies for guiding your children without controlling or remedying their behavior.

Related Links:

• The Highly Sensitive Child: Helping Our Children Thrive When the World Overwhelms Them by Elaine N. Aron
• Calm The Chaos: The Benefits of Practicing Mindfulness
• Don’t Take It Personally: 4 Questions to Coach Yourself

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• Mastermind Parenting
• Mastermind Parenting Podcast
• Instagram
• Facebook
• LinkedIn

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Implementing appropriate treatment for ADHD not only improves focus and cognitive function but also diminishes the likelihood of developing addiction.

Chris Foster is an Education Specialsit in Neurodivergence, Social Emotional Learning, and College Career Readiness. She Has a Doctorate in Educational Psychology from Wichita State University, Kansas. Chris has collaborated with community colleges to promote college readiness, developed curriculum, and specializes in social emotional learning strategies. She also in a diversity and inclusion specialist with extensive research in neurodivergencies in both children and adults.

Jeremy Didier, LMSW, LMAC, PCAC is the group founder and co-coordinator of Kansas City’s award winning CHADD Chapter, ADHDKC. She currently serves on the CHADD National Board of Directors and on the CHADD Chapter Advisory Board. Jeremy works as a mental health clinician at Responsive Centers for Psychology & Learning specializing in the diagnosis of adults with ADHD and executive function skills training. Didier also works for ImpactParents as an ICF/ADDCA certified ADHD parent coach, and she's a frequent contributor to their internationally recognized blog. She’s had the honor of presenting at multiple local and national conferences on the Under Diagnosis of ADHD in Girls & Women and other challenges facing families with ADHD. Jeremy holds a BS in Journalism from the University of Kansas and recently completed her Master of Social Work at Fordham University. She’s a passionate advocate for at risk youth and individuals living in detention who have ADHD and challenges with addiction. 

Listen to this eye-opening Parenting With Impact episode with Chris Foster and Jeremy Didier about the proper treatment of ADHD and how it can reduce the risk of addiction, and how parents can make informed decisions on managing their kid’s ADHD.

Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet

So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: 

• What is recommended treatment for children and teens 
• Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication 
• Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. 

ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Links between ADHD and addiction, risk minimization and recovery approaches.
• The importance of accurate and prompt ADHD for maximum effectiveness in treatment
• Dismantling common biases regarding ADHD medication and potential addiction.

Links Mentioned:

• SAMSHA
• NAMI
• Alcoholics Anonymous  
• MyRecoveryLink

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Are you a parent of a child with ADHD left feeling drained and unsupported in your attempts to provide the best care and outcomes for your child?

IngerShaye Colzie is (a dedicated ADHD Coach and psychotherapist with a specialization in empowering black female executives and entrepreneurs. With over 15 years of experience as a therapist and Licensed Clinical Social Worker, she brings a wealth of professional expertise coupled with a lifetime of personal experiences. IngerShaye is the founder of Alchemy Coaching & Counseling, where she motivates and supports resilient Black women CEOs and business owners, providing them with the tools and guidance to thrive in their professional lives. Through her practice, she combines her skills as a therapist and her passion for empowerment, making a positive impact on the lives of her clients.

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with IngerShaye Colzie as she uncovers how to build a strong, supportive community of fellow parents and increase self-care and advocacy for your child's ADHD needs.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Tackle ADHD evaluation and resource hurdles successfully in educational settings.
• Implementing effective strategies to manage stress and its impact on parental ADHD symptoms.
• A look into the of race in ADHD diagnosis practices and therapeutic approaches.

Related Links

• Parent Expectations: 2 Steps to Success  

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• Ingershaye.com  
• Get your free copy of the Energy Formula For Black Women  
• Black Women with ADHD, Executives & Entrepreneurs  Facebook Group
• The ADHD Black Professionals Alliance
• Twitter
• Instagram
• Facebook
• LinkedIn

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From addiction and eating disorders to yoga and parenting, Hope Zvara's story is a true testament to the power of self-awareness.

Hope Zvara is a yoga, movement, and lifestyle expert, CEO of Mother Trucker Yoga, and mother of three. Through her own struggles in life, she has realized there is a purpose in all things if you choose to look for it. Hope’s journey from personal to professional highs and lows, both on and off the mat, has given her the grit and grace to overcome anything life throws her. Hope has helped change thousands of lives over the last 20 years by spreading the message that no matter how hard life can get, you should never lose hope. 

Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Hope Zvara about developing a set of tools and skills that are specific to your neurodiverse kids’ needs and strengths.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Develop a toolbox of practices to support neurodivergent kids in life's challenges.
• Embrace and celebrate neurodiversity by understanding your kid’s individual needs.
• The significance of self-care, self-awareness, and continued learning in raising children.

Related Links:

• Your Presence is Present Enough
• Foster Independence: Don’t Fix the Pain
• The 3-Legged Stool of Success for Kids with ADHD Part 1: Self Awareness
• 3-Legged Stool of Success for Kids with ADHD Part2: Self Advocacy
• 3-Legged Stool of Success for Kids with ADHD Part 3: Self Improvement

Connect with Hope:

• MotherTruckerYoga.com
• YouTube
• LinkedIn
• Facebook The Daily Dose of Hope
• Facebook Mother Trucker Yoga
• Instagram

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Do you feel alone in your struggle to navigate parenting a complex child? What if you could join a community that provided support and real-world guidance?

Melanie Sobocinski is an ICF-certified PCC and a MentorCoach CMC with an ADHD specialization. She loves working with graduate students and professors with ADHD, helping them build the tools needed to thrive in academia.

Melanie identifies as a proud member of the ADHD community, parent to an ADHD++ kid, a voracious reader, recovering academic, and certified ImpactParents Sanity School® trainer. She has lived experience as a struggling academic with ADHD and says that coaching is what helped her and her family thrive, pre- and post-diagnosis.  

​Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Melanie Sobocinski

about how the coach approach transformed the way she viewed parenting, and the unexpected growth she achieved as a result.

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• How neurodiversity-informed coaching is revolutionizing the parenting experience.
• How Sanity School provides beneficial resource for parents and professionals
• Balance between expectations, support, and professional development

Links Mentioned:

• Underestimated, Undervalued, Underutilized
• Sanity School
• Sanity & Success Package

Related Links:

• Compassion is a Cornerstone of ADHD Management
• Handling Conflict with Complex Kids

Connect with Melanie:

• Website

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Are you tired of constantly butting heads with your child and feeling like you're not making progress? Have you been told to just 'lay down the law' or 'be stricter' but that only seems to make things worse? The frustration and tension can be unbearable, but in this episode, we'll give you practical strategies to identify the root causes of conflict, validate your child's perspective, and build trust in your relationship. Don't let conflict rule your household any longer.

Listen to Part 2 of The 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Family with Elaine and Diane as they focus on the need to remain curious, patient, and understanding when building a plan to resolve conflict in the home.

If you missed Part 1, please be sure to check it out here.

Parenting is Leadership

Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Common catalysts for family discord and how to address them.
• Resolve conflicts involving power imbalances and shifting priorities.
• Transition towards a collaborative and supportive family environment.

Related Links:

• Sanity School For Parents

Related Podcast Episodes:

• The Independence Pyramid: Big Picture and Daily Tasks  
• Effective Agreements
• Problem-Solving Collaboratively with a Communication Reset

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• When You Assume… Assume Best Intention
• Where’s Your Curiosity?
• I’m a Recovering Perfectionist. Want to Join Me?
• Don’t Take it Personally: 4 Questions to Coach Yourself
• Parents Letting Go: 4 Steps to Complex Kids

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Are you tired of constantly butting heads with your child and feeling like you're not making progress? Have you been told to just 'lay down the law' or 'be stricter' but that only seems to make things worse? The frustration and tension can be unbearable, but in this episode, we'll give you practical strategies to identify the root causes of conflict, validate your child's perspective, and build trust in your relationship. Don't let conflict rule your household any longer.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss ways to identify sources of conflict in your home, and how to manage them. 

Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids

Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

Here is what to expect on this week’s show:

• Pinpoint core causes of disagreement in parenting
• Appreciate the value of validating your child's concerns and perspectives.
• Develop and maintain a strong foundation of trust in your parent-child bond.
• Discern how unreal expectations amplify conflicts.

Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools 

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